First Dates (2016) Season 11 Episode 9

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00:02this is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything

00:15is possible will you pique my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing their cool

00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it

00:30the match made in heaven I'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses

00:41none of these data is know what to expect I have this forever irreconable what happens next

00:57would you like to see each other again romantically who goes first

01:07a romance comes in different shapes pretty little baby little gestures which make that person see you

01:18I think we all need to take a leaf out Mateo's book you know go back to the old school

01:21he's such an old

01:22school romantic okay you're late for the night he's a bundle of love in the room just like heart emojis

01:29just going out of it radiating we do love Mateo we love him he's just a cupid just going around

01:38just making the matches happen take care of each other all right guys I would consider myself old

01:43school full stop plus romantic yeah back to work busy influencer Cloda lives for attention some of which she could

02:03live without

02:07I'm recording every moment of my life I have done for 10 and a half years yeah keep it rolling

02:15click that helps

02:16sometimes with dating I don't say I it's right but it definitely attracts the wrong kind as well sometimes

02:23but I suppose that's what I signed up for it's actually really exciting for me that like I have no

02:38idea who's gonna walk

02:38through that door I was just at a festival for three days yes hence the horse voice how was it

02:43oh so good

02:44yeah I'm a festival girl if you want a festival then you go to Amsterdam any festival you choose is

02:49like oh man

02:50yeah all people are right no kids I'm probably a little too young then am I yeah yeah yeah I'd

02:57ruin the crack

02:58I'd ruin the party I give up on the date naps this year I just decided they are not for

03:04me I just much

03:05prefer to meet people out in the wild well welcome to the first dates restaurant thank you very much

03:18as a dater mons brings a lot to the table as a chef not so much have you ever cooked

03:27for a date I tried it

03:28once I didn't go well she didn't like it actually made it very clear we ended up just ordering food

03:35after was there a second date after that I was like yeah but like I just never cooked again

03:45hi how are you very good nice to meet you you're good looking top thank you very much thank you

03:50very

03:51fantastic look forward to this I feel like I'm a fun person to be around well I hope I am

03:55anyways I

03:57just like someone to get along with like hopefully to match my energy yeah let's meet you how are you

04:02nice to meet you what's your name one what are you months how are you fine I'm going to go

04:07yourself

04:07good good where are you from I'm from Waterford oh nice I'm from tip oh that's very close sorry my

04:17eyes

04:18have to turn off because the wind it's okay I know people do get quite emotional is there anyone out

04:31there yes Elaine and thankfully she's come along I talked to spirits who's passed I just have them

04:46waking me up in the middle of the night and all you know the spirits very funny as well you

04:52know

04:52they'd be cracking jokes can you hear spirits in the room right now no I blocked myself before I came

05:00in just in case they were you should protect yourself by blocking yourself yeah but it doesn't always work

05:07it's intense but I love it

05:21welcome hi hello Mateo your name please Elaine pleasure to meet you Elaine nice to meet you too you look

05:27lovely

05:27thank you some people they probably think I'm a bit crazy when they first meet me like

05:32hello hi

05:34but I think a good kind of crazy but I don't know I just want someone who even if they're

05:40not into the

05:41same shit I'm into it just be like there's my crazy bitch you know what I mean like and support

05:46me

05:46being a crazy bitch you know that way I loved it moon bed it's literally I'm sitting out my back

05:52of my

05:52pajamas with blankets on me and I'm watching I'm under the moon you know instead of the Sun I love

05:58and sea swims and hiking I love and I do a bit volunteer work with adults that live alone with

06:05special needs and intellectual disability so I help them like clean and organize their houses I do

06:09bring them to get their haircuts do their shopping now and all my mates like oh yeah she's very fun

06:15to

06:15you Neil one of my guys really yeah he fancied you really I'm flattered you have to get a picture

06:21with

06:21me later absolutely let's do it now yeah come on let's go okay there you go good for geez you're

06:29stunning on the camera wow thank you yeah my mom be happy look at me are you a fix a

06:47picture of the

06:47food kind of laughter puts it on a story not all my story I just take it from memories and

06:51stuff like

06:52or sometimes memories yeah but like oh that was some state I know it's because it was like that

06:58was the steak I ate when I met it's the memory of the time describe your ideal woman I think

07:06they're gonna kill me for this but Kim Kardashian I'm sorry when I was like 15 16 I had a

07:13huge crush on

07:13her like you just haven't grown out of that yet no I don't think I ever will either like any

07:17she's

07:17fantastic amazing is like late 2020 how about yourself I've been single for like two and a half

07:24yeah like I've been in a few situationships now we've all been there unfortunately how do you find

07:30being single it's rough out there it is a rough out there traveling blonde here here yeah yeah nice look

07:38cool I like that thank you I just got it done thank you for noticing you're welcome can I have

07:43a chip

07:43of course you can oh my god there was a lad a couple of weeks ago I was on a

07:47night out he comes over and

07:49he just does this he like tops my arm and says follow me what type of stuff you what type

07:55of stuff

07:56you into like what like that's crazy question to ask so early on no no no no no no no

08:02no no no no I

08:02don't mean like that like yeah hobbies yourself you're so funny right oh my god how long are you

08:14single eight years and I do feel like only now I'm ready for something do you know what I mean

08:20yeah

08:20you know what's right to back out there yeah I'm searching for my twin flame we complete each

08:26with her I believe my angels are gonna hook me up Darren has his sights set on the perfect woman

08:37and he's aiming high bruna nice eyes nice friendly smile good personality good conversation

08:54like a Latino goddess something like that it may as well shoot for the stars we might land on the

09:02moon

09:02look now welcome oh the bro I should put it is time I go see the overall sound we go

09:14spotty now I've been to

09:15Croatia a few times I did you have one of these picked up a little few more of this yeah

09:20always that cool he's

09:21here always easy hop you got swag he's got swag he's got swag do your date is at the back

09:26come enjoy it my minute here we go no

09:31hello nice to meet you nice to meet you Darren nice to meet you good good good all good all

09:39good

09:40so where'd you come from today it's done a big oh yeah myself talent okay nice how long are you

09:47single

09:48Jesus straight in there yeah it's only because he just asked me so I was it's just on my mind

09:53two

09:54years that's two years and career have you any kids I do yeah two yeah boy and a girl Jamie

10:0024 and

10:0119 ah no minding them yeah yourself just that one door she's 12 I haven't had many dates like most

10:10dates have been on but now a girl for a while before I initiated any sort of romantic gesture what

10:18do you

10:18do yourself I'm an energy here like a Reiki yeah that's our stuff yeah what do you get off my

10:24energy I

10:26got a nice calm energy off you yeah yeah I'll take that I can be quite a force I like

10:32to absorb

10:33everything that's going on around me but once you get to know me I'm not quiet are you gonna do

10:39starters or desserts or is there perfect yeah you can get the heart if you want to have to have

10:45it

10:45don't you have to have it iconic I have to get one of them they smash it yeah we can

10:49heal it

10:58as she navigates the sea of love Sarah is wary of ships that pass in the night I swear to

11:10God the

11:10heartbreak of the situation ship is nearly worse than an actual relationship it's so bad you feel

11:17like you're in a relationship you're committed to that person boy I just don't think the lads see it

11:22that way nobody wants to settle down like everyone just wants to mess around and I'm just not here

11:29for it kind of hoping you might be able to find me a decent lad at least I am out

11:38of my comfort zone

11:39but sure look it is what is they get you to the bar yeah that'd be great I'm from very

11:46small village

11:47in Wicklow it's kind of the back arse of nowhere to be honest I would kind of like a bit

11:53of a culture

11:53maybe I agree spec kind of man I wouldn't mind a farmer now I'm a fan of a man in

11:58wellies and just

11:59someone that's sound out like yeah I kind of like taking the piss out of people so I'd like them

12:04to take

12:05the piss out of me yeah yeah yeah definitely like a GA lad as well I'd love to be a

12:10little like

12:10lag supporting on the sidelines it's the cows during the day and then there's guys yeah yeah

12:22one day maybe even today Peter will find a match to match the match of all matches 2012 I must

12:33have

12:33been seven or eight father was almost in tears whenever he was watching it it means so much to

12:40Donegal people they say in Clare Brian Lohan is their God Jim McGuinness is our Messiah

12:56well there's things a good one man yourself what's your name Peter nice to meet you Peter

13:00where are you from Tony all

13:03the best thing about Tony all obviously they're running all team the people farming the seeds let's

13:11do some dating huh why not let's get started football special oh my god football special too

13:17ah how'd I forget that how are you how's things how are you how are you how are you how

13:23are you good

13:23how are you good I'm Sarah what's your name Peter nice to meet you Peter ah lovely to meet you

13:27too

13:28where are you from donagall where are you donagall that's kind of unfortunate for

13:34you too isn't it football wise oh don't get me started

13:48So

13:52What are you in the mood for?

13:55Mmm

13:56Cocktail? Go on

13:58Do you like a Negroni?

14:00Surprise me, why not?

14:02What even is a Negroni?

14:03It's strong now, do you like a strong cocktail?

14:05Ah, he'll have a strong one, alright

14:07Yeah, see, there you go

14:08You got a strong one in the strong cocktail

14:11We need to catch up here, you know

14:17So last year, I spent a whole year dating to date

14:21I wasn't dating for an outcome

14:22I wasn't dating to find the husband

14:24To find a boyfriend

14:25To do any of this

14:26I think when you put that pressure on like

14:27On yourself

14:28Yourself and the universe

14:29There's a lot of pressure to put on someone

14:30You just start talking for the first time

14:32In my opinion

14:32It's a stranger

14:33I just love to know that somebody has their own life

14:35Because I am a busy girl

14:36The 9 to 5 has never worked for me

14:38I'm more of a like

14:39I'll work on a Saturday

14:40And a Sunday and a Monday

14:41And I might take Tuesday off for myself

14:42My work we start on Wednesday

14:44Because I work nice

14:45So tomorrow morning I'm going to go to the gym

14:47I'm going to chill out

14:48I'm going to go to sleep for work

14:50Next morning I'm going to go to the gym after work

14:51You know, like

14:51I just like routine

14:53I know what I'm going to do for the week

14:54You kind of have to

14:56Yeah

14:56So where do you have time in your life for a woman then?

14:59I can make time

15:00I can make time

15:00If it's the right woman

15:01I can make time

15:05Have you ever dated anyone with kids or anything like that?

15:08No

15:09Do you have kids?

15:11No

15:12Do you?

15:13I have three

15:15Wow

15:17Two girls and one boy

15:19What age are they?

15:20Ten

15:21Seven

15:22She's going to be eight

15:23Actually

15:24Aww

15:24And then my little boy

15:25He's only five

15:26Aww

15:28So do you co-parent?

15:29Oh yeah

15:29Like we get on really well

15:31Like she's such a good mother

15:32Like

15:32Yeah

15:33So have a lovely mother

15:34They are very good

15:35Their mum does a very good job with them

15:37That's

15:37It's great

15:38Like

15:39Except for maybe like

15:40When you have to shower them their hair

15:42I don't do a really good job with their hair

15:44When a mum does it

15:45It's just perfect

15:46And I just can't

15:47I just can't get it

15:47Like

15:47And I've tried my best

15:50I've been singing like what

15:50Four years now

15:52Five years

15:52Like no one's ever met my kids

15:53Like I don't

15:54I wouldn't feel comfortable

15:55Interving my kids to anyone

15:56Unless like

15:56Unless they were so right

15:58Yeah

15:58But obviously they can't be difficult

16:00Like for example

16:01If I see like

16:02I'm into someone and stuff

16:03Obviously I let them know

16:03Because kids are like

16:05A big part of my life

16:06I'm not going to

16:07You were quite young

16:08I was like 20

16:1021 and 21

16:11My first year in college

16:12Wow

16:14We moved out when I was 16

16:16Oh you had

16:17You had a baby and all

16:18So you had

16:18Like

16:18You had your own place

16:19Did you see?

16:20Yeah

16:20Just an apartment

16:21Yeah

16:22I'd say that was a shock to the system

16:23Two 16 year old

16:25I don't know

16:25It all just walked out that way

16:27Do you know what I mean?

16:28The day Jamie's born

16:29And he got handed to me

16:31Yeah something just

16:33Switched like

16:34So I literally became a man

16:36So I literally became a man

16:36At 16

16:40Are you going to cook?

16:42Yeah I like cooking

16:43Yeah I don't like cooking

16:44Involved too much for me

16:45Do you mind cleaning up?

16:47No I have OCD

16:48So I don't clean up

16:49Yeah so do I

16:49Yeah?

16:49Yeah

16:50Uh huh

16:50I have OCD

16:52ADHD

16:52I have Autism

16:54I have Ecolia

16:55I only got diagnosed in 22

16:58I thought it would be life changing

17:00But it kind of made my whole life make sense

17:03You like that like big crowds and stuff

17:06Yeah

17:07Yeah

17:08Yeah

17:08This pub full of people

17:10I can hear like every conversation going on

17:12Yeah

17:12Some people say why don't you go

17:14And I'm like

17:15So she just can't cope anymore

17:16It's too overwhelming

17:18Yeah

17:18Yeah I very rarely go out

17:19So it's very hard to meet someone

17:21Have you ever been on a blind date?

17:23No

17:23Like this?

17:24Same

17:24I was at a blind Debs

17:26Huh?

17:27My friend Rob rang and he was like

17:28My friends Boris after breaking up

17:30With him and the Debs is tonight

17:31Will you come?

17:31And I was like alright

17:33Okay

17:33It was actually sad

17:34He spent the whole night crying

17:35Trying to come back with his ex

17:36Oh lovely

17:37Yeah

17:37But I still had a great night

17:47Get down to me now will you?

17:49Don't you rush me on this

17:51My house was like mad this morning

17:54Just for everyone trying to help me like

17:56Figure out what to wear

17:57Oh it was so bad

17:59How many is in your family?

18:00Six

18:01Six children yeah

18:02Wow

18:02What are you? Are you the oldest?

18:04I'm the youngest

18:04Oh you're the youngest?

18:06Yeah

18:06Ah class

18:07My siblings would be like

18:08Jesus like when you're going to find a fella

18:10And like I just

18:11To be honest

18:12I don't know

18:12When is a fella going to find me really?

18:15Like that thing

18:16I'm not so bad

18:17I'm an only child so

18:18Are you?

18:19You should get the farm all to yourself

18:20That's stressful though

18:21Twice the work yeah

18:23We have to do all the chores

18:25All the farm work

18:26You're at the hard labour's year

18:28So is it just sheep you do?

18:30Or is it like cattle as well?

18:31Sheep bag sheep and cattle

18:32And like

18:32Are you in a like town or a village?

18:36I'm in a village

18:39Called

18:40Called

18:41Called

18:44Called

18:45Called

18:46Muff

18:46M-U-F-F

18:50Muff

18:51Muff

18:53Muff

18:54Muff

18:55Muff

18:57Muff

18:58Muff

18:59How is that like real?

19:01Like how is that

19:02Muff?

19:02Muff

19:03Muff

19:04Muff

19:05I was just kind of counting how many times you would say Muff

19:08Muff

19:09Muff

19:32Muff

19:35I used to bag my mom's let me start my hair on my own place to fry my hair is

19:40to watch it sizzle

19:47then you're on the mission huh I am I feel like I've been fired out for Connor you brought the

19:51vibe with you cool man you look good thank you very 80s I love it funky this is a lot

20:00this is

20:02never good hair day that's just you know I can I feel like I can take on the world and

20:07what are

20:08you looking for mostly a good time okay yeah good and if they like me that's only a bonus well

20:13they

20:13have to like I mean how can you not like this this is class some people do find my personality

20:17a bit

20:17intimidating well then they're not for you that's the thing you know that I'm not willing to tame

20:21myself for anybody and nobody ever should hiya Carl has learned how to make quality

20:32connections by transmitting on his own unique frequency I grew up with being labeled oh you're

20:40the weird kids but then I found more people who were like on my wavelength as we got older we

20:51realized a

20:51lot of people might not like you but that's okay find friends who do and stick with them instead

21:06I know I knew I'd overthink the door it doesn't matter perfection is boring you know I usually do

21:12like someone that's like really goofy and laid-back and I was kind of a more unique vibe this walk

21:17here

21:18it's like I was just walking down being like okay all I have to do is just open the door

21:23and then I pulled

21:24the wrong door and you know what I've already made that mistake so now if anything else happens

21:29it's worst comes to worst this is like a great tinder bio as featured on hiya darling how are you

21:37David nice to meet you how are you doing I'm well nervous yeah listen I don't bite so

21:52I mean your hair's gorgeous to be fair I think you have to be very happy in yourself and satisfied

22:00with yourself before you get involved with other people it's true have set boundaries of people as

22:03well should I set boundaries yeah you have set boundaries we love a boundary setting king

22:08they definitely did in like past relationships allow someone to overstep my boundaries a lot and I

22:13became like this little insecure shell of myself that wasn't me I'll never let myself go back to

22:20being that girl again I've done loads of therapy I've done loads of like so I was going to talk

22:25to

22:25someone though it's really important to talk to somebody I mean I've never had therapy session in my life

22:28really never I think absolutely everybody can benefit from therapy I think your mental health is like the

22:34most important thing I was never brought up to like deal with emotion and things like that like

22:38I remember it my dad he he actually passed away in 2020 I didn't tell my ex in time when

22:44he passed

22:44away I didn't tell her for a couple of weeks he used to live in England so we had to

22:48bring the body

22:48back so by the time everything was sorted obviously I said it to her then like well I do believe

22:53a man

22:54does have to be strong but should be able to open up at the same time but yeah I'm a

22:59little more in

22:59touch my emotions now anyway I feel like I need someone to bring to like take me on my comfort

23:04zone I love people we're just very out there chatty but it's just to bring they bring out another side

23:08of you as well as much as I am secure and happy single there's other times where you're just like

23:14when am I gonna meet my person I'm ready like draw my chips I don't want to finish your chips

23:22of course you

23:23can you can have it bro it's a chat it's not good did you call me bro no no I

23:29said you can have it

23:30though oh that you're like you have bro maybe I did my room maybe I did no no but it's

23:38just it's

23:39that's such a way I talked literally everyone else I just rolled down my tongue all the time but no

23:44you're not my bro you're I'm here you're a nice person you're nice girl thank you nice girl thank

23:55you appreciate that I was very pleased when I saw you and obviously if you're a very chatty person

24:01like yeah so I've been acting great like no honestly I've had a good time cheers

24:10she'll be my type yeah she's pretty she's a good energy about her cool we're off to a flyer then

24:15so

24:15it's a love to hear so far so good he's a really nice guy and he's really hot like the

24:22conversation

24:23has flown yeah it's flown but I don't know I feel like I am kind of initiating the conversation

24:31of it a lot more like it's early days it's early days oh do you listen he goes what you

24:36do and I

24:36said an energy healer he goes we'll get the heart and we'll smash it and see if you can put

24:41it back

24:41together because you're a healer what will you do if the spirits try to contact you during the date

24:47I will chat with someone before I go in and I'll say listen no chit chat but if I go

24:52to the toilet

24:53you can pass on a message then I could get messages for someone sitting three tables away so if I

24:59hear

24:59someone saying their name if I go in and someone says oh hiya Sarah and I'd be like that's the

25:05Sarah with the messages for so I'd say here listen by the way I was in the toilet and Mary

25:09says

25:10your chain is under your pillow do you know what I mean yeah we have two wines oh yeah perfect

25:16thanks Emily thank you so much one for the lady oh you're very good thank you thank you very much

25:28I actually do yeah thank you well I know if you fancy your date if I can I go and

25:33smiling say I

25:35can be a bit awkward as well that's that's definitely another one though that's why do you have to hold

25:48it

25:48like dusty if I was trying to flirt like I'm just going up and taking the pace out with someone

25:55really my hands aren't that delicate you know like you don't need to grasp the glass my friends say

26:01my hands are like sandpaper like the feel of it just sandpaper your hands aren't even that big like

26:07are they like sandpaper like that they're not that bad I'm doing that thing I like to stop it right

26:15now

26:19I'm shit awkward I'm locked as intolerant so far IBS girlies rise up but I'm not allergic I think I'm

26:26just such a picky or chicken nuggets chips maybe beans but my family's polish and I go there

26:31Polish food is so like oh it's just it's like cold chicken inside like gelatin like it's all like

26:37communist era 1980s like I like the 80s but that was in Poland it's not good so I'm blessed if

26:42somebody

26:43doesn't get my sense of humor which can be very dry very sarcastic we are dead in the water I

26:48love banjoing people that's like my love language oh I'm a yapper pro yapper by the way where are you

26:53from Bali one reading yeah where are you from from Logan opposite ends of the 13 rest in peace to

26:5914 I'm proud of where I'm from I hate when people kind of have like a lesser down mentality went

27:06to

27:06college and you see other people were like oh I live in a student accommodation while I'm on it's

27:10such a dive and I'm like oh I'm from there like oh oh and you went to college good for

27:13you and I'm

27:14like okay wow so I worked in a student union for a year that's formed I was so fun my

27:19favorite thing

27:19was planning freshers and booking Jedward Jedward did you get to meet them they're so nice yeah

27:24in the first five minutes of being on stage doesn't one of them just like do a bit of a

27:28jump across the

27:29stage and man them his ankle oh they said be grand and got back up anyways I used to be

27:34a competitive

27:35dancer and I did that same mistake I landed like I sprained my ankle on stage I sat out for

27:40a month

27:40COVID came around by the time I healed and I just never went back to it oh go back to

27:44it I hate dancing

27:45well I'm a seer kid but I don't like dancing I am quite outgoing and quite loud even like I

27:51very

27:51much fit to build my friends of being like annoying seer kids what's your opinion on dinosaurs I went to

27:56a dinosaur face I used to pretend I was a dinosaur and like bite my friends I feel like I

28:00need to see

28:00you do your best impression of a dinosaur I'm like I want someone that if I was like on an

28:05Iowa on the

28:06way to the bus stop we will start a really annoying sing-song down the road my friend in Scotland

28:11got a noise

28:12complaint so screaming like a version by Madonna while walking down the street to her apartment

28:16after a night out that's just I can't sing for the life of me to be fair it seems like

28:20you're the

28:21dancer and I'm the singer so we make one good tear a performance so we can do it he's lovely

28:29he's

28:30what a fridge go on monster and are you finished eating yeah I'm done I think she's someone to

28:35chip so I'm not a hundred percent sure I don't know I just leave that there for her a few

28:38months

28:39I like yeah yeah and I'll come back in a bit just in case thank you very much not at

28:42all

28:46did you put more chips on my plate when I was gone I thought you I don't want to have

28:50it like you can

28:50have it I don't mind that was really sweet that you did that when I was gone you're welcome thanks

28:54yay

29:03are you going away this year or have you been away I haven't been away this year no I was

29:10away

29:10last year I was in Morocco oh so was I I went actually went in October I went on my

29:14own first

29:15time going away on my own ever I've been away on my own a couple of times yeah enjoy it

29:19what's most

29:20important to you in a partner I suppose someone who doesn't mind talking about their feelings and

29:25communicating and have everything on the table basically what's your work and I walk in my

29:31supermarket all right for their study and acting in gaiety now I'm doing a part time okay for the

29:38last year I've been focusing on myself and building myself up couldn't had a big life event last year

29:44that kind of just put everything into perspective if I had a past away heart attack it's a sixty-fourth

29:52oh very unexpected for you yeah totally unexpected yeah it was hard to digest for a while I thought it

30:01was kind of going to derail me but it just drove me to pursue things that I've wanted to pursue

30:07I

30:07remember doing speech and drama in school yeah I've always wanted to try the acting never had the

30:13confidence to go for it done a bit of soul searching in my back and it was just like something

30:18just clicked in

30:19me and it was like he left all his strength with me so you go over to him to just

30:25put myself out there

30:26now and go for teams so you must have been real are you coming on this if you're used to

30:29kind of act

30:31like when you have a slick you have a script and still you know what I do yeah this is

30:36real yeah

30:37yeah you just have to wing it yeah it's so far so cool yeah don't you ask for yeah brown

30:44eyes brown

30:44hair nice teeth good personality look for a bit of crack yeah the crack is the most isn't it

30:55under this no I'm really I'm really like this okay let's say it all your chips I don't mind you

31:01can

31:08have a really good time where Josh was really good looking he didn't stop that challenge literally

31:13the whole way till the day it was really nice like that's way too much strawberry for me bro you

31:17don't like sweet things I do like sweet things I'm here with you look I like sweet things damn it

31:23you

31:23took my line right from under me would you like to see each other again yeah he's lovely for sure

31:32I think we've a lot more to talk about oh thank you I do I think oh that's good well

31:37I don't I'm

31:38joking I'm joking I'm joking no I definitely would like to see again yeah thank you the dress is really

31:44thank you that was great fun he's so so sweet I really like his mindset I think like he's very

31:54mature and super kind person conversation slow and I think yeah you just match away you're an

32:06interesting conversationalist oh thank you which I can't say about all men oh cute

32:22will you keep her again yes

32:47this man you are going to love and we are going to bring to the George how's it going so

32:51far

32:51God really good we actually have a lot in common oh that's great I've been single basically my

32:56entire life I would like to go out there a bit more but just I struggle kind of doing that

33:02and

33:02would you have a typical type just kind of somebody who can handle me honestly and do you think he

33:07could I think he could yeah sometimes when I have interest in somebody or somebody shows interest in

33:11me I kind of freak out and I'm like oh my god oh my god like I can't do this

33:14I can't do this

33:15and I just kind of like shut the door off completely we have been having good chats

33:18um I did ask him to do an impression of a dinosaur and he did it

33:25I've actually never been in a relationship I definitely do have like weird commitment-y

33:29issues there's been times where like I've really got on with someone but like I start thinking like

33:33long term and start like listing off the variables and like if I can see in the next like two

33:38years

33:39an issue forming I'm just gonna avoid it I'm definitely getting more of like friendship vibes

33:45because I don't think we're flirting yet I am gonna go in and try flirt a bit I think I

33:48need to just kind of get in some mentality of I'm just gonna go for it I want the

33:52experiences and I want to have someone to just do don't shit with sure did you even

33:59come to the restaurant if you didn't have chocolate heart you know thank you

34:03you're very welcome enjoy it oh it's so cute crack it and then she gonna heal it looks so cute

34:17ah it's my heart it's soft

34:24it's okay thank you now I am very upset

34:31because in my head this tastes it's different

34:36comparisons to pay for joy

34:42what's that supposed to be what is that

34:48oh I think it's a sweet potato one I don't like sweet potato and me working with potatoes

34:53on my job too I'm doing it you're called potatoes as well

34:57specializing yeah Jesus you're flat out then aren't you

35:01I'm more or less busy 24 7 between firemen playing my football playing my hurling

35:08a lot of fatigue kind of kicks in with that as well like I did struggle with mental health

35:14you can imagine the stress the anxiety everything that goes on your head

35:20I did take a step back and like having an outside life and kind of those friendships

35:25can help with mental health that's what I kind of learned from that experience

35:33oh what that is strong I'll have to say

35:36it is I do not like it

35:39no you don't

35:40I do

35:41no you don't because you would have had it gone by now if you did

35:44if I had that gone I wouldn't have finished my meat

35:47is it really strong

35:54taste it

35:55I don't think I like

35:57what is that like

35:59I'll take it you don't like that you don't want

36:05you should have brought it to the bathroom with you and just poured it into time

36:20I think this piece is too fancy for me we should be in a dive bar realistically

36:24any rockets at the most

36:25any rockets my beloved

36:26although I am I have beef with the milkshakes they've gotten smaller as the years went

36:30on I wouldn't know that I'm not about that like

36:33I'm so sorry

36:36I feel like if I ate that I would have like

36:38something's exploding

36:39yeah something

36:40I have more volume in my hair than ever

36:42I would just stand straight up like Jaguarts

36:45I probably would take that anyway to the average person

36:47sure I don't think I'm too far off to be honest as well

36:49it's good to have individuality

36:50I feel like when you look a bit out of the ordinary people kind of give you like

36:54oh I'm used to stairs

36:57I spent a lot of time trying to fit in and have people being like oh you read books

37:02that's so wild why aren't you playing football and then I play football and they'd be like

37:06oh you're bad at football

37:07school was weird

37:10definitely it taught me that people can be very close-minded but it also taught me that finding

37:16finding your people is so important

37:19I was always raised to be a bit of a tough cookie

37:21I remember one time

37:22this is really nasty

37:24but somebody

37:25took their

37:28semen

37:29to put it bluntly

37:31and put it all over my locker

37:34I found out who did it

37:35so what I did

37:36I went to the butchers the next day

37:38I got a lamb's heart

37:39and I put it all over their locker

37:40and I was like if you're going to do this

37:41I'm going to do this so don't mess with me

37:45people in my school speculated for years whether or not I was trans

37:47I didn't deny it because I'm like would it be so bad if I was

37:50no it wouldn't but then again I don't owe you an explanation

37:53I hate when people are so locked into the idea that they need to know something about you

37:58I know I played into it

37:59they're like what's going on underneath there and I'm like come and have a look at my vagina

38:02you know that was me in the changing room

38:05I just kind of laughed at all

38:06it isn't nice but that's you know that's how life is

38:08some people are not going to be nice and you just have to learn how to deal with it

38:13like who cares what anybody else thinks

38:14yeah

38:15actually cheers I know this is like way too late but cheers

38:19slantia

38:20slantia

38:21the vibes are vibing

38:23it's such a good yap

38:25when two yappers collide

38:27watch out

38:33you're not going to eat your flour

38:35it's not edible is it

38:36yeah

38:36I have hay food

38:39you're not allergic

38:42if you eat them you're not going to start sneezing

38:44you know my eyes swell up

38:46that's all the work I'd better heal me

38:48yeah I will

38:50what went through your mind when you saw your date

38:54it was a bit overwhelmed

38:56but the whole situation was just everything just can't tell

39:02it's after flying in all the time isn't it

39:04it went fast

39:05it feels like Ronnie's sitting down for about ten minutes didn't it

39:07yeah

39:08that's good sign isn't it

39:09it is a good sign

39:09she had a nice energy about her

39:11we were vibing

39:13there's definitely more to explore

39:15thank you

39:16thank you

39:17I'll get it

39:18no

39:18can we not go dutch

39:20no

39:20please

39:21please

39:22well thank you very much

39:25get me back one time maybe

39:29would you guys like to see each other romantically again

39:33you go first

39:34okay

39:34I generally say ladies first but I'll go first

39:37yeah

39:38I would yeah

39:41for me

39:44I think you're a really lovely guy and your sound

39:47which was just no spark for me

39:50okay

39:50that's alright

39:51that's okay

39:52you're cool

39:52you're dead cool

39:54I'll take that

39:55yeah

39:58see you later

39:59nice to meet you now

40:00bye

40:00see ya

40:02you're hot and all like

40:03do you know don't get me wrong

40:04and your sound

40:05just the spark was missing

40:07that's cool

40:09I would love to see you again

40:10be mates

40:11and maybe to give you a healing

40:12yeah

40:13you can give me a healing if you want

40:15yeah

40:15definitely

40:15might take you a long time

40:19I won't

40:20thanks a million

40:21and I'll see you

40:23is there anything you would have done differently

40:25maybe have hearts that smashed

40:38what if we just staged a really dramatic fight

40:40oh my god we showed like you dragging my hair out

40:43pulling it across the room

40:44when the staff members comes over next you pretend they're just having a massive argument

40:48I think so too

40:49what's the argument over though?

40:51what are we fighting over?

40:52chaplarone is overrated

40:56oh that had a string didn't it?

40:57oh

40:58I'm sorry everything she did is what lady gaga did 16 years ago

41:02it's like art pop left overs

41:03we'd like chaplarone

41:06wow

41:07now

41:07another glass of wine and a vodka white

41:09thank you so much

41:13we're currently having a mini argument over

41:16oh really?

41:16he thinks that chaplarone is overrated

41:18lady gaga wannabe

41:19I don't think that she's lady gaga wannabe

41:22I'm sorry

41:23you definitely can't settle this but

41:25no

41:25no it's not going to be settled

41:26no but it's fine

41:27well it's good that you can have it actually

41:29we're agreeing to disagree

41:30and that's good

41:31even though you're in the wrong

41:32we're agreeing to disagree

41:33do you think so?

41:37in Polish we have a little saying called tema de zeka

41:39which basically means

41:41it's a topic that flows like a river

41:43there is no end to it

41:44could I partake in stealing a small bit?

41:46of course go ahead

41:47oh thanks darling

41:48should I just lift it across like

41:49oh that's close

41:53it's very deep feeling

41:55you can only share with certain people

41:58so how would you die in an 80s horror film?

42:00I'd flirt with the killer

42:02I would try to like

42:02get by them by flirting with them

42:05and they would just like

42:05probably chop my head off

42:08aww

42:08that's cute

42:10I've spent so long even growing up

42:11trying to like plan a future

42:13but the one variable you can't plan for

42:15is love I guess

42:16if I have to choose a way to go

42:17shark attack

42:19I'd love a shark attack

42:20that'd be funny

42:21right now I can't plan for

42:23that part of my future

42:25if I find someone

42:26I can start to plan it

42:27I definitely have

42:29all of like the love to give

42:30I actually hope that when I'm dead

42:32somebody either stuffs me

42:33and puts me in their living room

42:34or chops my head off

42:35and mounts it on a wall

42:36like a deer

42:38I've always said it would be

42:40extremely funny

42:41if I get cremated

42:42and that's mixed into paint

42:43and it's a portrait of me

42:45but like not even like a nice

42:46like casual portrait

42:47like full creepy

42:49like me and my dog

42:50in like a suit

42:50just like staring

42:51and like

42:52it needs to be left in an attic

42:53for at least 50 years

42:56I would like to be a ghost

42:57I would like to be a ghost

42:58yeah

43:08my grandad

43:09he would have been a farmer now

43:11oh really?

43:12yeah

43:12and then my father never really like

43:14like he'd help them out

43:15but like he never really got into the farm

43:16yeah

43:16like I wouldn't live on a farm or anything

43:18I wouldn't mind it though

43:26what's the biggest misconception Peter do you think people have about you?

43:29I suppose that I'm just kind of stuck with the one straight path in life

43:33I went to Italy sort of Rome a couple weeks ago

43:36did ya?

43:37done the Trevi Fountain too

43:38threw a coin in

43:39what's that mean?

43:40the restriction is

43:41you throw one coin in

43:42so you have to throw it from your right hand over your shoulder

43:44okay

43:45that means you'll come back to Rome

43:46two coins

43:48that means you'll find love

43:49really?

43:51and the third one is

43:52you'll get married

43:53ah sure look

43:55maybe we'll go back together will we?

43:57definitely

43:59some people do leave the country and never come back

44:01that's what I kind of don't want

44:02I want to kind of go out and explore

44:04and definitely come back

44:06I probably want someone just to do those things with as well

44:09you know?

44:10see we go over to Scotland

44:12because my mum's Scottish you see

44:13never been over in Scotland

44:15come over

44:16you can come over

44:17why will you?

44:18experience the Highlands

44:19oh that's a really nice place

44:20is it?

44:21will you go there?

44:22will we?

44:23i'll take you over

44:24i'll make it work

44:27cheers to us

44:28cheers to us

44:34now i'm just gonna pop this down

44:36ok thank you

44:36and let you know that we'll need the table back in about ten minutes

44:39ok

44:39perfect

44:40thank you

44:43so what?

44:44ten minutes left

44:44what are we gonna do with it?

44:47make the list try

44:49what went through your head when you saw your date for the very first time?

44:53i thought that he looked like somebody that i would get along with

44:56it's my friend's birthday today

44:57aww

44:58can we send her a voice note singing happy birthday?

45:00of course

45:00that's the date went on

45:01it just gelled perfectly

45:02happy birthday dear Tom

45:06hey

45:07happy birthday to you i love you

45:10we're having such a great chat

45:12it was like we were in a kebab shop at 4am

45:14you know the club bathroom chats

45:16yeah i feel like that's pretty much the vibe

45:18which i think is a very good vibe to have

45:23would you like to see each other again romantically?

45:27yeah

45:28sadly i don't think romantically

45:30ok

45:30right now

45:32i would 110% love to see you again just like hang out

45:36like literally

45:36and then from then on

45:37just see where it goes

45:38yeah i'd be happy to see where it goes

45:40a pleasure to have you

45:41bye

45:41thank you bye bye

45:42thank you so much

45:43bye bye

45:44i genuinely think there was a spark towards like a friendship that i'd like to explore

45:48i feel like there possibly could be real romantically

45:51so find your people

45:55find your tribe

45:56i think you know people come into your life for a reason

46:00if i just make a really good friend i make a really good friend

46:05i think we need to go on a night out and be the most insufferable people in the smoking area

46:09absolutely terrorize everyone

46:12i agree

46:25i don't know you know

46:26huh

46:27i don't well

46:29i wouldn't have finished that

46:30we'd be more of like a basic bitch when it comes to those things

46:33see i'm quite basic as well

46:34well we just get a pint of rock short cider like

46:36rock short cider

46:37had to be shadowy

46:39had to do is like

46:40go somewhere for drinks before you have to get the bus back

46:43facts

46:45i thought he ticked all the boxes on you

46:47jesus lads you couldn't have done any better to be a fizz

46:50i'll get it

46:51no you will not

46:52i will

46:52no

46:52don't let this turn into my father's head episode now mrs doyle and our friend

46:57i might be up in dunygal shearing sheep yeah you never know

47:01i'll revolute you later right

47:04would you like to see each other again romantically

47:07i'd say yes definitely

47:09i would too i would say yeah too

47:11yeah

47:14i'll have to get your number so i can revolute you

47:16no that's not going to be a problem

47:17that's not going to be a problem

47:18do you fancy her

47:19love is like a butterfly

47:21yeah i do

47:22gentle as a side

47:24a multicolored mood

47:26once i came in her looks were just class

47:29her bubbly bubbly personality too

47:31like

47:32a pair on a few trips too like

47:33Scotland

47:34Belfast

47:35Donegal

47:36Wicklow

47:36Rome was another one too that's right

47:38oh there could be more added to the list really

47:43i'd take you up to a championship match

47:44i can imagine you on the sideline just cheering me on

47:47what are you doing keep on going

47:49love is like a butterfly

47:51i see at the wedding there'll be three balls of football special to everyone

47:54yeah hello

47:57after you

48:09we can crash a pub quiz

48:11crash a team that we don't know on the pub quiz and make sure they lose

48:14yeah

48:25i had a good time a great time

48:27people who live in monster are great so

48:29yeah that's actually very true

48:43oh i'd love to give you a healing

48:45i'm down for that

48:46yeah

48:46i have to see a vote of that

48:48yeah

48:49could it be magic now

48:52now

48:53now

48:55now

48:55and hold on fast

48:58could this be the magic

49:01and last

49:29if you'd like to take part in the next season of first dates

49:32apply online at coco content dot ie forward slash first dates

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