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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:03We went on this beautiful trip to Key West.
00:06Then I found out there was a girl living with you.
00:11I've been burned by guys who I thought had all the good intentions,
00:15only to find out that it was all in my head.
00:19I can label this right now.
00:21I would love to be your boyfriend.
00:26Whew! Yes!
00:30I wanted to see you face-to-face before I tell you.
00:33I have another daughter that I put up for adoption.
00:40Please don't hate me.
00:41You don't have to beat yourself up. It's out now.
00:45You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years,
00:48and it just feels like I'm finally free.
00:55Last night, Courtney came into my room. She grabbed my phone.
00:58Colt was exactly who everybody said he was.
01:03Courtney gracefully put all my stuff on the side of the road.
01:07An Uber came and took me away to the hotel.
01:10You don't love or care about me.
01:12You only care about yourself and your d***.
01:17I felt Colt was my happy ending.
01:19Now, like, my whole future just got ripped from me.
01:22I thought you were my best friend.
01:24I feel all of it's just a lie.
01:28See you, the famous selfie.
01:30You are making my brother suffering.
01:32First, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable,
01:35and then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
01:43There's only so much I can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
01:46I've been so nice to you and his momma.
01:48My momma's mother, my momma would never scare f***ing die away.
01:53You both don't love you.
01:54That's okay.
01:55My mom doesn't love me.
01:56My mom doesn't love me.
01:58You want to f***ing go there.
01:58You guys have a f***ing weird relationship.
02:01Okay, bye.
02:01You and your family are f***ing weird.
02:05Weirdos.
02:15Don't blame it on me.
02:23Don't blame it on me.
02:26Don't blame it on me.
02:31Don't blame it on myself.
02:33Don't blame it on your one-track mind.
02:40Courtney broke up with me a few days ago.
02:42I've been living in this motel ever since,
02:46and when I'm at the rock bottom of my life,
02:49there's only one person I can call.
02:53There you go.
02:55She's nice out here.
02:58My lovely mother has come all the way from Canada to save the day.
03:03How are you?
03:05Don't get up.
03:08Oh, my God.
03:10I'm doing okay.
03:12Yeah?
03:13How's it doing?
03:1641 stitches.
03:18Wow.
03:20I haven't seen my mother in person for six months,
03:22but when I told her that Courtney threw me out of the house
03:25and we broke up, she came down with her boyfriend from Canada
03:28to check it on me and make sure I'm okay.
03:31And I don't think she has a lot of confidence in my ability
03:34to take care of myself.
03:37Can you move it at all, or are you not allowed?
03:39Oh, yeah, I can move it.
03:40You're not supposed to put any weight on it.
03:42But I can't really put weight on it.
03:43I can't walk on it yet.
03:45What's going on with you and Courtney?
03:47We talked a little bit, but just, she's just crying
03:51and she's angry at me.
03:53She's upset, disappointed, very disappointed, very sad.
03:58So, I know I've been running from relationship to relationship,
04:01woman to woman, and I'm still doing that.
04:04But I love Courtney.
04:07So you guys need to be by yourself,
04:08away from her parents' home, and figure this all out.
04:11You can't keep doing this.
04:13Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
04:16So you're not going to get back together?
04:19I don't think she wants to get back together with me.
04:24Like, you know what I did, right?
04:26Like, I'm having a relationship with another woman in Brazil.
04:33And it wasn't just a friendship.
04:35We were actually exchanging adult imagery.
04:41But you weren't with Courtney when that was going on.
04:45Well, I was doing this from her house.
04:48Wow.
04:49Really?
04:50I don't know.
04:50I don't want to get into that.
04:53I feel like there should be this sense of shame
04:55that my mother and I have about talking about my
04:57or my bad behavior.
04:59But we're pretty cool.
05:01We're like bros.
05:02She's always kind of treating me more like a friend
05:04than like a mother.
05:06So me talking to her about cheating,
05:08she's always kind of got my back.
05:12If you want to get back into a relationship
05:15with Courtney, I can talk to her
05:18and I can do my best to see.
05:22Colt has a way of doing this.
05:24He's in a relationship and all of a sudden
05:26he starts wandering, you know.
05:28And he did it several times
05:30with several different people.
05:31I don't want to name names.
05:33So bad.
05:34He can't do that.
05:35But I think I can talk to Courtney, woman to woman.
05:40I understand exactly how she feels.
05:43I went through something similar a long time ago.
05:45But if I make her realize how Colt feels
05:49and he really does care about her,
05:51I think I can break through that barrier
05:53and convince her to try it again.
05:57Just talk to her.
05:59I will.
05:59Try to tell her.
06:02I don't know.
06:02I know.
06:03I will.
06:03I'll talk to her.
06:06Well, thank you.
06:07Well, of course.
06:21My mom doesn't love me.
06:22I said, what the f*** am I doing to you?
06:24What am I doing to you?
06:25Your mom doesn't love you.
06:27Okay, well, you guys are too involved.
06:29This is Pedro's relationship.
06:30He's a grown f***ing man.
06:31Okay.
06:42She's acting like a crazy girl.
06:44Like, oh, your f***ing mother.
06:46Like, what is that?
06:49No, I said, we're trying to be crazy.
06:51We're trying to be worried about him.
06:53Okay, fine.
06:55The relationship between Pedro, his sister, and his mom is not normal.
07:00They're so full on about him.
07:02Do you want to go talk with them?
07:03Yeah.
07:04You can talk with them.
07:05My mom doesn't love me.
07:07They're just blocking Pedro from someone he should at least get to know.
07:12If I date Pedro, that's my in-law and his sister.
07:16Yeah, I don't know.
07:17Possibly doesn't mean-
07:18Your mom f***ing loves you f***ing in a weird f***ing way, bro.
07:21His mama's, as soon as I met him, hey, why haven't you?
07:23F***ing my son.
07:24That's a weird f***ing relationship.
07:26Sorry.
07:26Soon as I met her, she said, why have you not f***ing my son?
07:28Why have you not got his banana?
07:30She said that to me.
07:32How does she know this?
07:33He told her.
07:34I guess they talk about Pedro f***ing.
07:36What was that?
07:37Why are you telling her that her mom doesn't love her?
07:39No, no, no.
07:40No, no.
07:41Simplemente te voy a decir algo.
07:42Ella no puede me razon de mi, a decirme a mi, to your f***ing mother.
07:46No, but-
07:46O sea, no, excuse me.
07:47Yo no puedo tolerar eso.
07:49Porque ella me va a decir a mi, y porque ella respeta tu mamá.
07:52Es tu mamá también?
07:54Yeah, yeah, bro.
07:55Entonces, por qué?
07:56A mi cumpleaños, a mi cumpleaños, que es mi cumpleaños, que es mi cumpleaños, que es mi cumpleaños.
08:00Es decir a mi eso.
08:01Yeah, okay.
08:03Dile ya que se puede ir.
08:06The only thing I have done is asking you about what are your intentions with my brother.
08:12I am respecting you and you cannot be here to disrespect me, to respect my mom.
08:16You cannot talk to me like that.
08:19Pedro need to rethink about this because what she has done tonight just has demonstrated
08:26She is not a woman for Pedro.
08:29Sophie, let's go.
08:31Let's go, let's go, let's go.
08:32Why the f***?
08:33I was chill.
08:34I was chilling.
08:35I don't know if you ever-
08:35You called my mother.
08:37Like, you called my mother.
08:39You said your mom is a mother.
08:40That's why she got her like that.
08:41Let's go.
08:42What did I say?
08:42I didn't say about your mom.
08:43I said you guys are grilling me.
08:44No, no, no.
08:45That's what I said.
08:46I said you're the f***.
08:47Enough.
08:47I said, no, you enough.
08:48I don't want to see you here.
08:49I don't want to see you here.
08:50It's my birthday.
08:51I don't want to see you here.
08:52Happy birthday.
08:52I don't want to see you here today.
08:53Have a bright birthday.
08:57I said you-
08:58You called my f*** mom.
08:59That's what you say.
09:00What did I call her?
09:00I called your mom?
09:01Yeah, you said your f*** mom.
09:03You said that.
09:04I said you and your mom are grilling me.
09:05No, no, no, no, no.
09:06I didn't say nothing about your mom.
09:07You called my f*** mom.
09:08Been grilling me.
09:09You're your f***.
09:10Yeah, that's not-
09:11You know, I don't know if there's a language,
09:12but that's not insulting you.
09:13I said you and your mom, yes, are grilling me.
09:14That's why I get it like that.
09:17It was misunderstood that I said your f*** mom.
09:20I didn't say f*** your mom.
09:22People swear they're angry.
09:23You and your f*** mom.
09:24Like, why would I say f*** your mom?
09:26I've been nothing but respectful to your mom
09:28who's been disrespecting me the whole night.
09:30Okay, English language, we say f*** this f*** that.
09:32Yeah, but no-
09:34I never said anything wrong about your mom.
09:35I said you guys are grilling me.
09:36You guys are too involved.
09:37That's what I said.
09:38That's what I said.
09:39I never insulted your mother.
09:42Let me get it, probably.
09:43We don't play around.
09:44We call that name.
09:46You f*** mother, things like that.
09:47If you say that thing to me,
09:49things are gonna be-
09:50get better heated so fast
09:51because we respect our mother so much.
09:56I got loud, for sure.
09:58Your mother, never.
09:59Yeah, yeah.
09:59Since I got loud, your mother, never in my life.
10:01Yeah.
10:02I told Sophie,
10:03if you feel a little overwhelming,
10:04call me,
10:05I can't diffuse this situation.
10:06I can hear her yelling,
10:08and I know it's about me.
10:09So I'm like,
10:09put the umbilical forward, bro.
10:11I had a flash about the old rebel team
10:13that Chantelle say about my family,
10:15and I want to go through that game.
10:18I thought the subject was different.
10:21But I'm wrong with that.
10:23I never said f*** your mom.
10:24I said f*** you, your f*** mom.
10:27I was talking with Julia.
10:28I heard you say your f*** mom.
10:29Yes, I said your f*** mom.
10:31Yeah, but you're looking safe,
10:32Sophie, those teens.
10:33Trust me,
10:33I was very respectful to your mom.
10:35Okay, whatever.
10:36We'll see you tomorrow.
10:39He was meant to have my back,
10:40but I'm like,
10:41okay,
10:41have your mom and your sister's back.
10:43And this is why
10:44he will be single forever.
10:46Damn.
10:51Woman,
10:52a lot of things
10:52have been happening.
10:54I am in Maine
10:55visiting my cousin,
10:56Sanela.
10:56Now it's official.
10:58You don't have
10:58a single cousin anymore.
11:01Well,
11:01when I see Tony,
11:03I have a lot of questions.
11:05Sanela.
11:06When it comes to people
11:07that I love,
11:08I don't hold back.
11:09And I think
11:11Vanya can do much better.
11:13I'm always playing
11:13with my cousin.
11:16Now that it's all out,
11:17I'm ready to find her.
11:19If something traumatic
11:20has happened to my daughter,
11:22or she needed me
11:23for something,
11:23I won't be able
11:24to live with myself.
11:26And I want you guys
11:27on this journey with me.
11:31Um...
12:03I just arrived in Maine,
12:06and I'm super excited
12:07to finally get to see
12:08my cousin.
12:09This is awesome.
12:11I am in Maine
12:12visiting my cousin,
12:13Sanela,
12:13and her husband,
12:14Marinko,
12:15and it is an amazing weekend
12:17because it's my birthday.
12:19My birthday is July 4th.
12:21As you can tell,
12:22I'm a firecracker.
12:25Tony is also coming in.
12:27He's coming in
12:28on a later flight,
12:29and he's just going
12:30to meet us
12:30at Sanela's place later.
12:34Ever since Tony and I
12:36went on our little
12:37romantic date,
12:38we're now official,
12:38and this is our first trip
12:41as a couple,
12:41and it's a big deal.
12:43I am a little nervous
12:45about Tony and Sanela
12:46hanging out.
12:47Um, you know how
12:48they always say,
12:49when you date a girl,
12:50you date a girl
12:51and her best friend,
12:51so poor Tony.
12:54Sanela can be
12:55very critical,
12:56but I totally believe
12:58that when the right guy
12:59comes along,
13:00Sanela is going to be
13:01able to recognize it
13:02and she will fully
13:03support our relationship.
13:05And I hope it's Tony.
13:06It better be Tony.
13:09I am here.
13:12Finally.
13:14So good to see you again.
13:17Oh, my God.
13:17You're so pretty.
13:18I missed you.
13:19I didn't even say.
13:19Look at you all
13:20from Florida.
13:21Well, very much Florida.
13:23I know.
13:24Are you ready for a touch-up?
13:25Maybe.
13:26I'm excited.
13:28Can't wait to hear
13:29everything about you.
13:30Thank you.
13:31Sanela has her own salon
13:33and she's touching up
13:35my beautiful permanent makeup.
13:36All right, come on in.
13:38A lot of things
13:38have been happening.
13:40So I'm excited
13:41that I have someone
13:42like her in my life
13:42to keep this up.
13:45So now it's official.
13:47You don't have
13:47a single cousin anymore.
13:49I still don't understand
13:51what took him so long.
13:52I don't know.
13:53I don't know.
13:53It beats me too.
13:54But good things
13:55come to those who wait.
13:56So here we are.
13:59Have you guys
13:59had a talk?
14:00A sex talk?
14:02You mean the celibacy talk?
14:04No, we have not.
14:05But that's definitely
14:06something that needs
14:07to be brought up.
14:08I wonder when it comes
14:09to sleeping at your house
14:11what we're going to do.
14:12I think maybe it might
14:13be a good idea for me
14:14to not be in the same room
14:15with him just to not
14:16give him any mixed messages
14:18or wrong ideas.
14:19Yeah.
14:20It would be too soon
14:21for that anyways.
14:23Even though Tony and I
14:24have been friends
14:25for about a year and a half
14:26at this point,
14:27I still haven't shared
14:28with him my thoughts
14:30about sex and my celibacy.
14:32Because even though
14:33we were just friends,
14:34I always liked him.
14:35And I also felt
14:36that he always liked me.
14:38I feel like that tension
14:40between us prevented me
14:42from ever bringing up
14:43sexual encounters
14:45with other people
14:45because it would just
14:46be weird.
14:47But now that we are
14:48in a relationship,
14:50I just want to make sure
14:51that we are on the same page
14:52so that our expectations
14:53match going forward.
14:56You know, he had
14:57shown some red flags.
14:59I mean, he's been good
15:00to you, but he's also
15:01been a little bizarre
15:02with certain moves
15:03he has made.
15:04I know.
15:05There's something
15:06that did happen
15:07that really got me upset.
15:09So he took me out
15:10for dinner,
15:11and it was amazing.
15:13It was so much fun.
15:14And then he ended up
15:15going to another restaurant
15:16afterwards and a club
15:19by himself.
15:23No, I was livid.
15:25I would be too.
15:26And especially because
15:27he was just trying
15:28to defend it,
15:29like it's something
15:30perfectly normal.
15:31Like, oh,
15:31it doesn't mean anything.
15:32I'm like, uh...
15:33Normal?
15:34Oh, my God.
15:35Okay, we'll see
15:36how you feel
15:36when I start doing that.
15:39That's not something
15:40you do.
15:40You don't just send
15:42your girlfriend home
15:42and then you go out
15:43to a bar
15:43and sit there by yourself.
15:45What's he looking for?
15:49Oh, wow.
15:50This is beautiful.
15:51And then we'll do
15:52a quick lip.
15:53I love it.
15:54Okay.
15:55When it comes to people
15:56that I love,
15:57I don't hold back.
15:59And I think
16:00Vanya's standards
16:01used to be pretty high,
16:02but recently,
16:03just looking at her past
16:05couple of relationship
16:06that she had,
16:07I think she can do
16:08much better.
16:09But I'm not sure
16:10if Tony's that person.
16:13All right, Vanya,
16:14just so you know,
16:15when I see Tony,
16:17I have a lot of questions.
16:19I have a lot of...
16:20Vanya, he's in my house
16:22and I have the right
16:24to ask the questions
16:25because I'm always
16:26playing with my cousin.
16:28I wish I had
16:29the same talk
16:30with the stupid ass
16:31Josko.
16:32Okay.
16:32I would have fair
16:33kick this ass.
16:35I do want Sanala
16:37to grill him
16:37because who takes
16:39their girlfriend
16:39out for dinner,
16:41send her home,
16:41and then you go on
16:42to a bar
16:43to sit there by yourself?
16:44Like, what's the purpose
16:45of you sitting at a bar?
16:46Like, unless it's
16:47to pick up another girl.
16:49I see no other reason.
16:50We need to find out,
16:52Vanya,
16:52if Tony has
16:53your best interest in heart.
16:55Of course he does.
16:57Well, we'll find out.
16:59We definitely need
17:00some answers
17:01because I've dealt
17:02with enough of
17:03Clayboys in my life,
17:04not looking forward
17:05to another one.
17:14but I can't get it.
17:18We'll see you next time.
17:20Yesterday was such
17:21a rollercoaster,
17:22you know?
17:23It wasn't really
17:24a rollercoaster
17:25because it went down quick.
17:26No, no, no, no, no, no.
17:56Yesterday I came clean to Larry about the daughter
17:58I put up for adoption, and it was one of the hardest things
18:01I've ever had to do in my life.
18:03How are you?
18:04I'm doing good.
18:05No crying today.
18:08Hopefully no crying today, yeah.
18:10Larry was so accepting and so understanding,
18:13more than I ever could think possible.
18:16I just feel like I'm ready to shed my past and move forward now.
18:20And I want Larry definitely in my life, you know?
18:23I want for us to build a family together, so.
18:27Let's just go walk and talk, and I don't know,
18:29I just want to, like, hang out with my boys.
18:31My boys, my boys, my boys, my boys.
18:34I never thought I'd say that.
18:35My boys.
18:36All right, y'all ready?
18:38Yeah.
18:39Shotgun.
18:40I'm the older brother, get in the back.
18:41Shotgun.
18:41Get your ass in the back seat.
18:43Nah, he's our guest.
18:45Then he should get in the front seat.
18:46No, he gets the best.
18:47Yeah, y'all are chauffeuring me.
18:50Put your seatbelt on, sir.
18:53Can you tell your brother to put a seatbelt on now?
18:54Put your seatbelt on, girl.
18:56Yeah, you're right.
18:56She can't drive, for real.
18:59Even though Larry and Jamal weren't raised together,
19:02the energy between them is just crazy.
19:05Like, Larry has the typical older brother vibe,
19:08while Jamal's just, like, the baby brother.
19:10It's very endearing to me being their mom.
19:14I feel the lightest I've felt in 34 years.
19:1830 years, yeah.
19:19Yeah.
19:20She's glowing, not in there.
19:22You are, you're glowing.
19:24That's why I'm wearing my shades today.
19:30Right, let's go to the trail.
19:32Let's go, guys.
19:39Welcome to San Diego, Larry.
19:40Welcome to San Diego.
19:45Wow, isn't it weird seeing him?
19:49San Diego, looks like me.
19:52Not as good looking.
19:53You look like him.
19:54I keep telling him that.
19:56What?
19:56You look like me.
20:00It's so cool coming out here,
20:02getting to spend pretty much the day with just them two.
20:05You know what I'm saying?
20:07It is real cool out here, isn't it?
20:11I'm definitely feeling the brotherly love.
20:13I don't know about you.
20:14I do.
20:14I feel like we should do things we were supposed to,
20:16like, play catch and raid the fridge with moms.
20:22You want to race?
20:23Let's do it.
20:24All right, we're going to race to that pole right there.
20:26You ready?
20:26You can even do the three, two, one.
20:28Okay.
20:29Three, two, one.
20:37Do you guys like each other?
20:39I love them.
20:40Do you love me?
20:41I love you.
20:42Aw.
20:43You're supposed to say it back.
20:44I love you too.
20:46Aw.
20:50So how are you feeling since yesterday, Larry?
20:53Feeling good.
20:55It was a surprise and news, absolutely.
20:58But, you know, glad it's out.
20:59I'm glad there are no more secrets, so she says.
21:04I'll let you know.
21:05There isn't.
21:06No, I know.
21:07I know.
21:07There isn't.
21:08But I'm good, though.
21:09It's all good, man.
21:11We're moving on from here.
21:13Now that it's all out, I'm ready to find her.
21:20And I want you guys on this journey with me,
21:22but how do you feel about it?
21:25I'm with you.
21:26I'm ready to find her.
21:28What about you?
21:30Yeah, I've been ready, you know?
21:33Before yesterday, I felt so alone with my secrets
21:36and really ashamed.
21:37But now, with the support of both of my sons,
21:40we can start the journey to find my daughter.
21:42I did name her Jennifer.
21:45And it might not be her name now.
21:47Right, right.
21:47You know, they probably did change it, but it was my way of identifying with her, you know?
21:53It was a closed adoption, so I don't have a lot of information about my daughter.
21:58The adoption agency will have to reach out to her and then see if she wants to contact with me.
22:06But there is the possibility she might not want to see me.
22:10You gave her a life, like you gave me.
22:12She don't know anything else.
22:14But you know, not everybody feels the same way you do, right?
22:17Yeah.
22:17And I love you for that.
22:19I truly, truly love you because you've made this really easy for me.
22:22Mm-hmm.
22:23But she really might just, she might be angry.
22:27I'm preparing my mental for that, you know what you mean?
22:32The best case scenario is that I can fly her out here, get to know her, she can meet her
22:37brothers.
22:39That would be, um, that would be like a dream come true for me.
22:46Look, it's the seals.
22:47Oh, yeah.
22:48You haven't seen them here.
22:49Go right there.
22:50Isn't that crazy?
22:51They really right there.
22:52They're right there.
22:53Look at them.
22:54Look at them.
22:54I know.
22:56As for the worst case scenario, it's not the fact that she won't talk to me.
23:00It's that she's either not living or that she needed me for something and I wasn't there for her.
23:05And I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
23:09And if I can't make peace with my past, I don't know if I'll ever find love and happiness,
23:14which is something that I've been looking for my whole life.
23:18It's your favorite animal, right?
23:20It's my favorite animal.
23:21You know why?
23:21Why?
23:22Because they're loud and fat, just like I am.
23:24It's true.
23:29Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me, and you're mad because I said the word
23:34Yes, I am.
23:36Whoa.
23:37I have a flashback because that was so toxic to my family.
23:40I told each other, you want to be better than this.
23:43Your family are going to push people in your life away.
23:45You know that, right?
24:11This one, I feel a little bit, you know, like trash.
24:13This is supposed to be a fun day, but everything was, like, very overwhelming.
24:35It's a bit important because it's my mom and my sis and my partner.
24:37They got to get along.
24:40I don't want all the time, fighting, fighting.
24:43It's not good.
24:46Last night, the birthday party was terrible.
24:48I feel very frustrated because the things between me and Sophie was good before, and right
24:54now, my family destroyed everything that I built with Sophie into this moment because
24:59they got big argument.
25:02I have a flashback because since I was so toxic to my family, the abueless could have survived.
25:11I thought that Sophie was going to be better than this.
25:15I haven't talked to Sophie since last night.
25:18And I'm very concerned what's going to happen right now with the rep on the street.
25:25Good morning.
25:27Good morning.
25:28How you doing?
25:30I'm doing okay.
25:35How you feel?
25:37How was this night?
25:40Um, the whole night.
25:41Your sister and your mom was acting crazy to me, and I still was respectful all the way
25:45up until the end.
25:46I wanted to have a fun time, you know, just be at your sister's birthday.
25:49I didn't think they'd really care that I was there, to be honest.
25:51I thought I'd meet them.
25:52They'd be like, hey, how are you?
25:53And that was it.
25:54I didn't know I was there to be grilled.
25:56But you called your mother in front of everybody.
26:02I have explained to you that it's a language barrier.
26:05Your mom does not mean your mom.
26:07Yeah, that's...
26:08So, did you not see what they all were saying to me the whole night?
26:13I said, you and your mom.
26:15I didn't say, your mom.
26:18Like, there's a difference.
26:19All I was saying was you and your mom.
26:21I just swore.
26:21You and your mom.
26:22And what I'm finding her for is that Pedro is not even, like, standing up for me.
26:27It's kind of a turn-off.
26:30They wasn't respecting you, and you're mad at me.
26:32Yeah, I remember.
26:32There's some problem they got before with Chantel.
26:34So, I acted like Chantel.
26:36Huh?
26:36I know Chantel called your sister a bitch, and Chantel did a lot worse than me.
26:40I did not act like your ex.
26:41Sorry, but I didn't.
26:42Yuck.
26:43I did not act like...
26:51She was judging me the whole night, Pedro.
26:54And you're mad because I said the word...
26:57Yes, I am.
26:58Whoa.
26:59Before everything happened at the party, me and Pedro were actually having a really nice day.
27:03Like, I was really getting to know him.
27:05I felt more comfortable with him.
27:06And honestly, if all that didn't happen, I was even like, I might sleep in his bed.
27:10Or he can sleep in my bed.
27:11Because I was feeling a connection, and I was like, okay, maybe we can get closer.
27:15So, yeah, his family, which is weird, but they blocked him.
27:21Your family are going to push people in your life away.
27:24You know that, right?
27:26If that's how they talk to people.
27:27Like, if you just introduce a girl, and they do that every time.
27:30I don't think it's possible that would ever work out with them acting like that.
27:33You know?
27:33You know, I understand that.
27:41I want to say I'm sorry for last night.
27:42My family can be a lot.
27:45But Anna's going to lose you because our birthday party was wrong.
27:50They want to be there for you.
27:52I'm sorry if I made you feel I disrespected your mom.
27:56That's not, wasn't my intention.
27:58And I should have been more chill with Nicole.
28:01Yeah, like, look, you and me, let's forget about this moment.
28:06Can we brush it up?
28:08Because I don't want to last night made this a disaster, okay?
28:12I think I just, like, after last night, like, it's just a lot.
28:15So I just need to, like, step back a little bit.
28:18I'm still getting over all the drama I went through with my marriage.
28:21So I'm not ready to deal with someone else's crazy.
28:25So even though I do really like Pedro, and I'm not ready to call it quits with him,
28:28I do need some time to figure out what's best for me at this point.
28:32I still like you, and I still want to get to know you.
28:34You know, it's not, it's not changed my things about you.
28:37It's more so, like, well, what if I get to like you more?
28:40Now I also have to deal with your family, like, coming for me.
28:44Is that something I actually want?
28:45So I just need a bit of, like, time.
28:49Sophie is the first woman that's been excited about it,
28:52saying my divorce.
28:55I put too much effort on this,
28:58and I don't want to lose her for the mistake that my mom and my sister did to her.
29:03Right.
29:16Thank you for seeing us.
29:18I think Debbie is an enabler.
29:20Oh, you want to go cheat?
29:22Oh, don't worry, son.
29:22I'll go fix that for you.
29:24He really does love you and swears that he'll never do this again.
29:29He's going to keep doing it.
29:31Like, what the f***?
29:33I don't know if Debbie even believes the words coming out of her mouth.
29:50It's so bright and sunny.
29:53It is.
29:53I get blinded.
29:55Anyway, we have to really convince Courtney in a sweet way that it's making a mistake
30:01if he doesn't give Colt another chance.
30:04I know.
30:04Give him one last chance.
30:06Yeah, one last chance.
30:07I think he really cares about her.
30:09I'm a little fighter, doing what I want, girl.
30:12Don't say I didn't warn ya.
30:14I guess I'll park in front of the house.
30:17Okay.
30:18There we go.
30:22And then, yeah, we'll scoop it out, and then we'll add all the good stuff.
30:28So Colt sent me a text.
30:29His mom's in town, and she wants to talk to me.
30:31I'm like, what the f***?
30:33Like, why would she want to come talk to me?
30:35Hey!
30:36Hello!
30:36How are you?
30:37How are you?
30:38You're all here.
30:39I haven't met Debbie in person, but I've gotten to know her over the past few months through video chat.
30:46Thank you for seeing us.
30:47Of course.
30:48You're so beautiful.
30:50Oh, thank you.
30:50You too.
30:51She has the history of meddling in all of his relationships, but I wonder if Colt told his mom that
30:57he was sending jerk-off videos to other women.
31:00I like your shirt.
31:01Cute.
31:02Hi!
31:04Welcome to our home.
31:04It's nice to meet you.
31:05Thank you for seeing us.
31:06Yeah.
31:07Appreciate it.
31:10No problem.
31:11Well, nice meeting you.
31:12Nice meeting you.
31:13We have a lovely home.
31:14Well, thank you.
31:15I'm very surprised that Debbie came.
31:17Colt really hurt her flesh and blood.
31:20Yeah.
31:21Our daughter, you know.
31:22Oh, it was heartbreaking seeing Courtney so upset.
31:26I had totally lost respect for him.
31:28I told him he s***ed in his own nest.
31:30Yeah, and she never cusses me.
31:35So first of all, Colt wants to apologize.
31:38And he knows he made a big-ass mistake.
31:40He knows it.
31:42And he wants to rectify it.
31:44He knows you guys have done everything in the world for almost a crime here.
31:47Here's some tissues.
31:49I've been crying so much.
31:51Like, I have bags under my eyes.
31:52I've been crying so much the past, like, four or five days.
31:55And I saw he's, like, messaging this other woman.
31:59I'm like, okay, I'm done.
32:00Like, I can never trust you again.
32:03Yeah, that's not a good way to find out.
32:05That's for sure.
32:06Right.
32:06I mean, she's had situations like this before where she's been really serious with the guys.
32:12And then all of a sudden, she finds out they're two-timing her.
32:17I understand that.
32:18I mean, I really do.
32:20But on the other hand, if he really does love you and swears that he'll never do this again...
32:27He's going to keep doing it.
32:28You know, he thinks maybe if you two were together alone for a few days, he could work this out.
32:39So, he goes back and forth on what he wants.
32:41I feel he's lost and confused.
32:43So, it's like, I'm not going to be one of his options or in his love triangle.
32:47It's like, you had me and you lost me.
32:50I think Debbie is an enabler.
32:52Oh, you want to go cheat?
32:54Oh, don't worry, son.
32:54I'll go fix that for you and go tell them what a great guy you are and to give you
32:58another chance.
32:59Like, I don't know if Debbie even believes the words coming out of her mouth.
33:02Like, oh, he learned his lesson after the hundredth time he's done this to a woman.
33:09So, I mean, I can talk, you know, all I can, but if you're sure about this.
33:17Yeah, I feel like on a relationship standpoint, I'm done.
33:20Like, I was so proud of Courtney to tell Debbie that she's done with Colt.
33:28This is a betrayal on us as well as Courtney because we opened up our house to a stranger.
33:36And he was taking advantage of our hospitality.
33:41I've got, again, I apologize for everything and thank you so much for taking him in.
33:46I'm really sorry the way it turned out.
33:48I really am.
33:49Yeah, it's disappointing.
33:50Yeah.
33:51Yep.
33:52I feel a little bad for trashing Colt to his mom, but I need to be honest with her.
33:56I need to be honest with myself.
33:58There's no world where I'd get back with Colt.
34:01All right.
34:01Bye.
34:02Bye.
34:02Thank you.
34:03It's nice meeting you.
34:04I've pretty much been a full-time nurse for this lying, cheating piece of ****.
34:09Like, I need Debbie to just take over now so I can move on.
34:13Bye.
34:14Bye-bye.
34:16Okay.
34:19Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya?
34:22You're worried that I'm a player.
34:23Yeah.
34:23Is that what you're getting at?
34:24You had a girlfriend living with you and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
34:27Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya.
34:30Yep.
34:30She's told her a lot about my past that now is almost using against me.
34:34She just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
34:41I need a boy with really soft hair
34:44Who lets me run my hands through it and doesn't care
34:48Come on in, Vanya.
34:50Okay.
34:51Oh, you need help?
34:52Come on.
34:54That's a big one.
34:56This is packing for three days.
35:00I need what I want
35:01Get me getting all my dreams
35:02Get me all my dreams
35:04I don't need so much
35:07Look who it is.
35:08That was good to see you.
35:10Good to see you.
35:10Good to see you.
35:12I am just arriving to Sunil and Marinka's house in Maine
35:15and they are hosting Tony and I for my birthday weekend.
35:19Thanks for having me.
35:21So what are you making?
35:23I gotta feed my rabbits.
35:26He's got two of them now.
35:28I know.
35:28Two vegans.
35:29You guys can catch up.
35:30I'm just gonna go change my clothes because I'm sweaty.
35:33Okay.
35:33All right.
35:33We'll see you in a minute.
35:34Sounds good.
35:36So tell me a little bit about this guy.
35:40Tony.
35:40So he's actually a doctor.
35:43He's very, very smart.
35:44And that's one of the things that I really love about him
35:46is that, you know, we can have all these awesome intellectual conversations
35:50and that's important because, you know, I get bored so easily.
35:54So I love that.
35:56Well, I can't wait to meet him.
35:58I hope you like him.
36:01Hi, Tony.
36:01Hello.
36:02How are you?
36:03Come on in.
36:04Thank you.
36:04Thank you.
36:05Nice to see you.
36:06Nice to see you.
36:06Is there a lady here?
36:07Yes, it's fine.
36:08Welcome to Maine.
36:09All right.
36:09All right.
36:10Come on in.
36:10Thank you for having me.
36:11It's Marinka.
36:13Marinka?
36:13Tony.
36:14Nice to meet you.
36:15Nice to meet you.
36:15Nice to meet you.
36:16My lady.
36:18So, Tony, can I get yourself a good drink?
36:19Yeah, actually, I could use a bourbon neat.
36:22Sure.
36:22We got to go downstairs to the bar.
36:24My expectations for Tony this weekend are to get along with everybody, present himself
36:30in the best light.
36:31I definitely want Sanala to give her a stamp of approval.
36:34It would mean the world to me to know that she is on board with this relationship.
36:39This is beautiful.
36:40Thank you.
36:41Absolutely serene.
36:42Thank you.
36:42How long have you guys lived here for?
36:44Uh, about nine years.
36:46Nine years.
36:46Yeah.
36:47You guys are married for how long?
36:48Nineteen.
36:49Nineteen years.
36:50What's the secret?
36:52Foundation is very, very important.
36:54You know, building a strong, strong foundation.
36:57You were friends.
36:57We were good friends back then.
36:59Me and Vanya were best friends for a year and a half.
37:01Yeah.
37:01But I think after my divorce, it's a little bit harder, so I'm being extra cautious.
37:07Yeah.
37:08Well, how long were you married for?
37:12I was only married for eight months.
37:13Very short.
37:15There was a lack of communication on both ends in the end.
37:18It's work.
37:20It's work.
37:21It's not easy.
37:22No marriage.
37:22No relationship.
37:24Nothing is easy.
37:26You know, you just have to, like, communicate and talk about it, and somebody's got to apologize.
37:36So I thought we were going to be making s'mores.
37:39What happened to that?
37:40Let's get him.
37:41Let's go get him.
37:42Let's go get him.
37:42Yeah.
37:44I know that Sinala wants to grill Tony, and with me and Marinka walking away, I am definitely
37:49giving her the opportunity to do that.
37:52Now there's two of us.
37:55He went to a bar alone after our date, and I still can't figure out what he was doing,
38:02where his head was at.
38:03I'm hoping Sinala can get to the bottom of that, because I still have questions on it.
38:11Vanya is my best friend, as you know.
38:13We talk every day, and I've seen her hurt before.
38:17Is your attention for a long-term relationship with Vanya, or is it something just for the
38:23fun?
38:24She told me about the story when you guys went to a restaurant and took her back home, and
38:29then you went to a bar sitting by yourself.
38:31Were you seeking for another friend?
38:33No.
38:33Yeah, I went to a bar afterwards, but it was nothing more than that.
38:37And I told her about the whole experience.
38:39Another girl could have come and approached you.
38:42Do you know how that looks?
38:43You're worried that I'm a player.
38:44Yeah.
38:45Is that what you're getting at?
38:47You had a girlfriend living with you, and then you were hanging out with Vanya.
38:50I mean, if I was that girlfriend, I would be pissed.
38:53I never hung out with her, or I never hung out with Vanya when I was dating her.
38:57We were always friends.
38:58We kept it.
39:01Are you sure?
39:02Absolutely, 100%.
39:03Well, I don't know.
39:04Yeah, timeline doesn't match up.
39:07I am coming here for Vanya's birthday, and I spend time with the family, and I've barely
39:12been here for an hour, and Selena's just giving me a third degree.
39:17Honestly, I feel betrayed by Vanya because I feel like she's told her a lot about my past
39:23that now Selena's using against me.
39:25I just hope you're not playing games with my cousin.
39:28You're looking at my past.
39:29You're not looking at right now.
39:30I'm right now.
39:30What did we miss?
39:32A lovely talk.
39:33A lovely discussion.
39:34Yeah?
39:35All right.
39:36Well, dessert's here.
39:37You know what, man?
39:38Hit the hay.
39:39I'm tired.
39:39I'm exhausted.
39:40Why?
39:41It's tired.
39:42I mean, a long day.
39:43Long day.
39:46Really?
39:47Yeah, I'm tired.
39:47I'm exhausted.
39:48I just need to get out of here.
39:49Okay, well, I'm going to come with.
39:52All right.
39:52Thanks, guys.
39:53Yeah.
39:53Good night, guys.
39:54I'm sorry.
40:01What happened?
40:03I hope you didn't go too far.
40:06He's just getting defensive over nothing.
40:08Like, he's just not giving me anything to prove to me that he really means well.
40:14So you did go too far.
40:19What have you been talking to her about?
40:21I mean, she just, like, full-out assaulted me out there.
40:23And, I mean, I just don't appreciate her line of questioning.
40:27What did she say?
40:29I mean, I don't want to get into it.
40:31I'm exhausted.
40:34Is this where we're sleeping tonight?
40:36Well, this is where you're sleeping.
40:37I'm going to be sleeping upstairs.
40:39Right.
40:47I planned on talking to Tony about my celibacy and the reason for not sharing the bed with him.
40:53But he's really angry, and he's shutting down.
40:56And now might not be the best time to have that conversation.
41:02I guess that is what it is.
41:03Good night.
41:25It's dangerous playing with the heart of a woman.
41:36Still to come on The Single Life.
41:44Oh, my goodness.
41:47You're getting me all hot.
41:48Oh, yeah?
41:50Well, that can lead to that.
41:52I'm really excited to see where this can take us.
41:54Because I like you.
41:59Whoa, is that the Queen of England?
42:00Hello, peasant.
42:02Hello.
42:03I've been talking to a man from Derbyshire, England, named Wayne.
42:07Hi.
42:08Oh, wow.
42:11This legit might be my person.
42:18I'm single, I'm on holiday, and I've told Pedro I need some space.
42:22Let me touch it.
42:24Oh, wow.
42:25Okay.
42:26This guy looks like the right amount of space.
42:30This is my daughter.
42:35I'm surprised I'm meeting you today.
42:37I didn't expect that.
42:38I'm surprised you're even here.
42:40If there's going to be any chance for our relationship to work, I'm going to have to win Bella over.
42:47I can't stand by and watch you embarrass yourself with a troll like Gino, a spineless loser like him.
42:55You okay?
42:56No.
42:58I don't want to throw up.
43:02Diana and Courtney, I was treating both women equally wrong.
43:07It hurts so many people.
43:11I'm going to fight like hell to get her back.
43:14Which one?
43:18Good question.
43:21You kiss him.
43:24Yeah.
43:25Bye.
43:26What the hell?
43:28I care about him, and he thinks I don't, because I went on one date.
43:32One date.
43:32I went on one date.
43:35this.
43:36I just feel bad.
43:37I just feel terrible.
43:38It's just crazy.
43:43Do you mind if I have a dance?
43:44It's my girl.
43:46Are you serious?
43:47I'm just, like, really done with this.
43:49The fact that he's projecting this insecurity on me, it's not right.
43:53I'm not going to stand for it.
43:54So you're stopping me from being who I am.
43:57You don't see a problem here at all.
43:58What is the freaking problem?
44:00The problem is actually us.
44:01We might have even bigger problems than I originally thought.
44:05I'm done with this.
44:08I'm done, Tony.
44:09I'm done, Tony.
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