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00:00Previously on Unexpected.
00:02They're probably going to co-parent.
00:03They're going to have to have counseling to do that.
00:06Right, but Bryce needs anger management.
00:08It's been a constant character assassination.
00:12They're attacking my son.
00:14Isabelle is a provoker.
00:15And apparently her own mother has not
00:18explained that to her own daughter.
00:20Is he going to, like, go to anger management?
00:22He doesn't want to go.
00:23He said that he would do couples therapy.
00:26Is that the first time he got the holding?
00:28Yeah.
00:29I did not think I would be finishing eighth grade
00:31and becoming a dad at the same time.
00:33I didn't think at 15 years old I'd be pregnant.
00:35Boom, boom, boom, boom, boom, boom.
00:36He wants his dad to see the baby, but his dad is to come here.
00:39He's not going to.
00:40Hunter sent a text to his dad hoping
00:43that he would come up and see the baby.
00:46But it doesn't seem like he's going to come and meet his grandson.
00:49All right, I'm going to bed.
00:52Graduation day.
00:53Wow.
00:54I didn't even want all this.
00:55Stop arguing with me, dude.
00:56What's the deal, man?
00:58Her father has made them think that it's OK for them
01:00to disrespect me.
01:01Today's about Mia, not about you.
01:05I hate him.
01:06Where's Nicole?
01:07I don't know.
01:08I think it's just really pathetic that she did not show up
01:10at the graduation.
01:11Nicole should have been here.
01:13And I'm going to tell her something right now.
01:16You'll be OK.
01:19You're going to be OK, I know.
01:23I'll give her a break.
01:40No, I'm not.
01:41You're not getting in the car with nobody else.
01:42Okay.
01:43Mama.
01:45What's going on in there?
01:46I don't know the fight.
01:47That my daughter is not riding with me.
01:48It's not happening.
01:49It's not happening.
01:50For what?
01:51Because she wants to bring me in her appointment.
01:53You know what?
01:53You are my daughter, and it's not going to be a discussion.
01:56It's not.
01:57This morning is my 39-week checkup,
02:00and me and Jessie had asked AK to bring us to this doctor's appointment
02:05because I haven't seen or heard from my mom since my graduation.
02:09Mia, you're being rude to me.
02:10Mama, I'm not being rude.
02:12Stop hollering at me and stop being loud.
02:14I am trying to talk to you.
02:16And my mom did not like that.
02:23I mean, it's not going to hurt for me to bring her.
02:26Frankly, I'm surprised Nicole's here.
02:27It's been a week since Mia's graduation,
02:29and no one has heard from that woman.
02:31So I was wondering if she was even still alive.
02:37Are you getting ready?
02:38She's coming with me.
02:40It is okay for her to go with me when I haven't been.
02:43No, not today it's not.
02:44No, because she's...
02:45Nicole.
02:46This isn't a discussion.
02:47This is not going to be a discussion.
02:49First off, I walked in, and you were in her face.
02:51She's pregnant.
02:52Because I was kissing her.
02:53Don't come in here and tell me anything about what I do with my daughter.
02:56I'm hollering now because you upset me.
02:58In fact, I need to not holler because God told me.
03:01Yeah, because we're not going to argue.
03:03You're right.
03:03So you need to go on out of the house because...
03:05First off, this ain't your house.
03:07Let me tell you something.
03:07You're not going to get in my face.
03:09First off, I haven't...
03:09I'm not in your face.
03:10First off, this is my son.
03:11And this is my daughter.
03:12His girlfriend.
03:17Honestly, I'm pissed off because I don't think Nicole realized I worked three jobs,
03:21and I got six kids, and I had to make things happen in order for me to go to this
03:26appointment.
03:27For Mia's sake, I did not want to argue.
03:30But at the same time, I just couldn't hold myself back anymore.
03:33I haven't had the chance to go.
03:36So yes, I'm going to bring her.
03:37Because I would like to be there, too.
03:39It's my granddaughter, too.
03:41It's not just your grandbaby.
03:43You're not bringing her.
03:44Why can't I bring her to one appointment?
03:46Because I gave birth to her, and she is my daughter.
03:49My mom acts like she was there for me like every single step of the way and all kinds of
03:55things.
03:55Like, oh, I do this for my daughter.
03:57I do this for my daughter.
03:58But really, not really any of that happens.
04:01So, you know, it gets a little frustrating.
04:04You should have asked.
04:05This should have been something that you asked me a long time ago.
04:07I shouldn't have asked to have you because she's the one that's carrying the grandbaby and going to doctors.
04:11Yeah, you should ask me.
04:12No, I shouldn't.
04:13Because I'm her mother, and I'm the one who says she's not going with you.
04:15First off, she's a minor, and I'm her mother.
04:17She's only allowed to make her own decisions on who wants to bring her.
04:19You may think that, but you know what?
04:20She is a minor, and I am her mother.
04:22Okay.
04:22And where you been?
04:25It ain't any of your business.
04:27I don't like that she acted like she is over my daughter when it's my daughter.
04:31She don't even know my daughter.
04:33She just met her, you know, a year ago, so.
04:36Two years.
04:36I don't think that she should have tried to make the decisions that she made as far as what she
04:42was going to do and what she wasn't going to do when it came to Mia.
04:46Do you know nothing about my life?
04:48You don't know anything about me?
04:49You don't even know my daughter.
04:50She don't even like you.
04:52Do you remember when your mom told AK, my daughter doesn't even like you and doesn't want to be around
04:56her?
04:56Listen, I never said that.
04:58My mom just likes to make up things to make other people mad.
05:01I love AK.
05:03Okay.
05:03It's not going to happen.
05:04Mia, who would you like to bring her?
05:05It doesn't matter what she would like.
05:07It doesn't matter.
05:07I'm her mother, and I said she ain't going with you.
05:10Well, I don't think she needs to be riding with you.
05:12I don't care what you think.
05:13Okay.
05:15I don't care who takes me.
05:16I just want to go out and have people.
05:21So go on.
05:24Or you make things worse.
05:27There is no point whatsoever that that was needed.
05:32Don't make up this big hoo-ha about, oh, I'm taking my daughter to my appointment, taking her, taking her,
05:37taking her.
05:38When it doesn't matter, we're driving.
05:40Driving to the hospital, it is 16 minutes away from my house.
05:46Like, if you want to be my support, be at my doctor's appointment, like you said, then be at my
05:50doctor's appointment.
05:51Okay, so we're all just going to go to my appointment, okay?
05:54Yeah.
05:55I'm leaving.
05:56I'll meet y'all there.
05:57I can see how stressed Mia is, and I feel bad for my part in that.
06:01So I'm going to take a step back and just let Nicole take them.
06:05And hopefully we don't have no drama up at the hospital because at this point, I'm at my limit with
06:13her.
06:21So you're okay with Hunter going home with your dad and coming back tomorrow and me staying here?
06:26Yeah.
06:27Okay.
06:28Hunter's pretty much been asleep since his dad texted and said he wasn't coming to the hospital to meet with.
06:34And honestly, I would rather him not be here than be locked in a closet.
06:41Are you about ready to go yet?
06:43Mm-hmm.
06:46Oh, my God.
06:48Hunter, you literally look like a...
06:51Well, I don't even know.
06:56So what are we doing right now?
06:58We're going home.
07:00When we come back?
07:01Tomorrow.
07:02After school.
07:04After school?
07:06School is going better.
07:10Wait, what was that grade?
07:1263?
07:13It's passing.
07:14It is passing.
07:16Everything's passing.
07:17My grades are good.
07:18I was worried he wasn't going to finish the eighth grade.
07:21Big Doug's got it.
07:22You're not there yet.
07:23Don't use it.
07:24I'm there.
07:25Hunter.
07:26What?
07:27For band, why is there nothing there?
07:30Oh, that's the one I missed that one time.
07:32I play trumpet in band.
07:36It was my mom's fault.
07:37She put me in there.
07:39And, yeah, I don't like band.
07:42Chris said I don't need to go to school.
07:43Oh, you're going to school.
07:45Even though I just became a dad, the school still don't give me an excuse to absences for
07:50being at the hospital.
07:52So it sucks having to leave Wes behind.
07:54Hunter has to go to school every day they're open because we need all the odds we can get
07:59for him to pass.
08:02So cover him up for a second and give the daddy a kiss.
08:07I am glad Hunter decided to go to school instead of staying at the hospital because finishing
08:11eighth grade is more important right now.
08:18But he wouldn't have been much help anyway.
08:20Mom was definitely more help than he would have been.
08:23I mean, I want him to be here, but it'll be nice just because he can't focus.
08:29He can't concentrate.
08:30He's not serious.
08:32Now that Hunter is a dad, I feel like it is very important for him to go on and finish
08:38his education.
08:39He will not be a high school dropout.
08:42So just because you had a kid doesn't mean you can't finish school.
08:45I'm not going to be at the high school dropout.
08:47Wes deserves better than that.
08:49So do I.
09:02I look like a fat pig.
09:05Yeah.
09:06You've gained like 20 pounds all in your belly.
09:09I'm 36 weeks today and this morning I went to the bathroom and my mucus plug came out and
09:15I was like, what the freak?
09:16I didn't know what it was at first.
09:18It's bloody and it looks like booger, like, like snot.
09:24It's weird.
09:26Just means the baby's getting ready.
09:28She pushes on my vagina, like, down and it, like, feels weird.
09:33Like, it feels like she's going to come out.
09:36It's just stressful because the baby's fixing to be here and Isabella and Bryce has not resolved
09:42anything.
09:47Isabella, I'm taking you to this couples therapy thing, but I think it's a waste of time.
09:53It's, like, so useless.
09:57You want me to, like, give up and not try?
09:59Is that what you want me to do?
10:00When do you give up?
10:02When do you throw in the towel?
10:04When there's no other resort.
10:06Okay, so.
10:07After this.
10:08But you also have to understand where I'm coming from.
10:11There's still parenting classes and anger management.
10:14And if he hasn't at least signed up and started doing them before Haisley's born, it's no
10:20contact.
10:21Really, the couples therapy I could care less about because I don't want them to be together
10:25anyway.
10:26But if he's going to be involved in a little baby with an explosive temper, I think he
10:33needs to do anger management and parenting classes.
10:38I'm going to tell you right now, I don't know how this is going to work or how this is
10:44going
10:44to play out.
10:45But if those things are not completed.
10:48I am on the same page.
10:50Why do you keep giving me the, like, why are you telling me this?
10:53I know.
10:55So, I don't really know where me and Bryce are at right now because we haven't seen
11:01each other since that awful crap dinner two weeks ago.
11:03But we've been texting a bit and Bryce agreed to go to counseling with me.
11:07I think that's a good start even though he won't get a job and he won't go to anger management.
11:12Let me get this straight.
11:13The tools you can use to help y'all's relationship for this baby, he's not willing to do.
11:19I don't know what you want me to do about it.
11:21I don't want you to do anything.
11:23Leave him alone.
11:24That's hard.
11:26What you need to do is love yourself and your baby enough to give him an ultimatum.
11:32I've tried.
11:33And stand by it.
11:34You've got to stand up for yourself.
11:37I don't even think I need counseling with him.
11:39I think we need counseling.
11:43I want my daughter to have one happy family.
11:46I don't want her growing up in a broken home.
11:48So, it's frustrating when my mom has, like, no hope in me and Bryce.
11:52But, I mean, she has five daughters.
11:56How many baby daddies does she have?
11:59Three, I think.
12:00So, she just thinks that giving up would be better than just trying for your family, I guess.
12:05I don't know.
12:08If it's so important that y'all communicate and y'all are together.
12:12Nobody is.
12:13Mom, I'm talking about communicating when she is here.
12:16We cannot talk to each other without cussing each other out.
12:18I would be cussing him out, too, if he left me pregnant.
12:23Oh, my gosh.
12:24They couldn't buy nothing for my kid but left me pregnant.
12:26Yeah, he'd be cussed out real good.
12:37I don't even know why you're crying.
12:39Okay.
12:41You gotta be real, Belle.
12:43It's real.
12:44Not what you want it to be.
12:45It's what it really is.
12:47Stop screaming at me, please.
12:49Good grief.
12:52I love you with all my heart, but I'm tired of being the bad guy.
12:57I'm not making you the bad guy.
12:58No, I'm tired of being the bad guy in this situation.
13:01This is your bull .
13:13I want to say that I'm sorry.
13:15You need to get away from my vehicle right now.
13:17Okay, but I...
13:18You need to get away from...
13:18You're not taking her.
13:19You don't want to go anywhere.
13:20Come on, Jessie.
13:20Let's go.
13:21Come on.
13:22I rearranged my schedule to bring Mia to her doctor's appointment.
13:25I ain't going anywhere.
13:27I will call the law for holding my child hostage.
13:31You want to change his diaper?
13:33No.
13:33I was about to throw up.
13:35It makes me gag.
13:36You gotta be teachable, Daddy, or you're not ever gonna learn.
13:39Yeah, no.
13:41No.
13:50Oh, you're not going anywhere.
13:52I can't wait.
13:54You know what?
13:56I'm going anywhere.
14:00You're not going anywhere.
14:03You're not going anywhere.
14:08I'm not going anywhere.
14:11I can't wait.
14:17eighth grade so he can move on and show his stuff that he did it you don't want
14:22him to finish high school before you was that him was that you it stinks help
14:47look it's so natural he's growing a beard already are you jealous it's so cute how excited hunter
14:57is to come see west can he crawl yet but he still has a lot of learning when it comes
15:04to taking care
15:05of him i opened the diaper it was black dollar i don't do black dollar no i got the binky
15:23you can
15:23get typically when it comes to dirty diapers they do push them off on me because you've been a mom
15:30since bc it's okay you know what you're doing oh my god he made me jump
15:42do you want me to take him and change him take him i can't oh poor wes your daddy can't
15:51handle it
15:52no no oh my gosh um shot out yeah now
16:05oh that was a lot
16:12yeah i was about to throw up it makes me gag
16:21he's gonna have to get over it because mama's not changing all the poop diapers so
16:27get over here
16:30sit down be teachable so you gotta be teachable daddy or i'm you're not ever gonna learn
16:38i can't blame hunter for not knowing you know what to do because i mean he is only 13 years
16:45old and
16:46he hasn't had a dad to show him how to be one so put him up here yeah yeah easy
16:52watch this
16:55you gotta support his head though it's nice to see that he wants to be around
16:59it will be nicer when he's more helpful how am i supposed to support his head long doing this
17:07at least hunter's trying even though he has a really long way to go yeah
17:21you know i don't want you to cry bell and i don't want you to be upset
17:24but you know something's got to give somewhere you know isabella grew up and her dad was in prison
17:31on drugs
17:36and i think that's what she don't want for hazley like to be without a dad
17:41this couple's therapy the answer i don't think so but she'll have to find out on her own
17:53after counseling bryce wants to hang out
17:57okay
18:04i don't think you should go but i'm gonna let you go because i'm tired of fighting about the same
18:11old
18:11things but if i have to come back and get you it'll be the last time
18:22even though my mom thinks it's stupid that we're going to couples counseling i'm still
18:28willing to try because bryce is making an effort in showing that he actually wants to be with me
18:33he texted me at like two this morning it says i love you look i'm sorry i know i'm not
18:39a great
18:40person and i admit that i do a lot wrong without thinking before i do it i need to do
18:45better but i
18:46just want to be better for you and her if i just don't realize what i have at sometimes i'm
18:52sorry
18:52it's getting along and i don't want to cry any more than i am but i love you and i
18:56hope you sleep
18:56amazing the sweet dreams i hope you dream of me maybe if i'm lucky
19:10thank you you put them in your truck until we get back i get it i'm hoping that counseling just
19:19helps me to be uh better at like communicating for us like and just to be um i don't know
19:27like to be
19:28more patient with her and just hear her out better we're about to have a kid so i don't know
19:33just best
19:34for us to try to fix everything come on in
19:41are you gonna go to angry movement no i don't need it i'm far from need it
19:50so tell me what do you guys fight about um this is gonna make you mad
19:59i just want to apologize to you get away from my vehicle because you are making me mad
20:03i'm sure it's a little bit of both jealousy and them trying to be right at the same time
20:07which causes them to collide crash fail i'll call the law if she doesn't let you out because
20:16you're a minor so play with me
20:28they're right there i think i need to go apologize to them
20:33like i'm not trying to argue
20:38look i want to say that i'm sorry if you say anything can you please listen
20:42then i'm gonna raise up my window and close i'm actually not even trying to say nothing ruth
20:45okay well i'm letting you know you know how i was fixing to go that i was coming to apologize
20:51like i told you okay well then apologize i did you put the window down i said i just want
20:56to
20:56apologize to you today's my 39 week doctor's appointment and my mom and ak have been arguing
21:01all morning about who's gonna drive us it's just so ridiculous and dumb that's what i even
21:06told my mom and i was like it's not even a big deal that ak brings me to my appointment
21:09i said
21:10if you want to be at my appointment then be at my appointment but i ended up riding with my
21:13mom
21:14just so i wouldn't hear her bicker the whole time
21:22i want to say that i'm sorry that's not the type of person i am to argue and fight you
21:27need to get
21:27away from my vehicle right okay but i need to get away i don't get mad whenever when jesse comes
21:31to
21:31rides i don't get away from my vehicle because you are making me mad that is why i'm asking you
21:36to get
21:36but i'm not trying to argue i'm telling you what how how this day goes and that's how today's going
21:40to go today because that's what we do on this day nicole i'm not i told these children
21:46i'm just saying nicole it's not happening you're not taking her whatever come on jesse let's go
21:53come on i'm sure it's a little bit of both jealousy and them trying to be right at the same
21:58time
21:59which causes them to collide crash fail tell her i'll call the law if she doesn't let you out because
22:08you're a minor and i will call the law for holding my child hostage so play with me
22:17now let's go
22:21it's not like my mom when she does bring me she sits in the car and we just go in
22:25there
22:26but she didn't sit in this car this time because ak wouldn't sit in the car so she had proved
22:30that
22:30she wanted to be up there too so they're both going to be sitting in the the room for no
22:34reason
22:35no reason sitting in the waiting room for no reason
22:41thank you
22:44i rearranged my schedule to bring mia to her doctor's appointment and here i am waiting in this
22:49waiting room with this dumb ass sitting right across from me that ain't did for her daughter but uh
22:54even though it's super awkward i ain't going anywhere because i'm anxious to see what these doctors have
22:59to say
23:09it takes courage to come into counseling and so i'm glad you're here
23:13this is the first time thing for me so is it yeah i hope counseling works for me and bryce
23:19because
23:20there is a baby involved and i still have that hope that things will change and he will get a
23:26job
23:26and he will be the person that he promised to be
23:34so you have a baby coming yeah how do you feel about that well i'm nervous babies a lot yeah
23:41they
23:41are a lot but it's doable how about you bryce how do you feel about having a baby the only
23:49thing i'm
23:49really nervous about is like having financial stuff are you graduating in may yes after you
23:55graduate are you planning to work like full time i'm planning on getting a cdl and then going from
24:01there that's a new one i didn't know you was doing that i did i said that i've been thinking
24:07i can get
24:08my commercial driver's license and use my truck to haul stuff i think it'd be a better job because a
24:12lot
24:12more money a lot more opportunities and working in a fast food place says you just flip burgers
24:20what do you guys fight about that we might be able to sort out um his family feeling entitled and
24:26still being disrespectful well something between the two of you yeah but that's between us because
24:31he takes up for them i don't take over nobody i sit there and stay quiet okay so that's the
24:35problem
24:36the disrespect was very loud and you just sat there and didn't do anything how did it make you feel
24:41when
24:41he sat there and didn't do anything i was hurt hurt like bryce doesn't know how to divide like
24:48his family and the family he created how do you feel about that i don't necessarily like it because
24:54that's where i live that's where i stay it's not about that it's not about that hang on just a
25:00second
25:00isabella i'll come back to you okay let's let him finish bryce what are you feeling in that point
25:07confusion guilt and insecurity and then what do you do um talk to her i try to so you go
25:14after
25:14he blows my phone up that's what he does so you pursue her hard yeah because i want to try
25:20to
25:20figure it out because he's scared of losing me oh after me and isabella fight or whatever i mean i'd
25:28try to communicate with her but isabella is like she's she likes space and don't like to listen at
25:35all you're not getting anything out of her or making her listen to anything if she's mad i wonder where
25:42you guys put your hope my daughter first of all she brings you hope yeah um definitely and then her
25:50isabella brings you hope like makes me want to be better and do better babies can do that stretch
25:57us in ways that we might not have uh volunteered for right yeah yeah this isn't the end of their
26:04story babies are hard but i saw them care about each other i think they do want to have something
26:10good between the two of them and for their baby and so with the supportive families and encouragement
26:15from others i think they can build a life together you can do this yeah yeah i like therapy usually
26:22i
26:23don't really open up like that but i feel like it was a good thing that there was like a
26:29person that
26:30doesn't side with anybody and let each one of us talk without being interrupted so it's not so toxic
26:36and like hectic i'm glad you made it in me too i think bryce did good in therapy i was
26:42actually super
26:43surprised i'm hopeful that we can change the things that we need to work on before the baby gets
26:49here because i do want a family with bryce but if he can't change then i don't know where that
26:59leaves us
27:03we gotta come back up here for 12 30. we gotta be here for 12. be here for 12. the
27:08doctor came in
27:09she's like so you're getting induced tonight have you decided on who's going to be in delivery room
27:14don't even ask me that question right now i'm being induced because i have high blood pressure
27:20you know high blood pressure is called from stress i just feel like i'm literally the only one fighting
27:28for anything to be better and you could give a less had a great session with therapy and then
27:33goes right back into my fault again i'm not going to counseling if you can't go to anger management
27:39i think it's necessary if you constantly push push and push and push i'm gonna get upset
28:03you're probably getting induced today the doctor came in she checks my cervix and everything and
28:08tells me that i'm still only a centimeter dilated and i tell her okay thinking going back home just
28:15waiting you know give birth some other day but then she comes back in there and she's like so
28:19you're getting induced tonight yeah so you know i just i just freeze jesse don't say nothing i don't
28:27say nothing and then she said be back here at 12 o'clock tonight and jesse goes oh my god
28:33you're about
28:33to have a baby and i go yeah i sure sure i am i'm gonna be able to hold my
28:38baby in like the next 24 hours
28:40you know this thing that keeps taking me yeah i was working
28:43and i was under the impression at first that it was happening then right that second so after me
28:49explained that it wasn't going to happen right then i was still freaking out excited but i wasn't like
28:54i had to calm down a little bit you know
29:06oh let me tell you i'm being induced because i have gestational hypertension
29:12and the cause of that if you don't know is high blood pressure you know high blood pressure is called
29:17from stress all because my mom and ak don't know how to keep their mouths shut and they want to
29:23give
29:24me high blood pressure
29:30so we gotta come back up here for 12 30. we gotta be here for 12. be here for 12.
29:36yeah she told me to go
29:37take a shower eat and have a good meal before wait we're coming at 12 30 midnight yeah i mean
29:44i feel
29:44bad that i could have been one of the reasons to make her blood pressure a little high but it's
29:50go
29:50time and mia has a big decision to make so have you decided on who's going to be in delivery
29:57room
29:57don't even ask me that question right now i know i don't even ask that question right now
30:03this is not the time i got to get my stuff together and prepare to have this baby i just
30:07can't believe after everything that went down today she's still worried about competing with my
30:12mom whether or not she's gonna be in the delivery room it kind of makes me mad don't even don't
30:17even
30:18mia the last thing i want to be thinking about is our crazy moms yeah i really don't need them
30:24stressing mia out anymore especially after putting mia through hell
30:43after spending three days in the hospital today's the day we get to take him home
30:48i'm so excited it's definitely not gonna be easy but our families will help support us will help support
30:54us our families will help hunter all right yeah our families will help support us and keep us going
31:02so we don't feel like our life is over just because we had a baby young but i'm still nervous
31:07how hunter's
31:08going to be as a 13 year old dub i'm ready for him to be home already ready for me
31:16where home home
31:18why i love him so much oh yeah look at little chunk i love how hunter is already obsessed with
31:29west so i do feel like hunter is going to step up and do what needs to be done um
31:33it may take him a
31:34little longer than it would you know someone that is older but he did good this morning helping with
31:39west i think he changed a diaper while i was asleep oh i pick him up and i'm like is
31:46that a butt crack i feel
31:48i pull his gown up the diaper was halfway down his butt
31:55he tried and there was poop in the diaper too so we're just lucky it didn't seep out
32:04well y'all glad that part's over yep yep me too 100 percent hunter said you can't kill him now
32:12because he did good making your grandson yeah he don't help take care of that kid and take care of
32:18you then uh you know he could be on a milk carton you never know what she didn't do all
32:24this on her own
32:25she's not going to go through it all on her own i expect hunter to help as much as he
32:30can because
32:30he's not going to be able to help financially and support the baby i mean we haven't really got him
32:38to change poopy diapers yet we're still working on that you want to change how many did you change
32:45how many not even poopy how many diapers i i had a job when i started having kids and worked
32:51a lot
32:52i got a job it's cool you're going to get through it we're going to make you and then straight
32:58out
32:58of school we're going to send you right to work yep yeah see i knew what was going to happen
33:04when we
33:04had three girls did you they was going to reproduce we was going to have to help raise that and
33:09see it's
33:12there ain't going to be no more kids for a while if there is there ain't going to be a
33:17baby daddy
33:18i want to tell you that baby daddy don't do it by himself so i swear if this kid ends
33:24up pregnant
33:29i won't so she thought i was joking when i told her that after you have the baby and they
33:35say you
33:35got to wait six weeks blah blah and i'm like you might make it a week and then this morning
33:40she was
33:41like you weren't lying mom like i'm ready to have sex now i miss it and yeah so they do
33:52have protection
33:52but i can't be in there to be like make sure it's on you know so be smart and make
34:01sure it's on
34:04baby wish has arrived we definitely i would say we have an active six life the longest i've gone
34:15is probably when bella was in the hospital can you wait six weeks yeah i can wait six weeks you're
34:24flying yeah you don't even make it like two days and then you're trying to hunt me so you're like
34:30a
34:30rabbit hunter's gonna shower yeah with you okay my parents definitely know what we do behind closed
34:47doors stacy does too but my dad definitely doesn't want to hear about it
34:56i feel like it's gonna take me three hours just to get everything put up and situated
35:07oh i'm doing the most important job
35:12i'm guarding little man don't get me wrong i love my grandson but the one thing that would cause me
35:19to
35:19lose my mind and uh really get pissed off would be if there's another kid that pops up before
35:28these two get out of high school and get their life started
35:32because we're trying to do everything we can to help them not let this hold them back but if they
35:37have a second wolves then they're going to be in trouble
35:43are you coming or not can you shut the up
35:50i'm done i'm not going to let him be a part of his daughter's life he can take me to
35:55court
36:08we can handle this we can we can handle it can you get up or do you need help i'm
36:14independent
36:16okay let's see if i can do it
36:23okay i got it i got it that's what i said therapy um i think it went well i enjoyed
36:29it i feel like that
36:30the communication is already getting better and hopefully it will be the beginning of our
36:34relationship and getting back on the right path
36:42so you know like i do live with my mom and i still have to follow her rules and boundaries
36:47because i
36:47do live at her house just because i'm 18 doesn't mean that yeah like i still depend on her yeah
36:53so
36:54you know all she asks is you to do the anger management that's kind of big for her and i
37:00know
37:00it doesn't really matter to you what my mom thinks but it matters to me i don't want hazley growing
37:06up
37:07in a broken home but i also don't want her having angry parents either
37:14if you want this to work between me and you then i think that you need to go
37:23i think it's necessary had a great session with therapy and then goes right back into i need to fix
37:31so
37:33right back into the my fault again like there's things that i do gotta work on and fix but i
37:40don't
37:40need anger management so i won't ever do that
37:48so are you gonna go i don't need it what do you mean you don't know what i said
37:56well i'm not doing all this counseling and all this for you not to know
38:00well i don't know i'm taking a day at a time i'm not worried so you're not worried okay so
38:09if you decide that that's not what you want to do then you made your decision you made your bed
38:13and
38:14you're gonna you're fixing to lay in it like that's what's gonna happen so it's either you go
38:17to anger management and choose your family which is me and hazley or you don't go
38:33i don't know i'm not too good at responding well to ultimatum i don't like being pretty much held to
38:40a threat if i don't do something then i'm gonna get a punishment for it crazy ultimatum you know lord
38:47have mercy he don't need that okay he's a happy guy you know so i just have buttons and if
38:55you
38:56constantly push push and push and push then i'm gonna get upset it's like saying don't hit the red
39:03button and then just going to slap it it's like exactly what it is so or if you see a
39:09wound on
39:09someone you keep touching it it's gonna hurt and it's gonna piss them off so why keep doing it i
39:15just
39:15feel like i'm literally the only one fighting for anything to be better
39:20and you could give a per usual so much for this every single time i'm not doing it doesn't matter
39:30about counseling i'm not going to counseling if you can't go to anger management
39:37so are you willing to do that or like what it's not happening dead there simple as that literally
39:44asking one thing i just told you i said no means no oh my gosh i'm not doing that we
39:53was doing great
39:54and then he wants to like i i don't know i know it's never going to be any different so
40:03i don't
40:04know why i keep trying for it like it's exhausting i'm wasting my time are you coming or not can
40:11you shut
40:12the up if he leaves then he's he's gonna be so he better hope that he don't what do you
40:21mean because
40:21my mom can be pissed and he's gonna everything up he's not making this better on himself he's never
40:29seen this side of my mom my family keeps telling me oh well this is what's gonna happen and then
40:34it
40:34happens and they're like oh well we told you so we told you that was gonna happen and i'm like
40:39no no it's
40:40not nice to turn defend him and then at the end of it like he on me
40:48like my mom said unless he can take accountability for his actions nothing's ever gonna change
40:58i'm done i'm not gonna let him be a part of his daughter's life he can take me to court
41:04oh we'll get the best lawyer you can get
41:11next time on unexpected come on let's do golf cart i don't want to do it i'm looking at the
41:17go-kart and i don't think that i'm going to fit because i got big thighs
41:21and try to bug in the dentist it's not like the seat belt won't reach i'm like mortified right now
41:30it's not a big deal it's not a big deal to you so find her the most beautiful girl in
41:36the world
41:36she doesn't really view herself the same way but it's true why are you crying he's being fat i'm ready
41:44for this to all just be over have you heard from bryce bryce isn't coming to the delivery because
41:51yeah we broke up what if bryce and them show up i'll get him arrested
41:58i wonder how many people right now are going to the hospital to get induced that was not my plan
42:04the moms do promise that they are not going to fight during my labor i believe them to an extent
42:10you ready you want to go back there if nicole had anything negative to say would i want to beat
42:16the out of her absolutely but i'm going to stay as civil as i can
42:25i don't think this is normal and i'm getting a little worried and uh nicole left i don't know
42:29where she's at i just hope she gets here in time
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