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00:01this romance is the first date's restaurant and we're back finally a place where anything
00:12garçon okay breathe is possible but you piqued my interest there's two of us no nobody's losing
00:21a cool an instant attraction your gorgeous eyes stop it a match made in heaven i'm a big fan of
00:34your
00:34parents work or a sudden shock to the senses none of these daters know what to expect i'm in a
00:44village
00:44all muff what what happens next is up to them cute would you like to see each other again romantically
01:00yeah i would too oh jesus christ i was gonna have a heart i do my hair toss check my
01:08nails baby how you
01:10fill are you one of those guys who prepare for the date or is that just the last minute future
01:18did that run not much needs to be done to this you can polish do you have any strategy when
01:28it comes
01:28to date none whatsoever none i'm going in blind it's just that thing of like just rocking up and just
01:36going for it like i do i have the hair washed and i pour have a bit of tan because
01:41i think
01:42whatever about your hair and makeup if you're tan you'll feel better in yourself trying to do things
01:46that remind me like alice you're great you got this you got this girl you got this rock up
01:52you look gorgeous thanks
01:57some people just can't get enough attention
02:00but ming's not one of them she's maxed out do you get chatted up sometimes i do go out and
02:06i'm just
02:07like can people just leave me the fuck alone i'm like just fuck off
02:14sometimes i look at them and i'd be like where come from you i'm coming from clarnie
02:19do you know what's wrong with the kerry men there's just something wrong with them especially
02:23the clarnie men really something wrong with them what hobbies have you what hobbies have i
02:31i like to go to the gym i like to go for hot girl walks what's a hot girl walk
02:36so it's when you put
02:37on your sunglasses you chew a piece of gum and you look straight and you walk you walk like you
02:42own
02:42the town
02:45describe yourself in three words for me pretty a tad bit obnoxious and funny
02:51so would you say that you are particular like do you need a person i guess that has things or
02:58is
02:58successful and has to be a certain way definitely okay okay so what would you deem as a successful
03:04person someone i guess it was a good job has their life together knows what they want
03:09is able to drive a hundred percent yeah i'm built to be a passenger princess if you don't have a
03:16full
03:16license you don't have a car i'm like immediately no i'm not driving you around the place i'm sorry
03:22not at all
03:23it can't be a car for a follow they give me the a what are you looking for like a
03:29bentley or not
03:29steve martin well if one wants to go my way then like so be it can you find me one
03:34well i'll try
03:35find myself one first then i'll get you one after i'll see if they have siblings wow okay god love
03:42for the person you should ask them that straight away oh my friend i'm the low rider hi i'm jack
03:49i'm 21 and i'm from kerry the low rider is a little higher boy racer or trusty pickup
03:58who do you be the judge i'm from the first date's restaurant to find my new woman to find a
04:03bit of
04:03love it's a bit uh a bit exciting a bit exciting i could chapter one it's it's all the charm
04:13the
04:13charm is my biggest thing uh compliments first and then a bit of laughter and that always works
04:18hello how are you mr how are you nice to meet you jack nice to meet you jack how are
04:24you yeah
04:25you like that you like that it's beautiful for you yeah and you have success with that i'd like to
04:32think so but uh not often i wouldn't be i wouldn't be too busy on the old dating scene so
04:37it's that is
04:39what it is are you ready to do this ready to do it yeah bring it to the bar your
04:42date is at the bar
04:44yeah all right all right get your shit together let's do it yeah i've met people before that have
04:53you know i've brought the confidence out and and i like that that's what i love
04:57and make people happy and you know feel confident about themselves but i'd love to meet someone who's
05:02confident in themselves hi how are you hi how are you hi mim it's nice to meet you what's your
05:08name
05:08sorry mim mim yeah jack i got you a little uh i would say definitely i am a tough cookie
05:15i am hard to
05:17impress definitely where are you from i'm from clarney no way yeah who's up yeah i'm from clarney
05:25clarney's homey yeah right here what i'm just like castle island castle island just outside yeah
05:33i need on the road so how did you come up uh drove up i stayed in mace uh last
05:38night
05:40family uh okay journey up was working what car do you drive let's hear it what no you go first
05:45no what do you drive i drive a facet no i have a few i have a few i have
05:53a few a few
05:58so i suppose i got into cars when i was about 11 or 12 through my father and uh car
06:04collection
06:04has just grown okay let's hear them all i have a few japanese cars okay um but i daily a
06:10bmw
06:11oh wow okay
06:21the pain is blunt
06:26for old school romantic liam love is the gift that keeps on giving
06:35love to me you do happen for somebody you care about them you have interest in them
06:44you want to take care of them and you want them to take care of you welcome how's it going
06:49very good me so yourself great name please name mateo nice to meet you liam nice how is
06:55everything everything is great yeah hopefully you'll get better yeah yeah yeah if the attraction
07:01is there initially brilliant i'm not going to try and impress them purely to impress them
07:06as i used to do i like that they'll give a bit of a gift there be nice to cuddle
07:12up to
07:13somebody at times just like the intimacy that'd be nice it's not for you i've actually stopped
07:22focusing on focusing on the chocolate that's not good i know that's what i'm saying it's
07:25not for you choco choco yeah oh that's a decent box of chocolates as well is it oh god yeah
07:31absolutely chance though fair play to you smart as i said you can't eat flowers i got married
07:36in 86 split up in 96 i was in another relationship after a few years for a few years and
07:46i have not
07:47been in any relationship since then listen at least you put yourself out there that's very
07:52important number one yeah absolutely we see what happens we see what happens nothing stops esther
07:58putting herself out there certainly not the neighbors i'm 64 i'm not doing too bad like i wouldn't care
08:08tuppence i go out into the back garden in my bikini if somebody's didn't want to look at me i
08:12couldn't
08:13care less i suppose i'm not the normal nanny yeah that's what they tell me i would like somebody
08:28to get their knickers in a knot over nothing no time for that life's too short
08:43but it doesn't define your night ahead oh i so didn't want to get that wrong i used to be
08:50very confident i think i need to get my competence back no don't be but you're a gorgeous lady why
08:55would you be nervous why would you be nervous but he's gonna be nervous when you come back
09:00can i look around no he can no be cool i was saying be cool be cool she's beautiful she's
09:06very
09:06beautiful yeah yeah yeah they done well here they done well they done well they done well i can't stop
09:12looking at your eyes blue same like yours oh my god no yours are so blue anyway i need to
09:20behave
09:20myself okay i think you're ready you do okay good yeah let's do it i suppose it'd be exciting
09:28i kind of like to get don't know you know and go out there and feel do you know what
09:34esther
09:34you don't look half that all right now hello hello how are you i'm good how are you great i'm
09:58oh my god i do indeed somebody kind of that looks okay hair no hair whatever you know we're all
10:07getting a little bit older here will you have a drink i surely will um a little bit of everything
10:13that you have but one glass with about 12 straws on the ground i'll have a glass of wine that's
10:20white red uh white please what are you having i just sparkly water oh yeah yeah yeah that's a baby
10:33so how many siblings have you two sisters okay yourself i just have one older brother one older
10:39brother how old is he he's 22 we're just like a year and like nine months apart we would be
10:44close but
10:45we still do absolutely kill each other till this day and is he doing with you yeah four of you
10:50in the
10:51host no my parents divorced so my parents got divorced when i was like maybe like eight or nine
10:55so it's just myself my mom my brother oh okay do you know me since you talked to that no
11:02i haven't
11:03spoken to him i'd say like five or six years that's mad yeah no like we live in the same
11:07town and
11:07everything like there's no hate no nothing we just don't talk yeah that's just all the same you're the
11:12same it's great right yeah living with that okay so you live with your dad then so uh yeah i
11:16haven't
11:16talked to my mom in nine years okay and how old were you when they kind of got separated and
11:22stuff uh 12 well
11:23they said where i was very young like uh i can't even remember it's probably a toddler like and then
11:29i live with my mom until i was about 12 okay and then uh with them we followed them when
11:34i started
11:35my father just he took me in he taught me everything you know i i was a proper little scumbag
11:42when i was
11:42younger like and uh oh it's just i'm happier way more respect for everything you know i feel like i'm
11:49a nice
11:49person now because of him um yeah he changed me 100 percent well my brother i still are anything so
11:56it's uh it's his fault i am in the cars you know yeah all that car but i love it
12:02so is it just the
12:03two of you living at home just two of us yeah okay that's not right
12:10are you divorced or you passed or i'm divorced i'm married i was um i met my husband when i
12:18was
12:1815 yeah and we married when i was 18 and then we separated after 15 years yeah and it was
12:31a hard
12:32breakup yeah yeah yeah but we have the best relationship that's great at the end it didn't
12:39work out and it was a difficult breakup but all we had been doing was just trying to keep stuff
12:45together it wasn't working and we were doing it for the kids and i'll tell you i am so glad
12:52i'm married yeah yeah yeah because i have two daughters yeah yeah yeah and i have grandchildren
12:58yeah yeah yeah it's brilliant you get on so well now oh yeah yeah yeah he drives me bad
13:05he would not be with me for all the tea in china yeah yeah and i wouldn't be with him
13:12but you see the
13:13relationship you have is good yeah grateful yeah yeah yeah how about you
13:19myself and my ex though we could hardly be in the same room oh yeah sure that happens yeah
13:28introducing kevin from leash well that's one way to describe him and here's another okay just a
13:35basic old gay man that's all yeah
13:42i'm always the one doing the chasing usually i like i want to do like a full research
13:51i thought maybe if i take it out with my own hands it might make the situation a bit easier
13:58welcome hello how's everything i'm good thanks how are you when you get a little bit older you
14:03realize that love is not all rainbows and lollipops and fizzes in your tummy all right mister no it's
14:10about who's your lobster what's her name calvin nice to meet you nice to meet you calvin yeah like the
14:17county like the county you probably get that all the time do you where's that look it's a conversation
14:20starter isn't it yeah um my grandmother is from calvin okay and then there's everyone that calls
14:25me kevin and kelvin and calvin and gavin and i'm just like yeah no problem yeah call me tom if
14:30you
14:30if it makes you happy i don't it just doesn't bother me where are you from uh leash strabelly oh
14:36i'm
14:36from durable very good fellow leash man yes it's tough isn't it dating's not that good though it's not
14:43no no no that's why i'm standing here in front of you a few small kids as well so they
14:49keep me occupied
14:50how many kids are there three how old are they so 13 11 and eight so you've only recently come
14:57out kind
14:57of really you're well like recent as uh like january 21 that's pretty recent
15:17how do you feel about the food or how do i feel inside
15:26i know the same thing with my tea to come loose
15:32i'm fussy fussy i'm a fussy eater yeah don't eat onions tomatoes peppers okay when i get pizza a red
15:40onion is a must yeah but we can get a half and a half
15:46in the grand scheme of things martin believes that size really matters i'm looking for love a big love
16:00i'm i'm very soft inside when i have a bad day i have a bad day if i want to
16:04cry i do cry so i like
16:06someone who's going to come and hug me and say everything's going to be okay instead of coming
16:10to me and say grow up you're a big man i like man kind of bigger maybe both maybe beard
16:18not skinny
16:22come and compose how are you nice to meet you nice to meet you nice to meet you too your
16:26name please
16:26martin martin martin spolsky sposs how is everything good yeah stress a little bit just follow your
16:34instincts man they got you so far your date is at the bar oh really so i'm the on the
16:41second either
16:42jimmy in and jimmy out breathe in breathe out i'm gonna be very shy at the start i'm actually even
16:50thinking don't bring me a very hot kind hi hi how are you how are you nice to meet you
16:58nice to meet
16:58you how are you what's your name calvin calvin yes marching my nice nice to meet you you nervous i
17:05am
17:05a little bit well i was thinking like if i'm gonna sit down have a drink then it's gonna be
17:08okay you
17:09know yeah it'll be fine where are you coming from uh i live in dublin okay i live in ichigo
17:15but i'm from
17:15poland okay originally i live here 20 years very good where are you from uh leash leash yeah never been
17:21leash yeah i don't even know actually where it is well it's like right in the middle i feed off
17:26vibes
17:27and look even if it's not somebody that i match with i mean let's have dinner and have a drink
17:34and have
17:35a laugh uh tell me your name sorry calvin calvin one more time i'm sorry i'm so that's okay don't
17:41be stressed
17:50um so
17:57do you enjoy your job i do i kind of fell into it when i was like 17 i was
18:01like christmas style
18:02so i started working in pharmacy when i slowly made my way up sometimes it can be stressful but at
18:07the
18:07most times i do like interacting with people from all types of backgrounds did you go to college or no
18:12no no no straight forward yeah same as myself okay yeah yeah yeah so i built wind turbines because we
18:18go into the back ass of nowhere what i do is i take them down and put them back up
18:24right so those
18:26big windmills the big windmills right this week now i got thrown in tipperary the week okay
18:31live the traces like staying overnight and coming back every day okay and where do you usually stayed i'm on
18:38going home if i had a reason to go home i'd go home i love the lads you know it's
18:44like a second
18:45family the views as well when you're working like go up there two o'clock in the morning and then
18:50you
18:51hit the sunset at five or six in the morning it's beautiful like how long have you been doing that
18:55then i think two years now okay what age are you 21 21 yeah when's your birthday september i'm 20
19:04i'll be
19:0521 like a week and a half i'm 13. she's not going to get caught for birthday presents all right
19:10okay
19:18wow lovely oh wow so i have your steak oh thank you and the chicken supreme lovely thank you another
19:27good choice enjoy thank you i'd like to meet somebody with similar values as myself i believe
19:34happiness is be grateful for what we have instead of being miserable about what we haven't got
19:41so what do you do then um for the pleasure enjoyment are you like me you do all
19:51i do it i get annoyed myself when i didn't do something did you yeah i'm doing a good bit
19:57of walking
19:58lately because i've booked the camino and you have not oh yeah my life only started when i gave up
20:05drinking
20:07it'll be 20 years ago this year since i gave her up and it's the best thing i ever did
20:11in my life
20:12my greatest achievement no i'm not doing the whole lot of it why it's too long i wasn't happy
20:23i wasn't happy it was fair from happy and i used to go to the pub for three or four
20:28points and that was
20:31the story of my life but i never left after three or four points have you ever done it i
20:36have not and i
20:37never will i'll be fecking taken off you must be choking me relationships when i was younger people
20:46i grew up with people women and it wouldn't last long and they'd all tell me i'm a lovely person
20:52but
20:52they never told me the bush but i am convinced now that both was i was an alcoholic
20:59that's something i want to do i'm totally on my own because like i never really went anywhere
21:03without people before there was somebody with me or whatever and it's meant to be a spiritual kind
21:10of journey yeah it's how to become for his own totally you know but it's something a challenge
21:17well done you i haven't done it yet it doesn't matter when i got married
21:23i found a girl that loved me and i was afraid to let her go because i believed nobody else
21:31is going
21:31to love me and that's part of the reason i married that girl
21:37you know i'm so insecure in myself and that i put all that down to alcoholism
21:45i've learned to be comfortable on my own be happy yeah yeah i'm content i've learned to like myself
21:52i think because i never liked myself too much but since i've been on my own i've learned to like
21:58myself that i'm not that fat of hers really believe it or not nice i'll give you a reward
22:11my sister with me she lives with me now oh i brought her here uh two years ago good good
22:18you having a siblings i have um two brothers and a sister yeah who is the oldest i'm the oldest
22:24you're
22:25the oldest oh you're taking care of everything yeah yeah um i'm not nervous about being rejected
22:30but sometimes people are not willing to date um men that have uh kids and that's fine that's on them
22:38but i feel like it's not something that i need to declare but then sometimes they're a bit shocked
22:43like oh you didn't say you had kids and like well did that did i need to um so i
22:49also have um three kids
22:51you have three kids yeah so they keep me busy too nice to hear yeah yeah and do you like
22:56kids or
22:57i do like kids and i have son as well do you yes wow that's the another reason i came
23:03to ireland yeah
23:03is he here yes and how old is he uh he's 21 years old right now he lives in leeson
23:10varna okay
23:12so after one year when i got the job and everything and i was feeling safe yeah i brought
23:18his mother and him and does she still live in this environment still there with him we've been
23:23friends forever and we still not love each other i can't say love each other but like you know what
23:27i mean like we've been in this together let's say you know what i mean yeah so um i have
23:33one
23:33song you know but you have three like so you have fun yeah they're they're they're great kids
23:38i want to know more um they're they're they are the love of my life yeah we have a lot
23:43of fun
23:44uh so when i do when i see them i really make the most and we do stuff but then
23:49like i won't lie
23:50i get really lonely then when they leave and i don't want it to be just me
24:06what would you say you're looking for then what am i looking for yeah it's a cool question that yeah
24:13um
24:18uh i'm just looking for someone someone i can like uh be around yeah put the foot knife and fork
24:26down i get a bit serious like okay i'll put it on too go
24:32no i'm looking for someone i can come home to do you know what i mean yeah when i'm working
24:36or something
24:37yeah so i want someone to give money free time to and look after them like i know what i
24:42want and
24:42when i do find someone who has everything i want i'll go for it until then i won't like what
24:48are your
24:48interests like clothes you like dressing up well you look lovely but sorry i'll give you that one
24:54i'd say people think right off the bat that i'm like so like self-obsessed and just like a
25:00bitch really but like like once you get to know me people do think i'm lovely well you look after
25:06yourself that's the main thing that's lovely yeah like i like to look done up every day yeah like
25:09i wake up at 5 45 most mornings i start work at like half seven so i like to have
25:14like my hair
25:15and makeup done for like half seven in the morning so you wake up just under two hours before work
25:22to get ready yeah i gotta look perfect every day yeah i think i drive you mad do you wash
25:27your face in
25:27the morning don't even answer it i don't know i don't want to hear it anymore ew i'm hardy like
25:37i'll tell you one thing now i will come back here tomorrow for that steak it's lovely sweet cheese
25:42lovely it's gorgeous and the pepper sauce sorry my teeth i'm gonna lose here for me
25:49don't worry about it i have that problem as well don't worry about it you're grand
25:56what's the most embarrassing date you've ever been on we met and we had dinner which was quite nice and
26:03it
26:03was lovely and he said can i give you a kiss and i said yeah okay i said we'll have
26:08to buy him dinner
26:08or whatever i'll have to give him a kiss if i'm at home now they come out i don't have
26:12to be
26:13what okay obviously wearable but when i'm at home they come out today oh i would not would you not
26:19i would not he kissed me and he says to me i have a present for you in the car
26:29and he went did he come out with a bag of fish
26:36do you not use fixing it i do when you start eating it seems to come loose top or bottom
26:42top
26:44really yeah yeah yeah maybe i'm doing something wrong no you're not used enough
26:50i said god are the days of the milfrey and roses
26:55i'm begging back a fish if you'll excuse me i'm only going to live and seek them back
27:13how does a penguin build a house he glues it together
27:19why do the norwegians put barcodes on their ships so when they dock they can scandinavian
27:24do you hear about the cheese factory that exploded in france the brie was everywhere
27:35will is hoping to be just as good a dater as he is a comedian
27:40it's all in the delivery hey how's it going
27:43man with a gift absolutely 100 how's that how are you
27:47well well well i'd never dated in secondary school i just didn't feel like
27:53anybody like me that sounded really bad i felt like i had no flirting game whatsoever
27:58how do you feel buddy i'm a little nervous but like i think they're good nerves as i've grown up
28:03a
28:03bit i've kind of become more confident in myself and uh just trying to put myself out there a little
28:08bit now you know and what's your regular type or do you have a type that's a great question i
28:13don't
28:13necessarily have like a particular type um just somebody who i can just get on with it's a bit
28:18of a offer like someone who loves to talk maybe someone who shares the same obsession for football
28:22as i do you know ah yes the beautiful game until that is cuiva starts handing out red cards
28:31since 2022 i have been compiling like an ick list
28:36someone who doesn't like garlic dip now that's a strong one malibu and milk being your choice to drink
28:42on a night out apparently it's like called a malibu or something
28:49make you proud of yourself now you didn't do it properly that's like the scariest part
28:53hey hey hey how are you how are you i'm cuiva cuiva what's that nice to meet you well look
28:57at yourself
28:58yeah girl you look you look lovely thank you so much he's gonna be very nervous when he sees you
29:04so what kind of person then are you looking to meet tall handsome family orientated
29:13a kind considerate person but also is willing to listen to me yeah he's looking over there in a
29:20mirror so he's getting nervous so let's go there enjoy it okay all right hey how's it going all good
29:29i believe i'm watching him well i got you some chocolates oh that's so sweet you're very welcome
29:37no worries at all is there anything that you definitely want to find out about them oh that's
29:41a great question uh their football alliance i go back and forth to the uk quite a bit for football
29:47matches just like different areas okay now who do you support because this is going to be like a
29:50deal breaker now is it oh my goodness so i'm a chelsea fan okay it's not too bad who do
29:57you support
29:58liverpool that's actually okay yeah like that's if you said like united or yeah if you said spurs
30:10how old are you how old are you how old do you think i'm 40 you're 40 i'm 39 39
30:14yeah you're behind the
30:16corner yeah just about exactly and the sirloin steak oh brilliant thank you so thank you so much
30:25do you feel bad that you're getting old older like it's funny like i feel um i feel a lot
30:32better
30:32now i feel like i look better and i feel a lot more confident because i think i'm a bit
30:38more me now
30:39i'm so happy to be 40 and sometimes i even think like if i'm going to be 45 i'm going
30:44to be even
30:44better than that to be 50 i'm going to be like on the top of the world like people used
30:49to say i wish
30:50i'll be younger i would like to go back to being 30 never i think i was so stupid i
30:55was 30 years old
30:56not the same well not the same like i think my priorities were different like for my 20s and
31:03for a lot of for half of my 30s i feel like i just i had my head down i
31:10was married i was trying to
31:12raise babies you know i just didn't have time to think about anything but i i definitely know more now
31:20than i did when i was in my 30s i had my situation a little bit easier i would say
31:27because
31:29when my son's mother got pregnant she knew that i'm gay right oh i told her that i don't want
31:36to be
31:36gay we're okay take it away from right i have to be honest i was so in love with her
31:42i was we were
31:43together for like four years and i was i got very protective about her yeah i loved her to bits
31:50okay
31:50as a human you know what i mean you you need to kind of learn from your mistakes and and
31:57grow
31:58you don't trust the mistakes you learn those mistakes for the reason you know it brought you here you know
32:09hi how are you would you like sour sweets now sour sweets yeah normally get sweetened on chocolate
32:18sweets right let's say movie night bang right what are we getting like a pack of fingers i can inhale
32:27a pack of fingers i feel like that's a luxury then i've never had the fingers fingers like a pack
32:32of
32:32cadbury fingers right then we're gonna have a pack of cadbury fingers yeah lovely she's gorgeous you
32:41were nervous well yeah nervous and i don't get nervous um no she uh but she she brought it out
32:47of me she
32:48brought it on me like i'd say i'd kind of more go for like crisps than popcorn jeez what do
32:55we have
32:57opposite opposites do attract it's uh i'd say the biggest problem is not deciding if i want to go on
33:02a second day but deciding what to do on the second days are you happy with him oh yeah yeah
33:07deadly yeah
33:08yourself oh no no no you can't really write no i didn't grow my eyes no i didn't would you
33:14like to see
33:15each other again romantically we go three two one yeah go on okay three two one yeah yeah yeah
33:32i think you're very down to earth
33:38you're very like humbled and like down to you're like the opposite of me whereas i'm like very jumpy
33:43and like intimidating whereas you're more like no one's here and i feel like you're an honest person
33:47i feel like you'd be good at communicating now yeah
33:49yeah that's really nice what does it say beautiful for you don't look the label don't look at it
33:57wait till you get home stay with me forever do you guys fancy each other yeah yeah
34:09lovely he did win my heart over like he's so much time for people and stuff like and like the
34:14main
34:14thing is really finding someone who has time for someone hello how are you how are you how are we
34:20getting on
34:38my last wine please of course white wine all good absolutely gorgeous brilliant and how's the company
34:48yeah yeah well he's a lovely man yeah yeah he's so sweet he brought me chocolates
34:55it can be something that will lead to something else yeah which you can yeah
35:03i'm doing teaching in college oh wow yeah secondary school i love her do you i've always wanted to be
35:10a teacher
35:10like i was like when i was like five and because my mom works in a school yeah yeah she'd
35:15like bring
35:15home like little like stamps and stuff i love and i used to like always pretend to play school i
35:20qualified as
35:21an sna there oh my god did you my mom's an sna stop it yes no way yes yes that's
35:27gas what got you do sna
35:29i do um like voluntary work uh with barrettstown oh my god so real um yeah then kind of that
35:35led me to
35:36doing like the special needs kind of yeah yeah but like i don't do it per se i just have
35:41the
35:41qualification still trying to find my feet you know that way like i think that's the same way
35:45everybody around my age it's like you're still trying to find out what you really are passionate
35:49about you know i applied actually for a firefighter paramedic a couple of days ago so see how that goes
35:56that could be another route as well you know what do you do in your spare time it's a great
36:00question
36:00what do i do in my spare time um hanging out with mates obviously the boys um the boys the
36:06boys yeah
36:06the lads definitely feel like i'm better in person i'm shocking at texting for the life of me like i
36:14can't text at all like i love just going for like ice cream or something like with the girls i
36:18love a
36:18sweet treat yeah at easter i love mini eggs mini eggs are like my you like do not say you
36:25don't like
36:25them i love mini eggs okay i thought you're gonna say so like so at easter i stockpile stop no
36:31we're
36:31the same person i do the exact same exact same i'd rather it be like you swiped and then all
36:39of a
36:39sudden they're right in front of you and you're on the date right there and then because then you
36:42actually get to know the person you know what is your favorite food that's a great question i love
36:47a bit of coleslaw do you yeah would you have on everything now if i'm making like a toasty or
36:51something
36:51i thought you were going to say like you get a spoon and eat it i was like no no
36:54no i wouldn't
36:55just get a top of coleslaw slamming in front of me instead of the spoon and earn it so i'm
36:58out like
37:05i'm just imagining you you know what you want i don't know i haven't been looking at it to be
37:12i
37:12just goes glass in the conversation in the moment to be honest take as long as you need can we
37:20have
37:21a great conversation you're interrupting actually sorry sorry and so what made you come to dublin
37:28then uh i was looking for life right and i want to have some kind of gay scene as well
37:35yeah which i
37:35never seen before did you go out on the same much very no very shy so i was trying and
37:41trying and trying
37:42but still very shy are you going like like yeah like i'm i'm still relatively new to this um i
37:50used
37:50to go to the bar beside the george yeah i could hear the phone inside but i was too nervous
37:57to go in
37:58there by myself i always had to be a little bit drunk to walk in and stuff you know especially
38:02panty
38:03because you know how you walk in yeah it's a bit don't all eyes on you yeah you know what
38:08i mean it's like
38:08a walk yeah you know i couldn't live my life in poland as a gay person so that was the
38:15first main reason
38:17why i left the place i i left you know it was like a gangs everywhere drugs everywhere everybody expect
38:24for me to prove what a man are you you know everybody will fight with you and everything
38:29and i was none of that and i was pretending to be someone else for a long time and it
38:35was painful
38:36to hide how soft i was inside i had to become you know so i was like when i'm doing
38:43all of these
38:44bad things and everything but inside me i was terrifying okay you know every day was a challenge
38:48for me just because i was scared that if they will see that softness inside me i'm going to be
38:53in
38:54trouble so then after work after school when i was going back home and there was nobody at home
38:59closing the door and britney spears straight away yeah hit me baby one more time
39:10oh my god what was i saying there i don't care what you said i'm just eating a bloody raspberry
39:17beautiful you don't like them i'm not beautiful you'll have people out there over there saying i want
39:25whatever she's having yeah she looks all right she's a lovely lovely woman good crack good crack are you
39:36driving i am not where do you have to work um i have to get to lewis from here yeah
39:43to bus iris
39:45and then i get a bus i'll escort you back to bus iris if you want that'd be great
39:54yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah i'd appreciate that there was a little something there you know but
39:59i didn't like the day i wouldn't give up on the romantic bit thank you so much thank you
40:08and everything was lovely thank you oh these are just perfect i'm so happy to hear that
40:13would you guys like to see each other romantically again i'm not answering
40:20i'd like to see yesterday again i'm 50 50 on the romantic bit but i don't mean any offense to
40:26that in any way same are you yeah that's good no i would like to see you again good good
40:35i think
40:35he's a lovely guy you know i am yeah oh are you
40:44so thank you again so much it's been lovely to have you oh thank you thanks all right bye now
40:51thank
40:51you you think if you were to have a friendship meetup what would you do we discussed that on the
40:58lewis back to bazaar's jesus
41:16last year i went to purple three times haven't been this year yet need to go
41:20i try and get there at least once every season i try and get offered to stanford bridge at least
41:24once
41:24did your family like kind of bring you up into liking football or something that you that was
41:29my granddad gone kind of five years now but like that memory but having those memories of being able
41:35to go there with them i do find it emotional my mom like she'd be one of my best friends
41:40like i could
41:40tell her anything really that's why i love and she's never judged me like like she definitely she would
41:45be like my role model she's someone i look up to really yeah that's lovely that's so nice i love
41:50my family
41:52my mom is like my best friend my mom got sick when i was young that was definitely a bit
41:57of a
41:57oof then she got sick again and then we're like okay i remember as well the second time me and
42:04my
42:04brother moved in with my nanny and it was my birthday and she just got chemo so i couldn't spend
42:09it with
42:09her i couldn't even give her a hug and i suppose like i think that's maybe why i love birthdays
42:14so much
42:15now because i missed that one little birthday do you have many siblings just the one brother oh he's
42:21older than me oh yeah yeah we're chill that's class but we're very different really he's so introverted
42:28i'm so extrovert really yeah yeah my dad brother they used to watch matches when i was younger i was
42:34like turn that off like i want to watch telly but now then since i've got like an interest in
42:39that
42:39we've become closer as well what's your dream date dream date that's a great question it really
42:45depends i suppose like for me ideally like i'd love to do like an activity date so it's like you
42:50go
42:51bowling or you're gonna play a couple games of pool or something and then like maybe go for something
42:55to eat after what about you what's like your dream date my top top date yeah i'm going to a
42:59match
42:59going to a match all right yeah that is that like that would be like top of my list i
43:05mean that's
43:05the second dates are like now but all right like are you coming to anfield or am i going to
43:09have to
43:09like i mean because they're off a daily on park and watch the balls first and then
43:15you're going to introduce me to the league of ireland yeah
43:25thank you so much it looks sexy and the chocolate heart enjoy thank you so much thank you
43:36where do you like to holiday uh usually every year i'm going to gran canaria i went most recently
43:43in may or april and the the second one is um citrus i was just about to say like you
43:53would go there
43:54and you have all dublin standing in front of you yeah i'm going to citrus in september are you yeah
43:58me too
43:59really i am yeah for bear week yes we're so basic aren't we yeah i know
44:09what is your like more far away place we've ever been i've been to canada to uh play rugby we
44:16who played rugby yeah i didn't really show me your plates i like the way i look i think i've
44:23done the
44:23best with what i have you look good you look you have a good shape thank you i like your
44:28tattoos thank
44:29you but somebody could be hitting on me and i am completely oblivious thank you i'm just like
44:39wasn't that a really nice person to come up and chat to me okay bye
44:45would you like no sorry thank you i should have asked you
44:55it's absolutely pleasure i have to tell her to meet you oh thank you so much it's been a total
45:01pleasure to meet the two of you too thank you so moment of truth yeah would you like to see
45:10each
45:11other again romantically you you want to go first or would i go first i can go first okay uh
45:19yes yes i
45:21would like to see you again okay um for me not romantically okay i hope that's okay yeah yeah
45:29how has everything been overall it was lovely yeah good food yeah great good company yeah
45:35you're a great guy yeah i really enjoyed speaking with you
45:38you're a handsome guy so it was it was really enjoyable yeah i suppose i just didn't feel a spark
45:43yeah yeah thanks again so thank you i was kind of pretty sure you would say no
45:50but i was still wanted to say uh yes
45:56i do like him and i would definitely want to meet you megan but it's like i don't feel devastated
46:02or
46:03heard by that you know what i mean it's fine
46:13it's going really well yeah i think it's gone from my perspective anyway i think it's going
46:17really well excellent she's lovely she's honestly she's gorgeous girl the moment she walked in i was
46:23like yeah definitely it's definitely been the easiest day day i've ever had like it's just been so
46:29smooth like so you're a happy man i'm very happy man yeah but game face on absolutely yeah yeah play
46:35it cool now okay thank you thank you i've never been with a girl that's kind of been as much
46:40as my
46:40type as she has conversation was just so natural she was just such a yapper which i love humor as
46:47well which is always good just so nice just such a wonderful person like you know that way
46:55but uh where where were we where were we that's a great question hello hi
47:06i'm going to get this no no no no please no no no we can split it's okay no let
47:11me get this honestly
47:12no you don't have to but i want to please let me get this
47:20would you two like to see each other again romantically ladies first
47:28yes i would yes i would
47:33thank you so much thank you bye
47:37i had a ball good vibes from the onset i felt very comfortable he's really cute
47:48the mini eggs as well that's a huge huge plus for me i'd share a bag of mini eggs with
47:53you
47:53i would as well
47:58where will the second day be a bose match okay oh yes
48:02for you to go watch the balls you're gonna bring me to anfield now then of course i am we'll
48:06do the
48:06stadium tour i've already done the stadium tour what no there you kept this quiet something to talk
48:13about now i just woke up from my dream because you guys had great crack yeah absolutely enjoyable yeah
48:22yeah i think so and i don't know what it all means but since i survived i realized
48:32all right are you gonna bring them on a hot girl walk it's like two gum two airpods these ones
48:38will
48:38be free and walk straight a bit of music going yeah what's she say
48:42so i'm gonna love you every night like it's the last night like it's the last night
48:48if the world was ending i'd wanna be next to you
48:57do you want to maybe go and like go for a drink maybe afterwards
49:01yes job yes one day is in the sun cool gets in
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