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00:00:00Oh my god, this is so romantic.
00:00:03Yep.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:07With past boyfriends, I've been lied to a lot.
00:00:11So you don't need to talk about your past.
00:00:14Do you not care about my past?
00:00:16No, we can live in past.
00:00:19I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement.
00:00:24But this does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:00:29because he has something that he doesn't want to tell me.
00:00:33Hey, boo, it's your wife.
00:00:35Annalyn and I have been married for three years.
00:00:37And now I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet her for the first time in person.
00:00:44But lately it feels like we're fighting more than we're getting along.
00:00:48You told me that we're going to be married.
00:00:51We can't be giving anyone special from the past.
00:00:55And I'm not saying you're cheating on me, but it's like a baby step.
00:01:03Welcome, gorgeous.
00:01:05You want to go to bed?
00:01:08Why don't you go some sleep and I will watch some TV?
00:01:14I don't know what's happening.
00:01:16It was like great when we first met, but now I feel like there's something really wrong.
00:01:21Good night.
00:01:22Maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
00:01:24It's freaking me out.
00:01:29You lied about the fact you've been married to women several times.
00:01:33Well, I'm going to come clean on this trip.
00:01:36I'm not going to accept the marriage proposal until we have this conversation.
00:01:40You can meet her.
00:01:42Okay, we are at the home.
00:01:44Now that the ancestors are approved, I am planning a big surprise when I meet Lisa at the airport.
00:01:50But I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
00:01:54We don't accept it yet.
00:01:56You were giving your parents money.
00:01:59Why did you not tell us?
00:02:01They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept.
00:02:06It's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
00:02:10That still doesn't answer the question.
00:02:14He's just got the blinders on.
00:02:16And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
00:02:22It's okay, baby.
00:02:41Wow, look at all the clothes.
00:02:43Oh, yeah.
00:02:44Check what you want.
00:02:45Then we can haggle, okay?
00:02:57Hey, Shin.
00:02:58Yeah?
00:02:58What do you think of these?
00:03:00Oh, you want to get that?
00:03:01Yeah, maybe.
00:03:03How do you think it looks on me?
00:03:04On the other side of the...
00:03:09I've been in the Philippines for a couple of days now.
00:03:13And despite all the drama, being with Sheena every day is amazing.
00:03:19Thank you.
00:03:20Thank you.
00:03:20Thank you so much.
00:03:21Yeah, thanks.
00:03:22What is that you need?
00:03:24I kind of need some shorts.
00:03:26Mm-hmm.
00:03:26Well, I like that.
00:03:27Yeah, that's cool.
00:03:28Going out and eating food, sharing meals, holding hands, kissing her.
00:03:34It's just something I've been wanting my entire life.
00:03:38Make sure you're holding me.
00:03:40Yeah, I'm holding you.
00:03:41I'm holding you.
00:03:41You're holding me.
00:03:42Okay, there we go.
00:03:44Does it fit?
00:03:45Oh.
00:03:47Oh, it's a little bit small.
00:03:49Mm-mm.
00:03:49Yeah.
00:03:50Okay.
00:03:51Sorry, that's too sad.
00:03:53I'm sorry, I'm a giant man.
00:03:54Oh, yeah.
00:03:58I kind of packed really light since Sheena was going on and on about how easy and cheap
00:04:03it is to go and get clothes here in the Philippines.
00:04:06Turns out, you can find clothes.
00:04:08It's just, I'm a big man.
00:04:12Yeah, if she has some t-shirts, we'd like to check that out.
00:04:15I'm going to have a t-shirt.
00:04:16You can have a t-shirt.
00:04:182X.
00:04:19Nah, that's too small.
00:04:20She won five weeks.
00:04:23Man, why do I have to be so ginormous?
00:04:28Forrest, he's around like 6'2 or 6'3.
00:04:32It's not too common to have a height like that here in my country.
00:04:36My previous partner, that was around like 5' or 5'2.
00:04:41But for me, Forrest is the most tallest guy that I've ever seen.
00:04:48Wow, you look like a macho, you look like a professional guy, you look like a tennis player.
00:04:53Yeah.
00:04:54It's too tight.
00:04:55It's too tight.
00:04:56Ow.
00:04:56See, we'll just look somewhere else.
00:04:59Yeah.
00:05:00Oh.
00:05:01Right now, I'm kind of regretting bringing just a backpack with a couple fresh shirts and a pair of
00:05:06fun days on my multi-week trip here in the Philippines.
00:05:09But thank goodness I was able to find some banana hammock underwear.
00:05:12Hopefully, I get to try those on later.
00:05:14You never know.
00:05:17Hey, baby.
00:05:18It's so hot.
00:05:20You know, maybe I'll just take a seat real quick.
00:05:23Okay.
00:05:24Let's take a seat.
00:05:25Yeah.
00:05:27I'm really grateful to have this alone time with Sheena.
00:05:30Since my mom and my stepdad, Dev, joined me on this trip to the Philippines, it's been
00:05:34kind of hard to come by.
00:05:36And unfortunately, having them around has not been rose petals and unicorns.
00:05:42So, Sheena, how are you feeling after last night?
00:05:47It's a much better now, so you don't have any problems with that.
00:05:51Last night, my mom confronted Sheena about lying and giving the money to her parents and
00:05:58not actually saving anything.
00:06:00I feel bad about how ugly things got, but I'm very glad Sheena agreed to finally confront
00:06:05her parents about this issue and kind of get the ball rolling.
00:06:08The big issue next is to take you to meet up with your parents and confront them about,
00:06:15you know, the money issues and everything.
00:06:20I believe that after everything the last seven years, cutting off your family is the only
00:06:26thing we can do.
00:06:28It's time to be independent.
00:06:30It's time to be strong.
00:06:31And I'm going to be behind you and be your backbone every step of the way.
00:06:39I understand that, babe.
00:06:44This is the best thing that I could do.
00:06:46I would plan a meeting for you so you could explain to them the situation that, sorry, we don't
00:06:53have that much money, but we're trying to stay because you have a lot of plans for us.
00:06:58And I will have to move with you to the U.S.
00:07:01Just show them that you are a very sincere person, what kind of person you are.
00:07:05Because in my culture, parents are the ones who should approve if we are going to marry someone.
00:07:17So if my parents would approve, then it would be much easier for just to have a better future
00:07:23for us.
00:07:31Sheena, why didn't you explain this to me beforehand?
00:07:34Why didn't you just come out and tell me?
00:07:37It's complicated.
00:07:40Sheena has never told me that I need her parents' approval to marry her.
00:07:45I feel like after everything I've heard about them and how they have been mistreating Sheena,
00:07:52I don't believe that I need their blessing at all.
00:07:55So now I have to go and get their approval while I have to tell them that their days are
00:08:00basically numbered with getting money away from their daughter.
00:08:03This does not sound like an easy task.
00:08:06Also, what happened last night with talking with your mom, I have been thinking about what
00:08:12if we could meet, you could meet my parents first, personally, before we introduce your
00:08:20parents.
00:08:21Because if I would take your mom to the province and she would cause a lot of commotion, then
00:08:26things doesn't quite work.
00:08:33So you think that we should have me come see your parents a day ahead of my parents?
00:08:41I think it's the best way to meet everyone.
00:08:45Well, Sheena, all right.
00:08:51But my mom is definitely going to blow her lid.
00:08:55She's not going to take this too well.
00:08:57I know, babe.
00:08:59I understand about that.
00:09:02My mom's pretty much going to freak out and really think now that Sheena is cutting my
00:09:08mom out of the situation.
00:09:10She already doesn't trust Sheena.
00:09:12And I believe that this is just going to make things worse.
00:09:15And I'm scared.
00:09:23My titties are.
00:09:25Don't wear a strapless bra.
00:09:28It's going to take two days.
00:09:31I'm ready to whip them out, fling them around, get some air, do whatever needs to be going
00:09:36with my titties because they're hurting.
00:10:04Today is my big day.
00:10:06My girlfriend is coming.
00:10:09So that's why I'm excited and happy.
00:10:13Oh, my God.
00:10:14Lisa is coming today.
00:10:16I barely slept last night.
00:10:18Where should I put this?
00:10:20I live in Hawaii.
00:10:23That's my hometown.
00:10:24But because of things that are going on there, a lot of shooting, a lot of, you know, kidnappings.
00:10:30Lisa booked hotel for she and I to stay here in Lagos.
00:10:35I can't even wait to, you know, welcome her.
00:10:38And when I see her with my eyes, oh, my God.
00:10:42I will kiss her like I never did before.
00:10:48I'm really nervous.
00:10:52I planned a lot of things to welcome her from the airport.
00:10:57And she doesn't have an idea of what I'm planning.
00:11:06So we have begun to just say, I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:12I have to do a happy dance.
00:11:14I'm so excited.
00:11:16I'm finally going to meet Daniel for the first time.
00:11:19But I'm nervous because there's so much to tell him.
00:11:22Like the fact that I'm still married to a woman and that I've been with women for the past 21
00:11:28years.
00:11:29Oh, my gosh.
00:11:30I am so ready for this to come to fruition.
00:11:35I want to marry Daniel.
00:11:37But I promised my daughter, Faith, I wouldn't get married while I'm in Nigeria.
00:11:41And that I will tell him about my past before getting engaged.
00:11:45But I don't want to tell him everything right away.
00:11:49I want to get comfortable with him and eventually open up when the time is right.
00:11:57Oh, touchdown.
00:11:57Touchdown.
00:12:07Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:08Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:09Oh, my God.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:10Oh, my God.
00:12:11Oh, my God.
00:12:11Oh, my God.
00:12:12Oh, my God.
00:12:13Oh, my God.
00:12:14Oh, my God.
00:12:20I've been so desperate, so eager to see her.
00:12:25Edward's son is ready to wake up the love of my heart.
00:12:30The love of my love.
00:12:33I'm so nervous.
00:12:34I feel like a drowned rat from the heat and the humidity.
00:12:38No, no, no.
00:13:12No, no, no.
00:13:38The bags are under my eyes, and the wrinkles are in my forehead.
00:13:44Normally, when I talk to Daniel on video,
00:13:48I have the opportunity of getting my makeup perfect,
00:13:51getting my lighting just so, putting my camera angle
00:13:54just where it needs to be, and trying to be perfect.
00:13:58I don't feel perfect right now.
00:14:04Ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay, ay.
00:14:14In a few seconds, she should be coming out.
00:14:16I will see.
00:14:26Well, I'm getting it.
00:14:32I have a million thoughts going through my mind right now.
00:14:35How am I going to be able to keep all these promises I made to faith?
00:14:38What if I come clean about my past,
00:14:40and he just leaves me stranded in a foreign country?
00:14:43And then my worst nightmare.
00:14:44What if I'm not what he expected?
00:14:47I'm terrified.
00:14:49I'm afraid he's going to reject me.
00:14:51And if he rejects me, it's all for nothing.
00:14:59I am here.
00:15:00I am wishing.
00:15:02I'm done.
00:15:03I'm done.
00:15:03I'm done.
00:15:04All right.
00:15:05Here we go.
00:15:17She's taking a deep breath for, man.
00:15:19Trying to get comfortable, man.
00:15:21Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:15:23Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:15:26I know, man.
00:15:28Cute.
00:15:29Sexy.
00:15:31Jabon and I had a fight because he told me that he's been talking to this woman.
00:15:35But we have some problems that are way worse than this.
00:15:44This is where we're going.
00:15:46Okay.
00:15:47The thing I have planned today is probably the least romantic
00:15:52and the most awkward date we could have on my second date here in Turkey.
00:15:58Are you nervous?
00:15:59A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:16:07What are you taking a deep breath for, man?
00:16:10No, I'm just trying to get comfortable, man.
00:16:13Oh, hey, hey, don't you get comfortable.
00:16:16Because Anna, man, she about to have your ass hell on wheels.
00:16:19I know, man.
00:16:20The only time you're going to be comfortable when your ass is asleep.
00:16:25Yeah.
00:16:25You got me in a love, hey.
00:16:29Call it the love days, baby.
00:16:34All right.
00:16:36You're driving me.
00:16:37Love you.
00:16:37All right.
00:16:38Love you too, man.
00:16:39Have a safe trip, man.
00:16:40Yeah.
00:16:42Just arrived at the airport, you know, ready to see my lovely wife, Anna.
00:16:50Yeah, man, I'm excited.
00:16:53This is it.
00:16:54Today's the day I fly to the Philippines to meet my wife for the first time in person.
00:17:03I just got past checkpoint, and, you know, I'm heading to my gate right now.
00:17:10I got a long flight ahead of me, but I'm one step closer to seeing Anna.
00:17:20This trip for me determines my future with Anna Lynn, because if it doesn't go well, I need to figure
00:17:28out what that means for this relationship.
00:17:32I really do love her, so I'm praying that this marriage wasn't a huge mistake.
00:17:39This is it.
00:17:41I can't wait to see her.
00:17:56I am a dreamer.
00:17:59No!
00:18:00I'm a dreamer.
00:18:03I love her.
00:18:04I love her.
00:18:06I love her.
00:18:08I love her.
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00:23:33Atayon y'y gumagawa ng kapalaran natin.
00:23:35Ito y'y pinili ko eh.
00:23:37So, kailangan kong panindigan.
00:23:40Pakasal ka nga.
00:23:41Wala naman siya dito.
00:23:46I love Jubon, and I know he loves me,
00:23:49but my biggest fear is Jubon will come here,
00:23:54and we can't get along.
00:23:56But it's not like I'm meeting a boyfriend,
00:23:59I'm meeting a husband.
00:24:00I can't just, you know, give up after everything I did for six years.
00:24:07If we can't resolve our issues and we fight the whole time,
00:24:11what am I gonna do?
00:24:14Sana lang patutungohan yung kahintay mo sa kanya sa loob ng habang taon.
00:24:41How are you feeling when you went to bed last night?
00:24:44To be completely honest,
00:24:46I was really frustrated,
00:24:50disappointed,
00:24:51because I went to bed alone.
00:25:01When I got here,
00:25:02there were lots of moments where it felt really awkward.
00:25:05Like, we were
00:25:07not sure what to say.
00:25:10And it,
00:25:10I internalized those things.
00:25:13And so, last night,
00:25:15I decided to go
00:25:17out into the living room
00:25:18and see if I could have
00:25:20a little bit of a conversation with beer con.
00:25:24I felt really disconnected
00:25:25that whole first day.
00:25:29I wanted to give you some space, so...
00:25:32But at the time, I'm thinking,
00:25:34oh, s***, my worst fear
00:25:36that he's just not attracted to me in person
00:25:39has just come true.
00:25:42It didn't.
00:25:44Yeah.
00:25:45We ended up, like, making out pretty good.
00:25:48Good times.
00:25:53We have time
00:25:54to explore this further
00:25:56as we get to know each other better.
00:25:59But, you know,
00:26:01I am still kind of feeling a little, like,
00:26:04unsure about the situation
00:26:05because he decided to put the brakes
00:26:08on us having sex.
00:26:10And also, I am worried
00:26:12because we have some things to do later today.
00:26:15that I'm really anxious about.
00:26:29More rain.
00:26:31Yeah.
00:26:32God loves us.
00:26:33I feel like he's crying on us.
00:26:36We are bringing bliss
00:26:37wherever we go.
00:26:38Okay.
00:26:40I think this is where we're going.
00:26:42Okay.
00:26:45The thing I have planned today
00:26:47is probably the least romantic
00:26:50and the most awkward date
00:26:52we could have
00:26:53on my second date here in Turkey.
00:26:59Hello.
00:27:00Hi.
00:27:00Oh, hi, kitty.
00:27:02You must be Laura.
00:27:03Yes.
00:27:03Nice to meet you.
00:27:05Please take a seat.
00:27:06Okay.
00:27:06Thank you.
00:27:07Before I came to Turkey,
00:27:10I had been researching
00:27:11skin removal surgery,
00:27:13and Turkey has such high-quality
00:27:15plastic surgeons.
00:27:17So, fortunately,
00:27:18I was able to secure
00:27:20an appointment with one,
00:27:22but unfortunately,
00:27:24the only appointment they had
00:27:26was for today.
00:27:29So awkward.
00:27:32Are you nervous?
00:27:33A little bit, yeah, actually.
00:27:35So you want me to come
00:27:37inside with you,
00:27:38or you want to do it alone?
00:27:42If you want to come, you can.
00:27:44Okay.
00:27:45A few weeks ago,
00:27:46I asked Bjorkhan to come with me
00:27:48because I kind of want to see
00:27:49how our future could look together
00:27:53as someone who's supposed
00:27:54to support me.
00:27:56But now I kind of think
00:27:57it just feels weird.
00:27:59Even though we made out last night,
00:28:00I am still feeling insecure
00:28:02about how he actually
00:28:05perceives me physically.
00:28:07Is he attracted or not?
00:28:11Laura thinks too much
00:28:14about her appearance.
00:28:16It is a curse that
00:28:17you always try to be perfect,
00:28:22but nobody is perfect.
00:28:24If you ask me,
00:28:25I'm happy with my teeth
00:28:26because it is my teeth.
00:28:27I'm going to eat with this.
00:28:29So who cares?
00:28:30But this is her body,
00:28:32and she's not happy with that.
00:28:34That's why I support her.
00:28:36Hi.
00:28:37You must be Laura.
00:28:37I am.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:38Nice to meet you.
00:28:39You come?
00:28:40Nice to meet you.
00:28:41Thank you.
00:28:41Please take your seats.
00:28:42Okay.
00:28:44So I'm Dr. Amar.
00:28:45I'm a board-certified plastic surgeon.
00:28:47How can I help you?
00:28:49I have recently lost 140 pounds,
00:28:52and so I have some loose skin
00:28:55in places that I am looking
00:28:56to have removed.
00:28:58Which areas bothers you?
00:29:00Mainly in my stomach area.
00:29:02It's my least competent spot.
00:29:05Uh-huh.
00:29:06So I will take you to the studio
00:29:08for some pictures,
00:29:09if it's okay for you.
00:29:10That's fine.
00:29:10And then you can ask your questions.
00:29:12Okay.
00:29:13I love that.
00:29:13And we can figure out
00:29:14a treatment plan for you.
00:29:16I love that.
00:29:16Thank you very much.
00:29:20Just knock the door
00:29:21when you're ready.
00:29:22I will come in.
00:29:22Thank you.
00:29:23All right.
00:29:25Can I?
00:29:26For sure you can.
00:29:30I touched someone else's boobs.
00:29:32I'm sorry.
00:29:36It's like a jellyfish.
00:29:38I just wanted to touch.
00:29:40You can't blame me, guys.
00:29:48I guess at least you're having fun.
00:29:51Perfect.
00:29:52This is going to be enough for me.
00:29:54Can you come closer to the background?
00:29:56Come closer?
00:29:57Perfect.
00:29:57Okay.
00:29:58Now we're going to pull this part down
00:30:00a little bit more.
00:30:02Yeah, this is an area that I...
00:30:04Yeah, I got it.
00:30:05...wants to look at.
00:30:06I got it.
00:30:07Perfect.
00:30:08No.
00:30:09Nothing is...
00:30:10Okay.
00:30:10...seen.
00:30:11Perfect.
00:30:12All right.
00:30:14Okay.
00:30:15Just a few pictures.
00:30:17Okay.
00:30:17And it will be over.
00:30:18Your arms will be on your back.
00:30:20Exactly like that.
00:30:21Thank you very much.
00:30:23Good.
00:30:27This part as fast as possible.
00:30:34I feel really awkward
00:30:36because my stomach area
00:30:39is my biggest insecurity.
00:30:41Perfect.
00:30:42Same thing to the other side.
00:30:45I have worked my ass off
00:30:48literally and figuratively
00:30:49and the fact that I still have
00:30:52the loose skin
00:30:53has been really hard.
00:30:55Thank you very much.
00:30:57That's great.
00:30:58When I look in the mirror
00:30:59I don't want to see myself
00:31:00at 315 pounds anymore.
00:31:03I want to see myself now
00:31:05and the work that I've put in.
00:31:11Oh, okay.
00:31:12So, the problem
00:31:17at the tummy part
00:31:19is actually really common
00:31:22after losing so much weight.
00:31:24Yeah.
00:31:24I will just show you
00:31:25some pictures.
00:31:32So, as you can see
00:31:34a horizontal problem here.
00:31:36We should cut vertically.
00:31:41I was not expecting
00:31:42the doctor to
00:31:44take the things
00:31:45that you know
00:31:46are your most insecure flaws
00:31:49and project them
00:31:50for everyone to see like that.
00:31:54I am immediately regretting
00:31:56having Bearcon come with me.
00:31:58Here I am
00:31:59sitting next to my boyfriend
00:32:02who happens to be
00:32:0320 years younger than I am.
00:32:05Like, what the hell
00:32:06was I thinking?
00:32:08This is not romantic.
00:32:10It's not sexy.
00:32:12It's awful.
00:32:19So, do you think
00:32:20I can meet your family?
00:32:22My brothers, my father,
00:32:23everyone have here life.
00:32:26So, I'm not going to meet
00:32:27anyone in your family
00:32:28while I'm here?
00:32:28That's what I think.
00:32:30It's really odd
00:32:31that he wouldn't
00:32:31want to introduce me.
00:32:32It just makes me feel
00:32:34like he's hiding
00:32:35something about his life.
00:32:47Hello.
00:32:49How are you?
00:32:51Salam.
00:32:52Do you know where
00:32:53I can buy, like,
00:32:54hair oil?
00:33:04Like, to make
00:33:05hair oil, not spice.
00:33:07Down there?
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10Okay.
00:33:11Maybe here?
00:33:13No.
00:33:14No.
00:33:16Bags.
00:33:17Not oil.
00:33:18Yeah.
00:33:20Can you get
00:33:20stuff for your hair?
00:33:22Yeah.
00:33:22Oh, really?
00:33:23Here?
00:33:23Perfect.
00:33:25You want tea or puppy?
00:33:26I love tea.
00:33:36We're going to be cooking
00:33:37today.
00:33:39Thank you.
00:33:40So good.
00:33:42This doesn't really
00:33:43match my outfit.
00:33:44It's fine.
00:33:45It's just,
00:33:45it's for cover,
00:33:46your outfit,
00:33:47so you don't need...
00:33:48Thank you.
00:33:50This morning,
00:33:51I took a walk
00:33:52through the Medina
00:33:53to try and clear my head.
00:33:55This isn't really sexy.
00:33:57Right now,
00:33:58I'm feeling really concerned
00:33:59about everything
00:34:00that's happened
00:34:01since I landed.
00:34:03Ziad's been very distant
00:34:04with me,
00:34:04emotionally and physically,
00:34:06the whole time
00:34:07that I've been here,
00:34:08and it's making me
00:34:10a little suspicious.
00:34:11I'm actually really
00:34:12excited for this.
00:34:13But Ziad is taking me
00:34:16to a cooking class today,
00:34:17and I really think
00:34:19it's such a cute idea.
00:34:21I'm going to really try
00:34:22not to just be in my head
00:34:24and overthink things,
00:34:26and I'm hoping this could be
00:34:28a fun bonding moment
00:34:29between us.
00:34:30What are we making?
00:34:35Yum.
00:34:39That sounds good.
00:34:46Tell me what she's saying.
00:34:48We start with lemon.
00:34:49Okay.
00:34:51Wait, but I want to do it.
00:34:53Oh, you peel it.
00:34:54Exactly.
00:34:55Oh.
00:34:57So we're peeling the lemon.
00:34:58Exactly.
00:34:59All right.
00:35:00I could do that.
00:35:04I did it.
00:35:05Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:06She said you make it...
00:35:08Perfect.
00:35:09It's like a little slump.
00:35:14Oh!
00:35:15Are you going to try it?
00:35:17No.
00:35:19Careful, two fingers.
00:35:20Got it.
00:35:21Don't I look like a wife
00:35:22right now?
00:35:23I have an apron on.
00:35:25I'm cooking.
00:35:26This is, like,
00:35:27real wife material.
00:35:29This is actually
00:35:29a lot of fun.
00:35:30Yeah.
00:35:31I like this.
00:35:32I want to teach Emma
00:35:33how to cook for me.
00:35:35I don't have a picture
00:35:36of you in my mind.
00:35:37You are cooking you
00:35:39or you're cleaning me.
00:35:39Yeah, I don't.
00:35:40I don't cook.
00:35:41No.
00:35:42You need, for example,
00:35:43to make breakfast.
00:35:45I don't like breakfast.
00:35:46Dinner, lunch.
00:35:48How did you leave
00:35:49if you don't...
00:35:50Coffee is my breakfast.
00:35:52I could make you, like, toast.
00:35:56And what about the lunch?
00:35:57I'll order you something.
00:35:59For lunch,
00:36:00I can cook for myself.
00:36:02I make it easy for you.
00:36:04That's...
00:36:04Yeah, yeah.
00:36:05That's better.
00:36:08What's your favorite food?
00:36:10It's...
00:36:13What's my favorite?
00:36:14Do you remember?
00:36:16It's, uh...
00:36:17It's sushi.
00:36:18Yeah.
00:36:18I know it.
00:36:19Aw, you remember.
00:36:21Have you ever cooked
00:36:22for your other
00:36:22ex-girlfriends before?
00:36:24No, never.
00:36:25We don't meet in-house
00:36:27or, no, we...
00:36:28If you want to eat,
00:36:30we eat outside.
00:36:31So we don't have time to...
00:36:33Oh, so you don't eat
00:36:33in the house.
00:36:34Never.
00:36:34Just for myself.
00:36:37Oh, for my parents.
00:36:43Did you tell your family
00:36:44about me yet?
00:36:46Yeah, yeah.
00:36:46They know you are here
00:36:48and I'm with you.
00:36:51Before I came to Morocco,
00:36:54Ziad mentioned that
00:36:55he didn't tell anyone
00:36:56in his family
00:36:57that I was coming.
00:36:58I was upset.
00:37:00So I'm glad
00:37:01that Ziad finally told them.
00:37:03But...
00:37:05I'm a little disappointed
00:37:06that he hasn't set up
00:37:08a meeting.
00:37:09I want to know more
00:37:10about him
00:37:11and understand him
00:37:12a little bit more
00:37:12and I feel like meeting
00:37:13his family
00:37:14is the best way
00:37:14to do that.
00:37:16So do you think
00:37:17I can meet your family?
00:37:20I don't know
00:37:21which time
00:37:22they will be free
00:37:23or they will be there,
00:37:26for example.
00:37:26My father always traveling.
00:37:30So I'm not going to meet
00:37:31anyone in your family
00:37:32while I'm here?
00:37:33Maybe, yeah.
00:37:34That's what I think.
00:37:37Don't you think
00:37:38that's a little frustrating
00:37:39for me?
00:37:40It is, it is.
00:37:41Like I'm not seeing
00:37:41your apartment,
00:37:42I'm not meeting
00:37:42your family.
00:37:43It is.
00:37:44Every one of my brothers,
00:37:46my father,
00:37:47everyone have her life.
00:37:51You know,
00:37:52this is the man
00:37:52that I love
00:37:53and that I want
00:37:54to be with.
00:37:55It's really odd
00:37:56that he wouldn't want
00:37:56to introduce me
00:37:57to his family.
00:37:58And it just makes me
00:37:59feel like he's
00:38:00hiding me
00:38:01or hiding something
00:38:03about his life.
00:38:05And that's not okay.
00:38:08Have you ever
00:38:09introduced a girl
00:38:09to your parents?
00:38:10A girl?
00:38:11Yeah.
00:38:12No, no, no.
00:38:13The girls you date
00:38:14normally aren't just
00:38:15Moroccan girls.
00:38:16Yeah, yeah.
00:38:17Have you ever talked
00:38:18to an American girl
00:38:19like online?
00:38:21Or just me?
00:38:24Uh-huh.
00:38:26Have you talked
00:38:27to girls from like
00:38:27Europe or?
00:38:29Uh, no, no.
00:38:33Because the app
00:38:34that we met on
00:38:35is international.
00:38:36Yeah, yeah,
00:38:36I know.
00:38:37I was matched
00:38:38with a lot of girls
00:38:39but I don't talk.
00:38:40We don't,
00:38:41we didn't talk.
00:38:42You didn't message
00:38:43any of them?
00:38:44No, no, no.
00:38:47I feel like
00:38:48he's lying to me.
00:38:50Before I came
00:38:51to Morocco,
00:38:52me and Sia
00:38:52had gotten
00:38:53into a huge fight
00:38:53because I found out
00:38:55that he's still
00:38:56talking to a woman
00:38:57online.
00:38:58He told me
00:38:58that he wasn't
00:38:59cheating on me
00:39:00but I'm not so
00:39:02sure about that.
00:39:03So I downloaded
00:39:05this extension
00:39:06on my laptop
00:39:07and it shows you
00:39:10in order
00:39:10who people follow.
00:39:13Cut the garlic.
00:39:18This morning
00:39:19I checked on my computer
00:39:20and I found out
00:39:22that he's still
00:39:23adding more women.
00:39:25They're all
00:39:25from different countries.
00:39:27I mean,
00:39:28it's like he's never
00:39:29stopped looking
00:39:29for other options.
00:39:31It feels like
00:39:32everything is
00:39:33hitting me
00:39:33all at once
00:39:34and I'm putting
00:39:35the pieces together
00:39:37and it's just
00:39:38making me wonder
00:39:38if he did cheat on me
00:39:40or if he even
00:39:41really wants
00:39:41this relationship.
00:39:43I think it's time
00:39:44to find out
00:39:46what's the real
00:39:48story here.
00:39:52I still really
00:39:53want to talk
00:39:53to your family.
00:39:55It would be best
00:39:57if Forrest wanted
00:39:58to meet my family
00:39:59first
00:40:00so they could
00:40:01have a better
00:40:02understanding.
00:40:03I can't even
00:40:04imagine what her
00:40:05parents would try
00:40:06and do if Forrest
00:40:07went over there
00:40:07by himself.
00:40:08I need to be
00:40:09there with Forrest.
00:40:12Forrest.
00:40:23This is Calo
00:40:24so this is the area
00:40:26where there's
00:40:26a lot of
00:40:27you know
00:40:29street clubs.
00:40:32That's something
00:40:33we're going to
00:40:34have to do
00:40:34you guys.
00:40:36I don't need
00:40:36to see that.
00:40:36All I need
00:40:37is my sheep.
00:40:38Forrest,
00:40:39it's not the point
00:40:40of replacement.
00:40:42It's the point
00:40:43of just observing
00:40:45other things.
00:40:47I have no interest
00:40:48in women
00:40:50but the human
00:40:52body is beautiful.
00:40:53I don't even
00:40:53go to those
00:40:54in the States.
00:40:55On my construction
00:40:56job,
00:40:57that was our lunch
00:40:58because they
00:40:58cook the best
00:40:59hamburgers.
00:41:01Monday was
00:41:02amateur day.
00:41:04Oh man.
00:41:12Oh look at that
00:41:13tree coming
00:41:14right out of the
00:41:14wall.
00:41:14I know.
00:41:15That's me.
00:41:16Mmm.
00:41:18My conversation
00:41:19with Sheena
00:41:19yesterday forced
00:41:20me to re-evaluate
00:41:21how I'm going
00:41:22to approach
00:41:23Sheena's parents
00:41:23and we decided
00:41:25that it's best
00:41:26to meet Sheena's
00:41:26family first
00:41:27without my mom
00:41:28and dad.
00:41:29So what other
00:41:30things are in
00:41:31what do you call it?
00:41:32Intramural roles.
00:41:33So this is
00:41:34another historical
00:41:35site in Manila.
00:41:37It's like a
00:41:37Spanish piece.
00:41:39Oh man.
00:41:40I just have
00:41:40such a thing
00:41:41for history
00:41:42because you have
00:41:43to learn from
00:41:44history because
00:41:45history repeats
00:41:46itself.
00:41:47You can kind
00:41:48of predict
00:41:49what's going
00:41:50to happen
00:41:50if you don't
00:41:51learn from
00:41:52mistakes from
00:41:52the first time.
00:41:54You know,
00:41:54that's how
00:41:55I've always felt.
00:41:57I'm not looking
00:41:57forward to talking
00:41:58to my mom
00:41:59about this
00:41:59at all.
00:42:01She's pretty
00:42:01much going
00:42:02to freak
00:42:03out and really
00:42:04think now
00:42:04that her family
00:42:05is trying
00:42:05to get the
00:42:06hooks into me.
00:42:06Like I'm
00:42:07going to go
00:42:07the first day
00:42:08and they're
00:42:08just going
00:42:08to set me
00:42:09down.
00:42:10They're going
00:42:10to open up
00:42:10my brain
00:42:11and they're
00:42:11just going
00:42:11to pour
00:42:12the brain
00:42:13washing juice
00:42:13directly into
00:42:14my soul.
00:42:16And she's
00:42:16going to fight
00:42:17me tooth and
00:42:17nail to allow
00:42:19herself to go.
00:42:21Here we are
00:42:22at the
00:42:23intramuros.
00:42:25Woo!
00:42:28So this you
00:42:29can see it's
00:42:30like a garrison
00:42:31for Spanish
00:42:32governors.
00:42:33For all the
00:42:33important guys
00:42:34states.
00:42:35Yes, yes, yes.
00:42:36For Spanish
00:42:37rulers at that
00:42:38era.
00:42:39Yes.
00:42:39Mostly like
00:42:401600s.
00:42:40That is
00:42:41neat.
00:42:42Well, look
00:42:43at the fountain.
00:42:44Yeah, that's
00:42:44the good stuff
00:42:45here.
00:42:45Oh, my God.
00:42:46You want to
00:42:46see?
00:42:47It's so
00:42:47beautiful.
00:42:48Yeah.
00:42:49You can
00:42:49definitely tell
00:42:49that you're
00:42:49not in America
00:42:50anymore.
00:42:51You can
00:42:51see the
00:42:51constructions,
00:42:52the variations.
00:42:53You know
00:42:54what one
00:42:54thing Dev
00:42:55and I talk
00:42:55about all
00:42:56the time is
00:42:56we'll look
00:42:57at a rock
00:42:58and we
00:42:58say, you
00:43:00know, imagine
00:43:01how much
00:43:02this rock
00:43:03has seen.
00:43:06It all
00:43:06blows my
00:43:07mind right
00:43:07there.
00:43:08Oh, man.
00:43:11To Sheena's
00:43:12credit, she
00:43:13really is making
00:43:14the effort to
00:43:15show us the
00:43:16best of her
00:43:16country.
00:43:17Oh, my God.
00:43:18Yes.
00:43:19Hard.
00:43:19How old is
00:43:20this?
00:43:20Probably a
00:43:21thousand years.
00:43:21I don't know.
00:43:22Yeah, you
00:43:22could trade
00:43:22over.
00:43:23Maybe
00:43:23something will
00:43:23pop up.
00:43:24Oh, no, no.
00:43:24I don't want to
00:43:25open it.
00:43:26But honestly, I
00:43:28don't regret going
00:43:28so hard on Sheena
00:43:29the other night
00:43:30like that.
00:43:32Whoa.
00:43:33Oh, my God.
00:43:34I want to get
00:43:34one of these
00:43:35hats.
00:43:37That's what it
00:43:38looks like.
00:43:38Oh, you're like
00:43:39Vietnamese.
00:43:39Oh, hey, that's
00:43:40perfect.
00:43:41I want to believe
00:43:42she has good
00:43:42intentions.
00:43:43Yeah, you're so
00:43:45handsome.
00:43:46But we're just
00:43:47sitting here
00:43:47stirring in the
00:43:48pot.
00:43:50I'm still struggling
00:43:51to figure out
00:43:52why Sheena lied.
00:43:53And I know
00:43:55in my heart
00:43:56that there is
00:43:56more to this
00:43:57story.
00:43:58There.
00:43:59There.
00:44:00That's there.
00:44:04I'm going to
00:44:05sit down, guys.
00:44:06I'm sweating
00:44:07like crazy.
00:44:09This is
00:44:10all wonderful.
00:44:12I didn't realize
00:44:13how truly
00:44:14beautiful the
00:44:15Philippines is.
00:44:16Yes.
00:44:17Thanks so much.
00:44:18I mean,
00:44:19seeing this,
00:44:20meeting you,
00:44:21is so
00:44:23important.
00:44:25But there's
00:44:26still one little
00:44:27piece of the
00:44:29puzzle, and
00:44:30that's with
00:44:30your family.
00:44:33So I still
00:44:34really want to
00:44:34talk to them
00:44:35and discuss
00:44:36things.
00:44:39Well, I'm
00:44:40glad that you
00:44:40brought up, you
00:44:41know, Sheena's
00:44:42family.
00:44:47Sheena and I
00:44:48had a discussion
00:44:49about, you
00:44:50know, going by
00:44:51ourselves to meet
00:44:52your parents, and
00:44:52how it's important
00:44:53that I meet them
00:44:54before Mom and
00:44:56Dad meet them.
00:44:57So, Mom, I know
00:44:59that you wanted to
00:45:00go as a group to
00:45:00meet with Sheena's
00:45:01family, but we
00:45:03would really like it
00:45:04if you come the
00:45:04next day.
00:45:07Forrest?
00:45:08Isn't that right,
00:45:08babe?
00:45:10It would be best if
00:45:11Forrest wanted to
00:45:12meet my family first
00:45:13so they could have a
00:45:15better understanding.
00:45:18I can't even imagine
00:45:20what her parents would
00:45:21try and do if Forrest
00:45:22went over there by
00:45:22himself.
00:45:23If Sheena's family is
00:45:25able to manipulate
00:45:26Sheena the way that
00:45:28they do, with the
00:45:29whole tradition and
00:45:31the first oldest
00:45:33daughter thing, and
00:45:34that we're broke,
00:45:35then who's to say
00:45:37they can't manipulate
00:45:38Forrest?
00:45:39I need to be there
00:45:41with Forrest and Sheena.
00:45:45I feel it is
00:45:47important that you
00:45:49have me and Dev to
00:45:52stand by your side.
00:45:53Just, we will come in
00:45:55and say our
00:45:57greetings, hello,
00:45:57how are you?
00:45:58No going and yelling
00:46:00and screaming, I
00:46:01promise.
00:46:02And so I was hoping
00:46:06that you would be in
00:46:08agreement to doing
00:46:09that, allowing us to
00:46:10come.
00:46:15Mom, we're not saying
00:46:16that we don't want you
00:46:17to be there.
00:46:18We want you to be
00:46:19there.
00:46:20We just want you to
00:46:22go the next day.
00:46:24Because we can talk
00:46:25about special pink
00:46:26fairy dust and all
00:46:28this other great
00:46:28things, but we live
00:46:30in reality.
00:46:31OK?
00:46:32And in reality,
00:46:33you are a very
00:46:35hardcore person.
00:46:37You know you are
00:46:39going to go and look
00:46:40for anything to be
00:46:42said.
00:46:43And I'm an adult.
00:46:44You need to treat
00:46:45me like an adult.
00:46:46I am not a child
00:46:47anymore.
00:46:49And you should be
00:46:50able to trust me and
00:46:51Sheena and our
00:46:53judgment.
00:46:53I cannot trust
00:46:54Sheena yet.
00:46:55She has not
00:46:56proved it.
00:46:56This is the perfect
00:46:57opportunity.
00:46:57And I cannot trust
00:46:58you now.
00:46:59This is the perfect
00:47:00opportunity.
00:47:00I cannot trust
00:47:01you now.
00:47:03I know Forrest.
00:47:05He will sacrifice
00:47:06his own self and
00:47:07do anything for
00:47:09Sheena.
00:47:10This was the whole
00:47:11reason why I came
00:47:12here was to protect
00:47:13Forrest from Sheena's
00:47:15parents.
00:47:16This is total
00:47:17bull****.
00:47:23Only moments away.
00:47:24This is so surreal.
00:47:27I'm meeting my husband,
00:47:28not just any man.
00:47:29I have a feeling that
00:47:31we're going to have
00:47:32some communication
00:47:33problem again.
00:47:34I don't know.
00:47:38Come on.
00:47:39Bobby, where are you?
00:48:07Beautiful, but classy.
00:48:12Today is the day that I'm
00:48:14going to meet my loving
00:48:17husband, and I'm so
00:48:19excited.
00:48:20It's just so surreal.
00:48:26After being married for
00:48:27three years, in a
00:48:29relationship for six
00:48:31years, I finally get to
00:48:33meet my husband in person
00:48:36for the first time.
00:48:37So crazy.
00:48:41Hi, hello, good
00:48:43morning.
00:48:43I'm finally picking up my
00:48:44husband.
00:48:45Could you please bring us
00:48:46some champagne later on?
00:48:49I suggested that we start
00:48:51this trip on our honeymoon.
00:48:53So this morning, I checked
00:48:55into this beautiful resort
00:48:57in Bicol, but it's been
00:48:59raining ever since I showed
00:49:02Some people would think
00:49:04that it's a bad sign, but
00:49:06you know, I'm Catholic, and
00:49:08for us, water is cleansing.
00:49:11For me, it's a blessing.
00:49:12Some breath spray for the
00:49:14first kiss ever.
00:49:16Thank God.
00:49:17Javon, here I come.
00:49:22Daraga Airport, please.
00:49:25Wow, I feel like puking.
00:49:30There's just so many
00:49:31emotions going on in my
00:49:32system right now.
00:49:35I feel happy.
00:49:37I feel excited.
00:49:38I feel intense.
00:49:40It's just the fact that
00:49:42I'm meeting my husband,
00:49:44not just any man.
00:49:46At the same time, I have
00:49:47a feeling that we're also
00:49:50going to have some
00:49:50communication problem again.
00:49:52I don't know.
00:49:53But I don't want to be
00:49:56negative because this moment
00:49:58is very special to me.
00:50:00I've been waiting for a
00:50:01long time.
00:50:02So for today, I'm going to
00:50:05focus on the positive,
00:50:07which is the love and the
00:50:08feelings we have for each
00:50:09other.
00:50:19Just touched down.
00:50:20I'm very, very excited
00:50:22about what's about to happen.
00:50:25This is so surreal.
00:50:27I can't believe that even
00:50:30though we almost been
00:50:30married for three years, I'm
00:50:32about to meet my wife for the
00:50:33first time.
00:50:35This moment is huge because
00:50:37it's been a buildup over years.
00:50:39I'm excited, but also I have a
00:50:42lot of anxiety because things
00:50:44are far from perfect right now.
00:50:47I would love to get back to the
00:50:49place where me and Anna can
00:50:51have fun and laugh together and
00:50:54be happy in our relationship,
00:50:56like how it was in the
00:50:57beginning.
00:51:00Thank you.
00:51:04This has been like an
00:51:06overdue dream for me.
00:51:08I would always daydream of how
00:51:10it's going to be, how it would
00:51:12feel like, I wonder how it
00:51:14feels to touch him, to hold
00:51:16him.
00:51:18Oh my God.
00:51:20The nervousness is just
00:51:22leveling up.
00:51:24It's like ordering something
00:51:26online and when it finally
00:51:28arrives, you're just excited to
00:51:30unpack the package.
00:51:42Just past customs, I'm one step
00:51:44closer to seeing Anna and
00:51:47just so ready.
00:51:50I'm waking up today and I'm
00:51:52finally seeing the sun.
00:51:54Come on.
00:51:56Poppy, where are you?
00:51:58I'm beating on my skin.
00:52:00I'm so kidding.
00:52:01Oh.
00:52:05Better days are just
00:52:07arrived and I'm ready now.
00:52:09I've been waiting for my time
00:52:11and I've won't get out of
00:52:13everything I want.
00:52:15Can I begin?
00:52:17Take your day.
00:52:19As it comes.
00:52:25Mommy.
00:52:27Hey, you're welcome.
00:52:32Oh, man.
00:52:43Okay.
00:52:46Look at you in pink.
00:52:48Like a peach on a windowsill.
00:52:51Yeah, I told you.
00:52:53Yeah.
00:52:55Happy, huh?
00:53:00I'm crying.
00:53:01It's okay.
00:53:02It's supposed to be happy.
00:53:04I'm happy.
00:53:06Here's some joy.
00:53:10I rehearsed the moment in my head
00:53:12a thousand times of how I was
00:53:14going to approach her and what
00:53:16she was going to look like.
00:53:17And she's just everything that I
00:53:20ever hoped for and more.
00:53:24Oh, my God.
00:53:26You're so fluffy.
00:53:28You're very handsome and tall
00:53:30and, yeah, perfect.
00:53:34It just feels like a dream.
00:53:37It feels surreal.
00:53:38Like, I still can't believe it,
00:53:40but I just want more kisses.
00:53:47It's still not enough.
00:53:51I got you some chocolate.
00:53:53Some more stuff for you in my suitcase.
00:53:54Very smart, mister.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:57Like, I can't even wrap my brain
00:54:00around it that I am standing next
00:54:02to my wife.
00:54:04It just feels amazing.
00:54:06And I'm ready for the honeymoon.
00:54:18You look uncomfortable right now,
00:54:20so I'm curious if you're okay with this.
00:54:23Everything is fine by me.
00:54:24I'm comfortable with everything.
00:54:26Seeing your photos is just...
00:54:29It is just...
00:54:30Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:54:32Are you?
00:54:39I will just show you some pictures.
00:54:51So, as you can see,
00:54:53a horizontal problem here
00:54:54that we should cut vertically.
00:54:57We call it abdominoplasty,
00:54:59but in public, it's called thumbtack.
00:55:01Okay.
00:55:02So, fix this area here
00:55:04and here in this part.
00:55:06We can remove it.
00:55:07Okay.
00:55:08When we do an FDL tummy tuck,
00:55:10we have to cut in the middle of your tummy,
00:55:13so it's almost impossible to hide it.
00:55:15Right, okay.
00:55:17You look uncomfortable right now,
00:55:18so I'm curious if...
00:55:20No, no, no.
00:55:20I'm comfortable with everything.
00:55:23Laura says you're uncomfortable.
00:55:25Are you?
00:55:33Didn't...
00:55:33made me uncomfortable.
00:55:36It kind of surprised me,
00:55:37but it's just...
00:55:39It is just...
00:55:41people's life, you know?
00:55:44It is not a problem for me.
00:55:49So, overall,
00:55:51all for $7,175.
00:55:56Okay.
00:55:57That's pretty much all.
00:55:57The healing period,
00:55:58usually the patients...
00:55:59That's what I was about to ask.
00:56:00Usually the patients ask.
00:56:01So, six weeks.
00:56:03Okay.
00:56:03All right?
00:56:04So, like, anything I do at the gym,
00:56:06pretty much,
00:56:06would be done for six weeks.
00:56:08Almost, yes.
00:56:09Almost.
00:56:09But approximately two to three weeks later,
00:56:12you can start jogging and light exercises.
00:56:15Excellent.
00:56:16And I'll have a packet of all this information.
00:56:19Of course.
00:56:19It's already printed out.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:21Okay.
00:56:22Thank you very much.
00:56:22But we'll be in touch.
00:56:24Yes, absolutely.
00:56:25And if you have additional medical questions,
00:56:28feel free to ask.
00:56:29I love that.
00:56:30I was just going to ask if there was an email.
00:56:31Thank you.
00:56:32Thank you.
00:56:34I appreciate your time.
00:56:36I'm glad I did it.
00:56:37But I feel really embarrassed
00:56:40about going to this appointment with Birkan.
00:56:44I'm not fully confident
00:56:46that he's, like, physically attracted to me.
00:56:50And having him in there with me
00:56:53has made me more insecure than ever.
00:56:59So, what are you thinking about surgery?
00:57:02It's something that I've thought about
00:57:04for a long time now.
00:57:05Yeah.
00:57:06I feel like sometimes
00:57:08I'll catch a glimpse of myself
00:57:10and I feel like I don't look any different
00:57:11than I did 140 pounds ago.
00:57:13And I hate that.
00:57:15Yeah.
00:57:16Okay, I see.
00:57:18If you feel more confident when you do it,
00:57:21just do it.
00:57:23This is your life.
00:57:25You have to make your own decisions.
00:57:29That shows you how brave you are.
00:57:32No?
00:57:33Thank you.
00:57:33I don't feel like it's brave, though.
00:57:36This feels exactly the opposite of brave.
00:57:38I feel, like, scared and embarrassed
00:57:41and, like, it's not brave.
00:57:47But you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed.
00:57:53You have the power to change your life.
00:57:57You wanted a better body.
00:57:59Now you have it.
00:58:01You lost all the weight you want.
00:58:04This is the best part.
00:58:06You just go into a surgery
00:58:08and enjoy your rest of your life, you know?
00:58:12And you are gorgeous.
00:58:18I will always be on your side.
00:58:21Okay?
00:58:32I love how supportive Birkan is.
00:58:37His words are so touching.
00:58:42I feel like I'm finally starting to get
00:58:46some reassurance from him
00:58:48that, yeah, he really does love me.
00:58:50And I can trust what he's saying.
00:58:53You want to go?
00:58:53Mm-hmm.
00:58:55Now let's go.
00:58:56Okay.
00:59:01You're the best.
00:59:02I know.
00:59:04That's my mojo.
00:59:13Since we've been dating,
00:59:14have you talked romantically to any other girls?
00:59:18No, I don't.
00:59:19I just don't want us to have any secrets.
00:59:21So what about you?
00:59:22When we match, we're talking,
00:59:25and one day, we just go away.
00:59:27Can you just give me some details
00:59:29why you this prayer?
00:59:40Cute!
00:59:42That is so cute!
00:59:46That's, like, the cutest thing I've ever seen.
00:59:48Can we eat now?
01:00:01This is so pretty!
01:00:03Yes, so nice.
01:00:04Do you want to sit over here?
01:00:05You can sit right at this table.
01:00:07I'm feeling a little frustrated
01:00:08after the cooking class
01:00:09because I feel like the past couple days,
01:00:12he's just been changing his story.
01:00:14He's been telling different things to me online
01:00:16and in person.
01:00:18Oh, this is what we made.
01:00:19This is so solid.
01:00:20And then seeing what Sietta's doing on social media,
01:00:24I feel like he has something that he's hiding
01:00:26or that he doesn't want to tell me.
01:00:29This is all the more reason
01:00:30that I think every girl needs to do
01:00:32a little bit of stalking.
01:00:35I would never, like, show up at someone's house
01:00:37in the middle of the night.
01:00:38Like, that's, like, creepy stalker status.
01:00:41But, you know, like, some light digging
01:00:44is, like, totally normal.
01:00:47I investigate.
01:00:49I don't stalk.
01:00:53We did a really good job.
01:00:56Yeah.
01:00:56Should we try it?
01:00:59Tastes it all.
01:01:02Mmm.
01:01:03That's really good.
01:01:05Do you like it?
01:01:07It's so delicious.
01:01:08Good.
01:01:17You don't, you don't eat your, there is...
01:01:20Yeah, I'm eating.
01:01:21No, you eat nothing.
01:01:22You just...
01:01:25I have a lot on my mind.
01:01:27I'm thinking...
01:01:28For example?
01:01:31I don't know, I'm just, like, thinking about...
01:01:34About what?
01:01:35Just, like, the whole...
01:01:40Argument we got into a couple weeks ago.
01:01:42What?
01:01:43When I found out that you were still talking to girls.
01:01:47And you haven't talked to any girls since.
01:01:49No.
01:01:50So you don't talk to girls on your social media?
01:01:52Social media?
01:01:52It's just people who know me.
01:01:56I've been looking at your page.
01:01:59Every day.
01:02:00Mm-hmm.
01:02:01You follow new girls.
01:02:02Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:02:04And?
01:02:05No, no, there is not...
01:02:05Yeah.
01:02:06And it's, like, thousands of people that you follow.
01:02:08There is...
01:02:08It's, like, respect.
01:02:09If someone follow me, I follow him back.
01:02:11So what if they message you?
01:02:12Do you respond to messages, too?
01:02:15Just people who, they know me or I know them.
01:02:18If girls try to flirt with you, what do you say?
01:02:20I would say thanks.
01:02:21That's all.
01:02:22So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:02:29I speak only with you, like, something romantic, because you are my girl.
01:02:37So, that's...
01:02:38So you don't think you've ever cheated on me?
01:02:42No, I don't.
01:02:43You would never cheat?
01:02:44No.
01:02:45Or lie?
01:02:46No.
01:02:47I just don't want us to have any secrets between each other.
01:02:50For me, everything on me, I say it to you.
01:02:54I don't hide nothing.
01:02:58Anything she asks me, I give her answers.
01:03:02But in the beginning of our relationship,
01:03:05she did something that confused me.
01:03:08And I never ask her about it.
01:03:11Sometimes I see her reaction, how she talked with me.
01:03:15It's like she has, like, secret or something inside here.
01:03:20It's like I feel it.
01:03:23I want to feel like I can trust you.
01:03:26And that, like, you're not ever going to do something behind my back.
01:03:29Like, I don't ever want to have to worry about it.
01:03:31I don't hide nothing.
01:03:35So, what about you?
01:03:38Do you have some secret to me?
01:03:43No.
01:03:44Sure.
01:03:48Because I remember when we match, we're talking.
01:03:52And one day, where is she?
01:03:56I don't know.
01:03:57We just go away.
01:03:59So, when you come back, I was waiting for you to talk.
01:04:03You didn't talk.
01:04:06Can you just give me some details while you did this prayer?
01:04:14Um, I was just going through a bad breakup.
01:04:17So, no.
01:04:18In the same moments when we talk,
01:04:20you feel with someone or by yourself?
01:04:23I was going through a breakup.
01:04:26When we speak in the first time,
01:04:29you give me a picture of you like you are single.
01:04:32You know?
01:04:33And you are not.
01:04:34You are still with him.
01:04:35Well, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:38Breakup.
01:04:39I mean, you're still talking with him.
01:04:40Like, going through a breakup means...
01:04:42Still talking with him.
01:04:44We were going through a breakup.
01:04:46I have to repeat again.
01:04:47I have to repeat.
01:04:48No.
01:04:49So, you don't want to tell a couple of us.
01:04:50Babe, I was going through a breakup.
01:04:52That's my answer.
01:04:53I was going through a breakup.
01:04:55I wasn't in the right headspace to start a relationship.
01:04:59Ah.
01:05:01Me and Zied have actually never talked about why I ended things with him when we first started dating.
01:05:07So, I'm really shocked to hear Zied bringing this up right now.
01:05:11I mean, honestly, I did kind of just drop him and disappear because I was trying to make things work
01:05:16with my ex.
01:05:20I really want to be open with Zied about Mohamed.
01:05:24But I feel like with the way Zied is, like, badgering me for this information right now, he wouldn't take
01:05:30it well.
01:05:33So, I'm just not really ready to tell him in this moment.
01:05:38That was a long time ago, right?
01:05:41No, I want to listen to the details.
01:05:44I'm here with you now, and I want to be with you now.
01:05:46I'm not talking with now.
01:05:47Yeah, what I know is...
01:05:48Yeah, but I'm talking about now.
01:05:49Because I want to be with you now and focus on right now, us being together.
01:05:55She's being weird.
01:05:57She don't want to tell me everything.
01:05:59And when I speak with her in the subject, she changed the subject for another subject.
01:06:10Right now, I see, like, she's hiding a lot of things.
01:06:15And I can't be engaged with someone who has this secret.
01:06:27Wow, would you do all this?
01:06:29Yeah.
01:06:29I am very nervous because it has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:06:36Okay.
01:06:39Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:06:45Jovan, you ready for me?
01:06:50Now, how is it all of a sudden you can miraculously change and stand up to your parents?
01:06:56Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:06:57Now that story changes again, lying, not keeping her story straight, that's where I have an issue.
01:07:06I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either, but they're going to have you snooker
01:07:12before you even realize it.
01:07:26I'm so happy.
01:07:27I'm so happy.
01:07:28Yeah.
01:07:29What?
01:07:30You can just look at me all night.
01:07:35Oh, my God.
01:07:37Oh, my God.
01:07:38Oh, my God.
01:07:39I'm forcing you to kiss me.
01:07:42When you're seated, you can stay with me into the sunrise.
01:07:46As long as I've got you, give me a smile.
01:07:49Don't worry.
01:07:49Don't worry.
01:07:49You get all our kisses tonight.
01:07:53I just met my wife for the first time in person.
01:07:57Man, I dreamed about this day for a long time.
01:08:00This is freaking huge.
01:08:04Right now, we're on our way to the resort that Anna booked.
01:08:07And it's a very surreal feeling.
01:08:11Before I met you, I have a lot of thought about this, daydream about this, wild dream about this.
01:08:20Yeah.
01:08:21Wet dreams about this.
01:08:23But then it's funny because even though we're married, I was a bit worried about it.
01:08:28I was thinking, like, oh, my God, like, am I going to be shy?
01:08:32Mm-hmm.
01:08:32But I feel like I can fart over here right now.
01:08:40Anna's personality is a big ball of energy.
01:08:43And she's a little wacky.
01:08:45And she can literally hold a conversation all on her own.
01:08:50Pretty much the opposite of me.
01:08:53But what can I say?
01:08:54That's my wife.
01:08:57So am I what you were expecting?
01:09:00You're exactly what I was expecting.
01:09:02And my beautiful, chatty wife.
01:09:07No.
01:09:10Here we are.
01:09:12Mm.
01:09:15This is really nice.
01:09:17That's why I picked it.
01:09:19It's got good taste, you know.
01:09:21Yes.
01:09:22So.
01:09:23Ready?
01:09:27Okay.
01:09:28You got it?
01:09:28Yeah.
01:09:29Good.
01:09:30No.
01:09:31You heavy.
01:09:34No, don't throw me away.
01:09:36Don't throw you?
01:09:38No.
01:09:39You may look tiny, but you heavy, though.
01:09:42Wow.
01:09:43Would you do all this?
01:09:44Yeah.
01:09:44Okay.
01:09:47I've been waiting on this night for six years.
01:09:50It's our honeymoon, and seeing the rose petals on the bed, you know.
01:09:56The environment's right for us to, you know, get it in.
01:10:05Yeah.
01:10:07Boo, this is yours.
01:10:11You can take off your.
01:10:13These come with the room?
01:10:14Yeah.
01:10:15Okay.
01:10:15You can take this off.
01:10:17Oh, I'm kind of scared to take my socks off.
01:10:23Ooh.
01:10:24I can smell that.
01:10:29Ooh, boy.
01:10:33I was wearing boots.
01:10:35I haven't taken a shower in, like, 33 hours.
01:10:36Why would you wear boots on a 33-hour flight?
01:10:43Get a big whip, man.
01:10:44That's what you're going to have to deal with on a day-to-day basis.
01:10:47You want to take a shower?
01:10:49Please do.
01:10:50All right.
01:10:51Okay?
01:10:51I'll be right out.
01:10:54I knew that I would learn a lot of things about Jubon, but I did not expect that the feet
01:11:01would smell so badly.
01:11:07It smelled terrible.
01:11:13Okay.
01:11:15I am very nervous because, oh my God, I've never been with a man for a long time.
01:11:22It has been almost a decade since I had sex.
01:11:27Okay.
01:11:28Yeah.
01:11:29Look at you.
01:11:30Better.
01:11:30I am worried a little bit.
01:11:32I'm not going to be able to satisfy him.
01:11:35I don't know.
01:11:38Well, if the positions have changed, do I still know how it's going to go?
01:11:44Like, I don't know.
01:11:50Jubon, you ready for me?
01:11:55Hey.
01:11:56Yeah.
01:11:57Look at you.
01:11:59Mm-hmm.
01:11:59Good, boo.
01:12:02I know we have a lot to figure out about each other the next few weeks, but so far, Jubon
01:12:09and I are off to a really romantic start.
01:12:12All right, you ready?
01:12:12You ready?
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:13Yeah.
01:12:14But, oh my God, I've never seen any married couple that took three years before doing it.
01:12:23Wish me luck.
01:12:26Three.
01:12:37Sheena, if we go and meet your parents, I agree to not speak out of turn.
01:12:46And I don't believe you're going to do that.
01:12:49And we cannot mess this up with Sheena's family.
01:13:04Okay.
01:13:06Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along, the cultural thing
01:13:14and the duty of the family.
01:13:16Now, how is it all of a sudden under one day you can miraculously change and stand up to your
01:13:22parents?
01:13:23Well, my family isn't the bad people.
01:13:26It's just that probably got misunderstood.
01:13:29Oh, but now the story changes again.
01:13:31Again.
01:13:32You told me yourself.
01:13:34Yes, ma'am.
01:13:35That you are pressured and you're scared of your family, remember?
01:13:40But I am a full-grown adult.
01:13:42You're scared of your family.
01:13:43And I could know.
01:13:44But now you feel totally safe and...
01:13:47Yes.
01:13:48I understand, ma'am.
01:13:49Ah, how that switches.
01:13:51Sheena telling me that her parents aren't bad people.
01:13:56It's like, what?
01:13:57What are you saying?
01:13:59That's a total different story from what you've been telling me all along.
01:14:03Oh, they're mistreating me.
01:14:04They're going to kick me out.
01:14:06They call me names.
01:14:08All of this.
01:14:08And now the story switches.
01:14:10It's hard to think bad of your parent.
01:14:13You can't go and slam her and judge her just because she thinks highly of her parents.
01:14:17Where my problem is, is her lying.
01:14:20Not keeping her story straight.
01:14:22That's where I have an issue.
01:14:25I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:14:30It would be the most perfect setup for your family and you guys.
01:14:34Your family, of course, doesn't want you to leave this country and go to the United States.
01:14:40So you get forced to come over there and then it's twice the amount of money to your parents.
01:14:47And he will be the grunt just like you are.
01:14:51Stop, don't.
01:14:52I don't do that.
01:14:53I love my person.
01:14:54I love your son.
01:14:55I love more than anything.
01:14:56I have self-respect for your son.
01:14:57But I'm just saying, my fear is, Forrest is going to say and do anything just to keep your love.
01:15:04And then find out that it was all a con.
01:15:09Mom, you acting this way has proven my point.
01:15:14I ask you to please just wait one day so I can go and greet Sheena's family.
01:15:20That was it.
01:15:21And look at where we're sitting right now.
01:15:23You can't even hold your temper.
01:15:26My mom is saying things that are way out of line.
01:15:30Sheena is a person with such a kind heart that she would never do anything to put me in danger
01:15:36or hurt me.
01:15:36I brought my mom to Manila to kind of support me and give me advice.
01:15:43But instead, she's always just nuking it, which makes everything worse.
01:15:50Mom, I don't think one day is truly going to change everything.
01:15:56Forrest, it's not even the point.
01:15:58We can't even have a decision.
01:15:59We've gone beyond that.
01:16:00It's already gone beyond that.
01:16:01You know why it's gone beyond that?
01:16:03Because of the fact that you don't trust me.
01:16:11I have bust my ass trying to make sure to be there for you and to be there for her.
01:16:20You think that if I didn't trust you that I would bring you all the way here to the Philippines?
01:16:25That took a lot of trust to bring you here.
01:16:30Forrest saying that he doesn't trust me, that I won't blow up.
01:16:35The reason why I blow up has always been to protect him.
01:16:42But to see how he's taken that protection and made it a problem, it's painful.
01:16:52And I will not be anybody's problem.
01:16:57You guys want your life?
01:16:58You want your thing?
01:16:59Mom, we're not trying to hurt you.
01:17:02They're going to have you snookered before you even realize it, Forrest.
01:17:07So, good luck guys.
01:17:08Good luck.
01:17:11So, how do you feel this conversation went?
01:17:14Did you get what you wanted?
01:17:16Yes, it's for the best that she's not coming.
01:17:28Oh my god, is it really you?
01:17:36Oh my god.
01:17:37He devoured me.
01:17:39When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:17:47Oh my god, you better stop.
01:17:49Oh my god, Daniel.
01:18:02I don't mind being here for morning to night.
01:18:05I will wait.
01:18:08I will wait.
01:18:09I will wait.
01:18:18I am having a little lovers.
01:18:25I can't believe I'm finally about to meet Daniel.
01:18:28Excuse me.
01:18:31Hello.
01:18:32This is a beginning chapter.
01:18:35No matter what it is, whether it's good or bad, it's going to change everything in my life right now.
01:19:01Oh my god!
01:19:04Oh my god!
01:19:11I want to look at you!
01:19:13Let me look at you!
01:19:14So beautiful.
01:19:23Oh, my God.
01:19:25I don't even have words for how I felt when I first saw Daniel.
01:19:28He started running towards me, and I was like, oh, my God, that's him.
01:19:32And my heart just exploded, and he devoured me.
01:19:38Are you serious?
01:19:41Daniel.
01:19:42Oh, my God, Daniel.
01:19:46When we get to the room, then maybe I will chew you.
01:19:49No.
01:19:54Oh, my God, you better stop.
01:19:57Oh, my God.
01:19:59Oh, my God, is it really you?
01:20:01Is it really you?
01:20:02Oh, my God.
01:20:15I'm trying not to cry.
01:20:17Don't you cry.
01:20:43Oh, my God, I don't know what to do.
01:20:46I don't know what to do next.
01:20:47Okay, we should go.
01:20:48Let me get my...
01:20:48Are you going to get the luggage?
01:20:50I will get this.
01:20:50You get that one?
01:20:52Which way?
01:20:53Okay.
01:21:00What the heck?
01:21:07Baby!
01:21:11Did you do this for me?
01:21:13Did you really do this?
01:21:37I walked out, and there's music, and it's loud, and there's dancers dancing around.
01:21:44And I'm thinking, what the hell?
01:21:45Is this how they welcome all foreigners into their country?
01:21:49But no, this is about me.
01:21:52Daniel set this up for me.
01:21:53What the hell is going on here?
01:21:56This is nuts.
01:22:00Yes.
01:22:00Wait a minute.
01:22:01Hold this.
01:22:01Let me try.
01:22:02Wait.
01:22:02Hold the flowers.
01:22:04Wait.
01:22:08Is that right?
01:22:09Yes.
01:22:10Am I doing it?
01:22:10Yes.
01:22:15I can't do it.
01:22:16I'm not allowed.
01:22:17I'm not allowed.
01:22:19I plan to welcome her like a queen.
01:22:21That's why I invited traditional dancers.
01:22:25I am happy that she joined the dancers, and the way she's laughing.
01:22:32I am very sure about this at this moment.
01:22:43Oh, my God.
01:22:45That was so amazing.
01:22:49Thank you.
01:23:01What are you doing?
01:23:02Alright.
01:23:08I learned.
01:23:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:22This one is for you, Aviva.
01:23:27That's the one.
01:23:28Today we're traveling to meet Sheena's family
01:23:30with our goal of getting their blessing to be married.
01:23:34They have a lot of questions for you.
01:23:36First, it's your career.
01:23:38The truth is I'm quite frustrated for us.
01:23:42I haven't saved anything for a future.
01:23:44You're an adult. You can find a job.
01:23:46You have to be man out of it.
01:23:49I brought condoms too, baby.
01:23:51Go take your shower. Get everything ready.
01:23:54It's been 21 years since I've been with a man.
01:23:57Let me take your shower.
01:23:58I want it to happen.
01:24:00But what if I want it and he doesn't want me?
01:24:08When we first started talking, he was so sweet,
01:24:12calling me his wife within like 10 minutes.
01:24:15So you are looking to get married?
01:24:17Yes.
01:24:23She lied about something.
01:24:27Sometimes you overstep just a little bit.
01:24:31We had the argument and you called my sister.
01:24:34I love you, but you are a little bit unhinged.
01:24:39Oh, my God.
01:24:40I can't believe you're born right now.
01:24:43You done?
01:24:43Done with this conversation.
01:24:48Well, this is something you didn't tell me about.
01:24:50Wait, stop.
01:24:50Can you just calm down?
01:24:52Because I wanted to...
01:24:53You've been holding a secret for, what, four months now?
01:24:54Now I'm thinking her ghosting me for five days directly has to do with her ex.
01:25:01The wizard I didn't told you is trying to get me back.
01:25:10I went to Istanbul, but I couldn't find a job.
01:25:14So with my debt, I am just broke.
01:25:18Did you say your debts?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:21How much is it?
01:25:25I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:28I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:30I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:30I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:30I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31I don't want to give you a heart attack.
01:25:31Gracias por ver el video.
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