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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy I see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, mama.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35Sure, pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about dambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:06You should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:21I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's the real camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me.
00:02:06I can't move on with you.
00:02:09I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I'm hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on
00:03:19with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times
00:03:33and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 PM, I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now,
00:04:22what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days,
00:04:37and we're supposed to leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this,
00:04:42when I've already made plans to take him somewhere special,
00:04:45and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him,
00:04:52telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for,
00:04:55and hopefully he'll come with me.
00:05:00And hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because I watched her sweat.
00:05:14She was drunk.
00:05:17And she left the room.
00:05:18So I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like, on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way,
00:05:47shows that he's desperately in love with me,
00:05:49and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears,
00:05:54and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good, and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um...
00:07:14You have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of a trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she had not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies, I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing and then have to go back and tell
00:09:57him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not, I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:03Let me know what everyone else is.
00:10:03Yeah.
00:10:22I love mountains.
00:10:24I love mountains.
00:10:25I do too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount Saint Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boots here.
00:10:35from now on i'm gonna call here mount boobs that's mount boobs you do know that you're ridiculous
00:10:43right boobs bounced i love that you figured out all of the things that i really like and
00:10:58surprise me with them uh i have been doing you know homework um so sweet we are mixing everything
00:11:07history art holiday vacation love everything involved everything on this trip it's fantastic
00:11:16last night birkan and i got back to izmir after our romantic getaway in chesme
00:11:23and today birkan and i are going on a trip to go see the ancient ruins
00:11:29are you excited i'm really excited are you excited yeah
00:11:35he's full of surprises all the time so i am a walking surprise machine
00:11:42i want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him as much as possible before i leave
00:11:47but since my conversation with michael i've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation
00:11:55it's really weighing on my mind and then something happened this morning that i need
00:12:02to tell birkan about and i know he's not going to be happy
00:12:11okay if i just oh my god this is amazing
00:12:18today we visit ephesus we have obsession with marble
00:12:26it's like so peaceful through here too
00:12:32it is one of the oldest places that greek people built from texas century dc
00:12:40yeah that's adorable the epesus is one of the seven ancient historical places in the world
00:12:51this place is huge this place trying to talk
00:12:56nobody to listen i love this place i love this place too
00:13:02some of these ruins are over 3 000 years old which is insane to think about and being a teacher
00:13:08i love seeing some of this history
00:13:11it's so good every single surface is like carved or etched and just stunning
00:13:19the detail and everything even the floor is incredible
00:13:22let's take a picture okay
00:13:25with the hearts
00:13:26no it's mine's heart
00:13:28yeah yours is heart there it is
00:13:30there's three hearts in one photo
00:13:32love it that's adorable
00:13:34i like it
00:13:38hey kitty kitty
00:13:40i believe these all are some protective spirits about this place
00:13:48you know
00:13:49yeah
00:13:49chats
00:13:50you want to have a seat
00:13:52okay
00:13:54okay
00:13:55okay that's cold
00:13:57it is a little chilly but
00:13:59yeah
00:14:00ah
00:14:04i hope you know
00:14:07that i really do
00:14:09want this relationship to work
00:14:13yeah
00:14:13that makes two of us
00:14:15but
00:14:17i think i have
00:14:19way more concerns about it than you do
00:14:24so
00:14:26the other night
00:14:27i called my friend michael
00:14:30why
00:14:31because i wanted to get
00:14:33his opinion
00:14:35on my concerns
00:14:37and
00:14:38the things that i look at as red flags
00:14:41you
00:14:42have concerns
00:14:44yeah
00:14:45about our relationship
00:14:47i have concerns
00:14:48and now michael has the same concerns
00:14:51i have concerns because you because you are still communicating with michael
00:14:57and talking about our relationship
00:15:02he has no place in our relationship
00:15:07well
00:15:09he wants to come here
00:15:13perfect
00:15:14perfect
00:15:17no there is no point
00:15:22he already bought a flight
00:15:29what
00:15:31he is coming
00:15:33yeah
00:15:37without asking
00:15:40without telling anything
00:15:42nothing
00:15:44this is ridiculous
00:15:51you know how much
00:15:52i've been anticipating her coming
00:15:54yeah
00:15:55but um
00:15:55you know
00:15:56i'm glad you can
00:15:57because
00:15:57you're one of my best friends
00:15:59cheers
00:16:00cheers
00:16:01i feel like that cheers
00:16:03was to go
00:16:04chris
00:16:04yeah it was
00:16:05thank you
00:16:06thank you for coming
00:16:07i just flew around the world
00:16:09but
00:16:09you're toasting to your buddy over me
00:16:11who does that
00:16:15so you ready to meet my family
00:16:17i just want to make sure that i'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family
00:16:22i told you yes
00:16:23so what else do you want
00:16:26seems like you were hesitating
00:16:27just tell me
00:16:43thank god you guys are here to do my luggage
00:16:44maybe put that little one in the back
00:16:47yeah
00:16:47maybe you should offer to open the door for me
00:16:50so i can get in the car
00:16:51because i'm really full
00:16:52yeah you put her in i'll do the bag
00:16:53i know how this is going to go actually
00:16:55jump in we'll get the rest
00:16:59thank you boys
00:17:01that's why i have two of you
00:17:03two boyfriends
00:17:04chris you want to sit up here with me
00:17:05we could be a trio
00:17:07oh jesus christ
00:17:09you give give give me a heart
00:17:13you're pumping through my veins
00:17:15you make me feel alive
00:17:19elise you're gonna have to give me a horse number
00:17:20i'll back it for you
00:17:22and i've got about a thousand dollars on the thing
00:17:24so i'm not not watching it
00:17:26you're an idiot
00:17:27what do you mean
00:17:28i'm gonna win
00:17:28no one ever wins in the melbourne cup
00:17:30yeah i know except me
00:17:31i'll give you the names
00:17:32and you tell me which one sounds the coolest
00:17:34oh wait that's so fun
00:17:35okay
00:17:35what's the name
00:17:36chevalier rose
00:17:38presage nocturne
00:17:39middle earth
00:17:41maidan
00:17:42alrifa
00:17:42no
00:17:43buckaroo
00:17:43i like buckarill
00:17:45that was 24 of them
00:17:46do you want to hear the rest
00:17:47yes i do
00:17:48okay
00:17:50it feels very surreal
00:17:51having elise here with me
00:17:53not a sort of a dream anymore
00:17:55i can touch and you know
00:17:56kiss and hug
00:17:57the girl that i've been speaking to
00:17:59for so long
00:18:01i wanted to be excited
00:18:02about being here with me
00:18:03so we're taking her out on the town
00:18:05see the biggest event of the year
00:18:07the melbourne cup
00:18:08but unfortunately
00:18:09we're running quite late
00:18:12traffic today sucks
00:18:14what do you think of sydney so far
00:18:16it's cute
00:18:18like oh wait you're going down the wrong way
00:18:20ah you scared the out of me
00:18:22no we're not
00:18:23we're in australia
00:18:25hell
00:18:26i thought you were on the wrong side of the road
00:18:28oh that scared me
00:18:30at least 200 metres to our ride is the place that we're going to be living
00:18:34what sweeters
00:18:37oh you guys work in feet
00:18:38i don't know
00:18:41i'm excited
00:18:42pretty set
00:18:47you're kidding me
00:18:49oh we missed the melbourne cup race
00:18:52but everyone will still be at the bar
00:18:54well i'm down a thousand
00:18:57i'm gonna get drunk
00:19:00we missed one of the biggest days of the year
00:19:03because of airport delays and traffic
00:19:06we're here
00:19:06but honestly i don't care
00:19:10i have a lease with me
00:19:12so i'm happy exactly where i am
00:19:16there'll be another one next year
00:19:17think about me for a moment
00:19:19i lost money
00:19:20i came to the airport for no
00:19:21i missed the melbourne cup
00:19:22nah
00:19:26wait this is so bad
00:19:28i literally am not even wearing underwear
00:19:30that's a bold choice with that dress
00:19:34like the games are very bullshit
00:19:36yeah
00:19:37perfect
00:19:48oh you guys have mcdonald's here
00:19:50yep we're not that
00:19:51we're not that out of the way
00:19:52we're not that third world
00:19:53third world
00:19:55we have healthcare
00:20:03thank you cheers
00:20:04oh this is much needed
00:20:08thanks
00:20:08thanks
00:20:09wait i think we need to make a cheer
00:20:11yeah my cheers is
00:20:12i was about to do it
00:20:12so you know
00:20:13you know how much
00:20:14i've been anticipating her coming
00:20:16yeah
00:20:16but um
00:20:17you know i'm glad you came
00:20:19because
00:20:20you're you're one of my best friends
00:20:23and
00:20:24you know
00:20:24as soon as you come
00:20:27i want you to meet my best
00:20:28most entertaining friend
00:20:29so let's say cheers to you getting here
00:20:32cheers
00:20:34cheers
00:20:34cheers
00:20:38i feel like that cheers
00:20:40was about chris
00:20:41yeah it was
00:20:42thank you
00:20:43thank you for coming
00:20:43yeah i'm like wait
00:20:44what is going on
00:20:46i'm like hold on
00:20:48i just flew around the world
00:20:50but
00:20:51you're toasting to your buddy over me
00:20:53i'm lost
00:20:54like
00:20:55who does that
00:20:56okay
00:20:57let's start again
00:20:58i know how far you've traveled
00:21:00what you've given up
00:21:01and you know
00:21:02what it's taken to get here
00:21:03so
00:21:04i am so excited for the next
00:21:06three weeks
00:21:07so
00:21:08this cheers
00:21:09is to you
00:21:11to you
00:21:12thank you
00:21:14thank you so much for letting me drag you out
00:21:18i didn't realize it was just like such a big holiday
00:21:20it's a national thing
00:21:21we have to go out and get drunk on melbourne cup
00:21:23it's the rules
00:21:24i would imagine the miami party scene's wild right
00:21:27it is wild
00:21:28i used to be out probably five nights a week
00:21:30but like
00:21:31i would say like this past
00:21:32i don't know seven eight months
00:21:33i've slowed down
00:21:35don't get me wrong
00:21:36like i like a fun night
00:21:37but i'm definitely trying to chill out
00:21:40do you guys go out a lot here
00:21:44um
00:21:47we party a bit yeah
00:21:50like i socialize a lot
00:21:51it's part of my job
00:21:53he's he's he's out
00:21:54you know he's out on boats most weekends
00:21:56his job is to drive boats
00:21:58and often times there's parties involved with that
00:22:00okay
00:22:01i mean give me a reason to
00:22:03not want to go out
00:22:05i think i've found it
00:22:07yeah
00:22:11listen like
00:22:12there's nothing wrong with going out and having a good time
00:22:15but i'm looking for a guy that's more ready to slow down
00:22:17like having nights in with me and my cat and snuggling
00:22:20and i want josh to be ready to change for himself
00:22:24not me you know
00:22:25on top of that
00:22:26like
00:22:27it seems very weird to me that josh was struggling financially
00:22:31but he parties a lot
00:22:32i'm like i'm concerned
00:22:34is he like really irresponsible
00:22:36i just got here i really just want to focus on the positives but i worry about that yeah
00:22:43yeah all right cheers
00:22:44cheers
00:22:45to not party anymore
00:22:48i'm not cheers to that
00:23:12how is he he's okay
00:23:15hey look at you standing my baby boy
00:23:25he seems better
00:23:27oh no no no no don't let him run
00:23:30last night javon and i finally arrived to cavite
00:23:35a little dirty
00:23:36we were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom
00:23:40but my cat mito got sick
00:23:43so we had to run him to the vet
00:23:46i look at you and your comb
00:23:48you don't like the comb
00:23:49nobody likes the comb
00:23:51yeah obviously
00:23:52unless it's ice cream comb
00:23:54i am so relieved that
00:23:57me too is okay
00:24:01and so
00:24:02today my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know javon more
00:24:09oh
00:24:16what did you throw something in the toilet
00:24:21it's clog
00:24:23what happened
00:24:24what did i do wrong
00:24:26no tissues
00:24:28in the toilet
00:24:29it's not going to flush
00:24:30i don't remember doing that
00:24:32like
00:24:33maybe i did
00:24:35and i wasn't aware
00:24:36i don't want to see it
00:24:37why
00:24:38i don't want to keep looking at your big american poof
00:24:42are you crazy
00:24:45okay my bad then
00:24:47first the thing
00:24:48the papers in the philippines
00:24:51don't dissolve in water
00:24:54oh
00:24:55that's why i put this here
00:24:56i feel really weird
00:24:58throwing away toilet paper
00:25:00that i've already wiped with my butt
00:25:02into the garbage
00:25:04that's why you have to use bidet first
00:25:06before you wipe
00:25:07how do i do it
00:25:08like i spread
00:25:10my ass cheeks like this
00:25:12and then i just
00:25:14yes that's the point of the water
00:25:17water is created to clean your butt
00:25:22i'm gonna go wash off mama's house
00:25:25all right
00:25:26okay
00:25:38oh ma you cooked
00:25:41looks good
00:25:42thank you
00:25:44morning
00:25:45yeah good morning
00:25:46that's a lot of food
00:25:48are we gonna be able to eat all this
00:25:50yes
00:25:51oh okay
00:25:53you have to tell me what everything is
00:25:57tilapia
00:25:58okay
00:25:59and your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs
00:26:05oh okay
00:26:07and of course we have some rice
00:26:09okay
00:26:09this is definitely not the typical breakfast i'm used to
00:26:14i was like damn is this breakfast or is this dinner
00:26:18but the food is great
00:26:19and i'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in-law
00:26:29my mom's asking how was your sleep last night
00:26:32my sleep was okay
00:26:34the cat was making a lot of noise
00:26:37the rooster
00:26:39the karaoke
00:26:40the karaoke
00:26:41yeah
00:26:42tapit bahay
00:26:44yeah
00:26:44pero saya na ako na nandito ka na
00:26:47she says she's happy that you're here
00:26:50okay
00:26:51okay
00:26:52till when you're staying here
00:26:57i'll probably be here like i don't know probably like two more weeks
00:27:03she said it's too fast
00:27:05i don't know
00:27:05why not one year
00:27:10i gotta go home sometime
00:27:13i don't want to
00:27:15it was about my daughter
00:27:18it was about my daughter
00:27:24saya ako na nakarating na si jubon dito
00:27:28sa filipinas
00:27:29sa bahay namin
00:27:31pero ang nararamdaman ko
00:27:33simpre
00:27:34ang taglal niyang
00:27:36lumating dito sa filipinas
00:27:39na ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko
00:27:47sa six years na paghihintay na anak ko
00:27:50alalang alala ako para sa kanya
00:27:53she said for six years that my daughter has been waiting for you
00:27:58i was so worried about her
00:28:02because she was sometimes i could see she was losing hope
00:28:06and also me
00:28:09i'm sorry it took so long though but i'm gonna make it up
00:28:12i'm gonna come back very soon
00:28:14i promise okay
00:28:15all right
00:28:32i understand why my mom is being skeptical
00:28:36i mean it took him six years to see me and we've been married for three years and we still
00:28:45don't have a different relationship
00:28:57we can't be going on with this long distance relationship for the rest of our lives i don't want to
00:29:04right now i don't feel secure about the future
00:29:13can we just be done with the country of marco
00:29:18don't be mad
00:29:19but
00:29:21don't be mad
00:29:26who's it
00:29:26muhammad
00:29:28oh my god
00:29:54oh my god
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:23Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:31For a single room or for two?
00:30:35Um, just one person. I just got dumped.
00:30:39Oh, sorry to Riyadh.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:19Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi! I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27Thank you so much!
00:31:30What's up? What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already. Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyadh everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you, and he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did...
00:32:50I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:57Like, what, like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch, and for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco?
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because...
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:17What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your...
00:34:21Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42I just don't want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like, I just...
00:34:57I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:00I don't do.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:04Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:19Cool.
00:35:20Emma, interview.
00:35:22I'll take money.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it.
00:35:30Just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:43I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something?
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01You too.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Mohammed just asked me...
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So, it's like...
00:36:22Um...
00:36:23What was his voice on?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed have been through a lot,
00:36:50and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:54So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him,
00:37:01I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about...
00:37:10You keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex
00:37:19just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:22So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:44So, you ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:58Sounds like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:38:09to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:17Hmm.
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about...
00:38:36You keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay
00:38:48to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight,
00:38:54we were walking around,
00:38:55and she gets to talking about this great place
00:38:58that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trisha's bringing up her ex
00:39:05just to get back at me, you know,
00:39:08because of what I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do
00:39:13is just make me jealous,
00:39:14and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me
00:39:21when I responded to you bragging about...
00:39:25Yeah, because you said, like,
00:39:26oh, this is a place that your ex took you,
00:39:29and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy...
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:43That means you appreciate what he has done for you
00:39:46more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02Oh, okay.
00:40:03I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:08I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex
00:40:20and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards
00:40:45when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience
00:40:56to that place, to this place,
00:40:58and it was nice.
00:40:59That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something,
00:41:02oh, I'm talking with him
00:41:05or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be
00:41:26committed to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed,
00:41:33I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much, and I want this relationship
00:41:50to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head,
00:42:01but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able to fully trust me
00:42:06after what I did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:42:13it's just all too much.
00:42:15I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:57Michael, he's coming.
00:43:00Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking, without telling anything, nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me and said he wants to protect me
00:43:23from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know, that I would think about him coming,
00:43:30but I woke up this morning to a bunch of texts from him
00:43:35saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Chesme, Michael offered to come to Turkey
00:43:45so he could give me his perspective
00:43:47on my relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it,
00:43:53but before I even had a chance to,
00:43:56Michael texted me and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings about my friendship
00:44:04with Michael, I am concerned that this will complicate
00:44:08the progress that Birkan and I have made.
00:44:11But on the other hand,
00:44:14Michael is always the person that I'm going to turn to
00:44:16when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward,
00:44:21I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical, he's very insightful,
00:44:55and I value his opinion.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out,
00:45:02so why don't I get to have that same opportunity
00:45:04to have my friends meet you
00:45:06and have you get along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to f*** me.
00:45:13He made that move, it's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:19Before she came here,
00:45:22Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael,
00:45:26and he said that I am the obstacle
00:45:29to those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends,
00:45:37but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up
00:45:43while she is confused about our relationship.
00:45:47This is a strategy.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to, like, calm down
00:46:11and just meet him.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is okay
00:46:21and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:25Okay.
00:46:27Okay.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:37I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already f***ing coming.
00:46:41He didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:45I just hope that Michael doesn't f***ing up
00:46:48my entire future and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58We have a reservation.
00:47:07Okay.
00:47:09You can speak Turkish.
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can speak English.
00:47:13Okay, thank you.
00:47:15You know what the Turkish say?
00:47:16Cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm just cheering.
00:47:18I don't know.
00:47:19Sherefe.
00:47:20Sherefe?
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:22Sherefe.
00:47:24Sherefe.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting
00:47:45in this cute little town that's right near the ruins,
00:47:48but BeerCon's pissed, and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're, like, pounding it like a shot.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:16This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:48:24Okay, let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26You're welcome.
00:48:27Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:53That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now, I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:11This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:26So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it, get rid of it, take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:40Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:43Daniel!
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:56Left here and we're just up here on the left.
00:50:00Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:02Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:04Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:05Yeah, I really like that.
00:50:06Get what you see.
00:50:07Everybody like that.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' place.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely delirious, completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on, I went to the mother bar
00:50:32and now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:36Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Just shut the door, would you?
00:50:45Else?
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her?
00:50:48Oh my God, this is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh no.
00:50:51Yes.
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:56You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward
00:51:00and like be positive
00:51:01and show him that like I'm not a complainer.
00:51:04It's f***ing small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of like Josh
00:51:10getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial
00:51:15and like I would have settled for a smaller place
00:51:18without a roommate.
00:51:19Like no offence, love you Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:23Oh!
00:51:25What?
00:51:26Wait, wait, wait, what?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:30Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32I put it up.
00:51:33Yeah.
00:51:33Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that
00:51:40but I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So like what?
00:51:43When we're having sex
00:51:43we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex
00:51:47it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:55Excuse me.
00:51:56So I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high def.
00:52:02I mean all of my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal
00:52:06having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:08She's just been a voice
00:52:09on the other end of the phone
00:52:11so it'll be interesting to see
00:52:12how you know
00:52:14we both react
00:52:15to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get
00:52:28like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not
00:52:31do you just have a dryer?
00:52:37It looks like it could be
00:52:38an adjustment.
00:52:40There's like literally
00:52:41only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm going to need more pillows.
00:52:48We can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows
00:52:51steamer
00:52:51in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list
00:52:54so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Alright guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:03Alright.
00:53:05This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get
00:53:08comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10Okay perfect.
00:53:11I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here
00:53:16I told Joshua
00:53:17I wanted to take things slow
00:53:18so he's going to sleep
00:53:19on the couch.
00:53:20That way we're both
00:53:21avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like he's hot.
00:53:28Like sending him away
00:53:29it's hard
00:53:30but like
00:53:31I came here
00:53:31wanting to do
00:53:32things differently
00:53:33like not leading
00:53:34with sex
00:53:34but at the same time
00:53:36I wanted to make him
00:53:37you know
00:53:37see a little glimpse
00:53:39of what he might be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you going to come
00:53:54say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's
00:54:02you know why?
00:54:03You look like
00:54:04someone killed you.
00:54:05Yeah I'm getting killed
00:54:06inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08Alright well
00:54:09come take a night to me.
00:54:10Thanks.
00:54:23goodnight.
00:54:23Goodnight.
00:54:26It's going to be a hard sleep
00:54:27on the couch
00:54:27but yeah
00:54:28it's good to try
00:54:29and connect more
00:54:30on that emotional level
00:54:31than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat
00:54:33I think that probably
00:54:34you know
00:54:34that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want
00:54:37to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world
00:54:40of course I would
00:54:40as soon as I saw it
00:54:41I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor
00:54:43but um
00:54:43you know
00:54:46I'm really happy
00:54:47that we have
00:54:48a really strong connection
00:54:49straight away
00:54:50from the moment we met
00:54:52but um
00:54:52I haven't shared
00:54:53my whole life
00:54:54with um
00:54:54Elise yet
00:54:55I'm a bit worried
00:54:56that she might
00:54:57you know
00:54:57find out some things
00:54:58you know
00:54:58parts of my life
00:54:59that she's not
00:55:00exactly happy with
00:55:01I just hope
00:55:02I can show her
00:55:02that I'm a good person
00:55:03you know
00:55:04with flaws
00:55:04but a good person
00:55:05and hopefully
00:55:06she falls in love
00:55:07with me.
00:55:24Okay
00:55:25we have to pack
00:55:37Daniel
00:55:37are you sure
00:55:38you're okay
00:55:38going on this trip
00:55:39with me?
00:55:40Um yeah
00:55:42yeah sure
00:55:45since I'm now
00:55:46settled
00:55:46with Lisa
00:55:47I'm still really
00:55:48hurt
00:55:49with all the
00:55:50offense
00:55:50she have
00:55:50committed
00:55:51by telling lies
00:55:53but
00:55:54I decided
00:55:55to go on
00:55:55this trip
00:55:56with her
00:55:57I hope
00:55:58we didn't forget
00:55:58anything
00:55:59I don't know
00:56:00I don't think so
00:56:00I think we're good
00:56:03this is going
00:56:04to be difficult
00:56:04but
00:56:05I will try
00:56:06my best
00:56:07to have
00:56:08a good time
00:56:14I never
00:56:15wanted to
00:56:16hurt you
00:56:18long ride
00:56:19we'll get there
00:56:20pretty late
00:56:20so
00:56:21what is the place
00:56:22like
00:56:23it's a lake
00:56:24yeah there will be
00:56:25a lot of nature
00:56:26in the area
00:56:27to look at
00:56:28and lots of
00:56:29activities to do
00:56:30so
00:56:31I thought it would
00:56:32be enjoyable
00:56:33for us
00:56:34thank you
00:56:35thank you
00:56:36thank you
00:56:37thank you
00:56:48you're thinking
00:56:49where the hell
00:56:49is she taking me
00:56:51you know we call
00:56:52these in America
00:56:53the boonies
00:56:54the boondocks
00:56:56the boondocks
00:56:56where there's no
00:56:57real civilization
00:56:59it's just
00:57:00just woods
00:57:04here we are
00:57:05it's a nice place
00:57:07I hope
00:57:10I have booked
00:57:11a resort
00:57:12in Bagary
00:57:14Nigeria
00:57:15it's the western
00:57:16part of Lagos
00:57:17the pictures
00:57:18online
00:57:19looked really nice
00:57:20and it's
00:57:21in my price range
00:57:22so
00:57:23I'm hoping
00:57:24this place
00:57:25is fun
00:57:25and romantic
00:57:26and can help
00:57:27us reconnect
00:57:29oh wow
00:57:30I like it
00:57:31what do you think
00:57:35nice little space
00:57:36right
00:57:36it's nice
00:57:37it's fine
00:57:38it's nice
00:57:38oh my god
00:57:42what is it
00:57:44yes
00:57:45it's a spider
00:57:46no
00:57:47that could be
00:57:48poisonous
00:57:48I've not seen
00:57:49someone
00:57:50bitten by
00:57:51a spider
00:57:51before
00:57:54I have
00:57:55I'm not gonna
00:57:56sleep in here
00:57:56with a spider
00:57:57I'm terrified
00:57:59of this spider
00:57:59because I don't
00:58:00know what kind
00:58:00of spider it is
00:58:01this thing
00:58:02is in Africa
00:58:03this could be
00:58:04dangerous
00:58:04don't you dare
00:58:06fling it towards
00:58:07me
00:58:11is it dead
00:58:12just much
00:58:13it's moving
00:58:16kill it
00:58:17step on it
00:58:18get rid of it
00:58:19take it outside
00:58:20no
00:58:23Daniel
00:58:25all right
00:58:25stop
00:58:26leave it
00:58:26I will kill it
00:58:27I will kill it
00:58:29no don't kick it
00:58:30again
00:58:30stop
00:58:32stop kicking it
00:58:36where'd it go
00:58:38Daniel get it off
00:58:39my shoe
00:58:40okay
00:58:41don't kick it
00:58:42at me
00:58:43I have a phobia
00:58:45of spiders
00:58:46it's just spider
00:58:47no
00:58:48it's not just
00:58:49a spider
00:58:50it was huge
00:58:51it was like
00:58:51tarantula
00:58:52kill the size spider
00:58:54you are so rude
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders
00:58:58I told you to kill the spider
00:59:00why didn't you kill the spider
00:59:01I have sandals on
00:59:03just spider
00:59:03ordinary spider
00:59:04it's not an ordinary spider
00:59:05it's a vicious spider
00:59:07this is room you paid for
00:59:08you know where the spider's coming from
00:59:10you kill the spider
00:59:11kill it
00:59:11no you kill it
00:59:14we're here now right
00:59:18so what are we here for
00:59:21it's a romantic getaway
00:59:23romantic
00:59:24yes
00:59:25yes
00:59:30she wants us to have a romantic trip
00:59:33but it's very hard for me
00:59:36I am feeling tense
00:59:40because I don't know
00:59:41what my uncle is going to do
00:59:43whether he will cancel this marriage
00:59:46I don't like waiting
00:59:47you know to talk to him
00:59:49you should enjoy it
00:59:51you came
00:59:52why'd you come
00:59:53if you're not going to enjoy it
00:59:54honest
00:59:55you know why I'm here right
00:59:57no I have no idea
00:59:58why you decided to come
00:59:59no
01:00:01I'm here because
01:00:03I don't want the money
01:00:04you paid to be
01:00:05to be a West
01:00:08that's the only reason
01:00:09why you came
01:00:12so
01:00:14no um
01:00:15no sex
01:00:17no kissing
01:00:24why don't you just wait
01:00:26a couple days
01:00:26just a couple days
01:00:28we can
01:00:29we can make this work
01:00:30for a couple days
01:00:31Daniel I need a couple days
01:00:33to do what
01:00:34just to get my head together
01:00:37and then we call your uncle
01:00:42I need a couple days
01:00:43because I have to come clean to Daniel
01:00:45about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle
01:00:49but he's already so angry with me
01:00:52how am I going to get through it
01:00:55I am terrified
01:00:56that Daniel's going to leave me forever
01:00:58once he finds out
01:01:00I need a day or two
01:01:02that's all I'm asking for
01:01:03I want to have a day or two with you
01:01:12this is what never ends
01:01:15why do you do this
01:01:16is your mom always just bossy
01:01:19you want traditional roles
01:01:21when it applies to you
01:01:24I'm just done with this conversation
01:01:26you know you used to be a lot softer
01:01:28and sweeter
01:01:29you don't want a bitchy wife
01:01:31don't be a asshole
01:01:40you don't want a bitchy wife
01:02:02no
01:02:16what's wrong really yeah really you don't help me with anything like this laundry and this
01:02:26this one never ends why do you do this what the
01:02:34it's been nice having javon in my house but i'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our
01:02:42long-distance relationship on top of that now that javon and i are living together in one house
01:02:50slowly but baby i get to see how he is he's very messy and i just puts the clothes and
01:03:03the towels
01:03:03everywhere i feel like i have a toddler and i always have to pick up stuff from male to male
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy what i heard that we just haven't got time i heard that
01:03:21no me too loves me yeah well i love you too man i mean doesn't mean that you're not bossy
01:03:28what's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks there's nothing wrong with that
01:03:32anna it's how you're delivering anna what do you want from me instead of coming in the room say
01:03:38javon pick up your stuff you know you can just say oh if you don't mind could you just pick
01:03:45up your
01:03:45stuff
01:03:48javon yeah no matter how much i put it if you really would like to pick up that socks you
01:03:53would have
01:03:55see you don't see that i do actually you do but you don't do it no
01:04:03and like every time i talk to you you leave the room
01:04:18we all we do is talk that's all we do all right well i'm gonna try a little action today
01:04:25would you like to go get our like a manicure like our feet done
01:04:33well you definitely need a pedicure
01:04:38okay
01:04:46i feel sorry for whoever's gonna clean your feet
01:04:51dang how bad do you think my feet is anna's always complained that i'm not romantic enough
01:04:59but it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot still you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for anna to show her you know what i appreciate what you do
01:05:11hi good afternoon hello hello pa i just hope that she sees that i'm making a real effort here
01:05:20so it's like barbie threw up in here
01:05:24suits you so well look at you
01:05:26yeah sitting like a queen it's all pink
01:05:31i like it i know you did
01:05:36there you go
01:05:37yeah
01:05:40yeah
01:05:41see i told you
01:05:44it just feels weird
01:05:47oh that's nice
01:05:49oh my god boo that's a lot
01:05:53you doing okay over there
01:05:56i'm so tired
01:06:02is this being romantic
01:06:05yeah
01:06:05did i pass the test today
01:06:06kind of
01:06:08okay
01:06:08yeah
01:06:08thank you some cool points
01:06:10i like that
01:06:13you still have to be nicer to me though
01:06:16and i'll do more nice things
01:06:19like if i leave like underwear or sops on the floor
01:06:24you know will you be nice
01:06:28no
01:06:28no
01:06:29i mean you can be nice to me but not by not dropping them on the floor
01:06:38i know but anna you know you used to be a lot softer and sweeter and you know more patient
01:06:44with me
01:06:45you know what i think it is it's just i think that you knew i wasn't going anywhere and you
01:06:49got comfortable
01:06:53being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like okay well i got this person
01:06:59i don't have to try anymore you know he's always going to be there no matter what
01:07:13i don't understand where did this come from do you get it from those videos that you've been watching about
01:07:21masculinity and other things
01:07:24no that's my that's that's that's all my idea i take full credit for that
01:07:32it's just odd because i feel like over the couple of years watching all these videos you've changed and
01:07:40i love who you are
01:07:43but anna this is who i was when you first met me
01:07:46no you're not
01:07:48you were not that prideful before i feel like your idea of being a husband changed
01:07:55you see it like a power
01:07:57i don't have any that's the problem like i feel like probably you need to feel powerful
01:08:02no
01:08:02i feel like i have all the responsibility with no authority because when i tell you to do something
01:08:08you don't listen to me so what are you talking about
01:08:13you want traditional roles when it when it applies to you i always have to take care of
01:08:19everything financially so as your husband i feel like having to say is nice you know it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful
01:08:30ah just done with this conversation
01:08:37why did you bring me here well i wanted you to have a good time yes but if you were
01:08:43do i look like i'm having a good time but you set me up you were asking me questions and
01:08:48i just
01:08:48answered them honestly you ever heard the term you know you don't want to hear the answers so
01:08:54cease from asking dumbass questions
01:08:57you ever think about that and you don't want to bitch your wife don't be a asshole
01:09:04i can just sit here and get my feet done like i don't have to
01:09:09then just stay here okay don't come home you need to calm down
01:09:18i don't want to see you ever again
01:09:22don't come home ever
01:09:26jerk
01:09:29you're disgusting
01:09:33hey i will see you soon
01:09:35all right i cannot believe michael is actually here in turkey
01:09:41he said to tell you hi
01:09:43i'm not saying hi
01:09:47you want to open it
01:09:49hey hi friend
01:09:51oh my god
01:10:12i have a phone call
01:10:20hello
01:10:22hey good morning
01:10:24good morning how are you
01:10:29um
01:10:30my hotel won't be ready until like two o'clock
01:10:34uh
01:10:35is there any chance i can point in my say hello
01:10:40it's totally fine with me i mean
01:10:43i was just gonna say i pin dropped you my location
01:10:46yeah okay i will uh i will see you soon i wish for walking in your direction
01:10:51all right
01:10:52be careful
01:10:55thanks
01:10:55bye bye
01:10:56bye
01:11:06i'm a little bit worried that michael's here
01:11:09now now that this is real and he actually showed up in turkey
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself
01:11:18i'm incredibly nervous and i feel like i'm about to die
01:11:27hey
01:11:28hey
01:11:29that was michael
01:11:31what is he saying
01:11:35he said to tell you hi
01:11:37what
01:11:39why
01:11:41why
01:11:42because
01:11:42i'm not saying
01:11:43well
01:11:46he's gonna be here
01:11:48at this apartment
01:11:50this apartment
01:11:51and about
01:11:52turkey is okay but this apartment
01:11:5510 minutes
01:12:01i cannot believe
01:12:03that michael is actually here in turkey
01:12:06he dropped everything to get on a plane for me
01:12:10i mean it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated
01:12:22so you think this is normal
01:12:27well
01:12:29i think he's just concerned about me
01:12:33yeah
01:12:34sure
01:12:36that's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other
01:12:40yeah i believe him
01:12:42he's such a good heart
01:12:50i'm not five years old
01:12:51i don't eat that
01:12:55your friend is trying to this connection
01:12:58and you're like
01:12:59yay
01:13:01okay
01:13:03it's like i don't get it
01:13:06i never wanted him to come
01:13:08and i still don't want him to come
01:13:11i think he's coming in turkey
01:13:14to mix up laura's mind
01:13:16maybe talk some about me
01:13:18give laura more doubts
01:13:20but if
01:13:23but if
01:13:24if
01:13:24our relationship is
01:13:25gonna end
01:13:26because of michael
01:13:28i don't blame michael
01:13:30i will blame laura
01:13:37you want to open it
01:13:39yeah i do actually
01:13:41thank you
01:13:47hey
01:13:48hi friend
01:13:49oh my god
01:13:50i cannot believe you're in turkey
01:13:52is it safe to come in
01:13:55yes
01:13:55oh my god
01:13:56wild
01:13:57oh my god
01:14:23yeah this is fantastic right
01:14:25i hope my hotel room looks like this
01:14:27holy cow
01:14:29hi michael
01:14:31nice to meet you finally
01:14:32i've heard so much about you
01:14:34yeah
01:14:35you probably heard
01:14:38okay
01:14:45make yourself at home
01:14:46okay
01:14:47you want something to drink
01:14:49tea
01:14:50yeah anything like that
01:14:51okay
01:14:52just have a seat right here
01:14:53i don't know how it works
01:14:54do the women make tea here
01:14:55or do the boys do it
01:14:57boys
01:14:58the boys make the tea
01:15:00they call men
01:15:02if they are grown up
01:15:03oh okay
01:15:07um
01:15:09would you like anything
01:15:10nope
01:15:11nope i am perfect
01:15:13thank you
01:15:27so bunny what you're watching
01:15:30scarface
01:15:36you like american classic movies
01:15:38no
01:15:43i like mob stuff
01:15:45i enjoy pretty much violence
01:15:53do you like
01:15:56do you like this movie or
01:15:58violence
01:15:59do you like this movie or violence
01:15:59do you like this movie or violence
01:16:05golly i i'll be honest with you i don't know what to make of beer con
01:16:09um i know i just kind of dropped it on him but he's talking about violence to me on the
01:16:14couch
01:16:14if that's truly who he is and that's truly who he is and i can't imagine that's healthy for laura
01:16:20my first impression of america is that laura and i are more compatible than i think uh than beer con
01:16:24and she are so i want to make sure that she makes the right choice
01:16:35i love you so much
01:16:37but stop telling me that stop we're hurting some secrets
01:16:41all i can think about is how there's more to tell him and i have to get it said before
01:16:47he goes to his uncle
01:16:48it has to be tonight
01:16:50so i have more to tell you then
01:16:52more to tell me
01:17:01is this really how it ends
01:17:05can we go back to where it all began
01:17:10all i really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to where you love me again
01:17:19good morning
01:17:20good morning
01:17:24you're going to sleep
01:17:26you're going to sleep
01:17:27you're going to sleep
01:17:28you kept me awake
01:17:28i know
01:17:30i didn't mean to keep you awake
01:17:32i couldn't help it
01:17:33i was sad
01:17:33you almost went to bed with tears
01:17:42why were you crying
01:17:44i feel bad about everything that transpired
01:17:48but i feel better this morning
01:17:50yeah because i i cuddled you right
01:17:53and you were crying so loud so i have to
01:17:56i have to cuddled you you know
01:18:01last night i cried myself to sleep
01:18:03and all i could think about is how i have to tell daniel my secret
01:18:07and i'm scared i'm going to lose him forever
01:18:10but daniel held me all night
01:18:12so i'm waking up feeling a little hopeful
01:18:16today is a new day
01:18:18and i'm hoping that we can explore and have some fun together
01:18:23i'd like to look at the lake
01:18:25and i'd like to walk around and see what else there is
01:18:28that's fine
01:18:29all right let's get dressed
01:18:40come on
01:18:42let's go down towards the water
01:18:46oh my gosh
01:18:49this is a whole resort and there's nobody here
01:18:59it's not like it's pictures
01:19:03it's pretty desolate actually
01:19:06and it's a bit run down
01:19:10you want to smile a little bit
01:19:13but maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is gonna help me with daniel
01:19:20maybe it's a little bit more intimate for the two of us
01:19:26water is so big
01:19:27yeah it's so big the water
01:19:33oh look at this
01:19:34this is neat
01:19:35let's have one
01:19:37two please
01:19:41i feel that things are going back to normal
01:19:44like
01:19:44this is trying to rebuild
01:19:46our relationship
01:19:48oh wow
01:19:51delicious
01:19:52let's go for a bike ride
01:19:53can you ride a bike
01:19:56i don't know
01:19:57i will try
01:19:59to me i welcomed it
01:20:01i want us to be together
01:20:02because i love her
01:20:07you know it takes muscle to pull this
01:20:09yes that's why you're doing the pedaling and i'm doing the steering
01:20:13look up the pace
01:20:24i feel so light and so good in this moment with daniel
01:20:28he is having fun and seeing the smile on his face as he's doing it
01:20:33i really feel like we're reconnecting
01:20:36are you having fun
01:20:37yes i am
01:20:39see this is exactly what we needed
01:20:43i want to just enjoy myself but i can't because all i can think about
01:20:47is how there is more to tell him and i have to get it said before he goes to his
01:20:52uncle
01:20:52it has to be tonight
01:21:16it's a bonfire honey
01:21:17we're dancers
01:21:20i'm enjoying the sun
01:21:24this is beautiful
01:21:26have a seat
01:21:27let's watch them
01:21:28let's enjoy it
01:21:32it's beautiful isn't it
01:21:37thank you
01:21:38thank you
01:21:42this is nice
01:21:44are you glad you gave me one more day
01:21:50i'm enjoying spending time with you
01:21:51this is what this few days is about
01:21:54do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit
01:21:58i really want us to reconnect
01:22:01you know i miss the way we used to be
01:22:04but i'm trying to respect our tradition
01:22:08we have to call my uncle
01:22:10when i call him i will beg on our behalf
01:22:14i love you
01:22:15i want to make you
01:22:19i want to you know love you forever
01:22:21but
01:22:23stop telling me that
01:22:24stop with hurting some secrets
01:22:27okay
01:22:29i understand
01:22:30okay
01:22:33so i have more to tell you then
01:22:36more to tell me
01:22:40what do you mean
01:22:43so
01:22:44like in nigeria
01:22:45it's not legal
01:22:47for
01:22:49men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women
01:22:51right
01:22:51it's not legal
01:22:52it's not
01:22:53in america it is
01:22:56yes i've had of that
01:23:01so
01:23:02my last marriage wasn't with a man
01:23:07i'm divorcing a woman daniel
01:23:12and i've been with more than one woman
01:23:16you're the first man that i've been with in 21 years
01:23:21because um
01:23:30it's not
01:23:32it's not as bad
01:23:33don't come close to me
01:23:39next time on before the 90 days
01:23:46having female friends can be hard to juggle
01:23:49but i want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about
01:23:51today i found out that he was living with you
01:23:54yeah
01:23:54yeah i think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of
01:23:58no
01:23:58financial hold
01:23:59no
01:24:01are you jealous of me
01:24:02in our relationship
01:24:08we're officially on the gp
01:24:11i only have a week left here in the philippines
01:24:14and i don't want to waste any time in bringing sheena to america
01:24:18so i have to be very clear here
01:24:20if you file today for the k1 vision
01:24:25it will be denied
01:24:30i just feel really hopeless because
01:24:34i'm putting in massive effort
01:24:36and at this moment i'm at a crossroads
01:24:39i don't know how to move forward
01:24:46i'm excited to see my family
01:24:49you think they're gonna be happy to see
01:24:51yeah to see me
01:24:52what about me
01:24:53i don't know
01:24:55i feel scared
01:24:58my family won't accept rick
01:25:01when they don't like something
01:25:03they are really aggressive
01:25:05rick doesn't know what he's in for
01:25:08they want babies
01:25:20you have a lot of secrets
01:25:22i have no more secrets
01:25:24shut your mouth
01:25:25you have been touched by a woman
01:25:27not even women
01:25:30where they range
01:25:34daniel's not gonna accept me for who i am
01:25:36you know what
01:25:38him
01:25:40him
01:25:43she's us
01:25:44she's
01:25:44you
01:25:45she's
01:25:45she's
01:25:46she's
01:25:46she's
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