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90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days - Season 8 Episode 12 - Final Boarding Call
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00:00:00Previously on Before the 90 Days.
00:00:03God will give you people happy home.
00:00:05I bless you in a marriage.
00:00:08I say you shall be well with two people in a care.
00:00:11I have done everything Daniel has asked of me
00:00:14so that we can get married.
00:00:16But technically, I'm still married to a woman.
00:00:20And I have to tell him soon.
00:00:24Josh is kind. He's super sweet.
00:00:26So I'm going to Australia.
00:00:28Yeah, hold on. Where are you staying?
00:00:30He lives with his parents.
00:00:32But when I come, he's going to get a rental
00:00:35and split it with a roommate.
00:00:37No!
00:00:39In a week, I am going to Sydney, Australia
00:00:42to meet Josh for the first time.
00:00:44But he sent me a text last night
00:00:46that was super alarming.
00:00:49I'm embarrassed to even tell anyone about it.
00:00:53So yeah, it actually came with
00:00:55quote-unquote proof of me.
00:00:58I'm not being fearful to you.
00:01:00Apparently, the girl is like,
00:01:01oh, she's messing with me.
00:01:03I don't even know who the that is.
00:01:05I need to see the photos
00:01:06and I need to see the text messages
00:01:08and make a decision.
00:01:12Sheena, will you please marry me?
00:01:15No, girl.
00:01:17I asked you to hold off and wait
00:01:19so she could prove herself.
00:01:21And then you just go walk up
00:01:23and pull this little sneaky.
00:01:25What the am I doing
00:01:27sitting over here in this country then, Forrest?
00:01:32You weren't talking to me yet.
00:01:34I started talking to my ex.
00:01:37Did you have sex with her?
00:01:40Yes.
00:01:43Please.
00:01:44I want you to forgive me.
00:01:46I have nothing to say, Rick.
00:01:50I'd rather he told me
00:01:52before coming here.
00:01:55Please.
00:01:56Don't touch me.
00:01:58Don't touch me, please.
00:02:26It's a new final.
00:02:52This has never happened before in my whole entire life no matter how sick I've gotten I've
00:02:57never the bed I don't know but you know how embarrassing it is to wake up in the middle of
00:03:14the night and they're all over your sheets and it's just
00:03:19I feel bad that I did that
00:03:22Baby
00:03:26I accepted it with all my hats
00:03:28I told you that I love you
00:03:30You don't have to be embarrassed okay
00:03:33She woke me up and um the stuff um um stained my clothes
00:03:41So she pooped on you
00:03:42She pooped on me yes
00:03:45She pooped on me
00:03:48It was everywhere
00:03:50I had to change the sheets with his help and I didn't know what to do because I couldn't stop
00:03:55going to the bathroom it kept coming out of me
00:03:59I'm so mortified
00:04:01Are you going to call the housekeeping to come and clean everything?
00:04:05I will take care of them
00:04:06Maybe I will call them when we are going to the cooking class
00:04:09My stomach is still so upset
00:04:11And today of all days
00:04:13Daniel has organized to take me out to no other but a cooking class
00:04:18A cooking class
00:04:25I'm so worried I'm going to have more explosive diarrhea
00:04:29But I'm going to cook for him
00:04:31I'm going to try
00:04:33I mean if a man can love me covered in
00:04:36And himself covered in my
00:04:38Then he must love me for real
00:04:51Thank you so much
00:04:52Look how pretty this is
00:04:58The table Daniel
00:05:00Look how sweet that is
00:05:01Oh this is going to be fun
00:05:05It's so cute in here
00:05:08Hello madame
00:05:09Hello
00:05:12There's lots of ingredients
00:05:14Oh my goodness
00:05:15Um so we're making oha soup
00:05:17Oha soup
00:05:18Oh you're happy
00:05:20So oha soup is traditionally an Igbo meal
00:05:23First of all I have oha leaf
00:05:25That's the start ingredient for oha soup
00:05:28Then I have my proteins
00:05:31I have stock fish
00:05:32Then I have fermented locust beans
00:05:36It's very medicinal as well
00:05:38Shall we start?
00:05:41The raw meat and the things that we are going to be cooking with
00:05:44It's making me um a little queasy
00:05:47Um especially the fermented beans
00:05:52My stomach is hurting so bad
00:05:54But it's okay
00:05:56I can do this
00:05:58Do I open it from here like this?
00:06:01This is beautiful
00:06:03I'm very slow
00:06:05I'm slow honey
00:06:06But I'm doing it
00:06:06I'm happy
00:06:08I'm just educating you
00:06:11You're just happy
00:06:12I'm learning how to cook for you
00:06:15It's very important to learn how to cook
00:06:17As an Igbo woman
00:06:18I will cook as an Igbo woman
00:06:20Try our best
00:06:22I am
00:06:23In my hometown
00:06:25If your wife doesn't know how to cook
00:06:26It will make you to be going outside to eat
00:06:30She can even get attracted by other women
00:06:32I don't want to hear about that
00:06:33I'm going to cook
00:06:34Just leave me alone
00:06:35I'm going to cook
00:06:36This is stock fish
00:06:39I'm also going to be adding the dry fish
00:06:43The dry fish
00:06:43Which what kind of fish is that again?
00:06:45Catfish
00:06:45Catfish
00:06:46It is catfish
00:06:47Oh my god
00:06:48You're happy?
00:06:49You're smelling the smells of what your woman is cooking?
00:06:52I can't wait to test the food
00:06:55I'm very appreciative that Daniel is showing me his traditions and his culture
00:07:00It means the world to me
00:07:01It smells delicious
00:07:03Thank you
00:07:06Daniel is doing so many wonderful things
00:07:09And making our relationship concrete towards a marriage
00:07:13And I'm so happy about that
00:07:17But at the same time
00:07:19I feel extremely guilty for not telling him my secret shit
00:07:29Wow, it looks delicious
00:07:31Thank you
00:07:32You're welcome
00:07:35I've already gotten blessings from his uncle
00:07:37From the king
00:07:39I hope you lack the food that I cooked
00:07:42Oh my god
00:07:43I'm only one step away from getting married to Daniel
00:07:49I have to start being honest with him
00:07:51As soon as possible
00:07:53I did good?
00:07:56Hmm
00:07:59Hmm
00:08:01This is so sweet
00:08:03You're wonderful
00:08:04Thank you
00:08:07Hmm
00:08:10This is really tasty
00:08:14Hmm
00:08:15Tasty, Simon
00:08:16I'm not having any right now, honey
00:08:18I'm not eating
00:08:19I was very sick last night
00:08:21I have to be very careful
00:08:31I want to talk to you about something
00:08:35Well, you have been talking to me, so
00:08:39No, about something different
00:08:44You know how, um
00:08:47I've told you I've been married a couple of times
00:08:50Next year I've made mention of that
00:08:54You told me about faith, dad
00:08:56But I've never discussed it with you
00:08:58You know, deeply
00:09:08Um
00:09:12I've been married five times
00:09:17Five times
00:09:20You would be my sixth husband
00:09:24Touch
00:09:37We talk about this
00:09:39This is our decision
00:09:40Don't answer for him
00:09:42I am an adult
00:09:43And I would decipher what we want to do
00:09:59The point is
00:10:01I worry about you
00:10:03I worry about Sheena
00:10:06I felt this was the appropriate thing to do
00:10:08For our relationship
00:10:10To work and continue
00:10:13We talked privately
00:10:16She explained herself to me
00:10:17And I came
00:10:18Yeah, I'm sure she didn't
00:10:19Did she ask for your big and humble forgiveness?
00:10:23No, she actually gave me a real explanation
00:10:25And told me what was really up
00:10:28Then how about you enlighten me
00:10:29Or is that going to be private to you, Forrest?
00:10:34Uh, you know, we talked about
00:10:36You know, her struggles
00:10:38And how when she starts to, you know, lie
00:10:41It's because she has
00:10:43Um
00:10:45A traumatic
00:10:47She's had traumatic experiences
00:10:50And it causes her
00:10:52To
00:10:57So she
00:10:59She's not going to do it
00:11:00Again and again
00:11:01And again
00:11:02She almost not built in a day
00:11:03But she has to put in the work
00:11:04And prove herself
00:11:05And she is going to prove it
00:11:06Then why didn't you make her prove herself
00:11:07Before you proposed
00:11:12Forrest, you're more full of
00:11:14Than a Christmas goose
00:11:15No
00:11:15Yes, you are
00:11:17Everybody's got stress in their life
00:11:19And then to say
00:11:20I'm under stress
00:11:21So I'm going to lie
00:11:22And you're going to accept her
00:11:24Just keep lying, lying, lying, lying, lying
00:11:27That's no stability
00:11:28You don't have any foundation
00:11:30I will no
00:11:32I will no
00:11:32Don't
00:11:33Mom
00:11:34I admit for everything that I did was wrong
00:11:37Oh, God, here we go again
00:11:39I have to open
00:11:39Oh, you're going to say
00:11:40Because you don't know
00:11:41How I experienced it in my past life, you know
00:11:43I'm suffering from trust with people
00:11:47Well, guess what?
00:11:48We can't trust you
00:11:49Well, you can't
00:11:49I know you can easily trust me
00:11:51But I'm trying to do my best
00:11:52To get things over, you know
00:11:54Yeah, you're getting them over, all right
00:11:56I'm trying to
00:12:03We've heard this for seven years
00:12:07And even up until three days ago
00:12:10It was yet another lie
00:12:12She's a pathological liar, I'm thinking
00:12:17I bet you'd stay with her if she diddled
00:12:20And somebody else do
00:12:27Wouldn't you?
00:12:32Mom?
00:12:33At the end of the day
00:12:34Yeah
00:12:35She and I
00:12:36You can't answer my question
00:12:37So that's all you're going to say
00:12:38Oh, God
00:12:39That's because your question is ridiculous
00:12:44I'm so disappointed in my mom's reaction to all this
00:12:48It's the whole reason why we're here
00:12:50Is to figure out how to bring Sheena to the United States
00:12:53And getting engaged
00:12:55Is a next big step
00:12:58And her being angry and mad and saying nasty things
00:13:01That's not how a mother should act
00:13:05Mom
00:13:07I'm going to
00:13:08I'm going to take the dive
00:13:10I'm going to go in
00:13:12And if there's rocks
00:13:14I'm willing to take it
00:13:16But that is my choice
00:13:21And you're going to have to be watching her 24 hours a day
00:13:25And be paranoid and concerned and wondering
00:13:27And you have such a trust thing
00:13:29Which means
00:13:30Here you are, a future teller
00:13:31Here you are, a future teller
00:13:32No, of course
00:13:33It's not a future telling
00:13:34It's what we have lived through the last seven years
00:13:39You think this is appropriate, how she's acting?
00:13:42This conversation about Molly, it's about you too
00:13:44Yeah, but she's making it about her with all her yelling around
00:13:48How the hell am I supposed to get a conversation done
00:13:50With it, it, it, it, it, all the time?
00:13:54We're going to make things easy for you, okay?
00:13:57Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
00:14:02Excuse me?
00:14:03You're going to give me the ultimate
00:14:04Forrest?
00:14:05Mom
00:14:06Accept this proposal or you're not a part of our lives
00:14:13I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my
00:14:16Flight to Sydney, Australia
00:14:18For the first time to meet Joshua in person
00:14:21I'm just a little bit concerned
00:14:22I know, I know
00:14:24I want to, like, get questions answered
00:14:26Yeah
00:14:28After Girls Night Out the other night
00:14:30I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh
00:14:32Because it was really bothering me
00:14:34Seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming
00:14:36I don't know what to do
00:14:39This sounds like a disaster
00:14:56I appreciate you bringing this
00:14:59Thank you
00:15:17What can we do now
00:15:20To
00:15:22To make this right
00:15:25I don't know
00:15:28We just got back from Nusikomba
00:15:32And after what he told me
00:15:34I'm so hurt
00:15:35I
00:15:37I don't know what to do
00:15:41I'm really angry that he lied to me
00:15:44I thought it was something serious between us
00:15:48And I still cannot believe
00:15:50He was in Colombia with that girl
00:15:56It's really crazy
00:15:58Because he bothers me a lot with
00:16:01Oh, you're still talking to your ex
00:16:04And accusing me of cheating on him with my ex
00:16:07Yet
00:16:08He's the one messing up this relationship
00:16:11Not me
00:16:15I didn't want to hurt you
00:16:17No, you did
00:16:20Just ruin our vacation
00:16:23It doesn't have to be ruined
00:16:25It doesn't have to be over
00:16:26We still have time
00:16:30I don't know, Ray
00:16:34I trust you a lot
00:16:37And I didn't expect this coming
00:16:42I didn't
00:16:43How can I trust you when you go back to your country?
00:16:46What if
00:16:47She's not in my country
00:16:48She can't go
00:16:49I know she's not in your country
00:16:50But you could go
00:16:52In Colombia
00:16:53Meet her
00:16:55But I'm not going to do that
00:16:57Oh
00:16:57I have no intentions on ever being with her
00:17:02I promise
00:17:03That I'm going to be faithful to you
00:17:09I just hope that you can
00:17:12Forgive me
00:17:32I'm sorry
00:17:38Hello, baby
00:17:41I'm sorry
00:17:43Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:46Yes, you did.
00:17:47Baby, I didn't want to add to that.
00:17:49I'm sorry.
00:17:49Please.
00:17:52I promise.
00:17:56Don't promise me.
00:17:57Because you did promise me, but...
00:18:00See?
00:18:01She was happy.
00:18:01Baby, I'm looking you in your face, and I'm telling you
00:18:05that I'm not going to cheat on you.
00:18:08If you look at me, I'm not going to cheat on you, baby.
00:18:11Okay?
00:18:14I'm not.
00:18:16I'm going to do my best to make it up to you, okay?
00:18:25Okay.
00:18:29Thank you, baby.
00:18:33I could have lost her for what I did,
00:18:37so I feel grateful that she is giving me the second chance.
00:18:55I think that we still have time to turn things around,
00:19:00but it's going to take some work for me to prove that I'm sincere
00:19:07and to show her, you know, that I really do care
00:19:11and want this to work.
00:19:19I decided to stay because I'm already in love with him.
00:19:26But I didn't know he has different personality that he can cheat,
00:19:33he can lie.
00:19:41And the way he acts, the way he solves the problem, it scares me a lot.
00:19:45I don't know if I could trust him again in the future, or after this.
00:19:50I don't know.
00:19:56I heard that you, you were talking about me, running your mouth.
00:20:01So he said a little birdie, all over town, wish you'd come looking for me.
00:20:15You think he's going to think it's sexy when I go to bed in my red light sleep mask?
00:20:22You think he's going to think it's sexy when I go to bed in my red light sleep mask?
00:20:32Six, seven, eight.
00:20:39I need another suitcase.
00:20:41Somebody tell the truth.
00:20:43The day is near.
00:20:45I cannot believe that I'm about to get on my flight to Sydney, Australia
00:20:49for the first time to meet Joshua in person.
00:20:51I feel like I'm in a dream.
00:20:53Like, is this actually happening?
00:20:55I'm so excited to see him in person.
00:20:58Like, is he going to be affectionate and touchy-feely?
00:21:01Is he going to, like, run up to me at the airport?
00:21:04Like, am I going to meet his family?
00:21:06Like, I'm not just going there for, like, a vacation.
00:21:08Like, I'm going there to see if he can be my future husband.
00:21:19Oh, my God.
00:21:22So these are, like, half of my bikinis.
00:21:24Okay.
00:21:26This is, like, granny style.
00:21:30This is, like, okay, like, I'm not having sex with you,
00:21:33but, like, maybe we'll go to, like, second or third base.
00:21:39This is, like, okay, game on bikini.
00:21:44It's been six months since I've had sex,
00:21:46which is the longest time I've gone without sex
00:21:48since I've been a freshman in high school.
00:21:51I'm literally a born again virgin.
00:21:55I want to try and take a slow with Joshua.
00:21:58I definitely want to have more of an emotional connection
00:22:00before having a physical connection.
00:22:02But even if we do, his roommate is going to be there
00:22:06the whole time, which is, like, so awkward.
00:22:11I feel very strange that I'm going to be staying with Joshua
00:22:14and also a roommate.
00:22:16We have chatted on the phone a few times.
00:22:18He's like a chatterbox,
00:22:20and he tells me all the cool places in Australia.
00:22:22But it's a little weird.
00:22:23Why is he bringing a roommate to the rental at 40 years old?
00:22:26It seems like I'm going in a thruckle here.
00:22:29Like...
00:22:30Josh wants a nice place for us to stay when I'm there,
00:22:33so he's temporarily renting an apartment with his friend Chris
00:22:37because he can't afford it alone,
00:22:38so Chris is splitting it with him.
00:22:41If Joshua was honest with me about his living situation up front,
00:22:45like, I definitely would have split half and half with him,
00:22:47but I guess he was just trying to be nice,
00:22:49and I don't want to offend him.
00:22:51So, whatever, I'm just going to roll with it.
00:22:56Oh!
00:22:57Yulia's here!
00:23:01Alyse!
00:23:01Hi!
00:23:02Are you ready?
00:23:03Yes!
00:23:04Really?
00:23:04Hi!
00:23:05How are you?
00:23:07Oh...
00:23:07My friend Yulia is taking me to the airport today
00:23:10because I'm freaking out,
00:23:12and I need all the emotional support I can get.
00:23:15Should we do one at a time together?
00:23:17Yeah.
00:23:18Okay.
00:23:21You think you got it,
00:23:22or should I...
00:23:22How do we do this?
00:23:23Oh, my God.
00:23:24It's 50 pounds.
00:23:25I didn't sign up for this.
00:23:27No.
00:23:27You take this one.
00:23:28Okay.
00:23:29Okay.
00:23:30Go, go, go!
00:23:32Okay, okay.
00:23:33Before my hand falls off.
00:23:34Okay.
00:23:35Put it down.
00:23:36She says...
00:23:37One down.
00:23:38Wait, wait.
00:23:40Okay.
00:23:46My goodness, Alyse.
00:23:48All right.
00:23:49Let's hit the road.
00:23:51Sydney, Australia, I'm coming for you!
00:23:58So, are you excited?
00:24:01Yeah.
00:24:02I...
00:24:02I know.
00:24:03Like, I really am excited.
00:24:04I've never felt this way about someone before.
00:24:09I'm just a little bit concerned.
00:24:11I know.
00:24:12I know.
00:24:12I want to, like, get questions answered.
00:24:15Yeah.
00:24:16I mean, I don't even think you can drive a boat anymore
00:24:18because of the work incident.
00:24:20That's so stressful to be happening right before your freaking trip.
00:24:25After Girls' Night Out the other night,
00:24:27I ended up calling Yulia about the text I got from Josh
00:24:29because what he told me was very concerning.
00:24:32I don't know what to do.
00:24:34This sounds like a disaster.
00:24:38He sells boats for a living.
00:24:39He's a yacht broker.
00:24:40And a few weeks ago, Joshua took a boat that his company was selling
00:24:46for a joy ride with some of his friends
00:24:49and ended up crashing the boat into rocks.
00:24:52And he has a final warning at work.
00:24:54I think that it's absolutely irresponsible of him.
00:24:57The man's almost 40.
00:24:59I know.
00:25:00Oh, my God.
00:25:01We're close to the airport.
00:25:02I see it.
00:25:04So, he might lose his job.
00:25:06I just found out that he lives with his parents.
00:25:10It's crazy.
00:25:11Like, it seems like his life is falling apart as I'm coming.
00:25:14But I really like him, and I'm starting to fall for him.
00:25:17So, I just want to give this a chance.
00:25:22Are you ready?
00:25:23No.
00:25:23Kinda, yes.
00:25:25And ready as I'll ever be.
00:25:26Listen, if I didn't take this trip,
00:25:28I would always think in the back of my mind, what if?
00:25:30Like, what if?
00:25:31What if?
00:25:31But at the same time, like, just, you know,
00:25:34don't carry your heart on your sleeve like you usually do.
00:25:37I love you with all my heart and soul.
00:25:40You got this.
00:25:41Thank you so much for taking me.
00:25:43Bye, I love you.
00:25:43I'll text you, okay?
00:25:44Bye.
00:25:54Am I getting pranked?
00:25:56What is going on?
00:25:59I applied for the tourist visa once I got my ticket to go see Joshua,
00:26:04and it got instantly accepted, and I was like, great, perfect.
00:26:08But I get to the airport, and they're like, your visa is denied.
00:26:13Oh, my God.
00:26:15I'm literally my pants.
00:26:17This guy keeps refreshing the system, and he keeps saying I'm denied.
00:26:21I've literally put my heart and my soul into Joshua.
00:26:23I just want to go into this with, like, ease and calmness and excitement.
00:26:28Why is this happening to me at the airport?
00:26:31Did it work?
00:26:34No.
00:26:34No.
00:26:35I got to night again.
00:26:37I got to night again.
00:26:40I got to night again.
00:26:40I'm telling panic attacks.
00:26:45The girl in the photo, she's my friend.
00:26:48And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:26:54Are we actually calling?
00:26:56Oh, you're gonna...
00:26:57Oh, .
00:26:58Get your questions ready.
00:27:00Hello.
00:27:13Dave, what are you doing?
00:27:15Are you going somewhere?
00:27:17Yeah, I'm gonna go meet up with Anne Spring.
00:27:20Really?
00:27:20You're just gonna leave me here by myself?
00:27:22There's a nice weather right now, the beach, the pool.
00:27:26You're just gonna leave me all day?
00:27:28I'm not sure how long it's gonna take.
00:27:30Ay, ay.
00:27:32Don't forget, right?
00:27:33My dad is coming later.
00:27:34Okay.
00:27:45Feeling a little nervous, because I don't know what Aviva's gonna hear from Anne Spring.
00:27:51Probably more lies, but I don't want that to affect us.
00:27:53I don't want her to hear something really bad and wanna end things.
00:27:58I don't wanna lose Aviva, especially over this.
00:28:01Like, she would be stupid to have us break up for this.
00:28:07But I have a bad feeling about it.
00:28:17Hello.
00:28:18Hi.
00:28:19Would you like something to drink?
00:28:21Do you have a mojito?
00:28:22Yes, we do.
00:28:22Okay, make it extra strong.
00:28:24I will.
00:28:24And then I'm waiting for two more people, so.
00:28:27Okay.
00:28:27Okay, thank you.
00:28:28You're welcome.
00:28:30Hello.
00:28:31Hi.
00:28:34Hi.
00:28:34How are you?
00:28:35How are you?
00:28:36Good to see you.
00:28:37Good to see you.
00:28:38I already ordered a strong drink.
00:28:40Oh, is that the timing we're on?
00:28:43Sure are.
00:28:44Okay.
00:28:48Looks so good.
00:28:49You're welcome.
00:28:49Can we order something?
00:28:51Sure.
00:28:51Can I get a strawberry daiquiri?
00:28:53Strawberry mojito.
00:28:55Strawberry mojito?
00:28:56Strawberry mojito?
00:28:56Yes.
00:28:57Okay.
00:29:01So, mojito o'clock here.
00:29:04Yep.
00:29:06Last night was pretty intense.
00:29:08I saw you and Stig talking and it seemed a little heated.
00:29:13You wanna give me your side of the story?
00:29:17Did he give you his side of the story?
00:29:20He did.
00:29:21He told me that he took a picture with a fan and that it was all just a fan interaction.
00:29:33It's a friend of Corinne's and the girl has no reason to lie.
00:29:36Right.
00:29:38So, I got your frozen coconut strawberry mojito.
00:29:42And your strawberry.
00:29:43You ladies enjoy.
00:29:47So, maybe I should let Corinne explain.
00:29:52So, here is this picture.
00:29:56And if you can see like his...
00:29:58Yeah.
00:30:01That's a little bit more than a fan.
00:30:04The girl in the photo, we have known each other since we were really young.
00:30:08She has been telling me about her and him for a while.
00:30:12That they have been having relations off and on.
00:30:18So, when Aunt Spring had told me that you guys were starting to date, it was kind of weird to
00:30:24me.
00:30:24Because I know that they have a low key relationship, but they do have a relationship.
00:30:31Sexual, everything.
00:30:36Wow.
00:30:38And do we know if this is still going on currently?
00:30:42What do we know before I lose my mind on him?
00:30:45I can like see if I can call her and see if she would...
00:30:49I would love to.
00:30:56Are we actually calling?
00:30:58Oh.
00:30:59You're gonna...
00:31:00Get your questions ready.
00:31:02Hello?
00:31:06Can you hear me?
00:31:10So, Aviva, like what would you want me to ask my friend?
00:31:15When was the last time they slept together?
00:31:18Like when was the last time you and Stig ever like whatever?
00:31:28She said last month when they were here in Placentia.
00:31:34Have they talked after that?
00:31:37Like are you and Stig like still communicating?
00:31:40Do you guys still talk?
00:31:43They still communicate.
00:31:45Like he ever tell you he had a relationship?
00:31:49So he tell you he's single?
00:31:52He says he's single.
00:31:55So he never mentioned Aviva?
00:31:58Hmm.
00:31:59Okay.
00:32:01I'm sorry, friend.
00:32:02I owe you a night out.
00:32:04Bye.
00:32:08Do you still believe him when he's saying he doesn't know her and that she's just a fan?
00:32:13Not really.
00:32:13This girl has no reason to lie to Corinne.
00:32:16Yeah, she has no reason to lie.
00:32:17Like she didn't even know about you.
00:32:24So I have a real shocking text here.
00:32:30We do have an upcoming trip.
00:32:34Them together?
00:32:36So this trip is in San Pedro, end of the month, Friday to Sunday.
00:32:45Exactly when you leave.
00:32:52Sounds like this girl has kind of a casual relationship with Stig.
00:32:56Not like a serious girlfriend.
00:32:58But still, if she's telling the truth,
00:33:01they were hooking up a month ago when we were supposed to be exclusive.
00:33:05That's just crazy to me.
00:33:08I feel like I don't even know Stig at this point.
00:33:11And that's devastating.
00:33:12Devastating.
00:33:17I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you.
00:33:20But I was scared.
00:33:22In my culture, it's a sin.
00:33:24They will banish you.
00:33:26I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:33:29Shut up! Skip prayers.
00:33:38Um.
00:33:43I've been married five times.
00:33:47Five times?
00:33:51You would be my sixth husband.
00:33:55God.
00:34:14So why didn't you mention them to me?
00:34:16Why didn't you discuss with me?
00:34:18You only told me of two.
00:34:19Well, you never really asked.
00:34:22And so I just never mentioned it.
00:34:24But there's...
00:34:27Okay.
00:34:27Yeah.
00:34:32I don't feel bad.
00:34:34You can get married to a hundred men.
00:34:38And divorce.
00:34:40But when you meet your God-given husband...
00:34:45Um, it lasts forever.
00:34:49So what transpired?
00:34:51Well, they haven't all been faithful.
00:34:53Really?
00:34:54Yeah.
00:34:55Did they teach?
00:34:56The men?
00:34:57One did.
00:34:57Okay.
00:34:58One did.
00:34:59The fifth one.
00:35:00So tell me.
00:35:02Tell me about these 50 men.
00:35:04Um, what happened?
00:35:07Um...
00:35:07Yeah.
00:35:11Um...
00:35:12The fifth one was really bad.
00:35:15Um...
00:35:15We were married a few months.
00:35:18And then they ran off to be with somebody else.
00:35:21And I couldn't locate them for quite a while.
00:35:24And I recently located them.
00:35:26Okay.
00:35:28And I filled out the divorce papers.
00:35:31But I'm, um, still married.
00:35:35I'm still married.
00:35:35You are still married to the fifth one.
00:35:38I am still married.
00:35:44I wanted to tell you before you asked me to marry you.
00:35:47But you asked me to marry you in the middle of the airport with everybody there.
00:35:51And I couldn't say no.
00:35:52And I couldn't tell you that.
00:35:55So I have been sleeping with another man's wife.
00:36:01We are legally separated.
00:36:14You don't know what you have cost me.
00:36:17Sleeping with another man's wife in my culture is a sin.
00:36:19They will banish you.
00:36:20I'm sorry.
00:36:28Daniel, listen.
00:36:29I have not been with this person for nine years.
00:36:32Nine years.
00:36:33We've been married, but we have not lived in the same state.
00:36:36We have not lived, shared the same bed for nine years.
00:36:39We have been separated for nine years.
00:36:41I call you on phone every day.
00:36:43Yeah.
00:36:44After a conversation, I will tell you I love you and you will respond.
00:36:47Because I love you.
00:36:49You love me and you have not told me about it.
00:36:51I have not.
00:36:51Can you, can you keep, shut, keep quiet.
00:36:57This is some months we have been dating.
00:37:00You never told me.
00:37:01No.
00:37:03I was scared to tell you.
00:37:06It took me a long time to get the divorce, but the divorce is almost here.
00:37:20I've told you all the things you've always known about me.
00:37:23You're going to be sick.
00:37:24I never hide anything.
00:37:28You told me you love me.
00:37:30I do love you.
00:37:33Sleeping with another man's wife, I don't think it's love.
00:37:38I'm sorry.
00:37:42You're sorry?
00:37:44I'm sorry.
00:37:45My uncle came all the way from Goveri to Lagos because of you and I.
00:37:52My friends came.
00:37:54But I never know you have, you know, hidden stalls.
00:37:57So I lied to them.
00:37:59You didn't lie to them.
00:38:01I did this.
00:38:04I'm sorry that it took me so long to tell you.
00:38:10This is unbelievable.
00:38:13I don't know how to fix this.
00:38:14I, I...
00:38:16I'm sorry.
00:38:17Do you want your ring back?
00:38:20I'll give you your ring back and I'll leave.
00:38:40Oh my goodness.
00:38:50I've been sleeping.
00:38:51Sleeping with her.
00:38:52Sleeping with another man's wife.
00:38:57No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
00:39:01I don't know what to do.
00:39:03Oh my God.
00:39:17How are you feeling?
00:39:19Are you nervous?
00:39:19I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness.
00:39:23I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, Elise.
00:39:25I'm obsessed with her.
00:39:27So I'm hoping she will like me as much as I like her.
00:39:31It is definitely...
00:39:32What is it, a couple of hours?
00:39:33Yep, yep.
00:39:33You're yourself, right?
00:39:35I'm just...
00:39:37The guy keeps calling the border control in Australia.
00:39:40My visa's been denied eight times.
00:39:43What are you doing?
00:39:58What are you doing?
00:40:12I'm so excited.
00:40:14I'm so excited.
00:40:16I'm so excited.
00:40:17I'm so excited.
00:40:18I'm so excited.
00:40:18You're having fun, baby?
00:40:23Last night, Trish was very cold, and I felt like she needed her space.
00:40:30And I've been trying to make the most of our last day here at Nosy Bay.
00:40:34I'm trying to remind Trish of how fun things could be between us.
00:40:39I feel like she's starting to warm up a little bit.
00:40:43I don't know for sure.
00:40:48So why was the round so short?
00:40:51Like, they was only into it for like 20 seconds.
00:40:54I don't know.
00:40:58I thought you knew something about this.
00:41:01How are we going to...
00:41:02I don't know their rules.
00:41:06Moringa fight started in Madagascar, and you don't use something on your hand.
00:41:11You just fight directly.
00:41:15It's scary, but that's the culture.
00:41:18Because before, we didn't have anything to protect.
00:41:22This is why.
00:41:23And we keep the culture till now.
00:41:28We should solve our problem.
00:41:30I will win.
00:41:31Oh, you will?
00:41:33I'll give you one free shot.
00:41:38We could watch them, you know, fighting here,
00:41:40and then we could do some wrestling at home.
00:41:44Oh.
00:41:46I cannot forget all the things he has done.
00:41:49But it makes me feel a little bit happy and smile.
00:41:55I want this relationship to work.
00:41:59That's why I'm trying to give him a chance.
00:42:03Okay, this is the deal.
00:42:05You have to pick one.
00:42:07And if the one you pick win, we do have sex tonight.
00:42:12If the one I pick win, we don't have sex tonight.
00:42:18I might put my sex life on the lawn in some other man's head.
00:42:23No, that's my rule, so pick the good one.
00:42:28I mean, dude over there is much taller, so I'm going to have to go with him.
00:42:33Okay, I'm going to take the blue shirt off.
00:42:35Okay, okay, okay.
00:42:37You got to get him for me, man.
00:42:38My sex life depends on it.
00:42:42Hey, keep your distance, man.
00:42:45Yeah, he's going to make a ball, get him.
00:42:49Hey, hey, hey, referee.
00:42:51That's it, right?
00:42:52I don't know the rules to this thing.
00:42:55I don't know how points are scored.
00:42:57Come on, my man, get him.
00:42:58But after everything we've been through,
00:43:00I'm just happy that she's even considering having sex with me.
00:43:05Yeah, keep that distance.
00:43:07I hate seeing people fighting.
00:43:09Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah.
00:43:10Oh, yeah.
00:43:10Get him.
00:43:11Yeah.
00:43:12Oh, you open it up more.
00:43:13You open it up more.
00:43:14It's over.
00:43:15It's over.
00:43:15It's over.
00:43:22Come on.
00:43:23Come on, ref.
00:43:24Do the right thing, ref.
00:43:27Yeah!
00:43:29Yeah!
00:43:30I'm super high.
00:43:32I'm dancing, baby.
00:43:33Get ready.
00:43:34Get ready.
00:43:35We had a really good day.
00:43:38But there is no way we are going to have sex tonight.
00:43:43I don't want him to touch me at all.
00:43:46It's too soon for that.
00:43:50Oh, look at the car.
00:43:52Wow.
00:43:52That's what they used to use in the Jesus days right there.
00:43:55Yeah, we use it to carry everything.
00:43:57You'll see a lot of it in my hometown.
00:44:02Yeah.
00:44:05So, um, what do you think, baby?
00:44:07Do you still want me to lead you down?
00:44:13I already told my dad that we were here and we are coming to visit them, so...
00:44:20I cannot go back.
00:44:28You're not going to tell him about what happened, are you?
00:44:32No, I'm not.
00:44:35My dad is really protective.
00:44:37Like, all my daughter is in a good and a right hand.
00:44:42That's what he want.
00:44:44That's what I want from you, too, baby.
00:44:46I want your happiness.
00:44:49And hopefully he'll be able to see, you know, how much that I love his daughter.
00:44:58I'm feeling more nervous and anxious than I was before about this meeting with her family.
00:45:05I'm worried about going there and dealing with their expectations when we're not even in a good place.
00:45:14They want a younger guy that's, you know, never been married and that is excited about having children.
00:45:22And that's something that I'm not.
00:45:25I love Trish so much and I really want to be with her and make this work.
00:45:31But right now, it feels like I'm hanging on by a thread.
00:45:49What do we do?
00:45:56This is the fourth time system repression.
00:45:59I'm supposed to be boarding my flight to Australia right now.
00:46:03But I'm stuck here because my visa has been denied eight times.
00:46:07The guy keeps calling the Board of Control in Australia.
00:46:10I am panicking and I'm freaking out.
00:46:14It worked.
00:46:16What?
00:46:17It's worked?
00:46:19We got it?
00:46:20Give me a high five.
00:46:22Let's get the guys going.
00:46:23Come on.
00:46:24Thank God!
00:46:25They got it!
00:46:26Thank you so much.
00:46:27If I wasn't about to go meet the love of my life, I would ask you for your number.
00:46:31My guy told me that I put my first name as my last name when applying for the visa so
00:46:39it didn't match my passport.
00:46:42What a sigh of relief because like I'm so excited to go see Josh.
00:46:47I always do this ritual before flying.
00:46:52I'm going to have to do it.
00:46:55I cannot believe that I am traveling the world for someone I've never met in person.
00:47:04But I'm doing this because I truly believe that Joshua is my partner.
00:47:09And I've never felt more ready in my life.
00:47:14My God!
00:47:16I'm going to Australia.
00:47:18We are.
00:47:19What?
00:48:07Oi, dickhead.
00:48:09Oi.
00:48:11How are ya?
00:48:12Hey.
00:48:15My name is Joshua.
00:48:17I'm 39 years old and I live in Sydney, Australia.
00:48:20I'm sort of in between places at the moment.
00:48:23How are ya?
00:48:25Elise is sh**.
00:48:26It is, it is.
00:48:29Yogurt, veggies.
00:48:31But my girlfriend Elise is coming and I want a nice place for her.
00:48:34So, my friend and I, Chris, have a rental that we have organised for when she gets here.
00:48:39Did she request all of, literally every bit of this?
00:48:42She requested a lot more.
00:48:44And how are you feeling?
00:48:45Are you nervous?
00:48:46I'm nervous, but like it's an excited nervousness, so it is definitely...
00:48:49Was it a couple of hours?
00:48:50Yep, yep.
00:48:51Until I have to pick her up from the airport.
00:48:53You're sh**ing yourself, aren't you?
00:48:55I'm joking.
00:48:58Come check this out.
00:49:01What is it?
00:49:03I thought I'd establish a hierarchy really quickly.
00:49:06Are you kidding?
00:49:09It's in my bedroom.
00:49:12Wow.
00:49:13Elise is going to f***** hate it.
00:49:14I like it.
00:49:18Tell me about this photo that Chris puts above your bed.
00:49:22It's typical Chris, you know.
00:49:24Jesus.
00:49:25You don't have to take me right now.
00:49:27You can build up to it.
00:49:29She gets here tonight, so we'll see if it stays up or not.
00:49:33I'm so excited to meet my girlfriend, you know, after talking for six months.
00:49:39Elise makes me feel excitement because she could be the one.
00:49:44Elise is beautiful, but what I love about Elise is that she's an unbelievable listener,
00:49:49and you can tell she cares.
00:49:52Elise is very fiery, but I think that's an attractive quality.
00:49:56I know when she gets here that I will be obsessed with her.
00:50:00So I'm hoping that she will like me as much as I know I like her.
00:50:05Here we go.
00:50:13What are you going to wear?
00:50:15Oh, blue pants, cream jacket.
00:50:16Wait, so we're wearing the same thing.
00:50:18How's she going to know who's who?
00:50:20No, I'm just joking.
00:50:22Today's the Melbourne Cup race, so it's a horse race.
00:50:25All of Australia watches it.
00:50:27This is something that Chris and I would typically celebrate together.
00:50:31Ready, princess?
00:50:32Princess is almost ready.
00:50:35It's an excuse to dress up and have a few drinks.
00:50:38We're going to whisk her straight off the plane and straight to watch the race.
00:50:41She says she's spontaneous, so I think she'll be okay with it.
00:50:44So we can go straight from the airport and then we'll cut off a 25-hour flight.
00:50:55I'm now starting to be like, oh, wow, it's actually happening.
00:50:59Yeah, big day.
00:51:02I'm jumping into a relationship with someone that I've never met, like, in person.
00:51:05It's so different.
00:51:07So being a Miami chick, how do you think she's going to fit into the circle over here?
00:51:12I don't know.
00:51:14If she has a problem, it'll be with Nat, not me, I reckon.
00:51:17Yeah, if she has a problem, it'll definitely be with Nat, not you.
00:51:19Yes.
00:51:20Do you think American girls are more jealous?
00:51:23Do you think it's weird for them?
00:51:24Do you think it's different, like male and female friends?
00:51:26What do they think?
00:51:27You make a good point.
00:51:28I didn't think about that.
00:51:32My friend that's a girl, Nat, she's just a special person that looks after everyone.
00:51:37Like she's let me stay with her while I've been looking for a place.
00:51:41So I've been living with her for three months.
00:51:46Okay, wait, let me step back for a second, because Elise said that you told her you were
00:51:50with your parents.
00:51:52Oh.
00:51:54No.
00:51:58Are you?
00:52:00Well, I am, I'm nervous.
00:52:03Very nervous.
00:52:04Jesus.
00:52:07Hold my hand.
00:52:10I got you, boy.
00:52:13it is really important for me that this works out you know i dragged halfway across the world
00:52:18i wouldn't do that on a whim or just for fun
00:52:24but you know i feel a bit embarrassed because i don't have a lot of stability in my life at
00:52:29the moment and i know that's important to a girlfriend but i hope she can see that i'm
00:52:35ready to get really serious and you know settle down
00:52:40she's already is she already here or yeah she just touched down so
00:52:44yeah i literally just landed in australia i am tired i'm overwhelmed but i am about to meet josh
00:52:54for the first time oh my god i cannot believe i'm here my adrenaline is pumping oh my god i'm
00:53:02gonna
00:53:02go do it beautiful lady thank you hopefully my husband thinks i'm beautiful too i'm about to
00:53:07meet him for the first time
00:53:10you want me to maybe stand a little back or should i be right here it was always the case
00:53:14you weren't
00:53:14coming right up with me right okay right okay does she know i'm here though um i don't know no
00:53:20i didn't
00:53:21say anything no okay i have so many emotions right now like i literally just saw on chris's social media
00:53:30that chris and josh are like in like straight suits and ties first of all weird that chris is coming
00:53:37to
00:53:38pick me up i have so much anxiety already how it is like so much anxiety
00:53:46do you want a light massage take the nerves away
00:53:50i've been envisioning this moment for so long and i've already had a travel day from hell
00:53:56so the fact that he has to bring his friend to the airport is he not comfortable enough to meet
00:54:02me on
00:54:02his own like what the i just traveled 30 hours so i have all this time to think and i'm
00:54:10starting to
00:54:10spiral out of control this guy is 39 and has a roommate and on top of that he has his
00:54:17job incident
00:54:19and i'm thinking about all the things my parents said to me and the overwhelming pressure of like not
00:54:24trying to let them down good luck don't what i've been wrong so many times and i've done not only
00:54:34damage to me but damage to my family i don't have another wrong in me
00:54:48this is my dad hi when it comes to dating my son is always drama talking to a bunch of
00:54:55girls
00:54:55when he said that he's seriously though biva i have to question it that girl said you guys actually
00:55:01hooked up before about a month ago so is any of this true
00:55:22oh look there they are that must be the status
00:55:32hi how are you
00:55:35hello spring nice to meet you hi nice to meet you i'm a beaver
00:55:39nice to see you can i offer you guys a drink or what are you drinking i would love a
00:55:46drink i don't
00:55:46know did you try a panty ripper yet no you might be one of those two panty ripper please yes
00:55:52please
00:55:53i had plans to meet up with steak's dad tonight and i'm really really nervous i don't want to come
00:56:02off
00:56:02as just this crazy girl meeting his dad for the first time but after talking to corinne's friend
00:56:10i learned so much today and i definitely want to bring this up to stick i wanted
00:56:16aunt spring to be here because she can ask all the hard questions and basically play a bad cop and
00:56:22she doesn't have to worry about the repercussions
00:56:27you took her away from me all day and spin it's definitely been an interesting day
00:56:33yeah is that a good thing or a bad thing
00:56:36there's a lot to talk about oh really
00:56:41aviva has been gone since morning with her aunt
00:56:44right now the vibes are off aviva has basically been like ignoring my texts all of today
00:56:52i'm pretty sure aunt spring is there putting stuff in her head so i'm like i'm i don't know i'm
00:56:59anxious
00:57:01my dad came to the hotel earlier i gave him a quick summary of what went down with aunt spring
00:57:07last night last night and spring pull up swinging yeah yes pull out the phone and asked me so what
00:57:14is this so i got a picture of me and a girl i hold on my waist and i did
00:57:18really you sure you don't have
00:57:22done with this girl no no no no i didn't even know this will be the father where do we
00:57:27start
00:57:29jump right into it i don't know i mean you're meeting my dad for the first time i know this
00:57:34is very
00:57:34uncomfortable sorry that you have to be here for this aviva maybe you should be the one to
00:57:44explain to him what's going on today
00:57:48i mean i talked to that girl and what girl current no not not to my niece yeah to the
00:57:56girl in photo
00:57:57the random girl i took a picture with
00:58:00thank you
00:58:05uh what happened um she said that you guys actually had you know hooked up before
00:58:13it was about a month ago and uh apparently you're going to san pedro end of the month with her
00:58:27so is any of this true no no no that i swear i swear i swear i can see where
00:58:37aunt spring is coming
00:58:38from when he said that he's serious as aviva i have to question it because when it comes to dating
00:58:44my son
00:58:45there's always um drama he's always been talking to a bunch of girls and i just never saw him just
00:58:53settling down now especially with the work that he's doing i'm sure my dad the photo so he could tell
00:59:01i don't know why a best friend would lie to a best friend the text between them what what happened
00:59:07there she said my man happened my man happened so i mean i can see why and so we called
00:59:13her to clear
00:59:14up that and she spoke with aviva probably not a good look but it's not a good look but to
00:59:18me it's not a
00:59:18definite i i would figure that if uh this girl really wants to prove that she's this is going on
00:59:26she said here's a text that was the last one she provided with him telling her that he loved it
00:59:32but
00:59:32that we see like just like conversations like not long conversations yeah not long conversation but
00:59:37the only text that i saw like saying like well i'm can i meet you can i see you anything
00:59:41like that
00:59:42that'll prove that yeah no it's about it young lady probably didn't even have my number when we
00:59:48died that's crazy i have no reason to lie
00:59:54she just completely made that up then what do you need from me call me everything you want my
01:00:01location i don't have nothing to hide hey i'm here having you with my dad do you think i'm not
01:00:08serious about you
01:00:13i'm not sure if he's just lying and making this stuff up but he did bring up a point that
01:00:19the girl in the
01:00:20photo couldn't provide solid evidence i don't even know if she actually has sig's phone number
01:00:29so all i have right now is his word against hers well i'm gonna take your word for it that
01:00:38maybe she's
01:00:39just trying to cause drama what's the home about i don't know i don't know i mean i don't know
01:00:51i do feel that aviva is quick to trust stig stig may be able to fool aviva but he's definitely
01:00:58not
01:00:59fooling me but i have given her all the information and it is her choice to make her future decisions
01:01:08and if i do later you know find out that you know you weren't telling the truth i obviously wouldn't
01:01:13want to continue but i do still want to work things out like i want it i want to work
01:01:19it out with you
01:01:19babe for the millionth time i don't mind it could be a billion time i'm gonna be as transparent as
01:01:27i can
01:01:27this relationship i live in a glass house nothing to hide right i got you i'm glad all the drama
01:01:36is done
01:01:37i have a clean slate right now but i'm definitely worried about what else will come out in the future
01:01:45a few months ago when aviva was hinting about being exclusive i did take some steps and made some
01:01:51changes but i wasn't 100 i was still entertaining people i wasn't sleeping around but i was texting
01:01:58people hanging around people i'm not really proud of it now but i was still unsure about aviva because
01:02:07we haven't met in real life but aviva doesn't know this
01:02:11yeah she doesn't know this i didn't want to scare her away and now that we've met in person and
01:02:18it's
01:02:18what i thought it was no other woman in the picture i'm done with all that now i'm just hoping
01:02:24that she doesn't find out are we good let's move forward from it okay yeah
01:02:37she called me a liar she called me a scammer but she's the real scammer i'm sorry i came here
01:02:44to tell
01:02:45you the truth in person i came here to tell you everything i want to go home please
01:02:54and he doesn't even know she's a she oh my god
01:03:10i feel like dying
01:03:16i'm not okay i'm not okay
01:03:25i've done the the i've done the the worst i've committed the worst sin sleeping with another
01:03:30man's wife i feel like someone poisoned me someone
01:03:35i should have never known him i should have kept it a secret
01:03:41in america they have been legally separated no no no no no don't tell me in america you don't have
01:03:46to tell
01:03:46me that i respect my culture
01:03:53i'm engaged with another man's wife in my culture we don't do that it's a very big offense if you
01:03:59should do it in our tribe it's something that will bring shame not only to me but to my family
01:04:05as well
01:04:06i could be banished because of lisa because of her lies i want to go back to him but i'm
01:04:14scared
01:04:16this is forbidden and i know i don't know how to talk to god my god i don't know how
01:04:21to talk to the
01:04:23ancestors because i have to ask for apology
01:04:29daniel i'm sorry daniel
01:04:33daniel no
01:04:34daniel stop stop
01:04:37please listen to me i'm sorry i'm sorry i didn't tell you the truth
01:04:43i'm sorry i didn't speak to you about this before now
01:04:46i'm sorry i came here to tell you the truth in person i came here to tell you everything
01:04:53i love you and i want us to be together forever
01:04:57i'm so sorry
01:05:01early please forgive me you're messed up that's all i have to say
01:05:19can you stop stop
01:05:25i feel empty
01:05:29i don't think he's ever going to forgive me and i haven't even told him everything
01:05:36i should have told him in the beginning
01:05:40i waited and i waited and i held off and the worst case scenario happened
01:05:46he doesn't want me near him he doesn't want to hear me
01:05:52i'm worried that i have lost daniel there's no coming back from this
01:05:59i'm a person
01:06:11she called me a liar she called me a scammer
01:06:28and i thought the white people tell us the truth
01:06:42i've given her my heart i trusted i believed in her
01:06:48what did i think you deserve all this
01:06:52i mean for god's sakes i've been separated for nine years separated
01:06:58for nine years didn't know where she lived and he doesn't even know she's a she oh my god
01:07:06when he finds out she's a she i don't know what he's gonna think i haven't even been with a
01:07:12man for 21 years
01:07:15i don't have any hope anymore
01:07:22i want you to go home please
01:07:44hey doctor forgive me
01:07:49you're not going to forgive me
01:07:54you're not gonna forgive me
01:08:00Jordan, wait, you're there.
01:08:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, my God.
01:08:22Why are you so dressed up?
01:08:24It's Norman Cup Day.
01:08:25Do you want to come and have a few drinks?
01:08:28The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris,
01:08:32and two, to take me to a bar the second I landed at the airport.
01:08:37After a few tequilas, you won't even forget
01:08:39that you haven't had showered or put makeup on or done your hair.
01:08:54Oh, man.
01:09:11Oh, my God.
01:09:13Oh, my God.
01:09:14Oh, my God.
01:09:15Oh.
01:09:23Oh, come here, give me a hug.
01:09:25Hello.
01:09:26Oh, my God.
01:09:28Oh, God.
01:09:32Oh, God.
01:09:34I'm literally shaking.
01:09:36It's a lot.
01:09:37I'm so happy.
01:09:38I'm finally touching you.
01:09:39Yes, I know what I'm saying.
01:09:40Wow, that's it.
01:09:43You're sexy.
01:09:44So are you.
01:09:45Don't leave my side.
01:09:50Oh, my God.
01:09:51I'm so happy to see you.
01:09:52You're so sexy, I think.
01:09:55All you think is you're tired.
01:09:56No, I know.
01:09:57I know.
01:09:57I know.
01:09:58I know.
01:10:02It feels really, really good.
01:10:04Finally.
01:10:05Finally.
01:10:05How good does it feel?
01:10:07Amazing.
01:10:08How does she look?
01:10:09She looks amazing.
01:10:10Do you feel like you look amazing?
01:10:12No, I feel like I look like absolute s***.
01:10:14What are you talking about?
01:10:15I did not want him to see me for the first time looking like this, especially when he's
01:10:19dressed up like this.
01:10:20Like, it's like an oxymoron.
01:10:22Right?
01:10:23Wait.
01:10:23Oxymoron means s***.
01:10:25Wait.
01:10:27Um, I don't know.
01:10:28But I just feel like he looks really good.
01:10:30And like, I just look like slummy.
01:10:33You look amazing.
01:10:34I need reassurance every five minutes.
01:10:35Okay.
01:10:36I'm happy to do that.
01:10:37Every three.
01:10:39You actually look exactly what I thought.
01:10:41Perfect.
01:10:42Yeah.
01:10:42So do you.
01:10:43So do you.
01:10:44I was so f***ing scared.
01:10:46And I had so much anxiety.
01:10:48But then seeing him standing there and seeing the look in his eyes, I felt like I just have
01:10:53to follow my heart and like, I have to give this a chance.
01:10:56And then I hugged him and I felt like I've known him for years.
01:10:59I really didn't expect to feel this comfortable this soon.
01:11:03So why are you so dressed up?
01:11:05Um, because it's Melbourne Cup Day.
01:11:08This is the biggest day of the year.
01:11:09Okay.
01:11:10So we were hoping that you might want to come and have a few drinks and let your hair down.
01:11:15I know that you're probably jet lagged.
01:11:17I'm tired.
01:11:18I feel like s***.
01:11:19I look like s***.
01:11:20I need a shower.
01:11:22We don't have time.
01:11:23So where are we going to undo it?
01:11:25Oh!
01:11:26Chris!
01:11:29Can I tell her that we don't have time?
01:11:31Yeah, we're going out.
01:11:32We're going out, yeah.
01:11:34I know it's bad timing, but after a few tequilas, you won't even forget that you haven't had
01:11:39showered or put makeup on or done your hair.
01:11:42Yep.
01:11:43And time is a factor, so.
01:11:44Yeah.
01:11:45It is?
01:11:46Yeah, yeah.
01:11:47First race is in 13 minutes.
01:11:50If it makes you happy, I'll do it, but I feel really uncomfortable.
01:11:53You guys look very good and I s*** look like a tree back.
01:11:56Surely there's something in your 50 bags.
01:11:59So should we do it right here?
01:12:01No, I didn't think that far ahead.
01:12:03Surely Josh did.
01:12:03He's the pranks.
01:12:04I think we can open up all my suitcases and we can have, like, a party of what Elise could
01:12:07wear.
01:12:07I like when people pick out my outfits.
01:12:09Yeah.
01:12:09Let's start now.
01:12:12Each boy.
01:12:13I see where she actually will.
01:12:14Each boy grab a suitcase and open it up.
01:12:23I see dresses.
01:12:25Joshua liked that on me.
01:12:26I sent him a picture.
01:12:29I kind of want to dress sluttier.
01:12:31Dress what?
01:12:32Sluttier.
01:12:33No, you dress how you want.
01:12:35I don't mind.
01:12:35I don't need a bra or underwear with this dress.
01:12:38That saves time.
01:12:39Saves time?
01:12:40Saves time.
01:12:41Let's get ready.
01:12:43All right.
01:12:44I will go get ready in the bathroom.
01:12:46Yep.
01:12:46We'll be outside.
01:12:47Just here.
01:12:47Right here.
01:12:48Okay.
01:12:50I like that she's a trooper.
01:12:51That is attractive.
01:12:52Someone that's sort of like, yep, you know what?
01:12:53You want to do it?
01:12:54Let's do it.
01:13:00So what do you think about it?
01:13:01Good.
01:13:02That went well, I think.
01:13:03Yeah.
01:13:04She's a firecracker.
01:13:06Yeah.
01:13:07I just can't believe that I'm actually getting ready in a bathroom at the airport to go to
01:13:12a bar to watch an event.
01:13:15I really just hope Josh sees how much effort I'm putting into this relationship.
01:13:22Obviously, this isn't the ideal first day with Josh.
01:13:25The last thing I thought possible was, one, to bring Chris, and two, to take me to a bar
01:13:32the second I landed at the airport.
01:13:36But I flew across the world to, like, get a glimpse of his life and figure out if he's
01:13:40the person I want to be with.
01:13:42Everything seems good right now.
01:13:43Our connection and our chemistry was, like, it's there.
01:13:46So I'm really going to just try and make the best of it.
01:13:52I am here.
01:13:54Hey, there she is.
01:13:56You look stunning.
01:13:58I'm not even wearing underwear.
01:14:00Oh, well.
01:14:01Just hope it doesn't get too windy.
01:14:06All right.
01:14:07Well, now I'm dressed like you boys.
01:14:09Fed up, I'd say.
01:14:10It's the three musketeers.
01:14:19Are you going to be part of our lives or not?
01:14:22You're going to give me the ultimate...
01:14:24Forrest?
01:14:27I'm just a little bit...
01:14:28Excuse me?
01:14:29You know...
01:14:29Excuse me?
01:14:30You going on your little attack?
01:14:32You have...
01:14:32I don't like the attitude you're having.
01:14:44You made it perfectly clear that you mentally cannot handle my decisions.
01:14:50You seem like you're way too stressed out.
01:14:53We don't want to cause you any more stress.
01:14:57Well, you're the big man now, aren't you?
01:14:59You're the big grown-up that can handle all the decisions on his own, right?
01:15:06Yes.
01:15:07Yes.
01:15:08Yes, I am.
01:15:12I have always had to protect Forrest because of his autism.
01:15:19And it's happened before where he's been taken advantage of and used and hurt deeply.
01:15:27I'm absolutely positive that Sheena manipulated Forrest again, just so that he would propose to her.
01:15:34But in the grand scheme of things, Forrest is going to do what Forrest wants to do.
01:15:41And now, I feel like I lost my son.
01:15:44I really feel like I lost my son.
01:15:48And it makes me really sad.
01:15:56You know, Forrest, you have done this crap to me over and over again.
01:16:00And I am tired.
01:16:03I am so tired.
01:16:06I am tired of the mess that you keep throwing me into.
01:16:11And then when I crawl up to grab you out again and crawl up to save you out of a
01:16:17situation or to help you,
01:16:19you turn around and you give me the big bird.
01:16:21Well, it's none of your effing business, Mom.
01:16:26And do you think that the next time it crumbles and falls,
01:16:31that when you go to pick up the phone to call me to save you, that I'm going to be
01:16:34there?
01:16:34I promise, I won't come to you.
01:16:40Sheena and I are going to move forward, okay?
01:16:45You're going to be in our lives, but...
01:16:47You think?
01:16:48I think.
01:16:49You might be surprised, Forrest.
01:16:51Oh, well...
01:16:51You just might be surprised.
01:16:56All right, well...
01:17:00Have a good night to you, ghost.
01:17:06I'm sorry, by the law.
01:17:09Thank you for standing over me.
01:17:12It's okay, baby.
01:17:15It's hard to think that my mom would actually step away from my life,
01:17:20rather than accept Sheena as my wife.
01:17:24I never thought it would come to this and that my own mother would put me in this situation.
01:17:33Losing my mom is something I never expected to lose on this trip.
01:17:38I lost my best friend, the person who's been with me my entire life, the person who gave birth to
01:17:44me.
01:17:45And it's tearing me apart.
01:17:49My God.
01:17:51It is time that mommy just cut it.
01:17:56Mommy has to let him be the man and take the knocks and not bail him out.
01:18:01Forrest is on his own now.
01:18:03Yep.
01:18:10Oh, God.
01:18:11I'm starting to be like Sheena.
01:18:13Oh, my God.
01:18:17I told him the truth and he won't even talk to me.
01:18:20Did you even tell him about the women?
01:18:22No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:18:25He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:18:28Yes, he is.
01:18:29I can't tell him that.
01:18:31I can't tell him.
01:18:32You have to.
01:18:33I can't.
01:18:41Daniel.
01:18:43Daniel.
01:18:47Daniel.
01:18:49Daniel.
01:18:49Daniel.
01:18:55Daniel.
01:19:15I don't think it's a good idea for us to stay together.
01:19:19So I'm going to get myself a different room.
01:19:34Hi, do you want to have a separate room, please?
01:19:52Hi.
01:19:55I just told Daniel how many times I was married, and then I'm still married.
01:20:02He didn't take it very well, and I'm in a whole different room.
01:20:07I told him the truth, and he won't even talk to me.
01:20:12Did you even tell him about the women?
01:20:14No, I haven't mentioned the women.
01:20:16I've only told him about the marriages.
01:20:20But you didn't just lie about the marriages.
01:20:23You lied about a whole part of your life.
01:20:27He's going to be destroyed by the women.
01:20:31Yes, he is.
01:20:32I can't tell him that.
01:20:34I can't tell him.
01:20:35You have to.
01:20:36I can't.
01:20:37He's never going to forgive this.
01:20:39I would be going to forgive that.
01:20:41I know you don't want to tell him so you can stay together.
01:20:45But you, he will find out eventually.
01:20:54I'm sorry.
01:20:57Daniel's the one forever, Faith.
01:20:59He's really the one.
01:21:01I want him, Faith.
01:21:03I want Daniel.
01:21:06I want Daniel.
01:21:08I don't want this to be over.
01:21:18We're here.
01:21:19Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:22Before I got here, I told Joshua I wanted to take things slow,
01:21:26not leading with sex.
01:21:28But at the same time, he's hot.
01:21:30And I wanted to make him, you know,
01:21:32see a little glimpse of what he might be getting.
01:21:35Josh.
01:21:39We're packing up to go to Trisha's hometown to meet her family.
01:21:43This is like make or break.
01:21:46I just want to make sure that I'm the man that you want
01:21:48to be introduced to your family.
01:21:50I told you, yes.
01:21:52So what else do you want?
01:21:54Just tell me now.
01:21:55Just tell me.
01:21:59Emma.
01:22:00Maddie.
01:22:00You don't know how happy I am to see your face right now.
01:22:04What's wrong?
01:22:04It literally went to with him,
01:22:07leaving me alone in the desert.
01:22:08Can we just be done with the country of Morocco?
01:22:12Don't be mad.
01:22:13What?
01:22:15What is it?
01:22:16Muhammad.
01:22:17Oh, my God.
01:22:18Hello?
01:22:20The other night, I called my friend Michael
01:22:23because I have concerns.
01:22:25And now Michael has the same concerns.
01:22:28He has no place in our relationship.
01:22:30Well, he wants to come here.
01:22:32He already bought a flight.
01:22:34What?
01:22:36Oh, my God.
01:22:37I cannot believe you're in Turkey.
01:22:39This is wild.
01:22:44I'm not giving up at walking away like I have every other relationship.
01:22:47I'm going to wipe the tears and I'm going to fight for Daniel.
01:22:51I'm asking you to give me a chance.
01:22:53I planned a small romantic getaway.
01:22:57Is this a kind of a trap?
01:23:03Is this being romantic?
01:23:05Yeah.
01:23:06Did I pass the test today?
01:23:07Kind of.
01:23:07Okay.
01:23:08You still have to be nicer to each other.
01:23:11I think that you got comfortable.
01:23:13Don't ever get too comfortable.
01:23:15Ever.
01:23:15You don't want to bitch your wife.
01:23:18Don't be a asshole.
01:23:20I'm like, I don't have to talk.
01:23:22I don't want to see you ever again.
01:23:25Don't come home.
01:23:26Ever.
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