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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Mavs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel
00:00:09Schillen.
00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.
00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.
00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.
00:00:21She brought fun and joy, humour.
00:00:24But she also brought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.
00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.
00:00:37She was a fighter.
00:00:38She was a leader.
00:00:40She was an inspiration.
00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.
00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.
00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.
00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband, and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.
00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.
00:01:47I've got everything that I want in an apartment.
00:01:49But I've got my reassurances.
00:01:51We are coming out stronger.
00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.
00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.
00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.
00:02:09I can't see this working.
00:02:11It's all good.
00:02:11It is what it is.
00:02:12It's not how I envisioned it would end.
00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.
00:02:18You want to have a family, you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.
00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here, and what I could potentially be walking away from.
00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.
00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.
00:02:40Tonight.
00:02:41Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.
00:02:43But when you're dealing with the mom, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:02:49And she still sees negatives.
00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.
00:02:53Has David reached his limit?
00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:02:58You never say space.
00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.
00:03:04I can see we can do life together, but I feel a lot more confident now that we can take
00:03:09this out onto the outside.
00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?
00:03:15Who would have thought?
00:03:16Who would have thought?
00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.
00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.
00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey.
00:03:32But I've never been aggressive to you.
00:03:35And then...
00:03:36I think, like, for me, as a man, I feel like...
00:03:40Oh, God.
00:03:41Oh, my God.
00:03:43What are you on about?
00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.
00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.
00:03:51Are we serious for this?
00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay.
00:04:10And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.
00:04:15After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.
00:04:20Hi.
00:04:22Hey.
00:04:22Bonjour.
00:04:23Bonjour.
00:04:24Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party
00:04:30of the experiment, eager to reconnect after time apart.
00:04:35Are you excited?
00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.
00:04:42We don't know what the hell is going on.
00:04:45It's going to be exciting.
00:04:47A lot of gossip.
00:04:49This is...
00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.
00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.
00:04:54Yeah.
00:04:54Really?
00:04:55How come?
00:04:55We went through...
00:04:57The ups and downs.
00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.
00:04:58The trenches.
00:05:00But coming out at the end of it, good.
00:05:02Yeah.
00:05:02You know?
00:05:03Everything's...
00:05:03Everything is exactly where it needs to be.
00:05:06For Rachel and Stephen, homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage, unlocking a new confidence
00:05:12in their relationship.
00:05:14Hello, hello.
00:05:15Hello, sexy.
00:05:17Looking good.
00:05:17I appreciate that.
00:05:18I like the red.
00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of homestays and it was amazing.
00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.
00:05:25It was that this could work.
00:05:28I think that's really what it is.
00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again and get straight back up to the central coast
00:05:34and just, you know, start hanging out and, yeah, so it was really good.
00:05:40We had such a great homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.
00:05:46And that's it.
00:05:47I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.
00:05:53After homestays, it's given me confidence.
00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.
00:05:58Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?
00:06:03Yes, I can.
00:06:04And I mean that.
00:06:05And homestays really gave me confidence in that.
00:06:09I think we're really lucky.
00:06:11You know, other couples may not have had a good homestay, so we're really lucky to have
00:06:16had the good experience that we did.
00:06:19While homestays brought some closer, for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.
00:06:28What's that?
00:06:30It's a neck brace.
00:06:31Why is it pink?
00:06:32Why is it pink?
00:06:33Why not?
00:06:34You're trying to find a problem.
00:06:36Is it your ex?
00:06:37Gab and Maria.
00:06:38Do you trust me?
00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?
00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?
00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.
00:06:43Yeah, why?
00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells because I feel like if I want to bring up
00:06:49something, I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.
00:06:52I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything if you never feel like, you know,
00:06:58that you love me?
00:06:59But back at the apartments, eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset and look on
00:07:05the bright side.
00:07:06I feel great.
00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party, being able to share, like, good moments
00:07:11that we've had.
00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.
00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night to share what we've
00:07:18done for homestays.
00:07:20Yeah.
00:07:20At the end of homestays, we had a bit of a discussion, but we hashed it out.
00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.
00:07:30We're great.
00:07:30We're in a really good place.
00:07:31I want to keep it like that.
00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.
00:07:39Coming to the end now.
00:07:39This is the last or second last one.
00:07:41Mm.
00:07:42So, yeah.
00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know, raised some concerns?
00:07:49Well, pretty much.
00:07:55Let's just do it.
00:07:56Get it done.
00:07:58I'm excited.
00:07:59You look good.
00:07:59We feel good.
00:08:00And I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.
00:08:04Yep, me too.
00:08:07For Beck and Danny, what began as a promising homestay took a dramatic turn.
00:08:14If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you.
00:08:19They would.
00:08:20I think obviously because Danielle fancied me, she didn't want to, like.
00:08:26I'm joking.
00:08:28I'm joking.
00:08:29It's like a serious moment.
00:08:32These moments make me feel like shit.
00:08:35It's serious for me.
00:08:37You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it and then not say, oh, your cousin
00:08:41wants to fuck me.
00:08:43Like.
00:08:44I never said that.
00:08:45Yeah.
00:08:45I'm done.
00:08:46Fuck me.
00:08:47Fuck me.
00:08:48Fuck me.
00:08:49Fuck me.
00:08:51Fuck me.
00:08:51And now back at the apartment, an even bigger shock awaits.
00:09:00So since we got back to Sydney from homestays, things are great.
00:09:06Cheers, baby.
00:09:07Cheers, girl.
00:09:08The last night, like, since we've been back, like, there's not really any need to talk about it.
00:09:12Like, he made a joke, it frustrated me, he got frustrated with me, and then we wake up the next
00:09:19morning, we give each other a cuddle, we have a shag, and we move on.
00:09:23Cheers.
00:09:24It's all blown over.
00:09:26Like.
00:09:27Shocking.
00:09:28Oh, stop it.
00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha.
00:09:31For most couples, homestays brought them together, but for one couple, it marked the end of the road.
00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight, yeah, I'm going alone.
00:09:42And obviously, Chris and I left each other at homestays.
00:09:46I wrote some questions down, and maybe we could just be, like, really raw and honest with each other about
00:09:52all the answers.
00:09:55First question is...
00:09:56Do you accept full responsibility for your defensiveness and the aggression I felt from you last week?
00:10:04Yeah.
00:10:06You don't have to agree.
00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.
00:10:08I just feel like we've, just, I've already suffered enough from this.
00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um, 15, getting in trouble by a teacher or something.
00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?
00:10:21Um, okay, um, in the beginning, uh, yes.
00:10:26But I just think, um, yeah, we also have some, um, differences as well.
00:10:32And I just want to put my dad hat on and, like, live my best life.
00:10:38Homestays was my last plea to see if he was going to fight for me at all.
00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.
00:10:47So, I did break up with Chris on the farm.
00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party because I want that last chance to sort of just, like, find out
00:10:56why Chris actually didn't want this relationship.
00:11:01I just want clarity on what the hell happened.
00:11:04But Sam isn't the only one struggling with the fallout of their homestay.
00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide, Alyssa received a wake-up call.
00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide, but what are your thoughts about me moving to Sydney just for
00:11:20a couple of years?
00:11:22I would hate that.
00:11:26Um, you know, you want to have a family and you don't want to keep putting it off.
00:11:33People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant.
00:11:36That's the truth.
00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well, I don't know about you. I've never tried.
00:11:39That's right.
00:11:40But you don't know that.
00:11:42A couple of years?
00:11:44A couple of years.
00:11:44I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait.
00:11:49It's really stressful now.
00:11:51It's a lot online.
00:11:52And after a confronting conversation with her mum, Alyssa unravelled and David was left wondering where he fits.
00:12:00I will be honest with you, I started to spiral.
00:12:06Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.
00:12:10Don't want to miss out on being a mum.
00:12:11And if we're going to make this thing work, David might have to move to Adelaide.
00:12:16And Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe, I have to ask this to you.
00:12:20You've sat here and you've talked a lot about what your wants and needs are.
00:12:27What about...
00:12:27Yeah, David.
00:12:30Now back at the apartments, David has had a wake-up call of his own.
00:12:37Oh, man, I'm feeling at my limit post-homestays.
00:12:46Can I see myself living in Adelaide?
00:12:48Absolutely.
00:12:49But, you know, after having, you know, come back to Sydney and having time to just come down from the
00:12:56high of homestays, I am feeling a bit low.
00:12:59And that is because there were a couple of things that have still, like, trinkled in the back of my
00:13:05mind.
00:13:06Could you see yourself living here?
00:13:10To be honest, yeah.
00:13:13I know that you're willing to move here, which is great.
00:13:17But, I don't know, I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it because you're, like, literally...
00:13:21Is you overwhelmed?
00:13:23I am, I am, I am.
00:13:24Because it's, like, a lot.
00:13:27David actually is everything that you've asked for.
00:13:30I know.
00:13:30Right now, this is too good to be true.
00:13:32Like, and that is also another reason why I'm scared, too.
00:13:36Throughout this experiment, I have been patient because I know there is something in this relationship to fight for.
00:13:43But when you get to that point where, like, you're dealing with, like, the mum, the family, friends, they all
00:13:50said that I'm a great guy for her.
00:13:52And she still sees negatives.
00:13:54There's nothing else I can do.
00:13:57I've hit my limit and I'm not going to push any further.
00:14:01It's getting very real that I could potentially be putting everything on the line for someone who doesn't want to
00:14:08meet me halfway.
00:14:10So, today I know I need to be honest.
00:14:13For me, I think it's important to just express how I feel.
00:14:17Looking handsome.
00:14:18Thanks, babe.
00:14:19Lovely.
00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.
00:14:20I love the dress.
00:14:21Well, we're kind of almost matching.
00:14:25How are you feeling going to the dinner party after homestays?
00:14:31Homestays was a massive, massive week.
00:14:35So, I'm at the point where, like I said, you know, I'm happy to give all the space you need.
00:14:42I'll take the space I need because I definitely need space.
00:14:45Yeah, like, I feel like I've just gone and put it all on the line.
00:14:50And, you know, at the end of the day, I'm not going to force anything.
00:14:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.
00:14:58I know, but I do.
00:15:00You never say space.
00:15:01You're always like, you're more like, let's, like, whatever.
00:15:04This is the first time you've ever said space.
00:15:06Yeah, I know.
00:15:08That kind of, like, rattled me a little bit.
00:15:11Normally, I'm the one that needs space.
00:15:12So, you know what, if he needs space, gladly, because I need space right now, just from my head,
00:15:19and I don't need any of this pressure right now.
00:15:21I feel like I'm at my tether.
00:15:23I feel like he's at his tether.
00:15:24We're both tired, and he's been snoring louder than usual, like it's just been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster.
00:15:32The reason I need space is because, yeah, I am a calm person, but I'm getting to my limit where
00:15:37I just need to take some space for my own brain.
00:15:40Because I feel like I put my cards on the table, but it almost felt like you were just looking
00:15:45for the negatives,
00:15:46and when someone's looking for the negatives too much of why things can't work, like, I'm not going to force
00:15:51that.
00:15:52I'm not going to force a connection if it's just me looking for the positives,
00:15:55and someone else is looking for anything to be like, why this can't work.
00:16:01I would be lying to you if I said I wasn't questioning things right now and questioning our relationship.
00:16:08I am in that headspace.
00:16:11So I'm not going into the dinner party with Alyssa feeling my best self.
00:16:16I'm sure you're in a similar boat.
00:16:18Babe, I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:20Yeah, exactly.
00:16:21I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:22Exactly, yeah.
00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.
00:16:25Mm-hmm.
00:16:26I get it.
00:16:35It'll be the honour of getting up.
00:16:37Let's get out of here.
00:16:37Yep, let's go.
00:16:42Up to you.
00:16:43Up to me, thanks.
00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.
00:16:51Don't want to do this.
00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven, the second last one before we wind this all up.
00:17:12And it is a very important one because they've come back from the homestays.
00:17:17As they start to get a glimpse of what their life will be like with this person in the real
00:17:22world.
00:17:24This is a really crucial part of the experiment for them because some of them will bond closer together through
00:17:30the homestays.
00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.
00:17:33What about you?
00:17:35Are you excited?
00:17:35I'm excited.
00:17:36Whereas others will start to really fall apart and question their overall compatibility with their matches.
00:17:44Stop rubbing it in.
00:17:45Okay.
00:17:45It's noisy.
00:17:47They'll hear that in the mics.
00:17:48They'll hear that.
00:17:49And you do that all the time.
00:17:50You don't even realise.
00:17:56Well, the homestays throws up the ultimate question.
00:17:59Could this relationship last in the outside world?
00:18:02We're going to see you tonight.
00:18:10Aw, first in.
00:18:11First one's in.
00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.
00:18:16No one to talk to you, but ourselves.
00:18:18Are you sick of talking to me yet?
00:18:22Straight to the bar.
00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.
00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen look so relaxed and so really walking in with Rachel as he is tonight.
00:18:32Very unified.
00:18:33Tell me when.
00:18:35That's good.
00:18:36Oh, my gosh.
00:18:37Thank you so much.
00:18:39Got to look after you.
00:18:40Aw, I appreciate it.
00:18:42Me and Rachel, we're good.
00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.
00:18:45We're first in there.
00:18:46We're pouring drinks.
00:18:47We're cracking jokes.
00:18:48I'll just take this with me.
00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?
00:18:50Okay.
00:18:52Probably the most relaxed I've ever been in a cocktail party.
00:18:54We're in a good place.
00:18:56Mm-hmm.
00:18:57Do you want me to...
00:19:00Do you want me to open it?
00:19:01Is there a real opener?
00:19:04Got it?
00:19:04There you go.
00:19:05We're both so keen to get out of this experiment.
00:19:09See where life takes us.
00:19:11Especially after the homestays.
00:19:13All righty.
00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.
00:19:15Here we are.
00:19:16Cheers.
00:19:18Hopefully, you know, it's just us.
00:19:20We can have all the food and the drink.
00:19:22I mean, I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.
00:19:26I mean, I'm just...
00:19:28I think I'm just really, really excited to share how much fun we had.
00:19:31And, like, and how good.
00:19:35Isn't that nice that a couple is sitting here talking about themselves,
00:19:39not everybody else?
00:19:40Yes.
00:19:41This is great.
00:19:42Check it out, babe.
00:19:44You're going to make it flush.
00:19:45And the enthusiasm in Rachel's voice and face
00:19:50as she is just excited to tell people the good news.
00:19:52They had a good week.
00:19:55Oh!
00:19:56Oh!
00:19:58Oh!
00:20:03Stop rubbing your knee.
00:20:05Oh, me.
00:20:09I'm trying to understand you, because I don't understand you.
00:20:11You're confusing the out of me.
00:20:13Well...
00:20:28This whole, I'm at my limit.
00:20:30I need space.
00:20:33It sounds really bad.
00:20:35Does it?
00:20:36Yes.
00:20:38So maybe we've got to word it differently.
00:20:40It's not taking space from each other.
00:20:43It's just taking space to process everything.
00:20:47Okay.
00:20:52Oh, look who it is.
00:21:01Oh, look who it is.
00:21:20Oh, my God!
00:21:21Oh, my God.
00:21:23Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:21:25Oh, my God!
00:21:26Oh, my God!
00:21:27Oh, my God!
00:21:28Oh, my God!
00:21:28Oh, my God!
00:21:29Hang on.
00:21:29How are you, mate?
00:21:31Dude, that's all I can do.
00:21:32Oh, you're very good to see you, bro.
00:21:33Likewise, you're looking good.
00:21:35Oh.
00:21:36That's some energy there, isn't it?
00:21:38Oh, we're first.
00:21:39We're first.
00:21:40You guys are first.
00:21:40We got so much done.
00:21:41Oh, my God.
00:21:42Oh, yeah, we've got a lot to evaluate.
00:21:44Let's just get some, uh...
00:21:46Evaluate?
00:21:47Okay, okay.
00:21:55So, are you prepared for everyone to find out that I'm a better fisherman than you, or...?
00:21:59Oh, hang on.
00:22:00Whoa.
00:22:05Walking into the cocktail party tonight, you know, I was...
00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a low post the homestays.
00:22:13I've sort of just been feeling deflated.
00:22:16Ooh.
00:22:17Right in my face.
00:22:18And I did make it known to Alyssa that, you know, I am sort of one in my own space,
00:22:23you
00:22:23know, in my head, just to sort of figure things out.
00:22:26Um, so I did walk in on a low.
00:22:32Oh!
00:22:33Hey!
00:22:34Here we go!
00:22:34Hello there!
00:22:35What's up?
00:22:36Scott and Gia.
00:22:38Do I spin?
00:22:38Little...
00:22:41How pretty are you both?
00:22:43Hi!
00:22:44Oh, Gia.
00:22:44Give me some love.
00:22:45Gorgeous!
00:22:46Hello!
00:22:46How are you, man?
00:22:47Thank you, man.
00:22:49Walking into the cocktail party tonight with Gia, like, you know, we're not perfect.
00:22:53We still have a couple of things to work on.
00:22:54Get a drink and get in here, brother.
00:22:57I always look at the bright side.
00:22:58If there's something that's really bad, I just see the more good in someone.
00:23:01Can we carry that?
00:23:02Thanks.
00:23:06Alright, Chris, why don't you tell me what's running through your head and going into this?
00:23:10One saving grace for me is that last time I was in this car with, um, Sam, it was just
00:23:15so yucky and awkward, so I'm grateful not to have that, you know, at the moment.
00:23:21Well, it was so awkward you could cut the tension with a knife.
00:23:23And I could not wait to get out of the car.
00:23:26I just hope this, um, you know, situation with Sam and I can get squashed pretty quickly,
00:23:33so I can have a couple of shams and try and enjoy my knife.
00:23:38Yeah, no, this is definitely not how I expected to be going to a dinner party in the experiment.
00:23:42I think Chris and I started off really strong and everything was going good,
00:23:45and then at some point he just flipped, and it all just sort of fell apart,
00:23:48and I didn't really know what that flip was into him.
00:23:54Do you know if Sam's coming tonight?
00:23:56Oh, I definitely know he'll be going.
00:23:58Yeah.
00:23:58He wants to go to get the whole group's opinion and two cents on our dirty laundry.
00:24:06Uh, you know what, there's two sides to this story,
00:24:08and coming to the dinner party to back myself and say my side of the story.
00:24:19Yeah, and that's what we're going to do.
00:24:20Oh!
00:24:21Oh!
00:24:24Oh!
00:24:25Oh!
00:24:26Chris is alone.
00:24:27How are you going?
00:24:28Oh, good.
00:24:29Okay, that's a surprise.
00:24:30Hi.
00:24:31Hey, bud.
00:24:32So, Chris walks in solo.
00:24:35Well, shit.
00:24:37That's not my prediction.
00:24:39Drink.
00:24:40Drink.
00:24:40Drink.
00:24:42I mean, they were very bad at the commitment ceremony.
00:24:44Chris had written leave.
00:24:45Sam was absolutely in tears about it all.
00:24:48There was a hope that at the homestay they might be able to turn it around,
00:24:50but this looks like it's actually not been salvaged.
00:24:55The brown porch.
00:24:56Yeah, I'm alright.
00:24:57You look very tan.
00:24:58Thanks, babe.
00:24:59The fit's good.
00:25:00The fit's good.
00:25:01My life's not...
00:25:01I would love one, babe.
00:25:02Your life is okay.
00:25:04Yeah, thanks, babe.
00:25:04You've got this shit, babe.
00:25:05You've got this shit.
00:25:06Yes, obviously it didn't work out.
00:25:08Wait, no, no, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:25:11I feel like maybe Sam and I can unpack it together.
00:25:13Okay, alright.
00:25:14You don't want to talk about that?
00:25:15No, I'll give you a little run.
00:25:17I'll give you a little rundown.
00:25:18It's really hard seeing them not walking together,
00:25:20because I genuinely had hope that they would get past this.
00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in by himself, like, it was genuinely, like,
00:25:29pretty heartbreaks.
00:25:32Basically, yeah, Sam ended it with me two days into homestays.
00:25:36He ended it with you?
00:25:37The second day.
00:25:38He ended it?
00:25:39Yeah, yeah.
00:25:40He ended it with you?
00:25:41Yeah.
00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.
00:25:44I wonder why.
00:25:45Yes, I wonder why.
00:25:47Obviously, we had, like, a, you know, pretty bad couch session.
00:25:51I took accountability.
00:25:53I decided that I wanted to learn and grow from the feedback that I got.
00:25:56Yeah, that's what you said about it.
00:25:56So I went into homestays, trying to turn it around.
00:25:59Gia knows I spoke with you about it.
00:26:00Yeah.
00:26:01Morning flowers, made him dinner.
00:26:02I tried everything that I could to turn it around,
00:26:04but unfortunately, yeah, it didn't work for us.
00:26:07And it was really, it was a real shock,
00:26:09because I thought we were actually doing quite well.
00:26:10Like, you know, I started to get those feelings back for him again, so.
00:26:13So Chris was saying he started getting feelings for Sam again.
00:26:17Okay, so he was shocked by it.
00:26:20Blindsided.
00:26:22So, it's pretty, it's pretty sad, but I respect Sam's decision to exit.
00:26:27Um, and we actually weren't even going to come tonight.
00:26:29Like, they, we, he left the farm.
00:26:31We were just going to leave it at that,
00:26:32because we unpacked a lot of it.
00:26:34Um, but I've decided to give Sam the respect of coming tonight,
00:26:37so we can both talk to you guys about it.
00:26:39And, um, let you know what's happened,
00:26:41and then sit in front of the experts and get their advice.
00:26:44But, like, no ill feelings towards Sam.
00:26:46I respect his decision.
00:26:47But, yeah, she's single again.
00:26:49Oh, yeah!
00:26:52I love you.
00:26:53Yeah.
00:26:55Alyssa, how was yours?
00:27:00Uh...
00:27:01I feel like I'm still processing everything.
00:27:04It's crunch time, right?
00:27:05It's crunch time.
00:27:05For you guys, yeah.
00:27:09Um, but we'll talk about it later at the dinner party.
00:27:12Okay.
00:27:21Phillip and Stella.
00:27:23Hi, babe.
00:27:24Hi.
00:27:25You look amazing.
00:27:26How's it going?
00:27:26How are you doing?
00:27:28How are you doing?
00:27:28How are you doing?
00:27:29How are you doing?
00:27:29How are you doing?
00:27:30How are you doing?
00:27:31For the best part, we had a really good home state, you know?
00:27:34I got clarity, so it's been decided.
00:27:37Uh, I will be making that move happen sooner rather than later.
00:27:40He looks tan.
00:27:41Do you know spray tan?
00:27:43Huh?
00:27:43Do you know spray tan?
00:27:44No, no, we went to the beach.
00:27:45What the hell?
00:27:46And I just thought, you know what?
00:27:47Like, it's time to go for an adventure.
00:27:52Oh!
00:27:54I love a distraction.
00:27:57Ah, he's Beck and Danny.
00:27:59Beck and Danny.
00:28:01Hello.
00:28:02Hiya.
00:28:03I'm feeling phenomenal walking into this cocktail party tonight.
00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.
00:28:09We are planning our future together.
00:28:12Cheers.
00:28:13We had great homestays and I've got no beef with anyone.
00:28:16Oh, my God, pigs fly.
00:28:17What the hell?
00:28:18I'm not arguing with anyone.
00:28:21Hello.
00:28:22How was homestays?
00:28:23Cheers.
00:28:24Cheers.
00:28:24How'd you go?
00:28:25How was Adelaide?
00:28:27Oh, my good.
00:28:27Yeah.
00:28:28We had a great time.
00:28:29It was good.
00:28:30Aw.
00:28:31Aw.
00:28:32Like, I got back and I was a bit drained, to tell you the truth.
00:28:35It was...
00:28:36It's a lot.
00:28:37Like, I felt a bit uncomfortable in that house and I felt a bit out of place.
00:28:40And it made me just think about, like, the logistics of the move more.
00:28:44Like, how it's going to work.
00:28:46Or...
00:28:46Because I'm not just going to move in with that.
00:28:48Of course.
00:28:48And live, like, oh, put my feet up.
00:28:51This is brand free.
00:28:52Like, that doesn't sit well with me.
00:28:53So, it just solidified there's more things we need to talk about.
00:28:57Of course.
00:29:01So...
00:29:01Yeah.
00:29:02We're going to do it, I think.
00:29:03Yeah, awesome.
00:29:03Crazy.
00:29:05Mother.
00:29:06I think Danny and I are probably the strongest in the experiment, if I'm honest with you.
00:29:10And, like, it feels like it can only go up from here.
00:29:18Coming up...
00:29:19I would never just move in.
00:29:21...Danny's jaw-dropping confession...
00:29:24From my point of view, anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different, but...
00:29:27Yeah.
00:29:27...it makes you feel like a ****.
00:29:28...has the whole table talking.
00:29:30What are you on about?
00:29:32I'll be honest.
00:29:34Oh.
00:29:34Oh, God.
00:29:35Oh, my God.
00:29:48Here we go.
00:29:54When did you talk to him last week?
00:29:56Um, the last time he spoke to me was, um, the Friday after he left.
00:30:01And all he said was that he wanted to come to the dinner party with Sam Rani.
00:30:06Yeah, I don't know what Dan and she's going to be like with Sam.
00:30:08I hope he comes in, like, nice.
00:30:12I just, yeah, I just can't deal with any more, you know?
00:30:25Hello, everyone.
00:30:25Oh, here's Sam.
00:30:27Oh, here he is.
00:30:28How are you going?
00:30:29Good, how are you?
00:30:30Good.
00:30:30Good.
00:30:30You look nice.
00:30:31Yeah.
00:30:31How are you?
00:30:32Not too bad.
00:30:33Hello.
00:30:36Sam?
00:30:37How are you, Matt?
00:30:38I'm hugging, like, chest height, but I've got a vertical problem.
00:30:43Hey, Luke.
00:30:44Look at this thing.
00:30:44Thanks, thanks, thanks.
00:30:45Can I get a drink?
00:30:46Come on, let's get your drink.
00:30:46Let's get a drink.
00:30:47I hope he doesn't come at me, like.
00:30:49Why are you worried?
00:30:50Oh, I just, just...
00:30:51Don't worry.
00:30:52No, I just can't deal with it, like.
00:30:55Alright.
00:30:57No, you're okay.
00:30:59How are you?
00:31:00Are you okay?
00:31:02Uh...
00:31:02I just feel a bit like there was no real effort while we were away.
00:31:06But we'll get into it at the table, yeah.
00:31:08No, no, he's given us a bit of a brief.
00:31:12What was he said?
00:31:14Just...
00:31:14Um, that you guys, you know, went to homestays.
00:31:16Like, he cooked dinner one night, or you guys have dinner together one night,
00:31:18and he thought the first night was going, okay?
00:31:22Um, and then obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it wasn't right.
00:31:26Yeah.
00:31:28Dude, he didn't drive.
00:31:31You're eating up his bullshit.
00:31:34Don't eat up his bullshit.
00:31:39Dinner is served.
00:31:41Okay.
00:31:42Let's go, baby.
00:31:42Let's go, babes.
00:31:43You got it.
00:31:44Let's go, man.
00:31:47Alrighty.
00:31:49Well, let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin,
00:31:52we will get to the bottom of what actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris.
00:31:56Yes.
00:31:57We need to understand what actually went on there.
00:32:00Cheers, guys.
00:32:02Cheers.
00:32:09You got the, um, you got the tits out again?
00:32:11Oh, yeah.
00:32:14Tits out for the boys.
00:32:15I love you.
00:32:16I love this for you.
00:32:18Dough.
00:32:19Yes.
00:32:19Yes.
00:32:21Bust the butter, please.
00:32:22Yeah.
00:32:31Wow.
00:32:32It's very tense, isn't it?
00:32:34Chris, Sam.
00:32:44I really want to talk about, from our perspective, what led me to the decision to end things.
00:32:49Yep.
00:32:49And how I felt the whole homestay, so.
00:32:52Yeah.
00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit.
00:33:01I, Sam and I have already hashed this out at the farm.
00:33:04Um, we're revisiting it in front of the group.
00:33:06So for me, this is not comfortable.
00:33:09Um, I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly.
00:33:11And I just want to get this over and done with.
00:33:16I hope Sam gets the closure that he needs and we can, um, yeah, move on.
00:33:21I feel like we both just need to say everything that got us to this point.
00:33:26Um, especially with meeting the experts tomorrow, I want to get as much as I can out of this
00:33:29experience.
00:33:31Um, yeah, we've mentioned it at the cocktail party that we, you know, well, you decided
00:33:36to, um, end it.
00:33:38So, um, yeah, like I, I didn't.
00:33:40You didn't really fight that at all.
00:33:42You were like, also just like, okay.
00:33:44Because I, I had given so much to try and make it work.
00:33:48I don't want to come.
00:33:52Oh my God.
00:33:53Here we go again.
00:33:57If Chris thinks that's loads of effort, I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in
00:34:02the future.
00:34:03Like, yeah.
00:34:08Can I ask a question?
00:34:11How did Sam end the relationship and where and how did it happen?
00:34:14Could I tell the whole story?
00:34:15I want you guys both to say it.
00:34:18Yeah.
00:34:19Yeah.
00:34:19So homestays, obviously you all saw the last commitment ceremony.
00:34:23Um, I wrote stay and Christopher leave.
00:34:25And that was really hard for me to battle with personally because I did have feelings for
00:34:30Chris.
00:34:30So I like, obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays.
00:34:33And we get to the car to drive down and I'm like just sitting in the car and it's so
00:34:39uncomfortable.
00:34:40And I'm, I like literally just like shut my eyes and kind of pretend that I'm sleeping.
00:34:44And then I get to the farm and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.
00:34:49I wake up the next morning and Chris is nowhere to be seen.
00:34:55No message, no note.
00:34:58And I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house at his place with no car, just by
00:35:04myself.
00:35:04And then he rocks up.
00:35:05He's like, oh, I just went to the gym this morning.
00:35:06It was really windy last night.
00:35:07And I'm like, okay, cool.
00:35:09And like, this is when I'm starting to feel like, are you, do you really want me here?
00:35:12Do you like really want to show me how much you want this relationship to work?
00:35:19Look, for me, it was letting him sleep a little bit longer.
00:35:22Yes.
00:35:25We're not interrupting each other tonight, right?
00:35:29Oh God.
00:35:30Okay.
00:35:31Can I keep going with my story then?
00:35:34Yeah.
00:35:35So then, um, we come to the fire the next night and this is when I'm like, this is my
00:35:40last
00:35:40plea here.
00:35:41Like, I'm going to try and see if he really wants to fight for this, if he really wants this
00:35:45relationship to work.
00:35:46And I had written down questions that were all just about what the expert said, going
00:35:52through all these questions.
00:35:53And then he starts to get a bit shorter with him because he's sick of talking about it.
00:35:56And then I'm like, Chris, do you even have feelings for me?
00:36:00And he goes, oh, you know, with what's happened over the last couple of weeks, I feel like my
00:36:04feelings are pretty damaged.
00:36:05And like, I don't really know if I do anymore.
00:36:12And I'm like, well, then what am I doing here?
00:36:17Then I was just like, well, then do we just end it here?
00:36:19And you were just like, yeah, I think that's probably like right to do.
00:36:23And what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings and where you lost your feelings
00:36:29for me.
00:36:33What I honestly feel like happened is that you just like did the bare minimum, got me flowers
00:36:39so that you could come here tonight and say, I did this for Sam, I tried.
00:36:43But like, I know that you were checked out of this relationship already.
00:36:46I know you didn't want to give it a go.
00:36:53If I'm honest, and I have to be honest, it seems like you're putting a lot on Chris.
00:36:59Yep.
00:37:00And just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully doesn't mean this other person
00:37:06is not trying.
00:37:07Hold on, hold on a second.
00:37:10Let's not forget that like the week before Sam was in a world of pain alone being correct.
00:37:19Yep, of course.
00:37:20But hang on a second.
00:37:20Hang on a minute.
00:37:21Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:37:23Sorry, I've got to say something here.
00:37:26Bec needs to mind her business.
00:37:28I don't know how her homestays went, but that should be her focus.
00:37:31We're a couple of weeks out of final bowels.
00:37:33Don't worry about your man doll.
00:37:36I'm not going to let anyone sit here and say your expectations are too high.
00:37:40When Sam sat there in tears by himself, not knowing which way was up and which way was
00:37:45down for a whole week, because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive
00:37:50to him.
00:37:52Like, let's all just take a step back.
00:37:53Babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:38:09Babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:38:15I get that.
00:38:15Babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.
00:38:17I get that.
00:38:17I get it.
00:38:18I get that.
00:38:19I get it.
00:38:22to him like let's all just take a step back but you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties
00:38:29you're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior honey so just pipe
00:38:33it down a little bit but i've never been aggressive to you can i speak now first of all
00:38:42like hand on heart i tried my hardest to turn it around i got the feedback from the experts i
00:38:49took
00:38:49it on board i took accountability i realized that i wanted to grow and learn as a person
00:38:54and i wanted to come out the other end and i'm sorry but i was doing that and i thought
00:38:58we had a
00:38:59good day and like you pulled the notepad out and then asked me the questions and i just for me
00:39:04i felt like you know like can we just live in the moment can we just have a bit of
00:39:08fun and
00:39:09but do you understand with the questions they're things that were burning inside of course yeah
00:39:13he needs answers too yeah cool i'll keep talking babes so i i i i felt uncomfortable but i stayed
00:39:20calm and i answered the question i answered the questions as best as i could but you ended it
00:39:26with me you said like yeah no yeah can i just say it's like the reason i ended it is
00:39:31because i asked
00:39:32chris do you still have feelings for me if if you were trying so hard and you thought that everything
00:39:39was what you're saying then at that point you should have said sam yes i had feelings for you
00:39:48can i ask a question do you feel like when chris said leave the other week at the last commitment
00:39:55so i know it really hurt you like you were really upset we could see that do you think that
00:39:59that
00:40:00really hurt you to a point where had you already made up your mind i hadn't made my mind that
00:40:05just
00:40:05hurt me to the point where this is why i think i needed so much from chris because i was
00:40:10really
00:40:10hurt that he said he wanted to leave that he had already given up so i'm like i need to
00:40:13see from you
00:40:14that you haven't given up completely and i i get maybe for you what you did was enough but for
00:40:18me it
00:40:19wasn't and then i decided that based on the fact that what you did wasn't enough for my expectations
00:40:23the caller happened i i ended things because i wasn't getting what i wanted from chris and if that's
00:40:27not what he can give because he's got kids and he's got fun he's got everything else then you're not
00:40:31ultimately a good match it's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out between sam and chris
00:40:43because i care for both boys but listening to both sides of the story i'm like
00:40:50they're not speaking the same language and they're seeing different things and i don't think they're
00:40:56gonna align tonight just unfortunately it hasn't worked i don't want this to be yucky i just want
00:41:02to be amicable i don't want it to be yucky either it's not yucky though is it it's not yucky
00:41:06don't
00:41:08mistake passion for anger i think you're both passionate it's not yucky in my opinion you're both
00:41:12just ironing it out we do love you both we love you a lot yeah 100 thanks i think it's
00:41:20really sad what's
00:41:21hard with him chris i love them as people and i love them together and i'm getting this feeling of
00:41:27like chris did try the way he knew how and it wasn't enough for sam it's it's it's a hard
00:41:35one
00:41:44so beck and danny how about you guys you're next how was your homestays we had such a good
00:41:51homestays didn't we if my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you they would i think
00:42:01obviously because danielle fancied me i'm joking you should be able to say something nice and be
00:42:09genuine about it and then not say oh your cousin wants to me i never said that there's a camera
00:42:14in
00:42:14my face and you're abusing me over a joke dude there's a camera in my face and you're making a
00:42:18joke of what i'm saying yeah i'm done me well we had like a like two perfect things and then
00:42:28like the
00:42:28type we had a little argument at the end we had a tiny little ding dong at the end
00:42:37it lasted about 15 minutes i think like for me i don't know for anyone else who experienced like
00:42:44going into your partner's home in that moment i felt like a bit out of place in the house like
00:42:50up until that point i felt so comfortable like so welcome not that i was ever like unwelcome but in
00:42:58that moment arguing like hardly an argument a ding dong but yeah or whatever you want to call it
00:43:06whilst danny did call it an argument beck called it a ding dong so she's wanting to really contain
00:43:11it yes when we had the disagreement at the house i felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space
00:43:16it's your space yeah do you know i don't know if anyone else can like yeah so that was sort
00:43:22of
00:43:22something that stuck with me in in the sense of like moving forward it made me look at things in
00:43:28a different way in the sense that i'd probably want to i don't know how i'd want to navigate
00:43:36if i was to move to adelaide how the logistics of it would look as a man
00:43:47i feel like like do you know what you mean like it's more beck's house than it is like moving
00:43:51into
00:43:51her house yeah correct like like i'd want to sit down and speak to beck on a deeper level about
00:43:57that
00:43:59because like i feel like if you move in with a woman and like i would never just move in
00:44:07like we have to talk about that on a deeper level in the sense that like i'm not moving out
00:44:13of my
00:44:13house no i'm not asking you to but what i'm saying is like it's how he fits into it babe
00:44:21like yeah how
00:44:22i fit into it that's that's more and to you right now you're probably like that that like that's easy
00:44:28i know like it's just but like i get from danny's perspective he's like yeah i move in so like
00:44:33he's
00:44:33got to get his stuff out where does he put his stuff and like and we would make space 100
00:44:37for
00:44:38that from my point of view anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes
00:44:42you feel like a bit of a moving in with a woman what are you on about
00:45:01from my point of view anyway i suppose everyone looks at it different but it makes you feel like
00:45:05a bit of a bitch moving in with a woman what are you on about oh no that's not what
00:45:15i was getting
00:45:15out oh god oh my god he's talking about feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house
00:45:24and let's not use the term in that way either daddy not cool we're on 800 square meters five minutes
00:45:30from
00:45:30the city with a 97 000 mortgage and a three million house me whoa whoa whoa whoa whoa like firstly
00:45:45you've never said that to me women have worked really really hard to make sure that we've got this
00:45:51multi-million dollar home in the most affluent suburb of south australia so yeah you're not going to be a
00:45:57moving into my house that was not what i was getting at are we serious for this we're in the
00:46:072020s emasculated by moving into home with your woman let's grow up you like to be a provider correct
00:46:17correct yeah i'll be honest i couldn't go to hers i want to i'm gonna buy the house i'm gonna
00:46:21pay for
00:46:21everything like that's just a manly thing like dan's a bit like me he likes to feel like the man
00:46:28the boss the alpha male so i understand where danny's coming from he just wants to feel more
00:46:32vasculated in the relationship we're more traditional in that way too no but like i get it like i have
00:46:39it
00:46:39my house is bigger than yours but it's like yeah like it's different vibe i do agree with danny
00:46:45i think for a man to feel masculine and his masculine energy they want to have the house and
00:46:50the woman move into it i know that's not like the norm these days but like i like that and
00:46:56that's what
00:46:56me and scott are doing so i do agree with danny on that i think he wants to feel like
00:47:01the man and he
00:47:02has every right to feel like that i feel like it's emasculating like i get what you're saying like yeah
00:47:06yeah you want your place to be like here babe like come to me like i'm i'm the man like
00:47:11i think that's
00:47:12like where you're coming from yeah that's what i'm saying i felt uncomfortable when we argued and
00:47:18it sort of it made me feel demasculated to like be in her house yeah like a bit of a
00:47:22bitch i've had
00:47:23that discussion with beck two or three times i'm not as hit hit 1990s song on r&b radio what
00:47:30keeps
00:47:30repeating itself do you know i mean i i didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement then i was
00:47:35just
00:47:35sorry no i don't know what you mean danny i do wonder if danny's showing a little insecurity there
00:47:42you know i think some men would not see a barrier to moving into a house owned by the woman
00:47:49it wouldn't
00:47:50feel emasculating he's really dropped the ball here and i'm old school too i'm the song exactly
00:47:56the same i can proudly say it as well that if me and rachel do something i would feel i
00:48:00would feel
00:48:01more comfortable rachel moved into my place feel like a provider well i don't think that's very
00:48:06fair because at the end of the day it's the difference is is that i've got a massive house
00:48:11with a lot of space five minutes out of the city with a mortgage of 97 grand i feel like
00:48:16you're a
00:48:16team i feel like you're a team 100 i was brought up on those values that's just the way i
00:48:21think if i
00:48:30wouldn't like you we gotta work together yeah i know we work together but as a man it's just
00:48:36as a man maybe i'm old school like that but i believe like the man should be the man of
00:48:41the
00:48:41house and take care of the big bills it's nice to have your own thing but ultimately you work
00:48:46together right exactly yeah ultimately it's about how can we work together how can we make this work
00:48:52what are your needs you know vice versa it doesn't have to be a demasculating thing it just has to
00:48:58be teamwork no you're a team for some reason it's just a mental thing uh it's just it just works
00:49:07like
00:49:07that uh females feel more secure when that it is like that it's just how is unfortunately it's a
00:49:13double set it's just how it is gays don't have that problem yeah i understand where danny's coming
00:49:20from don't agree with it but i understand where um danny's coming from beck and danny's homestay i don't
00:49:26think was as great as they made it out to be there's something there's something not right
00:49:32there yeah this is a serious conversation you've asked me to come uh yeah i know for a dinner party
00:49:39don't like shut up excellent so glad we're talking about it with everyone
00:49:46oh goodness no i said it to you already
00:49:49that not to that level babes i have a hundred percent still to come
00:50:04i did spiral a little bit dave what's going through your head bro david finally finds his voice
00:50:11i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:50:16um this is really a relationship in peril yeah before beck confronts danny i would have
00:50:23appreciated you having been that open that's answered a lot of relations it's just more
00:50:29that's a beautiful experiment now before how about you alissa how was yours um
00:50:47do you know what alissa and david really have not spoken about themselves at all
00:50:52no and that is not usual for them david looks quite uncomfortable actually yeah
00:51:00i feel like we had highs and lows i did spiral a little bit like i did get in my
00:51:07head
00:51:08because you know as soon as we touched down in adelaide i felt like this weight
00:51:16i felt like oh my goodness i you know i said i was going to move to sydney and like
00:51:21we're going to make
00:51:21this thing work in sydney and we'll meet halfway but i have a lot of responsibilities in adelaide
00:51:27i have contracts in place i have my business i have a house i have a cat but i'm almost
00:51:3234
00:51:33and in the next few years i want to start a family so i kind of put pressure on myself
00:51:38and that's where i started to spiral on homestays because i was like this is not going to work
00:51:44like i don't think i'm going to be able to stretch myself out at adelaide
00:51:47um like in the next three months it might look like six to 12 months if we're going to make
00:51:52this
00:51:52work in the real world beforehand you were saying potentially you'd give it three months to move
00:52:01to sydney is it the move to adelaide now well that's what it would probably be
00:52:09it would be adelaide yeah oh we haven't heard that from her before a lot came out of homestays but
00:52:16it's just like how do we move like forward but i feel like the way that we process things are
00:52:22very
00:52:22different and i'm wondering why am i spiraling you know we're all under pressure but some people also
00:52:27deal with pressure differently when i need to just process my mind's going bing bing bing bing i retract
00:52:35things have kind of turned on its head a little bit elissa's now saying i can't move david's gone
00:52:41look i'm willing to sacrifice everything and move down to adelaide to give this relationship the best
00:52:46chance but her retracting and pulling away from dave freaking dave out you know i sort of felt for
00:52:52dave a little bit if anything all the risk is on david and there was one other thing i know
00:53:00that i can
00:53:00be a bit full on and like he does ground me but maybe i'm finding a little bit sometimes too
00:53:07much
00:53:08where i feel like i'm not myself like it's really shifting my my energy and that's not something i'm
00:53:15used to my husband also snores so i've had like lack of sleep the last three months like it's just
00:53:21it's
00:53:21it's a compiling thing i feel like right now elissa is trying to look for any little thing she
00:53:31can pull from the sky to question things in the relationship and that is pushing me away she says
00:53:37she doesn't want to push me away but her throwing all these doubts there's only so much i can take
00:53:43before i start feeling like an idiot you know i think i was fine with just continuing to be that
00:53:51emotional shoulder to lean on until home stays we've been on this experiment for two months
00:53:58and it's been long enough for her to like be a bit more certain you know if this ultimately isn't
00:54:04going to work i'm not going to force anything like it's up to her to come from her head into
00:54:09her heart
00:54:10for this to work long term dave what's going through your head bro
00:54:22i've hit my wall i've been calm throughout this whole thing but i'm at my limit
00:54:28you know and i sort of need that mental space as well just as much as she probably needs it
00:54:32from
00:54:33coming back from home state and it's something we both need but it's at the point emotionally i don't
00:54:38have much to give i'm invested in this relationship i am prepared to move for this
00:54:43relationship but for me i bonded with her mom and her two best friends and i've got her mom saying
00:54:49this is all good for you her friend saying this is good for you i really love david a lot
00:54:54so i'm just like what other green checks do you need ticked off like you know
00:55:04well this is david being really raw isn't it i mean he's saying that he's exhausted and also he's
00:55:11hit his limit and i know that they talk about it in relation to the experiment but actually you know
00:55:19the experiment for some people it brings them closer right now and i i get some real worries
00:55:24that he's started to step back we got cracks man we've got cracks like everyone but that's something
00:55:31that you know we will talk to the experts about we actually haven't seen them in this state before have
00:55:38we no i'd say absolutely more questions than answers we got tonight so that's where we got to go
00:55:44tomorrow night we are going to need to ask about the homestays and particularly where they see
00:55:52themselves in the future this is really a relationship in peril yeah
00:56:02it sounds like you've been approached by some producers to do another show is that right
00:56:06other producers from aussie shore um reach out and see what i do this season three with them
00:56:12gotcha all right i had one of the female cast members slide into my dms like four or five days
00:56:17ago and i think it's come from there yeah is that something you want me to go and do or
00:56:21my job is
00:56:23not to advise you on what to do or what not to do we're documenting your life on flex if
00:56:28this is where
00:56:28your life goes you know it's entirely up to you if you decide that you want to pursue it further
00:56:33i can
00:56:33talk to them and see whether we can capture some of the journey gosh mate i've already so i also
00:56:42have put my parents in on social media so they didn't see my escorting videos and then it took
00:56:48two days and they've seen them because a friend had gone and seen them and been like you see what
00:56:53marcus is doing in australia now they obviously had no idea so i'm just dealing with that at the
00:56:56moment and i think to drop the the bombshell that yes i'm an escort and i'm also going to go
00:57:00on
00:57:00ozzy show all right you're on flex you're an escort and then you're gonna go on ozzy show it's a
00:57:08big
00:57:08wake marcus i've had a busy three days this week mate yeah it's it's i don't know if it's going
00:57:12downhill
00:57:13uphill i can't quite decide how are you all homestead guys i went out on his harley like i grew
00:57:34up
00:57:35there so i'm i'm like i went to school there i had my first kiss there i did this there
00:57:38and it's like
00:57:39it's not like a foreign place for me yeah it's just easy the fact that she's lived there before
00:57:43so it's pretty big for us that's amazing yeah it's really good the taste of the outside
00:57:48world you know what i mean like we know yeah so what's your plan i'm gonna try it guys after
00:57:54the
00:57:54experiment i do like crinola yeah yeah i could see myself there that's very important that's that's the
00:58:00whole point of it the home visit it's like can i see myself there yes i can let's just do
00:58:06it
00:58:06just give it a go yeah just give it a go like and um that was a realization i had
00:58:10and you have a plan moving forward and like you guys are great yeah
00:58:16rachel and steven homestays hey guys who's talking who's talking you can talk
00:58:22captain steve-o i reckon rachel go first and i'll i reckon steve-o go first please
00:58:26i think steve-o can go first thank you i'll go first okay can you hear me down there yeah
00:58:33yeah
00:58:34boy loud and clear all right so look i'm happy to say that rachel and my family did get along
00:58:40everyone loves each other a lot the drinks were flowing everything was fantastic and yeah we had
00:58:45a really good time and took rachel out on the uh the boat and she got to experience a little
00:58:51you know
00:58:52a little snapshot of what my life is um about and what i'm passionate about so took her out fishing
00:58:58and
00:58:58i can definitely say very impressive impressed with rachel she full on she's a country girl full
00:59:03on leaned in she's a catch i am the cat she's a guy that's right the catch of the day
00:59:08right yeah
00:59:10and um and look i was very impressed with the fishing skills she kissed a couple fish
00:59:15but i'm looking at this woman going look it's not just that she's leaning into fishing
00:59:20it's more the fact that i'm seeing a woman there that is having a crack and i can see that
00:59:26outside
00:59:27fishing rachel will have my back in things i can see we can do life together but i feel a
00:59:38lot more
00:59:38confident now that the foundation has been laid on my side anyway with rachel that we can take this out
00:59:43onto the um outside here you go and have somewhere to start because it's been been done and dusted i'm
00:59:52still going to meet her side um but i feel more confident on my side that rachel and my family
00:59:56and
00:59:56my lifestyle will match now so we had a good time that's the best who would have thought who would
01:00:08have
01:00:10heard steven talk about our homestay and like the beautiful things he was saying yeah you sound
01:00:17emotional i am emotional i'm so emotional about it because i've got this guy that i truly truly care
01:00:25about and i'm developing such strong feelings for and every time he talks about us with the group and
01:00:34everything it's beautiful it's just so nice and what what an amazing journey and opportunity we've had
01:00:44and the fact that we get to be with each other is just even better
01:00:50some guys are going to buy girls flowers my guy bought me a fishing rod
01:01:00oh rachel looks so happy look at steven yeah we've never seen him smile like this we've never
01:01:08seen him as relaxed and as confident as he has been tonight that was a full-bodied smile he's really
01:01:16transformed but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space
01:01:23look we went through hard times at the start of our relationship you're sore and you know what we
01:01:30we've just sawed and you know we're now hitting weeks where it should test us and instead it's
01:01:36strengthening us and it's really nice i love it yay well done
01:01:43rachel and stevo
01:01:55at the dinner table tonight danny said that he
01:02:02would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house
01:02:07i hadn't heard that yet and like i would hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me
01:02:14like we
01:02:14talk about everything so yeah
01:02:20i feel blindsided by him
01:02:25i feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband
01:02:31they got dragged back into the drama and we've got them mass royalty
01:02:40jamie and dominica the spiciest sofa showdown plus the footage you won't believe
01:02:49after the dinner party tonight
01:02:57if i was to move to adelaide as a man it makes you feel like a bit of a
01:03:03bitch moving in with a woman
01:03:16before and here i am with a slow burn and like i said we we went through hard yards
01:03:22earlier and now we're so strong because of that and so yeah yeah but not to that level like i
01:03:29think i would have appreciated you having been that open it's in a lot of relations
01:03:34it's just made me that much more confident out of the experiment yeah before home stage
01:03:39frankly danny time and time again has not stepped up and made the commitment that she
01:03:44wants and craves she's been transparent he hasn't said that he loves her back he's now saying i don't
01:03:51want to live in your house so there's a number of things that are now adding up yeah that beck's
01:03:56starting to worry about when it comes to danny's level of commitment yes and rightly so
01:04:02i mean
01:04:06the idea that like that it like that you like you basically just said if i was to move to
01:04:14adelaide
01:04:14i don't know if i want to move into my house i didn't know how long i was saying i
01:04:20would have
01:04:21rather you said that to me before announcing it to a tax of people i didn't say i didn't say
01:04:25that
01:04:25i was saying we have to like i'd put money into a house and we're renovating where i'd pick up
01:04:31the
01:04:31mortgage because we're just moving it was how it is would make me feel demasculating right yeah
01:04:49i think beck revealed how hard that conversation was for her you know when she said oh here we are
01:04:55having this conversation in front of everyone she felt really uncomfortable and i think
01:04:59after the dinner tonight they'll be going home for quite a big conversation
01:05:21okay so the purpose of this conversation is to talk about what's been happening within the group of
01:05:32women not to make comparisons between men and women and who does it better wow i just hope that
01:05:38there's some insight here with with the ladies that yes in the future you are going to be in contact
01:05:43with other women who have strong personalities have strong judgments about you or opinions about you
01:05:53but that doesn't mean that you have to play dirty as a woman i think it's important that we support
01:05:59each
01:05:59other what each other love that that we empower each other are each other i'm so excited this is amazing
01:06:12that we give other women an opportunity to shine jules were you married
01:06:28just like we do i'm falling in love with you
01:06:30in love with you and that does not take away any of our power
01:06:34you
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