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00:00Previously on 1,000 Pound Sisters...
00:03There's one thing for certain, I know I want a first dance with my husband.
00:11If I had known breakdancing would have turned into an Olympic sport, I would have stuck with it, but, I
00:15mean, who saw that coming?
00:17I'm planning on asking Amy to go to the animal shelter with me.
00:22I think it's a great idea.
00:24Technically right now everything is semi-okay with Amy.
00:27But at the same time, it feels like we're drifting apart.
00:32She used to be my best friend.
00:36Lily's gonna be my middle owner.
00:38After every day, I'm gonna win this midnight.
00:43And she's doing this to me.
00:47Man, what the hell happened this morning?
00:49In the group chat, Amy backed out of going to the animal shelter.
00:54And Tammy lost her...
01:00She called me a deadbeat mom, you know?
01:03Tammy went too far.
01:04You can say what you want about Amy, but she does her best with the boys.
01:26Even though I mostly moved in with Andrea, I still have a lot of stuff at the Yellow House.
01:31So, I decided to go and clean up and hang out for a little bit.
01:36And an old friend of the family is gonna stop by.
01:41Man!
01:44Oh my god!
01:46It's late.
01:47And girl, look at you!
01:49My god!
01:51How much weight have you lost?
01:53How much weight have you lost?
01:55Well, look, I've got you a few things.
01:57My relationship with Tammy started in 1993.
02:01I was working as an administrator for a church at the time.
02:05So, in the summer, I would pick up kids and we'd take them to Evansville and do those kind of
02:08things.
02:09So, look here.
02:11No.
02:13I'm done with you.
02:14Yeah, well, you need to be.
02:16One time, we was going to a water park and I remember pulling up to their house and Tammy's sticking
02:22her head out.
02:22I was like, who is that?
02:24And Amy says, that's fat Tammy, she can't go.
02:27And I was like, well, if fat Tammy can't go, fat Amy can't go.
02:29And I walked in the house, got Tammy, she got in the front of the van, and we've had a
02:35connection practically ever since then.
02:38You're a totally different person.
02:40I can't believe it.
02:43The last time I saw Tammy at Caleb's memorial service, she was mobile, but she was still very overweight.
02:52To be honest, I thought that was going to be her limit.
02:56And then when I saw Tammy today, I was totally shocked.
03:00If I would have seen Tammy anywhere besides here, I wouldn't have even known it was her.
03:04What surgeries did you have done?
03:07I had my apron removed, my upper arms.
03:10Oh, my girl.
03:12They put fat right here in my upper cheeks and my line right here to make my small little upper
03:20not down.
03:21Well, because they know you got that resting bitch face, you know?
03:24They're trying to make you somebody young.
03:26Is that what it is?
03:27No, I'm teasing.
03:29I love Billy.
03:31He's an ordained minister and a registered nurse.
03:35And he has been there through all the ups and downs throughout my life.
03:42I got it.
03:44All right.
03:45Friends and families, I present Caleb and Tammy Willingham.
03:55So, how's the family?
03:59Falling apart.
04:00Girl.
04:02Amy's done blocked me.
04:05It's never been this bad.
04:08I haven't heard from Amy since our text fight.
04:11She's blocked me on everything.
04:14This is the first time Amy's ever blocked me.
04:17But she's not hurting nobody but herself because she's lost her sister, the one that was there for her for
04:24everything.
04:26I asked her to go to the animal shelter and she's like PTSD, PTSD, PTSD.
04:33From what, bitch?
04:35Wait a minute.
04:36She just got bit by a camel.
04:39What's she talking about?
04:40Oh, well.
04:41There you go, PTSD.
04:42You go to pet stores and get snakes and cats.
04:47What's the difference?
04:49Oh.
04:50There's nothing bigger than a dog or the animal shelter.
04:56Maybe apologize and say you didn't put the big dogs and the camels together.
05:02And sometimes that's all it takes is, right, is doing that.
05:07Tammy's argument with her sister makes no sense to me whatsoever.
05:11Tammy and Amy have come so far.
05:14And it wasn't because they were separated.
05:16It was because they were together.
05:17And my hopes is that they realize they need each other.
05:22Anyway, Amy called and asked me about marrying them.
05:29So, which I'm more than happy to do it, but I do have to, you know, just like you and
05:34Caleb,
05:34I gotta get with him and see what's needed.
05:39Amy asked Billy to officiate her wedding.
05:41It's kind of funny.
05:43He did mine.
05:45Now you want him to do yours.
05:48But she's always been jealous of me.
05:51Good luck.
05:53Because he's not going to do it if he don't think they're ready.
05:58I'm not going to judge him because that's not my, well, I know that you are.
06:03But it's, we learn it's not our place to judge.
06:05However, we can, we can have high opinions.
06:08And you know that with your, your whole family.
06:10If you have an opinion about something, nobody else's opinion matters.
06:15Nobody's.
06:26Oh, look.
06:27We're here, Daddy.
06:28We are.
06:29You want to go on in?
06:30No, we gotta wait for everybody.
06:33All right.
06:35It's so good that the wedding is finally coming out of my head and becoming a reality.
06:41You know, we have a venue, we have flowers.
06:43And today, me, Chris, Misty, Brittany, and Brian are all going wedding cake tasting for my wedding.
06:50I was going to have Tammy at my cake testing, but she don't want nothing to do with me, so
06:55her.
06:57Like, I'm done trying.
06:58I threw out all my olive branches.
07:00They ain't got no more on the tree.
07:02She rebuked every one of them and lit them on fire.
07:08What's up, sis?
07:09Hey, what's up?
07:10This is us.
07:11This is the cake decorating or cake testing crew.
07:14It's the cake tasting team.
07:16Okay.
07:17Look, I'm a fat kid.
07:18Let's get here and try some cake.
07:20The truth is, Tammy not being here sucks.
07:24But she's too damn hard-headed to say I'm sorry.
07:27And I think 10 years down the road, Tammy will have remorse about not being a part of Amy's special
07:36day.
07:37Hello.
07:38I have an appointment for a cake tasting.
07:40Okay, is it Amy?
07:41Yes.
07:42Yes.
07:42Perfect.
07:44With cake tasting, typically I just meet with the bride and the mom of the bride.
07:49Sometimes it's the groom, but it's usually just like two or three people.
07:54So when they walked in, I was kind of taken back because it was the whole family.
07:58Thank y'all so much for coming.
07:59It really does mean a lot to me.
08:01Oh, you're welcome.
08:02I'm glad you give me a reason to cheat on my diet.
08:06All right.
08:07So the one on the very end is the cookies and cream.
08:11Copy that.
08:13Actually, that ain't bad.
08:14That is good.
08:15But Lord, it's sweet.
08:16We are all used to sugar free stuff.
08:19So when we get sugar, it's like, whoa.
08:21Yeah.
08:22The next one is actually a banana cake.
08:26This is good.
08:29I haven't had sugar in two or three months.
08:32So I'm ready for some cake.
08:35I'm just going to take little bitty teeny bites.
08:39So I'm not depriving myself, but I still get a little taste of it.
08:43The next one is salted caramel.
08:45It's infused with caramel on the inside.
08:47You got to get to the good part.
08:49You can go deep sea diving in here.
08:51Yeah.
08:52So what's the plan?
08:53Are you going to feed her or are you just going to smash it in his face?
08:56I'm not going to smash it because I'm going to hurt somebody.
09:00I'm not smashing through.
09:01I'd be worth it just for us, for you to just what?
09:05If he gives me permission.
09:07What?
09:07You don't ask for permission.
09:08You don't have to ask for permission.
09:09You beg for forgiveness later.
09:10Yes.
09:12If you're smashing the tank in your face, I'm good.
09:14I don't remember.
09:14Okay.
09:14See, I got permission.
09:18Would you guys say that you're bonding with Brian at all today?
09:22I don't know about bonding.
09:24We don't bond.
09:26Not really.
09:26We tolerate.
09:27Yeah.
09:28They're bed warmers until they've been around for 10 years.
09:31After 10 years, then we kind of...
09:33So I'm still a bed warmer?
09:35You've been around 10 years.
09:36We haven't been married 10.
09:38No, but we've been together over...
09:39Been together 10, so that's what I'm talking about.
09:42Phew.
09:45You know Dr. Schmidt's going to read us right after...
09:48You know...
09:49I think he'll be okay, just one exception.
09:51No, because there's no cheat days.
09:53Not supposed to be.
09:55Like, I try to eat healthy.
09:57But I'm going to need the energy, you know.
09:58I'm going to have my sons there, plus, you know, getting married.
10:02And I'm going to need the sugar.
10:04Go big or go home, like...
10:06The past few months, I gained a lot of weight.
10:08I know I did.
10:09And right now, I'm still not at a healthy size.
10:13But now I'm trying to get my weight right for the wedding.
10:16And skin removal is more important to me now than ever, because...
10:20I ain't going to lie, my dumb lap pisses me off sometimes.
10:24Your what?
10:25My dumb lap.
10:26My belly.
10:27My floopy.
10:28Like, if you crawl on the floor with your boys, right?
10:31I once kicked my damn floopy.
10:37That's a serious condition, man.
10:45I like this one.
10:50Ugh.
11:03Amy says that she's on her diet.
11:06You know how you lose that fabulous five right before you get in that dress?
11:11Don't look at me like that.
11:12You know what I'm talking about?
11:13I know what you're talking about.
11:14I just don't see Amy doing it.
11:17She was eating the out of that icing, and that icing ain't nothing but sugar.
11:22We can't eat nothing else the rest of the day.
11:23No, we don't blow our calories.
11:25Even with the little teeny bites?
11:27Don't matter.
11:29You're blowing your calories looking at him.
11:39Are we hot?
11:40No.
11:44Are you okay?
11:52I know you miss her.
11:53You can't like her.
11:55I know Tammy got very rolled up with the text and stuff, but it's because she misses her
12:00so bad, so she acts out.
12:03I'd just like to see y'all reconcile, is all I mean.
12:09Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
12:11This is not what I expected.
12:12I thought there was going to be Halloween costumes.
12:14It's more than three words.
12:16I didn't know the power of clothing until I tried on that dress.
12:22Amy ain't the queen no more.
12:24I've been nodded now.
12:36How you doing over there, boss?
12:38You all right?
12:40Do you feel like your blood sugar's going crazy?
12:43I don't know.
12:46I'm feeling funny.
12:47Yeah, it's called dumping syndrome.
12:51Yeah, she will get dumping syndrome because she had the bypass.
12:55Mm-hmm.
12:55Yeah.
12:56No.
12:58A lot of bariatric patients do get dumping syndrome after they have the weight loss surgery.
13:05It happens when you eat too many bites and your stomach can't hold it, and it goes off
13:10to your small intestine before it should.
13:13I just feel strange and off, like my forehead's sweating.
13:16I'm feeling like something's about to come up the pipes that ain't supposed to come up.
13:37But after a while, it'll just feel better.
13:41Y'all want to try this last one?
13:44All right, so it's a chocolate turtle.
13:46It's filled with caramel and pecans.
13:48It already sounds good.
13:49I ain't even touched it.
13:51Today, Amy failed wholeheartedly on her diet.
13:55You can't eat like that after bariatric surgery.
13:59She can ignore the whole damn diet if she wants to, but her ass whiter than her shoulders, you can't
14:04deny.
14:07She wants to think it's a problem that's going to go away on its own.
14:10No, bitch.
14:11You're going to be in the same boat you were five, six years ago.
14:16So what if we just do this banana one?
14:18The turtle and the salted caramel.
14:21Could I request the turtle be in the top, like the...
14:24Oh, yeah.
14:25To do the cake with it.
14:26Yes, I love it.
14:42I didn't even know this place existed, but it'll be fun.
14:46Andrea made us an appointment so we can go get our hair blown out and cut.
14:53I know she's doing it to kind of help me get out of my feelings a little bit.
15:00Hi.
15:01Hey.
15:03Welcome to Willow in Barcelona.
15:04Thank you.
15:05We'll get you guys started.
15:07The fight recently with Tammy and Amy is the most upset I've seen Tammy since I've known her.
15:12I mean, Amy is Tammy's person.
15:15Everybody's got a person, and Amy is her person.
15:18That's why it's bothering her so bad, and it bothers me to see her that way.
15:22So today, I just wanted to bring Tammy here just so she could enjoy herself.
15:27I want her to get all dolled up and whatever she wants, she can have.
15:31Do you want to scoot down just a little bit?
15:34Maybe just a little bit more.
15:36It takes a minute to get kind of messed up.
15:38Does that feel okay?
15:38Yeah, that's better.
15:40You've never had a blow, have you?
15:42No, I didn't even know what one was.
15:44Oh, well, I get used to this, so...
15:49When Andrea told me we were going to go get a blowout, I've had one before.
15:54I just didn't know that that's what they were called.
15:58If you just say, have a blowout, could be your baby had a blowout and blew his diaper off.
16:08I don't know.
16:10This feels so good.
16:15Are you asleep?
16:17No.
16:20It does feel good getting my hair washed and stuff.
16:24It hurts a little bit, but that's not her fault.
16:29It's because my skin removal surgery is still a little tender.
16:35It's like the sides of my head, right here, because that's mostly where scarring is.
16:44But other than that, like, I really did enjoy it.
16:47And I think, most importantly for me, Andrea enjoyed it.
16:54I'm gonna take this off, and I will be right back.
16:59And how would you like me to style yours?
17:00Do you want some curls thrown in it?
17:02Do you want me to blow it out like Tammy's?
17:04Yeah, that's fine.
17:05You're gonna blow it out like Tammy's?
17:06Okay.
17:06I'm gonna go grab you a new kit too, okay?
17:08Okay.
17:08Thank you.
17:09You're welcome.
17:11So, Amy told us where she was gonna have her wedding.
17:17Where?
17:18Near Louisville.
17:19Oh, okay.
17:21It's supposed to be, like, kind of a historic place.
17:24I don't think I'm invited anymore, because of the argument.
17:34Listen, you guys were so close, and I just want to see y'all be how you used to be.
17:44Tammy misses Amy like crazy.
17:46Every time we talk about it, she kind of tears up a little bit.
17:50You know, in 2013, my mom died.
17:54It was the worst day of my life.
17:55I didn't get to say goodbye.
17:57I didn't get to say any of that.
17:59And life's too short to be arguing over silly stuff.
18:04Family, when they're gone, they're gone.
18:06That's it.
18:08I'd just like to see y'all reconcile as all of me.
18:13Well, I understand that.
18:16But I...
18:17And if I'm around her, she's not gonna acknowledge me.
18:23Well, maybe start out baby steps.
18:27I might be without the bull.
18:29Listen, good dude.
18:31We could, like, I don't know, go out to eat or something.
18:35All three of us.
18:39She ain't gonna go.
18:41If you wanna try, try.
18:43I wanna try.
18:44I do wanna try.
18:44I seriously doubt it.
18:46But okay.
18:48Because I know you miss her.
18:50You can't like it.
18:52I know Tammy got very rolled up with the text and stuff.
18:55But it's because she misses her so bad.
18:58So she acts out to...
19:00She wants it, but she just don't wanna admit it.
19:04All right, we're gonna get started with the blowout.
19:15I kind of really like my hair.
19:18I think the 20-40 era of hairstyles kind of fit me now.
19:26Like, they make...
19:28Like, I look like I'm blonde in that era.
19:31When I have my hair done like that.
19:34You've been taking pictures of me, haven't you?
19:36Maybe.
19:37How's that feeling?
19:38It looks good. I like it.
19:40Why are you just laughing at me?
19:43Because.
19:43You finally pampered yourself.
19:45Ew.
19:47I know.
19:49It looks good to me, kid.
19:52She's always gonna look beautiful to me.
19:55Even when she wakes out of bed.
19:57How's her fro?
20:02Even I do.
20:04Because the way we rustle in bed.
20:07Nothing nasty.
20:08Just how we turn over.
20:10Toss it and turn it in the bed.
20:13It happens.
20:15Do I look delicious?
20:18What's your answer?
20:26He got hot in here.
20:28We had a great time.
20:31And...
20:31I appreciate Andrea's advice.
20:33To talk things out with Amy.
20:35But I don't think it's gonna work.
20:39Amy's kinda set in her ways.
20:41And...
20:42Once she makes her mind up, it's over.
20:43So I really think it's a waste of time.
20:47I'm not saying I'm not willing to give it a chance.
20:50But...
20:51If the other party's not willing, then why?
20:53Why?
20:54Just a waste of time and effort.
21:02I am not in the wrong for asking a damn question.
21:05In order to forgive Tammy, she needs to take accountability for her actions.
21:11If she don't wanna be positive to me, then I don't wanna talk to her.
21:22I don't really care about the cut and stuff. I just want a lot of appliques and stuff like that.
21:27You want a cut that's gonna be flattering to your figure.
21:30Today, me, Brittany, Misty, and my maid of honor, Lily, are going wedding dress shopping for me.
21:38In a perfect world, all my sisters would be here and help me pick out a wedding dress.
21:43But Amanda's sick and Tammy's a bitch, so there's that.
21:47But I ain't letting them ruin it. This is my day, bitch.
21:51Did y'all get to go wedding dress shopping?
21:54Nope.
21:54I didn't.
21:55Somebody I knew had one for sale, and they're like,
21:58this will look good like this.
21:59I went to their house and tried it on.
22:02My first time I got married, I wore sweatpants and T-shirt.
22:06I went bougie with David.
22:08I put on black dress pants and a nice shirt.
22:13I mail ordered mine for me and Michael's.
22:17My first wedding dress was a burlap tater sack.
22:21So, now that I'm skinnier, I can fit into a lot more gowns.
22:27In my head, I kind of picture, like, lacing and stuff like that.
22:31You want bougie?
22:33Ew.
22:34So, Andrea called me the other day and asked me to go get coffee with her.
22:39Just to meet me in person for the first time and talk to me about what's going on with Tammy.
22:46So Tammy can actually sit down with me and have an adult conversation.
22:50Because she's trying to patch things over?
22:53Yeah.
22:53But if she don't want to be positive to me, then I don't want to talk to her.
22:57I just simply asked the question, what kind of animals are going to be at this place?
23:02And she went post them.
23:03I am not in the wrong for asking a damn question.
23:07Well, unless you're going to a zoo, they don't have exotics.
23:14Well, how was I supposed to know that until she actually said it?
23:17I understand what you're saying.
23:18It's only cats and dogs, Amy, maybe a fairy.
23:21I would have been fine.
23:26The thing of it is, when you have major surgeries like that, it messes your body up for a while.
23:31And it takes a couple of years for it to get back in sync.
23:34I'm a lot better now than I was.
23:36Right.
23:38You know, Chris went through a little bit of a period where he was anal.
23:42Amy Elizabeth, you did too.
23:45Now, with Tammy, she had a lot done in one surgery.
23:49And it might have messed her hormones up.
23:52But until Tammy realizes that she has a problem, she will not address it.
23:59Tammy's lucky that I'm willing to hear her out.
24:02But in order to forgive her, she needs to take accountability for her actions.
24:08Damn, the Popo knew I was coming.
24:10They're already down here with the lights flashing.
24:13This time I'm innocent.
24:23Hey, Gara.
24:25Hey.
24:27How are you?
24:28I'm good. How y'all doing?
24:29Pretty good.
24:30Brittany, have you met Lele?
24:32Mm-mm.
24:33This is my friend Lele.
24:34She's also my maiden honor.
24:36Nice to meet you.
24:36This is the first time Brittany and Missy's actually hanging out with Lele one-on-one.
24:41Or two-on-one or whatever.
24:44It's really nice seeing, you know, my best friend meet my sisters and becoming one with the family because that's
24:51how I see her.
24:53Hello, welcome to Hattie James.
24:54Who's the appointment for today?
24:56Amy.
24:57All right.
24:57You guys can come with me.
25:00This is my mom, Holly.
25:02Hi.
25:02She's going to go through all the questions.
25:04It's just going to kind of give us a good idea of what you're thinking for your dress.
25:08Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
25:10Like, when somebody comes to your wedding, what do you want them to say afterward about your wedding?
25:15This is not what I expected.
25:16I thought there was going to be Halloween costume.
25:18That's more than three words.
25:20Not what I expect.
25:22Okay.
25:22If you were to pick like a celebrity that you like kind of their fashion, who would that be?
25:30What's that girl's name?
25:33Melissa.
25:33Melissa McCartney.
25:34Okay.
25:35Yeah.
25:37Yeah.
25:38McCartney is married to one of the Beatles dudes.
25:41Perfect.
25:41Yeah.
25:42Yeah.
25:42Yeah.
25:42Yeah.
25:46Melissa McCartney is just a fat actress.
25:49Well, she used to be fatter, but like fat Amy Reverend Wilson.
25:53They both were big actresses.
25:55And they were true to their fat girlness.
25:59And what are some of the most important details of your dream wedding gown?
26:03I want it mostly white, but with black accents.
26:07Okay, yeah, perfect.
26:08Margot is going to hand you all some white gloves, and then we will let everyone go through some dresses.
26:14For my wedding, I wore sweatpants and t-shirts, so I think it's hilarious that this lady thinks that we
26:20can pick out a dress for Amy.
26:22Hopefully we can find one that suits her unique personality.
26:30Just trying to think of her style, which she likes.
26:34Do they have that style in a wedding dress?
26:37I feel so posh in me.
26:39This would be cute, because she was talking about the accents.
26:42Yeah, what y'all think about this?
26:45It's pretty.
26:46I can't believe how heavy them things are.
26:48I met Lele last year.
26:50I don't know that much about her.
26:54But honestly, it's extremely weird to me that Tammy's not the maid of honor.
27:00All right, y'all ready?
27:01Yes.
27:03Oh, Lord, that's a lot of dress.
27:04Whose choice is this?
27:06Mine.
27:08I feel like a cake topper.
27:12I feel like a marshmallow cake topper.
27:15I feel like a decoration.
27:16I don't know.
27:17This is a lot of dress for how short you are.
27:21No offense to Misty, but I kind of want to feel skinny and not a thousand layers.
27:27Like, I feel short and compact.
27:31I'm a recycle bin.
27:35Here I come.
27:43It's real sparkly.
27:45It's twirly.
27:50I do love the little thing up top.
27:52Not going to lie.
27:53Gives you a little extra something, something.
27:55The one shoulder?
27:56Yeah.
27:57The dress that Lele picked out, I like the top portion, but the skirt was just too much.
28:02This one's losing glitter.
28:05They like to shed, that's for sure.
28:09Are y'all ready?
28:10Yep.
28:12It's all you get.
28:14I'm sorry.
28:16I'm just fine.
28:17Oh, that is so pretty.
28:20I love that.
28:22Oh, you look beautiful.
28:25I love it.
28:27That looks gorgeous.
28:29Yeah, I like that.
28:30Y'all want to see it with the veil?
28:32Yeah.
28:38Tammy ain't the queen no more.
28:39I've been nodding now.
28:42If you want to look in this big mirror, this is kind of what your full picture would look
28:46like.
28:46That looks really nice.
28:48I know, right?
28:49I've lost all that weight.
28:50Like, before it would be.
28:51It's so beautiful.
28:52No, I think it looks amazing.
28:54And it's high to my dumb lip.
28:57Jelly row, that's what I call it.
28:59Jelly row.
29:01Usually, I see myself as more fatter.
29:03And then when I, like, looked in the mirror, I'm like, oh.
29:07I feel like a skinny, voluptuous woman, man.
29:11I got hips for days and don't discriminate against pies, mother trucker.
29:16How's my ass?
29:19Almost fell.
29:22You look beautiful.
29:24You look like a beautiful bride.
29:26Thank you.
29:30I think this is the one.
29:31I think this is my dress.
29:32Yay!
29:35The Fit and Flare dress is perfect for me.
29:38I'm surprised Brittany got the right one.
29:40Hers was a winner because we are totally different people.
29:44The Saint picked out the center's outfit.
29:51Sorry, I'm getting emotional.
29:57Even though there's this drama with Tammy, right now I'm the happiest I've ever been.
30:02I didn't know the power of clothing until I tried on that dress.
30:08It's just emotional because I've been through so much.
30:11And to have Brian, that one good thing in my life, you know, get me out of the darkness,
30:17get me out of everything, and I'm just happy.
30:26You shouldn't have never said it.
30:28Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
30:30She is toxic.
30:31And you're her girlfriend.
30:33You know what I'm talking about.
30:34Oh, my God.
30:48Everything's going to be okay, I promise.
30:51Babe, I'm nervous.
30:54I know.
30:54But like I said, I got your back, you know.
30:58Today we're on our way to meet up with Amy to work out our differences.
31:04Like, I'm really nervous.
31:06I don't think it's going to work out.
31:09I really, really want you guys to get better.
31:12I know I keep, like, saying it, but I just want y'all to.
31:15I mean, don't you want to?
31:17Of course.
31:18I wouldn't be gone.
31:19Well, I know.
31:20I know.
31:20But I just don't want to make you do anything you don't want to do, you know.
31:25I've had time to step away and calm down.
31:30Exactly.
31:31So that's what we're going to do.
31:33We're going to make peace.
31:35It should be talked completely out.
31:37Right.
31:39Or it's not going to be solved.
31:41Yeah.
31:41So you have to get to the root of the problem.
31:45That's what we're doing today.
31:47Communication is important to me, but I think Tammy's a hothead.
31:51I think Amy's a hothead.
31:53So when we put them together, I hope they can both stay calm.
31:59If something wants to go down or start going down, I'm just going to walk away.
32:03Listen, I'm telling you.
32:05I'm not going to start a big scene because I'm not going to do it.
32:07You know, I don't do the confrontation, you know, and especially in public.
32:11It's just, I'm sorry I might be a meme, but it's just tacky.
32:14There's been multiple times where I'd be, like, talking this way with this mellow tone to Amy about something, and
32:23then she'll start yelling at me, and I say, please stop yelling at me.
32:31And when she doesn't, like, I get mad, so, like, if she starts that shit, I'll ask her to stop.
32:38Also, if she starts her crime, pity party bull, I'm leaving, too.
32:43Same thing.
32:44Like, I can't handle that anymore.
32:46But it's going to be fine, I promise.
32:48If it's not, we'll walk out the door.
32:51Yes.
32:53I'm kind of, like, I'm kind of scared, nervous about going in there.
32:58I hope I'm doing the right thing.
33:00I hope I made the right call by doing this.
33:07Hello.
33:08How are you?
33:08Good.
33:10Today I'm going to talk to Tammy, and I want to finally explain to her how she made me feel,
33:15and her actions have repercussions.
33:18Like, it wasn't okay for you to send those messages to me.
33:24Well, we're here.
33:26Thank you for all your love and support.
33:28You're welcome.
33:29I love you.
33:30I love you.
33:32Everything will be all right.
33:33Okay.
33:36It means a lot to me that Andrew is willing to put herself in the middle of my name is
33:44bullsh**.
33:48Hey.
33:49Hey.
33:50Amy, this is Andrea.
33:55I was trying to help for a family introduction.
34:00This is my first official meeting with Andrea.
34:03I just hate it's under these circumstances.
34:06I was just, I just wanted to get together and see if you and Tammy can maybe get better than
34:16you guys are now.
34:17Do you know what she said to me?
34:20She called me a deadbeat mom.
34:22I do.
34:24Would you forgive easily?
34:28That takes time.
34:30It takes time.
34:31Yeah.
34:32It takes a lot of time.
34:34Well, you shouldn't have never said it.
34:38Well, you shouldn't have hurt my feelings.
34:40How did I hurt your feelings?
34:41I only said, I only said, what kind of animals are going to be at this place?
34:47And you got mad at me.
34:48No, you didn't understand that.
34:49And you're still not listening to me about it, so.
34:54I had every intention to go in there and lead with, I'm sorry.
35:04I'm glad I didn't.
35:06I said stuff I shouldn't have.
35:08I know I did.
35:09But at the same time, they don't need to be brought up right now.
35:14She couldn't respect me, so why should I stay?
35:19She pretty much lost her sister.
35:21Just tell me on the real.
35:23She lost her sister.
35:24The day she decided to call me a deadbeat mom, all I was trying to do is ask her about
35:30the animals, and she jumped me.
35:34Okay.
35:35She went totally ballistic.
35:38I mean, she's kind of been going, like, with these hormones.
35:43I didn't know all.
35:44This has been going on before the hormones, before the surgeries.
35:47This has been going on for 37 years.
35:50And I'm to the point where it's better for me to be away from the negative, toxic person
35:56that she is.
35:57And you're her girlfriend.
35:58You know what I'm talking about.
36:00You know what I'm talking about.
36:01Yeah.
36:30She is toxic.
36:31And I wanted this to work so bad.
36:34I tried.
36:36I tried.
36:38I can't even throw a truce.
36:40She won't.
36:41I'm done.
36:42I'm going off.
36:43No.
36:44That bitch.
36:45No, no, no.
36:45She's dead to me.
36:46I know, but she won.
36:50Like, I did that out of the countess of my heart.
36:53I know.
36:53I know what she did, too.
36:55Amy.
36:56Amy.
37:03Amy.
37:05that bitch.
37:06Amy.
37:09I don't know either.
37:12Oh, my God.
37:14I really tried to get Amy and Tammy back together, but Tammy has already walked out.
37:19And now Amy's saying she's going to leave, too.
37:22But she went down the wrong hallway.
37:24I didn't even really know where she was going, so I didn't really want to follow her.
37:27Like, that's bullsh**t.
37:29I was just trying to talk to you and get you to apologize to me, bro.
37:33Right, right, right.
37:35Well, do you think we can sit back down?
37:38She didn't want no truce.
37:47Please stop, Louie.
37:51You know, she came here today to make peace, but...
37:54I tried to make peace.
37:55I see you tried.
37:57I see that.
37:58Yeah.
38:01Being here today, we're supposed to be an olive branch.
38:05Saying, hey, just because we're in a fight don't mean I don't love you, a s**t.
38:10Like, I have gave you so much.
38:15And I'm nothing to you.
38:20I wish she would just come back in, just to get it talked out, so, you know.
38:27I'll take her drink, too.
38:29Maybe that'll help.
38:47I'm sorry, though.
38:48I was talking to Amy.
38:50No, you're a b**ch sitting.
39:01Okay.
39:01Babe, you want to try again?
39:04No.
39:05Okay.
39:07So it's definitely a no?
39:09There's nothing I can say or do?
39:12No, I'm not going back in there, and you're already going to chase my mother.
39:16Okay.
39:16Okay.
39:17Right now, I have no idea what to do.
39:20I tried to get Tammy to come back in.
39:22I knew when I opened the door that she wasn't going to.
39:25It's very frustrating, to be honest.
39:33I'm sorry, Amy.
39:35I'm sorry.
39:36She's just a s**t.
39:40Yeah, I was just hoping she would sit there and just be calm and talk it out, but I can't
39:47get her to come back in as much as I want her to.
39:51And you can tell her, I wanted to reconnect if you would just listen.
39:59I can't handle her toxic s**t no more.
40:03I got two kids to raise.
40:05I know.
40:07And you're doing good.
40:08You're doing good.
40:09I see the videos.
40:12At least Andrea had some respect and actually heard me out like an adult.
40:18She didn't grow up like me and Tammy.
40:20You can tell that real quick.
40:23I'm a dead big mom.
40:25What the f**k?
40:26I know that's got to be hurtful.
40:28I know.
40:29It has to be.
40:31But I know deep down she doesn't want this to be this way.
40:35I know deep down she doesn't.
40:38I say, you miss Amy, don't you?
40:40She says, yes.
40:42I mean, I tried throwing an olive branch.
40:45She threw it back in my face.
40:47So I'm done trying.
40:53I'm no longer Tammy's butt monkey.
40:55I'm not allowing her to use me as a punching bag anymore.
41:00Tammy's out of my wedding and my life.
41:03I just wanted to be back like y'all was.
41:06I ain't never going to be back.
41:09Amy and Tammy are dead.
41:12The Slayton sisters are dead.
41:25I heard you and Amy kind of had a little bit of a issue the other day.
41:30My mental is not right right now.
41:32And she's pushing the issue.
41:34I don't give a f**k.
41:35Amy, if you really f**king want to make up, then come to me.
41:39Not Andrea.
41:41Your problem's with me.
41:42Leave her the f**k alone.
41:44What about the bachelorette party?
41:46I was thinking about doing like, preff something.
41:52No.
41:53I'm not going to let her get away with a low-key bachelorette party.
41:56We're going to spice it up, make it a little lit.
42:00That would be beautiful for your sister's wedding.
42:03It would be.
42:05That's a f**king thing.
42:07Billy's trying to force me into going to the wedding, and I'm not doing it.
42:11I'm getting very overwhelmed.
42:14I don't think Tammy really understands how to deal with her negative emotions at this point.
42:20Look at me.
42:21Everything's going to be okay.
42:24No, no, no, no.
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