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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people a happy home.
00:00:06I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:07I say you shall be well with two people in a care.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:23Josh is kind, he's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on, where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:34and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, I actually came with
00:00:55quote-unquote proof of me.
00:00:58not being faithful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:02I don't even know who the f*** that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:06and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky f***.
00:01:25What the f*** am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:51I'd rather he told me
00:01:53for coming here.
00:01:55Please.
00:01:57Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:01Please.
00:02:27It's a radio final.
00:02:34I feel like crap.
00:02:36Oh, my God.
00:02:46Last night was awful.
00:02:50I didn't sleep.
00:02:54This has never happened before
00:02:56in my whole entire life.
00:02:57No matter how sick I've gotten,
00:02:59I've never f***ed the bed.
00:03:01I'm thinking maybe
00:03:03the spicy food
00:03:04you have been eating.
00:03:05I like spice, though.
00:03:08You know, I drink spices
00:03:09and yours are not different.
00:03:12I don't know,
00:03:13but you know how embarrassing it is
00:03:15to wake up in the middle of the night
00:03:17and there's s*** all over your sheets
00:03:18and it's just...
00:03:22I feel bad that I did that.
00:03:25Baby.
00:03:28I accepted it with all my hats.
00:03:31I told you that I love you.
00:03:33You don't have to be embarrassed, okay?
00:03:36She woke me up
00:03:39and the stuff
00:03:41stained my clothes.
00:03:44So she pooped on you?
00:03:46She pooped on me, yes.
00:03:48She pooped on me.
00:03:51It was everywhere.
00:03:53I had to change the sheets
00:03:55with his help
00:03:56and I didn't know what to do
00:03:57because I couldn't stop
00:03:58going to the bathroom.
00:03:59It kept coming out of me.
00:04:02I'm so f***ing mortified.
00:04:05Are you going to call
00:04:06the housekeeping
00:04:07to come and clean everything?
00:04:08I will take care of them.
00:04:10Maybe I will call them
00:04:11when we are going
00:04:11to the cooking class.
00:04:13My stomach is still so upset
00:04:14and today
00:04:16out of all days
00:04:17Daniel has organized
00:04:18to take me out
00:04:19to no other
00:04:20but a cooking class.
00:04:22A cooking class!
00:04:23Do you need my help?
00:04:24No.
00:04:26Are you sure?
00:04:26Yes.
00:04:27Okay.
00:04:30I'm so worried
00:04:30I'm going to have
00:04:31more explosive diarrhea
00:04:34but I'm going to cook for him.
00:04:36I'm going to try.
00:04:38I mean,
00:04:38if a man can love me
00:04:39covered in f***
00:04:40and himself
00:04:41covered in my f***
00:04:43then he must love me for real.
00:04:56Thank you so much.
00:04:58Be careful.
00:05:01Look how pretty this is.
00:05:03The table, Daniel.
00:05:05Look how sweet that is.
00:05:07Oh, this is going to be fun.
00:05:10It's so cute in here.
00:05:13Hi.
00:05:14Hello, madam.
00:05:15Hello.
00:05:16I'm Chef Rukaiat.
00:05:17There's lots of ingredients.
00:05:19Oh my goodness.
00:05:21So we're making oha soup.
00:05:23Oha soup?
00:05:24Yes.
00:05:24Oh, you're happy.
00:05:26So oha soup is traditionally
00:05:27an Igbo meal.
00:05:28First of all,
00:05:29I have oha leaf.
00:05:30That's the star ingredient
00:05:31for oha soup.
00:05:34Then I have my proteins.
00:05:37Then I have stock fish.
00:05:38Then I have fermented locus beans.
00:05:42It's very medicinal as well.
00:05:44Shall we start?
00:05:47The raw meat and the things
00:05:49that we are going to be cooking with,
00:05:51it's making me a little queasy.
00:05:55Especially the fermented beans.
00:05:58My stomach is hurting so bad,
00:06:01but it's okay.
00:06:02I can do this.
00:06:05Do I open it from here like this?
00:06:08Yes, yes.
00:06:09This is beautiful.
00:06:10I'm very slow.
00:06:12I'm slow, honey,
00:06:12but I'm doing it.
00:06:14I'm happy.
00:06:15I'm just educating you.
00:06:18You're just happy
00:06:18I'm learning how to cook for you.
00:06:22It's very important
00:06:23to learn how to cook
00:06:24as an Igbo woman.
00:06:26I will cook as an Igbo woman.
00:06:28Try it.
00:06:28Try it at best, eh?
00:06:29I am.
00:06:31In my hometown,
00:06:32if your wife doesn't know
00:06:33how to cook,
00:06:34it will make you
00:06:34to be going outside to eat.
00:06:37She can even get attracted
00:06:38by other women.
00:06:40I don't want to hear about that.
00:06:41I'm going to cook.
00:06:42Just leave me alone.
00:06:43I'm going to cook.
00:06:44This is stock fish.
00:06:45Stock fish.
00:06:47I'm also going to be adding
00:06:49the dry fish.
00:06:50The dry fish.
00:06:51Which, what kind of fish
00:06:52is that again?
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:53Catfish.
00:06:54It is catfish.
00:06:55Oh, my God.
00:06:56You're happy?
00:06:57You're smelling the smells
00:06:58of what your woman is cooking?
00:07:00I can't wait
00:07:00to taste the food.
00:07:03I'm very appreciative
00:07:05that Daniel is showing me
00:07:06his traditions
00:07:07and his culture.
00:07:08It means the world to me.
00:07:10It smells delicious.
00:07:12Thank you.
00:07:14Daniel is doing
00:07:15so many wonderful things
00:07:17and making our relationship
00:07:19concrete towards a marriage.
00:07:22And I'm so happy about that.
00:07:25But at the same time,
00:07:27I feel extremely guilty
00:07:30for not telling him
00:07:31my secret shit.
00:07:38Wow, it looks delicious.
00:07:40Thank you.
00:07:41You're welcome.
00:07:42Oh.
00:07:43I've already gotten blessings
00:07:45from his uncle,
00:07:46from the king.
00:07:48I hope you lack the food
00:07:50that I cooked.
00:07:51Oh, my God.
00:07:52I'm only one step away
00:07:54from getting married
00:07:55to Daniel.
00:07:58I have to start
00:07:59being honest with him
00:08:00as soon as possible.
00:08:02I did good?
00:08:05Hmm.
00:08:08Hmm.
00:08:10This is so sweet.
00:08:13You're wonderful.
00:08:14Thank you.
00:08:19This is really tasty.
00:08:24Hmm.
00:08:25Tasty, Simon.
00:08:26I'm not having any
00:08:27right now, honey.
00:08:28I'm not eating.
00:08:29I was very sick last night.
00:08:31I have to be very careful.
00:08:35Hmm.
00:08:41I want to talk to you
00:08:43about something.
00:08:48Well, you have been
00:08:48talking to me, so...
00:08:50No, about something different.
00:08:55You know how, um...
00:08:57I've told you
00:08:58I've been married
00:08:59a couple of times?
00:09:01Yes, you have made mention
00:09:02of that.
00:09:05You told me about
00:09:06faith, Dad,
00:09:07but I've never discussed
00:09:09it with you,
00:09:09you know, deeply.
00:09:23I've been married
00:09:25five times.
00:09:28Five times?
00:09:32You would be
00:09:33my sixth husband.
00:09:36God.
00:09:49We talk about this.
00:09:51This is our decision.
00:09:53Don't answer for him.
00:09:54I am an adult,
00:09:55and I would decipher
00:09:56what we want to do.
00:10:12The point is,
00:10:14I worry about you.
00:10:16I worry about Sheena.
00:10:18I felt this was
00:10:20the appropriate thing
00:10:21to do
00:10:21for our relationship
00:10:22to work and continue.
00:10:26We talked privately.
00:10:29She explained herself
00:10:30to me, and I came...
00:10:31Yeah, I'm sure she didn't.
00:10:32Did she ask for your
00:10:33big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:36No, she actually
00:10:37gave me a real explanation
00:10:38and told me
00:10:39what was really up.
00:10:41Then how about
00:10:42you enlighten me,
00:10:42or is that going
00:10:43to be private, too, Forrest?
00:10:48You know, we talked
00:10:49about, you know,
00:10:50her struggles
00:10:51and how
00:10:52when she starts
00:10:54to, you know,
00:10:54lie,
00:10:55it's because she has
00:10:59a traumatic...
00:11:00She's had
00:11:01traumatic experiences,
00:11:04and it causes her
00:11:06to...
00:11:11So,
00:11:12She...
00:11:12She...
00:11:12She...
00:11:13She...
00:11:13She's not going
00:11:14to do it again
00:11:14and again and again.
00:11:16You put that...
00:11:16Rum was not built
00:11:17in a day,
00:11:17but she has to put
00:11:18in the work
00:11:18and prove herself,
00:11:19and she is going to prove it.
00:11:20Then why didn't you
00:11:20make her prove herself
00:11:21before you proposed?
00:11:26Forrest,
00:11:27you're more
00:11:27full of s***
00:11:28than a Christmas goose.
00:11:29No.
00:11:30Yes, you are.
00:11:32Everybody's got
00:11:32stress in their life,
00:11:33and then to say,
00:11:34I'm under stress,
00:11:35so I'm going to lie,
00:11:37and you're going
00:11:38to accept her
00:11:39just keep lying,
00:11:39lying, lying, lying, lying?
00:11:41That's no stability.
00:11:43You don't have
00:11:44any foundation.
00:11:45I will...
00:11:46Don't.
00:11:47Mom,
00:11:49I admit for everything
00:11:50that I did was wrong.
00:11:52Oh, God,
00:11:53here we go again.
00:11:54I have to open...
00:11:54Oh, you couldn't say
00:11:55because you don't know
00:11:56how I experienced
00:11:57in my past life,
00:11:58you know?
00:11:58I'm suffering
00:11:59from trust with people.
00:12:02Well, guess what?
00:12:03We can't trust you.
00:12:04You can't...
00:12:04I know you can easily
00:12:05trust me,
00:12:06but I'm trying
00:12:07to do my best
00:12:08to get things over,
00:12:09you know?
00:12:10Yeah, you're getting
00:12:11them over, all right?
00:12:12I'm trying to...
00:12:18We've heard this
00:12:19for seven years,
00:12:23and even up until
00:12:25three days ago,
00:12:26it was yet another lie.
00:12:28She's a...
00:12:28It's a...
00:12:29Pathological liar,
00:12:30I'm thinking.
00:12:33I bet you'd stay
00:12:34with her if she...
00:12:35If she diddled
00:12:36and somebody else do.
00:12:43Wouldn't you?
00:12:48Mom?
00:12:49At the end of the day,
00:12:51She and I...
00:12:52You can't...
00:12:52You can't answer my question,
00:12:54so that's all
00:12:54you're going to say.
00:12:55Oh, John...
00:12:55That's because
00:12:56your question is ridiculous.
00:13:00I'm so disappointed
00:13:02in my mom's reaction
00:13:03to all this.
00:13:05It's the whole reason
00:13:06why we're here
00:13:06is to figure out
00:13:08how to bring Sheena
00:13:08to the United States.
00:13:10And getting engaged
00:13:12is a next big step.
00:13:15And her being angry
00:13:17and mad
00:13:17and saying nasty things,
00:13:19that's not how
00:13:20a mother should act.
00:13:22Mom?
00:13:24I'm going to...
00:13:25I'm going to take the dive.
00:13:27I'm going to go in.
00:13:29And if there's rocks,
00:13:31I'm willing to take it.
00:13:34But that is my choice.
00:13:39And you're going to have
00:13:40to be watching her
00:13:4124 hours a day
00:13:42and be paranoid
00:13:43and concerned
00:13:44and wondering.
00:13:45And you have
00:13:45such a trusting...
00:13:47which means
00:13:47it's going to have
00:13:48to be meek.
00:13:49Here you are,
00:13:49a future teller.
00:13:50No, Forrest,
00:13:51it's not a future telling.
00:13:52It's what we have lived
00:13:53through the last
00:13:54seven years.
00:13:57You think this is
00:13:57appropriate,
00:13:58how she's acting?
00:13:59This conversation
00:14:00about Molly,
00:14:01it's about you too.
00:14:02Yeah, but she's making
00:14:03it about her
00:14:04with all her yelling around.
00:14:05How the hell
00:14:06am I supposed
00:14:07to get a conversation
00:14:07done with
00:14:08all the time?
00:14:12We're going to
00:14:13make things easy
00:14:13for you, okay?
00:14:15Are you going to
00:14:16to be part
00:14:17of our lives
00:14:17or not?
00:14:20Excuse me?
00:14:21You're going to
00:14:21give me the ultimate...
00:14:23Forrest?
00:14:23Mom,
00:14:24accept this proposal
00:14:25or you're not
00:14:26a part of our lives.
00:14:32I cannot believe
00:14:33that I'm about
00:14:34to get on my
00:14:35flight to Sydney,
00:14:36Australia
00:14:36for the first time
00:14:37to meet Joshua
00:14:38in person.
00:14:40I'm just a little
00:14:41bit concerned.
00:14:42I know, I know.
00:14:43I want to, like,
00:14:44get questions answered.
00:14:45Yeah.
00:14:47After Girls' Night Out,
00:14:48the other night,
00:14:49I ended up calling
00:14:49Yulia about the text
00:14:50I got from Josh
00:14:51because it was
00:14:52really bothering me.
00:14:53It seems like
00:14:54his life is falling apart
00:14:55as I'm coming.
00:14:56I don't know
00:14:57what to do.
00:14:58This sounds
00:14:59like a disaster.
00:15:18Appreciate you
00:15:19bringing it.
00:15:21Thank you.
00:15:39What can we do now
00:15:43to make this right?
00:15:47I don't know.
00:15:51We just got back
00:15:53from Nusikomba
00:15:54and after what he told me,
00:15:57I'm so hurt.
00:15:59I don't know
00:16:01what to do.
00:16:04I'm really angry
00:16:06that he lied to me.
00:16:08I thought it was
00:16:09something serious
00:16:10between us
00:16:11and I still
00:16:12cannot believe.
00:16:14He was
00:16:15in Colombia
00:16:16with that girl.
00:16:20It's really crazy
00:16:21because
00:16:22he bothers me
00:16:23a lot with,
00:16:25oh, you're still
00:16:26talking to your ex
00:16:27and accusing me
00:16:28of cheating
00:16:29on him
00:16:29with my ex.
00:16:31Yet,
00:16:32he's the one
00:16:33messing up
00:16:34this relationship,
00:16:35not me.
00:16:39I didn't want
00:16:40to hurt you.
00:16:41No, you did.
00:16:43Just ruin
00:16:44our vacation.
00:16:47It doesn't
00:16:47have to be ruined.
00:16:48It doesn't have
00:16:49to be over.
00:16:50We still
00:16:50have time.
00:16:53I don't know,
00:16:54Ray.
00:16:57I trust you
00:16:59a lot.
00:17:01And I didn't
00:17:02expect this
00:17:03coming.
00:17:06I didn't.
00:17:07How can I trust you
00:17:09when you go back
00:17:09to your country?
00:17:10What if...
00:17:11She's not in my country.
00:17:13She can't go.
00:17:14She's not in your country
00:17:15but you could go
00:17:16in Colombia,
00:17:18meet her.
00:17:20And I'm not
00:17:20going to do that.
00:17:21No.
00:17:22I have no intentions
00:17:23on ever being with her.
00:17:27I'm promised
00:17:28that I'm going
00:17:29to be faithful
00:17:30to you.
00:17:32Hmm.
00:17:34I just hope
00:17:35that you can
00:17:37forgive me.
00:17:39Hmm.
00:17:40Hmm.
00:18:06I know, baby.
00:18:07I know you've been
00:18:08hurt in the past, baby.
00:18:09I don't even want
00:18:10to add to that.
00:18:12Yes, you did.
00:18:13Baby, I didn't
00:18:13want to add to that.
00:18:14I'm sorry.
00:18:15Please.
00:18:17I promise.
00:18:21Don't promise me
00:18:22because you did
00:18:23promise me,
00:18:24but...
00:18:26See?
00:18:27See, what's happening?
00:18:27Baby, I'm looking
00:18:28at you in your face
00:18:29and I'm telling you
00:18:31that I'm not
00:18:32going to cheat on you.
00:18:34Baby, look at me.
00:18:35I'm not going
00:18:36to cheat on you, baby.
00:18:37Okay?
00:18:41Come on.
00:18:42I'm going to do my best
00:18:43to make it up to you, okay?
00:18:52Okay.
00:18:56Thank you, baby.
00:19:00I could have lost her
00:19:02for what I did.
00:19:03So, I feel grateful
00:19:06that she is giving me
00:19:08the second chance.
00:19:11Do you need to
00:19:12give me a shower?
00:19:15No kidding, ghost.
00:19:24I think that we still
00:19:25have time
00:19:25to turn things around,
00:19:27but it's going to take
00:19:29some work
00:19:30for me to prove
00:19:31that I'm sincere
00:19:34and to show her,
00:19:36you know,
00:19:37that I really do care
00:19:39and want this to work.
00:19:47I decided to stay
00:19:48because I'm already
00:19:50in love with him.
00:19:54but I didn't know
00:19:55he has
00:19:57different
00:19:59personality
00:20:00that he can cheat,
00:20:02he can
00:20:03lie.
00:20:04I didn't know.
00:20:09And the way
00:20:10he acts,
00:20:11the way he solves
00:20:11problems,
00:20:12it scares me a lot.
00:20:13I don't know
00:20:14if I could trust him
00:20:15again in the future
00:20:16or after this.
00:20:19I don't know.
00:20:20I heard that you,
00:20:27you were talking
00:20:27about me
00:20:28running your mouth
00:20:29so you said
00:20:30a little birdie
00:20:31all over town
00:20:32wish you'd come
00:20:33looking for me.
00:20:35Oh.
00:20:41Oh my God.
00:20:45Do you think
00:20:46he's going to think
00:20:46it's sexy
00:20:47when I go to bed
00:20:48in my red light
00:20:49sleep mask?
00:20:52Somebody tell the truth.
00:20:56I heard it last,
00:20:57it slipped out
00:20:58up the salon.
00:20:59We're travels fast,
00:21:00but it's already
00:21:01long gone.
00:21:02Don't have to lie.
00:21:03Six,
00:21:04seven,
00:21:06eight.
00:21:09I need another suitcase.
00:21:11Somebody tell the truth.
00:21:13The day is f***ing near.
00:21:15I cannot believe
00:21:16that I'm about
00:21:17to get on my f***ing flight
00:21:18to Sydney, Australia
00:21:19for the first time
00:21:20to meet Joshua
00:21:21in person.
00:21:22I feel like I'm
00:21:22in a dream.
00:21:23Like, is this
00:21:24actually happening?
00:21:26I'm so excited
00:21:27to see him in person.
00:21:28Like, is he going
00:21:29to be affectionate
00:21:30and touchy-feely?
00:21:31Is he going to
00:21:33run up to me
00:21:34at the airport?
00:21:35Am I going
00:21:35to meet his family?
00:21:36I'm not just going
00:21:37there for a vacation.
00:21:39I'm going there
00:21:40to see if he can
00:21:41be my future husband.
00:21:50Oh, my God.
00:21:53These are, like,
00:21:54half of my bikinis.
00:21:55Okay.
00:21:57This is, like,
00:21:58granny style.
00:22:01This is, like,
00:22:02okay, like,
00:22:03I'm not having
00:22:03sex with you,
00:22:04but, like,
00:22:05maybe we'll go
00:22:06to, like,
00:22:07second or third base.
00:22:10This is, like,
00:22:11okay,
00:22:12game on bikini.
00:22:15It's been six months
00:22:16since I've had sex,
00:22:17which is the longest
00:22:18time I've gone
00:22:19without sex
00:22:20since I've been
00:22:21a freshman
00:22:21in high school.
00:22:22I'm literally
00:22:23a born-again virgin.
00:22:27I want to try
00:22:28and take it slow
00:22:29with Joshua.
00:22:30I definitely want
00:22:31to have more
00:22:31of an emotional
00:22:32connection before
00:22:32having a physical
00:22:33connection.
00:22:34But even if we do,
00:22:36his roommate
00:22:37is going to be there
00:22:38the whole time,
00:22:39which is, like,
00:22:40so awkward.
00:22:43I feel very strange
00:22:45that I'm going
00:22:45to be staying
00:22:46with Joshua
00:22:47and also a roommate.
00:22:48We have chatted
00:22:49on the phone
00:22:50a few times.
00:22:51He's, like,
00:22:51a chatterbox,
00:22:52and he tells me
00:22:52all the cool places
00:22:53in Australia.
00:22:54But it's a little weird.
00:22:56Why is he bringing
00:22:56a roommate
00:22:57to the rental
00:22:58at 40 years old?
00:22:59It seems like
00:22:59I'm going
00:23:00in a thruckle here.
00:23:01Like,
00:23:03Josh wants
00:23:03a nice place
00:23:04for us to stay
00:23:05when I'm there,
00:23:06so he's temporarily
00:23:07renting an apartment
00:23:09with his friend Chris
00:23:10because he can't
00:23:11afford it alone,
00:23:11so Chris is
00:23:12splitting it with him.
00:23:14If Joshua was honest
00:23:16with me about
00:23:16his living situation
00:23:17up front,
00:23:18like, I definitely
00:23:18would have split
00:23:19half and half
00:23:20with him,
00:23:20but I guess
00:23:21he was just
00:23:22trying to be nice,
00:23:23and I don't want
00:23:23to offend him,
00:23:24so whatever.
00:23:24I'm just going
00:23:25to roll with it.
00:23:29Oh!
00:23:30Yulia's here!
00:23:34Alyse!
00:23:35Hi!
00:23:35Are you ready?
00:23:36Yes!
00:23:37Really?
00:23:38Hi!
00:23:38How are you?
00:23:40Oh!
00:23:41My friend Yulia
00:23:42is taking me
00:23:43to the airport today
00:23:43because I'm freaking
00:23:45out,
00:23:46and I need
00:23:46all the emotional
00:23:47support I can get.
00:23:49Should we do
00:23:49one at a time
00:23:50together?
00:23:50Yeah.
00:23:52Okay.
00:23:54You think you've
00:23:55got it,
00:23:55or should I...
00:23:56How do we do this?
00:23:57Oh, my God.
00:23:58It's 50 pounds.
00:23:59I didn't sign up
00:24:00for this.
00:24:01You take this one.
00:24:04Go, go, go!
00:24:06Okay, okay.
00:24:07These four,
00:24:07my hand falls off.
00:24:09Okay, put it down.
00:24:10She says...
00:24:11One down.
00:24:13Wait, wait.
00:24:15Okay.
00:24:20Ow!
00:24:20My goodness, Alyse.
00:24:23All right.
00:24:24Let's head the road.
00:24:26Sydney, Australia,
00:24:27I'm coming for you!
00:24:29Woo!
00:24:33So, are you excited?
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:37I know.
00:24:38Like, I really am excited.
00:24:39I've never felt this way
00:24:40about someone before.
00:24:44I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:46I know, I know.
00:24:47I want to, like,
00:24:48get questions answered.
00:24:50Yeah.
00:24:51I mean,
00:24:52I don't even think
00:24:52he can drive a boat anymore
00:24:53because of the work incident.
00:24:55That's so stressful
00:24:56to be happening
00:24:57right before your freaking trip.
00:25:00After Girls' Night Out,
00:25:02the other night,
00:25:02I ended up calling Yulia
00:25:03about the text
00:25:04I got from Josh
00:25:05because what he told me
00:25:06was very concerning.
00:25:08I don't know what to do.
00:25:10This sounds like a disaster.
00:25:13He sells boats for a living.
00:25:15He's a yacht broker.
00:25:16And a few weeks ago,
00:25:18Joshua took a boat
00:25:21that his company was selling
00:25:22for a joyride
00:25:24with some of his friends
00:25:25and ended up crashing
00:25:27the boat into rocks.
00:25:28And he has a final warning at work.
00:25:30I think that it's
00:25:32absolutely irresponsible of him.
00:25:34The man's almost 40.
00:25:35I know.
00:25:37Oh, my God.
00:25:38We're close to the airport.
00:25:39I see it.
00:25:40So he might lose his job.
00:25:42I just found out
00:25:43that he lives with his parents.
00:25:47It's crazy.
00:25:48Like, seems like his life
00:25:49is falling apart
00:25:50as I'm coming.
00:25:51But I really like him
00:25:52and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:54So I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:58Are you ready?
00:25:59No.
00:26:00Kind of, yes.
00:26:01I'm ready as I'll ever be.
00:26:03Listen, if I didn't take this trip,
00:26:05I would always think
00:26:06in the back of my mind,
00:26:07what if?
00:26:07What if?
00:26:08What if?
00:26:08But at the same time,
00:26:10like, just, you know,
00:26:11don't carry your heart
00:26:12on your sleeve
00:26:13like you usually do.
00:26:14I love you.
00:26:15I love you.
00:26:15Oh, my heart is so old.
00:26:18You got this.
00:26:19Thank you so much for giving me.
00:26:21I'll text you, okay?
00:26:21Bye.
00:26:24Bye.
00:26:27Bye.
00:26:28Bye.
00:26:32Bye.
00:26:34Bye.
00:26:34What is going on?
00:26:37I applied for the Taurus visa
00:26:39once I got my ticket
00:26:41to go see Joshua
00:26:41and it got instantly accepted
00:26:43and I was like,
00:26:44great, perfect.
00:26:45But I get to the airport
00:26:47and they're like,
00:26:48your visa is denied.
00:26:51Oh, my God.
00:26:53I'm literally
00:26:54my pants.
00:26:55This guy keeps refreshing
00:26:57the system
00:26:57and he keeps saying
00:26:58I'm denied.
00:26:59I've literally put my heart
00:27:01and my soul into Joshua.
00:27:02I just want to go into this
00:27:03with, like,
00:27:04ease and calmness
00:27:05and excitement.
00:27:06Why is this
00:27:07happening to me
00:27:08at the airport?
00:27:10Did it work?
00:27:12No.
00:27:13No?
00:27:14I got denied again.
00:27:16I got denied again.
00:27:18I'm having panic attacks.
00:27:24The girl in the photo,
00:27:26she's my friend.
00:27:27And do we know
00:27:28if this is still
00:27:29going on currently?
00:27:33Are we actually calling?
00:27:35Oh.
00:27:35You're going to go.
00:27:37Get your questions ready.
00:27:54Babe,
00:27:55what are you doing?
00:27:56Are you going somewhere?
00:27:58Yeah,
00:27:59I'm going to go meet up
00:28:00with Anne Spring.
00:28:01Really?
00:28:02You're just going to
00:28:02leave me here by myself?
00:28:04There's a nice weather
00:28:05right now.
00:28:06The beach,
00:28:07the pool.
00:28:08You're just going to
00:28:08leave me all day?
00:28:10I'm not sure how long
00:28:11it's going to take.
00:28:12Aye, aye.
00:28:14Don't forget, right?
00:28:15My dad is coming later.
00:28:16Okay.
00:28:18I'm going to go.
00:28:27I'm feeling a little nervous
00:28:29because I don't know
00:28:31what Aviva's going to hear
00:28:32from Anne Spring.
00:28:33Probably more lies,
00:28:34but I don't want that
00:28:35to affect us.
00:28:36I don't want her to hear
00:28:37something really bad
00:28:38and want to end things.
00:28:41I don't want to lose Aviva,
00:28:42especially over this.
00:28:43like she would be stupid
00:28:47to have us break up
00:28:48for this,
00:28:49but I have a bad
00:28:50feeling about it.
00:29:00Hello.
00:29:01Hi.
00:29:02Would you like
00:29:02something to drink?
00:29:04Do you have a mojito?
00:29:05Yes, we do.
00:29:06Okay, make it extra strong.
00:29:07I will.
00:29:08And then I'm waiting
00:29:09for two more people.
00:29:10Okay.
00:29:10Okay, thank you.
00:29:11You're welcome.
00:29:13Hello.
00:29:14Hello.
00:29:15Hi.
00:29:18Good to see you.
00:29:20Good to see you.
00:29:22I already ordered
00:29:23a strong drink.
00:29:24Oh, is that the timing
00:29:25we're on?
00:29:27Sure are.
00:29:27Okay.
00:29:29Thank you.
00:29:31Looks so good.
00:29:33You're welcome.
00:29:34Could we order something?
00:29:35Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:29:37Strawberry mojito.
00:29:39Strawberry mojito?
00:29:40Yes.
00:29:41Yeah, okay.
00:29:41Thank you.
00:29:46So, mojito o'clock here.
00:29:49Yep.
00:29:51Last night was pretty intense.
00:29:53I saw you and Stig talking
00:29:54and it seemed a little heated.
00:29:57You want to give me
00:29:59your side of the story?
00:30:01Did he give you
00:30:03his side of the story?
00:30:04He did.
00:30:05He told me
00:30:06that he
00:30:08took a picture
00:30:09with a fan
00:30:10and
00:30:11that it was all
00:30:12just
00:30:13a fan interaction.
00:30:18It's a friend of Corinne's
00:30:20and the girl
00:30:20has no reason
00:30:21to lie.
00:30:23So, I got your
00:30:24frozen coconut
00:30:25strawberry mojito
00:30:26and strawberry
00:30:27and everything.
00:30:28You ladies enjoy.
00:30:29Thank you so much.
00:30:30Thank you.
00:30:32So, maybe I should
00:30:33let Corinne explain.
00:30:37So,
00:30:38here is this
00:30:40picture.
00:30:41And if you can see
00:30:42like his...
00:30:43Yeah.
00:30:46That's a little
00:30:47bit more
00:30:47than a fan.
00:30:49The girl
00:30:50in the photo,
00:30:51we have known
00:30:52each other
00:30:52since we were
00:30:53really young.
00:30:54She has been
00:30:55telling me
00:30:56about her
00:30:57and him
00:30:57for a while
00:30:58that they
00:30:59have been
00:31:00having relations
00:31:01off and on.
00:31:04So,
00:31:05when
00:31:05Spring had told me
00:31:07that you guys
00:31:07were starting
00:31:08dating,
00:31:08it was kind
00:31:09of weird
00:31:10to me
00:31:11because I know
00:31:12that they have
00:31:13a low-key
00:31:13relationship
00:31:14but they do
00:31:15have a relationship.
00:31:17Sexual,
00:31:18everything.
00:31:22Wow.
00:31:24And do we know
00:31:25if this is still
00:31:26going on currently?
00:31:29What do we know
00:31:30before I lose
00:31:31my mind on him?
00:31:32I can like
00:31:33see if I can
00:31:33call her
00:31:34and see if she would.
00:31:36I would love to.
00:31:43Are we actually
00:31:44calling?
00:31:45Oh.
00:31:46You're gonna...
00:31:47Get your questions
00:31:48ready.
00:31:52Oh.
00:31:53Can you hear me?
00:31:58So,
00:31:58Aviva,
00:31:59like,
00:31:59what would you
00:32:00want me to
00:32:00ask my friend?
00:32:02When was the
00:32:04last time
00:32:04they slept together?
00:32:05Like,
00:32:06when was the last
00:32:07time
00:32:07you and Sting
00:32:08ever, like,
00:32:09or whatever?
00:32:16She said last month
00:32:18when they were
00:32:18here in Placentia.
00:32:22Have they
00:32:23talked after that?
00:32:25Like,
00:32:25are you and Sting,
00:32:26like, still communicating?
00:32:28Do you guys still talk?
00:32:31They still communicate.
00:32:33Like,
00:32:33he ever tell you
00:32:34he's in a relationship?
00:32:37So,
00:32:37he tell you he's single?
00:32:40He says he's single.
00:32:43So,
00:32:44he never mentioned
00:32:44Aviva?
00:32:46Hmm.
00:32:47Okay.
00:32:49I'm sorry,
00:32:50friend.
00:32:50I owe you
00:32:51a night out.
00:32:52Hey.
00:32:57Do you still
00:32:58believe him
00:32:58when he's saying
00:32:59he doesn't know her
00:32:59and that she's
00:33:00just a fan?
00:33:02This girl
00:33:03has no reason
00:33:04to lie to Corinne.
00:33:05She has no reason
00:33:06to lie.
00:33:06She didn't even
00:33:06know about you.
00:33:12So,
00:33:13I have a real
00:33:14shocking text here.
00:33:20We do have
00:33:21an upcoming trip.
00:33:23Them together?
00:33:26So,
00:33:27this trip
00:33:27is in San Pedro
00:33:29end of the month
00:33:30Friday to Sunday.
00:33:35Exactly
00:33:36when you leave.
00:33:42Sounds like
00:33:42this girl
00:33:43has kind of
00:33:44a casual
00:33:44relationship
00:33:45with Stig.
00:33:46Not like
00:33:46a serious
00:33:47girlfriend.
00:33:48But still,
00:33:50if she's
00:33:50telling the truth,
00:33:51they were
00:33:52hooking up
00:33:52a month ago
00:33:53when we were
00:33:54supposed to be
00:33:54exclusive.
00:33:56That's just
00:33:56crazy to me.
00:33:58I feel like
00:33:59I don't even
00:33:59know Stig
00:34:00at this point
00:34:00and that's
00:34:02devastating.
00:34:08I wanted to
00:34:08tell you
00:34:09before you
00:34:09asked me
00:34:10to marry you.
00:34:11But I was
00:34:11scared.
00:34:12In my culture,
00:34:13it's a sin.
00:34:14They will
00:34:15banish you.
00:34:16I'm sorry
00:34:17that it took me
00:34:18so long
00:34:18to tell you.
00:34:19And look at
00:34:19shots.
00:34:20Kick fires.
00:34:35I've been married
00:34:36five times.
00:34:40Five times?
00:34:44You would be
00:34:44my sixth
00:34:45husband.
00:34:48God.
00:35:07So why didn't
00:35:09you mention
00:35:09them to me?
00:35:10Why didn't
00:35:10you discuss
00:35:11with me?
00:35:11You only
00:35:12told me
00:35:12of two.
00:35:13Well,
00:35:14you never
00:35:14really asked.
00:35:15And so I
00:35:17just never
00:35:17mentioned it.
00:35:18But there's
00:35:21yeah.
00:35:26I don't
00:35:27feel bad.
00:35:28You can
00:35:29get married
00:35:30to a hundred
00:35:30men and
00:35:32divorce.
00:35:33But when
00:35:34you meet
00:35:35your God-given
00:35:36husband,
00:35:40it lasts
00:35:41forever.
00:35:44So what
00:35:45transpired?
00:35:46Well,
00:35:46they haven't
00:35:47all been
00:35:47faithful.
00:35:48Really?
00:35:49Yeah.
00:35:49Did they cheat?
00:35:50The men?
00:35:52One did.
00:35:52Okay,
00:35:53one did.
00:35:53The fifth one.
00:35:55So tell me,
00:35:57tell me about
00:35:57these 50 men.
00:35:58What happened?
00:36:02Um, yeah, um, the fifth one was really bad.
00:36:09Um, we were married a few months, and then they ran off to be with somebody else, and I couldn't
00:36:17locate them for quite a while, and I recently located them, and I filled out the divorce
00:36:25papers, but I'm, I'm still married.
00:36:30You are still married to the fifth one.
00:36:34I am still married.
00:36:40I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you, but you asked me to marry you in
00:36:45the
00:36:45middle of the airport with everybody there, and I couldn't say no, and I couldn't tell
00:36:49you that.
00:36:52So I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:36:57We are legally separated.
00:37:10You don't know what you have cost me.
00:37:13Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:37:16They will banish you.
00:37:17I'm sorry.
00:37:25Daniel, listen.
00:37:26I have not been with this person for nine years.
00:37:29Nine years.
00:37:30We've been married, but we have not lived in the same state.
00:37:33We have not lived, shared the same bed for nine years.
00:37:36We have been separated for nine years.
00:37:38I call you on phone every day.
00:37:40Yeah.
00:37:42After a conversation, I will tell you I love you, and you will respond.
00:37:45Because I love you.
00:37:46You love me, and you have not told me about it.
00:37:49I have not told you.
00:37:49Can you, can you keep, shut, keep quiet.
00:37:54This is a month you have been dating.
00:37:56Listen, you never told me.
00:37:59No.
00:38:01I was scared to tell you.
00:38:04It took me a long time to get the divorce,
00:38:07but the divorce is almost here.
00:38:18I've told you all the things you want to know about me.
00:38:23I never hide anything.
00:38:27You told me you love me.
00:38:29I do love you.
00:38:32Sleeping with another man's wife, I don't think is love.
00:38:36I'm sorry.
00:38:40You're sorry?
00:38:42I'm sorry.
00:38:44My uncle came all the way from the world to Lagos because of you and I.
00:38:51My friends came.
00:38:53But I never know you have, you know, hidden stores.
00:38:57So I lied to them.
00:38:59You didn't lie to them.
00:39:00I did this.
00:39:04I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:39:09This is unbelievable.
00:39:12I don't know how to fix this.
00:39:14I, I, I'm sorry.
00:39:17Do you want your ring back?
00:39:19I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave.
00:39:30I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave.
00:39:40Oh my goodness.
00:39:51I've been sleeping with her.
00:39:53Sleeping with another man's wife.
00:39:58No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:40:01I don't know what to do.
00:40:03Oh, my God.
00:40:18Hola.
00:40:19¿Cómo te sientes? ¿Estás nervioso?
00:40:21Estoy nervioso, pero es una nerviosa emocionante.
00:40:24Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:26Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:26Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:27Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:28Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:30Estoy muy emocionante.
00:40:32Estoy emocionante.
00:40:33Estoy emocionante.
00:40:33Estoy emocionante.
00:40:33¿Qué es un poco de horas?
00:40:34¿Yup, ¿y?
00:40:35¿Estás bien?
00:40:36Ya, ya.
00:40:36Ya, ya.
00:40:39La gente sigue calling
00:40:40la Borda Control en Australia.
00:40:42Mi visa ha sido deniado 8 veces.
00:40:45¿Qué te voy a hacer?
00:41:04¿Qué te voy a hacer?
00:41:21¿Está bien?
00:41:22¿Está bien?
00:41:23¿Está bien?
00:41:23¿Está bien?
00:41:27Last night Trish was very cold
00:41:31and I felt like she needed her space.
00:41:35I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay,
00:41:39trying to remind Trish of how fun things can be between us.
00:41:44I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
00:41:48I don't know for sure.
00:41:53Why was the round so short?
00:41:56Like they was only into it for like 20 seconds.
00:42:00I don't know.
00:42:03I thought you knew something about this.
00:42:07How are we going to...
00:42:08I don't know their rules.
00:42:11Morenga fight started in Madagascar
00:42:14and you don't use something on your hand.
00:42:17You just fight directly.
00:42:21It's scary but that's the culture
00:42:24because before we didn't have anything to protect.
00:42:28This is why.
00:42:29And we keep the culture till now.
00:42:34We should solve our problem.
00:42:36I will win.
00:42:38Oh, you will?
00:42:39I'll give you one free shot.
00:42:44We could watch them, you know, fighting here
00:42:47and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:42:51Mmm.
00:42:52I cannot forget all the things he have done.
00:42:56But it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:43:02I want this relationship to work.
00:43:06That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:43:10Okay, this is the deal.
00:43:12You have to pick one.
00:43:14And if the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
00:43:20If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:43:25I might put my sex life on the lawn.
00:43:29In some other man's head.
00:43:31Yes, dude.
00:43:31No, that's my rule.
00:43:33So pick the good one.
00:43:36I mean, dude over there is much taller.
00:43:39So I'm going to have to go with him.
00:43:41Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt off.
00:43:43Okay, okay, okay.
00:43:45You got to get him for me, man.
00:43:46My sex life depends on it.
00:43:50Hey, hey, keep your distance, man.
00:43:53They ain't going to make them all get him.
00:43:57Hey, hey, hey, referee.
00:44:01I don't know the rules to this thing.
00:44:03I don't know how points are scored.
00:44:05Come on, my man.
00:44:06Get him.
00:44:06But after everything we've been through,
00:44:09I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:44:14Yeah, keep that distance.
00:44:15I hate seeing people fighting.
00:44:17Oh, yeah, yeah.
00:44:18Oh, yeah.
00:44:19Get him.
00:44:20Yeah.
00:44:20Oh, you open it up more.
00:44:22You open it up more.
00:44:23It's over.
00:44:24It's over.
00:44:24It's over.
00:44:31It's over.
00:44:32Come on.
00:44:32Come on, ref.
00:44:33Do the right thing, ref.
00:44:35Yeah.
00:44:39Super bad.
00:44:41I'm getting some, baby.
00:44:42Get ready.
00:44:43Get ready.
00:44:44We had a really good day, but there is no way.
00:44:49We are going to have sex tonight.
00:44:52I don't want him to touch me at all.
00:44:55It's too soon for that.
00:45:00Oh, look at the car.
00:45:02That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:45:05Yeah, we use it to carry everything.
00:45:07You'll see a lot of it in my own town.
00:45:12Yeah.
00:45:15So, um, what do you think, baby?
00:45:17Do you still want me to lead you down?
00:45:23I already told my dad that we were here,
00:45:26and we are coming to visit them, so...
00:45:30I cannot go back.
00:45:38You're not going to tell him about what happened, are you?
00:45:43No, I'm not.
00:45:45My dad is really protected.
00:45:48Like, oh, my daughter is in a good and a right hand.
00:45:53That's what he wants.
00:45:55That's what I want from you too, baby.
00:45:57I want your happiness.
00:46:00And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know,
00:46:02how much that I love his daughter.
00:46:09I'm feeling more nervous and anxious than I was before
00:46:13about this meeting with her family.
00:46:17I'm worried about going there
00:46:19and dealing with their expectations
00:46:22when we're not even in a good place.
00:46:25They want a younger guy that's, you know,
00:46:28never been married
00:46:29and that is excited about having children.
00:46:33And then that's something that I'm not.
00:46:37I love Trish so much,
00:46:39and I really want to be with her and make this work.
00:46:43But right now, it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:46:47How do you keep her?
00:46:56How are you?
00:47:02How are you?
00:47:02What do I do?
00:47:31¡Oh, oh, oh, oh!
00:47:34Give me a high five.
00:47:35Let's get this guys going.
00:47:36Come on.
00:47:37Thank God.
00:47:39They got it.
00:47:40Thank you so much.
00:47:41If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life,
00:47:43I would ask you for your number.
00:47:45My guy told me that I put my first name as my last name
00:47:50when applying for the visa,
00:47:52so it didn't match my passport.
00:47:56What a sire relief,
00:47:57because, like, I'm so excited to go see Josh.
00:48:01I always do this ritual before applying.
00:48:06I'm going to have to do it.
00:48:09I cannot believe that I am traveling the world
00:48:13for someone I've never met in person.
00:48:18But I'm doing this because I truly believe
00:48:21that Joshua is my partner,
00:48:23and I've never felt more ready in my life.
00:48:29Oh, my God.
00:48:31We're going to Australia.
00:48:54Oh, my God.
00:49:10¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
00:49:32My name's Joshua, I'm 39 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia.
00:49:37I'm sort of in between places at the moment.
00:49:40How are you?
00:49:42Elise is s***.
00:49:43It is, it is.
00:49:46Yogurt, veggies.
00:49:48But my girlfriend Elise is coming and I want a nice place for her.
00:49:51So my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here.
00:49:56Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:49:59She requested a lot more.
00:50:01And how are you feeling?
00:50:02Are you nervous?
00:50:03I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness.
00:50:05So it is definitely...
00:50:07What, is it a couple of hours?
00:50:08Yep, yep.
00:50:08Until I have to pick her up from the airport.
00:50:11You're s***ing yourself, aren't you?
00:50:15Come check this out.
00:50:19What is it?
00:50:20I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly.
00:50:24Are you kidding?
00:50:27It's in my bedroom.
00:50:29Wow.
00:50:30Elise is going to f***ing hate it.
00:50:32I like it.
00:50:36Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed.
00:50:40It's typical Chris, you know, Jesus.
00:50:43You don't have to tank me right now.
00:50:45You can build up to it.
00:50:47She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not.
00:50:51I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months.
00:50:57Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one.
00:51:03Elise is beautiful.
00:51:04But what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener, and you can tell she cares.
00:51:11Elise is very fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality.
00:51:15I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her.
00:51:18So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her.
00:51:24Here we go.
00:51:32What are you going to wear?
00:51:33Oh, blue pants, cream jacket.
00:51:35Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:51:37How's she going to know who's who?
00:51:39No, I'm just joking.
00:51:41Today's the Melbourne Cup race, so it's a horse race.
00:51:44All of Australia watches it.
00:51:46This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together.
00:51:50Ready, princess?
00:51:52Princess is almost ready.
00:51:54It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks.
00:51:57We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race.
00:52:01She says she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it.
00:52:04So we can go straight from the airport, the Melbourne Cup, off a 25-hour flight.
00:52:15I'm now starting to be like, oh, wow, it's actually happening.
00:52:19Yeah, big day.
00:52:22I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met, like, in person.
00:52:26It's so different.
00:52:28So being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:52:33I don't know.
00:52:35If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me.
00:52:37Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you.
00:52:40Yes.
00:52:41Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:52:44Do you think it's weird for them?
00:52:45Do you think it's different, like, male and female friends?
00:52:47What do they think?
00:52:48You make a good point.
00:52:49I didn't think about that.
00:52:53My friend that's a girl, Nat, she's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:52:58Like, she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:53:03So I've been living with her for three months.
00:53:07Okay, wait, let me step back for one second, because Elise said that you told her you were
00:53:12living with your parents.
00:53:13Oh.
00:53:16No.
00:53:20We're here.
00:53:21Well, I am nervous.
00:53:25Very nervous.
00:53:26Jesus.
00:53:29Hold my hand.
00:53:32I got you, boy.
00:53:35It is really important for me that this works out.
00:53:38You know, I dragged her halfway across the world.
00:53:40I wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun.
00:53:47But, you know, I feel a bit embarrassed because I don't have a lot of stability in my life at
00:53:51the moment.
00:53:52And I know that's important to a girlfriend.
00:53:56But I hope she can see that I'm ready to get really serious and, you know, settle down.
00:54:03She's already, is she already here or?
00:54:05Yeah, she just touched down, so.
00:54:07Okay.
00:54:08Yeah.
00:54:10I literally just landed in Australia.
00:54:13I am tired.
00:54:14I'm overwhelmed.
00:54:15But I am about to meet Josh for the first time.
00:54:19Oh, my God.
00:54:21I cannot believe I'm here.
00:54:22My adrenaline is pumping.
00:54:24Oh, my God.
00:54:25I'm going to go do it.
00:54:26Beautiful lady.
00:54:27Thank you.
00:54:28Hopefully my husband thinks I'm beautiful, too.
00:54:30I'm about to meet him for the first time.
00:54:33You want me to maybe stand a little back or should I be right here next to you?
00:54:37Well, it was always the case.
00:54:37You weren't coming right up with me, right?
00:54:39Okay, right.
00:54:39Well, okay.
00:54:40Does she know I'm here, though?
00:54:43Um, I don't know.
00:54:44No.
00:54:44I didn't say anything, no.
00:54:46Okay.
00:54:48I have so many emotions right now.
00:54:51Like, I literally just saw on Chris's social media that Chris and Josh are, like, in, like,
00:54:58straight suits and ties.
00:55:00First of all, weird that Chris is coming to pick me up.
00:55:03I have so much anxiety already, how it is.
00:55:06Like, so much anxiety.
00:55:10Do you want a light massage?
00:55:12Take the nerves away.
00:55:15I've been envisioning this moment for so long, and I've already had a f***ing travel day from
00:55:20hell.
00:55:21So the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport, is he not comfortable enough
00:55:26to meet me on his own?
00:55:27Like, what the f***?
00:55:30I just traveled 30 hours, so I have all this time to think, and I'm starting to spiral out
00:55:36of control.
00:55:37This guy is 39 and has a roommate.
00:55:40And on top of that, he has this job incident.
00:55:44And I'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me and the overwhelming pressure
00:55:48of, like, not trying to let them down.
00:55:51Good luck.
00:55:52Don't let them.
00:55:57I've been wrong so many times, and I've done not only damage to me, but damage to my family.
00:56:02I don't have another wrong in me.
00:56:13This is my dad.
00:56:16Hi.
00:56:16When it comes to dating, my son is always drama, talking to a bunch of girls.
00:56:21When he said that he's serious as Elviva, I have to question it.
00:56:25That girl said you guys actually hooked up before about a month ago.
00:56:50Oh, look, there they are.
00:56:51That must be his dad.
00:57:00That must be his dad.
00:57:01Hi.
00:57:01How are you?
00:57:02How are you doing?
00:57:03Hello.
00:57:04Spring.
00:57:04Nice to meet you.
00:57:06This is my dad.
00:57:06Hi.
00:57:07Nice to meet you.
00:57:08I'm Elviva.
00:57:09Nice to see you.
00:57:11Can I offer you guys a drink, or what are you drinking?
00:57:14I would love a drink.
00:57:15I don't know.
00:57:16Did you try a Panty Ripper yet?
00:57:18You might need one of those.
00:57:20Two Panty Ripper, please.
00:57:21Yes, please.
00:57:23I had plans to meet up with Stig's dad tonight, and I'm really, really nervous.
00:57:30I don't want to come off as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time.
00:57:37But after talking to Corinne's friend, I learned so much today, and I definitely want to bring
00:57:44this up to Stig.
00:57:45I wanted Aunt Spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically
00:57:51play a bad cop, and she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions.
00:57:57You took her away from me all day, Aunt Spring.
00:57:59It's definitely been an interesting day.
00:58:03Yeah.
00:58:03Is that a good thing or a bad thing?
00:58:06There's a lot to talk about.
00:58:08Oh, really?
00:58:11Aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt.
00:58:15Right now, the vibes are off.
00:58:17Aviva has basically been, like, ignoring my texts all of today.
00:58:23I'm pretty sure Aunt Spring is there putting stuff in her head.
00:58:26So I'm, like, I'm, I don't know.
00:58:30I'm anxious.
00:58:32My dad came to the hotel earlier.
00:58:34I gave him a quick summary of what went down with Aunt Spring.
00:58:38Last night, Aunt Spring pulled up swinging.
00:58:41Yeah?
00:58:41Yes.
00:58:42Pull out the phone and asked me, so what is this?
00:58:46So I got a picture of me and a girl, and hold her by her waist, and I did.
00:58:50Really?
00:58:52You sure you don't have done with this, girl?
00:58:54No, no, no, no, no.
00:58:55I didn't even know this would be the father.
00:58:58Where do we start?
00:59:01Jump right into it?
00:59:02I don't know.
00:59:03I mean, you're meeting my dad for the first time.
00:59:05I know, this is very uncomfortable.
00:59:07Sorry that you have to be here for this.
00:59:12Aviva, maybe you should be the one to explain to him what's going on today?
00:59:21I mean, I talked to that girl and...
00:59:23What girl?
00:59:24Corinne?
00:59:25No, not, not to my niece.
00:59:27Yeah.
00:59:27To the girl in the photo.
00:59:29The random girl I took a picture with.
00:59:32Thank you.
00:59:33Thank you.
00:59:38What happened?
00:59:40Um, she said that you guys actually had, you know, hooked up before.
00:59:48It was about a month ago, and that apparently you're going to San Pedro at the end of the month
00:59:54with her.
01:00:00So, is any of this true?
01:00:02No.
01:00:04No, I swear.
01:00:06I swear, I swear.
01:00:09I can see where Anne Spring is coming from.
01:00:12When he said that he's serious as Aviva, I have to question him.
01:00:16Because when it comes to dating, my son is always, um, drama.
01:00:22He's always been talking to a bunch of girls, and I just never saw him just settling down now, especially
01:00:29with the work that he's doing.
01:00:31I'm sure my dad the photo so he could tell.
01:00:35I don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend.
01:00:37That's probably the text between them.
01:00:40What happened there?
01:00:41She said, my man happened.
01:00:43My man happened.
01:00:45So, I mean, I can see why.
01:00:46And so we called her to clear up that, and she spoke with Aviva.
01:00:49Probably not a good look, but.
01:00:51It's not a good look, but to me, it's not a definite.
01:00:54I would figure that if this girl really wants to prove that she's, this is going on, she'd say, here's
01:01:01a text.
01:01:03That was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it.
01:01:06But, have you seen, like, conversations, like.
01:01:10Not long conversations.
01:01:11Yeah, not long conversations, but the only texts that I saw were.
01:01:14Like saying, like, well, can I meet you?
01:01:15Can I see you?
01:01:16Everything like that, that'll prove it.
01:01:19Yeah, I know.
01:01:20It's about it.
01:01:22Young lady probably didn't even have my number when we died.
01:01:24That's crazy.
01:01:26I have no reason to lie.
01:01:29She just completely made that up.
01:01:32Then what, what, what, what do you need from me?
01:01:35Call me everything.
01:01:36You want my location?
01:01:38I don't have nothing to hide.
01:01:41Hey, if I'm here having you with my dad, do you think I'm not serious about you?
01:01:49I'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up, but he did bring up a point that
01:01:55the girl in the photo couldn't provide solid evidence.
01:02:01I don't even know if she actually has Stig's phone number.
01:02:05So all I have right now is his word against hers.
01:02:11Well, I'm going to take your word for it, that maybe she's just trying to cause drama.
01:02:20What's the humor about?
01:02:22I don't know.
01:02:22Man, Spring, you don't believe me?
01:02:23I mean, I don't know.
01:02:27I do feel that Aviva is quick to trust Stig.
01:02:32Stig may be able to fool Aviva, but he's definitely not fooling me.
01:02:36But I have given her all the information, and it is her choice to make her future decisions.
01:02:45And if I do later, you know, find out that, you know, you weren't telling the truth, I obviously wouldn't
01:02:50want to continue.
01:02:51But I do still want to work things out.
01:02:54Like, I want it, I want it to work it out with you.
01:02:57Babe, for the millionth time, I don't mind it could be a billionth time.
01:03:03I'm going to be as transparent as I can in this relationship.
01:03:06I live in a glass house, nothing to hide right, I got to.
01:03:12I'm glad all the drama is done.
01:03:15I have a clean slate right now, but I'm definitely worried about what else could come out in the future.
01:03:47But Aviva doesn't know this.
01:03:50Yeah, she doesn't know this.
01:03:52I didn't want to scare her away.
01:03:54And now that we've met in person, and it's what I thought it was, no other woman in the picture.
01:04:00I'm done with all that.
01:04:02Now I'm just hoping that she doesn't find out.
01:04:05We good?
01:04:07Mm-hmm.
01:04:08Let's move forward from it.
01:04:09Okay.
01:04:10Yeah?
01:04:10Yeah.
01:04:16She called me a liar.
01:04:18She called me a scammer.
01:04:20What?
01:04:21She's the risk, come on.
01:04:22I'm sorry.
01:04:23I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:04:26I came here to tell you everything.
01:04:29I want you to go home, please.
01:04:33And he doesn't even know if she's a she.
01:04:36Oh, my God.
01:04:53I feel like dying.
01:04:58I'm not okay.
01:05:07I've done the worst.
01:05:10I've committed the worst thing.
01:05:11Sleeping with another man's wife.
01:05:14I feel like someone poisoned me.
01:05:17Someone...
01:05:18Shouldn't have never known him.
01:05:20I should have kept it a secret.
01:05:24In America, they have been legally separated.
01:05:26No, no, no.
01:05:26No, no, no.
01:05:27Don't tell me in America.
01:05:28You don't have to tell me that.
01:05:32I respect my culture.
01:05:36I'm engaged with another man's wife.
01:05:38In my culture, we don't do that.
01:05:40It's a very big offense if you should do it in our tribe.
01:05:45It's something that will bring shame not only to me, but to my family as well.
01:05:49Daniel, I could be banished because of Lisa, because of our lives.
01:05:55I want to go back to him, but I'm scared.
01:05:59This is forbidden, and I don't know how to talk to God, my God.
01:06:04I don't know how to talk to the ancestors, because I have to ask for apology.
01:06:12Daniel, I'm sorry.
01:06:15Daniel.
01:06:17Daniel, no.
01:06:18Can you stop?
01:06:20Stop.
01:06:21Please listen to me.
01:06:23I'm sorry.
01:06:24I'm sorry I didn't tell you the truth.
01:06:27I'm sorry I didn't speak to you about this before now.
01:06:30I'm sorry.
01:06:31I came here to tell you the truth in person.
01:06:34I came here to tell you everything.
01:06:37I love you, and I want us to be together forever.
01:06:42I'm so sorry.
01:06:44Riley.
01:06:46Please forgive me.
01:06:47No, you're messed up.
01:06:50That's all I have to tell you to say.
01:07:04Can you stop?
01:07:05Stop.
01:07:10I feel empty.
01:07:14I don't think he's ever going to forgive me, and I haven't even told him everything.
01:07:21I should have told him in the beginning.
01:07:26I waited, and I waited, and I held off, and the worst-case scenario happened.
01:07:32He doesn't want me near him.
01:07:34He doesn't want to hear me.
01:07:37I'm worried that I have lost Daniel.
01:07:40There's no coming back from this.
01:07:45I'm a up person.
01:07:57She called me a liar.
01:07:59She called me a scammer.
01:08:05But she's the real scammer.
01:08:16And I told the white people to tell us the truth.
01:08:29I've given her my hat.
01:08:31I trusted her.
01:08:33I believed in her.
01:08:36What did I do to deserve all this?
01:08:39I mean, for God's sakes, I've been separated for nine years.
01:08:44Separated.
01:08:46For nine years.
01:08:47Didn't know where she lived.
01:08:49And he doesn't even know she's a she.
01:08:52Oh, my God.
01:08:54When he finds out she's a she, I don't know what he's going to think.
01:08:59I haven't even been with a man for 21 years.
01:09:03I don't have any hope anymore.
01:09:10I want you to go home, please.
01:09:33He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:38He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:45He's not going to forgive me.
01:09:47He's not going to forgive me.
01:10:16¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
01:10:48¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
01:11:05Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
01:11:17Oh, come here. Give me a hug.
01:11:18Hello. Oh, my God.
01:11:21Oh, Dios.
01:11:23Oh, Dios.
01:11:24Oh, Dios.
01:11:27Estoy muy bien, estoy muy bien.
01:11:30Estoy muy bien.
01:11:32Estoy muy feliz de ver el video.
01:11:32SÃ, estoy muy bien.
01:11:34Estoy muy bien.
01:11:36You're sexy.
01:11:37Asà es.
01:11:38No me en mi side.
01:11:44Oh, Dios.
01:11:45Estoy muy feliz de verlo.
01:11:46Estás tan sexy, creo.
01:11:48Gracias.
01:11:49No, I know.
01:11:50I know.
01:11:52I know.
01:11:52I know.
01:11:56Feels really, really good.
01:11:57Finally.
01:11:58Finally.
01:11:59How good does it feel?
01:12:01Amazing.
01:12:02How does she look?
01:12:03She looks amazing.
01:12:04Do you feel like you look amazing?
01:12:06No, I feel like I look like absolute s***.
01:12:08What are you talking about?
01:12:09I did not want him to see me for the first time looking like this,
01:12:12especially when he's dressed up like this.
01:12:15It's like an oxymoron.
01:12:16Right?
01:12:17Wait, oxymoron means s***, s***, s***.
01:12:21Um, I don't know.
01:12:23But I just feel like he looks really good and I just look like slummy.
01:12:27You look amazing.
01:12:28I need reassurance every five minutes.
01:12:30Okay, I'm happy to do that.
01:12:31Every three.
01:12:34You actually look exactly what I thought.
01:12:36Perfect.
01:12:36Yeah.
01:12:37So do you.
01:12:38So do you.
01:12:39I was so s*** scared and I had so much anxiety, but then seeing him standing there and seeing
01:12:45the look in his eyes, I felt like I just have to follow my heart and like I have to
01:12:50give this a chance.
01:12:51And then I hugged him and I felt like I've known him for years.
01:12:54I really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon.
01:12:58So why are you so dressed up?
01:13:01Um, because it's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:13:03This is the biggest day of the year.
01:13:05Okay.
01:13:06So we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down.
01:13:10I know that you're probably jet lagged.
01:13:13I'm tired.
01:13:14I feel like s***.
01:13:15I look like s***.
01:13:16I need a shower.
01:13:17We don't have time.
01:13:19So where are we going to undo it?
01:13:22Chris!
01:13:25Can I tell her that we don't have time?
01:13:27Yeah, we're going out.
01:13:28We're going out, yeah.
01:13:30I know it's bad timing, but after a few tequilas, you won't even forget that you haven't had showered or
01:13:36put makeup on or done your hair.
01:13:39Yep.
01:13:39And time is a factor, so.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41It is.
01:13:42So yeah.
01:13:43First race is in 13 minutes.
01:13:46If it makes you happy, I'll do it, but I feel really uncomfortable.
01:13:50You guys look very good and I s*** look like a tree run.
01:13:53Surely there's something in your 50 bags.
01:13:55So should we do it right here?
01:13:57No, I didn't think that far ahead.
01:13:59Surely Josh did.
01:14:00I mean, we can open up all my suitcases and we can have, like, a party of what Elise could
01:14:04wear.
01:14:04I like when people pick out my outfit.
01:14:06Yeah.
01:14:06Let's start now.
01:14:09Each boy.
01:14:10She actually will.
01:14:11She actually will.
01:14:11Each boy grab a suitcase and open it up.
01:14:20I see dresses.
01:14:22Joshua liked that on me.
01:14:24I sent him a picture.
01:14:26I kind of want to dress sluttier.
01:14:28Dress what?
01:14:30Sluttier.
01:14:31No, you dress how you want.
01:14:32I don't mind.
01:14:33I don't need a bra or underwear with this dress.
01:14:35That saves time.
01:14:37Saves time?
01:14:37Saves time.
01:14:38Let's get ready.
01:14:41All right.
01:14:42I will go get ready in the bathroom.
01:14:43Yep.
01:14:44We'll be outside.
01:14:44Just here.
01:14:45Right here.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48I like that she's a trooper.
01:14:49That is attractive.
01:14:50Someone that's sort of like, yep, you know what?
01:14:51You want to do it?
01:14:52Let's do it.
01:14:58So what do you think about it?
01:14:59Good.
01:15:00That went well, I think.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:02Yeah.
01:15:03She is a firecracker.
01:15:04Yeah.
01:15:05I just can't believe that I'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go to
01:15:11a bar to watch an event.
01:15:14I really just hope Josh sees how much effort I'm putting into this relationship.
01:15:20Obviously, this isn't the ideal first day with Josh.
01:15:24The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar
01:15:31the second I landed at the airport.
01:15:35But I flew across the world to, like, get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's
01:15:39the person I want to be with.
01:15:41Everything seems good right now.
01:15:43Our connection and our chemistry was, like, it's there.
01:15:46So I'm really going to just try and make the best of it.
01:15:52I am here.
01:15:54Oi.
01:15:55There she is.
01:15:56You look stunning.
01:15:58I'm not even wearing underwear.
01:15:59Oh, well.
01:16:01Just hope it doesn't get too windy.
01:16:06All right.
01:16:07Well, now I'm dressed like you boys.
01:16:08Better, I'd say.
01:16:10It's the three musketeers.
01:16:19Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
01:16:23You're going to give me the ultimate...
01:16:24Forrest?
01:16:24Hmm.
01:16:27I'm just a little bit...
01:16:29Excuse me?
01:16:29You know...
01:16:30Excuse me?
01:16:31You going on your little attack?
01:16:32You have...
01:16:32I don't like the attitude you're having.
01:16:44You made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions.
01:16:50You seem like you're way too stressed out.
01:16:54We don't want to cause you any more stress.
01:16:58Well, you're the big man now, aren't you?
01:17:00You're the big grown-up that can handle all and make all the decisions on his own, right?
01:17:06Thank you.
01:17:07Yes.
01:17:08Yes, I am.
01:17:13I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism.
01:17:20And it's happened before where he's been taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply.
01:17:29I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest again just so that he would propose to her.
01:17:36But in the grand scheme of things, Forrest is going to do what Forrest wants to do.
01:17:43And now I feel like I lost my son.
01:17:47I really feel like I lost my son.
01:17:51And it makes me really sad.
01:17:58You know, Forrest, you have done this crap to me over and over again.
01:18:02And I am tired.
01:18:06I am so tired.
01:18:08I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into.
01:18:14And then when I crawl up to grab you out again and crawl up to save you out of a
01:18:20situation
01:18:21or to help you, you turn around and you give me the big bird.
01:18:24Well, it's none of your effing business, Mom.
01:18:29And do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls that when you go to pick up the
01:18:36phone
01:18:36to call me to save you that I'm going to be there?
01:18:38I won't come to you. I promise.
01:18:39I won't come to you.
01:18:44Sheena and I are going to move forward.
01:18:47Okay?
01:18:48You're going to be in our lives, but...
01:18:51You think?
01:18:51I think.
01:18:52You might be surprised, Forrest.
01:18:54Oh, well...
01:18:55You just might be surprised.
01:19:00All right, well...
01:19:04Have a good night to you both.
01:19:11I'm sorry, by law.
01:19:13Thank you for standing over me.
01:19:16It's okay, baby.
01:19:19It's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life rather than accept Sheena as my
01:19:27wife.
01:19:29I never thought it would come to this and that my own mother would put me in this situation.
01:19:38Losing my mom is something I never expected to lose on this trip.
01:19:43I lost my best friend, the person who's been with me my entire life, the person who gave birth to
01:19:49me.
01:19:51And it's tearing me apart.
01:19:54My God.
01:19:56It is time that Mommy just cut it.
01:20:01Mommy has to let him be the man and take the knocks and not bail him out.
01:20:07Forrest is on his own now.
01:20:09Yep.
01:20:09Yep.
01:20:16Oh, God.
01:20:17I'm starting to be like Sheena.
01:20:19Oh, my God.
01:20:22I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me.
01:20:26Did you even tell him about the women?
01:20:28No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:20:31He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:34Yes, he is.
01:20:36I can't tell him that.
01:20:37I can't tell him.
01:20:39You have to.
01:20:40I can't.
01:20:49I can't tell him that.
01:21:24No creo que es una buena idea
01:21:26para que nos quedemos juntos.
01:21:28Asà que voy a tener un diferente.
01:21:44Hi, do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:22:03Hi.
01:22:05I just told Daniel how many times I was married
01:22:08and then I'm still married.
01:22:25No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:22:42Yes, he is.
01:22:43I can't tell him that.
01:22:45I can't tell him.
01:22:46You have to.
01:22:47I can't.
01:22:49He's never going to forgive this.
01:22:51I wasn't going to forgive that.
01:22:53I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together.
01:22:57Like, you, he will find out eventually.
01:23:05I'm sorry.
01:23:08Daniel is the one forever, Faith.
01:23:11He's really the one.
01:23:13I want him, Faith.
01:23:15I want Daniel.
01:23:18I want Daniel.
01:23:20I don't want this to be over.
01:23:30We're here.
01:23:31Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:34Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow, not leading with sex.
01:23:40But at the same time, he's hot.
01:23:43And I wanted to make him, you know, see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
01:23:48Josh!
01:23:52We're packing up to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
01:23:56This is, like, make or break.
01:23:59I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want to be introduced to your family.
01:24:03I told you, yes.
01:24:05So what else do you want?
01:24:07Just tell me now.
01:24:08Just tell me.
01:24:12Emma!
01:24:13Maddie, you don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:24:17What's wrong?
01:24:18It literally went to with him leaving me alone in the desert.
01:24:22Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:24:25Don't be mad.
01:24:27What?
01:24:29Who's it?
01:24:30Muhammad.
01:24:31Oh, my God.
01:24:32Hello?
01:24:34The other night, I called my friend Michael because I have concerns.
01:24:39And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:24:42He has no place in our relationship.
01:24:44Well, he wants to come here.
01:24:46He already bought a flight.
01:24:48What?
01:24:50Oh, my God.
01:24:51I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:24:54This is wild.
01:24:55Oh, my God.
01:24:58I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:25:02I'm going to wipe the tears, and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:25:05I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:25:07I planned a small romantic getaway.
01:25:11Is this a kind of a trap?
01:25:18Is this being romantic?
01:25:20Yeah.
01:25:20Did I pass the test today?
01:25:21Kind of.
01:25:22Okay.
01:25:23You still have to be nicer to yourself.
01:25:25I think that you got comfortable.
01:25:28Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:25:29Ever.
01:25:30You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:25:33Don't be a asshole.
01:25:35I'm like, I don't have to talk.
01:25:37I don't want to see you ever again.
01:25:39Don't come home.
01:25:41Ever.
01:25:42Ever.
01:25:43Ever.
01:25:43Ever.
01:25:43Ever.
01:25:43Ever.
01:25:43Ever.
01:25:44Ever.
01:25:44Gracias por ver el video.
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