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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Wow.
00:00:05This is your room.
00:00:07Wait, wait, wait, wait, what?
00:00:09Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:00:11Didn't have one.
00:00:11I would have settled for a smaller place without a roommate.
00:00:15But our chemistry, it's there.
00:00:18Good night.
00:00:19Good night.
00:00:20Feels very surreal having Elise here with me.
00:00:22But I'm a bit worried that she might find parts of my life
00:00:25that she's not exactly happy with.
00:00:28You keep talking about your ex, you keep bringing him up.
00:00:31I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:00:35I just want to make sure that I'm the man
00:00:37that you want to be introduced to your family.
00:00:39I told you, yes.
00:00:41These issues just keep popping up.
00:00:43And the fact that her family might ultimately not approve of me,
00:00:48I'm feeling this is like make or break.
00:00:53It just felt like the right time to propose to Sheena.
00:00:57I asked you to hold off so she could prove herself.
00:01:00And then you just pull this little sneaky .
00:01:02Now she's got the whole cat in the bag, doesn't she?
00:01:06Sheena and I are going to move forward.
00:01:07And you're going to be in our lives.
00:01:08But you might be surprised, Forrest.
00:01:11I'm so disappointed.
00:01:12My mom would actually step away rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
00:01:16It's tearing me apart.
00:01:19I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
00:01:23You see it like a power.
00:01:25I don't have any.
00:01:27Because when I tell you to do something, you don't listen to me.
00:01:30You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
00:01:34I think that you got comfortable.
00:01:36Don't ever get too comfortable, ever.
00:01:39You don't want a bitchy wife.
00:01:42Don't be a asshole.
00:01:45Don't come home, ever.
00:01:48I love you so much.
00:01:50But stop telling me lies.
00:01:52There is more to tell him.
00:01:53And I have to get it said before he goes to his uncle.
00:01:56So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
00:02:01I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
00:02:03You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
00:02:07It's not...
00:02:08Don't...
00:02:09It's not as bad as...
00:02:10Don't come close to me.
00:02:37I'm not a man.
00:02:38Good morning.
00:02:39Hi.
00:02:40How are you?
00:02:41Okay.
00:02:43Thank you for taking care of me last night.
00:02:45That's all right.
00:02:46I can't have you feeling sick as soon as you get here.
00:02:48Yeah, you're taking chances.
00:02:51It's busy, good, since I want you more.
00:02:58I feel so bad.
00:02:59Like, every hour I was making you get up and get me water and...
00:03:02So, I had a nice sleep.
00:03:04You're a very big caretaker.
00:03:06Yeah, well, long flight.
00:03:08And you weren't feeling the best, so, you know.
00:03:11You're such a good boy.
00:03:14I arrived in Sydney yesterday, and I met my boyfriend, Joshua, for the first time, face-to-face.
00:03:21The plan was for Josh to sleep on the couch last night, but I was up every hour of the
00:03:26night.
00:03:27I was coughing, I was shivering, and he decided to come in the bed with me and take care of
00:03:32me all night.
00:03:33It just feels like it's, like, a sinus infection almost.
00:03:36Like, it's just, like, swollen here.
00:03:38Maybe you can go get me, um, like, nose spray.
00:03:42Yeah.
00:03:44I am a needy bitch, especially when I'm sick.
00:03:47I need my man to attend to me, like, a golden retriever puppy, like, running, like, catching a ball.
00:03:53Joshua does that.
00:03:55I feel a little better now with, like, all the water you've been making me drink,
00:03:58and I took my medicine.
00:04:01That's good.
00:04:01It's probably a good start.
00:04:04What is it?
00:04:05It's regimen.
00:04:06What's that?
00:04:07You have to try it.
00:04:08It's a big thing in Australia.
00:04:10It smells like sardines.
00:04:13There's no fish in it.
00:04:16Just take a big bite.
00:04:21Suck!
00:04:22Is it good?
00:04:24It's not bad.
00:04:26No, I don't like it.
00:04:27I don't like it.
00:04:30Joshua, what is that?
00:04:32Is that fish?
00:04:33It's not fish.
00:04:36Do you want a tissue?
00:04:38It's a condiment.
00:04:40I don't know how to explain it.
00:04:41And you love it?
00:04:42Yeah, I do love it on toast.
00:04:44You're not Australian.
00:04:45If you're not eating regimen, you might.
00:04:46Tastes like s***.
00:04:48I hated it.
00:04:53All right, take this veggie bite away from me.
00:04:56All right.
00:04:56There's other stuff like berries and yogurt and stuff, so I'll grab you that.
00:05:00Yes.
00:05:01And then if you feel a bit better, maybe you want to go wander up to the beach and see
00:05:06Bondi.
00:05:07Yeah.
00:05:07All right, well, don't make me sick.
00:05:11I feel like you already got sick by kissing me all night.
00:05:15Well, I might get times too then.
00:05:23Wow, so this is your beach.
00:05:25This is it.
00:05:26Oh my God, all the guys that wear the what's the speedo thing.
00:05:30I can't, I can't, I can't.
00:05:36Wow, the sand feels so nice.
00:05:38Very different than Miami.
00:05:39It's like really soft.
00:05:43Do you want to go in?
00:05:44Yep.
00:05:45Wait, I have to change.
00:05:47Towel's in my bag.
00:05:49So let's figure this out.
00:05:51So here's to cover me.
00:05:53Okay.
00:05:55How about this?
00:05:57Well, this one, I can just go like this.
00:05:59Yeah.
00:06:02My top is off.
00:06:05Hold me, hold me.
00:06:07How do you do this part?
00:06:08All right, so now we're going to go down.
00:06:09Yeah.
00:06:10So, how are you going to do that now?
00:06:14I can't hold it tight.
00:06:18I'm losing it.
00:06:23Voila!
00:06:24Well done.
00:06:28That was pretty impressive.
00:06:31Are you going to protect me if there's sharks?
00:06:34Yeah, I'll do my best.
00:06:35Let's go, ready?
00:06:36Okay.
00:06:49It's actually insane to even think that I haven't even been here a full 24 hours and it's so natural.
00:06:56There's a lot of sexual chemistry there.
00:06:59We're so touchy-feely, but he seems a little reserved.
00:07:04So I'm just trying to feel him out.
00:07:09I mean, I do have three weeks here and I came here to find my potential husband.
00:07:14So getting to be alone with Joshua, it's nice because I want to get into the deeper stuff for sure.
00:07:23Holy camoly, I'm cold.
00:07:26It's funny, you see adults in there freezing and then you see like little kids and they're just like
00:07:30following you around for hours.
00:07:32I think when I was a kid, I spent every day at the beach.
00:07:36We'd be swimming in the pool every morning.
00:07:38Okay.
00:07:39But then in the afternoons, we'd be like doing the board training every single afternoon.
00:07:45I love learning about you. I want to get to know everything about you.
00:07:49Yeah, good.
00:07:49I want to know the heart. Like, I want you to open up.
00:07:51I feel like you're reserved. Were you reserved in your last serious relationship?
00:07:58Yeah, I probably was a bit reserved in my last relationship. I was, yeah.
00:08:02One big fear is probably, I don't know, opening up and then having it used like against me, you know.
00:08:13My previous relationship, we dated for seven years.
00:08:17But I never felt secure. I just felt like I wasn't good enough for her.
00:08:22She just wanted me to be, you know, super successful.
00:08:26And I was constantly being told if I wasn't, she would walk away.
00:08:32So I was always living in fear, I guess. She could just end it at any time.
00:08:37But ultimately, I had my heart broken and I'm closed off because of that.
00:08:44Like, are you constantly thinking like it's something on your mind or like it's just...
00:08:48Yeah, I'm always thinking.
00:08:49Always, always thinking.
00:08:51What's your thought right now?
00:08:53That this is...
00:08:55I like that you're sort of asking these questions, but you know, it's scary at the same time.
00:09:00Because it's opening up and being vulnerable.
00:09:11It's like an early call, so hopefully I'll do the same thing.
00:09:17Yeah, I feel safe with you too.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:21Bye.
00:09:27I've never really had a guy say that to me actually.
00:09:30Like guys have said a lot of things to me, but feeling safe is not one I've heard.
00:09:35It feels good.
00:09:37I don't think there's anything sexier than a man being vulnerable.
00:09:42So yeah, the plan was to wait.
00:09:45But like, he's so sweet to me.
00:09:47He's so attentive to me.
00:09:48He's letting his guard down.
00:09:49Like it's hard to resist a sexy man that's treating you well.
00:09:52So we'll see.
00:10:07It's not...
00:10:08It's not as bad as...
00:10:10Don't come close to me.
00:10:13Don't come close to me.
00:10:15You're telling me you have been a lesbian.
00:10:19Listen.
00:10:20Don't, don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:21Listen to...
00:10:22Don't even come...
00:10:23Don't, don't, don't try it.
00:10:24Listen, I'm telling you the truth before we talk to your uncle.
00:10:30I want it all out.
00:10:31That's why I said I needed another day.
00:10:33I wanted you to know everything.
00:10:38Hey, Daniel.
00:10:41Daniel.
00:10:42Don't come close to me.
00:10:44Please try to understand.
00:10:46I, I, I, you don't know how hard it was to...
00:10:49I have a lot of secrets.
00:10:50I have no more secrets.
00:10:52Just listen, please.
00:10:54I'm trying to tell you who I am.
00:10:57Jesus Christ.
00:10:58I'm not a lesbian.
00:11:00I'm not straight.
00:11:01I'm not bisexual.
00:11:03I just believe that people should love people.
00:11:06People should love people by their soul.
00:11:08And people should love people for who they are on the inside.
00:11:11Not on what is on the outside.
00:11:16I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:11:18You told me you have had series of, you know, relationship.
00:11:21I didn't know it's, it's your fellow women.
00:11:23Same sex.
00:11:26Yes.
00:11:28And you, you have been lying to me.
00:11:31I'm sorry.
00:11:34You are evil.
00:11:37I'm not evil.
00:11:38You know me.
00:11:39I take care of people.
00:11:40And I feel I'm taking care of you.
00:11:42I'm not evil.
00:11:44I have a good heart.
00:11:45And I'm a good person.
00:11:46What make, what makes you a good person?
00:11:48Sleeping with your fellow women?
00:11:50That doesn't make me evil.
00:11:53I'm still the same person you fell in love with.
00:11:56The same person who tell lies and keep secrets.
00:12:00I love you.
00:12:02I don't want to hear that from your mouth again.
00:12:04I love you.
00:12:05Don't, don't, don't, don't say that again.
00:12:07You can't tell me not to say those words because I mean it.
00:12:10I am in love with you, Daniel.
00:12:12That's why I'm coming clean to you.
00:12:14I could have kept this a secret forever and not told you.
00:12:17But I'm telling you.
00:12:18Shut your mouth.
00:12:19You have been tortured by a woman.
00:12:21Not even woman, women.
00:12:26You are a liar.
00:12:28I'm just a person who has been lost.
00:12:36Don't.
00:12:37Can you hold this ring?
00:12:38No.
00:12:40Hold the ring.
00:12:43I've seen that from your head to toe,
00:12:46it's full of secrets and lies.
00:12:48So you're full of evil.
00:12:51I'm not full of evil, Daniel.
00:12:55I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:12:57I'm staying in my room tonight.
00:13:09I thought I've seen it all.
00:13:11Or she keep on vomiting secrets.
00:13:15No, no, no, no, no, no.
00:13:20I didn't think he'd call me evil.
00:13:23I'm not evil.
00:13:26I just believe a person loves a person.
00:13:28And I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
00:13:35Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
00:13:38You know what?
00:13:40F*** him.
00:13:41F*** him.
00:13:54You're officially on the jeepney.
00:13:56I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:13:58And I don't want to waste any time bringing Sheena to America.
00:14:02So I have to be very clear here.
00:14:05If you file today for the K1 visa, it will be denied.
00:14:10And I don't know what to do.
00:14:17We are like me.
00:14:23It's my turn.
00:14:31This one is right out, so we can see.
00:14:35We are here.
00:14:37I'm tired.
00:14:38Let's get our rest.
00:14:57So this is going to be like a village environment, right?
00:15:01Yeah.
00:15:18Can't forget my baby wipes.
00:15:20I don't know how you guys wash your ass in the village.
00:15:22We use water.
00:15:27We had a big fight last night.
00:15:30I still love him, and I want him to meet my family.
00:15:34But I don't feel like everything is resolved yet between me and Rick.
00:15:42I don't want to ruin this vacation.
00:15:44But the way you talked to me yesterday, I don't like.
00:15:53I went a little overboard.
00:15:55I'm sorry for that.
00:15:58I'm sorry for raising my voice to you.
00:16:02It's just I was so frustrated, you know, hearing about your ex-boyfriend constantly.
00:16:09I mean, I can't move forward if you're going to keep going back.
00:16:19Okay, I promise I'm not going to talk about my ex.
00:16:25Okay.
00:16:26We are going to see my family, and I don't want to go there in a bad mood.
00:16:32I want them to accept you because I want this relationship work.
00:16:39I do, too.
00:16:43I overreacted yesterday.
00:16:45It seemed like she was taunting me over something that she already knows that I'm insecure about.
00:16:51Then it just totally set me off.
00:16:53I want to be here, and I want to really give this a chance.
00:17:00Yeah.
00:17:01There's definitely a strong connection between her and I, and I'm glad that Trish is willing to forgive me.
00:17:13So, I think we can, like, get a quickie in before we go.
00:17:16What?
00:17:18No!
00:17:22Let's go now.
00:17:29Nice tuk-tuk right here.
00:17:31Yeah, it's nice.
00:17:45It's quiet, you see?
00:17:47Not much people.
00:17:49Not what I expected.
00:17:53This is rough roads.
00:17:57The roots are made of aluminum.
00:17:59Let's get noisy when it rains, huh?
00:18:02Yeah.
00:18:08I'm excited to see my family and go back to my village.
00:18:13Everything is just simple.
00:18:16There is no running water, no fancy toilet, but everybody are kind in my village.
00:18:24And it's beautiful.
00:18:27Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
00:18:29Yeah, to see me.
00:18:31What about me?
00:18:34They going to be happy to see me, baby?
00:18:36I don't know.
00:18:37Meet me?
00:18:39They're happy because I bring a boyfriend.
00:18:42Oh, okay.
00:18:43And they will tell me if you were the good person for me or not.
00:18:51Yeah, I just hope those questions don't come too hard and fast.
00:18:57I feel a little bit scared.
00:19:01My family won't accept Rick.
00:19:04Men in my tribe is very strong.
00:19:09When they don't like something, they are really aggressive.
00:19:14Rick thinks he can handle any situation, but he can't.
00:19:19I'm worried.
00:19:20He doesn't know what he's in for.
00:19:26Is it right here?
00:19:28Yeah, it's here.
00:19:29There's no turning back.
00:19:41So we're going to have to call a GP.
00:19:44I'm super duper nervous about riding one.
00:19:46Oh, you're going to have to.
00:19:47How's that work?
00:19:49Well, you can see those signboards.
00:19:51Uh-huh.
00:19:51Just have to find the right location.
00:19:53Then we just have to kill Para.
00:19:56Oh.
00:19:56Para's to stop.
00:19:57Oh.
00:20:02So here.
00:20:03Oh, here?
00:20:04Yes.
00:20:07All right.
00:20:07We're officially on the GP.
00:20:13There it is, the big part.
00:20:16Ah!
00:20:17Woo!
00:20:19I'm surprisingly not tapping the top too hardcore.
00:20:22Yeah.
00:20:24It's hot.
00:20:25It smells like diesel.
00:20:29It's been a couple days since I proposed to Sheena,
00:20:31and we are just over the moon in love with each other.
00:20:36But not everyone's happy.
00:20:38Oh!
00:20:39My mom is still mad at me because I proposed to Sheena against her guidance.
00:20:46And the vibe in the condo is just really awkward.
00:20:52So Sheena and I have been trying to do our own thing.
00:20:54Oh, my gosh.
00:20:55So this is the ball, dear.
00:20:58All right.
00:20:58Here we go.
00:20:59We're getting off.
00:21:00Thank you so much.
00:21:02While it really hurts that my mom has distanced herself,
00:21:05right now is not the time to put the brakes on things.
00:21:07I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
00:21:09And I don't want to waste any time in bringing Sheena to America.
00:21:15Good morning.
00:21:16Will you have an appointment with Mr. Alexander King, please?
00:21:20Yes.
00:21:20Now that we're finally engaged, I called an immigration lawyer in Manila
00:21:24just so we can get a consultation.
00:21:27Hi.
00:21:27Oh, hi, sir.
00:21:28Hi.
00:21:29Hi.
00:21:29Good morning.
00:21:30My name is Sheena.
00:21:32Nice to meet you.
00:21:33Nice to meet you.
00:21:34Nice to meet you.
00:21:35There you are.
00:21:36Good afternoon.
00:21:37Good afternoon.
00:21:38Yes, sir.
00:21:38Welcome to our office.
00:21:39And welcome to the Philippines.
00:21:42I've been enjoying my stay.
00:21:43Okay.
00:21:44So for this consultation, I would like to, you know, make an assessment.
00:21:49Of course.
00:21:50Sure.
00:21:50If you are eligible for the K1 visa.
00:21:53Yeah.
00:21:53Now, how long have you been in this relationship?
00:21:57Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:58Seven years.
00:21:59And you have never been convicted of any crime in the US?
00:22:03No.
00:22:04Okay.
00:22:04Be clean.
00:22:04That's good.
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:07When I walk, you can hear me.
00:22:08Yeah.
00:22:08So are you working right now?
00:22:13Currently, I'm not working.
00:22:16But I can prove that I'm getting paid monthly.
00:22:20Okay.
00:22:20I'm receiving disability benefits, which is, it's a good enough amount to have me, you know,
00:22:28live my basic life and, you know, get an apartment and get food, all that good stuff.
00:22:35I see.
00:22:36So I have to be very clear here, you know, disability benefits is not an income.
00:22:46You know, you cannot consider it as an income.
00:22:49The annual income for petitioners for K1 visa is more or less $26,500 USD.
00:22:57Now, is that shared between the both?
00:22:59No, it's only the petitioner.
00:23:00Only the petitioner.
00:23:01Okay.
00:23:01That's for the petitioner.
00:23:02Okay.
00:23:03So, um, if you will file today, for example, it will be denied.
00:23:14My suggestion is you build your financial capacity, you know, find gainful employment,
00:23:19then, uh, you can proceed.
00:23:24I am in complete shock right now.
00:23:27I feel devastated to find out that my disability payments that I get monthly
00:23:32does not count towards the amount that I need to bring to the United States.
00:23:37To be honest, because of my autism, I am terrified about working full-time and starting a job.
00:23:47In the past, I've had jobs that ended awfully because I didn't understand or I messed up.
00:23:56But my back is at a wall right now that if I don't get a job, our entire dream of
00:24:04bringing Gina to the United States is done.
00:24:08So, let's say, you know, I go back home and I instantly start working.
00:24:12Yeah.
00:24:13How long is enough to have the stable form of income, you know, before the K1 is actually granted?
00:24:19So, yeah, uh, you need probably a year, uh, employment history.
00:24:26Okay.
00:24:27And then, uh, you will meet another year, uh, at least, uh, to have the petition approved and bring your
00:24:34fiancé to the U.S.
00:24:36Yeah.
00:24:40It's quite frustrating for me that I'm the only one who's been working.
00:24:45If he happened to have a job, then he could have acquired the CAVA visa sooner.
00:24:53I'm worried that since Forrest has a disability, it will be quite difficult for him to get and hold a
00:25:00job long-term.
00:25:03Is there any other options?
00:25:06So, depending on your goal, here in the Philippine immigration, we have a straightforward process.
00:25:12If you get married here and he comes to the Philippines and live here, there is no requirement of financial
00:25:17capacity.
00:25:18Okay.
00:25:19Okay? So, there will be a, um, 100% chance that the petition will be approved, you know?
00:25:25Okay.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:28So, these options will depend on your goal?
00:25:34At this point, it's sounding almost impossible for Forrest to bring me to the U.S.
00:25:40I know it's going to be difficult, but I think he's going to have to consider other options.
00:25:55I don't know. I'm just real pissed off. And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads. I don't know how
00:26:01to move forward.
00:26:12Can I at least have my wallet?
00:26:14No.
00:26:16Okay.
00:26:17Don't talk to me. Don't come to me.
00:26:26You think you can just treat me this way and humiliate me all the time?
00:26:30All right. I'm going to just give you space, all right?
00:27:02No.
00:27:05I'm gonna DISCO.
00:27:07No, it's gonna be the same as my girlfriend confer at that time?
00:27:15I don't give up kind of a sleep.
00:27:16That's not how easy it does.
00:27:19No.
00:27:21No in the meantime keeping me free at that time,
00:27:26fak Smith.
00:27:27No?
00:27:28But, I don't know.
00:27:33I will be very guilty if I leave him on the street.
00:27:37But just to be clear, I'm very pissed at him.
00:27:42He promised a really good day.
00:27:45But of course, he needs to ruin the moment.
00:27:48Because it's not Jubon if he doesn't.
00:27:58And, uh, am I allowed to come in?
00:28:18We're just going to leave him for now.
00:28:19Just give her space, man, so she can just calm down.
00:28:25We'll talk about it when she's ready.
00:28:30I just feel really hopeless with Anna
00:28:33because I'm putting in massive effort
00:28:36to show Anna that I can be romantic.
00:28:40And, you know, she storms out of the nail salon place.
00:28:44And it's just, I don't know, I'm just real pissed off
00:28:46that she would make a scene in public like this.
00:28:50And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
00:28:54I don't know how to move forward.
00:28:56Mama, your day good?
00:28:59It's okay.
00:29:02Every time he were having a good time,
00:29:06he would do this to me.
00:29:07Right in front in public.
00:29:10It's so humiliating.
00:29:12I don't think it's powerless.
00:29:14The fact that he could upset me this much
00:29:17definitely has power of his relationship.
00:29:24Hello?
00:29:27Kumusta nung baby ni Nana?
00:29:32Nakainis ako kay John.
00:29:34Bakit?
00:29:35Nakaka bad trip kasi.
00:29:37Bakit?
00:29:38Kasi gusto niya yung relasyon na may nalala
00:29:40ka siya siya dominante.
00:29:42Ganito, ganyan, ganyan.
00:29:44Hindi ko nang ginaganyan ako.
00:29:46Nakainis ako.
00:30:12I'm not trying to get you to change.
00:30:16Vulcan woman.
00:30:18It's like I've, like,
00:30:21sacrificed a lot of my life
00:30:23so you can be happy.
00:30:24And even when I do the things you want me to do,
00:30:27it's something else you want me to do.
00:30:31So I'm like, look, I just give up.
00:30:34There's nothing else that I can do
00:30:36to make you, you know, happy.
00:30:41I feel exactly the same sometimes.
00:30:52I'm so cold.
00:30:53Can I have a shower with me?
00:30:55Okay.
00:30:56I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:30:59Maybe.
00:31:01But, I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:31:04I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:31:32I'm so cold.
00:31:35Can I have a shower with me?
00:31:37Okay.
00:31:39Never thought you would ask.
00:31:54Every f***ing thing here is cold!
00:32:03I mean, are things moving a little fast?
00:32:05Maybe.
00:32:07But Joshua and I are both super sandy and gross from the ocean,
00:32:11and I mean, like, I wanted to save water.
00:32:14I'm a big environmentalist, you know?
00:32:19I'm trying to control myself,
00:32:21but Josh is just, like, so hot,
00:32:23and we've been making out all day.
00:32:26You know, in the back of my mind,
00:32:27I do have some questions,
00:32:29and I do want to see more of him
00:32:31and more of his life,
00:32:32but, like, at this point, like, it feels right.
00:32:35So I bought some massage oil,
00:32:37and then I think there's some wine.
00:32:39Maybe we can have a glass and relax?
00:32:41I love it.
00:32:42Okay, perfect.
00:32:53Babe, are you coming?
00:32:55Yeah.
00:32:59Everything feels really natural.
00:33:01Everything feels like it's progressing between us.
00:33:04We just draw onto each other,
00:33:05which is, you know, really exciting.
00:33:08We had an amazing day together,
00:33:10and I want to pamper Elise.
00:33:12Now's the time to pour some wine,
00:33:15you know, light a candle,
00:33:16and, you know, show her that I've got skills.
00:33:24Wow, look at this.
00:33:26Yeah.
00:33:30Welcome to Sydney,
00:33:32making you feel better and more relaxed.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:36Cheers.
00:33:41Feel like a massage?
00:33:42Yeah, I would love one.
00:33:44I'm gonna light it up.
00:33:45This doesn't mean you're necessarily
00:33:46sleeping in the bed tonight.
00:33:48It's okay, I didn't mistake it.
00:33:51Lay on your stomach.
00:33:53Okay.
00:34:00Is that all right?
00:34:01That's okay.
00:34:02Okay.
00:34:05Wow, that's a lot of oil.
00:34:09You can go harder.
00:34:11Harder.
00:34:12We should go down lower.
00:34:17You're, like, trying to be, like,
00:34:18a little respectful, but...
00:34:21Come on, do me a little bitch.
00:34:24Give me, like, everything.
00:34:25Slap on the ass?
00:34:26Yeah, slap on the ass.
00:34:27Like, grab my hair with the oil in it.
00:34:30I mean, I don't have extensions for nothing.
00:34:32It's gonna rip me around a little bit here.
00:34:35Wow.
00:34:36It's a family show, I thought you said.
00:34:41Are you nervous?
00:34:42Yeah.
00:34:43Shaking.
00:34:44I can feel it.
00:34:45You reckon?
00:34:46Mm-hmm.
00:34:54All right, guys.
00:34:59What the are you doing?
00:35:03Oh, my God.
00:35:05The timing on me.
00:35:08Hi, Chris.
00:35:09Yeah, hi.
00:35:10Nice.
00:35:11Now it's a party.
00:35:12Now it's a party.
00:35:14I can't stop my mic now.
00:35:15I'll get another wine glass.
00:35:19I did not see that coming.
00:35:21I did.
00:35:23I'm naked right now.
00:35:25But, you know,
00:35:25there's better places to give a naked massage in the house
00:35:28than the communal area as well.
00:35:29Half naked massage.
00:35:30Yeah, you know what?
00:35:31You're absolutely right.
00:35:32Yeah.
00:35:32But, um, you know,
00:35:33I think I was just blind with lust.
00:35:36Ew.
00:35:37You just have to say it so weird for, bro.
00:35:43All right.
00:35:44Well, I'm gonna go to my room.
00:35:48Well, that just ruined the moment.
00:35:50This is exactly why I don't want a guy with roommate.
00:35:55Can you button me back up?
00:35:58I'm, like, literally in my bra and underwear.
00:36:02Showing your skin to other people?
00:36:04Who is that?
00:36:05Not me.
00:36:06Who would have...
00:36:06No, I'm not embarrassed.
00:36:08Like, I'll get naked in front of everyone.
00:36:09We know that.
00:36:10But, like, Chris walks in
00:36:12as your hands are groping my body
00:36:14and it's, like, such a sexual nice night
00:36:16and, like...
00:36:16Yeah, I probably should have done it in the bedroom.
00:36:18Not my finest hour.
00:36:21Sorry, baby.
00:36:22Well, that killed the mood.
00:36:24For now.
00:36:27Okay.
00:36:35Andrus?
00:36:37Andrus?
00:36:38Andrus, andrus the air to air.
00:36:38Wait, this is the shower?
00:36:40Yeah.
00:36:41Atom toilet.
00:36:43Oh, hell no!
00:36:46I'm a little bit...
00:36:47I'm the rest of his reaction in front of my father.
00:36:51Paper for the...
00:36:53This is paper to write on.
00:36:55You wipe...
00:36:56You wipe this...
00:36:57Yes!
00:36:58Stop it.
00:37:19Well, babe, this is where you grew up?
00:37:22Yeah, it's here.
00:37:34Hey!
00:37:36Yeah.
00:37:37Is that your rooster?
00:37:38No, not mine.
00:37:39By my neighbors.
00:37:40Oh, okay.
00:37:42We just got to the area of Trisha's family home.
00:37:45I've never seen a home where you have to walk so far
00:37:50to get to off the main road.
00:37:51Ooh, this is a journey.
00:37:54Don't complain.
00:37:56But I'm happy to be here with Trish
00:37:59because I want a future with her.
00:38:02And if I can get her family's approval,
00:38:05I think that she would be able to see that I'm a good person
00:38:08and maybe it would make up for what I did in the past.
00:38:14This is my...
00:38:15Oh, this is it?
00:38:15Yeah, this is my home.
00:38:18Okay.
00:38:19Oh, that's my sister.
00:38:20Yeah!
00:38:21Oh, this is your sister.
00:38:23Good, good.
00:38:23I didn't get to meet her.
00:38:27She does look like you.
00:38:28She's very beautiful.
00:38:29Yeah, she is.
00:38:30Nice to meet you.
00:38:33And who is this?
00:38:35My brother.
00:38:35Oh, this is your brother?
00:38:37Yes.
00:38:37Hello, brother.
00:38:39Por favor.
00:38:40Cheesy.
00:38:41Hello, sir.
00:38:42How are you doing?
00:38:43Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:45Nice to meet you.
00:38:48Trish has told me that she has a huge family
00:38:51and they all live on this compound together.
00:38:54Yeah!
00:38:54Hi, I'm Rick.
00:38:55Nice to meet you.
00:38:56Oh, this is your brother.
00:38:57Okay.
00:39:00Okay.
00:39:01Nice to meet you.
00:39:02Oh, how are you?
00:39:04My sister.
00:39:05This is your sister?
00:39:06Yeah.
00:39:06It's so nice to meet you.
00:39:07You look like my grandmother.
00:39:10I wasn't expecting that many people.
00:39:13You know, I keep seeing people pouring in one by one.
00:39:18Just when I'm thinking, that should be everybody there.
00:39:21There's more people coming.
00:39:22Like, how am I going to remember all these people's names
00:39:25and who they are?
00:39:28Bye-bye.
00:39:44My dad say you sleep down.
00:39:48Oh.
00:39:49And me, I'm sorry.
00:39:50Okay.
00:39:52Those bunk beds remind me of when I was a kid
00:39:55and me and my sister.
00:39:57I never imagined myself sleeping in a bunk bed at my age.
00:40:02But I respect her dad and their culture.
00:40:11Oh, this is the shower?
00:40:15Yeah.
00:40:16We just put water in the container and bring it here.
00:40:20I mean, there's no running water coming up.
00:40:23To wrench you off.
00:40:24No.
00:40:25And where does this water come from?
00:40:28From the river or?
00:40:29Like, something under the ground.
00:40:32A well?
00:40:33Yeah.
00:40:35He's going to show you the bathroom.
00:40:37Okay.
00:40:38I smell something already.
00:40:43Oh, hell no!
00:40:46All I see is a wooden plank with a hole cut out of it, y'all.
00:40:52Paper for the, uh, and then, yeah.
00:40:55Wait, wait, wait.
00:40:57See this paper to write on?
00:40:59You wipe...
00:41:00You wipe this...
00:41:01Yes!
00:41:02Rick!
00:41:02Stop it.
00:41:03That's how I...
00:41:04Sit, sit, sit in this.
00:41:06Oh, cool.
00:41:07Oh.
00:41:07That's it.
00:41:09I'm a little bit embarrassed of his reaction in front of my father, but I'm not surprised.
00:41:18Ever since Rick came to Madagascar, he complains about everything.
00:41:24I don't like the traffic, I'll tell you that much already.
00:41:27And they just leaving me down like this without refrigeration?
00:41:32These are tight quarters right here, baby.
00:41:35It's kind of squished.
00:41:36It's hot.
00:41:37I hope it's not going to be this hot in those days.
00:41:40Shouldn't they have, like, some long tongs?
00:41:42No, we don't need the long tongs.
00:41:44You are the only bougie here, Alfredo, or something.
00:41:47Oh, my God.
00:41:48Terrible.
00:41:52This is the living room?
00:41:54Yeah.
00:41:55Yeah, this is the living room.
00:42:01Yeah.
00:42:01What is this, like, a family meeting or something?
00:42:04Okay.
00:42:06Yeah.
00:42:18So they approve that you are here, and he's going to give us a blessing.
00:42:25This blessing is just for accepting you to go around with me.
00:42:30Okay.
00:42:33In my culture, you cannot just walk around with a man outside there without your parents'
00:42:39acceptation.
00:42:41Like, it's not a blessing to get engaged.
00:42:44No.
00:42:45It's just he's giving an authorization to having relationship.
00:42:52This morning blessing.
00:42:54That's it, babe.
00:42:55It is a silver.
00:42:57Yeah, a bracelet.
00:43:05Into work.
00:43:10Interesting.
00:43:12Million Handy
00:43:13New Handy
00:43:26Good.
00:43:46Thank you for this.
00:43:55Yes.
00:43:56Oh, is that his?
00:43:58Yeah, his person.
00:43:59Okay.
00:43:59Yeah.
00:44:10Yeah.
00:44:15Yeah.
00:44:16Yeah.
00:44:30Yeah.
00:44:36Yeah.
00:44:44Yeah.
00:44:47Yeah.
00:44:48Yeah.
00:44:48Yeah.
00:44:48Yeah.
00:45:00Yeah.
00:45:02Yeah.
00:45:02Yeah.
00:45:24I feel miserable, numb, really sad.
00:45:35But I feel like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders.
00:45:39I just don't know what happens from here.
00:45:44Last night, I came clean to Daniel.
00:45:47I told him everything.
00:45:48There are no more secrets.
00:45:51And he didn't react good.
00:45:53He called me evil.
00:45:55He didn't talk to me.
00:45:57He looked at me with disgust.
00:45:58He's not accepting who I am.
00:46:01So he slept on the sofa, I slept in the bedroom.
00:46:05I'm mad, and I'm angry, and I'm hurt.
00:46:10But I'm still desperately, madly, deeply in love with Daniel.
00:46:15My plan is to go back to Lagos today.
00:46:18I'm cutting the trip short.
00:46:20There's a big fear he's never going to trust me again
00:46:22and that he's going to leave me.
00:46:23But until he says, I don't want to be with you,
00:46:26until he says those words, I'm not giving up hope.
00:46:31Telling the truth is a heavier weight between Daniel and I.
00:46:35I don't even know if he wants to talk to his uncle anymore
00:46:38about me lying about still being married.
00:46:41But I believe that if he just gives me a chance,
00:46:45looks at me as Lisa, sees me as a person he fell in love with
00:46:48those months ago that he will see that we are meant to be together.
00:46:53I still want to be with Daniel.
00:46:55But now it's up to him.
00:47:02How do you feel?
00:47:04Lisa is full of lies.
00:47:06I don't think her lies is over
00:47:08because she keep on cooking new ones every day.
00:47:12Why did you call her evil?
00:47:14Because she's evil.
00:47:16Keeping all these secrets.
00:47:18I've been taking away of how to talk to my uncle
00:47:22about the one she told me already.
00:47:24That she has not been divorced.
00:47:27Not knowing that she has been in a relationship
00:47:29with her fellow women.
00:47:31She's been practicing same sex.
00:47:34So I don't know how I'm going to face him.
00:47:37It's against our tradition.
00:47:47Daniel, can I ask you a question?
00:47:52Just allow me to be.
00:47:54Like, we have to talk.
00:47:55You can't ignore me forever.
00:47:58Please.
00:48:00You need to give me time.
00:48:02I have to think.
00:48:06Can you grab your bags?
00:48:08I can't carry everything to the car.
00:48:12I'm not happy that the person I loved
00:48:15have engaged in this act of same sex.
00:48:19I'm not happy.
00:48:20Another love gone bad again.
00:48:23Bad again. Bad again. Bad again.
00:48:25But what obsesses me the most is the lies.
00:48:29I love Lisa.
00:48:31I want to forgive her.
00:48:33But after what she did,
00:48:34I don't trust her anymore.
00:48:37I don't know if I can continue this relationship.
00:48:38You're on your own.
00:48:40Hope you feel the pain.
00:48:41Of your thoughts inside.
00:48:43Driving you insane.
00:48:52And I will love past my shoulder.
00:48:56Cause it can't hurt anymore.
00:48:59Hurt anymore.
00:49:02And it's forever done.
00:49:14So are you ever going to talk to me?
00:49:17I am totally confused.
00:49:20We dated for six months.
00:49:22You have every opportunity to tell me whatever you want to tell me.
00:49:25But you never did.
00:49:26I was scared.
00:49:28Why didn't you tell my uncle?
00:49:31Because this is between me and you.
00:49:33Why does he need to know anything?
00:49:35Anything?
00:49:36Yeah.
00:49:37You called it anything?
00:49:38Yeah.
00:49:39Same sex is a disgrace to any family that is involved in it.
00:49:45It's against our tradition.
00:49:47But it's not against American tradition.
00:49:50But you are in my country.
00:49:51You are in my tribe.
00:49:52This is something that you and I cannot settle.
00:49:56My uncle will have to be involved.
00:49:59Are you promising me that you will not go back to practicing same sex?
00:50:03Daniel, if we're married, I plan on marrying you for the rest of my life.
00:50:07There's not going to be another woman.
00:50:09If I'm with you, I'm with you.
00:50:12Are you still thinking that there's a chance for us?
00:50:15Or is there no chance for us, Daniel?
00:50:17I don't know.
00:50:19I don't think I will continue with this relationship until my uncle comes.
00:50:24I should have told you.
00:50:26I should have told you before I came.
00:50:28And then you could have determined if you wanted to even be with me or not be with me.
00:50:32And there wouldn't be all these emotions involved.
00:50:34And there wouldn't be all this struggle.
00:50:36I should have just told you.
00:50:37I was scared to tell you.
00:50:39And I was scared to lose you.
00:50:43I'm scared of losing you.
00:50:46This all comes down to his uncle.
00:50:48When he finds out that I lied about me being with women for 21 years,
00:50:53I'm worried that his uncle will never forgive me and never accept me.
00:50:58And this relationship will be over.
00:51:02I don't want to talk about this anymore until my uncle comes.
00:51:05Please.
00:51:22Don't help that.
00:51:23Ow!
00:51:24That does not hurt.
00:51:25That really hurts?
00:51:27Yeah, it's not happening.
00:51:27That's how you know I'm so sexually attracted to you because I love popping your pimples.
00:51:31I'm good.
00:51:41Did you sleep well?
00:51:43I'm pretty tired.
00:51:45I can't believe after six months I had sex.
00:51:48I feel like I'm not a virgin anymore.
00:51:52Like I'm a little mad at myself that I should have waited longer, but it felt right.
00:51:57It was a lot of fun.
00:52:00Do you think Chris hurt us?
00:52:04Possibly.
00:52:06How many times did you have sex last night?
00:52:09Twice.
00:52:11It was just too hard to keep our hands off each other and just it felt like it flowed.
00:52:15It was like missionary.
00:52:17It was great.
00:52:18And then like to the side was the other one.
00:52:22Did you get a glimpse of the picture of Chris above?
00:52:24I forgot that painting.
00:52:24I forgot that painting was in the room.
00:52:26Well you didn't even me doggy style.
00:52:28I couldn't even see the painting last night.
00:52:31Yeah.
00:52:33I feel like we're an old married couple.
00:52:36Yeah.
00:52:36Like I'm so comfortable with you.
00:52:38Like usually like at home like if I like sleep with a guy like I just want to like go
00:52:43leave the next day.
00:52:45But like I'm stuck with you and I'm here with you and then like I'm happy that I'm here and
00:52:49like I came.
00:52:51You know, did you?
00:52:53I did.
00:52:55Chris walking in when I'm on the couch getting massage.
00:52:58That definitely brought the mood down.
00:53:00He had a lot of making up to do if he wanted to have sex and he definitely made it
00:53:04up.
00:53:04It was everything I could have dreamed of and more.
00:53:07Everything about this man is so sexy except the uncircumcised.
00:53:13Those are first uncircumcised.
00:53:18It's a little weird.
00:53:19It's like, you know, but also there's not like a dictionary on like how to use the extra skin.
00:53:27But like, like I'm not complaining about it.
00:53:32I can deal with that.
00:53:35I'm glad that you felt comfortable very quickly.
00:53:42I did.
00:53:43I'm like one part of me is like super happy.
00:53:45But the other part of me is like, I should have.
00:53:47I should. I want to know more than and then.
00:53:50But whatever, like I shouldn't be so hard on myself.
00:53:52Just ask anything you want.
00:53:54Do anything you want.
00:53:55Say anything you want.
00:53:56Yeah.
00:53:56OK, I'll start asking.
00:53:58Don't hate me.
00:53:59OK, go.
00:54:01So I'm confused about this rental situation.
00:54:04Like a little annoying that Chris like walked in during that.
00:54:07Like, why is he even here with you renting it in the first place?
00:54:12Because last I knew is you lived with your parents.
00:54:17Um, I mean, like we were living together and then we sort of had to get out.
00:54:21After we moved out, I dropped my stuff to my parents and sort of stayed there for a week.
00:54:25But then, you know, I, um, I've been living with Nat.
00:54:33I've been staying at hers because, you know, she lives a lot closer to work.
00:54:37So why?
00:54:39I feel like I'm a detective and I'm trying to like navigate this like detective puzzle
00:54:43because you've confused me so much.
00:54:46I know Nat, we've talked on the phone a few times, but living together?
00:54:51I think their relationship's a little weird.
00:54:54If it's so platonic and you're just friends, why would you have to lie to me about it
00:54:58and tell me you're living with your parents?
00:55:00This just smells fishy to me.
00:55:04Um, I just, I mean, to me, it's a little weird that you're living with a girl.
00:55:11And like, you talk about her a lot too.
00:55:14And like, I just, I don't know, like.
00:55:18She's my friend.
00:55:19You're here.
00:55:20You're my, you're my girlfriend.
00:55:21So it's, it's exactly the same as Chris.
00:55:23I would, I would treat her exactly the same as I do Chris.
00:55:26You know?
00:55:26Like, do you guys like share a bathroom?
00:55:28Like, does she see you naked?
00:55:29Like, like, how does that work?
00:55:31Why is that funny?
00:55:32No, it's funny because, you know, I get it.
00:55:35That's, you know, I get why you would ask those questions.
00:55:37Um, yeah, of course we share a bathroom.
00:55:39But, um, she hasn't seen me naked.
00:55:42Her and I are just friends.
00:55:43She's like, you know, just a really good friend.
00:55:45But, you know, she knows about you and that you're my partner.
00:55:48And, you know, um, I really want you guys to get along because it's important for me.
00:55:52Well, you must feel some sort of way because you didn't tell me you lived with her.
00:56:00Maybe it was a part of me, you know, not wanting you to get, you know, jealous and back out
00:56:04of this before you got here.
00:56:05So, you know, when you-
00:56:06And how do I know you're telling me the truth?
00:56:08Well, that's your job to believe me and it's my job to prove it to you.
00:56:14I'm supposed to meet Josh's friends tonight, including Nat.
00:56:18So I need to take advantage and get the whole picture of him.
00:56:21I want to see how Joshua treats me in front of her, see what she says to me.
00:56:24If there's any skeletons in the closet that Joshua hasn't told me that I'm going to find out.
00:56:29It's like, what else do I not know that I should know?
00:56:33I want to give Joshua the benefit of the doubt, but I don't fully trust him after this.
00:56:38At the end of the day, like, you know, you're, you know, you're mine and you're my number one priority,
00:56:43so.
00:56:49How old are you?
00:56:52Oh.
00:56:53I'm, I'm 52.
00:56:5652.
00:57:02They want babies.
00:57:1353.
00:57:24Now, what is this?
00:57:27You can help.
00:57:29Okay.
00:57:3025.
00:57:31That's a goat, we call each hush.
00:57:35That's enough, these small enough there.
00:57:50Oh, enjoy.
00:57:53Oh, thank you.
00:57:59I don't know if I can hold my legs like this.
00:58:02I'm going to sit like your aunt.
00:58:04I'm going to try that.
00:58:08Oh, Jesus.
00:58:12Only women are allowed to sit like this.
00:58:15She's not going to sit like this till the end,
00:58:17just serving the food.
00:58:20So far, everything is seemed pretty good with Rick
00:58:24and my family, even though he's acting like an old man.
00:58:31My father said you have to use to do it.
00:58:35But I know my family is going to be asking him a lot of questions,
00:58:40and I don't know how Rick is going to respond.
00:58:51Like, what is the intention to me?
00:58:57I look at her as being a prospective wife to be.
00:59:09I love her very much and I'm hoping that she could possibly love me the same.
00:59:36How old are you?
00:59:38Oh, I'm 52.
00:59:4752.
00:59:54You have the same age as him.
01:00:24You have married.
01:00:28Yes, I've been married twice.
01:00:33But now I'm not married.
01:00:37Do you have a child?
01:00:41Yes.
01:00:42I have two babies and then I have three adults.
01:00:52Five years.
01:01:10They want babies.
01:01:19Trish and I have been talking about whether or not we're going to have kids and I'm just not ready
01:01:27to make that decision yet.
01:01:47They want respect and as a mother, we get married.
01:01:58I have a child.
01:02:04I have a child.
01:02:29So I don't understand that.
01:02:30And now that I see how important this is,
01:02:33it's going to be the forefront of my mind.
01:02:47When are you going to decide it?
01:02:52Before, you know, I come to your father
01:02:55and ask for your hand in marriage,
01:02:58I will make a decision.
01:03:00Okay.
01:03:10Trish, she warned me about how strongly her family felt
01:03:14about having kids.
01:03:16But now the heat is on and I'm starting to feel the pressure.
01:03:21My feelings have grown so much for Trish
01:03:25that I couldn't picture a life without her at this point.
01:03:29But I really don't want to have more kids.
01:03:34I don't know how I'm going to make this decision.
01:03:41Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:03:43Yeah.
01:03:44How did you do that?
01:03:45I don't think that guys and girls can be friends
01:03:47without hooking up.
01:03:48I've tried that.
01:03:48It's never succeeded.
01:03:49Oh, no.
01:03:49I have so many guy friends.
01:03:51Let's put two and two together.
01:03:53Josh lied to me about living there.
01:03:56Something's fishy.
01:03:56Something's shady.
01:03:57So are you jealous of me?
01:04:33I'm so frustrated with Javon, but it makes me feel good when I look good, so I'm just going to
01:04:40do my own thing.
01:04:43And we talk.
01:04:54That's all we do, talk. So frustrating.
01:05:02I'm really starting to feel hopeless that we're never going to resolve this problem.
01:05:09Really can't do this submissive thing.
01:05:14I'm afraid that he's trying to change me.
01:05:19But, I mean, this is not like a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship where you can just back out.
01:05:27We're married, so I just can't ignore him forever, especially now that he's in my house.
01:05:38Hey.
01:05:41Hey.
01:05:45I like your outfit.
01:05:50Thanks.
01:05:51I mean, do you want to talk any about yesterday?
01:06:00Sometimes I just can't take your arrogance, Javon.
01:06:09I just think that I feel like I have to fight to be heard.
01:06:12You know, I know you want to come off like, you know, I'm not going to be pushed around.
01:06:16You're going to hear me.
01:06:18To me, it causes more fights than it solves.
01:06:24I get what you're coming from, but this is what you married.
01:06:29I am not the type of woman who would just say yes, just to have peace.
01:06:36Ever since I was a child, I felt like I was voiceless.
01:06:40And I saw my mom, you know, she gone through this domestic abuse in the past.
01:06:46The goodness in her was also the reason why she was abused.
01:06:53And I promised myself that's not going to happen to me.
01:06:58Every time you show some sarcastic remarks or arrogance or you raise your voice sometimes,
01:07:05I mean, we argue, my initial reaction is to stand up for myself if I have to.
01:07:14I know, but Anna, you understand I'm not your father.
01:07:18I don't raise my voice at you, and I'm not this person that's trying to, like, dominate you.
01:07:23I know you're not my dad.
01:07:25The point is, you're hard on me.
01:07:28I'm hard on you, but I'm not aggressive with it, you know?
01:07:32I know I've married a strong woman, but you're a little bit too strong.
01:07:36And that can sometimes work against you rather than for you.
01:07:42I grew up with an abusive father.
01:07:47He died a long time ago, but from hearing about my mom's relationship with my dad,
01:07:54I learned from a very young age when to speak up.
01:07:59If I'm not comfortable, I should know how to express my feelings and set boundaries.
01:08:05But maybe there's a way for me to be strong and independent without lashing out.
01:08:22And I'll do my best to, you know, I guess just not be so, you know, sarcastic and arrogant, okay?
01:08:36All right?
01:08:38Deal?
01:08:38All right.
01:08:39Come on.
01:08:40Be all right.
01:08:43Work it out, okay?
01:08:46Nice, buddy.
01:08:47Oh, well, let's go to the room.
01:08:48Where's school, man?
01:08:49You want to?
01:08:50Yeah.
01:08:51All right.
01:08:54I just know, you know, whatever issues that me and Anna have had, I'm very proud to be worried.
01:09:01Thank you so much, Boo-Boo.
01:09:05I don't know what it is, but every time we make up, he starts to look hot.
01:09:12Oh, yeah?
01:09:13Oh, yeah.
01:09:15Yeah.
01:09:16Yeah.
01:09:17Take me a minute.
01:09:19It's ketchup.
01:09:30I get the feeling that we're going all the way.
01:09:35Because we're falling deep, boy, and I got so much to say.
01:09:39Baby, do I look okay?
01:09:42Absolutely perfect.
01:09:44But it might get a bit cold at night, so maybe grab a top or something.
01:09:50And guess what?
01:09:51What?
01:09:51I have a purse that matches your outfit perfectly.
01:09:54So I have to carry it?
01:09:55Yeah.
01:09:56That's not great.
01:10:04Oh, God.
01:10:05It's a little nipply out.
01:10:06A little nipply.
01:10:14Okay, so where do you want to sit?
01:10:16Oh, is there upstairs?
01:10:19The plan for today is we're going to go and meet my friends to get her out into the city
01:10:23in the harbour.
01:10:24I am excited, but nervous more so.
01:10:27I explained to Elise that I was living with Nat and she was not happy about it.
01:10:32But I want to prove to her that she has nothing to worry about.
01:10:40Are you falling?
01:10:41Yeah.
01:10:42Falling for you.
01:10:43Oh.
01:10:44That was cool.
01:10:46Wow.
01:10:50It's just, like, stunning.
01:10:52Like, not what I expected.
01:10:54It's nice, huh?
01:10:55It's beautiful.
01:10:57Thank you, babe.
01:10:59I love how you hold my purse.
01:11:03Walking into this, I'm afraid of a lot.
01:11:04Like, I'm afraid, you know, am I going to catch him in any more lies?
01:11:08I'm nervous to see how he's going to act towards me.
01:11:10Is he going to be attentive?
01:11:11Is he going to make me feel comfortable?
01:11:13It's really important to be accepted into the friend group.
01:11:15But on the same time, like, I came here for answers.
01:11:17I want answers and I want to figure out his life.
01:11:19And, like, I don't want to be lied to.
01:11:23Hey!
01:11:24Hello, hello, hello, I love you.
01:11:26Hey!
01:11:27Hello.
01:11:28Nice to meet you.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:29Nice to meet you.
01:11:30How are you?
01:11:31Oh, you're a your old person.
01:11:32I'm tall.
01:11:33No, I meant your old, not tall.
01:11:35Hey, man.
01:11:35How are you?
01:11:35How are you?
01:11:36Steve.
01:11:37Nice to meet you, finally.
01:11:38Nice to meet you.
01:11:38Nice to meet you.
01:11:40And I know you.
01:11:41I know you.
01:11:43Keep back.
01:11:44Keep back.
01:11:45What's it, Leo?
01:11:47Chewbacca?
01:11:48Where are we all sitting?
01:11:50We're all sitting alone.
01:11:50But I don't know where we're sitting, I guess.
01:11:52We'll get attacked by Seagulls, but...
01:11:53Hopefully, no one can look up my skirt.
01:11:57Just everyone, man.
01:11:58Yeah, sorry.
01:11:59This is great.
01:12:01Oh, my favourite people.
01:12:04I need this.
01:12:06Thank you so much.
01:12:07To my girlfriend, Elise.
01:12:09Being in...
01:12:10I don't know why that's so funny.
01:12:11Like, why are you saying it with a smile?
01:12:12Oh, my favourite people.
01:12:13It's like...
01:12:14Okay.
01:12:14Do you want to go for Elise?
01:12:16Yes.
01:12:18Yes.
01:12:20Yes.
01:12:20Yes.
01:12:22I've spoken to Elise before, and she comes across lovely, but she comes across very Miami.
01:12:29Like, a lot of skimpy clothes, right?
01:12:31Yeah.
01:12:31Very skimpy, but gorgeous.
01:12:32Like, this is skimpy for us.
01:12:34Yeah, well...
01:12:34Very skimpy.
01:12:35Yeah, yeah.
01:12:36Correct, correct, correct.
01:12:36But she was skimpy, skimpy, skimpy.
01:12:37Yeah.
01:12:38Are you jet lagging?
01:12:39It's all right.
01:12:4016 hours.
01:12:41I'm so jet lagged.
01:12:42I'm in this way.
01:12:43Guys, I don't like...
01:12:44I don't like...
01:12:45They're sitting too far away, so...
01:12:46Yeah, I know.
01:12:46Wrap up to this other bar?
01:12:47Yes.
01:12:48Let's do it.
01:12:52Are we gonna go in here?
01:12:54Yeah.
01:12:54Yeah, yeah.
01:12:54We're up in here.
01:12:54Oh, this place looks so cute.
01:12:56Cool.
01:12:56Yeah.
01:12:57My impression of Josh's friends is they're all nice, but when I see Nat and I think my boyfriend
01:13:06lives with her, I'm like, is there something, like, I'm not understanding?
01:13:10Because I don't think there's a sexual connection, but, like, I think it's weird.
01:13:13I think it's so weird.
01:13:16Guys, we need to make Elise love Sydney.
01:13:20Okay.
01:13:20So, otherwise, I'll be moving to Miami.
01:13:24I can make you love Sydney.
01:13:25I would love that.
01:13:27How are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29How are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29How are you staying in Sydney?
01:13:29Barn diabetes.
01:13:30What a bit.
01:13:31I'm staying in a rental that Joshua and Chris have.
01:13:35Yep.
01:13:37Because today I found out that he was living with you.
01:13:39Yeah.
01:13:40I thought you knew that.
01:13:41Yeah.
01:13:41He was staying with you for a little bit.
01:13:46So, how did he ask to live with you?
01:13:48Like, how did this happen?
01:13:49He was kind of between places, and I was like, why don't you just come and stay with
01:13:53me?
01:13:53Because it was much closer for his work.
01:13:56And, you know, to be honest, I was going through a bit of a rough time.
01:14:00And I needed comfort.
01:14:03I needed someone there to show her to cry on.
01:14:06So, it worked out well.
01:14:09Yeah.
01:14:09I mean, look, as I said, like, she's one of my closest mates.
01:14:14There's a lot to unfold.
01:14:15I don't think that guys and girls can be friends without hooking up.
01:14:18I've tried that.
01:14:19It's never succeeded for me.
01:14:20I have so many guy friends.
01:14:21Oh, yay.
01:14:22That's great as well.
01:14:22I have so many guy friends.
01:14:24And this is probably Australia.
01:14:26It's probably a little bit different.
01:14:27It's a culture thing.
01:14:28It's a culture thing.
01:14:28It's definitely a culture thing.
01:14:30It's a bit more laid back.
01:14:30We're a bit more easier about it.
01:14:32Yeah.
01:14:32We trust more, I think.
01:14:34Yeah.
01:14:34We trust.
01:14:35Yeah.
01:14:37I think men and women can be friends.
01:14:39I have a lot of male friends.
01:14:41I wouldn't ever sleep with Josh.
01:14:42He's my brother to me.
01:14:44So I find it very weird.
01:14:46Yeah.
01:14:46I think about lies around insecurities.
01:14:48And hopefully they'll grow together and grow through that.
01:14:51Yeah.
01:14:51And that's how trust is built.
01:14:56I think that he's going to have a struggle maintaining you and maintaining me, if I have
01:15:01to be completely honest.
01:15:07So are you jealous of me and our relationship?
01:15:10I feel uneasy about it.
01:15:14Yeah.
01:15:14Well, look, I get it.
01:15:15And hopefully that can change, you know.
01:15:17I think it's more of the fact that we are living with her.
01:15:19Yeah.
01:15:20I guess the question I have, are you paying?
01:15:22Yeah.
01:15:22Like, are you letting them lay there for free?
01:15:25I'm always paying for the whole rental, right?
01:15:28Right, but...
01:15:29You have been generous.
01:15:30I'm being generous.
01:15:31I'm a generous person and I love doing that for my friends.
01:15:34Yeah.
01:15:34Well, I think that she's helping you financially.
01:15:37I think that she has a financial hold on you that's making you feel some sort of way.
01:15:41No.
01:15:41No, I don't.
01:15:41No, I don't.
01:15:42No, I don't.
01:15:43No, that's...
01:15:44No.
01:15:45That's...
01:15:45See, that...
01:15:46That offends me.
01:15:51She took me in and, like, helped me out.
01:15:54So, yeah, you could say it financially.
01:15:56Help me there.
01:15:56But in saying that, like, it's temporary.
01:15:58Everyone knows it's temporary.
01:16:00Probably I should have been more clearer and I should have been more transparent.
01:16:04Let's put two and two together.
01:16:05Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08Joshua's struggling financially.
01:16:08He's lied to me about living there.
01:16:11Something's fishy.
01:16:12Something's shady.
01:16:13I don't want my boyfriend getting financially supported by another girl.
01:16:17That's disgusting and weird.
01:16:18Like, that's not what I signed up for.
01:16:26Why do we have to live in your country?
01:16:28If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:16:31I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:16:34I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:16:37If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:16:43I'm sorry.
01:16:44I'm so sorry.
01:16:45I'm ashamed.
01:16:57So that was eye-opening.
01:17:00Yeah.
01:17:00I know.
01:17:10It's just so much information all at once.
01:17:14Yeah, it's a lot to think about it, to be honest.
01:17:17Sheena and I just met with an immigration lawyer and everything kind of blew up in my face.
01:17:25I thought this entire time that it was only going to take months to get Sheena to the United States
01:17:30and everything figured out.
01:17:31But now, after hearing that my disability payments that I get monthly does not count and it's going to take
01:17:38years,
01:17:39this is the biggest setback ever.
01:17:44There's just so many things going on in my head right now.
01:17:47I just want to, you know, understand kind of what you're thinking.
01:17:51Well, for me, it's like I wanted to move in the U.S.
01:17:56But the thing is, it's been like seven years.
01:18:00Plus, you're going to add another two or three years while you find a job and save enough money for
01:18:05the K-1 visa.
01:18:09I don't know.
01:18:12I know that you wanted to go to the U.S., my love.
01:18:16But why do we have to live in your country? That's my good question.
01:18:22It's easier for me to stay here because of the K-1 visa.
01:18:27And I'm a professional here.
01:18:29If you live here with me, I could take good care of you.
01:18:32Then I'll try to help you to find a job as well.
01:18:36I think that's the best option for us.
01:18:42I still have my worries about that, though.
01:18:45With my autism, it makes things hard.
01:18:49And I know I am fighting with my mom, but I don't know if I can leave my family.
01:18:58What makes me upset is, like, he loves his mom, his family.
01:19:03I understand that.
01:19:04But what about me?
01:19:05I have been waiting here for the last seven years.
01:19:09If he happened to come back to his country, we're not even sure that he would ever come back.
01:19:14So I will be the one who's stranded, and I will be hurt as well.
01:19:30I just really felt sad, disappointed.
01:19:33I was expecting you that I could be with my partner for the last seven years.
01:19:44I don't know.
01:19:51I don't want to be apart from you that long, and I don't want to...
01:19:57I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:04Sorry.
01:20:05I'm so sorry I put you in this situation, Sheen.
01:20:09I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:14I don't want to give up my mom.
01:20:15Now that I know that I can possibly stay here and be with Sheena every single day,
01:20:20I feel kind of stuck.
01:20:22Any option I make, I'm either going to hurt the woman I love or my mother.
01:20:30This...
01:20:32This is probably the hardest decision I've ever had to make.
01:20:35She's my second half.
01:20:37I know she's the one for me.
01:20:39And just being with her, being able to talk, joke, have everything.
01:20:45I don't want to lose that.
01:20:46I won't give up my mom.
01:20:51I won't keep trying.
01:20:58Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:01Teamwork makes the dream work.
01:21:03I'm sorry.
01:21:04This is kind of turning me on.
01:21:06Babe.
01:21:08I did not know.
01:21:12I'm so hungry.
01:21:14You having pregnancy clearance?
01:21:16I haven't gotten my period yet.
01:21:19How would you feel if I was?
01:21:25Tell me you love her.
01:21:27I was in love with her.
01:21:29I would have made a move.
01:21:30Dude, you made a move.
01:21:31You blow it.
01:21:32No, no, no, no, no, no, no.
01:21:34Laura made a move on me.
01:21:35I am thinking about sharing my life and you are keeping secret from me.
01:21:41This is betrayal.
01:21:45I am so hungry.
01:21:48I am so hungry.
01:21:50I am so hungry.
01:21:50This water is cold.
01:21:52You can survive.
01:21:54I hope Trish's family can see that I'm trying and that I am a good partner for Trish.
01:22:09I am going to Casablanca right now to see Mohamed.
01:22:12It's kind of surreal.
01:22:13I mean, I have my engagement ring Mohamed gave to me when he proposed.
01:22:19Putting this ring back on is actually bringing up old feelings.
01:22:23But I don't know how this meeting is going to go.
01:22:27My heart's racing.
01:22:34Why did you just leave?
01:22:37You're upset.
01:22:38So you don't care that I'm upset?
01:22:41So you just walk away from me?
01:22:43After what I found out about Nat,
01:22:46my mind is just in so many directions and I'm freaking out.
01:22:51I don't know what the f*** is going on right now.
01:22:55I want to go home.
01:23:00She has gotten married five times.
01:23:03And from 21 years, she has been in a relationship with several women.
01:23:09Why am I hearing this one now?
01:23:12This is an abomination.
01:23:14No.
01:23:14I can't help what my past is like.
01:23:16I am willing to do whatever it takes to be with Daniel.
01:23:20I can't believe you.
01:23:22Because of this, the marriage will be over.
01:23:27I can't breathe.
01:23:28Don't be afraid of him.
01:23:29When I feel like me in my office,
01:23:29I am Jetzt and know how many of you leave,
01:23:29how am I Hundred Am I iba to be?
01:23:31You're here.
01:23:31This has been an interview I've been working!
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