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00:00How many blows of the hammer does it take to break that massive rock?
00:06That society is my truth. I love that.
00:08That society is not your truth. This life is your truth.
00:10I'm living here now. I have to go back to that society.
00:13No, no, no. You go back out of your own volition. Why do you choose to go back?
00:17So because I love them.
00:19No, no, no. You must love your life first.
00:21I do love that my life.
00:22No, you can't have both of them parallelly.
00:24But that's my truth.
00:25No, that's not your truth. That's your conditioning. That's your past. That's your bondage. That's your chain.
00:29I am, like, free of all that. But where I live...
00:32If you are free of all that, this question wouldn't have arisen.
00:34Why are you continuously so, so sensitive to the whole society?
00:41The entire world is open to you.
00:45But sir, the people who are at top, they won't understand. They won't understand logic.
00:49Share my videos more often.
00:53So, but they are very rigid.
00:54Are you living among 800 billion people? Then you stand by them, you go back.
00:58What can I do?
00:59Freedom!
01:08First of all, I want to thank you. You are one of the reasons I am studying here.
01:12So, sir, like, there is a certain age before this, especially for women, even boys have faced it, but especially
01:17for women.
01:18Before that age, all our achievements are considered good.
01:22But after some age, our main achievement is marriage.
01:26It's considered as like, like, I come from a society, or even every society, like, here, there is different, like,
01:32I am, this is the same thing, achievements, academic achievements are main.
01:37But when I go back to that society, which is my truth, which society I love, now that society ascribes
01:43a woman's achievement to marriage.
01:45If a woman, like, if a woman is doing job, she is not married, and she does not have a
01:51child, she is considered worthless.
01:52Yes. And someone who has...
01:54How many lives do you have? We are talking of rebirth here so many times. How many lives do you
01:59have?
01:59Like, for me, the one life. Yes, sir.
02:02What do you want to care for? That aggressive society or your life?
02:06Sir, but that society is my truth. I love that.
02:07That society is not your truth. This life is your truth. And if that society is your truth, I must
02:12be false.
02:14Sir, but I have to live in that society. I am living here now. I have to go back to
02:18that society.
02:18No, no, no. You go back out of your own volition. Why do you choose to go back?
02:22Sir, because I love them.
02:24No, no, no. You must love your life first.
02:26I do love that my life.
02:27You can't have both of them parallelly.
02:29But that's my truth.
02:30No, that's not your truth. That's your conditioning. That's your past. That's your bondage. That's your chain.
02:34I am, like, free of all that. But where I live...
02:37If you are free of all that, this question wouldn't have arisen.
02:39No, sir. I am free of all that. But I am living in that...
02:42You are not living in that society. You are choosing to go back to it.
02:47I have to go back to it.
02:48No, you don't have to.
02:49Sir, where will I go then?
02:51The entire world is open to you.
02:53Who will I call my family?
02:54Your entire world is open to you.
02:56She is your family. He is your family.
02:58I am your family.
03:00What else did they mean when they said...
03:01No one will take my responsibility.
03:02Why should somebody take your responsibility?
03:04No, not responsibility.
03:05No one will love me that way that my family does.
03:07Because they have given me responsibility.
03:09You really think those who want to put you in ancient chains, they love you?
03:15Is that your definition of love?
03:17They have stood by me.
03:18Have they stood by you?
03:19If you are complaining against them, that right now they don't count any of your achievements,
03:24your intellect, your consciousness, all that they care for is your womb, your birth,
03:28your pregnancy, your sexuality.
03:30This is all that they care for.
03:31Do they really love you?
03:32No, but like most of the women.
03:34Why don't you just admit?
03:35No, no. Forget most of the women.
03:36First of all, admit that there is no love.
03:39Sir, I cannot say there is no love.
03:42No, you cannot say this.
03:42Then you stand by them.
03:43Then you go back.
03:44What can I do?
03:45But like if we see in a practical way.
03:48No, ma'am, it cannot happen this way.
03:50Okay, if I go to some other society also, same thing will happen.
03:52No, no, not same thing will happen.
03:53Because this country has this.
03:54No, no, no, no, that's a lame excuse.
03:57Sir, only if I stay here.
03:58If all societies are the same, then this society must be the same as that.
04:02But you said that this is not the same as that.
04:03Which means societies do differ.
04:05Yes, but till where, till how much can I live here?
04:08So go back to a society even better.
04:10From ISC, gates to the entire world open.
04:13But when I have my vacation, I will want to go back to my family.
04:17When you have your vacations, there is this entire planet and various cultures to go and
04:22know and experience and learn from.
04:24Yes.
04:25Why do you think that in your vacations, you must go back to some dirty old village and
04:29participate in some dirty old ritual?
04:33Why must that happen?
04:34I'm asking very bluntly because my time is limited.
04:36Yes, sir.
04:40No, seriously.
04:41Yes, sir.
04:43Sir, one more question to this.
04:45Like even women, they have biological clock.
04:48Men don't have it.
04:49So we are all, like, is this the nature way of telling that we are inferior?
04:52Because we have to make that choice between career and between marriage.
04:56No, no, no, no, no, no, euphemisms, please.
04:57What do you mean by the biological clock?
04:59Biological clock is you cannot have a child.
05:02So have a child, what's the problem with that?
05:04Sir, but boys can do anything.
05:06They can have a career.
05:07After that, why, like, why for us?
05:10Why for us this limitation?
05:12Don't have a child.
05:14No, sir.
05:15Like, then that's a choice now.
05:17I want to have a career.
05:18I can't have this.
05:19Boys can have both things.
05:20No offense to any boy.
05:22Sorry.
05:23But just about nature.
05:25This is your life?
05:26Yes, sir.
05:27This is your life?
05:27Yes, sir.
05:28Right?
05:28Yes, sir.
05:28And you have one life.
05:29Yes, sir.
05:30Right?
05:30Yes, sir.
05:31And you want to have a career?
05:33Yes, sir.
05:33Right?
05:34Yes, sir.
05:34You are saying you also must have a baby.
05:37Do these things come from the same center?
05:40No, sir.
05:41Wait, wait, wait.
05:42Please understand what I'm saying.
05:43Yes, sir.
05:43Because I know what you are saying.
05:44What you are saying is said by millions of girls.
05:46Yes, sir.
05:47But what I'm saying might be a little different.
05:49Sir, like, I'm okay.
05:51But there might be a girl who wants to have a child.
05:54Who wants to have a career.
05:55Why does...
05:55Wait, wait, wait.
05:56Please understand.
05:57If she knows, if I know I'm in a jail.
06:00Yes.
06:01If I know I'm in a jail.
06:02Yes, sir.
06:02Will I reproduce?
06:04Am I an animal?
06:06No, sir.
06:06Who am I?
06:07Human being.
06:08Right?
06:08I'm not a pig.
06:09Yes, sir.
06:10Even if I'm in a gutter, I would still breed.
06:12Yes, sir.
06:14Do you get what I'm saying?
06:15Yes, sir.
06:16Freedom.
06:17Yeah, but okay.
06:19Like, the thing is.
06:21Boys have the freedom to come out of their jail and have that choice.
06:26Girls do not have it.
06:27So come out of their jail, right?
06:28So that will take time.
06:30Let that take time.
06:31So then, like that, the biological...
06:33You have a lot of time.
06:35How old are you?
06:36Sir, but doctors don't say that, right?
06:39A man can have his career till 40.
06:41The same biological impulse that makes you care so much for a baby lies at the root of all primitive
06:52bondages that come to a woman and also to a man.
06:56Please understand.
06:57There are certain chemicals that make you want to have a baby.
07:02There are certain chemicals that make a man lust after a woman.
07:07There are certain chemicals that make you be territorial and say, this piece of land is mine and I'll kill
07:14the neighbor.
07:14There are certain chemicals that make you value, taste more than nutrition.
07:21All that is physical.
07:23And why do you want to fall prey to it?
07:25Who told you that, you know, please think of it.
07:28Please think of it neutrally.
07:31A baby pops out of your body.
07:33What's so great about it?
07:35Sir, it's not about that.
07:37It's about the...
07:38Like, we are limited to make that choice.
07:40Baba, option must have some value.
07:43We should have the option.
07:44Like, for both.
07:44Option is there.
07:45But if an option is valueless, would you still choose it?
07:48Like, I have the option and I'm happy.
07:49So, we are evaluating the options.
07:50Yes, the option is there.
07:51Yes.
07:52The option is there.
07:52Yes, the option that there is this baby coming from your womb is there.
07:56Why do you want it?
07:58Sir, I...
07:59Like, many people want it.
08:01I mean, in general.
08:01You are not many people.
08:02Why do you want it?
08:05Sir, I am not saying...
08:06I am just saying that that option is not there.
08:09That option is there.
08:10I want the option.
08:11One can get pregnant right now.
08:12That option is there.
08:13No, no.
08:14I want my career first.
08:16Oh, Baba.
08:16So, we are not...
08:17Now, we are talking about the option.
08:18We are talking about the choice or not.
08:19The option is there.
08:20This is also there.
08:21This is also there.
08:21This is also there.
08:22So, in the choice...
08:27Should I value this physical thing more than this interaction?
08:31Yes, sir.
08:32Something is popping out of my body also.
08:41Should I...
08:42Then why must a woman...
08:44Don't you see it's centuries of conditioning?
08:47Centuries of conditioning making you feel as if the entire purpose of your life is contained in the womb.
08:55It's not.
08:56I am not...
08:57See, I am not insulting, humiliating women who choose to have kids.
09:05Yes, sir.
09:05I am just asking them.
09:07I am inviting them to inquire where the impulse to have a baby comes from.
09:13And if you don't have freedom in your life, what will you do with that baby?
09:19I am just saying, at my age, a boy has a choice.
09:23I don't have it.
09:24Why is there a distinguishing between us?
09:28Let the boy ask his own question, sing his own song.
09:31We throw him away right now.
09:33Right?
09:33We are talking about our life.
09:36Right?
09:36Yes, sir.
09:37I, to me, exist as an individual.
09:40Yes, sir.
09:40I am 10 years old and I have a life to live.
09:44The question is, to what extent can I allow social conditioning in the form of the society I come from
09:51and physical conditioning in the form of the female body that I hold,
09:56to what extent can I allow these to dominate me?
09:59That's the question.
10:01I'm asking you again.
10:03If you were imprisoned, let's say with a few male prisoners, would you think of breeding?
10:10You're still imprisoned.
10:12Why don't you see that?
10:14Break out first.
10:17Sir, I have broken out.
10:19But I'm just asking, why nature has done this thing?
10:23Nature has not done anything.
10:24Is there any logic?
10:25Nature has not done anything.
10:28We are different.
10:29Huh?
10:29We are different, right?
10:31Who is different?
10:32I'm different from a boy.
10:33No, you're not different.
10:34You have a different body.
10:36You're not different.
10:37I am conscious, so are you.
10:38You're not different.
10:39And, mind you, if you declare yourself different, difference will very soon turn into hierarchy.
10:46If you will say, you are different, then the difference would also mean domination.
10:52Man, woman, because they are different.
10:55So this is up, this is down.
10:56And that is what has resulted in centuries of exploitation.
10:59So don't say you are different.
11:01Yes, you have a particular kind of body having a particular kind of chemicals.
11:04That is fine.
11:05But you are as conscious as any of these present here.
11:09That's your primary identity.
11:12And embrace that.
11:13Otherwise, if you are different, then there should be different courses for women at ISC.
11:20There should be different departments.
11:22Even the mic should be pink.
11:26You're different.
11:27Yes, sir.
11:28Black is like these guys.
11:30These guys.
11:31Right?
11:31You're different.
11:32So pink mic.
11:33Two mics.
11:33Why not?
11:34It used to happen, actually.
11:36They used to go back to the same old society.
11:40And they will say, Mardana Janana.
11:42And all the women will sit this side.
11:44Because they are different.
11:48Don't say that.
11:49That's a very dangerous thing to say.
11:50We are different.
11:51We are women.
11:52We are different.
11:53Don't do it.
11:54That's exactly what patriarchy wants to hear.
11:56That you are different.
11:59And that's the same argument that they will throw at you.
12:03Don't do it like your brothers.
12:04You are different.
12:06You are a girl.
12:07So behave differently.
12:08Live differently.
12:09Choose differently.
12:10And that difference is hierarchy.
12:13That difference is exploitation.
12:15Don't let that happen.
12:17You are, first of all, consciousness.
12:21Consciousness with this asset called the body.
12:26Now as a conscious person without any sex or gender.
12:31Consciousness has no gender.
12:32Now as asexual consciousness.
12:36Asexual, not asexual.
12:38Yes, sir.
12:39Yes, sir.
12:40Now as consciousness free of gender.
12:43Look at yourself and say, okay, this is the body that I have.
12:47How do I use it?
12:48What do I do with it?
12:49And it has its own rhythm.
12:51To what extent do I want to interfere?
12:54To what extent is it necessary to interfere?
12:57And I have my own purpose.
12:59I have my own purpose.
12:59The body has its own rhythm.
13:01I want to be a researcher.
13:02The body wants to be a mother.
13:18The body wants to be a mother.
13:33Consciousness and they still reproduce.
13:35Reproduction is not your primary function.
13:38Your primary function is liberation.
13:40Liberation over reproduction.
13:43There has to be a clear priority.
13:45There has to be a clear priority.
13:46Consciousness over body.
13:48That doesn't mean that we are kicking the body apart.
13:51That simply means that we know that we are not to be dictated by the instincts and the
13:58imperatives of the body.
13:59Yes, we will listen to the body.
14:01Yes, I know what the body is saying.
14:02Yes, I am not trying to be cruel to the body.
14:04But that doesn't mean right now as I stand in front of you, maybe I have a pain here.
14:11Maybe.
14:12Is that not likely?
14:12Please tell me.
14:13It's possible there is something wrong with my throat.
14:16Should I listen to that?
14:17Should I?
14:18Should I listen?
14:19I actually have something in my throat.
14:21Should I listen to that?
14:22I won't.
14:24Right?
14:24And the throat and the womb are much the same in the sense that they are both parts of the
14:29body.
14:29Why should I listen to my throat?
14:31I know what to use it for.
14:33And I'll use it.
14:36People who have believed in caste system, they do.
14:39Who are at the top of the hierarchy.
14:41How to explain to them that this caste system is not nice.
14:45It's not about birth and all.
14:47And this just does not have any relevance.
14:50And like they will never, they have gotten that pride from the society.
14:54If they are like on the top of the hierarchy, everyone will praise them and everything.
14:59So they will have firm belief in that caste system.
15:02They have that divisions created in their mind.
15:04For other caste people, they consider as other species.
15:08And they behave like that.
15:09And they are so rigid.
15:11It's very difficult to explain to them that this has no logic.
15:16This has nothing.
15:17And we should live together in unison.
15:23Just a month back, it's a two and a half hour YouTube video I put, tracing the entire genealogy
15:29of caste.
15:30But sir, the people who are at top, they won't understand.
15:33They won't understand logic.
15:34Share my videos more often.
15:38So they are very rigid.
15:40Their belief system is so.
15:42Hammer again and again, again and again.
15:45It's like affecting lives.
15:47Some lives are being affected.
15:48It all came as a mental thing, right?
15:52Yes, but some people don't have that mental ability to understand.
15:55No, we are not talking of ability.
15:56We are talking of repetition.
15:58Yes, sir.
15:58It is a result of layer after layer of conditioning.
16:04You heard it.
16:05You are made to hear it again and again and again and again and again and again and again
16:09and again and then straight after straight after straight after.
16:11And then it becomes a massive boulder.
16:15And then you say it is impossible to dislodge.
16:18Just as it came in, its antidote too has to come in.
16:22You have to repeat it, repeat it, repeat it, repeat it, repeat it.
16:25You have to tell it to them again and again and again and again and again and again.
16:29How many blows of the hammer does it take to break that massive rock?
16:35Please figure that out.
16:37Because the rock too snowballed in some sense.
16:41It started from a little particle and gained mass and mass and mass and mass and mass and
16:46mass and mass and happened over centuries.
16:48Centuries of ignorance and vested interests.
16:52Some very cunning people were behind all this.
16:55It happened.
16:57Now again you will...
16:57People are in power.
16:59They won't let that power go.
17:00It's a democracy.
17:01It's a democracy.
17:03It's a democracy.
17:04In a democracy, if you can awaken sufficient number of people, you will have the right
17:08kind of people in power.
17:10So don't complain.
17:11Just continue blow after blow after blow after blow.
17:14So one last question.
17:15Maybe the answer is the same but I want you to reiterate it.
17:18So like as a girl, I feel like the standards of beauty have been much higher for us as generation
17:27than for our mothers because of the reels and everything.
17:31Now like girls, they are using so much cosmetics and everything.
17:36So like living this, like living ugly does not give us confidence.
17:43We have to live in a certain way for every areas of our life, for career, for like marriage,
17:51for everything or anywhere we go.
17:54But so if we live like that, then we will be contributing to fast fashion, which is taking
17:59lives of many animals.
18:00So what path should I choose?
18:02Like I choose a path of very minimalism.
18:06I don't like to do waxing or eyebrows or anything, but I am looked down upon the society
18:12because of this.
18:13I'm considered regressive.
18:14Who exactly are the culprits?
18:16Raise your hand.
18:17Who all are looking down upon you if you don't dress up in a particular way?
18:21But this whole society, this capitalism thing, this consumerism thing.
18:25Why are you continuously so sensitive to the whole society?
18:30So because I'm living in it, I can't...
18:32No, no, no, no, no, no.
18:32One chooses her society.
18:34Are you living among 800 billion people?
18:36No, sir.
18:37So this society that you say is some 80 or 100 people you have chosen to allot your mind
18:42space.
18:42But very little people are like me.
18:45Most of the people are...
18:46You may say their density is lower, but millions of people will be like you.
18:53And in this virtual age, why can't you have a society of your own?
19:01Yes, sir.
19:02The Gita community that we have.
19:03Yes, sir.
19:04I have never seen even 2% of them assembled at one physical place.
19:10But they are 1 lakh people.
19:12Sir, what should we be doing?
19:14Like, should we save nature and live minimalistically?
19:17Or shall we do everything?
19:20There is no either or here.
19:22This is a false dilemma we are creating so that there is a problem and the problem can
19:28give us some kind of a preconceived answer.
19:33Sir, how does beauty lie in cosmetics?
19:36Please tell me.
19:38It doesn't.
19:39So that's what...
19:39But what...
19:41Like, if I'm going for a job and if people want me to, like, maybe I'm wearing something
19:46old, something which is not very...
19:48Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, it's not about what you're wearing.
19:50It's about whether the jog comes before the job.
19:56If you are unseemly and fat and bulging at all places, it doesn't matter how much you
20:04apply those cosmetics on yourself.
20:07Right?
20:07On the other hand, if you have a fit and strong body, why will you not have good skin naturally?
20:15Why will you not have decent hair?
20:17Why will you not have...
20:19I mean, why will you need to apply lip gloss?
20:21If you are fit and strong and there is good blood circulation...
20:24Because the standards of beauty have raised.
20:26Looking simple is not good now.
20:29Everyone will look at you.
20:31I do not know of too many employers who insist on a beauty parade or a catwalk.
20:38Yes, sir.
20:39I too come from two campuses where we hold placements and I've never seen women judged
20:43so much on their looks.
20:45And, sir, about marriage thing?
20:47Sir, like, many...
20:48I have some sisters of my own or some friends.
20:52You really fancy...
20:53Wait, wait, wait, girl, wait.
20:56You really fancy marrying someone who is looking at you like a piece of flesh?
21:02No, sir.
21:02No, sir.
21:03Not at all.
21:03So that's what?
21:04Sir, but they have to ascribe, not me.
21:07I am very...
21:08You reject them.
21:09I don't get anybody.
21:10What's the problem?
21:11But I want everyone to understand this.
21:13Why do you want that?
21:14What do you have to do with them?
21:16So, sir, like, awaken their consciousness.
21:18How much love is there?
21:34I would like to be, like, influence people so that they come to the right path.
21:40So, good.
21:41Do something.
21:41Write a book or something.
21:43Start a chapter here in the campus.
21:46Start a club or something.
21:48Do what you can do at your level.
21:49There is social media.
21:50Try something there.
21:53Thank you, sir.
21:53Thank you for the time.
21:59Thank you for the time.
21:59Suppose a person wants to pursue something which maybe won't pay that much or he won't
22:09be able to support his family and his family condition and financial condition are not really
22:16good.
22:17So, like, a lot of people depends on him.
22:20So, what should he do in such situation?
22:23Should he pursue his dream or should he do something which will support his family?
22:28The only thing that that person should do is never turn it into an either-or.
22:33Either-or is tyranny.
22:36Never turn it into that.
22:39Obviously, your goal is total freedom.
22:44But if in pursuit of that goal, you find you actually think very honestly that there are responsibilities
22:53and such things and bondages and commitments and things that are not imaginary, that things
22:58that are as factual as a lone EMI, let's say, that you have to repay.
23:12And for every hour that you spend just fulfilling your obligations, just denying your heart, remind yourself, I need not
23:25be here.
23:26This must be done with very quickly.
23:30I must finish this off as soon as possible.
23:34Because this is not where the heart is.
23:37I know I have a loan to repay, so I'll have to continue in this job, but I'll want to
23:44finish off this phase of life as soon as possible.
23:48This chapter needs to close.
23:50Do you get this?
23:51And even as you continue with that job or whatever that implies, that obligation implies,
23:57even as you continue fulfilling it, take out time.
24:03Don't make it either-or.
24:05Take out time.
24:06Exert yourself.
24:08Cut down on all the needless things.
24:11And say, the heart, the heart is the primary thing.
24:15It deserves space.
24:15It deserves my energy and time.
24:17And I'll allot that to it.
24:20And the more you allot your time, energy, and space to it, the more disgusted you will feel with the
24:26other part of your life.
24:27The part that you are covering just to repay your loan.
24:32Right?
24:33And the more disgusted you are, the more quickly you will run away.
24:36And that is freedom.
24:39Sure.
24:42I'm Daisy.
24:43I'm a PhD student from Center for Arts Sciences.
24:46I have been listening to you for one year.
24:49And I have been part of guitar sessions as well.
24:51After interacting with you, like, I have realized that I should fill my life with more things that I can
24:58enjoy.
24:59And somehow I lack some physical strength that I'm able to see on day-to-day.
25:04So, I try to, like, incorporate new activities like some sports and even joining Zim or something.
25:12But after some time, I give up on it.
25:15Like, so, my question is that, like, do I lack understanding or do I lack love to follow that thing?
25:22No, you lack nothing.
25:23All you need is another attempt.
25:27You miss a day of training.
25:29And sure, it's just a day you miss.
25:32Don't miss two days because you have missed one day.
25:35Yeah, I usually give up and then think there's some other thing I'll be able to do.
25:40Giving up is not the same as missing.
25:43Giving up is not the same as missing.
25:47Right?
25:48This is life.
25:50It will keep defeating you.
25:54Now and often, here and there, it will happen.
25:58Your job is to just get up and just walk on.
26:03I have to constantly keep fighting.
26:05Obviously, what else?
26:07What else?
26:07Remember, you went to the gym a day, you skipped the gym the next day.
26:14That does not undo what you got the previous day.
26:18No.
26:19Right?
26:20And never say, because I miss the gym for five consecutive days, so I'm giving up.
26:24Giving up is not admissible.
26:31I'd been arranged to be here at four so that I could walk in your lovely campus four to five
26:36and finish my daily quota of steps and calories.
26:40But then there was an important call and I continued till like 3.45 or something.
26:48So that was skipped.
26:50That doesn't mean that I won't resume tomorrow or today evening.
26:54Something.
26:55Never be too troubled by defeats.
26:58Take defeats as default.
27:02The problem with you all is, when you are especially intellectual and talented and have not seen too many disappointments
27:12and setbacks in life,
27:13the problem is, you start seeing defeats as aberrations.
27:19Defeats become milestones for you.
27:20Oh my God!
27:21I was always doing well.
27:23How did I disqualify?
27:27How did I fail this exam?
27:30How did I not clear that hurdle?
27:35When defeat comes, when a wound lands, when you take a blow, take that as default.
27:43That's life.
27:43That's life.
27:44Just get up and give one back.
27:49And physical strength is very important, especially for women.
27:52A lot of this feeling of powerlessness comes from physical reasons.
27:59You can't even carry your luggage properly.
28:02I've seen them at airports, at railway stations.
28:05The man is doing it for them.
28:07And I say, what kind of independence can she have?
28:10I'm not talking of the check-in luggage.
28:13The cabin thing, the bags that you have to carry, they are limited at 7 or 10 kgs.
28:18The man is carrying all of it and she's just, what are you doing, lady?
28:23What are you doing?
28:24What are you doing?
28:25And she says, oh, it's such a long distance from the check-in till the plane, so he has
28:31to do it.
28:32And actually, her shoulders start paining when she puts that bag there.
28:377 kgs.
28:397 kgs.
28:40And believe it or not, that is one important reason why a woman want a man in their life.
28:46Because even these basic things they cannot do on their own because they lack physical
28:52strength.
28:53Basic things.
28:58Couples I have seen.
28:59I hope I am mistaken.
29:01I really, really wish I am mistaken.
29:03But both of them know driving.
29:05When they go out for a long drive.
29:07And let's say it's a 14 hour drive.
29:10He will drive for 12 hours, she will drive for 2.
29:13Because she genuinely gets fatigued.
29:16Two hours of driving is all that it takes to make her tired.
29:23The physical stamina is missing.
29:25And that's not the way nature built the woman.
29:28That's the way the society has built the woman.
29:31Otherwise, the difference in stamina is not so much.
29:35Especially when you are driving a car, men and women are practically equal.
29:40Carrying 7 kgs, men and women are practically equal.
29:44So, remain physically strong.
29:46You must, and until late.
29:4960, 70, doesn't matter.
29:52Never become dependent.
29:53Don't say, now that I am 80, somebody has to take care of me.
29:56I think you said that.
29:58Who will take care of me?
29:59Why should somebody take care of you?
30:01Why should somebody take care of you?
30:05Hmm?
30:07Yeah.
30:10Thank you so much.
30:13You're done?
30:16Thank you so much.
30:25Thank you so much.
30:32I have been listening to Acharajee since two years now.
30:39Before connecting to Acharajee and his teaching,
30:43I was going through a lot of confusion,
30:47indecisiveness and lack of clarity in my life.
30:52There were a lot of questions that were going in my head.
30:56And I was not able to find the clear answers.
31:01But after connecting to Acharajee and his teaching,
31:04I find myself able to get these answers.
31:09Acharajee's teaching,
31:12he does not teach Gita or Upanishad like we heard traditional ones.
31:20But he connects these Upanishad and Gita with his deep understanding.
31:26And the fact and the things that are relevant for us now.
31:32So I can say that connecting to Acharajee and his teaching is the best decision in my life.
31:40It has been a life changing for me.
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