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00:01this romance is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:12garçon okay breathe is possible but you piqued my interest
00:17there's two of us there's two of you no nobody's losing their cool
00:22an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it
00:29a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of your parents work or a sudden shock to the senses
00:40none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a village hall
00:48what happens next
00:54is up to them
00:55cute would you like to see each other again romantically
01:13style class and good looks moss has all three in a range of matching colors
01:20clothes and appearance are important to me i like to feel good and know that i'm put together
01:26i like to wear kind of blue beige white but i look very good in black as well
01:39the most random places like not not on a night out in the george or something it'll be like
01:43in super value
01:47it's cringy to say but it'd be nice to have someone to cuddle up with on the couch
01:55how are you how are you buddy where they come from i grew up in wicklow i don't sound it
02:01but i'm
02:01actually fairly agricultural and i grew up in a small village in the mountains everybody knows
02:06yeah you're gonna be the top of the village jesus yeah probably and then i went to secondary in
02:12south dublin and i gained this lovely some would say stuck up or posh accent
02:17would you like a drink
02:19i would love a drink
02:20i'm gonna say you're like a porn star martini kind of guy
02:24yes actually it's a gift
02:26i can be guarded around people i don't know but get a drink kind of sharpish all nerves gone
02:34i've just recently back to ireland actually i've been living in luxembourg for the past year
02:37oh very nice yeah i study international hotel management and i've just come back from my second
02:44year placement which was in a very nice hotel and what is your usual one type um tall i've never
02:52gone on a date with someone the same height or taller than me i'm six three jesus that's tall
02:58i don't want to be walking around with a stepladder
03:09hiya they tried to put me on the cover of vogue but my legs were too long every day is
03:17leg day
03:18you might be wondering why ian is even here he's already found the greatest love of all
03:24i think i'm handsome other people might not agree which is absolutely fine everyone is so entitled to
03:28their own views well like i love myself and if i can't love myself how am i expected to love
03:34someone
03:34else
03:38a good sense of style was nice but like style can always be fixed
03:44a bit of a diva i've been called that a few times whether it's true or not who knows
03:50now hello how are you mr smiley a little bit nervous i think i'm more excited than nervous
03:57your date is at the bar
04:01i may as well say hello yes i would really really like if certain someone was able to talk like
04:08i don't
04:08have to force conversation out of them good looking would also be a perk i suppose maybe a bit
04:13tall hello hello pleasure to meet you i'm good and you i'm good what's your name moss and you moss
04:20ian
04:21ian lovely to meet you are you taller than me no i think you're taller than me you're taller your
04:28hair
04:28makes you taller than you i'll take that i'll take that it doesn't matter like how someone looks if i
04:35can tell they're intelligent and that's really attractive are you in college i'm in college
04:39at the moment yeah yeah i do biomedical science oh very good where are you at u sligo oh my
04:44gosh
04:45you're in the back arsenal yeah i'm in the back arsenal you in college i am i'm studying in
04:52shannon college oh and also the other side of the country yeah when the back arsenal are like you
05:03these days some people are retiring at 70. now we're going to step to the side arms outside
05:10not bernie she's not retiring at all it's strange saying that age because i don't feel it i don't act
05:19i'd be a little bit nervous of meeting somebody for the first time but
05:22i'd also be excited it's an adventure it's an experience at my age it's great
05:28do i open the door
05:32if somebody says no i don't want to meet you again i'll just say hard luck
05:38and where are you from i'm from dublin oh yeah i'm living in mead now okay so i think it's
05:44officially
05:44a dulce oh god i just think i'm a bit of fun i'm lively and i'm
05:52energetic i teach tai chi and qigong can you give me some tai chi moves get your hands together you
05:59want to feel the energy right okay qigong and tai chi is energy work it absolutely got me through
06:06covid i can actually feel in my hand every time leo vratker mentions another six weeks you know you're
06:12living on your own you're kind of going oh no but i'd go into the kitchen and i do my
06:16tai chi
06:17and everything slows down remember to me what are you looking for man
06:24hope he's not ai you can tell that i haven't had romance in a long long time
06:30let's look at it's very hard to know because i particularly wasn't i'd given up
06:33i'd literally given up i think you're kind kind-hearted man is nice but you don't want a saint
06:40because i can be very bold
06:49enter jerry immaculately attired but still looking for something to tie it all together
06:56love i think it's the greatest feeling in the world hard to match
07:02i can manage on my own but at the same time you do need love you do need companionship
07:09what do you go for physically in a woman not too small obviously not too tall
07:14i haven't got the right words to say good cleavage however you see you're a boot man yes
07:22hey jerry jerry yeah nice to meet you jerry let's play there ladies over here
07:26yes ladies first do you find the dating landscape has changed a lot oh god yeah
07:33obviously i've changed by a few decades it's a very different animal all together now hello hello
07:40hello hello how are you how are you how are you feeling nervous is it the word of the day
07:45really
07:45isn't it it's not easy is it all that wine wouldn't cool it down really i swear but you're looking
07:51right here we're here for a laugh anyway whatever and enjoy yeah just amazing yeah where are you from
07:56i mean that tara can't you meet oh right i'm living in mead yeah you're living already oh my god
08:02do you want a drink yeah give me a water please water yeah thank you thank you
08:07we don't have a dirty do you not i do do do occasionally yeah but uh what's it behave
08:20i can't hack wine i can't hack it darling i can't are you a wine person okay so i'm a
08:26wine person
08:27because we have to study wine as part of my course really yeah oh no i can't i actually can't
08:33i wish i
08:33could you're drinking nice wine i don't i don't mean i don't mean petrol station spec
08:39i think humor's a really really important thing in a person because it's just a really good way to
08:44get along with someone oh lovely look at that especially if they're not too sensitive have you
08:50been on many days before five or six maybe in the way oh okay i had a situationship for a
08:55while
08:56with a lawyer oh yeah that was like kind of like two months or so i just didn't work out
09:00um now i realized i could do better okay i'm not the lawyer thing personality and stuff like yeah
09:09i would hope i would hope so you what have you ever been on a date before you have oh
09:17my god yeah
09:17what sort of dates like drink dates dinner dates no i've been on like breakfast dates like when i work
09:23that's clever actually because everyone like you have to go and do the rest of your day yeah i'm very
09:28driven so i kind of would like someone who's actually like has their kind of stuff together
09:33there was one guy we went on like a few breakfast dates i didn't really like him so i just
09:37left him
09:38and open on snapchat and then you like to ghost people no like he didn't really do anything with
09:42himself i'm like that's kind of like a turn up for me as well like he he did like a
09:48waste like he
09:48he was a waster yeah someone who's not ambitious doesn't have goals or doesn't have
09:53desire to set goals i i find that really unattractive we left so many puts in the effort yeah it's
10:00amazing
10:06this is nice good choice nice restaurant
10:13and pink is beautiful fantastic thank you very much very becoming indeed
10:19for me it really is when you meet somebody it's about the personality isn't it you can say
10:25somebody's very handsome but after a while you don't notice that well how did you end up with me
10:32life i i suppose marriage at 23 you had to try to 24. it was a good marriage i think
10:39we just grew apart
10:41divorced and i met somebody i mean well i didn't meet somebody i knew him
10:44on my for 30 years yeah yeah yeah and we ended up together and he had a house down there
10:50and um
10:51three years later he died of cancer oh breaky that was 18 years ago oh gosh 18 years sorry to
10:59hear that
11:00what about yourself divorced from a lovely lady i was married for about 10 years um i'm not now for
11:08the last
11:0917 ish years we're on good terms yes you have to be you have to that's good i understand yeah
11:15it's not
11:15always easy but it's a blessing isn't it yeah yeah i'm kind of a conundrum because while i say i'm
11:20happily unmarried simultaneously looking for love and have your children no no i never had thank god
11:29i just say thank god in a callous way you're worried to say that because i never wants them
11:35really yeah yeah yeah i might be too hedonistic or um just short of commitment a bit um if i'm
11:44honest
11:44and i'm here to be honest whether i ever come to regret that or not i can't be sure but
11:51you're probably
11:52what you're probably regretted now yeah yeah yeah yeah it's all right so i think at this stage
11:57i'm content with that i don't know why i get on greater children you know yeah so that's the inner
12:03child isn't it yes it's most important it's most important yeah it really really is sounds like
12:10the inner child hasn't left you no no absolutely
12:22in the game of love it's probably wise to let leah make the first move i'm one of those people
12:28that if
12:29i think someone is attractive i would not wait for them to come up to me i would more than
12:33likely go
12:34and be like hi you are gorgeous can i get your number but then there's been a couple of times
12:40in
12:40my clothes where some fellows come up to me and hey girl how's it going but you know being like
12:46straight up and simple but yeah strong independent woman you don't need no man but i mean if the right
12:53one comes along don't push them away well hello hello how are you where are you from leah i'm from
13:00are saying in dublin north side you're dublin what does it matter what side i know i know i like
13:07someone that can have a bit of banter with me my mom loves you say hello to mama for me
13:13of course hi how
13:15are you i'm pretty good at flirting spontaneous bubbly and i could literally talk to absolutely anybody so
13:23what's your type oh god you should see the men that i've gone out with before
13:30sorry that's actually horrible i've heard it from other people not me i'm getting references i'm
13:37pulling quotes here as long as you can get along with me i'm like fabulous you know what i mean
13:42but
13:42i have like weird little niches love the mullet mustache combo a lot of people would say it's a red
13:48flag
13:48five means a green one very very green
13:58well how are you it's all business in the front but there's a party in the back when i'm mullet
14:04shake
14:05it gives all the girls a heart attack jake's monitor sure is the business but the party ain't limited to
14:13the
14:13back how do you get ready for a date to get ready like this so look i've got a sound
14:18on me
14:18fucking jumper i'm great everybody stop and stand they be watching me i shower deodorant hopefully
14:25get changed and clean clothes out the door there's a party in the back i'm not picky on looks at
14:30all
14:31a lot of beautiful women out there in the world i like a girl that's hot-headed one that'll sit
14:37you
14:37down and shout at jim be like you're a dumbass is that not a man jesus christ it sounds like
14:43that
14:44doesn't it oh no mullet moustache is looking for his man how is everything jake surviving and thriving
14:52a little nervous but what is love jake can you describe it for me i don't think i can
14:58because i think i've fallen in love with every girl i've ever met i think i'll know what love is
15:02when i
15:03find it hi nice to meet you how's it going so what's your favorite color
15:18when it comes to me being myself that can be kind of terrifying because like maybe they don't like
15:25someone that's quite outspoken or confident what are you drinking i'm drinking a gin and tonic may i copy
15:31her hair please absolutely that's a good way to be at the start of a day so do we just
15:48slag this off
15:48get the wedding plan like on one knee right now you're done come here after this is very formal
16:08compared to sitting at a pair i was gonna say i've never done a blind date have you ever done
16:12one before
16:13no blind date is really scary so you know just getting to know someone especially when it's not
16:20past 10 o'clock and you're already a few beers in with uh like a bit of liquid confidence no
16:25but i've
16:25never done like a like a sit down like dinner date unless i've been in like a long-term relationship
16:30i've never done like a been in a long-term relationship yeah how many years three the last guy i've
16:37seen
16:37we said i love you after three days and we were together for a year and a half i realized
16:42i kind
16:43of had to find myself a little bit more which is what i've been doing i've been single now a
16:48year and a
16:48half i'm glad because now i do know what i'm looking for are you like vegetarian or vegan no you're
16:57not
16:57are you no i don't want to say it too late just in case in case they get us they'll
17:01get us online
17:02later now oh oh is that noise because you haven't looked at the menus she did she looked at the
17:10menu
17:10for both of us she told us she knew what she was going to order i'm not quite sure oh
17:13perfect
17:15no no no no no go on oh i hate you i hate you too you're an accomplice in this
17:20i am so could i get
17:22the steak please for me how would you like it cooked uh medium please and what would he like for
17:28his
17:28mains oh okay we also you're also a snake person or a burger no don't do that to me no
17:38don't do that to me
17:42burger burger thank you so so much no problem good luck
17:53did you do language in second year i did german from first to third year okay and then i went
17:59to
17:59board in school for fifth year and sixth year okay i loved war in school if i could redo it
18:03all again i
18:04would did you come home on the weekends or did you stay down no i said i remember going
18:08into the board in school i was small i was quite thin and i came out much taller much broader
18:15much
18:15more independent do you have a big family uh immediate family no okay immediately like it's just my dad my
18:23brother and myself really because my mom's passed oh really yeah that's pretty hard she passed away in
18:322018 from cancer i it was a week or two before i started first year of secondary school
18:38i couldn't need that drink i'm sorry i know it's fine like i think she'd be very proud of what
18:48like i've
18:48become my dad he took the role of a mother and a father at the same time which would not
18:56have been easy
18:56for him but he did it he raised two sons he's a great father and what do you think you'll
19:02think
19:02about this well he doesn't know about it yet it is his favorite tv show so the plan is when
19:08this airs
19:08i'm going to sit with him and put it on i know for a fact he will love it
19:21chips look nice can i taste one no you can't please yeah we're all friends here
19:31what do you work at or do you work for your tire there i'm tired from air lingus only three
19:36months of
19:37really i've worked on the ground in air lingus in dublin airport for just about 40 years i'd go
19:44back tomorrow probably which i did i liked it back then you knelt in in the hole of the aircraft
19:50and
19:51this fella threw 50 bags into you and you put the 50 bags up there and you're on your knees
19:55bent down like this inside of the hole you didn't bang them all in throw them very careful very careful
20:01except on a bad day i'm not fully retired yet really what's what's your feeling i teach tai chi and
20:12qigong anyway i don't believe either of those wait you don't believe me i always call it qigong
20:22i've never heard of that one it's obviously similar to tai chi yeah yeah which is nice and relaxed
20:27movements which is very good okay wow do you know your chakras yes yeah oh do you so are you
20:34interested seven important ones there's loads and those more as well right okay yeah so are you
20:40interested in that i've read something on it no that's great because a lot of men don't i know a
20:47little of everything a lot a lot about nothing looking at my friends like does your husbands and
20:59boyfriends not have somebody for me somebody something like just give me something love doesn't
21:05always come easy but in rachel's case it's really playing hard to get i don't know what it is but
21:12nobody approaches me i don't know if it's with me or maybe there is no fish in the sea
21:21i'm quite happy being alone but there is times when i'm lonely
21:25saturday evenings going on holidays and then weddings
21:31oh i hate weddings so much everybody is so in love and i'm just so lonely
21:41you ready for some dating very scared why are you scared look at yourself come on
21:48i have been single since 2016
21:52there has been like the situation ships come and go they've kind of just reaffirmed there's nobody out
21:58there for me yeah yeah better better save than soria i'm definitely an introvert but people probably
22:04think i'm extroverted nervous oh terrifying really oh my god terrified whenever i go home in the evening
22:11i'm like all i want to do is watch kardashians because it takes that much brain power and like
22:16you have to be happy happy all the time and then people are asking what your hobbies are and i'm
22:20like
22:22so what was your normal type of a guy be okay one step back on a scale of evolution
22:29hairy strong kind of like big like an ape bearded yes long hair no no no no no no long
22:36hair you can't
22:36have better hair than me hello sir how are you mr you will your name please gerald gerald gerald
22:48personality wise i'd like to think of an eight or nine looks wise who knows 12.
22:53i'm pretty easy going you know i like a bit of fun i like a bit of outgoingness and on
22:58an old saturday
22:58night an old cuddle at home is nice too is he talking to me tail yeah is he good looking
23:04yeah i don't
23:06really have a preference look wise you know i mean black hair maybe and somebody that's you know proud of
23:13their appearance as well man bun other than that i'm not too picky that's that's cuttable offable isn't it
23:21all right my beautiful lady hello yeah how are you i'm rachel gerald how's it going how are you good
23:29good good good where are you from rachel monaghan monaghan do you know what no i'm not gonna let you
23:34i've probably never in my entire life step foot in monaghan why not yeah i don't know where are you
23:38from
23:38cork yeah yeah that's fair isn't it it's a mad accent just because i've never really come across
23:44anything oh really go in so you've never been in cork no i was in kerry really yeah two different
23:49counties i was in am i a good dude i can talk but no strategies whatsoever no i just go
23:59in and talk
24:00and talk and talk are you nervous no not at all are you are you never really going oh my
24:05god absolutely
24:06terrified i would kind of overthink things as well i'm like i have to build myself up to something
24:10and then i come across confident but i'm sweating i have sweating i've never been on a date before
24:16no i have i've been like this all it's like just people yeah i know i'm just be all right
24:20be fine
24:21she'll start to be nervous for it's all right
24:27amazing thank you so so much sorry why are you apologizing nothing to apologize for i'm trying to get as
24:34close to him as i possibly can from across the table i don't blame her i love it
24:39do you see the size of the thing take a big boy i don't want to watch it do it
24:43is this is this
24:43right you're into yeah it's actually you want to interview yeah yeah i don't blame it now go on
24:51i like someone that can make me laugh but isn't as funny as me and i can be like myself
24:56around
24:57because the more you get to know me the weirder i get
24:59i was so nervous going over here because i'm embarrassed i thought i was going to be stuck with
25:05some bloke who just doesn't say anything before excuse me excuse me or some coat with brown shoes
25:12i was like i put a truck on i was gonna bring brown shoes no i didn't you're lucky
25:20what's wrong with the shoeshaws it's actually quite nice thank you my mum about this did you say your
25:25mum oh my god you're so from the south side it's actually not even funny sorry okay
25:35i like where this is going
25:42want to try some beef um i'll try some there you go go on go on
25:52oh this is very nice it is nice to know i'm fairly confident i can read people very well
25:58my job and stuff like you have to be quick to be able to read guests and stuff and know
26:02when people
26:02are happy or not but in my personal life that can lead to overthinking about what others think of me
26:08you have um you have like gravy or something across your mouth there i'm so bad
26:17okay yeah there you go it's gone oh can we talk about musical instruments yeah go on
26:23play small bit of piano i play piano really yeah well you trained though i know i just picked a
26:29bit
26:29no i'm training clarinet how long have you been playing clarinet you to like play the clarinet for the
26:34first no the recorder first no to learn how to finger
26:42because you need to make sure you're fingering the recorder correctly you know what i mean
26:47so you practice fingering so you're professional
26:52professional finger and after my fingering was really good and then give me onto the clarinet
27:00i'll have to take your word first oh
27:11i'm a very fussy eater i don't eat vegetables at all no that's all right that's fine are you are
27:16you a
27:17picky not really like the only thing that i want people i hate beans
27:22it's rotten absolutely it's the texture it's the texture you get the marks after all right okay
27:29i like to make people laugh that's very very important i think you have to make somebody
27:33laugh you have to make somebody comfortable it relaxes everybody as well you know you know do you
27:36have any tattoos no no no no how do you feel about your date having loads yeah you're all for
27:42tattoos
27:42what have you got show me that's a teenage mutant ninja turtle oh christ
27:47that's a beetlejuice one well because why not like oh that's my look i have a daughter that's my
27:51daughter's name is her name she's 12 and she is probably my best friend as well so yeah
27:58so you have daughter i have have you been married yes we were together for let's say eight years
28:04but there was no animosity when we broke up or anything so we stayed living together for a few
28:08years to raise island things and uh yeah still one of my best friends do you think that ever
28:13intimidates people that you date when i was a little bit younger it was intimidating for
28:18people then as i got older less so but you know i don't want to be with somebody that that
28:24has a
28:25problem with that anyway so we bought um like a big plot and end okay so we kind of halved
28:30it yeah so
28:30she gets one half okay i made her log cabin on on my half then so yeah and i can
28:36tip over yeah she just
28:37goes back and forth between the two then like yeah yeah it's really nice yeah that is actually a lovely
28:41yeah it's really cool did you enjoy that lovely i'm having a steak for a while now good irish beef
28:55we don't take enough of what's good for us i love cake
28:59tea let's go for jesus please oh my god the whole side of them i do oh yeah i love
29:06sweet but there's
29:07nothing like a good laugh and we don't do enough that we don't experience enough of a laugh it's so
29:14fun but that's american miss grammar it's so much fun it's amazing what makes us tick or doesn't as
29:23the case may be you know and that's why i take on my experience i take every experience that comes
29:27my way
29:28does love and what you're looking for change as you get older it gets deeper
29:34like you know when you're young love is romantic but it's it's deeper it takes all kinds of different
29:41people doesn't it absolutely we're introverts and we're extroverts and so we have to just
29:46accept who we are yeah and the more different various experiences that you have more fulfilling you
29:54you know yeah if i have any regrets in life i regret that i wasn't i'll say the word more
30:02promiscuous
30:05all the good things are illegal immoral or to make you fat isn't that the song that's perfect isn't
30:10that so true i'm definitely prudish in ways even though i'm very open-minded it's like the catholic
30:18church teaching comes up in your mind all the time i think we're kind of slightly coming out
30:23of it but sex is taboo taboo taboo i keep saying we're a strange species but we're all similar
30:30absolutely everyone has the same feelings emotions and i love sex of course i do i'm human i love to
30:39just
30:40enjoy life you have to we're romantic and physical i would really like definitely i have the energy
30:50cheers to that song cheers
30:57ma'am i'm in the jacks
31:01oh my god he's so cool and like i swear like five minutes in we were already talking about marriage
31:07he is so funny he's from uh south side so he's from he's a dubliner like
31:14what what it doesn't matter if he's a book of north order or a outsider
31:25so how is it going it's going it's going fairly well i'm glad she's i'm glad she's my kind of
31:32person
31:33the same sense of humor and she's not afraid to be herself that's great yeah i'd be terrified to talk
31:39to her if i saw her in the middle but yeah yeah so i don't think i have the balls
31:43to talk to her yeah
31:44but now that i'm here 100 i met mateo as well and i said my mom loves you
31:56oh that looks so good you won't be eating that spinach i'd say will you it's that spinach i've never
32:00had one in my life well don't worry about it like it's tasteless enough like it wouldn't add to your
32:04steak in any way you can draw some of this oh no i'll get rid of all the green bits
32:09for you
32:10have a little pop off of there and see what you think go on you'll enjoy this i promise
32:20that's a taste sensational you spit it over do you like that don't go away they definitely need
32:26to be patient with me definitely because it's worth it like my friends and family are just
32:32number one to me i am a home bird i live at home with my pair parents i call them
32:41my housemates
32:41yes i quite like it but they're always trying to set me up with people there has been people who
32:48have like i don't like you at all but like i'll yeah i'll go on another day i'm sure it's
32:53something
32:53to be out that's awful is that awful people are like why don't you just move out it's like well
32:59i'm going to move out to a house on my own because i know i get on with my parents
33:03so so well
33:04you do want a bit of privacy as well sometimes yeah but like i was spoiled at home yeah but
33:09that's okay
33:12the first time i kissed a fella and then he turned around and he was like oh like i'm not
33:16gay that
33:17was his day i'm like that really upset me would you say you've been in love before the romantic kind
33:24now but i mean i'm still like really young so i'm not kind of worried about that you're here oh
33:32am i
33:33being fed off yeah that's good isn't it if someone's interested in me i'm completely blind
33:40to that like i haven't a clue if we're having a good conversation i'm completely lost in the
33:45conversation let me just glance my phone oh yeah sorry i forgot you're a professional
33:51getting hints of top during a day i don't think someone will know if i don't like them or not
33:57i think i can be quite talkative and kind of give off the impression that i am
34:01very attracted or into someone that's for you if i was going to reject someone
34:08i think i'd be fine but if i was going to get rejected i think that's kind of where like
34:13you're
34:13kind of vulnerable now are we happy to settle up yeah yes please no we split it i can pay
34:23for it i don't
34:25mind no one split it being rejected or rejecting someone is completely natural as long you do it in
34:31a respectful way okay go on let's split it please like if they're not your person absolutely fine they're
34:38not your person so would you like to see each other again romantically who goes you go first first
34:52um i would really like to see him again yeah i would like to see him again as well
34:58i thought you were going to say no really i thought you were going to say no because when i
35:02offered to pay the bill you're like no no no we'll split it we'll split it and i was like
35:05oh okay i
35:06see i was okay right if you'd really wanted to you could have been like no like like i'm paying
35:11and i'd be like how many times did i offer to pay twice only twice two times the charm
35:16okay thank you though no worries that was lovely that's a relief oh yeah you are tall
35:25so you guys fancy each other yeah i think i said to say him obviously more than me right right
35:32right
35:33thank you very much bye he's really nice he's really chatty thank you he was really attractive both
35:43personality-wise and physically thank you like everything just seems to be pretty good you know
35:52oh my head
35:55that really hurt
36:13Go
36:13go
36:16Ghost
36:18Actually, do you know what up your neck of the woods is probably different. It's probably grudge
36:24Like a learge? Yeah. Like a learge. Yeah
36:27Balls cotta they call me
36:29the most important thing is to be myself but if you're not yourself on the first
36:34date and you turn out to be somebody totally different that's very very bad
36:38so tell me what are how we find in dating and stuff I don't do it at all
36:44I'm actually quite reclusive okay like I've met the odd person but I just I'm
36:50not good with small like I don't I can't be honest with the shite yeah I think
36:54it's a lot to do with Covid as well I turned very strange after Covid and like
36:58I but you know you're locked up for like two or three years so I think you're
37:02gonna be a wee bit odd out of practice maybe we'll say out of practice I had a
37:07boyfriend whenever we broke up I was like Jesus I don't even know who I am I like
37:12it's not easy especially if you're together with somebody for so long yeah
37:15everybody else has moved on people are having children and getting married and
37:20stuff my last relationship I was definitely quite dependent on them so I
37:24worked on myself a long time to get that independence back so I think that's why
37:29my walls are up but I want them to come down like I want to be a wee bit softer
37:33people are like oh well how are you single you're great crack blah blah blah and
37:37beautiful as well like let's go on sorry thank you
37:42like I have been in love before so I know that side of me is there but it's
37:46just wrapped in concrete I actually wouldn't usually be a dinner and drinks
37:53man no I'm never I don't I'm not a huge fan that's why I was so nervous yeah
37:57because I like I don't like obviously I'm weird with food you're not don't be
38:02worried about that people don't give a shit about that
38:11oh look what I got there's the heart will be sure absolutely you have to
38:16haven't you don't go break in my heart so we can't go break in the heart Jesus
38:25bill here thank you thank you very much you won't have a look at that and see how much
38:30it is there's no hurry he's a lovely man and I think he was interested in some of
38:38the things I was interested in a lot of things that I know most males aren't
38:42interested in I said oh I like that
39:04so what you did you want to go have some that yeah or not yeah please the whole
39:12thing for me was a bit it's gone half that's just my generation men paid because women didn't
39:18have money now I know women do have money if we didn't even after can we split it
39:23of course it shows a lot about his character to me lovely would you like to see each other
39:31romantically again I wouldn't particularly I wouldn't jump at it I'm not a date date but
39:40a coffee date or something let's call it no no no problem but yeah yeah I agree
39:49I totally agree thank you all so much for coming it's been lovely thank you we all enjoy new
39:56experiences why we're afraid of them it's nice to step outside your comfort zone but there wasn't a
40:02physical attraction them I'm sorry to say yeah lovely man nice conversation but there was no spark there
40:10there wasn't no if we're honest an open say no no no there wasn't a spark it just wasn't that
40:20room I want to see him again thank you very much I would have loved in specs I would have
40:35you know what are some stuff that you're into I'm weird like I'll do anything I'll bother but
40:41like I'm hard to keep something up as a hobby okay like I was really into my naval history for
40:46a
40:46year there what is that what do you mean history about shit oh yeah history about shit I don't know
40:53what what are your hobbies I love singing but I'm gonna have to test that later I can do a
41:00really
41:00mean in Gallagher impression I've never been more raised in my life by the way where do you stand
41:07in relation to sex on a first date my mom's gonna watch this my dad I wouldn't be going into
41:17the day
41:17and meeting a person for an hour and then be like right go on I have a room in the
41:20hotel upstairs go on
41:21go on with you and I'm not nearly confident enough to be trying that you miss out because before I
41:31have the full massage gone and my little massage get rid of it I look like I have accusations I
41:41can't risk that
41:44yeah oh my little massage is so hot I'll grow back and various I do like two years and I'll
41:50go back
41:55you'll enjoy that it's like a kind of a it's like the top of a cheesecake it's very loving
42:02I'm always gonna say yeah so how would you like are you looking for kids is that your near future
42:10I'm realistic in that the body clock is ticking yeah yeah I'm not mad for them but if that happen
42:18you wouldn't be upset like oh no I wouldn't I wouldn't be upset at all I do love kids like
42:23but
42:23I am can't have kids anymore yeah so I like I never you know we hear people going to Australia
42:34and yeah I
42:35never did that like yeah I go on holidays but like yeah you know not to monstrously exotic places like
42:41the first you want to do your 20s in Europe exactly I want to be able to do that yeah
42:46see
42:47you actually went and did it yeah but that's mad I got it there about two years ago what have
42:51you what
42:51have you met somebody who was like mad for kids well you can reverse it like it's not you know
42:56look if
42:57somebody did want kids I would have the discussion about it like you know what that's not a make or
43:02break yeah it's not a make or break for exactly yeah yeah purple I'm actually a bit banging to be
43:15fair
43:15yeah I've destroyed the love heart I don't know if that's a good sign I have never like it like
43:22really got along with someone so quickly I'm worried I don't yeah I don't think we're supposed
43:26to get on I don't think it's supposed to be awkward for a little bit you're you're coming home with
43:30me
43:31that's a quote that's a reference that's a reference
43:37give me your hand you've got nice hands I do me best the nails are fucking lovely
43:44so what's best about them I don't know how that's not nice yeah that's a problem
43:55okay hello sir this is a moment of truth thank you what are you what are you doing there what
44:06this is just a piece of paper it's nothing can I go out no why do you think I'm somebody
44:12else
44:14thank you absolutely not you can get me 10 drinks there later
44:24you're a Capricorn Capricorn yeah you're responsible disciplined self-control and you
44:30have good manners you do have good manners to be fair I have this um forever erect nipple
44:36because I used to have it pierced years ago I just don't know about that sort of thing maybe
44:43that's that's what court people do I don't know your greatest compatibility is Taurus and cancer oh yeah
44:50what are you not Taurus or cancer I'm on the fence boy what does her say cool sophisticated beautiful intelligent
45:04how are you all right all right guys would you like to see each other again oh my god you're
45:14going
45:14straight for it straight for straight for it it's gonna be so cringe I would yes oh no I don't
45:27think I would I don't think I would
45:30that is so awful that's not awful Jesus almighty you're a really really nice person sorry but I
45:36just don't think you're for me that's okay don't worry about it that's totally fine no problem no I don't
45:45think you're a bad person what because you don't want to go on another date yeah oh sweating so much
45:52feel that I won't that's very inappropriate I'm not gonna do that at all we'll be best friends now in
46:00about six months would you be my friend I'll be your friend yeah I'll be happy to you yeah I'll
46:04start you out
46:04for some dating tips you don't need them no thanks for a nice day thank you see you later that's
46:11okay
46:12she'll look at none and every day it works out we're talking on top my phone for fuck's sake and
46:23then
46:23also this is like this I'm not making this up this is the net oh how did you know I
46:28know I'm just that
46:29good next level I figured there'd be a mouth involved as soon if I saw her like when I was
46:37a hundred
46:37percent I go that's my type and then I never talked to her throughout the night I'm so distracted
46:43this guy's you were saying what do you mean do you think she fancied you makes feelings but I hope
46:51so
46:56how no I can't say that I was gonna say how crazy would it be because wouldn't be too wild
47:27so moment of truth time would you both like to see each other again romantically not a chance
47:34nah never couldn't be done not a chance yes I really didn't expect him to match my personality
47:45as much as he has he really really did have you not got any land no land I'm fucking out
47:51here
47:52she's beautiful the eyes are very not intimidating but like I had a reason to be nervous and how was
47:59the
48:01kiss I'm gone red here so when is he gonna see your Liam Gallagher impression I didn't think there was
48:23such thing as
48:24spark before it was like honestly the best first day I've ever had
48:37so we'll go we'll go to the beach we'll go swimming yeah we'll go surfing or something like that yeah
48:42yeah there I'll do that second day so who we think he is look at what you did to me
48:47tissues don't even need to buy a new dress if you ain't there ain't nobody else to embrace
48:52the way that you know what I gotta know
48:54the way that you know what I gotta know
48:55the way that you know what I gotta know
48:55so we fancy each other
48:56that's a strong word yeah
49:00she'll make the parish chalice that's all
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