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00:00:00Maki Maki
00:00:01Maki Maki
00:00:02Yes
00:00:03Previously on Before the 90 Days
00:00:06I feel honored you are going to introduce me to your family
00:00:11If you don't want to have kids, they won't give the blessing
00:00:15This trip is very important, but before we meet her family
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan
00:00:31Aslında Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir yanı var
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day, there are opportunities I have
00:00:45Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence
00:00:49Is that what?
00:00:53You practice Levyar regime
00:00:56I have been with a woman before, yes sir
00:00:58You don't practice it anymore?
00:01:00No sir
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle
00:01:08Okay
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing
00:01:16But I feel guilty as all hell
00:01:18Because I am mine
00:01:24On our second anniversary
00:01:26You forgot
00:01:27This is your thing
00:01:29Being unromantic
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:33Like, making sure your lights is on
00:01:36Because you're at home
00:01:37And then I'm working
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this
00:01:41Every time you do something for me
00:01:42You throw me to my face
00:01:45From now on
00:01:45I don't want you to give me anything anymore
00:01:51You lie about
00:01:52Okay, the difference between Ziad and I
00:01:55Why are you?
00:01:55Everything I've said
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking
00:01:59When I'm talking
00:02:00You shouldn't listen to me
00:02:00I do respect you
00:02:01But I'm so disrespectful
00:02:02You are, you are, you are, you are
00:02:09Zero percent
00:02:10So you're saying
00:02:11In this very moment
00:02:12You see zero percent chance
00:02:13Of me being your wife
00:02:14I need more time to know you
00:02:16And you need more time
00:02:17But you're at zero?
00:02:39I need to sleep
00:02:41I'm so terrified
00:02:42No comments
00:02:44No talking
00:02:45So there's zero percent chance
00:02:46You want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:50I want to just sleep
00:02:51Zero percent, Ziad
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now
00:02:54About us
00:02:54Zero percent
00:02:55And I don't know why you would say that
00:02:57In front of your friends
00:02:58When it's like my first time meeting them
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful?
00:03:03To talk to me like that
00:03:04In front of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is
00:03:05When someone speaks
00:03:07We have to listen to him
00:03:08We can't speak
00:03:09I listen
00:03:09All I do is listen to you
00:03:10No, no, you didn't
00:03:11You are always difficult
00:03:12You can't
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online
00:03:19I don't hear nothing what you say
00:03:21No, you speak
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings
00:03:23That I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no
00:03:25Okay, Ziad
00:03:26You can go to sleep
00:03:27Okay
00:03:28So good night
00:03:31I say good night
00:03:32Okay
00:03:53Have some tea for you
00:04:10This morning I woke up
00:04:11And I'm just almost at my breaking point
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco
00:04:16And I've given this relationship my all
00:04:19And to hear that Ziad is 0% sure
00:04:21Of having a future with me
00:04:23I'm just confused
00:04:25Before I came to Morocco
00:04:27He showed me an engagement ring
00:04:29Saying that it was here and waiting for me
00:04:31I spent thousands of dollars to come here
00:04:35Just to be sitting here right now with Ziad
00:04:37And then for Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure
00:04:40I really feel like I deserve some answers
00:04:44So how are you feeling after like
00:04:46What happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions
00:04:52Yeah
00:04:54And I feel good to see them too
00:04:56I mean it was nice to meet your friends
00:04:58And I know that we have a lot to work on
00:05:01But before I got here
00:05:03You made it seem like we were ready to be engaged
00:05:07And then I meet your friends
00:05:08And you're like 0% sure
00:05:10It makes me feel like
00:05:11We're never going to get married
00:05:13We're never going to get engaged
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time
00:05:16And money
00:05:17That I don't have
00:05:19And I'm basically here for like no reason
00:05:31But how am I not
00:05:33I understand what that means
00:05:34So what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36In your mind
00:05:37Do you realize everything you said about me
00:05:39Since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44It seems like you're always mad at me
00:05:45I'm always doing something wrong
00:05:48Like when we were talking online
00:05:49You were always so nice and cute and sweet
00:05:51And would send me nice messages
00:05:53And you know say all these like
00:05:55Cute romantic things
00:05:57And then since I've gotten here
00:05:58It's been like
00:05:59You're like mad all the time
00:06:03Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:10Yeah
00:06:14And all these things you said
00:06:16It's right
00:06:19I'm sorry for that really
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here
00:06:26With me
00:06:28So from right now
00:06:30I would be so nice
00:06:36Okay
00:06:38At this moment
00:06:40I don't know
00:06:41If I will marry here or not
00:06:43But
00:06:44I'm a Mexican
00:06:45A good wife
00:06:47And a good woman
00:06:48Emma
00:06:49I know her
00:06:50Inside her
00:06:51She's special
00:06:52She's so sweet
00:06:53And maybe I have been
00:06:56Too hard on here
00:06:57I believe there is something
00:06:59Between us
00:07:01So from now
00:07:03There is no fights
00:07:03No fights
00:07:08Aww
00:07:11You can come here
00:07:16This feels nice to be
00:07:20This is the very first time
00:07:22That I felt any physical chemistry
00:07:24Between us
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing
00:07:28With the head
00:07:29Very slowly
00:07:32Extremely slowly
00:07:35But yes
00:07:36They are progressing
00:07:37And I'm hoping
00:07:38That this is just
00:07:39A really good sign
00:07:40That we're moving forward
00:07:42I think we have a lot
00:07:43To work on
00:07:45But
00:07:45I think we'll be okay
00:07:47Just with time
00:07:48Everything will be
00:07:50Okay
00:07:51Good
00:08:12My head hurts
00:08:13It itches
00:08:14The glue
00:08:16Is like
00:08:17Bubble gum right now
00:08:19Stuck to my head
00:08:30This has been on
00:08:31For about a week
00:08:32This is the absolute longest
00:08:34I've ever had it on
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it
00:08:37Overnight once
00:08:38And it wasn't even on
00:08:40For 24 hours
00:08:41My head hurts
00:08:42It's time
00:08:43I have to take it off
00:08:44I mean
00:08:44It's
00:08:46It's
00:08:46It's awful right now
00:08:49I've never been
00:08:50This nasty
00:08:51Before in my life
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria
00:08:54In the heat
00:08:55For days
00:08:56And
00:08:56I have yet
00:08:58To change my wig
00:08:59No matter how much
00:09:01You pull
00:09:01It's not going anywhere
00:09:04So I don't even know
00:09:05How it's going to feel
00:09:06Coming off of my head
00:09:07Actually
00:09:09Ow
00:09:09It actually hurts
00:09:16It hurts
00:09:17It's stuck to my hair
00:09:20My head itches
00:09:21I have headaches
00:09:22My scalp hurts
00:09:24I have sores
00:09:25I feel them growing
00:09:26I see the redness
00:09:28Around where my wig cap is
00:09:30I need to take it off
00:09:32It's time
00:09:38Oh my god
00:09:43It itches
00:09:47I have sores
00:09:48On the side of my head
00:09:50Where the glue was
00:09:53I hate to say this
00:09:54But the wig actually
00:09:55Has an odor to it
00:09:56Right now
00:09:58From all the sweating
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on
00:10:01Because I know
00:10:02Daniel loves me
00:10:03With my long hair
00:10:04But
00:10:05I need to feel
00:10:06The
00:10:07The air
00:10:08Touching my scalp
00:10:10It just feels
00:10:11So incredible
00:10:12It feels so light
00:10:14And airy
00:10:15And
00:10:16It's not itchy anymore
00:10:18At this moment
00:10:19I don't care
00:10:20What Daniel feels
00:10:21When he sees me
00:10:22I'm not putting
00:10:23The wig back on
00:10:24Anytime soon
00:10:27God I've gone through
00:10:28So much
00:10:28In these last few days
00:10:30And
00:10:31It's not just my hair
00:10:33We got the approval
00:10:34From Daniel's uncle
00:10:35To be married
00:10:36But
00:10:36I feel like
00:10:37It was under
00:10:38False pretenses
00:10:41I don't know
00:10:42What to feel
00:10:42About his uncle
00:10:44I think
00:10:45If he had known
00:10:46How many women
00:10:46I had actually been with
00:10:48I wouldn't have
00:10:49Gotten the blessing
00:10:49I mean
00:10:50It's 21 years
00:10:52Of being with women
00:10:55On top of that
00:10:56I've been so nervous
00:10:58To speak to my daughter Faith
00:11:00Because
00:11:01I promised her
00:11:02I wouldn't get engaged
00:11:03To Daniel
00:11:04Until after
00:11:05I revealed
00:11:06All of my secrets
00:11:07But yesterday
00:11:08I finally ripped off
00:11:10The band-aid
00:11:12We started leaving
00:11:13The airport
00:11:14And there was
00:11:15A festival in the street
00:11:16With African dancers
00:11:18And music playing
00:11:19It was for me
00:11:21Daniel planned
00:11:21And a festive parade
00:11:23For me
00:11:23You're sending him money
00:11:25All the time
00:11:27Yet somehow
00:11:28He's able to
00:11:29Buy a whole parade
00:11:33I don't know
00:11:34I don't know
00:11:36And there's more
00:11:38What else?
00:11:40Um
00:11:41He dropped to his knee
00:11:44And he pulled out a ring
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck
00:11:48So I shook my head
00:11:49Yes
00:11:52You're awfully quiet
00:11:53Um
00:11:54I don't know
00:11:55What to say
00:11:57Why would someone
00:11:58Do that on the first day?
00:11:59Like
00:12:00It doesn't make sense
00:12:01At this point
00:12:03It's beyond
00:12:04Love bombing
00:12:05It's like
00:12:05A love nuke
00:12:07God
00:12:08Ma
00:12:08This isn't good
00:12:10You've been lying
00:12:11Since day one
00:12:12Of the relationship
00:12:14The other thing
00:12:15I personally
00:12:16Have an issue with
00:12:17Is
00:12:17You haven't asked
00:12:18Daniel
00:12:19About the women
00:12:20He's been with
00:12:21You know
00:12:23He's been with
00:12:24Tons of women
00:12:25You know
00:12:25He's a playboy
00:12:26How could you
00:12:27Let all this slide
00:12:28And just blindly
00:12:29Agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as
00:12:35Faith is concerned
00:12:36A lot of what
00:12:37She said
00:12:37Is actually weighing
00:12:39On my brain
00:12:41Um
00:12:43I'm thinking
00:12:43A lot about it
00:12:45I've been so focused
00:12:46On my past
00:12:47And what I've been
00:12:48Keeping from Daniel
00:12:49But Faith is right
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been
00:12:52Forthcoming about
00:12:53His past
00:12:54Or even other women
00:12:55He's been with
00:12:57There's been
00:12:58Lots of things
00:12:59With Daniel
00:13:00I've let slide
00:13:01And maybe I should
00:13:02Be asking him
00:13:03More questions
00:13:03About it
00:13:05Daniel said
00:13:06That we are going
00:13:06To meet up
00:13:07With his friends
00:13:08Tonight
00:13:08And I'm excited
00:13:09I'm hoping
00:13:10That his friends
00:13:11Can shed some light
00:13:12And share some stories
00:13:13About who Daniel
00:13:14Actually is
00:13:18Hmm
00:13:20Daniel just texted me
00:13:26Let me gather
00:13:27Some laundry up
00:13:28Oh God
00:13:31I have no idea
00:13:32What he's going
00:13:32To think about me
00:13:34Daniel makes me
00:13:36Feel like
00:13:36The most beautiful
00:13:37Special woman
00:13:38In the world
00:13:39But he's used
00:13:40To seeing me
00:13:40Wear my wig
00:13:42At home
00:13:43I don't wear my wig
00:13:4424-7
00:13:45Seven days a week
00:13:52So if he's
00:13:53Going to marry me
00:13:54He has to get used
00:13:55To it
00:14:07Hey
00:14:08Oh wow
00:14:10Look
00:14:11Daddy
00:14:13Oh my God
00:14:18I'm waiting my jungle queen
00:14:26I think it's stupid
00:14:27I think it's stupid
00:14:27It's not even sexy
00:14:29I don't know
00:14:30I'd rather
00:14:32Walking naked
00:14:37That sounds like a plan
00:14:41I'm so frustrated
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like
00:14:45I'm stepping on landmines
00:14:46And I don't know
00:14:48How to navigate
00:14:49Around the landmines
00:14:50I don't want to
00:14:51Do this right now
00:14:56It's hard to be
00:14:57With him
00:14:59How much more
00:15:00Of this guy
00:15:01Could take
00:15:02I don't know
00:15:13Anna why are you
00:15:14So emotional
00:15:17Something you will never
00:15:18Understand
00:15:18Because you don't have that
00:15:31Well I mean
00:15:31I don't
00:15:32I don't know
00:15:32What to say
00:15:34Because no matter
00:15:34What I say
00:15:35You know
00:15:36If I apologize
00:15:37That's not going
00:15:37To be good enough
00:15:39You know
00:15:40So I don't
00:15:41Know what to do
00:15:42In this situation
00:15:58The argument
00:15:59Started about
00:16:01Me saying
00:16:02You're not romantic
00:16:04It has nothing
00:16:06To do with money
00:16:07But you
00:16:08Have to remind me
00:16:10Every time we argue
00:16:13About
00:16:14What you do for me
00:16:16And you throw it
00:16:16To my face
00:16:17And I feel like
00:16:19It's so unfair
00:16:19Because you want
00:16:21To be a provider
00:16:22But at the same time
00:16:23You're always using it
00:16:24As an ammunition
00:16:28Where did all this
00:16:29Go wrong?
00:16:33You're unbelievable
00:16:35Okay
00:16:53I didn't want to bring up
00:16:55My role
00:16:56In the marriage
00:16:58But sometimes
00:17:00I feel like
00:17:01I'm not being appreciated
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like
00:17:07If I bring it up
00:17:08She might come around
00:17:10And say
00:17:10Hey, you know
00:17:11He does a lot for me
00:17:12Maybe I should just
00:17:13Be a little bit nicer
00:17:15But obviously
00:17:16That doesn't work
00:17:18You know
00:17:18I would definitely
00:17:19Want things to be
00:17:20A lot more peaceful
00:17:21Between us
00:17:22But sometimes
00:17:23I feel like
00:17:24I'm stepping on landmines
00:17:26Unintentionally
00:17:27I don't know
00:17:28How to navigate
00:17:29Around the landmines
00:17:33I'm so frustrated
00:17:44All right
00:17:45I'm not gonna bother you
00:17:50I'm just
00:17:51I'm gonna take a shower
00:17:53I don't want to
00:17:55Do this right now
00:18:05I don't really know
00:18:07What's going on
00:18:08In his head honestly
00:18:08I am not
00:18:10One of this
00:18:11Masogenistic
00:18:12And you know
00:18:13Masculinity thing
00:18:14And it's really confusing
00:18:16Because
00:18:17It sounds like
00:18:18It's teaching
00:18:19Traditional
00:18:20Stuff
00:18:21But at the same time
00:18:22Traditional
00:18:24Goes like
00:18:25The man provides
00:18:26And I'm not even
00:18:27Asking for much
00:18:28I'm not even
00:18:30A woman
00:18:31That you have
00:18:32To spend a lot
00:18:33Just because
00:18:34I'm
00:18:35You know
00:18:35I'm not
00:18:36Providing
00:18:37As much as he
00:18:38Provides monetarily
00:18:39Doesn't mean
00:18:40I'm not doing
00:18:42My part
00:18:48Just
00:18:48It's hard
00:18:49To be
00:18:50With him
00:18:55I've been
00:18:56Patient
00:18:57So long
00:19:00That was
00:19:01My contribution
00:19:02I stayed
00:19:04All along
00:19:08But sometimes
00:19:09He just doesn't
00:19:10Get me
00:19:11He knows
00:19:13What sets me off
00:19:15He knows
00:19:16What hurts
00:19:17My feelings
00:19:17He knows
00:19:18What offends me
00:19:21So we argue
00:19:22A lot before
00:19:24Online
00:19:25This is just
00:19:26More different
00:19:27I'm just not
00:19:28Used to it
00:19:29Like
00:19:30Arguing in person
00:19:31We've never
00:19:33Been together
00:19:33Before
00:19:34So
00:19:37But then
00:19:38How much
00:19:39More
00:19:40Like
00:19:40Of this
00:19:41I could take
00:19:42I don't know
00:19:42Online
00:20:00Maybe I hope
00:20:01There's no
00:20:01Sharks
00:20:02In this
00:20:02Water
00:20:03There is
00:20:04Oh hell no
00:20:05But they're fine
00:20:06And nice
00:20:06Right
00:20:07Oh hell
00:20:09There's no such
00:20:10Thing as a nice
00:20:10Shark
00:20:11Malagasy
00:20:12Shark
00:20:12Is
00:20:13Baby
00:20:27Here we are
00:20:34Where is this place
00:20:36It's a little bit
00:20:37Of a hike up
00:20:39But it'll be worth it
00:20:40In the end
00:20:40Believe me
00:20:43We only have a few
00:20:45More days left
00:20:45Of island hopping
00:20:46Before we have to
00:20:48Head out to meet
00:20:48Trisha's family
00:20:50It's beautiful up here
00:20:52There's a lot
00:20:53Weighing heavy
00:20:54On my mind
00:20:55After our conversation
00:20:57About meeting her dad
00:20:58And all this pressure
00:21:00About having to have kids
00:21:03But right now
00:21:05I'm just trying my best
00:21:06To stay focused
00:21:07On being in such
00:21:09A beautiful place
00:21:11Why have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it
00:21:14Once we get up there
00:21:15Honey
00:21:17I got us
00:21:19The most incredible
00:21:20Place to stay
00:21:21On a very secluded
00:21:23Part of nosy
00:21:24Comba
00:21:25It's totally off grid
00:21:27And I just love
00:21:28The privacy of it
00:21:30I see it now
00:21:31Baby
00:21:31I'm really excited
00:21:33For her to see it
00:21:35And to show her
00:21:36How romantic
00:21:37I can be
00:21:38All right
00:21:40We're here baby
00:21:43Our own private quarters
00:21:45Baby
00:21:47Baby yeah
00:21:51Yeah baby
00:21:52Oh my god
00:21:54You like it
00:21:55Yeah
00:21:56Come here
00:21:57Let's check it out
00:21:58Oh my god
00:22:03We can't even see
00:22:04All of this
00:22:06You see the whole
00:22:07Island baby
00:22:08Here
00:22:09I'm really surprised
00:22:11You've never seen a place
00:22:11Like this before baby
00:22:13I've never
00:22:15Okay let's explore here
00:22:18Be careful baby
00:22:20Watch your step here
00:22:21We got our own little
00:22:23Waterfalls
00:22:24And private pools
00:22:25Oh my god
00:22:28I've never stayed
00:22:30To a place like this before
00:22:32I'm really surprised
00:22:35It's very beautiful
00:22:37The view
00:22:38The house
00:22:40I'm living here
00:22:42But I didn't know
00:22:44That place like this
00:22:46Could exist
00:22:47In Madagascar
00:22:48I did this for you
00:22:50Honey
00:22:51Beautiful bed
00:22:52I love the bed
00:22:54It's for you
00:22:55I got another little
00:22:57Surprise for you
00:22:58What is it?
00:23:02Here we go
00:23:04I got us a couple
00:23:05Jungle costumes
00:23:06So we're running
00:23:07Around the jungle here
00:23:08Let me see
00:23:10There you go
00:23:11This is yours right here
00:23:12You serious?
00:23:14Yeah
00:23:14I was hoping you'd want
00:23:16To try it
00:23:17And spice things up
00:23:18I'll put mine on
00:23:20And you put yours on
00:23:21Okay
00:23:24Role playing is something
00:23:25That I recently got into
00:23:27And I just think
00:23:28It's something fun to do
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king
00:23:36Of the jungle
00:23:36And chasing her around
00:23:38I mean
00:23:39It's hot
00:23:41I'm waiting
00:23:42My jungle queen
00:23:48You look beautiful
00:23:50I am
00:23:51Seriously
00:23:53Come on
00:23:54You look sexy
00:23:55Let's just go
00:23:56Run around
00:23:57And just act a fool
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:03I think it's stupid
00:24:05It's not even sexy
00:24:07I don't know
00:24:09I'm making this role play
00:24:11Come on
00:24:11I act like you
00:24:12Explore the jungle
00:24:15Why'd I get into it?
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy
00:24:20But I'm doing it
00:24:23Because Rick did a lot
00:24:25To organize this trip
00:24:26So I'm willing to give it a try
00:24:29To make him happy
00:24:33In my fantasy girl
00:24:35But the way I'm chasing
00:24:37I don't know
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked
00:24:41Oh
00:24:44That sounds like a plan
00:24:46Let's walk naked
00:24:49Come on baby
00:24:51Nobody's gonna see
00:24:53What you need
00:24:54Adam and Eve
00:24:56Come on baby
00:25:21Do you have your own man?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24That's what I'm laying next to
00:25:31We had a wonderful night
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight
00:25:35And bringing me in
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish
00:25:41But in the back of my mind
00:25:44I feel guilty
00:25:45Because I know that I've held back
00:25:47For too long now
00:25:54Time is getting close
00:25:55To when we go to meet her family
00:25:58I don't want to take
00:26:00Such a serious step
00:26:01Without telling her
00:26:03About my ex
00:26:05And so
00:26:06I think that she needs to know
00:26:08The truth
00:26:14So cool here
00:26:16That's nice
00:26:17Yeah
00:26:20What if you Jesus
00:26:22Yep
00:26:24It's a beautiful view baby
00:26:26The last few days
00:26:28Have been wonderful
00:26:29I think
00:26:30It's been
00:26:31Been like
00:26:32Like a dream
00:26:32Yeah
00:26:35I'm happy
00:26:39Baby
00:26:42There's something
00:26:43That I've been
00:26:44Keeping from you
00:26:49You make me afraid
00:26:50I don't know what you
00:26:53Explain yourself
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this
00:27:01I don't know
00:27:02What words to say
00:27:05That's gonna
00:27:07Make it
00:27:09Be a forgivable act
00:27:12I'm worried
00:27:14That she'll want to end things
00:27:15And I'll never see
00:27:17Or hear from her again
00:27:23Just know that
00:27:24What I'm about to tell you
00:27:26I regret it
00:27:31What you mean
00:27:37Can you tell me
00:27:38Where your debt came from
00:27:39Do you want the truth
00:27:41Yeah
00:27:44When the COVID hits
00:27:45I bankrupt
00:27:46I find another way
00:27:48To pay that debt
00:28:13Good morning
00:28:15Good morning
00:28:17I really had fun
00:28:19Meeting everybody yesterday
00:28:20I did too
00:28:21I'm still feeling tired
00:28:23I've been in Turkey
00:28:26For almost a week now
00:28:27And it's
00:28:29Going okay
00:28:32We've had some
00:28:33Difficult conversations
00:28:34About his debt
00:28:36And my friendship
00:28:37With my best friend Michael
00:28:40And then
00:28:41Last night
00:28:42I got to meet
00:28:43Birkan's best friends
00:28:44And they kept
00:28:46Having conversation
00:28:47In Turkish
00:28:48And I can't help
00:28:50But feeling like
00:28:51They were keeping
00:28:51Another secret from me
00:28:54Are you excited
00:28:55For today?
00:28:56I don't know
00:28:57I don't know
00:28:58I don't know
00:28:58What to be excited about
00:29:00I don't even know
00:29:01What to pack
00:29:01Yeah, you better pack
00:29:04Last night
00:29:05Birkan told me
00:29:06That we're going on
00:29:07This surprise romantic getaway
00:29:09And I'm honestly
00:29:11Having mixed feelings
00:29:12About it
00:29:15I am incredibly nervous
00:29:17At the thought of a romantic getaway
00:29:19Right now
00:29:20I'm learning about
00:29:22His debts
00:29:23And the issues
00:29:24That he's having
00:29:25With jobs
00:29:26And money
00:29:27And maybe I'm wrong
00:29:28But it comes across to me
00:29:30As manipulative
00:29:30You're trying to win me back over
00:29:32With something sweet
00:29:35I don't like that
00:29:36I just don't like the timing of it
00:29:39But
00:29:39It also could be a good thing
00:29:41That we're getting away right now
00:29:43Because maybe
00:29:43We'll have more time
00:29:44To process
00:29:45And be
00:29:46In a more
00:29:48Lovey state
00:29:50So
00:29:51We'll see
00:29:59Good night
00:30:04I'm not sure
00:30:05I packed my hairbrush for this
00:30:08That's going to be a problem
00:30:09You don't need to brush your hair
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair
00:30:12While I'm here
00:30:12Yeah
00:30:13I think we will find a fork
00:30:14And we will
00:30:15A fork?
00:30:17Yeah
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid
00:30:18You are
00:30:22I think she needs
00:30:24Some spice in life
00:30:26You know
00:30:27And I am the spice
00:30:28In her life
00:30:29So
00:30:30This is my
00:30:31Spicing it up project
00:30:33Number one
00:30:34I didn't realize
00:30:43We were going to be
00:30:43Right on the water
00:30:45This is amazing
00:30:46I like the view
00:30:47You know
00:30:47This is incredible
00:30:49Cheshme
00:30:50It is a romantic place
00:30:51You know
00:30:51It's peaceful
00:30:52There is sea
00:30:54Perfect place
00:30:55To reconnect
00:30:57Wow
00:30:58I didn't know
00:30:58There was a castle here
00:30:59Do you want to visit there?
00:31:01I would love to visit there
00:31:02We will go up
00:31:03And up
00:31:04And up
00:31:05And up again
00:31:07I am so ready
00:31:09I still have to tell her
00:31:11About my gambling
00:31:14My friends are right
00:31:16I can just keep
00:31:17The secret
00:31:18For the rest of my life
00:31:19But I don't know
00:31:21How she's going to react
00:31:22If you're ready
00:31:24Let's start our tour
00:31:27I always wanted to visit a castle
00:31:30I feel like
00:31:31I get to be the princess
00:31:32And now in the castle
00:31:34Now I'll always be a princess
00:31:36When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:37I have no idea
00:31:52Oh my god
00:31:53Hold on
00:31:53Is this a bathroom?
00:31:55What?
00:31:56What?
00:31:56Is that a bathroom?
00:31:57Nah
00:31:57I feel like that's a bathroom
00:32:00Cheshme is incredible
00:32:02It's really old
00:32:04And it's just beautiful
00:32:05This is like exactly
00:32:07What I was envisioning
00:32:08When I was talking
00:32:09About coming to Turkey
00:32:10Would you take our picture?
00:32:12Yeah, of course
00:32:13Thank you
00:32:16Thank you
00:32:17Thank you
00:32:20Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:22I am enjoying my day
00:32:23I couldn't have asked
00:32:24For a better surprise
00:32:25Seriously
00:32:26You know
00:32:26I always try my best
00:32:29I know
00:32:29Because I care about you
00:32:31And I love you
00:32:33I know you do
00:32:35You know
00:32:35We are still thinking
00:32:36About marriage
00:32:37I
00:32:39You still think about it
00:32:40I still think about it
00:32:41We didn't decide
00:32:43What are we going to do
00:32:44And you have a lot of questions
00:32:46So
00:32:47What are you wondering?
00:32:49I know you're wondering
00:32:51Well
00:32:51I guess
00:32:53I know
00:32:55It's hard to have
00:32:56Conversations
00:32:58That can feel personal
00:32:59And embarrassing
00:33:00But
00:33:02Can you tell me
00:33:03Where your debt came from?
00:33:07Back then
00:33:08I had places
00:33:09Back when?
00:33:102019 and 2020
00:33:12Okay
00:33:13I had my
00:33:14First
00:33:16Shisha bar
00:33:17I take a loan
00:33:19From a bank
00:33:20Then I bought
00:33:21My second place
00:33:22After that
00:33:24I opened my third place
00:33:26Okay
00:33:26So you had three places?
00:33:28And
00:33:29All of them
00:33:30Is big
00:33:30I was earning
00:33:32But
00:33:33When the COVID
00:33:34Hits
00:33:35I bankrupt
00:33:37I
00:33:37Sell my car
00:33:39Sell my house
00:33:40Sell my places
00:33:41I sell everything
00:33:42I have
00:33:44I work
00:33:45Like daily jobs
00:33:47And things
00:33:47But
00:33:48Sometimes
00:33:49I work full one day
00:33:5024 hours
00:33:51And I get paid
00:33:53$40
00:33:55It's useless
00:33:56So
00:33:57I find another way
00:33:59To pay that debt
00:34:04How is that even possible?
00:34:09Do you want the truth?
00:34:12Yeah
00:34:16I gamble
00:34:17A lot
00:34:24How often
00:34:25Are you gambling?
00:34:27If I have money
00:34:27I gamble
00:34:29So
00:34:30Actually
00:34:32It could be
00:34:32Every day
00:34:41I took it off
00:34:42So it could breathe
00:34:44I was hoping
00:34:45Daniel would say
00:34:46I look beautiful
00:34:47And touch my hair
00:34:48And give me a kiss
00:34:48I wasn't expecting him
00:34:50To pull back
00:34:51Like he has
00:34:51It's like
00:34:52You're embarrassed
00:34:52To be seen with me
00:34:53Right now
00:34:54Or something
00:34:54You don't think
00:34:55I'm pretty
00:34:55Without my wig?
00:35:20Are you alright?
00:35:22Uh huh
00:35:32Good morning sir
00:35:33Good morning sir
00:35:39Good morning sir
00:35:39We're just packing
00:35:40Good morning
00:35:41Since this is your last day
00:35:43At Missy Bisbee resort
00:35:44The resort prepared
00:35:46Breakfast for you too
00:35:47Ma'am sir
00:35:48Oh
00:35:48Thank you
00:35:49Sure
00:35:49Let's go
00:35:52It's the last morning
00:35:54Of our honeymoon
00:35:54And we're going to
00:35:56Cavite
00:35:56You know
00:35:57Where she lives
00:35:59But me and Annalyn
00:36:00Are still not talking
00:36:05My strategy
00:36:07After last night
00:36:08Uh
00:36:10Just to give her space
00:36:12Every time we fight
00:36:13He has this habit of
00:36:16You know
00:36:17Silent treatment
00:36:18That he gives me
00:36:20Instead of
00:36:21You know
00:36:23Talking it out
00:36:24And fixing things
00:36:28Before we
00:36:28Met in person
00:36:30If we don't talk
00:36:31For a few days
00:36:32It was normal
00:36:33Because we are
00:36:34In a long distance
00:36:35Relationship
00:36:37Ooh
00:36:37But
00:36:38I just can't believe
00:36:40We're doing this
00:36:40Right now
00:36:41And
00:36:42We're in the same room
00:36:43Together physically
00:37:03Do you want to
00:37:04Talk about last night
00:37:08You know
00:37:08Clearly we have problems
00:37:09You know
00:37:10Because
00:37:11You're hard on me
00:37:12A lot of the times
00:37:13But
00:37:14Providing
00:37:15For you
00:37:16Is
00:37:16Not easy
00:37:17And I believe
00:37:18That
00:37:19You know
00:37:20It's my duty
00:37:20To do that
00:37:21But when I
00:37:22When I say
00:37:23When I'm telling you that
00:37:25Like I'm not trying to
00:37:26Like throw it in your face
00:37:27I basically want you
00:37:29To just cut me
00:37:29A little slack
00:37:30It's like
00:37:31What you're saying
00:37:32Is because
00:37:33I'm provide
00:37:33You gotta be soft
00:37:35Because if I react
00:37:37Certain way
00:37:38You're uncomfortable
00:37:39With my emotion
00:37:40Anna
00:37:41I don't bring it up
00:37:43To say
00:37:43Hey look
00:37:43Look what I did
00:37:44So shut up
00:37:45You know
00:37:45What I'm saying
00:37:45Like that's
00:37:46That's not
00:37:46What I'm trying
00:37:47Exactly what they feel
00:37:48Maybe I'm just like
00:37:50Not translating it right to you
00:37:51But the way I view it is
00:37:52It's like
00:37:53Look you know
00:37:53Anna
00:37:53I work hard
00:37:54To do X, Y, and Z
00:37:55So you know
00:37:57I want a light bulb
00:37:58To come on
00:37:58And be like
00:37:58You know
00:37:59My husband works really hard
00:38:00So I'm gonna make sure
00:38:01He's
00:38:02His day is positive
00:38:03When I talk to him
00:38:04On his break
00:38:05For 15 minutes
00:38:06But no
00:38:07You're nagging me
00:38:08All the time
00:38:09You don't think
00:38:10How that makes me feel
00:38:11Like sometimes
00:38:12Like when somebody's
00:38:13Constantly criticizing you
00:38:15When they're supposed
00:38:16To be on your side
00:38:20But it's not easy
00:38:22Being your woman
00:38:25Putting up with your
00:38:28Tantrums
00:38:29Stubbornness
00:38:30Whining
00:38:31It takes a lot of patience
00:38:33To be with you
00:38:35I know some women
00:38:37Would have been
00:38:38Would have
00:38:39Given up already
00:38:43All I hear is like
00:38:45You're just constantly
00:38:46Complaining
00:38:47About me
00:38:48All the time
00:38:49I mean
00:38:50You tell me
00:38:50I'm a downer
00:38:52And you tell me
00:38:53I'm not romantic
00:38:54I mean
00:38:55Adam
00:38:55You're this
00:38:56Perfect picture
00:38:57And I'm this project
00:38:59That you're working on
00:39:02So
00:39:03Do you regret
00:39:05Like
00:39:06Marrying me?
00:39:33Hey
00:39:35¡Oh, wow!
00:39:42¡Oh, my God!
00:39:57¡Let's get money out of the ATM!
00:39:59¡And then I want to go for a walk!
00:40:05¡Oh, good!
00:40:07¿What?
00:40:09¿What's wrong?
00:40:10¡No, I'll take it to you.
00:40:12¡Oh, my hair!
00:40:12¿I took it off so it could breathe?
00:40:16¡Oh!
00:40:19¡It was itchy and hot!
00:40:21¡And I've worn it for quite a while!
00:40:24¡No, you didn't tell me you were taking it off!
00:40:26¡No, I didn't tell you I was taking it off!
00:40:54¡Gracias!
00:41:05¡Gracias!
00:41:36My hair needed to be washed, and my head needs to air out, baby.
00:41:47So you don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:41:53Well, I don't have long hair. I have short hair.
00:42:01I'm hurt, and now I feel ugly,
00:42:04and I feel unwanted and unloved.
00:42:07I want to go back upstairs and just cry.
00:42:09I don't even want to look at him.
00:42:11I want to be away from him.
00:42:15You have to be wearing your wig
00:42:17when we are meeting my friends or meeting people, okay?
00:42:21I mean, I mean, I can't wear it all the time.
00:42:25I'm not saying all the time,
00:42:27but when we are going out to meet friends, families, wear it.
00:42:32You're being rude.
00:42:34You don't understand.
00:42:34I was very scared for you to see me without my wig.
00:42:40Sorry.
00:42:40And I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it
00:42:42just as much as I am with it.
00:42:44You're always beautiful, okay?
00:42:47You are.
00:42:49I would hug you.
00:42:51You're mine always.
00:42:57I don't feel he means it.
00:42:59I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful
00:43:02and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:43:04I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:43:08I don't know.
00:43:09I have so many questions, but I have to get answers,
00:43:12and I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some,
00:43:15because right now I'm starting to see red flags and cracks
00:43:18where I never did before.
00:43:28What's going on?
00:43:31We were getting along really well, getting really flirty,
00:43:36and we made out.
00:43:40I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:43:45I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:43:48You have sex with her.
00:43:51Did you?
00:44:04Snow, just know that what I'm about to tell you,
00:44:07I regret it.
00:44:09You make me afraid.
00:44:11I don't know what you...
00:44:14Explain yourself.
00:44:32You remember...
00:44:34those five days that...
00:44:39that you weren't talking to me...
00:44:42Why you bring up five days?
00:44:44What's wrong with five days?
00:44:45I already explained everything, so what's the problem now?
00:44:51The problem isn't that. It's what I did.
00:44:56What?
00:44:59What's wrong?
00:45:01I'm trying to tell you now.
00:45:04You make me afraid.
00:45:06Say, Rico, I don't know why you hesitate. What's wrong?
00:45:11When you weren't talking to me, I started talking to my ex.
00:45:25She was like the only one that, you know, was there to listen to me.
00:45:32So I decided to book a trip going to Columbia to be with my ex.
00:45:44I mean, I was feeling so, like, lonely and abandoned.
00:45:50I thought that you didn't want me anymore.
00:45:55You have sex with her. Did you?
00:46:03Yes.
00:46:05Yes.
00:46:16I'm sorry, baby.
00:46:20I messed up. I know I did.
00:46:25I regret what I did.
00:46:28But this is something we can work through, baby.
00:46:31Shut up.
00:46:31It was a mistake.
00:46:32Shut up.
00:46:38Maybe I...
00:46:39How?
00:46:42Rick, how could you do that to me?
00:46:45We were together.
00:46:49Maybe you weren't there.
00:46:52And I told you, after a couple of days, I said, if I don't hear from you, then I'm going
00:46:57to assume that it's over, that you don't want me anymore.
00:47:00And I still didn't hear from you until a couple of days after that.
00:47:05And by then, I had already booked a flight there.
00:47:13I did replay to your messages.
00:47:16I did replay to your call.
00:47:18And I even told you, I'll call you when I'm free.
00:47:22You told me that you would call me when you get back from the police station.
00:47:27I wouldn't hear from you.
00:47:28I would call you.
00:47:29And then you said that I was stalking you.
00:47:32That sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me.
00:47:35Why did you wait, like, for a long time to tell me?
00:47:38Why?
00:47:40Why?
00:47:42Because I wanted us to build something together.
00:47:45I wanted to share, you know, precious time with you.
00:47:52Maybe you just still love that girl.
00:47:55No, no.
00:47:57It's over.
00:47:58It's over now.
00:48:00I swear I'm not talking to her anymore.
00:48:03I haven't had any contact with her.
00:48:07I thought you were different.
00:48:12That I can trust you.
00:48:15You even promised me there, like, I won't hurt you, Trisha.
00:48:19I'm not like your ex.
00:48:21And what you did?
00:48:22Guess what?
00:48:23Same thing.
00:48:25So, baby, it's not the same because...
00:48:26It's the same.
00:48:27You cheated.
00:48:32Jesus.
00:48:33I thought you were a good guy.
00:48:36I am a good guy, baby.
00:48:37You were not.
00:48:38You can't trust me, baby.
00:48:40It's different now.
00:48:42We've met in person.
00:48:43We've consummated our relationship.
00:48:45We have a stronger bond now.
00:48:47Don't you see that?
00:48:48No.
00:48:51Can't we just start from there?
00:48:54Can't we just start from the day that we first touched?
00:48:59I'll never talk to you.
00:49:01Baby, can't we just start from...
00:49:02No.
00:49:02Baby.
00:49:03No.
00:49:04Shut up.
00:49:04Don't call me baby.
00:49:05Shut up, Rick.
00:49:06Shut up.
00:49:07Maybe we look at relationships differently.
00:49:08Shut up.
00:49:11Where are you going?
00:49:13I don't care.
00:49:14Oh, f***.
00:49:16Wow.
00:49:29I don't care.
00:49:46Oh, babe, what are you cooking?
00:49:49I want you to go to the roof and wait for me.
00:49:53Yeah, yeah.
00:49:54All right.
00:49:55So, see you there.
00:49:56Okay, babe.
00:49:58Emma and I, we feel ourselves like we forget problems and we start refreshing again from the
00:50:05beginning.
00:50:06It'll add to the sweet.
00:50:08I never cooked for my girlfriend before, so I feel nervous to cook for Emma.
00:50:16I want her to be perfect.
00:50:23Babe.
00:50:24You can just put it there.
00:50:26Babe, this is so cute.
00:50:28Oh, thank you, babe.
00:50:31You look so nice.
00:50:32Thanks, babe.
00:50:33You look very handsome tonight.
00:50:35What did you make?
00:50:36Yeah.
00:50:37What do you think inside here?
00:50:39Tagine.
00:50:40So, I hope you will like it.
00:50:41Let's see.
00:50:43Oh, that actually looks very good.
00:50:45So, as Muslim people, when we want to eat anything, we say bismillah.
00:50:52Mm-hmm.
00:50:52Like bon appetit?
00:50:54Yeah.
00:50:54To you.
00:50:59Mm.
00:51:01So good.
00:51:02It's fine if you eat it or no.
00:51:04No, so good.
00:51:07Thank you for doing all this.
00:51:09I love the sweet side of you, because that makes me feel like you actually, like, love
00:51:13me.
00:51:15It's because I feel it.
00:51:17Do you feel romance in the air?
00:51:19We're passing this period of fighting.
00:51:22That's something good.
00:51:23I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me.
00:51:27I feel so, so happy to see you here, especially.
00:51:32It's like a dream and unreal.
00:51:35What's the word?
00:51:37We can't say it's...
00:51:38Unreal, yeah.
00:51:39Mm-hmm.
00:51:41That was very sweet, babe.
00:51:43Look at you being so romantic today.
00:51:46I'm happy to be here, too.
00:51:48Yesterday it was 0%.
00:51:50Right now it's 7%.
00:51:55So it's only at 7% now?
00:51:57Yeah.
00:51:58It's slowly, slowly, step by step.
00:52:01We can't be, like, 0% and 50%, no.
00:52:08What percent do you need to actually get engaged to 100%?
00:52:11Exactly.
00:52:12And you're only at 7% right now?
00:52:14It's just numbers.
00:52:16With time, it will be more than 200%.
00:52:18All right.
00:52:20On a scale from 0% to 100%, how much do you love me?
00:52:25Why are you always looking for the only sense?
00:52:27Because I need to know.
00:52:28I always say 70%.
00:52:3270%?
00:52:33It's...
00:52:33Okay.
00:52:33So you love me more than if you're sure you want to get engaged to me.
00:52:40Yeah, because engagement, it's a big thing.
00:52:42Okay.
00:52:43You see?
00:52:43All right.
00:52:44But you love me at 70.
00:52:46Mm-hmm.
00:52:46Okay.
00:52:47That's good.
00:52:48Yep.
00:52:50You know, what would have made this dinner 100 times better?
00:52:52Some dessert.
00:52:54Mm-hmm.
00:52:55Mm-hmm.
00:52:57So you want to go to dessert?
00:52:59Huh?
00:53:00You want to go to dessert?
00:53:00You say dessert?
00:53:02Dessert.
00:53:03Dessert?
00:53:03Not the desert.
00:53:04Ah.
00:53:05Dessert.
00:53:05Dessert?
00:53:06Yeah, like ice cream.
00:53:08But yes, I do want to go to the dessert.
00:53:12You look okay.
00:53:14That's funny, because when we talked the first time, you told me, you never see a camel.
00:53:19You are here right now in Marcos, and I know it's your birthday tomorrow.
00:53:22So I plan to take you to the dessert.
00:53:25It would be nice.
00:53:27Aw, mate.
00:53:29I'm excited.
00:53:31That's like my dream, to go to the desert and ride a camel.
00:53:34Yeah, yeah.
00:53:35I think it's really sweet that Ziet is planning this desert trip for the both of us.
00:53:40I know that he's only at 7%, but I only have two weeks left of my trip, and I'm really
00:53:47hoping that a romantic getaway outside of the city will speed things up.
00:53:51What do you wear to ride a camel?
00:53:54Pants?
00:54:08I'm in a good mood.
00:54:09We're packing up, and we're going to, like, a romantic getaway in the desert, and it's
00:54:14my birthday, so happy birthday to me.
00:54:17Yep.
00:54:18And then there's more.
00:54:19What's going on?
00:54:21We were getting along really well, getting really flirty.
00:54:25And he came into my room, and we made out.
00:54:33And then we had sex.
00:54:38Twice.
00:54:41So I finally got all the physical touch I've been wanting, and it felt really good, and
00:54:49it was nice.
00:54:51I would say it's, like, a normal, it's, like, average size.
00:54:56It's nothing crazy, but it's not teeny tiny.
00:54:59It, like, it fits in your hand.
00:55:01That's, like, the best way to describe it.
00:55:03I could deal with it, but I think he's really worried about how people are going to view
00:55:09him, especially because he is Muslim and, like, his religion and everything.
00:55:15But I had to tell someone.
00:55:17I feel like after having sex, we were in, like, a perfect place.
00:55:22He was being just so much nicer to me, and he was, like, telling me how much he loved me
00:55:27and how much he cared about me and how, like, he does want a future with me.
00:55:33So, with the way the last night went, I could really see a proposal, and I think hopefully
00:55:40he changed his mind, and he's feeling just as sure as I am.
00:55:46I do feel better now that we finally did have sex.
00:55:49I think this means that we're getting a lot closer, but he still doesn't know about the
00:55:55whole Muhammad situation.
00:55:57I know that he does have questions about everything, and I feel like if I'm going to be that serious
00:56:03about him and our relationship, I don't want there to be any secrets.
00:56:06I don't want to lie to him about anything.
00:56:08My friends and family have kind of warned me that once he finds out about Muhammad, he's
00:56:12probably going to break up with me.
00:56:14That's the last thing that I want to happen, but I know that I'm going to need to tell him
00:56:19sooner rather than later.
00:56:37You look handsome.
00:56:39I like this on you.
00:56:41You really do.
00:56:42You look really...
00:56:43Awesome wine.
00:56:45You look beautiful and stunning, which is a weirdo.
00:56:48Do the thing right for me.
00:56:50Now I'm giving her the time of her life for me.
00:56:52Come on, I want to lie for me.
00:56:57I will teach you how to say thank you.
00:57:00Thank you is important.
00:57:02I want to know how to say thank you.
00:57:04Imanna.
00:57:04Imanna.
00:57:05Thank you.
00:57:06Imanna.
00:57:07Imanna.
00:57:08Thank you.
00:57:10Going without my wig for the first time in front of Daniel was a very vulnerable experience
00:57:17for me, and Daniel didn't respond the way I had hoped.
00:57:22Putting the wig back on today was horrible, and now he's responding to me like I'm the
00:57:28most beautiful creature on earth yet again.
00:57:31Does he not love me for who I am?
00:57:34I'm thinking about what Faith said, and I'm starting to question what Daniel's intentions
00:57:38really are.
00:57:41I'm a little nervous.
00:57:43Is there anything I should know?
00:57:46You don't have to be of us because they're my friends.
00:57:49I know them very well.
00:57:50That's why I invited them.
00:57:51They're my friends.
00:57:52I know they're your friends, but they're not my friends, and I'm going, and they're going
00:57:56to judge me, but needless to say, I'm going to judge you through them.
00:58:03Daniel tonight is taking me to meet his friends and his cousin, and I'm hoping they can shed
00:58:07some light on a few things about Daniel.
00:58:13Daniel and I don't talk about our past relationships.
00:58:16That's why mine has never been mentioned, because every time I try to talk to Daniel, he shuts
00:58:21up, he doesn't talk about his past at all.
00:58:24So meeting his friends is a great opportunity to know more about Daniel and understand who
00:58:28he is.
00:58:35Are you all right?
00:58:37No, can I have a seat?
00:58:38I have a seat.
00:58:38Thank you.
00:58:39Thank you.
00:58:41Oh.
00:58:45My beautiful queen.
00:58:47It's coming beauty, you know, from the United States.
00:58:50Her name is Lisa.
00:58:52Welcome.
00:58:53Thank you.
00:58:54Thank you so much.
00:58:56So this is Emmanuel, and this is George.
00:59:00George, yeah.
00:59:00And this is Love Day.
00:59:02Hi, Love Day.
00:59:03Happy to witness this event today.
00:59:06Honestly, honestly, we are so happy.
00:59:11Lisa is older than Daniel.
00:59:14She might not be his type.
00:59:16I think he has foolish, silly side, and I think he's comfortable with that.
00:59:24She will make a good home.
00:59:28How long have you known Daniel?
00:59:31I know him when I was there, when I was there, about 11 years.
00:59:34Oh my goodness.
00:59:35You know where I'm from?
00:59:37A very poor family.
00:59:38I'm wearing good clothes today.
00:59:40It's because of her.
00:59:41Wow.
00:59:42You can tell.
00:59:43I know him as someone that has only one pair of shoes.
00:59:48Really?
00:59:48Yeah.
00:59:49You didn't tell me these things.
00:59:51I was afraid.
00:59:52I used to wear just a pair of shirts with some openings on the obutus.
00:59:59Is that true?
01:00:00Really?
01:00:01It's me.
01:00:02So without her, I don't know where I would be today.
01:00:06Do you know why the relationship is perfect?
01:00:09Why?
01:00:09Do you know why?
01:00:10No.
01:00:11Because you have transformed his life.
01:00:14We should continue doing that.
01:00:17Don't deviate from it.
01:00:21Well, it's not easy.
01:00:23I have to say, it's not easy helping Daniel.
01:00:27I work 15-hour days, seven days a week.
01:00:30That's how Daniel is changing, because I'm working the hard times.
01:00:36And it concerns me, because he doesn't share much of his past with me.
01:00:43I want to know more about your old life, baby.
01:00:46Good.
01:00:47Okay, so I do have a question.
01:00:49Was he very popular with ladies?
01:00:58He's a handsome guy.
01:01:00He's a black handsome guy.
01:01:03Women love me so much.
01:01:05But that was the past.
01:01:06Look, I have not brought any woman in my family in the name of getting married to the woman.
01:01:15You know that.
01:01:17When Daniel came at me on social media, out of the blue, I thought he was a scam artist.
01:01:24I thought he was fake.
01:01:25I did not think he was real.
01:01:27So I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while.
01:01:31It took him a minute to get me to trust him.
01:01:35The thing is, I'm just surprised that he's only been with me since December, and he's already proposed.
01:01:42Honestly, thank God that he's the one.
01:01:46Let me just say you've helped him in different areas.
01:01:50He's just like an angel who can choose life.
01:01:54All I'm hearing right now is, I am Daniel's savior.
01:01:59He is a new man.
01:02:00It's given me a bit of a pause.
01:02:03You know, there's something that happened before I came to Nigeria that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me.
01:02:11He has been sincere to you.
01:02:13He has been honest.
01:02:17He is truthful.
01:02:19You seem to be sweating a little bit over this, though.
01:02:21You have to sweat because of, I don't know.
01:02:24You just need to have trust.
01:02:26Yes.
01:02:27But the thing is, Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking
01:02:33to me.
01:02:38Be honest.
01:02:40Because I will walk out if you're not.
01:02:45Are we going to have more debt, more financial problems, because you can't stop gambling?
01:02:52For Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:02:54Did you gamble that?
01:02:57Yeah.
01:03:09Do you regret, like, marrying me?
01:03:30I mean, it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute.
01:03:33No.
01:03:34I love you.
01:03:35It's just that I want you to, you know, like, I guess I want you to be more, like, positive.
01:03:43I just want you to overlook the negativity.
01:03:48You're making me feel uncomfortable, like you're not enjoying your time with me.
01:03:52I'm enjoying the time.
01:03:53It makes me feel really...
01:03:54Did you see me yesterday when I was doing this?
01:03:57Yeah, but...
01:03:58You're doing all the things that you have to do, but you always have to leave a remark.
01:04:06Look, I can promise you this.
01:04:09I'm going to do my best to not, you know, throw in your face about what I do in the
01:04:18marriage.
01:04:21Like, provide for you.
01:04:24And I promise you not to be so negative, but, I mean, could you make me a promise and just
01:04:32ease up on me a little bit, cut me a little bit of slack?
01:04:39I actually feel bad when you feel bad, and I feel guilty.
01:04:43I feel like sometimes I act, I overreact to things.
01:04:49I just really want to have a good time, please.
01:04:52Well, I do too.
01:04:54But I feel like you always look constipated.
01:04:57Like, oh!
01:04:58Because I'm always being chewed, getting my ass chewed out.
01:05:02Like, it's just, like, like...
01:05:04Like this, Javon.
01:05:10Oh, my God, boo!
01:05:12It's so sunny today!
01:05:14Yeah!
01:05:15I think it's going to rain again.
01:05:18Thank God it stopped raining.
01:05:20I thought we'd be stuck in the room the whole time.
01:05:23I don't want you to get too comfortable, because it still might rain.
01:05:25Oh, my God, you don't say that!
01:05:29You jinxed it!
01:05:30We'll have to try it with cheese.
01:05:33I mean, but don't you think that's a weird combination?
01:05:36If you're going to rate it one to five, how is it?
01:05:39Probably a two.
01:05:40A two?
01:05:41Yeah.
01:05:41Really?
01:05:44I'm going to go to the bathroom.
01:05:46This is a 90-year-old man in the last stages of his life, basically.
01:05:51That's how you're making me sound.
01:05:54So we good?
01:05:57All right.
01:06:00Yes, we made up right now, but because of the last few days, I kind of worried about the future.
01:06:11We struggled to get along during our honeymoon.
01:06:14How are we going to get along for the rest of our lives?
01:06:18Come here.
01:06:19Come sit on my lap.
01:06:21Come on.
01:06:21We've been together six years in a long-distance relationship, and now that we're finally
01:06:29get to be together physically, you see everything about your partner.
01:06:37And I hope that Jovan and I can take all the good with the bad, but right now, I don't
01:06:46know.
01:06:48I just sweat, I don't know.
01:07:05How often are you gambling?
01:07:20Is gambling part of all of this debt?
01:07:25I gamble, I make more money, but that is why I have to gamble, because I need money, and I
01:07:32have nowhere to find.
01:07:38I gamble, I make more money.
01:07:40I have a progress.
01:07:51I'm angry. I'm hurt. I am shocked. I think gambling is fine, like, when you have money to lose, but
01:08:03he doesn't have anything.
01:08:04The fact that he thinks that he can gamble instead of actually going out and finding a job is ridiculously
01:08:12concerning to me.
01:08:14That's not a job.
01:08:15I don't even understand what he's thinking.
01:08:20So, instead of a gift for Valentine's Day, I sent you money.
01:08:24Yeah.
01:08:25Did you gamble that?
01:08:30Yeah.
01:08:31You sent me how much?
01:08:34Like $150, yeah.
01:08:35Yeah, and that makes $5,000.
01:08:39And we made it $20, I guess, and we paid our rent.
01:08:44It was like you sent us money, but it wasn't solving anything.
01:08:48It's just, okay, we can eat, but maybe three days later we have to empty the house, you know?
01:08:55But what if you would have lost that?
01:08:58I will figure it out.
01:08:59But I...
01:09:03That was money that I sent you for you, and if you would have lost it and been like,
01:09:07hey, I lost the money that you gave me, I would be livid. I'm actually kind of livid right now.
01:09:12That seems irresponsible to me.
01:09:14What can I say?
01:09:16I'm trying to make a way out for us.
01:09:19So, if you...
01:09:21Gambling is something I have to do.
01:09:25Is gambling an addiction?
01:09:28Gambling is not an addiction for me.
01:09:31If I was addicted, I don't care if I lose or win, but I care.
01:09:39And I'm winning.
01:09:41If you come to America, and we're sharing our life, we're sharing our money, we're sharing our banks,
01:09:47are you going to pick it up and gamble it?
01:09:49Because you just...
01:09:50No, it is your money.
01:09:51Well, it would be our money.
01:09:52No, it is your money.
01:09:54How is it...
01:09:54I don't gamble with your money, but I will gamble with mine.
01:09:56You kind of already did.
01:10:00How do you have something that's specifically yours if we're married?
01:10:04Wouldn't it always be ours?
01:10:06No.
01:10:07It is like if I...
01:10:09It is like if I make $5,000 per month, I will give you $4,000.
01:10:14But I will tell you that $1,000 I need, and I will bet with that.
01:10:21And I will make that $1,000, maybe nothing, maybe $50,000.
01:10:26Because this is me.
01:10:28This is my life.
01:10:29This is how I do things.
01:10:34Gambling is just a way to make money.
01:10:39I started when I was having financial struggle because, you know, I had nothing.
01:10:45But now, mostly, I just bet some football games.
01:10:49Because that's what I used to do for a living.
01:10:51Just, I can't play.
01:10:53But I can bet.
01:10:56If we do go through with this and apply for that K-1 visa, I am financially responsible
01:11:02for you for like 10 years.
01:11:04Okay.
01:11:05And I guess that's my concern, is that are we going to have more debt, more financial
01:11:09problems, because you can't stop gambling?
01:11:14No.
01:11:15Because if I hit a grand jackpot, I won.
01:11:19You know?
01:11:19I have money.
01:11:20See?
01:11:21I succeeded.
01:11:23So, until you feel like you're successful, you're going to keep gambling?
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:34It's super alarming to me to hear that he thinks that this is the best way to make money.
01:11:41And knowing that I will be financially responsible for him concerns me greatly.
01:11:48This is really serious.
01:11:50And I feel like I should just pull the plug and go home now.
01:12:00This girl ended up calling me.
01:12:03And pretty much told me he's a scam artist because he's going after more women than just
01:12:07me that are in America.
01:12:10I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is.
01:12:16And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel, I will not be coming back to this country.
01:12:30Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time he was talking to me.
01:12:54He was talking to me.
01:13:00He was talking to me.
01:13:02He was talking to me.
01:13:04And I was talking to you.
01:13:05This girl ended up calling me and talking to me, telling me all these things that Daniel
01:13:14was saying to her, and she also pretty much told me he's a scam artist because he's going
01:13:19after more women than just me that are in America.
01:13:22Did you know about this woman that he was talking to?
01:13:26Um, to be sincere, I don't know about that.
01:13:34A couple months ago, an American woman got in touch with me on social media and basically
01:13:39told me Daniel was talking to her at the same time he was talking to me.
01:13:44She sent me screenshots of her and Daniel's conversation.
01:13:47She sent me personal pictures Daniel sent to her of himself, and he called her baby.
01:13:54That hurt me.
01:13:55It still hurts me.
01:13:57Daniel said she's just a friend, and after he blocked her, I gave her a baby.
01:14:02I gave him the benefit of the doubt, and I deleted the screenshots because I believed
01:14:06him.
01:14:08But the more I'm hearing his friends say how I changed his life, the more I'm wondering
01:14:13if this woman was right.
01:14:15And Daniel was just looking for any American woman who was willing to respond.
01:14:21She said that you were going after her strong, and she wasn't giving you the time of the day.
01:14:25So what do you want to say about that, Daniel?
01:14:30That is on social media, right?
01:14:31It is on social media.
01:14:33So social media, I have a lot of friends there.
01:14:36You do, you do, but we're not talking about them.
01:14:38We're talking...
01:14:38No, no, I'm not on this team.
01:14:40Give me a hand, please.
01:14:40I'm asking you about her because you did talk to her.
01:14:43That's why I told you that before I met you, there are some other ladies who wanted me.
01:14:50And some of them were, you know, coming after me.
01:14:53Like I told you...
01:14:54But she wasn't.
01:14:54You were going after her.
01:14:55That's the difference.
01:14:56Yes, you were, Daniel.
01:14:56I never did.
01:14:57Yes, you did.
01:14:58You wanted her as an American.
01:15:00She told me so.
01:15:01I never went to.
01:15:01I never went to her, you know, for friendship or any relationship.
01:15:06There's something more going on, Daniel.
01:15:13I don't know.
01:15:14I don't know why she's trying to accuse me.
01:15:15Have you pursued Americans before, Lisa?
01:15:22I do talk to other women.
01:15:24From America?
01:15:25Yes, from America.
01:15:26I do talk to other women from America.
01:15:28I only chat them, you know, ask them how they're doing, you know, ask them how the day went, you
01:15:33know.
01:15:33That's the only thing I do.
01:15:35But I've not tried to date an American lady before.
01:15:39No, Lisa is the first lady that, you know, that came into my life.
01:15:44Well, I love Daniel.
01:15:45Yes.
01:15:46But nobody is perfect.
01:15:47And I am here begging you for some truth of what Daniel actually is.
01:15:57I need to clear all this up before we get married.
01:16:02Maybe she lies.
01:16:09It's not funny.
01:16:15All I want to say, I want you to trust him.
01:16:21Why should I?
01:16:22Tell me why.
01:16:23I know him very, very well.
01:16:25I know why I have to trust him.
01:16:29He cannot disappoint you.
01:16:31I'm the one working 15-hour days.
01:16:33I'm the one working seven days a week to make sure he looks like this.
01:16:38So I am giving up stuff to be here.
01:16:40My family is worried about me.
01:16:42They have every concern.
01:16:44And if I don't come home with everything on Daniel, I will not be coming back to this country.
01:16:49And if you're not going to share it with me, I will find it.
01:16:52I'm not hiding.
01:16:53I didn't hide anything.
01:16:54You picked me from the gutter.
01:16:56You cluttered me.
01:16:58You feed me.
01:16:59So why should I be playing with you?
01:17:03Why should I be, you know, playing games?
01:17:12I feel like his friends are protecting him, as every friend, if they're a really good friend,
01:17:16should have your back.
01:17:18But I feel like a sugar mom.
01:17:21They kept saying it over and over and over again.
01:17:23I'm an angel.
01:17:24I have saved Daniel from the street.
01:17:27I'm sitting here wondering, is he a scam artist?
01:17:30Is he after me for my money?
01:17:32I just don't think he's telling me the full truth.
01:17:35I think he's given me little nibbles of what is reality.
01:17:40And it's going to be up to me to put together this puzzle piece.
01:17:43I appreciate you guys coming and meeting me.
01:17:46I was just hoping for a little bit more than this.
01:17:48From my own opinion, I think you're scared for heartbroken.
01:17:52You don't want to be hurt anymore.
01:17:59I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:18:03I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:18:09I cannot.
01:18:10I'm sorry.
01:18:12I know now that I was wrong.
01:18:14Please, forgive me.
01:18:33We're both back to Nosey Bay is here.
01:18:38Okay.
01:18:39So let's go back.
01:18:41Don't touch me.
01:18:43Don't touch me.
01:18:44Don't make it worse.
01:18:46Just leave me alone.
01:19:06Are you ready?
01:19:16I don't want to even look at him.
01:19:24I thought he's different from my ex.
01:19:27He's like a good guy, a good father, a good boyfriend.
01:19:33Faithful.
01:19:35But Rick didn't tell me the truth.
01:19:39He was not honest with me.
01:19:43Go ahead.
01:19:45What are you waiting for?
01:19:47Go.
01:19:48Waiting for you.
01:19:50What you care.
01:19:52I told him that I was hurting from my past relationship.
01:19:57But here we are.
01:19:59Same story again.
01:20:06Baby.
01:20:07Uh-uh.
01:20:07Just don't talk.
01:20:09How long are you not going to talk to me?
01:20:11Why are you kidding about that?
01:20:12How long I'm going to talk or not?
01:20:14Because I want to resolve this.
01:20:15Resolve what?
01:20:16You didn't remember what you did?
01:20:18I do remember.
01:20:20I'd rather you stay here and not coming here.
01:20:27I refuse to believe that you regret me coming.
01:20:31I've seen the love in your eyes.
01:20:34You know, just allow me the opportunity to show you
01:20:37how committed I am to you.
01:20:45I told you I was ashamed of what I did.
01:20:47I'm not proud of you.
01:20:48You were not even ashamed.
01:20:50Because I explained to you after the five days,
01:20:53but you still went to Colombia.
01:20:55So why didn't you cancel?
01:20:58Because even after those five days,
01:21:00things still didn't add up.
01:21:02And I felt like I was just getting strung along.
01:21:07Because I thought you were cheating on me.
01:21:09And I felt like...
01:21:10It's my fault.
01:21:13It's my fault.
01:21:15We didn't really start communicating like before until I got back.
01:21:22So in your mind is, even if she already explained to me,
01:21:27I will still go because I want to revenge her.
01:21:34In some ways, that's true.
01:21:38I mean, I know now that I was wrong.
01:21:50I want you to forgive me.
01:21:57I have nothing to say, Rick.
01:22:02I cannot be with someone who still have feelings for their ex.
01:22:09I'd rather he told me, like, for coming here.
01:22:15Now, I don't know what to tell my dad.
01:22:19My whole family.
01:22:26I don't know what to tell them.
01:22:28Okay.
01:22:31Don't touch me, Rick.
01:22:34It's not like I'm giving up on us.
01:22:40We just have to work, too.
01:22:42I cannot.
01:22:43I'm sorry.
01:22:53Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:22:55Oh, my God.
01:22:58Zied and I are going for a little romantic getaway outside of the city.
01:23:02I have a nice birthday surprise for you later.
01:23:05A surprise?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:06We're really connecting.
01:23:07And Zied's always known that I've wanted a proposal on my birthday.
01:23:11I have one more thing for you.
01:23:14Okay.
01:23:18This is us.
01:23:19I'm very excited to see where my wife lives and where my money is going.
01:23:26Oh, wow, bro.
01:23:28This is a lot bigger than what I initially thought.
01:23:32Everywhere I look, I just see dollar signs, a lot of travel photos, huge closets.
01:23:37It makes me feel taken advantage of.
01:23:42I know it is hard to understand my lifestyle, my choices.
01:23:50BeerCon has what I can only consider to be a gambling problem.
01:23:54And it's really making me second guess any kind of future I could have with BeerCon.
01:24:00You know, that is why you are so special to me.
01:24:03Even if we have problems, we will find a solution.
01:24:10Until yesterday, you did not know anything about Sheena's finances.
01:24:16You didn't know the truth about her relationship with her family.
01:24:21Is this a person you can trust?
01:24:24These were big lies for us.
01:24:28She did lie about almost everything.
01:24:33It really hurts me to be in court.
01:24:36But I can't be with someone who is going to constantly lie to me.
01:24:43Hi!
01:24:45Tonight, we're meeting up with my Aunt Spring.
01:24:47Heard a lot about you.
01:24:49And there's some things that I do have questions about.
01:24:53I do understand why Aviva has fallen for Stig.
01:24:56But I don't think that he is the great person that she believes him to be.
01:25:01So, I have heard some things.
01:25:05I mean, this is you, isn't it?
01:25:11I came here to be with you, but I want answers.
01:25:15Say it.
01:25:16I don't want to find out by her.
01:25:18I want to find out from you.
01:25:19I cannot step to what I didn't do.
01:25:21I can't.
01:25:22He is lying to me, and he's trying to make me look insane.
01:25:26I don't want to believe there's others.
01:25:28I need this lady to write back to me because I need to know.
01:25:32Is he a scammer?
01:25:34Did she write?
01:25:35Yes, she wrote a lot.
01:25:40Oh, God.
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