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00:05Previously on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills where the girls tease you at all about
00:11the photos that came out.
00:12They told me that I'm in my host age.
00:16If you saw your ex in the press kissing somebody, how would you feel about that?
00:22Have you gone on any dates?
00:23My husband is too busy torturing me.
00:27What did you think about Dorit?
00:29I was wondering, like, is her talking to everyone going to end up affecting the divorce in some
00:34kind of negative way?
00:36I just want to know, Amanda, what your take is on me discussing my divorce.
00:44Can I be really, really honest?
00:47Zion died three years ago today and I'm holding on by a thread.
00:51I knew that she had a child that passed away, but I definitely didn't know that it was today.
00:58Amanda, I'm so sorry you're going through this.
01:00Just no.
01:01Don't touch me right now, please.
01:02Okay.
01:29Hey, ladies.
01:30This is so beautiful.
01:31Get in here.
01:32How are you?
01:33Hi.
01:33Hi, babe.
01:35You look great.
01:35Oh, my God.
01:37I didn't, like, I'm not great at weekend dressing, like, during the day.
01:41I don't know how to do anything.
01:42Like, I just, I can do night and I can do a bathroom.
01:45I can do a costume and I can do sweats.
01:47Right.
01:47I just love Erica.
01:48I love her energy.
01:50I tend to gravitate towards people that have things in them that I don't.
01:55She has a fearlessness about her and I just love that she is real.
02:00She keeps it real.
02:02Okay.
02:03I mean, can we talk about that?
02:04I'll say.
02:04Yes.
02:06Erica, what the ?
02:07I want to tell you something.
02:08I did not see that coming.
02:10I did not see that coming and I feel terrible.
02:13Same.
02:14I don't know what Dorit's going to do with Amanda.
02:17Listen, Dorit came at her with like, what the are you talking about me and my ex-husband?
02:21And I was like, is Amanda just going to own this right now and be like, yes, I said this.
02:26And then she says it's the anniversary of her twin son's death.
02:30And I literally was like, I like went dark.
02:33How could we know about the anniversary of her son's death?
02:37Amanda has given us lots of information about her business and her accolades,
02:42but nothing this personal.
02:45Okay.
02:45Can I just say something?
02:46Does it bother you when you're in a very tight space with someone and someone is very loud on a
02:51call?
02:52Yes.
02:52It's annoying.
02:53I can't figure out what's wrong with someone's phone if they're saving things in a way that it's blurry.
02:57Like it's not what I should be doing.
02:59I could take a car to LA on Thursday and I thought you were telling me the website was done.
03:05And so I said to my friend Erica, oh, my website's done.
03:07And I had my laptop with me.
03:09And then I think I dreamed the whole thing.
03:11That was loud as .
03:13Well, it feels performative.
03:14It did.
03:15It felt performative.
03:16It did.
03:16Look at me.
03:17I have a good business.
03:18I'm so successful.
03:18I'm so successful.
03:19We know that.
03:20Everything with Amanda kind of feels like, I want you to see this.
03:24I want you to hear this.
03:26I want everyone in this car to hear me on the phone.
03:29She wrote a book.
03:30She's successful.
03:31That's her business.
03:32Godspeed.
03:32I don't love the name Money Queen.
03:33Well.
03:34That's not for me to judge.
03:35That's the name of her business.
03:36I am someone who, while I think people would perceive me as being like very over the top,
03:41I am extremely quiet about my work and my business and my accomplishments or whatever I've achieved in my life.
03:49Something's off with this girl.
03:51She feels very, like, airline attendant from the 60s.
03:57Do you know what I mean?
03:58Like a Pan Am, like, flight attendant with the, like, okay, so how should I respond to this?
04:04What should be my reaction to this?
04:16Oh.
04:16Hi.
04:17Hi.
04:17Come on in.
04:18How are you?
04:19How are you?
04:20Welcome to Canyon Cleaners Studio.
04:23I'll just show you all the way through.
04:25Okay.
04:27This would be great for my friends.
04:36Hi.
04:37I like your outfit.
04:38I like yours.
04:39I mean, could we be any more opposite?
04:40We're very opposite.
04:41I'm coming from Newport.
04:42These longer shorts are very in right now.
04:44Mm-hmm.
04:45Do you want to think they were nice enough to bring me some water?
04:48Oh, yeah.
04:48Do I have?
04:49I would love some cold water.
04:51Yes.
04:51Are you looking for anything specific?
04:53The home is done, other than the theater.
04:56I don't want theater chairs.
04:58All right.
04:58We want, like, big chairs.
04:59Couches.
04:59I want couches.
05:01One couch, two couch, three couch, those big love sack poofs in the front.
05:05These are great chairs, too.
05:07So how is everything?
05:09I'm a shell of my former self.
05:11Rachel's party definitely took a toll on me.
05:14I woke up every 30 minutes all night long with my heart pounding.
05:20Which says to me that my body experienced that interaction like a physiological threat.
05:26I couldn't sleep.
05:27I don't have, like, emotional breakdowns.
05:30Truly, ever.
05:31Right.
05:31Well, you were actually very calm, cool collected, so.
05:34Well, I am a pretty grounded person.
05:36Like, I do keep my wits about me.
05:37So, thank you.
05:38Yeah, I don't.
05:40And if I get upset, it's hard for me to keep my wits about me.
05:43I mean, I have to say.
05:44So I thought you were very composed.
05:46Dorit was acting in a way that felt aggressive.
05:49There was an attack energy.
05:51This is not how classy women behave.
05:53I expected remorse from Dorit at the very least.
05:58And I've heard crickets.
06:00I just...
06:03She disrespected me.
06:05And she disrespected my son on the anniversary of his death.
06:08And that's .
06:10No, no, no, I know.
06:12Obviously, she didn't know, which was not good.
06:14But then I told her.
06:14Yes, then you told her.
06:16I do wish that she had, once you said that.
06:18Those are words that should stop anyone in their tracks.
06:21Right?
06:24I'm sorry that you're, you know, it landed on the day like today.
06:31Maybe we'll have the conversation again.
06:33But I just...
06:36I'm just curious.
06:38Having an opinion from someone who doesn't know me,
06:41doesn't know my situation, doesn't know my husband,
06:43and actually said to me, after I met you the first time,
06:48that you thought about me all weekend and prayed for me.
06:52Obviously, I can understand Amanda being very sensitive
06:55about this topic anyone in her shoes would be.
06:57But I just don't think Dorit meant it like she thinks she did.
07:01I mean, Dorit did not know that information.
07:04Is it what bothered you the most the way she addressed it?
07:06Or that once you had told her that it was the anniversary
07:09of the baby passing?
07:11What bothers me the most is she thinks it is appropriate
07:14to verbally accost someone and come at them with accusation
07:18and aggression instead of asking them the question.
07:20It would have been highly inappropriate whether it was
07:22the anniversary of Zion's death or not.
07:25But it's a whole nother thing that I told her
07:29that I couldn't gather my thoughts and figure out
07:30what the she was saying because of what I was grieving.
07:33I told her that and she kept going.
07:35That's another thing entirely.
07:38But neither are a good look for her.
07:43I will not go to dinner parties feeling emotionally unsafe.
07:46I mean, it's giving Crystal Mink off.
07:50The word violation actually means to abuse your privacy.
07:54Disrespect of boundaries.
07:56Period.
07:57Google it.
07:58Oh, like I won't have my cortisol spike
08:00and my nervous system become dysregulated
08:02because she can't speak to me like an adult.
08:05Amanda is going to have to have a lot thicker skin
08:09to be in this group.
08:11You have, you know, you have your boundaries, you know,
08:16and you're...
08:17I'm going to have to set a goddamn boundary,
08:18but that's okay.
08:20Won't be the first time I've set a boundary in my life.
08:25Right.
08:27Coming up.
08:28I went looking up her books,
08:29and I see this blog that says,
08:31I was in a cult.
08:32I was like, what?
08:33Don't go.
08:34I was in a cult.
08:49Oh.
08:50Oh, that jumped.
08:51All right.
08:52Thank you very much.
08:54Table for four.
08:55St. John, thank you so much.
08:59Great.
09:00Okay.
09:03I'm excited.
09:04Me too.
09:04Yeah.
09:05I can't wait to meet them.
09:06Oh, my gosh.
09:06This is so nice.
09:07Isn't it so beautiful?
09:08Yeah.
09:09It's such a cute place.
09:10I love this place.
09:11It's such a cute place.
09:11I think it's Mexican, but, you know,
09:14with a little mix.
09:16Summer is my sister from another mister.
09:19Hi, Yara!
09:21Hi.
09:22Hi, babe.
09:23How are you?
09:24Where's your stuff?
09:28It'll be fine.
09:28We'll pick it up later.
09:29We were in cheerleading together.
09:31She swam, and I ran track,
09:34and we'd be at each other's meets,
09:36cheering each other on all of the time.
09:42Hi.
09:43Hi.
09:44Oh, you look so beautiful.
09:46I do.
09:46This is my friend, Summer.
09:47This is Kyle.
09:49Summer?
09:49Nice to meet you.
09:50Yeah.
09:50Nice to meet you.
09:51Nice to meet you.
09:56Hi.
09:57Hi.
09:57Hi, my beauty.
09:58How are you?
09:59You look so good.
10:00Hi, Summer.
10:01So, Summer and I have been friends for 34 years.
10:05Oh, my gosh.
10:05I know.
10:06We met, like, freshman year in high school.
10:08So, Summer comes, like, once a year to visit.
10:10She lives in Oklahoma.
10:11So, when did you move from Colorado?
10:13Yeah.
10:13I got married, like, a week after I graduated from college.
10:17Right after high school, you were...
10:19Yeah, I was gone.
10:20I was not coming back.
10:22Oh, man.
10:22I was, like...
10:23Get me on the first train.
10:25Out of here.
10:25When I landed in Colorado Springs from Ghana,
10:28I had a huge culture shock.
10:30I mean, I had left a vibrant, sunny, very spicy culture
10:35to land in a cold place that served hot dogs.
10:40It was very, very stark.
10:42And by stark, you know what I mean, right?
10:44But there were a lot of Gretchen's.
10:46There was some Annette's.
10:49Some Gwen's.
10:51And definitely a Summer.
10:53You want any starters for now?
10:54You guys doing good?
10:55Um...
10:56Should we get some starters?
10:57Yes, let's get some starters.
10:58First of all, definitely guacamole.
10:59Guac, for sure.
11:00And then...
11:01I think I'm gonna do a tortilla soup.
11:03This is a fish?
11:04That's correct.
11:04I'll do one of those.
11:05I want some carne asada tacos.
11:08Oh, thank you, thank you.
11:10So, Dorit, Summer's been through a tough divorce as well.
11:13I was a stay-at-home mom,
11:14and my ex-husband was able to get
11:17temporary full custody of our kids
11:19for the two years it took to get to trial.
11:22And he's a lawyer.
11:24Military.
11:24He was military, Jack.
11:26So I went from seeing my kids, of course,
11:28all the time to every other weekend for two years.
11:31Oh, my gosh.
11:31Oh, my gosh, I can't.
11:32And it literally almost killed me.
11:35You guys are both going through a really hard time.
11:39Yes.
11:40I mean, listen, Kyle has got a slightly different situation,
11:44luckily.
11:44You and Mo were friends, right?
11:46Mm-hmm.
11:47In your situation, when you first saw pictures of Mo,
11:52did it ever cross your mind, I want to file?
11:56Yes.
11:57It did?
11:58Yes.
11:59And why didn't you?
12:00It's a very big decision, and it's scary.
12:02Yes, it is.
12:03It's not just me.
12:04I'm thinking about everybody.
12:05Yeah.
12:06When I was in Aspen recently,
12:09I felt a little bit invisible.
12:12Oh.
12:13And then I'm like, okay, it's time.
12:16When you were with him and the girls?
12:18Yeah, but then I come back, and then I'm like,
12:19it's just easier like this, and we're good friends,
12:21and, you know, I know that he loves me.
12:23Why did you feel invisible?
12:23You know.
12:24You felt invisible to him.
12:25Yes.
12:26We travel together as a family sometimes,
12:28and, you know, he has his room, I have my room,
12:32but when I would see him in the morning,
12:37and having coffee, or whatever the activity was for the day,
12:41I just didn't feel very seen.
12:45Even though we're separated, even as a friend,
12:49I want more from you.
12:52You know, I don't want to be talking to a wall,
12:56or be talking to someone and having them look at their phone.
12:59Can I ask you something, honey?
13:01Mm-hmm.
13:01Like, you know, friend to friend.
13:04Do you think in the back of your mind
13:06that the reason why you wouldn't file
13:09is that maybe there's a chance you two will reconcile?
13:13Oh, my God.
13:28Can I ask you something, honey?
13:30Mm-hmm.
13:30Like, you know, friend to friend.
13:33Do you think in the back of your mind
13:35that the reason why you wouldn't file
13:38is that maybe there's a chance you two will reconcile?
13:42Oh, my God.
13:46You know what?
13:47You're gonna live a long life.
13:49How are you?
13:49We were just talking about you.
13:50We were just talking about you.
13:52Just talking about you.
13:53Literally just talking about you, Mo.
13:55Literally.
13:56Have you ever met Boas?
13:57Mauricio.
13:58Hey, this is my husband.
14:00That's so summer.
14:02Hi, it's so nice to meet you.
14:03How do you do?
14:04It's a pleasure to meet you.
14:05Thank you so much.
14:06Where are you?
14:07I was just at a meeting with my new Saudi partner.
14:10We're opening up the agency in Saudi.
14:12Are we being pranked right now?
14:14I mean, this is insane.
14:15Are you kidding me?
14:18Are you kidding me?
14:20What does he have me on?
14:21Find My?
14:22I'm telling you, this town is too small for the both of us.
14:26We're asking basically.
14:27I mean, have you thought about filing?
14:30No.
14:31Like, you've not thought about filing?
14:33I've never asked.
14:34Oh, sorry.
14:36I know.
14:36Why?
14:37Have you ever thought about it?
14:39We've been making that a couple of times.
14:41I'm sure.
14:42I should have just kept walking.
14:44Yeah, you really should have.
14:45I'm telling you.
14:45Because now you're in the hot seat.
14:47And you might have touched it down.
14:49Oh, my God.
14:50It is very good to meet you.
14:51Yeah.
14:52It's a pleasure to meet you as well.
14:53Yeah.
14:54You know, I almost attacked you last summer.
14:59What is happening?
15:00Yeah, I saw you at Soho House in Malibu.
15:03And I was getting a play-by-play of everything you were doing.
15:05When I went to Soho House a few days later,
15:08there is Mo with his girl.
15:11A female.
15:12A girl.
15:13A girl.
15:13With a woman.
15:14A girl.
15:15I was watching you like a fox.
15:16Okay, hold on.
15:19Wait, he's terrified.
15:20Who was I with?
15:21Do you know who I was?
15:21Yes.
15:22A girl.
15:23You could have said hi, by the way.
15:24I could have.
15:25It's called a girl's girl.
15:26I chose a spy.
15:28You call it a girl's girl, I call it a spy.
15:30I'm just saying, how is my person?
15:33We're detectives and spies.
15:35Yes.
15:35That's what we are.
15:36Yeah.
15:37I got it.
15:38I got it.
15:38I know what I walked into.
15:39You know?
15:40I got it.
15:42I haven't seen you forever.
15:44So long.
15:45My God.
15:46Come on.
15:47Let's get together.
15:48That's too funny.
15:49I want to get together and chit-chat.
15:51Yeah.
15:52I'd be thrilled to, anytime you want.
15:54I mean, obviously I hear his-
15:55Well, I think you've heard one side, so I think you should hear the other side.
15:57I'd be thrilled to.
15:58The thing is, Mo, I want what's best for the kids, period.
16:03And the only way for our kids not to have as much damage is for us to be friendly.
16:09I totally agree with that statement, you know, and I can tell you that if you wanted to,
16:13I would be willing to sit down with you and completely listen to you without any response.
16:19After you've heard what I have to say, if you feel like there's things that you want
16:24to say to PK, say them from your heart.
16:26Honestly, I feel like at this point I've exhausted every possible avenue to try to sit down with
16:31PK and communicate.
16:33And I know that we have reached a place where it's really necessary that him and I have some
16:39kind of communication in order to co-parent efficiently.
16:43Mo is literally my only hope.
16:47I'm happy to do it.
16:48You know what, Mo?
16:49I don't have your number.
16:51And I'm going to get it.
16:52Yes, you should.
16:52Right now, I'm going to get it.
16:54You should.
16:54And I'm going to message you at will.
16:56You do it.
16:57You should.
16:57PK and I are not good.
16:59And I was wondering and curious if you're speaking to him or if you have spoken to him.
17:06My friendship with PK is memes and jokes.
17:13I am going to call you.
17:15I'm going to message you.
17:16You're allowed to.
17:17Anyway, ladies, you made my night.
17:19I am out of here.
17:20All right.
17:20Bye.
17:21It's amazing.
17:22See you later.
17:23Wow.
17:23Enjoy your dinner.
17:24Thank you so much.
17:25See you all.
17:26Girl, how did that happen?
17:28That is fake.
17:29But you know what, though?
17:30He is very charismatic.
17:32Mo has got it.
17:33I understand.
17:35He's got the charm.
17:36He's got the good looks.
17:38So I don't really blame Kyle for hanging on.
17:42But why is she not reeling him in?
17:46Before we leave this dinner, you know we've got to talk about this dinner that y'all had.
17:50Everything was great.
17:51Oh, yeah.
17:53Until...
17:54Yeah.
17:54And said, listen, Dorita, I want to tell you something.
17:57Mm-mm.
17:58Amanda, she's voiced her concern about you speaking about PK.
18:02I have the right to obviously confront and ask, if you've got this opinion, where did this come from?
18:08She shut down the conversation and said it was the anniversary of her son's passing.
18:14Oh, my gosh.
18:15Exactly.
18:16I had no idea that that was the anniversary of her son's death.
18:20I would have never said anything to her.
18:23I mean, what am I supposed to say?
18:25Oh, Amanda, I'd like to talk to you about something.
18:26Just want to make sure that it's, you know, not an anniversary of something bad or anything.
18:31After you said, I'm sorry, did you go back to the conversation?
18:35Yes.
18:36And why did you do that?
18:38Well, because we were in the middle of a conversation.
18:40And by the way, she was also continuing the conversation.
18:44If you're not ready to have this conversation, it's fine.
18:46I respect your wishes 100%.
18:49It could make a custody hearing more complicated.
18:51Okay, but do you want to have the conversation or not?
18:53It wasn't like the conversation had finished then.
18:56Yeah.
18:56So I saw her today, and we actually had a very long conversation about this.
19:02And she asked me to not say anything to you if she wants to have this conversation with you on
19:07her own.
19:08So you need to follow up.
19:09Oh, I fully planned to.
19:12Look, I've lost a baby too.
19:14I know.
19:15Okay?
19:16So I know that pain.
19:18There is a very stark difference between being like, hey, I want to share this with you because this is
19:25what I'm feeling.
19:26Right.
19:26Then, like, somebody's trying to address something with you and then you throw it up.
19:29Because, like, look, I can get into any kind of conversation and be like, my husband died.
19:33My baby died.
19:34Yeah.
19:34I could do that all day long.
19:36But I don't do that.
19:37That kind of grief marks you in ways that you can't really articulate.
19:42So for Amanda to talk about it in this way at this time, it feels like she's throwing it up
19:48as defense.
19:49It's like she guards information and then uses it as currency.
19:54I just find it disturbing that that would be thrown up as defense is what it's sounding like to me.
20:03You had the lunch and she told me that she wrote this book.
20:07And I went looking up her books.
20:08And I see this blog that says I was in a cult.
20:11I was like, what?
20:13I'm sorry, what?
20:14She was in a cult?
20:15Homegirl was in a cult?
20:16Yeah.
20:17Wait, excuse me, what?
20:18Father.
20:19In a cult.
20:20Lord Jesus, come down now.
20:21Eight years ago today, I took one of the biggest leaps of my life.
20:26I ran away from an incredibly abusive, controlling, and isolated environment.
20:31One thousand one hundred and sixty-six miles from home.
20:35I was in a cult.
20:37I would have never thought this girl was in a cult.
20:41She hasn't been a cult.
20:43She wrote it herself that she was in a cult?
20:45Okay.
20:45Do I need to look at this website?
20:47Because I never thought to look at the website.
20:50I know.
20:50What?
20:52A cult?
20:53I mean, who is this woman?
20:55How did she get in there?
20:57How did she get out of there?
20:58Or maybe is she still in there?
20:59There's so much unknown about her.
21:03And it feels like the picture-perfect presence is breaking apart.
21:10And so maybe now we will get to know the real version.
21:31What the actual .
21:33I know.
21:34I didn't know anything about this.
21:36No.
21:36No one did.
21:37It's everywhere.
21:39Like, it's everywhere.
21:46Okay, so, um, I filed for divorce this morning.
21:52Just a typical day.
21:55I mean, it's not one thing.
21:58It's an absolute myriad of bad decisions that have been made over the last month, the last
22:04weeks, the last hour that would trigger me to move things forward.
22:10So you know that my ex has this girlfriend, right?
22:13No.
22:13She's never met the kids.
22:15My kids are leaving, about to get on a plane to camp.
22:21Literally, she appears.
22:23What is she there to send the kids off to camp?
22:26She's there with him and shows up and says hi to my sons.
22:29What the ?
22:30I actually thought the whole mediation is so that this is not, like, a huge loud public
22:35thing.
22:36Yep, yep.
22:36Thank God the kids are at camp.
22:38I know.
22:38I mean, can you imagine if the boys were not at camp?
22:42I know.
22:42Good thing they're off social media.
22:44We'll get all the details, but I think the girls are on the line.
22:48Rach.
22:48Hi.
22:49Hi.
22:50Irene.
22:51Hi.
22:51What the you guys?
22:53New Jay, new headline.
22:55New Jay, new headline.
22:56TMZ, Daily Mail.
22:58Like, what the is everywhere, you guys?
23:00I do not have a prenup with my ex.
23:04I don't want to give spousal support, and I don't want to get spousal support.
23:07I feel that this is a new beginning, and if we are separating and living separate lives
23:15with separate people, I don't see why I should be paying for that or he should be paying for
23:21mine.
23:23It's just so insane.
23:25And I'm trying to think, am I doing any events or red crickets that I'm going to get like...
23:30We don't have any events this week, right?
23:32I think...
23:33Maybe it's a slow news day and nobody really gives a shit.
23:36We'll call you if anything else.
23:38Bye.
23:38Okay.
23:39Love you guys.
23:40Okay.
23:40Bye.
23:41Love you.
23:41Bye.
23:44Never a dumb moment, honestly.
24:01Delilah and Ms. Kyle's going to come over.
24:03And you're going to say hi.
24:08Kyle and Mo are coming over today.
24:10I get to show them their old house.
24:13Hello.
24:14How are you?
24:16I kind of hope they like it.
24:18I mean, I think we did it justice.
24:20But also I don't care.
24:21Because I know we did a good job.
24:23How does it feel to be on standing in your...
24:26Well, the kids distracted me, so hold on.
24:28Oh my gosh.
24:32Hi.
24:33How are you?
24:34This is Eddie.
24:35This is Kyle.
24:36Nice to meet you.
24:37I'm dying to see the whole house, but I feel like I should wait for Mo.
24:40Yeah, yeah, yeah.
24:41We're going to pause until Mo gets here, baby.
24:43And then you can jump in and help us with the tour.
24:46Oh.
24:48I have to go from here to go get the party favors for the dinner tonight.
24:51So you have two cakes.
24:52One for Erica, one for Dorit.
24:55Right.
24:56Ever since Dorit and I made up after last year, I really have been trying everything I can to,
25:02little by little, get us back to where we were before.
25:06So tonight, since it's Erica's and Dorit's birthday, I just wanted to throw a party for
25:10the two of them so we could celebrate both of them together.
25:14Are you feeling any better about the situation?
25:17No, and I'm honestly ultra very conflicted.
25:22I had no idea that the next time I would see her would be her birthday dinner.
25:26I had dinner with her last night.
25:28Yeah.
25:28She also wants to have a conversation, so see what she says and take it from there.
25:32Yeah.
25:33Oh, there's Mo.
25:34There he is.
25:35Let's give a tour.
25:39Hello.
25:40Hi, how are you?
25:41Good to see you.
25:42Welcome to your former home.
25:43Good.
25:44We're good.
25:44Thank you for having me at your home.
25:46Hi.
25:48How are you?
25:49Hi, Eddie.
25:50How's it going?
25:50Hi.
25:51It's been a while.
25:52It's a pleasure to see you.
25:53Yeah.
25:53You doing good?
25:54Yeah.
25:54It's been a while since I see you guys, since I think you bought the house.
25:58Yeah.
25:58Well, this is exciting.
26:00It's exciting.
26:00Okay, you want the tour?
26:01Yeah, let's do it.
26:02Okay.
26:02I think we go this way first.
26:06Oh, wow.
26:07This is a whole...
26:07Oh, this is a huge transformation.
26:09Whole different room.
26:10You made a double island.
26:12This looks great.
26:13The black and the white look amazing.
26:16This is a desk here that Portia used to sit here and, like, color.
26:21And I have this vision of her, like, helping me make phone calls from this little desk over
26:25here.
26:26This is Portia.
26:28Hi, Portia.
26:29What are you doing?
26:30One invited me to my birthday party.
26:33You are?
26:36So this is your stone still.
26:37This looks beautiful.
26:39That green looks great.
26:40And that back splash looks amazing in the bar.
26:42We had so many parties here.
26:43Like, all these, like, visions coming through my head.
26:46So many parties.
26:48Oh, my God.
26:49His feet.
26:49Okay, the party's started.
26:52Portia, present for you.
26:54Hi.
26:56Woo-hoo.
26:57Very well.
27:00Sorry.
27:04Now, how do we get out?
27:06We don't.
27:09Shoshana's room is my favorite room.
27:11Look how fun this is.
27:13Because you love your bed.
27:13Portia's heard her name on the wall.
27:15And then, do you remember how Portia only wanted to play in here?
27:17She was obsessed with this little space.
27:22Listen, you cannot bring this many.
27:24If you're going to bring this neck pillow, you're not bringing that one.
27:29It just feels so strange walking through this home that used to be ours.
27:37And now it belongs to someone else with their family.
27:41I'm...
27:43I'm...
27:43At first, I'm feeling just like, oh, this is fun.
27:47This is so cool.
27:49And then it just hit me.
27:53Like, a truck.
27:56Well, that looks great.
27:57I mean, this looks so great, guys.
27:59You did a really great job.
28:01When we first bought that house is when Moe started to really make a lot more money.
28:06Honey!
28:07Can you come down for a second?
28:10We just...
28:11Oh.
28:12My.
28:13God.
28:14We were looking for a bigger, better home.
28:18Bigger's not always better.
28:22Thank you for coming and seeing it.
28:25I've been excited to show you.
28:26Looks great.
28:28And y'all were here for a long time.
28:30Yeah.
28:30They're like important phases of life.
28:35Okay.
28:36I'm gonna go help get the babies done for the nap.
28:38So I'll be back in just a minute.
28:39Okay.
28:40I'd love a water.
28:41Ice? No ice?
28:42If it's cold, it's fine without ice.
28:44I wasn't expecting that.
28:49When I look at my life now and where I'm at, it's extremely different.
28:57I can't help but think of how things used to be.
29:04And why would anyone let that slip away?
29:09How could anyone let that slip away?
29:12What's up?
29:16I was so embarrassed.
29:19What happened?
29:20No, I'm embarrassed in front of them.
29:23I don't know why this was not easy for me to see this house.
29:25Really?
29:27No.
29:28Just too many memories.
29:34Just made me feel sad.
29:36Why sad?
29:39It was a simpler time.
29:41Now in our lives.
29:44And the girls were younger and...
29:47And now you're marrying one?
29:49The other one is like in college.
29:52It flies.
29:54Life passes.
29:55Life passes.
29:58I don't know.
30:01I just think...
30:03What would have happened if we didn't leave here?
30:05I don't know.
30:06If I just didn't take you that morning to that other house.
30:14Well...
30:14Maybe we wouldn't be separated if we had stayed in that house.
30:17I don't know.
30:19Of course I think like that because my last memory in that house is us being happy.
30:29Um...
30:32I just wanted to go and get my car right now, honestly.
30:35Well why don't we just do that?
30:38Huh?
30:38Mm-hmm.
30:42Amanda?
30:43Yeah?
30:44I'm gonna let you go and put the kids to sleep, okay?
30:46I'll talk to you later.
30:47Will you text me about tonight?
30:48I'll text you about tonight.
30:49Okay.
30:50Have a good day, guys.
30:50Bye, guys.
30:51Bye.
30:54Why did we let life, business, work, whatever, get in the way of us?
31:03How did we let this happen?
31:05You did not expect to get that emotional.
31:07No, I didn't think it would be any emotional.
31:09I just thought I was excited to see if they get into it.
31:12Anyway, I'll talk to you later.
31:13I'll talk to you later.
31:14See you.
31:14Okay.
31:14Okay, I'll talk to you later.
31:16Bye.
31:17Bye.
31:21Bye.
31:38There is something why people consistently go back to 90s glam because it was so good.
31:43And that dinner party the other night, the reds.
31:46Held up good.
31:47Mm-hmm.
31:48Held up beautifully.
31:49I mean, the night was a disaster, but the look held on.
31:54It's kind of what matters the most.
32:01God, I look like Deathmonde.
32:04Hello, look, hello.
32:05Hi.
32:06How are you, honey?
32:07I'm good.
32:08I'm hoping it's going to be OK with Amanda because, you know, she left in a very bad place the
32:13other day, and I heard she was sobbing at the door.
32:15I thought about sending her a text, and I didn't.
32:18Mm-hmm.
32:19And remember what we were saying the other day, the road to hell is paved with good intentions?
32:23It's the road to heaven.
32:25Oh, heaven.
32:26Why would you pave the road to hell at all?
32:29I don't know.
32:31No.
32:35Babe!
32:39Oh.
32:41When I first agreed to go to dinner tonight, I did not know it was a birthday dinner to celebrate.
32:49Erica and Dorit, you know I have a lot of things I want to say, but to me it just
32:55feels, like, inappropriate to go into someone's birthday party, like, with an intention to set a boundary with them.
33:02It's not your night, it's not your birthday, if she has to f***ing talk about it right then and there
33:09on her birthday, that's all that she's thinking about, and she won't leave you alone about it.
33:14But if I didn't f***ing rip, who gives a f***?
33:35Hello, good evening.
33:36How are you guys doing?
33:37I believe you have your table ready, but...
33:39Okay, great.
33:39Could you take these cakes from him?
33:41Of course, yeah, you got them.
33:41Okay, great.
33:49Oh, my God.
33:56Hi!
33:56Look at this, pretty place.
33:57You look amazing.
33:58How are you?
33:59You look great.
34:00How are you?
34:01I'm good.
34:01You look so good.
34:02How do you?
34:03You look skinny.
34:05Doesn't this feel like a runway?
34:07It really does.
34:09Oh!
34:11Big moves.
34:12Hey, guys.
34:13I have missed you so much.
34:15I've missed you, too.
34:15No, seriously.
34:16Me, too.
34:17This is my friend Summer.
34:18Hey, Summer.
34:19Hi, so good to meet you.
34:21Look at you.
34:22Happy birthday, Quay.
34:22Thanks for coming over the other day.
34:24You're giving me, like, a full 80s Elia moment right now.
34:27Why not?
34:27It's so funny.
34:29We had dinner last night, and who walks in?
34:31Who?
34:32Mo.
34:33Who knew even?
34:33Hell, no.
34:35That's impossible.
34:41Hi.
34:42How are you?
34:44I'm good.
34:44I love you, and you're green.
34:46It really is one of your colors.
34:48You're a moment.
34:49I'm good.
34:49It's good to see you.
34:50Nice to see you.
34:51Are you feeling okay?
34:52Yeah.
34:53Yeah, yeah.
34:54I've had time to process.
34:55Okay, good.
34:56Hi, Amanda.
34:56Hi.
34:57This is my friend Summer.
34:58Hi.
34:58We know each other.
34:59Hi, Summer.
34:59It's been like 34 years.
35:02Nice to meet you.
35:02Hi.
35:03How are you?
35:04Hi.
35:05That was good.
35:05Oh, my gosh.
35:06Look at that purse.
35:07That's really cool.
35:07I know, right?
35:08Wait, look at the purse.
35:09Don't make me do your hair.
35:15Hi.
35:15Hi.
35:16Hi.
35:17How are you?
35:18How are you?
35:19Hello.
35:19How's it going, honey?
35:21I'm over here on the end, on the end end.
35:23I am too.
35:24Such as Jennifer.
35:25Hi, honey.
35:26Gorgeous.
35:27I went to go see her house today, which is my old house.
35:29Right.
35:30And I got so overly emotional.
35:33I mean, like, I cried for two hours.
35:35It's okay to not hold it together all the time.
35:37When did you move out?
35:392017.
35:40But I leased it out to different people until December 2021 when we sold it.
35:44When we bought it.
35:45Yeah.
35:46It was my money, I should be clear, when I bought it.
35:48I mean, we have renovated it together, but I did buy it.
35:51Yeah.
35:51Sorry.
35:53Why?
35:54Why would you share that?
35:55I just don't think it's necessary.
35:57That doesn't, like, add value to the conversation.
36:02You know?
36:04Oh, I like this look.
36:06Yeah, good.
36:08Hello, hello.
36:10Hello.
36:11Welcome to the front end of the table.
36:19Are you a little nervous?
36:21No.
36:22I'm actually not.
36:23I feel kind of empowered.
36:24Okay, good.
36:25Yeah.
36:29Here comes three.
36:33Here she is.
36:35Hi, honey.
36:36Hi, baby.
36:38What time are we supposed to be here?
36:40Hi.
36:41Ha ha.
36:55Happy birthday to you.
36:58Hi, honey.
36:59Hi, baby.
37:01Honey.
37:01It's nice to come to you.
37:03It's nice to come to you before, too.
37:04Listen.
37:05I wasn't hiding it.
37:08My heart has been divorced for so long.
37:11There is not a soul of my being that would ever consider being back with them.
37:17Why do you think you didn't file, like, earlier?
37:20I'll be very honest with you.
37:23I have spent the last year dealing with the logistics of my new life.
37:57Yeah.
37:59That respects, misses.
38:02I miss the old him.
38:03I miss the him from long ago.
38:07Oh, my God.
38:08I know exactly what you mean.
38:09That person is no longer present in any way, shape, or form, and has not been for so long.
38:16Oh.
38:16So, to me, this is, like, like, Boston.
38:21I know Rachel's saying that she's okay and she's fine, but a part of it, I think, is just putting
38:25on a brave face.
38:27I mean, how can you not be destroyed by the fact that your husband, someone you've been with for 33
38:32years, moves on like that in the blink of an eye?
38:37I don't care how much you loved me.
38:39I don't care any of it because, you know what?
38:41It's all you good.
38:43I just got back from Europe.
38:44Right.
38:45I had an experience that I always felt was, like, an urban myth.
38:49What happened?
38:50Okay, so let's do enough for the table of these yellowtails.
38:54And we all want the sourdough bread.
38:56Let's do the shrimp toast.
38:57Oh, what happened?
39:00Natalie went to a spa and had the hottest masseuse she's ever seen on the planet.
39:04And what happened during this massage?
39:06It happened.
39:07I was like, what?
39:08Wait, you had sex?
39:09I didn't have sex.
39:10But, like, it got very intimate.
39:12Did you?
39:13Did you get an English?
39:14I did.
39:15You did?
39:16Yes.
39:17I don't think I want to be the person on that table immediately after.
39:21Oh, my God.
39:22I know.
39:22They're going to legalize this soon, I think.
39:25An axe murderer with a chainsaw could not have gotten that information out of me.
39:29Okay?
39:30I would have taken that to the grave.
39:32My girl, don't leave me here.
39:35Thank God she's wanting to have sex.
39:38I'm not the only one around here.
39:40Text me the number.
39:42That is impressive.
39:44This is the hottest experience ever.
39:47Girl, I'm like, you've been, like, sequestered.
39:51I tell you.
39:52I'm like, hello.
39:53Hi.
39:53You look so good.
39:54Oh, thank you.
39:56So do you.
39:58Hello.
39:59Hello.
39:59Hello, Amanda.
40:00Hello.
40:01Hi.
40:03Hi.
40:04How are you?
40:05Gorgeous.
40:08We're both wearing the same color.
40:10I know, Kyle.
40:11The army green, all of green.
40:13I love it.
40:14Honey, I love those earrings on you, too.
40:16Okay, I'm going to have the rest in real quick.
40:18Let me know.
40:19Here we go.
40:19What's the big part?
40:21I'll watch the voice.
40:25Jesus, it's like she can't even be around me.
40:28I'm going to be sitting right across from her the whole night.
40:30What, is she going to the bathroom to manifest my absence?
40:33You know, I haven't spoken to her since.
40:36I didn't think that you were attacking.
40:38I really didn't.
40:40She's young.
40:42And it's so cute when people say that, but she's not really that young.
40:48I mean, she's not old by any means, but no.
40:51She's a grown woman.
40:52Yeah.
40:55Do you want to wait for a minute?
40:56So, I wanted to have all of you guys together tonight to celebrate both of their birthdays.
41:01Oh, thank you.
41:01A sit-down dinner.
41:03Thank you very much.
41:04It's important to celebrate any chance we can these days.
41:08Amen.
41:09Right?
41:09That's really, really lovely.
41:11Thank you, Kyle.
41:12Happy birthday.
41:13Kyle and I have been through a lot.
41:15We've had our ups and downs.
41:16But hearing her make this toast, it's really sweet.
41:19It feels like it's kind of an olive branch of sorts.
41:22Thanks, Kyle.
41:24Happy birthday, my cancer sister.
41:26Our tables are so close together.
41:29Our chairs, I mean.
41:33Amanda, I'm glad to see you.
41:36Last time we saw each other, wasn't very pleasant.
41:41It was a heavy night.
41:43And it was a heavy moment.
41:46And I'm glad to see you tonight.
41:47And I think that we should clear the air and, you know, we didn't particularly leave in a great place.
41:59Would you like to go somewhere and speak about it?
42:02No, we don't have to go somewhere and speak about it.
42:04I'm happy to speak to you now.
42:07I'd like to be able to have a conversation with you.
42:10But I need to be able to go to a dinner party without being verbally accosted.
42:15Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait.
42:16Oh, well, you've got what I'm learning.
42:18Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa.
42:19Now, let me look at it.
42:21Accosted, I'm pretty sure I used the right word.
42:22Were you verbally accosted by me?
42:25That is how I experienced it.
42:27Oh, now we've gone to the internet to understand the definition.
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