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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03Oh my god, I'm so happy to see you.
00:00:04Why are you so dressed up?
00:00:06It's Melbourne Cup Day.
00:00:08Yep.
00:00:08And time is a factor, so.
00:00:10The last thing I thought was one, to bring Chris,
00:00:14and two, to take me to a bar the second I
00:00:17landed at the airport.
00:00:19I am here.
00:00:22Wonderful, my mom.
00:00:25Nice to meet you.
00:00:26I know how many concerns my mom has about our relationship.
00:00:31So, Mama, how do you feel that you finally met Javon?
00:00:35She's pretty much, yeah.
00:00:37So, I just hope that things continue to go well.
00:00:43Birkan has admitted to me that he has a substantial amount
00:00:48of debt.
00:00:49He talks a lot about gambling.
00:00:52If you truly want to move forward with this man,
00:00:55I would really appreciate it if he would let me come out there
00:00:59and see him for myself.
00:01:01I don't know.
00:01:02I want to talk to him about it first.
00:01:05OK.
00:01:05Yeah.
00:01:07We should solve our problem in there.
00:01:09I will win.
00:01:10Oh, you will.
00:01:13So, you still want me to meet your dad?
00:01:16I already told my dad that you are here,
00:01:18so I cannot go back.
00:01:22I'm feeling more nervous about this meeting with her family.
00:01:25I mean, Trish is starting to warm up a little bit,
00:01:29but it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:01:34I've been married five times, and I am still married.
00:01:39Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:01:42They will banish you.
00:01:43I'm sorry.
00:01:44She caught in his camera.
00:01:46What?
00:01:47She's there is camera.
00:01:48You didn't just lie about the marriages.
00:01:51You're going to be destroyed by the women.
00:01:54I can't tell him that.
00:01:56You have to.
00:02:00So you're breaking up with me because I was with the guy
00:02:03before you.
00:02:05Because you're lying to me, I can't move on with you.
00:02:08I make a lot of my energy to be with her,
00:02:12but I feel betrayed.
00:02:15You're just going to walk out and leave me here by myself?
00:02:18You can't enjoy it with the view.
00:02:20You're an asshole.
00:02:22I did all of this to try to be with someone,
00:02:25and, like, I get broken up with again.
00:02:37I fell out and won't let them go.
00:02:55What are you feeling?
00:03:04I don't give her.
00:03:13I couldn't sleep.
00:03:15I, um, I'm too worried about Daniel and what's going on with Daniel and what's going to happen next.
00:03:22And I don't, I don't know.
00:03:26I don't know.
00:03:29Last night, I told Daniel that I was married five times and I'm still married.
00:03:35He didn't react very well at all.
00:03:37So I decided to get another room.
00:03:41I'm worried that I've lost Daniel.
00:03:43I've lost respect.
00:03:45I feel hopeless.
00:03:47What am I going to do now?
00:03:50Did you see Anna talking to him?
00:03:52I tried to call him.
00:03:53And then about 11.08 p.m., I said, I love you with all my heart.
00:03:57He says, I don't think you do.
00:04:00Then what stops you from telling me those things?
00:04:02I said so many fears.
00:04:04He's asking me fears of what?
00:04:06And I say fears of losing you.
00:04:08He has not said one word of I love you.
00:04:11He has not said, um, he wants to be with me.
00:04:14Um, so basically, yeah, he, I don't know.
00:04:20I don't, I don't, I don't know where he is right now, what he's thinking or what his feelings are.
00:04:33Daniel doesn't know that I have made plans to take him away for a few days and we're supposed to
00:04:38leave today.
00:04:39Really bad timing for me to tell him all this when I've already paid, made plans to take him somewhere
00:04:45special and he doesn't even know about it.
00:04:48So, what I'm hoping is seeing him, telling him that I made plans, it's already paid for and hopefully he'll
00:04:58come with me and hopefully we'll be able to work something out.
00:05:08Last night, I couldn't sleep because of what she has read.
00:05:13She was drunk.
00:05:16And she left the room.
00:05:18So, I didn't go after her.
00:05:21I left her.
00:05:29She wants to talk to me this morning.
00:05:31I will talk to her.
00:05:33But I have to let her know that she have gone wrong.
00:05:38I'm kind of like on a mission.
00:05:41I'm hoping for my happily ever after.
00:05:44I think the fact that Daniel reacted this way shows that he's desperately in love with me and he's heartbroken.
00:05:52So, I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
00:05:57I'm not giving up and walking away like I have every other relationship.
00:06:01This one is good and I'm going to fight for what's good.
00:06:21I can't say it enough.
00:06:24I'm really, really sorry about not telling you everything.
00:06:32Do you know the time I slept last night?
00:06:36No.
00:06:37Around 5 a.m.
00:06:38Because I cried throughout the night.
00:06:41Because I never expected you to behave the way you did.
00:06:47I don't expect you to forgive me all at once.
00:06:49I'm not asking you to trust me all over again.
00:06:52I'm asking you to give me a chance.
00:06:54Just work with me and see if we can rebuild on things.
00:07:07I'm not rejecting you yet.
00:07:11Okay?
00:07:12But, um, we have to talk to my uncle.
00:07:19This is something that concerns tradition.
00:07:23You and I have defined the rules, the law, because I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:07:33I'm asking you to work with me.
00:07:35I don't understand why everybody has to be involved in everything.
00:07:39Because it's not going to end well.
00:07:42I'm asking you.
00:07:44You.
00:07:48I'm relieved that Daniel is willing to try to forgive me.
00:07:52But, at the same time, I feel awful that the uncle has to be involved.
00:07:58I don't understand.
00:07:59It's like he wants to put a scarlet letter on me.
00:08:17Well, don't call your uncle just yet.
00:08:21I already planned for us to have a small romantic getaway.
00:08:26And I want to know if we can go on this trip together.
00:08:34Sir, when is the trip?
00:08:36Today.
00:08:42Is this a kind of, um, trap?
00:08:44I had already planned it.
00:08:46It wasn't...
00:08:47It's...
00:08:48There's no agenda.
00:08:49It's just me and you together.
00:08:52I planned it.
00:08:53I paid for it.
00:08:54I'm going to lose all the money I put down on it.
00:08:56And I don't have much more money left, Daniel.
00:09:06Okay.
00:09:11I am upset about all her lies, all her stories.
00:09:15But I still love Lisa.
00:09:18She came to Nigeria to be with me.
00:09:20She spent the money.
00:09:22And she told me that she have not been with her ex for nine years.
00:09:27It's been a long time.
00:09:29So that's why I am trying to forgive her.
00:09:34You should start packing.
00:09:36The drive is two to three hours away.
00:09:40That's fine.
00:09:46Before his uncle knows about my lies,
00:09:49I need to tell Daniel the full truth about being with women.
00:09:53I don't want him to go and tell his uncle one thing
00:09:55and then have to go back and tell him again.
00:09:58Let's go.
00:09:59Whether he forgives me or not,
00:10:01I have to finish telling him the truth.
00:10:22Oh, I love mountains.
00:10:24I do, too.
00:10:26This is the mountain by me.
00:10:29This is Mount St. Helens.
00:10:30I can literally see boobs here.
00:10:35From now on, I'm going to call here Mount Boobs.
00:10:39That's Mount Boobs.
00:10:41You do know that you're ridiculous, right?
00:10:44Boobs bounce.
00:10:53I love that you figured out all of the things
00:10:57that I really like and surprised me with them.
00:11:00I have been doing, you know, homework.
00:11:05So sweet of you.
00:11:06We are mixing everything.
00:11:07History, art, holiday, vacation, love.
00:11:11Everything involved.
00:11:12Everything on this trip.
00:11:13It's fantastic.
00:11:16Last night, Birkan and I got back to Izmir
00:11:19after our romantic getaway in Cheshmay.
00:11:23And today, Birkan and I are going on a trip
00:11:26to go see the ancient ruins.
00:11:30I'm really excited.
00:11:32Are you excited?
00:11:34Yeah.
00:11:35You're full of surprises all the time.
00:11:38It's like I'm a Vulcan surprise machine.
00:11:42I want to have fun and enjoy the culture with him
00:11:45as much as possible before I leave.
00:11:48But since my conversation with Michael,
00:11:51I've been feeling so torn on how to handle this situation.
00:11:55It's really weighing on my mind.
00:11:58And then something happened this morning
00:12:00that I need to tell Birkan about
00:12:03and I know he's not going to be happy.
00:12:10Okay.
00:12:12Oh my God.
00:12:13This is amazing.
00:12:26It's like so peaceful through here too.
00:12:32It is one of the oldest places
00:12:35that Greek people built
00:12:38from 10th century BC.
00:12:40Great.
00:12:41That's adorable.
00:12:44The Ephesus is one of the seven ancient
00:12:48historical places in the world.
00:12:51This place is huge.
00:12:53This place trying to talk.
00:12:56Nobody to listen.
00:12:59I love this place.
00:13:00I love this place too.
00:13:02Some of these ruins are over 3,000 years old,
00:13:05which is insane to think about.
00:13:07And being a teacher,
00:13:08I love seeing some of this history.
00:13:11So good.
00:13:13Every single surface is like carved
00:13:15or etched and just stunning.
00:13:19The detail in everything,
00:13:20even the floor is incredible.
00:13:22Let's take a picture.
00:13:24Okay.
00:13:25With the hearts.
00:13:27No, it's mine's heart.
00:13:28Yeah, yours is heart.
00:13:29There it is.
00:13:30There's three hearts in one photo.
00:13:32Love it.
00:13:33That's adorable.
00:13:34I like it.
00:13:39Hey, kitty kitty.
00:13:43I believe these all are some protective spirits
00:13:47about this place.
00:13:49No?
00:13:49Yeah.
00:13:50Chats.
00:13:51You want to have a seat?
00:13:52Okay.
00:13:54Okay.
00:13:56Okay, that's cold.
00:13:57It is a little chilly, but...
00:13:59Yeah.
00:14:00Ah.
00:14:05I hope you know
00:14:07that I really do
00:14:09want this relationship to work.
00:14:13Yeah, that makes two of us.
00:14:16But I think I have
00:14:19way more concerns about it than you do.
00:14:25So the other night,
00:14:27I called my friend Michael.
00:14:31Why?
00:14:32Because I wanted to get his opinion
00:14:35on my concerns
00:14:37and the things that I look at as red flags.
00:14:41You have concerns?
00:14:44Yeah?
00:14:45About our relationship?
00:14:47I have concerns,
00:14:48and now Michael has the same concerns.
00:14:51I have concerns
00:14:52because you are still
00:14:54communicating with Michael
00:14:57and talking about our relationship.
00:15:02He has no place in our relationship.
00:15:07Well,
00:15:09he wants to come here.
00:15:21He already bought a flight.
00:15:23He already bought a flight.
00:15:28What?
00:15:32He's coming.
00:15:35Yeah.
00:15:37Without asking.
00:15:41Without telling anything.
00:15:43Nothing.
00:15:45This is ridiculous.
00:15:51You know how much I've been
00:15:53anticipating her coming.
00:15:55Yeah.
00:15:55But, you know,
00:15:56I'm glad you came
00:15:57because you're one of my best friends.
00:15:59Cheers.
00:16:00Cheers.
00:16:01I feel like that cheers
00:16:03was to go, Chris.
00:16:05Yeah, it was.
00:16:06Thank you for coming.
00:16:07I just flew around the world,
00:16:09but you're toasting to your buddy over me?
00:16:11Who does that?
00:16:15So you ready to meet my family?
00:16:17I just want to make sure
00:16:18that I'm the man that you want
00:16:20to be introduced to your family.
00:16:22I told you, yes.
00:16:23So what else do you want?
00:16:26Seems like you were hesitating.
00:16:27Just tell me.
00:16:43Thank God you guys are here
00:16:44to do my luggage.
00:16:45Maybe put that little one
00:16:46in the back.
00:16:48Maybe you should offer
00:16:49to open the door for me
00:16:50so I can get in the car
00:16:51because I'm really full.
00:16:52Yeah, you put her in.
00:16:52I'll do the best.
00:16:53I don't know how this is going
00:16:54to go, actually.
00:16:55Jump in.
00:16:56We'll get the rest.
00:16:59Thank you, boys.
00:17:01That's why I have two of you.
00:17:03Two boyfriends.
00:17:04Chris, you want to sit up here with me?
00:17:05We could be a trio.
00:17:07Jesus Christ.
00:17:09You give, give, give me your heart.
00:17:13You're pumping through my veins.
00:17:15You make me feel alive.
00:17:19Elise, you're going to have
00:17:20to give me your horse number.
00:17:20I'll back it for you.
00:17:22And I've got about $1,000 on the thing,
00:17:24so I'm not watching it.
00:17:26You're an idiot.
00:17:27What do you mean?
00:17:28I'm going to win.
00:17:29No one ever wins the Melbourne Cup.
00:17:30Yeah, I know, except me.
00:17:31I'll give you the names
00:17:32and you tell me
00:17:33which one sounds the coolest.
00:17:34Oh, wait, that's so fun.
00:17:35Okay, what's the name?
00:17:37Chevalier Rose,
00:17:38Presage Nocturne,
00:17:39Middle Earth,
00:17:40Maidan,
00:17:42Al Riffa,
00:17:43Buckaroo.
00:17:43I like Buckaroo.
00:17:45That was two, there's 24 of them.
00:17:47Do you want to hear the rest?
00:17:47Yes, I do.
00:17:48Okay.
00:17:50It feels very surreal
00:17:51having Elise here with me.
00:17:53Not a sort of a dream anymore.
00:17:55I can touch and, you know,
00:17:57kiss and hug
00:17:57the girl that I've been speaking to
00:17:59for so long.
00:18:01I wanted to be excited
00:18:02about being here with me.
00:18:03So we're taking her out on the town,
00:18:05see the biggest event of the year,
00:18:07the Melbourne Cup.
00:18:09But unfortunately,
00:18:10we're running quite late.
00:18:12Traffic today sucks.
00:18:14What do you think of Sydney so far?
00:18:17It's cute.
00:18:18Like, oh, wait,
00:18:19you're going down the wrong way.
00:18:20Ah, you scared the out of me.
00:18:22No, we're not.
00:18:23We're in Australia.
00:18:25F***ing hell.
00:18:26I thought you were
00:18:27on the wrong side of the road.
00:18:28Oh, that scared me.
00:18:31Elise, 200 metres to our ride
00:18:32is the place
00:18:33that we're going to be living.
00:18:34What metres?
00:18:36Oh, f***,
00:18:37you guys work in feet.
00:18:38F***, I don't know.
00:18:41I'm excited.
00:18:42Pretty set for it.
00:18:47You're f***ing kidding me.
00:18:49Oh, we missed
00:18:50the Melbourne Cup race.
00:18:51Oh.
00:18:52But everyone will still be at the bar.
00:18:54Oh, good.
00:18:56Well, I'm down a thousand.
00:18:58I'm going to get drunk.
00:19:01We missed one of the biggest
00:19:02days of the year
00:19:03because of airport delays
00:19:04and traffic.
00:19:06We're here.
00:19:07But honestly,
00:19:08I don't care.
00:19:09Jesus, man.
00:19:11I have a lease with me,
00:19:12so I'm happy
00:19:12exactly where I am.
00:19:16There'll be another one next year.
00:19:17Think about me
00:19:18for a moment.
00:19:19I lost money.
00:19:20I came to the airport
00:19:21for no,
00:19:21I missed the Melbourne Cup.
00:19:23Nah.
00:19:26Wait, this is so bad.
00:19:28I literally am not
00:19:29even wearing underwear.
00:19:31That's a bold choice
00:19:32with that dress.
00:19:34It's like a game.
00:19:35They're very bullshit.
00:19:36Yeah.
00:19:37Perfect.
00:19:48Oh, you guys have
00:19:49McDonald's here.
00:19:50Yep.
00:19:51We're not that,
00:19:51we're not that out of the way.
00:19:52We're not that third world.
00:19:54Third world?
00:19:55We have healthcare.
00:20:04Cheers.
00:20:05This is much needed.
00:20:07No.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:08Thanks.
00:20:09Wait, I think we need
00:20:10to make a cheers.
00:20:11Yeah, my cheers is,
00:20:12I was about to do it.
00:20:12So, you know,
00:20:13you know how much
00:20:14I've been anticipating
00:20:15her coming.
00:20:16Yeah.
00:20:16But, you know,
00:20:17I'm glad you came
00:20:20because you're,
00:20:20you're one of my best friends
00:20:23and, you know,
00:20:25as soon as you come,
00:20:27I want you to meet
00:20:28my best,
00:20:29most entertaining friend.
00:20:30So, let's say cheers
00:20:31to you getting here.
00:20:32Cheers.
00:20:33Cheers.
00:20:34Cheers.
00:20:38I feel like that cheers
00:20:40was about Chris.
00:20:42Yeah, it was.
00:20:43Thank you for coming.
00:20:44Yeah, I'm like,
00:20:44wait, what is going on?
00:20:46I'm like, hold on.
00:20:48I just flew around the world,
00:20:51but you're toasting
00:20:52to your buddy over me.
00:20:53I'm lost.
00:20:54Like, who does that?
00:20:57Okay.
00:20:58I'll start again.
00:20:59I know how far you've traveled,
00:21:00what you've given up,
00:21:01and, you know,
00:21:02what it's taken to get here.
00:21:03So, I am so excited
00:21:06for the next three weeks.
00:21:08So, this cheers is to you.
00:21:11To you.
00:21:14Thank you so much
00:21:15for letting me drag you out.
00:21:18I didn't realize
00:21:19it was just, like,
00:21:19such a big holiday.
00:21:20It's a national thing.
00:21:21We have to go out
00:21:22and get drunk on Melbourne Cup.
00:21:23It's the rules.
00:21:24I would imagine
00:21:25the Miami party scene's wild, right?
00:21:27It is wild.
00:21:28I used to be out
00:21:28probably five nights a week.
00:21:30But, like, I would say,
00:21:31like, this past,
00:21:32I don't know,
00:21:33seven, eight months,
00:21:33I've slowed down.
00:21:35Don't get me wrong.
00:21:36Like, I like a fun night,
00:21:37but I'm definitely
00:21:38trying to chill out.
00:21:40Do you guys go out
00:21:41a lot here?
00:21:44Um,
00:21:47we party a bit, yeah.
00:21:49Like, I socialize a lot.
00:21:51It's part of my job.
00:21:53He's out on boats
00:21:55most weekends.
00:21:56His job is to drive boats,
00:21:58and oftentimes,
00:21:58there's parties involved with that.
00:22:00Okay.
00:22:02I mean, give me a reason
00:22:03to not want to go out.
00:22:05I think I've found it.
00:22:07Yeah?
00:22:07Yeah.
00:22:11Listen, like,
00:22:12there's nothing wrong
00:22:13with going out
00:22:14and having a good time.
00:22:15But I'm looking for a guy
00:22:16that's more ready
00:22:16to slow down,
00:22:17like, having nights in
00:22:18with me and my cat
00:22:20and snuggling.
00:22:21And I want Josh
00:22:22to be ready
00:22:23to change for himself,
00:22:24not me, you know?
00:22:25On top of that,
00:22:27like,
00:22:28it seems very weird to me
00:22:29that Josh was struggling
00:22:30financially,
00:22:31but he parties a lot.
00:22:33Like, I'm concerned.
00:22:33Is he, like,
00:22:34really irresponsible?
00:22:36I just got here.
00:22:37I really just want to focus
00:22:38on the positives,
00:22:39but I worry about that.
00:22:41Yeah.
00:22:43Yeah, all right.
00:22:43Cheers.
00:22:44Cheers.
00:22:46To not party anymore.
00:22:48I'm not choosing to that.
00:22:49No, no, no, no, no.
00:23:13How is she?
00:23:14He's okay.
00:23:15Hey, look at you
00:23:17standing,
00:23:18my baby boy.
00:23:25He seems better today.
00:23:28Oh, no, no, no, no, don't let him run.
00:23:31Last night, Javon and I finally arrived to Cavite.
00:23:35A little dirty.
00:23:36We were supposed to have a nice dinner with my mom,
00:23:40but my cat, Mito, got sick,
00:23:43so we had to run him to the vet.
00:23:46I look at you and you come.
00:23:48You don't like the cone.
00:23:50Nobody likes the cone.
00:23:51Yeah, obviously.
00:23:53Unless it's ice cream cone.
00:23:55I am so relieved that Mito is okay.
00:24:01And so today my mom will come over to make us breakfast
00:24:05and finally get to know Javon more.
00:24:09Oh.
00:24:13Javon!
00:24:16What?
00:24:17Did you throw something in the toilet?
00:24:21It's clog.
00:24:23What happened?
00:24:25What did I do wrong?
00:24:27No tissues in the toilet.
00:24:29It's not going to flush.
00:24:31I don't remember doing that.
00:24:33Like, maybe I did and I wasn't aware.
00:24:37I don't want to see it.
00:24:38I don't want to keep looking at your big American poof.
00:24:43Are you crazy?
00:24:44I don't want to see it.
00:24:45Okay, my bad then.
00:24:47Aw.
00:24:48Here's the thing.
00:24:48The papers in the Philippines don't dissolve in water.
00:24:53Mm.
00:24:54Oh, that's why I put this here.
00:24:56I feel really weird throwing away toilet paper that I've already wiped with my butt into the garbage.
00:25:04That's why you have to use bidet first before you wipe.
00:25:07Why?
00:25:07How do I do it?
00:25:08Like, I spread my ass cheeks like this and then I just shh.
00:25:14Yes!
00:25:15That's the point of the water!
00:25:17Wow!
00:25:17Water is created to clean your butt.
00:25:22I'm going to go wash off Mama's house.
00:25:25All right.
00:25:26Okay.
00:25:38Oh, Ma, you cooked.
00:25:41Looks good.
00:25:45Morning.
00:25:45Yeah, good morning.
00:25:47It's a lot of food.
00:25:48Are we going to be able to eat all this?
00:25:50Yes.
00:25:51Okay.
00:25:54You have to tell me what everything is.
00:25:58Tilapia.
00:25:58Okay.
00:26:00And your favorite chicken adobo with boiled eggs.
00:26:05Okay.
00:26:07And, of course, we have some rice.
00:26:09Okay.
00:26:10Dig it.
00:26:11This is definitely not the typical breakfast I'm used to.
00:26:15I was like, damn, is this breakfast or is this dinner?
00:26:18But the food is great.
00:26:19And I'm so happy to finally be getting some quality time with my mother-in-law.
00:26:25Jibon.
00:26:26Mmm.
00:26:27Mosta naman yung tulag mo kagabi.
00:26:29My mom's asking, how was your sleep last night?
00:26:33Our sleep was okay.
00:26:34The cat was making a lot of noise.
00:26:37The rooster, the karaoke.
00:26:40There's a lot of things happening.
00:26:43Yeah.
00:26:45I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:45But I'm so happy that you're here.
00:26:48She says she's happy that you're here.
00:26:50Okay.
00:26:52When, until when you're here?
00:26:55Till when you're staying here?
00:26:57I'll probably be here, like, I don't know, probably like two more weeks.
00:27:01It's so fast, right?
00:27:04She said it's too fast.
00:27:05It's not one year?
00:27:06Why not one year?
00:27:10Yeah, I gotta go home sometime.
00:27:12I don't want to.
00:27:15I don't want to.
00:27:16It was about my daughter.
00:27:19It was about my daughter.
00:27:20Come on now.
00:27:24I'm happy that Jibon came here,
00:27:28to the Philippines,
00:27:30to our home.
00:27:31But what I've always felt,
00:27:34is that it's been a long time
00:27:37to come here in the Philippines.
00:27:39Yes.
00:27:40Yeah.
00:27:42Ang iniisip ko kasi kung paano na yung anak ko.
00:27:47Sa six years na paghihintay na anak ko,
00:27:51alalang-alala akong para sa kanya.
00:27:53She said for six years as my,
00:27:56that my daughter has been waiting for you.
00:27:58I was so worried about her.
00:28:00So parang nawawala na rin siyang pag-asa at ako.
00:28:03Because she was sometimes,
00:28:05I could see she was losing hope.
00:28:07And also me.
00:28:09I'm sorry it took so long though,
00:28:11but I'm gonna make it up.
00:28:13I'm gonna come back very soon.
00:28:14I promise.
00:28:15Okay?
00:28:16All right?
00:28:17Na-intindihan mo?
00:28:18Uh-uh.
00:28:20Marami na kasing ka na nangyari.
00:28:22Na ano?
00:28:23Na panga kong nakapako.
00:28:28Kung nasasasakta ng anak,
00:28:30mas masakit sa ina.
00:28:32I understand why my mom is being skeptical.
00:28:36I mean, it took him six years to see me.
00:28:40And we've been married for three years,
00:28:44and we still don't have a definite plan for the future.
00:28:49He didn't even apply for a spousal visa.
00:28:53What does that mean?
00:28:57We can't be going on with this long-distance relationship
00:29:01for the rest of our lives.
00:29:02I don't want to.
00:29:04Right now, I don't feel secure about the future.
00:29:13Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:29:18Don't be mad.
00:29:20But...
00:29:22Don't be mad.
00:29:25Who is it?
00:29:27Mohammed.
00:29:28Oh, my God.
00:29:34Can we not be aiker?
00:29:56Here am I.
00:29:59My name is
00:30:01Hollywood.
00:30:02You have adoration of Colombia.
00:30:06It's been a couple days since I got dumped and left in the desert.
00:30:13I didn't want to go back to the same Riyadh that I was staying at with Ziyad.
00:30:17It just felt too sad to go all the way back there by myself.
00:30:23Luckily, I was able to make some calls.
00:30:26I'm looking for a Riyadh, and I was wondering if your place is available for tonight.
00:30:35Just one person. I just got dumped.
00:30:42Thankfully, the guy at the front desk helped me get a taxi back to Marrakech.
00:30:54And somehow, I made it back to the new Riyadh in one piece.
00:31:03But now, I'm just not totally sure what I'm doing.
00:31:19Emma!
00:31:21Maddie!
00:31:22Hi! I miss you!
00:31:24You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
00:31:27Thank you so much!
00:31:30What's up? What's wrong?
00:31:32What? Can you tell I'm sad today?
00:31:34Yeah, I can tell in your eyes.
00:31:36No, I'm, like, really sad.
00:31:38I, like, don't want to...
00:31:39Wait, I don't want to cry already. Hold up.
00:31:43Sorry.
00:31:44What happened?
00:31:45Um, so, yesterday, basically, I, like, told Ziyad everything about, like, Muhammad.
00:31:55And it literally, Maddie, went to s***.
00:31:59Like, we got into a huge fight, and it ended up with him, like, fully breaking up with me
00:32:04and leaving me alone in the desert by myself.
00:32:09This is odd.
00:32:10Yeah.
00:32:13Like, I knew he...
00:32:14That one there is crazy behavior.
00:32:18To leave you alone in the desert in a country where you don't speak the language.
00:32:23Yeah.
00:32:24Like, he obviously doesn't care about you, and he hasn't spoken to you since.
00:32:29He's been sending me, like, like, rage texts.
00:32:33Like, saying that I'm, like, a demon and, like, a liar.
00:32:39And, like, this horrible monster.
00:32:44And it's just, like, really annoying.
00:32:46Like, I'm really upset about it.
00:32:48You know, it's like I did...
00:32:50I did all this, like, again.
00:32:52And, like, just to get, like, treated like a piece of s***.
00:32:57Like, what, like, no, I'm sorry.
00:32:59You're a catch, and for him to, like, act like you're a gremlin is crazy.
00:33:04Why is he acting like he's just, like, Ryan Gosling as, like, Morocco?
00:33:12Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
00:33:18Don't be mad, but don't be mad.
00:33:25What?
00:33:26So I may have been texting Mohammed.
00:33:32Emma, Emma.
00:33:34Maybe.
00:33:46Why are we doing this to yourself?
00:33:49I mean, I don't know.
00:33:50I think just because things got so bad with Ziyad, it's just making me, like, go back to Mohammed.
00:33:56Because...
00:33:56That was terrible.
00:33:57Because he was just as bad.
00:34:00Yeah.
00:34:01But, like, the last time I was here, like, this was, like, a happy moment for us, like, when I
00:34:06was in Marrakesh.
00:34:07So it's kind of made me miss him a little bit.
00:34:10Are you going to go see him?
00:34:13If he wants me to.
00:34:16Oh, my God.
00:34:17Okay.
00:34:17What are your intentions out seeing him?
00:34:20I mean, is your...
00:34:21Are you going there to get closure?
00:34:23Or are you going there with the intent of rekindling your relationship engagement?
00:34:31I don't know.
00:34:32My mind is, like, everywhere right now.
00:34:34I mean, I don't know.
00:34:36I'm, like, getting emotional for you.
00:34:39Stop, Maddie.
00:34:41Stop.
00:34:42I just want you to get hurt again.
00:34:43Like, this happens to you all the time.
00:34:45Stop.
00:34:46I just don't get it.
00:34:47Like, it makes me so sad.
00:34:50Like, I just want you to feel so loved.
00:34:52You deserve that.
00:34:54Mohammed hasn't ever been any better to you.
00:34:56It's like, I just...
00:34:57I just want you to come home.
00:35:00Please don't cry.
00:35:00I don't do.
00:35:01Like, I just don't know what you're going to gain out of this.
00:35:05Yeah.
00:35:05I don't know.
00:35:07I guess we'll see.
00:35:20Emma interviewing.
00:35:22I'll take money.
00:35:24Who is it?
00:35:25Mohammed.
00:35:26Oh, my God.
00:35:29I'm going to answer it.
00:35:30Just one second.
00:35:33Hello?
00:35:35Hey.
00:35:38No?
00:35:40I don't have a boyfriend.
00:35:43I swear I don't.
00:35:46Why?
00:35:46You want to see me?
00:35:49So, do you want to talk?
00:35:50We can get, like, lunch or something.
00:35:56All right.
00:35:56Well, I'll call you when I'm there.
00:36:01You too.
00:36:01Bye.
00:36:09What did he say?
00:36:12So, Mohammed just asked me.
00:36:14Oh, my God.
00:36:15Hearing his voice just is giving me anxiety.
00:36:17Really?
00:36:18I don't know, because I haven't talked to him in a while.
00:36:20So, it's like...
00:36:22His voice sounded like...
00:36:24He sounded cute.
00:36:27He asked me if I was with a guy.
00:36:30I told him no.
00:36:31He asked if I have a boyfriend.
00:36:34I said no.
00:36:36He wants to see me.
00:36:38He told me to text him a place that we could meet.
00:36:42I don't know.
00:36:43It's just, like, a lot of old feelings are coming back.
00:36:48Me and Mohammed have been through a lot,
00:36:50and we were madly in love for a lot of years.
00:36:55So, that's something that doesn't just go away.
00:36:59And I think if I don't see him, I'm always going to regret it.
00:37:07I mean, you keep talking about...
00:37:10You keep talking about your ex.
00:37:11You keep bringing him up after.
00:37:13I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:37:17I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex
00:37:19just to get back at me because of what I did.
00:37:23So, it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:37:44So, you're ready to meet my family?
00:37:46I think I'm ready.
00:37:48I'm nervous, but I'm excited.
00:37:51Just relax.
00:37:53You have to show them that you are a good guy.
00:37:56Hmm.
00:37:58It seems like you are not happy.
00:38:00Are you sure you want to go?
00:38:03Are you sure you want me to go?
00:38:05Yeah.
00:38:06I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
00:38:09to be introduced to your family.
00:38:12I told you, yes.
00:38:14So, what else do you want?
00:38:17Hmm.
00:38:25It's like you were hesitating.
00:38:27Just tell me.
00:38:28Make things clear, Rick.
00:38:30Please.
00:38:33I mean, you keep talking about your ex.
00:38:37You keep bringing him up after.
00:38:39I thought that was, you know, the past.
00:38:45Tonight, we're packing up to leave Nosey Bay
00:38:48to go to Trish's hometown to meet her family.
00:38:52But after the merengue fight, we were walking around,
00:38:55and she gets to talking about this great place
00:38:58that her ex took her to when they were here.
00:39:01That upset me.
00:39:03I feel like Trish is bringing up her ex
00:39:05just to get back at me, you know,
00:39:08because of what I did.
00:39:11All you're trying to do is just make me jealous,
00:39:15and it's a game for you.
00:39:18Shut up.
00:39:19No, see, that's exactly what you told me
00:39:21when I responded to you bragging about...
00:39:25Yeah, because you said, like,
00:39:25oh, this is a place that your ex took you,
00:39:29and this is cheap.
00:39:30I like it.
00:39:32I like the place.
00:39:33Then why do you keep bringing it up?
00:39:34Because I like it.
00:39:36I love it.
00:39:37I enjoy...
00:39:39But do you think I want to hear that?
00:39:41Where's the problem with that?
00:39:42That means you appreciate what he has done for you
00:39:46more than what you appreciate what I've done.
00:39:49That's what it is.
00:39:50So it seems to me that you want to be with him.
00:39:56I'd rather stay single than back to my ex.
00:40:00I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:02Oh, okay.
00:40:03I don't believe that's what would happen.
00:40:04Because that's what you did.
00:40:07I'm not like you.
00:40:08I'm not.
00:40:08I will never be back to that ex.
00:40:12I'd rather...
00:40:13Then leave him alone.
00:40:14Then stop talking about him.
00:40:16I don't want to hear it.
00:40:17Because you had your ex?
00:40:18No, I don't want to talk about my ex,
00:40:20and I don't want to hear about your ex.
00:40:22Because you're hiding your ex.
00:40:24No, it's not that I'm hiding.
00:40:25Look what you did.
00:40:25You went to Columbia for your ex.
00:40:27I just don't feel like it should be brought up.
00:40:29I'm trying to work on us.
00:40:32I want a relationship with you.
00:40:35That's the goal.
00:40:40You're getting far away from the finish line.
00:40:44You're running backwards
00:40:45when we should be running forwards.
00:40:50This is so ridiculous.
00:40:53I'm telling him I had a good experience to that place,
00:40:57to this place, and it was nice.
00:40:59That's it.
00:41:00It's not like something,
00:41:02oh, I'm talking with him,
00:41:05or I'm still with my ex.
00:41:08I didn't cheat on him.
00:41:10That's his action, not me.
00:41:16So if you want to go, just let's go.
00:41:19If you want to stay, stay here.
00:41:23I want to go if you're going to be committed
00:41:27to this relationship.
00:41:30If I know that you're committed,
00:41:33I'm 100% on board with going to meet them.
00:41:41Okay.
00:41:46I love Trish so much,
00:41:48and I want this relationship to work more than anything.
00:41:53But I think all of this is just hitting me all at once.
00:41:59Maybe I'm, you know, in my head,
00:42:01but I'm afraid that Trish won't be able
00:42:04to fully trust me after what I did.
00:42:09And the fact that her family
00:42:11might ultimately not approve of me,
00:42:13it's just all too much.
00:42:16I'm feeling pressure, massive pressure.
00:42:20This meeting with her family
00:42:22is like make or break.
00:42:30I am miserable.
00:42:33Okay, do you want to talk about this?
00:42:36I just feel frustrated right now.
00:42:40She didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:42:43You don't respect me.
00:42:45That's not true at all.
00:42:46And now I have doubts.
00:42:48This, us, could be a mistake.
00:42:58Michael, he's coming.
00:43:01Yeah?
00:43:01Without asking,
00:43:04without telling anything,
00:43:07nothing.
00:43:17He cares about me
00:43:19and said he wants to protect me
00:43:23from making a bad decision.
00:43:26I told him, you know,
00:43:29that I would think about him coming,
00:43:30but I woke up this morning
00:43:33to a bunch of texts from him
00:43:35saying that he already booked a flight.
00:43:41The other night in Chesme,
00:43:43Michael offered to come to Turkey
00:43:45so he could give me his perspective
00:43:47on my relationship with Birkan.
00:43:50I had planned to talk to Birkan about it,
00:43:53but before I even had a chance to,
00:43:56Michael texted me
00:43:57and said he booked his flight.
00:44:00Given Birkan's very strong feelings
00:44:03about my friendship with Michael,
00:44:05I am concerned that this will complicate
00:44:08the progress that Birkan and I have made.
00:44:11But on the other hand,
00:44:13Michael is always the person
00:44:15that I'm going to turn to
00:44:16when I need advice.
00:44:18If Birkan and I are really going to move forward,
00:44:21I need my best friend's opinion.
00:44:25This is not normal.
00:44:28Something is wrong with him.
00:44:30Is he out of his mind?
00:44:32Is he out of his mind?
00:44:33Yeah.
00:44:33No, he wants to give me his opinion
00:44:35on this whole situation.
00:44:38Or some chance to blow this relationship
00:44:43so he can have this.
00:44:45Am I right?
00:44:47Michael and I have only ever been friends.
00:44:51He's very logical.
00:44:53He's very insightful.
00:44:55And I value his opinion.
00:44:58I see.
00:44:59Your friends have scoped me out,
00:45:02so why don't I get to have that same opportunity
00:45:04to have my friends meet you
00:45:06and have you get along with them?
00:45:08My friends doesn't want to me.
00:45:13He made that move.
00:45:14It's over.
00:45:15He has no chance.
00:45:20Before she came here,
00:45:22Laura told me that she had an argument with Michael.
00:45:26And he said that I am the obstacle
00:45:29to those two having a relationship.
00:45:31I took it as a move.
00:45:34She said that it was meaning just friends,
00:45:38but I don't trust Michael.
00:45:40This is his opportunity to break us up
00:45:43while she is confused about our relationship.
00:45:47This is a strategy.
00:45:51Look, I want this relationship to work with you.
00:45:59I would never let a third party
00:46:03come between me and you.
00:46:07Maybe you should try to, like, calm down
00:46:11and just meet him.
00:46:16I think that he just wants to see if everything is OK
00:46:21and that I'm not making a bad choice.
00:46:25OK.
00:46:27OK.
00:46:31I just feel frustrated right now.
00:46:37I feel like I have no choice.
00:46:39He's already coming.
00:46:41He didn't care what I think or what I say.
00:46:45I just hope that Michael doesn't up my entire future
00:46:50and my relationship.
00:46:54Let's go.
00:46:55We have a reservation.
00:46:58OK.
00:47:07You can speak Turkish.
00:47:11Oz, Oz, Turkish.
00:47:12Maybe I can speak English.
00:47:13OK.
00:47:15You know, with the Turkish say cheers.
00:47:17How?
00:47:17Cheers.
00:47:18Oh, just cheers.
00:47:19Cheers.
00:47:20Cheers.
00:47:21Yes, perfect.
00:47:21To your honor.
00:47:23Cheers.
00:47:26Cheers.
00:47:32Oh, did you take the whole thing?
00:47:35Yeah.
00:47:36After today, I can drink everything inside.
00:47:41We had previous plans to do some wine tasting
00:47:45in this cute little town that's right near the ruins,
00:47:49but Birkon's pissed, and it feels so freaking awkward.
00:47:57You don't seem like you want to taste wine.
00:48:00You're, like, pounding it like a shot.
00:48:01Yeah.
00:48:02That's not a wine tasting.
00:48:05Yeah.
00:48:06I am miserable.
00:48:08You're miserable.
00:48:09I'm waiting for my best friend, Michael.
00:48:15This is 13.5% alcohol.
00:48:19This one is the three different Turkish grape.
00:48:24OK, let's try.
00:48:25Cheers.
00:48:26You're welcome.
00:48:27OK, do you want to talk about this?
00:48:34There was no heads up.
00:48:37You declined my existence in this relationship.
00:48:44You just decide whatever you want.
00:48:46You are not respecting the person in your life.
00:48:52You don't respect me.
00:48:54That's not true at all.
00:48:55And now I have doubts.
00:48:59When we get married, it will only get worse.
00:49:04That could be my worst mistake.
00:49:07I don't know.
00:49:09What could be your worst mistake?
00:49:12This.
00:49:13Us.
00:49:17Here we are.
00:49:19It's a nice place, I hope.
00:49:21I have booked a resort.
00:49:24The pictures online looked really nice.
00:49:26So I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic
00:49:29and can help us reconnect.
00:49:31What is it?
00:49:32It's moving!
00:49:34Kill it.
00:49:35Step on it.
00:49:36Get rid of it.
00:49:37Take it outside.
00:49:38No!
00:49:40Ah!
00:49:41Daniel!
00:49:54Guys, where are we going?
00:49:55Left here, and we're there.
00:49:57Just up here on the left.
00:49:59Here we are.
00:50:00Well, it looks super cute.
00:50:11I'm so excited to see you guys' plays.
00:50:13We'll tell you the code in about a week once we trust you.
00:50:18Cute.
00:50:19Wow.
00:50:23At this point, it's been 40 hours that I've been up, and I am completely delirious, completely
00:50:29foggy.
00:50:29I put a game face on.
00:50:31I went to the mother bar, and now I am beyond thankful we're at the rental, and I'm going
00:50:35to be getting some rest soon.
00:50:36Guys, I really have to pee.
00:50:39Where's the bathroom?
00:50:40And then you can show me around.
00:50:41I'm really excited.
00:50:42Someone didn't make their bed.
00:50:43Joshua?
00:50:44Just shut the door, would you?
00:50:45Alice?
00:50:46Oh!
00:50:47Her.
00:50:48Oh, my God.
00:50:48This is a bathroom we're sharing?
00:50:50Oh, no.
00:50:51Yes.
00:50:51This is too small!
00:50:55I'm going to die here.
00:50:56You will not die.
00:50:58I'm trying to put my best foot forward and, like, be positive and show him that, like,
00:51:02I'm not a complainer.
00:51:04It's small as s***.
00:51:06Sounds positive.
00:51:08I'm super appreciative of, like, Josh getting the apartment in a nice location.
00:51:13Maybe a little more vanity space would be beneficial, and, like, I would have settled for a smaller
00:51:18place without a roommate.
00:51:19Like, no offense.
00:51:20Love you, Chris.
00:51:21This is your room.
00:51:25Wait, wait, wait, wait.
00:51:27What?
00:51:27It's the Moaning Lisa, we call it.
00:51:29You wanted this picture.
00:51:31Chris thought it was hilarious.
00:51:32I put it up.
00:51:33You know?
00:51:34Yeah.
00:51:36Why would you let him do that?
00:51:38I didn't let him do that, but I thought it was quite hilarious.
00:51:42So, like, what?
00:51:43When we're having sex, we have to look at Chris?
00:51:45That's f***ing weird.
00:51:46When we have sex, it's pretty assumptuous of you.
00:51:51Yeah?
00:51:52Yeah.
00:51:55Excuse me.
00:51:56So, I'm really confused.
00:51:58Like, you could have put a picture of me.
00:52:00Didn't have one in such high def.
00:52:02I mean, all of my social media.
00:52:05It feels very surreal having Elise here with me in person.
00:52:08She's just been a voice on the other end of the phone, so it'll be interesting to see
00:52:12how, you know, we both react to living together.
00:52:17Where do I put everything?
00:52:20I'll find space.
00:52:22I asked you to get a steamer.
00:52:23Did you get a steamer?
00:52:24Steamer?
00:52:25Yeah.
00:52:27Do you think we should get, like, a closet organizer here?
00:52:30Do you not...
00:52:31Do you just have a dryer?
00:52:36Um, it looks like it could be an adjustment.
00:52:40There's, like, literally only one towel in here.
00:52:44I'm gonna need more pillows.
00:52:47Uh, we can organize that.
00:52:50Pillows, steamer in the morning.
00:52:53We should maybe make a list so you don't forget.
00:52:55I'll write it down.
00:52:55Set yourself up for success.
00:52:57I'll write it down.
00:52:57Promise.
00:52:57Okay.
00:52:58Let's go to bed.
00:52:59Okay.
00:53:00Come on.
00:53:00Okay.
00:53:01Night, guys.
00:53:02Good night.
00:53:03All right.
00:53:06This is your bed.
00:53:07Okay.
00:53:07I just want to get comfy clothes on.
00:53:09Yep.
00:53:10And go to bed.
00:53:10And where...
00:53:11Okay, perfect.
00:53:11I'm in the couch.
00:53:13Okay.
00:53:14Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow.
00:53:18So he's gonna sleep on the couch.
00:53:20That way we're both avoiding temptation.
00:53:23Okay.
00:53:26Joshua gives me butterflies.
00:53:27Like, he's hot.
00:53:28Like, sending him away, it's hard.
00:53:30But, like, I came here wanting to do things differently.
00:53:33Like, not leading with sex.
00:53:34But at the same time, I wanted to make him, you know,
00:53:38see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
00:53:46Josh!
00:53:53Are you gonna come say goodnight?
00:53:55Absolutely.
00:53:57Why such a serious look?
00:53:59Because it's, uh...
00:54:02You know why?
00:54:03You look like someone killed you.
00:54:06Yeah, I'm getting killed inside.
00:54:07Painful.
00:54:08All right.
00:54:09Well, come say goodnight to me.
00:54:22Good night.
00:54:23Good night.
00:54:26It's gonna be a hard sleep on the couch.
00:54:28But, yeah.
00:54:28It's good to try and connect more on that emotional level than the sexual level off the bat.
00:54:33I think that probably, you know, that helps us.
00:54:36But would you want to have sex?
00:54:39In an ideal world, of course I would.
00:54:40As soon as I saw her, I would.
00:54:42Rolled on the airport floor.
00:54:43But, um, you know.
00:54:46I'm really happy that we have a really strong connection straight away from the moment we met.
00:54:52But, um, I haven't shared my whole life with, um, Elise yet.
00:54:55I'm a bit worried that she might, you know, find out some things, you know, parts of my life that
00:54:59she's not exactly happy with.
00:55:01I just hope I can show her that I'm a good person.
00:55:03You know, with flaws, but a good person.
00:55:05And hopefully she falls in love with me.
00:55:24Okay, we have to pack.
00:55:37Daniel, are you sure you're okay going on this trip with me?
00:55:40Um, yeah.
00:55:42Yeah, sure.
00:55:45Things are now settled with Lisa.
00:55:47I'm still really hot with all the offense she has committed by telling lies.
00:55:54But I decided to go on this trip with her.
00:55:57I hope we didn't forget anything.
00:55:59I don't know.
00:56:00I don't think so.
00:56:01I think we're good.
00:56:03This is going to be difficult.
00:56:05But I will try my best to have a good time.
00:56:18Long ride.
00:56:19We'll get there pretty late, so.
00:56:21What is the place like?
00:56:23It's a lake.
00:56:24Yeah, there will be a lot of nature in the area to look at and lots of activities to do.
00:56:30So, I thought it would be enjoyable for us.
00:56:36You're welcome.
00:56:48You're thinking, where the hell is she taking me?
00:56:51You know what we call these in America?
00:56:53The boonies.
00:56:54What is?
00:56:55The boondocks, where there is no real civilization, it's just, it's just woods.
00:57:04Here we are.
00:57:06It's a nice place, I hope.
00:57:10I have booked a resort in Bagari, Nigeria.
00:57:15It's the western part of Lagos.
00:57:17The pictures online looked really nice.
00:57:20And it's in my price range.
00:57:23So, I'm hoping this place is fun and romantic and can help us reconnect.
00:57:29Oh, wow.
00:57:30I like it.
00:57:32What do you think?
00:57:35Nice little space, right?
00:57:37It's nice.
00:57:37It's fine.
00:57:38It's nice, huh?
00:57:39Oh, my God.
00:57:42What is it?
00:57:45Yeah, it's a spider.
00:57:46No.
00:57:47That could be poisonous.
00:57:49I've not seen someone bitten by a spider before.
00:57:54I have.
00:57:55I'm not going to sleep in here with a spider.
00:57:58I'm terrified of this spider because I don't know what kind of spider it is.
00:58:01This thing is in Africa.
00:58:03This could be dangerous.
00:58:05Don't you dare fling it towards me.
00:58:11Is it dead?
00:58:12Just much.
00:58:13It's moving.
00:58:16Kill it.
00:58:17Step on it.
00:58:18Get rid of it.
00:58:19Take it outside.
00:58:20No.
00:58:23Daniel.
00:58:25All right, stop.
00:58:26Leave it.
00:58:26I will kill it myself.
00:58:29No, don't kick it again.
00:58:31Stop.
00:58:32Stop kicking it.
00:58:36Where'd it go?
00:58:38Daniel, get it off my shoe.
00:58:40Okay.
00:58:42Don't kick it at me.
00:58:43I have a phobia of spiders.
00:58:46It's just a spider.
00:58:48No, it's not just a spider.
00:58:50It was huge.
00:58:51It was like tarantula-sized spider.
00:58:53You are so rude.
00:58:57I am terrified of spiders.
00:58:59I told you to kill the spider.
00:59:00Why didn't you kill the spider?
00:59:02I have sandals on it.
00:59:03Just spider.
00:59:04Ordinary spider.
00:59:04It's not an ordinary spider.
00:59:06It's a vicious spider.
00:59:07This is room you paid for.
00:59:08You know where the spider's coming from.
00:59:10Kill the spider.
00:59:11Kill it.
00:59:11No, you kill it.
00:59:14We're here now, right?
00:59:18So, what are we here for?
00:59:21It's a romantic getaway.
00:59:24Romantic, you said?
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:25Yes.
00:59:30She wants us to have a romantic trip, but it's very hard for me.
00:59:37I am feeling tense because I don't know what my uncle is going to do, whether he will cancel
00:59:44this marriage.
00:59:46I don't like waiting, you know, to talk to him.
00:59:49You should enjoy it.
00:59:51You came.
00:59:52Why'd you come if you're not going to enjoy it?
00:59:55Honest.
00:59:55You know why I'm here, right?
00:59:57No, I have no idea why you decided to come.
00:59:59No.
01:00:01I'm here because I don't want the money you paid to be a waste.
01:00:08That's the only reason why you came.
01:00:14So, no sex, no kissing.
01:00:19Auntie, I call my uncle, and I want him to consult, you know, the oracle, the ancestors.
01:00:24Why don't you just wait a couple of days, just a couple of days.
01:00:29We can make this work for a couple of days.
01:00:32Daniel, I need a couple of days.
01:00:34To do what?
01:00:34Just to get my head together.
01:00:37And then we call your uncle.
01:00:42I need a couple of days because I have to come clean to Daniel about the rest of everything
01:00:46before he goes to his uncle.
01:00:48But he's already so angry with me.
01:00:52How am I going to get through it?
01:00:54I am terrified that Daniel's going to leave me forever once he finds out.
01:01:00I need a day or two.
01:01:02That's all I'm asking for.
01:01:04I want to have a day or two with you.
01:01:07Fine.
01:01:13This is what never ends.
01:01:15Why do you do this?
01:01:17Is your mom always just bossy?
01:01:19You want traditional roles when it applies to you.
01:01:24Ah, I'm just done with this conversation.
01:01:27You know, you used to be a lot softer and sweeter.
01:01:29You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:01:31Don't be a asshole.
01:01:33You don't want a bitchy wife.
01:02:16What's wrong?
01:02:18Really?
01:02:20Yeah, really.
01:02:21You don't help me with anything.
01:02:23Like this laundry and this.
01:02:26This one never ends.
01:02:28Why do you do this?
01:02:31What the ?
01:02:34It's been nice having Javon in my house,
01:02:37but I'm still thinking about my mom's concern about our long-distance relationship.
01:02:44On top of that,
01:02:46now that Javon and I are living together in one house,
01:02:50slowly,
01:02:52slowly,
01:02:52a baby.
01:02:53Sorry.
01:02:55I get to see how he is.
01:02:58He's very messy,
01:03:00and he just puts the clothes and the towels everywhere.
01:03:05I feel like I have a toddler,
01:03:07and I always have to pick up stuff.
01:03:10From male to male,
01:03:11is your mom always just bossy?
01:03:15What?
01:03:16I heard that.
01:03:17We just haven't got time.
01:03:19I heard that.
01:03:21No, me too loves me.
01:03:23Yeah, well, I love you too, Nana.
01:03:25I mean,
01:03:26it doesn't mean that you're not bossy.
01:03:28What's wrong with telling your husband to pick up their socks?
01:03:31There's nothing wrong with that,
01:03:33Anna.
01:03:33It's how you're delivering, Anna.
01:03:35What do you want from me?
01:03:37Instead of coming in the room,
01:03:38say,
01:03:39Javon,
01:03:39pick up your stuff.
01:03:40You know,
01:03:41you can just say,
01:03:42boo,
01:03:43if you don't mind,
01:03:44could you just pick up your stuff?
01:03:48Javon.
01:03:48Yeah?
01:03:49No matter how much I put it,
01:03:50if you really would like to pick up that socks,
01:03:53you would have.
01:03:54See?
01:03:55Oh, I...
01:03:55You don't see that.
01:03:56I do, actually.
01:03:58You do,
01:03:58but you don't do it.
01:03:59No.
01:04:04And, like,
01:04:04every time I talk to you,
01:04:06you leave the room.
01:04:18All we do is talk.
01:04:21That's all we do.
01:04:22All right.
01:04:22Well, I'm going to try a little action today.
01:04:25Would you like to go get, like, a manicure,
01:04:29like, our feet done?
01:04:33Well,
01:04:34you definitely need a pedicure.
01:04:38Okay.
01:04:47I feel sorry for whoever's going to clean your feet.
01:04:51Dang,
01:04:51how bad do you think my feet is?
01:04:55Anna's always complained that I'm not romantic enough.
01:04:59But it's hard to be romantic
01:05:01when you're being
01:05:02nagged
01:05:03a lot.
01:05:05Still,
01:05:05you thought it'd be a good idea
01:05:07to do something nice for Anna,
01:05:08to show her,
01:05:09you know what?
01:05:10I appreciate what you do.
01:05:11Hi.
01:05:12Good afternoon.
01:05:13Hello.
01:05:14Hello, Paul.
01:05:15I just hope that she sees
01:05:16that I'm making a real effort here.
01:05:19So?
01:05:21It's like Barbie threw up in here.
01:05:24Switches you so well.
01:05:26Look at you.
01:05:27Sitting like a queen.
01:05:29It's all pink.
01:05:31I like it.
01:05:32I know you do.
01:05:36There you go.
01:05:37Yeah.
01:05:40Yeah.
01:05:42See,
01:05:42I told you.
01:05:44It just feels weird.
01:05:47Oh,
01:05:48that's nice.
01:05:49Oh,
01:05:50my God,
01:05:51boo,
01:05:51that's a lot.
01:05:53You doing okay over there?
01:05:56I'm so tired.
01:06:02Is this being romantic?
01:06:05Yeah.
01:06:06Did I pass the test today?
01:06:07Kind of.
01:06:08Yeah.
01:06:09Some cool points.
01:06:10I like that.
01:06:13You still have to be nicer to me, though.
01:06:16And I'll do more nice things.
01:06:19Like,
01:06:20if I leave, like,
01:06:22underwear
01:06:22or socks on the floor,
01:06:25you know,
01:06:26will you be nice?
01:06:28No.
01:06:29No?
01:06:29I mean,
01:06:30you can be nice to me,
01:06:32but not,
01:06:32by not dropping them on the floor.
01:06:38I know,
01:06:39but Anna,
01:06:40you know,
01:06:40you used to be a lot softer
01:06:41and sweeter
01:06:42and,
01:06:43you know,
01:06:44more patient with me.
01:06:45You know what I think it is?
01:06:47It's just,
01:06:47I think that you knew
01:06:48I wasn't going anywhere
01:06:49and you got comfortable.
01:06:53Being too comfortable
01:06:55is not a good thing
01:06:56because you feel like,
01:06:58okay,
01:06:58well,
01:06:58I got this person.
01:07:00I don't have to try anymore,
01:07:01you know.
01:07:02He's always going to be there
01:07:03no matter what.
01:07:06Don't ever get too comfortable,
01:07:07ever.
01:07:13I don't understand
01:07:14where did this come from?
01:07:16Did you get it
01:07:16from those videos
01:07:18that you've been watching?
01:07:21About masculinity
01:07:22and all the things?
01:07:24No,
01:07:25that's my,
01:07:25that's,
01:07:26that's,
01:07:26that's all my idea.
01:07:28I take full credit for that.
01:07:32It's just odd
01:07:33because I feel like
01:07:34over the couple of years
01:07:36watching all these
01:07:38videos,
01:07:38you've changed
01:07:39and
01:07:41I love who you are.
01:07:44But Anna,
01:07:44this is who I was
01:07:45when you first met me.
01:07:46No,
01:07:46you're not.
01:07:47You were not that prideful before.
01:07:50I feel like
01:07:51your idea of being
01:07:53a husband
01:07:53changed.
01:07:55You see,
01:07:56it's like a power.
01:07:57I don't have any.
01:07:58That's the problem.
01:08:00Like,
01:08:00I feel like-
01:08:00That's the problem.
01:08:01You need to feel powerful.
01:08:02No.
01:08:02And you're not going-
01:08:03I feel like
01:08:04I have all the responsibility
01:08:05with no authority
01:08:06because when I tell you
01:08:08to do something,
01:08:08you don't listen to me.
01:08:09So what are you talking about?
01:08:13You want traditional roles
01:08:15when it,
01:08:15when it applies
01:08:16to you.
01:08:18I always have to take care
01:08:19of everything
01:08:20financially.
01:08:21So,
01:08:22as your husband,
01:08:23I feel like
01:08:23having to say is nice.
01:08:25You know,
01:08:26it just means
01:08:26you're just respectful.
01:08:30I'm just done
01:08:32with this conversation.
01:08:37Why did you bring me here?
01:08:39Well,
01:08:40I wanted you
01:08:42to have a good time.
01:08:42Yes!
01:08:43But if you were going-
01:08:44Do I look like
01:08:44I'm having a good time?
01:08:45But you set me up.
01:08:47You were asking me questions
01:08:48and I just answered them
01:08:49honestly.
01:08:51You ever heard the term,
01:08:52you know,
01:08:52you don't want to hear the answers,
01:08:53so cease from asking
01:08:54dumbass questions?
01:08:57You ever think about that?
01:08:58And you don't want
01:08:59to bitch your wife.
01:09:01Don't be a asshole.
01:09:04I can just sit here
01:09:05and get my feet done.
01:09:06Like,
01:09:07I don't have to-
01:09:09Then just stay here, okay?
01:09:11Don't come home.
01:09:12You need to calm down.
01:09:18I don't want to see you
01:09:19ever again.
01:09:22Don't come home.
01:09:24Ever.
01:09:26Jerk.
01:09:29You're disgusting.
01:09:34Hey, I will see you soon.
01:09:36All right.
01:09:36I cannot believe
01:09:38Michael is actually
01:09:40here in Turkey.
01:09:41He said to tell you hi.
01:09:43I'm not saying hi.
01:09:47You want to open it?
01:09:49Hey!
01:09:51Hi, friend.
01:09:51Oh my God.
01:10:12I have a phone call.
01:10:20Hello.
01:10:23Hey, good morning.
01:10:24Good morning.
01:10:26How are you?
01:10:28Are you doing well?
01:10:30Oh.
01:10:31My hotel won't be ready
01:10:32until like 2 o'clock.
01:10:35Is there any chance
01:10:36I can point and I
01:10:37say hello?
01:10:40It's totally fine with me.
01:10:42I mean...
01:10:43I was just going to say
01:10:45I pin-drop you my location.
01:10:46Yeah.
01:10:47Okay, I will see you soon.
01:10:50I wish for walking
01:10:51your direction.
01:10:52All right.
01:10:53Be careful.
01:10:55Thanks.
01:10:56Bye-bye.
01:10:56Bye.
01:11:06I'm a little bit worried
01:11:07that Michael's here.
01:11:09Now that this is real
01:11:11and he actually
01:11:12showed up in Turkey,
01:11:14my stomach is about
01:11:16to explode on itself.
01:11:18I'm incredibly nervous
01:11:20and I feel like
01:11:22I'm about to die.
01:11:27Hey.
01:11:29Hey.
01:11:30That was Michael.
01:11:33What is he saying?
01:11:35He said to tell you hi.
01:11:38What?
01:11:40Why?
01:11:41Because...
01:11:42I'm not saying hi.
01:11:44Well,
01:11:46he's going to be here
01:11:48at this apartment.
01:11:50This apartment?
01:11:51And about...
01:11:53Turkey is okay,
01:11:54but this apartment...
01:11:56Ten minutes.
01:12:01I cannot believe
01:12:03that Michael is actually
01:12:05here in Turkey.
01:12:07He dropped everything
01:12:08to get on a plane for me.
01:12:10I mean,
01:12:11it does feel pretty good
01:12:12that someone cares about me
01:12:14enough to do that,
01:12:15but it is definitely wild
01:12:19and complicated.
01:12:28I think he's just
01:12:30concerned about me.
01:12:33Yeah, sure.
01:12:36That's totally normal
01:12:38for friends to be
01:12:39concerned about each other.
01:12:40Yeah, I believe him.
01:12:42He's such a good heart.
01:12:50I'm not five years old.
01:12:51I don't eat that...
01:12:55Your friend
01:12:56is trying to
01:12:57this connection,
01:12:58and you're like,
01:12:59yay!
01:13:01Okay.
01:13:03It's like,
01:13:03I don't get it.
01:13:06I never wanted him to come,
01:13:08and I still don't want him to come.
01:13:11I think he's coming in Turkey
01:13:14to mix up Laura's mind,
01:13:16maybe talk some about me,
01:13:19give Laura more doubts.
01:13:22But if our relationship
01:13:25is going to end
01:13:26because of Michael,
01:13:28I don't blame Michael.
01:13:30I will blame Laura.
01:13:37You want to open it?
01:13:39Yeah, I do, actually.
01:13:47Hey!
01:13:49Hi, friend.
01:13:49Oh, my God.
01:13:50I cannot believe
01:13:52you're in Turkey.
01:13:53Is it safe to come in?
01:13:55Yes!
01:13:56Oh, my God.
01:13:57Wild.
01:13:58Oh, my God.
01:13:59You're making a palace here.
01:14:07I cannot believe
01:14:08you're in Turkey.
01:14:09Oh, no.
01:14:09This is amazing.
01:14:11It's the most spontaneous thing
01:14:12I've ever done in my life.
01:14:13I have no doubt.
01:14:14And I do it for you.
01:14:15I do it for you.
01:14:18So,
01:14:19Oh, my God.
01:14:21Absolutely amazing.
01:14:22Oh, wow.
01:14:23Yeah, this is fantastic, right?
01:14:26I hope my hotel room
01:14:27looks like this.
01:14:27Holy cow.
01:14:29Hi, Michael.
01:14:31Nice to meet you, finally.
01:14:33Heard so much about you.
01:14:35Yeah, you probably heard.
01:14:37I...
01:14:38Okay.
01:14:45Make yourself at home.
01:14:46Okay.
01:14:47Do you want something to drink?
01:14:49Tea?
01:14:50Yeah, anything like that?
01:14:51Okay.
01:14:52Just have a seat right here.
01:14:53I don't know how it works.
01:14:54Yeah, that's my...
01:14:55Do the women make tea here
01:14:55or do the boys do it?
01:14:58Boys?
01:14:58Do the boys make the tea?
01:15:01They call men
01:15:02if they are grown up.
01:15:03Oh, okay.
01:15:07Um, would you like anything?
01:15:11Nope.
01:15:12I am perfect.
01:15:27So, Bunny,
01:15:28what you're watching?
01:15:30Scarface.
01:15:36You like American classic movies?
01:15:38No.
01:15:42I like mob stuff.
01:15:45I enjoy pretty much violence.
01:15:53Do you like?
01:15:55Do I like this movie or...?
01:15:58Violence.
01:16:05Golly, I...
01:16:07I'll be honest with you.
01:16:08I don't know what to make of beer con.
01:16:09Um, I know I just kind of dropped it on him,
01:16:11but he's talking about violence to me on the couch.
01:16:14If that's truly who he is,
01:16:16then I can't imagine that's healthy for Laura.
01:16:20My first impression of beer con
01:16:21is that Laura and I are more compatible
01:16:23than I think, uh,
01:16:24than beer con and she are.
01:16:25So, I want to make sure
01:16:27that she makes the right choice.
01:16:35I love you so much.
01:16:37But stop telling me that.
01:16:39Stop with her and some secrets.
01:16:41All I can think about
01:16:43is how there's more to tell him,
01:16:45and I have to get it said
01:16:47before he goes to his uncle.
01:16:48It has to be tonight.
01:16:50So, I have more to tell you, then.
01:16:52More to tell me?
01:17:01Is this really how it ends?
01:17:05Can we go back to
01:17:07where it all began?
01:17:11All I really want for this
01:17:14is to go back to
01:17:17where you love me again?
01:17:19Good morning.
01:17:21Good morning.
01:17:25You're going to sleep.
01:17:26You're going to sleep or I...
01:17:28You kept me awake all try tonight.
01:17:30I know.
01:17:31I didn't mean to keep you awake.
01:17:32I couldn't help it.
01:17:33I was sad.
01:17:34You almost went to bed with tears.
01:17:37You're going to sleep.
01:17:38I'll never find another day.
01:17:42Why were you crying?
01:17:44I feel bad about everything
01:17:46that transpired.
01:17:48But I feel better this morning.
01:17:51Yeah, because I cuddled you, right?
01:17:54And you were crying so loud,
01:17:55so I have to...
01:17:56I have to cuddled you, you know?
01:18:01Last night, I cried myself to sleep.
01:18:04All I could think about
01:18:05is how I have to tell Daniel my secret.
01:18:08And I'm scared I'm going to lose him forever.
01:18:10But Daniel held me all night,
01:18:12so I'm waking up feeling a little hopeful.
01:18:16Today is a new day,
01:18:18and I'm hoping that we can explore
01:18:20and have some fun together.
01:18:23I'd like to look at the lake,
01:18:25and I'd like to walk around
01:18:26and see what else there is.
01:18:28That's fine.
01:18:29All right, let's get dressed.
01:18:41Come on.
01:18:42Let's go down towards the water.
01:18:46Oh, my gosh.
01:18:49This is a whole resort,
01:18:51and there's nobody here.
01:18:59It's not like it's pictures.
01:19:03It's pretty desolate, actually.
01:19:06And it's a bit run down.
01:19:10Want to smile a little bit?
01:19:12No.
01:19:13But maybe that it's desolate
01:19:15is going to help me with Daniel.
01:19:20Maybe it's a little bit more intimate
01:19:22for the two of us.
01:19:26Water is so big.
01:19:28Yeah, it's so big, the water.
01:19:33Oh, look at this.
01:19:35This is neat.
01:19:36Let's have one.
01:19:38Two, please.
01:19:41I feel that things are going back to normal.
01:19:44Like, Lisa is trying to rebuild our relationship.
01:19:48Oh, wow.
01:19:51Delicious.
01:19:52Let's go for a bike ride.
01:19:54Can you ride a bike?
01:19:56I don't know.
01:19:57I will try.
01:19:59To me, I welcomed it.
01:20:01I want us to be together
01:20:02because I love her.
01:20:07You know, it takes muscle to pull this.
01:20:09Yes, that's why you're doing the pedaling
01:20:11and I'm doing the steering.
01:20:13Look at the pace.
01:20:15No, not that fast.
01:20:16I think you're maybe not that fast.
01:20:20Don't go so fast.
01:20:24I feel so light and so good
01:20:26in this moment with Daniel.
01:20:28He is having fun
01:20:30and seeing the smile on his face
01:20:31as he's doing it,
01:20:33I really feel like we're reconnecting.
01:20:36Are you having fun?
01:20:38Yes, I am.
01:20:39See, this is exactly what we needed.
01:20:43I want to just enjoy myself,
01:20:45but I can't because all I can think about
01:20:47is how there's more to tell him
01:20:49and I have to get it said
01:20:51before he goes to his uncle.
01:20:53It has to be tonight.
01:21:16It's a bonfire, honey.
01:21:18We're dancers.
01:21:20I'm enjoying the sun.
01:21:24This is beautiful.
01:21:26Have a seat.
01:21:27Let's watch him.
01:21:29Let's enjoy it.
01:21:32It's beautiful, isn't it?
01:21:40Woo!
01:21:42This is nice.
01:21:44Are you glad you gave me one more day?
01:21:50I'm enjoying spending time with you.
01:21:52This is what this few days is about.
01:21:54Do you feel like you're reconnecting with me a little bit?
01:21:58I really want us to reconnect.
01:22:01You know, I miss the way we used to be.
01:22:04But I'm trying to respect our tradition.
01:22:08We have to call my uncle.
01:22:10When I call him, I will beg on our behalf.
01:22:14I love you.
01:22:16I love you, too.
01:22:16I want to make you...
01:22:19I want to, you know, love you forever.
01:22:22But stop telling me lies.
01:22:24Stop with hurting some secrets.
01:22:27Okay?
01:22:29I understand.
01:22:31Okay.
01:22:33So I have more to tell you, then.
01:22:36More to tell me?
01:22:40What do you mean?
01:22:44So, like, in Nigeria,
01:22:46it's not legal for men to marry men
01:22:50or women to marry women, right?
01:22:52It's not legal?
01:22:53It's not, yeah.
01:22:53In America, it is.
01:22:56Yes, I've had all of that.
01:23:02So, my last marriage wasn't with a man.
01:23:07I'm divorcing a woman, Daniel.
01:23:12And I've been with more than one woman.
01:23:16You're the first man that I've been with in 21 years.
01:23:30It's not...
01:23:31Don't...
01:23:32It's not as bad as...
01:23:33Don't come close to me!
01:23:39Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:23:42Hey!
01:23:43Hey!
01:23:45Hi!
01:23:46Having female friends can be hard to juggle.
01:23:49But I want to prove to her
01:23:50that she has nothing to worry about.
01:23:52Today, I found out that he was living with you.
01:23:54Yeah.
01:23:54Yeah, I think that she has a financial hold on you
01:23:56that's making you feel some sort of...
01:23:58Oh, financial hold, big words.
01:24:01Are you jealous of me?
01:24:02And our relationship?
01:24:08We're officially on the GP.
01:24:11I only have a week left here in the Philippines.
01:24:14And I don't want to waste any time
01:24:16in bringing Sheena to America.
01:24:17So, I have to be very clear here.
01:24:21If you file today for the K-1 vision,
01:24:25it will be denied.
01:24:30I just feel really hopeless
01:24:33because I'm putting in massive effort.
01:24:37And at this moment, I'm at a crossroads.
01:24:40I don't know how to move forward.
01:24:41Don't worry about your relationship.
01:24:47I'm excited to see my family.
01:24:49Do you think they're going to be happy to see?
01:24:51Yeah, did you see me?
01:24:53What about me?
01:24:54I don't know.
01:24:56I feel scared.
01:24:58My family won't accept Rick
01:25:01when they don't like something.
01:25:03They are really aggressive.
01:25:06Rick doesn't know what he's in for.
01:25:09I don't know what he's in for.
01:25:11I don't know what he's in for.
01:25:15They want babies.
01:25:20You have a lot of secrets.
01:25:22I have no more secrets.
01:25:24Shut your mouth.
01:25:25You don't have to.
01:25:25You have been touched by a woman.
01:25:27Not even women.
01:25:28Women.
01:25:30Where the range?
01:25:34Daniel's not going to accept me for who I am.
01:25:36You know what?
01:25:38him.
01:25:40him.
01:25:42He's us.
01:25:45He's us.
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