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00:00:00Previously, feedback from their peers...
00:00:03Steve-O needs to put on his captain's hat.
00:00:05...allowed some couples to deepen their connections.
00:00:08There's two ways to a woman's heart.
00:00:11Chocolate or cheese.
00:00:13Only the best for my wife.
00:00:15I'm excited by you taking the lead.
00:00:18It reminds you are appreciated.
00:00:22Want a nacho kiss?
00:00:23Thank you for sending tasks that really understand the dynamic of Stephen and I
00:00:28and what we needed.
00:00:30Probing questions reinforced some were on the same page.
00:00:34Yes, I do see as a father of my children.
00:00:36Once again, Danny avoided direct questions from Beck.
00:00:40Do you think you will fall in love with me and why?
00:00:43I want to be very careful I'll answer this question.
00:00:49Um...
00:00:49Chris and Sam were caught in a tense stalemate.
00:00:52Not getting defensive at all.
00:00:54Even like a little sorry it felt like that way for you, Sam.
00:00:56I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:57Yeah, cool.
00:00:57Yeah, I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:00:58Lead with that.
00:01:00And despite Scott's willingness to get fresh perspective...
00:01:04I'm definitely going to take it on board and I hope Gia does too.
00:01:07No thanks.
00:01:08Gia was less than impressed.
00:01:10Hi.
00:01:12We're just going through this.
00:01:13Oh, I want to get out.
00:01:14I love you.
00:01:15As her and Scott pulled off a disappearing act.
00:01:19Tonight.
00:01:20I feel like I have been caught up in the Gia room, Beck.
00:01:24What?
00:01:24It's been toxic from the start.
00:01:26I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:01:29Alissa's reached her limit and is standing her ground.
00:01:33I've had enough.
00:01:34And it's the first time she'll come face to face with Beck after those text messages.
00:01:41The vibe with Alissa was icy cold.
00:01:43It was vile and vicious.
00:01:45Very different vibe tonight, Alissa, doesn't she?
00:01:47Hang on, hang on a minute.
00:01:48Hang on, hang on.
00:01:49Oh, God.
00:01:50Stop using me!
00:01:52Why are you laughing?
00:01:54What bombshell has Sam dropped on Chris right before the dinner party?
00:01:58I'm fuming.
00:01:59I feel uncomfortable.
00:02:00I feel betrayed.
00:02:02I've never had someone do this to me.
00:02:05And then...
00:02:05That needs to stop.
00:02:07That needs to stop.
00:02:08Has Danny reached his breaking point?
00:02:10I want you to be wary about what you text people.
00:02:13Two months ago, Danny.
00:02:14Two months ago.
00:02:15I can't believe it was ten years ago.
00:02:27After a week of honest feedback about their relationships,
00:02:31tonight our couples are coming together
00:02:34to reflect and unpack at the sixth dinner party.
00:02:39And after feedback week,
00:02:41Stella and Phillip's relationship is going from strength to strength.
00:02:45Would you like a coffee?
00:02:47Just peppermint tea.
00:02:48Just peppermint tea.
00:02:49Please.
00:02:49A bit of honey.
00:02:50A bit of honey.
00:02:51Yeah, why not?
00:02:51Just spice it up a little bit.
00:02:54Feedback week was amazing, to be honest.
00:02:56Trying to understand each other,
00:02:57and that's definitely deepened our connection.
00:03:00I think feedback week was one of the best weeks.
00:03:03Yeah, it was good.
00:03:03It still really was.
00:03:04It was a good week.
00:03:05Yeah, everything's going great.
00:03:07Ready to rumble?
00:03:09I thoroughly enjoyed it, so hopefully everyone else got much out of it like we did.
00:03:16For Rachel and Stephen, feedback week brought plenty to smile about.
00:03:22I'm actually excited to share with the group, like, what a good week we've had.
00:03:26It was fun.
00:03:27It was flirty.
00:03:28We were really lucky.
00:03:30Yeah.
00:03:31I feel like we've really leant into feedback.
00:03:33Like, Stephen's definitely stepped up.
00:03:35It's time to let Steve-O put his captain hat on and lead for the day.
00:03:41Are you making me a microwave meal?
00:03:43Only the best for my wife.
00:03:47No one makes nachos like me, though, do they?
00:03:51No.
00:03:52And maybe they shouldn't.
00:03:59I like that task.
00:04:01I'd love to do it for more than one day, actually.
00:04:03You know, you'd be waking up, and I'll have my sailor's hat on,
00:04:05and you'd be like, oh, what's this guy up to?
00:04:09Oh, that was exactly what you're up to.
00:04:20After a bizarre disappearing act over the weekend...
00:04:26..Gia and Scott have returned to their apartment.
00:04:33I hated feedback week.
00:04:35I don't know, I just think everything got to me.
00:04:36..and I just wasn't feeling really good, and I wanted to leave.
00:04:40I can see the difference in you with, um,
00:04:43being away from the experiment, like...
00:04:45Yeah, I know.
00:04:46I don't think Gia's good at, um, you know,
00:04:48taking feedback from anyone.
00:04:50So I planned ourselves a nice little weekend getaway,
00:04:53and I feel like it was the best thing we've ever done.
00:04:55I think the weekend away did really well for Scott and I.
00:04:59I feel much better today after our weekend.
00:05:01Yeah.
00:05:02Everything's been reset.
00:05:03I feel like we had a factory reset.
00:05:05And I guess the topics of tonight will probably be...
00:05:08Feedback week.
00:05:10The only issues that Scott and I have in our relationship
00:05:12are that we're in this experiment with people that we don't like.
00:05:15And also, uh, I don't take advice from people doing worse than me either.
00:05:21So, that's the only drama.
00:05:23Whenever these setbacks happen for me and Scott,
00:05:25I think it makes us stronger.
00:05:27Going into this dinner party with a smile on a doll
00:05:30and a spring in our step.
00:05:32Yeah.
00:05:33Moving forward, I just want to focus on Scott and I
00:05:35and have fun with a few people that are here now.
00:05:38Are you ready to hit the road, hit this dinner party, or what?
00:05:41Let's do it.
00:05:44Gia and Scott weren't the only couple
00:05:46who had a difficult feedback week.
00:05:51I...
00:05:52I've been anxious all weekend.
00:05:54Um, you know, I've been holding in some stuff with Chris
00:05:57that I'm not really happy with how, uh, feedback week ended.
00:06:01At the last commitment ceremony,
00:06:03Chris's plan for Sam to move to Sydney took him by surprise.
00:06:08Are you starting to think about life outside the experiment?
00:06:12I think what it would probably look like is he'd go to Sydney.
00:06:14I would stay primarily at the farm
00:06:16and then maybe we can float back and forth for a bit
00:06:18from Sydney to the farm.
00:06:20But when Sam raised the issue with Chris...
00:06:23Oh, that's the first time I heard that plan
00:06:25and it was kind of like you've just, like, made a decision
00:06:27on how this is going.
00:06:28Well, no, actually, no.
00:06:30That's not true.
00:06:31I feel like you're getting really, like, defensive with me now.
00:06:34I'm not getting defensive at all.
00:06:35Well, even, like, a little sorry it felt like that way.
00:06:37I'm sorry that it felt that way.
00:06:38OK, cool.
00:06:41That comment was maybe misconstrued or whatever.
00:06:45I'm happy to, like, just, like, move forward from it.
00:06:47Even now, I feel like you're getting defensive.
00:06:49I'm not getting defensive.
00:06:50I'm having a conversation.
00:06:51Leaving things unresolved.
00:06:55I just feel like Chris isn't understanding me.
00:06:58Like, he basically told the experts a plan
00:07:01of how it's going to work after the experiment
00:07:03without consulting me at all.
00:07:04And that just made me feel like I didn't really have a voice
00:07:06and I wasn't being heard
00:07:07and I didn't have much empathy around
00:07:08how this was all going to end.
00:07:10The next day, he tried to turn the whole thing around on me
00:07:13and gaslight me.
00:07:15And the only reason I've held it in
00:07:17is because I just can't feel like I can get through to him by myself.
00:07:21Yeah, going into tonight,
00:07:23I'm feeling really anxious about bringing this up.
00:07:25And the anxiety comes from I don't think
00:07:26it's going to be received well from Chris.
00:07:29I can see Chris cutting me off tonight
00:07:31if I try to talk about it.
00:07:32So I just need that group dynamic to bring it up.
00:07:35But hopefully, with the support of the group,
00:07:37maybe we can get there.
00:07:41Over the weekend,
00:07:43Feedback Week has prompted a change
00:07:45in Bec and Danny's relationship status.
00:07:48What about the fact that I'm not only a wife,
00:07:51but I'm a girlfriend now?
00:07:54Like, it still doesn't make too much sense to me,
00:07:57but whatever we roll with it.
00:08:01Danny and I talked about, you know,
00:08:04are we going to call each other husband and wife after this?
00:08:06And he was like, well, yeah, you're my wife.
00:08:08And I was like,
00:08:09what about the security of actually being your girlfriend?
00:08:12And he was like, will you be my girlfriend?
00:08:14And I was like, do you want me to be?
00:08:16And he said, absolutely.
00:08:18So I'm a girlfriend and a wife.
00:08:21Double parked.
00:08:23I think it's the security of, like,
00:08:25when we leave,
00:08:26we'll still be husband and wife, right?
00:08:29Well, yeah, of course.
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:31So, but...
00:08:32If I just kind of whip the ring off and be like,
00:08:34right,
00:08:36we're mates.
00:08:38But, um...
00:08:38It's just the security of it, I think.
00:08:40It's nice.
00:08:42Interesting, isn't it?
00:08:43Tonight, I'm walking to a dinner party,
00:08:44not only as a wife in the experiment,
00:08:46but as a girlfriend overall,
00:08:49it proves that, you know,
00:08:50he's got my back.
00:08:51We're ride or die.
00:08:52And this is really serious.
00:08:54It's never been done before.
00:08:56No.
00:08:56There's not a wife who's a girlfriend.
00:08:58Yeah.
00:08:59Well, except from you now.
00:09:01But, yeah.
00:09:02I like it.
00:09:05Well, when a woman's your wife,
00:09:09to go back to being a girlfriend
00:09:10almost seems like you're downgrading.
00:09:13You know, men, a lot of the time,
00:09:14we do things we don't want to do
00:09:16or...
00:09:17Not that I didn't want to do it,
00:09:18I'm not saying that,
00:09:18but we just do things
00:09:20to make these women feel good.
00:09:22So, that's what it was.
00:09:25How are we feeling
00:09:26about going to the dinner party, boo?
00:09:28Feel good.
00:09:28Feel relaxed.
00:09:29I actually feel pretty good as well.
00:09:31Going into this dinner party
00:09:33is probably the least stressed I've been,
00:09:35but then again,
00:09:35that could be a really bad omen.
00:09:37Obviously, like,
00:09:38I've been on apology tours.
00:09:41Like...
00:09:42You've apologised more than OJ Sims.
00:09:44I know I have.
00:09:45It's a...
00:09:46And I'm still apologising now
00:09:48for messages that were wrote
00:09:49two and a half months ago.
00:09:50It's a disaster.
00:09:51Suck it up, champ.
00:09:53If Alyssa, you know,
00:09:54brings it up tonight,
00:09:55then I'm just going to sit
00:09:56as quiet as a field mouse.
00:09:58I'm not going to defend someone
00:09:59who's in the wrong.
00:10:00Yeah, I don't condone bad behaviour,
00:10:03even if it's from my wife,
00:10:04I don't condone it.
00:10:05But this should be the last time,
00:10:07I'd assume.
00:10:08It can't keep coming up.
00:10:09It has to.
00:10:10Yeah, I hope we can get
00:10:12to the end of the sorries.
00:10:13Do you know what I mean?
00:10:14Let's get to the end of them sorries
00:10:16because I didn't come
00:10:17on this experiment
00:10:19to just hear sorry.
00:10:25While Beck and Danny
00:10:26are hoping to move on,
00:10:28little do they know,
00:10:30the texts have since been circulated
00:10:33to the entire group.
00:10:49Yeah, the text messages
00:10:50are pretty bleak.
00:10:54Very descriptive, polarising.
00:10:57It was so long ago.
00:10:58It was two months ago
00:10:59that I wrote this message
00:11:00when I was furious
00:11:01after I'd gotten off the phone
00:11:03to Gia and Scott,
00:11:04being told that Alyssa and David
00:11:07were saying that Daniel's not into you,
00:11:10you're in a fake relationship,
00:11:12you're this, that and the other,
00:11:12and I was like,
00:11:13f*** you, you know?
00:11:14Regardless if it was six,
00:11:16eight, ten weeks ago.
00:11:17A month ago, two months ago.
00:11:19You still sent it,
00:11:21you still said it,
00:11:22and what you said
00:11:23was really, really horrible.
00:11:27Gia did this on purpose.
00:11:29She's taken the worst of me,
00:11:32right?
00:11:33And left the worst of her out of it.
00:11:38Gia's sitting there scot-free,
00:11:39but actually...
00:11:44..she's venomous.
00:11:46I wrote that message, right?
00:11:48I was angry.
00:11:49I did it.
00:11:49At the end of the day,
00:11:51she's hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:53Gia, you're hurting Alyssa and David.
00:11:58Oh, here we go again.
00:12:00Obviously, I'm feeling pretty hurt still
00:12:02from reading the messages
00:12:03that were sent to me.
00:12:06I don't even want to use the words
00:12:08and the language
00:12:08because it's completely foul.
00:12:11And, yeah, I feel like
00:12:13it really needs to be addressed.
00:12:17Bec, I read the receipts.
00:12:19You said those things
00:12:21about David and I.
00:12:23Why?
00:12:24Like, what sparked that fuel
00:12:26and how does something so hatred
00:12:28come out of your mouth?
00:12:29I'm going to call it out.
00:12:31100%, and you should...
00:12:32You don't deserve to be treated
00:12:33the way they've treated you.
00:12:35Since the beginning of the experiment,
00:12:38Alyssa and David have been the target
00:12:40of unwanted scrutiny.
00:12:42Because I will say,
00:12:43I think it's a fake showmance.
00:12:45100% agree.
00:12:46I'm sorry, got to agree.
00:12:48Alyssa came under fire
00:12:50at every opportunity.
00:12:53Excuse me, that's not nice.
00:12:55Alyssa, shut up.
00:12:57Shut up, Alyssa,
00:12:59you ratchet idiot.
00:13:01So, ultimately, girls...
00:13:03But ultimately, I wanted to be fake
00:13:05as usual.
00:13:07And nowhere was safe.
00:13:10We've literally been staying up
00:13:11for late hours just talking.
00:13:13Sounds like an infomercial.
00:13:15Selling hair products.
00:13:17Desperately 3am on your TV.
00:13:20Even when it got too much
00:13:22for Alyssa...
00:13:23I care about what people think.
00:13:25I care about people's feelings.
00:13:27You know?
00:13:28I don't want to have
00:13:29this conflict.
00:13:31The blows kept coming.
00:13:35There's a bit of chatter
00:13:36around Adelaide
00:13:39about Beck trying to actually
00:13:41dig shit up on Alyssa.
00:13:45Are you talking to people
00:13:46in Adelaide, like,
00:13:48about Alyssa?
00:13:49No.
00:13:51You're not digging up information?
00:13:53No.
00:13:53Not at all.
00:13:55With the texting drama
00:13:56being the latest
00:13:57in a long line of attacks.
00:13:59Why do you think
00:14:01people are coming after you?
00:14:03Ask them.
00:14:05I don't know.
00:14:07I don't know.
00:14:12I refuse to play the game anymore.
00:14:14You know?
00:14:15And be that
00:14:15horn in the middle.
00:14:17I don't care what's
00:14:18going to happen
00:14:19between Beck and Gia.
00:14:20You have to speak your truth
00:14:22and I know you will.
00:14:23Going into tonight,
00:14:25we've got each other's backs.
00:14:26Boys.
00:14:27I have never said
00:14:28a bad word
00:14:29about anyone.
00:14:31So,
00:14:32I'm not going to
00:14:33tolerate it anymore.
00:14:34Enough is enough.
00:14:35The behaviour
00:14:36needs to be addressed.
00:14:39Tonight,
00:14:40I am done.
00:14:42I just
00:14:43had enough.
00:14:44Had enough.
00:14:57Today is a good day.
00:14:58Walking to a dinner party.
00:15:00We're reset.
00:15:01We're refreshed.
00:15:03Vibes are high.
00:15:05And...
00:15:07Hold for sorry.
00:15:07Don't know about that.
00:15:10You told me.
00:15:20Dinner party number six.
00:15:21Now,
00:15:22they're coming off
00:15:22feedback week,
00:15:23which is always
00:15:23a pivotal part
00:15:24of the experiment.
00:15:25How does that make you feel
00:15:26knowing that someone loves you?
00:15:28It's good.
00:15:30It's some giggling.
00:15:33They all have
00:15:34pretty much
00:15:35a front row seat
00:15:36to each other's relationships.
00:15:38They're so intertwined by now.
00:15:39So,
00:15:39it'll be really interesting
00:15:40to see
00:15:41how they've
00:15:42taken on the feedback
00:15:43from the other people
00:15:44in the experiment.
00:15:48I think everyone's
00:15:49going to kind of discuss
00:15:50what letters they got,
00:15:51how their date went.
00:15:52Danny,
00:15:52it might be like,
00:15:53why didn't you turn up
00:15:54to the date?
00:15:54And I'll be like,
00:15:54because you're a wanker.
00:15:57Give me your hands.
00:16:02Oh,
00:16:02that was so smelly.
00:16:04It was so cute.
00:16:05Couples are starting
00:16:06to talk about
00:16:07beyond the experiment,
00:16:08which brings up
00:16:09even more.
00:16:10And I think
00:16:10it's a good time
00:16:11to be having
00:16:12those conversations
00:16:13before they go
00:16:13into home states
00:16:14so they can really
00:16:15prepare themselves
00:16:16to ask that question.
00:16:17Is this relationship
00:16:19going to survive
00:16:19outside the experiment?
00:16:20You look like
00:16:21an absolute queen today.
00:16:23And that's the highlight
00:16:24of my night already.
00:16:26And we haven't even
00:16:26started the dinner party.
00:16:29Hopefully,
00:16:30I can get a,
00:16:31you know,
00:16:32a couple bites
00:16:33of food down before
00:16:35someone raises
00:16:35their glass
00:16:36and ding,
00:16:37ding, ding, ding.
00:16:38I've got something
00:16:39to say.
00:16:43Let's go, babe.
00:16:44Oh, it's busy in here.
00:16:46Vic and Danny.
00:16:48How good does my wife look?
00:16:50Give everyone a 12.
00:16:52Not that there's
00:16:53no one in it, ever.
00:16:54Looking fancy
00:16:54and looking very together
00:16:55and very comfortable.
00:16:57Yes.
00:17:00Thanks, baby.
00:17:02I'll have a little one
00:17:03with you.
00:17:03Okay.
00:17:04That's cute.
00:17:04Not the tension
00:17:05that we saw
00:17:06from these two last week
00:17:07walking into that
00:17:08cocktail party.
00:17:09At least we're coming
00:17:10into this dinner party
00:17:12in such a good spot.
00:17:13Hmm.
00:17:14You didn't run away?
00:17:15I didn't run away.
00:17:15I always show up.
00:17:16You always show up, babe.
00:17:18Unlike Gia.
00:17:19I mean...
00:17:21Big news this week is
00:17:22you're now my wife
00:17:24and my girlfriend.
00:17:27Any wonder
00:17:28Bec's looking so happy
00:17:29and relaxed.
00:17:30She got a whole lot
00:17:32of validation.
00:17:34Danny asking me
00:17:35to be his girlfriend
00:17:35definitely gives me
00:17:36reassurance.
00:17:37It just feels like
00:17:39it's not just the experiment,
00:17:40but it's real life
00:17:41and it's really important.
00:17:44Is it important to you
00:17:45or not?
00:17:46I'm not going to lie.
00:17:46Not that important
00:17:47because, like,
00:17:48I take this experiment
00:17:49seriously anyway.
00:17:50Yeah.
00:17:50So, like,
00:17:51when we got married,
00:17:53getting married on national TV
00:17:54is about as serious
00:17:54as it gets.
00:17:55Do you know what you mean?
00:17:56So, I was just like...
00:17:57But, yeah.
00:17:58If it's important to you,
00:17:59it's important to me.
00:17:59That's right.
00:18:00It's one of them ones.
00:18:01That's right.
00:18:02I'm just not looking forward
00:18:03to having to, um...
00:18:06deal with the text messages.
00:18:08Well, one text message
00:18:09that I sent from two months ago
00:18:11to a group of women
00:18:12that I thought were my friends
00:18:13that I've obviously seen
00:18:14that aren't.
00:18:16Bec shouldn't have
00:18:16sent the messages.
00:18:17I've said that to her.
00:18:19It's hard for me
00:18:20to defend her.
00:18:21As a husband,
00:18:22it puts me in a bad situation
00:18:24because I feel like
00:18:25I'm letting her down
00:18:26when I don't defend her,
00:18:27but it's also
00:18:28I don't condone that behaviour
00:18:29so I don't want to defend her.
00:18:31I have all these text messages
00:18:33that Gia's written
00:18:33about these people,
00:18:34but I wouldn't stoop
00:18:35to that level
00:18:35of sending them out to people
00:18:37because as much as Gia annoys me,
00:18:40I don't want to hurt
00:18:40all these other people
00:18:41that she's talked about.
00:18:43Gia's come to war with me.
00:18:45Like, she just needs to stop.
00:18:48I'm sick of it.
00:18:50Hey!
00:18:52Hey!
00:18:53Oh, look at you!
00:18:55Oh, Stella and Phillip.
00:18:57Here we go.
00:18:58Another happy, confident entrant.
00:19:00Yes.
00:19:01Great to see.
00:19:03You guys had a good week?
00:19:04Yes, we did.
00:19:05Yeah, we had a good week.
00:19:06It was probably
00:19:06one of the best weeks,
00:19:07to be fair.
00:19:08They've seen.
00:19:10Oh!
00:19:11Hey!
00:19:12Hello.
00:19:14Rachel and Steve.
00:19:16Keeping out of trouble?
00:19:17Trying to.
00:19:18Nah, I'm keeping out of trouble.
00:19:20Oh, you're good.
00:19:20Nah, I'm screwing with you guys.
00:19:21Nah, it's been good.
00:19:22Hold the chat.
00:19:25I didn't just become a wife.
00:19:27I'm now a girlfriend.
00:19:28Oh!
00:19:31Okay.
00:19:32Okay.
00:19:34Cheers, God.
00:19:35Oh, and it's empty class.
00:19:36But, like, cheers.
00:19:37Okay.
00:19:37Cheers to that.
00:19:38Congratulations.
00:19:39That's cute AF.
00:19:41Excuse me.
00:19:41You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:43I did.
00:19:44You didn't ask me to be a girlfriend.
00:19:45Yes, yes, I did.
00:19:45And what did you tell me?
00:19:46What?
00:19:47Well, we're not going backwards.
00:19:48Okay, yeah.
00:19:49Okay.
00:19:49Hey, yeah?
00:19:50Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:51Yeah?
00:19:52Yeah?
00:20:00We're proud of you showing up tonight.
00:20:02We're just there to show that you are a strong person,
00:20:05and not because you need to tear other people down.
00:20:09I've never done that.
00:20:10We've always been kind.
00:20:11And I don't understand the why.
00:20:15I just want some clarity.
00:20:17Yeah.
00:20:17I think we all deserve that clarity.
00:20:19We just need some clarity and just to put it to bed for once and for all.
00:20:31Yay!
00:20:33There she is.
00:20:35Hi!
00:20:36Oh, Alyssa and David.
00:20:37All smiles.
00:20:39They're very cute.
00:20:40Always so affectionate.
00:20:42Love the blue liner on your eyes.
00:20:44They're so sexy.
00:20:50I saw Bec, and I'm always kind.
00:20:53I'm going to say hello.
00:20:54I'm going to give her a hug.
00:20:57You look like J-Lo.
00:20:58Yeah.
00:20:59Oh, I see too much of the blue.
00:21:01But inside, I'm like, oh, this person has stabbed me so hard in the back.
00:21:09I've seen the messages.
00:21:12How vicious and how hurtful they were.
00:21:16I don't know what's going on here, but I'm not playing a game anymore.
00:21:23So, I feel like there is a lot to be said.
00:21:27How was your week?
00:21:31It was...
00:21:33It was an interesting week.
00:21:35I feel like feedback week was a big one.
00:21:36It was a big one.
00:21:37Yeah.
00:21:39She has a very different vibe tonight, Alyssa, doesn't she?
00:21:42Yes, it's quiet.
00:21:42She seems inside her head.
00:21:44Yes.
00:21:46I don't know.
00:21:47Unless she has an issue with Bec because of the texts that have gone on in the past.
00:21:51True.
00:21:52So, do you feel like...
00:21:55Because can I...
00:21:56I don't want to talk about it right now.
00:21:58We'll give her about it at the dinner table.
00:22:01The vibe with Alyssa is icy.
00:22:03It's icy cold.
00:22:05She's been quite cold in a sense.
00:22:08She didn't even want to speak to me.
00:22:09Can I tell you guys something?
00:22:11My husband didn't get to do the task where he met with someone.
00:22:15I met with David.
00:22:16He didn't get to do it.
00:22:18She refused to, and he was quite upset about it.
00:22:21Bec had a lot to say about Gia.
00:22:24And I'm thinking, do I pull out the screenshots?
00:22:28She's probably going to say, Alyssa, that was like four, five weeks ago.
00:22:32It doesn't matter.
00:22:35Regardless of if it was four weeks ago or yesterday, it doesn't matter.
00:22:40Take some accountability for your bad behaviour.
00:22:45We're not friends, girl.
00:22:52We're not friends, girl.
00:22:53It doesn't matter.
00:23:45Just a heads up, I'm not super happy with how things ended last week.
00:23:50And the only reason I haven't spoken about it is because I didn't feel like I was getting
00:23:53through to you just by myself and I feel like I need some people around to give us both
00:23:57an outside perspective on the situation.
00:24:00Is this in relation to the comment that I said to Mel?
00:24:03Well, that's what I brought up, but it's the whole defensiveness from that.
00:24:10I just don't feel like you're hearing me and I don't feel like you're genuine with your
00:24:14apology.
00:24:15I don't feel like you really understand what you've done wrong.
00:24:18Um, and I've tried to explain it, but it's, it's not, I'm just...
00:24:22I'm fuming.
00:24:28I'm angry because my husband and my partner has just dropped a bombshell on me five minutes
00:24:35before entering a social gathering.
00:24:38Make it seem like I don't leave a space that's safe for you to come up and feedback for me.
00:24:43And that's basically, like, the definition of gaslighting is turning the situation around
00:24:48to me.
00:24:49I feel uncomfortable.
00:24:50I feel betrayed.
00:24:54I'm anxious and nauseous because I f***ing hate standing up for myself like this.
00:24:58I thought this was all over, so this is all new to me.
00:25:02I had no idea what was going on and I could feel the awkwardness yesterday when I got home
00:25:06and I'm afraid now we're walking to a dinner party and getting everyone involved.
00:25:11I just got called a gaslighter and got told that my apologies weren't genuine.
00:25:16I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:51I've never had someone do this to me.
00:25:52Oh, I've never seen this from them.
00:25:55Hello, my man.
00:25:57Sam and Chris, we just have, like, two mates walking in, to be honest, or not even good
00:26:01mates.
00:26:02Hi, honey.
00:26:04That was frosty.
00:26:05It looked disconnected, disinterested.
00:26:09It was shocking, to be honest.
00:26:13This is new.
00:26:14Something's happened.
00:26:16Oh, babe, yucky.
00:26:17Yuck.
00:26:18What's going on, babe?
00:26:20Um, where do I start?
00:26:21I'm sure he wants to do it in this forum, so you'll hear all about it.
00:26:25I just got told five minutes before entering the dinner party by Sam that he will be bringing
00:26:31up in front of the whole group that my four apologies weren't genuine enough on the back
00:26:35end of calling me a gaslighter.
00:26:37So I've just walked into the dinner party hoping to have some drinks with my friends and catch
00:26:40up with everyone, and he has just dropped a bomb on me in the car, like, five minutes
00:26:45before walking in the door.
00:26:46Like, amazing.
00:26:49How you been, mate?
00:26:51Been a rough week, man.
00:26:52You look flat as a pancake.
00:26:54What's up?
00:26:55Um.
00:26:57Ah.
00:26:58So basically, sitting on the commitment ceremony, Mel asked, like, what's the plan after the
00:27:01experiment?
00:27:02And Chris, like, said, well, Sam's going to move to Sydney, and then you can do this,
00:27:05move there, move that.
00:27:06Like, this is how it's all going to work.
00:27:07We had never discussed a plan.
00:27:09Oh, really?
00:27:10At all?
00:27:11Disgusting.
00:27:13By watching it, I just assumed you'd had them conversations.
00:27:15Yeah, so we hadn't.
00:27:16And at the end of the day, it's fine.
00:27:17Like, he might have been excited or whatever, but then in feedback week, I, like, just wanted
00:27:21to say, I just wanted to say to him, like, hey, man, like, when you made the plan of, like,
00:27:27how it's already made, and he just goes, that's not what I said.
00:27:30What I said was, like, dismissing, shutting it down.
00:27:33Do you get quite aggressive?
00:27:34That conversation went awfully.
00:27:35Then, basically, I was like, he's like, what do you want me to do?
00:27:39I was like, can you just say sorry?
00:27:41Like, the apology just comes with defensiveness.
00:27:43Like, he apologised in the same voice that he was defensive.
00:27:46Yeah.
00:27:46Like, it's like, it's not genuine.
00:27:47I don't feel it.
00:27:48Yeah.
00:27:49And he's just so defensive with me today as well, and I'm like, all I'm trying to do
00:27:53is be heard.
00:27:53And, like, he's upset that I've spoken up.
00:27:55Yeah.
00:27:57That's not okay.
00:27:58Balcony.
00:27:58Yeah.
00:27:59Yeah.
00:28:02Hello.
00:28:03Lucky loss.
00:28:06Ah.
00:28:06And here's Gia and Scott.
00:28:08We didn't know if we wanted to come, you know?
00:28:11Nice for Gia to show up tonight, do you know what I mean?
00:28:13She's got one of them robes, what Harry Potter has, where she goes invisible from time to
00:28:18time.
00:28:18How are you?
00:28:19How are you, mate?
00:28:19Good, mate.
00:28:20Good to see you.
00:28:21How are you going?
00:28:21Yeah, how are you going?
00:28:22How are you?
00:28:23It's surprising to see Gia and Scott actually hugging Bec and Danny, particularly Scott,
00:28:28who made it very clear that he didn't want to have anything to do with Bec.
00:28:32Oh, thank you.
00:28:33Oh, you look nice.
00:28:34You look beautiful.
00:28:37Oh, look at your men.
00:28:37You guys look duffer.
00:28:39Danny, how are you?
00:28:40Good to see you.
00:28:41You too.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:42Hello.
00:28:43My eyes are very, very, very much open with Gia.
00:28:47You've shared personal messages between you, myself and a few other ladies, right, to try
00:28:53and take me down.
00:28:55You are vicious.
00:28:58Stay away from me.
00:28:59Stay away.
00:29:01Hi, babe.
00:29:02Hi.
00:29:03Love you.
00:29:03We got separated.
00:29:04Yeah, hold it.
00:29:05It's on.
00:29:06It's on.
00:29:06Do you want to grab a drink?
00:29:07Yeah.
00:29:08I was so happy to see Chris.
00:29:09I knew he'd been stressing.
00:29:11The way he ran, it was like, he needs to talk to his girl.
00:29:14We were in the car on the way over.
00:29:16And we have not spoken all day.
00:29:17It's been awkward as f***.
00:29:18And then in the car, he called me a gaslighter.
00:29:23I never really liked Sam from the minute I saw him.
00:29:27Sam doesn't play his cards how his cards really are.
00:29:32He's waited until tonight to do this.
00:29:35This is a, like, this will happen last week.
00:29:37Yeah.
00:29:38Very calculated.
00:29:39Very super calculated and cruel.
00:29:40But I'm going to back myself.
00:29:42I'm not apologising again.
00:29:43I've apologised four f***ing times.
00:29:45How much more can you do?
00:29:47Yeah.
00:29:47It's just so...
00:29:48Yeah.
00:29:49Childish.
00:29:50You want to play games like a little boy?
00:29:53Sorry.
00:29:54No, you're not doing that to Chris.
00:29:55Obviously, he's going to have, like, back on his side, so...
00:29:58Oh, yeah.
00:29:59Yeah.
00:30:00Yeah.
00:30:01So, us versus them.
00:30:02That's right.
00:30:03Mmm.
00:30:06Dinner is served.
00:30:13All right.
00:30:14Bon appétit.
00:30:16Oh, the table's compressed.
00:30:18I think tonight we're going to see some of the consequences of that feedback week playing out.
00:30:25And with a small amount of couples left in the experiment, the dinner parties become much more intimate.
00:30:29Yes.
00:30:30You're very much a part of all of the drama that unfolds.
00:30:36It's a lot easier to have one conversation in the group rather than a variety of them going on at
00:30:41the same time.
00:30:42It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:30:57It puts a lot of pressure on what they actually choose to talk about.
00:31:15Oh, there's a tension in there, isn't there?
00:31:18There is tension.
00:31:24It was very awkward at the Saturday dinner party.
00:31:30There were crickets.
00:31:31I could hear them.
00:31:32I was sitting, cutting my steak, and I could hear...
00:31:36I'm looking at Beck, and I already know what she said about me and my husband behind my back.
00:31:42Obviously, Gia's hurt me too, but nothing can top the screenshots of the messages that Beck said about David and
00:31:50I.
00:31:54How have you been, Alyssa? Are you OK?
00:31:57I've had enough of this ya-ya, these individual conversations and sweeping shit under the rug.
00:32:02I feel like it all needs to be brought to light, and I feel like the other couples need to
00:32:06know as well.
00:32:06So if everybody wants to listen in, so there were obviously some receipts from the last commitment ceremony...
00:32:18..that Juliet received from Gia.
00:32:25..and...
00:32:27..after that commitment ceremony, Juliet was like,
00:32:30Alyssa, I really need you to see these messages, um...
00:32:33..and I guess reading those messages brought up a lot of hurt.
00:32:37Because, you know, this happened weeks ago.
00:32:41This happened, like, four or five weeks ago.
00:32:44Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Five weeks ago.
00:32:46Two months ago.
00:32:47Babe, I've got some dates on there.
00:32:48Two months ago.
00:32:50Yeah, anyway, whatever.
00:32:50But it doesn't matter, babe.
00:32:52Like, it doesn't matter because they were the most vicious...
00:32:57..volgar.
00:32:58Yeah.
00:32:58..I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:04Like, people at this table don't even know that I was called a rat.
00:33:10Ooh.
00:33:11Ooh.
00:33:11My husband's a rat.
00:33:17My head is so far up my arse and how much of a I am.
00:33:24Ugh.
00:33:29Um, and we're licking .
00:33:34Oh, no.
00:33:37Um, I don't know.
00:33:46And they're very close to that.
00:33:46I think they were gonna be the most vicious, vulgar.
00:33:49Yeah, yeah.
00:33:49I would never say that to someone in real life, let alone in a message.
00:33:55Like people at this table don't even know that I was called a rap
00:34:02My husband's a rap
00:34:05My head is so far up my ass and how much of a I am
00:34:12We're clicking
00:34:18Why why why would you do that?
00:34:20Mm-hmm. Why would you do that?
00:34:24Really vile language
00:34:27That's really destructive
00:34:29Incredibly disappointing
00:34:32Gia played a part in them as well, but what came out of your mouth? I'm telling you I was
00:34:36in tears
00:34:37I it was vile and vicious way. I've seen repetitive behavior not just with me
00:34:41But with other people at this table where you've come at them, and I'm just like wait wait wait wait
00:34:46Like there's been hang on hang on hang on hang on Alyssa
00:34:48I don't think you can say that the people at this dinner table
00:34:51I know but everybody's been affected by your behavior, babe
00:34:54I'm sorry everyone at this table at some point has been affected by your behavior
00:35:01I know that you're saying sorry, and I know that you've said sorry, but I'm saying right now
00:35:05Listen to me for one second
00:35:11I feel like Alyssa was really trying to hold her own but that keeps talking over the top of her
00:35:17We saw it at retreat with me. It's just really frustrating. I
00:35:22Understand what you're saying. I'm just trying to have one like just let me have a piece
00:35:26I understand what you're saying, right? I I agree that the messages that I wrote were unacceptable
00:35:33They were disgusting disgusting. Yeah
00:35:36The reality of the situation is is that you've seen snippets right snippets
00:35:40Well, then what else is there?
00:35:42I'm not but I'm not gonna do that
00:35:43There is no excuse for what I wrote. I am sorry to you for what I wrote about you
00:35:49Would I ever say that to your face? Never did I do I think that no definitely not
00:35:56That controls conversation that controls narrative
00:35:58I could just feel this beside me being like accept some accountability and stop deflecting to everyone else
00:36:06Is it okay? No
00:36:10But I'm not going to send you the messages everyone else has said about you to hurt you to get
00:36:16to her because that makes me just as bad
00:36:22She isn't able to take on any sort of accountability for her actions
00:36:29This is what Beck does yeah, she is wrong and tries to think of anyone else who's involved that she
00:36:36can then blame for her actions
00:36:39We have a war right, but Gia sent them to Juliet and Juliet's gonna shit on everyone and what that's
00:36:46done is hurt you two when you guys don't deserve to be hurt
00:36:50You don't have to trust me
00:36:52You don't have to believe me
00:36:54But I am apologetic to both of you sincerely
00:37:00Bec wanted to do what she always does which is sweep things under the carpet
00:37:06But the important thing is Melissa stood up for herself
00:37:09In the real world if you read messages like that you'd never go back
00:37:13You'd never trust that person you cut them off obviously because of this experiment we're faced with the fact we
00:37:19have to still be cordial
00:37:20But you understand how like in the real world. There's no coming back. There's no you can't
00:37:25Trust someone and be friends with
00:37:27Those text messages were vile and I don't think anyone would ever
00:37:32Accommodate for people in their lives that talk about them like that at any any period of time
00:37:41I know that you've said sorry
00:37:45But this shit is
00:37:48I just want to stay out of it
00:37:50This could have exploded escalated and got very hostile
00:37:54It's interesting that elissa she's
00:37:57essentially
00:37:58Stated a conversational tone and this has not escalated at all
00:38:02Yeah, it's very mature of her
00:38:06It's just noise
00:38:08I've heard this before
00:38:09Bec and I have tried to work on our relationship
00:38:14And i'm sorry but i think i've given her way too many chances
00:38:20I'm here for my husband you know i'm i'm so lucky that i have david
00:38:26Ultimately like i'm just gonna put her to bed
00:38:30I'm pretty disgusted in the behavior and i'm not here for mean girl shit
00:38:40Coming up i have to change my whole life to fit into your life
00:38:45Do i get any say in how this is going to work at all
00:38:50And bec's behavior takes its toll on danny
00:38:56I just want you to be wary about what you say
00:38:59I'm very wary of i want you to be wary about what you text people
00:39:16Look at stella and philip so much love
00:39:24So just in sync
00:39:32So relaxed a lot of swag yes and so together
00:39:39Philip and stella we haven't heard about like your feedback week like what's very good
00:39:45We had we just come up for a really good week and it was awesome
00:39:48We had uh good probing questions and um yeah we were just going back and forth it was almost like
00:39:54the honeymoon box
00:39:54It was like they're really good probing questions
00:39:57But yeah it was good it's great week
00:40:02Clearly some couples have actually embraced the feedback and have got closer together but for others
00:40:10It's just absolutely unraveled them
00:40:17Can i just say something
00:40:20Chris and i are going through something that's actually internal
00:40:24I can't get to a conclusion with just the two of us and that's why i kind of wanted to
00:40:28bring that up tonight
00:40:29So if we could get that sort of yeah let's do it yeah
00:40:31Yeah all right um if you don't mind i'm going to kick it off
00:40:35Obviously my energy is not great tonight um this is not my usual vibe you know that
00:40:39Um i'm going to just give you a bit of background on what happened sam and i had an issue
00:40:43mid last week
00:40:44Which i thought we had squashed on the drive over here
00:40:49Sam mentioned to me that he wanted to bring this issue up in front of the whole group and then
00:40:54on the back end of that
00:40:54Why why did i want to can i just please talk um
00:40:59On the back end of that insinuated that i was a gas lighter
00:41:05A gas lighter is a very strong word to throw throw around so obviously my energy is off
00:41:11I feel like i've been thrown under the bus
00:41:14So i'm going to let sam speak and i'll hear him um and then you can get my version of
00:41:18the events
00:41:24Um um basically when mel
00:41:27Asked us on the couch last week like what's the plan after this
00:41:32She said what what does life look outside the experiment okay can i talk sure
00:41:40Um and chris said well the best way that could work is like i sam can move to sydney
00:41:47But the thing is
00:41:48There's like chris and i had never ever discussed a plan of how it was going to work outside the
00:41:54experiment
00:41:58So then to hear him say to mel like this is how the plan was going to work i'm like
00:42:01Do i get any say in how this is going to work at all
00:42:07Feedback week i thought would be a really good time for me to bring this up
00:42:11So we're sitting on the couch and i say chris when you said this to mel i just felt like
00:42:15i didn't have a voice and he cut me off and he goes
00:42:17I didn't say that you could have spoken up you had every opportunity to speak just as much as i
00:42:21did
00:42:21And then i said i wish there was just more empathy around the fact that i
00:42:26Have to change my whole life to fit into your life
00:42:31I was like could you say you're sorry and he goes i'm sorry i'm sorry i hate your feelings i'm
00:42:34sorry like i'm
00:42:34Sorry i hate your feelings
00:42:39I haven't had a genuine apology and when i try and bring it up i'm just met with defensiveness
00:42:44And i feel like right now my feelings have been shut down about it
00:42:48There's no recognition no acknowledgement of the other's experience
00:42:53And unfortunately like this wasn't the first time i've witnessed you shutting me down but it's the first time that
00:42:59i've spoken up about it
00:43:01And
00:43:03Me speaking up about it has just caused you to like hate me and just be like off me and
00:43:08i just don't understand
00:43:09What i've done wrong
00:43:11Hate
00:43:13See they're in a terrible way aren't they
00:43:17Okay let me let me talk my my turn
00:43:21Hand on heart i apologized three times and i said i'm so i'm sorry i did not
00:43:25Meant mean to make you feel that way i then apologized two more times he thinks it wasn't genuine i'm
00:43:30telling you it was
00:43:32Why i'm so off sam is because he's chosen to do it in this forum in front of everybody
00:43:37He's throwing this at me 10 minutes prior to entering the dinner party on the back end of calling me
00:43:41a gaslighter
00:43:42Sometimes yes i am fiery sometimes i do get defensive but there's got to be some point where i've got
00:43:47to back myself
00:43:48For him to throw me under the bus do you think he's throwing you under the bus though
00:43:53I feel like this could have been done in a different way i would have preferred to do it privately
00:43:57we've tried that
00:43:59We speak to the experts in front of the whole group every week to help our relationships
00:44:03I think where sam was trying to speak to you was in front of the whole group because he felt
00:44:07like he wasn't getting nowhere
00:44:12So he i think he thought if he had the group involved he could get some opinions and it could
00:44:16help your relationship
00:44:18Chris if you give a genuine apology i get that sam i am genuinely sorry that i hurt your feelings
00:44:24i did not want to put pressure on you
00:44:26Why are you laughing
00:44:40Why are you laughing
00:44:58Because i asked you to do this this morning i'm doing it again i'm doing it right now
00:45:02This is what you wanted you want it in front of the group and you won't even let me finish
00:45:05the apology
00:45:07Watching sam and chris they're both valid in what they're saying they're both valid in their feelings
00:45:13They're both hurting
00:45:17So i was actually very surprised to hear how chris was talking about things how sam was talking about things
00:45:22To see them behaving in that manner it's it's a shame oh a week ago. I was like sam and
00:45:28chris is super strong
00:45:29But now i think the boys are in real trouble
00:45:34I am genuinely sorry that i hurt your feelings and i put pressure on you that was not my intention
00:45:39i'm sorry that i was defensive
00:45:41I just feel like there's got to be a point where i apologize three times then again the next morning
00:45:46That's the first time you apologize for being defensive
00:45:51They're in real real dire straits in these
00:45:53But what it has done is it's opened up their
00:45:59issues in their relationship that we can actually target
00:46:03at the next commitment ceremony
00:46:06It just shows how powerful
00:46:09Emotional tone is when couples are trying to deal with conflict and repair
00:46:15It's a like a dagger to the heart i feel like my heart's been stabbed
00:46:21I've done so much to be in this experiment to find love and a husband and
00:46:25To have this argument over the authenticity of my sorries which were five
00:46:31And then be laughed at in the face it's a joke
00:46:36Okay how about hey how about a positive break how was feedback week for you guys yeah
00:46:42Look feedback week was really good for steven and i
00:46:45Personally i feel that way um i hope steven feels the same way
00:46:50But yeah it's it's it's been good
00:46:53um elissa
00:46:55Love the catch up we had a lot lots of fun and everything
00:46:58Um a bit of advice from elissa that i really took on board was to be a little bit more
00:47:02masculine and bring some leadership and
00:47:06into the relationship which
00:47:09i'm definitely going to put my um captain's undies on and hat and you know lead
00:47:17And what else did i tell you babe
00:47:25Oh do i have to mention that no
00:47:27Well do you know what no because i respect rachel as my bestie and we're not going down that road
00:47:32On on that on that on that topic i'm probably going to say this right now in front of everyone
00:47:37That i feel like me and rachel's sex life has been in the spotlight for way too bloody long
00:47:46Now yeah we've had our troubles in it and we're getting closer
00:47:49um intimacy like intimately right however
00:47:54Now it's gotten to the point when i get close to rachel of rachel one it gets close to me
00:47:58We've got this thought in the back of our mind now
00:48:01It's starting to get to the point now like are we doing this
00:48:05you know because we want to and it's a passionate moment or are we doing this because we're getting told
00:48:10to and there's pressure on it
00:48:12Because i feel like there's so much pressure on can you two have sex already do you need to have
00:48:16sex already so
00:48:18on that note we've heard everyone loud and clear
00:48:21When the moment comes you'll all know
00:48:24We'll set fireworks off from the balcony all right
00:48:29Good on you steve-o this is the first time that i've seen him taking like a stance about the
00:48:34relationship
00:48:35kind of taking the lead you guys are taking steps forward hey
00:48:39yeah when it comes to our sex life
00:48:43They can say what they bloody want i'm not here for the drama not here for anything else besides rachel
00:48:51so
00:48:53And on the last night of a feedback week we had nachos and watched uh a fishing video on youtube
00:49:06Can i could cheer can i ask you oh obviously we was meant to have a meeting or whatever you
00:49:11want to call it
00:49:12What was the reason just out of interest why did you not show up
00:49:19Because we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest and i was packing my bags trying
00:49:25to leave up
00:49:25She tried to leave and it's the whole week so it's a snowball not just you it's everything
00:49:28It was really hard like it was just really hard
00:49:30She felt like everything's been coming at her so she wanted to leave and she tried to leave and i
00:49:33didn't let her
00:49:33He was like no you can't
00:49:39In my mindset was to go into it and really talk positive
00:49:43i actually don't have no negative feedback between yours and scott's relationship i think
00:49:47scott's been really honorable how he's like took your daughter on board and stuff like that i think
00:49:51you guys have got a good relationship you back each other
00:49:54i've only got blokes in my life really yeah like my mum and everyone's back home so like it would
00:50:00have been nice to get some advice from a woman in the experiment for like a third party
00:50:05dunny is a liar he's full of shit it would have been probably a screaming match we would have been
00:50:10arguing do i need to be doing that right now no it was just a bad week and i think
00:50:15i couldn't
00:50:15personally take any more at that point because i was like like i'm damned if i do damned if i
00:50:20don't
00:50:20if i go and me and danny argue i'm going to look terrible
00:50:27maybe just next time like try and look at it more positively because i wouldn't have come at
00:50:31you with no disrespect and honestly it wasn't that it was like oh my god it's danny that it was
00:50:36like
00:50:36we had a really tough week in our relationship to be honest she didn't turn up to speak to danny
00:50:42because you know she lied about danny when you said that my husband wants to be with you i think
00:50:48jia cares about jia and taking people out you're the one sending screenshots to people and throwing
00:50:55people under the bus and being vicious and manipulative so we had the commitment ceremony juliet
00:51:00was yelling i don't know if you guys yeah we had we had i'm so over her and her fake
00:51:08two-facedness
00:51:11what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you don't trust
00:51:19juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to take me down like
00:51:28is
00:51:28that the point was that the point was that the point well you tried to take me down so i
00:51:35gave it
00:51:35back to you what was the reason for sending the messages to juliet because you don't know juliet you
00:51:55don't trust juliet but you've sent messages to her about alissa and david but was the point to take
00:52:03me down like is that the point was that the point well you tried to take me down so i
00:52:11gave it back to
00:52:13oh god i'm still feeding that dynamic that we've been trying to call out for weeks now
00:52:23how how how did i try and take
00:52:28stop using me stop using me as a pawn i don't know what the going on here but i'm not
00:52:35playing a game
00:52:37anymore jerry and beg they can just hate each other forever ultimately my main focus is david
00:52:43i want to give my husband my everything and i don't want to get caught up in the ah-yah
00:52:47anymore
00:52:49once again alissa is the collateral damage in other people's fights
00:52:56and it's so unfortunately because it really is generating distress in other couples yes i don't
00:53:02to engage anymore i'm actually done with this conversation thank you i can't do any more drama
00:53:06i can't do any more drama back it's going to go around and around and i'm not doing it thank
00:53:10you so
00:53:10much
00:53:18i just needed to know what whether or not the whole point was to take me down that's all i
00:53:23wanted to
00:53:24know yes it was because you girls ultimately throw each other under the bus every time and you use
00:53:31do you know what do you know that's even worse what's worse is your collateral damage for a war
00:53:39which is that needs to stop that needs to stop well but direct it that way
00:53:46more drama i don't know how to feel about it my feelings are strong for beck i care about beck
00:53:54a lot
00:53:55but sometimes i feel that more focused with drama than it is on our relationship
00:54:01i just wanted to know if the whole point was to throw me under the bus and you guys are
00:54:05collateral i just had to ask the question that was it that's all i needed to know
00:54:14i feel like beck and dear are out for like top dog spot and i'm sorry there is no top
00:54:18dog here
00:54:19um let's remember why we're here to meet a match to have the opportunity to find love so if you're
00:54:26more
00:54:26busy about like sending shitty messages about people sending out screenshots and like oh you said this
00:54:33and you said this then why are you here
00:54:50i'm going to be here
00:54:50hi bro
00:54:51jeffman you
00:54:51hey
00:54:52hey
00:54:52yeah
00:54:52are we okay
00:54:52what's going on is this okay yeah
00:54:55are you sure
00:54:56i just i'm sick of the drama about it if i want to get i came here to focus on
00:55:00a relationship and
00:55:01just like every dinner party at this drama yeah obviously a bit ashamed of beck to be honest i'm
00:55:07not going to lie i'm not going to candy coat it um frustrated because i know that's not how beck
00:55:13is as a person how would you feel in the same situation if every week every single week you were
00:55:20coming to a dinner party and there was something else i don't care how long of that was or what
00:55:25the
00:55:25circumstances is i don't really care what would you expect how would you feel in the same situation
00:55:29please answer the question yeah of course it would be frustrating okay and that's all we're in an
00:55:34experiment babe with vicious vicious vipers around do you think that this is what like is outside of
00:55:41this experiment i didn't come here for drama i came here for love i want to talk about how can
00:55:47i
00:55:48how can i become a better partner and a better husband i feel like sometimes all i do is talk
00:55:52about
00:55:52drama i'm just saying from my point of view i need help as a man with our relationship i've
00:55:59struggle with a lot of these things you know that that's why i came on this experiment because
00:56:03i've failed in the real world but i'd rather get these dinner parties towards positive things and
00:56:07not trauma that's not where i'm from oh no this is a troubling sign isn't it that danny has started
00:56:18to second guess his commitment to beck and these text messages while he knew they were out there
00:56:26they've come up again and he's really now retreating yeah i don't know why you're getting
00:56:32it's out you're saying my peers i'm not throwing you under the bus i'm not throwing you under the bus
00:56:41i'm ride or die you swall out of retreat you swall out of the retreat back and danny's relationship
00:56:47has been so much stronger the past few weeks so to see this now at this point in the process
00:56:54is very
00:56:54discouraging because i want us to have a really good relationship we have a really good we don't
00:56:59daniel do not sit here do not sit here i didn't say we did just relax do not sit here
00:57:04don't be
00:57:05sassy don't sit here and say i want us to have a good relationship but we don't because of drama
00:57:11at dinner parties did i say we don't no i just want you to be worried about what you say
00:57:20i'm very worried i want you to be wary about what you text people sure two months ago daniel two
00:57:27months ago ten years ago i'm done i gotta go has no one ever up before we've been talking about
00:57:37this
00:57:37for nearly two months i can't
00:57:55don't sit here and say i want us to have a good relationship
00:57:59shit but we don't because of drama it didn't cut it did i say we don't i want to start
00:58:04a good
00:58:04relationship to be wary about what to say i'm very wary of i want you to be wary about what
00:58:09you
00:58:09text people sure two months ago daniel two months ago it was ten years ago
00:58:18i'm done i gotta go
00:58:33i'm done i'm not going back in i'm done i want out now i'm done
00:58:44i'm done you can off i'm not going back into that dinner party i want some join down here let's
00:58:50go to
00:58:50the couch for a sec i want out take me downstairs i want out get me out of here
00:58:59you me
00:59:01how you feeling
00:59:03i feel like i'm wasting my time at a dinner party talking about abusive text messages that are sent
00:59:12i came here to work on on my relationship and to try and be a good husband and stuff and
00:59:17it's like
00:59:17i can't voice my opinion because then she says i'm throwing her under the bus
00:59:23he says oh we're ride or die we're ride or die we're not we're not ride or die
00:59:29we're not ride or die this is not okay every single week I come to these dinner parties
00:59:36every single week and it's this has happened this has happened Gia said this to you or
00:59:42it's like I don't care no more I'm here for a wife and a relationship I'm not here for drama
00:59:50do not do not sit there in front of everyone and not show solidarity to me
00:59:55because I've had to apologize to someone
01:00:02pretend just pretend for the sake of me pretend for two minutes
01:00:12Sunday night it's the second last commitment ceremony you ask question of like all right
01:00:19if we go outside the experiment how quick would you expect like a proposal I say the sooner the
01:00:24better well and some are already locking in plans for married life outside of the experiment
01:00:30my man is leaving and he is actually starting to show me what my life here in Sydney could look
01:00:36like
01:00:36and then
01:00:37so last week you said that the noise from the group and around Gia doesn't affect your relationship
01:00:44do you still believe that
01:00:46will Scott speak up and confess how he feels in front of Gia
01:00:51I will admit like
01:00:56the question what was it like it was a bit you see yourself falling in love with me
01:01:01why is Danny dodging the question
01:01:10in one of the most confronting couch sessions ever seen
01:01:15it's a pretty black and white question
01:01:20before the blind side
01:01:25that will leave the room speechless
01:01:29I just can't believe it
01:01:32and now the fallout after the dinner party
01:01:36only on Stan
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