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00:00How's my ass?
00:01Yeah.
00:02Previously, a 1,000-pound sisters.
00:05Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
00:08This is not what I expected.
00:09I thought there was going to be Halloween costume.
00:10That's more than three words.
00:14Well, what happened?
00:16Yeah.
00:17.
00:18Amy's got her underwear in a knot,
00:20and she shoved her up her butt.
00:22Amy backed out of going to the animal shelter.
00:24And Tammy lost her .
00:30I haven't heard from Amy since our text fight.
00:33She's blocked me on everything.
00:38We could, like, go out to eat or something, all three of us.
00:42You guys were so close.
00:44I'd just like to see y'all reconcile.
00:47Do you know what she said to me?
00:49Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
00:51I can't handle her toxic ass no more.
00:56.
00:56that bitch.
00:57No, no, no.
00:58She's dead to me.
00:58.
01:18Y'all ready for this?
01:20Not really.
01:21It's been a few days since I tried to talk to Tammy
01:24and have her hear me out.
01:26And I haven't spoken to that bitch since.
01:28I mean, it did take me a couple of days
01:30to get over the fact that Tammy, yet again, was being Tammy.
01:35But I ain't gonna let her stop me.
01:37My eyes is on the prize.
01:39Hello.
01:40Hello.
01:41Welcome in.
01:42We can head on to the back and we'll get you
01:44harnessed up and ready to go.
01:49With the wedding less than four months away,
01:51this girl needs to lose weight.
01:53I heard about a new exercise train called bungee fitness.
01:57So I was like, this might be fine.
02:00But I don't know what the I'm getting myself into.
02:03And I got Misty and Brittany with me.
02:06How are these connected to the ceiling?
02:09Jason, how are those connected to the ceiling?
02:12A little crazy glue?
02:14No.
02:15You better use some gorilla glue.
02:16I'm fat.
02:17How are you doing?
02:18I just thought we were just going
02:20to have some resistance bands.
02:21I didn't think there was a whole thing going out
02:23of the ceiling and stuff like that.
02:25There's so much stuff hanging from the ceiling.
02:27It looks like an octopus coming down the damn ceiling.
02:30Look, cracking's out.
02:33So we're going to start off with some waist trainers.
02:36And what these are going to do is just kind of help
02:38with the friction of the harness and keep it from hurting you.
02:41I'm going to do that right there.
02:44OK, don't do anything crazy.
02:46No jumping around yet.
02:50I feel like I was tied up.
02:52All I was missing was the fuzzy cuffs.
02:56These crazy workouts, I don't know why they keep roping me
02:59into it.
03:00Why in the hell wasn't Chris strapped in?
03:02I want to see his big ass do it.
03:05The first thing we're going to do is some squats.
03:08You're going to make sure you have all the weight in your heels.
03:10We're going to go in three, two, one, squat.
03:18Everybody's looking good.
03:20All right, we're there.
03:21Shake those legs out.
03:23Take a couple breaths in.
03:25Redo the wedgie.
03:29What's wrong with you?
03:32I don't know what to tell you.
03:35These harnesses were not meant for people with excess skin,
03:38I tell you that.
03:40My fabric would go in between the strap and my leg.
03:44My dumb lap is getting caught under this.
03:46Oh, no.
03:47Does it need loosened up a little bit?
03:49No, it's fine.
03:50It just got caught for a second.
03:52Are you sure?
03:53Lately, I've been doing so good on my weight loss.
03:57And now that I'm skinnier, it's starting to bother me even more.
04:02Like, you can see my six-pack.
04:07No, it's not a six-pack yet.
04:09It's just a keg.
04:10It's a small keg.
04:14All right, so the running is the most fun thing,
04:16so that's what we're going to do next.
04:18You're going to run forward, and you're going to run back.
04:21If you don't run backwards, you're going to fall on your butt
04:25because it's going to drag you backwards.
04:27You're essentially strapped to a rubber band, OK?
04:30Are we ready?
04:31Everybody get back.
04:33OK, here we go.
04:34Three, two, one, go.
04:41Oh, ow.
04:42You OK?
04:43You good?
04:44OK.
04:46I'm done with that one, no.
04:48OK.
04:49I felt it when she hit the floor.
04:52It jarred the floor.
04:54I'm not doing that again.
04:55I ain't getting slammed on my ass again.
04:59It was a rubber band pulling me back on my ass.
05:03I got, like, pulled back like you were getting in trouble.
05:06My mama pulled me up out of my shirt.
05:09There you go.
05:09Good job, ladies.
05:11Good job.
05:12All right, this time we're going to run and hop.
05:18All right.
05:20After Amy fell, it was like she didn't put forth as much effort.
05:25But I'm very surprised that she just didn't quit because that's her normal go-to.
05:30She actually stayed and participated.
05:32There you go.
05:34It is a great stretch.
05:36On the other side of that coin, Brittany's lost quite a bit of weight since her bariatric
05:40surgery.
05:41And she really is trying, so, I mean, I'm proud of her.
05:46And last one.
05:48All right.
05:49Good job.
05:51You did it.
05:52High five.
05:57I think I broke my tailbone.
06:00But other than that, I really had fun.
06:04I'm really proud of myself right now.
06:06I got Brian, the boys.
06:08I got the wedding coming up.
06:10And in a few days, me and Brian are going to go see Billy to go over some wedding stuff.
06:15I feel nasty.
06:17I'm going to be sore tomorrow.
06:19Everything's starting to fall in place.
06:21I don't need to deal with Tammy's drama.
06:31I don't need to deal with Tammy's drama.
06:36Oh, Lee, girl.
06:37The sun's about to be the death of me.
06:39That's a swamp ass.
06:41Well, that's what happens when it's 110 degrees outside.
06:46Hi.
06:46Hello.
06:47How are you on today?
06:48Good.
06:48How are you?
06:51Today, me and Amanda are shopping for vitamins.
06:54Amanda has been trying to get me out of the house to cheer me up.
06:58Because I'm still pretty upset after that bull meeting with Amy.
07:05I haven't heard from Amy since.
07:08But she texted Andrea.
07:11And it pisses me off because now she's blowing up Andrea trying to talk to me.
07:18Bitch, if you want to talk to me, talk to me.
07:21Don't go through her.
07:24Your problem's with me, not Andrea.
07:28Leave her the **** alone.
07:32I don't know what all there is.
07:34All this stuff is just, like, speaking French to me.
07:36But I was recently diagnosed with POTS and I've made lifestyle changes, but I need to do better.
07:42Right.
07:43After, like, four months, I finally got diagnosed with POTS.
07:48And we ain't talking about the marijuana.
07:53POTS is posterior orthostatic tachycardia syndrome.
07:56POTS is basically where when you stand up, your heart rate goes high and you just pass out.
08:01So my blood pressure is unstable.
08:04It's very common with bariatric patients.
08:07It's not something that you cure.
08:08It's something that goes in remission.
08:10You cannot have flare-ups for years.
08:12It's kind of like any other autoimmune issue.
08:15We have vegan-based protein.
08:16We have whey isolate, whey concentrate.
08:19We have real food.
08:20Now, your vegan proteins are different.
08:22They're different types of protein based on how it's sourced.
08:25This green superfood complex, you've got all your greens, like your alfalfa, your oat grass, your kale.
08:31You know, at this point, I feel like I just need to be backing my trunk up and saying just
08:35load me up.
08:36Because I'm looking for all kinds of different vitamins.
08:39And I want protein and then the super greens and then you got the red stuff.
08:43And don't forget, you know, the big D.
08:45I mean, the vitamin D is really the best vitamin that you can get.
08:54Before I talk you into, like, buying a container, we make drinks here.
08:59And if you want me to make you all a protein drink, I'll make it.
09:03The way my stomach is absorbing, a drink would be better for me.
09:07Right.
09:07Right.
09:08I'm going to go back there and get that made up for you all.
09:10All right. Sounds good.
09:11You're welcome.
09:13So how's everything been going?
09:16All right.
09:17Because I know that you and Amy kind of had a little bit of a issue the other day.
09:23I popped off, she popped off, and that was it.
09:27I guess Amy's got a corncob stuck up her ass because she got bit by a camel talking about PTSD.
09:32I don't know about all that , but I ain't never heard of no Campbell being at the Vandervyr Humane
09:37Society.
09:38That's one thing I ain't heard of.
09:41But I'm also still heard from what she did to me in PA.
09:45Pittsburgh.
09:45Yeah.
09:46She did tell me that she was leaving that day.
09:52I literally just opened my eyes right after surgery.
09:56And she told me she was leaving.
09:58I do not remember.
10:00Honey, listen.
10:01I do not remember.
10:03She's taking everything from me.
10:05Look.
10:05Listen, hey.
10:06Take a breath.
10:07Hey, stop.
10:08Look at me.
10:08Take a breath.
10:09It's okay.
10:12I don't really know what the hell's going on with Tammy.
10:15You know, like, we're in there, and I'm thinking it's going good, and we're looking at the snacks.
10:19And the next thing I know, she was upset and crying.
10:24I'm still surprised that Tammy is this upset about Pittsburgh.
10:27I didn't realize it was something that she was holding on to that hard.
10:31But that cut really deep that Amy left in such a time as it was,
10:36because somebody made a comment about your bodily stench.
10:41And I didn't even react.
10:43I mean, the bitch stank.
10:46I can't help how I gagged.
10:49She just up and abandoned you.
10:51That's what you're feeling.
10:53Amy does not understand stuff like that.
10:55Or she doesn't care to understand.
10:58But, Tammy, that's been months ago.
11:01Why can't we just sit down and have a conversation?
11:04We tried.
11:05Our injury and I tried, but...
11:10I don't know why I'm having so many mood swings.
11:13But I know that I'm still hurt for what Amy done.
11:18Definitely.
11:20And I know I need to let it go, but at the same time, she's holding grudges, too.
11:28Well, at this point, the ball's in her court.
11:30This is what pisses me off.
11:32My mental is not right right now.
11:34Right.
11:34And she's pushing the issue.
11:36Okay, she'll stop herself.
11:36I don't give a .
11:37But I'm trying to help you, okay?
11:40Don't come for me.
11:41I'm trying to help you calm down, because it's not that serious.
11:44I've done talked about it.
11:45I don't want to talk about it no more.
11:49Tammy's all over the place in this conversation.
11:51And I'm walking on eggshells, because, you know, hell, she can be pissed off at me next.
11:56At this point, let's just put a pin in it, because you're getting angry.
12:00I think that we should just go up here and get these drinks, because they sure are looking good.
12:05You know, I definitely feel like Tammy has had a place in her life where she should seek help.
12:10She's grown up a lot going through this process.
12:12But there's still work that needs to be done.
12:15And don't just stop at losing weight.
12:22How are you handling family dynamic?
12:25What's the hardest part?
12:26Just seeing how her family has treated her since I met her.
12:30I mean, I don't want to take her away from family, but...
12:36Tammy has not been herself lately.
12:38And after we saw Amy, it's just gotten worse.
12:41So I need some advice on what to do.
12:43Does Tammy even know you're here?
12:47That in itself could cause World War III for them two.
13:07Hey!
13:09Oh, my goodness. Girl, what are you doing?
13:12Not much. You look good.
13:14Billy's been in my family for donkey years.
13:16I was probably in my diapers.
13:18And because he's an ordained minister, he's going to marry me and Brian.
13:22But before he does, Billy just wants to meet with Brian and me and do some wedding counseling.
13:29I made you something.
13:31Girl.
13:31It's a spray paint with a stone texture.
13:34Well, that is beautiful.
13:37I'm bringing Billy one of my paintings as, like, a thank you for marrying me and Brian.
13:42I know you live far away, and you're coming out here and doing all these things for nothing.
13:47At least I could give you as a painting that I made with my own two hands out of love.
13:52Be careful, because there is some glass shards in here.
13:55Okay.
13:56You won't get cut, obviously, because I'm not, and I'm being pretty rough on it.
14:02Leave it to Amy to give me not also a beautiful painting, but a way to defend myself if somebody's
14:09in my house.
14:09I mean, I got a shield. I got some glass.
14:12I can throw and stab and run all at the same time.
14:15Thank you, Amy.
14:17I love Amy, and I do know how much it would mean to her if I married them, but I
14:22haven't agreed to do it just yet.
14:24After having this conversation, if I see something that I don't think is right, there's tons of people who can
14:31marry them.
14:32I just wouldn't be that person.
14:34How did you two meet?
14:35At a concert.
14:36At a concert?
14:37Yeah, he interviewed me for the paper, and the next morning I woke up to a DM from him asking
14:43me if I wanted to go get lunch.
14:46I really hope Billy will be the one to marry us and actually thinks we're a strong couple.
14:51I know we're good, but it's just nice to getting the validation from people on the outside sometimes.
14:58So we had a 26-hour date and a 23-hour date.
15:01The third date never ended, because we've not been apart since the third date.
15:05It was a lot of a relationship in a short amount of time.
15:09I know you guys need each other, you depend on each other, but we need our own time.
15:15Yeah.
15:15You know?
15:16So are you able to function without each other?
15:22I can function.
15:23Well, and I don't mean that to say...
15:25He's got a separation exam.
15:26Okay.
15:27No, I do fine.
15:28I mean, I know there's times she's got to go do stuff.
15:30Right.
15:31I guess that's because I know she has to have help.
15:34She has to get around.
15:35Yeah, I'm kind of a burden.
15:36Well...
15:37Not at all, dear.
15:38You're...
15:38And that's...
15:39No, I'm meaning to.
15:40It's only because I'm blind.
15:42The situation is a burden, but you're never a burden.
15:45And you've got to change that mindset.
15:48It's okay.
15:52I've had people tell me I'm a burden because I can't drive.
15:58Since the moment I was born, like, I've always had to rely on my siblings or my nephews or my
16:05niece, somebody to drive me, because I was never able to drive.
16:09And it made me feel like I'm the inconvenience.
16:13I'm the burden of my family.
16:20That's how I feel sometimes.
16:25It's okay to cry about it, but I want you to start understanding your situation's a burden.
16:29You're not.
16:31Zero.
16:32And guess what?
16:33You found somebody to take care of that burden.
16:36Now you've got a burden of somebody who don't want to let go.
16:39And I don't mean that in a negative way.
16:42You know?
16:44Uh...
16:44Yeah.
16:45All right.
16:46Well...
16:46We'll take...
16:47If you don't mind, I'm gonna talk to Brian.
16:50I'll take a walk over there and y'all can talk.
16:55All right.
16:55I'll see y'all in a minute.
16:56All right, dear.
16:58First of all, when did you know and what...
17:01What inside you said, hey, I think this is it?
17:08Um...
17:08I don't want to say the first 26 hours, but it might have been just in that getting to
17:12know her.
17:13I mean, she's funny, fun, smart.
17:15I mean, you just got all this out of that first date.
17:18And how are you handling family dynamic?
17:22Um...
17:24What's the hardest part?
17:25I mean, just seeing how her family has treated her since I met her, I mean, it's...
17:33I don't want to take her away from family, but I want to take her away from being mistreated,
17:39being looked down upon.
17:41Mm-hmm.
17:41I mean, that's been my pleasure to be there to get her where she needs to be, to get the
17:46boys where they need to be.
17:47I mean, to be there for her.
17:49I mean...
17:50You...
17:51You have provided another way of protection for Amy.
17:54And I can't say thank you enough for that.
17:57Talking to Brian, I think the truth is he is in love with Amy.
18:02And if there's red flags to be seen, I'm blind.
18:06All right, Brian.
18:07Give us just a few minutes.
18:08Hold it.
18:08I'm good.
18:09I'm gonna get some more in it.
18:12Well, I had some conversations with Brian.
18:15It was good conversations.
18:17So I will...
18:18But I will tell you, he is...
18:21Smitten like a love-sleep kid.
18:23He is.
18:24Yeah.
18:25Brian was, like, picking out engagement rings after three days.
18:28Because apparently, my vagina is like Fristel or something.
18:37I'm not saying that again.
18:41Well, I just have to be honest with you.
18:43I think he's fantastic.
18:45And I don't say that lightly.
18:47My relationship has been validated today.
18:50If any of my siblings ever had a doubt why I'm marrying this man,
18:53they can just go to Billy like...
18:56That's love, y'all.
18:58What I see is two people's found happiness.
19:03And I'm gonna tell you that 1,000%.
19:06And I am happy and delighted to be the bishop for your wedding.
19:13Now, do you guys have any questions for me?
19:16Can we leave out the part where people object?
19:18Because I think...
19:20I'm telling you now, there will be no drama.
19:22Yeah.
19:23If you got something to say, go ahead and go outside.
19:25And when the wedding's over, you can talk to somebody else about it.
19:28But we're gonna go and have the wedding.
19:30So, you know.
19:31So you've already got bridesmaids.
19:33Brittany, and then it will be Misty.
19:35Got it.
19:35Lili's the maid of honor.
19:36Okay, okay.
19:37And Amanda's coming to the wedding.
19:39Okay.
19:40But she is not in it.
19:42And what is Tammy?
19:44She uninvited herself.
19:45What do you mean by that?
19:47Me and her got into a fight and she said some horrible
19:50that she can't take back.
19:52So, she's out my life.
19:55I'm done.
19:56I'm done giving olive brushes.
19:58There's no more olives on that tree.
19:59I'll loan you a few, man.
20:02But she wants to be positive and quit being a bully and negative to me.
20:05Then she can have something to do with me.
20:07Until then, I'm not giving in.
20:09I have done it my whole life.
20:11Well, because...
20:13I had to.
20:13Well, you were the mother.
20:14But she ain't 700 pounds.
20:15But you were the mother.
20:16And you have to realize that.
20:19You was left taking care of her.
20:22And you had nothing.
20:24What you had was a burden to take care of her.
20:29I didn't even realize that I was a mother to Tammy my whole life.
20:35I was a mother before I was supposed to be a mother.
20:39And it just means a lot that he knows how grown up I was back then.
20:45I do feel like I will say something to Tammy.
20:49I'm going to take care of that.
20:51But all I will ask at this time is, and it's your wedding, you do what you want.
20:56But I want you to reserve a spot in case, a few months down the line, this dynamic between you
21:04and her is different.
21:09You know what I'm thinking?
21:11That would be beautiful for your sister's wedding.
21:15Billie's trying to force me into going to the wedding, and I'm not doing it.
21:19She has not asked me to be there or anything.
21:23So her.
21:35Tammy has not been herself lately.
21:38It's been a while since I've seen the Tammy that I used to know.
21:42I really don't always know when Tammy is going to blow.
21:46It's kind of like zero to 60.
21:49And after we saw Amy, it's just gotten worse.
21:52So I need some advice on what to do because I feel like I'm in over my head.
21:58Hey.
21:58Oh, there you are.
21:59Hey.
22:00Nice to meet you, boss.
22:01Yeah.
22:01How you doing?
22:02All right.
22:03You know, this is the first time I've actually got to sit down and talk to Andrea since her
22:08and Tammy started dating.
22:09But I really don't have a clue what Andrea really wants to talk about today.
22:15Um, I just want to tell you I talked to Amy and Tammy the other day.
22:20I don't know what you know.
22:21Well, I know they got into it about that day you was over there.
22:24Yeah.
22:25Well, the better question is, does Tammy even know you're here?
22:33No.
22:37Yeah.
22:38I know.
22:38Set me up for failure.
22:40Me too.
22:41No.
22:41No.
22:42No.
22:44Andrea called me this morning and see if I was able to come and enjoy a lunch with her
22:49today and come to find out that Tammy wasn't aware that she was meeting with me, that in
22:57itself could cause World War III for them too.
23:01I don't know why Tammy don't want us to get to know her very well at the moment.
23:05That's what it seems.
23:07Maybe she's afraid that we're going to run her off.
23:11Well, Tammy, if your ass ain't running the bitch off, ain't nobody else going to.
23:16You .
23:18But I tried so hard, Chris.
23:20Like, I mean, like, I was as calm as I am right now.
23:23And I just couldn't.
23:24And then Tammy walked out.
23:26And that was it.
23:27Welcome to my world of 45 years.
23:33Somebody's always fighting.
23:37Nobody in the family has ever chose to take on the peacemaker role in this family besides
23:45me.
23:45For her to go this far out of her way, to try to get Tammy and Amy back together, it
23:52just
23:52shows how good of a damn person she is.
23:55You know, honestly, right now, I kind of feel Tammy's going through some .
24:00Apparently, she has a problem with my wife too.
24:03She does?
24:04Brittany.
24:05Why?
24:05Because she said something about Brittany when she lived with us.
24:08Brittany hit her with the purse trying to knock her out of the way or something.
24:11Hell, I don't know.
24:12Yeah, it was some .
24:14I've heard through the grapevine that Tammy said something about Brittany knocking her out
24:19of the way with her purse.
24:20You know, just everything about it is just kind of ridiculous to start thinking about
24:26it.
24:26But to be honest, if Tammy ever comes for my wife, there will be a problem.
24:34Tammy needs to go back to talking to her therapist and stuff.
24:37Because I feel that she's kind of slacked off her therapy.
24:41And now we're getting in the wrong direction of being Miss Difficult again.
24:46But she has the best intentions.
24:48I love her to death.
24:49I try to take care of her and help her.
24:50She's got to figure out something to how to control her anger.
24:53If she can get that portion of her personality under control, you couldn't ask for a better person.
24:59Right.
25:00Do you think it's the surgery that's making her act different?
25:05Like with her hormones and stuff?
25:07I'm sure her hormones are screaming out of way.
25:10Yeah.
25:10She was 727 pounds and .
25:12She probably needs to go get some level checks.
25:15Yeah, I agree.
25:16I agree.
25:18Tammy ain't been right since she come home from Pittsburgh.
25:21She's going through changes and she's still learning herself, especially after this first wave of skin removal surgery.
25:28But I really think she needs to get back on her mental health kick.
25:31So at first, when y'all started y'all's little running around together thing, I didn't know if you were
25:39just bashful and didn't want to meet us.
25:42Or if Tammy was trying to keep you from our crazy asses.
25:46I didn't know.
25:49Because it kind of felt like she was keeping you away from us.
25:54That is exactly why I haven't.
25:59I have been told numerous times that I never want you to meet my family.
26:04I never want you to meet them.
26:06I mean, I understand that, you know, we're rough and rowdy, loud and bunches.
26:11Oh, but I mean, I am too.
26:13But is she embarrassing us?
26:15I mean, everybody kind of makes it sound like it.
26:18Yeah.
26:18Oh.
26:20We've been told Andrea's shy she don't want to meet nobody.
26:23Come to find out, it's Tammy that don't want her to meet us.
26:27That kind of a catch corny two feelings there for me, because it kind of bothers me that Tammy don't
26:31want us to meet her.
26:32But yet it makes me feel glad, because I was kind of starting to think she was a bitch that
26:36she didn't want to meet us all.
26:37You know what I'm saying?
26:39She's blessed to have you guys, because I don't have that.
26:42We can do two.
26:43You've got five or six or seven of us now.
26:44All of us got kids and family.
26:46So you're just part of the big happy family.
26:49When Chris told me I was already part of the family, that made me feel really great, because family is
26:54so important.
26:55And I don't have any, so it's just like, it made me tear up a little bit, to be honest.
26:59I mean, I'm so glad you said it.
27:04We should get together as a family.
27:06That's what I want to do.
27:08A couple weeks from now is when her birthday is, or three.
27:11Yeah, so I was thinking about that, but then I was like, sometimes she'll say she wants a party, and
27:17then one day she doesn't.
27:18I wanted to take her go-kart riding, because she's never been able to do it.
27:22But then she said she didn't want to do it.
27:25I'm just going to tell you the planet.
27:28If you know it's something she would love to try to do, do it.
27:34I would keep it small.
27:36Like, we can't have the party and not invite Amy, though.
27:39I mean, that's kind of rude.
27:41I'll worry about getting Amy there.
27:43You just have to get Tammy to either I pick her up or somebody pick her up and tell her,
27:48hey, we're going to go here and then show up for a surprise birthday party or something.
27:52That's what I would do.
27:52It has to be a surprise, because she knows.
27:56She ain't going.
27:57It's going to be like Chucky.
27:59You know what I mean?
28:00Chucky.
28:01Michael.
28:06It's just that if she's in a bad mood that day, I'm going to be like, Lord, we ain't going.
28:14That might be the easy way out, hey?
28:16Yeah.
28:17Just send me a 911 text, and I don't know what that means.
28:20The bitch is on fire.
28:23If she's game to get everybody together, I'm willing to help.
28:28Getting everybody together could do either one or two things.
28:31It could put a Band-Aid on it, and we start doing what we do best, and that's eating and
28:34conjugating.
28:36Or it could have a high-speed come apart, and we talking World War III up in this bitch.
28:42I love my sister to death, but planning a birthday party should not be this damn stressful.
28:50Take a minute.
28:51Look at me.
28:54I don't think Tammy understands how to deal with her negative emotions at this point.
28:59I'm getting very overwhelmed.
29:14I haven't got to hang out with Lili in a while.
29:16I haven't seen her since I tried on wedding dresses.
29:20Hey, what's up?
29:21How's it going?
29:22I'm good.
29:23I'm good.
29:24And I got an idea, and I want to run it by Lili and see her point of view on
29:29it, because
29:29she ain't going to lie to me.
29:30She's going to tell me like it is, regardless if I want to hear the answer or not.
29:34She's going to tell me.
29:35Catch me up with what's been going on.
29:37Lili, I've just been trying to move into bride's house soon.
29:42That sounds good.
29:43What about the wedding?
29:45The only thing we really need is like bridesmaids and grooms tuxes, Brian's tux, the boys' tux.
29:53What about the bachelorette party?
29:55I was thinking about doing like, kind of going to craft something.
30:07Let me take care of that.
30:09You sure?
30:10Yeah.
30:10Let me take care of that.
30:11I'd like to do that.
30:12Yeah.
30:13We could figure something out.
30:15Are we like Little House on the Prairie or something?
30:20No.
30:21I'm not going to let her get away with a low-key bachelorette party.
30:24We're going to make it a little lit.
30:30But there's something else I'm in keeping from you.
30:32What?
30:34I'm thinking about it.
30:36Doing an art show.
30:42I think that that would be possible.
30:45I think that you could do that.
30:46Because you really got some nice artwork.
30:49When me and Michael got a divorce, I was going through a lot of stuff.
30:53So I picked up painting as a step to like, express myself.
30:59You know what?
31:00I feel like this damn duck, the odd one out of my whole family.
31:03I'm the one that shines the brightest.
31:06But I get lost because they overtake me.
31:11I kind of make art by what I'm going through.
31:13Like my weight loss journey.
31:15Or the family drama.
31:16I mean, these are great, babe.
31:18Have you thought about selling them?
31:19I never really thought about selling my art.
31:22I think I'm just too nervous.
31:25I didn't think they were any good.
31:26That's why I always kept it to myself.
31:29But it's just a way to keep my hands moving.
31:32I know hands are a devil's bitch.
31:37What do you think about the art?
31:39That's why I brought you here to scope out the place with me.
31:43I like it.
31:45Like, would you come if I put my paintings and stuff up?
31:49Yeah.
31:51Amy's art is unique.
31:53I don't even, can't even put the name on the style.
31:56It's just coming from someplace deep inside her mind, imaginary place.
32:01And, I mean, you know, people, you got the naysayers.
32:04But she really puts her heart into it.
32:07And, you know, I guess the world deserves to see that.
32:11Why don't you ask him?
32:14That's way better than what I can do.
32:17I've seen a lot of your artwork.
32:18You're really good.
32:19I guess I'm my biggest critic.
32:22Like, I nitpick every piece.
32:24That's what we do.
32:25But you'll never know unless you ask.
32:27Having my own art show.
32:29It would be my dream come to life.
32:32I never put myself out there as an artist when I was 400 pounds
32:36because my self-esteem was so low.
32:39But now I think I'm kind of like a phoenix rising through the ashes.
32:45But the scariest part about putting yourself out there is
32:49what if people don't like it?
32:51What if people don't like me?
33:04Today Billy and I have a day to go shopping.
33:07But...
33:09I'm just not here today.
33:12I have so much on my mind.
33:19Psst!
33:21Girl, what are you doing?
33:23Look at this.
33:25Wait a minute, girl.
33:26Are you trying to be a model now?
33:28Bathing suit now?
33:30What's good? Why? What's wrong?
33:33I just don't feel good.
33:35I knew right away something was offset.
33:41Normally with me she greets perfectly fine.
33:44We're cheery.
33:45We're down and we're ready to go.
33:47But today she's got something bothering her.
33:50I'm not really for sure what it is.
33:52But she's down and out about something.
33:55Wait a minute, my Trump over is getting ready to get blown.
34:02I felt the wind.
34:04Listen, you're fine, but we ain't doing like this while I'm talking.
34:07Hell to the no.
34:10So how's things been going?
34:12All right. I mean...
34:15Arguing with Amy's, too.
34:17Over wedding stuff?
34:20Yeah.
34:21And then, like, Sheila really...
34:24I guess I'm still letting things build up from...
34:28P.A.
34:29Where she had just kind of ditched me.
34:32And I'm just...
34:33I'm at the point where I don't care about her.
34:36You know where I live, you got my number.
34:39I mean, I'm serious.
34:42I personally have...
34:46Anger...
34:46Not really...
34:47It's not really anger, it's more of...
34:51Heartbroken.
34:52But I turned that into anger.
34:56And...
34:57It's because of how Amy has treated me.
35:01I kind of like these, but I don't know if they did.
35:05Uh, yeah, if they're not stretching, we're not trying.
35:08The first thing that came out of Tammy's mouth was Pennsylvania.
35:12So I know she wants to talk about that, and I know that she wants to vent.
35:17You know, that is her sister.
35:18She misses her sister.
35:20But that was six months ago.
35:22It's a little bit...
35:24Upsetting.
35:25We're still back in Pennsylvania.
35:29Now, listen.
35:31Okay.
35:32You know what I'm thinking?
35:34From 1982?
35:35No, no, no.
35:36Think real hard.
35:39You nasty.
35:40No.
35:41Oh.
35:42Well, I'm nasty.
35:44Yeah, you nasty.
35:46But we're...
35:47This is for another conversation, but I do believe that would be beautiful for your sister's wedding.
35:54I mean, it's...
35:55It would be.
35:56That's a thing.
35:57Well, no, we're not doing all that now.
36:01Billy's trying to force me into going to the wedding, and I'm not doing it.
36:05She is not asking me to be there or anything.
36:10So her.
36:13Don't worry, Tammy.
36:14You will get to go to the wedding.
36:16I think it'll be fine.
36:19You don't...
36:20Don't stress over things we can't handle, honey.
36:24This is one step at a time.
36:25Who knows?
36:27Everything's gonna work out.
36:29Everything's gonna be fine.
36:32Take a minute.
36:33Look at me.
36:34Uh-uh.
36:35I said, look at me, not look the other way.
36:39You're tired.
36:41And it's stressed.
36:44All of a sudden, Tammy's having a major meltdown.
36:47Something just wasn't...
36:51Wasn't right.
36:52And I was like, what's going on?
36:54Well, here.
36:55Here.
36:57Just...
36:58Everything's fine.
37:00Everything is fine.
37:04Maybe we should go try these on.
37:07Maybe we should go try these on.
37:09This is fine.
37:10I want to.
37:16Do you want to try those clothes on?
37:19I'm getting very overwhelmed.
37:25Look at me.
37:27Like a day breath.
37:30Everything's gonna work out.
37:32Everything's gonna be fine.
37:35You gonna try these on?
37:36You gonna check it out?
37:37When I'm back on the shelf.
37:39Mm.
37:42Um...
37:42Do you want this?
37:47Girl, I don't even know where these things went.
37:49Hey, help me put these back.
37:51She's seven and four.
37:53She gone.
38:10I met up with Tammy today because I know her and Amy have been going through a rough time.
38:14But she's just not acting herself.
38:18When Tammy's upset or uncomfortable, she immediately throws up a guard.
38:23So if you're around her, even though she doesn't mean it, you all of a sudden become a target to
38:30her.
38:30But I don't tolerate children having a fit in a store.
38:34That kind of...
38:37I didn't know what to do about that.
38:41So listen.
38:43Something is stressing you and it's bothering me.
38:47I just don't feel good. I'm ready to go back home.
38:50Well?
38:51And it's nothing against you. I just don't feel good.
38:54And I know it's... Listen, I know it's nothing against me.
38:58But you know, I'm trying to figure out how the best way to say this without upsetting you because that's
39:05not what I want to do.
39:07But you have to share with me, other than not feeling good, what you got going on.
39:13I drove three hours to come up here to be with you.
39:16I don't want to talk about this, my mom. I'm getting really mad.
39:20Now, you know I love you more than anything.
39:22But we've got to get over whatever it is we got to get over.
39:28It's frustrating when you have to drive three hours just to come to support somebody and then they say, oh,
39:34never mind.
39:35You know, because she could have called me on the telephone and I could have did a U-turn on
39:41the highway and go back home.
39:42I mean, I didn't need a tantrum on me. I'm the one driving.
39:46If anybody's had a tantrum, it should have been myself. So, at this point, I'm confused.
39:51I don't think Tammy really understands how to deal with her negative emotions at this point.
40:00Everything's too much today and I need... I want to go home.
40:06I truly do wish you would understand that you've got so many people on your side and so many people
40:12love you.
40:12I really, truly wish you would understand that, Tammy.
40:16The choices that Tammy is making at this time is not...
40:23It's really not Tammy.
40:25What I'm confused with is sometimes I feel like there's someone behind her that's winding her up and saying,
40:32you need to focus more on being a bitch or you need to focus more on what you want to
40:40do
40:40and not worry about what somebody else thinks is best for you if it's not your way.
40:45But I think eventually Tammy needs to understand, hey, you know, I do need to...
40:52I need to consider somebody else's feelings and she used to.
40:55I need to go home.
40:58I don't want to be here.
41:00I don't want to deal with this. I don't want people in my face.
41:05I just want to be left alone.
41:11Oh, hey!
41:13Next time on 1,000 Pound Sisters...
41:15I recently got the idea of actually having my own art show.
41:19Was everybody invited?
41:21Yes. I invited Tammy and Andrea.
41:24Okay.
41:24This woman, Amy messaged me about her art show. I don't know if he would want to go.
41:30Bitch, if he really wants to make up, then come to me.
41:34I'm not going to you first.
41:38I don't think you could pick me up.
41:40Come here.
41:43Brittany's lost 50 pounds and that's great.
41:46But for as long as I've known Brittany, she's dreamed about being a mom.
41:51I mean, if it was going to happen, it should have happened by now for sure.
41:54So you think we should get checked out, us both?
41:57Well, I know I ain't got no problems.
41:59I've already got two running around here.
42:04There's Brian and Amy.
42:06Hey, how are you?
42:07My time's running out on getting them to reconcile before this vacation that's about to happen.
42:13So I didn't exactly tell everybody the main reason I wanted all of us here today.
42:18Hey, y'all. Hey, sis.
42:20Happy birthday.
42:23They didn't tell me birthday party for.
42:27Why, why, why, why?
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