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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02You've never had my back.
00:04Yes, I have.
00:04You've never had my back.
00:05OK, happy now.
00:06I'm just done with Liz, and I'm just
00:08done with this whole trip.
00:10Liz.
00:10She just it all up.
00:12She's a horrible person.
00:15Sorry everything's kind of going the way it's going right now.
00:18Via is becoming someone that I feel like I can trust.
00:23Do you want to have a baby with her?
00:28We just established today that you're not
00:30talking to other women, and now we're talking about babies.
00:34I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
00:37I don't know about completely sailed,
00:39because there's always options.
00:44Courtney broke up with me a few days ago,
00:47and here you go.
00:48My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada
00:51to save the day.
00:52So you're not going to get back together?
00:54Having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
00:58Thank you for seeing us.
01:00I wonder if Colt told his mom that he was sending jerk-off
01:03videos to other women.
01:05He thinks maybe if you two were together alone
01:09for a few days, you could work this out.
01:12On a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
01:14Like, .
01:16Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me.
01:19I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
01:22My family can be a lot, but...
01:24Anna, I'm going to lose you because a birthday party was wrong.
01:28I just need a bit of, like, time.
01:32Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
01:35You're worried that I'm a player.
01:36Yeah.
01:37Is that what you're getting at?
01:39Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya because I feel like she's told her
01:44a lot about my past, but now it's almost using against me.
01:47I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
01:50This trip is off to such a bad start, and something happened today
01:54that makes me feel like I don't even know Tony whatsoever.
02:09Vanya VP
02:11Hola.
02:12¿Cómo está?
02:13Bien.
02:14¿Y tú?
02:15Om...
02:16SÃ.
02:28So Liz's not here yet, so I hope she will be calm
02:31because we doesn't spoke with her a couple days
02:33and it'd be so awkward.
02:35Yeah.
02:35Did you really just let this go?
02:37Yeah.
02:38I know we had a miscommunication and, like, it wasn't great,
02:42but people make mistakes.
02:44It's been four days since me and Liz had our big fight
02:47and Julia texted Liz to come and join us for some drinks.
02:50You know, it's up to her if she wants to continue our friendship,
02:52but I would love if she wants to because I do value her.
02:56I think every girl has a problem.
02:59Especially when they go on holiday.
03:00Oh, my God.
03:01Girls have issues.
03:02It's like a vacation.
03:04Without the fight, it's going to be a not-girls trip.
03:08Let's go over there. It's more cuter.
03:10Oh, yeah, I agree.
03:11I was upset at Liz for talking to Pedro behind my back,
03:14but I did take it a little bit far.
03:17Especially after being on the receiving end
03:19of Pedro's family's craziness.
03:21So if Liz does show up and she can see how we both went wrong,
03:24then hopefully we can just put this whole thing behind us.
03:30Hi.
03:31Hi, ladies.
03:32How are you?
03:33Hi.
03:39I haven't seen the girls in a few days,
03:41and I feel like shutting out a friend on a girl's trip
03:45is definitely mean girl energy.
03:47It doesn't feel good.
03:51I'm going to grab a drink.
03:53Can I grab you another?
03:55Can I get a pina colada?
03:56Yeah.
03:58But when Julia reached out,
04:00I decided it was worth hearing what Sophie has to say.
04:04Can I get to pina colada's, please?
04:07We came on this trip together.
04:10We still have a couple days left,
04:12so I just, I need to clear the air.
04:15You're welcome.
04:16I'm glad you came.
04:19Because it's been a couple days silence,
04:21and now it's time to back to our girls' trip.
04:25I've been super overwhelmed since I got here,
04:27not because of you,
04:28but because of me and Pedro.
04:30And it's been a lot,
04:32and I know, like,
04:32I probably came a bit too hard on you,
04:34and I apologize for that.
04:37I think I was projecting, like, my emotions.
04:41I really don't want, like, drama or pettiness.
04:45I really didn't have any intention of being malicious.
04:48I didn't have any intention of trying to harm you.
04:51Yeah.
04:52So I'm sorry.
04:53I hope you do know that.
04:55I appreciate you saying sorry,
04:56and I'm sorry, too,
04:57if I seemed like I was, like, emotional.
05:02No one's perfect.
05:03People bake it.
05:04So what you're saying is
05:05we got our first fight out of the way.
05:06Yes, yes, yes.
05:09I generally feel like Sophie had time
05:11to reflect on what had happened.
05:13Her apologies seem very sincere.
05:15I really hope she believes my apology.
05:19I still feel like the outcast in some way,
05:22but I'm going to move forward
05:24and enjoy the rest of this trip,
05:25and, oh, my gosh,
05:28please just no more drama.
05:31I'm happy that this is all squashed.
05:33Like, even though, like,
05:34I wasn't with you this weekend,
05:36I want to know how you and Pedro are doing.
05:40Well, it was really bad.
05:43It was really bad.
05:44It was bad.
05:45Oh, my God.
05:47Okay, so Pedro introduces me to his mom.
05:49He did great.
05:51He was like, look, this is Sophie.
05:52She's not my girlfriend.
05:53She's my friend.
05:53I'm getting to know her.
05:55The first thing she says to me,
05:57she goes,
05:58you're not dating him yet
05:59because you haven't had his banana
06:01and his eggs yet.
06:06He's f***ing his b***h.
06:07His mom said that in front of everyone.
06:09This is, like, first, like, first encounter.
06:12And then the sister comes to me.
06:14She goes to me,
06:15I don't trust you.
06:17That's a lot, Sophie.
06:19It's a lot.
06:19After that, I do need to step back
06:21and be like, okay, well, let me focus.
06:23I am single.
06:24I don't need to have all these issues right now.
06:26And since I got here,
06:28there was a guy
06:29that I found on my social media
06:31that lives literally in this area.
06:34And we have been talking.
06:36This guy is fine.
06:38I need to show you him.
06:39Oh, my God, I'm blushing.
06:41Like, okay, it's too cheap.
06:44I was scrolling through
06:45some of the local guys on social media
06:46and there's this one guy in particular
06:48that looks really cute
06:50and I just feel like
06:50he could be really fun to meet up with.
06:52Okay, this is him.
06:53Okay, let's start with that one.
06:55Oh, yeah.
06:56Hell, yeah.
06:58Sophie, you need all of this for you.
07:02He rides motorcycles.
07:04He's tall.
07:06He's good looking
07:07and he's in shape.
07:09I'm single.
07:10I'm on holiday
07:11and I've told Pedro I need some space.
07:13This is a little
07:14and this guy looks like
07:17the right amount of space.
07:20So when do you plan
07:21on hanging out with him?
07:23In a couple of days, you know,
07:24I still get into no pressure
07:26but everything will happen in DR
07:28stays in DR.
07:30Cheers to this.
07:32Welcome to our crazy friendship party.
07:34Yes.
07:35That's all with you.
07:38Cheers.
07:52Good morning.
07:53Good morning.
07:54How are you?
07:55I'm good.
07:56Ooh, yeah.
07:57Morning latte.
08:00Everything okay?
08:02Mm-hmm.
08:16Well, in terms of how the night ended,
08:19Tony was really upset.
08:21Did you really go so harsh at him?
08:23What happened?
08:23I wasn't hard on him.
08:25I was just kind of asking a question.
08:26Hey, what's up?
08:26What's your plan?
08:27I know,
08:28when he's looking for a long-term relationship,
08:30are you on the same page or not?
08:32That was nice-ish.
08:33Okay.
08:35I brought Tony to Maine
08:37to spend my birthday
08:38with my family
08:39but instead,
08:41ever since we arrived,
08:42it's been a complete disaster.
08:45Last night,
08:45Tony stormed off to bed
08:47after Sanella started grilling him
08:49about his past.
08:50But before he even arrived
08:52to my cousin's home,
08:54I saw a side of Tony
08:55that I didn't know existed
08:57and this could be a deal-breaker for us.
09:00I don't know if you picked up
09:01on what was happening
09:02when you were doing my eyebrows
09:04and my lips.
09:05Tony was blowing up my phone
09:07and obviously I couldn't pick up
09:08because we were working on my face.
09:10Mm-hmm.
09:10And I called him back
09:12after we were done
09:13and he was so angry
09:14that he ended up
09:16hanging up the phone on me.
09:17And you know that in my book,
09:19that's one of the most rudest things
09:21you can do to me.
09:22Like, you do not do that.
09:24Then, you know,
09:25when he showed up to the house,
09:27he was trying to make it look like
09:29he was ignoring what just transpired.
09:32The reason why he was upset
09:33just because you didn't pick up
09:34the phone?
09:35That's it.
09:35Yeah.
09:37It's too soon.
09:38If this is happening
09:39this early in a relationship,
09:41it's only going to get worse later.
09:44He completely freaked out
09:46about not being able to reach me
09:48and he hung up the phone on me.
09:50He just blew up.
09:53It was disrespectful.
09:55It was hurtful.
09:56And I just don't know
09:57how to process this
09:58or what to do about it.
10:01It sounds very controlling.
10:03Yeah.
10:04So this is something
10:04that I'm going to have to deal with.
10:07I'm going to have to address it with him.
10:10It has to be done.
10:11Better sooner than later.
10:12I know.
10:14Tony made plans
10:15to go paddle boarding today
10:16and I want to use this time
10:19to really get an answer
10:20about what happened yesterday.
10:25How'd you sleep last night, Tony?
10:27Did not get a good night's sleep.
10:28Kind of thinking about
10:29the conversation last night
10:30and what transpired.
10:32And Sonella just unleashed on me
10:34and I just feel like
10:35I'm getting teamed up on.
10:36I feel like I'm alone in this
10:38and I just feel
10:39a little bit awkward right now.
10:55Off we go to the adventure.
10:57Off we go.
10:58Right.
10:59To the coast.
11:07I think it's good
11:08to get out of the house
11:09and, you know,
11:10there's just a little bit,
11:12I mean, not even a little bit,
11:13there was quite a bit
11:14of tension yesterday.
11:17Sonella came at me pretty hard.
11:18What do you mean
11:19she came at you pretty hard?
11:21She kind of threw out
11:22a lot of history
11:23that was from a while ago.
11:25I think Sonella
11:25just has something against me
11:27and I don't think it's fair
11:28that she just comes out
11:29and contacts me
11:29on the first night.
11:30I just feel like
11:31I was kind of blindsided
11:32by it all.
11:32Well, she's worried for me.
11:34She wants to make sure
11:34that you have the best interest
11:36for me in your heart.
11:38If you saw what happened,
11:39I was being attacked.
11:41She's just looking out for me
11:43and I think that she went
11:45about it the wrong way,
11:46but I think she had
11:47good intentions.
11:51I know Sonella
11:52is Vanya's best friend,
11:54but instead of really
11:56trying to communicate with me,
11:57it becomes my cousin first
11:59and let's see
11:59what her opinions are
12:00and out of respect for me,
12:03I would just prefer
12:04that we work out
12:05our issues together.
12:07They don't have to be spread
12:09to the whole world.
12:11Hi folks, how you doing?
12:13Good, good.
12:14We have a reservation for Tony.
12:16Unfortunately,
12:17we've got some thunderstorms
12:19rolling in.
12:20So unfortunately,
12:20we just can't have folks
12:21on the water
12:22when we're doing thunder
12:22and lightning.
12:24All right.
12:25Okay then.
12:25You want to just walk around?
12:27You can walk by the water?
12:34I feel like you can cut
12:36the tension with a knife.
12:38Tony's being really quiet,
12:40but you need to man up
12:42and own your mistakes.
12:43There's nothing
12:45that I have done
12:47ever to this point
12:48that would warrant
12:49somebody hanging up
12:50the phone on me.
12:51It's disrespectful,
12:52it's rude,
12:53it's childish,
12:53and I will not tolerate it.
12:57So why are you so quiet?
13:01Something on your mind?
13:02Yeah.
13:05You hung up the phone on me
13:06and you got upset at me.
13:09Not my cousin,
13:10you got upset at me.
13:12And I didn't do
13:13anything wrong.
13:14You knew what I was doing
13:15the whole time.
13:15She was doing
13:16permanent makeup on me.
13:17I couldn't talk
13:18and you got upset
13:19because I couldn't talk.
13:21I mean,
13:22I'm in a new place,
13:24a new setting.
13:25You know,
13:26you have your family here,
13:27I have no one here,
13:27so I thought I could
13:29just kind of rely on you
13:30and mourn and,
13:31you know.
13:33I didn't know
13:34what was bothering you
13:34so much, though.
13:35So much.
13:36Like, this is so important
13:37for me,
13:38for you to meet my family.
13:40And it's all starting off
13:41on the wrong foot.
13:45This is a special weekend
13:47for me,
13:47and these are the most
13:48special people in my life.
13:51And did you hang up
13:52the phone on me?
13:53And you're just
13:54ignoring me?
13:56This is horrible.
14:02We have a great connection,
14:04but our connection
14:05hasn't really been physical.
14:08Don't get nervous.
14:10So far,
14:11we've fooled around,
14:13kissed a bit,
14:13but we haven't had sex.
14:15Okay.
14:17Tonight is the night, baby.
14:20Look at that big booty.
14:21Oh, big ass.
14:22That's how I like it.
14:24So, I have not told you, ladies.
14:26Wait, what?
14:27Yeah.
14:29I've been keeping a secret
14:31since arriving in the DR.
14:32The worst thing you could do
14:33is lead him on
14:34and not tell him.
14:35Yeah.
14:35That's the worst thing
14:36you could do.
14:37Feelings between Via
14:38and I are evolving
14:39very quickly,
14:40and he might be hurt
14:42by what I have to share
14:43with him,
14:44and he might not want
14:44anything to do with me.
14:58I think I need a few shots.
15:00I need a nightcap for sure.
15:03You know what happens
15:04when I get a few shots of me?
15:05Oh, my God, yes.
15:05No, I just care.
15:06I do.
15:07I do.
15:08I do.
15:11I do.
15:18Uncle Marco's interesting.
15:20He's an interesting character.
15:22He had a lot of questions.
15:25You know, I mean,
15:26that was a lot.
15:28All those questions.
15:28There's a lot to absorb,
15:29but, you know,
15:30I just think that
15:31we need to walk
15:34before we run.
15:37I invited Natalie to Michigan,
15:40and things are going good
15:41between us.
15:43Getting my Uncle Marco's
15:45blessing was a huge deal
15:46to me,
15:48but I'm a little concerned
15:49that he kind of came in
15:51a little hot
15:52about Natalie and I
15:54having kids.
15:55You haven't even met
15:56my children yet.
15:57They don't even know you.
15:58That's step one, right?
16:00That's step one, yeah.
16:00So if I ask you
16:02to marry me tonight,
16:03is that too fast?
16:05It's really important to me
16:07to have a child of my own,
16:09so if I move forward
16:11with Natalie,
16:12I'm hoping she can remain
16:13open-minded
16:14to make that a reality.
16:18We are home.
16:19Ooh, look at those flowers.
16:21I got some nice flowers.
16:22Aren't they beautiful?
16:23Thanks to you
16:23and Uncle Marco.
16:25I know.
16:27Here we go.
16:29Okay.
16:32Go ahead.
16:33All right.
16:34Oh, this is nice.
16:35You like it?
16:36Yeah.
16:37Enter my home.
16:39Yes.
16:40My bedroom is up there.
16:42Okay.
16:43And if you want,
16:45you can have a seat
16:46and wait for me
16:46while I get us a drink.
16:48This could be a big night
16:50for Natalie and I.
16:51So far,
16:52we've fooled around,
16:53kissed a bit,
16:54but we haven't had sex.
16:56And that's not because
16:57I haven't wanted it.
16:59Cheers to...
17:00The future?
17:01The future.
17:02Cheers to the future.
17:03There we go.
17:04So let's hope
17:05tonight is the night, baby.
17:09What was your favorite part
17:10of the day?
17:11What was my favorite part?
17:13Mm-hmm.
17:14What I think was just
17:16hanging out with you today.
17:17My favorite parts of the day
17:19was when you came to me
17:20and told me that
17:21you have decided
17:22not to talk to other women.
17:26Can you do that, though?
17:28Can you do that?
17:29Are you going to be able
17:30to do that, though?
17:31I don't know!
17:32See, that's the thing.
17:32No, I'm just kidding.
17:33Listen.
17:36There's beautiful women
17:37on this planet.
17:38I mean, gorgeous women.
17:39I get it.
17:40I get it.
17:41The thing is, is like...
17:45It's hard to find
17:46a good quality woman
17:47that has, like,
17:48good qualities
17:48like you have.
17:49Yeah.
17:50Having a good quality woman
17:53trumps everything.
17:53Aw, you're growing up, Gina.
17:54Trumps everything, right?
17:56You're growing up, yeah.
17:57Yeah.
17:58No, that's nice to hear it.
18:00Because, you know what?
18:01It's true.
18:01You're absolutely right.
18:03So after everything
18:04that happened in D.C.,
18:05I took a big chance
18:06coming here.
18:07But wanting to be exclusive
18:09and introducing me
18:10to Uncle Marco
18:11is finally showing me
18:13that Gino may be serious
18:14about being
18:16in a committed relationship.
18:18I'm hopeful
18:19for the next step.
18:21And it's probably
18:21the most hopeful
18:22I've been in a long time
18:23with him.
18:25We have a great connection,
18:27but our connection
18:28has been very mental
18:29and it hasn't really
18:30been physical.
18:32So, I mean...
18:35Wait, don't get nervous.
18:39That totally makes sense, baby.
18:41Okay.
18:43Okay.
18:55You are a good kisser.
18:56I will say that.
18:58I will give you that.
19:01I'm getting kind of tired.
19:04Really?
19:07I kind of think
19:08we should go to bed.
19:09So soon?
19:10So soon.
19:12Yeah.
19:12You know.
19:15Gino,
19:16I'm ready to go to bed.
19:18Yeah?
19:22I don't know
19:23how many more hints
19:24I could give you.
19:26I'm ready to go to bed.
19:28Okay.
19:29So let's go then.
19:32Let's go.
19:32Let's take the drinks.
19:34It's probably been
19:36a year and a half
19:38since I've been
19:39intimate with a woman.
19:41When I was with Jasmine,
19:43I was miserable.
19:44And I can't be intimate
19:46with someone
19:47that's yelling
19:47and screaming at me,
19:48fighting with me
19:49and disrespecting me
19:52after you.
19:54Okay.
19:54But with Natalie,
19:55I feel like
19:56I can be myself.
19:57She's a very good person.
19:59And I'm going to prove
20:01to her
20:02that I can be
20:03the man
20:04that she deserves.
20:05Look at that big booty.
20:06Oh, big.
20:07That's how I like it.
20:09Maybe we'll do it
20:10two, three,
20:12four, five times.
20:13Who knows how many times?
20:14We might even have sex
20:16till the sun comes up.
20:20Yeah, baby.
20:22Oh, yeah.
20:34I got this feeling in my body. I need to dance the stress away. I like to get a little
20:41night. When I hear that music play. La, la, la, la, la, la, la.
20:47Okay, ladies. If you haven't found your man yet, may try to hug yourself.
20:54Julia, stop hugging.
21:12Thank you for participating in our Zumba. We'll see you on the next hangover Zumba tomorrow.
21:20Let's take a shot.
21:22I am very relieved. Sophie and I put the drama behind us. And I really just want to enjoy the
21:30rest of our girls trip.
21:32Okay. What do you want to say? Show us.
21:35I don't know. I'll sit over here.
21:36Okay. I really need some, like, guidance. I've been keeping a secret pretty much the whole time since arriving in
21:46the DR.
21:48Yeah.
21:49Okay.
21:49You have a couple days left before home.
21:52Yeah.
21:53You're going to have fun because you have this all, like...
21:56Not fun. I mean, you have some fun.
21:58I've been spending so much time with Via, but I have not told you, ladies.
22:05So, there is someone that I'm talking to back at home as well.
22:09Wait, what?
22:11Yeah.
22:12Okay.
22:13Like, talking, talking, or like, like...
22:15Like, we're dating.
22:16Wait.
22:17Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
22:21About three months ago, right after I broke up with Jason, I met someone new.
22:26His name is Alec, and we just clipped.
22:32Really?
22:33Yes.
22:34Oh, my.
22:36I'm overstimulated.
22:37Ah!
22:39Alec wants a relationship with me, but I've never been single.
22:43So, I told Alec I was coming on this trip, and I wanted to date.
22:48I wanted to get it out of my system and then kind of come home and figure out if I
22:53wanted a serious relationship.
22:55I never expected to fall for someone.
22:59I made it very clear coming to here I wanted to express being single.
23:03And then now I feel very conflicted because I see my self-developing feelings for Via.
23:09So, I'm scared to, like, tell Via, hey, I am talking to someone back at home.
23:14As long as you communicate and tell him, hey, like, we're just hanging out,
23:17that's all you can do, you're being honest.
23:20If anyone understands how Liz feels, it's me, because I just got out of a toxic relationship,
23:25and I don't want to rush into anything either.
23:27My only thing is, it does feel a little shady that she's hiding it from Via.
23:31Like, I'm in the same boat, like, I'm also trying to get to know Pedro,
23:34but the thing is, I'm being extremely honest with him, because I don't want to lead someone on.
23:38So, I hope she tells him soon, or this whole thing could blow up in her face.
23:43I think tell him, he seems like a nice guy, he's probably going to take it fine,
23:46and he'll probably still want to get to know you.
23:48The worst thing you could do is lead him on and not tell him.
23:51But I feel like it's so complicated now, and it scares me either way.
24:02When Courtney took my phone, she told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
24:07I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
24:10So, how you been?
24:13You heard me.
24:31I miss her.
24:36I miss her.
25:00Courtney, are you okay?
25:04Let me know.
25:06It's been about five days now since Courtney broke up with me,
25:10and apparently my mother couldn't convince Courtney to give me a second chance,
25:15and I can't say I'm exactly surprised.
25:18I threw away a good relationship with a good woman,
25:22and I hate myself for that.
25:25I hate for all the pain that I caused to everybody.
25:32Living with her parents, I couldn't do anything without Courtney.
25:35I couldn't leave the house.
25:36It was just like I was completely relying on her for everything.
25:39And I felt trapped.
25:42And talking with Diana allowed me to escape that reality.
25:47I'm blocking our memories with a hidden black heartbeat.
25:55Hello?
25:56I'm here.
25:58Hey!
25:59Hey, how are you?
26:00You look great today.
26:05I haven't talked with Diana since the night Courtney and I broke up.
26:08When Courtney took my phone, she saw the messages between Diana and I,
26:12and she decided to message her directly.
26:14She told Diana that her and I were in a relationship together.
26:18And this is a problem because I never told Diana the truth,
26:23that Courtney and I have been in a romantic relationship.
26:28So, how you been?
26:33Tell me.
26:46I do love you.
26:54I have a lot of feelings for you.
26:56That's why I wanted to see you.
26:58But then I broke my leg.
27:02King.
27:03You know, I wasn't expecting to see Courtney.
27:05I wasn't expecting to have her in my life.
27:12I love Courtney.
27:18But I love you.
27:19And if I haven't met you, I was supposed to meet you.
27:29You're hurting me.
27:32I'm hurting everybody.
27:35I feel terrible for causing Diana so much hurt and seeing her upset.
27:41But I want to be honest.
27:43Yes, I still love Courtney.
27:45I love Courtney.
27:46And I also love you.
27:47And Diana needs to know that.
27:52Do you still want me to come to Brazil?
28:00I'm feeling like your last option.
28:07I could see that.
28:12I don't know what I'm doing with anything in life right now.
28:21I'm sad.
28:22I'm sorry that I've hurt you.
28:38Well, that sucked.
28:41I know I f***ed things up with both of them.
28:44I was treating both women equally wrong.
28:49I wanted the benefits of having Diana as an outlet.
28:54But I also wanted the benefits of having Courtney as a girlfriend.
28:57And now they don't want anything to do with me.
29:00And I take full responsibility for this.
29:04But I'm not ready to give up on love.
29:06I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
29:09Which one?
29:13Good question.
29:20I like to be in control.
29:22I like whatever I plan to happen.
29:24But you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
29:28I have never seen this controlling side of Tony in the past.
29:33This is just all coming out of the blue.
29:35This has happened to me so many times in the past.
29:38A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality.
29:42So is this who you are?
29:56This is a special weekend for me.
29:59And these are the most special people in my life.
30:01And did you hang up the phone on me?
30:03And you're just ignoring me.
30:12This is horrible.
30:15Yeah, I made the mistake.
30:16Like I said, I didn't communicate with you about what happened.
30:19But it was kind of awkward with me kind of to bring it up at their place and me and
30:22them for the first time.
30:24But I don't want this to be kind of blown out of proportion where it was, yeah, about an issue
30:28we had yesterday regarding time management, spending time together.
30:32Don't make it like I'm blowing things out of proportion.
30:35You haven't really talked to me nicely since yesterday.
30:40I didn't intend for this to happen.
30:41I didn't.
30:43I overreacted.
30:44And one of my issues, one of my flaws is I like to be in control.
30:47I like the situation or whatever I plan to happen, you know, and done right, correctly.
30:53You can't go with life thinking that things are going to go exactly how you planned it.
30:57You have to roll with the punches.
30:58And in the process, you can't alienate the person that's supposed to be so important to you.
31:07Tony hanging up on me yesterday, it took me by surprise.
31:10I have never seen this kind of controlling side of Tony in the past.
31:16This is just all coming out of the blue.
31:19What did I tell you when we were first discussing trying to take this into a relationship?
31:23I said, are you going to change?
31:25Please don't change.
31:26It's not changing, though.
31:26Because this has happened to me so many times in the past.
31:29A guy starts out one way, and then it turns out that it was the opposite the whole time, and
31:33they were just hiding their real personality.
31:35So is this who you are?
31:38No, it's not like a new me, it's not.
31:41The old me is the real me.
31:43That's the person you've known for the longest time.
31:47But the old you has never hurt me like this.
31:50I don't think someone should ever be judged on one reaction or one issue or one fault.
31:59I don't know.
32:02You think this is a real me?
32:04I don't know.
32:05That's why I'm trying to have this conversation.
32:07That's not fair, Vanya.
32:09It's not fair at all.
32:14This has been kind of like a running theme in some of my past relationships.
32:18A guy starts off being this amazing Prince Charming, and then once they feel like they got you in their
32:25claws, then they do a 180 and they become a totally different person.
32:29And who knows, is Tony becoming this totally different person this early in a relationship?
32:34And that's definitely a concern for me.
32:38Tony.
32:39I mean, if you really think I'm a person that's going to truly just hurt you, then you should walk
32:43away from me. I agree.
32:45I want to make sure that going forward, you're not going to just have a freak out and then have
32:52an explosion like hanging up the phone and then ignoring me.
32:57I can first of all apologize for what I did because hanging up the phone is not right.
33:01I'm taking full accountability for it.
33:07I like to be updated. I like to have things kind of go according to plan, but then I feel
33:11like sometimes I'm not even on her radar.
33:14So I felt like that yesterday. I didn't respond the right way. I hung up on the phone on her.
33:18So, you know, it was not a good reaction on my end.
33:22You know, going forward, I think communication and transparency is key. And, you know, I think Vanya in the end
33:27will see that this is still the real Tony and it's a pretty good version too.
33:33So, I'm not trying to hurt you. I really am not. And I don't like to see you cry like
33:36it hurts me too.
33:37There you go.
33:46Are you going to get a smart chance?
33:48What?
33:49That's all right, man.
33:52You're never going to lose you.
33:55Right?
33:58After a year and a half of friendship, I thought that I knew Tony, but this whole experience now makes
34:04me feel like I'm walking on eggshells.
34:06And it's putting seeds of doubt in my mind because is this what I want to sign myself up for?
34:14Maybe the relationship Tony and the friend Tony are two totally different people.
34:24This one's good. Get things off your chest.
34:26I just felt like it was important to talk about. It's been really bothering me.
34:33We've been having a great time. We have a great connection. I feel, I think, I thought.
34:40I guess I'm just going to be straightforward.
34:42There is somebody back at home that I've been seeing.
34:46Didn't expect that.
34:48Oh, this is hard.
34:50There's actually a lot of emotions involved. So, I don't really feel good right now. I feel bad.
35:07I know that I'm preaching to the choir. But you're playing with fire. And you want to go higher. So,
35:16I'm taking you up.
35:19Hey, beautiful. Hi.
35:21How are you? Good.
35:23Good? You ready? Yeah.
35:25You smell good, as always.
35:27You ready for our dance lessons?
35:28I'm ready.
35:29Yeah? Yeah.
35:30Let's go.
35:41Julia!
35:43Oh, my goodness! I think we're going to dance, and you look like you're going to the waiting.
35:48Are you ready?
35:49Let's go.
35:50Ever since landing here in the DR, all I've wanted to do is go to a dance class.
35:55Okay, Julia!
35:57You're ready!
35:58For dancing!
36:00Julia is joining us, but Sophie decided to take some alone time for herself, and I think that's a great
36:05idea.
36:06Girl deserves it. It's been a roller coaster.
36:08It's so pretty!
36:11Hello! Coming, coming!
36:13A little dance.
36:14This is exciting. This is exciting.
36:16Today we will give some merengue and bachata, like Dominican style, so follow me and enjoy.
36:23We are here for giving love, so...
36:24Can I pick this man? He have a crazy energy.
36:26Yeah!
36:27In my photo!
36:30You can have a big partner, for example, with him.
36:33So, we will start with some both steps first.
36:37I feel like we've done this before.
36:39Doesn't feel that all that new.
36:41It's kind of natural now.
36:42And let's go to Sophie Fala!
36:44Yeah!
36:45Yoo-hoo!
36:46Oh, we can do a spin.
36:48Oh.
36:50Open position!
36:51Again! Let's go, let's go, let's go!
36:53And we go!
36:55I'm sorry, I feel like I have to count my steps.
36:57I'm like thinking, I'm talking, and counting my steps.
36:59You can't count any time?
37:00Two, three, one, two, three.
37:03You're making me really nervous.
37:05Why me? Why?
37:06I hate you.
37:07I always get nervous with you.
37:10You're getting me all hot.
37:12Oh, yeah?
37:16Well, that can lead to that.
37:18I've really done nothing but hang out with Via on my whole singles girl trip.
37:24And as much as I'm enjoying being in the moment with him, it's making me feel guilty for the feelings
37:30that I have back at home with Alec.
37:36I think I'm really falling for Via, and now I'm so beyond confused.
37:41I've waited such a long time for just one good person to walk into my life that never did I
37:46imagine that there'd be two.
37:49Okay, guys.
37:50I'm gonna see you.
37:51I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:52Yeah, I'm gonna see you tomorrow.
37:53So, rest now.
37:54After this dancing, can you walk me?
37:59Ooh.
38:00You seem so nervous.
38:02I know.
38:02I just wasn't supposed to come here and start falling for someone.
38:05It's true.
38:06But you're gonna be honest.
38:07That's all what you need to do.
38:08Okay.
38:09Yes.
38:10Thanks, girl.
38:11So, see you.
38:12Everything will be fine.
38:13Just breathe.
38:14Take a shot.
38:20Hey.
38:21Hey.
38:22You wanna go get a drink?
38:24From the bar?
38:25Yeah.
38:25You wanna drink finally?
38:26Yeah, let's go get a drink.
38:28And?
38:28Everything okay?
38:29Yeah.
38:30I am worried about hurting Via's feelings.
38:34I don't know how he feels about me.
38:36Is this just a vacation fling?
38:38Did he expect to, like, have feelings?
38:42We just, we have to have this conversation.
38:45Cheers.
38:46Cheers.
38:48To dancing.
38:49To dancing.
38:50To chemistry.
38:51To chemistry.
38:52To chemistry.
38:52That was a lot of fun.
38:54Mm-hmm.
38:55I feel like dancing with you is always a lot of fun.
38:58Yeah.
38:58I think every time I'm with you, I have a lot of fun.
39:01So, I guess, I don't know where, like, your feelings are at with me, but I know that I am
39:09developing feelings.
39:19I feel like very you are about this, but I am like, you guys, but I do not feel like
39:29this.
39:29You know because I'm just a little bit different.
39:33Well, I did feel like I'm having feelings.
39:34You know, I know I'm feeling this.
39:35So, you know, I don't feel like I'm feeling a lot of fun.
39:35Not feeling the frustration is just a Mars.
39:38there is somebody back at home that I have been seeing.
39:47Okay.
39:49Didn't expect that.
39:52How serious is this with this person?
39:56I don't know.
39:58The whole point of this trip was to see
40:01if I wanted to embrace being single
40:03or where things can go potentially when I get back home.
40:10Oh, this is hard.
40:13It just doesn't make a lot of sense to me.
40:16Single's trip, you're not single.
40:19Well, I am single.
40:20Right now, until you go back.
40:26I can see how it looks to you.
40:29Yeah.
40:30I just kind of feel like I'm wasting my time, you know?
40:39I'm going to use this.
40:40Sure.
40:43I got so scared
40:45of letting the truth be told
40:47of having your head to hold
40:52and I got freaked out
40:54by letting the truth be known
40:56safer to be on your own.
40:59There's actually a lot of emotions involved.
41:03So, I don't really feel good right now.
41:05I feel bad.
41:08Like, I feel really bad right now.
41:13Well, we were doing well, you know?
41:16We were on the right path,
41:20on the right track, I guess.
41:21I just didn't expect that, so.
41:24Feel a little betrayed.
41:28Deceived, I guess.
41:42Yeah, I feel really sick to my stomach right now.
41:47Wow.
41:50I can't take it back.
41:54Next time on The Single Life.
41:56Hello.
41:57Hi.
41:58How are you?
41:59I'm good.
42:00It's so good to see you.
42:02Wayne is 52 years old.
42:03He lives in the UK
42:04and we've been talking for a couple months.
42:07I've even put some aftershave on
42:09for this coffee date.
42:10You're so handsome.
42:11I have to tell you,
42:12you are a handsome little guy.
42:13Oh, thank you.
42:13You are as well.
42:14Oh, thanks.
42:15Wayne might legit be my person.
42:18But putting all the effort
42:20into another international relationship,
42:22it's just taking such a chance.
42:26This is my daughter.
42:27I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:29I didn't expect that.
42:30I'm surprised you're even here.
42:32I was expecting more of a nice initial greeting, you know?
42:36That was a little weird for me.
42:38Can you close that?
42:39I could.
42:40Well, you better.
42:42So far, I'm not impressed.
42:47I want to know if you'd like to, you know,
42:50to try again.
42:51So I'm being honest.
42:52There is someone today that I'm going to just, like, meet.
42:57That's a day.
42:58You're going to have a day with someone.
43:00We have a few days left.
43:02And you'd rather spend that time with somebody that you know
43:05than spending the time with me?
43:06This is bulls**t.
43:08Are you free to dance?
43:09I am.
43:10All right, let's do it.
43:11I just don't see how dancing with other guys
43:13is respectful of the guy that you're with.
43:15It's my girl.
43:16Do you mind if I grab a dance with my girl?
43:18No.
43:18I mean, like, are you serious?
43:20The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me
43:23is not fair.
43:23It's not right.
43:24I'm not going to stand for it.
43:26I'm just, like, really done with this s**t.
43:28We might have even bigger problems
43:30than I originally thought.
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