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00:00The start was trying to show to my boyfriend that I can be something.
00:03I think the start was from there.
00:05When I was a model, I was able to do everything that I could do.
00:08I was able to do that because at the moment, the competition wasn't this high as well.
00:13So, what is a model? A model is a hanger. Let's stick to that.
00:16At the model, I said that, when I was a model, I would be able to do the product,
00:20and I would be able to do the product.
00:22My challenge was my first challenge.
00:24Yeah.
00:25I was able to do the product.
00:27Oh my God.
00:28Oh my God.
00:38Welcome to another episode of Dabur Narikil Tel presents She.
00:43She is a podcast that has focused on many people.
00:48They have broken the stereotypes in terms of personal life.
00:53They have broken the stereotypes in terms of personal life.
00:54They have created their own path.
00:59And their own pattern.
01:00And today, in our studio, I am only a new artist.
01:05And she is one of the, but I would say, I guess, the icon of the fashion industry of Bangladesh.
01:12Azra Mahmood.
01:13Welcome to the show, Azra Poo.
01:15Thank you so much for having me.
01:16I am going to talk to you.
01:17Oh my God.
01:19I am like thinking, what boundaries did I break?
01:21You did, of course.
01:22And most importantly, I guess, I need to congratulate you on becoming the franchise holder for Miss
01:31World Bangladesh.
01:32Being a former Miss World Bangladesh.
01:33I am so happy.
01:34You are one of our best.
01:36Oh, thank you so much.
01:37That's so sweet of you.
01:37I am humbled.
01:38But I am so happy.
01:39So, let's start with the conversation.
01:42Okay.
01:42So, first tell me, how are you?
01:45Oh, wow.
01:47That is the most difficult question.
01:49It actually should be given the situation, given everything.
02:03Yeah.
02:04Surviving.
02:05That's, that's good.
02:06Surviving.
02:06We all are surviving, actually, in a way or other.
02:08That's the saddest part.
02:09You know, we're just surviving.
02:10Unfortunately, yeah.
02:11That's true.
02:11We're not living.
02:12Jayug, but let's talk about your career.
02:15You have been in the industry for almost over two decades.
02:22Yep.
02:2225 years.
02:2325 years.
02:24It's going to be 25 years.
02:25Okay, guys.
02:26I'm not going to stay.
02:27I'm pretty sure they're not even 25 years yet.
02:31I'm not going to even stay.
02:32But yeah.
02:34So you have been a model yourself.
02:37You've been a mentor.
02:38You're a choreographer.
02:38You have your own institute as well.
02:41So, what was the start of your career?
02:43What was the start?
02:46Uh, the start was trying to show to my boyfriend that I can be something.
02:50I think the start was from there.
02:53Jokes apart.
02:53Modeling here.
02:54There was a joke.
02:55And there was FTV.
02:56And then newspaper reactor.
02:58I applied.
03:00You know, I trained.
03:01Yeah.
03:01And then I became who I am today.
03:03But do you think, like, it was much more easier back then or it's very much more easier
03:07right now?
03:08Um, on the other side.
03:11For example.
03:12For example.
03:12If you have a model, it was difficult to do it.
03:15Right.
03:16Because there was a lot of questions.
03:22Right.
03:22Um, what I said.
03:33Um, it's easier.
03:34But at the same time, I'm other shows.
03:36Um, at the model, the competition wasn't this high as well.
03:40Um, so, I think we were lucky.
03:43compared to Akon. We have a lot of models now and there's a lot of competitiveness.
03:48But we have a brand now. So we have a lot of brands.
03:53So it's a mix of everything, you know, like I can't say, you know,
03:57we had our struggles in both ways.
04:01But like, you know, what I feel or what I've seen is, like we have
04:08already always thought your model is somebody who has this whole persona.
04:12And when you walk or you enter a room, the energy, the aura that that person carries,
04:20that is something else. The posture, the way you're talking, the way you're sitting.
04:25But in Akon's time, it feels like it's more of like you just wear a cloth,
04:30you just have a fancy accent or something like that for majority cases.
04:35So what's your thought? Let's not complicate things. What is a model? A model is a hanger.
04:41Let's stick to that. Yeah. You know, like a modeler says,
04:45if you have a product or product or product or product or product or product or product.
04:49You know, that is, let's stick to that. Let's, you know, like,
04:52I'm going to make sure boundaries, buy, merge, fade, or fade.
04:57You don't need to do that. Right.
04:59A modeler, apart from the looks or the height or everything,
05:03I'm going to talk to you about it. So that's the X factor. Right.
05:07X factor is a lot of difference. You can be the most, you know, beautiful looking person in the world,
05:13but you will still not be able to be a good model. So modeling is entirely like a different persona,
05:18as you were saying. That's why we have a new generation.
05:24We have a new generation. We have a new generation. It's too many people.
05:38Too many people. You can't really, you know, notice,
05:40actually, what are you doing and all that. But I think we have amazing models now as well.
05:44Right. So what was your challenge, actually? Like growing and becoming this person that you are?
05:49What was the challenge? My challenge was that I'm a girl. Yeah.
05:54And I'm a girl, girl, girl, girl. Oh, my God. Oh, my God.
05:58And beauty contest to participate, you got the look at 2002.
06:02I'm starting from my friends to my relatives.
06:04I'm a girl, girl, girl, girl, girl. Because I'm a girl.
06:08Age. And, you know, like, it's something that you can't do anything about, you know,
06:11like, I'm a girl, girl, girl. But as a young girl,
06:19like, when you're 16, 17, you know, you know, I'm not a girl.
06:25I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl.
06:28I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl.
06:29These things kind of affect you, I mean, in the back of your head.
06:32It does.
06:34But, yeah, I won the contest. But stereotyping,
06:39I'm not sure about stereotyping.
06:43But yeah, I've become who I am, even though I didn't really get much support from too many people.
06:49That is how it is.
06:50Like, if I recall my journey here, especially in Bangladesh, if I say,
06:55I have been bullied left and right for my skin color.
07:00Even when I was a kid, I had some extracurricular activities, some achievements.
07:05I was a kid, I had some kids, I had some kids, and I got bullied for that.
07:10I got bullied for how I dressed.
07:12And I was learning, and my mom was like, you went for this at your own decision.
07:18So you need to face it anyhow.
07:20You put yourself in the public eye, you have to go through this.
07:22And I was like, okay, so there will be somebody who's much prettier, much this, much that than me.
07:28But definitely, I have something in me, so I have to just focus on that rather than comparing.
07:34That's the best thing.
07:34Yeah, that's just the best thing.
07:35That's what I did too.
07:37Yeah.
07:37So girls or guys, whoever's watching, especially girls, just focus on yourself, build your courage, build your skills.
07:46It actually pays off regardless fewer people supporting you or you have a massive support.
07:51But you need to be confident.
07:53That's very important.
07:53So coming to the next question.
07:56So you have like a careerish shuru te.
07:59Tumaanikin to natu ke dakhha jato.
08:01Why did you stop doing that?
08:05I liked acting.
08:06Yeah.
08:07It was fun.
08:11To become someone else.
08:13It was nice.
08:16But my roots, fashion.
08:18Yeah.
08:19And I didn't want to really divert.
08:20I'm shuru kore chila.
08:21For example, 2001 a.
08:22When I was groomed from Kaushikhin Asrit Tupa, I'm modeling kore chhi for two, three years.
08:262004 a.
08:27I decided kore chila.
08:28I'm a industry to charbona.
08:30A industry charbona jakhon decide kore chhi.
08:32And I wanted to, because I'm the show's hotona.
08:34Just maybe two, three, in November, December.
08:37It wasn't really a career.
08:38Right.
08:38So she had to be key korebo, key korebo take.
08:402004 a.
08:41I become a choreographer, an actor, a host.
08:45Tumaanikin to am a 2004 a.
08:46Experimental at shuru kore chai.
08:48Right.
08:48Something that I can do to keep myself in this industry.
08:51Right.
09:01I have to focus on one and if I had to choose then I would have chosen fashion so I
09:21chose
09:21it and acting does the other thing. Also I have always said that in all my interviews it's
09:29a lot of cost. That's true that's why I completely agree with that. So there's this one thing
09:42that there's been a lot of models who have actually come from you or trained by you
09:51so everybody has their own story. Can you share like one story that that resonates
09:56with you or you feel people should know not that I can think of any right now
10:35a short something maybe?
10:39Yeah.
10:41Yeah.
10:46Yeah.
10:49Yeah.
10:55Yeah.
10:58Yeah.
10:59Yeah.
11:02I've seen that in a serious world like this I can resonate with and over a period of time
11:16they have done well for themselves. What do you think? Were you a very confident girl starting
11:24from the beginning or it grew from the beginning or you feel like that i don't know what to do
11:34when you don't have too many people supporting you yeah you don't have a choice but to become
11:41confident um i just don't want to make a big deal out of it but
11:59just don't like making things complicated life is
12:11very very simple it is either it's this or that or it's a little hazy somewhere but it's not that
12:15complicated no so even if it's giving an exam even if it's going for a coffee even if it's just
12:25facing your you know you're just someone you don't like and you have to go and talk to a situation
12:29where
12:29you don't want to be you have to stand beside yourself yeah that is probably the most important
12:34thing anyone can do for themselves actually i feel like i'm there self-love
12:41absolutely not self-love kinto onyek important actor jinnish even self-love money ena just selfish
12:48hoye java selfish acta la da jinnish self-love acta la da jinnish even self-love take focus
12:53kora ony joruri because if you don't know how to love yourself you will never know how to love someone
12:58else that's true so ajj confidence bully ajj self-love bully nijer protein nijer aj i like a show like
13:05this
13:05where you where we're talking about this right aj amadir kinto nari there i'm i'm going a little
13:10off topic but i would like to say this nari there kinto shikhana hoi jitumi uh need babad
13:15babad jonna karo marjonna karo jamai jonna karo batchad jonna karo amy amad jonna
13:19koko koko right and aj aj knowledge ta jitama the choto bala teke brainwash kora hoi that i'm living for
13:26someone else and we think that it's okay to do that it's wrong i mean you're just gonna ashram amad
13:33ashram amad but we're gonna die and then that's over so we need to yeah we really need to because
13:41i'm rachel na parle tamra jay bhalo basha onno ke dikhi shita ke niyam koko kushi hote parbona ajke amy
13:46i love
13:46myself i love my family i love everyone around me but i also know i really love them because i
13:51love myself too
13:51so shahi jayga tashwale khubi important kintu ita confidencer jonna onnek boro akta space
13:57hotat kore kintu confidence chole ashana na confidence kintu aashwale onnek bhabnar par
14:01onnek chintar par onnek situation arpore ashay but it starts with when you stand beside yourself
14:07and i've been standing beside myself since then till now and i will stand beside myself forever yeah that is
14:13that is so true and that is many it's not even off topic people need to hear these things man
14:18we just live
14:19once we need to love ourselves yep that is very true okay so we are done with our initial
14:26conversation we're done with our initial serious talk now we are gonna have more serious talk guys
14:36now it's game time guys so dabar narikil presents shi te we are gonna do let's play so as the
14:46guys and you
14:47can see that tomorrow at home has a puzzle this day and it's like a shot
14:53and you should let's see it so the game is very simple what we are gonna do is you remember
15:01asking
15:02the mr jishkorishulmane question what do you have to do is you have to solve the puzzle and in
15:08But in the meantime, you have to give the correct answer, then you have to take a sip.
15:18Are we clear?
15:20Ready?
15:21And it's kind of like a...
15:22Yeah, there's only level of multitasking.
15:25Okay.
15:26It is kind of like a rapid fire.
15:28So you have to be fast.
15:30And short...
15:31I'm going to show you.
15:32I'm going to show you.
15:33I'm going to show you.
15:35I'm going to show you what I gave you and I'm going to show you.
15:37Ready?
15:40We're starting.
15:41And are you guys ready?
15:42So we're starting in 3, 2, 1.
15:45Let's go.
15:46Your priyo, Manushka.
15:49Rapid fire.
15:51I am not drinking that.
15:53No.
15:54No, you have to.
15:55Have a sip, have a sip, have a sip.
15:57Hobbin, I have a sip.
15:58Come on, come on.
15:59You can do it.
16:01Azra, poo.
16:02Azra, poo.
16:03Azra, poo.
16:05I am not drinking.
16:06So why are you going to kill me?
16:09Why are you going to kill me?
16:12Why are you going to kill me?
16:13I prefer not to know it again.
16:14Jaiyok.
16:15Appu, we're running out of time.
16:17You have to have more kintu.
16:18You just start with the puzzle.
16:19I am not multitasking.
16:21I am not.
16:22I am not.
16:22I am not.
16:22I am not.
16:24Come on, come on.
16:25Priyo cinema, Konta.
16:27I am not.
16:28I am not.
16:29I am not.
16:29You are not.
16:30You are not.
16:31I am not.
16:32What's wrong with you?
16:34I am blue.
16:35Who is the color?
16:36Sobhuj.
16:37No!
16:40Correct answer.
16:41Priyo is actually sobhuj.
16:43Come on.
16:44Go for it.
16:45Go for it.
16:49Okay.
16:50Ready?
16:50Ready? Let's start again.
16:52What is Priyo fashion accessories?
16:55Gori.
16:56Okay. What is Priyo model?
16:58Naomi Gamble.
16:59Priyo Garnel Line?
17:03I don't know how weird is that.
17:06It works. Okay, okay.
17:07Okay, okay.
17:08Come on, we are running out of time.
17:12Shoes. Makeup.
17:14Skincare.
17:16Cool.
17:16What was the first question?
17:23What was the last question?
17:24Okay, let's go.
17:25It was already short.
17:28Yeah, this is disgusting.
17:30Okay.
17:31What was the first question?
17:33Okay.
17:34Let's know the correct answers, actually.
17:37What was the correct answer?
17:391. Priyo Manoj.
17:42Azrapur. No.
17:43She loves herself.
17:44Yeah.
17:44Priyo Cinema Kunta.
17:45She doesn't watch her film.
17:47Then, if you want to watch her,
17:49Shekhi would say,
17:51Kunta,
17:51I don't want to watch her.
17:53I don't want to watch her.
17:56Please.
17:58I'm not the kind of person.
18:00I want to have wings.
18:02I want to fly.
18:03I'm a traveler at heart.
18:06I can't wear her tummy.
18:07I don't want to see her.
18:09I don't want to be a person.
18:12I don't want to wear her.
18:13I don't want to wear her.
18:14I don't want to wear her.
18:15She's actually wearing nude pink.
18:18Yeah.
18:18You are a model?
18:20Tupapu.
18:20Would you like to say something?
18:21Yeah, Kaushikhin Ashar Tupa has played the most important role in my life in becoming who I am.
18:29She used to be one of the biggest models of Bangladesh.
18:35We've lost a visionary in fashion.
18:38I think Bangladesh misses her.
18:42Okay.
18:43Priyo Fashion accessories, Kunta.
18:44That is shoes.
18:45Then comes to Priyo Ganelaing.
18:47Just a yellow lemon tree.
18:48Then we come to Tintajini.
18:49She answered,
18:52She can live without anything.
18:53Oh, I am a survivor.
18:54If you want to be a survivor, I will figure out how to be alive.
18:58Now the next question we have in common.
19:01She thought,
19:01She said,
19:02She said,
19:03She said,
19:04She said,
19:05She said,
19:07She said,
19:08She said,
19:09She said,
19:10She said,
19:11She said,
19:12She said,
19:14She said,
19:15I don't know what I did.
19:16I said,
19:17She said,
19:19At least you did that.
19:21That's first.
19:22At least I got Mickey right.
19:24Mickey right.
19:25Mickey right.
19:25Yeah.
19:26We are going to give that to her.
19:27Points to her.
19:30What's the dream.
19:32What?
19:32How are you talking about this?
19:33This is actually.
19:34What?
19:34To her,
19:35and the
19:36She said,
19:37She said,
19:47So guys, let's talk about female secrets.
19:51So welcome to Dabar Narikaltel presents this particular segment which is very special to me as well called Female Secrets.
19:59And for your information, I'm currently wearing RISE and you can get all these amazing outfits of course at the
20:07local stores.
20:09So let's get to the...
20:11Okay, so Azharapu tell me about this. Family bonding, I'm gonna have two questions.
20:18What is your thought on family bonding?
20:21The boundaries are too much.
20:33As a girl, having the sex education from your family about period, about safe sex can be so many things.
20:43It's important.
20:44You know how important it is.
20:46Yeah.
20:47Family is the most important thing in the world.
20:50If I am ever giving my life for anyone, it's going to be my parents.
20:57Family bonding is a matter of mental health.
21:01Absolutely.
21:02If we don't have a family, we will never be able to become a full human being.
21:12Family bonding is very important in the family.
21:18That is the main pillar in your life.
21:22If you are born into that.
21:24Yeah.
21:24So, I think it's even more important than money.
21:30Mm-hmm.
21:33Um.
21:33Um.
21:33Um.
21:35Um.
21:35It's a great education period.
21:37This is not the same.
21:39So, not at any school all the time we have been talking about.
21:42You have to say the most important thing, because we are exposed to all of that information.
21:48Right.
21:48But especially in the secondary schools, people have not been able to do work with their own capabilities.
21:56Now we have the most important things.
21:58Ah yes.
21:58But, not at all the time, it's very important.
22:06We are just talking about family right now.
22:09So the boundary break, the technology has changed, the whole space has changed, otherwise
22:21you're going to be stuck, you're going to be stuck and you're not going to be improving.
22:27So overall, this is something that we should be easily talking about.
22:37We are talking about a period of human being, but we are very niche in our population.
22:48But we are talking about family bonding, support, sex education period, but that's not what we are talking about.
22:58So we are not talking about that.
23:00We are talking about the same thing where the human beings are talking about.
23:03They are talking about technology, they are talking about AI.
23:09So when you are talking about that, we will talk about it.
23:13This really needs to be a threshold for us to say, oh my god, it's time.
23:23That's true. But then again, when I say family, we don't have any choice that we belong to our family.
23:32But the family that we make, when we get married, when we have a partner,
23:36the role that we play in a woman's life, in all of these things can be.
23:43Because suppose you have a daughter.
23:44No, I don't.
23:45You have a niece.
23:45I have a niece. Sorry about that.
23:47So I've seen a post.
23:49She's my daughter.
23:50Yeah, she's your daughter.
23:50I've always said that she is my daughter.
23:52Yeah. So like telling her, having that space, you can suppose you have a daughter,
23:59and then you and your husband, you talk about the period health,
24:02and I said, what is it?
24:03That is also important.
24:05Maybe you didn't get it from your family, but the family that you make,
24:08that is also very important.
24:10I feel.
24:10I'm a therapist.
24:13I said, I'm a kid.
24:14I'm a kid.
24:15She said, Azra, I'm a kid.
24:18When I'm married.
24:19When I'm married, when I'm married, when I'm married,
24:21I'm a kid.
24:22I'm a kid.
24:24It's a kid.
24:24You're a kid.
24:24I'm a kid.
24:26I'm a kid.
24:28I'm a kid.
24:32It's not an easy task.
24:33We have to learn how to do it.
24:37It's expected, but it's not easy.
24:40You know, like to become a mother, to become a father,
24:43to become, you know, like the whole emotional intelligence is going to be able to learn.
24:50At the end of it all, what we need to fulfill,
24:53that is not materialistic things, it's not.
24:59At least for me, emotionally, it means way more than materialistic things in life.
25:09But it's emotional bonding, it's not an education, it's not an education, it's not an education.
25:14And our therapists are talking about one thing.
25:18You know, like that is so important to learn how to maintain relationships.
25:24For example, I am here to be a family, I am here to be a family.
25:28Right?
25:28You are talking about our family.
25:30We are when we create our own.
25:31She didn't give birth to me.
25:38No.
25:38Why would we become mother and daughter?
25:40Mother and daughter.
25:41We will have a civil relationship.
25:43And the husband will play a very good role in bridging that gap.
25:46Right?
25:46But, the way that you are emotionally intelligent, what is that you are doing?
25:52You are doing your family, earning, and working, you are doing your job.
25:56You are doing your job.
25:57Right?
25:58And we don't do that emotionally intelligence.
26:00We don't expect that you can handle it emotionally without training them.
26:06Yeah.
26:06So it's not emotional intelligence, it's not a teacher, it's not a teacher, it's not a teacher.
26:11And then we're expecting them to become okay and live a happily ever after life.
26:15It is like when you really think about it,
26:19we're going to go to the house and go to the house.
26:21It's the right house.
26:27I'm telling you that we are so much focused on the money.
26:31Yes, of course, we need to make money to have a comfortable life in a sense.
26:34I have the AC when I feel warm, I feel warm.
26:37I have a car for the transport.
26:39But then again, the people around me, that is very important.
26:43Having a support system, maybe your husband, a friend or whatever it is, a wife, whatever it is.
26:48But that is very important.
26:49That's what I'm telling you.
26:50We need to train or groom.
26:54That's what I feel like is also a lack.
26:57Besides that, since we're talking about money,
27:00financial education.
27:01We need to invest.
27:04Why do we do it?
27:05Why do we do it?
27:05Why do we do it?
27:06What's your thought on that?
27:07This is actually a female secret.
27:09We women don't know where to invest, how to invest, how to manage money.
27:12Yeah.
27:13Yeah.
27:13It is an education.
27:14It is an education.
27:15I feel like we have a lot of corona, but not on the right topics.
27:19Not on the right topics.
27:20Yeah.
27:21That is so true.
27:22Financial independence.
27:22When we talk about emotional intelligence or financial independence,
27:27we need to do a specific specification in China.
27:30No, no, no.
27:30So, overall, we have to learn a lot of human beings.
27:36Absolutely.
27:37We have to learn the two things that we should focus on.
27:41Emotional is to learn how to do it.
27:43Financial is to learn how to do it.
27:44Because financial is to learn how to do it.
27:47Exactly.
27:47We have to learn how to do it.
27:50But it's there.
27:52We have to learn how to do it.
27:55We are in a world where income is not enough anymore.
27:59Right?
27:59So, when you have financial independence and financial independence,
28:04we don't have to learn how to do it.
28:07She doesn't need to work outside.
28:09A lot of people choose not to work outside, right?
28:11So, if the husband has enough income, then she will also need to manage the house.
28:14And she needs to know how to manage the house.
28:16And if the husband's income is not enough, she needs to be able to work outside
28:19so that they can create a life, create a family, where income from both the sides are good enough.
28:24So, the whole person has to learn how to do it.
28:28Yeah, yeah, of course.
28:30Of course.
28:30But then again, when the society works, they can actually, as you said, they can get that information from their
28:38father,
28:38Mama, Mama, Chacha, Mane, Kalu.
28:41I mean, you're the best male activist.
28:42Yes.
28:44But I'm a humanist.
28:46I'm a humanist.
28:46I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I mean, I'm a humanist.
28:48But yeah, getting back to our topic.
28:51Okay.
28:52We understood about emotional intelligence.
28:55We didn't talk about financial freedom.
28:57We didn't talk about the discussion.
28:58Let's talk about fashion.
28:59I mean, do you think, Jay, there is this huge pressure on women at a beauty standard?
29:06Actually, the market has said that is not something that we can achieve.
29:13Do you think?
29:14What's your thought on that, please?
29:15First of all, I'm a brown.
29:18Yeah.
29:18I'm a race to brown.
29:21I'm a white, I'm a yellow, I'm a black, I'm a brown.
29:25I'm a black.
29:27I'm a white.
29:27I'm a black.
29:28I'm a black.
29:28I'm a white.
29:28I'm a white.
29:30Okay, so, it's just wrong.
29:33Anyone with knowledge will understand that it is actually a wrong, right?
29:37Unfortunately, I'm not saying brown, Jay, but there's British, there's Portuguese, there's
29:43Americans, which is why we look the way we look like.
29:47We look, yeah.
29:47Like, a man who's darker, a man who's lighter and all that.
29:51But beauty standards have always been, it comes from power.
29:56That is what I believe, right?
29:57Because when Africa was in power, the standards were their look, right?
30:03And when the whites came into power, the standards are their look.
30:05Right.
30:05So, it's not really, Jay, amadir, ehijai gataar prothi dependent, but also where the world's going.
30:10Sheta jona, amreya khan shabai shada hote jakche.
30:13Right?
30:13So, shahi standard there, Jay, pressure, sheta sholha shudhu matroje amad errup ore sheta nha.
30:18Sheta kiintu baaki prithibir upreo koreo kore.
30:19Of course.
30:20Right, of course.
30:21We don't want to know what we do.
30:23We don't want to know what we do.
30:24We don't want to know what we do.
30:26So, we are going to know what we do.
30:28This is the way we do,
30:29but we are very successful today.
30:32We are going to change it.
30:34We are going to be very successful,
30:36and we are going to be very successful.
30:38Which is impossible as a standard,
30:40because we are once again a brown race.
30:43And not a white race.
30:45We are going to say that we are going to be a standard.
30:48We are going to break this.
30:52We are going to break this.
30:53Because we are going to break this standard.
30:58We are not very healthy.
31:00We are not very healthy.
31:01So, we are ashtraful makhlukat, right?
31:04We are blessed with brains.
31:06And we are going to protect the human beings,
31:08and we are going to change our capability.
31:10Which is why we are very different from all the animals.
31:13So, where are we really utilizing it?
31:16What I feel is that,
31:17animals communicate better than humans.
31:20Sadly.
31:22So, that is why.
31:23We are going to say that,
31:24every human has the capacity,
31:26capability to decide.
31:27Even if someone is trying to believe,
31:30they will do it.
31:31They will do it.
31:32They will do it.
31:32And they will do it.
31:34They will do it.
31:34We will pay the credit for our mom.
31:39They will pay the credit for our mom.
31:41Because, when I was younger,
31:43my mom has always treated me in a very mature way.
31:46My mom told me,
31:47you should do it.
31:48I will tell you.
31:49I will tell you.
31:49But if you do it,
31:50it will be pros and cons.
31:53It will not be your decision.
31:54Yeah.
31:55So, I have been practicing what I really want to do.
32:03This is very important.
32:04Yes, absolutely.
32:05To think about what I am doing,
32:06and not just do,
32:07because the world is running towards it.
32:09Yeah, yeah.
32:09Absolutely.
32:10We have very shitty beauty standards.
32:12I am sorry for my language.
32:13But, yeah.
32:14We do.
32:15We do.
32:15We do.
32:16We do.
32:17Let's talk about,
32:19Mr. Mayor.
32:20Let's focus on just this specific gender.
32:23Mr. Mayor,
32:25physical health,
32:27mental health.
32:28Which one is more important?
32:30Or,
32:31I know that,
32:32of course,
32:32to me,
32:33it's always,
32:34mental health actually runs our whole system.
32:39So,
32:40we are physically fit,
32:41but we are mentally unfit.
32:42It is not going to matter.
32:43However,
32:44and as women,
32:45due to our hormonal changes,
32:47we need to make a male,
32:48so,
32:51what's your take on it?
32:58I don't know.
32:59I expect people to be more understanding towards the women.
33:02You know,
33:04the same hormones,
33:05the same level is steady,
33:06and the same hormones are not.
33:07We are weakly,
33:08we are going through different hormones.
33:10Even the same education is not good.
33:12No.
33:12Why we are reacting the way we are reacting,
33:15and how we are feeling the way we are feeling.
33:16Because it's not just,
33:18we are just like this.
33:20It's our hormones that are making us like this.
33:22And going back to physical and mental,
33:24well-being,
33:25equally important,
33:26at least,
33:26but as you said,
33:28mental well-being is very important.
33:30and we are going to get the best part.
33:31It is not good,
33:32it's not good.
33:33It's certain to keep you safe and where you are.
33:35You know what you are doing to achieve your goals.
33:36You are able to achieve your goals.
33:39It is very hard.
33:41Not that,
33:42you can always want to keep you healthy mentally and physically to keep you healthy.
33:59It's the chemical reactions that are happening throughout our body.
34:02We know.
34:03We know.
34:04We know.
34:06So that is not something we are seeing, but it's going on.
34:09It's happening.
34:10Because we said that we were saying that we were saying that we were saying that Rosa.
34:14And then we had a luteal phase.
34:16We had a period of time when we were talking about the phase.
34:20This is something I'm learning from her.
34:21We know.
34:22We know.
34:24Right.
34:25Right.
34:25Right.
34:25So I guess you would say in one word that people should be more empathetic.
34:30Manusher Manusha.
34:31Manusher Manusha.
34:32Manusher Manusha.
34:32Yeah.
34:32Of course.
34:34Empathy.
34:35It's the emotions that we feel.
34:37That's why we are human beings.
34:39No.
34:40I always say this.
34:41I always say that we are doing social work.
34:44I feel like that.
34:46As you said.
34:47I always say that we are Ashraful Makhlukat.
34:49We are supposed to do positive things.
34:52Rise above it all.
34:53Do good things.
34:53We are supposed to motivate.
34:56We are supposed to do it.
34:58That's how it is.
34:59True.
34:59So this has been our segment.
35:02Female secrets.
35:03And we had this amazing conversation.
35:05And I'm very sure that.
35:06Are you serious?
35:06Are you serious?
35:07Why don't you see?
35:08No.
35:11No.
35:11No.
35:14No.
35:17No.
35:40Yes.
35:42Okay, so the game is called, and we all know what this is, Never Have I Ever, Azrappu.
35:51I will be participating with you, so I really wish we don't have to have this thing.
35:57So, you know, let's play the game.
36:03So you know about Never Have I Ever.
36:04So if you have done it, then you have to take a bite.
36:18So if you have done it, then you have to take a bite.
36:25Yes.
36:26Ready?
36:27Don't worry.
36:29We are in this together.
36:32Let's see.
36:34Don't worry.
36:35Let's start.
36:35Okay.
36:36Ready?
36:36Don't worry.
36:37Don't worry.
36:38Let's start.
36:43Never have I ever lied about being on the way while still at home.
36:53Never have I ever done that.
36:55No.
36:56Location should have done that.
36:57Nice.
36:58We love that.
37:01Let's go to the second one.
37:02Never have I ever said I'm on a diet and then secretly eaten junk food.
37:10I'm not standing.
37:11I'm not standing.
37:12A very good example.
37:25Oh my.
37:26What did you say?
37:30Survival.
37:31Survival.
37:32Survival.
37:33Oh my.
37:34Never have I ever.
37:35Oh my god.
37:37Fake laughed at a joke I didn't get.
37:39I did.
37:40Of course.
37:41Everyone does that.
37:42You know how do I do?
37:44I have to eat it.
37:45What did you do?
37:47Onyx jhal.
37:49I ate jhal, but it is too much.
37:55Oh my god.
37:59Never have I ever rewatched my own Instagram story to see how I looked.
38:09One, two, three.
38:11One, two, three.
38:12One, two, three.
38:12One, two, three.
38:22I'm safe.
38:28Never have I ever complimented someone while secretly judging their outfit.
38:33No, I haven't done that.
38:33I have not done that too.
38:35Bajekapur Bajekapur.
38:39Never have I ever pretended not to see someone in public to avoid talking.
38:48Never have I ever pretended to not see someone in public just to avoid talking.
39:02Never have I ever pretended to know something I actually had no clue about.
39:20Of course I have pretended.
39:21I have not actually.
39:23No, no, of course I have.
39:24We have gone further research.
39:27Oh my god.
39:29Oh my god.
39:32Oh.
39:32Okay, next one.
39:50Never have I ever deleted a post because it didn't get enough likes.
39:54Oh no, I've never done that.
39:55I have done that.
39:56I'm not a social media person.
39:57I have no idea.
40:05Never have I ever been jealous of someone I don't even know personally.
40:10No jealousy.
40:11No.
40:12What a good thing jealousy.
40:13No jealousy.
40:14Last question.
40:15oh never have I ever watched sad videos just to cry and feel dramatic no no we
40:29have loved we have seen funny videos and funny videos just to laugh and feel
40:32good like I mean emotional scenes you can just get a page chop it up that
40:43works but we are done with never have I ever and I'm sure you guys are loving
40:47seeing us suffer like this oh my god that's all I could think about
40:55oh my god okay
41:12so tell me something a podcaster does it feel different
41:33you know like mental health below what we expect or how I expect or how I see the
41:40world to be yeah so it feels good to be at double presents she because you know I'm
41:48being able to talk about it and being able to be myself oh we are glad we are
41:52glad I'm glad so okay this is for the audience can to just tell them one tip
41:57one tip trick whatever it is that they can apply that they don't mean she won't
42:03love yourself how this is just as love yourself just pick yourself choose
42:08yourself it's very it's not that difficult money choose yourself now we will
42:13I'm joking I'm not something that you just say good things up yeah yeah affirmations
42:18still again yeah that works that would choose yourself yeah there's nothing wrong
42:23in choosing yourself mm-hmm when she guilt I mean you can choose course a ball I'm
42:26guilty guilty feel regular just get it out of your head but then again you have to be a
42:31whole person yeah but don't be selfish don't be selfish
42:40right so yeah okay jai ho to to our audience aposita bollo that you need to
42:45love yourself a boom if any of you have any stories that you want us to talk or
42:53to share with our guests auto by mo no the damma the key jana the chat cho tum ra
42:58tell it just go to your social media and write your story and then add the
43:03hashtags hashtag she hashtag not a joke and your story I personally will
43:09definitely say and discuss and talk to our guests about it so do that and always
43:15remember jai amra aksha the we are very strong we are actually strong we give
43:20birth so we are strong for sure but yes of course love yourself I can act a report
43:26that is done by UNFPA and it's called state of world population report 2025
43:37it's called state of world population report 2025 so we need to talk about this not only girls
43:46guys girls everyone we need to talk about this we need to talk we are done with our episode it
44:04was an
44:05amazing conversation with you it was amazing having you thank you so much for being with me for being
44:12with us at david narikotel presents she thank you so much it was a pleasure to talk to you
44:18and to our listeners and viewers i hope that you will really learn to love yourself without being selfish
44:29yeah and it's a very difficult time for us now um looking at the world i'm not just talking about
44:35bangladesh you're saying in the world it's very difficult it's very difficult
44:40i would like to say hold strong um pray for the world pray for yourself and let's hope we can
44:49live
44:49in a better world and with that hope we are ending this episode of david narikotel presents she
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45:02and you're gonna see this episode of she thank you and until next time
45:09the initial chance i think very much important obviously luck matters success is not only about
45:15financial gains or career what so i wanted to have my own family and my time and everything because
45:21i've missed all those years if you think that's a great character then obviously i pick it
45:39you
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