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00:00:01I still want my happily ever after and I really hope it's with you here's to
00:00:05hopefully being happily ever after yours Sam three new couples entered the
00:00:11experiment wifey in the search for true love if the person across from me today
00:00:17embraces woke culture we'll have a problem thank God
00:00:23Juliet and Joel bonded on their honeymoon I feel safe with him and he
00:00:28makes me feel giddy Chris still wasn't ready to share his upcoming baby news
00:00:33he'll open up when he's ready appreciate that and despite their shared worldviews
00:00:39Stephanie and Tyson clashed what does submissive look like to you then the
00:00:44opposite of you
00:00:48while our original couples celebrated their first month together thank you
00:00:53Grayson was left feeling blindsided that burning desire doesn't seem
00:00:58to be growing as Julia's letter left him heartbroken
00:01:05you're going around dropping bombs you came for my husband with life and when
00:01:09Beck went on an attack stare at me with your evil eyes no one was spared I got
00:01:14told that Jules wished that she had been matched with a woman
00:01:17trust me
00:01:18trust me
00:01:19feisty
00:01:19shut up newbie
00:01:21Danny looks embarrassed
00:01:22before hurtful texts from Beck about Alyssa were revealed
00:01:26take a screenshot shall we I'm disappointed you think that someone has your back or they don't
00:01:34tonight I really wanted to show Stephen how special he is to me
00:01:40romantic connections continue to grow I treasure you and I'm proud of you I love that you are open
00:01:46with me I really appreciate you every day it's just getting better and better
00:01:49she just makes me feel like yeah like I'm at home
00:01:53Stella and Philip are already planning their future together what it would look
00:01:57like after we leave this experiment Tyson is challenged by the experts you're
00:02:02saying I want to be with someone who will lie down give up their rights I'm not
00:02:07saying that well you are I'm not you actually are saying that before John delivers some direct
00:02:13feedback I'm gonna let you into a secret and then you hurt me the week before you nearly
00:02:22caused my relationship to end when Beck doubles down why would you do that do you know what
00:02:28you're right I know I'm right but what I don't know is why you're doing that the experts hold her
00:02:34to
00:02:34your accounts watching you last night apply a blowtorch to pretty much everybody at the dinner
00:02:39party if you send off enough grenades in other people's relationships you can avoid having tough
00:02:45conversations about the two of you
00:03:06it's the morning of the third commitment ceremony good morning good morning and our couples are
00:03:15waking up after another eventful dinner party oh I have a sleep all right it's a big night
00:03:24you know how are you feeling last night yeah I'm just tired but it was Bec's behavior that's got
00:03:31everyone talking I felt like we're in Parliament for a little bit there you know we're in the last
00:03:36four weeks of the election every bit of drama involved Bec's and I know stare at me with your evil
00:03:43eyes
00:03:43the only reason I hated Alyssa was because of what you've said about Alyssa so let's pull up the
00:03:48receipt shall we Alyssa went home for the weekend turmoil in the relationship she's jumping in
00:03:56everyone's relationships jumping down everyone's throat what you did was really good though last
00:04:01night like you had my back that came at me and you were like you know shutting her down don't
00:04:07talk to
00:04:07my wife like that like I appreciate you for that I think me and Scott were great I didn't see
00:04:11Danny
00:04:12backing up his woman like Scott was backing up me last night I think he just like let her out
00:04:17to dry
00:04:18Danny didn't say a single word so clearly their relationship is just not on their relationship is
00:04:26going to come unraveled at some point so it doesn't look too good for her and Danny at the moment
00:04:41I don't like yelling but like if you don't yell across that table you can't no one no one's gonna
00:04:46hear you it was crazy at the end of the day my whole purpose of that dinner party was to
00:04:52clear my
00:04:53husband's name and I did that so we're stronger than ever as per usual which is great we did we
00:05:00did
00:05:00well we didn't argue most important thing had each other's backs which is good at the dinner parties
00:05:11when everyone sees her like that they probably just perceive her as she's that type of girl
00:05:18cause them fights off everybody being quite vicious in her approach I don't want to be going to every
00:05:25dinner party just sitting there thinking all I'm going to do is have to back my missus because
00:05:29she's arguing tonight I didn't come here to argue I came here to find love
00:05:45everyone's getting set for tonight's commitment ceremony type my sparkly socks
00:05:51love them
00:05:55ready yep first commitment ceremony all right but a surprise decision from the experts awaits our new
00:06:04couples looks like we have a letter Juliette and Joel dear newlyweds right now you are still very
00:06:14much in your honeymoon bubble but the real experiment begins as you move into your new living arrangements
00:06:18tomorrow therefore at tonight's commitment ceremony you will not be making a decision about the future
00:06:24of your relationship instead it is an opportunity to open up to us seek advice and gain insight on what
00:06:29you might need to move forward as a couple in this experiment we look forward to seeing you the
00:06:33experts and I was already to write stay explanation explanation explanation explanation right the experts
00:06:40decision to not be able to write stay or leave tonight may prove to be an issue for new couple
00:06:47Stephanie
00:06:47and Tyson you want a water yes please as Tyson left last night's dinner party feeling unsupported by his
00:06:55wife yeah the vibe between Steph and I um we're a little bit distant come sit down with a chat
00:07:03about
00:07:03yesterday yesterday she could have got more involved but I think deep down she probably wanted to see me
00:07:09crash and burn to an extent do you believe a man should pay or or what's your view on it
00:07:15um look if I'm into the
00:07:19girl hey but if I'm not really into her then I'm in 50 50. oh really yeah this is where
00:07:26I find it contradictory because you're like I want to be his provider and the protector and blah blah blah
00:07:30but then you wouldn't make me pay
00:07:33I am your wife right now temporarily I think that's a pretty low comment oh bro that's just how I
00:07:42feel man
00:07:42that's how I feel last night was was hectic wasn't it to say the least yeah it was insane I
00:07:50feel like
00:07:50obviously the whole anti-woke thing got brought up and then I just had a target on my forehead yeah
00:07:56I think
00:07:58as well Steph I thought I'd have just a little bit more support from you because you're very quiet
00:08:04and I know there's a lot going on it was very hard to get a word in to be honest
00:08:09you're telling me and
00:08:10I'm not Beck barking every two seconds it was a bit surprising to hear that Tyson felt that I didn't
00:08:15have his back I mean but I just think that speaks volumes to how him and I handle things I'm
00:08:22not going
00:08:23to stand up and back you if I don't agree with your opinion or your behavior but you did agree
00:08:27with
00:08:27majority of what I had to say didn't you yeah and I and I feel like I spoke about that
00:08:31as well
00:08:31I mean you were quiet I'm not confrontational like that just with me yeah it seems that way
00:08:41I think you added in a little smart ass comment there saying oh he doesn't know what he wants in
00:08:46a woman you said something along those lines well you don't well I do I know exactly what I want
00:08:50Steph
00:08:51and you shouldn't say that you know what I want you know you barely even know you say what you
00:08:56want
00:08:56you've been given that but that's not what you want well I haven't been given that though
00:09:01ask for someone that wasn't masculine you do bring a lot of masculinity to this relationship
00:09:06um no I don't I'm like the most feminine person ever I feel like you do I'm just I'm just
00:09:12telling you
00:09:12I just have the traits of an independent smart career driven focused woman yeah but you can still
00:09:19have that that's masculine energy the way you perceive things and the way you always like try
00:09:25challenge me it just comes across I challenge you on your behavior because I think that's healthy
00:09:31yeah but it's not always Tyson's way and Tyson's well okay but the thing is though you've always
00:09:35you've always tried to have control like you have these little smart ass remarks to say as well
00:09:39and you give them back to me it comes across so rude it comes across so arrogant I think you're
00:09:44rude
00:09:44well I think you're very rude so okay yeah it's it's frustrating Steph it's sometimes it's so
00:09:51frustrating talking to you it's couldn't agree more yeah
00:09:58would not agree more full of contradictions oh couldn't agree more
00:10:05for Mel and Luke despite a recent positive turnaround moving back into the same apartment
00:10:12has seen no further romantic progression between them hello hello how are you going good how you
00:10:20going yeah not bad not bad the more time I spend with him the more I realize that my feelings
00:10:29aren't
00:10:29developing I don't want to kiss him I don't want to cuddle him like because I don't have feelings for
00:10:35him my body's telling me no feeling upset by how everything's I'm really upset by it too
00:10:48every day in this experiment I wake up and I'm like maybe today's the day like my feelings will
00:10:53develop but haven't felt that attraction towards him been open to trying to get there yeah and I need
00:11:04you to know that like I have also tried for six weeks like it's a long time debatable this week
00:11:18there's been a shock in the experiment as one bride didn't wait till the commitment ceremony to let
00:11:24her intentions be known in the past week Grayson and I have really sort of navigated where we're both
00:11:32at in this connection we've had some honest chats and I shared with him you know a letter I'm letting
00:11:41him know how I was feeling that burning desire we have both spoken about doesn't seem to be
00:11:48growing so yeah we've essentially you know broke enough isn't something that I take lightly you
00:11:55know but I think I would be betraying myself if I wasn't listening to what my body and my heart
00:12:01and
00:12:02my mind is telling me and I definitely feel just disconnected and confused despite a strong initial start
00:12:15and grayson's efforts to follow julia's lead jangle your head what's been working for us it's just
00:12:23allowing jewels to take things at our own pace julia has kept grayson at arm's length which was further
00:12:30compounded off the back of a difficult intimacy week I want to continue the emotional depth and expanding
00:12:38the natural organic free-flowing energy that I probably need to romantically connect what's the
00:12:46greatest moment you've had on the footy field what's your favorite quality about your ex but after
00:12:54weeks of trying julia drew her line in the sand that burning desire doesn't seem to be growing making her
00:13:01decision very clear I've seen you lean in however at this stage a flame of mutual chemistry hasn't been
00:13:09ignited and I don't want to force anything I'm not sure how to feel about going into tonight there's a
00:13:19whole different range of emotions I'm feeling it's hard to pinpoint you know I really care about it I
00:13:25wanted there to be a future there for us and it's I just feel like I've never been really given
00:13:30a proper
00:13:31chance by Julia you know I've sort of begged for transparency and honesty and clarity and I just
00:13:39haven't never got it I want to fall in love with someone I want to be a father I want
00:13:46to build a life
00:13:47with someone and yeah it's just um at this point it's not um it's not happening yeah I mean I'm
00:13:57so far
00:13:57from where I would have liked this to be
00:14:21well hello gents good evening how are we going good to see you all see everyone
00:14:39good evening ladies hello ladies lovely to see you all
00:14:51welcome thank you new couples
00:15:02they're all coming for me
00:15:15welcome everybody to the third commitment ceremony
00:15:20and to kick things off we would like to welcome our three new couples
00:15:24Chris and Sam Joel and Juliet and Tyson and Stephanie
00:15:30because you haven't had a chance to do any of the tasks or get any guidance from us until today
00:15:36you will not be getting a choice tonight on whether you stay or leave we will try to help direct
00:15:42and
00:15:43maneuver you guys in the best way possible for the next week so that at the next commitment ceremony
00:15:48then you can actually start doing your choosing to leave or stay okay
00:15:55well this week of course you had the opportunity the original couples to celebrate your one month
00:16:01anniversary and this is the first time we've ever done this within the experiment so we're really
00:16:06looking forward to hearing how you've come together reflected on the last month together and really
00:16:11celebrated the union that you're developing so far now i'm sure some of you will be nervous about coming
00:16:18up on the couch tonight i can assure you you should be because what we saw last night
00:16:30was something that we need to address
00:16:33the dinner party it was hugely dramatic a lot of accusations were thrown around
00:16:42and certainly sitting here tonight some couples
00:16:47are in crisis
00:16:49tonight we're going to unpack all of that and more you will be different as couples
00:16:56as you leave here tonight that i can assure you
00:17:03now on that note let's get our first couple up on the couch
00:17:12stephanie and tice
00:17:16how's it going hello you too welcome to the experiment thank you it's good to be here
00:17:27now as you know this is a situation where we get to dive into your relationship ask you some pretty
00:17:34tough questions but you don't have a stay or leave situation uh this is really for you to then move
00:17:41forward and use what we tell you but we do require you to open up and get real with us
00:17:51what we're going to do is tell us about where you're at because last night at the dinner party
00:17:55you looked quite frosty you you weren't a team what went on look with that john i felt like i
00:18:04had
00:18:04everyone against me obviously um at the dinner table i felt like steph didn't sort of support me
00:18:12in my yeah she's very quiet and i get it she's a female like
00:18:32i don't think it has anything to do with being a female i don't know i'm just saying like maybe
00:18:36she didn't want to get too involved there but just from the get-go um for me i haven't felt
00:18:42that
00:18:42connection with steph at all um physical emotional mental whatever you want to call it
00:18:51geez that's just about everything it is it is yeah so you're saying that she doesn't meet your needs
00:18:58in a number of ways to an extent yes how does that land for you steph
00:19:06i find it very confusing to be honest because i think when i think back to like tyson's vows and
00:19:13what he spoke about what he wants from a woman i feel like i do check a fair few of
00:19:18the
00:19:19criteria that he described such as um someone who's like goal-driven ambitious
00:19:27someone who's a family girl someone who wants to you know build the dream life be a bit of a
00:19:33power
00:19:33couple i feel like i take a lot of those boxes but he doesn't like any of that
00:19:44well is that true to us no i do to extend masculine for tyson as you can see she talks
00:19:50very pretentious well that's new look john she does talk down to me i'm so sick of her talking
00:19:56down to me like that we constantly bicker and argue over this here's what you need to know
00:20:02you say she's offending you by the way she speaks to you have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:17look john she does talk down to me i'm so sick of her talking down to me like that
00:20:22we constantly bicker and argue over this here's what you need to know
00:20:28you say she's offending you by the way she speaks to you have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:41last night at the dinner party you called her a temporary wife
00:20:47you said if i liked her more i might pay for the full dinner bill in amongst telling her that
00:20:57she
00:20:57is far too much like a man you're eroding any sort of bond that you can have
00:21:08yeah i'm at like my breaking point now i really do feel like i want to leave the experiment
00:21:14tyson is she right is she too masculine for you um
00:21:22she's definitely not the submissive type that's for sure
00:21:32what's the submissive type help me understand um well i'd say a little bit more easy going and not
00:21:37constantly talking down to me it's it's not submissive john is it when someone's constantly
00:21:42in your face trying to challenge you it comes across very domineering it's masculine in my eyes
00:21:50so a feminine woman would look like what to you um just the opposite of steph
00:21:59there's been a couple times where i felt a little bit emasculated um even during the wedding day she
00:22:03asked me if i'd be a house husband um no i wouldn't be a house husband
00:22:06um i think it was because you said that you want five kids and i said oh so are you
00:22:12going to five
00:22:12kids are you going to stay at home with the kids and you said well you may as well just
00:22:15ask me to wear
00:22:16a skirt meaning that's a woman's job i think it is for sure i've always the way i've been raised
00:22:26is
00:22:26traditional values uh my dad was the breadwinner um and my mum stayed at home looked after us kids
00:22:33it's good to hear you be very clear about what it is you believe would be a good match for
00:22:38you
00:22:39and you're talking about quite a traditional feminine role that's one thing but you're using
00:22:46another word to describe this ideal partner that i think is a little bit concerning you're using the
00:22:52word submissive so when you're saying here to steph in front of steph i want a submissive woman you're
00:23:01saying i want to be with someone who will lie down give up their rights not try to have their
00:23:09needs
00:23:09met who will make the relationship all about you and your needs i'm not saying that well you are i'm
00:23:19not you actually are saying that okay you're using the word submissive yeah well maybe maybe
00:23:25i've got the word submissive wrong language matters and when you're talking about you know what you
00:23:33want in a relationship and you're using words like that one has meaning it has an impact on your partner
00:23:39so what would you call it then like if i didn't want someone so challenging and dominant in a
00:23:45relationship what what word would you use well are you saying that you want to be with someone who
00:23:51doesn't challenge you essentially wow can i ask why um because i just feel like it creates it just
00:24:01creates conflict in a relationship part of having an interpersonal relationship is challenging each other
00:24:09is disagreeing is being able to debate and you know have conversation but more importantly you're not
00:24:19superior to steph i've never said i was well you're behaving as though you are you're behaving as though
00:24:25you should not be challenged you should only be the one with the right to challenge her
00:24:31can you see that um to an extent stephanie are you attracted to tyson um i mean physically yeah
00:24:46but personality absolutely not
00:24:53not that bad am i um
00:24:57um no you're not that bad tyson i think you've got very outdated views
00:25:06but i'm willing to continue to try and work with that because i see a lot of good in you
00:25:12and
00:25:12i can see why we've been matched i just think it's very clear to me why you're also single
00:25:18as well because i think you're looking for someone that's maybe not out there unless you find them in
00:25:23church that's a good way of looking at i agree actually why come on married at first sight when
00:25:32you could have just gone to church and met somebody i mean you three experts are here for
00:25:37a reason and i gave you guys criteria of what i look for in a partner and i said may
00:25:41as well give it
00:25:42a go did you think that every single box that you wanted in a perfect match would be ticked
00:25:49i was hoping at least 90 percent wow yeah tyson i'm gonna let you into a secret
00:26:00you're a very hard person to match really yes does that come as a surprise to you um
00:26:08well i've been married before john so it does i mean look i hope i'm not single forever
00:26:16do you know the irony to all of this tyson is that while you're not a particularly easy person to
00:26:23match uh we have found someone who's highly compatible with you you're both calm sensible
00:26:32disciplined ambitious you have strong family values you wanted a mature woman who looks after herself
00:26:39you do have very similar world views some can be polarizing but you share them you know she's
00:26:50a green flag in so many different ways this has been very challenging for both of us and
00:26:59it's hard for me to see this go all the way it is not easy and all of the new
00:27:05couples that have
00:27:05arrived here they've got a lot of catching up the question is have you still got that curiosity
00:27:16i just i just don't feel that connection there john
00:27:21it's just it's hard for me to get curious john
00:27:25i think i'm absolutely frightened i've never been in a relationship ever because i've been so scared i
00:27:33don't want to get hurt it's easy to be independent and live in my comfort zone and just live my
00:27:37good life but i'm still just like here wanting to be curious because we're here now may as well
00:27:46surely you can sit here and say you know there is good in steph that i want to find
00:27:50out more about there is yeah you've got that's the first time i've heard it
00:27:56you said something steph that was very important just in you said you're frightened and scared
00:28:03how did that land for you tyson well to hear that she's frightened and scared um it does make me
00:28:11feel
00:28:11like a bit of a failure to an extent but i want the best for steph and i don't want
00:28:17to i don't want to
00:28:18make her feel a certain way maybe i've made her feel pretty bad over this past week ultimately
00:28:24through this conversation what you can learn is rather than being combative rather than trying to
00:28:31win or be right you guys start moving closer when you're vulnerable
00:28:38be respectful and just learn about one another because we see a highly compatible couple and we
00:28:46just need you to start turning on to that and now you can go back to the group thank you
00:28:53off you go
00:29:05coming up feelings deepen when i'm with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah like i'm at
00:29:12home
00:29:13hmm what's making you feel so emotional grayson grayson's heavy heart
00:29:19i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad and then
00:29:26i only didn't
00:29:28like alyssa from what i heard from beck the bride's issues ignite at the end of the day you know
00:29:33there's
00:29:33lies that come out of out of jay's mouth like i'm trying to hold back this is this is infuriating
00:29:39enough is enough
00:29:48next up
00:30:02so let's get into it how was the one month anniversary um on the anniversary night like i
00:30:09cooked um dinner and uh i ended up getting her this black tourmaline necklace you know
00:30:14it's beautiful i know that this is like important to her we've got her stones i wrote her a card
00:30:19as
00:30:19well you know just little things like that you know so all sorts of thoughtfulness and progression
00:30:26i wonder where feelings are progressing um we're kind of low-key you know having outline of
00:30:33what it would look like after we leave this experiment um it's all positive signs yeah
00:30:40how does he make you feel he makes me feel cared for um he definitely makes me feel a priority
00:30:49which
00:30:49after three days of spending time together i was like yeah that could be my person so yeah do you
00:30:55sustain that today yes yeah yeah i do and philip when you're with stella how does she make you feel
00:31:04yeah we're just yeah like when i went on with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah
00:31:09like i'm at home
00:31:14i just feel like i don't have to pretend yeah which is good it's great yeah i have to say
00:31:19i really
00:31:20enjoy your giddy smile that you can't wipe off your face philip yeah it's very it's very nice gorgeous
00:31:29just well uh let's go to the decision you guys let's start with philip uh well yeah like i can't
00:31:41can't really fault you you're definitely making the this the experience that it it is and should be
00:31:46and uh yeah i'm not really going anywhere so i'm just gonna hang around staying yeah yeah
00:31:56and stella um there's definitely a lot of love shared and given to each other and um just keep
00:32:04on building on that what we have amazing thanks guys love it have a great week guys thank you
00:32:17thanks sorry all right cheers our next couple up on the couch
00:32:27luke and mel hello greetings you two hi
00:32:39how have you guys been this week this whole experiment is to build a relationship
00:32:45with somebody and the past few days i haven't been feeling anything and it's making me feel anxious
00:32:53because you know i know i'm meant to feel those feelings and i'm just not it's like i can't continue
00:33:00waking up and being like maybe today's the day i develop feelings because it's not happening
00:33:08it it's like watching a pot of water trying to boil if you're just watching it it's not ever going
00:33:15to
00:33:15start boiling can i jump in there i personally feel like mel hasn't really tried throughout this whole
00:33:25experiment like yeah there's times where i feel like you've tried on paper and she's bought me some
00:33:32gifts but i don't want gifts i don't care for gifts i want to spend quality time i want to
00:33:38get to know you
00:33:39i want to grow something it's taken a continual toll on me but every day i've just tried to come
00:33:45back
00:33:45positive i really have i've never put so much effort into a person that i have with mel on this
00:33:53experiment
00:33:55the reason why i why i'm like this is because i'm not feeling any romantic feelings
00:34:02what are you looking for in somebody who you think you can fall in love with in time
00:34:09just looking for someone who has empathy who hears me who makes me feel
00:34:17like they can take the weight off my shoulders he does all those things realistically would you
00:34:24say that luke is an unsupportive person no i would not say that right would you say he lacks empathy
00:34:29no
00:34:31would you say that he has no practical skills and can't fix anything no i would not say that about
00:34:36him
00:34:37the person that you said that you would fall in love with over time you've just described luke
00:34:45are you aware of that
00:34:51yeah how's that feel
00:34:55i don't know interesting because it's like it's like on paper then why don't i why don't i just
00:35:01have feelings for him you know like i should well i guess where i challenge you mel is whether you've
00:35:08given him a go and really only you can answer that but from where we're sitting uh you've been given
00:35:15somebody who could absolutely make your life amazing
00:35:21and it's never got past the wedding day
00:35:28he showed up late he chewed gum and that was game over you couldn't forgive him
00:35:38we could not have matched you with someone more compatible than luke
00:35:42to give you a happily ever after let's go to the decision uh let's go with you first luke um
00:35:54it's been a a wild ride um and like i'm so grateful for like this whole experiment but
00:36:01yeah obviously like there's comes a point where like you can't keep keep going so
00:36:07yeah gotcha
00:36:14and what about you mel to be honest with you i couldn't have foreseen how hard this experiment
00:36:20was going to be for me but i do want to say like i'm really happy that i met you
00:36:25and i'm really sorry about everything that's all good and i really hope we can continue to be real
00:36:30friends yeah but i also decided to leave right
00:36:39well look it has been disappointing for us yeah because we had such high hopes and you are so highly
00:36:47compatible it is sad to see you go but we wish you all the best for the future good luck
00:36:53all the best
00:36:53to both of you well it's time to get our next couple up on the couch
00:37:08alissa and david
00:37:20well how have the two of you been since our last couch encounter you go oh yeah well you know
00:37:26it's
00:37:27been a fantastic ride with alissa we're falling for each other i feel very vulnerable i feel like i can
00:37:33trust her yeah like we're learning things about each other every single day you know you've given
00:37:39me literally everything i wanted he makes me feel safe
00:37:45all right you two i want to pivot to the dinner party because we've certainly all seen you being a
00:37:52very strong couple and you've come under fire when these uh dinner parties have occurred and the group
00:37:58have got together now two weeks running things have been said about you you've been accused and
00:38:05i'm just wondering why do you think people are coming after you ask them i don't know i don't know
00:38:16what about you david any thoughts on why certain members of the group find the two of you i guess
00:38:24targets um for me i actually can't understand it like it just makes no sense like we're just out
00:38:29here focusing on what we have and i hope everyone else is having a great time in their relationship
00:38:33i just i um i feel like me and alissa are at the point where we don't have energy for
00:38:38it
00:38:39every single week it's always something and i'm like i don't even i'm not even in in this
00:38:44shit like i don't know and i would love to know actually what's up to you beck would you say
00:38:53i'm genuinely sorry that that your name has been brought up because
00:38:56at the end of the day it we shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway no
00:39:03beck this is two weeks in a row where you are coming for alissa well i didn't come for alissa
00:39:08last
00:39:09night i had something to say to gia and gia was the one that got her phone and read the
00:39:14messages
00:39:14so i actually haven't come for alissa last night why are you talking about their relationship do you
00:39:20know what you're right and i know i'm right but what i don't know is why you're doing that
00:39:36i actually haven't come for alissa last night why are you talking about
00:39:40their relationship do you know what you're right and i know i'm right but what i don't know is why
00:39:46you're doing that i don't have i don't actually don't have a reason for it because you've got a
00:39:53relationship here that you know is trending in a really positive direction they've got each other's
00:39:58back they're affectionate they've got chemistry they talk about the future and you're bringing
00:40:04it down and i'm not sure why you would want to do that i don't think it's just me i'm
00:40:10not going to sit
00:40:10here and allow just me to be talked like that because the other messages weren't read out i get what
00:40:17you're saying i agree with it and that's why you're doing it
00:40:22do you know i don't i don't have an answer for that are you jealous
00:40:28no not at all i'm i'm happy and doesn't sound like it yeah no worries like you can have your
00:40:35opinion and that's fine i'm just gonna call a spade a spade like i only didn't like alissa
00:40:42from what i heard from beck i definitely engaged in mean girl behavior that i'm not proud of like 100
00:40:48i own that but what i heard about you was quite horrible and i just took that as like that's
00:40:56a
00:40:56fact she knows you from adelaide i don't know you at all but you know what i've met beck twice
00:41:01through
00:41:01mutual friends in adelaide she doesn't know me no one actually knows me here we all deserve to find
00:41:07love so enough is enough at the end of the day you know there's lies that come out of
00:41:14out of jia's mouth and that's my my issue but i never intended for you to have anything come
00:41:19toward you at that dinner party last night if the phone wasn't gotten it never would have happened you
00:41:23would have just sat there and had a nice night i think you both caused this i hate coming to
00:41:29a dinner
00:41:30party and my wife feeling unsettled i hate seeing her sad and i have to go home and pick up
00:41:37the pieces
00:41:37because grown ladies like yourselves can't take accountability and stop it from happening you know
00:41:45all right what you do need to think about beck is why you're doing it because you haven't answered
00:41:52that question and that's an important one that's what you need to sit on but for you jia you've got
00:41:57also realized that when you bought up the receipts to have a crack at beck it dragged elissa into it
00:42:05and again she's now walking away from a dinner party shattered because the people in this experiment
00:42:11are talking behind her back and essentially throwing grenades into her relationship
00:42:18and there is a pattern here that you beck and jia need to be aware of which is when you
00:42:23go into a
00:42:24dinner party and you come out all guns blazing and you scorch earth anyone that comes in your way
00:42:31you then roll up at the commitment ceremonies and apologize
00:42:36but you're still doing the same thing
00:42:40well look there's no doubt that you two have had a lot to face and to overcome this week
00:42:48uh but what we see in front of us is a couple that uh is very strong despite how much
00:42:54noise there
00:42:55is around your relationship so well done thank you uh but with that being said uh let's go to the
00:43:01decision stay or leave and we're going to go with you first david i'm proud of you i'm proud of
00:43:06your
00:43:07resilience and i can't wait to see how the next couple weeks of this experiment goes i treasure you and
00:43:13obviously
00:43:15i'm here to stay good stuff david and what about you alissa stay or leave i love that you are
00:43:21open
00:43:21with me i really appreciate you and yeah i'm so lucky to call you my husband so i am i'm
00:43:28gonna stay
00:43:29lovely fantastic well done it's so wonderful for us to hear you say that you treasure her oh it's nice
00:43:38um that's beautiful thanks guys have a wonderful week ahead all right well done guys thank you
00:43:51yeah that's the sake of
00:43:59next couple up
00:44:03julia and grace
00:44:08hello hi guys hello you too how are you
00:44:15last week when we saw you on this couch you really seem to have turned a corner
00:44:22so frankly we are sitting here wondering what has happened to derail that well after we
00:44:31we saw you guys last time i really took on you know your advice of you know kissing leads to
00:44:40more
00:44:40kissing and so grayson and i kissed again but unfortunately nothing really kind of unfurled after
00:44:48that i then i did like a pulse check i felt like we were sort of talking about this burning
00:44:54desire um is
00:44:55there a burning desire here so i realized i didn't think that the romantic side of this connection was
00:45:04really flourishing um and so i wrote grace in a letter letting him know that i i didn't feel like
00:45:15like this was sort of that soul connection that i came into this experiment for and sort of
00:45:27went separate ways we we moved i moved into a different apartment after that
00:45:32yeah and how did that land for you grayson hearing that um oh it made me feel
00:45:42that that the energy the emotion the vulnerability the the buy-in is all just been a um has gone
00:45:52to waste
00:45:54do you feel rejected yeah she's not physically present she's not emotionally present and that's
00:46:02been since probably three or four days after we moved in that this has been occurring what i find
00:46:09really difficult is that um i kind of get these mixed messages with gray like so the the needs he
00:46:19has
00:46:20i'm i'm not fully across i don't feel like he's transparently telling me his needs
00:46:26the energy it's not inviting i'm not invited into his experience for me i think julia is all words
00:46:35her communication style is just blurting out it's just listen to respond
00:46:42whenever i need to talk about something i can't questions like do you want to have a family do you
00:46:48want to have a family one day oh i'd like the option to have a family do you see a
00:46:52future with me is there
00:46:53any part of you that see a future with me oh if there was ever emotional connection everything is airy
00:46:58fairy there is no certainty i just want clarity we're talking about emotions you know grayson would
00:47:05want like a yes or a no black or a very binary answer that i wasn't able to give because
00:47:12it's
00:47:13complex we don't speak the same language like yeah your language is vague there is no i i i call
00:47:20it
00:47:20nuanced you call it vague we've said this many times we go around and around in circles i just feel
00:47:28so unseen there's no other way to put it what do you mean by that for what i do put
00:47:34into this
00:47:35connection it's like what have you put into it i i have put my energy i've tried to build rapport
00:47:43with grayson in terms of romance that's so that is untrue for me to grow as a person and in
00:47:53connection
00:47:53how could have i supported you more well you could have been present you could have invested your time
00:47:58and energy into the marriage that we have we're married you just don't say anything we just don't
00:48:02speak the same language we don't speak the same language like i am exhausted yeah i think we're
00:48:11we're both exhausted grayson did you see a future with julia at any point i fantasized a future
00:48:21when i saw her walking down the aisle i was just so excited and i had no other expectations
00:48:26apart from leaving here being in love so you had high hopes i had high hopes until
00:48:33i guess julia wrote that letter and told me she was out
00:48:38last night julia i heard you comment i believe you're you were questioning grayson about whether
00:48:45or not he felt comfortable or not in regards to your bisexuality is that an issue that has been
00:48:52coming up between you that maybe we haven't been hearing about here on the couch so in this whole
00:48:58experiment i said i don't mind being matched with a man or a woman there was no preference there and
00:49:04so
00:49:04i was a bit confused because we hadn't spoken about my bisexuality for quite some time
00:49:10last night i was told that um julia made a comment to someone that um she feels like this experiment
00:49:19would have been a lot easier if it was with a female so did you say that you know i
00:49:24don't recall
00:49:24saying that i mean in terms of easier i mean in terms of anything would it have been for you
00:49:33something
00:49:35that you think would have made it better easier if i had a preference to to embark on a journey
00:49:41like
00:49:41this i would have been very clear if i wanted to be matched with a woman i would have just
00:49:48said that
00:49:49so it was never a question for you in not finding that connection with grayson that maybe it would
00:49:53have been different with a different human of a different gender uh no just a different human
00:49:58okay just a different yeah
00:50:03does that make sense to you i'm just exhausted i got nothing left in the tank
00:50:11but for me this this experiment i wasn't going to leave any stone unturned i i gave it everything i've
00:50:17got and for me and for that i'm super proud like um and i'm i'm i'm i'm so shattered
00:50:26you know i'm at a point where i'm like am i am i ever going to find my person am
00:50:30i ever going to
00:50:31find love that's understandable and we certainly appreciate um the effort that you very clearly put
00:50:39forth um from your perspective and your reality and and your experience in this experiment
00:50:55what's making you feel so emotional grayson
00:51:00what's coming up
00:51:10i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad
00:51:16it's um yeah it's uh stuff
00:51:24there's only one thing left to do julia what is your decision stay or leave yeah i i'm really
00:51:32grateful for this experience i've learned so much um and this is not easy stuff this is not simple
00:51:41um but with that i am saying leave yeah
00:51:47and greason yeah yeah um i guess despite all the um the challenges we've we've come up against i i
00:51:58am
00:51:58super grateful for you and yeah i value your courage to be here i know it's it's been challenging
00:52:05so thank you for that um thank you for the opportunity but yeah i think for me uh my time's
00:52:10up here so i choose to leave yeah
00:52:16all right well look it's been an incredible process for the two of you and you know when we first
00:52:21met
00:52:22the two of you a lot of what we talked about was alignment wasn't it and looking for that alignment
00:52:26and
00:52:27unfortunately you didn't quite meet on this occasion but i think grayson i think love's not far away for
00:52:34you thank you appreciate that good on you guys thank you guys oh dear
00:52:49coming up it's the allegation that won't go away i asked the question is it not true or did
00:52:56you not say i'm getting frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through
00:53:00the month why'd you say it then all right next couple up
00:53:13sam and chris
00:53:21wow crowd favorites there aren't you that's nice a lot of support i love it hi guys all right you
00:53:29two
00:53:30i gotta ask what was it like walking into that dinner party last night oh yeah
00:53:36these guys are so amazing we had the best time it was great and what about you know the sense
00:53:42of
00:53:42romance or chemistry there what's happening it's growing i think i've started to know where to be
00:53:48or where to feel or like what to do because you've got a ring on your finger but you're like
00:53:52but i also
00:53:53just met this guy yeah now i'm like okay we'll just take it like you normally would meeting someone and
00:53:57we've just been getting to know each other and every day i get to know chris i like him more
00:54:01and
00:54:01he's such a warm and empathetic person we also don't want to um be like super intimate just
00:54:08yet we think it's like uh gentlemen yeah to court each other and be a bit old school and take
00:54:13our
00:54:13time so you're traveling at the same pace would you say yeah yeah like i don't know like i didn't
00:54:18really know what pace to travel at because this is such a new experience for me so i wasn't really
00:54:22sure in the beginning i was like do i passion or do i not like what's going on but um
00:54:27every
00:54:28day it's just getting better and better yeah every day we are a little bit more touchy and a little
00:54:32bit closer and like yeah but with no pressure others yeah there's no pressure on it which i really love
00:54:37so yeah well the energy is really lovely and i have to say i love that you're really focusing on
00:54:45building the connection yeah we're just yeah super grateful that you've matched us together
00:54:50together so um yeah we're stoked yeah yeah thank you guys thank you so much thank you thank you
00:54:57good work
00:55:02guys well done
00:55:07our next couple up on the couch
00:55:12rachel and steven fantastic hello hello hey guys hi how are you get out get out mate oh there he
00:55:26is
00:55:28how have you guys been this week with your one month anniversary it it was really nice
00:55:35we want to go fishing but we couldn't go fishing so i went and got a little fishing game so
00:55:40we could
00:55:40play fishing and everyone knows your fishermen have got to have the fishermen snacks so i got a little
00:55:46esky with um steven's favorite snacks i'll move to tree and everything to represent nature
00:55:54we turned it on and the fishes are snapping i'm like oh it's a bus stop it's a fishing term
00:56:01you're learning you're learning so i really wanted to show steven how special he is to me like my
00:56:10feelings for him and so i really wanted to make sure it was quite personalized and aligned with
00:56:15you know steven yeah so steven what did you do for rachel got us some flowers candles some a nice
00:56:24bottle of
00:56:25wine and i'm an absolute hopeless cook but i cooked up a spag bol lunch for her and sort of
00:56:33pretended to be a chef and you know came over with a you know rag on my thingy and pouring
00:56:39the wine
00:56:41thinking i'm all sophisticated and fancy and just acting like a fool pretty much and that's cute
00:56:46it was romantic but sort of light-hearted romantic um that's what i wanted to bring so my personality
00:56:51to it and just yeah she was smiling the whole time yeah i loved the lunch it was beautiful all
00:56:58right
00:57:00well i do think it's time we get to the decision for this week
00:57:06let's go with senior steve um i'm really happy how this week what rachel did for me was absolutely
00:57:14fantastic i thought the thought of fishing and all that sort of stuff and thinking about that because it's
00:57:20bit it's fishing you know it's not everyone's cup of tea you know and it really didn't make me smile
00:57:26so
00:57:27right stay
00:57:32rachel what is your decision stay or leave
00:57:37nice and stay good
00:57:54nice and cozy again
00:57:57our next couple up on the couch
00:58:01gee you're in scott yeah
00:58:08hello hello you two greetings
00:58:12sunshine lollipops and rainbows everywhere tell us all about the sunshine and lollipops
00:58:20it's been a good couple of weeks yeah it's always good um we started diving into like really deep
00:58:27that no one knows about that even only her family knows and i found it brought us really close together
00:58:33so yeah and then we got matching tattoos okay well we we did hear a rumor we're gonna ease into
00:58:44the one
00:58:45right together together i really felt like okay like he's fully in this on a more serious note we
00:58:53saw you at the dinner party gee you were bringing receipts and it got very heated the previous week
00:59:00obviously i went a bit crazy it was over the top and i i really tried not to do that
00:59:04last night
00:59:07but when things are said and and it's like i'm getting brought up a few times like i've got to
00:59:11i defend myself like i thought we weren't going to attack anyone's relationship anymore
00:59:17i'm done with that like i'm personally done with that so you weren't up to it i just showed
00:59:22the receipts because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing you have no friends
00:59:26here and like oh it just like brought me back to being in high school and being bullied and it
00:59:29actually really hurt me to be honest but imagine how you hurt me the week before
00:59:37you nearly caused my relationship to end
00:59:48i didn't actually brooke brooke is well no it came from your mouth
00:59:49i just showed the receipts because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing you have no
00:59:53friends here and like it just like brought me back to being in high school and being bullied and it
00:59:56actually really hurt me but imagine how you hurt me the week before
01:00:03you nearly caused my relationship to end
01:00:08i didn't actually brooke brooke is well no it came from your mouth it came from your mouth jir
01:00:13i don't know if anyone else saw it but brooke kept trying to say something with danny and i said
01:00:17don't
01:00:18babe don't say it don't say it and she said it so you're the one that messaged it to her
01:00:21anyway
01:00:23but that's on camera so that's great it's all happened everyone needs to focus on their own
01:00:27relationship that's all it matters i'm here for this this is what i came here for i'm happy and
01:00:33i'm not i'm just not engaging with that kind of stuff anymore i've realized that i was really wrong
01:00:38last week i've tried to be accountable and i last night i didn't go as crazy as i normally would
01:00:43i
01:00:43didn't get involved i really didn't want to go at people you know what i mean sure what i want
01:00:50to know
01:00:50is what impact does that have on you scott when you see gia in that state in that situation
01:00:58there's way too many positives in our relationship for me to even think about that so it's like
01:01:03and generally defends herself when in need like she's not just trying to deliver something for
01:01:08no reason it's just a defense i know gia so well now and how she approaches an argument how she
01:01:15delivers things it's already happened in the past dinner parties and i don't judge her any different
01:01:19so yeah i think also like he agrees i mean he backed me up um last night which that like
01:01:27you know i
01:01:27asked for this like the whole time to be backed up by a man i've never had that in a
01:01:32relationship ever
01:01:33so this is really uh uncharted waters for you so will you describe your relationship as going from
01:01:39strength to strength yeah yeah i'm really happy just on that how do you feel about her i'm falling
01:01:49for her but love i won't say it till i truly mean it but i'm falling in that direction 100
01:01:56big
01:01:57gia what about you it's it's a lot to for me to say i love somebody like falling more head
01:02:05over heels i
01:02:05don't think it's love yet but we're we're we don't want to go too crazy yet like we just got
01:02:10the
01:02:10tattoos i think we should chill so what are we going to do after a year i don't know with
01:02:18that being
01:02:18the case we're going to go to the decision it's going to be stay or leave and we're going to
01:02:22go with
01:02:22you first scott i suppose what we're doing is right so we're not going to stop that and yeah good
01:02:31i'm stone what about you then cheers yeah um i adore scott i just trust him and i believe him
01:02:40and i think i just feel safe i love how things are going and i'm gonna stay in it also
01:02:46the same
01:02:46thing with the heart love it lovely a little 13 in there yeah that's so funny we look forward to
01:02:54seeing you next time okay thank you thank you guys great to see you good work thank you
01:03:06our next couple up on the couch
01:03:11joel and juliet
01:03:16hello welcome you two hello experts
01:03:19welcome aboard guys you guys look fabulous by the way thank you very much thank you
01:03:25but we're more interested in you two yeah and how you're going how has this whirlwind been
01:03:30we started off on the back foot after the wedding because my speeches were a bit
01:03:36out there it felt like he was the whole day putting on a performance and being extremely theatrical
01:03:42and then when we came home that night like we had a really good deep chat and i said look
01:03:47is there a real side to you
01:03:51i'm here for something serious and i want to get something serious out of it
01:03:55and um yeah i felt like i saw a completely different side to him
01:04:00and then day by day it's been getting like a lot better but today was the day that where i
01:04:06kind of
01:04:07came to the conclusion okay maybe the attraction's just not there for me
01:04:15like i know like the more i get to know joel the more i'll probably gain attraction to him for
01:04:21sure
01:04:23joel from your perspective how did it feel to hear that she's not attracted to you
01:04:28i can handle it no problem it's only week one traction can grow for me i'm just more naturally i
01:04:36think
01:04:37warm and affectionate i'm very touchy-feely you know like so that's just my nature and maybe she's a
01:04:42bit different i'm really touchy
01:04:49like it's that's also a big thing for me why i'm like a bit freaked out that i just don't
01:04:56want to
01:04:58go ahead joel last night baptism of fire it was bloody brilliant
01:05:09i i could see that you were up for the challenge yeah what do you think it was about you
01:05:15that got
01:05:16under the skin of some of the people well particularly beck let's be honest yeah yeah
01:05:20yeah i think all roads lead to the wedding you know i put myself out there i painted a target
01:05:27on
01:05:28my back by being myself as i have always done in my whole life so this is stock standard for
01:05:36me being
01:05:36misunderstood and then people get to know me like hey he's actually all right you know there's some
01:05:42depth to him he's not a total moron
01:05:47like a massive thing for me is how everyone else would kind of view him because i got to see
01:05:52that
01:05:52softer side they hadn't seen that too um like everyone's impression of my man is extremely important
01:06:01i mean i'm trying to just find anything
01:06:05any good signs really um because if i wasn't part of this experiment and i had just met joel out
01:06:14i wouldn't be proceeding
01:06:18and so i'm just trying to find all the good things that are kind of helping me want to stick
01:06:24it out
01:06:26look i guess the thing is that you know early on you're looking around for evidence who is this
01:06:32person do they like him do they not are we going to last but there's going to be a time
01:06:36where you're
01:06:37going to need to say i'm in here i like this guy whether you like him or not yeah
01:06:44yeah like the the balance is tipped in the positive direction i feel
01:06:49and i'm patiently waiting for her to grow that attraction to warm to me i'm waiting
01:06:54okay take as long as you need babe yeah yeah not too long enough you know come on maybe you
01:07:02can fancy
01:07:03me next week yeah all right you've had some difficulties early on but you've got some
01:07:09clear things that you can hang on to but also you are aware that it's the two of you
01:07:16rather than all of the noise around you that you need to be focusing on
01:07:21so buckle up throw yourself into these challenges and we look forward to seeing you the next time to
01:07:26hear how you're progressing cool thank you guys go back to the group thank you guys
01:07:32no more speeches
01:07:38that's good that's really good last up on the couch beck and danny
01:07:52last week this relationship was really in trouble specifically about things that gia had claimed that danny
01:08:00had said where are you at in respect to that stronger than ever together
01:08:26i'm really confused danny with you it's noticeable how flat and miserable you look
01:08:34so how is this stronger than ever this is not how i would describe what i'm observing at this moment
01:08:50i'm really confused danny with you it's noticeable how flat and miserable you look
01:08:58so how is this stronger than ever this is not how i would describe what i'm observing at this moment
01:09:07are you miserable no obviously i'm tired you know what you mean like and well yes i'm tired too
01:09:17yeah like commitment ceremonies are hard for me i'm not too good at talking about my feelings and
01:09:21just being put on the spot but um if it comes across like i'm miserable i apologize
01:09:27you certainly don't look like you guys are together you don't look connected to one another it's one
01:09:32thing to just have flat affect at a certain moment but you're describing stronger than ever
01:09:42how did you feel about beck's behavior last night at the dinner party it was pretty full-on and i
01:09:47did a
01:09:48lot of observing of your faces throughout all of her rants how did you feel
01:09:57obviously beck's my wife in this experiment i'll always back her like i asked for a ride or die
01:10:03um i don't think you can ask for something that you're not i think beck just got
01:10:09passionate in the moment or whatever you want to call it but how did you feel
01:10:15seeing her behave that way how did you feel it's a tough question to answer he's scared of her
01:10:24he's dancing around the question i don't know just answer honestly
01:10:29were you proud were you embarrassed um you were what maybe slightly embarrassed yeah
01:10:40why why is that i don't mind confrontation like if it has to be done but i'm not the type
01:10:46of
01:10:47who's looking for it beck i've been wanting to ask you this after watching you last night
01:10:56essentially apply a blow torch to pretty much everybody at the dinner party
01:11:02what did you hope to achieve
01:11:06why would you do that i didn't think i didn't why joel
01:11:13i don't have an excuse for it john i don't have an excuse for it
01:11:20now what i'm wondering is is that you is that your personality no is that your fight style no
01:11:29because i went away from those dinner parties thinking what's it like for danny behind closed
01:11:36doors if he says something wrong makes a mistake is this you no i'm the opposite i actually retreat
01:11:45don't think yeah
01:11:54well well last night danny she was creating all the drama and chaos
01:12:01yeah that's a fair comment she was pretty much in every hostile conversation that was had last
01:12:08night you were setting off grenades beck one of the things i noticed is that by doing that you never
01:12:19had to talk about your relationship with danny if you sent off enough grenades in other people's
01:12:26relationships you can avoid having tough conversations about the two of you
01:12:32and clearly you're not good together right now you might think you are you might say it
01:12:38but what we saw last night was a couple in deep crisis what do you think about that
01:12:47really angry
01:12:49who are you angry at beck i'm angry at gia are you really angry at gia
01:12:58i'm angry at both of them but i didn't realize that i was still angry at him but i don't
01:13:02want to
01:13:02argue with him why what are you scared of i'm scared they'll leave
01:13:11i'm scared he'll leave me
01:13:16sorry
01:13:17i am
01:13:26danny when you hear beck say that how does that land for you
01:13:32what was like we've had this conversation before like when when me and beck when we get like
01:13:38confrontational i need to remove myself from the situation that's how i deal with with that but then
01:13:43it's like that triggers back beck's saying that she's feeling she's feeling really angry at you
01:13:49because this whole situation around what was apparently said about gia being more your type
01:13:57sounds like beck hasn't heard enough from you to put her mind at ease
01:14:03i know he's told me that it's not true and i and i choose to believe him you say it's
01:14:08not true or he
01:14:09didn't say it
01:14:14he didn't it's not he didn't say it's not true i don't know you're not sure are you
01:14:22danny
01:14:28um
01:14:31i didn't say it beck needs a little more here she needs more of a response i asked the question
01:14:41is it not true or did you not say it i didn't say it it's not true i'm getting that's
01:14:45why i'm
01:14:46getting frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through the mud i never
01:14:50said that stupid comment with all due respect to g and don't take this the wrong way i'm covered
01:14:54in tattoos but i don't go for girls who have got tattoos why'd you say it then i didn't yeah
01:15:00yeah
01:15:09is it not true or did you not say it i didn't say it's not true i'm getting that's why
01:15:14i'm getting
01:15:14frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through the mud i never said that
01:15:18stupid comment with all due respect to g and don't take this the wrong way i'm covered in tattoos but
01:15:23i
01:15:23don't go for girls who have got tattoos why'd you say it then i didn't jia i'm curious well this
01:15:32is
01:15:32why i don't want to talk about it because we just go round and round in circles i'm not here
01:15:36to to speak
01:15:38rumors or argue i'm here for love so do you believe him or do you need confirmation that jia lies
01:15:45or
01:15:45doesn't lie i believe him you know what i can't like i'm trying to hold back this is this is
01:15:55infuriating
01:15:56because this is this is the biggest issue with beck and my friendship fake ship she always wants
01:16:02to talk to me off camera and off camera she tells me babe i believe you but what am i
01:16:06going to do
01:16:06i then i've got to leave i never said that she's saying she never said that i never said that
01:16:12of course
01:16:13she's not going to say that of course she's not going to go yeah i said that thanks jia let's
01:16:18just
01:16:19go back to you danny why does she lie man so what are you going to do differently communicate better
01:16:26next time that's obviously i've been single for four years so i've just got so used to doing my own
01:16:32thing
01:16:32it's a fair call you do get set in your ways and you do become sort of single-minded but
01:16:37you're in a
01:16:38relationship now reassurance support validation you both need those things it it's hard for me
01:16:46i do need validation and reassurance from him but i'm scared to ask for it i wish you'd have told
01:16:52me
01:16:52that because you know i'd have done it for you anything you've ever asked of me i'll always do
01:16:56it for you i know part of me doesn't want to have to ask and that's what i'm nervous about
01:17:00sometimes you
01:17:01do though in relationships you know sometimes you do you're teaching each other about this is how to
01:17:07work with me you know this is what i need and that's part of that early stage in the relationship
01:17:12so maybe do ask maybe give him a bit of guidance help him read you and give you what you
01:17:17need okay
01:17:18i hope this conversation has been helpful today i mean it looks like a little bit for both of you
01:17:24you've you've sort of seen a little bit more of each other of what you need let's focus on this
01:17:30more
01:17:30focus on this as you said danny that's what you're here for love relationship right so yeah all right
01:17:40we're gonna go to a decision start with you beck i said stay because we're stronger together hmm good
01:18:03good good good strong stay thank you
01:18:07i promise next week i wouldn't have put out i wouldn't have thrown any fires
01:18:12no more fires no more grenades no more grenades i promise i'll hold you to that beck no promises
01:18:17no grenades doing a shake on it all right we'll see you next time guys good luck okay have a
01:18:22good week
01:18:23welcome beck
01:18:31do you need a tissue
01:18:37tomorrow night
01:18:44our couples families and friends come to visit definitely starting to fall for you i can't be
01:18:50more excited for them you've got to let your wall down a little bit over two big nights fresh
01:18:56perspective will see some deepen their connections i do like rachel i need to bring these walls down
01:19:02i need to communicate more i need to be me is gia a better version of your ex but for
01:19:08gia like i'm a
01:19:09bit at a dinner party right now i'm getting fired at as usual hard-hitting questions will leave her
01:19:13frustrated we're six friends at a table are we i'm not getting that vibe do you want to say it
01:19:19or do
01:19:20you want me to say you go home sweet home our three newest couples move in together here we go
01:19:26and
01:19:27tyson reveals an incredible transformation i'm in a lot more positive mindset now john said i do need to
01:19:33be a little bit more curious i think we do get along on so many levels i think this is
01:19:37like the next step
01:19:38frost caught in the act a video popped up of you that my friend sent me what shocking footage has
01:19:45juliette seen of joel like i'm so icked out and in a dramatic turn of events which participant calls
01:19:53as it quits and leaves the experiment
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