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00:00Previously on The Single Life.
00:02Girl's trip!
00:04I've recently filed for divorce.
00:06So what better way to celebrate them with a girl's trip?
00:09Sophie B, all here because of you.
00:11And we have a special guy who we come to see.
00:14I've been talking to this guy.
00:15His name is Pedro.
00:18And yeah, it is that Pedro from Chantel and Pedro.
00:23But I don't want to rush it the same way I rushed my marriage.
00:26You're separated right now.
00:27Are you still married?
00:28I'm still excited to be married.
00:30Any hookups with him?
00:31Yeah.
00:32They've been hookups.
00:34And she never told me they did hookups before.
00:36What the we doing here?
00:40I want to look good for Natalie, so I bought a couple of new shirts.
00:44My first attempt at dating Natalie, it didn't go very well.
00:47But I asked her if I could visit her, and she said yes.
00:51I have some nervousness.
00:53It's a little nerve-wracking.
00:55I know it's my last shot, and I cannot mess it up.
00:59I have two roommates.
01:01Oh, two.
01:02I used to date one of them.
01:04Sadly, I cheated on her.
01:06Oh.
01:07It is hard as to find a good man in your 50s.
01:10Maybe dating isn't something you should be stressing too hard about.
01:14You have a lot of other things going on.
01:17I've been carrying a really big secret for about 30 years.
01:21Jamal has an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption.
01:24You think you're going to have a deep talk with him?
01:26I have to have a deep talk with him.
01:28About what?
01:29About the other one.
01:31Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
01:34I also had a daughter.
01:35I don't know, man.
01:59La cosa es que ella se está divorciando ahora.
02:00¿Tú me entiendes?
02:02SÃ.
02:03Y ese es el problema.
02:05Yo pello la panorama.
02:08Es más de lo que nos lleva.
02:11Es el panorama.
02:14Yo sé que ella le sube pareja, no la trató como la tiene que tratar.
02:18¿Y tú eres experto en eso?
02:20I said sorry that Sophie's here and they are with her friends.
02:23I really, really want a relationship with Sophie.
02:25But she has sex with the ex a couple of months ago.
02:29So I don't know if she's ready to let her go the past.
02:33La vuelta a traer como una princesa, una reina, todo lo que ella quiera.
02:37Tú sabes, voy a tratar de hacerlo.
02:40Pero todo depende de...
02:42Ella, ella quiere.
02:43I don't like this situation, but I want to let her go because I like her.
02:48And I want to do whatever it takes to win Sophie over.
02:51How did your conversation go?
02:53So we're getting to know each other, but that's the extent that I'm ready for.
02:57If he just lets me open up myself, it will be better for me.
03:02So can you take a step back?
03:04Yes.
03:04And you will take a step forward.
03:05Step forward, yeah, yeah.
03:07Pedro's coming on very strong.
03:09You know what Pedro asked me?
03:10He asked me if I can rob.
03:12And what do you say?
03:13I said...
03:14Truth?
03:14Yeah, I said the truth.
03:15Why am I going to lie?
03:16And what did he say?
03:17He was not happy.
03:19Oh.
03:19Like, I feel like he kind of was, like, judging me.
03:22Even if you say yes, I sleep with him yesterday before I came to DR.
03:27It's nothing because you're not a relationship.
03:29You're dating.
03:31Help me, I need a pig.
03:35Hi, Sophie.
03:36Oh, hi.
03:38Bella.
03:38What's up, bro?
03:39Bitch.
03:40Hi.
03:40How you doing?
03:41I'm having a great time.
03:42Sophie's been talking about me.
03:45So, Sophie's definitely been, like, he's the first guy to buy me flowers.
03:50And she said that you're so, like, respectful.
03:54Like, very sweet.
03:55You're very sweet and romantic.
03:57Are we serious about her?
03:59I am.
04:00Are you all?
04:01I am.
04:02Yeah.
04:02You're thinking that she really want this?
04:05That she's been a little distant these days, you know?
04:07I think, you know, she just recently is just getting out of this marriage and relationship.
04:13And it seems like you've been kind of separated and divorced for a while.
04:16She's in the beginning stages of trying to, like, discover, like, where she's at.
04:22That's a bit scary.
04:22Like, she want to discover more of that side.
04:25No, no, no.
04:25Not discover more.
04:27She needs to...
04:28She's still healing.
04:30She's still healing?
04:31Healing, yeah.
04:32Yeah.
04:34I didn't feel the list is holding back, and she's not telling me the whole story.
04:38She didn't say directly, but it's made me think that Sophie's not ready for a relationship.
04:45Like, what the f***?
04:46I've been doing all those things for you, and right now, maybe you're not ready for a relationship?
04:50That made me feel like a freaking idiot.
04:54What are we interrupting right now?
04:55Nothing.
04:56What are we doing?
04:57Nothing?
04:57Nothing?
04:58I think we are tired.
05:00No.
05:00And we have to go back to the resort.
05:02I'm ready for bed.
05:04Let's bring you to the band, ladies, okay?
05:07I'm going to bed, Chara.
05:09I came to the DR to be single and mingle, and first night, crushed it.
05:15I'll see you tomorrow, okay?
05:17Make sure he gets home safe.
05:18I'll go ahead and give you a text.
05:19You have my number, okay?
05:21All right.
05:21Have a good night.
05:22I even got a number.
05:23Via is so sexy and so sweet.
05:26I'm so excited to see him again.
05:28I'll see you tomorrow?
05:29Yes.
05:30Yes, for sure?
05:32Yeah, let me know what you're going to do.
05:33Okay.
05:34A little to the beach, maybe.
05:35Do something.
05:35Yeah, I want to go to the beach.
05:37Honestly, for me, the night has just been very overwhelming, and Pedro definitely came
05:41on a lot stronger tonight than I anticipated.
05:45Him pushing me forward or trying to pressure me to something is only going to make me step
05:48back, and things between us are just going to end before they've even started.
05:52Pedro just needs to take things a little bit slower.
05:55You look beautiful.
05:58And then tomorrow we see you, okay?
06:00Okay, I see you.
06:02I want a relationship with Sophie.
06:04I didn't feel like she's like a true diamond, and I know that we can't be really good together.
06:09Bye, princess.
06:10Bye.
06:10Take care.
06:11But if she's not serious about me, what's she doing to be hard with me?
06:16I don't know what's going on.
06:19It's freaking up.
06:35As much as I want to sit here and, like, talk about how, like, I feel bad for you and
06:39stuff, I don't expect you to feel bad for me.
06:41I've never asked you to.
06:42I know, I don't.
06:52Like, I know it's, like, a lot for you.
06:55But I caused it.
06:56Yeah, it's your fault.
07:00So I just don't have Jamal as a son.
07:04I have Larry, who I put up for adoption when I was 21 years old.
07:10Last year, when I told Jamal of all of this and all of this opened, it hurt worse because
07:17I had hid it for so long.
07:22It just sucks, dude.
07:24Like, me thinking I was the only child, but then finding out not only am I not an only child,
07:29I have, like, multiple siblings.
07:34Larry wasn't the only child that I put up for adoption.
07:37And I also had a daughter a year later.
07:40My relationship with Jamal's dad at that point was not good, and I had to do what was best
07:44for me at the time.
07:48I don't regret what I did, but I'm not happy with what I did either.
07:56Because you're bringing these beautiful beings into this world.
08:02And you feel that motherly love, and you feel that maternal thing, and knowing what you're
08:06doing, and knowing that you're giving them up for adoption.
08:11It's probably one of the hardest things I think any birth mother has to go through.
08:18I knew about my sister when I was 12, and then I found out about Larry, because he found
08:22you a year ago.
08:25It's like, why in that gap you didn't just tell me about him?
08:29I just didn't know how.
08:31I really just did not know how.
08:34When Jamal was 12, he overheard me and my mother talking about his sister, and that's
08:39how Jamal found out.
08:41I think I only told Jamal about one, because I just thought, to me, like, one would make
08:46sense, but to do it twice, I didn't want to him up.
08:53Did I handle it well?
08:54No.
08:55Not at all.
08:57I don't know.
08:57I really feel for Larry not telling him about our full-blood sister.
09:04I feel like every time I talk to him, it's like I'm, like, hiding a truth from him, and
09:08I feel like about it.
09:11Do you not think I feel like too?
09:16I didn't tell Larry about his sister when he first found me, because I was, like, trying
09:21to get to know him.
09:22He was trying to get to know me, and I just couldn't figure out a way to tell him.
09:27But now Larry wants to come visit us, and I have to go into this being completely 100%
09:33transparent.
09:35We can't build a strong, honest relationship if I'm keeping secrets from him.
09:44So I'm going to tell him about his sister.
09:46But I feel like I don't want you to be there when I tell him, so don't worry about that.
09:50I'll take care of myself.
09:50Why would I not be there?
09:51I feel like I do want to be there, because, like, and I don't want to sound like a dick,
09:57but I don't know what you're going to tell him.
09:59Let me tell him the truth.
10:00I don't know.
10:02I don't know.
10:06I feel really protective of Larry, because I don't want my mom to lie to him like she
10:12lied to me.
10:15I'm hoping me and my mom can get back to how we used to be, but it's going to take
10:22a lot
10:23of rebuilding of trust, like her actually being transparent with Larry, because right
10:29now, I just, I just don't trust her anymore.
10:36Anyway, let me know when Larry's coming.
10:47All right, I'm out.
10:49All right, love you.
10:57Telling Larry about his sister is going to be really difficult, but I know I have to
11:01do this, because it's killing me.
11:03It is literally killing me.
11:06And it's like, I feel like I'm, like, drowning sometimes, and I have to, like, swim just to
11:10get to the top.
11:15You know, the way I handled it was terrible.
11:17It was awful.
11:17Do you think this was easy for me to live with my whole life for 30, 35 years, 34 years?
11:24It was awful.
11:26All of this has affected my self-esteem, my self-worth, but I feel like now I have to,
11:32like, gain Jamal's trust back.
11:34I want to build a bigger relationship with Larry, and I feel like I want to find love.
11:40I want somebody to accept me for all this craziness that's going on.
11:45I think having Larry out here and just talking to him and being real, and then, you know,
11:49just having transparent conversations is going to help a lot.
11:51That's what I'm hopeful for.
11:56Good morning, family.
11:58Good morning.
11:59Good morning.
12:01Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico.
12:04Things got romantic, so she invited me to live with her in Florida at her parents' house.
12:12There it is.
12:13There it is.
12:13Ooh, nice one.
12:14Do you think they have sex more than we do?
12:16I think it's more than what we're doing, so.
12:20I was talking to Liz.
12:22She told me, like, oh, yeah, you do amazing things for Sophie, but are you sure that she
12:29want to be with you?
12:30She made me feel a little bit like, how do I say?
12:33Like, be careful.
12:34Wait, what did she exactly say?
12:37To go behind my back, that's breaking girl code.
12:39Like, you don't do that.
12:41I'm really pissed.
12:42I'm really pissed.
13:00Is there anyone golfing with us today?
13:02No, just us.
13:04Okay, okay.
13:06Joe at the club the other day told me a funny joke.
13:09How come most golfers bring two pairs of pants with them?
13:13I don't know.
13:14Why?
13:15Then in case they get a hole in one.
13:16Ah, I like it.
13:19That guy brings three pairs with me.
13:22Get some more pants here.
13:24Uh-huh.
13:28You guys are being so loud.
13:30So slow.
13:31Huh?
13:31What are you guys doing?
13:33We're getting ready to go golfing.
13:35Good morning, sunshine.
13:49Well, I'm glad you're up, Courtney, because this morning I woke up at 4 o'clock because I was freezing.
13:55I looked at the thermostat and it was set on 67 degrees.
14:01What does that say right now?
14:03Is somebody sick?
14:04Yeah.
14:04And that's where it's going to stay because we pay the bills.
14:07I'm Courtney.
14:08I'm 34.
14:09I live with my parents in Orlando, Florida.
14:12So hot last night.
14:13I couldn't sleep.
14:14Courtney, when you own your own house, you can freeze all you want.
14:18I live with my parents because they're better than any roommate I've had.
14:22Sorry.
14:23Yeah, sorry.
14:24That don't pay the bills.
14:26And also, when I've lived with roommates, it's so much drama.
14:30It's almost like being in the jungle or something.
14:32I think I'm just like prancing around like a little just gazelle, whatever they're called,
14:36and people are just like, ah.
14:38I don't need that in my life.
14:40I just want peace, quiet, like live a nice retirement lifestyle.
14:45When we were your age, we were almost on our second home by then.
14:49With two little kids and mouths to feed.
14:53I've been telling my parents for years, I don't want to move out until I get married.
14:57But my love life has been all drama.
15:05One of my biggest heartbreaks was Antonio.
15:08We met online.
15:09I flew to Spain to meet him.
15:11We got along great.
15:13Like, I thought he was the one.
15:15But there were too many trust issues.
15:18Like, I picked up your phone for like five seconds, and you're like texting like Angel,
15:23Paulina, Maria.
15:24What's the problem?
15:25I got friends.
15:26Okay.
15:28Since Antonio, I've dated a bunch.
15:30But it seems like things always end with me in tears.
15:34It makes me sad how much you've changed.
15:37People do change, bro.
15:39I don't like it.
15:40And I think my parents are starting to worry that I might be living with them forever.
15:47I love living with you guys.
15:49I think you're the best roommates I've had.
15:51Well, yeah, because mom does your laundry for you and cooks for you and gets your groceries.
15:55Oh, what is this?
15:58Oh, my God.
15:59Oh.
16:00Sorry, mom.
16:03What's that all about?
16:04I have no idea.
16:07You put your underwear in my mom's laundry.
16:09Again.
16:11What?
16:12This is like the third time you've done it.
16:14Oh.
16:16Good morning.
16:29I just woke up and my dad's already mad at me for messing with the thermostat.
16:33It keeps it a little too high.
16:36I'm Colt.
16:37I'm 39 years old.
16:38And I live in Orlando, Florida with my girlfriend, Courtney, and her parents.
16:43I know it's one of his number one rules.
16:46Now, shall not change the thermostat.
16:48Yeah, and put your dirty underwear in the laundry.
16:51I did put it in the laundry.
16:53I put it in the basket.
16:55Courtney and I met two months ago at a singles retreat in Mexico.
16:58I was there because, unfortunately, I have not been lucky in love.
17:06Larissa was my first wife, a fiery Brazilian.
17:10Coach, you're a fat loser that lives with your mother.
17:12But, unfortunately, things got toxic really fast.
17:15F*** you at home.
17:18I met Jess after my divorce from Larissa.
17:23What?
17:24Whoa!
17:25What the f***?
17:26You lie!
17:26What are you talking about?
17:27Vanessa talking with your friends.
17:29You talk every day!
17:31I cheated on Jess with a woman named Vanessa, who would literally become my second wife.
17:38But, after being married for three years, she told me that she didn't want to be with me anymore.
17:41And she wasn't in love with me.
17:43And it broke my f***ing heart.
17:45I just f***ing had it.
17:48I always go into relationships with the best of intentions.
17:51I want things to work out.
17:53But, somehow or another, I mess things up.
17:56I hope things can be different with Kourtney.
17:59Morning, family.
18:01Well, morning.
18:03Sorry about the laundry, guys.
18:05I really appreciate everything you guys have been doing.
18:07How is your leg?
18:09You know, I still feel a lot of pain most days.
18:12But, I think everything happens for a reason.
18:15Like, we're together because of it.
18:16Oh, my God.
18:19Are you okay, Rob?
18:20No.
18:21The leg I broke.
18:22Can't move it.
18:23While I was at the singles retreat in Mexico, I was leaving Kourtney's room.
18:27And I slipped and fell.
18:29And I broke my leg.
18:31I have five fractures in my knee.
18:34Colt was in the hospital for about three weeks.
18:36I was there with him almost 24-7.
18:40So, that's when we really started bonding.
18:43So, now, you're here.
18:45Aw.
18:46Things got romantic.
18:48So, when I was discharged, she invited me to live with her in Florida.
18:53She knew I didn't have anywhere to go.
18:54I had a long road to recovery.
18:57And she wanted to help me as much as possible.
18:59I'm glad you're here.
19:00I'm glad I'm here, too.
19:02I know you're in a lot of pain.
19:04But, why don't you guys come golf with us?
19:07You can ride in the golf cart, get some fresh air.
19:10Do you want to go?
19:10Yeah, that'd be great.
19:11Okay, if you're going to go, let's go.
19:13Let's go get ready.
19:14I'll help you.
19:15Okay.
19:21Do you want your titties shaved, Jen?
19:24I guess.
19:25Oh.
19:26Look at that.
19:27I brought him to Florida to help him go through physical therapy, take care of him.
19:34And I really hoped he'd be further along in his recovery by now.
19:38But, basically, I'm his full-time nurse.
19:41Do you want to wear the green or the tan?
19:43I'll leave the tan.
19:44Okay.
19:45He could barely even wipe his ass by himself.
19:49They're tight.
19:50They're tight.
19:52I feel some things should probably be left unseen, especially so early on in a relationship.
20:01Push.
20:02Oh, my God.
20:03You're going to knock me off.
20:09Off-road driving.
20:10I do.
20:12Hey.
20:14You got this.
20:15Straight ahead, I believe.
20:17You got this.
20:18I have confidence in you.
20:20Your turn, Courtney.
20:22Good luck.
20:25You got this.
20:26You went up too steep.
20:28There he is.
20:29Yay, Courtney!
20:31I see it.
20:35there it is there it is oh nice one it's so cute you think they have sex more than we
20:41do
20:42oh my god like ew why are you thinking that but anything is more than what we're doing so
20:51yeah we haven't had sex full-on sex yet right now the plumbing doesn't work so well
20:59oh my god we'll get there it's a grower you know but it's very majestic when it's fully
21:06you know realized it makes me feel like insecure like am i your type you're definitely my type
21:14i mean you know we've had some success but it's just when we transition into penetration
21:23then i kind of go down but why i don't know it hurts i'm moving my body around there's all
21:30expectation i'm still on medicine colt is like known for being like a horny bunny like he wants
21:39to do it hourly he wants it all the time so the fact he can't get it up for me
21:43it's making me wonder
21:45like is colt here because he's into me or is he here out of convenience because he basically has
21:52everything provided for him he's not paying rents he's not paying bills he has it pretty good
21:57we're in this weird situation because i feel like i've known you forever we get along we don't argue
22:03but then it's like okay i don't really know you i've only known you like a month or two
22:09yeah let's be honest like your exes are constantly online like oh you're a liar you're a cheater like
22:14they're not saying anything good about you why were they with me then i mean i'm sure they liked
22:20you in the beginning until you cheated on them i mean sure i have a past but yeah it doesn't
22:27mean
22:27i'm always going to do that it doesn't mean i can't be a good guy for you trust is everything
22:33in a relationship but i do struggle to trust men in general because a lot of them do lie and
22:38cheat
22:39i want to believe that colt has changed maybe he's matured maybe he's grown up like i know that we
22:45have
22:45a lot to to figure out but i want to do it with you i want to figure out all
22:51these problems with you
22:52every day as we grow old together i mean i've always wanted to get married have kids have a family
22:58like i feel me and colt are aligned we have a lot of the same goals so i'm hoping it
23:04works
23:04it has to work we'll get there
23:11i didn't like the way it ended for us i understand that you didn't create the havoc but there's a
23:18lot
23:18i didn't i felt i didn't know i haven't seen gino in almost a year i want to believe that
23:23he truly
23:24made a mistake but i don't know if i can trust gino i don't know if i can trust anything
23:29he says
23:43it's a little nerve-wracking because i haven't seen natalie in a long time this is my chance
23:49one two three turn around don't you watch me now just turn around touch your knees don't look
23:55just turn around do it now you'll make me count
23:59hey gino how are you i'm good how are you doing good long time to see how are you how
24:10are you i'm
24:11good i'm good you look thinner you look thinner after all the drama that happened
24:17i did not expect natalie to give me a second chance i'm on your home turf i know this time
24:23you're in dc i am absolutely super excited to have this opportunity to reconnect with her
24:31and make things right oh my gosh it's so cool here yeah you have some beautiful trees and hills
24:39and parks um you seem a little nervous are you okay uh well i am nervous i am i do
24:50have a little
24:50nerves coming here because last time we were together you know it didn't end very well no you
24:55stormed out of the hotel and you were upset with me well yeah i mean that was a disaster
25:05so i haven't seen gino in almost a year in person and i really don't know how i feel about
25:10it right
25:11now because gino has a lot of explaining to do when i met gino one of my first questions that
25:18i
25:18asked him is are you single he said he was separated about to get a divorce but then he invited
25:25me to
25:26come to michigan and meet his family and i was kind of surprised by some of his cousin michelle's
25:33comments what's the deal with you and jasmine i mean you guys just actually went out and had dinner
25:43was there hope for progress when you went
25:47i mean slight slight
25:50you know it basically lied to me so i just wanted to get out of there and before i could
25:58jasmine walked in the door and attacked me why are we bringing the horse from vegas
26:17i totally understand why you're upset after all that chaos at the party i understand that you
26:23wasn't you didn't create the havoc but you kind of did create the habit because i there's a lot i
26:31didn't i felt i didn't know i shouldn't have been there in the first place you know that's how i
26:38felt okay that makes a little more sense because i didn't like the way it ended for us neither did
26:44i
26:45and i'm a little bit more recovered i guess well that's good now i know it's taken some time it
26:53doesn't happen right away i know that um i knew that i wasn't fully recovered no and i could tell
26:59but anyway it's all over it's all over it's done with like you're here now like what do you want
27:08well obviously i want to like just hang out like we did in vegas we had fun together and it
27:16was you
27:17know a good vibe you know i mean i like that idea you know i like putting the past in
27:22the past and you
27:23know starting new yeah you know as much as i like gino i'm approaching this weekend with a lot of
27:32caution i'm not going to deny that he's hurt me but you know i understand what it's like to go
27:37through
27:37a destructive marriage and things happen i want to believe that he truly made a mistake
27:44the weather's pretty but we can go back to my place
27:48oh you're inviting me to your place oh my gosh i'm scared but i don't know if i can trust
27:55gino i
27:55don't know if i can trust anything he says let's go let's do it i got an umbrella too
28:02if gino wants something romantic with me more than friends he's got to prove that he's going to be
28:07honest he's got to prove that he really wants this so we'll see if he can i can roll
28:18it's clear i like things clear you know i've been clear to you if you find somebody they don't want
28:23to sit down they're going to have some fun you open to that with somebody else i am single so
28:28i'm
28:28allowed to do whatever i thought that we were exclusive with each other if you die with the game to
28:34the
28:34begin that you are single and i are single what the i do all of this for you
28:52okay i have this yellow dress okay oh i like it i like this one it's pretty cute beachy yeah
28:59it needs
28:59to be beachy why you put this dress there because i'm gonna wear this one seriously okay here let me
29:06look at your boobs i'm gonna get ready okay have a good luck give me a hug thank you i'll
29:20let you know
29:21how it goes last night with pressure and his friends was just very awkward for me
29:27pedro was just coming on a lot stronger than he has in the past it's not even that i don't
29:32appreciate
29:33the effort that he's making it's not that it's more so i can just feel he's putting too much pressure
29:39on
29:40it you look amazing hello thank you how are you good how are you i'm good i do like pedro
29:47like i want
29:48to get to know him i want to go on dates and see where things go thank you you're welcome
29:54but i just
29:55finished with my marriage and i'm healing from it you feel good yeah he just needs to chill
30:00that's all he needs to do is just chill and let us get to know each other naturally and
30:05like people usually do when they just meet
30:11how you feel today i feel like i'm kind of tired you her look amazing thank you do you prefer
30:18straight or curly i love though you look amazing everywhere oh wow that's nice did you have a good
30:29time yesterday yeah i had a good time you know a little awkward but it was really awkward this made
30:36me a little a little worried about you know because yesterday i was talking police and then she told me
30:42like oh yeah you do amazing team for sophie you give you flowers you give you this you give you
30:48that
30:49but are you sure that she wanna be with you
30:57that's made me a little bit like what's going on here like it's like what did she exactly say
31:02she made me feel like a little bit like insecure about all the things i've been doing maybe i you
31:10have another guy in your mind she made me feel a bit like how to say like be careful
31:18i invited liz the dominican republic i thought we were friends and then to go behind my back she knows
31:24up she just met pedro that's not even her friend that's breaking girl code like you don't do that
31:31i'm really pissed
31:35i was in a relationship from when i was 20 years old pretty much my whole adult life i want
31:40to figure
31:40out what i want i don't know what it is i'm 33 years old you know looking for a serious
31:46relationship
31:47we're not in the same pace i don't want you to like wait around for when i'm ready i just
31:53want to
31:54like get to know each other like you want to me like go date other people if someone comes along
32:00and she's like ready right now to settle down and have kids and everything you want i'm not going to
32:06say to you no be loyal to me when i'm not ready that's extremely selfish how about if you find
32:10somebody they don't want to settle down they're going to have some fun you open to that with somebody
32:15else i am single so i'm allowed to do whatever
32:21i thought that we were exclusive with each other and that we're going to come into the street to
32:26to try to get everything settled to move to relationship if that were the game to the begin
32:32that you are single and i am single what the i do all of this for you i'm not going
32:37to spend my time
32:38my money my good intention with someone they're not really wanted i like things clear you know i've been
32:50clear to you now you did it yes i did the truth you told me you was already healed i
32:58have never once
32:58told you i have healed and i'm ready for a relationship i have never told you that no never
33:02told you that never told you that i'm really not understanding why he's acting like this is like
33:08brand new information i know i've said this because i've made a point because it's so important to me
33:13and i've told him that so for him to then say oh you've never told me that it's like
33:17it's frustrating don't act like i've said something i haven't said
33:24sophie it's not the truth and i want to lie to you you are lying to me right now yes
33:29you are
33:33and even last night like i wasn't acting like that's my man like i wasn't you know being all over
33:38him and touching him i'm literally making sure like i'm not giving him mixed signals at all
33:45i'm not going to fight with you back and forth if you tell me you tell me what's my
33:48i don't like when people say i'm a liar my ex that's all the time
34:03if she needs time to heal her marriage what she doing deal with me you ready whatever i'm not a
34:11healer
34:13i'm not a doctor i don't want sophie to play games with me i'm not interested in that
34:23miss no no hell no not with me
34:30he's having issues right now he's not able to get like up oh it's like blowing up a balloon it's
34:37like
34:38it's getting there getting there and i was like
34:43there is a girl that i was talking to before i even went to the resort where she lives she's
34:50in
34:50brazil oh yeah here we go diana and i met a year ago online but are you still in contact
34:58with diana
35:00do the right thing
35:07oh
35:15let's get wet and juicy
35:18no that doesn't sound right i think it sounds delicious
35:29how was your trip i heard you got a boy now yeah you don't miss being single
35:35she'll be single in like a month
35:37as much as i love colts it's a little like dragging down my vibe being a full-time caregiver
35:47i feel like a caged animal like i'm a cat stuck inside the house when really i want to be
35:52out roaming
35:53the streets so i'm so excited for girls day for cocktails i have a good time turn up
36:01so what do you like about him i feel like we connect on a deep level like i feel comfortable
36:06with him i could be myself with him but he's having issues right now like he's not able to get
36:14like up he's not able to get what uh like this thing doesn't work yeah oh oh
36:25well cuddle or kiss or like he's done stuff to me but i haven't done stuff to him but it's
36:30like okay
36:31what am i supposed to do like play with your the whole night like i don't know what you want
36:35me to
36:35do that's never fun it's like blowing up a balloon it's like it's getting there getting there and then
36:57how you doing mark what's going on dude been a while man uh well a lot has happened i broke
37:04my leg
37:04in mexico too we got to get you like a bubble wrap outfit or something
37:09yeah mark has been a really good friend for the past few years he's been there with me through
37:15several relationships and he's definitely aware of my dating mishaps and he's not afraid to call out
37:21my bull and right now i really need an honest perspective so when i was at the retreat i met
37:27somebody so right let's hear it her name's courtney we connected on a lot of different levels and uh we
37:33kind of got this like relationship going while we're there and then she asked me if i wanted to
37:38come back with her and live with her in florida wait stop it you're in her house right now i'm
37:43in her house you guys live together we live together been here for over a month now holy
37:48crap congratulations dude wow yeah but uh courtney lives with her parents so i live with courtney and
37:54her mom and dad here we go here we go all right how's that going what's that look like uh
38:02it's been
38:03pretty good they're very patient they're very sweet people but the energy is is weird courtney is very
38:09shy and our intimacy isn't exactly where i want it to be my past relationships have been very spicy
38:18i've dated a few brazilian women and they like
38:32courtney's like watching little house on the prairie it's quality but after a while it gets a little bored
38:40i don't know you have a girl that just it gets so energetic that just on your
38:44that like her life depends upon it that type of energy you know and then you go to somebody
38:50that's just like yeah do whatever you want you know what i mean it's just it's just not the same
38:55it's hard to go back to that
39:02i don't know if he's not attracted to me or if it's just like he's not getting enough blood flow
39:07because of his broken leg so i'm trying to be supportive i'm trying to be his rock i feel like
39:12but then
39:13yeah i do have like doubts or fears like what's he doing behind my back what do you mean i
39:18was
39:18helping him upload something on social media and then it shows me all the women he's been messaging
39:23and i'm like all i didn't even dig deep i just went to like a few messages down and he
39:28told a girl hey
39:29gorgeous i'm doing all this stuff for you and then you're like messaging other women like are you kidding
39:36me i know you want like to get married and stuff like that but something's fishy about this he
39:43definitely doesn't sound like mr right he's talking to other girls behind her back and i've had that
39:48happen in relationships and it never works out he can't even get it up he can't provide anything
39:54way too many red flags he is the red flag he needs to realize that he's actually lucky to have
40:01you
40:01because he is are you able to talk to her about like deep stuff and yeah future and relationships
40:09yeah but she knows my reputation and she thinks like i'm just gonna leave or cheat or or whatever
40:16one day so courtney's worried that i should be like another victim basically are you still living that
40:20way dude be honest with me so um well there is a girl that i was talking to before i
40:31even went to
40:32the resort where does she live she's in brazil oh yeah here we go yeah diana and i met a
40:41year ago
40:42online originally i had plans to meet diana in brazil after the singles retreat ended
40:49but meeting courtney and my injury ultimately changed those plans what are you still in contact
40:56with diana i still talk to diana it's been hard to let her go me and courtney right now i'm
41:04taking it
41:05one day at a time but i don't want to hurt her i care about her there's definitely feelings there
41:09but
41:09i don't i really don't know what to do i mean this does sound a lot like things you've been
41:16through in
41:16the past right yeah and there's a situation where you could hurt her and i know you don't want to
41:22do
41:22that you want to get out of these cycles every relationship i've been in has ended because i've
41:30cheated or lied or a combination of both i love courtney i never wanted to keep secrets from her
41:37but if i tell her about diana she's never going to trust me again this might be a opportunity for
41:43you
41:43to sort of take that next step in your personal growth and have some hard conversations yeah you
41:50know do the right thing i don't know man next time on the single life i am banya i have
41:59been single for
42:00about a year i'm starting to wonder if the guy for me has been right in front of me this
42:06whole entire
42:06time his name is tony is that your friend tony yeah i kissed him oh my god girl we haven't
42:15made it
42:15clear if we're exclusive if we're dating you need to have a conversation with him if i have this
42:21conversation there is no going back our friendship will be changed forever how are you david's bedroom
42:28we definitely did not mesh well at the end it flipped so quick and he's ignored me since since the
42:34day
42:34at this point i am starting to panic a bit because what if pedro just never texts me back
42:38maybe he can give up you know i'm i'm happy that you came here but um i just keep seeing
42:47that you have
42:48this online battle still with jasmine back and forth to me it's a red flag because there's a thin line
42:56featuring love and hate does he have these unresolved feelings for jasmine
43:23so now you're fully committed to courtney at this point i'm sorry i feel like you're using him
43:29using her yes do you have like a gut feeling because like that's usually what we go by i don't
43:36know
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