Married at First Sight (AU) Season 13 Episode 32

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00:00:00It's with great sadness and heavy heart that today the Maffs family lost a colleague and a dear friend, Mel

00:00:09Schilling.

00:00:10She was someone that could light up a room.

00:00:13She was full of joy, had a huge smile.

00:00:16And whenever she was on set, everyone lifted.

00:00:21She brought fun and joy, humour.

00:00:24I remember that she also brought an authenticity, which we all loved to be around.

00:00:32It was such a delight to watch her shine.

00:00:37She was a fighter.

00:00:38She was a leader.

00:00:40She was an inspiration.

00:00:42Never complained, just rolled her sleeves up and got on with things.

00:00:47Someone that has meant so much to all of us, and it's not fair.

00:00:53Married at first sight won't be the same without her.

00:00:58I would like to send all thoughts and prayers to Gareth, her husband and Maddie, her wonderful daughter.

00:01:07And also, take a moment now and remember, Mel, we love you.

00:01:37I've got everything that I want in an apartment.

00:01:38Previously...

00:01:38Welcome home!

00:01:40The homestays saw some lock-in plans for their lives beyond the experiment.

00:01:45I'm open to moving now.

00:01:47I've got everything that I want in an apartment.

00:01:49I've got my reassurances.

00:01:51We are coming out stronger.

00:01:53Stephen stepped up, giving Rachel reassurance for their future.

00:01:57What I see is a wife outside the experiment.

00:02:03After a tense few days on the farm, Sam and Chris made a shock decision.

00:02:09I can't see this working.

00:02:11It's all good.

00:02:11It is what it is.

00:02:12It's not how I envisioned it would end.

00:02:15I really thought Chris would fight for me a bit.

00:02:18You want to have a family.

00:02:20You don't want to keep putting it off.

00:02:23Following advice from her mother, Alyssa began to spiral.

00:02:27Just getting very overwhelmed with what I have at stake here and what I could potentially be walking away from.

00:02:33Leaving David disheartened.

00:02:35The way Alyssa is handling the situation, it is making me uneasy.

00:02:40Tonight.

00:02:41Throughout this experiment, I have been patient.

00:02:44But when you're dealing with the mom, the family, friends, they all said that I'm a great guy for her.

00:02:49And she still sees negatives.

00:02:51There's nothing else I can do.

00:02:53Has David reached his limit?

00:02:55That's the first time I've ever heard you say that you need space.

00:02:58You never say space.

00:03:01It's the second last dinner party of the experiment.

00:03:05I can see we can do life together.

00:03:07But I feel a lot more confident now that we can take this out onto the outside.

00:03:11Have Rachel and Stephen become this year's new power couple?

00:03:15Who would have thought?

00:03:16Who would have thought?

00:03:18The person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.

00:03:22But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.

00:03:25Tensions rise when Sam and Chris air their concerns.

00:03:28You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behavior, honey.

00:03:32And I've never been aggressive to you.

00:03:35And then...

00:03:36I think like for me, as a man, I feel like...

00:03:40Oh God.

00:03:41Oh my God.

00:03:43What are you on about?

00:03:45It's the shock debate that will divide the table.

00:03:49That was not what I was getting at.

00:03:51Are we serious for this?

00:04:07Our couples have returned from their homestay.

00:04:10And our brides and grooms are enjoying a new sense of closeness.

00:04:15After stepping into the life that could be waiting for them outside the experiment.

00:04:21Hi.

00:04:22Hey, bonjour.

00:04:23Bonjour.

00:04:24Recharged and hopeful, the couples now turn their attention to the second last dinner party of the experiment.

00:04:31Eager to reconnect after time apart.

00:04:35Are you excited?

00:04:36I am excited because it's been a very long time since we caught up with everyone.

00:04:42We don't know what the hell is going on.

00:04:45It's going to be exciting.

00:04:47A lot of gossip.

00:04:49This is...

00:04:49I'll be straight up with you.

00:04:50This is the most anticipated dinner party I'm looking forward to.

00:04:54Yeah.

00:04:54Really?

00:04:55How come?

00:04:55We went through...

00:04:57The ups and downs.

00:04:58We went through the ups and downs.

00:04:58The trenches.

00:04:59But coming out at the end of it, good.

00:05:02Yeah.

00:05:02You know?

00:05:02Everything's...

00:05:03Everything is exactly where it needs to be.

00:05:05For Rachel and Stephen, homestays sparked a breakthrough in their marriage, unlocking a new confidence in their relationship.

00:05:14Hello, hello.

00:05:15Hello, sexy.

00:05:17Looking good.

00:05:17I appreciate that.

00:05:18I like the red.

00:05:19Right now, we've just come off the back of homestays and it was amazing.

00:05:23Something definitely clicked for Stephen and I.

00:05:25It was that this could work.

00:05:28I think that's really what it is.

00:05:30I'm ready to, like, load up the boat again and get straight back up to the central coast and just,

00:05:35you know, start hanging out.

00:05:37And, yeah, so it was really good.

00:05:40We had such a great homestay and I'm actually just really excited to share that with everyone.

00:05:46And that's it.

00:05:47I'm glad you had a good time and you could see, you know, a little bit of my lifestyle.

00:05:53After homestays, it's given me confidence.

00:05:55I feel a little bit better outside the experiment now.

00:05:58Like I said to Rachel, can I see myself falling in love with you?

00:06:03Yes, I can.

00:06:04And I mean that.

00:06:06And homestays really gave me confidence in that.

00:06:09I think we're really lucky.

00:06:11You know, other couples may not have had a good homestay.

00:06:14So we're really lucky to have had the good experience that we did.

00:06:19While homestays brought some closer,

00:06:23for Scott, welcoming Gia into his home presented new challenges.

00:06:28What's that?

00:06:30It's a neck brace.

00:06:31Why is it pink?

00:06:32Why is it pink?

00:06:33Why not?

00:06:35You're trying to find a problem?

00:06:36Is it your ex?

00:06:37Gab and Maria.

00:06:38Do you trust me?

00:06:38Like, do you trust my words?

00:06:40Do you trust me as a person?

00:06:41Yeah, I trust you.

00:06:43Yeah, why?

00:06:45I feel like sometimes I'm walking on eggshells

00:06:47because I feel like if I want to bring up something,

00:06:49I feel like you might misinterpret it the wrong way.

00:06:52I know I trust you, but can I commit to moving and everything

00:06:55if you never feel like, you know, that you love me?

00:06:59But back at the apartments,

00:07:01eternal optimist Scott is determined to hit reset

00:07:04and look on the bright side.

00:07:06I feel great.

00:07:08I just feel good walking into this dinner party,

00:07:10being able to share, like, good moments that we've had.

00:07:13I feel like it'll be good.

00:07:14Like, I feel like tonight's going to be a really good, positive night

00:07:17to share what we've done for Homestays.

00:07:20Yeah.

00:07:21At the end of Homestays, we had a bit of a discussion,

00:07:24but we hashed it out.

00:07:27Today, we're going to the dinner party with positive attitude.

00:07:30We're great.

00:07:30We're in a really good place.

00:07:31I just don't want to keep it like that.

00:07:34Yeah, I mean, I'm pretty happy with where we're at.

00:07:38Coming to the end now, this is the last or second last one.

00:07:41Mm.

00:07:42So, yeah.

00:07:44Do you think it would cause problems if you, you know,

00:07:48raised some concerns?

00:07:51Oh...

00:07:54Pretty much.

00:07:55Let's just do it.

00:07:56Get it done.

00:07:58I'm excited.

00:07:59You look good, we feel good,

00:08:00and I'm ready to walk into a nice dinner party.

00:08:04Yep, me too.

00:08:07For Bec and Danny,

00:08:09what began as a promising homestay

00:08:11took a dramatic turn.

00:08:14If my family felt the need to

00:08:16have hard conversations with you,

00:08:19they would.

00:08:20I think, obviously, because Danielle fancied me,

00:08:22she didn't want to, like...

00:08:27I'm joking.

00:08:28I'm joking.

00:08:29It's like a serious moment.

00:08:33These moments make me feel like shit.

00:08:36It's serious for me.

00:08:37You should be able to say something nice

00:08:39and be genuine about it

00:08:40and then not say,

00:08:41oh, your cousin wants to fuck me.

00:08:43Like...

00:08:44I never said that.

00:08:45Yeah, I'm done.

00:08:46Fuck me.

00:08:49Fuck me.

00:08:52And now, back at the apartment,

00:08:54an even bigger shock awaits.

00:09:00So, since we got back to Sydney from homestays,

00:09:04things look great.

00:09:05Like...

00:09:06Cheers, baby.

00:09:07Cheers, girl.

00:09:08The last night, like,

00:09:10since we've been back,

00:09:11like, there's not really any need to talk about it.

00:09:12Like, he made a joke.

00:09:14It frustrated me.

00:09:15He got frustrated with me.

00:09:17And then we wake up the next morning,

00:09:19we give each other a cuddle,

00:09:21we have a shag and we move on.

00:09:23Cheers.

00:09:24It's all blown over.

00:09:26Like...

00:09:27Shocking.

00:09:28Oh, stop it!

00:09:29Ha, ha, ha, ha!

00:09:31For most couples,

00:09:33homestays brought them together.

00:09:34But for one couple,

00:09:36it marked the end of the road.

00:09:39Going to the dinner party tonight,

00:09:41yeah, I'm going alone.

00:09:43And obviously, Chris and I left each other at homestays.

00:09:46I wrote some questions down

00:09:47and maybe we could just be, like,

00:09:50really raw and honest with each other

00:09:52about all the answers.

00:09:55First question is...

00:09:57Do you accept full responsibility

00:09:58for your defensiveness

00:09:59and the aggression I felt from you last week?

00:10:04Yeah.

00:10:06You don't have to agree.

00:10:07Yeah, no, I agree.

00:10:08I just feel like I've already suffered enough from this.

00:10:12I honestly felt like I was, um,

00:10:1415, getting in trouble by a teacher or something.

00:10:16Do you have feelings for me?

00:10:20Um...

00:10:20OK, um...

00:10:24In the beginning,

00:10:25uh, yes.

00:10:26But I just think, um...

00:10:29Yeah, we also have some, um,

00:10:31differences as well.

00:10:32And I just want to put my dad hat on

00:10:35and, like, live my best life.

00:10:38Homestays was my last plea

00:10:41to see if he was going to fight for me at all.

00:10:43But Chris just kind of gave up.

00:10:47So I did break up with Chris on the farm.

00:10:50But I'm going to the dinner party

00:10:52because I want that last chance

00:10:54to sort of just, like, find out

00:10:56why Chris actually didn't want this relationship.

00:11:01I just want clarity on what the hell happened.

00:11:05But Sam isn't the only one struggling

00:11:07with the fallout of their homestay.

00:11:10During their trip to Adelaide,

00:11:12Alyssa received a wake-up call.

00:11:14Obviously, I want to settle down in Adelaide,

00:11:16but what are your thoughts

00:11:19about me moving to Sydney

00:11:20just for a couple of years?

00:11:22I would hate that.

00:11:26Um, you know, you want to have a family

00:11:28and you don't want to keep putting it off.

00:11:33People sometimes take ten years to fall pregnant.

00:11:36That's the truth.

00:11:37Yeah, I know, but, well, I don't know that yet.

00:11:38I've never tried.

00:11:39That's right.

00:11:40But you don't know that.

00:11:42A couple of years?

00:11:44A couple of years.

00:11:44I don't think you've got a couple of years to wait.

00:11:49It's really stressful now.

00:11:51I'm full of online.

00:11:52And after a confronting conversation with her mum,

00:11:56Alyssa unravelled

00:11:57and David was left wondering where he fits.

00:12:00I will be honest with you.

00:12:04I started to spiral.

00:12:06Like, I want to have a family in the next few years.

00:12:10I don't want to miss out on being a mum.

00:12:11And if we're going to make this thing work,

00:12:14David might have to move to Adelaide.

00:12:16Alyssa, I'm really sorry, babe.

00:12:18I have to ask this to you.

00:12:20You've sat here and you've talked a lot about

00:12:21what your wants and needs are.

00:12:26What about...

00:12:27Yeah, David.

00:12:29Now back at the apartments,

00:12:32David has had a wake-up call of his own.

00:12:38Oh, man, I'm feeling at my limit.

00:12:41Post-homes days.

00:12:46Can I see myself living in Adelaide?

00:12:48Absolutely.

00:12:49But, you know, after having, you know,

00:12:52come back to Sydney

00:12:53and having time to just come down

00:12:56from the high of homestays,

00:12:57I am feeling a bit low.

00:12:59And that is because there were a couple of things

00:13:01that have still, like,

00:13:04trinkled in the back of my mind.

00:13:06Could you see yourself living here?

00:13:10To be honest, yeah.

00:13:11Yeah.

00:13:13I know that you're willing to move here,

00:13:16which is great,

00:13:17but I don't know,

00:13:18I feel like I'm getting overwhelmed with it

00:13:20because you're, like, literally...

00:13:22Is you overwhelmed?

00:13:22I want to...

00:13:23I am.

00:13:24I am.

00:13:24Because it's, like, a lot...

00:13:27David actually is everything

00:13:29that you've asked for.

00:13:30I know.

00:13:30Right now, this is too good to be true.

00:13:32Like, and that is also another reason

00:13:34why I'm scared, too.

00:13:36Throughout this experiment,

00:13:38I have been patient

00:13:39because I know there is something

00:13:41in this relationship to fight for.

00:13:43But when you get to that point

00:13:46where, like, you're dealing with, like,

00:13:47the mum, the family, friends,

00:13:50they all said that I'm a great guy for her

00:13:52and she still sees negatives,

00:13:54there's nothing else I can do.

00:13:57I've hit my limit

00:13:58and I'm not going to push any further.

00:14:01It's getting very real

00:14:02that I could potentially

00:14:03be putting everything on the line

00:14:06for someone who doesn't want to meet me halfway.

00:14:10So, today, I know I need to be honest.

00:14:13For me, I think it's important

00:14:14to just express how I feel.

00:14:17Looking handsome.

00:14:18Thanks, babe.

00:14:19You're looking gorgeous.

00:14:20I love the dress.

00:14:21Well, we're kind of almost matching.

00:14:25How are you feeling

00:14:26going to the dinner party after homestays?

00:14:31Homestays was a massive, massive week.

00:14:35So, I'm at the point where,

00:14:37like I said, you know,

00:14:38I'm happy to give all the space you need.

00:14:42I'll take the space I need

00:14:43because I definitely need space.

00:14:45Yeah, like, I feel like I've just gone

00:14:47and put it all on the line.

00:14:50And, you know,

00:14:50at the end of the day,

00:14:51I'm not going to force anything.

00:14:55That's the first time I've ever said,

00:14:57heard you say that you need space.

00:14:58I know, but I do.

00:15:00You never say space.

00:15:01You're always like,

00:15:02you're more like,

00:15:03let's, like, whatever.

00:15:04This is the first time you've ever said space.

00:15:06Yeah, I know.

00:15:08That,

00:15:08that kind of like,

00:15:10rattled me a little bit.

00:15:11Normally,

00:15:11I'm the one that needs space.

00:15:13So,

00:15:13you know what?

00:15:14If he needs space,

00:15:15gladly,

00:15:16because I need space right now,

00:15:18just from my head,

00:15:19and I don't need any of this pressure right now.

00:15:21I feel like I'm at my tether.

00:15:23I feel like he's at his tether.

00:15:24We're both tired,

00:15:26and he's been snoring louder than usual.

00:15:28Like,

00:15:28it's just been

00:15:29a bit of an emotional rollercoaster.

00:15:32The reason I need space,

00:15:33because, yeah,

00:15:34I am a calm person,

00:15:35but I'm getting to my limit,

00:15:37where I just need

00:15:38to take some space for my own brain.

00:15:40Because I feel like

00:15:41I put my cards on the table,

00:15:43but it almost felt like

00:15:45you were just looking for the negatives,

00:15:46and when someone's looking for the negatives too much,

00:15:49of why things can't work,

00:15:50like,

00:15:50I'm not gonna force that.

00:15:52I'm not gonna force a connection,

00:15:53if it's just me looking for the positives,

00:15:55and someone else is looking for anything

00:15:57to be like,

00:15:58why this can't work.

00:16:01I would be lying to you,

00:16:04if I said I wasn't questioning

00:16:05things right now,

00:16:06and questioning our relationship.

00:16:08I am in that headspace.

00:16:11So, I'm not going into the dinner party

00:16:13with Alyssa,

00:16:14feeling my best self.

00:16:16I'm sure you're in a similar boat.

00:16:18Babe, I'm just as as tired as you.

00:16:20Yeah, exactly.

00:16:21I'm just as as tired as you.

00:16:22Exactly, yeah.

00:16:23I'm just as tired as you.

00:16:26I get it.

00:16:35It'll be the honour of getting up,

00:16:37let's get out of here.

00:16:37Yep, let's go.

00:16:42Up to you.

00:16:43Off to me, thanks.

00:16:45Off to the gallows we go.

00:16:51Don't want to do this.

00:17:05Well, dinner party number seven,

00:17:07the second last one

00:17:09before we wind this all up.

00:17:12And it is a very important one

00:17:13because they've come back

00:17:15from the homestays.

00:17:17As they start to get a glimpse

00:17:19of what their life will be like

00:17:20with this person

00:17:21in the real world.

00:17:24This is a really crucial part

00:17:25of the experiment for them

00:17:27because some of them

00:17:27will bond closer together

00:17:30through the homestays.

00:17:31I think it's going to be really good.

00:17:33What about you?

00:17:34Are you excited?

00:17:35I'm excited.

00:17:36Whereas others will start

00:17:37to really fall apart

00:17:38and question their overall compatibility

00:17:40with their matches.

00:17:43I have to stop at the end.

00:17:45Hey?

00:17:45It's noisy.

00:17:47They'll hear that in the mics.

00:17:48They'll hear that.

00:17:49And you do that all the time.

00:17:50You don't even realise.

00:17:56Well, the homestays

00:17:57throws up the ultimate question.

00:17:59Could this relationship last

00:18:01in the outside world?

00:18:02We're going to see you tonight.

00:18:10Aw, first in.

00:18:11First one's in.

00:18:13Ha-ha.

00:18:15Rachel and Steve-o.

00:18:16No one to talk to you

00:18:17about ourselves.

00:18:19Are you sick of talking to me yet?

00:18:22Straight to the bar.

00:18:23Straight to the bar, babes.

00:18:24I don't think I've seen Stephen

00:18:26look so relaxed

00:18:27and so really walking in

00:18:29with Rachel.

00:18:30Yes.

00:18:31As he is tonight.

00:18:32Very unified.

00:18:33Tell me when.

00:18:35That's good.

00:18:36Oh, my gosh.

00:18:37Thank you so much.

00:18:39Got to look after you.

00:18:40Oh, I appreciate it.

00:18:43Me and Rachel, we're good.

00:18:44We've walked into the cocktail party.

00:18:45We're first in there.

00:18:46We're pouring drinks.

00:18:47We're cracking jokes.

00:18:48I'll just take this with me.

00:18:49Oh, you're going to take that?

00:18:50Okay.

00:18:52Probably the most relaxed

00:18:53I've ever been in a cocktail party.

00:18:54We're in a good place.

00:18:57Do you want me to...

00:19:00Do you want me to open it?

00:19:01Is there a real opener?

00:19:04Got it?

00:19:05There you go.

00:19:05We're both so keen

00:19:07to get out of this experiment.

00:19:09See where life takes us.

00:19:11Especially after the homestays.

00:19:13All righty.

00:19:14Oh, my gosh, babes.

00:19:15Here we are.

00:19:16Cheers.

00:19:17Hopefully, you know,

00:19:20it's just us.

00:19:20We can have all the food

00:19:21and the drink.

00:19:22I mean,

00:19:22I wouldn't be mad about it, babes.

00:19:26I mean,

00:19:27I'm just...

00:19:28I think I'm just really,

00:19:29really excited to share

00:19:30how much fun we had

00:19:31and, like,

00:19:32and how good

00:19:34ours was.

00:19:35Isn't that nice

00:19:36that a couple

00:19:37is sitting here

00:19:37talking about themselves,

00:19:39not everybody else?

00:19:40Yes.

00:19:41This is great.

00:19:42Check it out, babe.

00:19:44We're going to make you blush.

00:19:45And the enthusiasm

00:19:48in Rachel's voice and face

00:19:50as she is just excited

00:19:51to tell people the good news

00:19:52they had a good week.

00:20:04Stop rubbing your knee.

00:20:05Oh, me.

00:20:09I'm trying to understand you

00:20:10because I don't understand you.

00:20:11You're confusing the out of me.

00:20:14Well...

00:20:28This whole,

00:20:29I'm at my limit,

00:20:30I need space,

00:20:33it sounds really bad.

00:20:35Does it?

00:20:37Yes!

00:20:37So maybe we've got to

00:20:39word it different.

00:20:40It's not taking space

00:20:41from each other.

00:20:43It's just taking space

00:20:44to process everything.

00:20:47Okay.

00:20:52Oh, look who it is!

00:20:59This whole,

00:21:00I'm at my limit,

00:21:01I need space,

00:21:02it sounds really bad.

00:21:04Does it?

00:21:05Yes!

00:21:08So maybe we've got to

00:21:09word it different.

00:21:10It's not taking space

00:21:11from each other,

00:21:12it's just taking space

00:21:13to process everything.

00:21:15Okay.

00:21:18Oh, look who it is!

00:21:19Oh, my God!

00:21:21Oh, my God!

00:21:23Oh, Alyssa and David.

00:21:25Party football!

00:21:29Hang on.

00:21:30How are you, mate?

00:21:31Dude, that's all I can do.

00:21:32Handshake.

00:21:32Oh, good to see you, bro.

00:21:33Likewise, you're looking good.

00:21:35Oh.

00:21:36That's some energy there,

00:21:37isn't it?

00:21:38Oh, at first!

00:21:39We're at first.

00:21:40You guys are first.

00:21:40We've got so much done.

00:21:41Oh, my God.

00:21:42Oh, yeah, we've got a lot

00:21:43to evaluate.

00:21:44Let's just get some...

00:21:46Evaluate?

00:21:47Okay, okay.

00:21:55So are you prepared

00:21:56for everyone to find out

00:21:57that I'm a better fisherman

00:21:58than you, or...?

00:21:59Oh, hang on.

00:22:00Whoa.

00:22:01Whoa.

00:22:03Whoa.

00:22:05Walking into the cocktail

00:22:06party tonight,

00:22:07you know, I was...

00:22:09Obviously, I've been on a load

00:22:10post the homestays.

00:22:13I've sort of just been

00:22:14feeling deflated.

00:22:16Ooh, right in my face.

00:22:18And I did make it known

00:22:19to Alyssa that, you know,

00:22:21I am sort of one

00:22:22in my own space, you know,

00:22:23in my head,

00:22:24just to sort of figure

00:22:25things out.

00:22:26So I did walk in on a load.

00:22:32Oh, who is it?

00:22:33Hey!

00:22:34Here we go!

00:22:34Hello, there.

00:22:35What's up?

00:22:36Scott and Gia.

00:22:38Do I spin?

00:22:38A little hotness right here.

00:22:41Oh, so pretty are you both.

00:22:43Hi!

00:22:44We're giving you some love.

00:22:45Gorgeous.

00:22:46How are you?

00:22:47Let's see you, baby.

00:22:49Walking into the cocktail

00:22:50party tonight with Gia,

00:22:51like, you know,

00:22:52we're not perfect.

00:22:53We still have a couple

00:22:54of things to work on.

00:22:55Get a drink and get in here,

00:22:56brother.

00:22:56I always look at the bright

00:22:57side.

00:22:57If there's something

00:22:58that's really bad,

00:22:59I just see they're more

00:23:00good in someone.

00:23:01Can we carry that?

00:23:02Thanks.

00:23:06Right, Chris,

00:23:07why don't you tell me

00:23:07what's running through

00:23:08your head and going into this?

00:23:10One saving grace for me

00:23:11is that last time

00:23:12I was in this car

00:23:13with Sam,

00:23:15it was just so yucky

00:23:16and awkward.

00:23:16So I'm grateful

00:23:18not to have that,

00:23:19you know, at the moment.

00:23:21Well, it was so awkward

00:23:22you could cut the tension

00:23:23with a knife.

00:23:24And I could not wait

00:23:25to get out of the car.

00:23:26I just hope

00:23:29this, you know,

00:23:30situation with Sam

00:23:30and I can get squashed

00:23:32pretty quickly

00:23:33so I can have

00:23:33a couple of shams

00:23:35and try and enjoy my night.

00:23:38Yeah, no,

00:23:38this is definitely not

00:23:39how I expected

00:23:40to be going to a dinner party

00:23:41in the experiment.

00:23:42I think Chris and I

00:23:43started off really strong

00:23:44and everything was going good

00:23:45and then at some point

00:23:46he just flipped

00:23:46and it all just sort of

00:23:48fell apart

00:23:48and I didn't really know

00:23:49what that flip was

00:23:50into him.

00:23:54Do you know if Sam's

00:23:55coming tonight?

00:23:56Oh, I definitely know

00:23:56he'll be going.

00:23:58Yeah.

00:23:58He wants to go

00:23:59to get the whole group's

00:24:01opinion and two cents

00:24:03on our dirty laundry.

00:24:06But you know what?

00:24:06There's two sides

00:24:07to this story

00:24:08and coming to the dinner

00:24:09party to back myself

00:24:11and say my side

00:24:12of the story.

00:24:19Yeah, and that's

00:24:19what we're going to do.

00:24:20Oh!

00:24:21Oh!

00:24:24Oh!

00:24:25Oh!

00:24:26Oh!

00:24:26Chris is alone.

00:24:27Ew, how you going?

00:24:28Okay, that's a surprise.

00:24:30Hi.

00:24:31Hey, bud.

00:24:32So Chris walks in solo.

00:24:35Well, shit.

00:24:37That's not my prediction.

00:24:39Drink, drink, drink.

00:24:40Let's go drink.

00:24:41I mean, they were very bad

00:24:43at the commitment ceremony.

00:24:44Chris had written leave.

00:24:45Sam was absolutely

00:24:46in tears about it all.

00:24:48There was a hope

00:24:49at the homestay

00:24:49they might be able

00:24:50to turn it around

00:24:50but this looks like

00:24:52it's actually

00:24:53not been salvaged.

00:24:55The brown porch.

00:24:56Yeah, I'm alright.

00:24:57You look very tan.

00:24:58Thanks, babe.

00:24:59But, um...

00:24:59The fit's good.

00:25:00The fit's good.

00:25:01My life's not...

00:25:01I would love one, babe.

00:25:02Your life is okay.

00:25:04Yeah, thanks, babe.

00:25:04You got this shit, babe.

00:25:05You got this shit.

00:25:06Yes, obviously it didn't work out.

00:25:08Wait, wait, wait, wait.

00:25:10Wait, wait, wait.

00:25:11I feel like maybe

00:25:12Sam and I

00:25:12can unpack it together.

00:25:13Okay, alright.

00:25:14So you don't want to talk about that?

00:25:15No, I'll give you a little...

00:25:16You give us your side.

00:25:17I'll give you a little rundown.

00:25:18It's really hard

00:25:19seeing them not walking together

00:25:20because I genuinely had hope

00:25:23that they would get past this.

00:25:25Seeing Chris walking in

00:25:26by himself,

00:25:27like, it was genuinely, like...

00:25:29pretty heartbreaks.

00:25:32Basically, um...

00:25:33Yeah, um...

00:25:33Sam ended it with me

00:25:34two days into homestays.

00:25:36He ended it with you?

00:25:37The second day.

00:25:38He ended it?

00:25:40He ended it with you?

00:25:41Yeah.

00:25:42Oh, Sam ended it.

00:25:44I wonder why.

00:25:45So, yes.

00:25:45I wonder why.

00:25:47Obviously, we had, like, a, you know,

00:25:48pretty bad couch session.

00:25:51I took accountability.

00:25:52I decided that I wanted to learn

00:25:54and grow from the feedback

00:25:55that I got.

00:25:55Yeah, that's what you said about it.

00:25:56Um, so I went into homestays

00:25:57trying to turn it around.

00:25:59Gia knows.

00:25:59I spoke with you about it.

00:26:00Yeah.

00:26:01Boarding flowers,

00:26:01made him dinner.

00:26:02I tried everything that I could

00:26:03to turn it around,

00:26:04but unfortunately, um,

00:26:06yeah, it didn't work for us.

00:26:07And it was really...

00:26:08It was a real shock

00:26:09because I thought we were

00:26:10actually doing quite well.

00:26:10Like, you know,

00:26:11I started to get those feelings

00:26:12back for him again, so...

00:26:14So Chris was saying

00:26:15he started getting feelings

00:26:16for Sam again.

00:26:17Okay, so he was shocked by...

00:26:20Blindsided.

00:26:22So, it's pretty...

00:26:23It's pretty sad,

00:26:24um, but I respect Sam's

00:26:26decision to exit.

00:26:27Um, and we actually

00:26:28weren't even going to come

00:26:29tonight.

00:26:29Like, they...

00:26:30We...

00:26:30He left the farm

00:26:31and we were just going

00:26:32to leave it at that

00:26:32because we unpacked a lot of it.

00:26:34Um, but I've decided to

00:26:35give Sam the respect

00:26:36of coming tonight

00:26:37so we can both...

00:26:37Amazing.

00:26:38...talk to you guys about it

00:26:39and, um, let you know

00:26:40what's happened

00:26:41and then sit in front of

00:26:42the experts and get their advice.

00:26:44But, like, no ill feelings

00:26:45towards Sam.

00:26:46I respect his decision.

00:26:47But, yeah.

00:26:48She's single.

00:26:49A little huggin'.

00:26:50Oh, thank you.

00:26:52I love you.

00:26:53Yeah.

00:26:55Alyssa, how was yours?

00:27:00Uh...

00:27:01I feel like I'm still

00:27:02processing everything.

00:27:04It's crunch time, right?

00:27:05It's crunch time.

00:27:05For you guys, yeah.

00:27:09Um, but we'll talk

00:27:10about it later

00:27:11at the dinner party.

00:27:13Okay.

00:27:18Oh, hey.

00:27:19Hey!

00:27:21Phillip and Stella.

00:27:23Hi, babe.

00:27:24Hi.

00:27:25You look amazing.

00:27:26Hi.

00:27:26How's it going?

00:27:27How are you?

00:27:28How are you?

00:27:28Hey, nice, Sam.

00:27:29That was pink.

00:27:30Oh, hey.

00:27:30How are you?

00:27:31For the best part,

00:27:32we had a really good home state.

00:27:34You know, I got clarity

00:27:35so it's been decided.

00:27:37I will be making that move

00:27:39happen sooner rather than later.

00:27:40He looks tan.

00:27:41Do you know spray tan?

00:27:43Huh?

00:27:43Do you know spray tan?

00:27:44We went to the beach.

00:27:45What the hell?

00:27:46And I just thought,

00:27:46you know what,

00:27:47it's time to go for an adventure.

00:27:53Ah, he's Beck and Danny.

00:27:59Beck and Danny.

00:28:01Hello.

00:28:02How are you?

00:28:02I'm feeling phenomenal

00:28:04walking into this cocktail party tonight.

00:28:06Danny and I are in a great spot.

00:28:09We are planning our future together.

00:28:13We had great homestays

00:28:14and I've got no beef with anyone.

00:28:16Oh, my God, pigs fly.

00:28:17What the hell?

00:28:18I'm not arguing with anyone.

00:28:21Hello.

00:28:22How was homestays?

00:28:23Cheers.

00:28:24How did you go?

00:28:25How was Adelaide?

00:28:27Oh, my God.

00:28:27Yeah.

00:28:28We had a break here.

00:28:30We're just going to move.

00:28:32Like, I got back

00:28:33and I was a bit drained,

00:28:34to tell you the truth.

00:28:35It was, it's a lot.

00:28:37Like, I felt a bit uncomfortable

00:28:38in our house

00:28:39and I felt a bit out of place

00:28:40and it made me just think about, like,

00:28:42the logistics of the move more,

00:28:44like, how it's going to work.

00:28:45Like, jaw or,

00:28:47because I'm not just going to move in with that.

00:28:48Of course.

00:28:49And live, like,

00:28:49oh, put my feet up,

00:28:51this is friend free.

00:28:52Like, that doesn't sit well with me.

00:28:53So, it just solidified

00:28:55there's more things we need to talk about.

00:28:57Of course.

00:29:00So, yeah,

00:29:02we're going to do it, I think.

00:29:03Yeah, awesome.

00:29:03Crazy.

00:29:05Love it.

00:29:06I think Danny and I

00:29:07are probably the strongest

00:29:08in the experiment,

00:29:09if I'm honest with you.

00:29:11And, like,

00:29:11it feels like it can only go up from here.

00:29:18Coming up...

00:29:19I would never just move in.

00:29:22Danny's jaw-dropping confession...

00:29:24From my point of view,

00:29:25anyway, I suppose everyone looks at it different,

00:29:26but it makes you feel like a...

00:29:28has the whole table talking.

00:29:30What are you on about?

00:29:34Oh, my God.

00:29:36Oh, my God.

00:29:48Here we go.

00:29:54When did you talk to him last?

00:29:55The last time he spoke to me was...

00:29:59the Friday, after he left,

00:30:01and all he said was that he wanted to come

00:30:03to the dinner party for the ceremony.

00:30:06Yeah, I don't know what the energy's going to be like with Sam.

00:30:08I hope he comes in, like, nice.

00:30:12I just...

00:30:12Yeah, I just can't deal with any more, you know?

00:30:22Yo!

00:30:25Hello, everyone.

00:30:26Oh, here's Sam.

00:30:26Oh, here he is.

00:30:28How are you going?

00:30:29Good, how are you?

00:30:29See you, good.

00:30:30You look nice.

00:30:31Yeah, how are you?

00:30:32Not too bad.

00:30:34Hello.

00:30:36Sam?

00:30:37How are you, Matt?

00:30:38I'm hugging, like, chest height,

00:30:40but I've got a vertical problem.

00:30:43Hey, look at Schmick, brother.

00:30:45Thanks, thanks, thanks.

00:30:45You're going to get a drink?

00:30:46Come on, let's get you a drink.

00:30:46Let's get a drink.

00:30:47I hope he doesn't come at me.

00:30:49Why are you worried?

00:30:50Oh, I just...

00:30:51Don't worry.

00:30:52Yeah, I just can't deal with it, like...

00:30:55All right.

00:30:57No, you're okay.

00:30:59How are you?

00:31:00Yeah.

00:31:00Are you okay?

00:31:01Uh, I just feel a bit like there was no real effort while we're away.

00:31:06But we'll get into it at the table, yeah.

00:31:08No, no, no.

00:31:08He's given us a bit of a brief.

00:31:12What was he saying?

00:31:13Just, um, you guys, you know, went to homestays, like, he cooked dinner one night, or you guys

00:31:18had dinner together one night, and he thought the first night was going, okay?

00:31:22Um, and then obviously you guys both had a chat and decided that it was a night.

00:31:26Yeah.

00:31:28Dude, he didn't drive.

00:31:31You're eating up his bullshit.

00:31:34Don't eat up his bullshit.

00:31:39Dinner is served.

00:31:41Okay, let's go eat.

00:31:42Let's go, babes.

00:31:43You got this.

00:31:44Let's go, mate.

00:31:47All righty.

00:31:49Well, let's hope that now that dinner's about to begin, we will get to the bottom of what

00:31:54actually happened at the homestay between Sam and Chris.

00:31:56Yes.

00:31:57We need to understand what actually went on there.

00:32:00Cheers, guys.

00:32:02Cheers.

00:32:09You got the, um, you got the tits out again?

00:32:11Oh, yeah.

00:32:14Tits out for the boys.

00:32:15I love you.

00:32:16I love this for you.

00:32:18Duh.

00:32:18Yes.

00:32:19Yeah.

00:32:21That's the bottom.

00:32:22Yeah.

00:32:30Wow.

00:32:32Oh, it's very tense, isn't it? Chris, Sam.

00:32:44I really want to talk about, from our perspective,

00:32:47what led me to the decision to end things.

00:32:49Yeah.

00:32:49And how I felt the whole homestay, so...

00:32:52Yeah.

00:32:55Tonight is going to be shit.

00:33:00I...

00:33:02Sam and I have already hashed this out at the farm.

00:33:04We're revisiting it in front of the group.

00:33:06So for me, this is not comfortable.

00:33:09I'm hoping that we can get it out of the way quickly

00:33:11and I just want to get this over and done with.

00:33:16I hope Sam gets the closure that he needs

00:33:18and we can, yeah, move on.

00:33:21I feel like we both just need to say everything

00:33:23that got us to this point.

00:33:26Especially meeting the experts tomorrow,

00:33:28I want to get as much as I can out of this experience.

00:33:31Um, yeah.

00:33:32We've mentioned it at the cocktail party

00:33:33that we, you know, well,

00:33:36you decided to, um, end it.

00:33:38So, um, yeah, like, I didn't...

00:33:40You didn't really fight that at all?

00:33:42You were like...

00:33:43Also just like, okay.

00:33:44Because I...

00:33:45I hadn't given so much to try and make it work.

00:33:48I don't want to come...

00:33:52Oh, my God.

00:33:53Here we go again.

00:33:57If Chris thinks that's loads of effort,

00:34:00I feel sorry for anybody he ends up with in the future.

00:34:04Like...

00:34:04Yeah.

00:34:08Can I ask a question?

00:34:11How did Sam end the relationship

00:34:13and where and how did it happen?

00:34:14Could I tell the whole story?

00:34:15I want you guys both to say it.

00:34:18Yeah.

00:34:19Yeah.

00:34:19Yeah, so, homestays,

00:34:20obviously you all saw the last commitment ceremony.

00:34:23Um, I wrote,

00:34:24Stay and Christopher at leave.

00:34:25And that was really hard for me to battle with personally

00:34:28because I did have feelings for Chris.

00:34:30So, like, obviously now I'm very nervous going into homestays.

00:34:34And we get to the car to drive down

00:34:35and I'm, like, just sitting in the car

00:34:39and it's so uncomfortable

00:34:40and I'm, like, literally just, like, shut my eyes

00:34:42and kind of pretend that I'm sleeping.

00:34:44And then I get to the farm

00:34:46and then I do try to have fun and have a good time.

00:34:49I wake up the next morning

00:34:52and Chris is nowhere to be seen.

00:34:55No message, no note.

00:34:58I'm just there sitting for an hour in his house

00:35:01at his place with no car, just by myself.

00:35:04And then he rocks up.

00:35:05He's like,

00:35:05Oh, I just went to the gym this morning.

00:35:06It was really windy last night.

00:35:07And I'm like, okay, cool.

00:35:09And, like, this is when I'm starting to feel like,

00:35:11are you, do you really want me here?

00:35:12Do you, like, really want to show me

00:35:14how much you want this relationship to work?

00:35:19Look.

00:35:20For me, it was letting him sleep a little bit longer.

00:35:22Yes.

00:35:25We're not interrupting each other tonight, right?

00:35:29Oh, God.

00:35:30Okay.

00:35:31Can I keep going with my story then?

00:35:33Yeah.

00:35:35So then, um, we come to the fire the next night

00:35:38and this is when I'm like, this is my last plea here.

00:35:41Like, I'm going to try and see if he really wants to fight for this,

00:35:44if he really wants this relationship to work.

00:35:46And I had written down questions that were all just about what the experts said.

00:35:52Going through all these questions.

00:35:53And then he starts to get a bit shorter with them

00:35:54because he's sick of talking about it.

00:35:56And then I'm like, Chris, do you even have feelings for me?

00:36:00And he goes, oh, you know, with what's happened over the last couple of weeks,

00:36:03I feel like my feelings are pretty damaged and, like,

00:36:06I don't really know if I do anymore.

00:36:12And I'm like, well, then what am I doing here?

00:36:17Then I was just like, well, then do we just end it here?

00:36:19And you were just like, yeah, I think that's probably, like, right to do.

00:36:23And what I don't understand is where I hurt your feelings

00:36:28and where you lost your feelings for me.

00:36:33What I honestly feel like happened is that you just, like,

00:36:37did the bare minimum.

00:36:38Got me flowers so that you could come here tonight and say,

00:36:41I did this for Sam, I tried.

00:36:43But, like, I know that you were checked out of this relationship already.

00:36:46I know you didn't want to give it a go.

00:36:53If I'm honest, and I have to be honest,

00:36:57it seems like you're putting a lot on Chris.

00:36:59Yeah.

00:37:01And just because we have expectations to fill our cup fully

00:37:05doesn't mean this other person is not trying.

00:37:07Hold on, hold on, hold on a second.

00:37:10Let's not forget that, like, the week before,

00:37:14Sam was in a world of pain alone being correct.

00:37:19Yep, of course.

00:37:20But hang on a second, hang on a minute.

00:37:21Hang on a minute, hang on a minute.

00:37:22Hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

00:37:23Sorry, I've got to say something here.

00:37:26Bec needs to mind her business.

00:37:28I don't know how her homestays went, but that should be her focus.

00:37:31We're a couple of weeks out of final bowels.

00:37:33Don't worry about your man doll.

00:37:36I'm not going to let anyone sit here and say,

00:37:38your expectations are too high.

00:37:40When Sam sat there in tears, by himself,

00:37:44not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week,

00:37:46because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.

00:37:52Like, let's all just take a step back here.

00:37:53But babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.

00:37:58You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey,

00:38:01so just pipe it down a little bit.

00:38:10How is it?

00:38:11Sam sat there in tears, by himself,

00:38:15not knowing which way was up and which way was down for a whole week,

00:38:18because the person that he has these feelings for was quite aggressive to him.

00:38:23Like, let's all just take a step back.

00:38:24Babe, you've been aggressive too at the dinner parties.

00:38:29You're in no position to be giving someone feedback about their behaviour, honey,

00:38:32so just pipe it down a little bit.

00:38:36But I've never been aggressive to you.

00:38:39Can I speak now?

00:38:40First of all...

00:38:42Like, hand on heart, I tried my hardest to turn it around.

00:38:47I got the feedback from the experts, I took it on board,

00:38:50I took accountability,

00:38:51I realised that I wanted to grow and learn as a person,

00:38:54and I wanted to come out the other end,

00:38:56and I'm sorry, but I was doing that.

00:38:58And I thought we had a good day.

00:38:59And, like, you pulled the notepad out

00:39:01and then asked me the questions.

00:39:03And I just, for me, I felt like, you know,

00:39:06like, can we just live in the moment?

00:39:07Can we just have a bit of fun?

00:39:09And try...

00:39:09But do you understand with the questions,

00:39:10there are things that were burning inside, Sam,

00:39:13that he needs answers to?

00:39:14Of course, yeah, yeah, of course.

00:39:14Yeah, cool, I'll keep talking, babes.

00:39:18So I felt uncomfortable, but I stayed calm

00:39:21and I answered the questions as best as I could.

00:39:24But you ended it with me.

00:39:26You said, like...

00:39:27Yeah, I know.

00:39:27Yeah.

00:39:28Can I just say something?

00:39:29The reason I ended it is because I asked Chris,

00:39:33do you still have feelings for me?

00:39:36If you were trying so hard

00:39:38and you thought that everything was what you're saying,

00:39:41then at that point you should have said,

00:39:43Sam, yes, I have feelings for you.

00:39:48Can I ask a question?

00:39:50Do you feel like when Chris said leave

00:39:53the other week at the last commitment, sir,

00:39:55I know it really hurt you.

00:39:56Like, you were really upset.

00:39:57We could see that.

00:39:58Do you think that that really hurt you to a point where,

00:40:02had you already made up your mind?

00:40:04I hadn't made my mind.

00:40:05That just hurt me to the point where,

00:40:06this is why I think I needed so much from Chris,

00:40:09because I was really hurt that he said he wanted to leave,

00:40:11that he had already given up.

00:40:12So I'm like, I need to see from you

00:40:14that you haven't given up completely.

00:40:15And I get maybe for you what you did was enough,

00:40:18but for me it wasn't.

00:40:19And then I decided that based on the fact

00:40:21that what you did wasn't enough for my expectations,

00:40:23the call happened.

00:40:24I ended things because I wasn't getting

00:40:26what I wanted from Chris.

00:40:27And if that's not what he can give,

00:40:28because he's got kids and he's got fun,

00:40:30he's got everything else.

00:40:31Then you're not ultimately a good man.

00:40:39It's really upsetting that it hasn't worked out.

00:40:54I don't want it to be yucky either.

00:41:04It's not yucky though, is it?

00:41:06It's not yucky.

00:41:07Don't mistake passion for anger.

00:41:09I think you're both passionate.

00:41:10It's not yucky in my opinion.

00:41:11You're both just ironing an aisle.

00:41:14We do love you both.

00:41:16We love you a lot.

00:41:17Yeah.

00:41:18100%.

00:41:18Kings.

00:41:19I think it's really sad,

00:41:21what's happened with Sam and Chris.

00:41:22I love them as people and I love them together.

00:41:25And I'm getting this feeling of like,

00:41:27Chris did try.

00:41:29The way he knew how.

00:41:31And it wasn't enough for Sam.

00:41:33It's,

00:41:34it's,

00:41:34it's a hard one.

00:41:44So Bec and Danny,

00:41:46how about you guys?

00:41:48You're next.

00:41:49How was your homestays?

00:41:50We had such a good homestays.

00:41:52Yeah.

00:41:53Didn't we?

00:41:55If my family felt the need to have hard conversations with you,

00:42:00they would.

00:42:01I think obviously cause Danielle fancy me.

00:42:06I'm joking.

00:42:07You should be able to say something nice and be genuine about it

00:42:10and then not say,

00:42:11oh your cousin wants to me.

00:42:12I never said that.

00:42:13There's a camera in my face and you're abusing me over a joke.

00:42:16Dude,

00:42:17there's a camera in my face and you're making a joke of what I'm saying.

00:42:19Yeah,

00:42:20I'm done.

00:42:23Well,

00:42:24we had like a,

00:42:26like two perfect things.

00:42:28And then like the top,

00:42:29we had a little argument at the end.

00:42:33We had a tiny little ding dong at the end.

00:42:37It lasted about 15 minutes.

00:42:40I think like,

00:42:41for me,

00:42:41I don't know for anyone else who experienced like going into your partner's home.

00:42:47In that moment,

00:42:48I felt like a bit out of place in the house.

00:42:50Like,

00:42:50up until that point,

00:42:51I felt so comfortable,

00:42:53like,

00:42:54so welcome.

00:42:55Not that I was ever,

00:42:56like,

00:42:57unwelcome.

00:42:57But in that moment,

00:42:59arguing like...

00:43:00Hardly an argument,

00:43:01a ding dong.

00:43:01But yeah.

00:43:02Yeah.

00:43:03Or whatever you want to call it.

00:43:06Whilst Danny did call it an argument,

00:43:08Bec called it a ding dong.

00:43:10So she's wanting to really contain it.

00:43:11Yes.

00:43:12When we had the disagreement at the house,

00:43:14I felt really uncomfortable because it's not my space,

00:43:16it's your space.

00:43:17Yeah.

00:43:18Do you know what I mean?

00:43:18I don't know if anyone else can...

00:43:19100%.

00:43:20Yeah.

00:43:21So that was sort of something that stuck with me in the sense of like,

00:43:25moving forward.

00:43:26It made me look at things in a different way in the sense that

00:43:31I'd probably want to...

00:43:32I don't know how I'd want to navigate

00:43:36if I was to move to Adelaide,

00:43:38how the logistics of it would look as a man.

00:43:43Oh, that's a man.

00:43:47I feel like...

00:43:49Do you know what you mean?

00:43:49Like it's more Bec's house than it is my house.

00:43:51Like moving into her house.

00:43:52Yeah, correct.

00:43:53Like, I'd want to sit down and speak to Bec

00:43:55on a deeper level about that.

00:43:59Because like,

00:44:00I feel like if you move in with a woman,

00:44:03and like...

00:44:03I would never just move in...

00:44:07Like, we'd have to talk about that on a deeper level

00:44:09in the sense that like...

00:44:12I'm not moving out of my house.

00:44:16No, I'm not asking you to, but what I'm saying is like...

00:44:19It's how he fits into it, babe.

00:44:21Like, yeah, how I fit into it.

00:44:23That's more what I'm saying.

00:44:25And to you right now, you're probably like,

00:44:27that's easy.

00:44:28I know, like...

00:44:29It's just...

00:44:30But like, I get from Danny's perspective, he's like,

00:44:32I move in, so like, he's got to get his stuff out.

00:44:34Where does he put his stuff?

00:44:36And like...

00:44:36And we would make space 100% for that.

00:44:39But from my point of view, anyway,

00:44:40I suppose everyone looks at it different,

00:44:41but it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch

00:44:43moving in with a woman.

00:44:46What are you on about?

00:45:13Oh, no, that's not what I was getting at.

00:45:16Oh, God.

00:45:16Oh, my God.

00:45:18He's talking about feeling emasculated if she was the one who owned the house.

00:45:23And let's not use the term bitch in that way either, Danny.

00:45:27Not cool.

00:45:27We're on 800 square metres, five minutes from the city,

00:45:31with a $97,000 mortgage and a $3 million house.

00:45:36F*** me.

00:45:40Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.

00:45:42Like, firstly, you've never said that to me.

00:45:47Women have worked really, really hard to make sure

00:45:50that we've got this multi-million dollar home

00:45:52in the most affluent suburb of South Australia.

00:45:56So, yeah, you're not going to be a bitch moving into my house.

00:45:59That was not what I was getting at.

00:46:02Are we f***ing serious for this?

00:46:04We're in the 2020s.

00:46:08Emasculated by moving into a home with your woman.

00:46:14Let's grow up.

00:46:16You like to be a provider.

00:46:17Correct, correct, yeah.

00:46:18I'll be honest, I couldn't go to hers.

00:46:20I'm going to buy the house.

00:46:21I'm going to pay for everything.

00:46:22Like, that's just a manly thing, right?

00:46:25Dan's a bit like me.

00:46:26He likes to feel like the man, the boss,

00:46:29the alpha male.

00:46:30So, I understand where Danny's coming from.

00:46:31He just wants to feel more masculated in the relationship.

00:46:35We're more traditional in that way too.

00:46:37No, but, like, I get it.

00:46:38Like, I have a...

00:46:39My house is bigger than yours, but it's like...

00:46:41Yeah, like...

00:46:42It's a different vibe.

00:46:43I do agree with Danny.

00:46:45I think for a man to feel masculine

00:46:48and his masculine energy,

00:46:49they want to have the house and the woman move into it.

00:46:52I know that's not, like, the norm these days,

00:46:54but, like, I like that,

00:46:55and that's what me and Scott are doing.

00:46:57So, I do agree with Danny.

00:46:59I think he wants to feel like the man

00:47:02and he has every right to feel like that.

00:47:03I feel like it's emasculating.

00:47:05Like, I get what you're saying.

00:47:06Correct, yeah, yeah.

00:47:06You want your place to be, like,

00:47:08here, babe, like, come to me.

00:47:09Like, I'm the man.

00:47:11Like, I think that's, like, where you're coming from.

00:47:13Yeah, that's what I'm saying.

00:47:16I felt uncomfortable when we argued

00:47:17and it sort of...

00:47:18It made me feel demasculated to, like, be in her house.

00:47:21Yeah, like a bit of a bitch.

00:47:23I've had that discussion with Bec two or three times.

00:47:26I'm not a hit 1990 song on R&B radio

00:47:30that keeps repeating itself.

00:47:31Do you know what you mean?

00:47:32I didn't feel uneasy until we had the disagreement,

00:47:35but then I was just like,

00:47:36do you know what you mean?

00:47:37No, I don't know what you mean, Danny.

00:47:39I do wonder if Danny's showing a little insecurity there.

00:47:43You know, I think some men would not see a barrier

00:47:47to moving into a house owned by the woman.

00:47:49It's totally...

00:47:49It wouldn't feel emasculating.

00:47:51He's really dropped the ball here.

00:47:53And I'm old school too.

00:47:55I'm exactly the same.

00:47:56I can proudly say it as well,

00:47:57that if me and Rachel do something,

00:48:00I would feel more comfortable

00:48:01if Rachel moved into my place,

00:48:04feel like a provider.

00:48:05Well, I don't think that's very fair

00:48:07because at the end of the day,

00:48:08the difference is that I've got a massive house

00:48:11with a lot of space five minutes out of the city

00:48:13with a mortgage of 97 grand.

00:48:15I feel like you're a team.

00:48:16I feel like you're a team.

00:48:17A hundred percent.

00:48:19I was brought up on those values.

00:48:20That's just the way I think.

00:48:21If I moved to Adelaide,

00:48:22I'd be gambling.

00:48:23Yeah.

00:48:25I think that's why I certainly like, I guess...

00:48:27Really?

00:48:28I wouldn't, yeah.

00:48:30But I wouldn't like,

00:48:31you would get away together.

00:48:32Do you know what I mean?

00:48:32I know we work together,

00:48:33but as a man, it's just what we don't do.

00:48:36As a man, maybe I'm old school like that,

00:48:39but I believe like the man should be the man of the house

00:48:41and take care of the big bills.

00:48:44It's nice to have your own thing,

00:48:45but ultimately you work together, right?

00:48:47Exactly, yeah.

00:48:48Ultimately you work together.

00:48:49It's about how can we work together?

00:48:51How can we make this work?

00:48:52What are your needs?

00:48:53You know, vice versa.

00:48:55It doesn't have to be a demasculating thing.

00:48:57It just has to be teamwork.

00:48:59That's true to that.

00:49:00No, you're a team.

00:49:02For some reason, it's just a mental thing.

00:49:05It just works like that.

00:49:08Females feel more secure when it is like that.

00:49:11It's just how it is.

00:49:12Unfortunately, it's a double set.

00:49:13It's just how it is.

00:49:14Gays don't have that problem.

00:49:16Yeah.

00:49:18I understand where Danny's coming from.

00:49:20Don't agree with it,

00:49:21but I understand where Danny's coming from.

00:49:25Beck and Danny's homestay,

00:49:26I don't think was as great as they made it out to be.

00:49:30There's something not right there.

00:49:32This is a serious conversation you guys want to talk to.

00:49:35Yeah, I know.

00:49:36For a dinner party.

00:49:39Don't like shut up.

00:49:40Great.

00:49:41Excellent.

00:49:42So glad we're talking about it with everyone.

00:49:46Oh, goodness.

00:49:48No, I said it to you already.

00:49:50Not to that level, babes.

00:49:51I have.

00:49:51100%.

00:49:52You haven't?

00:49:53No.

00:50:02Still to come.

00:50:04I did spiral a little bit.

00:50:06Dave, what's going through your head, bro?

00:50:08David finally finds his voice.

00:50:11I've hit my wall.

00:50:12I've been calm throughout this whole thing,

00:50:14but I'm at my limit.

00:50:16This is really a relationship in peril.

00:50:19Yeah.

00:50:20Before Beck confronts Danny.

00:50:23I would have appreciated it,

00:50:24having been that open.

00:50:26It's in a lot of relations.

00:50:28It's just more...

00:50:29I'm not taking it out of an experiment now.

00:50:31Before hindsight.

00:50:40How about you?

00:50:41Alyssa.

00:50:43How was yours?

00:50:47Um...

00:50:47Do you know what?

00:50:49Alyssa and David really have not spoken about themselves at all.

00:50:53No.

00:50:53That is not usual for them.

00:50:55David looks quite uncomfortable, actually.

00:50:57Yeah.

00:51:00I feel like we had highs and lows.

00:51:04I did spiral a little bit.

00:51:06Like, I did get in my head.

00:51:08Because, you know, as soon as we touched down in Adelaide,

00:51:11I felt like this weight...

00:51:16I felt like, oh my goodness, I...

00:51:18You know, I said I was going to move to Sydney

00:51:20and, like, we're going to make this thing work in Sydney

00:51:22and we'll meet halfway.

00:51:23But I have a lot of responsibilities in Adelaide.

00:51:27I have contracts in place.

00:51:28I have my business.

00:51:29I have a house.

00:51:30I have a cat.

00:51:32But I'm almost 34.

00:51:33And in the next few years, I want to start a family.

00:51:35So I kind of put pressure on myself

00:51:38and that's where I started to spiral on homestays

00:51:40because I was like, shit, this is not going to work.

00:51:44Like, I don't think I'm going to be able to stretch myself

00:51:46out of Adelaide, like, in the next three months.

00:51:49It might look like six to 12 months

00:51:51if we're going to make this work in the real world.

00:51:58Beforehand you were saying

00:51:59potentially you'd give it three months to move to Sydney.

00:52:02Is it the move to Adelaide now?

00:52:04Well, that's what it would probably be.

00:52:09It would be Adelaide, yeah.

00:52:11Oh.

00:52:12We haven't heard that from her before.

00:52:15A lot came out of homestays,

00:52:16but it's just like how do we move, like, forward?

00:52:19But I feel like the way that we process things

00:52:22are very different.

00:52:23And I'm wondering why am I spiralling?

00:52:25You know, we're all under pressure,

00:52:26but some people also deal with pressure differently.

00:52:29When I need to just process,

00:52:30my mind's going bing, bing, bing, bing.

00:52:33I retract.

00:52:35Things have kind of turned on its head a little bit.

00:52:38Alyssa's now saying I can't move.

00:52:41David's going, look, I'm willing to sacrifice everything

00:52:43and move down to Adelaide to give this relationship the best chance.

00:52:47But her retracting and pulling away from Dave,

00:52:50freaking Dave out.

00:52:51You know, I sort of felt for Dave a little bit.

00:52:53Like, if anything, all the risk is on David.

00:52:56And there was one other thing.

00:52:59I know that I can be a bit full on.

00:53:02And, like, he does ground me,

00:53:05but maybe I'm finding a little bit sometimes too much

00:53:08where I feel like I'm not myself.

00:53:10Like, it's really shifting my energy

00:53:14and that's not something I'm used to.

00:53:16My husband also snores,

00:53:18so I've had, like, lack of sleep the last three months.

00:53:20Like, it's just, it's a compiling thing.

00:53:25I feel like right now Alyssa is trying to look for

00:53:28any little thing she can pull from the sky

00:53:33to question things in the relationship.

00:53:35And that is pushing me away.

00:53:37She says she doesn't want to push me away,

00:53:39but her throwing all these doubts,

00:53:41there's only so much I can take

00:53:43before I start feeling like an idiot, you know?

00:53:47I think I was fine with just continuing

00:53:50to be that emotional shoulder to lean on until home stays.

00:53:56We've been on this experiment for two months,

00:53:58and it's been long enough for her to, like,

00:54:01be a bit more certain.

00:54:03You know, if this ultimately isn't going to work,

00:54:05I'm not going to force anything.

00:54:07Like, it's up to her to come from her head into her heart

00:54:10for this to work long-term.

00:54:14Dave, what's going through your head, bro?

00:54:22I've hit my wall.

00:54:23I've been calm throughout this whole thing,

00:54:25but I'm at my limit.

00:54:28You know, and I sort of need that mental space as well,

00:54:31just as much as she probably needs it

00:54:32from coming back from home stays.

00:54:35And it's something we both need.

00:54:37But it's at the point, emotionally,

00:54:38I don't have much to give.

00:54:40I'm invested in this relationship.

00:54:42I am prepared to move for this relationship.

00:54:44But for me, I bonded with her mom and her two best friends.

00:54:48And I've got her mom saying,

00:54:49this is all good for you.

00:54:50Her friend saying, this is good for you.

00:54:51I really love David a lot.

00:54:54So I'm just like,

00:54:56what other green checks do you need ticked off?

00:54:59Like, you know?

00:55:04Well, this is David being really raw, isn't it?

00:55:07I mean, he's saying that he's exhausted

00:55:09and also he's hit his limit.

00:55:12And I know that they talk about it

00:55:15in relation to the experiment,

00:55:17but actually, you know,

00:55:19the experiment for some people,

00:55:20it brings them closer right now.

00:55:22And I get some real worries

00:55:24that he's started to step back.

00:55:27We got cracks, man.

00:55:28We've got cracks like everyone.

00:55:30We got cracks.

00:55:30But that's something that, you know,

00:55:32we will talk to the experts about.

00:55:35We actually haven't seen them

00:55:36in this state before, have we?

00:55:38No.

00:55:39I'd say absolutely more questions

00:55:41than answers we got tonight.

00:55:43So that's where we gotta go tomorrow night.

00:55:46We are gonna need to ask about the homestays

00:55:50and particularly where they see themselves

00:55:52in the future.

00:55:54This is really a relationship in peril.

00:55:57Yeah.

00:56:02It sounds like you've been approached

00:56:03by some producers to do another show.

00:56:05Is that right?

00:56:06Other producers from Aussie Shore

00:56:09reach out and see what I do this season three with them.

00:56:11Gotcha.

00:56:12All right.

00:56:12I had one of the female cast members

00:56:15slide into my DMs like four or five days ago

00:56:17and I think it's come from there.

00:56:19Yeah.

00:56:20Is that something you want me to go and do or?

00:56:22My job is not to advise you on what to do

00:56:24or what not to do.

00:56:25We're documenting your life on Flex

00:56:27if this is where your life goes, you know.

00:56:30Mate, it's entirely up to you.

00:56:31If you decide that you want to pursue it further,

00:56:33I can talk to them and see whether we can capture

00:56:36some of the journey, you know.

00:56:40Gosh.

00:56:41Mate, I've already,

00:56:42so obviously I've blocked my parents in now on social media

00:56:44so they didn't see my escorting videos

00:56:48and then it took two days and they've seen them

00:56:50because a friend had gone and seen them

00:56:52and been like, have you seen what Marcus is doing in Australia?

00:56:54And they obviously had no idea.

00:56:55So I'm just dealing with that at the moment.

00:56:57And I think to drop the bombshell that yes, I'm an escort

00:56:59and I'm also going to go on Aussie Shore.

00:57:07It's a big wake, Marcus.

00:57:09I've had a busy three days this week, mate.

00:57:11Yeah.

00:57:11I don't know if it's going downhill or uphill.

00:57:13I can't quite decide.

00:57:30How are your homesteads, guys?

00:57:32I went out on his Harley.

00:57:34Like, I grew up there, so I'm like,

00:57:36I went to school there, I had my first kiss there,

00:57:38I did this there, and it's like,

00:57:39it's not like a foreign place for me.

00:57:41Yeah.

00:57:41It's just easy the fact that she's lived there before.

00:57:43So that was pretty big for us to have.

00:57:45That's amazing.

00:57:45Yeah, it was really good.

00:57:47The taste of the outside world, you know what I mean?

00:57:49Like...

00:57:50We know.

00:57:50Yeah.

00:57:51So what's your plan, guys, after the experiment?

00:57:55I do like Cronulla.

00:57:57Yeah.

00:57:57That's good.

00:57:58I could see myself there.

00:57:59That was very important.

00:58:00That's the whole point of it.

00:58:01The home visit, it's like, can I see myself there?

00:58:04Yes, I can.

00:58:05Let's just do it.

00:58:06Just give it a go, yeah.

00:58:07Just give it a go.

00:58:08Like, and that was a realisation I had.

00:58:10And you have a plan moving forward.

00:58:12Yeah.

00:58:13You guys are great.

00:58:14Yeah.

00:58:16Rachel and Stephen, homestays.

00:58:18Hey, guys.

00:58:19Who's talking?

00:58:20I didn't know you missed.

00:58:21You can talk.

00:58:22Captain Steve-o.

00:58:23Captain Steve-o.

00:58:24Rachel go first, and I'll...

00:58:25No, can Steve-o go first, please?

00:58:26I agree.

00:58:27I think Steve-o can go first.

00:58:29I'll go first.

00:58:29It's okay.

00:58:30I always talk.

00:58:31Can you hear me down there?

00:58:33Yeah.

00:58:33Yeah, boys.

00:58:34Loud and clear.

00:58:35All right.

00:58:35So, look, I'm happy to say that Rachel and my family did get along.

00:58:40Everyone loves each other.

00:58:41A lot of the drinks were flowing.

00:58:42Everything was fantastic.

00:58:44And, yeah, we had a really good time and took Rachel out on the boat and she got to experience

00:58:50a little, you know, a little snapshot of what my life is about and what I'm passionate about.

00:58:56So, I took her out fishing and I can definitely say very impressed with Rachel.

00:59:01She full on...

00:59:01She's a country girl.

00:59:02Full on leaned in.

00:59:04She's a catch.

00:59:05I am the catch of the day.

00:59:07She is a catch.

00:59:07That's right.

00:59:08The catch of the day, right.

00:59:09Amen.

00:59:10And, look, I was very impressed with her fishing skills.

00:59:13She kissed a couple fish.

00:59:15I did.

00:59:16But I'm looking at this woman going, look, it's not just that she's leaning into fishing.

00:59:20It's more the fact that I'm seeing a woman there that is having a crack and I can see

00:59:25that outside fishing, Rachel will have my back in things.

00:59:35I can see we can do life together, but I feel a lot more confident now that the foundation

00:59:39has been laid on my side anyway, with Rachel, that we can take this out onto the outside

00:59:48and have somewhere to start because it's been done and dusted.

00:59:52I'm still going to meet her side, but I feel more confident on my side that Rachel and

00:59:56my family and my lifestyle will match now.

00:59:58So, we had a good time.

01:00:00Woo!

01:00:05Who would've thought?

01:00:08Who would've thought?

01:00:10Hearing Steven talk about our home stay and, like, the beautiful things he was saying,

01:00:15yeah.

01:00:16You sound emotional.

01:00:18I am emotional. I'm so emotional about it because

01:00:23I've got this guy that I truly truly care about

01:00:27and I'm developing such strong feelings for and

01:00:31Every time he talks about us with the group and everything. It's beautiful. It's just so nice and

01:00:39What one amazing journey and opportunity we've had and

01:00:44The fact that we get to be with each other is just even better

01:00:50Some guys are gonna buy girls flowers. My guy bought me a fishing rod

01:00:54I was happy your girl's got her first fishing rod

01:01:01Rachel looks so happy

01:01:04Look at Steven. Yeah, we've never seen him smile like this. We've never seen him as relaxed

01:01:10And as confident as he has been tonight. That was a whole bodied smile. He's really

01:01:17Transformed but watching him now is just such a joy and he's so comfortable in her space

01:01:22Look, we went through hard times at the start of our relationship

01:01:26You all saw it and you know what we we've just saw it and you know

01:01:32We're now hitting weeks where it should test us and instead of strengthening us and it's really nice

01:01:38I love it

01:01:54At the dinner table tonight Danny we said that he

01:02:02He

01:02:02Would feel like a bitch moving into a girl's house

01:02:07I hadn't heard that yet

01:02:10And like I would hope that my husband knows that he can talk to me like we talk about everything

01:02:16so

01:02:19Yeah, I

01:02:20Feel blindsided by him

01:02:24I feel completely utterly betrayed by my husband

01:02:31They got dragged back into the drama and we've got them mass royalty

01:02:40Jamie and Dominica the spiciest sofa showdown plus the footage

01:02:47You won't believe after the dinner party tonight

01:02:57If I was to move to Adelaide as a man it makes you feel like a bit of a bitch

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