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00:00:01Makimaki.
00:00:02Makimaki.
00:00:03Yes.
00:00:04Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:06I feel honored you are going to introduce me to your family.
00:00:11If you don't want to have kids, they won't give the blessing.
00:00:15This trip is very important, but before we meet her family,
00:00:20I have to tell Trish about spending time with my ex in Colombia.
00:00:24I just don't know how she's going to take it.
00:00:29Tell me something interesting about Birkan.
00:00:34Birkan'ın bilinmeyen bir yanı var.
00:00:37Kanka, kumar oynamaya devam ettiğini biliyor musun?
00:00:42I gamble every day.
00:00:44There are opportunities I have.
00:00:46Sen süreyi uzattıkça onun sana olan tepkisi de büyüyecek bence.
00:00:50What?
00:00:53You practice Levyar regime?
00:00:56I have been with a woman before, yes, sir.
00:00:59You don't practice it anymore?
00:01:00No, sir.
00:01:03Do you lie?
00:01:05I am not a liar, uncle.
00:01:08Okay.
00:01:09I will give you guys my blessing.
00:01:13I am thrilled I have the blessing.
00:01:16But I feel guilty as all hell, because I am lying.
00:01:24On our second anniversary, you forgot this is your thing, being unromantic.
00:01:31I mean, is that not romantic?
00:01:33Like, making sure your lights is on, because you're at home, and then I'm working.
00:01:39I'm getting tired of this.
00:01:41Every time you do something for me, you throw it to my face.
00:01:45From now on, I don't want you to give me anything anymore.
00:01:51You're lying about...
00:01:52Okay, the difference between Ziad and I.
00:01:55Why are you...
00:01:55Everything I've said...
00:01:56I know, but I'm speaking.
00:01:58Everything I've said...
00:01:59When I'm talking, you should listen to me.
00:02:00I do respect you, but I'm...
00:02:01You're so disrespectful.
00:02:03You are, you are, you are, you are.
00:02:09Zero percent.
00:02:10So you're saying in this very moment, you see zero percent chance of me being your wife?
00:02:14I need more time to know you, and you need more time.
00:02:17But you're at zero?
00:02:18Zero.
00:02:39I need to sleep.
00:02:41I'm so terrified.
00:02:43No comments.
00:02:44No talking.
00:02:45So there's zero percent chance you want to marry me?
00:02:47Are we not going to discuss it?
00:02:50I want to just sleep.
00:02:51Zero percent, Ziad.
00:02:52So that's what you're feeling right now about us.
00:02:55Zero percent.
00:02:56And I don't know why you would say that in front of your friends
00:02:58when it's like my first time meeting them.
00:03:01Do you not think that's disrespectful?
00:03:03To talk to me like that in front of your friends?
00:03:05Disrespectful is when someone speak, we have to listen to him.
00:03:09I listen.
00:03:09All I do is listen to you.
00:03:10No, no, you didn't.
00:03:11You are always difficult.
00:03:13You can't...
00:03:13I'm always difficult?
00:03:15Let me speak.
00:03:15How am I difficult, Ziad?
00:03:18You've said one thing to me online.
00:03:20I don't hear nothing what you say.
00:03:21No, you speak.
00:03:22So you don't care about my feelings that I'm upset right now?
00:03:24No, no, no.
00:03:25Okay, Ziad.
00:03:26You can go to sleep.
00:03:27Okay.
00:03:29So good night.
00:03:31I say good night.
00:03:32Okay.
00:03:34Okay.
00:03:54I have some tea for you.
00:04:10This morning, I woke up, and I'm just almost at my breaking point.
00:04:14I came all the way to Morocco, and I've given this relationship my all.
00:04:19And to hear that Ziad is 0% sure of having a future with me, I'm just confused.
00:04:26Before I came to Morocco, he showed me an engagement ring saying that it was here and waiting for me.
00:04:31I spent thousands of dollars to come here, just to be sitting here right now with Ziad, and then for
00:04:38Ziad to be saying he's 0% sure, I really feel like I deserve some answers.
00:04:44So how are you feeling after, like, what happened with your friends last night?
00:04:50They gave us their opinions.
00:04:52Yeah.
00:04:54And I feel good to see them, too.
00:04:56I mean, it was nice to meet your friends.
00:04:59And I know that we have a lot to work on, but before I got here, you made it seem
00:05:04like we were ready to be engaged, and then I meet your friends, and you're, like, 0% sure.
00:05:10It makes me feel like we're never going to get married, we're never going to get engaged.
00:05:14This whole trip was a waste of my time and money that I don't have, and I'm basically here for,
00:05:21like, no reason.
00:05:24I say it's 0% for the moment.
00:05:28It's like, why now?
00:05:30You don't understand me, so...
00:05:32But how am I not... I understand what that means, so what am I not understanding about that?
00:05:36No, in your mind.
00:05:37Do you realize everything you've said about me since I got here has been negative?
00:05:44It seems like you're always mad at me. I'm always doing something wrong.
00:05:48Like, when we were talking online, you were always so nice and cute and sweet.
00:05:52I would send me nice messages and, you know, say all these, like, cute romantic things.
00:05:57And then since I've gotten here, it's been like, you're, like, mad all the time.
00:06:03Am I the girl that you want to be with?
00:06:10Yeah.
00:06:11Yeah.
00:06:14And all these things you said, it's right.
00:06:19I'm sorry for that, really.
00:06:24I want you to enjoy here with me.
00:06:28So from right now, I would be so nice.
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:39At this moment, I don't know if I will marry here or not.
00:06:43But I'm a Mexican, a good wife and a good woman.
00:06:48Emma, I know her inside her.
00:06:51She's special.
00:06:52She's so sweet.
00:06:54Yeah, maybe I have been to her own here.
00:06:57I believe there is something between us.
00:07:01So from now, there is no fights.
00:07:04No fights.
00:07:08Aw.
00:07:12You can come here.
00:07:16This feels nice, babe.
00:07:20This is the very first time that I felt any physical chemistry between us.
00:07:25And I feel like things are slowly progressing with the head.
00:07:29Very slowly.
00:07:32Extremely slowly.
00:07:35But, yes, they are progressing.
00:07:37And I'm hoping that this is just a really good sign that we're moving forward.
00:07:42I think we have a lot to work on.
00:07:45But I think we'll be okay.
00:07:48Just with time, everything will be good.
00:08:12My head hurts.
00:08:13It itches.
00:08:15The glue is like bubble gum right now stuck to my head.
00:08:30This has been on for about a week.
00:08:33This is the absolute longest I've ever had it on.
00:08:36I've only ever slept with it overnight once.
00:08:39And it wasn't even on for 24 hours.
00:08:41My head hurts.
00:08:42It's time.
00:08:43I have to take it off.
00:08:44I mean, it's awful right now.
00:08:49I've never been this nasty before.
00:08:51In my life.
00:08:52I have been in Nigeria in the heat for days.
00:08:56And I have yet to change my wig.
00:09:00No matter how much you pull, it's not going anywhere.
00:09:04So I don't even know how it's going to feel coming off of my head, actually.
00:09:09Ow.
00:09:09It actually hurts.
00:09:16It hurts.
00:09:18It's stuck to my hair.
00:09:20My head itches.
00:09:21I have headaches.
00:09:23My scalp hurts.
00:09:24I have sores.
00:09:25I feel them growing.
00:09:26I see the redness around where my wig cap is.
00:09:31I need to take it off.
00:09:32It's time.
00:09:38Oh, my God.
00:09:40Oh, it itches.
00:09:47I have some sores on the side of my head where the glue was.
00:09:53I hate to say this, but the wig actually has an odor to it right now from all the sweating.
00:09:59I've been keeping my wig on because I know Daniel loves me with my long hair.
00:10:04But I need to feel the air touching my scalp.
00:10:10It just feels so incredible.
00:10:13It feels so light and airy.
00:10:15And it's not itchy anymore.
00:10:18At this moment, I don't care what Daniel feels when he sees me.
00:10:22I'm not putting the wig back on anytime soon.
00:10:27God, I've gone through so much in these last few days.
00:10:30And it's not just my hair.
00:10:32We got the approval from Daniel's uncle to be married.
00:10:36But I feel like it was under false pretenses.
00:10:41I don't know what to feel about his uncle.
00:10:44I think if he had known how many women I had actually been with, I wouldn't have gotten the blessing.
00:10:50I mean, it's 21 years of being with women.
00:10:55On top of that, I've been so nervous to speak to my daughter, Faith, because I promised her I wouldn't
00:11:03get engaged to Daniel until after I revealed all of my secrets.
00:11:07But yesterday, I finally ripped off the band-aid.
00:11:12We started leaving the airport.
00:11:14And there was a festival in the street with African dancers and music playing.
00:11:19It was for me.
00:11:21Daniel planned a festive parade for me.
00:11:24You're sending him money all the time, yet somehow he's able to buy a whole parade?
00:11:32I don't know.
00:11:34I don't know.
00:11:36And there's more.
00:11:38What else?
00:11:40Um, he dropped to his knee.
00:11:44And he pulled out a ring.
00:11:46And I was kind of stuck, so I shook my head yes.
00:11:52You're awfully quiet.
00:11:54Um, I don't know what to say.
00:11:57Why would someone do that on the first day?
00:11:59Like, it doesn't make sense.
00:12:02At this point, it's beyond love bombing.
00:12:05It's like, a love nuke.
00:12:07Oh, my God.
00:12:08Ma, this isn't good.
00:12:10You've been lying since day one of the relationship.
00:12:14The other thing I personally have an issue with is...
00:12:17You haven't asked Daniel about the women he's been with.
00:12:22You know he's been with tons of women.
00:12:25You know he's a playboy.
00:12:27How could you let all this slide and just blindly agree to marry him?
00:12:33As far as Faith is concerned, a lot of what she said is actually weighing on my brain.
00:12:41Um, I'm thinking a lot about it.
00:12:45I've been so focused on my past and what I've been keeping from Daniel.
00:12:49But Faith is right.
00:12:51Daniel hasn't been forthcoming about his past.
00:12:54Or even other women he's been with.
00:12:57There's been lots of things with Daniel I've let slide.
00:13:01And maybe I should be asking him more questions about it.
00:13:05Daniel said that we are going to meet up with his friends tonight.
00:13:08And I'm excited.
00:13:10I'm hoping that his friends can shed some light and share some stories about who Daniel actually is.
00:13:18Hmm.
00:13:20Daniel just texted me.
00:13:26Let me gather some laundry up.
00:13:29Oh God.
00:13:31I have no idea what he's going to think about me.
00:13:35Daniel makes me feel like the most beautiful special woman in the world.
00:13:39But he's used to seeing me wear my wig.
00:13:42At home I don't wear my wig 24-7, seven days a week.
00:13:52So, if he's going to marry me, he has to get used to it.
00:14:07Hey.
00:14:09Oh, wow.
00:14:10Look.
00:14:11Daddy.
00:14:14Oh my God.
00:14:18I'm waiting, my jungle queen.
00:14:26I think it's stupid.
00:14:27It's not even sexy.
00:14:30I don't know.
00:14:31I'd rather walking naked.
00:14:34Oh!
00:14:37That sounds like a plan.
00:14:41I'm so frustrated.
00:14:44Sometimes I feel like I'm sticking on landmines, and I don't know how to navigate around the
00:14:49landmines.
00:14:50I don't want to do this right now.
00:14:56It's hard to be with him.
00:14:59How much more of this guy could take, I don't know.
00:15:13Hannah, why are you so emotional?
00:15:17Something you will never understand, because you don't have that.
00:15:31Well, I mean, I don't, I don't know what to say.
00:15:34Because no matter what I say, you know, if I apologize, that's not going to be good enough.
00:15:39You know?
00:15:40So, I don't know what to do in this situation.
00:15:43Okay.
00:15:58The argument started about me saying you're not romantic.
00:16:04It has nothing to do with money, but you have to remind me every time we argue about what
00:16:15you do for me, and you throw it to my face, and I feel like it's so unfair, because you
00:16:21want to be a provider, but at the same time, you're always using it as an ammunition.
00:16:28Where did all this go wrong?
00:16:33You're unbelievable.
00:16:35Okay.
00:16:53I didn't want to bring up my role in the marriage, but sometimes I feel like I'm not
00:17:03being appreciated.
00:17:06Sometimes I feel like if I bring it up, she might come around and say, hey, you know,
00:17:11he does a lot for me, maybe I should just be a little bit nicer.
00:17:15But obviously, that doesn't work.
00:17:18You know, I would definitely want things to be a lot more peaceful between us, but sometimes
00:17:23I feel like I'm stepping on landmines unintentionally.
00:17:27I don't know how to navigate around the landmines.
00:17:33I'm so frustrated.
00:17:44All right.
00:17:45I'm not going to bother you.
00:17:50I'm just, I'm going to take a shower.
00:17:53I don't want to do this right now.
00:18:05I don't know, I don't really know what's going on in his head, honestly.
00:18:09I am not one of this masogenistic and, you know, masculinity thing.
00:18:14And it's really confusing because it sounds like it's teaching traditional stuff, but
00:18:22at the same time, traditional goes like the man provides.
00:18:26And I'm not even asking for much.
00:18:28I'm not even a woman that you have to spend a lot.
00:18:33Just because I'm, you know, I'm not providing as much as he provides monetarily doesn't mean
00:18:40I'm not doing my part.
00:18:48Just, it's hard to be with him.
00:18:55I've been patient so long.
00:19:00That was my contribution.
00:19:03I stayed all along.
00:19:07But sometimes he just doesn't get me.
00:19:12He knows what sets me off.
00:19:15He knows what hurts my feelings.
00:19:17He knows what offends me.
00:19:22So, we argued a lot before.
00:19:24Online.
00:19:25This is just more different.
00:19:28I'm just not used to it.
00:19:29Like, arguing in person.
00:19:32We've never been together before, so...
00:19:37Shit.
00:19:37But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take?
00:19:42I don't know.
00:19:43It's annoying.
00:19:43But then, how much more, like, of this guy could take a lot of money.
00:19:49I don't know.
00:19:49I don't know.
00:19:49I don't know.
00:19:51I don't know.
00:19:52I don't know.
00:19:53I don't know.
00:20:05I don't know.
00:20:06I don't know.
00:20:06You're doing the nice, right?
00:20:08Oh, hell.
00:20:09There's no such thing as a nice shark.
00:20:11Malagasy shark is...
00:20:14Babe.
00:20:28Here we are.
00:20:34Where is this place?
00:20:36It's a little bit of a hike up, but it'll be worth it in the end.
00:20:41Believe me.
00:20:43We only have a few more days left of island hopping
00:20:46before we have to head out to meet Trisha's family.
00:20:50It's beautiful up here.
00:20:52There's a lot weighing heavy on my mind.
00:20:55After our conversation about meeting her dad
00:20:58and all this pressure about having to have kids.
00:21:03But right now, I'm just trying my best to stay focused
00:21:07on being in such a beautiful place.
00:21:11Why have to be up?
00:21:13It'll be worth it once we get up there, honey.
00:21:17I got us the most incredible place to stay
00:21:21on a very secluded part of Nosy Comba.
00:21:25It's totally off-grid.
00:21:27And I just love the privacy of it.
00:21:30I see it now, baby.
00:21:32I'm really excited for her to see it
00:21:35and to show her how romantic I can be.
00:21:38All right.
00:21:40We're here, baby.
00:21:43Our own private quarters, baby.
00:21:47Yeah, baby, yeah.
00:21:51Yeah, baby.
00:21:52Oh, my God.
00:21:54You like it?
00:21:55Yeah.
00:21:56Come here.
00:21:57Let's check it out.
00:21:58Oh, my God.
00:22:03We can't even see all of this.
00:22:06You see the whole island, baby.
00:22:08It's here.
00:22:09I'm really surprised.
00:22:11You haven't seen a place like this before, baby?
00:22:13I've never.
00:22:15Okay, let's explore here.
00:22:18Be careful, baby.
00:22:20Watch your step here.
00:22:22We got our own little waterfall and private pool.
00:22:25Oh, my God.
00:22:28I've never stayed to a place like this before.
00:22:32I'm really surprised.
00:22:35It's very beautiful, the view, the house.
00:22:41I'm living here, but I didn't know that place like this could exist in Madagascar.
00:22:49I did this for you, honey.
00:22:51Beautiful bed.
00:22:52What?
00:22:53I love the bed.
00:22:54It's for you.
00:22:55I got another little surprise for you.
00:22:59What is it?
00:23:02Here we go.
00:23:04I got us a couple of jungle costumes.
00:23:06So we're running around the jungle here.
00:23:09Let me see.
00:23:10Here we go.
00:23:11This is yours right here.
00:23:13Oh, my God.
00:23:13You serious?
00:23:13Yeah.
00:23:15I was hoping you'd want to try it and spice things up.
00:23:19I'll put mine on and you put yours on.
00:23:21Okay.
00:23:24Role playing is something that I recently got into.
00:23:27And I just think it's something fun to do.
00:23:34Playing as if I'm king of the jungle and chasing her around.
00:23:38I mean, it's hot.
00:23:41I'm wetting my jungle queen.
00:23:47Oh, baby.
00:23:49You look beautiful, man.
00:23:50I am, seriously.
00:23:53Come on, baby.
00:23:54You look sexy, baby.
00:23:56Let's just go run around and just act a fool.
00:24:01What?
00:24:02What is this?
00:24:03I think it's stupid.
00:24:05It's not even sexy.
00:24:07I don't know.
00:24:09It's a pro thing.
00:24:11Come on.
00:24:17It's like crazy fantasy.
00:24:20But I'm doing it because Rick did a lot to organize this trip.
00:24:27So I'm willing to give it a try to make him happy.
00:24:33In my fantasy, girl.
00:24:35But the way I'm tracing, I don't know.
00:24:38I'd rather walking naked.
00:24:41Oh!
00:24:44That sounds like a plan.
00:24:46Let's walk naked.
00:24:48Yeah!
00:24:49No!
00:24:50Come on, baby.
00:24:51Nobody's gonna see.
00:24:53It could be Adam and Eve.
00:24:56Come on, baby.
00:25:21Do you have your own name?
00:25:23How could I not be?
00:25:24That's what I'm laying next to.
00:25:26Ha ha ha ha.
00:25:31We had a wonderful night.
00:25:33The way that she was holding me tight and bringing me in.
00:25:38I feel so connected to Trish.
00:25:41But in the back of my mind, I feel guilty because I know that I've held back for too long
00:25:50now.
00:25:51Oh, no.
00:25:53The time is getting close to when we go to meet her family.
00:25:58I don't want to take such a serious step without telling her about my ex.
00:26:05And so I think that she needs to know the truth.
00:26:14It's so cool here.
00:26:16That's nice.
00:26:18Yeah!
00:26:20What a view, Jesus.
00:26:23Yup.
00:26:24It's a beautiful view, baby.
00:26:27The last few days have been wonderful, I think.
00:26:30It's been like a dream.
00:26:33Yeah.
00:26:35I'm happy.
00:26:41Baby, there's something that I've been keeping from you.
00:26:49You make me afraid.
00:26:50I don't know what you...
00:26:53Explain yourself.
00:26:59I don't know how I should do this.
00:27:01I don't know what words to say that's going to make it be a forgivable act.
00:27:12I'm worried that she'll want to end things and I'll never see or hear from her again.
00:27:23Just know that what I'm about to tell you, I regret it.
00:27:31What you mean?
00:27:37Can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:27:40Do you want the truth?
00:27:42Yeah.
00:27:44When the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:27:47I find another way to pay that debt.
00:28:13Good morning.
00:28:15Good morning.
00:28:17I really had fun meeting everybody yesterday.
00:28:20I did too.
00:28:21I'm still feeling tired.
00:28:24I've been in Turkey for almost a week now.
00:28:28And it's going okay.
00:28:32We've had some difficult conversations about his debt and my friendship with my best friend, Michael.
00:28:40And then, last night, I got to meet Birkan's best friends.
00:28:45And they kept having conversation in Turkish.
00:28:48And I can't help but feeling like they were keeping another secret from me.
00:28:54Are you excited for today?
00:28:56I don't know.
00:28:57I don't know what to be excited about.
00:29:00I don't even know what to pack.
00:29:02Yeah, you better pack.
00:29:04Last night, Birkan told me that we're going on this surprise romantic getaway.
00:29:09And I'm honestly having mixed feelings about it.
00:29:15I am incredibly nervous at the thought of a romantic getaway right now.
00:29:20I'm learning about his debts and the issues that he's having with jobs and money.
00:29:27And maybe I'm wrong, but it comes across to me as manipulative.
00:29:30You're trying to win me back over with something sweet.
00:29:34Like, I don't like that.
00:29:36Like, I just don't like the timing of it.
00:29:39But...
00:29:40It also could be a good thing that we're getting away right now.
00:29:43Because maybe we'll have more time to, like, process and be in a more lovey state.
00:29:50So, we'll see.
00:29:59Good night.
00:30:01Good night.
00:30:04I'm not sure I packed my hairbrush for this.
00:30:08That could be a problem.
00:30:09You don't need to brush your hair.
00:30:10I will need to brush my hair while I'm here, yeah.
00:30:13I think we will find a fork and we will...
00:30:15A fork?
00:30:16Yeah.
00:30:17I'm not the little mermaid.
00:30:19You are.
00:30:23I think she needs some spice in life, you know?
00:30:27And I am the spice in her life.
00:30:29So, this is my Spicing It Up project.
00:30:33Number one.
00:30:34Cheshme.
00:30:42I didn't realize we were going to be right on the water.
00:30:45This is amazing.
00:30:46I like the view, you know?
00:30:47This is incredible.
00:30:49Cheshme is a romantic place, you know?
00:30:52It's peaceful.
00:30:53There is sea.
00:30:55Perfect place to reconnect.
00:30:57Wow.
00:30:58I didn't know there was a castle here.
00:31:00Do you want to visit there?
00:31:01I would love to visit there.
00:31:02We will go up and up and up and up again.
00:31:07I am so ready.
00:31:09I still have to tell her about my gambling.
00:31:14My friends are right.
00:31:16I can just keep the secret for the rest of my life.
00:31:19But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:31:23If you're ready, let's start our tour.
00:31:27I've always wanted to visit a castle.
00:31:30I feel like I get to be the princess now in the castle.
00:31:34No, I'll always be a princess.
00:31:36When do I get to be the princess?
00:31:37I have no idea.
00:31:52Oh my God, hold on.
00:31:54Is this a bathroom?
00:31:55What?
00:31:56What?
00:31:56Is that a bathroom?
00:31:57No.
00:31:58I feel like that's a bathroom.
00:32:00Cheshme is incredible.
00:32:03It's really old and it's just beautiful.
00:32:06This is like exactly what I was envisioning when I was talking about coming to Turkey.
00:32:11Would you take our picture?
00:32:12Yeah, of course.
00:32:20Are you enjoying your day?
00:32:22I am enjoying my day.
00:32:23I couldn't have asked for a better surprise.
00:32:25Seriously.
00:32:26You know, I always try my best.
00:32:29I know.
00:32:30Because I care about you and I love you.
00:32:33I know you do.
00:32:35You know, we are still thinking about marriage.
00:32:39You still think about it.
00:32:40I still think about it.
00:32:41We didn't decide what are we going to do.
00:32:44And you have a lot of questions.
00:32:46So, what are you wondering?
00:32:49I know you're wondering.
00:32:52Well, I guess I know it's hard to have conversations that can feel personal and embarrassing.
00:33:00But can you tell me where your debt came from?
00:33:07Back then, I had places.
00:33:10Back when?
00:33:102019 and 2020.
00:33:12Okay.
00:33:13I had my first shisha bar.
00:33:17I take a loan from a bank.
00:33:20Then I bought my second place.
00:33:23After that, I opened my third place.
00:33:26Okay, so you had three places?
00:33:27And all of them is big.
00:33:30I was earning.
00:33:32But when the COVID hits, I bankrupt.
00:33:37I sell my car, sell my house, sell my places.
00:33:41I sell everything I have.
00:33:44Yeah, I work like daily jobs and things.
00:33:47But sometimes I work full one day, 24 hours.
00:33:52And I get paid $40.
00:33:55It's useless, so I find another way to pay that debt.
00:34:04Well, how is that even possible?
00:34:10Do you want the truth?
00:34:12Yeah.
00:34:16I gamble.
00:34:18A lot.
00:34:24How often are you gambling?
00:34:26If I have money, I gamble.
00:34:30So, actually, it could be every day.
00:34:41I took it off so it could breathe.
00:34:44I was hoping Daniel would say I look beautiful and touch my hair and give me a kiss.
00:34:49I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has.
00:34:51It's like you're embarrassed to be seen with me right now or something.
00:34:54You don't think I'm pretty without my wig?
00:35:01Hey!
00:35:17Hey!
00:35:22Hey!
00:35:23Hey, hey!
00:35:23Hey!
00:35:25Hey, hey, hey!
00:35:26And hey!
00:35:37Hey, we're just packing.
00:35:41Since this is your last day at Missivis Bay Resort, the resort prepared a breakfast for
00:35:47you too, ma'am, sir.
00:35:48Oh, thank you.
00:35:49Sure.
00:35:50Let's go.
00:35:52It's the last morning of our honeymoon, and we're going to Cavite, you know, where she
00:35:57lives, but me and Annalyn are still not talking.
00:36:06My strategy after last night, just to give her space.
00:36:12Every time we fight, he has this habit of, you know, silent treatment that he gives me.
00:36:20Instead of, you know, talking it out and fixing things.
00:36:28Before we met in person, if we don't talk for a few days, it was normal because we are in
00:36:34a long distance relationship.
00:36:37Ooh.
00:36:37But I just can't believe we're doing this right now, and we're in the same room together
00:36:43physically.
00:37:03Do you want to talk about last night?
00:37:08You know, clearly we have problems, you know, because you're hard on me a lot of the times,
00:37:14but providing for you is not easy.
00:37:18And I believe that, you know, it's my duty to do that.
00:37:21But when I'm telling you that, like, I'm not trying to, like, throw it in your face.
00:37:27I basically want you to just cut me a little slack.
00:37:31It's like what you're saying is because I'm provide, you gotta be soft.
00:37:35Because if I react certain way, you're uncomfortable with my emotion.
00:37:41Anna, I don't bring it up to say, hey, look, look what I did.
00:37:44So shut up.
00:37:45You know what I'm saying?
00:37:45Like, that's not what I'm trying.
00:37:47That's exactly what I feel.
00:37:48Maybe I'm just, like, not translating it right to you, but the way I view it is, it's like,
00:37:53look, you know, Anna, I work hard to do X, Y, and Z.
00:37:56So, you know, I want a light bulb to come on and be like, you know, my husband works really
00:38:00hard, so I'm going to make sure his day is positive when I talk to him on this break
00:38:05for 15 minutes.
00:38:06But no, you're nagging me all the time.
00:38:09You don't think how that makes me feel?
00:38:11You know, like sometimes, like when somebody's constantly criticizing you, when they're supposed
00:38:16to be on your side.
00:38:20But it's not easy being your woman, putting up with your tantrums, stubbornness, whining.
00:38:31It takes a lot of patience to be with you.
00:38:36I know some women would have been, would have given up already.
00:38:44All I hear is like, you're just constantly complaining about me all the time.
00:38:49I mean, you tell me I'm a downer and you tell me I'm not romantic.
00:38:55I mean, Anna, you're this perfect pitcher and I'm this project that you're working on.
00:39:02So, do you regret, like, marrying me?
00:39:34Hey.
00:39:35Oh, wow.
00:39:38Xmi.
00:39:44Oh my God.
00:39:52Xmi.
00:39:53Xmi.
00:39:53Xmi.
00:39:54Xmi.
00:39:56Xmi.
00:39:57Let's get money out of the ATM.
00:40:00and then I want to go for a walk what what's wrong I took it off so it could
00:40:14breathe it was itchy and hot and I've worn it for quite a while you didn't tell
00:40:25me you're taking enough no I didn't tell you I was taking it off I was astonished when I saw
00:40:37her
00:40:38this is embarrassing she looks older I didn't believe she she's Lisa used to know if we are
00:40:48going to be together she have to wear her wig she's she's she's not gonna go with her short hair
00:40:54thank you so much I want her to miss my friends tonight but if she don't wear a long head
00:41:02my
00:41:03friends will be embarrassed my friends will judge her
00:41:16what like you wish I would have had it on to go out
00:41:19but you know it's a wig and I need to be natural sometimes it's like you're embarrassed to be seen
00:41:27with me right now or something my hair needed to be washed and my head needs to air out baby
00:41:39why
00:41:39didn't you stay inside when you're on when it dries you wear it on before coming out so you
00:41:48don't think I'm pretty without my weight I'm not saying you're not pretty but I love the long hair
00:41:53well I don't have long hair I have short hair
00:42:01I'm hurt and now I feel ugly and I feel unwanted and unloved I want to go back upstairs and
00:42:09just cry
00:42:09I don't even want to look at him I want to be away from him
00:42:15you have to be wearing your wig when we are missing my friends or missing people okay
00:42:21I mean I mean I I can't wear it all the time I'm not saying all the time but when
00:42:27we are going out
00:42:28to meet friends families where it's you're being rude you don't understand I was very scared for you
00:42:36to see me without my weight sorry and I want you to feel that I'm beautiful without it just as
00:42:43much
00:42:43as I am with it you're always beautiful okay you are I would hug you how you're mine always
00:42:57I don't feel he means it I was hoping Daniel wouldn't say I look beautiful and touch my hair
00:43:03and give me a kiss I wasn't expecting him to pull back like he has I I don't know I
00:43:09have so many
00:43:09questions but I I have to get answers and I'm hoping tonight with his friends I'll get some because
00:43:15right now I'm starting to see red flags and cracks where I never did before
00:43:28what's going on we were getting along really well getting really flirty and we made out
00:43:40I mean I was feeling so like lonely and abandoned I thought that you didn't want me anymore
00:43:48you have sex with her did you
00:44:04snow just know that I what I'm about to tell you I I regret it you make me afraid I
00:44:11don't know what
00:44:12you explain yourself
00:44:30you remember in those five days did
00:44:39you weren't talking to me why you bring up five days what's wrong with five days
00:44:45I already explained everything so what's the problem now
00:44:51the problem isn't that it's it's what I did what
00:44:59what's wrong I'm trying to tell you now
00:45:04you make me afraid say I don't know why you hesitate what's wrong
00:45:11when you when you weren't talking to me
00:45:15I started talking to my ex
00:45:25she was like the only one that you know was there to to listen to me so I decided to
00:45:34book a trip
00:45:35going to Colombia to be with my ex
00:45:44I mean I was feeling so like lonely and abandoned I thought that you didn't want me anymore
00:45:54you have sex with her did you
00:46:04yes
00:46:16I'm sorry baby
00:46:20I messed up I know I did
00:46:25I regret what what I did but this is something we can work through baby
00:46:31shut up it was a mistake
00:46:32shut up
00:46:38maybe I
00:46:39how
00:46:42Rick how could you do that to me we were together
00:46:50maybe you weren't there
00:46:51maybe you weren't there and I told you after a couple days I said if I don't hear from you
00:46:56then I'm gonna assume that it's over that you don't want me anymore and I still didn't hear from you
00:47:02till a couple of days after that and by then I had already booked the flight there
00:47:13I did replay to your messages I did replay to your call and I even told you I'll call you
00:47:21when I'm free
00:47:22you told me that you would call call me when you get back from the police station I wouldn't hear
00:47:27from you
00:47:28I would call you and then you said that I was stalking you
00:47:32that sounds like to me that you didn't want to be with me
00:47:35why did you wait like for a long time to tell me why
00:47:40why
00:47:42because I want I wanted us to build something together I wanted to share
00:47:46you know precious time with you
00:47:52maybe you just still love that girl
00:47:54no no it's it's it's all it's over it's over now
00:48:00I swear I'm not talking to her anymore I haven't had any contact with her
00:48:06oh I thought you were different
00:48:12that I can trust you you even promised me they're like I won't hurt you Trisha I'm not like your
00:48:20ex
00:48:20and what you did guess what same thing so baby it's not the same but it's the same you cheated
00:48:32Jesus I thought you were a good guy I am a good guy baby you can't you can't you can
00:48:38trust me baby
00:48:40it's different now we've met in person we've consummated our relationship we have a stronger bond
00:48:46now don't don't you see that no can't we just start from from there
00:48:54can't we just start from if I know from the day that we first touched I'll never talk to you
00:49:01baby can't we just start no baby no shut up don't call me baby
00:49:05maybe we look at relationships differently I shut up
00:49:11where are you going I don't care
00:49:14oh
00:49:15oh
00:49:16oh
00:49:16oh
00:49:17oh
00:49:19oh
00:49:20oh
00:49:21oh
00:49:22oh
00:49:22oh
00:49:24oh
00:49:25oh
00:49:25oh
00:49:25oh
00:49:26oh
00:49:32oh
00:49:32oh
00:49:36oh
00:49:36oh
00:49:36oh
00:49:46babe what are you cooking?
00:49:49I want to I want you to go to the roof and wait for me yeah all right so see
00:49:55you there
00:49:55okay babe
00:49:58Emma and I we feel ourselves like we forget problems and we start
00:50:02refreshing again from the beginning
00:50:05refreshing again from the beginning
00:50:05it'll add to the sweet
00:50:08I never cooked for my girlfriend before so I feel nervous to cook for Emma I want her to be
00:50:17perfect
00:50:23babe
00:50:24babe you can just put it there babe you can just put it there babe this is so cute thank
00:50:29you babe
00:50:31you look so nice thanks babe you look very handsome tonight what did you make yeah what do you think
00:50:37inside here tagine
00:50:39so I hope you like it
00:50:41let's see
00:50:42let's see ooh
00:50:43that actually looks very good
00:50:45so as muslims people when we want to eat anything yeah we say bismillah
00:50:51mm-hmm
00:50:52like bon appetit
00:50:53yeah
00:50:54you
00:51:00mmm so good
00:51:01it's fine if you eat it or no
00:51:04no so good
00:51:07thank you for doing all this I love the sweet side of you because that makes me feel like you
00:51:11actually
00:51:12like love me
00:51:14yeah it's because I feel it it's you feel romance in the air
00:51:19we're passing this period of fighting that's something good
00:51:23I don't believe one day you will be here to eat dinner with me
00:51:27I feel so so happy to see you here especially it's like a dream and unreal what's what's the word
00:51:36we can't say
00:51:37it's real unreal
00:51:38mm-hmm
00:51:41that was very sweet babe
00:51:43look at you being so romantic today
00:51:46I'm happy to be here too
00:51:48yesterday it was 0% right now it's
00:51:537%
00:51:55so it's only at 7% now?
00:51:58it's slowly slowly step by step we can't be like 0% and 50% no
00:52:07what percent do you need to actually get engaged 100?
00:52:11exactly
00:52:11and you're only at 7% right now?
00:52:14it's just numbers
00:52:15with time it will be more than 200
00:52:18all right
00:52:20on a scale from 0% to 100% how much do you love me?
00:52:24why are you always looking for this how many cents?
00:52:27because I need to know
00:52:28I always say 70%
00:52:3270%?
00:52:33yeah
00:52:33it's
00:52:33okay
00:52:33so you love me more than if you're sure you want to get engaged to me?
00:52:40yeah because engagement it's a big thing
00:52:42okay
00:52:42okay
00:52:43you see
00:52:43all right but you love me at 70
00:52:45mm-hmm
00:52:46okay
00:52:47that's good
00:52:48yep
00:52:50you know what would have made this dinner 100 times better?
00:52:52some dessert
00:52:54mm-hmm
00:52:55mm-hmm
00:52:56so you want to go to dessert?
00:52:59huh?
00:53:00you want to go to dessert?
00:53:00you say dessert?
00:53:02dessert
00:53:03deserve?
00:53:03not the desert
00:53:04ah
00:53:05dessert
00:53:05deserve?
00:53:06yeah like ice cream
00:53:08but yes I do want to go to the dessert
00:53:12you look okay
00:53:14that's funny
00:53:15because when we talked the first time you told me
00:53:17you never see a camel
00:53:18you are here right now in Marcos
00:53:20and I know it's your birthday tomorrow
00:53:22so I plan to take you to the dessert
00:53:25it would be nice
00:53:27aww me
00:53:29I'm excited
00:53:30that's like my dream
00:53:32to go to the desert and ride a camel
00:53:33yeah yeah
00:53:35I think it's really sweet
00:53:37that Ziet is planning this desert trip
00:53:39for the both of us
00:53:40I know that he's only at 7%
00:53:42but I only have two weeks left of my trip
00:53:45and I'm really hoping
00:53:47that a romantic getaway
00:53:48outside of the city
00:53:49will speed things up
00:53:51what do you wear to ride a camel?
00:53:54pants?
00:54:08I'm in a good mood
00:54:09we're packing up
00:54:10and we're going to like
00:54:11a romantic getaway in the desert
00:54:13and it's my birthday
00:54:14so happy birthday to me
00:54:16yep
00:54:17and then there's more
00:54:19what's going on?
00:54:21we were getting along really well
00:54:23getting really flirty
00:54:26and he came into my room
00:54:28and we made out
00:54:34and then we had sex
00:54:38twice
00:54:41so I finally got all the physical touch
00:54:45I've been wanting
00:54:46and it felt really good
00:54:48and
00:54:49it was nice
00:54:51I would say it's like a normal
00:54:54it's like average size
00:54:55it's nothing crazy
00:54:57but it's not
00:54:58teeny tiny
00:54:59it like
00:55:00it fits in your hand
00:55:01that's like the best way to describe it
00:55:03I could deal with it
00:55:05but
00:55:06I think he's really worried about
00:55:08how people are going to view him
00:55:09especially because
00:55:11he is Muslim
00:55:12and like his religion and everything
00:55:15but I had to tell someone
00:55:17I feel like after having sex
00:55:19we
00:55:21were in like a perfect place
00:55:22he was being
00:55:23just so much nicer to me
00:55:25and he was like telling me
00:55:26how much he loved me
00:55:27and how much he cared about me
00:55:28and how like he does want a future with me
00:55:32so
00:55:33with the way the
00:55:34last night went
00:55:36I
00:55:37could really see a proposal
00:55:38and I think
00:55:39hopefully he changed his mind
00:55:41and
00:55:43he's feeling
00:55:43just as sure as I am
00:55:46I do feel better
00:55:47now that we finally
00:55:48did have sex
00:55:49I think this means
00:55:50that we're getting
00:55:51a lot closer
00:55:52but
00:55:53he still doesn't know
00:55:54about the whole
00:55:55Mohammed situation
00:55:57I know that he does have
00:55:59questions about everything
00:56:00and
00:56:01I feel like
00:56:02if I'm going to be
00:56:02that serious about him
00:56:03and our relationship
00:56:04I don't want there to be
00:56:05any secrets
00:56:06I don't want to lie to him
00:56:07about anything
00:56:08my friends and family
00:56:09have kind of warned me
00:56:10that once he finds out
00:56:11about Mohammed
00:56:12he's probably going to
00:56:13break up with me
00:56:14that's the last thing
00:56:15that I want to happen
00:56:16but
00:56:17I know that
00:56:17I'm going to need to tell him
00:56:19sooner rather than later
00:56:36do you look handsome
00:56:38I like this on you
00:56:41you really do
00:56:42you look really
00:56:43awesome wine
00:56:45you look beautiful
00:56:46that's Tony
00:56:46that's Tony
00:56:47yeah we're going
00:56:48put it thing right for me
00:56:49now I'm giving her
00:56:51the time of her life for me
00:56:52come on a wine for me
00:56:57I will teach you
00:56:58how to say thank you
00:57:00I will teach you
00:57:01thank you is important
00:57:01I want to know
00:57:03how to say thank you
00:57:05Imanna
00:57:07Imanna
00:57:08thank you
00:57:12Imanna
00:57:15Imanna
00:57:16it was a vulnerable
00:57:16experience for me
00:57:18and Daniel didn't respond
00:57:20the way I had hoped
00:57:22putting the wig back on today
00:57:24was horrible
00:57:25and now he's responding to me
00:57:27like I'm the most beautiful
00:57:28creature on earth
00:57:29yet again
00:57:31does he not love me
00:57:32for who I am
00:57:33I'm thinking about
00:57:35what Faith said
00:57:36and I'm starting to question
00:57:37what Daniel's intentions
00:57:38really are
00:57:41I'm a little nervous
00:57:43is there anything
00:57:44I should know
00:57:46you don't have to be
00:57:47of us
00:57:47because they're my friends
00:57:49I know them very well
00:57:50that's why I invited them
00:57:51they're my friends
00:57:52I know they're your friends
00:57:53but they're not my friends
00:57:54and I'm going
00:57:55and they're going to judge me
00:57:57but needless to say
00:57:58I'm going to judge you
00:57:59through them
00:58:03Daniel tonight
00:58:04is taking me to meet
00:58:05his friends and his cousin
00:58:06and I'm hoping
00:58:07they can shed some light
00:58:08on a few things
00:58:08about Daniel
00:58:13Daniel and I
00:58:14don't talk about
00:58:14our past relationships
00:58:15that's why mine
00:58:17has never been mentioned
00:58:18because I
00:58:18every time I try
00:58:19to talk to Daniel
00:58:20he shuts up
00:58:22he doesn't talk
00:58:22about his past at all
00:58:24so meeting his friends
00:58:25is a great opportunity
00:58:26to know more about Daniel
00:58:28and understand who he is
00:58:31he wants to know more about
00:58:32he'll come to him
00:58:41he lives from the United States
00:58:50her name is Lisa welcome thank you so much so this is Emmanuel and this is
00:58:59George George yeah this is lovely happy to witness this event today honestly
00:59:06honestly Lisa is older than Daniel she might not be his type I think he has
00:59:18fully silly sir and I think he's comfortable with that she will make a good home I know him when
00:59:32I
00:59:32was there when I was about 11 years no you know where I'm from very poor family I'm wearing good
00:59:39clothes today is because of her Wow you can tell I know him as someone that has only one pair
00:59:46of
00:59:47shoes really yeah you didn't tell me these things um I was afraid I used to wear um just a
00:59:54pair of
00:59:55shirts with some openings on the on the obitox is that true really so um without her I don't know
01:00:03who I don't know where I would be today do you know why the relationship is perfect why do you
01:00:10know
01:00:10why no because you're that transformed his life we should continue doing that don't debate from it
01:00:21well it's not easy I have to say it's not easy helping Daniel I work 15 hour days seven days
01:00:30a
01:00:30week that's how Daniel is changing because I'm working the hard times and it concerns me because
01:00:38he doesn't share much of his past with me I want to know more about your old life baby
01:00:46okay so I do have a question was he very popular with ladies
01:00:55oh he's a handsome guy he's a black handsome guy
01:01:03women loves me so much but that was the past
01:01:07yes I have not bring any woman I have not brought any woman in my family
01:01:11in the name of getting married to the woman you know that when when Daniel came at me on social
01:01:20media out of the blue I thought he was a scam artist I thought he was fake I did not
01:01:26think he was real
01:01:27so I didn't totally trust Daniel for a little while it took me it took him a minute to get
01:01:33me to trust
01:01:34him but the thing is I'm just surprised that he's only been with me since December and he's already proposed
01:01:42honestly thank God that he's the one
01:01:46let me just say you've helped him in different areas
01:01:50he's just like an angel who can choose life
01:01:54all I'm hearing right now is I am Daniel Savior
01:01:58he is a new man it's given me a bit of a pause
01:02:03you know there's something that happened before I came to Nigeria
01:02:06that Daniel hasn't been able to explain to me
01:02:11he has been sincere to you he has been honest
01:02:17he is truthful
01:02:19you seem to be sweating a little bit over this though
01:02:22I have to sweat because I don't know
01:02:23you just need to have trust
01:02:26yes but the thing is Daniel was talking to another girl on social media at the same time
01:02:32he was talking to me
01:02:38be honest because I will walk out if you're not
01:02:45are we going to have more debt more financial problems because you can't stop gambling
01:02:51for valentine's day I sent you money did you gamble that
01:02:57yeah
01:03:09you regret like marrying me
01:03:28no
01:03:30I mean it seemed like you had to think about it for a minute
01:03:32no I love you
01:03:35it's just that I want you to you know like
01:03:38I guess I want you to be more like positive
01:03:43I just want you to overlook the negativity
01:03:48you're making me feel uncomfortable like you're not enjoying your time with me
01:03:52I'm enjoying the time
01:03:53makes me feel really
01:03:54did you see me yesterday when I was doing this
01:03:57that I couldn't fit
01:03:58you're doing all the things that you have to do but you always have to leave a remark
01:04:06look I can promise you this
01:04:09I'm gonna do my best
01:04:12to not
01:04:13you know
01:04:14throwing your face about what I do in the marriage
01:04:21like provide for you
01:04:24and I promise you not to be so negative
01:04:27but I mean could you make me a promise and just ease up on me a little bit cut me
01:04:34a little bit of slack
01:04:39I actually feel bad when you feel bad and I feel guilty
01:04:43I feel like sometimes I act
01:04:46I overreact to things
01:04:49I just really want to have a good time please
01:04:52well I do too
01:04:53but I feel like you always look constipated
01:04:56like
01:04:57cause I'm always being chewed
01:05:00get my ass chewed out
01:05:01like
01:05:02it's just
01:05:02like
01:05:03you're like this
01:05:10oh my god
01:05:12it's so sunny today
01:05:14yeah
01:05:14I think it's gonna rain again
01:05:18thank god stop raining
01:05:20I thought we'd be stuck in the room the whole time
01:05:22I don't want you to get too comfortable
01:05:24cause it still might rain
01:05:25oh my god
01:05:26you don't say that
01:05:28you jinxed
01:05:30we'll have to try it with cheese
01:05:32I mean but don't you think that's a weird combination
01:05:35if you're going to rate it one to five
01:05:38how is
01:05:39probably a two
01:05:40a two?
01:05:41yeah
01:05:41really?
01:05:44I'm gonna go to the bathroom
01:05:46this is a 90 year old man
01:05:48in the last stages of his life
01:05:51basically that's how you're making me sound
01:05:54so we good?
01:05:57alright
01:06:00yes we made up right now
01:06:03but
01:06:03because of the last few days
01:06:06I kind of worried about the future
01:06:11we struggled to get along during our honeymoon
01:06:14how are we gonna get along
01:06:16for the rest of our lives?
01:06:18come here
01:06:19come sit on my lap
01:06:21come on
01:06:21we've been together six years
01:06:25in a long distance relationship
01:06:27and now that we're finally
01:06:29get to be together physically
01:06:32you see everything
01:06:35about your partner
01:06:37and I hope that
01:06:39Jovon and I
01:06:40can take all the good
01:06:41with the bad
01:06:42but
01:06:43right now
01:06:44I don't know
01:06:48I so sweat
01:06:49I know
01:07:05how often are you gambling?
01:07:07if I have money
01:07:09I gamble
01:07:11so
01:07:12actually
01:07:13it could be
01:07:14every day
01:07:20is gambling
01:07:21part of all of this debt?
01:07:24no
01:07:25I'm still
01:07:26trying to pay
01:07:27but
01:07:28that is why
01:07:29I have to gamble
01:07:31because I need money
01:07:32and I have nowhere to find
01:07:37I gamble
01:07:38I make more money
01:07:39I have a progress
01:07:41that's how
01:07:42my friends
01:07:43and I
01:07:43paid our rent
01:07:44for a long time
01:07:45that's how we live
01:07:51I'm angry
01:07:53I'm hurt
01:07:54I
01:07:55am
01:07:56shocked
01:07:56I think gambling is fine
01:07:59like
01:08:00when you have money
01:08:01to lose
01:08:02but he doesn't have
01:08:04anything
01:08:04the fact that he thinks
01:08:06that he can gamble
01:08:08instead of actually
01:08:09going out and finding a job
01:08:10is
01:08:11ridiculously concerning to me
01:08:14that's not a job
01:08:15I don't even understand
01:08:17what he's thinking
01:08:18so
01:08:20instead of a gift
01:08:22for Valentine's Day
01:08:23I sent you money
01:08:24yeah
01:08:25did you gamble that?
01:08:30yeah
01:08:31you sent me
01:08:33how much
01:08:34like $150
01:08:34yeah
01:08:35yeah
01:08:36and that makes
01:08:37$5,000
01:08:38and
01:08:39we made it
01:08:41$20
01:08:42I guess
01:08:43and we paid our rent
01:08:44it was like
01:08:45you sent us money
01:08:46but
01:08:46it wasn't solving anything
01:08:48it just
01:08:49okay
01:08:49we can eat
01:08:50but
01:08:51maybe three days later
01:08:52we have to
01:08:53empty the house
01:08:55you know
01:08:55but
01:08:55what if you would have
01:08:56lost that?
01:08:57I will figure it out
01:08:59but I
01:09:03that was money
01:09:04that I sent you
01:09:05for you
01:09:05and if you would have
01:09:06lost it
01:09:07and been like
01:09:07hey I lost the money
01:09:08that you gave me
01:09:09I would be livid
01:09:10I'm actually kind of
01:09:11livid right now
01:09:12that seems irresponsible
01:09:13to me
01:09:13what can I say?
01:09:16I'm trying to make
01:09:17a way out for us
01:09:20so if you
01:09:20gambling is something
01:09:21I have to do
01:09:25is gambling
01:09:26an addiction?
01:09:28gambling is not
01:09:29an addiction
01:09:30for me
01:09:31if I was addicted
01:09:33I didn't
01:09:34I don't care
01:09:35if I lose
01:09:36or win
01:09:36but I care
01:09:39and I'm winning
01:09:41if you come
01:09:42to America
01:09:43and we're sharing
01:09:44our life
01:09:45we're sharing
01:09:45our money
01:09:46we're sharing
01:09:46our banks
01:09:47are you going to
01:09:48pick it up
01:09:48and gamble it?
01:09:49because
01:09:49you just
01:09:51well it would be
01:09:52our money
01:09:52no it is
01:09:53your money
01:09:53I don't gamble
01:09:55with your money
01:09:55but I will gamble
01:09:56you kind of already did
01:10:00but how do you
01:10:01have something
01:10:02that's specifically
01:10:03yours
01:10:03if we're married
01:10:04wouldn't it
01:10:05always be ours?
01:10:07no
01:10:07it is like
01:10:07if I
01:10:09it is like
01:10:10if I make
01:10:11five thousand
01:10:11per month
01:10:13I will give you
01:10:13four thousand
01:10:14but I will tell you
01:10:16that one thousand
01:10:16dollar I need
01:10:17and I will bet
01:10:18with that
01:10:21and I will make
01:10:23that one thousand
01:10:23maybe nothing
01:10:24maybe fifty thousand
01:10:26because this is me
01:10:27this is my life
01:10:29this is how I do
01:10:30things
01:10:34gambling is just
01:10:35a way to make money
01:10:38I started
01:10:39when I was having
01:10:40financial struggle
01:10:42because you know
01:10:43I had nothing
01:10:45but now
01:10:46mostly
01:10:47I just bet
01:10:48some football games
01:10:49because that's what
01:10:50I used to do
01:10:50for a living
01:10:51just I can't play
01:10:53but I can bet
01:10:56if
01:10:56we do go through
01:10:58with this
01:10:58and apply for that
01:10:59K-1 visa
01:11:00I am financially
01:11:01responsible for you
01:11:03for like ten years
01:11:04and I guess
01:11:05that's my concern
01:11:06is that
01:11:07are we going to have
01:11:08more debt
01:11:08more financial problems
01:11:10because
01:11:10you can't
01:11:12stop gambling
01:11:13no
01:11:14because
01:11:15if I hit
01:11:16a grand jackpot
01:11:17I won
01:11:18you know
01:11:19I have money
01:11:20see
01:11:21I succeeded
01:11:22so until you feel
01:11:25like you're successful
01:11:26you're going to keep
01:11:27gambling
01:11:27yeah
01:11:34it's super alarming
01:11:36to me
01:11:36to hear that
01:11:37he thinks
01:11:38that this
01:11:38is the best way
01:11:40to make money
01:11:41and knowing
01:11:42that I will be
01:11:42financially responsible
01:11:44for him
01:11:45concerns me
01:11:46greatly
01:11:48this is
01:11:49really serious
01:11:50and I feel like
01:11:51I should just
01:11:51pull the plug
01:11:52and go home now
01:12:00this girl
01:12:01ended up calling me
01:12:02and pretty much
01:12:04told me
01:12:04he's a scam artist
01:12:05because he's going
01:12:06after more women
01:12:07than just me
01:12:07that are in America
01:12:10I am here begging you
01:12:12for some truth
01:12:14of what Daniel
01:12:15actually is
01:12:16and if I don't
01:12:17come home
01:12:17with everything
01:12:18on Daniel
01:12:19I will not be
01:12:20coming back
01:12:20to this country
01:12:30Daniel was talking
01:12:31to another girl
01:12:32on social media
01:12:33at the same time
01:12:34he was talking
01:12:34to me
01:12:40be honest
01:12:41because I will
01:12:42walk out
01:12:43if you're not
01:12:52yes
01:12:53I can't remember
01:12:55the last time
01:12:55I talked to the lady
01:12:56and I was
01:12:58I was talking to you
01:13:00and she was
01:13:01disturbing me
01:13:04this girl
01:13:05ended up calling me
01:13:10and talking to me
01:13:12telling me
01:13:12all these things
01:13:13that Daniel
01:13:14was saying
01:13:14to her
01:13:15and she also
01:13:17pretty much
01:13:17told me
01:13:18he's a scam artist
01:13:19because he's
01:13:19going after more
01:13:20women than just me
01:13:21that are in America
01:13:22did you know
01:13:23about this woman
01:13:24that he was
01:13:24talking to
01:13:26um
01:13:29to be sincere
01:13:30I don't know
01:13:31about that
01:13:34a couple months
01:13:35ago
01:13:35an American woman
01:13:36got in touch
01:13:37with me
01:13:37on social media
01:13:38and basically
01:13:39told me
01:13:39Daniel was
01:13:40talking to her
01:13:41at the same time
01:13:42he was talking
01:13:43to me
01:13:44she sent me
01:13:45screenshots
01:13:46of her
01:13:46and Daniel's
01:13:47conversation
01:13:47she sent me
01:13:48personal pictures
01:13:49Daniel sent
01:13:50to her
01:13:50of himself
01:13:52and he
01:13:53called her
01:13:53baby
01:13:54that hurt
01:13:55me
01:13:55it still
01:13:55hurts me
01:13:57Daniel said
01:13:58she's just
01:13:58a friend
01:13:59and after
01:14:00he blocked
01:14:01her
01:14:01I gave him
01:14:02the benefit
01:14:02of the doubt
01:14:03and I deleted
01:14:04the screenshots
01:14:05because I
01:14:06believed him
01:14:08but the more
01:14:09I'm hearing
01:14:09his friends
01:14:10say how
01:14:10I changed
01:14:11his life
01:14:11the more
01:14:12I'm wondering
01:14:13if this woman
01:14:14was right
01:14:14and Daniel
01:14:16was just
01:14:17looking for
01:14:17any American
01:14:18woman who
01:14:18was willing
01:14:19to respond
01:14:21she said
01:14:22that you
01:14:22were going
01:14:22after her
01:14:23strong
01:14:23and she
01:14:23wasn't
01:14:24giving you
01:14:24the time
01:14:24of the day
01:14:25so what
01:14:26do you
01:14:26want to
01:14:26say about
01:14:27that Daniel
01:14:30that is
01:14:30on social
01:14:31media
01:14:31right
01:14:31it is
01:14:32on social
01:14:32media
01:14:33so social
01:14:33media
01:14:34I have
01:14:34a lot
01:14:34of friends
01:14:35there
01:14:35you do
01:14:36you do
01:14:36but we're
01:14:37not talking
01:14:37about them
01:14:38we're talking
01:14:38no no
01:14:39I'm not
01:14:39on this
01:14:40I'm asking
01:14:41you about
01:14:41her
01:14:42because you
01:14:42did talk
01:14:43to her
01:14:43that's why
01:14:44I told you
01:14:44that before
01:14:45I met
01:14:45you
01:14:45there are
01:14:46some other
01:14:47ladies
01:14:48who wanted
01:14:49they wanted
01:14:49me
01:14:50and some
01:14:51of them
01:14:51were you
01:14:52know
01:14:52coming after
01:14:52me
01:14:53like I told
01:14:53she wasn't
01:14:54you were
01:14:54going after
01:14:55her
01:14:55yes you
01:14:56were
01:14:56I never
01:14:57did
01:14:57yes you
01:14:58did
01:14:58you wanted
01:14:59her as
01:14:59an American
01:15:00she told
01:15:00me so
01:15:01I never
01:15:01go to her
01:15:02for friendship
01:15:03or any
01:15:04relationship
01:15:06there's something
01:15:07more going
01:15:08on Daniel
01:15:13I don't know
01:15:14I don't know
01:15:14why she's trying
01:15:15to accuse me
01:15:15have you pursued
01:15:17Americans
01:15:17before Lisa
01:15:21um
01:15:22I do talk
01:15:23to other
01:15:23other women
01:15:24from America
01:15:25yes from America
01:15:26I do talk
01:15:26to other women
01:15:27from America
01:15:28I only chat
01:15:29them you know
01:15:30ask them how
01:15:30they're doing
01:15:31you know
01:15:31ask them how
01:15:32the day went
01:15:32you know
01:15:33that's the only
01:15:33thing I do
01:15:35but I've not
01:15:36tried to date
01:15:37an American
01:15:38lady before
01:15:38no
01:15:39Lisa is the
01:15:40first lady
01:15:40that you know
01:15:41that came
01:15:42into my life
01:15:43well I love
01:15:44Daniel
01:15:45yes
01:15:45but nobody
01:15:46is perfect
01:15:47and I am here
01:15:48begging you
01:15:49for some
01:15:50truth
01:15:51of what
01:15:52Daniel
01:15:52actually is
01:15:57I need to
01:15:58clear all this
01:15:59up before
01:15:59we get married
01:16:01maybe she
01:16:02lies
01:16:08um
01:16:09it's not
01:16:10funny
01:16:15all I want
01:16:16to say
01:16:17I want you
01:16:18to trust
01:16:18him
01:16:21why should
01:16:21I tell
01:16:22me why
01:16:22I know
01:16:24him very
01:16:24very well
01:16:25I know
01:16:26why I
01:16:27have you
01:16:27to trust
01:16:27him
01:16:29he cannot
01:16:29disappoint
01:16:30you
01:16:31I'm the
01:16:32one working
01:16:3215 hour
01:16:33days
01:16:33I'm the
01:16:34one working
01:16:34seven days
01:16:35a week
01:16:35to make
01:16:36sure
01:16:36he
01:16:36looks like
01:16:37this
01:16:38so I
01:16:39am giving
01:16:39up stuff
01:16:39to be
01:16:40here
01:16:40my family
01:16:41is worried
01:16:42about me
01:16:42they have
01:16:43every concern
01:16:44and if I
01:16:44don't come
01:16:45home with
01:16:45everything
01:16:46on Daniel
01:16:47I will not
01:16:47be coming
01:16:48back to
01:16:48this country
01:16:49and if
01:16:50you're not
01:16:50going to
01:16:51share it
01:16:51with me
01:16:51I will
01:16:51find it
01:16:52I'm not
01:16:52I didn't
01:16:53hide
01:16:53anything
01:16:54you picked
01:16:55me from
01:16:55the gutter
01:16:56you cluttered
01:16:57me
01:16:58you feed
01:16:59me
01:16:59so why
01:17:00should I
01:17:00be playing
01:17:01with you
01:17:03why should
01:17:04I be
01:17:04you know
01:17:04playing games
01:17:12I feel
01:17:13like his
01:17:13friends are
01:17:13protecting him
01:17:14as every
01:17:15friend
01:17:15if they're
01:17:15a really
01:17:16good friend
01:17:16should have
01:17:17your back
01:17:17but I
01:17:18feel like
01:17:19a sugar
01:17:19mom
01:17:21they kept
01:17:21saying
01:17:22it over
01:17:22and over
01:17:23and over
01:17:23again
01:17:23I'm an
01:17:24angel
01:17:24I have
01:17:24saved
01:17:25Daniel
01:17:25from the
01:17:26street
01:17:27I'm
01:17:28sitting here
01:17:28wondering
01:17:28is he a
01:17:30scam artist
01:17:30is he after
01:17:31me for my
01:17:32money
01:17:32I just
01:17:33don't think
01:17:34he's telling
01:17:34me the full
01:17:35truth
01:17:35I think
01:17:36he's given
01:17:36me little
01:17:37nibbles
01:17:38of what
01:17:38is reality
01:17:39and it's
01:17:40going to be
01:17:41up to me
01:17:41to put
01:17:41together
01:17:42this puzzle
01:17:42piece
01:17:43I appreciate
01:17:44you guys
01:17:45coming and
01:17:45meeting me
01:17:46I was just
01:17:46hoping for
01:17:47a little
01:17:47bit more
01:17:47than this
01:17:48from my
01:17:49own opinion
01:17:49I think
01:17:50you're scared
01:17:51for heartbroken
01:17:52you don't
01:17:52want to be
01:17:52hurt anymore
01:17:59I'd rather
01:17:59you stay
01:18:00here
01:18:00and not
01:18:01coming here
01:18:03I cannot
01:18:04be with
01:18:04someone
01:18:05who still
01:18:06have feelings
01:18:07for their
01:18:07ex
01:18:09I cannot
01:18:10I'm sorry
01:18:12I know
01:18:13now that I
01:18:13was wrong
01:18:14please
01:18:15forgive me
01:18:33we're both
01:18:34back to
01:18:36Nosey Bay
01:18:36is here
01:18:38okay
01:18:38so let's
01:18:40go back
01:18:41don't touch
01:18:42me
01:18:43don't touch
01:18:43me
01:18:44don't
01:18:45don't
01:18:45make it
01:18:45worse
01:18:46just
01:18:46leave me
01:18:47alone
01:19:06are you
01:19:07ready
01:19:09serious
01:19:10don't touch
01:19:12me
01:19:12just bring
01:19:13your luggage
01:19:13I'll bring
01:19:14mine
01:19:14and let's
01:19:15go
01:19:17I don't
01:19:18want to
01:19:18even
01:19:19look at
01:19:20him
01:19:24I thought
01:19:25he's
01:19:25different
01:19:26from my
01:19:27ex
01:19:27like
01:19:28a good
01:19:29guy
01:19:29a good
01:19:30father
01:19:31a good
01:19:32boyfriend
01:19:33faithful
01:19:35but
01:19:35Rick
01:19:37didn't
01:19:37tell me
01:19:38the truth
01:19:39he was
01:19:39not
01:19:40honest
01:19:40with
01:19:40me
01:19:43go ahead
01:19:44what are you
01:19:46waiting for
01:19:47go
01:19:47waiting for
01:19:48you
01:19:50what you
01:19:51care
01:19:52I told
01:19:53him that
01:19:54I was
01:19:54hurting
01:19:55from my
01:19:56past
01:19:56relationship
01:19:57but
01:19:58here we
01:19:59are
01:19:59same
01:20:00story
01:20:00again
01:20:06maybe
01:20:07just don't
01:20:08talk
01:20:09how long
01:20:10are you
01:20:10not going
01:20:10to talk
01:20:11to me
01:20:11why
01:20:11you care
01:20:12about
01:20:12that
01:20:12how long
01:20:13I'm
01:20:13going to
01:20:13talk
01:20:13or not
01:20:14because
01:20:14I want
01:20:14to resolve
01:20:15this
01:20:15resolve
01:20:16what
01:20:16you
01:20:17didn't
01:20:17remember
01:20:17what
01:20:17you did
01:20:18I do
01:20:18remember
01:20:21I'd rather
01:20:21you stay
01:20:22here
01:20:22and not
01:20:23coming
01:20:23here
01:20:27I refuse
01:20:28to believe
01:20:28that you
01:20:28regret
01:20:29me
01:20:31I've
01:20:31seen
01:20:32the love
01:20:32in your
01:20:32eyes
01:20:34you know
01:20:34just
01:20:35allow me
01:20:36the opportunity
01:20:36to show
01:20:37you
01:20:37how committed
01:20:39I am
01:20:39to you
01:20:45I told you
01:20:46I was ashamed
01:20:46of what I did
01:20:47I'm not proud
01:20:48you were not
01:20:48even ashamed
01:20:50because
01:20:50I explained
01:20:52to you
01:20:52after the five
01:20:53days
01:20:53but you still
01:20:54went to
01:20:54Colombia
01:20:55so why
01:20:56didn't you
01:20:56cancel
01:20:58because even
01:20:59after those
01:21:00five days
01:21:00things still
01:21:01didn't add up
01:21:02and I felt
01:21:03like I was
01:21:04just getting
01:21:05strung along
01:21:06because I thought
01:21:08you were cheating
01:21:08on me
01:21:09and I felt
01:21:09like
01:21:10it's my fault
01:21:13it's my fault
01:21:15we didn't really
01:21:16start communicating
01:21:17like before
01:21:19until I got
01:21:20back
01:21:21so in your
01:21:23mind
01:21:23is
01:21:24even if she
01:21:25already explained
01:21:26to me
01:21:27I will still
01:21:28go
01:21:28because I
01:21:29want to
01:21:29revenge
01:21:29her
01:21:34in some ways
01:21:35that's true
01:21:40now that I
01:21:41was wrong
01:21:49please
01:21:49I want you
01:21:50to forgive
01:21:51me
01:21:57I have nothing
01:21:58to say
01:21:59Rick
01:22:02I cannot
01:22:03be with
01:22:04someone
01:22:04who still
01:22:05have feelings
01:22:06for their
01:22:07ex
01:22:09I'd rather
01:22:10he told me
01:22:11like
01:22:12for coming
01:22:13here
01:22:13now
01:22:16I don't know
01:22:17what to tell
01:22:17my dad
01:22:19my whole
01:22:20family
01:22:25I don't know
01:22:27what to tell
01:22:27them
01:22:31don't
01:22:31touch me
01:22:32please
01:22:34it's not
01:22:35like I'm
01:22:35giving up
01:22:36on us
01:22:40we just
01:22:41have to
01:22:41work
01:22:41to
01:22:42I cannot
01:22:43I'm sorry
01:22:53next time
01:22:54on
01:22:54before the
01:22:5490 days
01:22:55oh my god
01:22:58Sied and I
01:22:59are going
01:22:59for a little
01:22:59romantic getaway
01:23:00outside of the
01:23:01city
01:23:01I have a nice
01:23:02birthday surprise
01:23:03for you later
01:23:04a surprise
01:23:05yeah
01:23:06we're really
01:23:06connecting
01:23:07and Sied's
01:23:08always known
01:23:09that I've
01:23:10wanted a
01:23:10proposal on my
01:23:11birthday
01:23:11I have one
01:23:12more thing
01:23:13for you
01:23:13okay
01:23:18this is us
01:23:19I'm very
01:23:20excited to
01:23:21see where
01:23:22my wife
01:23:22lives
01:23:23and where
01:23:24my money
01:23:24is going
01:23:26wow
01:23:28this is a lot
01:23:30bigger than
01:23:30what I
01:23:31initially
01:23:31thought
01:23:32everywhere
01:23:32I look
01:23:33I just see
01:23:34dollar signs
01:23:35a lot of
01:23:35travel photos
01:23:36huge closets
01:23:37it makes me
01:23:39feel
01:23:39taken advantage
01:23:40of
01:23:42I know
01:23:43it is
01:23:44hard
01:23:45to understand
01:23:46my lifestyle
01:23:47my chooses
01:23:49beer con
01:23:50has what
01:23:51I can only
01:23:52consider
01:23:52to be
01:23:53a gambling
01:23:54problem
01:23:54and it's
01:23:55really
01:23:55making me
01:23:56second guess
01:23:57any kind
01:23:58of future
01:23:58I could have
01:23:59with beer con
01:24:00that is why
01:24:02you are so
01:24:02special to
01:24:03me
01:24:03even if
01:24:04we have
01:24:04problems
01:24:05we will
01:24:07find
01:24:07solution
01:24:10until
01:24:10yesterday
01:24:12you did
01:24:13not know
01:24:14anything
01:24:14about
01:24:15Sheena's
01:24:15finances
01:24:16you didn't
01:24:17know the
01:24:18truth about
01:24:19her relationship
01:24:20with her
01:24:20family
01:24:21is this
01:24:22a person
01:24:23you can
01:24:24trust
01:24:24these were
01:24:25big lies
01:24:27for us
01:24:27she did
01:24:29lie
01:24:30about
01:24:30almost
01:24:31everything
01:24:33it really
01:24:34hurts me
01:24:34to my
01:24:35core
01:24:36but
01:24:37I can't
01:24:37be with
01:24:38someone who
01:24:38is going
01:24:39to constantly
01:24:40lie to me
01:24:43hi
01:24:45tonight
01:24:45we're meeting
01:24:46up with my
01:24:47Aunt Spring
01:24:47heard a lot
01:24:48about you
01:24:49and there's
01:24:50some things
01:24:51that I do
01:24:51have questions
01:24:52about
01:24:52I do
01:24:53understand
01:24:54why Aviva
01:24:54has fallen
01:24:55for Stig
01:24:56but I don't
01:24:57think that
01:24:57he is the
01:24:58great person
01:24:59that she
01:24:59believes him
01:25:00to be
01:25:01so
01:25:01I have
01:25:02heard
01:25:03some things
01:25:05I mean
01:25:05this is you
01:25:06isn't it
01:25:11I came here
01:25:12to be with you
01:25:13but I want
01:25:13answers
01:25:15say it
01:25:15I don't want
01:25:16to find out
01:25:17by her
01:25:18I want
01:25:18to find out
01:25:19from you
01:25:20I can't
01:25:21he is lying
01:25:23he is lying
01:25:23to me
01:25:23and he's
01:25:24trying to
01:25:24make me
01:25:25look insane
01:25:25I don't
01:25:26want to
01:25:26believe
01:25:27there's
01:25:27others
01:25:28I need
01:25:29this lady
01:25:29to write
01:25:30back to me
01:25:30because I
01:25:31need to
01:25:31know
01:25:31is he
01:25:32a scammer
01:25:34did she write
01:25:35yes
01:25:36she wrote
01:25:36a lot
01:25:40oh god
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