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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:15is possible but you piqued my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven
00:33i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall
00:48what happens next is up to them
00:55would you like to see each other again romantically
01:10hello my love again
01:15yes it's doyle bringing so much sexy back it's a potential fire hazard
01:24this is going to sound like it's very self-absorbed but i'm hot
01:30i believe in miracles
01:34way from you sexy
01:38you drop to hot people in a place the temperature is going to increase so it's basically science
01:46so i'm going to align my energies my chakras
01:50you know to make sure that i like embody the kind of person i want to be and i want
01:57to meet
02:02we call it the humble doors
02:05mister you look familiar
02:07do i yeah well you do yeah thank you do i look familiar to you very familiar here we go
02:12now
02:43hi there's good to see you again
02:43we try we try we try nice to see you the family's back
02:46the family is back
02:48how are you feeling
02:49really scared actually really more than the last time more than the last time which is really weird
02:53lewis beautiful boy beautiful skin love that really funny
02:59looked like a great match last time
03:01you know he got a boyfriend
03:02oh did he he did yeah
03:05harder than you i find that hard to find
03:07i wish we love a happy ending but i am still single
03:13maybe someone slightly older
03:17not too old
03:22behold benizio an absolute stunner if you catch him on a good day
03:27some days i'm five sometimes some days i'm going i'm going to be ten
03:31i'll give myself a ten because if i don't give myself a ten who give me a ten and i
03:35need a ten
03:35up so that i'm feeling ten
03:44nobody thinks that i'm an affection person because i look very tough
03:49i look like a big mountain but inside like i'm just like a dedicated flower so
03:55mister and easier nice to meet you
03:58nice to meet you judging by the name brazilian
04:01yes sao paulo sao paulo just yeah look a fella
04:06it doesn't matter how you look if you look amazing if you don't have the confidence you don't look
04:11attractive and i think that's the most attractive thing
04:13no
04:15hello
04:17nice to meet you
04:19how are you
04:19hi i'm all right
04:21an easy
04:21yeah where are you from brazil
04:23doyle where are you from
04:25nigeria nigeria i'm 25% nigerian
04:28the name is very nigerian
04:30do you think
04:31and how important is that initial sexual attraction
04:34a hundred percent
04:36because if you don't if you don't have the sexual chemistry you just get a friend
04:40and you're very pretty
04:42i think you're you're gorgeous too
04:43thank you
04:44when someone is talking and i love what they're saying
04:47i just kind of move around like this
04:49i'm in a flow state
04:50i'm just enjoying what they're saying
04:52hi how are you
04:53i'm good thinking yourself
04:54you look well
04:55oh god you're matching
04:56dang tops galore here
05:00i love a bit of romance
05:01i'm a bit of a sop like
05:03do you know flowers
05:04oh
05:08my time will come on
05:12whatever happens next won't surprise bria
05:16she's already considered every possible outcome
05:21my physical comedy is going to peak
05:23i can see it already like
05:25oh there she comes
05:27i would have thought about it but i can't don't fall
05:29don't walk past the door
05:31that'll all go out my brain
05:33and i'll walk up
05:34oh it's heavy
05:36i definitely overthunk the situation already
05:39i'm so sorry i made so much noise there a second ago
05:42i didn't hear nothing
05:43what's your name lovely
05:44ria
05:44look lovely
05:45thank you likewise
05:46a bit of leopard
05:47oppa
05:48feisty
05:49the animal in me is coming out
05:52i'm thinking like if i wear heels
05:55am i kind of limiting myself then because i'm tall
05:58and like what if i make it awkward then with the whole
06:00the fears in my eyes
06:01i won't let it get into my spirit
06:03you're good looking girl you had your dates before
06:05no you had your dates before so you know how to do this
06:08i'm good looking to me
06:09i think that's the main thing
06:11like i find myself attractive
06:15to myself
06:16i went and i did the camino last week to try and find myself right
06:19oh you did that whole walk thing is it how was it
06:22i did the whole walk and i didn't find myself anywhere
06:23oh yeah
06:25i mean it's hard to find yourself walking i find
06:28i got the tattoo though
06:29oh did you show me
06:30i got the tattoo look
06:33ah jesus
06:33it's tiny
06:34it's tiny
06:35i know
06:35i went with 50 women right
06:37yeah
06:3850 women
06:3815 of us can't imagine tattoos
06:41oh wow
06:45everyone's type is tall dark and handsome like that's the easy answer to give but like
06:49there's always a bit of leeway there
06:50you'd like the height you'd like the handsome
06:52you'd also like the dark hair but like you'd take a ginger if you had to
06:59back home elliot struggles to express himself
07:02up here he's unleashed
07:06i think i was just always doing other things people wanted me to do so
07:10i want to find who i am i know it sounds a bit cringy but yeah
07:13i actually can't go
07:15i can't deal i can't breathe
07:18hello
07:18nice to meet you
07:19what's your name is
07:20elliot
07:21a little bit nervous
07:21a bit nervous
07:22yeah well you should be
07:24i hope not
07:25i hope not
07:26hi jacket you dress nicely
07:28thanks very much
07:28yeah
07:30i wouldn't like to dress like everyone else like john
07:32i mean like
07:32i suppose but then i'm like come up here and like you wouldn't stand out but you go
07:35home
07:36what least you think you're the king
07:39nice to meet you i'm bria
07:42bria nice to meet you
07:43lovely to meet you are you nervous
07:44i'm so scared i'm so scared i'm here and
07:48eddie i think eddie is his name he brought me a porn star martini now i have to say they're
07:52divine if you want to get a drink
07:54i actually was going to get porn star martini
07:55honestly you're unreal
07:57where are you from
07:57ellis
07:58what part of ellis
07:59uh vickerson
08:00no i don't know that
08:01it's near strabley
08:02oh jesus we're very midlands people aren't we
08:05jesus do you know uh durba scully
08:09oh my god she's my cousin
08:10first cousin she's actually my first cousin
08:12i went and i did the camino with her there last week
08:17that's good like
08:18it's a very fucking small world
08:19that's a very small world
08:20and do you live in vickerson then
08:21yeah yeah yeah
08:22the chances of being related to someone from offely is so high
08:26i live in dublin
08:27so i don't live in oh yeah no i don't live in offely anymore jesus
08:31oh too good for offely then
08:33no i don't think i'm too good for offely do you know what i think it's just like
08:35there's nothing to do
08:36yeah i was so bored
08:38release is the exact same
08:39as soon as i lock eyes with someone like my brain and my mouth just disconnect and i'm
08:44just like blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah
08:47what do you think my name is
08:49eddie
08:49eddie oh you're spot on
08:51well it was eddie
08:52no it's not an eddie at all it's neil
08:55do you remember his name
08:56elliot
08:58well you can't forget that
08:59it's close to eddie
09:00i'm sorry
09:04so that's your second time in the show
09:05yeah it is yeah
09:06okay so and you're looking for love
09:08i i i i feel so bad now that you know i've been on the show before
09:13i'm glad that you're black because i love black people
09:16hey
09:16seriously like if i have to choose between
09:1910 white guys and one black guy
09:21i would go for one black guy because
09:23i love black
09:24growing up in brazil
09:26brazil is like so racist
09:28and i always wanted to be white that was my dream
09:31growing up as a black person and a queer person in brazil was very hard
09:37all i knew was as like as a gay man was sex because we never experienced love
09:44like i've never seen like a couple when i was a kid now it's different because we have
09:49like people that represent ourselves like you know but like love was my mom and my dad
09:55when was all of this like process happening mentally was it happening in brazil or when you were here
10:01it took me 34 years to love myself
10:03it was like only like two and a half years ago
10:06i was actually getting prepared to go to the gym and i stopped to look at the mural
10:12and i felt something that i never felt before
10:16i just loved myself for the very first time
10:19after so many years of you know therapy and you know analysis i am very confident and i love myself
10:25that is so beautiful
10:27yeah but it's beautiful and sad at the same time 34 years to love myself is too much
10:32yeah i get that
10:33moving on to the latter topics
10:35yeah what do you want to eat today
10:37okay so you have been here before so you tell me
10:40um no don't put me on the spot like that
10:42i'm in my clothes legs era
10:46so i'm very much more into like get to know me let's go to church together you know
10:52i want to be quoted and i also want to court you know i also want people to feel special
10:56as you make me special
10:57the prime iris beef
10:59strip loin
11:00yeah
11:01yeah because you're very beefy
11:03i'm obsessed with your the most i don't know what they are here
11:07uh shoulder muscles
11:08yeah i'm trying to grow my
11:09yeah no i was in a cruise last two weeks ago and i haven't gone to the gym
11:14in a gay cruise yeah
11:15where
11:16it took us from uh athens
11:19how long
11:20seven days
11:22seven is a lot of days in gay world
11:24and before that i was in madrid for the gay pride
11:27oh
11:28so it's almost a month that i don't go to the gym and i'm eating like a pig
11:31so
11:35where am i going
11:37feeling a little lost james
11:39not to worry
11:40every journey has to start somewhere
11:44i got the door right
11:45yeah that's a good start
11:47nice to meet you
11:48mr james james nice to meet you
11:50how are you keeping james
11:51not too bad
11:51not too bad
11:52i like barbara man i have the same one at home
11:54yeah yeah it's a cool jacket
11:55yeah
11:56second hand i couldn't afford the full thing
11:57but it was a job
11:58it was a job
11:58i made new year's resolution to put myself out there more
12:01because i've never been on a date apart from last year
12:03and by god i did hate
12:05so uh
12:06that's when i started like realizing what i liked and what i didn't like and
12:09hi how are you
12:10oh yeah no i'm james james james just very quickly there's not no room for two mustaches at the bar
12:15one of us has to go
12:17this bar is making up for two of us
12:18okay i don't know i don't know how are you feeling
12:21not too bad
12:21not too shabby alonso
12:24that's a new one i like that i like that
12:28okay you're set for the fire buddy
12:29all right shabby alonso see you soon
12:31the thing to be all and then all would be is that i'm a bit mad in the sense that
12:35i'm just a bit
12:37he's a bit of crack and all this one
12:38i'm act like i am but i'm also like i can be really serious all the same like if i
12:42need to be
12:43where are you from
12:44uh we play us called fahart just beside dundalk
12:48fart
12:48fahart
12:49not far say that again
12:51fahart
12:52fahart
12:53fahart
12:53fahart okay
12:54fahart okay so you're what you're in norty are you
12:56no i'm on the south side
13:01i'm northern to you south to me
13:02i know you sound norty your accent is amazing
13:04thank you very much
13:05really nice
13:06appreciate that
13:06so what are you hoping for this evening
13:09sabrina carf
13:13my mom's delighted that i'm single
13:16well she did tell me to go on first date
13:19emma's ideal date long before she meets him she'll hear him
13:26i usually go for the loudest person in the room someone who's smiley outgoing
13:31well look at you huh
13:34you look lovely
13:35thanks
13:36damn girl you look lovely
13:37thanks
13:39your name is emma
13:40beautiful emma
13:41so are you mateo
13:42well it's not about me it's about you today
13:44she's got a microphone in her hand covered in diamonds
13:47she has an espresso martini
13:49i mean what are the chances it's happened
13:51he's gonna be nervous when he sees you
13:54yes this is where he's gonna be
13:56is he already over there
13:57yeah
13:57okay
13:58yeah
13:58well like going on a date in general is going outside your comfort zone never mind a blind
14:02date
14:03that's even scarier
14:05hello
14:06nice to meet you
14:07nice to meet you too
14:08i'm james
14:09emma
14:09emma nice to meet you
14:10nice to meet you
14:11emma you look stunning
14:11thank you
14:12wow
14:12you look like a classy lady
14:14well you said dress to impress
14:16yeah
14:17well i didn't of course
14:18i did
14:19you did
14:20yeah yeah
14:21i do love a moustache
14:22but only if you can rock it
14:24i think it shows that you're confident i guess
14:29what do you do anyway
14:30i'm in college
14:31yeah
14:32yeah
14:32i'm doing international commerce in ucd
14:34very good
14:35is that a language as well
14:36yeah french
14:36no that's class
14:37what are you doing
14:38social care
14:39oh okay
14:40social care worker
14:41so i work with children in care at the moment
14:42lovely
14:42where are you from
14:44eh
14:46don't talk
14:46okay
14:47just a wee bit outside
14:47first thing i'd look at is actually what they're wearing
14:50you can look at what someone's wearing and you can get a good depiction of them
14:53so i look at that and then you subconsciously make away this person's about x y or z
14:58you're nervous
15:00no
15:01not really not really no
15:02oh
15:03all right
15:03he was absolutely crapping it here
15:05i was actually crying just
15:06okay
15:07oh it is right so you know how i'm going with us
15:09oh right fine
15:10yeah here we go
15:11okay
15:12all right
15:12you guys do a great day folks
15:14yeah
15:14best of luck
15:19lovely
15:20thank you very much
15:21so what do you do
15:21what's your job
15:22oh i'm a social worker
15:24um
15:24making kids like
15:25really
15:26yeah
15:26that's so cool
15:27i think so
15:28that's so fucking cool
15:29cook them dinner
15:30clean the house like
15:31uh
15:32look after them
15:33it's the funniest job i've ever had like
15:34um
15:34i love working with the kids like so
15:36what do you want to end up doing like
15:37uh
15:38i want to be an educational psychologist like
15:41that's so cool
15:42the looks only get them so far
15:43it does
15:45until they open their mouth
15:46and then you're like oh
15:48how is camino actually
15:49the camino oh my god yeah sorry i just already told you
15:51yeah
15:51i just come up with that myself
15:53i know it's like i actually pre-stalked your instagram
15:55that'd be so weird
15:57that'd be so weird
15:57i was like i actually believed you i was like i don't even have instagram so i'm like what
16:01do you don't have instagram
16:01no no no no
16:03that's a green flag
16:04oh is it yeah
16:04yeah that's a green flag
16:05oh yeah
16:06it'll be so obvious that i can't see them
16:08like i'll be awkward
16:09like i won't make sense my sentences will not make sense
16:12on the camino
16:15we're gonna go
16:16we're walking
16:16i love the vitamins
16:17right 5k
16:19into the cafe
16:21coffee
16:22takeaway sangria
16:23dervla
16:24yeah she's my joke
16:25she is yeah
16:26that's so i can't believe she's your cousin
16:28i know first cousin
16:29honestly like it's like you proper know each other
16:32she lives literally across the road
16:34oh really yeah
16:35so if you get pissed
16:36i'll text her and be like
16:37by the way dervla
16:38i'm leaving your cousin
16:39at the door
16:40oh that's very much so
16:41okay
16:50i was so afraid so like i was on tiktok this morning and like someone a gentleman in his
16:5840s came up and he was like prepping for a flying date and i literally was like what if that's
17:05it
17:06and that you know like not in a bad way but i was kind of like right i need to
17:09prepare you're an ageist
17:11no i'm not an ageist
17:12if i do when you said when they were asking you like who are you looking for you like open
17:16anyone
17:17kind of yeah not really
17:19i did say that as well
17:20i did say i wanted uh someone who could talk
17:22i'm glad
17:23sorry
17:24no i'm happy
17:25yeah i i actually like i i do stop
17:27only when there's food in my mouth but in fairness
17:29a couple like they're best friends i always think like if you can spend all time together like
17:35um it's pretty nice like
17:37one guy literally tried to enlist me into the army
17:39oh
17:41what
17:42he basically was like jesus you have a good bit of fitness on you now you'll be great in the
17:45army
17:45i was like huh and he started asking how much money i made and compared it to how much money
17:49he made and he had no accommodation to pay for no food to pay for no gym to pay for
17:53i was saying like he was going to go to lebanon or something he was like and you have great
17:56travel opportunities i was like yeah in the lebanon yeah i was like pass hard pass
18:02will i get you another drink uh yeah i want to be fancy now because of that cocktail in front
18:08of me
18:08uh mojito no can i get an old-fashioned old-fashioned you can't do it great choice
18:13thank you perfect no bother on the way for you i've actually never had one i just want to act
18:17fancy
18:18i've never had one in my life i just know whiskey's in it yeah
18:22can i have a sip of that is it nice yeah is it spinach in it
18:26mint all right i'll just get my spinach in my drink
18:31it's nice hey it's elderflower and mint not spinach once again just to clarify
18:35no not no spinach in there no popeyes in there no spinach in there unfortunately
18:40everyone in my family is like jesus you know what it's james let him out of the day my parents
18:45are going to see me flirt and i don't flirt whatever way i do flirt they're going to see
18:50it my sister was like don't put on too big of an accent when you're going to sleep oh what
18:54don't say hey and don't say bye and don't say aye and hey bye yeah you can't say it
18:58water your accent's your accent i know you can't hide that i know i probably don't it probably
19:03does amplify a wee bit when i'm a wee bit nervous oh nervous i'm not nervous nervous i'd say my
19:10accent is amplified if i'm like passionate about something it's very like you're passionate about
19:14so i don't know if i was like in an argument or like if i was getting like really into
19:18something
19:19i'm like that is spinach that is spinach that's not spinach it's not it's not you see if we're
19:26having a laugh that would be how you know that i'm having a good time showing a lot of interest
19:31in the things that they say or things that they're interested in but yeah i get a lot
19:34in the coffee shop people being like where are you from i've uh i've actually never drank coffee
19:42what i'm a hot chocolate and tea man okay tea yeah coffee never why what's the reasoning
19:51uh any reasoning just hasn't happened i just don't like the thought of it i have enough energy
19:54as it is i don't need coffee right you could have decaf no i just don't want it there's just
19:59something about it i okay i've said to multiple people i'll do everything i will do everything
20:04in life apart from two things let's take meth and drink coffee what you're that passionate
20:11about it i'm not passionate about it i will not drink coffee really no not a chance oh okay
20:16good for you yeah thank you stand by that thank you don't let people tell you what to do
20:21coffee's great though if you can have a laugh and like take the piss out of someone and they
20:26can they can give it back and they can take it i think that's great yeah okay hot chocolate
20:31this friend with all the shavings marshmallows and cream for myself yeah i deserve it yeah i
20:41like the people they're very nice like the brazilians you know they love party they like drinks
20:47they're very loud being here in ireland it was life-changing event because when i came here i
20:56couldn't speak english i didn't know anyone here so i had to start a new life and being in an
21:03environment that you cannot speak the language you don't feel the culture it's so hard and that makes
21:08me the person that i'm today did my irish citizenship in december i remember thinking i
21:15wasn't gonna cry but then i was at the ceremony she said something about how like oh we thank you
21:22for choosing ireland and then i said to myself oh my god i actually chose this country like i chose
21:27here to move actually ireland chose me it happened because i went to a fortune teller
21:33then she said to me an issue you're gonna live abroad you're gonna live in a in a country that
21:38you've never been before and because i was very poor there was something that was like impossible for
21:43me and then at some point someone in the same company that i was working said they were coming to
21:51dublin and i said i want to go as well and before i never heard about ireland before ireland wasn't
21:58like
21:58nowhere in the map and everything happened so to be here i i always felt harm here always always and
22:06if you write my name back words and take e is all sing it's all or sing i'm meant to
22:14be here i meant
22:15literally destiny destiny yeah definitely child i'm the old state
22:23is it taking you ages to eat this or is it just me also taking ages no i'm just taking
22:27ages because
22:28like i feel like conversation is flowing like we have way too much to talk about you see it's
22:32probably not the worst thing to complain about life it's like cue the 15 minutes of silence and it's
22:37just me going the worst thing ever like i didn't have a girlfriend until i was like 21 and i
22:47was in
22:47that relationship until the start of this year i've never been quite young i don't remember a girl
22:53older than me like so no i i just can't do it no i feel like there's something there stopping
22:57me as
22:57well like yeah like i'd be like a mommy do you know what i mean
23:05oh my god you would be like oh my god do you want me to butter your bread for your
23:08ham sandwiches
23:09even if like a month older like it's all in my little brain like yeah yeah oh no i'd be
23:14the same
23:14i wouldn't go with a girl older me though because of that like because she'd be like mommy i wouldn't
23:19be like that all right pick me up like mommy milkers it's all so my apologies interrupting uh chicken it's
23:35for
23:44me i'm gonna be really weird and put them to the opposite sides yeah i just did that oh did
23:49you
23:50yeah did you didn't cop it no i'm not left-handed though you're left-handed no this is classic you're
23:55the only person i've ever met that does that you're the only man yeah oh my god what the hell
24:01so why
24:01do you do that screw up like that i suppose same but i'm like mad at my parents that they
24:06never
24:06corrected me because like it's seen as like not correct like it's not the right way to eat yeah
24:13can i pick up an extra where did i get this extra knife from oh that's probably for the steak
24:18i'd like to cut the steak oh wow it is yeah just thought i was a magician yeah you're like
24:24great magic trick
24:28when was your last relationship uh relationship relationship relationship you say situationship
24:34because uh situationship was a year ago it just broke my heart what do you do it's very complicated
24:41it's gonna take three days to explain to you it was a year ago a year ago he's not in
24:46ireland anymore
24:46now okay okay that's fair so no competition no competition i don't have many requests like you
24:53know it's just like free confident lovable funny beautiful inside and outside i think for me i like
25:04older guys i don't discriminate we love a good you know chiquita and the younger guy but i'm more into
25:12older guys i want to make sure at least we have chemistry and we have a good laugh and get
25:18chat
25:19and everything else would be a plus my family is everything for me i love my family have you met
25:25any of your exes yes my ex-husband oh yeah i've been married i was married uh since 2016 until
25:352021
25:37i was i'm separate for him like four years interesting concept how vulnerable does dating
25:44make you feel it's very vulnerable actually because you're opening yourself to someone that you don't
25:49know even though you're not going to tell your whole life you're just exposing some parts of your life
25:55that you wouldn't but it's exchange thing you know if you give you receive you know how the situation
26:02should for six years situation for six years is too long it should be a relationship it's called love baby
26:09is it i know right it's not it's not it's not so yeah six years i've five years are not
26:15defining what
26:15you have is too much it's not love growing up game can be an extremely lonely experience he was black
26:27was in the closet i i i really found myself respect last year and i was like this has to
26:33end yeah i
26:34remember like when i met him i was what like 24 or 23 and now i was 30 and we
26:41couldn't even say like
26:42i love you i could say i was saying it but whatever i would say he just look away i
26:49know i know
26:52yeah i do feel lonely quite a lot actually romantically yeah but like having some relationship
27:01or situation sick with someone in the closet it's never gonna work i thought i would be the one
27:08you know you cannot change people yeah that's why i love when people are like themselves because
27:14that's so much power being new it's power
27:29anyone looking to get guard and nicky's motor running will need to obey the rules of the road
27:36my motor break yeah that's very much my space my nobody can get through to me on the phone
27:46i'm very very independent i do find it hard probably to let people do stuff for me
27:52you know just because i don't need somebody to do it doesn't mean i don't want somebody to look after
27:56me a little bit hey hi there how are you welcome welcome your name please nicky nicky where you come
28:01from cork oh cork lady just a bit nervous a little bit you don't you don't you don't show them
28:07you don't
28:08no no no you're okay till you make it yeah yeah i probably come across as more confident than i
28:14actually am
28:19yeah what would you like to know everything let's start from childhood let's go the whole
28:24oh jesus how long have you got yeah start with your hobbies what you like to do in your free
28:29time
28:30walk dogs uh ride my motorbike oh wow is that how you say it motorcycling or motor riding
28:37right right yeah yeah because we all think that we like a bad boy don't we um i think i
28:46just somebody
28:47who groans me how old are you do you want me asking you are not just in february well jesus
28:53you look
28:53amazing i would never have said that in a million years oh my god wow jesus fair pleasure must be
28:59the
28:59motorbike you can take years off emmet's hoping the girl of his dreams will take him to a magical
29:08place wonderland he's smiling like a cheshire cat too hi that's face your name please emmet emmet
29:19pleasure to have you emmet thank you you're a little bit nervous are you yeah little pleasure come on
29:23you're a good-looking fella there is no problem with you come on man confidence that's all what you
29:28mean just bring me there you know i know and within a couple of minutes like whether you're
29:35attracted to the person or there's some sort of connection kind of would you want someone that's
29:40from cork well i'd want someone that's not in donegal because i'm definitely not
29:47do you believe in love at first sight
29:51tell you later hi how are you how are things good thanks nickley it's nice to meet you emmet how
29:57are you
29:57oh yeah how are you good would you like a drink bottle heineken bottle heineken absolutely
30:03where's raxley from mullingar mullingar okay we're on the right side of the track no where are
30:10you from all right just discussing like if i was set up with somebody up north like it's a bit
30:15of a
30:15trek yeah a bit of a check well the guys not far no and you're probably dying to leave it
30:20as well so
30:21most people are you know i think as i get older i get that i'm not everybody's cup of tea
30:30you know
30:32so i do um hsc care assistance oh very good intellectual disability yeah lord yeah what do you do
30:41look at it oh lovely not the usual reaction lovely i do think some men are probably a little bit
30:50intimidated it's not funny anymore that the first question they ask is did you bring your handcuffs
30:54do you bring them everywhere so here we are i was planning to come in with a different outfit totally
31:11different from how did you choose this last minute i schedule outfits three months in advance
31:18i did a little you know check back when he was walking in because i just wanted to know
31:25and when i saw his arms i was like why is that me like i i felt like i was
31:29i was in back in time
31:30like watching myself walk walk into the restaurant everyone is so scared about turning 30 but i kid
31:37you not best thing to ever happen to me yes because now i think much happier on my 30th than
31:43when i was
31:44interested yeah because i know who i am he's quite chaotic like he's like chaos but it's a nice way
31:52i
31:52love that he's very confident the other dates that you had was better than this i think there's a clear
31:58difference i think obviously you're older and he's younger so our date was more comical more humorous
32:04yeah i think with you our date is so much more revealing i think it's more deep good
32:12would you like to see each other again yes yes of course yeah we can definitely see each other again
32:19definitely that's a nice quick answer guys i like that i like that you're black first of all i like
32:27that you dress well have good sense of fashion i love that you're loyal to friends i also love that
32:34he
32:34loves being gay yes a lot of gay guys actually don't really no i love being me he just loves
32:43me
32:43all right so if you're happy to follow me yeah and you can take your blanks off
32:48what do you think you would do for a second date i'd say something active actually
32:55i know not like that i meant like you have no rush i feel like us being like older we
33:06know that you
33:07don't rush things like that you let it kind of build naturally yeah oh i'm so excited let me open
33:14the
33:14no friends thank you see you guys see you guys see you guys see you guys see this
33:27did you go up in monongar yeah just outside it worked with my dad at windows and doors
33:33nine or ten years okay i had a bike accident that kind of put me out of service for a
33:38while
33:40this is perfect here's the juicy stuff people are there what bikes are we talking about i move you
33:47to a table and then we'll get into the really juicy stuff okay does that sound good yeah before
33:51neil starts spilling these secrets i know yeah yeah watch out for this one ideally if he was into bikes
33:59that would be involved there would be a motorbike right right so back to the bike accident yeah
34:05going out through one day and just carpooled out and that was it lights out so i came two on
34:12the
34:13road but i don't remember anything bar waking up next day so broke my femur pelvis right wrist left
34:20shoulder so it was wheelchair so i had to move home then so i landed myself in a wheelchair for
34:26about four
34:26months had a lot of time to think about life and what i wanted to do a while before i
34:34kind of got up
34:34one one but yeah i have two now what i have two now so i'm back into them like oh
34:42yeah yeah oh god
34:44well i suppose it's like there's no kind of in between with them yeah yeah they're like to be
34:50don't yeah what's your opinion on motorbikes yeah so i bought my first bike um last october yeah yeah
35:02yeah um i was telling you i went to him the tt last june yeah with a group of friends
35:08with my ex
35:08friends and when we came back from there i was like not for buying a bike i am buying a
35:13bike you
35:13know yeah it's different all right when you're over there like you understand the bravery of them
35:20yeah yeah i'm going to travel man two weeks time yeah for the manx yeah yeah class yeah i think
35:27relationships probably flourish on trust i suppose obviously spending time together what sort of a
35:35bike did you buy i bought um 100 transel oh yeah yeah very good yeah there's no comparison to like
35:44driving if i can just have the wind yeah that kind of sense of freedom yeah yeah it's lovely yeah
35:51it
35:52really is but yeah no i like the coffee shop but yeah after college i don't know what i'm gonna
35:56do
35:57i find it really really cool that you can speak irish yeah do you really cool no i did my
36:02leaving
36:02certain irish that is yeah i went to an irish secondary school that's so cool well i won a kneecaf
36:07in
36:07ensemble oh really yeah but i don't understand the word of irish they speak uh different their accents like
36:15i actually that's like whoa you should be asking questions and not just talking about yourself
36:23don't start showing me your camera roll
36:32oh that doesn't look like you at all
36:37oh this is an ssc arena in belfast wow and then ep last year
36:46there's a very well is that you yeah
36:50i love a crowd surfing what the hell how do you get up there two big fellas and you'd be
36:54like lads get me
36:55off and they're like on our shoulders like no no so you go to the lads beside you catch me
37:00and
37:00you just have the trust in the people and they just go get me back i love it there's a
37:05few jacks
37:05to me try it you know i keep it close to my chest when i need it come out they'll
37:07come out like
37:09they're fake flower they're fake but smell it
37:12actually do you know what i do a big garden at home as well do you actually do like vegetables
37:15and
37:16flowers and stuff like it what have you got i've got like a little it's basically growing like cabbage
37:20and carrots and uh i actually don't know how you didn't say that yeah
37:24loads of stuff like obviously it's down my farm there's a little greenhouse like
37:27down there like and do you like cook them and all like yeah i love it i make like stews
37:31and stuff
37:31i'd love to be able to do that but like like i said we're not going to do it over
37:35here i suppose
37:36that smells like shy i live with three guys which definitely doesn't help with looking for
37:44a partner because well they do everything but make me attracted to men to be honest
37:49or like our garden at home was a shithole right so i was like right lads we're having a house
37:54party
37:55middle of july i'm inviting my friends you can invite your friends leave it with them to do the
38:01garden put in four days they didn't stop drinking every evening i saw on a tiktok there the other day
38:07and it's kind of like um
38:09these men in my generation have been handed everything their whole life
38:13that they don't know what it's like to actually settle
38:18these starters or
38:20mains and desserts yeah just because my daughter told me i have to get the heart
38:25oh yeah
38:26how many kids have you two okay two yeah
38:34yeah uh so my daughter's 14 and my son is 12. oh lovely yeah yeah my son he is 11
38:41going on 12 so
38:43they're teenagers and pre-teenagers so they don't really want to spend that much time with me anymore
38:48it's important if possible like to have not a relationship but like to communicate or to be
38:56able to communicate let's say you know it's heartbreaking because the only people we talk for
38:59absolutely kids yeah 100 and like that like we didn't you know it was amicable special it wasn't
39:05as if anybody did anything i think i was probably very young getting into that um and i sort of
39:11matured
39:11out of it so how do you find being gapped um i love it oh yeah i actually do like
39:22it's never boring
39:22no no there's no two days the same you know yeah and it's what i always wanted to do oh
39:29yeah yeah
39:30yeah yeah yeah how did you get into what you're doing now in the mix of you know different types
39:36relationships i guess i did have one pretty crappy one going back a few years ago yeah um
39:43yeah think of some of the worst things yeah yeah um but i don't regret any of it um i
39:49learned so much
39:50about myself from it i'm really i suppose geared towards growth at the moment and i'd like to meet
39:55somebody who also has that kind of mindset one of the lads at work that we mind didn't have a
40:01passport and was never on a holiday never out of the country we flew to the iron islands from connemara
40:06airport so kind of took pictures and sent them like an eight person playing a movie
40:11um so that worked well then we're like right next up is swain and they had a ball they loved
40:22it
40:22oh it's a bit of culture yeah exactly it's a bit of culture like isn't it yeah
40:32i literally i'll go 50 50. not a chance like oh yeah not a fucking chance
40:37joined by the whole thing no no oh my god another bogger but like not another bogger but like another
40:44bogger like it was a looker wasn't he thank you very much gentlemen gentlemen of course i bet i think
40:51i'm basing my stuff on like oh if she likes me if she likes me i'm like yeah probably would
40:55like
40:55see her again but i'm like if she didn't like me i'm like oh you have jackets or coats or
40:59anything
40:59oh he had a jacket yes thanks very much thank you very much bye see you now would you like
41:13to see
41:13each other again romantically i would i would i would say a breakover yeah i'd love to see her again
41:21yeah
41:23there's no point in doing the whole oh my god do you want to do it no i'd literally get
41:28sick i'd be
41:28like oh no because then it leaves it leaves too much anticipation yeah no i would yeah
41:36well like when i saw you first i was like oh my god he's cool and he's really good style
41:40you started talking i was like oh he's a bogger as well i was like okay right i'm comfortable
41:45like i was like i don't need to like start doubling to find myself not that i do but i
41:49do
41:53well obviously she's pretty pretty good looking like um actually i never even thought about that
41:58did you know uh uh i don't
42:08and is there bikes in family no no no no no no no no no her father would be discussed
42:15a big family yeah i have a big family um okay i lost my mom when i was very young
42:21and um when i was
42:2312 so yeah um so my sister looked after us um and my dad he just wasn't around from when
42:32i was very
42:32young yeah geez my 19 year old sister had to step up and take us on my dad had been
42:39gone since since i
42:40was a baby and um he just yeah he didn't step up i guess and i suppose look if she
42:50wasn't there
42:51you know we'd have just been separated and put into care homes and and who knows but look i suppose
42:58that's probably why i chose the job i chose you know there wasn't too many people that we could have
43:06looked up to in that time you know maybe who you are today 100 yeah and that's the way i
43:11look at it
43:11so you know what there's nothing we can't do anything about no where we come from like 100 definitely
43:19no so there was two girls three boys and then me so i suppose that's where my masculine energy comes
43:25from jenny it's funny because like last week i went off on the bike and i went down to um
43:30one of my
43:32favorite beaches in west cork and i said my sister picture and she was like oh it's fabulous i'd have
43:36gone and i sent it back a picture of the big bike and i was like no you wouldn't she
43:38was like no i
43:40wouldn't i brought the first one home okay and it was war father went out with a shotgun
43:50i was gonna do a shoot the bike oh yeah oh yeah oh yeah i wouldn't hold it back now
43:54now shoot the
43:54fellow who's sold it to you like no it's just the right time to say i don't like strawberries are
44:04you
44:05having a laugh are you messing are you messing no you don't like strawberries i don't really like you
44:11you should have said that why'd you let me do it i'll eat it i'll eat it i think we're
44:15both chatterboxes
44:18i think the time just flew like we were chatting away is a mustache a bad thing or a good
44:22thing
44:22good thing good thing yeah okay okay i said i liked mustache okay okay yeah yeah she's gorgeous
44:29gorgeous girl i'm not really a picky eater but like i have notions what are the notions cabbage turnip
44:36get them away from my face no okay don't even love fish and beans get them away from my face
44:40now i was
44:41going to order fish wasn't stick no fish and beans no like baked beans or any beans kidney beans all
44:48the beans kidney beans and a chili is nice though no would you ever spill them oh yeah i'd be
44:55but i wouldn't be eating the beans
45:02neither of us knew each other i don't think that's fair it's different if someone's like
45:05i'm gonna take you out but this was i would really like i would really like to pay for this
45:09meal and i'd appreciate it if you'd like to do so would you like to see each other again romantically
45:15ladies first i think we got on really well but i don't think it's there romantically i agree
45:21yeah really okay okay great i was gonna say i got more drink later but i didn't
45:26think okay it was like i need to get you okay i'm glad you feel the same yeah great grand
45:33man came prepared he's insisting he was super chatty and i think he's a great guy and i think
45:40really funny and i loved all things he was saying but i don't think it was quite there for me
45:45don't look at our secret our secret messages
45:49prick
45:52you're gonna go crowd surfing with him i don't know i'll see you at the agro voice
45:56okay yeah an electric picnic see ya see ya
46:02see ya now
46:13hi hi how are you how's it going it's all chat anyway my thoughts was he's not my usual type
46:23yeah just gonna drop this on the table there for you i'll let you guys work it out
46:27not really my usual type no but um yeah they've done good work he has a son who is um
46:3711.
46:39um he's two motorbikes oh did you have much in common no
46:48i'll get this oh for god's sake
46:53now that i've sat and chatted with him and relaxed a little bit yeah yeah
46:59so have you any plans for the rest of the evening no no all this time to myself pity i
47:04didn't bring the
47:05bike i give the whole evening free would you guys like to see each other again romantically
47:13i'm gonna let the lady answer first here we go
47:18i'm gonna say yeah yeah
47:21did you guys fancy each other yeah
47:25yeah perfect man has spoken absolutely
47:29don't argue calm seems genuine it's just easy to talk to guys thank you so much
47:37thanks so much
47:39there was some sort of a spark there yeah do you think nikki is girlfriend material
47:46she would be yeah
47:52i definitely think he could be boyfriend material
47:57what would day two look like
48:00the good of that's what it looks
48:04do you have me continue possibly yeah
48:14christy did a good job good job
48:23so i'd say maybe a run on phoenix park we can like run back and forth okay yeah we talk
48:40yeah that's nice
48:42yeah yeah yeah yeah can i put on my runner so please
48:48love above now it's gonna trick me in love
49:02tell me more about day two so what are you thinking oh what are you thinking
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