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Southern Hospitality Season 4 Episode 6
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00:15Previously on Southern Hospitality.
00:17All right, everybody, let's get out of here.
00:19Y'all ready to roll?
00:20We clocked out at Republic for an overnight down by the river.
00:24Hey, let's play volleyball games type shit.
00:28And while Justin was still floating the idea of a romance with Mia...
00:32Y'all should go on a date.
00:33Let's go.
00:34Type shit.
00:35Emmy was trying to figure out how to un-muddy the waters with Brad.
00:39I would like to pull Brad aside and have a conversation with him as soon as possible.
00:43After he learned...
00:44I'm sorry.
00:44Her apology was BS.
00:46Emmy was like, if I don't make a mental friend, TJ...
00:49They could really try and fuck with my life.
00:52That's what she said?
00:53But it was Lake who really stepped in it with Michaels.
00:56I can't trust her and I can't have a friendship with somebody I can't trust.
00:59After he caught her running her mouth...
01:01Lake was still talking about the microaggression.
01:04And it's like, I actually don't have to talk about it with anybody.
01:06Pot meet kettle much?
01:08Now I look like when G. Smallville...
01:10And it all set late crying to her mama.
01:13You don't talk to white people about black people business.
01:16Mom.
01:17Now I learned to keep your mouth shut.
01:20Are you coming out tonight?
01:26That was so fun.
01:28Get me out of here.
01:30I know my ass crack is out.
01:31Open the other door.
01:32Yeah.
01:33It's warm in the house.
01:34We're cheffing it up tonight, me and you.
01:36Yeah.
01:36Type of s***.
01:38Damn, who drank all the tortilla?
01:39That might have been me.
01:41This is a good seasoning.
01:42Ficy mama.
01:43Yeah, it is.
01:4360% of the seasoning comes off in the cooking process.
01:46It's a lot more than I initially thought.
01:48I'm just waiting for everybody to shower.
01:50It's going to take forever.
01:52Did you already get in the costume?
01:54I like it.
01:54You're missing a strap, brother.
01:56That's how you're supposed to wear it.
01:57Oh, that's the look.
01:58You look very hoedown throwdown.
02:00Hoedown throwdown.
02:03Bro.
02:05I'm like real f***ing anxious about Michael's.
02:08What is happening?
02:10It's him choosing to keep his distance from me.
02:13Like, I'm sorry I told Ella everything was bad.
02:17Next time I tell you something, please do not say it to Emmy.
02:20Did I f*** you over really bad?
02:23Ella is one of those people that I can call a best friend.
02:26Did she go and tell Emmy what happened?
02:28Yes.
02:29Am I mad at her?
02:30No.
02:30For my mom to tell me you shouldn't have told Ella, yeah, she's right.
02:34Maybe I should have just kept it to myself.
02:36But I didn't think it would tumble down into Michael just being a b***h.
02:41This whole thing just comes back to a conversation starting with Michael's because he's like your
02:44brother and that's why you're so upset about it.
02:46And again, it's okay, but you do just need to talk to him.
02:49I've tried talking to him.
02:50He just walks right past me.
02:52I have dealt with crippling anxiety for a majority of my life.
02:57I had to take medication for years.
03:00One of my coping mechanisms would be to talk to friends.
03:03And Michael's is usually that trusted person that is physically there to comfort me.
03:08But he's the person that's giving me anxiety in this moment, not talking to me.
03:12Like, I have a big-ass mouth.
03:13I'm very self-aware of that.
03:16You're like, I know.
03:17Like, I know.
03:17I have my big-ass mouth.
03:19I know.
03:19I know I like to talk to people.
03:21That's just who I am as a person.
03:23You need to have a conversation with Michael's because this will snowball into something bigger.
03:29You guys, like, can I not be the only one?
03:31Was this, like, a practical joke that, like, there's no theme?
03:33I'm just the only one dressing like this?
03:35Nah, I'm going to get in theme.
03:40Holy hunk alert.
03:42You like that?
03:43I was just going to show, like, a little side nip, you know?
03:45A little side boob.
03:45I like showing nip.
03:49Is this enough for everybody?
03:51Yeah, there's 12.
03:52Wait, did the fours and the next go on the same side?
03:56No.
03:57You sure?
03:58Yeah.
03:59Did you take Cotillion?
04:01Mm-hmm.
04:02Really?
04:03Yeah.
04:03And ballroom dancing at Fred Astaire.
04:06I learned how to waltz.
04:07When I moved from New York, my twin sister Michelle and I were only six years old.
04:12We ended up getting in trouble at school.
04:14They called my mom and said that we didn't properly speak because in the South, we were
04:18supposed to respond to our teachers.
04:20Yes, ma'am.
04:21No, ma'am.
04:21My sister and I, coming from the Bronx, we're sitting here getting our name called and we're
04:25like, what?
04:26What?
04:27What do you want?
04:27Are you calling for me?
04:28Because when you grow up in the Bronx, the way you respond is like, yeah, what?
04:32My mom didn't around with us.
04:34She was like, after school, you're going to Cotillion.
04:37You're not from the Bronx anymore.
04:39So I'm a hoe and I like to have a good time and I like to dress slutty, but I
04:42got manners.
04:43Wait, so Michael's mom sent him to ballroom and Cotillion classes, but she didn't think
04:48that he was going to be gay?
04:50Duh.
04:51Duh.
04:53I think I'm going to go and approach Brad and just be like, hey, I just want to let you
04:58know whenever you're ready.
04:59I would love to have a conversation with you.
05:00Just go into it level-headed.
05:02Say your piece, see what he says, and then you go from there.
05:05Yeah, and if he does have the conversation, I would say what you want to say, but be like,
05:09hey, I'm sorry if I use this word, Miss Properly, but this is how I felt.
05:13This is what I felt and this is what I meant.
05:15So what is it that you want to explain to Brad?
05:18I don't want to fight with him anymore, but I'm not going to take accountability for something
05:22I didn't do.
05:24I feel like Bourdain.
05:26Yeah?
05:27Learning the secrets to culinary success.
05:30Look, I can do it without looking at it, you know?
05:32I can just look at you and just pound it out.
05:35I want you to look at me and pound it out.
05:37All right.
05:38You lost me.
05:40Okay.
05:43Damn, this door.
05:47Hi.
05:48Oh, hot.
05:50You need to be on Love Island right now.
05:53Yeah, I got my boots.
05:57We're all wearing red boots.
06:07That was insane.
06:08That was a little crazy.
06:11Um, I obviously want to, you know, respect, you know, you and whenever you want to talk,
06:19I just wanted to let you know that I'm open to having a conversation with you whenever
06:23you feel comfortable.
06:27Okay, we can go talk about it right now.
06:29Let's go.
06:31I'd rather listen to Nails on a Chalkboard than talk to Emmy.
06:33Do you want to go on the rocking chairs over here?
06:35Wherever you lead the way.
06:36But I am a man of my word, and I know that this has to happen.
06:40But my mindset going into this conversation, this is probably the last conversation that
06:44I'm going to have with Emmy.
06:46I would just really like to start the conversation off by letting you know that I did not mean
06:51to offend you.
06:53I wish when we were having a conversation that I would have changed the word that you
06:58had brought up, which was unsafe.
06:59Like, it wasn't, like, my safety or the fact that I felt unsafe.
07:03It was the fact that I can't.
07:04Yeah, that's what you said.
07:10Yeah, I just, I'm, I, I just want to clarify with you, like, my safety was never, like, my
07:16concern.
07:17It just feels like you're talking out of both sides of your mouth.
07:21I think that I've been a little passive in my apology.
07:27It's not passive.
07:28The problem is you're saying one thing, and then later on, you're changing your mind.
07:34It feels like you're saying one thing to me, and then a day later, you're saying something
07:39to Justin that is contradictory to what you already said to me.
07:43I don't believe a word that comes out of your mouth at this point.
07:45That's the most frustrating part, because we've been friends for a very long time, and
07:49I loved you.
07:50And it hurts to hear what you said about me behind my back when you could have said everything
07:55to my face.
07:56You said, I'm sorry, and folly, and then less than 24 hours later, you're like, oh, well,
08:00I mean, I really feel like I'm only apologizing just so Brad doesn't ruin my life.
08:03Like, that doesn't feel...
08:04Let me be very clear about the context of that.
08:06It's not context.
08:07I mean, it should just be black and white.
08:09You should have just said, I'm sorry, and then that's that.
08:13But there is context to it.
08:14No, there's no...
08:15I'm tired of context and the excuses.
08:17It should just be, I'm sorry, so we can move forward.
08:19It's infuriating.
08:20I'm trying to explain this to you, and I want you to...
08:23I'm trying to...
08:24Go on.
08:26I meant my apology in folly.
08:28I would rather make up and have a good summer with you guys than have us attack each other.
08:34No, no, no, no.
08:35There is no attacking.
08:36I'm not plotting against you.
08:38I'm f***ing hurt.
08:39And the I'm sorry is just do not feel genuine.
08:42It just feels like bulls*** time and time and time and time again, and I'm f***ing tired of it.
08:47I'm over it.
08:49I'm done talking about it.
08:51I'm done.
08:52I'm done.
09:04I'm done.
09:07Brad?
09:09You okay?
09:11Yeah, I'm fine.
09:13How was it?
09:14I just told her to f*** off.
09:16Really?
09:16Once I found out, she didn't really mean her apology.
09:20There's no fixing it.
09:21It's...
09:22It's torched.
09:23You not letting me speak and not letting me get my point out is so silencing.
09:30Why are you crying?
09:33I just tried to pull breath aside from a conversation.
09:36Breathe.
09:37I'm trying, dude.
09:38He got so f***ing upset.
09:40F***ing enough.
09:41Yeah.
09:42I'm over it.
09:42He got so angry with me.
09:45I said I'm tired of the excuses.
09:47I'm tired of the I'm sorry.
09:48I don't believe a word that's coming out of your f***ing mouth.
09:51I didn't get to say my p***.
09:52Excuse me.
09:55It didn't go well.
09:56It didn't go well.
09:58I'm like, I haven't been able to give you a true apology.
10:02And he just wouldn't acknowledge what I was saying.
10:04I'm trying to have a conversation with you one on one.
10:06Go over there.
10:07We don't need an audience.
10:11What the f***?
10:12I mean, we can coexist in the same space.
10:14I mean, we have the same friends, but we are not friends.
10:17And that's fine.
10:17Okay.
10:18Cool with that.
10:18Fair.
10:19Period.
10:19Period.
10:20Was there any way that it could have went?
10:22Where you could have had a friendship with her?
10:24I don't need friends like that.
10:25I'm not starving for friends.
10:26I'm good.
10:27Yeah, true.
10:27You know, whatever.
10:28I don't even know what's real and what's fake.
10:30If you're willing to sit there and give me these white women tears to get out of a situation,
10:35that's it for me.
10:36All right, well, let's go to dinner.
10:38Happy dinner.
10:40Yeah, set the table because I'm gay.
10:43What is that?
10:46Ladies, go sit down.
10:47We're going to serve y'all.
10:48And by serve y'all, I mean serve y'all.
10:52You walked away and was like, I don't want to hear.
10:53I don't believe anything you say.
10:55And I'm like, but I haven't actually said anything yet.
10:57I do think she deserves to say her feelings.
11:00I haven't told you how you've hurt me.
11:02How can I move on when I haven't gotten my apology?
11:05But this is the thing.
11:07Justin told him that you said that the only reason why you apologize to him and TJ
11:11is so that they wouldn't ruin your life.
11:15As your friend.
11:17Stop saying things like that.
11:18Like, you have to put yourself in a position where you're not putting your foot in your mouth.
11:24Dinner is served.
11:26Y'all are missing dinner.
11:28Sorry for the wait.
11:30All right, it's a little bit rude that they're not down here by now, but...
11:33Dinner's ready!
11:34We ain't waiting.
11:35I'm going to take a breather in my room.
11:37Okay.
11:38Do that and then just come out whenever you're ready.
11:44Is everything okay?
11:45Yeah.
11:45Yes.
11:46That doesn't sound too convincing.
11:49Sweet potato?
11:50Thanks, guys, for cooking.
11:51I'm good.
11:52Yes, thank you.
11:52This is a collaborative effort.
11:53Let's say grace.
11:54Should we wait until Mia gets back out?
11:56Yeah.
11:57No, I get it.
11:57I feel the power from here.
11:59Go ahead.
11:59I just would prefer not to call it grace.
12:03Wait, what?
12:06Let's say prayer.
12:07Wavy, baby.
12:08Wavy, baby.
12:09Oh.
12:10Yes.
12:11Oh, yes.
12:12Oh, that was good.
12:13Listen to me.
12:14Take two big deep breaths.
12:16I'm trying.
12:17We don't want to eat dinner without you.
12:19Brad feels a certain way that is valid, right?
12:21You're not him and he's not you and you can't control the way he feels about what you said.
12:25It was just such a good day.
12:27I don't think Emmy is helping her situation by isolating herself from the group.
12:31We can all sit around the table and share a meal with each other.
12:34If you were him, you probably wouldn't like you either.
12:37Okay?
12:37Yeah, I think you got a good point.
12:39Okay?
12:39That's okay.
12:40I was trying to take accountability for...
12:42I know.
12:43I was trying.
12:44I know.
12:44I know.
12:45And he said that.
12:45And he said that.
12:46And he said that.
12:46It's the most I can do.
12:47You know, I've realized that I can apologize and then not mean it just because I didn't get
12:54the apology back that I wanted.
12:55And that's it.
12:58How long did that conversation last, Brad?
13:00Like...
13:00Probably about...
13:01Three minutes?
13:01Yeah, right around 2...
13:032.45.
13:04He said 2.37.
13:06We're all together.
13:07That's what this is about.
13:08We're about to have a wholesome dinner because...
13:09Exactly.
13:10Yes.
13:10And now we are.
13:11Excellent.
13:11So I feel like we go outside and you show face and you're like, I'm willing to push through
13:16things.
13:16Yeah.
13:17Okay?
13:17Come on.
13:22Oh, here she is right now.
13:23I'm going to scooch on in.
13:25I think it's about time I invest in waterproof mascara.
13:30The steak is pretty good, though.
13:32It's good.
13:33It's a little medium.
13:39Lake, what's going on?
13:40Hmm?
13:41What's going on with you, girl?
13:42I'm eating.
13:43She ate.
13:45I just ate.
13:46And I'm drinking a Coke.
13:48You had fat attitude at that river.
13:50You had like teenage girl angst, emo attitude.
13:53I'm done.
13:54I'm done playing.
13:55We need the ball.
13:56What?
13:56Why?
13:57You're like, I'm going to my room.
13:59I feel like she wasn't feeling okay because she overheard y'all talking about her.
14:04Yeah.
14:04Um, it's not a secret that I've 1,000% been very frustrated with you recently.
14:11You broke my trust.
14:12It's not okay for you to sit there and continuously talk about something that does not involve you.
14:18When I literally sat here.
14:19You got involved of me when Brad felt like I wasn't defending him in that situation.
14:23I got involved.
14:24Yes, and I told you not to talk to anybody about it.
14:26How am I supposed to trust you and be your friend?
14:29It was not already out there.
14:30You went to her after you came to my apartment.
14:32Why are you lying?
14:36What do you mean?
14:37You're lying.
14:39Stop lying.
14:40Y'all are speaking in Morse code to me.
14:43I have no idea what's going on.
14:45I think that just went to zero to a hundred way too quick.
14:47That's Michael.
14:47Yeah.
14:48What the f***?
14:50You don't get to play the f***ing victim when it's not you.
14:55Look at him.
14:56Why is he all built up like that?
14:58That's the top in him.
15:00Like that Farmer Joe ass outfit.
15:05Why are you crying?
15:06You don't get to cry, Lee.
15:07It's not about you.
15:08You talked about it with Ella.
15:10You're breaking my trust.
15:12I cannot be friends with you if you're going to continuously break my...
15:15I can't be friends with me either.
15:16Okay, cool.
15:17I'm sorry.
15:18I'm sorry.
15:18I'm sorry.
15:19I'm sorry.
15:19Just leave me alone.
15:21Okay.
15:21That's cool.
15:23Do not speak to me.
15:24I don't care.
15:37Do not speak to me.
15:38I don't care.
15:41Can you just leave me alone?
15:43Please.
15:47Lake, more than anybody in this group, is like my family.
15:50I don't have a great relationship with my family, so my friendships are very important
15:54to me.
15:55And I hate that I lost my temper.
15:57But when my trust is broken by somebody that I've let in so deep, it hurts me to a deeper
16:02level.
16:04It's just like you don't get to sit there and play with the victim and like cry about
16:06a situation that didn't happen to you.
16:08Breathe.
16:08It's so frustrating.
16:09Take a deep breath.
16:10I'm exhausted.
16:11I'm more than exhausted.
16:12Michaels can be super cold when you cross him, but I can't judge.
16:18I'm the same way.
16:20You're not willing to take accountability.
16:22Like, I don't feel bad for you.
16:24Just breathe.
16:25You broke my trust.
16:26You had a conversation with Ella about it.
16:28It's not her place.
16:29Catch your breath.
16:31I can't be friends with somebody that is continuously going to be breaking my trust.
16:36I'm so sorry.
16:37He's like, I can't be friends with somebody like you.
16:41It's not your fault.
16:43And it's just what's the craziest part about all this is like this had nothing to do with
16:47Brad's skin color and I never will get to express that to him.
16:51Like, I'm not denying Brad's feelings, but at the end of the day, it's like I need to say
16:55my piece.
16:55It's like, I'm not entitled to feeling uncomfortable.
17:00You know what I mean?
17:00It's like, okay, like now I'm not even allowed to vocalize how I feel.
17:06Emi.
17:08Moment, time, place.
17:10Brad's about to feel his way, but you have to acknowledge how I feel too.
17:19I have a genuine, authentic friendship with Michaels and I believe that he is my best friend.
17:24And so, like, for him to look at me and say that, like, he doesn't want to be my friend.
17:29Trust me, I know how, I know how, like, it hurts and I'm, I'm sorry.
17:32Here, give me a hug.
17:34Give me a big hug.
17:36I'm not looking for a smile.
17:39I'm sorry.
17:44You can't say you don't want to be talked about and still talk about other people behind
17:47their backs.
17:49I feel bad for Lake because Michaels is masquerading his anger with Lake in the name of me being
17:56upset.
17:56But at the end of the day, I forgave Lake.
17:59Like, we were good.
18:00Whatever is going on between those two is way deeper than what's going on with me and Lake.
18:05So we're talking in circles.
18:06We are talking in circles.
18:09I honestly just want to go down there and defend myself.
18:16Do you mind coming to the table?
18:19Yeah.
18:21Thanks.
18:29So, I'm back.
18:34Um, when it comes to it being almost painted like, like I wasn't defending you, my way of
18:44coping is through confiding in others.
18:48And I'm sorry that that broke your trust.
18:58This hurts.
19:01This hurts.
19:01It hurts that to see how angry you were with me when I'm really not trying to make you angry
19:08with me.
19:08And I know I broke your trust by confiding in my friends about this.
19:12And like, I think it was just my way of like, trying to figure out how to defend myself in
19:16this situation.
19:17Because the last thing I wanted was to be painted as someone who doesn't constantly defend people
19:24of color.
19:25And I, I am that person that is a defendant.
19:27And like, I, I will always be here.
19:30I will always stand as an advocate.
19:32I will always, like always.
19:35And so I, I hate that it did this to our relationship because I hate not talking to you.
19:42I hate when you walked by me and didn't even acknowledge me.
19:50Like, I can't, I can't just like smile on your face and be fake.
19:54Like, that's not me.
19:55I don't look like that.
19:56Like, I can't do that.
19:57I know I don't look like that either.
19:58I go mute and you know this about me and I'm like, I'm sorry to everybody.
20:03Honestly, like, I'm just sorry.
20:05It's okay.
20:05It's okay.
20:07It's okay.
20:09It's okay.
20:10I think what you said was great.
20:11And I do accept your apology.
20:13I didn't, and like, you're good.
20:15Hey, Lake, people love you.
20:16Yeah, you're fine.
20:18Wow.
20:19Brad accepted Lake's apology.
20:21You're good.
20:22And I'm right here.
20:23I'm literally right here.
20:24I deserve to have a conversation.
20:27I'm not getting any of the same respect or courtesies that everyone else around me is getting.
20:31That was good, Lake.
20:32Oh, yeah, Lake.
20:33Well done, Lake.
20:35Getting a shot.
20:37I'm sorry, Lake.
20:42I love you.
20:44I miss this.
20:47Are we okay?
20:48Yeah.
20:49We're going to be fine.
20:50Stop being dramatic.
20:52I cannot imagine a world when me and Michaels are not friends.
20:55There is no world where me and Michaels aren't friends.
20:57We're friends in every universe.
21:00Slumber party!
21:01Woo!
21:08Woo!
21:09Do you want full frontal, brother?
21:11I didn't think so.
21:15You're sexy.
21:17Dude, are you kidding me?
21:18Look who's talking.
21:18I feel like I won't say much about myself, but I will say that I'm good energy, and I think
21:23that, like, if we went out, we'd have, like, an unbelievable time.
21:26So, that's all that matters.
21:28I got a headache.
21:33What are you making, Brad?
21:34Welcome to Wabble House.
21:35We having burgers tonight.
21:38Where's Justin and me at?
21:39It's time on the video.
21:40Should we go look?
21:42Just come over.
21:43Go to the pool.
21:48Kiss!
21:50Kiss!
21:54If y'all kiss, we'll kiss.
21:56If we kiss, you'll kiss?
21:58Yeah.
21:59You guys kiss first.
22:00You guys kiss first.
22:06You're crazy!
22:08You're ass.
22:10You're ass.
22:17You said you wouldn't do it!
22:19You're crazy!
22:20You're crazy!
22:22You're crazy!
22:22You're crazy!
22:29You're crazy!
22:32Where is Molly?
22:39It's kind of chilly.
22:42That was electric.
22:43I love that.
22:43Type s***.
22:46Type s***.
22:47F**k.
22:51Welcome back.
22:53We need to watch Salt Lake City.
22:58Hey, I'm a nice ass.
23:01Go back to him.
23:06Is that your gimme?
23:08Yeah.
23:09Don't be scared of him.
23:10He's nice.
23:13The stuff you put in your butt tastes good.
23:15Look at the back of the rock.
23:17Oh.
23:35Rad, let's go.
23:37Time to get up.
23:40Let's go, let's go, let's go.
23:44It's time to wake up.
23:49Everyone's all grumpy this morning, huh?
23:51Shower.
23:52Yeah, you guys need a shower.
23:54After what I heard happening here last night.
23:57Couldn't get any sleep.
23:59Too much headboard pounding.
24:06Wakey-wakey, Joe.
24:07And company.
24:08It's a beautiful day in Edisto.
24:12Everyone's just so sick of me.
24:16Who's making mimosa?
24:19OMG.
24:20I need, I need coffee first.
24:23Okay.
24:23To Edisto.
24:24Yeah, girl.
24:25Woo-hoo.
24:28I want to leave.
24:30Why are your shorts six sizes too short for me?
24:33They just keep getting smaller.
24:35Does anyone else's body hurt them?
24:36Yes.
24:37Yeah.
24:38Michael's about to work on my bruise.
24:42Where's Molly?
24:45Sleeping?
24:46She's asleep.
24:47Jealous.
24:48She was literally pouring Esplan in a red Solo cup at like 1 a.m.
24:54Good morning, Molly.
24:55Oh, .
24:57Morning.
24:58Good morning.
24:58It's Cruella de Vilca's.
24:59Good morning.
25:01Coffee.
25:01Eggs are ready.
25:02Wonderful.
25:03Did you make out with TJ?
25:06Yeah, out there.
25:08Whenever y'all were sitting outside, I said, if we make out, you guys have to make out.
25:13Yeah.
25:13You went out with Justin?
25:14Yeah.
25:14A little spark, Jasmine.
25:15Oh, my God.
25:16Jordan's okay with this?
25:18Oh.
25:20Stirring the pot a little bit, huh?
25:21You talked to Jordan?
25:22Yeah.
25:22Yeah.
25:23Did you?
25:23Yeah, I have.
25:25Are you gonna talk to Jordan, too?
25:27No, my friends are here like that.
25:28I thought you, Molly, and Jordan were all friends.
25:31Molly is my friend, and then Jordan's her roommate.
25:33Jordan and I have never, like, we don't send each other memes.
25:35We don't hang out.
25:36Send each other memes.
25:40That's my friend.
25:41If I send you memes, we're friends.
25:42Yeah.
25:42I don't have a relationship with Jordan at all.
25:44And Justin is giving no signs that he's a taken man, okay?
25:48He's single as a mother Pringle.
25:50I called Jordan to explain what had happened, you know, before Lake and go scurrying off to Jordan about it.
25:57And, uh, just got cussed out.
26:01F yous.
26:02You're a this, you're a that.
26:04I think I probably dragged this situation ship on for a bit too long.
26:08Are we packing so we can get up out here?
26:11Yes.
26:12Joe, let's go.
26:13Yeah.
26:14We have a lot to do for the party.
26:17Oh, I almost forgot about my birthday.
26:19Like, wow.
26:20Yeah.
26:21Two weeks.
26:21I still got a lot of s*** to do to, like, make sure this is a big success.
26:25Do, like, a hundred comp ones and then we can sell, like, probably up to 400, right?
26:29Yeah.
26:29Yeah, 500, I think, is awesome.
26:31You know, it's my birthday party.
26:32I'm not gonna charge my best friend, but I still need to sell a lot of the tickets.
26:36So promoting it to strangers is also important.
26:39No way.
26:40Yeah.
26:41I think we should hang outside the gate at Republic and then you do a TikTok.
26:45On three, ready?
26:46One, two, three.
26:52I think people are gonna see that and they're gonna buy tickets.
26:54Thank you, Nani.
26:55I am putting, like, five months of my rent into this event, so it better work out.
27:00I'm curious about what happened last night.
27:02So am I.
27:03About what?
27:05Ooh.
27:05Did you see each other's penises?
27:09Yes.
27:10Oh, my God!
27:12You know, there was a lot of moaning and panting.
27:16There were sounds there that I don't think I could humanly replicate.
27:20I did not eat booty.
27:22Did he eat your booty?
27:23Oh, my God!
27:26I didn't say anything.
27:28Two young, beautiful men exploring each other's bodies.
27:31I'm all for it.
27:33Eat mine while you're at it.
27:34I'm just joking.
27:36I'm never kissing you again, Michaels.
27:38What the ?
27:41Damn.
27:41Let's get out of here before the storm.
27:43This is an omen.
27:44We gotta go.
27:46Oh, my God.
27:47Oh, me.
27:48You all right?
27:50Welcome to the Thunderdome.
27:52Get in the car.
27:53No!
27:53No!
28:10Ouch.
28:16Oh, God.
28:36I'm a little hungover.
28:38Hey, boy.
28:39I'm not.
28:39Yeah.
28:41Don't miss that.
28:42I might do better at that.
28:44What?
28:46Never mind.
28:49I also had, like, I've had a hell of a week at a show.
28:53And then, um, working at my birthday party, my event.
28:56You know, having all of this in the back of my head.
28:59I know Joe is going through a lot.
29:01He's turning 30.
29:03He's turning 30.
29:03He's really lost in his career.
29:05But it's almost like he goes to alcohol to cope with it.
29:08I'm just at a little, like, bump in the road where I feel like I'm plateauing and I'm just
29:12kind of losing my fire.
29:13Getting bombarded by hundreds of people every night.
29:16I love it for, like, an hour or two.
29:19And then I want a drink.
29:20Yeah.
29:23The only thing that, like, I'm nervous about turning 30 is, like, where's my career right
29:26now?
29:29I want to marry you one day.
29:30I don't want to be proposing to you while I'm, like, working the door at a club.
29:34I want more.
29:35And I told Leva, I'm like, I'd love to partner with you and Lamar.
29:38But she told me if I, like, didn't go to a few of your DJ sets, that, like, they would
29:43have
29:43considered to, like, partner with me for the new location on King Street.
29:48Everyone's like, Joe, like, when are they going to give you a place?
29:50You know, we have this new spot.
29:52Like, that spot should have been Joe's spot.
29:54But, like, you just left with Maddie.
29:56It's a little codependent.
29:59You have been bussing your ass for them for five years now.
30:03You've been a manager.
30:04You've been a bar back.
30:05You've been the hostess.
30:08Literally every job.
30:09You know a hostess is, uh, it's a female.
30:11A host.
30:12Whatever.
30:12No, I hear you.
30:14But I don't know what to do.
30:16I'm kind of stuck.
30:18But do you ever think that, like...
30:19It's fine.
30:20Alright, let's get up.
30:25It's gonna be okay.
30:26It's gonna be alright.
30:27Promise.
30:42You good?
30:43Yeah, I'm just, like, too tired just to chill.
30:45Yeah, no, I'm good.
30:46I'm so tired, dude.
30:48You just want to get out of here?
30:49Yeah.
30:49Hi.
30:51Hi.
30:52Hi.
30:53How are you?
30:54Good.
30:55How are you?
30:56Your hair looks good.
30:58Welcome in.
31:00How is everyone?
31:02Great.
31:02Good.
31:03We're all a little tired.
31:05We are.
31:06I'm probably gonna have everybody set up.
31:08Make sure everybody gets on the floor in 20 minutes.
31:10What do you got here?
31:11Apple tables.
31:12Those four.
31:13Mm.
31:14Weak.
31:15Last job.
31:16Yeah.
31:17He did book one, though.
31:18I'm gonna sit in there.
31:19Okay.
31:20Okay, let's go.
31:22Oh, hi.
31:23Hi, hi, hi.
31:24Hello.
31:25Hey, guys, I saw four tables.
31:26That's pretty weak.
31:28You know?
31:29Let's maybe try to sell some tables and get some people in here before.
31:33Yeah?
31:34Damn.
31:36I feel like there's no one else in the room right now that you're talking directly to
31:39me.
31:40Joe knows by my eyes.
31:42He knows he needs to book at least five tables.
31:45That's the bare minimum.
31:46Yeah, I guess I've been a little preoccupied with planning my own event, but I don't need
31:50someone breathing down my frickin' neck.
31:53For somebody who is looking to go into the hospitality business, I mean, I know they just
31:59went on a little trip, but four, that's lame ass.
32:08Let's get the floor set up.
32:09Let's go make some money.
32:10Beautiful.
32:11Oh, we need two more.
32:15Just kidding.
32:15Done.
32:17You guys ready to go?
32:22Thanks, babe.
32:25My bad.
32:28Teach, do you have any VIP menus right there?
32:30No.
32:31No.
32:31No.
32:32No.
32:38No.
32:55No.
32:57No.
32:59No.
33:00Hello.
33:01How's it going, guys?
33:02Hi, guys.
33:03How are y'all doing?
33:04I'm looking for a big group.
33:05We're going to get a big group.
33:07Side .
33:12Okay.
33:13Done.
33:13Got it.
33:15What's going on?
33:16What are y'all celebrating?
33:16I'm so happy for birthday.
33:18Your 30th birthday.
33:19Mine's just you, too.
33:20I love you.
33:21Beautiful.
33:22Beautiful.
33:22If you guys want to get a VIP table, we can do, like, a bottle of sparklers, a sign,
33:27and all that.
33:27That's how I would do it.
33:28Hell yeah.
33:29Sparklers?
33:30Can I say yes to the table?
33:38Yes.
33:39Okay.
33:39Awesome.
33:40Leva, haven't I proved to you that, like, year after year, I get the job done?
33:45Let me cook.
33:46I got this.
33:47This last minute attempt is like he's operating from a place of fear and insecurity.
33:53Come on in.
33:54It's just like he's really not doing much to impress me.
33:58I'm so happy.
34:11I'm not doing much to impress me.
34:15I'm just so happy.
34:15I'm so happy that I'm so happy.
34:16I'm so happy.
34:18I'm so happy.
34:26Hey, how's it going?
34:27Good.
34:28surviving I feel like you're kind of going into this new phase in your life and as you're kind
34:33of getting into this next chapter are there kind of goals that you're trying to accomplish yeah
34:37for sure I mean I kind of told you when we were in LA I definitely want to get into
34:41modeling
34:41like a big bucket list would probably be like Tommy Hilfiger Calvin Klein Ralph Lauren I made
34:48a bunch of connections when I was out in LA and one of them happened to be like a talent
34:52manager
34:52and he was like you're a person of color you're living in the south and like you're working
34:56in hospitality but you're still sexy and fun and young and we want to emphasize all that and I
35:01was like oh my gosh yes like sign me up I would love to see you in Times Square in
35:05a giant billboard
35:06yeah that would probably make me like cry the modeling industry in Charleston is very non-existent
35:11it's mainly New York and LA so this could be like a really big opportunity for me we have been
35:16working
35:17for a couple months with this brand new LGBTQ magazine called so not gay and they want to make
35:22you the cover star so I think this would be a great first step to establish your story and get
35:30that out in front of as many people as possible yes let's do it modeling is definitely something
35:35that I've been wanting to get into for a very long time I've just never really had the confidence to
35:40do
35:40so and I think feeling more comfortable and secure in my sexuality it's given me like a different
35:45level of confidence that's really helped me we'll make this a really big success and make this kind
35:49of the launching point for something a lot bigger oh my god I'm so excited two weeks I'll see you
35:53then
36:15I'm like it's pouring rain to the point where I'm like scared to get my equipment wet
36:21this weather sucks I got a DJ inside
36:29go Maddie go DJ get it girl get it girl oh yeah no way she said it stop
36:39hi hi what's going on
36:49I feel like I'm exhausted today you're up it's though it's fire thank you but I'm also like a little
36:55pissed because Joe told me he was working last night and like of course like I have this location
37:02like check his location and it's at another bar I'm not like a uber tracker I only track Joe
37:10when he's not responding to make sure he's not dead in a ditch yeah no he didn't come in last
37:16night
37:18but he told me that he was working yeah because he's like out drinking that's not okay no and I
37:25hate
37:26that Leva has this perception that like I have anything to do with him missing out on work to
37:30like come on tour with me or to like hang out with me or something like that when he's like
37:34going out do you know what I mean yeah 100% all righty
37:42are you playing in here today
37:47are you DJing inside do you want me to help you move it out
37:50no it's a pouring rain if you didn't notice so I called D and he told me to play in
37:57here
37:57okay
38:00do you want any food or anything
38:04you okay
38:04no not really
38:13she's obviously pissed off at me I have no idea why
38:16but I don't know if I'd rather have Maddie yell at me and embarrass me and for everyone or to
38:21be silent like this
38:22this is the most annoying part of our relationship is when she gets mad and I don't know why like
38:26what did I do
38:28what's wrong
38:34all right I'll talk to you later
38:48I think we're yeah we're done peace out
38:59I just got off yeah same
39:04I'm kind of ready to go home but yeah I want to go home too
39:07there's just something I want to talk to you about
39:10I'm just pissed because I feel like I constantly check your location
39:14and you're not at Republic
39:17you're out at the bar and I like don't find it that appropriate
39:22I support you starting a business and you bettering your life
39:26I do not support you saying that you're doing that but then you're out drinking and going on a bender
39:33I wasn't on a bender
39:34I went home at 11 p.m. is that a bender
39:37okay so
39:37is that a bender
39:3911 p.m. I know I'm turning 30 but holy
39:42if you literally stopped going out and you spent some time at home I think you would have had a
39:46proposal together already
39:47I think you've already would have had a bar open I really think so
39:53Friday I worked to 1 a.m. and then I went to Lamar's which is work
39:57I just talked to Michael's he said you left work on Friday you didn't work last night
40:01at 1 a.m. I did not tell you I was going to work yesterday
40:04not a single time did I tell you I was going to work yesterday
40:06okay so you didn't communicate with me that on Thursday Friday and Saturday and Sunday this weekend you have to
40:12work at Republic
40:12that's not true
40:13Joe that's a lie
40:15why are you lying
40:16I'm not lying
40:17what's your deal like how can we solve this
40:19what do you want me to like stay at home with you all night
40:21to be honest I think that we need space
40:25I think our realities aren't matching up
40:28I think it's inappropriate that you're going out going to after parties well after the business is closed
40:34I see a picture of me in bed last night at 11 15
40:37no you did not
40:38I swear to God
40:39no you did not
40:40I'll show you my Uber it's in your head you're spiraling
40:43this is the first time in any relationship I've been more worried about my boyfriend getting wasted than cheating on
40:49me
40:49and it's extremely triggering to my sobriety
40:54look 11 30
40:55not you don't even remember last night
41:00okay cool I'm going I'm leaving I can't deal with this
41:02why would you do this you begged me not to work here and then when I like go to work
41:06I have never begged you not to work here
41:09I begged you on my hands and knees
41:11you begged me not to work here
41:12you don't work here
41:13yes I do
41:14you show up and you leave
41:15it's all in your brain by the way
41:16Joe
41:17it's all in your head
41:17yeah and this is all in my head
41:30he's gaslighting me
41:31that's not true
41:33he's saying oh I work all the time oh I work and do this I never leave
41:37why are you coming after me
41:38Joe
41:38why would you do this
41:44I'm like sober and it sucks cause I feel like he's going out all the time getting hammered
41:50and then I feel like I'm a enabler
41:53I don't know if like I'm mentally and emotionally okay with being with the town drunk
41:59yeah
41:59and I'm not surprised that Leva wasn't taking him seriously
42:03him seriously yeah
42:04his behavior hasn't changed now I don't think it's going to change anytime soon
42:08oh
42:08oh
42:09you're going to make me cry stop
42:11I don't know
42:13I don't know
42:13I don't like to see you like this
42:14I don't know what to do
42:17I don't know what to do
42:21next time on Southern Hospitality
42:24I would just spread your legs
42:25I can do that
42:26I was raised by people that drink a lot
42:29he's talking about marriage and moving in
42:31I get scared of not breaking a generational chain
42:34yeah
42:35how's your date?
42:36what date?
42:37our date
42:38Mia and Justin were on a secret date
42:40holy sh**
42:43you're hurting people
42:44look at her she's about to f**king cry
42:45he played her f**king ass and he's a dick
42:47you're the f**king bitch
42:48sick bitch
42:49goodbye
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