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00:00:00Vanya, ¿can I just...

00:00:01No, just don't talk to me.

00:00:03My last two years have just been one dating disaster after another.

00:00:08I just feel like I was 100% played a fool.

00:00:11I should be jaded at this point, but I'm still here, ready for love.

00:00:17And your hat, I should be on my knees.

00:00:19Thank you, you brought me to America.

00:00:22Oh my gosh, should I kiss your fit?

00:00:24I was in like a nightmare of a relationship.

00:00:28I was like living in hell.

00:00:30After everything that I've been through,

00:00:33I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:00:37Woo!

00:00:38Oh, what are you doing?

00:00:40You're just a little girl together.

00:00:43I think that's pretty much it, I know.

00:00:45I was in a toxic relationship for so long,

00:00:48I feel like I almost forgot how to have fun.

00:00:51Girl strip!

00:00:52Girl strip!

00:00:52Woo!

00:00:55What are you guys most excited for?

00:00:57The man.

00:00:58We're happy in the Dominican Republic, stay in the Dominican Republic.

00:01:06Oh, I gotta go.

00:01:08You guys remember B, right?

00:01:09I have plans to hook up right now.

00:01:13A booty call.

00:01:14A booty call.

00:01:15Oh!

00:01:16Oh?

00:01:17Sexy.

00:01:17Nearly every relationship I've been in has ended because I've cheated or lied or both.

00:01:24I hope things can be different with Courtney.

00:01:27I'm sorry, I feel like you're using her.

00:01:29Using her?

00:01:30Yeah.

00:01:33I've been talking to this guy.

00:01:35His name is Pedro.

00:01:37Yeah, that Pedro from Santel and Pedro.

00:01:40Pedro's bad, baby.

00:01:44I want my wife, I want the house, I want the kid.

00:01:48And I hope that special someone can be soft.

00:01:52Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:01:56You have a lot of other things going on.

00:01:58I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.

00:02:02I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better.

00:02:05But now I have to be safe.

00:02:05I wish you did too.

00:02:06I've been living a f***ing lie.

00:02:08This has happened to me so many times in the past.

00:02:11A guy starts out one way, then it turns out they were just hiding their real personality.

00:02:15So it's just who you are.

00:02:17Why are you trying to go with your brother's love life?

00:02:20I am just here, go stare about him, and ask you about it.

00:02:24But don't call me hostile, because I don't know you.

00:02:28You guys have a f***ing great relationship.

00:02:31Okay, bye.

00:02:32Yeah, yeah.

00:02:33Trust me, I was very respectful.

00:02:34Yeah, yeah.

00:02:35Okay, whatever.

00:02:37And this is why he will be single forever.

00:02:39Damn.

00:02:52I'm sorry, I'm the flame, everybody knows my name.

00:02:57Hola.

00:02:58Hola, hola.

00:02:59¿Es posible un pina colada?

00:03:00Sí, claro.

00:03:01Gracias.

00:03:0721.

00:03:42I'm Sophie.

00:03:43I'm 26 years old.

00:03:45I'm from London, and I live in Texas.

00:03:47Let's go in the pool, girls.

00:03:48It's so hot.

00:03:49Yeah, it's so beautiful here.

00:03:51I was married to Rob for three years, and that marriage didn't go very well.

00:03:56Jers!

00:03:56Oh!

00:03:56So, I've recently filed for divorce, and what better way to celebrate than with a girls'

00:04:00trip?

00:04:01I've never traveled, so this is like, you're gonna have to take the will on this.

00:04:06I'm excited to have some drinks, and just have a good time, and not stress, and just actually

00:04:10have some fun.

00:04:40What are you guys most excited for?

00:04:41What kind do you like?

00:04:43I still like the older man.

00:04:44How old?

00:04:46How old?

00:04:4693 is fine.

00:04:47Let's stick with it.

00:04:4894.

00:04:4997.

00:04:4994.

00:04:5294.

00:04:52I'm Liz.

00:04:53I'm 33 years old, and I'm from San Diego, California, but I currently live in Seattle,

00:04:58Washington.

00:04:59I've never actually really dated.

00:05:01I've bounced around from relationship to relationship, but I'm single, and it feels really

00:05:08good to be single for once.

00:05:11Sophia, I know you're like a Latinian guy, right?

00:05:15Latinian?

00:05:17Latinian.

00:05:18Latinian.

00:05:18I want to say Caribbean and Latino.

00:05:20Oh, no, yeah, I like that.

00:05:21And I'm mixing them Latinian.

00:05:22Yeah.

00:05:23So, you like them.

00:05:24Okay.

00:05:25Me and Liz are coming on this trip, obviously both single, ready to have a great time, and

00:05:29then Julia is married, but she's so fun.

00:05:33When we met, when we were doing couples therapy in Arizona, we immediately just, like, hit it

00:05:37off.

00:05:37Like, she's one of my best friends, and I feel like she's the perfect person to have as a wing

00:05:40woman.

00:05:41I'm going to be your coach, babysitter, whatever you want to call me.

00:05:45Yeah.

00:05:46Annoying bitch.

00:05:48Julia, how does Brandon feel about you being here?

00:05:51He's fine.

00:05:51I mean, he just reminds me, Sophie the single, not you.

00:05:55Yeah.

00:05:57I'm Julia.

00:05:57I'm 31 years old.

00:05:59I'm from Russia, Krasnodar, and now I live in Norfolk, Virginia.

00:06:03My husband, Brandon, very protective, but he have a reason because we have a secret.

00:06:10I'm pregnant.

00:06:12I'm pregnant.

00:06:13I didn't tell anybody yet because I believe in superstition.

00:06:16I hope nobody will be noticed at Jink and Mock tells.

00:06:21So let's have fun.

00:06:22Yeah.

00:06:23Let's have Jinky in new hairs.

00:06:25After dealing with this divorce and the stress with Rob and everything, like, I need this.

00:06:31Things were so toxic between me and Rob towards the end of the marriage that it's really hard

00:06:36for me to even believe that I was just so hopeful in the beginning.

00:06:44Hi.

00:06:44Thank you.

00:06:46I miss you so much.

00:06:47Give me a kiss.

00:06:48I missed you.

00:06:48Mm-hmm.

00:06:50Six years ago when I first met Rob, I just fell in love with him so quick that I didn't

00:06:54even think twice about moving to another country to marry him.

00:06:59But even though we was married, I found out he actively had a dating profile on a dating site.

00:07:05I found this.

00:07:08You're down to be adventurous.

00:07:11Let's explore.

00:07:13I was only on a dating app after Sophie told me to go talk to other women 10 times.

00:07:20He was just never going to be the man that I feel I deserve.

00:07:23And I had to walk away.

00:07:27We're just not good together.

00:07:30Well, I think that's pretty much it then.

00:07:38I was only 20 years old when I first started talking to Rob and there's definitely something

00:07:42scary about getting back out there because I've only known my life as an adult really

00:07:47with Rob.

00:07:48I haven't really seen what life looks like without Rob.

00:07:50But it's also very exciting.

00:07:52Sophie B, all here because of you and we have a special guy who we come to see.

00:07:59For the past four months, I've been talking to this guy and it's been going really great.

00:08:08He has like dark features that I like.

00:08:10He's tall.

00:08:11He works out.

00:08:12He's very funny.

00:08:14If you could write on paper, the perfect guy.

00:08:17It's literally him.

00:08:20His name is Pedro.

00:08:21And yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantelle and Pedro.

00:08:30How did you guys even start talking?

00:08:32I started like swiping on social media and then I saw this really cute guy.

00:08:36And I was like, okay, like I followed him.

00:08:38And then when we started talking, I was like, wait, like it's Pedro.

00:08:42Like I've heard about Pedro, you know.

00:08:44Before me and Pedro started talking, I didn't know the ins and outs of what happened between him and Chantelle.

00:08:49I do know he doesn't have a great reputation, but I know better than to judge someone based on other

00:08:56people's opinions.

00:08:57We have been talking a lot and then we ended up meeting up three times or so in person.

00:09:02He basically was like, oh, like what's your ideal date?

00:09:05And I told him like what type of food, what type of restaurant, what type of gift I want.

00:09:09And he just like did all of it.

00:09:10And I was like, oh.

00:09:11So what was the gift?

00:09:13He basically took me to a jewelry store and then he bought me a $2,000 necklace.

00:09:17And that was the first time we met in person.

00:09:20Oh my God.

00:09:21I know.

00:09:21So I was just like in shock, you know.

00:09:23He's just so like romantic.

00:09:25And I like that he's like trying to win me over kind of because like he doesn't buy me flowers

00:09:29like once.

00:09:29It's like every week I get new flowers at my door.

00:09:32Then he leaves like this little like love note in the flowers.

00:09:34You see that smile?

00:09:37With Pedro living in Atlanta and me in Texas, we don't hang out much.

00:09:41We've only hang out like a couple of times.

00:09:42So he invited me here to the Dominican Republic for his sister's birthday.

00:09:46And I wanted to do this girl's trip for a while now.

00:09:48So it kind of made perfect sense to just combine the two.

00:09:52This is going to be the most amount of time you're spending with him.

00:09:54Yeah, but also I'm not trying to jump into like something super serious immediately

00:09:58because I only met him like a couple of times.

00:09:59You just finished your relationship. He doesn't need to jump.

00:10:02Like my end goal is a relationship again.

00:10:05But right now I also want to be single and I want to make sure I know what I want

00:10:08this time.

00:10:09Yeah.

00:10:11I'm excited to spend more time with Pedro.

00:10:13But at the same time, I've been through hell with my own marriage and his marriage was a train wreck,

00:10:18obviously.

00:10:19So I want to make sure I don't rush things.

00:10:21I'm trying not to be delusional this time and giving myself the time I need to figure it out.

00:10:25So we're going to see him tonight, which should be fun.

00:10:27We're all going to have fun.

00:10:28I can't wait.

00:10:28Is he bringing friends?

00:10:30Yes, he will be bringing friends.

00:10:31Friends, yeah.

00:10:32I've been very clear to Pedro about what my intentions are.

00:10:35I want to just come here and have a good time and get to know him.

00:10:38But I feel like he's catching very strong feelings very early on.

00:10:42And I really just want to make sure that I don't let someone force me into something that I'm just

00:10:48really not ready for yet.

00:10:49So, let's have fun!

00:10:52Yay!

00:10:53Ladies, we're happy in Dominican Republic. Stay in Dominican Republic.

00:11:17All right, cadets, your mission today is to infiltrate this valley.

00:11:21It's full of enemies.

00:11:22They're going to be on all sides and surrounding you.

00:11:25Watch each other's back carefully.

00:11:26Keep each other safe and alive.

00:11:28Let's go play laser tag!

00:11:29Whee!

00:11:32I'm going to get you.

00:11:36Ooh, I like this.

00:11:47Get around to the left.

00:11:48I'm going to go to the right.

00:11:49Starboard side.

00:11:50Not starboard.

00:11:51We're not in the Navy.

00:11:54My name is Kim.

00:11:55I'm 55 years old.

00:11:56I'm from San Diego, California.

00:11:59And for the past probably 10, 20 years, I've just been feeling really down about myself.

00:12:04And now I can say Kim is 55 and fabulous.

00:12:13For the past year, I've been on this weight loss journey.

00:12:17And I've lost 57 pounds to dates.

00:12:19And it's been life changing.

00:12:22I have more energy.

00:12:24And it's like I'm just tapping into this young, more adventurous Kim again.

00:12:30When I was 19 years old, I went into the military.

00:12:34And I was a sharpshooter.

00:12:36And I jumped out of planes.

00:12:39I was the bad bitch back then.

00:12:43I got you.

00:12:44You said, ugh.

00:12:45And now, 30 years later, I'm trying to get my groove back.

00:12:48Especially in my dating life.

00:12:51Boo!

00:12:51You're shot.

00:12:52Oh, crap.

00:12:55Do you think we should just call a truce?

00:12:57Just call a truce and we'll work together.

00:12:59You know how I use a gun?

00:12:59I do.

00:13:00So I'm on a date.

00:13:01And this is Javier.

00:13:03I'm excited to be here.

00:13:06I like women when they take charge.

00:13:07Oh, do you?

00:13:08Do you?

00:13:09Okay.

00:13:09You got the right kind of woman then.

00:13:12We have a mutual friend, Sarah, that kind of set us up, right?

00:13:15Like a little blind date.

00:13:17Oh, you're a gentleman too.

00:13:19Probably too.

00:13:20When I saw Javier for the first time, I was like, well, he's kind of handsome.

00:13:24A little bit.

00:13:25No, I'm just joking.

00:13:26He's so handsome.

00:13:27Gracias.

00:13:28De nada.

00:13:30Oh, no, Henry!

00:13:32No!

00:13:34I've been casually dating for the last few months.

00:13:37But it is hard as to find a good man in your 50s.

00:13:42Okay.

00:13:43We're done.

00:13:44I'm done.

00:13:45I'm putting my gun down.

00:13:46I feel like I can see through all your games.

00:13:48And let's just be honest.

00:13:49I was with the biggest game player ever in the world.

00:13:59I met Usman on social media about five years ago.

00:14:05He's a singer rapper in Nigeria.

00:14:07And after 11 months of talking on the phone, my ass was on a plane to Africa to go meet

00:14:13Usman

00:14:13in person.

00:14:14Oh my God!

00:14:18Oh my God!

00:14:19From the beginning, Usman and I went through a lot.

00:14:21We had a lot of challenges, a lot of disagreements.

00:14:24Why would you bring me down here to shoot a video about another woman?

00:14:28Oh my God!

00:14:30This is funny!

00:14:31Is this funny too?

00:14:32F*** you!

00:14:34But eventually, we worked it out and he put a ring on it.

00:14:37Will you marry me, baby?

00:14:38Yes!

00:14:39I knew that Usman wanted to have a couple kids.

00:14:42And my baby-making days are over, but I loved Usman so much that I was willing to let him

00:14:47take a second wife to have a baby.

00:14:49And it's crazy when I think about that.

00:14:51When I get married to the second wife, I should take her child to you in the state.

00:14:57No, sir.

00:14:58Listen to me.

00:14:58That will bring you guys more closer.

00:15:00No.

00:15:01And you love each other, like close friends.

00:15:03No.

00:15:03But he wanted me and the second wife to like coexist and like make biscuits or something.

00:15:09I don't know.

00:15:09And like raise this baby together.

00:15:11What the f***?

00:15:14Luckily, I came to my senses before this became a whole sister-wise kind of thing.

00:15:19You're a f***ing asshole.

00:15:20You are a f***ing asshole.

00:15:22I'm done.

00:15:25We tried.

00:15:26We tried, right?

00:15:28We did.

00:15:29I'm very alpha female now.

00:15:31I really don't need a man too much for anything, but I miss having a man.

00:15:35I want to feel emotionally supported.

00:15:37I want to feel the comfort and feel safe.

00:15:41Safe is like my biggest thing.

00:15:44So how do you like it?

00:15:45It was so much fun.

00:15:46Oh my gosh.

00:15:47It reminds me of my military days.

00:15:49You were in the military?

00:15:49Yes.

00:15:50Wore the little uniform.

00:15:52Wore the little beret.

00:15:53I jumped out of planes.

00:15:54I've done a lot.

00:15:55That's very sexy.

00:15:57Do you want to see me in my uniform?

00:15:58Do you have your uniform?

00:15:59No, but I'll get one.

00:16:02So, where do you live?

00:16:04I live in Mission Hills.

00:16:06Okay.

00:16:06Do you like live by yourself?

00:16:08I have two roommates.

00:16:09Oh, f***.

00:16:10Two.

00:16:10So it's like a big bachelor pad.

00:16:12No, no.

00:16:13Not really.

00:16:15I live with two young women.

00:16:19So like, how did you end up with two girl roommates?

00:16:23I used to date one of them.

00:16:25You used to date one of your roommates?

00:16:26I used to date one of my roommates.

00:16:27Okay.

00:16:28What happened?

00:16:29If you don't mind me asking.

00:16:31Sadly, I cheated on her.

00:16:33Javier.

00:16:33She dumped me.

00:16:35Well, I would have too if you would have cheated on me.

00:16:37Yeah.

00:16:39Javier is really cute, but there's a lot of red flags here.

00:16:44He's a man in his 50s with roommates.

00:16:46And like, what is the situation with his ex, right?

00:16:49He lives with her.

00:16:50He cheated on her.

00:16:52They're still banging.

00:16:53There's something going on there.

00:16:54It's not even a red flag at this point.

00:16:56It's like an ambulance siren going,

00:16:57Kim, get out of here.

00:16:58Kim, get out of here.

00:17:00Thank you so much.

00:17:01It was fun.

00:17:03It was fun.

00:17:04Yeah, you too.

00:17:05In my past relationships, I let so much slide,

00:17:08and I'm just not going to do it now.

00:17:10I'm not going to do it.

00:17:11I'll text you.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:13Or text me.

00:17:14Okay. Got it.

00:17:15Thank you for taking me out here.

00:17:16It was fun.

00:17:17So I'm not going to see Javier again,

00:17:19but some woman is going to snatch him up.

00:17:21It's just not going to be Kimberly.

00:17:22Sorry.

00:17:24Bye-bye.

00:17:41Hello.

00:17:42What are you doing?

00:17:43I ran out of groceries at my house.

00:17:44Oh.

00:17:45So is my house the grocery store now?

00:17:47Yeah.

00:17:47I actually need to take a few things.

00:17:48Oh, you do?

00:17:49Mm-hmm.

00:17:49Oh.

00:17:51Jamal is my son.

00:17:52He's 30 years old.

00:17:54I don't think anybody could be prouder of their son

00:17:58than I am of Jamal.

00:17:59He is everything to me.

00:18:05Do you have a ranch?

00:18:06Yeah.

00:18:07But you're not taking my ranch.

00:18:09I use that.

00:18:11I feel like we don't hang out anymore.

00:18:13You just come over when you need stuff.

00:18:14That's not true.

00:18:15I'm going to hang out here while I get my stuff.

00:18:17It's like a two-for-one.

00:18:20Do you need two potatoes?

00:18:22No.

00:18:22Would you like to take a potato?

00:18:23Yeah.

00:18:24I'll leave you one.

00:18:25Thanks.

00:18:27So, yeah, I went on, like, a little laser tag date.

00:18:30Oh, yeah?

00:18:31Yeah, it was fun.

00:18:34Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.

00:18:38I just feel like I still need...

00:18:40I just think you have a lot of other things going on.

00:18:45Indeed.

00:18:48Things have been feeling really tense and, like,

00:18:50really difficult between Jamal and I right now.

00:18:54Can you tell me what's been going on with him?

00:18:57I mean, there's no easy way to...

00:19:02say what I have to say, you know?

00:19:04Or discuss what I've done.

00:19:08Love you.

00:19:09Love you, too.

00:19:09I'm going to go head out.

00:19:12I've kept things from him that have broken his trust with me.

00:19:16Text me later or something.

00:19:17Got you.

00:19:18I'll be pretty busy, but I will...

00:19:20Make time for your mom, Jamal.

00:19:23All righty.

00:19:23See you later.

00:19:24I preach authenticity.

00:19:26I preach being genuine.

00:19:28And I've been living a lie.

00:19:30And when the truth comes out,

00:19:32these things that I'm hiding are going to hurt other people.

00:19:35I'll never forgive myself for that.

00:19:38Never forgive myself.

00:19:45Let's go, little puppy.

00:19:47The first time I see something online, you know, I say,

00:19:50oh, my God, like, she looks fine.

00:19:53Like, the hair, the eyes, the lips, the ,

00:19:56the ass, the leg.

00:19:58Maybe, if we love you, we get some.

00:20:02Nice to meet you.

00:20:03Nice to meet you.

00:20:03I'm Gino.

00:20:04I have never been to a singles event before.

00:20:07Well, I'm not divorced yet.

00:20:12I knew meeting women in person would probably be difficult,

00:20:16but how did this all end up in such a disaster?

00:20:29Step down.

00:20:31Let's go.

00:20:33Two counts right here.

00:20:36Let's go.

00:20:42Come on, Gino.

00:20:43You got this.

00:20:46Every time.

00:20:47Every time.

00:20:48Let me help you.

00:20:49Woo!

00:20:50Be a little good, a little bad.

00:20:52I'm like, ooh, you're so good by you.

00:20:56All right.

00:20:57Last 10 seconds before the end.

00:21:00I'm Gino.

00:21:01I'm 56 years young, and I'm from Camp Michigan.

00:21:04Come on, let it all go.

00:21:05Woo!

00:21:06Nice job!

00:21:08I'm newly single, and I'm looking for the love of my life.

00:21:12I'm way out of here.

00:21:15I'm working out again, getting myself in shape.

00:21:18I mean, after everything that I've been through, I want some young, beautiful, single ladies, baby.

00:21:26Woo!

00:21:26Would you mind taking a couple selfies for me?

00:21:30Of course.

00:21:31If you don't mind, could you try to get my calves in it a little bit?

00:21:34Sure.

00:21:35Give me a big smile.

00:21:37I really want to find a woman that has a good heart, who's very much into me just how I

00:21:43am.

00:21:43Nice job.

00:21:44I just have to do a better job at choosing women, because I have failed miserably in the last, well,

00:21:54last four years, anyway.

00:21:59Oh, my God!

00:22:01Is it Jasmine?

00:22:02Is it you?

00:22:03Oh, my God!

00:22:04Yay!

00:22:06I met my soon-to-be ex-wife, Jasmine, online about four years ago, and went to Panama to meet

00:22:13her.

00:22:15Yeah!

00:22:17Yeah!

00:22:20But looking back, I should have never married Jasmine and brought her to the U.S.

00:22:25There were some huge, serious red flags.

00:22:28You f***ing trash.

00:22:29I don't want to see you anymore.

00:22:31That's your choice.

00:22:33F***ing.

00:22:34Go!

00:22:34Shh!

00:22:35Guys!

00:22:36I'm gonna f***ing kill this!

00:22:38Oh, God damn, the president!

00:22:39Stop!

00:22:40Jasmine, look at me!

00:22:42Stupid liar!

00:22:43I f***ing can't hear me!

00:22:45During our relationship, Jasmine always found a way to beat me down.

00:22:49And then last year, I found out that Jasmine was having a baby with a random dude down the street

00:22:56two months after we separated.

00:23:00I want you to know that I am pregnant.

00:23:04And Matt and I agree that we want to have the baby, and that's what we're gonna do.

00:23:12Well...

00:23:12Good.

00:23:15I thought she loved me.

00:23:19I thought she wanted to have a child with me.

00:23:26She's such a liar.

00:23:33She's such a liar.

00:23:36I was knocked down, but I got back up on my feet, and now I just want to look forward

00:23:42to living my best life.

00:23:49Just a little pie, it's Blue Star, baby. Peaches and cream. Yeah, it's so crazy.

00:23:56Today I'm going to an event that is hosted by a singles group that I found on social media.

00:24:04And we can be peachy, but that's so easy. Even if it isn't, keep it easy, breezy.

00:24:41Hey, Lara and Rachel here.

00:24:43What's up?

00:24:44Before the internet I used classified ads, it was scary because I didn't

00:24:50really know what they looked like.

00:24:53In hindsight, it's probably not the safest thing to do, and I'm lucky I never got scammed.

00:25:00So, this is Amy.

00:25:01Hi.

00:25:02Hello.

00:25:02Amy, this is Gino.

00:25:03Nice to meet you.

00:25:04Nice to meet you.

00:25:05I'm Gino, but even now I prefer to meet women online.

00:25:10Being rejected in person is the worst, right?

00:25:13You feel so small and it's hard to take.

00:25:16So I am way out of my comfort zone being here.

00:25:20I think we need to go play some kickball.

00:25:23Yeah, let's do it.

00:25:24Go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go,

00:25:34go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go, go.

00:25:40Gino, Gino.

00:25:55What's your name?

00:25:57Gino.

00:25:58I'm Erin.

00:25:59Nice to meet you.

00:26:00Nice to meet you.

00:26:01I think the women are finding me pretty sexy.

00:26:05Awesome.

00:26:06Good job.

00:26:07I think this is a very good first step for me

00:26:09because it got me out of my comfort zone.

00:26:12But now that I have to have conversations with them,

00:26:14I hope I don't mess it up.

00:26:16We're so excited to have you here.

00:26:18Every time a guy joins, we're like, oh, my God, another normal guy.

00:26:21Oh, that's good.

00:26:21We're 70% women.

00:26:2470%?

00:26:25I like that.

00:26:25I know, right?

00:26:26That's why I get excited.

00:26:28I'm like, a guy?

00:26:33So tell us, like, what brought you here?

00:26:35What brought me here?

00:26:37Well, I mean, I'm single now.

00:26:38When did you get divorced?

00:26:40When I get divorced?

00:26:42Um, well, I'm not divorced yet.

00:26:46Okay.

00:26:48Well, I'm married but separated.

00:26:50We don't live together.

00:26:53I don't do well with someone who's still technically married.

00:26:56What if they're not done?

00:26:59What chance does it have for me to leap forward

00:27:03and try to start something if he's not ready?

00:27:05I'm with you on that.

00:27:06He seems so nervous.

00:27:08He's shaking.

00:27:09His voice is cracking.

00:27:10What the hell is going on here?

00:27:11What is he hiding?

00:27:13So tell us what happened.

00:27:15So basically what happened is

00:27:17five months after our marriage

00:27:19she met a guy, a random guy at the gym

00:27:22and cheated on me with him.

00:27:24What?

00:27:25And then while she was married to me

00:27:26she got pregnant.

00:27:30What the hell am I saying here?

00:27:32I'm supposed to be telling them something

00:27:34that's going to attract them to me.

00:27:36Not telling them about my nightmarish

00:27:41miserable relationship that I just went through.

00:27:44I think it's kind of turning off the ladies here.

00:27:47But anyway, the change of subject a little.

00:27:50What are you guys looking for in a man?

00:28:01Wait, can you hear?

00:28:05Oh, did I hear that?

00:28:07No.

00:28:08I didn't hear anything.

00:28:09Okay.

00:28:09I knew meeting women in person

00:28:12would probably be difficult

00:28:13but how did this all end up

00:28:15in such a disaster?

00:28:42Pedro is bad, baby.

00:28:45Oh, my God.

00:29:03My name is Pedro.

00:29:04I'm 33 years old.

00:29:05Originally I'm from Dominican Republic

00:29:06but right now I live in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:29:08I live in Atlanta, Georgia.

00:29:09Trae la van, sí, ya estamos aquí.

00:29:11Sí.

00:29:12Since my divorce with Chantel

00:29:14I've been keeping a low profile.

00:29:15I need a time to myself.

00:29:17Dale, dale, dale.

00:29:20Eso, papá.

00:29:22But now I put everything behind me

00:29:24and I'm ready for the next shot of my life.

00:29:28Bam.

00:29:28That's Dominican engineer over there.

00:29:30Así mismo.

00:29:31Así mismo.

00:29:33¿Qué vamos a hacer con la van?

00:29:34Vamos a agarrar la van,

00:29:35ponerla bien bonita.

00:29:36Pa' Sofi.

00:29:37Tú siempre estás dispuesto

00:29:38a darlo todo por una mujer.

00:29:40Yo soy un tipo romántico.

00:29:41Pedro, I'm putting my best effort

00:29:44in this, okay?

00:29:46Sí, claro.

00:29:47I'm so excited.

00:29:49I'm very happy

00:29:50because Sofi arrive in the yard

00:29:52with her friends

00:29:52and they're going to meet me

00:29:53and my friend at the club tonight.

00:29:55I really want to impress Sofi

00:29:56when she is in my own country.

00:29:58That's why me and my friends

00:30:00are going to decorate the van.

00:30:01They're going to drive

00:30:02Sofi and her friends

00:30:03around the yard.

00:30:05Pedro,

00:30:06¿qué te gusta esa mujer?

00:30:08No me gusta, papá.

00:30:10Me encanta.

00:30:11Oye, man.

00:30:13The first time I saw something online,

00:30:15you know, I said,

00:30:16oh my God, like,

00:30:18she looks fine.

00:30:19Like, she has everything

00:30:21that I was looking for.

00:30:22The hair, the eyes,

00:30:23the lip, the f***,

00:30:24the ass, the leg.

00:30:26And she got, you know,

00:30:27the waist.

00:30:28You know, like,

00:30:29it's going to be here,

00:30:30going to be down, you know,

00:30:31like a guitar kind of style,

00:30:32you know,

00:30:33that's made me a little crazy.

00:30:36¿Tú estás enamorado?

00:30:38Definitivamente tú te aseguro

00:30:39que ya te podías considerar

00:30:41con ella para tener una familia.

00:30:42Creo que sí.

00:30:44I have a strong feeling

00:30:44for Sofi,

00:30:45and I really, really want

00:30:47a relationship with her.

00:30:47She has a very kind heart.

00:30:49She has the full package.

00:30:51Es momento de tú

00:30:53reiniciar tu vida otra vez.

00:30:54Sí.

00:30:55Y espero que los errores

00:30:56que se pudieron cometer

00:30:57no se vuelvan a repetir.

00:30:59No, todos los errores

00:31:00que se metían en el pasado

00:31:00fueron errores.

00:31:01¿Tú me entiendes?

00:31:02Ahora yo aprendí mis errores.

00:31:03When I met Chantel,

00:31:05I told her my life

00:31:05was set for forever.

00:31:07And then, you know,

00:31:09everything went to the drain.

00:31:13Oh, baby.

00:31:17Baby.

00:31:21Nine years ago,

00:31:22I packed my life from the yard

00:31:24and moved to the United States

00:31:25for love.

00:31:26Hello, some of my baby.

00:31:31But Chantel's family

00:31:32cost so much drama.

00:31:33They were freaking crazy.

00:31:34Hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:31:35What'd you say?

00:31:36I tried my best,

00:31:38but I wasn't perfect,

00:31:39and nobody else.

00:31:41Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey.

00:31:45Chantel never stand up for me

00:31:47with her family.

00:31:48That drove me away between us

00:31:50to the point

00:31:52our marriage couldn't survive.

00:31:55I feel that we go

00:31:56different ways

00:31:57in the life.

00:31:58I want my divorce.

00:32:02I can.

00:32:05I can continue with this.

00:32:08I learned a lot of things

00:32:08from my marriage.

00:32:09Put more time,

00:32:11more effort,

00:32:12listen more,

00:32:13be more flexible,

00:32:15you know,

00:32:15and that's helped me

00:32:16right now,

00:32:17too, my sure.

00:32:19Hey.

00:32:21Papá, ya tú sabes?

00:32:22Dale para allá,

00:32:23be with a la mujer.

00:32:24Dale esa besito.

00:32:25Nos vemos allá.

00:32:27Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.

00:32:30You're feeling good tonight.

00:32:33You're doing great.

00:32:35It's a big night.

00:32:37Okay.

00:32:39All was good.

00:32:41Now let's go down.

00:32:44Let's go, little Bobby.

00:32:47It's been a long time.

00:32:48I never thought

00:32:49that this is going to be my life.

00:32:51The fact that I'm three years old,

00:32:54not a kid,

00:32:55you know,

00:32:55it made me feel

00:32:56a little devastated.

00:32:58We have to be

00:33:00nice and clean,

00:33:01what you never know.

00:33:02I want the type of life

00:33:04that everyone's dreaming about.

00:33:06I want my wife,

00:33:07I want the house,

00:33:08I want the kid.

00:33:10Maybe,

00:33:10if we love it,

00:33:12we get some.

00:33:13If not,

00:33:15we try again.

00:33:17I want to show Sophie

00:33:18a time of her life

00:33:19in the yard

00:33:20and I hope

00:33:21at the end of the street

00:33:22we can be a relationship forever.

00:33:25Okay.

00:33:26Yeah.

00:33:28We're ready.

00:33:31What the is?

00:33:32Pitch a friend?

00:33:33We are going to have

00:33:34some of San Diego's

00:33:35finest lead men

00:33:36and women pitching

00:33:38their wonderful single friend.

00:33:40Are you ready

00:33:41to meet

00:33:42Kimberly?

00:33:43She has

00:33:44the biggest heart

00:33:46and she loves

00:33:47Cass.

00:34:13How was everything?

00:34:14It was great.

00:34:15Thank you so much.

00:34:16Let me go ahead

00:34:16and get you checked out.

00:34:17Have a great day,

00:34:19okay?

00:34:19Bye.

00:34:21For about two years now,

00:34:22I have been

00:34:23the spa supervisor

00:34:24in a hotel casino.

00:34:27Ooh,

00:34:27it's closing time.

00:34:28I really like it.

00:34:30I like scheduling.

00:34:31I like keeping things organized

00:34:33and I think I get that

00:34:35from my military training

00:34:36because you have to be organized

00:34:38when you're in the military.

00:34:40Are you almost done?

00:34:41We gotta go.

00:34:41It's girls night.

00:34:43Yeah,

00:34:43I just gotta clean up this stuff

00:34:45and then fold the towels

00:34:45and put them away.

00:34:46Lily's my closest work friend

00:34:48and I love the fact that

00:34:49like I can confide in her

00:34:50about things.

00:34:51I'm so glad we're all

00:34:52going out tonight.

00:34:54I haven't been out in a while

00:34:55so I think it'll do me

00:34:56a lot of good.

00:34:57Tonight,

00:34:58Lily and I are gonna meet

00:34:59some of our other friends

00:35:00and we're just gonna have

00:35:01a little ladies night.

00:35:03I really wasn't a part

00:35:04of the planning,

00:35:04but I'm just down

00:35:05for whatever at this point.

00:35:07So if you see any guys

00:35:08tonight,

00:35:08you gonna try to talk to them?

00:35:10I actually went

00:35:12on a first date

00:35:12the other day.

00:35:13Really?

00:35:14How'd that go?

00:35:16Girl,

00:35:17he lives with his ex.

00:35:20Would you ever live

00:35:21with your ex?

00:35:22No.

00:35:24But that's a different story.

00:35:27I don't know.

00:35:28I just feel like

00:35:29I'm not gonna just settle

00:35:30for anything less

00:35:31than I deserve.

00:35:31You have to be, like,

00:35:33financially and mentally stable.

00:35:36Yeah.

00:35:36You have to be

00:35:37in your upper 40s, 50s.

00:35:40No more 18 years

00:35:41younger than me.

00:35:42Yeah, you're gonna need

00:35:43someone to match your vibe.

00:35:44I really want

00:35:45somebody to love me for me.

00:35:46Like, I've never had that.

00:35:48And I really need

00:35:49to feel that love,

00:35:50like, once before I die.

00:35:52Kim says that

00:35:53she's never experienced love.

00:35:57It hurts me as a friend

00:35:58because, you know,

00:36:00she's been through so much

00:36:01in her life

00:36:02that she does deserve

00:36:03to find love.

00:36:04Not someone who's gonna

00:36:06try to take advantage

00:36:06or use her.

00:36:08She's a beautiful person,

00:36:09so I believe she should

00:36:10find someone who is

00:36:11going to cherish her

00:36:12and treat her

00:36:12like a queen.

00:36:14All right, let's go.

00:36:15Let's go.

00:36:16Pretty girls around the world,

00:36:18they're waking up,

00:36:18they serving up,

00:36:19you couldn't catch this one

00:36:20if you tried.

00:36:21Oh, we serve, we serve spicy.

00:36:23Yeah, we know it's a lot.

00:36:25Going right up here.

00:36:27What is this?

00:36:28Let's see where

00:36:29we get inside.

00:36:33Oh, my God.

00:36:34Oh, my God.

00:36:36Hi.

00:36:36Oh, my God.

00:36:37We love you.

00:36:38We love you.

00:36:39Hello, baby.

00:36:41Hi, girl.

00:36:42What are we doing?

00:36:43What are we doing?

00:36:44What the is it?

00:36:46Pitch a friend.

00:36:46Just chill out.

00:36:48What is this?

00:36:49We are going to pitch you

00:36:52the single woman

00:36:53in front of a crowd

00:36:55of single men.

00:36:57The group chat

00:36:58was not talking

00:36:59about this.

00:37:00Just calm down.

00:37:02We got you.

00:37:03You knew about that.

00:37:05I did.

00:37:05I knew.

00:37:05She's in on it.

00:37:07I hate it.

00:37:08Uh-oh.

00:37:09Uh-oh.

00:37:10Oh, no.

00:37:11Here we go.

00:37:12Here's the voice.

00:37:13Did you hear me?

00:37:17Welcome.

00:37:18Welcome to Pitch Up, friend.

00:37:20All right.

00:37:21So we are going to have

00:37:23some of San Diego's

00:37:24finest wingmen

00:37:25and wingwomen

00:37:26on this very stage

00:37:27pitching their wonderful

00:37:29single friends

00:37:30with the PowerPoint

00:37:31presentation

00:37:32so that you know

00:37:33who is available

00:37:34and looking for love

00:37:36in this room tonight.

00:37:38Give it up.

00:37:44Kim is still single

00:37:45because she's guarding

00:37:46her heart a bit.

00:37:48However, she's definitely

00:37:50ready to get back out there.

00:37:52And that's why we thought

00:37:54an event like this

00:37:55would be fun.

00:37:56We made a slideshow

00:37:58of Kimberly's likes,

00:38:00dislikes,

00:38:01bullet points about

00:38:02different things

00:38:03that we love about her.

00:38:05And who knows?

00:38:06Magic could happen.

00:38:08All right.

00:38:09Let's get started

00:38:10and Pitch Up Friends

00:38:11starting with

00:38:12Rachel pitching.

00:38:14Alex!

00:38:16So I'm introducing

00:38:18my friend Alex.

00:38:19He just celebrated

00:38:21his 42nd birthday.

00:38:23Oh, he's 42.

00:38:24He's 61.

00:38:25And he went for us

00:38:26to 42.

00:38:28What do you think?

00:38:29Wait, wait, wait.

00:38:31Isn't that kind of on the line?

00:38:32Can we go a little bit lower?

00:38:34Do you have a strong line?

00:38:36Standards.

00:38:38Boundaries.

00:38:40Alex, come on up here.

00:38:45Questions for Alex.

00:38:47Question.

00:38:49Alex.

00:38:50Yes.

00:38:51Do you like

00:38:52older women?

00:38:55I don't discriminate

00:38:56whatsoever at 19's age.

00:38:58Okay.

00:38:59Give it up for Alex!

00:39:03Coming up here,

00:39:04we've got a duo.

00:39:05We've got Jody

00:39:06and Lauren pitching Kimberly.

00:39:09Yeah!

00:39:12I don't know

00:39:13what they're going to say.

00:39:14I know it won't be anything bad,

00:39:15but all these little

00:39:1720-somethings

00:39:17and my 55-year-old ass

00:39:19is going to be

00:39:20on this damn screen.

00:39:21Why the

00:39:22am I here?

00:39:23I'm so nervous now.

00:39:25I'm sweating.

00:39:26Are you ready

00:39:28to meet

00:39:29Kimberly,

00:39:31the most

00:39:32authentic,

00:39:34funny,

00:39:36military vet,

00:39:37yo?

00:39:38She has

00:39:39the biggest heart

00:39:40and she loves

00:39:42her son,

00:39:44Jamal.

00:39:45The other thing

00:39:46she loves

00:39:46more than anything

00:39:47in the world,

00:39:49cats.

00:39:51Her cats.

00:39:52You have to love cats.

00:39:54If you do not love cats,

00:39:56if you are allergic

00:39:57to cats,

00:39:58no,

00:39:58you cannot date him.

00:40:00You cannot date him.

00:40:01They sleep with him.

00:40:03Okay,

00:40:04could we have

00:40:04picked better pictures

00:40:05of Kim?

00:40:06First of all,

00:40:07could we have said

00:40:08not so much

00:40:08about the cats?

00:40:09Because now people

00:40:10probably think

00:40:10I'm a cat lady.

00:40:12Kind of true,

00:40:12but, you know.

00:40:15Questions for Kimberly?

00:40:16Raise your hand.

00:40:17Well, hello.

00:40:20Unfortunately,

00:40:21I'm under 55.

00:40:22Damn it.

00:40:22I just want to say

00:40:24thank you for your service.

00:40:25Oh, thank you so much.

00:40:26Thank you so much.

00:40:29So embarrassing.

00:40:30More questions

00:40:31for Kimberly.

00:40:34Hey,

00:40:35my dad lives in New York

00:40:37where you dated

00:40:37a man that looks far away.

00:40:40I mean,

00:40:41I dated somebody

00:40:41in Nigeria,

00:40:43so why would I not

00:40:44go to New York?

00:40:45Why the not?

00:40:48This girl wants me

00:40:49to date her dad

00:40:50and all the other guys

00:40:52here are, like, 20.

00:40:54I know my friends

00:40:55want me to find a man

00:40:57and I know they have

00:40:58the best intentions,

00:40:59but this crowd

00:41:00is just making me

00:41:01feel hella old.

00:41:03Next up,

00:41:04we've got

00:41:05the Isabel

00:41:05bitching moment.

00:41:08Okay, so what are we

00:41:09going to say to you?

00:41:09Do you want to make it?

00:41:10I don't like you.

00:41:11I'm done.

00:41:12But I love you guys.

00:41:13I appreciate it.

00:41:14I do appreciate it.

00:41:15That was amazing, right?

00:41:16We're the wind

00:41:17beneath your wings, girl.

00:41:20Oh, yep.

00:41:22I gotta go.

00:41:22Wait, wait, wait.

00:41:23What?

00:41:25What?

00:41:27I have plans

00:41:28to hook up

00:41:30right now.

00:41:31Oh!

00:41:32Wait, wait.

00:41:34So, like,

00:41:35a booty call?

00:41:36A booty call, yeah.

00:41:39People think

00:41:39that middle-aged women

00:41:40don't have sex.

00:41:41Like, it's just

00:41:42cobwebs down there.

00:41:43But

00:41:44I like to have sex.

00:41:46I like to lay

00:41:47in bed with somebody.

00:41:48I like to have

00:41:49orgasms.

00:41:49Especially now

00:41:50I got all this energy

00:41:51and lost all this

00:41:51damn weight.

00:41:52I'm like,

00:41:52hello, come to Kim.

00:41:54You guys remember

00:41:55B, right?

00:41:58I'm going to

00:41:59them.

00:42:00Oh, ho!

00:42:01Whoa!

00:42:02Okay!

00:42:16This is a great deal.

00:42:18Two for five.

00:42:18How can you beat that?

00:42:19I mean,

00:42:20I am budget conscience

00:42:21and some girls

00:42:22will hate it

00:42:23and say,

00:42:23why are you being so cheap?

00:42:25So if I'm so lucky enough

00:42:26to find a woman

00:42:27that is all about value,

00:42:29we're going to get along

00:42:30at the grocery store.

00:42:41Hi.

00:42:42Excuse me.

00:42:43Do you know

00:42:44where the package meat

00:42:47is at?

00:42:48Like, hamburger?

00:42:49Yeah,

00:42:49it's going to be down here

00:42:50on the left,

00:42:51all the way down?

00:42:52All the way down?

00:42:52Uh-huh.

00:42:53I'm really excited

00:42:54because my soon-to-be

00:42:55ex-wife was vegan.

00:42:57Oh.

00:42:58And, like,

00:42:59I could not just go

00:43:01to the grocery store

00:43:01and buy meat

00:43:02because she's vegan,

00:43:04you know?

00:43:04But now that I'm single,

00:43:07I mean,

00:43:08it's no problem.

00:43:09I feel so happy.

00:43:10You know what I'm saying.

00:43:11Yeah.

00:43:12A little ball and chain.

00:43:14Ball and chain, right.

00:43:15But thanks a lot.

00:43:16Nice talking to you.

00:43:18Sure.

00:43:18Enjoy your meat.

00:43:19Things are really

00:43:20looking positive nowadays.

00:43:22I don't feel the stress

00:43:23that I used to feel.

00:43:24I have the freedom

00:43:25to do anything I want

00:43:27and be who I really am.

00:43:29Even if it's as simple

00:43:30as going to the grocery store

00:43:33and buying meat

00:43:34and throwing it in the fridge,

00:43:35I have the freedom

00:43:36to do that now.

00:43:38Hmm.

00:43:38I think this will work.

00:43:42Take that, Jazz.

00:43:44The one thing

00:43:45that does stress me out

00:43:46a bit is dating.

00:43:49I had a lot of fun

00:43:50at the singles event

00:43:51playing kickball,

00:43:52but maybe not

00:43:53the best situation,

00:43:55like, to find a date.

00:43:58In person, you know,

00:43:59I might be a little bit

00:44:01too anxious.

00:44:02So I've been posting

00:44:03more things

00:44:04on my social media nowadays.

00:44:07It lets me curate

00:44:09the image

00:44:09I want women to have in me.

00:44:11It makes me a lot more confident

00:44:14going to meet someone

00:44:15and if I know

00:44:16this person

00:44:17is already interested

00:44:18in me,

00:44:20check this out.

00:44:21I posted a picture today

00:44:23of me working out.

00:44:25This woman says,

00:44:27sexy man,

00:44:28I definitely would not

00:44:30be able to go with you

00:44:31because I'll be looking at you

00:44:34instead of the trainer

00:44:35while I'm drawing.

00:44:41I have lots of women

00:44:43sliding into my DMs lately

00:44:45and I love it.

00:44:46I freaking love it.

00:44:50Oh, someone's messaging me.

00:44:54Who is it?

00:44:56Natalie's replying

00:44:57to my workout post

00:44:58and she says,

00:44:59great job.

00:45:01She's proud of me.

00:45:02Natalie is a woman

00:45:04that I dated

00:45:05about eight months ago

00:45:06when Jasmine and I

00:45:08were on really shaky ground.

00:45:11You're like a super amazing person.

00:45:13Thank you.

00:45:13So are you.

00:45:14And you're just so adorable too.

00:45:17Look at your smile.

00:45:18It's so cute.

00:45:19Oh, you're so sweet.

00:45:22I thought Natalie and I,

00:45:24we could have

00:45:25a real future together.

00:45:26But when I brought her

00:45:27to my cousin's birthday party

00:45:29and Jasmine showed up,

00:45:30everything went to hell.

00:45:32Why are we bringing

00:45:32to get the horse from Vegas?

00:45:35Oh, really?

00:45:36You should watch her.

00:45:36Don't get close to me.

00:45:38Don't go home.

00:45:39Don't touch her.

00:45:39Don't you.

00:45:40Relax, relax.

00:45:41No, no.

00:45:42Don't get this.

00:45:44Get off me.

00:45:46We didn't talk

00:45:47for almost a year

00:45:49and then Natalie and I,

00:45:51we reconnected

00:45:52at the Happily Ever After tele.

00:45:54And we've been texting

00:45:55each other ever since.

00:45:57Yeah, I responded to her.

00:45:59But I added some emojis to it.

00:46:01And, like, the heart emoji

00:46:03and the heart head

00:46:05with the three hearts

00:46:05around the head.

00:46:07You know, I want to get

00:46:08her attention.

00:46:08Like, hey, you know,

00:46:11I'm still interested in you.

00:46:13I still like Natalie a lot.

00:46:14So I asked her

00:46:16if I could visit her next week.

00:46:18And she said yes.

00:46:20You know, this is soft.

00:46:22I mean, it's exactly

00:46:24how I like my women.

00:46:25Soft.

00:46:26This is my chance

00:46:27to build a relationship

00:46:29with her.

00:46:30But after everything

00:46:31that's happened,

00:46:32it's going to take

00:46:33a lot of work.

00:46:34I really feel like

00:46:36I have a lot to prove

00:46:37with Natalie,

00:46:38like, with actions,

00:46:39not just words.

00:46:40I know it's my last shot

00:46:42and I cannot mess it up.

00:46:44Now, that I could post

00:46:45on my Instagram,

00:46:46that big-ass cucumber.

00:46:52Pedro's arranged a van

00:46:53for me and the girls

00:46:54to get around with.

00:46:56Oh!

00:46:57Candle in the car!

00:46:59The van alone, cute.

00:47:01But the other stuff,

00:47:02I feel very overwhelmed.

00:47:04He's coming on very strong.

00:47:06Ah!

00:47:06Pedro!

00:47:07He has a ring in his hands.

00:47:28This is my first night

00:47:30in the VR.

00:47:31And I am going out

00:47:32with Sophie and Julian.

00:47:34And we are actually

00:47:36going to go meet Pedro.

00:47:37I was told that Pedro

00:47:39is bringing some

00:47:40single friends,

00:47:41so I'm super excited

00:47:42right now.

00:47:50I need to get a spark

00:47:52back in my life.

00:47:54I live in Washington.

00:47:56It's always gloomy.

00:47:58There's hardly any sunshine.

00:48:00And it can be

00:48:01very depressing at times.

00:48:03So when Sophie planned

00:48:05a girls' trip,

00:48:06I was all about it.

00:48:08I need sun kisses

00:48:09from head to toe.

00:48:11I am really excited.

00:48:13I want to get dressed up.

00:48:13I want to go out.

00:48:14I want to meet people.

00:48:15I want to mingle.

00:48:16I want to flirt.

00:48:17And I want to feel sexy.

00:48:19I have jumped from relationship

00:48:20to relationship

00:48:21to relationship.

00:48:22And looking back,

00:48:24I've never picked

00:48:25the right guy.

00:48:25And I've given

00:48:26the wrong guy

00:48:27way too many chances.

00:48:31Um, I think you're amazing.

00:48:33And I want to ask you

00:48:34out on a date.

00:48:36One of my last relationships

00:48:37was Ed.

00:48:39It just took me a while

00:48:40to get used to

00:48:40your beautiful face.

00:48:42But, um...

00:48:42It took me a while

00:48:43to get used to you.

00:48:45Burn!

00:48:46We were kind of always

00:48:47a hot mess.

00:48:48Hey, go yourself.

00:48:50Bye.

00:48:51Liz, Liz, Liz.

00:48:52You are out of control,

00:48:54you drunk.

00:48:54Shut the up.

00:48:56You don't give a

00:48:56Ed.

00:48:58But, despite all that,

00:49:00I truly had fallen

00:49:02in love with Ed

00:49:02and always wanted

00:49:03to make it work.

00:49:05Will you marry me?

00:49:08Oh!

00:49:10But then,

00:49:11Ed ended the relationship

00:49:12one month before the wedding.

00:49:14You're going to be

00:49:15the best person of yourself

00:49:16and it's not going

00:49:17to be with me.

00:49:19Liz, rest assured,

00:49:21I'm always going

00:49:22to be an asshole.

00:49:25Then came Jason.

00:49:27You're in the past.

00:49:28We're going to move forward.

00:49:29Starting today,

00:49:30you will never

00:49:31disrespect her again.

00:49:32Otherwise,

00:49:32you're going to have

00:49:32to deal with me.

00:49:34Four months into

00:49:35dating Jason,

00:49:36I found out

00:49:37that he had another

00:49:38girlfriend that he

00:49:39was dating for a year.

00:49:41And then,

00:49:42the time that I needed

00:49:43him to step up

00:49:44and be there for me

00:49:45the most,

00:49:45like, he didn't.

00:49:46He couldn't.

00:49:48A couple months ago,

00:49:50right before I broke

00:49:50up with Jason,

00:49:52I didn't get the best news.

00:49:55I had a mass

00:49:56that was growing

00:49:57in my stomach.

00:49:59It turned out

00:50:00to be pre-stage one

00:50:01ovarian cancer,

00:50:03which I actually

00:50:03found out

00:50:04through a miscarriage

00:50:06that Jason and I had.

00:50:09And I'm so grateful

00:50:10for that

00:50:10because

00:50:10it helped me catch

00:50:13me being sick,

00:50:14but

00:50:19I think I can touch it.

00:50:25Being sick

00:50:25took a huge toll

00:50:26on me.

00:50:28But I also know

00:50:29that I'm going to

00:50:29overcome it.

00:50:31I'm really hopeful

00:50:33about my future.

00:50:34I don't want to waste

00:50:36any moment.

00:50:38I want to

00:50:40live my life

00:50:41and I really do

00:50:42want to find love again.

00:50:45Girls' Night!

00:50:47I deserve the best

00:50:48and I've definitely

00:50:50learned that life

00:50:51is too short

00:50:52to accept anything else.

00:50:53I'll bet you're

00:50:54missing me now.

00:51:01I'm real, my soul!

00:51:03I don't remember

00:51:04the last time

00:51:05I went clubbing.

00:51:06Really?

00:51:07Yeah.

00:51:07Mine was like

00:51:08two days before this trailer.

00:51:10It's my first night

00:51:11in the DR

00:51:12and I have my girls

00:51:13with me,

00:51:13but I'm also really

00:51:14looking forward

00:51:15to just spending

00:51:15some time with Pedro.

00:51:16Hello?

00:51:17Oh my gosh.

00:51:18Pedro's arranged

00:51:19a van for me

00:51:20and the girls

00:51:21to basically use

00:51:22in the DR

00:51:22and get around with

00:51:23which I feel like

00:51:24that's really

00:51:24thoughtful and sweet.

00:51:25Bye.

00:51:27Hello!

00:51:29Oh!

00:51:33Oh my God!

00:51:35Oh my goodness!

00:51:37Oh my goodness.

00:51:38Okay, should I hop

00:51:38in the back?

00:51:39I'm sorry,

00:51:41that is like

00:51:41candle in the car.

00:51:45Candle in the car!

00:51:47The van alone,

00:51:48cute,

00:51:49but the other stuff

00:51:50I feel very overwhelmed

00:51:51and I just feel like

00:51:53he's coming on

00:51:54very strong.

00:51:55I feel like

00:51:56that's his welcome

00:51:57to his country.

00:51:58I don't think

00:51:58that's too much.

00:52:00Candle in the car,

00:52:01okay.

00:52:02Candle in the car

00:52:03has blown my mind.

00:52:05Can I just applaud

00:52:06how adorable

00:52:07and sexy this is?

00:52:09No, it's really cute.

00:52:10It's cute.

00:52:11It is cute.

00:52:12It is cute.

00:52:13Okay, I'm...

00:52:15Did he do the bowl as well?

00:52:17I don't know.

00:52:18Pedro put this

00:52:19in more than a sexy vibe,

00:52:21but he forgot

00:52:22we will be there too.

00:52:23It's a sexy vibe

00:52:24for me and my friends.

00:52:26Nani nani, Pedro.

00:52:28She's trying to say naughty.

00:52:30I speak Julia language.

00:52:32Yeah.

00:52:33This translator.

00:52:34Yeah.

00:52:35Do you want to kiss him?

00:52:36Yeah.

00:52:37If he goes,

00:52:37I'm probably going to...

00:52:38Well, yeah,

00:52:39we haven't done anything yet,

00:52:40you know,

00:52:40so it's like,

00:52:41I'm going to hug him.

00:52:42Do we keep the tequila

00:52:43out of your hands

00:52:44or do we put it

00:52:45in your hands?

00:52:45Put it in my hands.

00:52:46Okay.

00:52:47In my hands.

00:52:56Let's go.

00:52:57Dance homage.

00:53:08It's been two and a half months

00:53:09the last time I saw Sophie.

00:53:10I hope that she still

00:53:12had the same feeling

00:53:13for me.

00:53:14Maybe you could show me

00:53:16cause I've been waiting

00:53:17so long.

00:53:22Ah!

00:53:23It's Pedro!

00:53:24Where is he?

00:53:24He has a ring

00:53:25in his hands.

00:53:26Shut up.

00:53:27He has a ring of flowers

00:53:28and the red carpet.

00:53:30He's even got him

00:53:31like a phone.

00:53:35You got this, girl.

00:53:39Wow!

00:53:41You look good.

00:53:43You look good.

00:53:43Thank you.

00:53:44How are you?

00:53:45How you been?

00:53:45I'm good.

00:53:46How are you?

00:53:46How about the fly?

00:53:47It's long.

00:53:48It's okay.

00:53:50She looked

00:53:52like stunning.

00:53:53She looked stunning.

00:53:55Oh,

00:53:55the hug that she gave me

00:53:56was very awkward.

00:53:58Hull like a brother.

00:53:59She looked like a,

00:54:01like a,

00:54:01like a side hug.

00:54:03Like,

00:54:05even the baseball,

00:54:06they give you a little spanky.

00:54:07Oh,

00:54:08good job,

00:54:09bam!

00:54:12Introduce me to you.

00:54:13Oh, yeah,

00:54:14that's Liz.

00:54:15Oh, yeah.

00:54:15I see you.

00:54:16Hi.

00:54:18How's it going?

00:54:19How's it going?

00:54:20How's it going?

00:54:20That's the first time

00:54:21that I met Julia.

00:54:22And then she hugged me

00:54:23with someone's sighting,

00:54:24like,

00:54:24God damn it.

00:54:25Like,

00:54:25Sophie,

00:54:26come on,

00:54:27get Julia's energy,

00:54:28please.

00:54:28You love it?

00:54:29I'm ready to be here.

00:54:31Nice to meet you.

00:54:32Liz.

00:54:33Okay,

00:54:34ladies,

00:54:34we're going to go out there

00:54:36to the rooftop.

00:54:37You're going to meet my friends,

00:54:38enjoy the night.

00:54:40Follow me,

00:54:40ladies.

00:54:41Okay,

00:54:41which way should we go?

00:54:41How you doing?

00:54:43I'm doing good.

00:54:43How are you?

00:54:44Good, good, good.

00:54:45Do this one?

00:54:46Yeah.

00:54:56Okay,

00:54:57okay,

00:54:58um,

00:54:59guys,

00:55:00let me introduce you.

00:55:23I can tell Pedro's very excited

00:55:25for all his friends to meet me,

00:55:28which,

00:55:29it's nice,

00:55:30but it feels like

00:55:31I'm like walking in

00:55:32to like a job interview

00:55:33or like I'm supposed

00:55:34to give a speech

00:55:35or something

00:55:35because they were just

00:55:36sat there like this at me.

00:55:39Okay.

00:55:40Hey,

00:55:40should we sit?

00:55:41Uh,

00:55:41let me.

00:55:45I already feel like

00:55:47there's expectation of me

00:55:48and I'm kind of brought here

00:55:50as Pedro's girlfriend.

00:55:52It's just kind of

00:55:53freaking me out

00:55:54a little bit.

00:55:57Let's just go pee.

00:55:59We're just going to go to the bottom real quick.

00:56:00Okay,

00:56:01go to the bottom.

00:56:02You know where the bottom at?

00:56:03We'll find it.

00:56:05Huh?

00:56:05We'll find it.

00:56:12That's...

00:56:14That's energy, bro.

00:56:15I don't know.

00:56:16What's life?

00:56:17I don't know.

00:56:18I don't know.

00:56:21What's very awkward?

00:56:23I'm excited that Sophie is here,

00:56:25but right now

00:56:26it's still cold,

00:56:29indifference,

00:56:30weird,

00:56:30you know,

00:56:31like,

00:56:32awkward.

00:56:34Sophie,

00:56:34entirely different person

00:56:35than I met before.

00:56:40Sexually,

00:56:41he is good.

00:56:42He's great with me.

00:56:43And his is big.

00:56:44So there you go.

00:56:46Even though I'm in my 50s,

00:56:48I still have urges.

00:56:49I still have needs.

00:56:53Ooh.

00:57:07I have plans to

00:57:09hook up right now.

00:57:11Oh,

00:57:11oh!

00:57:12Whoa!

00:57:12All right!

00:57:14I'm feeling too fly.

00:57:16Yeah.

00:57:16I've been going way up.

00:57:18Yeah.

00:57:19Give me my paper.

00:57:20Cause you already know.

00:57:21Wait.

00:57:22Wait.

00:57:23So, like,

00:57:25a booty call.

00:57:26A booty call.

00:57:27Yeah.

00:57:28So,

00:57:28a booty call

00:57:29is when you're not

00:57:30in a relationship

00:57:31and you just

00:57:32meet up with one

00:57:33of your little friends

00:57:34and, you know,

00:57:35you have some

00:57:35drinky drinks

00:57:36and then

00:57:37do the deed

00:57:38and then you just

00:57:39go home.

00:57:40Even though I'm

00:57:41in my 50s,

00:57:42I still have urges.

00:57:43I still have needs.

00:57:44And it, like,

00:57:45gets the needs met.

00:57:46You know what?

00:57:47It's a step

00:57:48in the right direction.

00:57:50Why not?

00:57:51I'm meeting up

00:57:52with Benjamin,

00:57:53or as everybody

00:57:53calls him,

00:57:54B.

00:57:55He's a really good

00:57:56friend of mine

00:57:56and I dated him

00:57:57for about six months

00:57:58before I met Usman.

00:58:01Once Usman and I

00:58:02broke up

00:58:02and he knew it,

00:58:03he just slid

00:58:04right in the DMs

00:58:05and we've been

00:58:06banging it out

00:58:07ever since.

00:58:10It's tricky

00:58:11with me and B

00:58:11because the connection

00:58:13is there.

00:58:13Like, you can feel it,

00:58:14you know?

00:58:15But he's just

00:58:15a friend with benefits.

00:58:17I just don't feel

00:58:18like we're at that point

00:58:19to make it a relationship.

00:58:21When B and I

00:58:22tried to date,

00:58:23like, five,

00:58:24six years ago,

00:58:25we were doing

00:58:26pretty good.

00:58:27We have a lot

00:58:27of things in common

00:58:28and then about

00:58:29six months in,

00:58:30B hit me up

00:58:31with he wanted

00:58:31to be, like,

00:58:32in a thropple.

00:58:33He wanted me

00:58:34to have sex

00:58:35with the woman

00:58:36and I was just like,

00:58:37are you high?

00:58:38No, I'm not doing that.

00:58:40He was very

00:58:41free-spirited back then

00:58:42and Kim was not.

00:58:43Sexually,

00:58:44B is,

00:58:44he's good.

00:58:45He's great with me

00:58:46and his is big

00:58:47so there you go.

00:58:48Huh?

00:58:48You had that

00:58:49with Usman though.

00:58:50It was the same thing.

00:58:52You had the connection

00:58:52but there was

00:58:53all these other

00:58:53red flags.

00:58:54That's how I feel

00:58:55and I don't want

00:58:55the red flags.

00:58:57Being a woman

00:58:59of a certain age

00:59:00that we all are,

00:59:03it is refreshing

00:59:06for me to see her

00:59:09having a little bit

00:59:10of a hoe phase.

00:59:12You know what?

00:59:13I'm all for that.

00:59:14Are you for that?

00:59:14Yeah, I think she,

00:59:15I mean,

00:59:16get it out of her system

00:59:17for a little bit

00:59:17until she finds

00:59:18the right one.

00:59:19Friends with benefits,

00:59:20whatever they have

00:59:21is a good connection.

00:59:22I'm down for it.

00:59:23Yeah.

00:59:23Okay, love you.

00:59:24I love you.

00:59:24All right, bye.

00:59:25I love you.

00:59:26Love you too.

00:59:26But we want her

00:59:27to find somebody

00:59:28that is truly special

00:59:30and truly someone

00:59:31that she can fall in love

00:59:32with and that loves her.

00:59:34True.

00:59:35He ain't the one.

00:59:36No.

00:59:36But for tonight,

00:59:37he is the one.

00:59:45Be and I have been hooking up

00:59:46every couple of weeks

00:59:47in some really nice hotels

00:59:49because he has roommates

00:59:50and with my house,

00:59:51I never know

00:59:52if Jamal's going to show up

00:59:53or not.

00:59:59At first,

00:59:59it was a little inconvenient,

01:00:00but I have to tell you,

01:00:01like, hotel sex

01:00:02is kind of hot.

01:00:03Nice hotel sex.

01:00:04Double touch, double touch,

01:00:05double touch, double touch,

01:00:07double touch, double touch.

01:00:13Yeah.

01:00:15Ooh.

01:00:15Yeah.

01:00:17Come on in.

01:00:18I've been waiting to see you.

01:00:22It's good to see you, Michelle.

01:00:23So much.

01:00:24I know.

01:00:25I know.

01:00:25Hell yeah.

01:00:26Come on in.

01:00:27This is nice, B.

01:00:28I know, right?

01:00:28So much nicer than

01:00:30those old hotels

01:00:31we used to get.

01:00:32Oh, man.

01:00:34Back in the day.

01:00:35Isn't that crazy?

01:00:36Absolutely.

01:00:37Look at us now.

01:00:37You look beautiful,

01:00:38as usual.

01:00:39I try.

01:00:40My name is Benjamin,

01:00:42but everybody calls me B

01:00:44because I'm like the bumblebee.

01:00:46I'll always be buzzing around

01:00:48and you never know

01:00:49where I'll land at.

01:00:50This is a good bed.

01:00:51This is nice.

01:00:52Look at that.

01:00:53This is a big bed.

01:00:54This is a big bed.

01:00:55The reason why me and Kim

01:00:56keep coming back to each other

01:00:57is definitely because

01:00:59of the friendship

01:00:59that we have together.

01:01:00She's somebody I definitely like.

01:01:03I rock with.

01:01:05So I went to this

01:01:06like dating event thing.

01:01:08You know what I'm saying?

01:01:09Yeah.

01:01:09See, this is why I love you

01:01:10because we can talk

01:01:11about this stuff, right?

01:01:12Of course.

01:01:13So it was Laura and Jody

01:01:14and my friend Lily.

01:01:15Right.

01:01:16And they pitched me.

01:01:17So it was called

01:01:18Pitch a Friend.

01:01:19It was a slideshow presentation

01:01:21about-

01:01:22Like a real slideshow?

01:01:23Yes.

01:01:23Like with pictures?

01:01:24Yeah, of me.

01:01:25And then like my likes

01:01:26and dislikes

01:01:27and all this stuff.

01:01:27So it was cool.

01:01:29It was very touching.

01:01:30But it just was not my thing.

01:01:32Sometimes I tell B about me

01:01:34like meeting other guys

01:01:35or like this whole

01:01:36Pitch a Friend thing

01:01:36because I want to see

01:01:37what he's going to say.

01:01:38Like, don't do that.

01:01:40Let me try to be your man.

01:01:41B and I are good together

01:01:42and I know he sees it.

01:01:44And I was kind of hoping

01:01:45that with age

01:01:46that B would like,

01:01:47you know, calm it down

01:01:47a little bit

01:01:48with the sexcapades

01:01:49and want to be

01:01:50in a monogamous relationship.

01:01:52We've known each other forever.

01:01:54Yeah, I miss you so much.

01:01:55I miss you too.

01:01:56Like, we're cool.

01:01:57Like, we're friends

01:01:57with benefits now

01:01:58and I love that.

01:01:59But like, I'd like maybe

01:02:00to see it grow

01:02:01to see what else it could be.

01:02:04We've always talked about it,

01:02:05you know?

01:02:06And the only way

01:02:07we're going to find that out

01:02:08is with more time.

01:02:09Mm-hmm.

01:02:10We should plan like

01:02:10once every two weeks.

01:02:14When we can.

01:02:17You haven't even been

01:02:17to my house yet.

01:02:18No, but I'm...

01:02:20It's so crazy.

01:02:20I'm coming.

01:02:26Yeah.

01:02:27Okay.

01:02:28I am tired

01:02:29and I just want

01:02:30to go take a shower.

01:02:30Is that okay?

01:02:31Yeah, of course.

01:02:32Okay.

01:02:33I'll give you a massage

01:02:34once I get out of the shower.

01:02:35So,

01:02:36I'm just,

01:02:37I'm just,

01:02:39baby, baby, please.

01:02:40Baby, baby, baby, baby, please.

01:02:41What?

01:02:41Can you show me

01:02:43like what that,

01:02:44what my death,

01:02:45that might feel like?

01:02:46Yes.

01:02:46Let's go.

01:02:47Let me see.

01:02:48Let me see.

01:02:50I have a good hand.

01:02:52I love B to death

01:02:53and I would love

01:02:54to be in a relationship

01:02:55with him

01:02:55and I'm putting out

01:02:56the vibe

01:02:57but he is not picking up

01:02:58what Kim is putting down.

01:02:59So,

01:03:00I mean,

01:03:00where do we go from here?

01:03:02Ooh.

01:03:03Dang, girl.

01:03:04I'm going to go

01:03:05take a shower.

01:03:05I don't want to be

01:03:06shuffling with my walker

01:03:08up to a hotel room

01:03:09when I'm 80 years old.

01:03:10I just want more.

01:03:11for myself.

01:03:12So, if B doesn't

01:03:13step up soon,

01:03:14I mean,

01:03:14this whole relationship

01:03:15is going to have

01:03:16an expiration date.

01:03:17I'm not going to keep waiting.

01:03:22Tradeling today

01:03:23to see Natalie again.

01:03:25God,

01:03:25aren't these sexy?

01:03:27I mean,

01:03:27holy cow.

01:03:28I hope she gives me

01:03:29a second chance

01:03:30and more importantly,

01:03:32I hope I don't mess it up.

01:03:51Why are you packing up shampoo?

01:03:53Well, I got to wash the hair, right?

01:03:55The little hair that I have,

01:03:56the patch of hair

01:03:57on the back of my head.

01:03:58I shampoo it,

01:04:00I condition it,

01:04:01I take very good care of it.

01:04:03That's the only hair

01:04:04I got left on my head.

01:04:06I've got a good thing going

01:04:08and I'll never slow them down.

01:04:17I want to look good for Natalie,

01:04:18you know,

01:04:19so I bought a couple of new shirts.

01:04:23Hopefully she'll like them.

01:04:25I can't wait to hop on a plane

01:04:27and go see Natalie.

01:04:29They're colorful.

01:04:31That's for sure.

01:04:33Definitely colorful.

01:04:35I visited Natalie

01:04:36in Vegas previously

01:04:37because that's where

01:04:38her home's at.

01:04:39This time,

01:04:41I'm going to travel to D.C.

01:04:43because she's currently

01:04:44working remotely there.

01:04:45God,

01:04:46aren't these sexy?

01:04:47I mean,

01:04:47holy cow,

01:04:48that's some sexy-ass

01:04:50underwear right here.

01:04:51A lot of our talks

01:04:53through text and such

01:04:54has been a lot of small talk

01:04:56to be honest

01:04:57and hasn't been very deep.

01:05:00So I really,

01:05:01really don't know

01:05:02how Natalie feels about me.

01:05:05But I don't think

01:05:06she would invite me

01:05:07to her apartment

01:05:08if she didn't have

01:05:09any feelings for me.

01:05:12I don't need

01:05:13my little blue pills

01:05:14and I'm not packing any

01:05:16because

01:05:17the little blue pills

01:05:18I need for someone

01:05:19that is ugly

01:05:21on the inside

01:05:22and a constant bitch.

01:05:24Then I need something

01:05:25to pump me up.

01:05:26But Natalie's

01:05:26a different story

01:05:27because

01:05:29just her personality

01:05:30and attitude,

01:05:31the way she is,

01:05:32I'm going to get it up, man.

01:05:35All right.

01:05:36I think we got it.

01:05:39Woo-hoo!

01:05:43I'm in the thrift store

01:05:45wondering what to do

01:05:46with my life

01:05:47and through the back door

01:05:49and she comes

01:05:50sharp as the knife

01:05:51Time to board.

01:05:52I'll see you soon, Natalie.

01:05:54I've been through

01:05:55so much misery

01:05:56and heartbreak

01:05:57for the last two years,

01:05:58so trying to put myself

01:06:00out there again,

01:06:02it's not easy.

01:06:03Woo-hoo!

01:06:04Woo-hoo!

01:06:05Woo-hoo!

01:06:06Woo-hoo!

01:06:07Woo-hoo!

01:06:08Woo-hoo!

01:06:08There's not many times

01:06:09that you can get

01:06:10a second chance

01:06:11and especially

01:06:12with a woman

01:06:13that's high quality

01:06:15like Natalie is.

01:06:18Everything is possible

01:06:19now

01:06:23Good morning.

01:06:24Good morning.

01:06:25How are you?

01:06:27Doing great.

01:06:28Doing great.

01:06:28My first time

01:06:29in Washington, D.C.

01:06:30I'm excited.

01:06:31Excited.

01:06:31I hope you enjoy your stay.

01:06:33Thank you.

01:06:33I'm so excited

01:06:34to be here to see

01:06:36who I'm meeting today.

01:06:37on top of her

01:06:39having a great personality

01:06:40and caring

01:06:41and fun

01:06:42and kind,

01:06:43she is a hot,

01:06:44sexy,

01:06:45passionate Latina,

01:06:46let me tell you.

01:06:47She's on fire, man.

01:06:48She's on fire, baby.

01:06:53Oh, is this it?

01:06:54Yeah, this is it.

01:06:56Thank you.

01:06:57You're welcome.

01:06:57I'm meeting Natalie

01:06:58at a tea shop

01:06:59near her office.

01:07:00The plan is to

01:07:01catch up a little

01:07:02and then go

01:07:03check out her apartment.

01:07:17How are you feeling?

01:07:19Well,

01:07:20I'm super excited

01:07:21to see her

01:07:23and hang out with her

01:07:24and,

01:07:24but I have some nervousness.

01:07:26It's a little nerve-wracking.

01:07:32and my heart's racing a bit.

01:07:35That's what Natalie does to me.

01:07:37Come on.

01:07:48I hope that Natalie

01:07:49gives me a second chance,

01:07:50but more importantly,

01:07:52I hope I don't mess it up.

01:07:55Hey!

01:07:59What is your name again?

01:08:01Via.

01:08:01Via?

01:08:02Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:08:02Oh, you don't do the kiss thing?

01:08:04Yeah, yeah, yeah.

01:08:05No, there you go,

01:08:06there you go.

01:08:07Via is very good looking

01:08:11and he smells expensive.

01:08:14Honestly,

01:08:15if I never wanted

01:08:15to get divorced,

01:08:16like, he would still be married.

01:08:18Any hookahs with him?

01:08:20I don't want to be

01:08:21collateral damage

01:08:22for somebody

01:08:23that don't know

01:08:23what it wants.

01:08:24What the f***

01:08:25are we doing here?

01:08:36How do you feel right now?

01:08:38I don't know why

01:08:39his energy just gives me,

01:08:40like,

01:08:40I just feel like

01:08:41in his head

01:08:42we're in a relationship.

01:08:44Like, if you ask him,

01:08:44I feel like he's like,

01:08:45yeah, that's my girl.

01:08:48Uh-huh.

01:08:55They take a long time

01:08:56in the restroom,

01:08:57what they're doing?

01:08:59Nobody tell you,

01:09:00you can have fun.

01:09:02Just have fun.

01:09:03I feel like he won't

01:09:04let me have fun now.

01:09:06Like, now he's gonna feel like

01:09:07she's in my country,

01:09:09she's meeting my friends.

01:09:11Like, I feel like maybe

01:09:12he's giving off

01:09:12the wrong vibe.

01:09:13You just loosen up

01:09:14a little bit

01:09:14with a couple drinks

01:09:15and you'll be good.

01:09:18That's just the other goes.

01:09:20It'll be a good night.

01:09:21Yeah.

01:09:22You know what?

01:09:22Help me meet my man.

01:09:24Yeah.

01:09:25Kitty's thirsty.

01:09:28Me and the girls

01:09:29just arrived at the club

01:09:30to meet Pedro

01:09:30and his friends

01:09:31and it's a very

01:09:32overwhelming environment.

01:09:34Sorry, uh,

01:09:35you can sit down.

01:09:37Um, uh,

01:09:38you can sit over here.

01:09:39Sophie.

01:09:40I already started

01:09:41to feel overwhelmed

01:09:41in the van

01:09:42and now I just feel

01:09:43like he's thinking

01:09:44this is my girlfriend,

01:09:45she's meeting all my friends

01:09:46and it's not the vibe

01:09:47that I've been in

01:09:48with him before.

01:09:49Which, that's what

01:09:50I loved before.

01:09:51It was so easy going

01:09:51and this feels a little bit,

01:09:52a little bit pressure.

01:09:55Lisa, I'm going to

01:09:55introduce you to my friend

01:09:56Villa.

01:09:57What is your name again?

01:09:59Villa.

01:09:59Villa?

01:10:00Yeah, it's nice to meet you.

01:10:01Oh, you don't do

01:10:01the kiss thing?

01:10:02No, I don't think

01:10:03that's what we're doing.

01:10:04You just can't even care.

01:10:05No, there you go,

01:10:06there you go.

01:10:08Villa is very good looking.

01:10:11He's very well groomed,

01:10:13like his haircut's on point

01:10:15and he smells really good.

01:10:17He smells expensive.

01:10:20Cheers, thank you

01:10:21for inviting us out.

01:10:23Cheers, let's go.

01:10:25Arriba, arriba, arriba,

01:10:28abajo, pal centro, adentro.

01:10:34That's it?

01:10:37That's when I feel like

01:10:40one, five, two.

01:10:46There, you got it.

01:10:53As we're dancing,

01:10:54I can tell we're both

01:10:55very attracted to each other.

01:10:56Get close, get close,

01:10:57get close to me.

01:10:59No, get close to me.

01:11:00No worry.

01:11:01He just smells really good,

01:11:03he dresses well,

01:11:04and he's just hot.

01:11:06But even though I'm attracted to him,

01:11:08I don't want to be all over him

01:11:09the first night

01:11:10and lead him on

01:11:11because I still don't really

01:11:11know what I want yet.

01:11:15So you've never

01:11:15danced bachata before?

01:11:17I was trying to sign up

01:11:17for bachata lessons

01:11:19while I'm out here.

01:11:19It's so easy.

01:11:20I can teach you that.

01:11:21Okay.

01:11:24We can start here, right?

01:11:26So it's one, two, three.

01:11:29Oh, you do know!

01:11:33One, two.

01:11:34One, two.

01:11:35One, two.

01:11:36And bam, bam, bam, bam, bam.

01:11:39No!

01:11:42I don't know.

01:11:43You lied to me.

01:11:45You said she didn't know.

01:11:46She said she was going to take classes.

01:11:47I said I wanted to do one last thing.

01:11:49No.

01:11:53I don't know.

01:11:53Let's go over here better.

01:11:56Everyone just left.

01:11:58That's okay.

01:12:00They needed that alone time.

01:12:01Yeah.

01:12:02You look beautiful.

01:12:03You look gorgeous.

01:12:04Thank you.

01:12:05Thank you.

01:12:05I'm super happy

01:12:07that you're here.

01:12:08Oh, yeah.

01:12:08That you take the invitation

01:12:09to come in here,

01:12:10to spend a little time with me.

01:12:11I know you want to have

01:12:13the best time.

01:12:14I woke up

01:12:15and I had a pina colada

01:12:16for breakfast

01:12:18because I'm in a DR.

01:12:21Wow, that's a lie.

01:12:24You don't need classes.

01:12:25No class?

01:12:26No.

01:12:27I think Liz likes your friend.

01:12:29Yeah, look.

01:12:29Do you?

01:12:30Yeah.

01:12:32So are you from here

01:12:33I was born

01:12:35in Atlanta.

01:12:37When's your birth date?

01:12:39September.

01:12:39September?

01:12:40I'm May, baby.

01:12:41I'm a Gemini.

01:12:42You're a Gemini?

01:12:43Yeah, what is your size?

01:12:45I'm a Libra.

01:12:46Okay.

01:12:46I feel like us Libras

01:12:47are pretty well balanced,

01:12:49which is...

01:12:51Is this your only tattoo?

01:12:53Oh.

01:12:53Yeah.

01:12:53Wow.

01:12:54It's a whole sleeve.

01:12:55It's a Libra.

01:12:56So a woman with the

01:12:57blindfold and the scale.

01:13:01What's this?

01:13:02Oh, it's my son's name.

01:13:04I have a kid.

01:13:08Riley Leanne.

01:13:09You have a kid?

01:13:10Yeah.

01:13:10Really?

01:13:11She's going to be 12.

01:13:13You have a 12-year-old?

01:13:14Yeah.

01:13:15My baby means everything to me.

01:13:16Same.

01:13:17Yeah.

01:13:17Same.

01:13:17He is my reason for everything.

01:13:20Definitely.

01:13:23I'm feeling butterflies talking to Via.

01:13:26There'll be eight in July.

01:13:27He's sweet.

01:13:29He loves his kid.

01:13:30He's making eye contact with me.

01:13:32We're having great conversation.

01:13:35I think we need a drink to that.

01:13:36I think we need a shot.

01:13:39Is your friend a home?

01:13:40He is?

01:13:42Ah.

01:13:43He is a home.

01:13:44It's okay.

01:13:45This isn't her single era.

01:13:47So this is her time to just, like,

01:13:49live her life a little bit.

01:13:50Same with me.

01:13:51I'm not in a toxic relationship.

01:13:53You're separated right now.

01:13:54Are you still married?

01:13:55Are you divorced?

01:13:58How, how, how, how that goes?

01:14:00Like, I'm still technically married,

01:14:02but I'm, like, started the process of divorce.

01:14:05But we're still talking.

01:14:06How far you are now?

01:14:09Like, just now.

01:14:11So it's very new.

01:14:13It never really felt like it was the end

01:14:15because he would still call me.

01:14:17He still called you?

01:14:18He called me two days ago,

01:14:19four in the morning.

01:14:20For what?

01:14:20It was an unknown number

01:14:22because I have me blocked.

01:14:23And he was like,

01:14:23why do you have me blocked?

01:14:24I'm like, we're getting divorced.

01:14:28Why, why are you so upset with you?

01:14:30Like, why do you not can move on?

01:14:31Honestly, if I never wanted to get divorced,

01:14:33like, he would still be mad.

01:14:35I told that Sophie and her husband's divorce

01:14:38was more fight alone

01:14:40because she tell me he was the worst husband,

01:14:44that he, he made her, like, miserable all the time.

01:14:48If that guy threw you that bad,

01:14:50why you get the phone calls and answer the phone?

01:14:53Any hookers with him?

01:15:00Yeah.

01:15:03We, like, hooked up after a few months

01:15:05because as much as that guy was horrible to me,

01:15:08I still had love for him.

01:15:09When he was being nice to me,

01:15:11I forgot about all the bad memories.

01:15:13And so we slept together.

01:15:17They've been hookups.

01:15:18And she never told me they did hookup before.

01:15:21I am speechless.

01:15:23It's hard when you love someone.

01:15:24I can't just be like,

01:15:25I, you, bye, you know?

01:15:27Look, if you want to be with Rob,

01:15:29okay, be with Rob,

01:15:30or be with every guy that you want to be.

01:15:33But I don't want to be collateral damage

01:15:35for somebody they don't know what it wants.

01:15:37What the we doing here?

01:15:42I wish I would have just handled

01:15:44this whole situation better,

01:15:46you know, but now I have to just...

01:15:47I wish you did too.

01:15:48I've been carrying a really big secret

01:15:50for about 30 years.

01:15:52I'm sorry that I hurt you so bad.

01:15:54I don't, I don't know what I up, you know?

01:16:10I'm just getting home from my night with B.

01:16:13Even at 55,

01:16:14I'm still doing the walk of shame.

01:16:16Hey, I'm not gonna fall in your line.

01:16:21Hey, I'm a hard-working woman

01:16:23and I do what I like.

01:16:25Hey!

01:16:26Come on, let me get you some treats.

01:16:28I'm falling in your arms.

01:16:29Hey!

01:16:30Hi, my baby.

01:16:30I'm unapologetically

01:16:31and we do what I like.

01:16:33Last night was pretty amazing.

01:16:35B's really good in bed,

01:16:37I have to say.

01:16:39And usually after a night like that,

01:16:40I'm feeling all zen and woosah

01:16:42and, you know, calm.

01:16:44But right now,

01:16:45I'm feeling a little anxious and nervous

01:16:46because Jamal's coming over.

01:16:48So good to be out of those clothes.

01:16:50Oh, my God.

01:16:52He thinks he's coming over here

01:16:53to help me build a dresser,

01:16:54but really,

01:16:55I have some things

01:16:56I need to talk to him about.

01:17:03Ding dong.

01:17:04Hey.

01:17:05What's up?

01:17:06How are you?

01:17:07Good.

01:17:08How are you?

01:17:09I'm good.

01:17:10I'm good.

01:17:11So this is a dresser

01:17:12I want to put in my guest room.

01:17:13See?

01:17:14Is it big?

01:17:15It's...

01:17:15Look at the picture.

01:17:17Oh.

01:17:17Okay, here we go.

01:17:18So they go A-N-C-E.

01:17:20It goes like this.

01:17:22Yeah, this is E, see?

01:17:24This is so fun.

01:17:27So I went out for girls night last night

01:17:29with Laura, Jody, and Lily.

01:17:31You know my friend from work, Lily.

01:17:32So we went to Mavericks

01:17:33and they had this event called Pitch Me.

01:17:36Oh, no way.

01:17:36Yeah, so they did, like,

01:17:37a presentation of, like,

01:17:39what I'm looking for in a guy.

01:17:40And all the guys were, like, 12, Jamal.

01:17:42They weren't even, like, grown, you know?

01:17:44Well, I feel like your last couple guys

01:17:46have been younger, so...

01:17:49My last one guy was younger.

01:17:53So, well, B's not really.

01:17:54B's 44, so, I mean, he's, you know...

01:17:57What's his real name?

01:17:57Benjamin.

01:17:58Oh.

01:17:59Yeah, B sounds better.

01:18:00Yeah.

01:18:01But, um, so then he texts me

01:18:03and I went over to a hotel

01:18:05with him last night.

01:18:08Sure you don't want to know about that?

01:18:09Yeah, I don't need to hear that.

01:18:13Things have been tense

01:18:14between me and Jamal lately.

01:18:16I've hid things from him

01:18:18for so long

01:18:19that when I told him,

01:18:21it just devastated him.

01:18:24As long as we're not talking

01:18:25about these things,

01:18:26Jamal and I are fine.

01:18:28But it's like everything's

01:18:29hidden under this carpet

01:18:30and I have to pull that carpet away

01:18:32every now and then

01:18:32and talk about it.

01:18:33But Jamal will just hang up on me.

01:18:35He won't answer a text.

01:18:36He'll walk out the house.

01:18:38It's been very uncomfortable.

01:18:42Um, you know, Larry's coming out here.

01:18:46Why is he coming out here?

01:18:47Just to see, like,

01:18:49you know, where I grew up at

01:18:50and, you know,

01:18:52get a little more

01:18:52of my family history.

01:18:55I wish I would have just handled

01:18:56this whole situation better,

01:18:59you know, but now I have to just...

01:19:00I wish you did, too.

01:19:04You hid him for so long.

01:19:09I've been carrying a really big secret

01:19:11for about 30 years.

01:19:16I did what I thought.

01:19:18Yeah, but why'd you hide him

01:19:19for so long?

01:19:25Just give me a second.

01:19:29Jamal is not my only child.

01:19:33This is really hard for me.

01:19:42Jamal's dad and I

01:19:43were never married.

01:19:44Um, we were together

01:19:45for seven and a half years.

01:19:47We were in the military together

01:19:50and he was just cheating

01:19:51all the time.

01:19:52It was just like

01:19:54every day

01:19:54there was, like,

01:19:55a different girl.

01:19:58When I got pregnant

01:19:59with my first son, Larry,

01:20:00first thing his dad said

01:20:01was abort it.

01:20:04And I just couldn't do that.

01:20:06When I was only 21 years old,

01:20:08I couldn't imagine

01:20:08being a single mom.

01:20:09I was not mentally ready.

01:20:11I was starting my military career.

01:20:13I was just not ready.

01:20:14So I decided to put my son up

01:20:16for adoption

01:20:16and I never told Jamal

01:20:18until last year

01:20:19when Larry found us

01:20:21through an Ancestry website.

01:20:23I don't think you ever

01:20:24would have told me.

01:20:25I would have told you.

01:20:26I don't think so.

01:20:27And that's a huge thing

01:20:28for me is, like,

01:20:31I don't think you ever

01:20:32would have told me

01:20:34because, like,

01:20:35there was no reason

01:20:36to not tell me.

01:20:37I just didn't know

01:20:38how to say it.

01:20:39You know?

01:20:40And it's always been, like,

01:20:41me and you,

01:20:42me and you.

01:20:42And I finally got

01:20:43our relationship

01:20:44to where, like,

01:20:45I've always wanted it to be,

01:20:46right?

01:20:47So it was better for me

01:20:48to just keep

01:20:49this big, dark secret.

01:20:51I felt like in my head

01:20:52I was just, like,

01:20:53trying to protect myself

01:20:54and then trying

01:20:55to protect you, too.

01:20:57Because I just didn't,

01:20:58Larry protecting me.

01:20:58I don't know.

01:20:59I just didn't know

01:21:00how to handle it.

01:21:00I didn't, I,

01:21:01that's,

01:21:02that is the complete truth.

01:21:03I did not know

01:21:04how to handle this

01:21:05at all.

01:21:06At all.

01:21:09Last year,

01:21:09I found out

01:21:10I had an older brother,

01:21:13full blood,

01:21:14mom and dad,

01:21:15and my first

01:21:16thought was

01:21:17that she was lying

01:21:18and it was a joke

01:21:19or something

01:21:20because why would

01:21:23you hide this

01:21:24for so long

01:21:24when we're so close?

01:21:26And then when I found

01:21:26that it was true,

01:21:27I was just really pissed off.

01:21:28I have this whole other

01:21:29family and you knew

01:21:30about it.

01:21:32And I'm like,

01:21:33how could my own mom,

01:21:35like,

01:21:36look me in my eyes

01:21:37when she knows

01:21:38I have a whole

01:21:38brother?

01:21:41Dude,

01:21:42that's just not

01:21:43something I'm like,

01:21:46even thought about

01:21:47forgiving yet

01:21:47because I just,

01:21:48I just don't know

01:21:49who would do that.

01:21:49So I'm like,

01:21:51damn.

01:21:58I don't know,

01:21:59I feel like your mom's

01:21:59the person you're

01:22:00supposed to trust,

01:22:00like, only.

01:22:01Like,

01:22:02if you can't trust

01:22:02anyone else,

01:22:03you can trust her.

01:22:04But now it's like,

01:22:05wow,

01:22:06I can't trust anyone

01:22:06in the world anymore.

01:22:09I'm like shaking.

01:22:14It's like hard for me

01:22:15to look at you

01:22:15when we even talk

01:22:16about this whole thing.

01:22:17You do make a lot

01:22:18of excuses.

01:22:20I'm sorry that I hurt

01:22:21you so bad.

01:22:22I don't know,

01:22:22I don't know what else,

01:22:23I up, you know?

01:22:26Like,

01:22:26I don't know,

01:22:26I don't know what else

01:22:27to say to fix it.

01:22:30I know keeping Larry

01:22:31from Jamal

01:22:32was not the right thing

01:22:33to do.

01:22:34It ended up just

01:22:35hurting him worse.

01:22:37Jamal had every right

01:22:38to know that he had

01:22:39a brother out there.

01:22:40And now all I'm trying

01:22:42to do is just repair

01:22:43what I f***ed up.

01:22:45Last year,

01:22:46Jamal and I

01:22:47went to North Carolina

01:22:48to meet Larry,

01:22:49his wife,

01:22:50and his son.

01:22:52Meeting Larry

01:22:53for the first time

01:22:53was like crazy

01:22:55because I'm looking

01:22:56at him,

01:22:57I'm like,

01:22:57okay,

01:22:57this is my blood,

01:22:58this is my son,

01:22:59and he has my face.

01:23:01He looks just like me.

01:23:02But he's a total

01:23:03stranger to me.

01:23:05And technically,

01:23:07I'm a grandma.

01:23:09It's a surreal feeling.

01:23:12But I'm so relieved

01:23:14because he was

01:23:15such a good man.

01:23:17And I don't know

01:23:18how he would have

01:23:18turned out

01:23:19if I would have

01:23:19kept him,

01:23:20you know?

01:23:20It makes me feel

01:23:21certain that I did

01:23:23the right thing.

01:23:25Since then,

01:23:26Jamal and I have been

01:23:27talking with Larry,

01:23:28and I invited him

01:23:29to San Diego

01:23:30so I could get

01:23:31to know him more

01:23:32and he can see

01:23:32where I'm from.

01:23:36What do you think

01:23:36you even want

01:23:37to do with Larry

01:23:38once he comes out here?

01:23:39Like, what's next?

01:23:39You think you're

01:23:40going to have,

01:23:40like, a deep talk

01:23:41with him?

01:23:41I have to have

01:23:42a deep talk

01:23:42with him.

01:23:43About what?

01:23:48About the other one.

01:24:04How do you think

01:24:05he's going to react?

01:24:06I think he's

01:24:06going to be pissed.

01:24:07He's going to be

01:24:08really upset with me.

01:24:09Hey, by the way,

01:24:12you have a sister.

01:24:13Like the...

01:24:16Larry wasn't

01:24:17the only child

01:24:18that I put up

01:24:18for adoption.

01:24:20I also had

01:24:21a daughter.

01:24:31This season

01:24:32on The Single Life.

01:24:37This is the kind

01:24:38of life that I want,

01:24:39where I can have fun

01:24:40with my partner.

01:24:43You're getting me

01:24:43all hot.

01:24:45Oh, yeah?

01:24:45This is my Dominican

01:24:47fling that I've

01:24:48been looking for.

01:24:49Nice to meet you.

01:24:51I'll never see you again.

01:24:53I was helping him

01:24:54upload something

01:24:55on social media,

01:24:56and it shows me

01:24:57all the women

01:24:58he's been messaging.

01:24:59Something's fishy

01:25:00about this.

01:25:01Courtney's worried

01:25:01that I'm just going

01:25:02to leave or cheat

01:25:03or whatever one day.

01:25:05Are you still

01:25:05living that way, dude?

01:25:06Be honest with me.

01:25:07Well, um...

01:25:10How are you?

01:25:12A wreck.

01:25:12I'm, like, shaking.

01:25:14I didn't tell my son

01:25:15Larry about his sister

01:25:16when he first found me.

01:25:18Here, sit.

01:25:19But I want to tell him

01:25:20now, and I'm really scared.

01:25:22What if he just

01:25:22turns around and leaves?

01:25:23What if he never

01:25:24speaks to me again?

01:25:26What are you doing?

01:25:30Do you mind

01:25:31if I have a dance?

01:25:32It's my girl.

01:25:33Are you serious?

01:25:35I do feel jealous

01:25:36watching her dance

01:25:37with someone else.

01:25:37I just don't see

01:25:39how that's respectful,

01:25:40the guy that you're with.

01:25:41So you're stopping me

01:25:42from being who I am?

01:25:43You don't see

01:25:44a problem here at all.

01:25:45What is the freaking problem?

01:25:46I think the problem

01:25:47is actually us.

01:25:48I'm done with this.

01:25:50Yesterday,

01:25:51I was talking police,

01:25:52and she made me feel

01:25:53maybe I do have

01:25:54another guy in your mind.

01:25:55But why does she

01:25:56tell you that?

01:25:57I don't want Sophie

01:25:58to play games with me

01:26:00and I'm interesting

01:26:01in this.

01:26:02Hell no.

01:26:03Not with me.

01:26:05Everything I told you,

01:26:06he knows.

01:26:08You've never had my back.

01:26:09Yes, I have.

01:26:10You've never had my back.

01:26:11Enough, enough.

01:26:11That's breaking girl code.

01:26:13Like, you don't do that.

01:26:14Go the homeless.

01:26:16Adios.

90 Day: The Single Life - Season 5 - Episode 01: The Art of the Love Bomb

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