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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:06Oh, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex.
00:00:30You keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:34I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:00:37to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:05Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07You're going to be in our lives, but.
00:01:09You might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16that's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see, it's like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any, because when I tell you to do something,
00:01:28you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:38You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:01:42Don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50What?
00:01:50Stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him, and I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:57So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:00I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:02You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:07It's not, it's not as bad as.
00:02:10Don't come close to me.
00:02:38Good morning.
00:02:39Hi.
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:41Okay.
00:02:42Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:45That's all right.
00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:48Yeah.
00:02:49You're taking chances.
00:02:51It's busy, good, since I want you more.
00:02:56Yeah.
00:02:58I feel so bad.
00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you, get up and get me water.
00:03:02And so, I had a nice sleep.
00:03:03You were a very big caretaker.
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight, and you weren't feeling this, so, you know.
00:03:11You were such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend Joshua for the first time face-to-face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:26night.
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:32me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.
00:03:36Like, it's just, like, swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, like, nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me like a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink, and I took my
00:04:00medicine.
00:04:01That's good.
00:04:01It's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's Vegemite.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:09It smells like sardines.
00:04:13There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:21Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:27I don't like it.
00:04:29Ew, ew, ew!
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian.
00:04:45If you're not eating Vegemite.
00:04:46It tastes like .
00:04:48I hated it.
00:04:53All right, take this Vegemite away from me.
00:04:55All right.
00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:00Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:06Bondi.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07Well, don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:15Well, we might get Toms too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh, my God.
00:05:27All the guys that wear the what's the Speedo thing.
00:05:30I can't.
00:05:31I can't.
00:05:32I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:39It's like really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait.
00:05:45I have to change.
00:05:47Towel's in my bag.
00:05:48Oh.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55How do I do that?
00:05:56About this?
00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is up.
00:06:05Hold me.
00:06:06Hold me.
00:06:06How do you do this part?
00:06:08All right.
00:06:08So now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Yeah.
00:06:10So.
00:06:11How are you going to do that now?
00:06:15Hold it tight.
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:20A little bit.
00:06:23Voila.
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:31Are you going to protect me if they're sharks?
00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best.
00:06:35You ready?
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural.
00:06:55natural there's a lot of sexual chemistry there we're so touchy-feely but he seems a little reserved
00:07:04so i'm just trying to feel him out
00:07:09i mean i do have three weeks here and i came here to find my potential husband
00:07:14so getting to be alone with joshua it's nice because i want to get into the deeper stuff for
00:07:22sure holy camoly i'm full it's funny um you see adults in there freezing and then you see like
00:07:29little kids and they're just like following around for hours i think when i was a kid i spent every
00:07:35day at the beach we'd be swimming in the pool every morning okay but then in the afternoons we'd be
00:07:41like doing the board training every single afternoon i love learning about you i want to get to know
00:07:47everything about you like i want to know the heart like i want you to open up i feel like
00:07:52you're
00:07:54reserved were you reserved in your last serious relationship yeah i probably was a bit reserved
00:07:59in my last relationship i was yeah one big fear is probably i don't know opening up and then having
00:08:06it use like against me you know my previous relationship we dated for seven years
00:08:17but i never felt secure i just felt like i wasn't good enough for her she just wanted me to
00:08:24be you
00:08:24know super successful and i was constantly being told if i wasn't she would walk away so i was always
00:08:33living in fear i guess she could just end it at any time ultimately i had my heart broken and
00:08:40i'm
00:08:40closed off because of that like are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind or like
00:08:47it's just i'm always thinking always always thinking what's your top thought right now this is i like
00:08:55that you're sort of asking these questions but you know it's scary at the same time because it's opening
00:09:00up and being vulnerable no i get it like opening up can be scary but you know what you made
00:09:10me feel
00:09:10safe already really that's like an early early call so hopefully i do the same thing yeah i feel safe
00:09:18with you too
00:09:21hi hi i've never really had a guy say that to me actually like guys have said a lot of
00:09:32things to me
00:09:32but feeling safe is not one i've heard it feels good i don't think there's anything sexier than a man
00:09:40being vulnerable so yeah the plan was to wait but like he's so sweet to me he's so attentive to
00:09:47me he's
00:09:48letting his guard down like it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well so we'll see
00:10:07it's not don't it's not as bad as don't come close to me daniel
00:10:31don't come close to me
00:10:43please try to understand you don't know how hard it was to have a lot of secrets i have no
00:10:51more
00:10:51secrets just listen please i'm trying to tell you who i am jesus christ i'm not a lesbian i'm not
00:11:00straight i'm not bisexual i just believe that people should love people people should love people by
00:11:07their soul and people should love people for who they are on the inside not on what is on the
00:11:12outside
00:11:15i don't think there's anything wrong with that you told me you have had serious of you know relationship
00:11:20i didn't know it's your fellow women same sex
00:11:27yes and you have been lying to me
00:11:31i'm sorry
00:11:34you are evil i'm not evil you know me i take care of people and i've even taken care of
00:11:42you
00:11:42i'm not evil i have a good heart and i'm a good person what makes what makes you a good
00:11:48person sleeping with your fellow women
00:11:50that doesn't make me evil i'm still the same person you fell in love with
00:11:56the same person who tell lies and keep secrets
00:11:59i love you i don't want to hear that from your mouth again i love you don't don't don't
00:12:06don't say that again and you can't tell me not to say those words because i mean it
00:12:10i am in love with you daniel that's why i'm coming clean to you i could have kept this a
00:12:15secret forever
00:12:16and not told you but i'm telling you shut your mouth you have been bitten by a woman not even
00:12:22women
00:12:22women
00:12:26you are a liar i'm just a person who has been lost
00:12:36can you hold it can you hold this ring no
00:12:40hold the ring
00:12:43i've seen that from your head to toe is full of secrets and lies so you're full of evil
00:12:51i'm not full of evil daniel i'm staying in my room tonight
00:13:09i thought i've seen it all because she keep on vomiting secrets
00:13:20i didn't think he called me evil i'm not evil
00:13:25i just believe a person loves a person and i don't think there's anything wrong with that
00:13:35you're not going to accept me for who i am
00:13:38you know what him him
00:13:54you're officially on the jeepney i only have a week left here in the philippines
00:13:58and i don't want to waste any time bringing sheena to america so i have to be very clear here
00:14:05if you file today for the k-1 visa it will be denied
00:14:17as well
00:14:18as usual
00:14:26as well
00:14:28as well
00:14:31this is right as we can see
00:14:57So this is going to be like a village environment, right?
00:15:01Yeah.
00:15:02Yesterday, we traveled from Nusibet to Fort Dauphin, my hometown.
00:15:09We arrived late, so we stay in a hotel.
00:15:12And now we are going to my family's village for a few days.
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:22We use water.
00:15:27We had a big fight last night.
00:15:29I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:16:08I don't want to ruin this vacation.
00:16:10I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:18Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:26We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:32I want them to accept you because I want this relationship work.
00:16:39I do, too.
00:16:42I overreacted yesterday.
00:16:44It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.
00:16:53I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:02There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing
00:17:08to forgive me.
00:17:12So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:16No.
00:17:16What?
00:17:18Is this one?
00:17:19No!
00:17:19No!
00:17:22Let's go now.
00:17:29Nice tuk-tuk right here.
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:45It's quiet.
00:17:46You see?
00:17:46Not much people.
00:17:48Nothing can expect.
00:17:52It's rough roads.
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.
00:17:59Must get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:03No, what?
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:13Everything is just simple.
00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet.
00:18:20But everybody are kind in my village.
00:18:24And it's beautiful.
00:18:27Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me.
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:18:36I don't know.
00:18:37Meet me?
00:18:39They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:18:41And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:18:51Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:01My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:05Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:08When they don't like something,
00:19:11they are really aggressive.
00:19:13Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:19I'm worried.
00:19:20He doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:26Is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here.
00:19:29There's no turning back.
00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:19:46Oh, you're going to have to.
00:19:47How's that work?
00:19:48Well, you can see those sign boards.
00:19:51Uh-huh.
00:19:51Just have to find the right location.
00:19:54So then, we just have to kill para.
00:19:56Oh.
00:19:56Para is the stop.
00:19:57Oh.
00:20:02So here.
00:20:03Oh, here?
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:06All right.
00:20:07We're officially on the GP.
00:20:13There it is.
00:20:14The big part.
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:22Yeah.
00:20:24It's hot.
00:20:25It smells like diesel.
00:20:29It's been a couple of days since I proposed to Sheena,
00:20:31and we are just over the moon in love with each other.
00:20:36But not everyone's happy.
00:20:38Oh.
00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena
00:20:43against her guidance.
00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:20:54Oh, my gosh.
00:20:55So this is the ball here.
00:20:58All right.
00:20:58Here we go.
00:20:59We're getting off.
00:21:00Oh, yeah.
00:21:00Thanks a lot, Mom.
00:21:02While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself,
00:21:05right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.
00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:09And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:15Good morning.
00:21:16Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:20Yes.
00:21:20Now that we're finally engaged,
00:21:22I called an immigration lawyer in Manila
00:21:24just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:27Hi.
00:21:27Oh, hi, sir.
00:21:28Hi.
00:21:29Hi.
00:21:29Good morning.
00:21:30Good morning.
00:21:30My name is Sheena.
00:21:32Nice to meet you.
00:21:33Nice to meet you.
00:21:35Yeah.
00:21:36Good afternoon.
00:21:37Good afternoon, Mr.
00:21:38Welcome to our office.
00:21:39And welcome to the Philippines.
00:21:42I've been enjoying my stay.
00:21:43Okay.
00:21:44So, for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:21:49Of course.
00:21:50Sure.
00:21:50If you are eligible for the K-1 visa.
00:21:53Yeah.
00:21:53Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:21:57Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:59And you have never been convicted of any crime in the U.S.?
00:22:03No.
00:22:04Okay.
00:22:04Scree clean.
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:07When I walk, you can hear.
00:22:08So, are you working right now?
00:22:13Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:16But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:20Okay.
00:22:20I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:22:28live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:22:35I see.
00:22:36So, I have to, um, uh, be very clear here, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as an income.
00:22:49The annual income for, uh, petitioners for, uh, K-1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.
00:22:57Now, is that shared between the both?
00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:00Only the petitioner.
00:23:01That's for the petitioner.
00:23:02Okay.
00:23:03So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:13My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find, again, full employment,
00:23:19then, uh, you can proceed.
00:23:24I'm in complete shock right now.
00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly
00:23:32does not count towards the amount that I need to bring she to the United States.
00:23:38To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully
00:23:53because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:23:57But my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job,
00:24:03our entire dream of bringing she to the United States is done.
00:24:08So, let's say, you know, I go back home.
00:24:10Yep.
00:24:11And I instantly start working.
00:24:13Yeah.
00:24:13How long is enough to have the stable form of income, you know,
00:24:17before the K-1 is actually granted?
00:24:19So, yeah, uh, you need probably a year, uh, employment history.
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:27And then, uh, you will meet another year, uh, at least, uh, to have the petition approved
00:24:33and bring your fiancé to the U.S.
00:24:35Yeah.
00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability,
00:24:57it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a job long term.
00:25:03Is there any other options?
00:25:06So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration,
00:25:10we have a straightforward process.
00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here,
00:25:16there is no requirement of financial capacity.
00:25:18Okay.
00:25:19Okay? So, there will be a, um,
00:25:22a hundred percent chance that the petition will be approved.
00:25:25Okay.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:27So, these options will depend on your goal.
00:25:34At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:25:55I don't know, I'm just real pissed off.
00:25:58And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:26:00I don't know how to move forward.
00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:14No.
00:26:15Okay.
00:26:16Don't talk to me. Don't come to me.
00:26:26You think you can just treat me this way, humiliate me all the time.
00:26:29All right, I'm going to just give you space, all right?
00:26:34All right.
00:26:35All right.
00:26:36cameras, all right?
00:26:43No, no, no.
00:26:44It sounds so simple.
00:27:02I'll kill my husband.
00:27:08I'll kill you.
00:27:09I'll kill you.
00:27:18I'll kill you.
00:27:20I'll kill you.
00:27:20That's it.
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But of course he needs to ruin the moment.
00:27:47Because it's not Juban if he doesn't.
00:27:58Anna, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:00No, no.
00:28:02Huh?
00:28:03Come on.
00:28:18We're just going to leave him for now.
00:28:20Just give her space, man.
00:28:22So she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:30I just feel really hopeless with Anna because I'm putting in massive effort to show Anna that I can be
00:28:38romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place and it's just, I don't know, I'm just real
00:28:46pissed off that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:28:49And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, your day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:02Every time we're having a good time, he would do this to me. Right in front in public. It's so
00:29:10humiliating. I don't think it's powerless. The fact that he could upset me this much definitely has power opposite relationship.
00:29:24Hello?
00:29:27How's your baby?
00:29:32I'm inis-a-ko kay John.
00:29:34Why?
00:29:35It's a bad trip.
00:29:37Why?
00:29:38It's because he wants to be a relationship with my husband.
00:29:42She's like this, like this, like this.
00:29:44I'm not going to be like this, but I'm inis-a-k.
00:30:09I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:30:18It's like I've, like, sacrificed a lot of my life so you can be happy.
00:30:24And even when I do the things you want me to do, it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I was like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can I have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:32I'm so cold.
00:31:35Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39Never thought you would ask.
00:32:03I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean.
00:32:11And I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself.
00:32:21But Josh is just, like, so hot.
00:32:23And we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind, I do have some questions.
00:32:28And I do want to see more of him and more of his life.
00:32:32But, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:32:35So, I bought some massage oil.
00:32:37And then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax.
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay, perfect.
00:32:59Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We just draw on to each other, which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:08We had an amazing day together.
00:33:10And I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine, you know, light a candle and, you know, show that I've got skills.
00:33:23Wow.
00:33:25Look at this.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:30Welcome to Sydney.
00:33:32Making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:41Feel like a massage?
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm going to light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48It's a cow, Inspector.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:52Okay.
00:34:00Is that all right?
00:34:01That's okay.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:12Wait.
00:34:14You should go down lower.
00:34:17You're, like, trying to be, like, a little respectful, but come on.
00:34:22Give me a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me, like, everything.
00:34:25Slap on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:32Rip me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:37It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:40Are you nervous?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:45You reckon?
00:34:46Mm-hmm.
00:34:54Guys.
00:34:59What the f*** are you doing?
00:35:03Oh, my God.
00:35:05The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I'm going to stop on my car.
00:35:15I'm getting a wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:23I'm naked right now.
00:35:25You know, there's better places to give a naked massage in the house than the communal area.
00:35:29Half naked massage.
00:35:30Yeah, you know what?
00:35:31You're absolutely right.
00:35:31Yeah.
00:35:32But, you know, I think I was just blind with lust.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:37Who do you have to say it so weird for, bro?
00:35:43All right.
00:35:44Well, I'm going to go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:50This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:35:55Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:04Who is that?
00:36:05Who would have...
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris walks in as your hands are groping my body.
00:36:14And it's, like, such a sexual, nice night.
00:36:16And, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:19Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:36Andrus?
00:36:37Andrus?
00:36:37Andrus, andrus, the air to air.
00:36:38Wait, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Yeah.
00:36:41Out of the toilet.
00:36:43Oh, hell no!
00:36:44Yeah.
00:36:45I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:36:51Paper for this, isn't it?
00:36:53This is paper to write on.
00:36:55You wipe this?
00:36:57Yes!
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Wow, babe.
00:37:20This is where you grew up?
00:37:21Yeah, it's here.
00:37:35Hey!
00:37:36Yeah.
00:37:37Is that your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine.
00:37:39But my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:41We just got to the area of Trish's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far to get to off the main road.
00:37:52Ooh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trish because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval, I think that she would be able to see that I'm a
00:38:07good person.
00:38:09And maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14Oh, this is it?
00:38:15Yeah, this is my house.
00:38:18Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:20Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:23I need to meet her.
00:38:26She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:33And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:35Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:36Yes.
00:38:37Come on, brother.
00:38:39Por favor.
00:38:40Chissie.
00:38:41Hello, sir.
00:38:42How you doing?
00:38:43Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trish has told me that she has a huge family and they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54You?
00:38:54Hi, I'm Rick.
00:38:55Nice to meet you.
00:38:56Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:57Okay.
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:04This is your sister?
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:07You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:23Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:44My dad says, you sleep down?
00:39:49Oh, and me, I'm sorry.
00:39:51Uh, okay.
00:39:53The bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in the bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:11Oh, this is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20There's no running water coming up to wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25And where does this water come from?
00:40:27From the river?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:31A well?
00:40:32Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:38Oh, man, I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:45Yeah.
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it.
00:40:52Paper for the...
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:57This is paper to write on.
00:40:59You wipe this?
00:41:00Yes.
00:41:01Break.
00:41:02Stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit in this.
00:41:06Oh, good.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father.
00:41:14But I'm not surprised.
00:41:18Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here, they're getting kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here, afraid of something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:50Oh, my God.
00:41:52Terrible.
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:53Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah.
00:41:55This is the living room.
00:41:58Mandrusu, Mandrusu, Mandrusu, Mandrusu.
00:42:01What is this?
00:42:02Like a family meeting or something?
00:42:04Okay.
00:42:05Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here, and it's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:32In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41But it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:42:52This is a blessing.
00:42:54That's it.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:43:27Say it.
00:43:46Thank you for this.
00:43:56Oh, is that his?
00:43:58Yeah, his breast.
00:43:59Oh, OK.
00:44:17Baba.
00:44:24Until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:44:26until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:44:29I'm still deeply in love with Daniel.
00:44:32I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:44:35he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:44:39Some sex is a disgrace.
00:44:40This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:44:43Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us,
00:44:45or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:44:51Thanks for listening.
00:44:52I will see you next time.
00:44:52Bye bye.
00:44:53Bye bye.
00:45:00Bye bye.
00:45:04Bye bye.
00:45:07Bye bye.
00:45:07Bye bye.
00:45:11Bye bye.
00:45:12Bye bye.
00:45:13Bye bye.
00:45:14Bye bye.
00:45:14Bye bye.
00:45:24I feel miserable, numb, really sad.
00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:45:39I just don't know what happens from here.
00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:45:47I told him everything.
00:45:48There are no more secrets.
00:45:51And he didn't react good.
00:45:53He called me evil.
00:45:55He didn't talk to me.
00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.
00:45:58He's not accepting who I am.
00:46:01So he slept on the sofa.
00:46:02I slept in the bedroom.
00:46:05I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.
00:46:09But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.
00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again and that he's going to leave me.
00:46:23But until he says, I don't want to be with you, until he says those words, I'm not giving up
00:46:28hope.
00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore about me lying about still being married.
00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance, looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a
00:46:47person he fell in love with those months ago,
00:46:49that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.
00:46:55But now it's up to him.
00:47:02How do you feel?
00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.
00:47:06I don't think her lies is over.
00:47:08Because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:47:12Why did you call her evil?
00:47:14Because she's evil.
00:47:16Keeping all these secrets.
00:47:18I've been thinking away of how to talk to my uncle about the one she told me already.
00:47:24that she has not been divorced.
00:47:27Not knowing that she has been in a relationship with her fellow women.
00:47:30She's been practicing same sex.
00:47:34So, I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:47:37It's against our tradition.
00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like, we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:00You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to think.
00:48:06Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:18I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again.
00:48:23Bad again.
00:48:24Bad again.
00:48:25But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did, I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:35I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:39You're on your own.
00:48:40Hope you feel the pain of your thoughts inside.
00:48:42Driving you insane.
00:48:52And I will love past my show.
00:48:55But you can't hurt anymore.
00:49:00Hurt anymore.
00:49:02And it's already done.
00:49:13So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:27I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:30Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:35Anything.
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You called it anything.
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that is involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:47But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you are in my country.
00:49:51You are in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56My uncle, I have to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you.
00:50:37I was scared to tell you.
00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:51:01I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:22I don't want to talk about this anymore.
00:51:23Help that out.
00:51:24That does not hurt.
00:51:25That really hurts?
00:51:26It's not happening.
00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.
00:51:31I'm good.
00:51:41Did you sleep well?
00:51:43I'm pretty tired.
00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:51:48I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:51:52Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer but it felt right.
00:51:57It was a lot of fun.
00:52:00Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:52:04Uh, possibly.
00:52:06How many times did you have sex last night?
00:52:09Twice.
00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.
00:52:15It was like missionary.
00:52:17It was great.
00:52:18And then like to the side was the other one.
00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:52:26Well you didn't even me doggy style.
00:52:28So I couldn't even see the painting yesterday, last night.
00:52:33I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:52:36Like I'm so comfortable with you.
00:52:38Like usually like at home like if I like sleep with a guy like I just want to like go
00:52:43leave the next day.
00:52:45But like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you.
00:52:47And then like I'm happy that I'm here.
00:52:49And like I came.
00:52:55Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage, that definitely brought the mood down.
00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:53:04up.
00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of the more.
00:53:07Everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised.
00:53:13It was the first uncircumcised.
00:53:18It's a little weird.
00:53:19It's like, you know, but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin.
00:53:27But like, like I'm not complaining about it.
00:53:32I can deal with that.
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:53:42I did.
00:53:43I'm like one part of me is like super happy.
00:53:45But the other part of me is like, I should have.
00:53:47I should.
00:53:48I want to know more than and then.
00:53:50But whatever.
00:53:50Like I shouldn't be so hard on myself.
00:53:52Just ask anything you want.
00:53:54Do anything you want.
00:53:55Say anything you want.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:56Okay, I'll start asking.
00:53:58Don't hate me.
00:53:59Okay, go.
00:54:01So I'm confused about this rental situation.
00:54:04Like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that.
00:54:07Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?
00:54:12Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.
00:54:17I mean, look, we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.
00:54:21After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:54:32I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:54:37So why?
00:54:39I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle because you've confused me
00:54:44so much.
00:54:46I know Nat, we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together, I think their relationship's a little
00:54:53weird.
00:54:54If it's so platonic and you're just friends, why would you have to lie to me about it and tell
00:54:58me you're living with your parents?
00:55:00This just smells fishy to me.
00:55:04Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl and like you
00:55:12talk about her a lot too.
00:55:14And like, I just, I don't know, like.
00:55:18She's my friend.
00:55:19You're here.
00:55:20You're my, you're my girlfriend.
00:55:21So it's, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:55:23I would, I would treat exactly the same as I do Chris, you know?
00:55:26Like, do you guys like share a bathroom?
00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?
00:55:29Like, like, how does that work?
00:55:31Why is that funny?
00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you'd ask those questions.
00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom, but, but, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:55:42Her and I are just friends.
00:55:43She's like, you know, she's a really good friend, but, you know, she knows about you and that you're my
00:55:48partner and, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and, and back
00:56:04out of this before you got here.
00:56:05So, you know, when you're telling me the truth.
00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.
00:56:18So, I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.
00:56:24If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out, it's like,
00:56:29what else do I not know that I shouldn't know?
00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:56:43so.
00:56:50Oh, God.
00:56:52Oh.
00:56:52Oh, I'm, I'm 52.
00:56:5752.
00:57:03They want babies.
00:57:31That's a goat.
00:57:33We call it.
00:57:35That's enough.
00:57:37It's swollen up there.
00:57:50Oh, thank you.
00:57:53Oh, thank you.
00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt.
00:58:04Try that.
00:58:12Only women are allowed to sit like this.
00:58:15She's not going to sit like this till the end.
00:58:17Just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything is seem pretty good with Rick and my family, even though he's acting like an old man.
00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it, but I know my family is going to be asking
00:58:39him a lot of questions and I don't know how Rick is going to respond.
00:58:51Like, what is your intention?
00:59:06I love her very much, and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:16I love her very much.
00:59:38Oh, I'm 52.
00:59:53You have the same age as him.
01:00:24You have married?
01:00:28Yes, I've been married twice.
01:00:33But now, I'm not married.
01:00:39Do you have a child?
01:00:41Yes.
01:00:42I have two babies, and then I have three adults.
01:01:05They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids, and I'm just not ready
01:01:27to make that decision yet.
01:01:48They want respect, and as a mother, we get married.
01:01:58I have a child.
01:02:03I have a child.
01:02:07I have a child.
01:02:35It's the forefront of my mind, and...
01:02:52Before, you know, I come to your father
01:02:55and ask for your hand in marriage,
01:02:58I will make a decision.
01:03:10Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt
01:03:14about having kids.
01:03:16But now the heat is on,
01:03:18and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish
01:03:25that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.
01:03:29But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:03:34I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:03:41Today I found out that he was living with you.
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44I thought you knew that.
01:03:44I don't think that guys and girls can be friends
01:03:47without hooking up.
01:03:48I've tried that, it's never succeeded for me.
01:03:49Oh no, I have so many guy friends.
01:03:51Let's put two and two together.
01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.
01:03:55Something's fishy, something's shady.
01:03:57So are you jealous of me?
01:04:24This is boring.
01:04:26Is reading it doing easy to play?
01:04:33I'm so frustrated with Javon, but it makes me feel good when I look good, so I'm just
01:04:39going to do my own thing.
01:04:43And we talk.
01:04:54That's all we do, talk.
01:04:56So frustrating.
01:05:02I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never going to resolve this problem.
01:05:09Really can't do this submissive thing.
01:05:14I'm afraid that it's trying to change me.
01:05:19But I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just
01:05:24back out.
01:05:27We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:05:38Hey.
01:05:40I like your outfit.
01:05:50Thanks.
01:05:51I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:06:00Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:06:12You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:06:16You're going to hear me.
01:06:21It causes more fights than it solves.
01:06:23I get what you're coming from, but this is what you're married.
01:06:29I am not the type of woman who would just say yes, just to have peace.
01:06:36Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:06:46The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:06:52And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:06:57Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,
01:07:05I mean, we argue.
01:07:06My initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:07:18I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:07:23I know you're not my dad.
01:07:25The point is, you're hard on me.
01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:07:32I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.
01:07:36And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father.
01:07:47He died a long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:07:54I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:07:58If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:08:15I'm sorry, because I haven't realized that I was...
01:08:23And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:08:36All right?
01:08:37Deal?
01:08:38All right.
01:08:39Come on.
01:08:40Be all right.
01:08:43I'll work it out, okay?
01:08:45Mm-mm, I'm sweaty.
01:08:47Oh, well, let's go to the room where it's cool, man.
01:08:49You want to?
01:08:50Yeah.
01:08:51All right.
01:08:53I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:09:01Thank you so much, Mubu.
01:09:05I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:09:12Oh, yeah?
01:09:15Yeah.
01:09:16Yeah.
01:09:17Take me a minute.
01:09:19Catch y'all.
01:09:31I get the feeling that we're going all the way
01:09:35Because we're falling deep, boy, and I got so much to say
01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?
01:09:42Absolutely perfect.
01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something.
01:09:49Aren't you?
01:09:50And guess what?
01:09:51What?
01:09:51I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:09:54So I have to carry it?
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56That's not great.
01:10:04Oh, God, it's a little nipply out.
01:10:06A little nipply.
01:10:10Do you want to jump on?
01:10:12Yeah.
01:10:12Do you want to jump on?
01:10:13Yeah.
01:10:14Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:10:17Is there upstairs?
01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends
01:10:21To get her out in the city, in the harbour.
01:10:24I am excited, but nervous, more so.
01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat
01:10:30And she was not happy about it.
01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:10:40Are you falling?
01:10:41Yeah.
01:10:42Falling for you.
01:10:43Oh.
01:10:44That was cool.
01:10:46Wow.
01:10:50This is, like, stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?
01:11:11Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:11:12It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers, and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:22Hey!
01:11:24Hello, hello, hello, hello.
01:11:26Hello.
01:11:28Nice to meet you.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:30Alyse.
01:11:30How are you?
01:11:31Oh, you're a young person.
01:11:32I'm tall.
01:11:33I'm Norman.
01:11:33You're not tall.
01:11:34Hey, Liz.
01:11:35How are you?
01:11:36Steve.
01:11:36Nice to meet you, finally.
01:11:38Nice to meet you.
01:11:40And I know you.
01:11:41I know you.
01:11:42Ugh.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:46Chewbacca?
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:49We're all sitting alone, but I don't know what we're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by seagulls, but...
01:11:53Hopefully no one can look at my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:11:59This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favorite people.
01:12:04I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Alyse.
01:12:09I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:14Okay.
01:12:14To my girlfriend, Alyse.
01:12:18I can't.
01:12:22I've spoken to Alyse before, and she comes across lovely, but she comes across very Miami.
01:12:29Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well, very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah, correct, correct, correct.
01:12:36But she'll skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:38Are you jealous of her daughter?
01:12:4016 hours.
01:12:41I'm so...
01:12:41I don't think this way.
01:12:43You guys, I don't like, I don't like, they sit too far away, so...
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?
01:12:47Yes, let's do it.
01:12:48Okay, let's do it.
01:12:52Are we gonna go in here?
01:12:54Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:12:54We're gonna go in here.
01:12:55Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is, they're all nice.
01:13:03But when I see Nat, and I think my boyfriend lives with her, I'm like, is there something
01:13:08like I'm not understanding?
01:13:09Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but like, I think it's weird.
01:13:13I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27Are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Bond, I did.
01:13:30I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:35Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41He was staying in the drink a little bit.
01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:49He was kind of between places, and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with me?
01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00And I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to...
01:14:04Support.
01:14:05Yeah, shoulder to cry on.
01:14:06So, it worked out well.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest friends.
01:14:12It's nice.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:15I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay!
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26It's probably a little bit of a culture.
01:14:27It's a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:28It's definitely a culture thing, yeah.
01:14:29It's a record or, like, back.
01:14:30We're a bit more easier about it.
01:14:32Like, we trust more, I think.
01:14:34I think we trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:37I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:40I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So, I find it very weird.
01:14:45I think about lies and insecurities.
01:14:48And hopefully they'll grow together and go through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have to be completely
01:15:02honest.
01:15:07So, are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:15:11I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:15:24I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:28Great, but...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I've been generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person.
01:15:32And I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of...
01:15:41No, no, no, no, no.
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:44That's...
01:15:45That offends me.
01:15:51She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:15:54So, yeah, you could say financially, help me there.
01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00I should have been more clearer.
01:16:01And I'm truly more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:06Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:11Something's fishy.
01:16:12Something's shady.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:16:17That's disgusting and weird.
01:16:18Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:43I'm sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry, Acheen.
01:16:46I'm so sorry.
01:16:55I'm so sorry, Acheen.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:16:59Yeah, I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer, and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count, and it's going to take
01:17:38years, this is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:44There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:51Well, for me, it's like, I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love, but why do we have to live
01:18:17in your country? That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here, you have to have a Filipino visa, and I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:32Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:35I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:41I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes me upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:19:02I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me?
01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So, I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:20Reach out, fly low, when I'm thinking.
01:19:29I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you that I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:03I'm sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:09Oh, Keith, John.
01:20:14Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,
01:20:20I feel kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:20:31This, this is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:20:35She's my second half.
01:20:37I know she's the one for me.
01:20:40And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything, I don't want to lose that.
01:20:46I won't give it away.
01:20:51I won't keep trying.
01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work, babe.
01:21:03Ah, you're going to play.
01:21:04Oh, you're sorry.
01:21:05This is kind of turning me on, babe.
01:21:08I did not know.
01:21:09Rolling some pantheritya could be sexy.
01:21:12I'm so hungry.
01:21:14You have pregnancy clearance?
01:21:15Ooh.
01:21:17I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:21:19How would you feel if I was?
01:21:25Tell me you love her.
01:21:27I was in love with her.
01:21:29I would have made a move.
01:21:30Dude, you made a move.
01:21:31You blow it.
01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:34Laura made a move on me.
01:21:36I am thinking about sharing my life, and you are keeping secrets from me?
01:21:41This is betrayal.
01:21:49I think this water is cold.
01:21:52Ha, you can survive.
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying, and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:10Going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed, it's kind of surreal.
01:22:14I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:22:19Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:22:27My heart's racing.
01:22:34Why did you just leave?
01:22:38So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:22:41So you just walk away from me?
01:22:43After what I found out about Nat, my mind is just in so many directions and I'm freaking out.
01:22:51I don't know what the going on right now.
01:22:55I want to go home.
01:23:00She has gotten married five times.
01:23:03And from 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:23:09Why am I hearing this one now?
01:23:12This is an abomination.
01:23:14No.
01:23:14I can't help what my past is like.
01:23:16I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:23:20I can't believe you.
01:23:22Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:23:26I can't help.
01:23:28I can't help.
01:23:29I can't help.
01:23:30Woo!
01:23:31Woo!