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00:00:00Oh, es una muy pequeña selección.
00:00:02Previously, en Before the 90 Days.
00:00:05Es tan embarazante, perdón.
00:00:06Es mi primera vez que estoy usando condoms.
00:00:10Por los últimos 21 años, he estado con mujeres solo.
00:00:13Pero Daniel no tiene idea de este aspecto de mi vida.
00:00:17Estoy sorprendente de decirlo.
00:00:19Porque un par de meses hace,
00:00:21he conté que tenÃa una fringada con una mujer.
00:00:24Y él estaba disgustado.
00:00:28Él es 20 años younger que yo soy.
00:00:30Creo que tengo hair en mi chin older que eso.
00:00:34No te jocas.
00:00:36No te amo.
00:00:37Eso no es lo que amor es.
00:00:38Él quiere un ticket a América.
00:00:41Hay una posibilidad de que esto se va a dar en mi cara.
00:00:44Pero si no estoy dispuesto a tomar un riesgo por amor,
00:00:48¿qué para qué puedo tomar un riesgo por?
00:00:53No podemos hacer más que un beso o un beso y un chico
00:00:57hasta que nos casamos.
00:00:58Pero eso no es lo que dijiste.
00:01:01Un par de meses hace,
00:01:02he entendido que ha seguido miles de mujeres
00:01:05y resulta que estaba hablando con una de las mujeres.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:09Good night.
00:01:10Ahora, viendo cómo está actuando en persona,
00:01:13me hace preguntar cosas.
00:01:19Oh, my goodness.
00:01:22Sheena y I have been waiting seven years
00:01:24to meet up with each other
00:01:25and I just want everything to go smoothly.
00:01:29But my mom did not take kindly
00:01:31to Sheena lying about the money again.
00:01:39Apologies aside,
00:01:40there's still some things
00:01:42that have to be discussed
00:01:44before we can proceed.
00:01:53I'm scared that I'm going to pee
00:01:55all over the floor
00:01:56because every time I get nervous,
00:01:58I pee.
00:02:01I'm going to see his face
00:02:02and it's just going to flow out of me,
00:02:03drip down my legs
00:02:04and what an impression
00:02:05that's going to be.
00:02:14I am nervous
00:02:15and I am excited
00:02:17and I'm scared to death
00:02:19because things can be different
00:02:21when he meets you in person.
00:02:23What if he hides?
00:02:24What if he changes his mind
00:02:25once I get there?
00:02:26I don't know what he's going
00:02:27to think about me.
00:02:28I don't know
00:02:29if he's going to be like,
00:02:30wow, she's a lot older
00:02:31than I thought.
00:02:36Today, I'm leaving for Nigeria
00:02:38to go see Daniel
00:02:39for the first time
00:02:40and I'm feeling overwhelmed
00:02:42and excited and nervous.
00:02:47My daughter, Faith,
00:02:48brought up some serious concerns
00:02:50at dinner the other night
00:02:51that Daniel could be scamming me
00:02:53and I'm not ignoring them
00:02:55but all I can think about
00:02:56is how I just want to touch his face
00:02:58and feel the dimples
00:02:59in his cheeks
00:03:00and feel his beard.
00:03:02I want to pull him in
00:03:03and just kiss him.
00:03:06These are the wigs
00:03:07I am taking with me.
00:03:09They're brand new.
00:03:10I have three
00:03:11because they get ruined
00:03:13very fast.
00:03:15I will not be wearing
00:03:16the wig on the plane.
00:03:18My plan is to put it on
00:03:20in the bathroom
00:03:20once I land.
00:03:22It just needs to go
00:03:23on my carry-on bag.
00:03:25Wearing a wig,
00:03:27it's a process
00:03:28and it's not fun.
00:03:30It sticks to your hair.
00:03:32It sticks to your skin.
00:03:33You have rashes.
00:03:34You have all kinds of sores.
00:03:36It's going to be stressful
00:03:38to deal with in Nigeria
00:03:39but it makes him so happy.
00:03:42I want to look beautiful
00:03:44for Daniel
00:03:44so I will be keeping it on
00:03:46all day and all night.
00:03:47I'm sleeping in my wig.
00:03:51So today,
00:03:53Mom is going to Nigeria.
00:03:56I'm pretty nervous.
00:04:00I'm not sure
00:04:01how it's going to go.
00:04:03She's horrible
00:04:04with directions.
00:04:06I am hopeful
00:04:08she gets the answers
00:04:09and the relationship
00:04:11she's hoping for
00:04:12but honestly,
00:04:14there's still
00:04:15a lot of concerns
00:04:16for me.
00:04:17Hi, Faith.
00:04:19I have some toast
00:04:20and coffee for you.
00:04:22Oh, wonderful.
00:04:22Thank you.
00:04:24Yeah, freshly brewed.
00:04:25Thank you.
00:04:26That's the first thing
00:04:27I want.
00:04:28I know.
00:04:29All right, listen.
00:04:30Here's something
00:04:30really important.
00:04:32The certified letter
00:04:33is coming for the divorce.
00:04:34Yeah.
00:04:35So you have to go
00:04:36to the post office
00:04:37to mail it.
00:04:38That has to be done.
00:04:40Like immediately?
00:04:41Yes.
00:04:42Because the court hearing date
00:04:43that the judge signs
00:04:44the paper is on the 29th
00:04:45so that the divorce
00:04:46becomes finalized
00:04:47on the 29th.
00:04:49I want to come clean
00:04:51and tell him
00:04:51that not only
00:04:53I was still married
00:04:54but the divorce is there
00:04:55and I want to show him
00:04:56the papers of the divorce.
00:04:58If I'm just...
00:04:58Mom, I...
00:04:59You not only lied
00:05:01about the fact that
00:05:02oh, you didn't just
00:05:04have a fling with a woman.
00:05:05No, you've been married
00:05:06to women several times.
00:05:09But you also told him
00:05:11you're not married.
00:05:14Not only does he not know
00:05:16that I've been with women
00:05:17for the past 21 years,
00:05:19Daniel doesn't know
00:05:20that I am technically
00:05:21still married to a woman.
00:05:27He asked me
00:05:28if I was free to marry
00:05:29when he first started
00:05:30talking to me
00:05:31and I said,
00:05:31yeah, I'm free to marry.
00:05:33Because in my heart
00:05:34I have been free to marry
00:05:35because my ex-wife
00:05:36and I have been separated
00:05:37for over nine years.
00:05:39We just never got around
00:05:40to signing the divorce papers
00:05:42until now.
00:05:44If that happened to me,
00:05:46I would be devastated.
00:05:47I wouldn't be able
00:05:48to trust that person.
00:05:49Well, I'm going to come clean
00:05:50on this trip
00:05:51and tell him everything.
00:05:52I'm not going to accept
00:05:53the marriage proposal
00:05:54until we have this conversation.
00:05:56He's going to know
00:05:57about it beforehand.
00:06:01Just trust me.
00:06:03I'm just worried, Ma.
00:06:04Don't worry.
00:06:05Don't worry.
00:06:06I got this.
00:06:07Let's get going.
00:06:08We need to get to the airport.
00:06:09It is getting late
00:06:11and we need to get going.
00:06:13I do have a flight.
00:06:15I struggle trusting my mom
00:06:17that she's not going to
00:06:18somehow try and get married
00:06:19in there.
00:06:21Please do not ruin your life
00:06:22for getting married
00:06:23to somebody
00:06:24before you're ready.
00:06:26I need to grab my phone.
00:06:28That's the last thing I need.
00:06:33So if Daniel was to ask you
00:06:34to get married
00:06:35while you were in Nigeria,
00:06:36would you keep going
00:06:36against faith?
00:06:37Would I go against
00:06:38faith's wishes?
00:06:44I want to say no.
00:06:48But my heart says,
00:06:50hold on to Daniel
00:06:52and do it.
00:06:53Jump with both feet in.
00:06:57I want to be Mrs. Daniel.
00:07:00I want to be with him.
00:07:02I want to be a part of him.
00:07:04I want to be his wife.
00:07:07So I don't know what I'll do.
00:07:09I really don't know.
00:07:12Will you grab one of the suitcases?
00:07:14Yeah, I can do that.
00:07:15Woo, here we go.
00:07:26Here we go.
00:07:29Oh, 61.
00:07:32What?
00:07:33Oh, 61.
00:07:35I got three.
00:07:37Oh, you've done good.
00:07:39Oh, 70.
00:07:42I met my husband
00:07:43when I was in high school.
00:07:45I was married to a soldier.
00:07:48He lived up the street.
00:07:51My husband and I met
00:07:52in junior college.
00:07:53We loved to skate.
00:07:55So our first date
00:07:57was going skating.
00:07:58The first date,
00:07:59we went to a fair.
00:08:01and I sort of thought,
00:08:06you know,
00:08:07I like him.
00:08:10I didn't want to be
00:08:12with anybody else.
00:08:13That was just,
00:08:15that was it.
00:08:17He said,
00:08:18I wanted you to have
00:08:20a heart ring.
00:08:24And here it is.
00:08:29I'm done waiting
00:08:31No more
00:08:33Hensitating
00:08:34There is nothing more
00:08:37to once more
00:08:38You got to feel it
00:08:41You got to believe it
00:08:43There's a whole new world
00:08:46you're looking for
00:08:47Be poor
00:08:49Good afternoon
00:08:52Lemonade
00:08:53Oh, boy
00:08:55My name is Javon
00:08:56I'm 38 years old
00:08:58and I grew up
00:08:59in Jacksonville, Alabama
00:09:01Thank you
00:09:02Who's winning?
00:09:03Who has a bingo?
00:09:04I've got several bingos
00:09:06Oh, nice
00:09:08I work at a nursing home
00:09:10and I like my job
00:09:12Thank you
00:09:13You know,
00:09:15old people
00:09:15they just say
00:09:16some of the first things
00:09:18that come to their mind
00:09:19they have no filters
00:09:19and it's just pure comedy
00:09:22What did you bring us today?
00:09:23We have grapes
00:09:25crackers
00:09:26cheese
00:09:27salami
00:09:28Ooh
00:09:29Look at all that cheese
00:09:30But it's just
00:09:32a low-paying job
00:09:33Anybody else need
00:09:34any silverware?
00:09:35I think that's where
00:09:36I fall short
00:09:37when it comes to women
00:09:38American women
00:09:40they want six-pack
00:09:41six figures
00:09:42six inches
00:09:46I call them
00:09:47three sixes
00:09:47and
00:09:48it's not me
00:09:53That's good
00:09:56We hear you're going
00:09:57to the Philippines
00:09:58Oh, yeah
00:09:59It's a trip way overdue
00:10:01I'm going to see my wife
00:10:04When was the last time
00:10:05you saw her?
00:10:08Actually, I've never
00:10:10even met my wife yet
00:10:13So
00:10:15this would be
00:10:16actually our first meet
00:10:19Oh, okay
00:10:22Really?
00:10:23Yeah
00:10:25My wife is
00:10:27Anna Lynn
00:10:28She's 38 years old
00:10:29and she's from
00:10:30the Philippines
00:10:31Cavite
00:10:33Hey, boo
00:10:34It's your wife
00:10:34I hope you're having
00:10:35a great day
00:10:36Must be something
00:10:38Yeah
00:10:39Must be something
00:10:41We connected online
00:10:43about five years ago
00:10:45and we've been married
00:10:46for about
00:10:47two years
00:10:50He said that?
00:10:52No
00:10:52That's wrong
00:10:53We have been in a relationship
00:10:55for six years
00:10:56and we have been married
00:10:58for almost three years
00:10:59Okay?
00:11:02Hello, Bupo
00:11:04I love you
00:11:05and I appreciate you
00:11:07Mwah
00:11:08Boy, the moment
00:11:09I saw him
00:11:10he's so good
00:11:12to look at
00:11:13Yummers
00:11:19Even though
00:11:20we were on
00:11:20the opposite sides
00:11:21of the world
00:11:22we would talk
00:11:23for hours
00:11:23every day
00:11:24and he just
00:11:25made me feel
00:11:25like the happiest
00:11:26that I've ever been
00:11:30Maybe a year
00:11:32after we
00:11:32started talking
00:11:33online
00:11:34I wanted to meet
00:11:35Annalyn in person
00:11:36but when COVID hit
00:11:38I couldn't
00:11:39no longer travel
00:11:40there were
00:11:41flight restrictions
00:11:42I was kind of
00:11:44feeling hopeless
00:11:45and I was afraid
00:11:47that I'm gonna
00:11:47lose him
00:11:48and then
00:11:50I was scrolling
00:11:51on social media
00:11:52and I saw
00:11:53these couples
00:11:54getting married online
00:11:56and I thought
00:11:57if we were married
00:11:58legally
00:11:59he would be able
00:12:00to enter
00:12:01the Philippine border
00:12:02because they allow
00:12:03family
00:12:04which means
00:12:04blood
00:12:05or your
00:12:06spouse
00:12:08when Annalyn
00:12:09first brought up
00:12:11online
00:12:12marriages
00:12:14I was just like
00:12:15what the hell
00:12:18I had doubts
00:12:19of course
00:12:20because
00:12:20it's unorthodox
00:12:22but
00:12:23I just had
00:12:24a lot of faith
00:12:26when you meet
00:12:26the one
00:12:27that you're supposed
00:12:27to spend the rest
00:12:28of your life with
00:12:28you can't even
00:12:29actually put it
00:12:30into words
00:12:30it's like
00:12:31that's what they say
00:12:31when you know
00:12:32you know
00:12:33it's kind of
00:12:34like that
00:12:36all right
00:12:37place the rings
00:12:38on your fingers
00:12:39as a symbol
00:12:40of the love
00:12:40that you share
00:12:41and the commitment
00:12:42that you're making
00:12:43how I envisioned
00:12:45my wedding
00:12:45was not
00:12:46a zoom call
00:12:47absolutely not
00:12:48but
00:12:49it was still
00:12:50the happiest day
00:12:51of my life
00:12:52it is now
00:12:52my privilege
00:12:53to pronounce you
00:12:54lawfully wed
00:12:55as husband
00:12:56and wife
00:13:02I finally
00:13:03have my
00:13:03perfect wife
00:13:05I just need
00:13:05to meet her
00:13:06in person
00:13:08how could you
00:13:08be married
00:13:09for years
00:13:09and never
00:13:11go to the
00:13:12Philippines
00:13:12to see your
00:13:13wife
00:13:15the whole thing
00:13:16is very expensive
00:13:17so you know
00:13:18and then I have
00:13:18to save up
00:13:19for it
00:13:19so that's
00:13:21mostly the
00:13:21reason why
00:13:23over the years
00:13:24me and Adeline
00:13:25have tried to
00:13:26meet up
00:13:26several times
00:13:27but work
00:13:29and finances
00:13:29got in the way
00:13:30and having
00:13:32a marriage
00:13:32online
00:13:33has been
00:13:34challenging
00:13:36especially
00:13:36because
00:13:37Adeline
00:13:38has changed
00:13:40when I first
00:13:41met Adeline
00:13:42she was
00:13:43more patient
00:13:44sweeter
00:13:45she just had
00:13:46more positive
00:13:47vibes about her
00:13:48I'm like
00:13:49hold on
00:13:50what's going
00:13:51on here
00:13:51I've always
00:13:53been feisty
00:13:54she knows
00:13:55that
00:13:57and I'm
00:13:58not the
00:13:58typical
00:13:58Filipina
00:13:59I don't
00:14:00like being
00:14:00told what
00:14:00to do
00:14:01I don't
00:14:01like being
00:14:02controlled
00:14:04after a
00:14:05period of
00:14:05time
00:14:05I had to
00:14:06fight to
00:14:06actually speak
00:14:07to be heard
00:14:09lately it feels
00:14:10like we're
00:14:11fighting more
00:14:11than we're
00:14:12getting along
00:14:12I know
00:14:13we're already
00:14:14committed
00:14:14as man
00:14:14and wife
00:14:15but before
00:14:16I apply
00:14:16for that
00:14:17spousal
00:14:18visa
00:14:18and move
00:14:19Adeline
00:14:20to the
00:14:20US
00:14:20we need
00:14:21to spend
00:14:22physical time
00:14:23with one
00:14:23another
00:14:23to make
00:14:24sure
00:14:24I made
00:14:25the right
00:14:25choice
00:14:27I'm going
00:14:28out there
00:14:28because I
00:14:29love her
00:14:29I'm going
00:14:30to give it
00:14:31everything
00:14:31I got
00:14:31but I'm
00:14:33worried
00:14:33that our
00:14:33problems
00:14:34are maybe
00:14:34a little
00:14:35bit too
00:14:35big to
00:14:36resolve
00:14:37and if
00:14:38we can't
00:14:38I don't
00:14:39know how
00:14:39this marriage
00:14:40is going
00:14:40to work
00:14:46you're so
00:14:47excited
00:14:47huh
00:14:47oh yeah
00:14:50you're so
00:14:50handsome
00:14:51always
00:14:51I'm going
00:14:52to go
00:14:52brush my
00:14:52teeth
00:14:53I've been
00:14:54waiting
00:14:54seven years
00:14:55to be
00:14:56alone
00:14:57with Sheena
00:14:57like this
00:14:58I'm not
00:14:58saying I
00:14:59can't pull
00:14:59her socks
00:14:59off
00:15:00but
00:15:01I'm kind
00:15:02of still
00:15:02nervous about
00:15:03what is
00:15:03marriage
00:15:03going
00:15:03to go
00:15:07I don't
00:15:08like that
00:15:08we were
00:15:08fighting
00:15:09yesterday
00:15:09but there's
00:15:10something else
00:15:10I wanted
00:15:11to like
00:15:11talk to
00:15:11you about
00:15:12that like
00:15:13I didn't
00:15:13tell you
00:15:13yet
00:15:15what's
00:15:15happening
00:15:20Emma
00:16:00I wanted to get
00:16:01out for a bit
00:16:02this morning
00:16:02this morning
00:16:03and clear
00:16:03my mind
00:16:03because
00:16:04my night
00:16:05with Emma
00:16:05was horrible
00:16:07I want to
00:16:08be her husband
00:16:09but we need
00:16:10some times
00:16:10to know
00:16:11each other
00:16:11I hope
00:16:12things better
00:16:13today
00:16:19I pictured
00:16:20my first
00:16:20morning here
00:16:21a lot
00:16:21differently
00:16:21like I
00:16:22thought I'd
00:16:22be
00:16:22waking up
00:16:23next to
00:16:23him
00:16:24and he
00:16:24would be
00:16:24like
00:16:24bringing
00:16:25me coffee
00:16:25in the
00:16:25morning
00:16:26and
00:16:26cuddling
00:16:26with
00:16:26me
00:16:27and
00:16:28that's
00:16:28not
00:16:29how it
00:16:29went
00:16:29at all
00:16:30we've
00:16:30actually
00:16:31just
00:16:32been
00:16:32completely
00:16:32separate
00:16:35Zia's
00:16:35behavior
00:16:36last night
00:16:36it's making
00:16:37me a little
00:16:37suspicious
00:16:38but I'm
00:16:39trying not
00:16:40to just
00:16:40be in my
00:16:41head
00:16:41and overthink
00:16:42things
00:16:43I want
00:16:44this to be
00:16:44fun
00:16:44and I
00:16:45want us
00:16:45to
00:16:45just
00:16:46focus
00:16:46on
00:16:47the
00:16:48positive
00:16:48I'm
00:16:49really
00:16:49determined
00:16:50to turn
00:16:50things
00:16:50around
00:17:11hi
00:17:13good morning
00:17:14morning
00:17:15how's your night
00:17:17this is nice
00:17:18really
00:17:19yeah
00:17:21that's it
00:17:22this is your
00:17:22place
00:17:23I hope
00:17:23you will
00:17:23like it
00:17:24thanks babe
00:17:31hello
00:17:35thank you
00:17:37she's adorable
00:17:40my favorite
00:17:41eggs
00:17:43I don't like
00:17:44eggs but I'll
00:17:44eat it
00:17:45because she
00:17:45cooked it
00:17:47do you want
00:17:47to talk
00:17:48about
00:17:48yesterday
00:17:51I mean it
00:17:52wasn't really
00:17:52like a good
00:17:53start to my
00:17:54trip
00:17:56I don't like
00:17:56that we were
00:17:57fighting all
00:17:57day
00:17:58yeah
00:17:59that's not
00:17:59how I
00:18:00expected like
00:18:00my first
00:18:01night to
00:18:01go
00:18:03can you
00:18:04pour me
00:18:04some more
00:18:04tea please
00:18:05yeah
00:18:06oh you
00:18:07drink
00:18:07that all
00:18:08quickly
00:18:08I love
00:18:09the tea
00:18:09here
00:18:09okay
00:18:11um but yeah
00:18:12so I did
00:18:12want to say
00:18:13sorry
00:18:14to you
00:18:14I don't
00:18:15hear you
00:18:16I wanted
00:18:17to say
00:18:17sorry
00:18:18can you repeat
00:18:19I don't hear
00:18:19what you
00:18:19said
00:18:19I wanted
00:18:20to say
00:18:20sorry
00:18:20for what
00:18:24for running
00:18:25away from
00:18:25your kiss
00:18:27and
00:18:29walking away
00:18:30from you
00:18:30when you
00:18:31were talking
00:18:34I mean I'm
00:18:34sorry yesterday
00:18:35got like really
00:18:35dramatic but
00:18:36I think it was
00:18:37just a long
00:18:38day for me
00:18:38because I
00:18:39was traveling
00:18:40for like 20
00:18:41hours
00:18:41I know it's
00:18:42difficult
00:18:42and it was
00:18:43just like a lot
00:18:43going on
00:18:44there was like
00:18:44a lot in
00:18:45my mind
00:18:47actually
00:18:47there's something
00:18:48else I wanted
00:18:49to like talk
00:18:49to you about
00:18:50that like I
00:18:51didn't tell you
00:18:52yet
00:19:02what is this
00:19:03what's happening
00:19:07I was just
00:19:07like upset
00:19:08the past
00:19:08couple days
00:19:09because
00:19:10you know
00:19:11how much
00:19:11I love my
00:19:11job
00:19:11like I've
00:19:12been there
00:19:12for five
00:19:13years
00:19:14and
00:19:16well I
00:19:17got fired
00:19:22really
00:19:24I don't know
00:19:24if I want to
00:19:25talk about it
00:19:25because I'm
00:19:25going to cry
00:19:26no no you
00:19:27don't mean
00:19:27this
00:19:29listen
00:19:29listen
00:19:32I just
00:19:32need a minute
00:19:36sorry
00:19:42sorry
00:19:43no no
00:19:44don't cry
00:19:47it's
00:19:48I don't
00:19:49know what
00:19:49I'm going to
00:19:49do
00:19:49it's just
00:19:50a word
00:19:52it's
00:19:52and
00:19:55you don't
00:19:56need to
00:19:56cry
00:19:56so just
00:19:58enjoy your
00:19:58moments
00:19:59no don't
00:19:59cry
00:20:00don't cry
00:20:00okay
00:20:01don't cry
00:20:01okay
00:20:09I don't
00:20:10know what
00:20:10I'm going
00:20:11to do
00:20:11I don't
00:20:12have any
00:20:12like options
00:20:13right now
00:20:13it's difficult
00:20:15and it's
00:20:15hard
00:20:16but at the
00:20:16end
00:20:16there is
00:20:17a lot
00:20:17of jobs
00:20:18yeah
00:20:19we will
00:20:19find another
00:20:20one more
00:20:21better than
00:20:21you last
00:20:22right now
00:20:23I want
00:20:24you to
00:20:24enjoy
00:20:25here
00:20:25in
00:20:25Marrakesh
00:20:26we are
00:20:28together
00:20:29and
00:20:29everything
00:20:30will be
00:20:30good
00:20:35I think
00:20:36we definitely
00:20:36started this
00:20:37trip
00:20:37like on
00:20:38the wrong
00:20:39foot
00:20:39it was
00:20:40like a
00:20:40tornado
00:20:41but
00:20:42right now
00:20:43he's showing
00:20:43me that
00:20:44he cares
00:20:44about what
00:20:45I'm going
00:20:45through
00:20:46I love
00:20:47you
00:20:47I love
00:20:48you
00:20:48more
00:20:49but
00:20:49what's
00:20:50mean
00:20:50tornado
00:20:51like an
00:20:52earthquake
00:20:52like a
00:20:53like a
00:20:53natural
00:20:54disaster
00:20:54so like
00:20:55when I
00:20:55got off
00:20:55the
00:20:55plane
00:20:56what
00:20:57happened
00:20:57between
00:20:57us
00:20:57was
00:20:57like
00:20:58an
00:20:58earthquake
00:20:58yeah
00:20:59yeah
00:20:59that's
00:20:59amazing
00:21:00example
00:21:05my future
00:21:06hubby
00:21:06do you know
00:21:09what that
00:21:09means
00:21:09no
00:21:10can you
00:21:10explain
00:21:11what's
00:21:11mean
00:21:12it's
00:21:12short
00:21:12for
00:21:12husband
00:21:13really
00:21:14yeah
00:21:14hubby
00:21:17one
00:21:18feet
00:21:18yeah
00:21:20exactly
00:21:42I can't believe
00:21:43the trees
00:21:44how beautiful
00:21:45they are
00:21:46I can't believe
00:21:47how hot it is
00:21:48I'm probably
00:21:48gonna
00:21:48I can't believe
00:21:49how hot it is
00:21:50I'm gonna have
00:21:50a sunburn
00:21:51in about
00:21:5110 seconds
00:21:52love
00:21:52love
00:21:53love
00:21:54love
00:21:54love
00:21:56my heart
00:21:58is
00:21:58racing
00:21:59all right
00:22:01see you later
00:22:02babe
00:22:02see you later
00:22:04okay
00:22:06I just arrived
00:22:07in the Philippines
00:22:08with my parents
00:22:09and finally
00:22:10met
00:22:10the girl
00:22:12of my dreams
00:22:13after seven years
00:22:15Just being able to touch and hold her hand
00:22:17It was so amazing
00:22:19Did a little more than hold hands
00:22:21I'd say
00:22:24Yeah
00:22:28Oh this is incredible
00:22:30Yeah there's a lot to take in here
00:22:33Crazy
00:22:34This is definitely controlled chaos
00:22:37If I could describe
00:22:38The Philippines in one word
00:22:40It'd be hectic
00:22:43It's got people
00:22:44Almost running into each other
00:22:46Running each other over constantly
00:22:48Oh man
00:22:49Glad I'm not driving
00:22:53It's got it's own
00:22:55Charm to it
00:22:55Look at that, that thing is pretty good
00:22:57This is the jeepney
00:22:59This is locally here in my country
00:23:00They have converted old jeepneys
00:23:02From the World War II
00:23:03Who have been left with the Americans
00:23:05So they converted for like taxis
00:23:08Incredible
00:23:10You can see the big building there
00:23:12That's the condo we're gonna stay
00:23:14That was like a sanitary place
00:23:16Yeah
00:23:18Sheena's parents own her apartment in Manila
00:23:21But we're not staying there
00:23:22Because her parents said we had to pay for it
00:23:26If we did stay
00:23:28When Sheena told me that
00:23:29It made me really upset
00:23:31Because I'm planning on marrying their daughter
00:23:33And I would be their son
00:23:34And to charge family
00:23:36To come stay at their house
00:23:38Is just absurd
00:23:39Especially because
00:23:41We have been saving
00:23:42For the last seven years
00:23:43Just to afford the plane ticket
00:23:44To actually just meet her
00:23:46Sheena said
00:23:47I know it doesn't make sense
00:23:48But it's what my parents want
00:23:50It's their wishes
00:23:50I can't really
00:23:52Go around that
00:23:54But
00:23:54I'm not paying them money
00:23:58This is the place
00:23:59Alright
00:24:00We are here
00:24:05There you go, mama
00:24:06That's it
00:24:08I got it
00:24:09Alright, charge
00:24:13Sheena is an extreme foodie
00:24:15And she likes to make sure
00:24:17That I'm well fed
00:24:19Well, that's a cultural thing
00:24:21In my country
00:24:22Whoa
00:24:23I'd sure like to open him up
00:24:24And see what he's about
00:24:25Oh my goodness
00:24:26Definitely smell him
00:24:27Oh
00:24:28Yeah, you know
00:24:30Yeah, he's a little excited at the top
00:24:32Don't go for that
00:24:33Yeah, okay
00:24:38So, sorry baby
00:24:39This is all I could get for you guys
00:24:41You can see that
00:24:43We have two bedrooms here
00:24:45It's like a simple home
00:24:46But comfy
00:24:47So
00:24:49The place is nice
00:24:50It's pretty
00:24:51But it could
00:24:53Have been a little bit bigger
00:24:56I state this claim
00:24:57In the name of Forrest
00:24:58It feels good
00:25:01It's your bag too
00:25:02Here, I'll throw these in here for you
00:25:03It's not exactly the ideal place
00:25:06To be sharing with my parents
00:25:07If me and Sheena, you know
00:25:09Decide to get down
00:25:10I really just hope my parents
00:25:12Don't hear us
00:25:16Sheena
00:25:17What?
00:25:18This feels
00:25:19More
00:25:19Than
00:25:20Online
00:25:21Right now
00:25:22It's making me more nervous
00:25:25Oh, you don't have to be
00:25:27I'm here right with you
00:25:28Oh, I know
00:25:28I can see
00:25:30Yeah
00:25:30You're so excited, huh?
00:25:32Oh, yeah
00:25:32Oh, yeah
00:25:33Because I got some
00:25:34Good stuff here
00:25:36Excuse me, baby
00:25:39Boom
00:25:39What is that?
00:25:41This is something
00:25:43Amazing
00:25:43And I want you to try it on
00:25:45For me
00:25:46If you want
00:25:47Wow
00:25:49What's that thing?
00:25:52I think it is a cloth
00:25:54That goes on your body
00:25:55It accentuates your sexuality
00:26:01Oh, that's nice
00:26:02I love the color
00:26:03Oh, yeah
00:26:04I guess
00:26:05Guess what?
00:26:06There's even more
00:26:07What?
00:26:08You have more?
00:26:09I have more
00:26:11Oh, wow
00:26:12I got you a pretty thong
00:26:15Wow
00:26:17To be honest
00:26:18I feel quite nervous
00:26:19Because I am a virgin
00:26:23But Forrest makes me feel confident
00:26:25Of my body
00:26:27This is another one for you
00:26:28In case you want to
00:26:30Oh, that's great
00:26:31That's cool
00:26:31That's beautiful
00:26:33Oh, okay
00:26:34Oh, okay
00:26:41You're so handsome always
00:26:43I'm going to go brush my teeth
00:26:44Okay
00:26:45Go for it, my love
00:26:46Because I want to take a deep brush
00:26:47All right
00:26:48Here you think, my love
00:26:51You know
00:26:52When I was making, like, sexy talk with her
00:26:54I was really just trying to, like
00:26:56Put her at ease
00:26:57Make her laugh
00:26:58You know
00:26:59Just calm the mood
00:27:01I've been waiting seven years
00:27:04To be alone with Sheena like this
00:27:06But
00:27:06To be honest
00:27:07I'm actually
00:27:08I'm kind of still nervous
00:27:09About what is my heart to do
00:27:13I mean
00:27:13I'm
00:27:14I'm not saying
00:27:15I can't pull her socks off
00:27:16But
00:27:18Having sex with Sheena
00:27:19I feel like
00:27:21It's
00:27:21An important thing
00:27:22For the both of us
00:27:23To be in the right mindset
00:27:27It's
00:27:27It's just a big deal
00:27:29I love you
00:27:30I love you
00:27:30Do you want the lights on or off?
00:27:32Well
00:27:33Turn off the lights, babe
00:27:39It's absolutely wild
00:27:41That I'm finally on the ground here
00:27:45I still have flaws and imperfections
00:27:47And so I am nervous
00:27:49That
00:27:50BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person
00:27:53Oh my god
00:27:55Here we go
00:28:00We are in the process of landing
00:28:03And
00:28:04I don't know if it was the cheese sandwich
00:28:06Or BeerCon
00:28:06But
00:28:07I'm excited
00:28:18So this is the most important day actually
00:28:22In my life
00:28:22I'm trying to look good, you know
00:28:25For our big meeting
00:28:27For the first time
00:28:28Everything has to go perfect
00:28:31So
00:28:31I will iron it until it's perfect
00:28:34Or it's burned
00:28:36Laura is arriving
00:28:38Tricky today
00:28:39And
00:28:39Today
00:28:41Might be
00:28:42First day of my rest of my life
00:28:44Laura
00:28:46Rented
00:28:46This
00:28:47Airbnb
00:28:48For us
00:28:49I never saw
00:28:50This big
00:28:51Of
00:28:52Place
00:28:53It just
00:28:54Drills me
00:28:57Right now
00:28:59I'm staying with
00:29:00Different friends
00:29:01Sometimes
00:29:02Izmir
00:29:03Sometimes Istanbul
00:29:04That's why
00:29:06Laura
00:29:06Couldn't
00:29:07Stay with me
00:29:07But
00:29:09The privacy
00:29:10Of our place
00:29:11Is gonna be nice
00:29:12Because we have
00:29:14A lot of things
00:29:15To discuss
00:29:15Face to face
00:29:27It's absolutely wild
00:29:30That I'm finally
00:29:31On the ground
00:29:31Here
00:29:32I'm so excited
00:29:34Now
00:29:34I just want to run
00:29:36Out of this airport
00:29:36And leave all my luggage
00:29:37Here
00:29:44Oh
00:29:45Oh
00:29:46Oh
00:29:46Oh my gosh
00:29:49She come early
00:29:59It's slightly close
00:30:00That I am having a heart attack
00:30:02Or I am excited
00:30:03But yeah
00:30:04We will see
00:30:07I am gonna wear a dress
00:30:09To meet this man
00:30:11I think that will be
00:30:12A lot cuter
00:30:12Than
00:30:13The hot mess
00:30:14That I'm currently wearing
00:30:17I'm really proud
00:30:18Of the progress
00:30:19That I've made
00:30:20Over the last 14 months
00:30:21But
00:30:22I still have
00:30:24Flaws
00:30:24And imperfections
00:30:25And so I am nervous
00:30:27That
00:30:28Birkan
00:30:29Won't be
00:30:30As attracted to me
00:30:31In person
00:30:32And I think
00:30:33That's a cute dress
00:30:35All right
00:30:41The woman I love
00:30:42Is coming
00:30:43So
00:30:43I'm thrilled
00:30:44My hopes are
00:30:46We will get engaged
00:30:47And
00:30:48Go to America
00:30:49Live together
00:30:50And
00:30:51Get married
00:30:53But
00:30:53Maybe
00:30:54She will hate me
00:30:55Nobody knows
00:31:01This is it
00:31:02I can't believe
00:31:03I'm about to meet him
00:31:04I was in fine
00:31:06Till you came
00:31:08Into my view
00:31:10Thought I was going
00:31:11Inside
00:31:12Oh my God
00:31:14Here we go
00:31:14She lies
00:31:22Welcome
00:31:23Gorgeous
00:31:25How are you?
00:31:26I'm good
00:31:27How are you?
00:31:27I'm good
00:31:29How are you doing?
00:31:30It was so long
00:31:31Yeah I know
00:31:33I am still thinking
00:31:34About
00:31:34Oh my God
00:31:35America
00:31:35Yeah
00:31:46I think everything
00:31:47Is perfect
00:31:48Right now
00:31:49Yeah
00:31:50That's really sweet
00:31:51Yeah
00:31:51That was
00:31:52I know
00:31:53I know
00:31:54Yeah
00:31:57So let's go this way
00:31:59Okay
00:32:00These bumps are a pain
00:32:02With suitcases
00:32:03He looks amazing
00:32:04Exactly the aesthetic
00:32:06That I've been describing
00:32:08Which is that
00:32:09Dark romance male main character
00:32:11When you look at her
00:32:12What do you think?
00:32:13She's perfect
00:32:14I don't need to look at her
00:32:15I don't need
00:32:17Because I feel it
00:32:18You know
00:32:18I'm complete
00:32:19So we don't need to see
00:32:21That's probably the best answer ever
00:32:28That was like the best flight
00:32:30I've ever taken
00:32:30Yeah
00:32:31Seriously
00:32:33I'm glad
00:32:34I'm really glad
00:32:36Yeah
00:32:50It's good to see you
00:32:52You too
00:32:57I don't know what's happening
00:33:01It's very awkward right now
00:33:06I really wasn't expecting that
00:33:08Because you know
00:33:09It was like great
00:33:09When we first met
00:33:10He hugged me
00:33:11He kissed me
00:33:12And then we sit on this train
00:33:13And it's like
00:33:14He doesn't know who I am
00:33:16And I don't know who he is
00:33:23I think we're close
00:33:27I'm hoping that
00:33:29As time moves forward
00:33:30That this will turn around
00:33:32And it will feel more like it did
00:33:35When we were online
00:33:36But right now
00:33:37Something is off
00:33:39And it's freaking me out
00:33:48Anna called me like it were
00:33:51Talking about
00:33:51Your brother
00:33:52Your brother
00:33:52I know that Anna is
00:33:541000% unhinged
00:33:56Like kind of off her rocker
00:33:57A little bit
00:33:58She was just talking about
00:33:59That woman
00:34:01Uh
00:34:03Yeah
00:34:04Who is the woman?
00:34:14Hey y'all I'm ready to roll
00:34:16Fully loaded y'all I'm ready for whoa
00:34:18Straight up out of the bunker
00:34:20Might jump ya
00:34:22Zombies out here to hunt ya
00:34:24This is nice
00:34:27Really?
00:34:28This is screaming
00:34:29I failed a pottery class
00:34:31No but she doesn't like
00:34:32How you dress
00:34:33So you gotta do something else
00:34:46I think you got some good purchases
00:34:49Yeah I don't have a lot of faith in that shirt
00:34:52It'll be fine
00:34:53It's gonna be fine
00:34:56I'm running some last minute errands
00:34:58With my sister Ashley
00:34:59Because I'm flying to the Philippines
00:35:01In a couple of days
00:35:01To meet my wife
00:35:03For the first time
00:35:04In person
00:35:06I'm excited
00:35:07I'm excited
00:35:07And I'm super nervous
00:35:08Because we've been married
00:35:10For three years
00:35:11But we've never been
00:35:12In the same room
00:35:13Or even the same continent
00:35:15With each other
00:35:17So are you all packed up
00:35:19You ready?
00:35:20I think I'm as ready
00:35:22As I'm ever gonna be
00:35:24And you know
00:35:25Me and Anna's relationship
00:35:26It's just been this spiraling
00:35:28Like up and down
00:35:30Loop-de-loop
00:35:30Rollercoaster ride
00:35:32But when things are good
00:35:33I'm like really happy
00:35:34To be in a relationship
00:35:35I think Anna's very funny
00:35:37Yeah
00:35:37Like Anna seems like
00:35:39She's a good time
00:35:40She's just a lot
00:35:44But Javon
00:35:46Marrying somebody online
00:35:47Was actually wild to me
00:35:49I do think they love each other
00:35:51But I don't know
00:35:53Like I wouldn't just call this
00:35:54Like a normal marriage
00:35:56This is something
00:35:57I've never seen
00:35:58Or heard of before
00:36:00You know like Anna
00:36:02Actually called me
00:36:05You spoke to her?
00:36:07Mm-hmm
00:36:08She called me
00:36:10Like at work
00:36:11I'm working
00:36:12I'm with customers
00:36:14And she's just
00:36:15You know
00:36:15Talking about
00:36:16Your brother
00:36:16Your brother
00:36:17I don't know
00:36:17What to do with him
00:36:18Rah, rah, rah
00:36:20Rah, rah, rah
00:36:21And I was like
00:36:22Can't even get her
00:36:23Off the phone
00:36:24Yeah
00:36:25She was just
00:36:26Talking about
00:36:26That woman
00:36:31Uh
00:36:32Yeah
00:36:35So who
00:36:36Who is the woman?
00:36:43So the woman is just like
00:36:45A friend of mine
00:36:47That I've known for a long time
00:36:51We communicate so well
00:36:53And we can stay on the phone for hours
00:36:55I think because we're both having problems
00:36:57In our, you know, relationship
00:36:59It's definitely more easygoing
00:37:01And it's more positive
00:37:06So, but what is it that, that Anna's so like threatened and bothered by her?
00:37:12Like what, what is it?
00:37:14Because I feel like I'm missing something
00:37:18Yeah, I mean
00:37:19There used to be
00:37:20This, this, this
00:37:21This small thing between us
00:37:23But
00:37:24We're bad
00:37:25Also
00:37:25That, so
00:37:26So
00:37:28Javon, that's not okay
00:37:29That is no good
00:37:31I know
00:37:32You know
00:37:32And I'm not
00:37:33So that's why she's so upset then
00:37:35Yeah
00:37:37Me and my friend
00:37:38We never officially dated
00:37:40But there was
00:37:40Feelings for one another
00:37:42We lost touch for a while
00:37:44But I reached out to her
00:37:47Because
00:37:47I was going through a rough time
00:37:50In my marriage
00:37:51And I needed someone
00:37:53That knew me
00:37:54And that understood me
00:37:56I wasn't trying to hide anything
00:37:58So
00:37:59I just came out
00:38:00And told Annalena
00:38:01I was talking to this other person
00:38:03I don't think it's a big deal
00:38:05But obviously she does
00:38:06Because she's extremely pissed off
00:38:08And upset
00:38:12I'm not saying
00:38:13She don't have a valid reason
00:38:14To be upset
00:38:15But it's just
00:38:16Completely platonic
00:38:18You know
00:38:19And
00:38:19She don't have to worry about that
00:38:22Have you tried to call her?
00:38:24I have
00:38:26But
00:38:26You know
00:38:27She
00:38:27She blocked me
00:38:30For real?
00:38:32She gets so aggressive
00:38:34See this is the problem
00:38:36Like this is how
00:38:36This is why I had to go
00:38:38Outside of our marriage
00:38:41To talk to somebody else
00:38:43About our marriage
00:38:45And it shouldn't be that way
00:38:48Obviously
00:38:48Annalena feels disrespected
00:38:50And I do get that
00:38:53I know that she's
00:38:541000% unhinged
00:38:56Like kind of off her rocker
00:38:58A little bit
00:38:58But
00:38:59But I do feel like
00:39:00He presses her buttons
00:39:01Javon just needs to say sorry
00:39:03And try and talk to her
00:39:04And if they don't know
00:39:05How to talk
00:39:06Then they don't need
00:39:07To be married
00:39:08You're about to see
00:39:09Your wife for the first time
00:39:11You all don't need
00:39:12To be in the middle
00:39:13Of a fight
00:39:15I don't know
00:39:15What to do
00:39:16I don't know
00:39:17What to do
00:39:22I heard some
00:39:23Interesting things
00:39:24From your guys'
00:39:25Bedroom
00:39:26Last night
00:39:28Did you guys
00:39:29Do the old
00:39:30Knock and knock
00:39:31I just want to
00:39:33Prefer like
00:39:34A privacy
00:39:35Between us
00:39:35You know
00:39:36Now you're kind of
00:39:38Now you're kind of
00:39:38Being really disrespectful
00:40:06Hey guys
00:40:07We're going to go down and have some coffee by the pool
00:40:09So we'll be up in a little while
00:40:12Talk to you in a bit
00:40:14Later
00:40:16Mmm
00:40:20Very content
00:40:24Cause she looks so hot
00:40:26In my jacket
00:40:27Jacket
00:40:28I'll try to quit her like I had you
00:40:31Let her go
00:40:32Oh
00:40:33You're crazy
00:40:35I'm crazy
00:40:36Do you
00:40:37I arrived in the Philippines yesterday
00:40:41And the first night
00:40:43With the woman of my dream
00:40:45Sheena
00:40:45Was amazing
00:40:47Oh man you're strong
00:40:49Oh yeah
00:40:49I was strong
00:40:50Oh my god
00:40:56I'm going to tickle you crazy baby
00:41:00There's a lot of new and fun things
00:41:02I'm finding out
00:41:02Being with Sheena physically
00:41:04I found out
00:41:05There's a night Sheena
00:41:07What?
00:41:08And she's kind of grabby
00:41:09Oh really?
00:41:10I'm not
00:41:11You're very into being physical
00:41:13Oh no
00:41:14Night Sheena
00:41:15Oh no
00:41:16Oh no
00:41:16Oh no
00:41:18You know just finally being able to hold you
00:41:21And be with you
00:41:21And kiss you
00:41:23It just felt awesome
00:41:25And I know that I talked of a big game last night
00:41:28About sex
00:41:29And everything like that
00:41:31But I really believe
00:41:34That we should
00:41:36Wait
00:41:37You know
00:41:37Till we know each other a bit more
00:41:38You know in person
00:41:42I understand my love
00:41:44I really feel like
00:41:46After seven years
00:41:48Me coming here to the Philippines
00:41:50And just having sex with Sheena straight up
00:41:52It's not what I want to do
00:41:54Yeah I agree with that
00:41:55I just want to get to know you much better
00:41:58We all know when the time is right
00:42:00I agree to that
00:42:03Also probably when my mom's not around
00:42:04Yeah
00:42:11We'll see you later
00:42:14I don't need a coat
00:42:16That's for sure
00:42:17Nice and cool in here
00:42:20I'm excited
00:42:28So where exactly are we
00:42:31You're taking us again
00:42:32So it's a Chinatown here in Manila
00:42:35Actually one of the oldest Chinatown here in the whole world
00:42:39It's because Chinese people
00:42:41Have been trading with the Filipinos
00:42:43Before Spanish people arrived
00:42:46Wow
00:42:46Spaniards
00:42:47So there's a lot of historical sites around
00:42:49And good foods
00:42:50I'm ready to eat it all
00:42:56So I got a little curiosity question
00:42:59To ask you guys
00:43:01I heard some interesting things
00:43:04You know
00:43:05Coming from your guys' bedroom last night
00:43:08The little giggles
00:43:09So did you guys do the old
00:43:15Knockin' knockin'?
00:43:18No
00:43:19No
00:43:20No
00:43:21No
00:43:21No
00:43:24So why didn't you guys
00:43:29Well, it just wasn't the right time
00:43:31Or place to do that
00:43:33Oh, okay
00:43:34Well
00:43:35You guys can always come and talk to us
00:43:39If you have questions
00:43:40It's not an embarrassing subject to me
00:43:43It's interesting
00:43:44It takes practice to be good at it
00:43:48Yeah
00:43:51My parents are just
00:43:54It's a little too much
00:43:55It's a little bit rude and awkward for me
00:43:58I just want to prefer like a privacy between us, you know
00:44:02I respect you guys for waiting
00:44:05And there's nothing wrong with that
00:44:07There are other things that you can do
00:44:09If you guys didn't want to do the nookie-nookie
00:44:14There's oral sex
00:44:15There's fondling
00:44:18Now you're kind of being really disrespectful here, Mom
00:44:21I get it
00:44:21You're trying to be helpful
00:44:22But you're pushing too far
00:44:25You know
00:44:26If we want to talk about sex with you
00:44:28We'll come up and ask about it
00:44:31Okay
00:44:33Excuse me
00:44:37I thought it was nice
00:44:38That he was defending her honor
00:44:40That's admirable
00:44:42But I was very shocked by Forrest's reaction
00:44:46Thank you very much
00:44:48Well, Forrest, why is this a, you know, a total 180
00:44:52From our normal discussions
00:44:54Where you're right in there
00:44:55Using the same language
00:44:56The same talk
00:44:57Saying, yeah, I'm going to get into that
00:44:58Do that
00:45:00It's drastic night and day
00:45:01I see where this is headed
00:45:03Oh, my God
00:45:04I miss this place
00:45:05See us at home
00:45:09Sheena already has that control
00:45:10That thumb on him
00:45:12Let's not forget
00:45:13She was lying to him for years
00:45:15Getting all of her money to her parents
00:45:17Instead of saving for their future
00:45:19And I don't know if Forrest
00:45:21Will actually hold her accountable
00:45:23But we need to get some answers
00:45:32You don't need to talk about your past
00:45:36I know, I know everything about your life
00:45:38You don't know everything
00:45:41I really want to tell Zied
00:45:43About my last engagement
00:45:44Because I think it's the only way
00:45:46That we could move forward
00:46:02Ooh, look at the mirrors
00:46:05Wait, I want to check my outfit
00:46:07Here, hold that
00:46:10We look cute
00:46:13I can see you
00:46:14Can you see yourself?
00:46:15I can see you
00:46:28I'm excited to go shopping
00:46:30It's always crowded
00:46:31Yeah, yeah
00:46:33This is an easy place to get lost
00:46:36Today I want to take Emma to Old Medina
00:46:39I feel so bad because Emma
00:46:42She loves her job
00:46:43I want to make her feel so better
00:46:45And she loves shopping
00:46:48Oh, look at those bags
00:46:50Those are cute
00:46:52The marketplace in the Medina
00:46:54They have a thousand stores there
00:46:56Oh my gosh
00:46:57I love all of these clothes
00:46:59You can find anything you want
00:47:02Ooh, look at these rugs
00:47:04Those are nice
00:47:06Yes
00:47:07Oh, wait, there's bags
00:47:08Let's go look at the bags
00:47:10Let's see what you want
00:47:14Oh, this is so cute
00:47:15Can you hold this?
00:47:16I want to look at everything
00:47:17Hey, look for anything you want
00:47:19I think I like these little wallets
00:47:22These are cute
00:47:24I think I'm going to buy these three
00:47:26Not you, me
00:47:28You're going to get them?
00:47:29Yeah
00:47:29Hey
00:47:30It's like my gift to you
00:47:33Can I give you a kiss?
00:47:34Not hair
00:47:35Air kiss?
00:47:36Maybe
00:47:37Is that okay?
00:47:38Yeah, that's okay
00:47:38Can I do that from now on?
00:47:40Yeah, yeah, yeah
00:47:40Just give you air kisses
00:47:41Whenever I want to kiss you?
00:47:42Yeah
00:47:46It's really nice to have
00:47:48Ziad offer to buy me things
00:47:50And buy gifts for me
00:47:51That was so romantic
00:47:53Because that's never something
00:47:54I've had in the past
00:47:56It's making me feel a little bit more hopeful
00:47:58Than I was feeling yesterday
00:48:00Where are you taking me, babe?
00:48:03This is popular here in Marrakesh
00:48:06What is this?
00:48:12What is that?
00:48:14What do we call them in English?
00:48:15Snails
00:48:16Snails
00:48:17I like don't want that
00:48:18Really?
00:48:19No
00:48:20It's like
00:48:21I'm not trying it
00:48:22No
00:48:24I literally would throw up
00:48:30So delicious
00:48:31That is the grossest thing
00:48:32I've ever seen in my whole life
00:48:33It's a slimy snail
00:48:37And you just
00:48:38Stuck it down
00:48:39For me
00:48:40It's delicious
00:48:44That's like really gross
00:48:46What's like the weirdest food
00:48:48You've ever tried
00:48:49Like snails
00:48:50Would be weird
00:48:51For you
00:48:52For me
00:48:52No
00:48:52So for me
00:48:54Sushi for example
00:48:55I love sushi
00:48:56Yeah
00:48:56It's
00:48:57We are different
00:48:58It's
00:48:59Are we compatible
00:49:07Thank you
00:49:08Can you hold my other bag actually?
00:49:11What else can we do
00:49:12Like while we're here?
00:49:13Did you like
00:49:14Holtz's?
00:49:15I love horses
00:49:17I think we have to choose
00:49:18This one
00:49:19I like the white one
00:49:20You heard
00:49:23Just one by one
00:49:25One by one
00:49:27Oh my god
00:49:28This is so romantic
00:49:29This is like a romantic
00:49:32Love ride
00:49:40This is three kisses
00:49:41You kiss me
00:49:42Today
00:49:45I'm happy that we had a better day today
00:49:47Yeah me too
00:49:48It was a big difference
00:49:50Between this day and last day
00:49:54Yesterday was like really hard for me
00:49:56It like brought up old feelings
00:49:59Because you know I've been lying to a lot
00:50:01Like in my past
00:50:02Like with past boyfriends
00:50:04So when you kind of lied to me
00:50:06It was like a trigger for me
00:50:09Yeah
00:50:09So you don't need to talk about your past
00:50:13Do you not care about my past?
00:50:15No
00:50:15I know you right now
00:50:17Not in past
00:50:18So
00:50:18Yeah but don't you want to know about my life?
00:50:21Just like things I've been through
00:50:22It's like don't you want to know about me?
00:50:24I know I know everything about your life
00:50:26You don't know everything
00:50:29No I know everything
00:50:30I know your family
00:50:31I know where you live
00:50:33I know
00:50:33I know but there are things that like
00:50:35That have happened in my life
00:50:36That you don't know about
00:50:41Like I thought
00:50:41We can leave the impasse
00:50:43Something impasse
00:50:44It's bastards
00:50:49I want to be vulnerable
00:50:50I want to share you know details about who I am and my past
00:50:53And I really want to be able to tell Ziad about my last engagement
00:50:58Because I think it's the only way that we could move forward
00:51:03But for him to shut me down
00:51:05It does make me wonder if Ziad just doesn't want to talk about the past
00:51:09Because maybe he has something that he's hiding
00:51:12Or that he doesn't want to tell me
00:51:17Since I've gotten to Morocco
00:51:18I've just felt really rejected by him
00:51:21And so now I'm just feeling a little concerned about everything
00:51:31I need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:51:34Why have you lied to us all along?
00:51:36I was so fearful of my parents
00:51:40They would say bad things to me
00:51:42They would say bad things to other people
00:51:43And it affects me emotionally, mentally
00:51:46It drains me everything
00:51:47No, I need that direct answer
00:51:50As to why you continue to hide it
00:52:17Hello, Javon
00:52:28I'm leaving for the Philippines tomorrow to meet with my wife Anna for the first time
00:52:34But me and Anna, we haven't spoken to each other in about a week
00:52:39My sister talked to Anna Lynn
00:52:41And she actually unblocked me
00:52:43But she's still really upset that I'm back in touch with a friend I once had feelings for
00:52:50There's so much riding on this trip
00:52:53Anna being as angry
00:52:54It's just not good
00:52:59Hey, what's going on?
00:53:01What's going on?
00:53:02Ask yourself what's going on, Javon
00:53:06I mean, you know, Anna, don't be so aggressive
00:53:10Not being aggressive
00:53:13You told me yourself
00:53:15If we're going to be married
00:53:17We can't be giving anyone special from the past
00:53:22But you're doing it
00:53:26And I'm not saying that you're cheating on me
00:53:29But it's like a baby step
00:53:31For any temptation
00:53:34I'm dealing with so much over here by myself
00:53:37I'm dealing with your problems
00:53:39I'm dealing with my problems
00:53:40And sometimes I don't feel like I'm being emotionally supported by you
00:53:45So, you know, I kind of felt like I was just a little bit desperate
00:53:49Just to be understood and just heard
00:53:56If you feel like
00:53:58Sometimes you can't talk to me
00:54:00You have siblings
00:54:02You have a dad
00:54:04You have a mom
00:54:05If your big circle is still not enough
00:54:09You're American
00:54:10Get the therapy
00:54:13I mean, but like
00:54:15Who could afford therapy right now?
00:54:23She's not taking any accountability
00:54:24That, you know, she played a part in why I reached out to a friend
00:54:31I need to be able to rely on my wife
00:54:33But she makes it impossible
00:54:36Even when I'm, like, at work
00:54:38You're going through something
00:54:39I always try to be there for you emotionally
00:54:42Okay, okay
00:54:43Okay, listen
00:54:45I try, but I don't see you trying for me
00:54:48When do you show up for me in that way?
00:54:50Oh, God
00:54:55Like, hello, I've been waiting for you for six years
00:54:59I have devoted, invested so much love
00:55:09If you don't feel like that's understanding enough
00:55:12Waiting for you for that love
00:55:15I don't know what is
00:55:25I know you've made, you know, some sacrifice by waiting for me for this long
00:55:31And I do apologize
00:55:33And I do take accountability for what I've done
00:55:39Okay
00:55:40Okay
00:55:43So you're going to stop talking to her?
00:55:47I can stop, but
00:55:49Can we at least work on our communication?
00:55:54Okay
00:55:55Okay
00:55:56That's all I want, boo
00:55:58That's it
00:56:00With Javon coming out to the Philippines
00:56:03I do feel like
00:56:05I could let go of some negative feelings about this situation
00:56:10But even though he agreed that he's not going to talk to that woman anymore
00:56:16Do I believe it?
00:56:20No, not really
00:56:22So I will definitely talk about this again in person
00:56:28Do you think we can, like, move past it?
00:56:32Like, when we see each other?
00:56:35I don't know
00:56:35Maybe
00:56:54Whoa, look at this place
00:56:56This was a church
00:56:57Oh
00:56:581588
00:56:59Man, that is low
00:57:00It's low
00:57:00Here, we got some breaks here
00:57:03What's this, you guys?
00:57:07Yes
00:57:09Yeah, it's precision
00:57:14Oh my goodness
00:57:15We call that fiesta
00:57:16Oh, yes
00:57:17That's a culture of a Catholic here in my country
00:57:20Goodness
00:57:22Yes, my God
00:57:23Yeah, it's really cool
00:57:24Look at this
00:57:25I decided to take Boris and his family to Chinatown because I'm a Chinese mix
00:57:34My mom is Chinese descent
00:57:37So I wanted to show how Chinese culture interbonded with Filipino culture
00:57:44Smell that?
00:57:45Oh, that smells so good
00:57:46Wow
00:57:47So this is a place that can make handmade noodles
00:57:50Why could I eat that air?
00:57:52Hello
00:57:54Yesterday, I was quite a little nervous to meet Boris's parents, especially Molly
00:57:59Okay, thank you
00:58:00Thank you
00:58:01There's been a problem between me and Molly
00:58:04But I'm so glad that she happened to accept me
00:58:08And I wanted to provide them the best first day here in the Philippines
00:58:14Yum
00:58:15Oh, thank you
00:58:17Slurps up
00:58:18Slurps up and slurps up, huh?
00:58:20Yeah, actually, that's here to go to it
00:58:22If you want to slurp, it means you're eating the good noodles
00:58:24So that's a good sign
00:58:25So the loud are the best, right?
00:58:26Yes
00:58:27Here I go
00:58:30Yeah, you are the king of slurps, Boris
00:58:32I made sure to get on my glasses
00:58:34That's the key
00:58:35This is all good
00:58:36Yeah
00:58:38Well, Chinatown
00:58:40I wanted to thank you for your apology yesterday
00:58:44I mean, that really showed a lot to me
00:58:49But I did want to ask you about a few things
00:58:58Okay?
00:58:58Okay, Molly
00:58:59I'm listening
00:59:00And I need you to be able to look me in the eye
00:59:02And I need you to be truthful with me 100%
00:59:10You lied to us about giving your parents the money
00:59:16This was supposed to be you saving up money
00:59:19So you could come to America to be a family with us
00:59:22And these were the plans all of these years
00:59:25And then for it to just find out now
00:59:30Before we come here
00:59:32That hasn't been happening
00:59:36Why have you lied to us all along?
00:59:43I really owe you millions and thousands of explanations
00:59:47I hope you could listen to my situation
00:59:50The reason why that I happen to give my money to my parents
00:59:55Is because being a breadwinner
00:59:58It's a cultural thing in my country
01:00:00That we are obligated to help our parents around
01:00:04I mean, I completely understand giving your parents money
01:00:07Needing to help your family
01:00:08That's what family does
01:00:20To be honest, the reason also
01:00:22That's the other reason I was so scared
01:00:25Because my parents
01:00:27My mom happened to guilt-tripping me from time to time
01:00:32If I don't give them money
01:00:34She makes me feel that I'm such a selfish person
01:00:37And it hurts me a lot
01:00:39Okay, but if I'm asking you a direct question
01:00:42I need that direct answer
01:00:44And even now, you haven't given me a direct answer
01:00:48As to why you continue to hide it
01:00:55Watching Sheena under my mom's pressure
01:00:57Is just awful
01:01:00I'm wanting to step in and defend her
01:01:03And protect Sheena
01:01:04But at the same time
01:01:06I don't understand what fears she had
01:01:09Of telling me
01:01:11I was so fearful of my parents
01:01:14They would say bad things to me
01:01:16They would say bad things to other people
01:01:18Okay
01:01:18And it affects me emotionally, mentally
01:01:20It drives me every day
01:01:21Uh-uh, no
01:01:22And it makes me feel so bad
01:01:24No, no
01:01:25Sheena, I'm not asking you that
01:01:27I'm asking you why you did not tell us
01:01:35I couldn't handle myself anymore
01:01:37I can't understand what you're saying
01:01:42Oh my God
01:01:43See, there's your manipulation
01:01:45Put the tears
01:01:46Please put your tissue down
01:01:51I'm trying to have Sheena acknowledge actions that she did that weren't acceptable
01:01:58So even if she did have good reason to give it all to her parents
01:02:02What's the motivation for hiding it?
01:02:05We gotta get answers
01:02:12Oh my God, this is really happening
01:02:14Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God, oh my God, oh my God
01:02:45Oh my God, oh my God, oh my God
01:02:48Here he is
01:02:48Awesome
01:02:49Here we go
01:02:50Yep
01:02:52Here goes everything
01:03:00Thank you
01:03:02Oh my gosh
01:03:04I'm finally on my way to meet the love of my life, Daniel, in Nigeria for the very first time
01:03:10What am I doing?
01:03:11I don't know, Mom, what are you doing?
01:03:14Certainly not what I would be doing
01:03:17It still feels surreal to me
01:03:19That after 21 years of only being with women
01:03:21I'm traveling across the world to meet a man
01:03:25And I love him
01:03:27I love him
01:03:29You're gonna see when I come home how excited and happy I am
01:03:32You're gonna see when I talk to you there
01:03:33How happy I am
01:03:35And you're gonna be happy for me
01:03:38I just
01:03:39I don't want it to ruin your heart
01:03:48I'm gonna pee my pants
01:03:49Oh God, please don't
01:03:52Here we go
01:03:57All right
01:03:58You remember the rules
01:04:00Don't get married on the trip even when the divorce comes through
01:04:03Yes
01:04:03And I would complain about everything
01:04:05It'll be a foundation
01:04:07And if you have questions
01:04:08I will ask them
01:04:12I love you
01:04:13I love you too
01:04:14I'm gonna miss you so much
01:04:17Stay safe
01:04:18Oh God
01:04:20This is the biggest risk I've ever taken
01:04:22Flying across the world
01:04:24To another country
01:04:25To Nigeria, Africa
01:04:27To be with a man I have never met before
01:04:30I can't believe I'm doing this
01:04:32Oh my God
01:04:33This is really happening
01:04:44I hope Daniel will accept me for everything that I am
01:04:48And who I am
01:04:49And that he will become my sixth and final spouse
01:04:55Ain't no more coming
01:05:11Sheezy
01:05:38¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
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01:09:24¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
01:09:27en este relaciones.
01:09:33Estoy planeando una gran sorpresa para Lissa cuando me encuentro en el aeropuerto.
01:09:39Estoy hablando con Dios de Dios para me llevarme de Nigeria.
01:09:44Si me maré Lissa para que me cambiara la historia de mi familia
01:09:47y si me cambiara en América, esto me cambiará mi vida para bien.
01:10:05¡SuscrÃbete al canal!
01:10:29Here we are.
01:10:31Oh, we're here?
01:10:37After all of this excitement and anticipation and buildup of coming to Turkey
01:10:43and meeting Bir vibration face to face, it's starting off a little bit awkward,
01:10:48but I'm still so happy to be finally standing here with him.
01:10:54¡It just feels so right!
01:10:57¡I'm excited to see this!
01:11:02¡Oh, you want me to go first?
01:11:03¡Yeah, of course!
01:11:04¡Ok!
01:11:06¡Oh, my God! ¡This is huge!
01:11:08¡Oh, yeah!
01:11:10¡This is way bigger than it looked in pictures!
01:11:14¡This is amazing!
01:11:18¡This kitchen is bigger than almost my every half, so...
01:11:22¡This is incredible!
01:11:26¡Oh, my God! ¡I love this!
01:11:28¡I'm going to move here!
01:11:30¡You can see the sea!
01:11:33¡Everything! ¡Oh, my God!
01:11:36¡Wow!
01:11:39¡This is amazing!
01:11:40¡I'm so excited to finally be here!
01:11:42¡And to finally be doing this!
01:11:46¡Yeah!
01:11:49¡I know if it's worth it!
01:11:51¡Yeah, I know!
01:11:53¡So, how about you change and we will see the cost?
01:12:01¡That sounds awesome!
01:12:02¡Let's do that!
01:12:03¡Let's do that!
01:12:04¡All right!
01:12:04¡Okay!
01:12:08This is the best part of Izmir!
01:12:12¡This is incredible!
01:12:15¡I would love to, like, live right there!
01:12:17¡Like, with this view every day!
01:12:20¡Yeah!
01:12:21¡I like these old buildings!
01:12:23¡I do, too!
01:12:24¡Yeah!
01:12:27¡Architecture is the art we live in!
01:12:31¡I love that!
01:12:32¡Yeah, I love that phrase!
01:12:33¡That's, like, really profound!
01:12:36¡Bierkan has so many, like, random comments for things, and he has a way of taking things
01:12:42that are just very simple, and creating this, like, giant philosophical discussion around
01:12:47it.
01:12:48¡It's really pretty now that the sun's gone down!
01:12:50And when the darkness comes, the light shines out.
01:12:57¡Sometimes it's a little exhausting, because I'm like, oh my god, it's just the sunset!
01:13:01¡I guess we gotta go this way!
01:13:03¡Go back this way!
01:13:03¡Yeah!
01:13:04¡I feel like a walking zombie right now!
01:13:07¡Actually, not you!
01:13:08¡The people are!
01:13:10¡No, they have no idea where they're going!
01:13:13¡I don't know where he comes up with all of this!
01:13:17I mean, it can feel a little ridiculous sometimes, but ultimately I like it, and I wouldn't change
01:13:22it.
01:13:24¡Oh!
01:13:26How was your day?
01:13:28Yeah, it was good.
01:13:30I enjoyed it.
01:13:31How about you?
01:13:33I mean, I'm exhausted.
01:13:34I traveled a time to get here, but it was really fun to see some of the sights, and...
01:13:47I'm exhausted, and I have got to get some sleep.
01:13:50Okay.
01:13:52You want to go to bed?
01:13:56Actually, it's just nine o'clock, and I have no sleep.
01:14:02So, why don't you go some sleep, and I will watch some TV, and join you after.
01:14:13Good night.
01:14:13Have a nice night.
01:14:14All right, good night.
01:14:15Good night.
01:14:37Who's texting you?
01:14:41Um...
01:14:41Michael just has been blowing up my phone since I got here.
01:14:44He tracked my flight, texted me, like, as soon as I landed, to say, I saw you landed.
01:14:50And then he just kind of checked up on me.
01:14:53I said, everything's good.
01:14:56And then he was like, your tone is less than excited, my dear.
01:15:01So, I think it's interesting that he can pick up on that.
01:15:08But I just have a lot of things to process right now.
01:15:14Him just staying out there watching TV.
01:15:17It's just, I don't know, different, maybe, than what I was expecting.
01:15:21I feel like it's not this, like, super great magical moment.
01:15:26It just feels off.
01:15:28I don't know how to explain it.
01:15:29It just feels off.
01:15:31It is so ironic and kind of concerning that I'm getting more attention from Michael than
01:15:39I am from the man that I flew halfway around the world to meet.
01:15:44And so, I feel like there's something really wrong.
01:15:47And I don't know, maybe he's hiding something.
01:15:51Or maybe he's just not attracted to me in person.
01:15:55But either way, I'm just kind of questioning why I'm even here at this point.
01:16:06Thank you, Bear Cones.
01:16:13Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:16:16I can't handle it anymore.
01:16:18It doesn't make any sense to me.
01:16:20Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:16:22I want to end this now.
01:16:24You're acting all hostile?
01:16:25I'm not.
01:16:25Yeah, you are.
01:16:27Forrest.
01:16:31Thank you.
01:16:36Thank you.
01:16:36My family have been the one who had been influenced since I was a kid.
01:16:42For they should be helping me around.
01:16:44They kept always promising to me that they would do anything.
01:16:47They can't understand you.
01:16:50You have to speak.
01:16:51You have to be strong and you got to speak clearly.
01:16:57I need you to really, please, point blank.
01:17:02You were giving your parents money.
01:17:05Why did you feel it was so necessary to not tell us?
01:17:17Because I feel so scared that if I happened not to give them money, they would say bad things.
01:17:27They say so many mean things that I don't want to accept it.
01:17:35Does this story make any sense to you at all?
01:17:38Honestly, when you try to look at it and without the tears and without...
01:17:43I didn't have any more.
01:17:45It doesn't make any sense to me at all.
01:17:48The pieces aren't just lining up.
01:17:50I'm sorry, but they're not lining up.
01:17:59It's very concerning because how do I even know that your feelings and plans are actually genuine?
01:18:08Oh, you were scared.
01:18:10Forrest would have come to me and said,
01:18:13Mom, I got to get it on a freaking plane right now.
01:18:16I got to go over there and save her.
01:18:18But it sounds to me you obviously weren't that scared that you couldn't tell him
01:18:22and that you could put up with it all that years and hide it.
01:18:27Forrest, does it make sense to you?
01:18:35A lot of it, yeah.
01:18:38I understand that if you love your parents and you want to have love from them,
01:18:43you would try to do anything to make them love you.
01:18:46So, Mom, it's hard to say no to a parent, especially when...
01:18:51But that still didn't answer the question as...
01:18:54It's hard for me to say no to you.
01:18:55It's hard for me to stick up for her against you.
01:19:02I believe Sheena is not trying to lie or use things as excuses.
01:19:07I think Sheena honestly doesn't know what to say.
01:19:09And she gets so overwhelmed, all she can get is, you know, diary of the mouth.
01:19:21I wouldn't be being a good boyfriend to Sheena if I just sat there and watched her flounder.
01:19:29Obviously, she knows she did wrong.
01:19:31What's your goal here?
01:19:33Just to sit here and keep beating her down?
01:19:36I think what we have to do is we need to get Sheena away from her parents.
01:19:44Because ultimately, the root of this nasty tree is the parents.
01:19:52Sheena, we need to hear from you that you're ready to move forward and confront your parents
01:19:58about what we're going to do from now on.
01:20:02I'm willing to take the risk to confront my parents.
01:20:06It is the only way to end this kind of problem.
01:20:09Which is what she should have done to set up with you years and years ago.
01:20:14Yeah, and we could sit there and we could talk about the past.
01:20:16And he said, she said he could do that, she cannot do that.
01:20:19It's time to move forward now.
01:20:21Forrest?
01:20:22I want to end this now.
01:20:27I don't even want to talk about the parents anymore.
01:20:29I don't want to talk about anything.
01:20:31You're acting all hostile.
01:20:33I'm not hostile.
01:20:33Yeah, you are.
01:20:35And you're causing Sheena a lot of stress.
01:20:38You're causing me a lot of stress.
01:20:40I tried to have a nice dinner and our nice dinner turned into...
01:20:44Disaster.
01:20:47It's okay, babe.
01:20:52I now see that Forrest is too deep.
01:20:55He's just got the blinders on, only wanting to believe her.
01:21:01Now he sees us as the big, bad nasties that attacked his poor Sheena.
01:21:07But still, I have to always protect Forrest, because I know that he really loves her.
01:21:13And I will not stop trying to find out why she lied.
01:21:24Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:27I'm about to meet my wife for the first time.
01:21:29This is so surreal.
01:21:31Come on.
01:21:32Where are you?
01:21:34This is like ordering something online, and we're just excited to unpack the package.
01:21:42Mommy!
01:21:44Are you nervous?
01:21:45A little bit, yeah, actually.
01:21:47Before I came to Turkey, I did make an appointment with a plastic surgeon.
01:21:52I have some, like, loose skin in places that I am looking to have removed.
01:21:57This part is best as possible.
01:22:00But I'm immediately regretting having Fearcom come with me.
01:22:04I will just show you some pictures.
01:22:11I've been looking at your page.
01:22:13Every day, you follow new girls.
01:22:15Just girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls, girls.
01:22:18No, there's no show.
01:22:19Yeah.
01:22:20I downloaded this extension on my laptop, and it shows you who people follow.
01:22:26This morning, I saw that he was still following thousands of women.
01:22:29So since we've been dating, have you talked romantically to any other girls?
01:22:35Sheena and I had a discussion about going by ourselves to meet your parents and how it's important that I
01:22:40meet them before mom and dad meet them.
01:22:42I can't even imagine what her parents would try and do if Forrest went over there by himself.
01:22:47I need to be there with Forrest.
01:22:51Sheena, your parents are going to do the same line that they've used on you all along.
01:22:57Well, my family isn't a bad people.
01:22:59Now the story changes again.
01:23:02I still don't know if this isn't something that you're involved in either.
01:23:08What the heck?
01:23:12I can't get out of there, though.
01:23:15I love him with everything I am, but he doesn't know that I've been married five times, and I'm still
01:23:22married to a woman.
01:23:25What are you doing?
01:23:26What are you doing?
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