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00:00:01previously on before the 90 days this one is for you aviva the sex good and the vibe good
00:00:08would i breathe yo what's up wood so you really like my girl you're aware of what happened to him
00:00:16in the past right ex-girlfriend from texas she wanted to start a family with her you know
00:00:23richie doesn't think you're fully over your ex richie was talking crazy you really are like a
00:00:29one woman type of guy yeah i can do that i'm not convinced he's telling me the truth i haven't
00:00:35been using protection and i don't want to start a family with a liar trust me baby
00:00:44baby
00:00:51daniel and i literally just got engaged and i'm worried he's second guessing everything
00:00:57and he doesn't want me and i feel rejected
00:01:03my ex contacted me is trying to get me back and how did you respond i didn't even respond rick
00:01:12look
00:01:14i've been insecure about trisha's ex-boyfriend because i know he has a lot of money and i'm not
00:01:19in a position to be spore hunter like that do you believe me now i do believe that you're not
00:01:25talking
00:01:26to him anymore i'm not raised i'm not sheena just told me i need her parents approval to marry her
00:01:34so
00:01:35now i have to go and get their approval while i have to tell them that their days are basically
00:01:39numbered with getting money away from their daughter they have a lot of questions for you
00:01:43first it's your career i'm going to have to tell my parents the truth about forrest's financial
00:01:51situation the pressure on my shoulders it's quite hard so i don't know what's going to happen
00:02:03with my jobless situation and my debts i am just broke did you say your debt yeah how much is
00:02:12it 50k
00:02:15that's a lot of money i'm avoiding telling the entire story i'm worried if she finds out how i make
00:02:24money
00:02:25sometimes she could leave me
00:02:55that's so beautiful
00:03:06you have the nicest ass i have ever seen
00:03:15i'm blessing
00:03:19and you know i always thought your dimples were my favorite thing but you know what my favorite thing is
00:03:26is you're not gonna your belly button it really is and it's an outie it's not an innie it's so
00:03:34cute
00:03:37thank you
00:03:38i feel like i'm on a roller coaster already with daniel and it's not even 24 hours yet
00:03:44i'm engaged day one i'm freaking engaged i didn't sleep last night all i could do was stare at his
00:03:52face
00:03:53he's everything i could have dreamed about except he doesn't have food
00:03:59we have to talk about last night
00:04:02it was awful
00:04:05yeah i was upset with you why
00:04:11because i expected more than what happened
00:04:17last night was uncomfortable and it was strange he didn't finish
00:04:27and i don't think he was full on
00:04:31and i had so much anticipation i was very
00:04:35so it was almost like we didn't have sex even though we had sex it was almost like it wasn't
00:04:41there
00:04:42so it just deflated me i felt i felt like well maybe i am too old maybe i am
00:04:48you know not the shape he wants me to be i was really questioning myself
00:04:55i was stressed last night because of you know but it was really awkward for me because it's been so
00:05:00long since i've been intimate like that and then you didn't finish and then
00:05:13you know when a man is stressed um he finds it difficult to perform well so maybe that that's
00:05:23what happened from morning to um night preparing getting ready to go and welcome you i was really
00:05:31tired after everything it was a trial run yes we have a test
00:05:36it was a test run wasn't it yeah i'm sorry for the first time
00:05:43but i gave it to you this morning you did yeah
00:05:51but you want me to be honest you're a little bigger than i expected
00:05:57so it was a little it was a little painful at first
00:06:00is that why you were screaming at first it was uncomfortable and painful okay and then it was
00:06:09really sweet and gentle and enjoyable and i seemed to have stretched to fit you just perfectly and i
00:06:16feel like i feel like you're you're made for me i'm sorry
00:06:26i'm so glad i'm here and i love you so much i love you more and i'm so happy trying
00:06:34to be here
00:06:36now that daniel and i have been physical and i'm engaged to him i'm even more concerned how
00:06:44he's going to handle what i have to tell him about being still married and it's a woman and that
00:06:49i've
00:06:49been with women for the past 21 years i'm already 100 percent into this relationship physically and
00:06:57emotionally and it's definitely going to be harder for me to handle if he can't accept my past
00:07:05you keep saying things like that we're never going to get out of this bed and get showered
00:07:37let's go ride on a trike oh my goodness oh my god oh lord oh my give me strength this
00:07:47is worse than the bus
00:07:49she and i getting into this tricycle is like what a sardine feels like being inside of a can i
00:07:56would
00:07:56never do this with anybody else but you sheen that's pretty great i get to you know get up nice
00:08:03and
00:08:03close but she's also crushing me to death i wish they give us a nice you know extra wide for
00:08:14my american physique
00:08:23i'm afraid i'm gonna fall off and i don't want two broken legs today i'm going to meet sheena's
00:08:29family for the first time in a province called kovide so we're almost there though we'll just have to
00:08:35i'm so nervous baby oh man ever since i met sheena seven years ago her family has been like these
00:08:44ominous figures she's told me that they manipulate and exploit her financially
00:08:56i've always pictured this meeting as me putting my foot down and letting them know that sheena is
00:09:01going to completely cut them off financially but now it's turned into something completely and totally
00:09:07different than what i envisioned you didn't tell me that there was going to be a mountain treacherous hill
00:09:13to climb no oh man first she told me that i need her parents approval to marry her and then
00:09:22she said
00:09:22that they're going to ask me about my career and how i make money well the truth is i don't
00:09:28have a job
00:09:28i don't have a lot of money i'm just this loser who's on disability baby we can do this
00:09:36just be careful right so at this point i'm concerned that i won't be able to get the blessing
00:09:42for sheena's family that i apparently need
00:09:47oh my gosh is that them yes my love oh my goodness
00:10:07hello sir it's finally nice to meet you after so long
00:10:12nice to meet you too hello hello oh this is my dad this is my dad he said it's katrina
00:10:18so
00:10:21yep she's just a little bit shy this is my dad's version though
00:10:26it's okay i'm a little shy myself here yes i hope you enjoy your stay here
00:10:33no i'm so happy that you're allowing me to stay here and i'm finally getting to meet you
00:10:42oh man oh sheena told me that her mom is sick so i won't be meeting her but her dad
00:10:48and sister
00:10:49seem nice enough a bit quiet which i guess is kind of normal but it's not what i was expecting
00:10:57yeah what you want to take a break uh from traveling yeah to do that can you show them yeah
00:11:02follow me
00:11:03you want to check the gardens yeah yeah
00:11:08so this is a place yeah
00:11:15there's small improvements over the years
00:11:19wow yeah yeah this is with a place where we have our uh group meals uh for guests boy okay
00:11:29cool
00:11:31sheena told me that her family runs a bed and breakfast out of their family home
00:11:35and i've heard over and over again that they need the money to fix this roof oh they need money
00:11:40to do
00:11:40this oh they need money to do this that's why they're stealing all this money from me but it turns
00:11:45out that this is a nice fancy place okay welcome to our house oh wow i think you're gonna be
00:11:53on the
00:11:53second master's bedroom this place is huge wow so gary was under the impression that her family
00:12:04might be desolate or they are gonna starve without her it doesn't add up
00:12:11it's cool thank you very much yeah all right enjoy and relax for yeah all right thank you thank you
00:12:20guys
00:12:21thank you
00:12:27my mind's just confused i don't understand
00:12:31so you like the place yeah it was way worth the getting crushed in the bus yeah your dad seems
00:12:39like a
00:12:39really awesome guy
00:12:43yeah they're great people okay well i think i want to clean up my face real quick okay i'm gonna
00:12:52head
00:12:52in the bathroom yeah go great go very quick do you think forest was expecting something different
00:12:59from what he's seeing at your family's house yes which is probably my fault test for the water if it's
00:13:09good
00:13:09wash your face around wash your hands yeah
00:13:12and i'm worried about what is going to be said what forest could say what my family could say
00:13:36do you think i'm gonna marry you for your money that's what everybody else thought
00:13:45i thought he was that man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:13:52the
00:13:52beginning and now i don't know the debt is a big deal you excited about my show tonight yeah i
00:14:01am
00:14:02what songs are you singing at your show maria donna uh vicky
00:14:08so who is who is vicky
00:14:26look at that you can't tell me that's not beautiful we have like the second most effective
00:14:31barrier recently yeah yeah i'm so grateful that i live here it's so pretty do you want to jump in
00:14:37okay yeah nothing you know i can't swim don't play with me
00:14:40you know what you need right coconut water we're good for your brains are good for your soul so
00:14:59that sounds good wash off that what energy this is aviva's second full day in belize and we're here
00:15:08in beautiful san pedro because i'm gonna perform tonight yesterday aviva was accusing me of not
00:15:15being over my ex from texas but in the hotel last night i don't believe that i was able to
00:15:21calm her
00:15:21down i'm bored are you gonna be so fine and watching huh stop stressing i'm trying
00:15:33you know thank you thank you we had sex three times no protection again we're risking it all we're just
00:15:42going with the flow how is it it's good you have this in the states in arizona no not like
00:15:50this oh
00:15:55you're excited about my show tonight yeah i am what songs are you singing at your show
00:16:08tmtm vicky
00:16:13i am trying to have this romantic beach moment with stig but he mentions the song vicky and i can't
00:16:22help but think of when my aunt spring brought up that rumor to me they actually just did a big
00:16:28concert
00:16:28like for valentine's day the first song that was performed was vicky and she was at the concert
00:16:36and they left together
00:16:40so who is who is vicky
00:16:46the concept of vicky is a girl
00:16:50it's a girl i was messing with who had a man and the man wasn't treating her good she was
00:16:54married
00:16:55and i was the little bartender showing her love you know me on the side so is it someone you
00:17:04still
00:17:04talk to is it someone that you no no no no no have a pastor i had a pastor there
00:17:09that's years ago
00:17:12so my aunt spring um she knows a lot of people here i've heard a lot of rumors that vicky
00:17:18went to
00:17:19the your last show with you and you left the show with her and i just i'm confused and i'm
00:17:26just hoping
00:17:27that you can clear some things up with me
00:17:36aviva's aunt spring i never met her i only heard about aunt spring but apparently she knows me better
00:17:41than i know myself she the secret service i don't nothing to hide at the concert i was there with
00:17:50the bros trying to make a good set you know trying to make sure to share members did you go
00:17:56home with
00:17:57her no i did not didn't go home with any girl
00:18:02you don't believe me apparently there was some article or you were tagged in something or she was
00:18:08tagged in something um of you guys going home together so i'm not really sure how i'm supposed
00:18:13to believe you belize isn't the fake news don't let get to your bed
00:18:22i'm definitely gonna do my best to not be in my head about it but you're apparently gonna sing it
00:18:28tonight how do i know she's not gonna be there that's one of my biggest songs in belize i can't
00:18:33not
00:18:33sing that yeah you don't want me to sing the song my biggest one of my biggest songs yeah
00:18:41come on don't do that
00:18:46all of my exes they start off saying i'm not gonna be jealous i got you
00:18:52but i thought aviva was gonna be different and now i am worried how she's gonna react when i perform
00:18:59vicky when i do perform it tonight could the whole thing up i don't want that if tonight is a
00:19:09problem
00:19:10that's gonna throw me off i don't you know i don't know if i can deal with that that's not
00:19:15what i signed
00:19:15up for it i mean i'll do my best but i just would feel more comfortable if you didn't perform
00:19:22vicky
00:19:36i had a lot of people before i came here say that you would only want to be with me
00:19:43because you would
00:19:44want a green card and money and hearing that kind of makes it seem like that's true
00:20:01do you think like i'm gonna marry you for your money
00:20:09that's what everybody else thought did you think that well i don't know right now i'm literally
00:20:16just hearing about most of this for the first time beer con just told me that he's 50k in debt
00:20:23and that he'd flee the country and flee his debt and just ignore it i'm frustrated and incredibly
00:20:30concerned because it's making me feel like he's just straight up using me to get out of his debt
00:20:39you know that's not who i am actually if i was someone like that i would have lied i would
00:20:50have
00:20:50never told you about my debt you know i i know that but i want to make sure that i'm
00:21:00making a smart
00:21:01decision when it comes to future plans like getting engaged i just gotta hustle because money is money you
00:21:10know
00:21:13you know what i'm ready to go okay let's go let's go
00:21:38i'm pretty frustrated he told me a lot of things at dinner that were concerning the debt is a big
00:21:45deal to me because he's talked about nothing but like honesty and pride and respect and it's really
00:21:51hard to respect someone that's not outright and straightforward with the truth
00:21:56i thought he was the man who's going to honor the provide and protect that he sold me on in
00:22:04the
00:22:04beginning and now i don't know
00:22:10what are you doing washing the dishes
00:22:19why are you upset i told you why i'm frustrated that you let things go the way they did
00:22:25why are you mad don't be cute that doesn't fix this you think i'm cute
00:22:33i'm not going to answer that right now you gotta ask no you gotta ask i do not have to
00:22:38answer you
00:22:39think that you're going to stop you
00:22:49do you think a couple kisses will win me over
00:22:5315 000. oh i'm still feeling nervous about what his intentions are
00:23:01but this is probably all of the fantasies i had had kind of rolled into one in that moment
00:23:08having a hot turkish guy push you up against the wall and make out with you
00:23:12i don't know what it is i just can't resist him you're adorable i know that's why you love me
00:23:22you are here oh that is hot look look limo maybe you should buy me some stuffing this bougie chick
00:23:35ain't nobody sugared at him i don't know why he act this way it's like he assumes the worst i'm
00:23:43already
00:23:44doing things for you so why are you asking for more is that is that what you want me for
00:23:49oh
00:24:18get out of here
00:24:19Ok.
00:24:22¿Ready?
00:24:23Yeah, I'm ready.
00:24:24Ok, let's go.
00:24:31Oh, I'm so tired.
00:24:34Why?
00:24:36Because we were packing all night, that's why.
00:24:43Yesterday was tough, but after we had an argument about my ex,
00:24:48we went back to the hotel, and we did makeup, sex.
00:24:54It was really good.
00:24:57I love sex after argument.
00:25:00Oh, yeah.
00:25:04Woo-hoo!
00:25:06Excited!
00:25:07And it's in the plane!
00:25:09I know that we still have trust issues to work through,
00:25:13but today we are going to a romantic trip that Rick booked for us in Noosie Bay.
00:25:21First flight together, baby.
00:25:23Noosie Bay is a really beautiful island.
00:25:27They do have loomers and a beautiful beach.
00:25:33If you have someone to spend time together, romantic,
00:25:39go there.
00:25:45Look how beautiful I'm riding.
00:25:48Do you like a beautiful beach?
00:25:54Yeah...
00:25:55I don't know.
00:26:01I don't know about this.
00:26:02I don't know about that.
00:26:06And the rain is all about it.
00:26:08I'm so sorry.
00:26:09See you later.
00:26:11Yeah...
00:26:12Oh, man.
00:26:12Yeah, you're here.
00:26:12Yeah, you're here.
00:26:12Oh, man!
00:26:13Oh, man.
00:26:13It's hot out, dude.
00:26:14Haha, really hot.
00:26:15Woooo!
00:26:17Yeah, you're here.
00:26:20Oh, it's nice and cool.
00:26:22Oh, my God.
00:26:27Don't touch me.
00:26:28Oh, my God.
00:26:30Baby, are you serious?
00:26:33Okay, I'm going to do you like that.
00:26:42Hey, look, look.
00:26:45Maybe you should buy me some stuff in here, baby.
00:26:52And so...
00:26:53Here we go.
00:26:54Look, look, look, look, we'll see.
00:26:57I know you got expensive taste.
00:27:00You're so cheap.
00:27:04Tastes good.
00:27:07It's cheap.
00:27:08Huh?
00:27:08It's bougie chick.
00:27:11Is she serious?
00:27:14Yeah, I'm serious.
00:27:18There ain't nobody's sugar daddy.
00:27:28Ever been, ever will be.
00:27:32I don't know why he called me like that.
00:27:35Like, you are boozy, girl, Trisha.
00:27:38I'm not looking for a sugar daddy.
00:27:40And I'm not a sugar baby.
00:27:43I got my own money.
00:27:45I don't know why he acts this way.
00:27:48I'm just asking for one thing.
00:27:51And it's like, he assumes the worst.
00:27:54It makes me really angry and hard.
00:27:57But I will never ask him for anything.
00:28:01What?
00:28:08Oh, it's a nice room.
00:28:11Okay.
00:28:12Look.
00:28:14See what I set up for you?
00:28:18I don't care.
00:28:19You don't care, of course.
00:28:22Because the roses aren't made of gold, huh?
00:28:31So what are we here to do?
00:28:34Huh?
00:28:34I thought we were here to, you know, have a good time.
00:28:37But your answer in the car seems like, I don't know.
00:28:42Well, what are you talking about?
00:28:44You were the one that brought up buying you things.
00:28:47Yeah, but I'm just asking for a little thing.
00:28:50You just say, oh, you act like a bougie.
00:28:52Oh, you act like, I'm not somebody's sugar daddy.
00:28:56Did I say that?
00:28:58You didn't say it, but you were acting like a sugar baby.
00:29:05I'm already doing things for you.
00:29:08Did I pay your rent?
00:29:09Yeah, you did pay my rent.
00:29:12So why are you asking for more?
00:29:14Is that what you want me for?
00:29:17It's not what I want you for.
00:29:19But I'm just asking for a little things.
00:29:22It's not that much.
00:29:25I'm going to get you what you need.
00:29:26But I'm not always going to get you what you want.
00:29:35So make it easy.
00:29:37Keep your money.
00:29:38See, this type of attitude, I could have found this in the States.
00:29:43I didn't have to come all the way to Madagascar to get this.
00:29:45So why did you come?
00:29:46Because I thought you were different.
00:29:48Hmm.
00:29:50So I thought also you were different.
00:29:54Hmm.
00:29:55What did you think I was, like your ex-boyfriend?
00:29:58Because that I'm not.
00:30:03I didn't expect something like this.
00:30:07I'm not with him because of money.
00:30:10I'm just with him for love.
00:30:12But I don't know why he think the opposite.
00:30:17It's crazy.
00:30:19I don't even.
00:30:24What were you expecting from me?
00:30:27You know what I do.
00:30:31So what were you expecting?
00:30:33I know it was not a risk, Rick.
00:30:36I know that well.
00:30:41I feel like this trip is not starting in the right foot.
00:30:49I mean, what happened to just loving me for me?
00:30:53That's what you were saying in the beginning.
00:30:55What happened to that?
00:31:04Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:31:06I just want to look at them.
00:31:07Hello.
00:31:08Hi.
00:31:09Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:31:11I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:31:12You don't kill a chicken?
00:31:13I had chickens.
00:31:15They were my pets.
00:31:16They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:31:19Your chicken watched TV?
00:31:20Yes.
00:31:22Oh, my God.
00:31:25Sheena's family, they seemed pretty laid back, normal, caring people.
00:31:31What were you expecting when you go here?
00:31:34Oh.
00:31:35This is going to be mind-shattering here.
00:31:38Well, I was expecting that I might be walking into a scam.
00:31:58I'll open the door for you, all right?
00:32:00Okay.
00:32:05Oh.
00:32:07I'm getting used to you opening my door.
00:32:10You're such a gentleman.
00:32:12You treat me like a queen.
00:32:23So, that is a taxi.
00:32:26Yeah, moilue.
00:32:27Moilue.
00:32:28Moilue.
00:32:29Moilue?
00:32:30Yes.
00:32:32And that means what?
00:32:34It's taxi.
00:32:35Oh.
00:32:37Oh.
00:32:40Is this where we're going?
00:32:42Yes.
00:32:43The market?
00:32:44I have always wanted to go to a market.
00:32:46I can't wait to get out and see everything.
00:32:48Yes.
00:32:52This is my first time out of the country.
00:32:55This is nothing like the farmer's markets that I have been to.
00:33:03No one thinks the same.
00:33:07Let's go from here.
00:33:08Okay.
00:33:10It kind of reminds me of a flea market,
00:33:12but a flea market with food.
00:33:14And it's little tiny stalls right on top of each other.
00:33:18You can buy anything and everything.
00:33:21There are live poultry.
00:33:23There is dried fish, smoked fish.
00:33:26Hello.
00:33:27There are women doing hair right there in the middle of the market.
00:33:31It looks so beautiful.
00:33:32Thank you.
00:33:35Oh, I don't know if I'm buying.
00:33:37I just want to look at them.
00:33:39Oh, my goodness.
00:33:41Oh.
00:33:42Be careful.
00:33:43Like this.
00:33:45Hello.
00:33:46Hi.
00:33:46Hi, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick, chick.
00:33:48She handed me the chicken as if I was going to eat the chicken.
00:33:51Okay.
00:33:52I eat chicken.
00:33:53No, no.
00:33:53I'm not going to kill a chicken.
00:33:54You don't kill a chicken?
00:33:55I had chickens.
00:33:57They were my pets.
00:33:58My chickens were spoiled.
00:34:00They had a little VCR and a TV to watch.
00:34:03Your chicken watch TV?
00:34:04Yes.
00:34:06Really?
00:34:09Oh, my God.
00:34:12Bye, chicken.
00:34:13Thank you.
00:34:15Okay.
00:34:15Let's go.
00:34:16Okay.
00:34:18I have to take you to the stars.
00:34:21I love fabric.
00:34:24Hello.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:25Good afternoon.
00:34:26They're beautiful.
00:34:27Thank you.
00:34:27You're welcome.
00:34:28I would like you to check the one that will fit you.
00:34:31Because, you know, my uncle came yesterday to wake up with you.
00:34:34He was there.
00:34:35You saw him.
00:34:38I saw you.
00:34:43We have to pay him a visit.
00:34:46Why?
00:34:47Yeah, because, you know, my uncle have to approve.
00:34:50You know, he doesn't know you that much.
00:34:53So he will ask you some questions.
00:34:57I'm confused.
00:34:58What has he not given us approval for?
00:35:00He was very happy at the engagement.
00:35:03Yes, but he has not given us the blessing to marry.
00:35:08The blessing we are getting from my uncle is very important.
00:35:12In my culture, you get blessing from your parents.
00:35:15But my dad is not well.
00:35:17Because my uncle has to call my father and report back.
00:35:20But I thought everything was said and done.
00:35:22I thought we were ready to start planning a wedding.
00:35:24I didn't realize there was going to be more to it.
00:35:26That is just a proposal.
00:35:28In America, you have to get blessings before you give the ring.
00:35:31This is Nigerian.
00:35:32I know.
00:35:33We have different cultures.
00:35:35We have different way of life.
00:35:37But you didn't warn me about that.
00:35:40You have to see you dress in a traditional attire.
00:35:44Maybe one of the wrapper here.
00:35:48This one here.
00:35:49Yeah, this one.
00:35:54You know, my uncle love her.
00:35:55He likes good tea.
00:35:56And this is colorful.
00:35:58Yes.
00:35:58This is a hair tie.
00:36:00You have to tie this one on your head.
00:36:06I'm confused.
00:36:08You're confused.
00:36:09You're confused.
00:36:12You're confused.
00:36:13Okay, so it gets wrapped around.
00:36:15Yeah.
00:36:18And then it gets tied.
00:36:19Yeah.
00:36:20Just giving you the clue on how to tie it.
00:36:24I can't hear you.
00:36:26It's very loud.
00:36:30Oh, my gosh.
00:36:31How am I going to do this?
00:36:33I have no clue how this wrapping thing works.
00:36:36I have to do this myself when I meet his uncle.
00:36:39And there's no way I'm going to remember how to do everything.
00:36:43I don't want to look like a fool.
00:36:45I don't want to look stupid in front of his uncle.
00:36:48Very easy.
00:36:49Very easy.
00:36:51Yeah.
00:36:51It's nice.
00:36:54Looks so close.
00:36:57What should I expect?
00:36:59Like, how will this be wrapped?
00:37:02We have to cut it.
00:37:03Okay.
00:37:04Yeah.
00:37:04We have to give it to a teller.
00:37:06Oh, yes.
00:37:07I can cut.
00:37:08But I don't know because we are a bit fat.
00:37:12The wrapper, if I cut it, it may not go round.
00:37:18Because I'm too fat.
00:37:19Yeah.
00:37:20Let me cut it.
00:37:21I'm coming.
00:37:21All right.
00:37:22Thank you.
00:37:24I'm too fat.
00:37:26Baby, you're not fat.
00:37:28You're serious fat.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:29Yeah.
00:37:30You're fat.
00:37:32I'm feeling awful.
00:37:33And I'm kind of taken aback.
00:37:35I have to meet his uncle.
00:37:37And I have to wrap myself up in two layers of this wrap,
00:37:41this big headdress.
00:37:43And I'm going to look fat.
00:37:45Okay.
00:37:46Make your help, please.
00:37:51I have to try to impress his uncle.
00:37:54But what exactly happens to get his uncle's blessing?
00:37:57What kind of questions are going to be asked?
00:38:01I'm worried that I may have to reveal things
00:38:04that I'm not ready to reveal.
00:38:07This whole thing could be a disaster for me.
00:38:10So I'm scared.
00:38:13Thank you.
00:38:15Yeah, welcome.
00:38:18What is that?
00:38:22Nikki.
00:38:24I'm Dali Quatton kind of
00:38:26I'm trying to be supportive,
00:38:28but he's dancing and flirting with some random girl on stage
00:38:32right in front of me.
00:38:36What the is Aviva doing?
00:38:52See, I'm outside in San Pedro on the main street walking holding hands.
00:38:57I have to let the whole world know about my baby.
00:39:00You can't question my love for you or anything at this point.
00:39:03Mm-hmm.
00:39:12How are you feeling?
00:39:13We good?
00:39:14I'm nervous.
00:39:15Don't be overthinking.
00:39:17Enjoy the show.
00:39:18Enjoy the entertainment.
00:39:20Okay.
00:39:21I'm an entertainer, all right?
00:39:22All right.
00:39:23We good?
00:39:24Yes.
00:39:24All right.
00:39:27I'm a little frustrated with Aviva still for not wanting me to perform my hit song.
00:39:31But listen, I'm still going to go and peace stick the artist and hype this place up.
00:39:35So, I don't want anything to throw me off my game.
00:39:39Ready?
00:39:40Semi-ready.
00:39:42Ready.
00:39:42I have to say it like me.
00:39:43No, you can't say ready.
00:39:43You got to say ready.
00:39:44Ready.
00:39:49Come on.
00:39:56That's good, brother.
00:39:59Trouble manner of cheer, mother f***er.
00:40:02All right.
00:40:03Aviva.
00:40:16I'm super, super excited to see Stig performing for the first time, but I feel super nervous.
00:40:27I still have my suspicions to what Stig's manager in Antspring had to say about Stig and other
00:40:34women.
00:40:35I know there's a lot of girls that throw themselves at him, at his shows.
00:40:41I don't know what to expect.
00:40:43All right.
00:40:45Keep it up.
00:40:47Anybody from Belize?
00:40:48Make some money f***ing lies.
00:40:51Dig up to all the girls that came from far for this one.
00:40:54Like, yo.
00:40:57Lessons on your life.
00:41:01Too many things.
00:41:02Too many things.
00:41:03Long time you went for a wedding ring, girl.
00:41:06Today I'm gonna meet your father.
00:41:08This is what I'm gonna say.
00:41:09I'm gonna marry your daughter.
00:41:11Can I have your blessings?
00:41:13That would be amazing.
00:41:16I know you think that I'm a bad guy.
00:41:18And I'm gonna break her heart.
00:41:22What is that?
00:41:27Yeah, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're smoking, we're f***ing shit.
00:41:48I'm trying to enjoy myself and I'm trying to be supportive, but he started playing Vicky after
00:41:54I asked him not to.
00:42:02Not only that, but he's dancing with some other random girl and flirting with her on stage right in front
00:42:10of me.
00:42:15It's just really hard to watch and it's making me feel pretty insecure.
00:42:49What the f*** is Aviva doing?
00:42:54I'm seeing a sea of people partying, having the time of their lives, and Aviva head down in her phone
00:43:04while I'm singing.
00:43:06This is not the behavior I want in my future wife, much less my girlfriend right now, like, come on.
00:43:16Anyway, this is one of my favorite songs on release, yeah.
00:43:19Yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:21You alone, you alone, you alone, you alone, yeah.
00:43:26Only wanna give your love, still your call, baby, just you alone, yeah.
00:43:31Ooh, it feels so right, do the things your best.
00:43:37Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:39Aviva is still not paying attention.
00:43:40Yo, six for us.
00:43:41Yeah, yeah.
00:43:43One, two, three, four, five.
00:43:46I f*** up.
00:43:47I forgot.
00:43:48All of these times I f*** forgot.
00:43:51You're distracting me.
00:43:53I am so pissed.
00:43:56I can't even think straight right now.
00:44:04Ah, make it round, make the fufu to be round.
00:44:08How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:44:10Are you asking me?
00:44:11This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:44:14Call it very well.
00:44:15No, no.
00:44:17Stop raising your voice on me.
00:44:19Call it again.
00:44:21He's pushing me really hard and I'm getting angry.
00:44:24What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:44:26Can you stand up and walk?
00:44:27Let me see.
00:44:28You wanna see me walk?
00:44:29Yes.
00:44:30Are you walking, my man?
00:44:31Watch me walk.
00:44:32Come back.
00:44:33Come back.
00:44:54I'm fuming right now, by the way.
00:44:58You're angry?
00:45:00I'm still frustrated and angry because she called me fat.
00:45:04Don't you know I got nothing to lose?
00:45:07I got something to prove.
00:45:10Ah, ah, ah, ah.
00:45:14No, no, you're not fat, baby.
00:45:15Come on.
00:45:17And I'm stressed.
00:45:20No, I need to smoke my vape.
00:45:21That's how stressed I am right now.
00:45:26Do you remember the promise you gave me?
00:45:29I said I wouldn't smoke.
00:45:31I tried to quit and I couldn't.
00:45:33And I, ah, I am so frustrated with you.
00:45:38It's not funny.
00:45:41There are a few things Daniel expects of me.
00:45:44He wants my hair a certain way.
00:45:46He wants me to ask permission for things.
00:45:49I have to ask to have a drink of alcohol.
00:45:52He doesn't want me to vape.
00:45:54And I did tell Daniel I would slow down vaping.
00:45:58But I just found out I have to try to impress his uncle
00:46:01for the blessing.
00:46:03And I am feeling so much pressure of who I need to be for Daniel.
00:46:07So I'm stressing out.
00:46:09And I want my vape.
00:46:16You surprised me with the uncle thing.
00:46:19How am I going to learn how to tie a traditional attire?
00:46:23I'm going to look ridiculous.
00:46:25I'm from Igbo land.
00:46:27So we have to learn.
00:46:29Igbo people, we have tradition.
00:46:32And if Lisa wants to marry me, she have to learn all this.
00:46:39Am I dressed okay for this?
00:46:41Yeah, you look good.
00:46:42You look good.
00:46:43Come on.
00:46:44It's very important for Lisa to learn my language and culture.
00:46:47To impress my uncle.
00:46:50Oh.
00:46:51Oh, thank you.
00:46:53That may be the one.
00:46:55There's a traditional way of blessing Pawa, okay?
00:46:57Okay.
00:46:58You have to shake it.
00:47:00After shaking it, you have to drop it on the ground, okay?
00:47:04The ground must test it first.
00:47:06Then pick it up again.
00:47:08Mm-hmm.
00:47:09Woman blessing Pawa is a taboo.
00:47:12It's not good.
00:47:14Can I drink it?
00:47:16Yes, you can test it.
00:47:17But it's very strong.
00:47:19It's very strong.
00:47:20Okay, so don't put too much in my glass.
00:47:24Oh.
00:47:31Yes, sir.
00:47:32It's cassava.
00:47:33Did you pound it?
00:47:34Did you pound it?
00:47:35Oh, okay.
00:47:36Pounded one, okay.
00:47:42Okay.
00:47:44You do know that I studied the fufu online.
00:47:46Good.
00:47:48I've done so much research about fufu.
00:47:50It is fermented cassava.
00:47:53I learned how to roll it.
00:47:54I learned you flatten it.
00:47:56I learned you dip it.
00:47:57So I'm prepared, and I'm excited to show him I can do this.
00:48:01Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:02Throw it.
00:48:03Throw it.
00:48:06Ew.
00:48:09Ew.
00:48:13Did I do it right?
00:48:15You didn't boil the fufu.
00:48:16You have to boil it.
00:48:18You just swallowed it.
00:48:19Boil it again.
00:48:22All right.
00:48:24Dip your hand.
00:48:28Make it round.
00:48:29Make the fufu to be round.
00:48:30How am I supposed to dip it up if it's round?
00:48:32Are you asking me?
00:48:34Yes.
00:48:41This is really good.
00:48:42This is oha soup.
00:48:44I can just eat that.
00:48:45Good.
00:48:46I need a spoon.
00:48:47Use your hand to eat soup.
00:48:48I'm not going to eat soup with just...
00:48:50Use your hand.
00:48:51Dip your hand inside the soup and take...
00:48:54Look, baby.
00:49:00I think Daniel is just trying to prove a point to me, but I didn't think he'd be so forceful
00:49:05about it.
00:49:06I am in the nursing field, and I work in caregiving.
00:49:11I know what kind of germs get under your fingernails.
00:49:15It's one thing to eat with fufu.
00:49:17It's another thing to dip your fingers into the soup, scoop it up, suck your fingers, and lick
00:49:24them dry.
00:49:25That's no.
00:49:26That's just nasty.
00:49:28I think he's being very rude.
00:49:33No.
00:49:35Thank you.
00:49:36Can you taste it?
00:49:40Test.
00:49:41Go on.
00:49:42Test.
00:49:46You have to respect this too.
00:49:48I did.
00:49:49I tasted it.
00:49:56Do you know what we call it in our dialects?
00:49:58No.
00:49:59My uncle.
00:50:00My uncle.
00:50:01Eh?
00:50:01I can't say that.
00:50:02What does it mean?
00:50:03My uncle.
00:50:04My uncle.
00:50:05Oh.
00:50:07Call it very well.
00:50:08No.
00:50:08My uncle.
00:50:09No.
00:50:10You drink it.
00:50:11You respect it.
00:50:12No.
00:50:14Stop raising your voice at me.
00:50:17Call it again.
00:50:18Hey.
00:50:19Hey, don't talk to me that way.
00:50:21Eh?
00:50:22Relax.
00:50:25I'm done talking to you.
00:50:27I hope you're not drunk.
00:50:30What is that?
00:50:32I thought you were drunk.
00:50:33I took one sip.
00:50:34It doesn't matter.
00:50:35Just a drunk can make you change the system.
00:50:38No, I'm not.
00:50:39You're the one who's changing.
00:50:40Look at you.
00:50:40Put it down and talk nicely.
00:50:44This is a control thing with Daniel right now.
00:50:47I understand that he's pushing me really hard to do things a proper etiquette way.
00:50:53But he's being rude to me.
00:50:55What the hell does Daniel want right now?
00:50:57Can you stand up and walk?
00:50:59Let me see.
00:50:59Let me see.
00:51:00You want to see me walk?
00:51:01Yes.
00:51:02Are you walking normal?
00:51:03Watch me walk.
00:51:05You're walking normal.
00:51:05Oh, come back.
00:51:06Come back.
00:51:07Come back.
00:51:08Watch me walk.
00:51:09I'm back.
00:51:10Oh.
00:51:22For the last seven years, I've been hearing that Sheena's family has been treating her awfully.
00:51:26But all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena.
00:51:31I don't recall that.
00:51:32What's your job?
00:51:35The importance, you have pants, you know?
00:51:38To help her.
00:51:41Well, always.
00:52:04Are you ready to go?
00:52:06Yeah.
00:52:07It's already late.
00:52:08I think the boat is waiting for us.
00:52:20I think that's the boat right there.
00:52:22We better hurry up before they leave us.
00:52:25Last night was really rough.
00:52:27We got in this big argument.
00:52:31I just thought it was kind of bold of her to just tell me that, you know, she wants me
00:52:36to buy her stuff.
00:52:37I'm not here for that.
00:52:40We couldn't really come to an agreement.
00:52:43So eventually, we decided to put a pin in it and enjoy our evening together.
00:52:49Oh, my God.
00:52:51But I still feel concerned about whether or not I can fulfill her needs.
00:52:58Slow, slow, slow, slow.
00:53:00Ew, thank you.
00:53:03Wow, baby.
00:53:12So beautiful.
00:53:14Today, we took a boat to an island called Nosy Aranja.
00:53:18This place, it looks like paradise.
00:53:21I see crystal blue waters, a sandbar that separates two islands that you can actually walk across.
00:53:29It's the perfect place for us to have a really romantic time and reset, you know, take some strolls along
00:53:37the beach.
00:53:41I'd be afraid to swing that thing.
00:53:45Thank you so much.
00:53:49Do you know how to put this on your head?
00:53:52Oh, I know.
00:53:54Seriously?
00:53:55No.
00:53:56I wouldn't have learned a skill like that.
00:53:59We put it there.
00:54:01Like this way.
00:54:02Oh, man.
00:54:02That's cool.
00:54:03Then we can walk.
00:54:03Oh, what?
00:54:05It's not going to fall?
00:54:07No.
00:54:08That's because you got all that hair up there.
00:54:10You got like a nest up there.
00:54:11No.
00:54:12You can do it.
00:54:14All right.
00:54:14Here we go.
00:54:15Here we go, baby.
00:54:19I'm here to find my future wife, and I'm serious about Trish being that one.
00:54:26Let's go.
00:54:27She has a presence that's so captivating.
00:54:31It just makes me want to be close to her.
00:54:34Yeah, I'm doing it.
00:54:36Let me see.
00:54:37But at the same time, we need to work through issues that we have in order for us to have
00:54:44a future.
00:54:44Oh, my God.
00:54:46It's hot.
00:54:47I want to sit down.
00:54:50Man, baby.
00:54:52What?
00:54:53It's beautiful.
00:54:55Mm-hmm.
00:54:56I'm so glad that we're here.
00:54:58That was a rough night last night.
00:55:00Yeah.
00:55:03I want to apologize for what happened yesterday.
00:55:13I just want you to know, like, I know that you are not rich, so I'm not asking a lot.
00:55:22Just, you too, my neither, then that's it.
00:55:28I think when you were asking me for things, then that, you know, kind of triggered some things that I've
00:55:36gone through in the past.
00:55:40Just past relationships, and I felt like, you know, once I wasn't giving enough, you know, they didn't want to
00:55:50be with me anymore.
00:55:52I just need to make sure that, you know, that won't happen again.
00:55:59Money has been an issue in previous relationships.
00:56:04I was married to Samson and Frederick's mom, Chinny, for seven years.
00:56:09Chinny is from Nigeria, and I brought her over on a K-1 visa.
00:56:14I think, uh, Chinny had higher expectations than what I could realistically provide.
00:56:20And it caused a lot of issues between us.
00:56:24That's why I've tried to be really straightforward with Trish about my financial situation.
00:56:31You run with that money.
00:56:34I'm not going to leave you if you don't buy me anything.
00:56:38But I just want to make sure if you buy all my needs, that's it.
00:56:44That's what I'm asking.
00:56:47You know when you bring me to your country, I have to let everything in here.
00:56:54My life, my job.
00:56:57Yes, I know that.
00:56:58Yeah, so I just want to make sure that you will take care of me when I'm there.
00:57:05That's the promise that I'm making to you.
00:57:07A promise that I'm going to take care of all your needs.
00:57:10I may not be able to give you everything you want, like your ex.
00:57:15But everything you need, you don't have to worry about.
00:57:20My ex did a lot for me, but I was not happy.
00:57:25With you, it's different.
00:57:29The way you talk, the way you give me a picture, I love that.
00:57:38You think that I'm enough for you?
00:57:40Yeah, yes you are. You are enough.
00:57:46That means a lot to me.
00:57:48And I love you, that's why I want a relationship for you.
00:57:53This is what I want too, baby.
00:57:59You ready to go have some fun?
00:58:01Yeah, I want to get you the water.
00:58:03Yeah, let's go.
00:58:06I'm starting to feel better that Trish is reassuring me that I'm enough for her.
00:58:13That's what I need to feel.
00:58:15Because I think that being insecure has caused me to make mistakes in my relationship.
00:58:23I really do care about Trish and want this to work.
00:58:28But it's hard because I still haven't told her what happened between me and my ex in Columbia.
00:58:36We're finally getting into a good place.
00:58:40But everything always feels so fragile between us.
00:58:44I really don't know how to tell her.
00:58:46But eventually it needs to come out.
00:58:54Do you love me?
00:58:55Of course, baby.
00:59:12The fruit is ready.
00:59:16Ah, just in time, just in time for dinner.
00:59:19Just in time. Perfect.
00:59:20Yeah, thanks.
00:59:21Good stuff.
00:59:22We hope you enjoy this.
00:59:24This is our native food.
00:59:26Grilled chicken, grilled squid and pork, and our natural tropical fruits.
00:59:31That sounds awesome.
00:59:34Dinner is served.
00:59:45Yeah.
00:59:46See how it works in America or in my culture?
00:59:49We normally start with the oldest and we go down the line.
00:59:52We do it first.
00:59:53Since you're the biggest, you start.
00:59:55Oh, I'm the biggest.
00:59:56We go by size here.
00:59:59Okay.
01:00:01I just met Sheena's family and so far they're definitely not the evil dragons I was expecting.
01:00:07For the last seven years, I've been hearing that they're manipulating her and just treating her awfully.
01:00:13And now I'm hearing that they are decent people.
01:00:17I feel confused, but all I know is I need to get their blessing to marry Sheena and then go
01:00:27from there.
01:00:30So how's your travel here from America?
01:00:33It was long and it was hard, but I got to see my Sheen for the first time.
01:00:41Mm-hmm.
01:00:42And finally, yes.
01:00:44Finally.
01:00:45I'm curious though.
01:00:46What were you expecting when you go here?
01:00:49Oh.
01:00:51I was expecting...
01:00:57Well, I was expecting...
01:01:02It's kind of hard to say.
01:01:04You know, my mom's under the impression that I might be walking into a scam.
01:01:16Every, I know, there's, in every place there are scammers, no, no, no, not...
01:01:22A lot of scammers.
01:01:23She'll be meeting us tomorrow.
01:01:25Prove her wrong.
01:01:27Prove her wrong.
01:01:27That's the rest thing.
01:01:29That's, that's it.
01:01:32How'd you guys feel when you guys heard I was actually here?
01:01:40Yeah, I, I thought to finally, because it's so long, um, we're not really, we're not really sure if we're
01:01:48gonna meet you in person.
01:01:50Yeah.
01:01:51I, I have to say, a lot of it had to do with, uh, finances.
01:01:56I don't make that much money, unfortunately.
01:02:01Just eat, babe. Enjoy your meal, okay?
01:02:07Um...
01:02:07But, uh, question is, uh, I, I, I don't recall it. What's your job?
01:02:15Yeah.
01:02:18So, this is kind of going to be mind shattering here.
01:02:23I'm unemployed right now.
01:02:30I, I'm actually, uh, receiving disability.
01:02:33Disability for, for what?
01:02:35So, I have, uh, autism.
01:02:37I have problems talking with, with others.
01:02:40Like, right now, I'm having a terrible, awful time.
01:02:47So, that, that's enough for you for your daily life?
01:02:51It cover, it covers everything in my life right now.
01:02:54But, I, I realize I'm not making enough to support a family right now.
01:03:02But, I believe I'll be able to get a full-time job.
01:03:07Just, I just want the world for your daughter.
01:03:09And, I was hoping I could get your blessing.
01:03:20Well, Forrest, of course, the importance, you have pants, you know?
01:03:30So, without any funding, how, how will you survive, you know?
01:03:36The only way to survive is to get a job.
01:03:39Yeah.
01:03:40Proper job.
01:03:40I have, I have, I have the energy, I have the drive.
01:03:43I just want to make sure you guys know I'm completely and totally serious.
01:03:46I'm gonna be working full-time.
01:03:48And, yeah, be support for her.
01:03:53I prefer that, uh, Sheena has a boyfriend that is capable.
01:03:58Because, it's the guy's, uh, obligation to support a wife.
01:04:05And, Sheena also is, ano, she's very helpful, ano.
01:04:11There, ano, so, talagang hindi mawawala sa akin yan.
01:04:21Okay.
01:04:22You have my blessing.
01:04:27But, we're going to help her.
01:04:30And, she's been helping us also.
01:04:32Oh.
01:04:34How has she been, uh, doing that?
01:04:37Sometimes, if we lack funds for her, you know,
01:04:40she would help us, you know, pay, like that, you know?
01:04:44Oh.
01:04:45I understand.
01:04:48Yeah.
01:04:49Yeah, I'm really looking forward to meeting your parents tomorrow.
01:04:55My mom and dad.
01:04:57They definitely have a lot to, kind of, talk about tomorrow with you guys.
01:05:03We're looking forward to it.
01:05:05It's going to be a blast.
01:05:07I should be happy that I got their blessing,
01:05:09but I feel like Sheena hasn't been 100% honest with me.
01:05:14What I've seen, it's not the same as what I've been hearing for the last seven years.
01:05:20The way she described her family, the way they live, the whole money situation.
01:05:26The stories are not adding up.
01:05:27And I'm really worried that tomorrow my mother is going to come in and going to think everything has been
01:05:37a lie this entire time.
01:05:39She's going to basically flip out.
01:05:52Michael, I want you to cut him out of your life.
01:05:58So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him.
01:06:03Yes, you heard me right.
01:06:06This kind of changes my thinking a little bit.
01:06:09About him?
01:06:11No.
01:06:32Yeah.
01:06:33I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:36Yeah.
01:06:42I mean, that was definitely fun.
01:06:42I knew I killed it, but I forgot my lyrics.
01:06:45Middle show.
01:06:47my mind.
01:06:48Don't be so hard on yourself.
01:06:49I'll always be hard on myself.
01:06:51It's okay.
01:06:54I'm so tired.
01:06:56It's been such a long night.
01:06:57Yeah.
01:06:59We're just getting back to the hotel from Stig's performance.
01:07:02And I felt a little uncomfortable, but I think I did well.
01:07:09I knew I had to hold it together and just push my feelings to the side.
01:07:16My feet are killing me.
01:07:18You want to give me a foot massage?
01:07:21Maybe.
01:07:24Maybe.
01:07:28I had a good time.
01:07:30I thought you did really well.
01:07:32Thank you.
01:07:35So, did I handle it okay?
01:07:39Like...
01:07:41You guess?
01:07:43You guess?
01:07:45What'd I do?
01:07:48How does this girl think that she handled this well?
01:07:52Like, how?
01:07:54You're mad at me?
01:07:57Aviva made me feel like she wasn't interested in my performance.
01:08:01She's on her phone texting while I'm performing.
01:08:05I'm boiling inside.
01:08:08And she thinks everything is fine and dandy.
01:08:13What did...
01:08:14Please tell me what I did wrong.
01:08:17When you were on your phone?
01:08:19Texting?
01:08:26No.
01:08:28It wasn't like that.
01:08:31Accelerate my feelings.
01:08:32Being on my phone?
01:08:33Yes, .
01:08:34Not the right time for that.
01:08:36You weren't even watching.
01:08:37You were...
01:08:38Yes, I'm literally performing, singing to you.
01:08:45I wasn't trying to be disrespectful.
01:08:48It wasn't intentional.
01:08:50But he was dancing with another woman in front of me,
01:08:54and he played Vicky, even though I asked him not to.
01:08:57So it's a little annoying that he couldn't have just skipped the song.
01:09:01It wasn't even a big event.
01:09:03I just feel like it's not fair.
01:09:13I don't have anybody out here.
01:09:15You have to understand that there is all these girls on stage with you,
01:09:18so I'm going to talk to my people.
01:09:20I'm going to text my friends.
01:09:22I can do that.
01:09:24Do what you want.
01:09:26To me, that's up.
01:09:30You're supposed to be on my team, a part of my team.
01:09:33That dude did not hype me up.
01:09:35Kind of killed my vibe, actually.
01:09:38That's why I felt like I forgot my lyrics.
01:09:40I was just distracted.
01:09:43You keep talking about these other girls,
01:09:44these other girls having fun, hyping me up,
01:09:47and my girl is there just on her phone.
01:09:52It's my first time in a situation like this.
01:09:55There's lots of beautiful girls around.
01:09:56I just, I felt awkward.
01:09:58I didn't feel confident, and I just wanted...
01:10:00One, you really think that's the best way to handle it?
01:10:06Anyway, guys, I'm disappointed.
01:10:08Maybe I need a...
01:10:12I didn't mean to make you feel a certain way, but okay.
01:10:26I'm kind of at a loss because I am trying my best to not get super jealous, not overreact,
01:10:35but apparently, I didn't do a very good job.
01:10:42I am worried that if he thinks I'm too jealous and crazy, he might just break up with me.
01:10:48I don't want to scare him off, but part of me is terrified that I already have.
01:11:07We are in the middle of nowhere.
01:11:09There is a dog.
01:11:12I don't like dogs.
01:11:14Why?
01:11:15I thought they bit me or bark me.
01:11:19Bark at you.
01:11:21Bark at me.
01:11:22Okay, well...
01:11:24No, you're fine.
01:11:25My English is...
01:11:26Your English is perfect.
01:11:27Reboot, reboot.
01:11:38Last night, I found out that Birkan has an immense amount of debt.
01:11:45And I was worried that he really just does want a green card.
01:11:50But I have put a lot into this relationship, so maybe I just need to give it a little bit
01:11:56more time to see how red the red flags actually are.
01:12:02Maybe they're just a little pink.
01:12:04I don't know.
01:12:11There's lots of evil eyes.
01:12:12Yeah.
01:12:13I like that tree full of them.
01:12:17Today, my plan is taking Laura to the Nazar Koe.
01:12:21I wanted to show her different areas and different villages.
01:12:25And also, it is the place that makes evil eye beads there.
01:12:32I like that tree full of them.
01:12:34I like that tree full of them.
01:12:35You there?
01:12:35I like that tree full of them.
01:12:37I like that tree full of them.
01:12:38Thank you.
01:12:39Thank you.
01:12:39Evil eye beads, when you hear it, it's like something bad.
01:12:43But it is not.
01:12:44It is for good luck.
01:12:54When people see you, if they get jealous about you, thoughts about you, the evil eye
01:13:00consumes bad thoughts and protects you.
01:13:08Perfect.
01:13:09Perfect.
01:13:10Oh, you did it.
01:13:11I got one.
01:13:13I know that.
01:13:14I'll get it.
01:13:15I'll get it.
01:13:16It's awesome.
01:13:17In Turkey, everybody believes that superstition because, you know, people need to believe
01:13:22something.
01:13:24Not me.
01:13:25I'm into reality, actually.
01:13:27But I know that Laura, she loves crafting, so she would enjoy.
01:13:37Oh, that's cool.
01:13:38It's not perfectly round, but that looks good.
01:13:45No, you don't.
01:13:46Yeah, I am.
01:13:46Check at this.
01:13:47I have no talent.
01:13:49No, it's good.
01:13:49Now you just roll it.
01:13:50It has a tail.
01:13:55And it just broke.
01:14:02Yeah, he does.
01:14:03It just makes me angry.
01:14:05I can't even get it out.
01:14:07But this is part of life, you know?
01:14:09Sometimes, I can suck.
01:14:12Okay.
01:14:13Enjoy the moment.
01:14:20All of the evil eye stuff.
01:14:22Yeah.
01:14:23Is this something, like, that's common in Turkey?
01:14:25Like, you're taught as a kid?
01:14:26Is that something that your family taught you?
01:14:28Your parents taught you?
01:14:29Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:14:30They taught me.
01:14:31Okay.
01:14:34We hardly ever talk about your family.
01:14:36Yeah.
01:14:37Usually, we kind of dance around that topic.
01:14:39And I'd like to know more about them.
01:14:47Do you see them very often?
01:14:52My parents are not so happy because I'm with you.
01:15:03Birkan has been a little evasive about the relationship with his parents.
01:15:08We haven't talked about it in a lot of detail.
01:15:11So hearing that Birkan's parents don't approve of me is really upsetting.
01:15:19My family already doesn't approve of this.
01:15:22And it's just kind of frustrating to have a relationship where I feel like everything is against us.
01:15:31Do you think that there's a point where I would ever meet your parents?
01:15:36I don't know.
01:15:38But I do feel like meeting someone's family is a good way to get to know more information about a
01:15:47person.
01:15:48My family is my friends.
01:15:52I understand that.
01:15:54For me, that's how I feel about my friend Michael, you know?
01:16:00Michael.
01:16:07I don't want you to be too close with him because I don't trust him.
01:16:14Also, I don't like him.
01:16:17Well, he is very important in my life.
01:16:21We literally do everything together all the time.
01:16:36So you're basically giving me the ultimatum of you or him?
01:16:42No, actually, it's not an ultimatum, you know?
01:16:45What is it then?
01:16:46You're going to choose me.
01:16:50This is the point.
01:16:51We are thinking about marriage.
01:16:54When we get married, he is not going to be a part of our lives.
01:16:58And yes, you heard me right.
01:17:04I don't like that.
01:17:06He's just my friend and he's not trying to make me cut you out.
01:17:11He can't.
01:17:12This is relationship.
01:17:15This is the one who you get married, not some activity buddies.
01:17:23I've always known that Birkan doesn't love the fact that Michael and I are friends.
01:17:28But when Birkan tells me that I'm going to have to cut Michael out of my life,
01:17:33it absolutely feels like some weird controlling side of him that I haven't seen yet
01:17:38and I really don't like.
01:17:40This kind of changes my thinking a little bit and I'm involved.
01:17:44About him?
01:17:46No.
01:17:48He's not trying to force me to make a decision that I don't want to make.
01:17:52Hmm.
01:17:53So why don't you think a little, you know, I just get some air maybe or some peace.
01:18:03I don't know.
01:18:08I am shocked that Birkan decides to walk out on me as a way of ending our conversation.
01:18:16It's super disrespectful to me, especially when I've tried to be very understanding with a massive amount of debt that
01:18:27he revealed to me.
01:18:30This doesn't really feel like the man that I thought I knew online.
01:18:39I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:18:41The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:18:44No, he's not going to do that.
01:18:46And if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:09I'm mad.
01:19:10And he better come and apologize and if he doesn't come and apologize, I'm getting in the car.
01:19:15I'm mad at the way he talked to me.
01:19:17The way he's shaking his hand in front of my face and no.
01:19:20No, he's not going to do that.
01:19:22He's not going to shake his hand in front of my face.
01:19:25Let me go.
01:19:28Where is my woman?
01:19:46Oh, shit.
01:19:52Baby, why are you here?
01:19:56Why are you talking to me like that?
01:19:58You raised your voice.
01:19:59You put your hand in my face.
01:20:01No, I gave you pawine.
01:20:02I wanted to know if you had fallen asleep.
01:20:04That's why I did like this.
01:20:07It makes someone...
01:20:08I took two sips.
01:20:09I don't want to...
01:20:09I'm not even going to drink it anymore.
01:20:11Even a drop can make someone go...
01:20:13Then why are you drinking it?
01:20:14Why did you order it?
01:20:15I wanted to let you know that we have traditional drinks in our place.
01:20:21And don't get mad at me because I can't pronounce everything.
01:20:24I am an American.
01:20:25Daniel, you can't pronounce everything properly.
01:20:28You came to Africa.
01:20:29You came to Nigeria.
01:20:30So what?
01:20:31Don't raise your voice.
01:20:32Oh, come on.
01:20:33How can I raise my voice?
01:20:34I'm a beautiful queen.
01:20:35Come on.
01:20:35You are raising your voice on me.
01:20:37I'm sorry, okay?
01:20:38No.
01:20:41Are you going to be nice?
01:20:44I've been nice always.
01:20:46Let's go.
01:20:46Come and eat your food.
01:20:50Huh?
01:20:51My queen.
01:20:53No.
01:20:53Don't put your arm around me.
01:20:56No.
01:20:57The most beautiful queen.
01:20:58No.
01:21:02I am so upset with Daniel right now.
01:21:05This is our first full day together, and I'm seeing this whole other side to him.
01:21:09The way he's behaving is giving off warning signs.
01:21:12I don't like it.
01:21:15I'm sorry.
01:21:17I'm a little nervous.
01:21:19My uncle will see you tomorrow.
01:21:21I told him that you're a Christian.
01:21:23I am a Christian.
01:21:24Good.
01:21:25We don't smoke.
01:21:27So you're not allowed to smoke as a Christian?
01:21:29You're not allowed to.
01:21:31I'm trying to quit.
01:21:32So should I tell my uncle that you don't care?
01:21:35Or should I tell him that you're preaching?
01:21:37No, you said you don't talk about it at all.
01:21:39I don't want to be a liar.
01:21:42In my family, we don't tell lies.
01:21:46We always tell the truth, no matter how hard.
01:21:50Let me ask you this.
01:21:51Okay.
01:21:52If your uncle does not give you the blessing, does that mean that we are not getting married?
01:22:00How's this?
01:22:09You told me you were a man who could make his own decisions.
01:22:11Yes.
01:22:11I came to Nigeria for a reason, and now you're telling me without a blessing that you can't marry me.
01:22:17Yes, I'm a grown man, but I came from somewhere.
01:22:22In my family, we have one of our own, the way we do our things.
01:22:26And I want everything possible to make sure that my uncle gave us blessing.
01:22:31That's my concern.
01:22:32And that's, and the vaping is the only thing that you're very concerned about?
01:22:36That's your biggest concern?
01:22:37Yeah.
01:22:42Are you worried?
01:22:44I'm thinking.
01:22:45Same kind of what?
01:22:48Daniel is so worried about the vape.
01:22:51But that seems really small compared to all the other things that Daniel doesn't know about me.
01:22:58I'm terrified to tell him my truth.
01:23:01I have no idea if he'll be able to forgive me.
01:23:03And even if he accepted my past, once I reveal my secrets to him, is he going to have to
01:23:08tell all of his family that I've only been with women for the past 21 years?
01:23:12And that I'm still married?
01:23:14If we tell his uncle about that, I'm scared I'm not going to get the blessing.
01:23:20I don't want to lose Daniel.
01:23:26I'm here, huh?
01:23:28Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:31So cute.
01:23:33Makimaki.
01:23:34Yeah, the kids will love this.
01:23:36Yeah.
01:23:37It'll be worth it if I can bring a step mommy home.
01:23:40But I want to have my own.
01:23:43If he decided does not want to have kids, I don't know if I could be with him.
01:23:49You want what you don't want.
01:23:54Now that I'm in person with my husband, he's giving me trust issues.
01:23:58Remember what you promised me before you came down here?
01:24:03I was going to stop talking to that person.
01:24:06So can I see your phone?
01:24:10Now?
01:24:14Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
01:24:17Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir anı var.
01:24:22Ben söyleyeyim.
01:24:24Laura is already worried about my finances.
01:24:27I don't want to make things bigger.
01:24:34Wait.
01:24:35What is she saying?
01:24:38Oh, yes.
01:24:39Moment of truth.
01:24:42Man.
01:24:44This is so beautiful here.
01:24:46Holy .
01:24:48Well, would you look at that?
01:24:50Sheena's expecting me to believe that if her parents don't take her money,
01:24:55that they're going to starve.
01:24:57Tonight, we'll get the truth machine up.
01:25:00She told us if she didn't give the money, that you would mistreat her.
01:25:06Do you say this?
01:25:12Uncle, whatever that's all.
01:25:15You are not an Igbo woman.
01:25:17I want to know Igbo more.
01:25:20I'm sitting next to the man I love, and he doesn't know about me.
01:25:24I don't want to lie to his uncle, but I want us to have this blessing more than anything in
01:25:28the world.
01:25:29Are you a practicing person?
01:25:31I have not always been, but Daniel makes me into a better woman.
01:25:36Are you or were you a lesbian?
01:25:40Do you practice lesbianism?
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