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00:01Previously on The Single Life.
00:04Sophie is acting like a little girl.
00:07Being honest, I think you're going to ruin your life again.
00:11I feel that I have to listen to Nicole,
00:13but at the same time, I want Sophie
00:16to see that we can be great together.
00:19The beauty is perfect.
00:20Yeah, stunning.
00:21Stunning, like you.
00:22This is the side of Pedro that I like,
00:24and I feel like this is the real him.
00:26You want to see my butt?
00:27Go, I want to see it.
00:28You want to see my butt?
00:30If he just puts the seriousness
00:32of wanting a relationship all that aside,
00:34this is how I build attraction.
00:39Will you be communicating with other women?
00:43Um.
00:45I asked him point blank if he was talking to other women.
00:49Where are you going?
00:51I don't know.
00:52He didn't have the balls to tell me the truth.
00:54I just don't want to waste time.
00:56I'm flying back to Michigan tonight,
00:58and I have no idea where we stand.
01:01I just want to go home, please.
01:04I wish I would have just handled this whole situation better,
01:07but now I have to.
01:08I wish you did, too.
01:11Jamal is an older brother named Larry that I put up for adoption,
01:14but I also had a daughter.
01:16Larry wants to come visit us,
01:19and I have to go into this being completely 100% transparent.
01:23How do you think he's going to react?
01:24I think he's going to be really upset with me.
01:26By the way, you have a sister.
01:34Come on and dance with me, darling.
01:36I know you want it.
01:38With the rhythm of your body,
01:40I want to go.
01:42You know you're driving me crazy.
01:45Anticipating.
01:46Hey, good morning.
01:47Good morning, you're our guides.
01:48Give me this, give me this.
01:50Can't help it with this.
01:54You got some rock inside, or what?
02:03I got some delicious coconut for you ladies.
02:06Take this, and I got it.
02:09Oh, my gosh.
02:12Me and Julia are going with Pedro tonight
02:13to his sister's birthday party in Santo Domingo.
02:16It's a bit of a drive,
02:17so we're going to be staying overnight in a different hotel.
02:19Coconut cheers.
02:21Coconut cheers.
02:22Okay, let's make this day the best day here.
02:24We'll have some fun, okay?
02:25Yes.
02:26Ever since Pedro and I hit the reset button,
02:28he's just being himself.
02:30He's being funny, sweet, and silly.
02:32Take care for that, okay?
02:33Okay.
02:34It just feels like whatever serious pressure
02:36he had in the beginning is gone.
02:38So now I'm like, okay, now we can enjoy ourselves.
02:41Let's go.
02:42Let's drive crazy.
02:45I haven't really spoken to Liz since our fallout,
02:48but Julia left her a message
02:50that would be gone for a couple days.
02:51I'm napping.
02:53I'm already feeling super nervous
02:55about meeting Pedro's mom and his sister,
02:57so I just feel like having Liz here as well
02:59would just make things even more awkward.
03:11We're here, ladies.
03:13Thanks.
03:13Yay!
03:15Things with me and Sophie
03:16are getting really good right now.
03:18Welcome to Santa Domingo, ladies.
03:21We had an amazing day
03:23in the Mexicans last night.
03:25And now I'm super happy
03:27that she's coming to my sister's birthday party.
03:30Okay, this is mine.
03:31I get ready.
03:32We are like an hour.
03:33Okie dokie.
03:34Bienvenido al paradiso
03:36Yeah, baby, baby, baby, why don't we go?
03:40Es paradiso
03:42Yeah.
03:44This is the most conservative outfit that I've bought.
03:48I mean, okay, it shows some cleave,
03:50but honestly, I'm fully covered.
03:52I think it's pretty traditional.
03:54It's still giving party
03:55because I'm not going to show up with, like, a sack, you know?
03:57Like, I still want something cute.
03:58But, yeah, I think this is pretty respectful.
04:08Let's go.
04:09We're going to have a lot of fun tonight.
04:14How many people is going to be?
04:16We're going to be, like, 20 people at this.
04:17It's my my sister friend, you know?
04:19Oh, my God.
04:19I'm scared.
04:21Look, we're only talking, okay?
04:22It's not pressure.
04:23Yeah, exactly, yes.
04:24What if they're, like,
04:25we don't like Sophie,
04:26you're like, see you later?
04:28You going to hang out with me anymore?
04:29See you later?
04:30Really?
04:31It's my family, you know?
04:33No pressure, though.
04:34You're not kidding.
04:36You're not kidding?
04:37I'm kidding.
04:38You're not kidding.
04:39My mom, my sister,
04:41they are very savage.
04:44So, I had to be in Hitler tonight.
04:49The last thing that I want
04:50is for my mom and my sister
04:52to scare Sophie away.
04:55I think we're stressing it.
04:57It's my sister.
04:57She's crazy.
04:58That's the problem.
05:00Pedro's not really making me feel
05:02very, like, comforted,
05:03like, oh, no, my sister's sweet.
05:04He's literally, like,
05:05no, she's insane.
05:07I'm so scared.
05:08It's okay.
05:08What did I get myself into?
05:15Oh, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you, thank you.
05:18Flakies!
05:19Hey!
05:22So, mommy?
05:23Hi!
05:23How are you?
05:25How are you?
05:25Julia, nice to meet you!
05:27Nice to meet you.
05:28Nice to meet you for my birthday.
05:29Thank you for inviting us.
05:31Oh, thank you.
05:32Nice to meet you.
05:33Famous Sophie.
05:34How are you?
05:35How are you?
05:35She is a famous Sophie.
05:40She's famous because my brother
05:41has talked to me about her.
05:43No, she's famous for me.
05:45You're making my brother suffering.
05:49Aw, yeah, Sophie.
05:51You're making my brother suffering right now.
05:55Every day, all the same.
05:57People talk and never listen.
05:59And they say, give me fame,
06:00but can't make their own decision.
06:02And my mind, so far gone.
06:03But my heart is on a mission, a vision.
06:05I'm driven to put the key in my mind.
06:07I'm driven to put the key in my ignition.
06:09Hello.
06:09What's up?
06:10How are you?
06:12All right.
06:13I'm, like, shaking.
06:24Go, go, go.
06:31We can make it.
06:35I'm excited to see them, you know?
06:37I'm anxious to see the kids.
06:39Yeah, me too.
06:40I'm excited to see Bean.
06:41He's speaking now.
06:42He's saying words.
06:43I know.
06:44He calls me BMK.
06:45Baby Mama Kim.
06:49Today's the day that Larry and his family arrive in San Diego,
06:52and Jamal and I are on the way to go meet them.
06:55We've only seen them once before in North Carolina,
06:59but we talk or we'll video chat or text once a week.
07:02And the video chats with his son are probably my favorite thing.
07:07He's obsessed with my cats.
07:11And it's really become, like, a special part of my life.
07:16Did you get any sleep last night?
07:17No.
07:19No.
07:20Don't start crying.
07:21Hence the best.
07:23I'll be fine.
07:23Well, just try to stay strong when you're talking to him, you know?
07:26Yeah, I just really need to do this, you know?
07:29Yeah.
07:30Yeah.
07:31But I'm scared.
07:32Leading up to today, I've been feeling super anxious.
07:36I've had a couple panic attacks.
07:38I've cried a lot of tears because I'm like,
07:41how am I going to tell this guy that now he has not just Jamal,
07:45but he's got a sister, too, that I also place for adoption?
07:49I hope he's understanding and that he doesn't hate me.
07:53It's a lot.
07:56I really don't have that much information to give Larry about his sister
07:59because it was a closed adoption.
08:01So I don't know who adopted her.
08:04I don't know where she lives now.
08:05And I don't even know her name.
08:07But it's not fair to him that I've been holding all of this in.
08:11And now I just have to release it.
08:13I have to let it go.
08:15I can't live like this anymore.
08:17I just can't do it.
08:26Can you grab the stuff out of the back?
08:29Oh.
08:31It's hot today.
08:33I'm so nervous.
08:35I feel like I'm going to throw up.
08:40All right, lead the way.
08:43I've been waiting for my mom to tell Larry about my sister
08:47because I want to, like, get closer with my brother.
08:51Like this.
08:52But I've been distant from him.
08:54Just because this secret was eating at me,
08:57I just felt bad getting closer to him while hiding something from him.
09:05It's going to be fine.
09:06It's like one of the hardest things I've ever had to do, you know?
09:09Yeah.
09:10It's hard when you've lied all the time to, like, open up like that, you know?
09:17If you can tell me the truth about him,
09:19then you can tell him the truth about her.
09:23I just don't know what Larry is going to think about me
09:25once I tell him this news.
09:28I'm scared that he's going to judge me.
09:31He's going to be ashamed of me.
09:35Okay.
09:37What if he just turns around and leaves?
09:39What if he never speaks to me again?
09:41Screw it over.
09:42I just keep thinking.
09:43I'm going to lose him again.
09:47Ooh.
09:49I can feel my heartbeat.
09:51Ooh.
09:52No, everything's fine.
09:53You're freaking me out, Jamal.
09:54You're freaking me out.
09:55Everything's fine.
09:59Oh, here they come.
10:03I'm going.
10:10Hi, guys.
10:11Who is that?
10:14Come here.
10:15Hi, baby.
10:16Hello.
10:17Hello.
10:18Oh, look at you.
10:20Wow, look at you.
10:21You cut your hair?
10:22Yeah.
10:23You know?
10:24Hello.
10:25What's up?
10:26What's up?
10:32Hi, Nellie.
10:33You're so pretty.
10:35That's Nellie.
10:36I got presents for you.
10:38I just love seeing Larry and the family, and Bean is just so cute.
10:42What's my name?
10:44BK, right?
10:45Yeah, absolutely.
10:46I'm BK.
10:46Who's that?
10:47You all just said that.
10:48Hello.
10:49That's Uncle Maul.
10:50What's up, boy?
10:51What's up, boy?
10:52I'm just looking at him like, wow, these kids are a part of me.
10:55Like, they have my blood in them.
10:56And I really want for us to build a family together.
11:00Come on.
11:01So if this doesn't go well today, I have a lot to lose.
11:05I can lose my relationship with my grandkids.
11:07I can lose the relationship with his wife.
11:09And I can lose the relationship with Jamal and Larry.
11:12I just feel like I can lose everything.
11:16Bean, do you want your gift?
11:17Here.
11:21Oh, cool.
11:22There you go.
11:24Oh, yeah.
11:27We got this car.
11:29He loved his firetruck, race car.
11:31Anyway, I got y'all's water, some fruit, just little stuff.
11:34Oh, thank y'all.
11:36Look at this.
11:37Did you say thank you for the picnic?
11:39Thank Uncle Maul and BK for the picnic?
11:43You're welcome.
11:44You're welcome.
11:48I always knew I was adopted.
11:50And I wanted to find my birth mother.
11:52Two years ago, my family did a DNA test.
11:56When I got my results back, I found my first cousins, did some digging, and we ended up finding Kim.
12:03So what's going on with y'all and the N.C.?
12:06Nothing.
12:07Trying to make it.
12:08Same thing every day.
12:10Working, taking care of the babies, and loving on them.
12:14It's been real cool getting to know them.
12:17I definitely want them to be a part of my life.
12:20I want to be a part of theirs, and I just want to move forward.
12:25Let me give her a strawberry.
12:26She's so cute.
12:28Oh, man.
12:32I'm sitting here, looking at Larry, and I feel like I'm having a full-on panic attack.
12:41I do got to talk to y'all.
12:45Is it bad?
12:46Yes.
12:46Oh, my God.
12:47Really?
12:48I have to talk to y'all.
12:50I just need to get this out, okay?
12:52Wait.
12:52No, I got to get it out.
12:55Larry, come here.
12:56Come on this side, please.
13:00I wanted to see you face-to-face before I tell you.
13:06Heart attack.
13:07Just take a breath there.
13:09Don't have a heart attack, please.
13:19I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie, so I invited her to Michigan, and after some persuading, she
13:25agreed.
13:26There's something important I actually want to tell you today.
13:30Okay.
13:31So, I decided that, you know.
13:42Wait, amigos.
13:43No pression.
13:49Yo.
13:50Pedro's mom is, yeah, she's crazy.
13:52That's weird.
13:53What was she saying?
13:54I heard banana.
13:55She said, maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested, but you don't have a taste in me yet.
14:00If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night, there's only so much I can take before I'm
14:06going to lose my cool.
14:19I'm so excited that I get to pick Natalie up.
14:21She's here in Michigan.
14:23It's going to be a good day.
14:35Natalie and I, we had such a good time in D.C. overall last time.
14:39Good vibes.
14:40A little concerning at the end, but this time is going to be better.
14:46I wasn't even back on the plane to Michigan before I realized I made a huge mistake with Natalie.
14:53I don't want to be talking to a bunch of girls.
14:55And, you know, I really want to find someone that I can settle down with.
15:00I truly believe Natalie might be the one.
15:04So, I invited her to visit me in Michigan.
15:06And after some persuading, she agreed.
15:10I need to go all in with Natalie and see how it goes.
15:23She knows!
15:24Oh, Natalie!
15:26How are you?
15:27I'm good.
15:27How are you?
15:28Oh, my God.
15:29So good to see you again.
15:31So good to see you.
15:34What's that?
15:35These are for you.
15:37Awesome.
15:37Um, I really thought I was done with Gino.
15:40But the reality is that Gino and I are not in a committed relationship.
15:46And I think I may have overreacted.
15:49What's that on your face?
15:51Is there something on my face?
15:52I think you've got some.
15:54Oh, you know what?
15:55It could be from a flower.
15:57I was still telling you a flower.
15:59Did you stick the flowers in your face?
16:03Since DC, he's opened up.
16:06He's been apologetic.
16:07He's been more transparent.
16:09And I want to see if he's changed.
16:12You like my makeup?
16:13I do.
16:14There's just something about Gino.
16:16You can't stay mad at him very long.
16:19I love it.
16:21Woo!
16:21You're good.
16:22All right.
16:23Let's go.
16:24Let's get out of here.
16:29Today we are going to the riverfront.
16:32Okay.
16:33It's a beautiful place on the water.
16:35And I think it'd give us like a fresh start, you know, compared to the last time you were here.
16:41I like that.
16:42I think we both deserve a fresh start.
16:53Let's feel the water here.
16:56Oh, it's nice.
16:58I want to put my feet in the water.
17:00It'll cool us off.
17:06How is it?
17:06Oh my God, are you really going to get up on there?
17:08Yes, come on.
17:11Holy cow.
17:12I probably got to roll my pants a little.
17:14Feel it.
17:15Oh my God.
17:16Doesn't that feel good?
17:17That is cold.
17:19Were you like, that girl's crazy?
17:21No.
17:22Okay.
17:24Holy s***.
17:25Don't you dare.
17:26I love the fact that you really seem to bring out the playful side of me.
17:31Yeah, for sure.
17:32And you're okay with it.
17:34Yeah.
17:35I'm not used to that.
17:36Oh my God, I'm all wet now.
17:41I mean, this is so beautiful.
17:43I mean, boom, there's Canada right there in your face.
17:48And the weather is perfect.
17:50I know, it's gorgeous.
17:51Perfect weather.
17:52Yes.
17:53Yeah, but you know, there's something important I actually want to tell you today.
18:00Okay.
18:01Yeah.
18:02So, I decided that, well, what I want to do is I'm not, I don't want to speak to any
18:13other
18:13women anymore.
18:15Like, and I want to focus on you and our relationship and building our relationship.
18:19You know, I don't want to risk losing you.
18:21I think if I continue to talk to a bunch of women, that that's probably going to happen.
18:27I'm shocked.
18:29I'm surprised.
18:30But I'm happy that you made this decision because you wanted to make this decision.
18:39I did not think that this was going to come out of his mouth.
18:42It's only been two weeks since we last talked about it.
18:45So, I am skeptical.
18:47You know, he can say a lot of things, but he needs to show me by his actions that he
18:51truly
18:51means this.
18:53But I am excited because we deserve a chance.
18:56There is one more very important thing that I need to ask you.
19:01Stop.
19:02What I want to ask you is if you're hungry, because I know a really good place that's
19:08not far from here.
19:10Yes, I'm hungry.
19:14Natalie seems very happy that I want to focus all my energy just on her.
19:19Ready?
19:20Yeah.
19:23We still have a lot of things to figure out.
19:25We haven't even had sex yet, but I'm hoping while she's in Michigan, we'll really be stepping
19:30up to the next level.
19:32Ready?
19:33Here we go.
19:34It's beautiful.
19:35And then, I mean, who knows?
19:38Say Canada.
19:39Canada.
19:41All right.
19:52See the famous selfie.
19:54Hey, you are making my brother suffering.
19:57Oh, yeah, selfie.
19:59You are making my brother suffering right now.
20:10Do you want a shot?
20:11Yeah?
20:12Four?
20:13Yeah, yeah, yeah.
20:14Por favor, tres.
20:16Tres?
20:17Por favor.
20:18Tres.
20:19Alicia just got here, and Nicole already seems a little bit unhinged.
20:26I'm already seeing what Peugeot's talking about.
20:57I could see a Sophie and then I saw a normal woman, a common woman.
21:05I didn't see a great Pedro.
21:08She has a pattern.
21:10She's very voluminous.
21:11She doesn't have anything in her head.
21:17She has a Dominican test.
21:20She has to test the eggs.
21:24She said the eggs?
21:27Yo!
21:28PlƔtano.
21:29It's so fun.
21:30PlƔtano.
21:30Oh, plƔtano.
21:31You said plƔtano.
21:32No, plƔtano.
21:35PlƔtano.
21:35PlƔtano.
21:38What the hell?
21:39That's weird.
21:40What was she saying?
21:41What was she saying?
21:43I heard banana and I heard eggs.
21:47She said we don't have anything intimate yet.
21:51You know what I mean?
21:52And then she said, it's stupid.
21:54No, it's like, finish.
21:55I what?
21:56Maybe, you know, you know that I'm interested because you don't have a text in me yet.
22:02That's embarrassing, bro.
22:03We're in front of everybody.
22:05She said, oh my God.
22:06The reason why Sophie is not coming to you because you're not going to give you some plƔtano.
22:14Jesus Christ.
22:16You know, it's just awkward.
22:18Why are you not my son?
22:19I'm like, wait, what?
22:19Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
22:21That's what she was saying.
22:22That's what she said.
22:24Mom, you don't do those things.
22:26Nobody's mom can do those things.
22:28Can I just chill with you for one second?
22:30Yes.
22:30And then I'll go back.
22:32Yeah, yeah.
22:32And I need one drink and I'm done.
22:34Okay.
22:34I just like, seriously, my nerves, I'm like, I'm just like, it was super a lot, you know?
22:41Pedro's mom is, yeah, she's crazy.
22:43Like, I don't even need to talk to her much longer to realize that.
22:47If this family just keeps on disrespecting me the whole night, there's only so much I
22:53can take before I'm going to lose my cool.
22:56I just, I have, like, anxiety sometimes, so it's just acting up a little bit, but I'm
22:59okay.
23:00I'm not going to tell you about yourself, okay?
23:01Never.
23:02Remember that.
23:02Okay.
23:06I made some bad decisions, you know?
23:09And there's so many times we went on the phone and I wanted to say something, but I
23:13just couldn't say it.
23:13Mm-hmm.
23:14And I feel like all I've done is lie.
23:17Holding the information from me, I wish you wouldn't have done it.
23:21Please don't hate me.
23:33I wanted to see you face to face before I tell you.
23:55I have another daughter that I put up for adoption.
24:03You do?
24:06Hmm.
24:07It's your sister.
24:09Hmm.
24:11Please don't hate me.
24:12Please don't.
24:13This is so hard and I don't think anybody can understand.
24:20I wanted to talk to you face to face and there's so many times we went on the phone and
24:24I wanted
24:25to say something.
24:26But I couldn't say it.
24:27I just couldn't say it.
24:29Mm-hmm.
24:29And I feel like all I've done is lie, you know?
24:38Um, what was the situation at the time?
24:42Yeah.
24:42Your birthday and I were back together and things were fine and then I got pregnant.
24:49And then, um, same thing.
24:52I had her by myself.
24:53I had her in a different hospital by myself.
24:56He didn't give me one, one iota of, I love you, though, let's try.
25:01Not one.
25:03Yeah, yeah.
25:03I did everything.
25:05Everything's been by myself, you know?
25:11No, calm down.
25:13You just, just talk to him.
25:14Yeah.
25:16I'm not gonna hate you.
25:17I'm not gonna hate you.
25:18You're not a, you're not a bad person.
25:20It's all right.
25:21It's all right.
25:22It's all right.
25:23It's all right.
25:24Aw, see?
25:25Thank you, Paul.
25:27It's all right.
25:27Bing, Bing, don't give her a hug.
25:29Don't give BK a hug, okay?
25:31I just made some, you know, I was not the smartest back then.
25:34I made some bad decisions, you know?
25:42And Bing tell you it's gonna be all right.
25:43It's gonna be all right.
25:45It's gonna be all right.
25:45It's okay.
25:47I love you.
25:50I don't know where she's at.
25:51Okay.
25:52I don't know.
25:52I know she was born a year after you.
25:54Yeah.
25:54Oh, she's after me.
25:56Yeah.
25:57It's just, it's just crazy.
25:59I have a sister.
26:01It's a lot.
26:03Just knowing, like, now I have two biological siblings, and I'm the oldest of both of them.
26:10Just don't hate me.
26:11Please don't.
26:11I don't know what to say.
26:12I'm, like, ashamed that I didn't tell you.
26:15Holding the information from me, I mean, it's shocking.
26:18Don't get me wrong.
26:19I wish you wouldn't have done it.
26:20But, I mean, how mad could I be that she's my birth mother and she gave me a life, gave
26:25me an opportunity to have a beautiful wife, two beautiful kids, you know?
26:30And I will never take that for granted.
26:34When it comes to, like, the telling part of it, yeah, you could handle some stuff better.
26:38I'm sorry.
26:39I'm so sorry.
26:40And I'm so sorry to him too, you know?
26:42It's really, like, this has messed our relationship up so bad.
26:46This has been eating me up because I knew this secret.
26:50And I was just like, I don't want to start this relationship with you.
26:53And then this day happens.
26:55Yeah.
26:55Like, why didn't you tell me?
26:56We've been talking all the time.
26:58I'm so glad you all found us.
27:00And, like, I have this family.
27:02I am flat.
27:02I'm gonna be honest.
27:03I don't know where we go from here.
27:04But, like, I just want my family.
27:06You know what I mean?
27:07As the one you're, you know, you're coming to telling, you don't have to beat yourself up about it.
27:14Every day.
27:15Don't.
27:16Stop.
27:16Well, it's out now.
27:17It's out.
27:18We just move on.
27:19We go from here.
27:19You know what I'm saying?
27:22I need a hug.
27:23Brittany, come here and give me a hug.
27:24Because you, Brittany, always gives me a hug.
27:27I know.
27:27I get the best hugs.
27:29You too.
27:35I'm sorry.
27:35I didn't tell you very much.
27:37It's okay.
27:40I had closed that part of my life, you know?
27:42I had closed my heart to that.
27:45Because when I put Larry up for adoption, it was so painful that you have to.
27:51You have to, like, lock it.
27:53You have to treat it kind of like a death in a way.
27:55Come here, Larry.
27:56Now she'll cry with me, too.
27:57I'm sorry.
27:58I'm sorry.
28:04But once I told him, it was like all the maternal feelings came back.
28:10You did good.
28:11You did good.
28:13I didn't realize, like, how much I really loved him until that moment.
28:18Until this one moment.
28:20I know I'll never be his mom, because he has a mom that raised him.
28:25But I can be something in his life.
28:27And that just means everything to me.
28:29The other things you see and hear in front of you are bigger than you know.
28:38I'm really proud of my mom.
28:41I wanted to see her tell him.
28:43And she did.
28:44And they took it well.
28:47I keep feeling like I want to cry when I think about it.
28:50It's just, like, everything I wanted, you know?
28:54Ah, great.
28:59Let me get everybody in here.
29:01Oh.
29:01Bean, look at the camera.
29:02Hey, home.
29:02Come on.
29:03Look.
29:03Say cheese.
29:04Oh, there we go.
29:06Cute.
29:07I love you, too.
29:08Aw.
29:10You know, I've been holding these secrets for 34 years.
29:14And it just feels like I'm finally free.
29:18One, two, three.
29:20Ew.
29:22I'm finally free.
29:24Woo.
29:25Woo.
29:26Go, BK.
29:27Go, BK.
29:27Go.
29:28Now the only thing left to do is find my daughter.
29:31I don't know who she is.
29:33I don't know where she is.
29:36But you better believe I'm going to try.
29:38I owe it to her.
29:39And I owe it to myself.
29:41And I owe it to Larry and Jamal.
29:46Cheers.
29:48My Uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life.
29:51Getting his blessing is very important to me.
29:54He's a good kid.
29:55Yeah.
29:55I mean, he's got a lot of heart.
29:57Yeah.
29:57Look at what he's been through.
29:59How well did you know Jasmine?
30:01Do you think that Gino's still in love with her?
30:15So isn't it nice to be in the city and see the whole city?
30:18Yeah.
30:18It is a really nice city.
30:20This is a great city.
30:24You need stickies on your hat.
30:38Hey.
30:39Hey.
30:40Hey.
30:41That's my uncle here.
30:43The man.
30:44Uncle Marco.
30:44Who's this beautiful lady?
30:46Aw, thank you.
30:47This is Natalie.
30:48My pleasure.
30:49Nice to meet you.
30:50Aw.
30:50That's the way we do it.
30:53My Uncle Marco is one of the most important people in my life.
30:56Especially now that my dad has passed.
30:59He's like my father figure now.
31:01And I value his judgment more than anyone when it comes to my relationships.
31:06You guys ready to order it?
31:07Yeah.
31:07Let me have two Coney's.
31:09I think I'm just going to get two Coney Island hot dogs.
31:12Actually, make it three.
31:13Okay.
31:13I'm going to go by your recommendation because I've never been here.
31:16A couple chili dogs.
31:17Looks like all chili dogs.
31:18Thanks.
31:19Well, Natalie, where are you from?
31:22I'm from Las Vegas.
31:23Really?
31:23Yeah.
31:24But I live in D.C. right now.
31:26So, do you have children?
31:28Yeah, I have two.
31:29No kidding.
31:30I have a daughter.
31:32She's 23.
31:33And a son.
31:33He's 21.
31:34What?
31:35You look like you're 21 yourself.
31:39Holy smokes.
31:41You guys enjoy?
31:42You're welcome.
31:43Maybe we can have a Coney Cheers.
31:45Okay, let's do it.
31:47Coney Cheers.
31:48Cheers.
31:49Coney Cheers.
31:49Coney Cheers.
31:51Yeah.
31:55Mmm.
31:57Mmm.
31:58I like the onions.
31:59Is it the best one you've ever eaten?
32:01Or no?
32:02Because it's the only one I've ever eaten.
32:03The only one I've ever eaten.
32:06So yeah, it's the best one.
32:10She's too funny.
32:12We vibe good together.
32:14We have a good connection.
32:14We have that.
32:15Yeah.
32:16You know, on his own accord, he came to me and said that he didn't want to talk to anybody
32:21else and he wanted to focus on us.
32:25Let's celebrate.
32:26Let's celebrate.
32:27Let's celebrate.
32:28Let's celebrate.
32:29Hey.
32:30Cheers.
32:30Cheers to that.
32:31Cheers.
32:32I like this girl.
32:34I think she's intelligent.
32:36Smart.
32:36And I think the best sign I've seen out of the two of them tonight is when he talks, she
32:42smiles.
32:43And when she talks, he smiles.
32:46I didn't see that with you know who.
32:49Do you want to have a baby with her?
32:54Well, I mean like, I always wanted to have a child of my own.
33:00Yes.
33:00Right?
33:01And I guess the question is, would you be open to it, you think?
33:07I mean, honestly, that's an insane thing to even think about because we just established
33:13today that you're not talking to other women.
33:16Right.
33:16And now we're talking about babies.
33:18We've got to progress a little bit more.
33:20Okay, I'm going to get the room.
33:22I'm going to get the room.
33:25Uncle Marco is very interesting.
33:28I don't think he realizes how old I am.
33:30I don't think he realizes that ship has sailed.
33:33I don't know about completely sailed because there's always options.
33:38I'm going to have to excuse myself.
33:40I have to hit the bathroom real quick.
33:42All right.
33:43I bet you we'd have really cute babies.
33:46Well, I know we'd have cute babies.
33:48The first thing I'm going to do, I'm going to snap a hat on his head.
33:51Oh my God.
33:52And it's going to be a fedora, tiny little baby hat.
33:55Okay, Gino.
33:59I guess.
34:00You know, I'm hoping to mind if I ask you a couple questions.
34:03No, I don't mind at all.
34:04You know, just to know.
34:06Um, you know, I just want to make sure that, um, is he capable of not talking to other women?
34:13If he finds the right lady, I believe that man will be faithful.
34:18Right.
34:19To the end.
34:20Okay.
34:21Well, that's good to know.
34:22I really do.
34:23You know, Gino can be a little quirky.
34:26I like that about him.
34:28I find that endearing.
34:29Really?
34:30We all have little quirks.
34:31Yeah.
34:32He's a good kid.
34:33He's one of the best.
34:34I got 30 nieces and nephews.
34:36Aw.
34:37And he's one of the best.
34:38Here.
34:39He is.
34:40He is.
34:40There you go.
34:41I don't need it.
34:43He is.
34:43He's a good kid.
34:44Yeah.
34:46He is.
34:46I mean, he's got a lot of heart.
34:49Yeah.
34:49Look at what he's been through.
34:56How well did you know Jasmine?
34:58Do you think that Gino is still in love with her?
35:00No.
35:01Not at all.
35:02Okay.
35:03Not at all.
35:06Hearing from Uncle Marco that Gino has no feelings for Jasmine and that he wants to be in a committed
35:12relationship gives me a lot of hope because he's seen the drama between him and Jasmine,
35:18has seen his first marriage, has seen everything.
35:21So it makes me feel like, yeah, the tides have turned. Gino's changed.
35:26But I'm still very cautious.
35:29You don't want to lose this one, buddy.
35:32Lock it up.
35:36Get that divorce and lock it up.
35:39All right.
35:43I am just here concerned about him and asking you about it.
35:46You can be concerned.
35:47Well, don't call him.
35:48No, no.
35:48You cannot talk to me like that.
35:50You cannot talk to me like that.
35:51After everything Pedro's been through, you would think his family want him to be happy
35:55and find someone.
35:56But it feels like they're just trying to sabotage any chance he has.
36:00I've been so nice to you and his mom and you guys.
36:03I'm the mother.
36:03My mother.
36:05My mother.
36:05You're the mother.
36:15I just, I have, like, anxiety sometimes.
36:17So it's just acting up a little bit.
36:18But I'm okay.
36:18I'm here.
36:19I'm not going to do it by yourself.
36:20Okay?
36:20Never.
36:21Remember that.
36:21Okay.
36:31Sophie.
36:43Sophie and Sophie.
36:45What do you want?
36:48I've only been at Pedro's sister's birthday party for literally an hour.
36:53And already this is just the weirdest party I've ever been to in my life.
36:57First, as soon as I walk in, Pedro's sister's making me uncomfortable.
37:00And then I have his mom just saying I should have sex with Pedro.
37:05Like, what's the goal here?
37:08I don't understand what's going on.
37:10It's just so uncomfortable.
37:13You like the country?
37:14Yes.
37:15It's very beautiful.
37:16It's my first time here.
37:17Well, I hope you can continue coming here.
37:20I want to know Pedro more.
37:24That's a start.
37:25I want to see you.
37:26The fact is that Pedro is a very good man.
37:32He knows how to treat a woman.
37:35But it's also, on the other hand, I don't want to have a relationship with Pedro.
37:41I don't want to be healed of my ex.
37:44Is married?
37:45Divorciada?
37:46Yes.
37:46How is it?
37:49I'm in the process of divorce.
37:52But you're married legally?
37:53Legalmente?
37:55Legalmente, in este momento, asĆ.
37:59No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no,
38:05no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
38:11Pedro's mom is just way too much.
38:14And I'm trying so hard to be respectful.
38:16Like, I'm not going to start an argument with Pedro's mother.
38:19Like, I'm just not.
38:21But I don't understand why she's, like, talking to me this way.
38:23It's crazy.
38:25Hello, hello.
38:26Hello.
38:26Mommy?
38:27Pero Dios blando.
38:29I can't talk to Sophie.
38:34Are you okay?
38:36She just asked me about, like, my ex, but now I feel awkward because I feel like she's judging me.
38:40I was trying to be real with her.
38:43I don't know.
38:43It's just awkward.
38:45Sorry.
38:47Now, after everything Pedro's been through and his failed marriage and everything,
38:51you would think his family want him to be happy and find someone,
38:54but it feels like they're just trying to sabotage any chance he has.
39:17You're the best person.
39:19Aw!
39:21Where's the girl?
39:22Come on.
39:23Go with me.
39:42Oh
40:01She was grilling the f*** out of me.
40:03I'm trying to play it cool to Pedro,
40:04but I've never been grilled like this in my f***ing life.
40:06It's very full on.
40:07She's like, so, why are you choosing my son?
40:09How did you find my son?
40:10I'm like, what about that?
40:10It feels like she doesn't want him to be happy with anyone.
40:13This is any girl, right?
40:16They're very...
40:17a lot.
40:20Hello!
40:21Hey!
40:22How are you enjoying here?
40:24I'm going to leave you.
40:25We're good.
40:26Did you eat?
40:27Yeah, the cake is so good.
40:29Have fun.
40:30Go sit.
40:30Thank you so much.
40:33Sophie, excuse me.
40:34I just want to talk to you.
40:37I promise him no interfere in his life,
40:41but I know Pedro is totally in love with you.
40:46He's not in love with me.
40:47He likes me.
40:47No, yeah, but I can see on him,
40:50in his eyes,
40:52the sparks on anything.
40:54I know my brother enough.
40:56Like, I can tell Pedro is, like, ready to, like,
40:58have a family,
41:00get married again,
41:01all that stuff, you know,
41:02and I haven't even, like, fully divorced yet,
41:04which he knows.
41:05That is something that I feel really concerned about.
41:08about something.
41:11Pedro told me, like,
41:12a day you are cold,
41:13a day you are hurt.
41:17A woman when is really interested in a man,
41:21she's trying to be around him,
41:23trying to approach him,
41:25not keep him away.
41:27Why do you need to be so involved?
41:29Like, that's his relationship.
41:31Like, it doesn't really have anything,
41:32respectfully,
41:33it doesn't have anything to do with you.
41:37I don't want the thing he's suffering.
41:39His sister and his mom
41:40shouldn't have anything to do with his relationship.
41:42It is kind of weird.
41:43Like, I'm close to my mom.
41:45Look, I get it.
41:46She wouldn't scare away our guy.
41:48Like, you guys are gonna scare me away
41:49when that's the least thing Pedro wants.
41:53I just need to know what is happening here
41:56because he's calling me
41:57and telling me everything you are doing
41:59because he's not okay.
42:01Why are you trying to go with your brother's love wife?
42:05What does that have anything to do with you?
42:08Respectfully,
42:08what does it have anything to do with you?
42:11I am just here
42:12to say about him
42:13and asking you about it.
42:15But don't call us.
42:16No, no, no.
42:17You can't talk to me like that.
42:17I don't know you.
42:18I don't know you like that.
42:20I don't know you like that.
42:21I don't know you like that, okay?
42:22Okay?
42:22So you can be respectful to me.
42:23I've been so nice to you
42:24and his mom and you guys.
42:26I've been like
42:26you want about my mother.
42:28Okay, you're the hot mother.
42:29You're the hot mother.
42:30I have a mom
42:32and my mom is lovely to me.
42:33My mom would never scare
42:34a guy away.
42:35You both don't love you.
42:35That's okay.
42:36My mom doesn't love me.
42:38My mom doesn't love me.
42:39My mom doesn't love me.
42:40You want to go there.
42:41You guys have a
42:42a paid relationship.
42:43Okay, bye.
42:44You and your family are weird.
42:47Weirdos.
42:49Weirdos.
42:50What kind of relationship is that?
42:52Weird.
42:56Next time
42:57on The Single Life.
42:58When I'm at the rock bottom
42:59of my life
43:00there's only one person
43:01I can call.
43:03There you go.
43:04My lovely mother
43:05has come all the way
43:06from Canada
43:07to save the day.
43:09You and Courtney
43:10need to figure this all out.
43:12You can't just keep doing it.
43:13Courtney's not going to take me back, dude.
43:15I think I can talk to Courtney
43:17woman to woman
43:19and convince her
43:20to try it again.
43:22Cole wants to apologize.
43:24He knows he made
43:25a big-ass mistake.
43:27I'm like,
43:28what the f***?
43:30Now that it's all out,
43:32I'm ready to find her.
43:34And I want you guys
43:35on this journey with me,
43:36but there is the possibility
43:38she might not want to see me.
43:40If something traumatic
43:42has happened to my daughter,
43:43if she needed me for something,
43:45I won't be able
43:46to live with myself.
43:49Is your attention
43:50for a long-term relationship
43:51with Vanya?
43:53Or is it something
43:54just for the fun?
43:56I know that Sennela
43:58wants to grill Tony,
43:59but I'm worried
44:00that maybe Sennela
44:01has gone a little too far.
44:03She just, like,
44:04full-out assaulted me out there.
44:08I say, you...
44:09You called my f***ing mom.
44:10That's what you say.
44:10What did I call her?
44:11I called your mom?
44:12Yeah, you said your f***ing mom.
44:13You say that.
44:16Pedro's mom and sister
44:17are just absolutely insane.
44:20And Pedro is not even, like,
44:22standing up for me.
44:23It's kind of a turn-off.
44:25Trust me,
44:25I was very respectful
44:26to your mom.
44:27Okay, whatever.
44:28We'll see you tomorrow.
44:30And this is why
44:31he will be single forever.
44:34F***.
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