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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy to see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I'm here.
00:00:22Wonderful, my mom.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, Mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35She's pretty much here.
00:00:37So, I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about gambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if you would let me come out
00:00:58there and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:06We should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So, you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that we were here, so I cannot go back.
00:01:22I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:26I mean, Trish is starting to warm up a little bit, but it feels like I'm hanging on by a
00:01:32thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times.
00:01:37And I am still married.
00:01:39Slipping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46But she's there is camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So, you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her, but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:17You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone and like I get broken up with again.
00:03:00How are you feeling?
00:03:04I hungover.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel.
00:03:20and what's going to happen next and I don't, I don't know, I don't know.
00:03:29Last night I told Daniel that I was married five times and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all, so I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel, I've lost respect, I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see him or talk to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him and then about 11.08 p.m. I said, I love you with all my
00:03:57heart.
00:03:58He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:03I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what and I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said he wants to be with me.
00:04:16So basically, yeah, he, I don't know, I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what
00:04:23he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days and we're supposed to
00:04:38leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this when I've already paid me plans to take him somewhere
00:04:45special and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for and hopefully he'll
00:04:58come with me and hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because of what transpired.
00:05:13She was drunk.
00:05:16And she left the room, so I didn't go after her, I left her.
00:05:28She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:30And I will talk to her, but I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:55Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um,
00:07:14you have to talk to my, um, uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law.
00:07:26Because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:40Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But, at the same time,
00:07:55I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:04We have to talk to my uncle.
00:08:07If I didn't talk to my uncle about this,
00:08:09the ancestors, they might come after me.
00:08:18Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:22I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:33Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:50It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15Why I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she have not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:28It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies,
00:09:49I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing
00:09:55and then have to go back and tell him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not,
00:10:01I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:23I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:31I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs Mountain.
00:10:54I love that you figured out all of the things
00:10:57that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love, everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:14It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:19after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip
00:11:26to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him
00:11:45as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:51I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning
00:12:00that I need to tell Birkan about.
00:12:03And I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh, my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here, too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places that Greek people built
00:12:38from 10th century BC.
00:12:41Yeah.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:45Ephesus is one of the seven ancient historical places
00:12:49in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place, too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old,
00:13:06which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher, I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is, like, carved or etched
00:13:16and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything, even the floor, is incredible.
00:13:23Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty, kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits
00:13:47about this place.
00:13:49You know?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:04I hope you know
00:14:07that I really do want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah.
00:14:14That makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have
00:14:19way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So, the other night,
00:14:27I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:32Because I wanted to get his opinion
00:14:35on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:42You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah.
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns,
00:14:48and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:50I have f***ing concerns
00:14:52because you are still
00:14:54communicating with Michael
00:14:57and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:07Well,
00:15:09he wants to come here.
00:15:13Perfect.
00:15:17No, there is no point.
00:15:21He already bought a flight.
00:15:29What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:38Without asking,
00:15:41without telling anything,
00:15:43nothing,
00:15:44this is ridiculous.
00:15:51Do you know how much
00:15:52I've been anticipating her coming?
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know,
00:15:56I'm glad you can
00:15:57because you're one of the best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers
00:16:03was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world,
00:16:09but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure
00:16:18that I'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26It seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:28Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here
00:16:44to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one
00:16:46in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer
00:16:49to open the door for me
00:16:50so I can get in the car
00:16:51because I'm really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in,
00:16:53I'll do the bag.
00:16:53I know how this is going to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in, we'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:06Oh, Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me a heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have
00:17:20to give me a horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000
00:17:23on the thing,
00:17:24so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins
00:17:29in the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names
00:17:32and you tell me
00:17:33which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose,
00:17:38Presage Nocturne,
00:17:39Middle Earth,
00:17:40Maidan,
00:17:42Al Riffa.
00:17:43No.
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:43I like Buckaroo.
00:17:44I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two,
00:17:46there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal
00:17:51having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know,
00:17:57kiss and hug
00:17:57the girl that I've been
00:17:58speaking to for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited
00:18:02about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out
00:18:04on the town,
00:18:05see the biggest event
00:18:06of the year,
00:18:07the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately,
00:18:10we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think
00:18:15of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait,
00:18:19you're going down
00:18:19the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared
00:18:21the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were
00:18:27on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31Elise,
00:18:31200 metres to our rise
00:18:32to the place
00:18:33that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***,
00:18:37you guys working feet.
00:18:39F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited to see it.
00:18:47You're f***ing in me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed
00:18:50the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:53But everyone
00:18:53will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down 1,000.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one
00:19:01of the biggest days
00:19:02of the year
00:19:03because of airport
00:19:03delays and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly,
00:19:08I don't care.
00:19:09Jesus, man.
00:19:11I have a lease with me,
00:19:12so I'm happy
00:19:12exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one
00:19:17next year.
00:19:18Think about me
00:19:18for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport
00:19:21for no,
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:22Nah.
00:19:26Wait,
00:19:27this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally
00:19:29am not even wearing underwear.
00:19:30That's a bold choice
00:19:32with that dress.
00:19:34It's like a game
00:19:35that one.
00:19:35Very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys
00:19:49have McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep,
00:19:51we're not that,
00:19:51we're not that
00:19:52out of the line.
00:19:52We're not that
00:19:53third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07Yo.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait,
00:20:09I think we need
00:20:10to make a cheer.
00:20:11Yeah,
00:20:11my cheers is,
00:20:12I was about to do it.
00:20:12So,
00:20:13you know,
00:20:13you know how much
00:20:14I've been anticipating
00:20:15her coming.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:16But,
00:20:17you know,
00:20:18I'm glad you came
00:20:20because you're,
00:20:20you're one of my best friends
00:20:23and,
00:20:24you know,
00:20:25as soon as you come,
00:20:27I want you to meet
00:20:28my best,
00:20:29most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So,
00:20:30let's say cheers
00:20:31to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers
00:20:40was about Chris.
00:20:41Yeah,
00:20:42it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah,
00:20:44I'm like,
00:20:44wait,
00:20:44what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like,
00:20:47hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around
00:20:49the world,
00:20:50but you're toasting
00:20:52to your buddy
00:20:53over me?
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like,
00:20:55who does that?
00:20:57Okay,
00:20:58I'll start again.
00:20:59I know how far
00:21:00you've traveled,
00:21:00what you've given up,
00:21:01and,
00:21:01you know,
00:21:02what it's taken
00:21:03to get here.
00:21:03So,
00:21:04I am so excited
00:21:06for the next
00:21:06three weeks.
00:21:07So,
00:21:08this cheers
00:21:09is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:14Thank you so much
00:21:15for letting me
00:21:16drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize
00:21:19it was just,
00:21:19like,
00:21:19such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out
00:21:22and get drunk
00:21:22on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:25I would imagine
00:21:25the Miami party scene
00:21:26is wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out
00:21:28probably five nights a week,
00:21:30but, like,
00:21:31I would say,
00:21:31like,
00:21:32this past,
00:21:32I don't know,
00:21:33seven,
00:21:33eight months,
00:21:33I've slowed down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like,
00:21:36I like a fun night,
00:21:37but I'm definitely
00:21:38trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys
00:21:41go out a lot here?
00:21:44Um,
00:21:47we party a bit,
00:21:48yeah.
00:21:50Like,
00:21:50I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's,
00:21:54he's,
00:21:54he's out,
00:21:54you know,
00:21:55he's out on boats
00:21:55most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats
00:21:58and oftentimes
00:21:58this party's involved
00:21:59with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean,
00:22:02give me a reason
00:22:03to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen,
00:22:12like,
00:22:12there's nothing wrong
00:22:13with going out
00:22:14and having a good time,
00:22:15but I'm looking for a guy
00:22:16that's more ready
00:22:16to slow down,
00:22:17like,
00:22:17having nights in
00:22:18with me
00:22:19and my cat
00:22:20and snuggling,
00:22:21and I want Josh
00:22:22to be ready
00:22:23to change for himself,
00:22:24not me,
00:22:25you know?
00:22:25On top of that,
00:22:26like,
00:22:28it seems very weird to me
00:22:29that Josh was struggling
00:22:30financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33I'm,
00:22:33like,
00:22:33I'm concerned.
00:22:34Is he,
00:22:34like,
00:22:34really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want
00:22:38to focus on the positives,
00:22:39but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah,
00:22:43all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not choosing to that.
00:22:50No, no, no, no.
00:23:12How is he?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey,
00:23:16look at you standing,
00:23:18my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better.
00:23:27today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no,
00:23:29don't let him run.
00:23:31Hmm?
00:23:32Last night,
00:23:32Giovanni and I
00:23:33finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have
00:23:38a nice dinner
00:23:39with my mom,
00:23:40but my cat,
00:23:41Mito,
00:23:42got sick,
00:23:43so we had to run
00:23:45him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you
00:23:47and your comb.
00:23:48You don't like the comb.
00:23:50Nobody likes the comb.
00:23:52Yeah,
00:23:52obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved
00:23:57that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so,
00:24:02today,
00:24:02my mom will come over
00:24:04to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know
00:24:07Giovanni more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Giovanni!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something
00:24:19in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues
00:24:28in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like,
00:24:34maybe I did
00:24:35and I wasn't aware.
00:24:38Why?
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking
00:24:40at your big American poop.
00:24:42Are you crazy?
00:24:45Okay,
00:24:46my bad then.
00:24:47First thing,
00:24:48the papers
00:24:49in the Philippines
00:24:51don't dissolve
00:24:52in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh,
00:24:55that's why
00:24:55I put this here.
00:24:57I feel really weird
00:24:58throwing away
00:24:59toilet paper
00:25:00that I've already
00:25:01wiped with my butt
00:25:02into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why
00:25:04you have to use
00:25:05bidet first
00:25:06before you wipe.
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like,
00:25:09I spread
00:25:10my ass cheeks
00:25:11like this
00:25:12and then I just
00:25:13shh.
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point
00:25:16of the water.
00:25:17Water is created
00:25:18to clean
00:25:19your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go
00:25:23wash off
00:25:24mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh,
00:25:39Ma,
00:25:39you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah,
00:25:46good morning.
00:25:47It's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able
00:25:49to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Oh,
00:25:51okay.
00:25:54You have to
00:25:55tell me
00:25:56what everything is.
00:25:58Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your
00:26:01favorite
00:26:02chicken adobo
00:26:03with
00:26:04boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And,
00:26:07of course,
00:26:08we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely
00:26:12not the typical breakfast
00:26:13I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like,
00:26:16damn,
00:26:16is this breakfast
00:26:16or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great
00:26:19and I'm so happy
00:26:20to finally be getting
00:26:22some quality time
00:26:22with my mother-in-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Hmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulog mo
00:26:28pag-gabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking,
00:26:30how was your sleep
00:26:31last night?
00:26:33My sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat
00:26:35was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster.
00:26:39The karaoke.
00:26:41Ang daming nangyayari.
00:26:42Yeah.
00:26:43Tapit bahay.
00:26:44Yeah.
00:26:45Pero,
00:26:45saya na ako
00:26:46na nandito ka na.
00:26:48She says she's happy
00:26:49that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52Kailan hanggang
00:26:53kailan ka dito?
00:26:55Till when
00:26:55you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here
00:26:58like,
00:26:59I don't know,
00:27:00probably like
00:27:00two more weeks.
00:27:02Ang bilis naman, ano?
00:27:03She said it's too fast.
00:27:05I don't know.
00:27:06One year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:08Ha ha ha ha ha.
00:27:10Eh,
00:27:11I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I don't want to.
00:27:15Ah,
00:27:15naman tong anak ko.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19Sama mo na to.
00:27:24Saya ako na nakarating na si Gibbon dito
00:27:28sa Pilipinas,
00:27:30sa bahay namin.
00:27:31Pero ang nararamdaman ko,
00:27:34siyempre,
00:27:35ang taglal niyang
00:27:37dumating dito sa Pilipinas
00:27:39na
00:27:41ang iniisip ko kasi
00:27:43kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:47sa six years na paghihintay
00:27:49ng anak ko,
00:27:51alalang-alala
00:27:52ako para sa kanya.
00:27:53She said for six years
00:27:55that my daughter
00:27:56has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:00wala na rin siyeng pag-asa atako.
00:28:03Because she was sometimes
00:28:04I could sit just
00:28:05losing hope.
00:28:07And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long though,
00:28:11but I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise, okay?
00:28:16Alright?
00:28:16I understand, Mom.
00:28:18Uh-uh.
00:28:20Uh-uh.
00:28:20Maraming na kasingga
00:28:21na nangyari.
00:28:22Na ano?
00:28:23Na panga kong nakapako.
00:28:27Kung nasasasatan ng anak,
00:28:30mas masakit sa ina.
00:28:32I understand why my mom
00:28:35is being skeptical.
00:28:37I mean, it took him six years
00:28:39to see me.
00:28:41And we've been married
00:28:42for three years
00:28:44and we still don't have
00:28:46a definite plan
00:28:47for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply
00:28:51for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on
00:28:59with this long-distance relationship
00:29:01for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now,
00:29:05I don't feel secure
00:29:06about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done
00:29:15with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad,
00:29:20but...
00:29:22don't be mad.
00:29:26Who's it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:30:06It's been a couple days
00:30:07since I got dumped
00:30:09and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back
00:30:14to the same Riyadh
00:30:15that I was staying at
00:30:16with Siyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad
00:30:19to go all the way
00:30:20back there by myself.
00:30:23Luckily,
00:30:23I was able to make
00:30:24some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh,
00:30:28and I was wondering
00:30:29if your place is available
00:30:30for tonight.
00:30:32For a single room
00:30:35just one person.
00:30:37I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully,
00:30:42the guy at the front desk
00:30:43helped me get a taxi
00:30:45back to Marrakesh.
00:30:54And somehow,
00:30:56I made it back
00:30:56to the new Riyadh
00:30:57in one piece.
00:31:03But now,
00:31:04I'm just not totally sure
00:31:06what I'm doing.
00:31:20Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi!
00:31:22I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know
00:31:25how happy I am
00:31:26to see your face right now.
00:31:27I love you so much.
00:31:30What's up?
00:31:31What's wrong?
00:31:32What, can you tell
00:31:33I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell
00:31:35in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like,
00:31:37really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to,
00:31:39wait, I don't want
00:31:39to cry already.
00:31:40Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um,
00:31:47so,
00:31:48yesterday,
00:31:50basically,
00:31:51I, like,
00:31:52told Ziyad everything
00:31:53about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally,
00:31:57Maddie,
00:31:57went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got
00:31:59into a huge fight,
00:32:00and it ended up
00:32:02with him, like,
00:32:03fully breaking up
00:32:04with me.
00:32:04and leaving me alone
00:32:06in the desert
00:32:07by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there
00:32:15is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone
00:32:19in the desert
00:32:20in a country
00:32:21where you don't
00:32:22speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously
00:32:25doesn't care about you.
00:32:27And he hasn't spoken
00:32:28to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me,
00:32:30like,
00:32:31like, rage texts.
00:32:34Like, saying that
00:32:34I'm, like, a demon
00:32:35and, like, a liar
00:32:39and, like,
00:32:39this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like,
00:32:45really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset
00:32:47about it.
00:32:48You know,
00:32:49it's like I did,
00:32:50I did all this, like,
00:32:51again,
00:32:51and, like,
00:32:53just to get, like,
00:32:53treated like a piece of
00:32:54like, what?
00:32:58Like, no,
00:32:59I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch.
00:33:00And for him to, like,
00:33:02act like you're a gremlin
00:33:03is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he acting like
00:33:05he's just, like,
00:33:07Ryan Gosling
00:33:08as, like, Morocco?
00:33:11Can we just be done
00:33:13with the country
00:33:14of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad.
00:33:21But
00:33:23don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been
00:33:28texting
00:33:30Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:45Why
00:33:46are we doing
00:33:47this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean,
00:33:49I don't know.
00:33:50I think
00:33:51just because things
00:33:52got so bad with Ziyad,
00:33:53it's just making me,
00:33:53like, go back to Mohammed
00:33:56because...
00:33:56That was terrible
00:33:57because he was
00:33:58just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah.
00:34:01But, like,
00:34:02the last time I was here,
00:34:04like, this was, like,
00:34:05a happy moment
00:34:05for us, like,
00:34:06when I was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it kind of made me
00:34:09miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to
00:34:11go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:17What are your intentions
00:34:19on seeing him?
00:34:20I mean,
00:34:21is your...
00:34:22Are you going there
00:34:23to get closure
00:34:23or are you going there
00:34:25with the intent
00:34:25of rekindling
00:34:27your relationship
00:34:28engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like,
00:34:32everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean,
00:34:35I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like,
00:34:36getting emotional
00:34:37for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42I just want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens
00:34:44to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you
00:34:51to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever
00:34:55been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like,
00:34:57I just...
00:34:57I just want you
00:34:58to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:00Like, I just don't know
00:35:02what you're going
00:35:03to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:12Who are you?
00:35:20Uh, Emma interviewing
00:35:21I'll take one.
00:35:23Hmm.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed?
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer
00:35:30it just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:36Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:44I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like,
00:35:51lunch or something?
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you
00:35:57when I'm there.
00:36:01Two.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Mohammed just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice
00:36:15just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know
00:36:19because I haven't talked
00:36:19to him in a while.
00:36:20So, it's like...
00:36:22Um...
00:36:23What's his voice sound like?
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me
00:36:28if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked
00:36:32if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me
00:36:39to text him
00:36:39a place
00:36:40that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like,
00:36:43a lot of old feelings
00:36:44are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed
00:36:49have been through a lot
00:36:50and
00:36:51we were
00:36:52madly in love
00:36:53for a lot of years.
00:36:55So,
00:36:55that's something
00:36:56that doesn't just go away.
00:36:58And
00:36:59I think
00:37:00if I don't see him,
00:37:01I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean,
00:37:08you keep talking about...
00:37:10You keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up
00:37:12after
00:37:13I thought that was,
00:37:15you know,
00:37:15the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish
00:37:18is bringing up her ex
00:37:19just to get back at me
00:37:21because of what I did.
00:37:23So, it seems to me
00:37:24that you want to be with him.
00:37:43So, you ready
00:37:44to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous,
00:37:49but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them
00:37:54that you are a good guy.
00:37:58Sounds like
00:37:58you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure
00:38:01you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure
00:38:04you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure
00:38:07that I'm the man
00:38:08that you want
00:38:09to be
00:38:11introduced
00:38:12to your family.
00:38:13I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else
00:38:15do you want?
00:38:17No.
00:38:25It's like you were
00:38:26hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean,
00:38:34you keep talking about
00:38:37your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up
00:38:38after.
00:38:39I thought that was,
00:38:41you know,
00:38:41the past.
00:38:45Tonight,
00:38:46we're packing up
00:38:46to leave
00:38:47Nosey Bay
00:38:48to go to
00:38:49Trisha's hometown
00:38:50to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the
00:38:53merengue fight,
00:38:54we were walking
00:38:54around,
00:38:55and she gets to
00:38:57talking about
00:38:57this great place
00:38:58that her ex
00:38:59took her to
00:39:00when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trisha's
00:39:04bringing up her ex
00:39:05just to get back
00:39:06at me,
00:39:07you know,
00:39:08because of
00:39:08what I did.
00:39:11All you're
00:39:12trying to do
00:39:13is just
00:39:14make me jealous,
00:39:15and it's a game
00:39:16for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see,
00:39:19that's exactly
00:39:20what you told me
00:39:21when I responded
00:39:23to you
00:39:24Yeah,
00:39:24because you said
00:39:25like,
00:39:26oh,
00:39:26this is a place
00:39:27that your ex
00:39:28took you,
00:39:29and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Why do you
00:39:33keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:38I enjoy.
00:39:38But do you
00:39:40think I want
00:39:40to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem
00:39:42with that?
00:39:43That means you
00:39:43appreciate what
00:39:44he has done
00:39:45for you
00:39:46more than
00:39:46what you appreciate
00:39:47what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me
00:39:51that you want
00:39:52to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather
00:39:57stay single
00:39:58than
00:39:59back to my ex.
00:40:01I don't believe
00:40:01that's what would
00:40:02happen.
00:40:02I don't believe
00:40:03that's what would
00:40:04happen.
00:40:04Because that's
00:40:05what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:09I will never be
00:40:10back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Then leave him
00:40:13alone.
00:40:14Then stop
00:40:14talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want
00:40:16to hear it.
00:40:17Because you
00:40:18hide your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't
00:40:19want to talk
00:40:20about my ex
00:40:20and I don't
00:40:21want to hear
00:40:21about your ex.
00:40:22Because you
00:40:23hide in your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not
00:40:25that I'm hiding.
00:40:25I just don't
00:40:28feel like it
00:40:28should be brought
00:40:29up.
00:40:29I'm trying to
00:40:30work on us.
00:40:32I want a
00:40:33relationship with
00:40:34you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting
00:40:41far away from
00:40:42the finish line.
00:40:44You're running
00:40:44backwards when we
00:40:46should be running
00:40:47forwards.
00:40:50This is so
00:40:51ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling
00:40:53him I had a
00:40:55good experience
00:40:56to that place,
00:40:57to this place,
00:40:58and it was nice.
00:41:00That's it.
00:41:00It's not like
00:41:01something, oh,
00:41:02I'm talking with
00:41:04him, or I'm
00:41:06still with my
00:41:07ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat
00:41:09on him.
00:41:10That's his
00:41:11action, not
00:41:13me.
00:41:16So if you
00:41:17want to go,
00:41:18just let's go.
00:41:19If you want
00:41:20to stay, stay
00:41:21here.
00:41:23I want to go
00:41:24if you're going
00:41:25to be committed
00:41:27to this
00:41:28relationship.
00:41:30If I know that
00:41:31you're committed,
00:41:33I'm 100% on
00:41:35board with going
00:41:36to meet them.
00:41:41okay.
00:41:47I love Trish so
00:41:48much, and I want
00:41:49this relationship
00:41:50to work more
00:41:51than anything.
00:41:53But I think
00:41:54all of this is
00:41:55just hitting me
00:41:56all at once.
00:41:59maybe I'm, you
00:42:00know, in my
00:42:00head, but I'm
00:42:02afraid that Trish
00:42:03won't be able
00:42:04to fully trust
00:42:06me after what
00:42:07I did.
00:42:09And the fact
00:42:10that her family
00:42:11might ultimately
00:42:12not approve of
00:42:13me, it's just
00:42:14all too much.
00:42:16I'm feeling
00:42:17pressure, massive
00:42:19pressure.
00:42:20this meeting
00:42:21with her family
00:42:22is like, make
00:42:23or break.
00:42:31I'm miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you
00:42:34want to talk
00:42:34about this?
00:42:36I just feel
00:42:38frustrated right
00:42:39now.
00:42:40She didn't care
00:42:41what I think
00:42:42or what I say.
00:42:43You don't
00:42:44respect me.
00:42:45That's not
00:42:45true at all.
00:42:46And now I have
00:42:47doubts.
00:42:48This,
00:42:48us, could be
00:42:50mistake.
00:42:58Michael,
00:42:59he's coming.
00:43:01Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking,
00:43:04without telling
00:43:05anything,
00:43:07nothing.
00:43:17He cares about
00:43:18me and said
00:43:20he wants to
00:43:21protect me
00:43:22from making
00:43:24a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him,
00:43:28you know,
00:43:29that I would
00:43:29think about
00:43:29him coming,
00:43:30but I woke
00:43:32up this morning
00:43:33to a bunch
00:43:34of texts
00:43:34from him
00:43:35saying that
00:43:35he already
00:43:37booked a
00:43:38flight.
00:43:39night.
00:43:41The other night
00:43:42in Cheshme,
00:43:43Michael offered
00:43:44to come to
00:43:45Turkey so
00:43:46he could
00:43:46give me
00:43:47his perspective
00:43:47on my
00:43:48relationship
00:43:48with
00:43:49Birkan.
00:43:50I had
00:43:51planned to
00:43:52talk to
00:43:52Birkan about
00:43:53it,
00:43:53but before
00:43:54I even
00:43:54had a
00:43:55chance to,
00:43:56Michael
00:43:56texted me
00:43:57and said
00:43:57he booked
00:43:58his flight.
00:44:00Given
00:44:01Birkan's
00:44:02very strong
00:44:03feelings
00:44:03about my
00:44:04friendship
00:44:04with Michael,
00:44:05I am
00:44:06concerned
00:44:06that this
00:44:07will
00:44:07complicate
00:44:08the progress
00:44:09that Birkan
00:44:09and I
00:44:10have made.
00:44:12But on
00:44:12the other
00:44:13hand,
00:44:14Michael
00:44:14is always
00:44:15the person
00:44:16that I'm
00:44:16going to
00:44:16turn to
00:44:17when I
00:44:17need
00:44:17advice.
00:44:18If
00:44:19Birkan
00:44:19and I
00:44:20are really
00:44:20going to
00:44:20move
00:44:20forward,
00:44:21I need
00:44:22my best
00:44:23friend's
00:44:23opinion.
00:44:25This
00:44:26is not
00:44:26normal.
00:44:29Something's
00:44:29wrong with
00:44:30him.
00:44:30Is he
00:44:31out of
00:44:31his mind?
00:44:32Is he
00:44:32out of
00:44:32his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No,
00:44:34he wants
00:44:34to give
00:44:34me his
00:44:35opinion
00:44:35on this
00:44:36whole
00:44:37situation.
00:44:38Or
00:44:40some
00:44:41chance
00:44:41to blow
00:44:42this
00:44:42relationship
00:44:43so he
00:44:43can have
00:44:44it.
00:44:45Am I
00:44:46right?
00:44:47Michael
00:44:48and I
00:44:48have only
00:44:49ever been
00:44:49friends.
00:44:51He's
00:44:52very
00:44:52logical,
00:44:53he's
00:44:54very
00:44:54insightful,
00:44:55and I
00:44:56value
00:44:57his
00:44:57opinion.
00:44:59Your
00:44:59friends
00:45:00have
00:45:01scoped
00:45:01me out,
00:45:02so why
00:45:02don't I
00:45:03get to
00:45:03have that
00:45:03same
00:45:04opportunity
00:45:04to have
00:45:04my
00:45:05friends
00:45:05meet
00:45:05you
00:45:06and
00:45:06have
00:45:06you
00:45:07get
00:45:07along
00:45:07with
00:45:08them.
00:45:08My
00:45:09friends
00:45:09doesn't
00:45:09want to
00:45:10me.
00:45:13He
00:45:13made that
00:45:14move,
00:45:14it's
00:45:15over.
00:45:15He
00:45:16has no
00:45:17chance.
00:45:20Before she
00:45:21came here,
00:45:22Laura told me
00:45:23that she had an
00:45:25argument with
00:45:26Michael,
00:45:26and he said
00:45:27that I am the
00:45:28obstacle,
00:45:29those two having
00:45:30a relationship.
00:45:31took it as a
00:45:33move.
00:45:34She said that
00:45:35it was
00:45:36meaning just
00:45:37friends,
00:45:37but I
00:45:39don't trust
00:45:39Michael.
00:45:41This is his
00:45:41opportunity to
00:45:43break us up
00:45:44while she is
00:45:45confused about
00:45:46our relationship.
00:45:47This is a
00:45:48strategy.
00:45:51Look,
00:45:52I want
00:45:53this
00:45:54relationship
00:45:55to work
00:45:55with you.
00:45:59I
00:46:00would
00:46:00never
00:46:00let
00:46:01a
00:46:01third
00:46:02party
00:46:03come
00:46:04between
00:46:04me
00:46:05and
00:46:05you.
00:46:07Maybe
00:46:08you
00:46:09should
00:46:09try to
00:46:09calm
00:46:10down
00:46:11and
00:46:11just
00:46:12meet
00:46:13him.
00:46:16I
00:46:17think
00:46:18that he
00:46:18just
00:46:18wants
00:46:19to see
00:46:20if
00:46:20everything
00:46:21is
00:46:21okay
00:46:21and
00:46:22that
00:46:22I'm
00:46:22not
00:46:22making
00:46:23a
00:46:23bad
00:46:23choice.
00:46:25Okay.
00:46:27Okay.
00:46:31I
00:46:32just
00:46:32feel
00:46:33frustrated
00:46:34right now.
00:46:37I
00:46:37feel
00:46:37like
00:46:38I
00:46:38have
00:46:38no
00:46:38choice.
00:46:40It's
00:46:40already
00:46:40coming.
00:46:41She
00:46:41didn't
00:46:42care
00:46:42what I
00:46:43think
00:46:43or
00:46:43what
00:46:44I
00:46:44say.
00:46:45I
00:46:45just
00:46:45hope
00:46:46that
00:46:46Michael
00:46:47doesn't
00:46:47up
00:46:48my
00:46:48entire
00:46:49future
00:46:49and
00:46:50my
00:46:51relationship.
00:46:54Let's
00:46:55go.
00:46:55We
00:46:55have
00:46:56a
00:46:56reservation.
00:46:58Okay.
00:47:09You
00:47:09can speak
00:47:10Turkish.
00:47:11Maybe
00:47:12I can
00:47:12speak
00:47:13English.
00:47:13Okay.
00:47:14Thank
00:47:14you.
00:47:15know
00:47:15the
00:47:15Turkish
00:47:15say
00:47:15cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18I'm
00:47:18just
00:47:18cheers.
00:47:18don't
00:47:19know.
00:47:19said
00:47:20to
00:47:20to
00:47:21your
00:47:21honor.
00:47:23Share
00:47:24F
00:47:26cheers.
00:47:32Oh,
00:47:33did
00:47:33you
00:47:33take
00:47:34the
00:47:34whole
00:47:34thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After
00:47:36today,
00:47:37I can
00:47:37drink
00:47:37everything
00:47:38inside.
00:47:41We
00:47:42had
00:47:42previous
00:47:43plans
00:47:43to
00:47:44to do
00:47:45some
00:47:45wine
00:47:45tasting
00:47:45in
00:47:46this
00:47:46cute
00:47:46little
00:47:46town
00:47:47that's
00:47:47right
00:47:47near
00:47:48the
00:47:48ruins,
00:47:49but
00:47:49beer
00:47:50con's
00:47:50pissed
00:47:51and
00:47:52it
00:47:52feels
00:47:52so
00:47:53freaking
00:47:54awkward.
00:47:57You
00:47:58don't
00:47:58seem
00:47:58like
00:47:58you
00:47:59want
00:47:59to
00:47:59taste
00:47:59wine.
00:48:00You're
00:48:00like
00:48:00pounding
00:48:00it
00:48:00like
00:48:01a
00:48:01shot.
00:48:02Yeah.
00:48:02That's
00:48:02not a
00:48:02wine
00:48:03tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am
00:48:07miserable.
00:48:08You're
00:48:08miserable.
00:48:09I'm
00:48:09waiting
00:48:09for my
00:48:10best
00:48:10friend,
00:48:11Michael.
00:48:16This
00:48:16is
00:48:1613.5
00:48:17person
00:48:17alcohol.
00:48:19This
00:48:20one
00:48:20is
00:48:20three
00:48:21different
00:48:21Turkish
00:48:21grape.
00:48:24Okay,
00:48:25that's
00:48:25fine.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26Thank
00:48:26you.
00:48:26You're
00:48:27welcome.
00:48:28Okay,
00:48:28do you
00:48:28want to
00:48:28talk
00:48:29about
00:48:29this?
00:48:32Okay.
00:48:35There
00:48:35was no
00:48:36heads
00:48:36up.
00:48:37You
00:48:38declined
00:48:38my
00:48:39existence
00:48:40in this
00:48:41relationship.
00:48:43You
00:48:44just
00:48:44decide
00:48:45whatever
00:48:45you
00:48:46want.
00:48:47You
00:48:47are
00:48:48not
00:48:49respecting
00:48:49the
00:48:50person
00:48:50in
00:48:50your
00:48:50life.
00:48:52You
00:48:53don't
00:48:53respect
00:48:54me.
00:48:54That's
00:48:54not
00:48:54true
00:48:55at
00:48:55all.
00:48:55And
00:48:55now
00:48:56I
00:48:56have
00:48:56doubts.
00:48:59When
00:49:00we
00:49:00get
00:49:00married,
00:49:01it
00:49:01will
00:49:01only
00:49:01get
00:49:01worse.
00:49:04That
00:49:04could
00:49:04be
00:49:05my
00:49:05worst
00:49:06mistake.
00:49:07I
00:49:07don't
00:49:08know.
00:49:09What
00:49:09could
00:49:10be
00:49:10your
00:49:10worst
00:49:10mistake?
00:49:12This,
00:49:13us.
00:49:17Here
00:49:18we
00:49:18are.
00:49:19It's
00:49:20a nice
00:49:20place,
00:49:20I
00:49:21hope.
00:49:22I
00:49:22have
00:49:22booked
00:49:23a
00:49:23resort
00:49:24the
00:49:24pictures
00:49:24online
00:49:25looked
00:49:25really
00:49:26nice.
00:49:26So
00:49:27I'm
00:49:27hoping
00:49:27this
00:49:28place
00:49:28is
00:49:28fun
00:49:28and
00:49:29romantic
00:49:29and
00:49:30can
00:49:30help
00:49:30us
00:49:30reconnect.
00:49:31What
00:49:32is it?
00:49:32It's
00:49:33moving!
00:49:34Kill it!
00:49:35Step on
00:49:36and get
00:49:37rid of it,
00:49:37take it
00:49:37outside!
00:49:38No!
00:49:40Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:43Daniel!
00:49:45Daniel!
00:49:54Guys,
00:49:54where are we
00:49:55going?
00:49:55Left here
00:49:56and we're
00:49:57just up here
00:49:57on the left.
00:49:59Here we are.
00:50:01Well,
00:50:01it looks
00:50:01super cute!
00:50:11I'm so excited
00:50:12to see you guys'
00:50:13place.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code
00:50:15in about a week
00:50:15once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute!
00:50:19Wow!
00:50:23At this point,
00:50:24it's been 40 hours
00:50:25that I've been up
00:50:26and I am completely
00:50:27delirious,
00:50:28completely foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face
00:50:30on,
00:50:31I went to the
00:50:31mother f***ing bar
00:50:32and now I am
00:50:33beyond thankful
00:50:34we're at the rental
00:50:35and I'm going to be
00:50:35getting some rest soon.
00:50:37Guys,
00:50:37I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can
00:50:40show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone in to make
00:50:43their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Someone else?
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her?
00:50:48Oh my God,
00:50:48this is a bathroom
00:50:49we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh no!
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:57You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put
00:50:59my best foot forward
00:51:00and like be positive
00:51:01and show him
00:51:02that like I'm not
00:51:03a complainer.
00:51:04It's f***ing small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative
00:51:09of like Josh
00:51:10getting the apartment
00:51:11in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more
00:51:14vanity space
00:51:14would be beneficial
00:51:15and like I would have
00:51:16settled for a smaller place
00:51:18without a roommate.
00:51:19Like no offense,
00:51:20love you Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:22Oh!
00:51:25Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:51:26What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa
00:51:28we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:31Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32No, right.
00:51:32I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that.
00:51:40I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So like what?
00:51:43When we're having sex
00:51:44we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex,
00:51:47it's pretty
00:51:48assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:55So I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like you could have
00:51:58put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one
00:52:01in such high def.
00:52:02my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal
00:52:06having Elise here
00:52:07with me in person.
00:52:09She's just been a voice
00:52:09on the other end
00:52:10of the phone.
00:52:11So it'll be interesting
00:52:12to see how,
00:52:13you know,
00:52:14we both react
00:52:15to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get
00:52:28like a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not,
00:52:31do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um,
00:52:37it looks like it could be
00:52:38an adjustment.
00:52:40There's like literally
00:52:41only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm going to need
00:52:45more pillows.
00:52:47Uh,
00:52:48we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows,
00:52:51steamer,
00:52:52in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list
00:52:54so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Night, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:04All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get
00:53:08comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10Okay, perfect.
00:53:11And I'm on the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here,
00:53:16I told Joshua
00:53:17I wanted to take things slow.
00:53:18So he's going to sleep
00:53:19on the couch.
00:53:20That way we're both
00:53:21avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away,
00:53:29it's hard.
00:53:30But like,
00:53:31I came here wanting
00:53:32to do things differently,
00:53:33like not leading with sex.
00:53:34But at the same time,
00:53:36I wanted to make him,
00:53:37you know,
00:53:38see a little glimpse
00:53:39of what he might be getting.
00:53:40Okay.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you going to come
00:53:54say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like
00:54:04someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed
00:54:06inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right,
00:54:09well, come say goodnight to me.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's going to be a hard
00:54:27sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But yeah,
00:54:28it's good to try and connect
00:54:30more on that emotional level
00:54:31than the sexual level
00:54:32off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably,
00:54:34you know,
00:54:34that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want
00:54:37to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world,
00:54:40of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw her,
00:54:41I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor,
00:54:43but, um,
00:54:43you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy
00:54:47that we have
00:54:48a really strong connection
00:54:49straight away
00:54:50from the moment we met.
00:54:52But, um,
00:54:53I haven't shared
00:54:53my whole life
00:54:54with, um,
00:54:55Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried
00:54:56that she might,
00:54:57you know,
00:54:57find out some things,
00:54:58you know,
00:54:58parts of my life
00:54:59that she's not exactly
00:55:00happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show
00:55:02her that I'm a good person,
00:55:03you know,
00:55:04with flaws,
00:55:04but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls
00:55:07in love with me.
00:55:24Okay,
00:55:25we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel,
00:55:37are you sure
00:55:38you're okay
00:55:38going on this trip
00:55:39with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Since I'm not settled
00:55:46with Lisa,
00:55:48I'm still really hot
00:55:49with all the offence
00:55:50she has committed
00:55:51by telling lies.
00:55:53But,
00:55:54I decided to go
00:55:55on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't
00:55:58forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going
00:56:04to be difficult,
00:56:05but,
00:56:05I will try my best
00:56:07to have a good time.
00:56:18long ride.
00:56:19We'll get there
00:56:20pretty late,
00:56:20so.
00:56:21And what is the place
00:56:22like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:25Yeah,
00:56:25there will be
00:56:25a lot of nature
00:56:26in the area
00:56:27to look at
00:56:28and lots of
00:56:29activities to do,
00:56:30so,
00:56:31I thought it would
00:56:32be enjoyable
00:56:33for us.
00:56:36You're welcome.
00:56:48You're thinking,
00:56:49where the hell
00:56:49is she taking me?
00:56:51You know,
00:56:52we call these
00:56:52in America,
00:56:53the boonies.
00:56:54What is she?
00:56:55The boondocks,
00:56:56where there's
00:56:57no real civilization.
00:56:59It's just,
00:57:00it's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place,
00:57:07I hope.
00:57:10I have booked
00:57:11a resort
00:57:12in Bagari,
00:57:14Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western
00:57:16part of Lagos.
00:57:18The pictures online
00:57:19looked really nice,
00:57:20and it's
00:57:21in my price range.
00:57:23So,
00:57:23I'm hoping this place
00:57:25is fun
00:57:25and romantic
00:57:26and can help us
00:57:27reconnect.
00:57:29Oh,
00:57:29wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space,
00:57:36right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:37It's fine,
00:57:38it's nice,
00:57:38huh?
00:57:39Oh,
00:57:40my God.
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yes,
00:57:45it's a spider.
00:57:46No!
00:57:47That could be
00:57:48poisonous.
00:57:49I've not seen
00:57:49someone bitten
00:57:51by a spider
00:57:51before.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going
00:57:56to sleep in here
00:57:56with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified
00:57:59of this spider
00:57:59because I don't know
00:58:00what kind of spider
00:58:01it is.
00:58:01This thing
00:58:02is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be
00:58:04dangerous.
00:58:05Don't you dare
00:58:06fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just much.
00:58:13It's moving!
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it,
00:58:18get rid of it,
00:58:19take it outside.
00:58:20No!
00:58:23Daniel!
00:58:25All right,
00:58:26stop.
00:58:26Leave it,
00:58:27I will kill it
00:58:27myself.
00:58:29No,
00:58:30don't kick it
00:58:30again.
00:58:31Stop!
00:58:32Stop kicking it!
00:58:37Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel,
00:58:38get it off
00:58:39my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42Don't kick it
00:58:42at me.
00:58:44I have a phobia
00:58:45of spiders.
00:58:46It's just
00:58:47a spider.
00:58:48No,
00:58:48it's not
00:58:49just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge,
00:58:51it was like
00:58:51a tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:54You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified
00:58:58of spiders.
00:58:59I told you
00:58:59to kill the spider.
00:59:00Why didn't you
00:59:01kill the spider?
00:59:02I have sandals on it.
00:59:03Just spider,
00:59:04ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary
00:59:05spider,
00:59:06it's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room
00:59:08you paid for.
00:59:08You know where
00:59:09the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider,
00:59:11kill it.
00:59:11No,
00:59:11you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now,
00:59:15right?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:23It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:24Romantic,
00:59:24you said?
00:59:25Yes,
00:59:25yes.
00:59:30She wants us
00:59:31to have
00:59:32a romantic trip,
00:59:34but it's very hard
00:59:35for me.
00:59:36I am feeling tense
00:59:40because I don't know
00:59:41what my uncle
00:59:41is going to do.
00:59:43Whether he will
00:59:44cancel this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting
00:59:47to talk to him.
00:59:49You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come
00:59:53if you're not
00:59:54going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:56You know why
00:59:56I'm here, right?
00:59:57No,
00:59:57I have no idea
00:59:58why you decided
00:59:59to come.
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because
01:00:03I don't want the money
01:00:04you paid to be
01:00:05a West.
01:00:08That's the only reason
01:00:09why you came.
01:00:13So,
01:00:14no,
01:00:15no sex,
01:00:17no kissing.
01:00:24Why don't you
01:00:25just wait
01:00:26a couple days?
01:00:27Just a couple days.
01:00:29We can make this work
01:00:30for a couple days.
01:00:32Daniel,
01:00:32I need a couple days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:35Just to get my head
01:00:36together,
01:00:37and then we call
01:00:38your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple days
01:00:43because I have
01:00:44to come clean
01:00:44to Daniel
01:00:45about the rest
01:00:45of everything
01:00:46before he goes
01:00:47to his uncle.
01:00:49But he's already
01:00:50so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going
01:00:53to get through it?
01:00:54I am terrified
01:00:56that Daniel's
01:00:57going to leave me
01:00:58forever
01:00:58once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have
01:01:05a day or two
01:01:05with you.
01:01:07Fine.
01:01:13This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom
01:01:17always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles
01:01:21when it applies
01:01:22to you.
01:01:24Ah,
01:01:24I'm just
01:01:25done with this conversation.
01:01:27You know,
01:01:27you used to be
01:01:27a lot softer
01:01:28and sweeter.
01:01:29You don't want
01:01:30a bitchy wife.
01:01:32Don't be
01:01:32a asshole.
01:01:33You don't want
01:01:56a bitchy
01:02:00.
01:02:16What's wrong?
01:02:18Really?
01:02:20Yeah, really.
01:02:21You don't help me with anything.
01:02:23Like this laundry and this.
01:02:26This one never ends.
01:02:28Why do you do this?
01:02:30What the f***?
01:02:34It's been nice having Javon in my house,
01:02:37but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern
01:02:41about our long-distance relationship.
01:02:44On top of that,
01:02:46now that Javon and I are living together in one house,
01:02:50slowly, a baby.
01:02:53Sorry.
01:02:55I get to see how he is.
01:02:58He's very messy, and he just puts the clothes and the towels everywhere.
01:03:04I feel like I have a toddler, and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:03:10From male to male, is your mom always just bossy?
01:03:15What? I heard that.
01:03:17We just haven't got time.
01:03:19I heard that.
01:03:21No, me too loves me.
01:03:24Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:03:25I mean, it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:03:28What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:03:31There's nothing wrong with that, Anna.
01:03:33It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:03:35What do you want from me?
01:03:36Instead of coming in the room and saying,
01:03:39Javon, pick up your stuff!
01:03:40You know, you can just say,
01:03:43Ooh, if you don't mind, could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Javon.
01:03:48Yeah?
01:03:49No matter how much I put it,
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:03:53you would have...
01:03:55See?
01:03:55You don't see that.
01:03:56I do, actually.
01:03:58You do, but you don't do it.
01:03:59No.
01:04:04And, like, every time I talk to you, you leave the room.
01:04:18All we do is...
01:04:21That's all we do.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:22Well, I'm going to try a little action today.
01:04:26Would you like to go get, like, a manicure,
01:04:29like, our feet done?
01:04:32All right.
01:04:33Well...
01:04:34You definitely need a manicure.
01:04:38Okay.
01:04:46I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet.
01:04:51Dang, how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:04:59But it's hard to be romantic when you're being nagged a lot.
01:05:05Still, I thought it would be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna.
01:05:09To show her, you know what?
01:05:10I appreciate what you do.
01:05:11Hi.
01:05:12Good afternoon.
01:05:13Hello.
01:05:14Hello, Paul.
01:05:15I just hope that she sees that I'm making a real effort here.
01:05:19Mmm.
01:05:19So?
01:05:20It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:05:23Right?
01:05:24Suits you so well.
01:05:26Look at you.
01:05:27Yeah.
01:05:28Sitting like a queen.
01:05:29It's all pink.
01:05:31I like it.
01:05:32I know you do.
01:05:36There you go.
01:05:37Yeah.
01:05:40Yeah.
01:05:42See, I told you.
01:05:44It just feels weird.
01:05:47Oh, that's nice.
01:05:49Oh, my God, boo.
01:05:51That's a lot.
01:05:53You doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired.
01:06:02Is this being romantic?
01:06:05Yeah.
01:06:05Did I pass the test today?
01:06:07Kind of.
01:06:08Yeah.
01:06:09Some cool points.
01:06:10I like that.
01:06:12Mm-hmm.
01:06:14You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:06:16And I'll do more nice things.
01:06:19Like, if I leave, like, underwear or sops on the floor,
01:06:25you know, will you be nice?
01:06:28No.
01:06:29No?
01:06:30I mean, you can be nice to me,
01:06:32but not by not dropping them on the floor.
01:06:38I know, but Anna, you know,
01:06:40you used to be a lot softer and sweeter
01:06:42and, you know, more patient with me.
01:06:46You know what I think it is?
01:06:47It's just I think that you knew I wasn't going anywhere
01:06:49and you got comfortable.
01:06:53Being too comfortable is not a good thing because you feel like,
01:06:58okay, well, I got this person.
01:07:00I don't have to try anymore.
01:07:01You know, he's always going to be there no matter what.
01:07:06Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:07:08Ever.
01:07:13I don't understand where did this come from.
01:07:16Do you get it from those videos that you've been watching
01:07:21about masculinity and other things?
01:07:24No, that's my, that's, that's, that's all my idea.
01:07:28I take full credit for that.
01:07:32It's just odd because I feel like over the couple of years
01:07:36watching all these videos, you've changed
01:07:39and I love who you are.
01:07:44But Anna, this is who I was when you first met me.
01:07:46No, you're not.
01:07:47You were not that prideful before.
01:07:50I feel like your idea of being a husband changed.
01:07:55You see it like a power.
01:07:57I don't have any, that's the problem.
01:08:00Like, I feel like.
01:08:00It's a problem, you need to be powerful.
01:08:02No, I feel like I have all the responsibility
01:08:05with no authority because when I tell you to do something,
01:08:08you don't listen to me.
01:08:09So what are you talking about?
01:08:13You want traditional roles when it, when it applies to you.
01:08:18I always have to take care of everything financially.
01:08:21So as your husband, I feel like having to say is nice.
01:08:25You know, it just means you're just respectful.
01:08:30Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:08:37Why did you bring me here?
01:08:40Well, I wanted you to have a good time.
01:08:43Yes!
01:08:43But if you were going to...
01:08:44Do I look like I'm having a good time?
01:08:45But you set me up, you were asking me questions
01:08:48and I just answered them honestly.
01:08:51You ever heard the term, you know,
01:08:52you don't want to hear the answers,
01:08:54so cease from asking dumbass questions?
01:08:57You ever think about that?
01:08:58And you don't want to bitch your wife.
01:09:01Don't be a asshole.
01:09:04I can just sit here and get my feet done.
01:09:06Like, I don't have to...
01:09:09Then they should stay here, okay?
01:09:11Don't come home.
01:09:12You need to calm down.
01:09:18I don't want to see you ever again.
01:09:22Don't come home.
01:09:24Ever.
01:09:26Ever.
01:09:27Jerk.
01:09:29You're disgusting.
01:09:34Hey, I will see you soon.
01:09:36All right.
01:09:37I cannot believe Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:43I'm not saying hi.
01:09:47You want to open it?
01:09:49Hey!
01:09:51Hi, friend.
01:09:51Oh, my God.
01:10:13I have a phone call.
01:10:20Hello.
01:10:23Hey, good morning.
01:10:24Good morning.
01:10:25How are you?
01:10:28Are you doing well?
01:10:30Oh.
01:10:31My hotel won't be ready until, like, 2 o'clock.
01:10:34Uh, is there any chance I can point in my eye?
01:10:37Say hello.
01:10:40He's totally fine with me.
01:10:42I mean...
01:10:43I was just going to say, I pin-drop you my location.
01:10:47Okay, I will, uh...
01:10:48I will see you soon.
01:10:50I wish for walking your direction.
01:10:52All right.
01:10:53Be careful.
01:10:55Thanks.
01:10:56Bye-bye.
01:10:56Bye.
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried that Michael's here.
01:11:09Now that this is real and he actually showed up in Turkey,
01:11:14my stomach is about to explode on itself.
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous and I feel like I'm about to die.
01:11:27Hey.
01:11:29Hey.
01:11:30That was Michael.
01:11:33What is he saying?
01:11:35He said to tell you hi.
01:11:38What?
01:11:40Why?
01:11:41Because he...
01:11:42I'm not saying hi.
01:11:45Well...
01:11:46He's going to be here at this apartment.
01:11:50This apartment.
01:11:52And about...
01:11:53Turkey is okay, but this apartment...
01:11:55Ten minutes.
01:12:01I cannot believe that Michael is actually here in Turkey.
01:12:07He dropped everything to get on a plane for me.
01:12:10I mean, it does feel pretty good that someone cares about me enough to do that,
01:12:15but it is definitely wild.
01:12:18I mean, it's just wild and complicated.
01:12:28Well...
01:12:29I think he's just concerned about me.
01:12:36That's totally normal for friends to be concerned about each other.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:42He's such a good heart.
01:12:50I'm not five years old.
01:12:51I don't eat that...
01:12:55Your friend is trying to...
01:12:57This connection.
01:12:58And you're like, yay!
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03It's like, I don't get it.
01:13:06I never wanted him to come.
01:13:08And I still don't want him to come.
01:13:11I think he's coming in Turkey to mix up Laura's mind.
01:13:16And maybe talk some about me.
01:13:19Give Laura more doubts.
01:13:22But if our relationship is going to end because of Michael,
01:13:29I don't blame Michael.
01:13:30I will blame Laura.
01:13:37You want to open it?
01:13:39Yeah, I do, actually.
01:13:47Hey!
01:13:49Hi, friend.
01:13:50Oh, my God.
01:13:50I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:13:53Is it safe to come in?
01:13:55Yes!
01:13:56Oh, my God.
01:13:57Wild.
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59You're making a palatine.
01:14:07I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:14:09Oh, no.
01:14:09This is amazing.
01:14:11It's the most spontaneous thing I've ever done in my life.
01:14:13I have no doubt.
01:14:14And I do it for you.
01:14:15I do it for you.
01:14:18So.
01:14:19Oh, my God.
01:14:21Absolutely.
01:14:22Oh, wow.
01:14:23Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room looks like this.
01:14:27Holy cow.
01:14:29Hi, Michael.
01:14:31Nice to meet you, finally.
01:14:33I've heard so much about you.
01:14:34Yeah, you're probably hurt.
01:14:37I agree.
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:45Make yourself at home.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:48You want something to drink?
01:14:49Tea?
01:14:50Yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52Just have a seat right here.
01:14:53I don't know how it works.
01:14:54Yeah, that's my...
01:14:54Do the women make tea here, or do the boys do it?
01:14:58Boys?
01:14:59The boys make the tea?
01:15:00They call men if they are grown up.
01:15:03Oh, okay.
01:15:07Um, would you like anything?
01:15:11Nope.
01:15:12I am perfect.
01:15:27So, buddy, what you watching?
01:15:30Scarface.
01:15:36You like American classic movies?
01:15:39No.
01:15:42I like mob stuff.
01:15:46I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:15:53Do you like?
01:15:55Do I like this movie, or...?
01:15:58Violence.
01:16:05Golly, I...
01:16:07I'll be honest with you.
01:16:08I don't know what to make of beer con.
01:16:10I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:16:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:16:15If that's truly who he is,
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:16:20My first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think some beer con and she are.
01:16:25So, I want to make sure that she makes the right choice.
01:16:35I love you so much.
01:16:37But stop telling me that.
01:16:39Stop with her there's some secrets.
01:16:41All I can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him,
01:16:45and I have to get it said
01:16:47before he goes to his uncle.
01:16:48Well, it has to be tonight.
01:16:50So, I have more to tell you, then.
01:16:53More to tell me?
01:17:01Is this really how it ends?
01:17:05Can we go back to where it all began?
01:17:10All I really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to where you love me again.
01:17:40I feel bad about everything that transpired,
01:17:48but I feel better this morning.
01:17:50Yeah, because I cuddled you, right?
01:17:54And you were crying so loud,
01:17:55so I have to...
01:17:56I have to cuddled you, you know?
01:18:01Last night, I cried myself to sleep,
01:18:04and all I could think about
01:18:05is how I have to tell Daniel my secret,
01:18:08and I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night,
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day,
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together.
01:18:22So, what are we, Brian?
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake,
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on.
01:18:42Let's go down towards the water.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:50This is a whole resort,
01:18:51and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:19:06And it's a bit run down.
01:19:10Can I just smile a little bit?
01:19:12No.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us.
01:19:25Wow.
01:19:26Watch that, it's so big.
01:19:28Yeah, it's so big, the water.
01:19:30I don't know.
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:42I feel that things are going back to normal,
01:19:44like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Look at the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16Thank you, baby.
01:20:17Not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light
01:20:26and so good in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it,
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself,
01:20:45but I can't
01:20:45because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there's more to tell him
01:20:50and I have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey.
01:21:18We're dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying the song.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:28Let's watch him.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:32It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:34It is.
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:44Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what this few days is about.
01:21:54Do you feel like you're reconnecting
01:21:56with me a little bit?
01:21:58Yeah.
01:21:59I didn't want us to reconnect.
01:22:01You know, I miss the way we used to be.
01:22:05But I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:22:09We have to call my uncle.
01:22:11When I call him,
01:22:12I will beg on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:15I love you too.
01:22:16I want to make you...
01:22:19I want to, you know, love you forever.
01:22:22But stop telling me lies.
01:22:24Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:31Okay.
01:22:33So I have more to tell you then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:40What do you mean?
01:22:44So, like, in Nigeria,
01:22:46it's not legal for men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, sir.
01:22:53In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes, I've heard of that.
01:23:02So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with more than one woman.
01:23:16You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me.
01:23:39Next time on Before the 90 Days...
01:23:46Having female friends can be hard to juggle,
01:23:49but I want to prove to her
01:23:50that she has nothing to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of...
01:23:58No!
01:23:59Financial holds, big words.
01:24:01Are you jealous of me?
01:24:03And our relationship?
01:24:08We're officially on the jeepney.
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines,
01:24:14and I don't want to waste any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena to America.
01:24:18So, I have to be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today for the K-1 visa,
01:24:25it will be denied.
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless
01:24:33because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:24:37And at this moment,
01:24:38I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:40I don't know how to move forward.
01:24:41I'm excited to see my family.
01:24:49Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51Yeah, to see me.
01:24:52What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:56I feel scared.
01:24:58My family won't accept Rick
01:25:01when they don't like something.
01:25:03They are really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:25:12They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot of secrets.
01:25:22I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You have been touched by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women.
01:25:30Where do you range?
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:25:37You know what?
01:25:38him.
01:25:40him.
01:25:41him.
01:25:43Jesus.
01:25:43Jesus.
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