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00:00:01I still want my happily ever after and I really hope it's with you here's to
00:00:05hopefully being happily ever after yours Sam three new couples entered the
00:00:11experiment wifey in the search for true love if the person across from me today
00:00:17embraces woke culture will have a problem thank God
00:00:23Juliet and Joel bonded on their honeymoon I feel safe with him and he
00:00:28makes me feel giddy Chris still wasn't ready to share his upcoming baby news
00:00:33he'll open up when he's ready appreciate that and despite their shared worldviews
00:00:39Stephanie and Tyson clashed what does submissive look like to you then the
00:00:44opposite of you
00:00:48while our original couples celebrated their first month together thank you
00:00:53Grayson was left feeling blindsided that burning desire doesn't seem
00:00:58to be growing as Julia's letter left him heartbroken
00:01:05you're going around dropping bombs you came for my husband with life and when
00:01:09Beck went on an attack stare at me with your evil eyes no one was spared I got
00:01:14told that Jules wished that she had been matched with a woman
00:01:17trust me
00:01:18trust me
00:01:19feisty
00:01:19shut up newbie
00:01:21Danny looks embarrassed
00:01:22before hurtful texts from Beck about Alyssa were revealed
00:01:26take a screenshot shall we
00:01:28I'm disappointed
00:01:30you think that someone has your back or they don't
00:01:34tonight
00:01:35I really wanted to show Stephen how special he is to me
00:01:40romantic connections continue to grow
00:01:42I treasure you and I'm proud of you
00:01:44I love that you are open with me
00:01:46I really appreciate you
00:01:47every day it's just getting better and better
00:01:49she just makes me feel like yeah like I'm at home
00:01:53Stella and Philip are already planning their future together
00:01:56what he would look like after we leave this experiment Tyson is challenged by the
00:02:01experts you're saying I want to be with someone who will lie down give up their
00:02:06rights I'm not saying that well you are I'm not you actually are saying that
00:02:11before John delivers some direct feedback I'm gonna let you into a secret and then
00:02:19you hurt me the week before you nearly caused my relationship to end when Beck doubles down why would you
00:02:27do that do
00:02:28you know what you're right I know I'm right but what I don't know is why you're doing that the
00:02:33experts hold her to
00:02:34account watching you last night apply a blowtorch to pretty much everybody at the dinner party if you sent off
00:02:41enough grenades in other people's relationships you can avoid having tough conversations about the two of you
00:03:06it's the morning of the third commitment ceremony good morning good morning and our
00:03:14couples are waking up after another eventful dinner party
00:03:19oh how'd you sleep all right it was a big night yeah how are you feeling last night yeah I'm
00:03:27just tired
00:03:29but it was Beck's behavior that's got everyone talking I felt like we're in
00:03:34parliament for a little bit there you know we're in the last four weeks of the
00:03:37election every bit of drama involved Beck's and I know
00:03:41staring at me with your evil eyes the only reason I hated Alyssa this is what
00:03:46you've said about Alyssa so let's pull up the receipt shall we
00:03:49Alyssa went home for the weekend turmoil in the relationship
00:03:55jumping in everyone's relationships jumping down everyone's throat what you did was
00:04:00really good though last night like you had my back that came at me and you were
00:04:05like you know shutting her down don't talk to my wife like that like I
00:04:08appreciate you for that I think me and Scott were great I didn't see Danny
00:04:12backing up his woman like Scott was backing up me last night I think he just
00:04:16like let her out to dry Danny didn't say a single word so clearly their
00:04:21relationship is just not on their relationship is gonna come unraveled at
00:04:28some point so it doesn't look too good for her and Danny at the moment
00:04:41I don't like yelling but like if you don't yell across that table you can't no one no one's gonna
00:04:46hear you it was crazy at the end of
00:04:50the day my whole purpose of that dinner party was to clear my husband's name and I
00:04:54did that so we're stronger than ever as per usual which is great we did we did
00:05:00well we didn't argue most important thing I had each other's backs which is good
00:05:10at the dinner parties when everyone sees a lot that they probably just perceive her
00:05:14as she's that type of girl causing fights off everybody being quite vicious in her approach I
00:05:24don't want to be going to every dinner party just sitting there thinking all I'm gonna do
00:05:28is have to back my missus because she's arguing tonight I didn't come here to argue I came here to
00:05:44find love
00:05:45everyone's getting set for tonight's commitment ceremony type my sparkly socks
00:05:51love them
00:05:55ready yep first commitment ceremony all right but a surprise decision from the
00:06:02experts awaits our new couples looks like we have a letter
00:06:08oh Juliette and Joel dear newlyweds right
00:06:13now you are still very much in your honeymoon bubble but the real experiment
00:06:16begins as you move into your new living arrangements tomorrow therefore at
00:06:20tonight's commitment ceremony you will not be making a decision about the future of
00:06:24your relationship instead it is an opportunity to open up to us seek advice
00:06:28and gain insight on what you might need to move forward as a couple in this experiment we look
00:06:32forward to seeing you the experts and I was already to write stay explanation
00:06:36point explanation explanation that's right the experts decision to not be able to write stay or leave
00:06:43tonight may prove to be an issue for new couple Stephanie and Tyson you want a water yes please as
00:06:51Tyson left last night's dinner party feeling unsupported by his wife
00:06:57yeah the vibe between Steph and I was a little bit distant comes to the chat about yesterday yesterday she
00:07:05could have got more involved but I think deep down she probably wanted to see me crash and burn to
00:07:10an extent do you believe a man should pay or
00:07:14or what's your view on it um look if I'm into the girl hey but if I'm not really into
00:07:22her then I'm 50 50 50.
00:07:25oh really yeah this is where I find it contradictory because you're like I want to be his provider and
00:07:29the protector and blah blah blah but then you wouldn't make me pay
00:07:32with an actual wife though I am your wife right now yeah temporarily I think that's a pretty low comment
00:07:41oh bro that's just how I feel man
00:07:42that's how I feel last night was was hectic wasn't it to say the least yeah it was insane I
00:07:50feel like obviously the whole anti-woke thing got brought up and then I just had a target on my
00:07:56forehead
00:07:56yeah but I think as well Steph I thought I'd have just a little bit more support from you
00:08:03because you're very quiet and I know there was a lot going on it was very hard to get a
00:08:08word in
00:08:08to be honest you're telling me and I'm not Beck barking every two seconds it was a bit surprising
00:08:14to hear that Tyson felt that I didn't have his back I mean but I just think that speaks volumes
00:08:20to
00:08:20how him and I handle things I'm not going to stand up and back you if I don't agree with
00:08:24your opinion
00:08:25or your behavior but you did agree with majority of what I had to say didn't you yeah and I
00:08:30and I feel
00:08:30like I spoke about that as well I mean you were quiet I'm not confrontational like that just with me
00:08:38yeah it seems that way hmm I think you added in a little smart ass comment there saying oh he
00:08:45doesn't know what he wants in a woman you said something along those lines well you don't well
00:08:49I do I know exactly what I want Steph and you shouldn't say that you know what I want you
00:08:54know
00:08:54you barely even know you say what you want you've been given that but that's not what you want well
00:08:59I
00:08:59haven't been given that though I asked for someone that wasn't masculine you do bring a lot of
00:09:04masculinity to this relationship um no I don't well I feel like you do I feel like you do I'm
00:09:11just
00:09:11telling you how I feel I just have the traits of an independent smart career-driven focused woman
00:09:18yeah but you can still have that that's masculine energy the way you perceive things and the way you
00:09:24always like try challenge me it just comes across I challenge because I think that's healthy it's not
00:09:32always Tyson's way and ties the thing is though you've always you've always try to have control like you
00:09:37have these little smart ass remarks to say as well and you give them back to me it comes across
00:09:42so rude
00:09:42comes across I think you're rude well I think you're very rude so okay yeah it's it's frustrating
00:09:50Steph it's sometimes it's so frustrating talking to you it's couldn't agree more yeah
00:09:54I would not agree more full of contradictions I couldn't agree more
00:10:05for Mel and Luke despite a recent positive turnaround moving back into the same apartment
00:10:12has seen no further romantic progression between them hello hello how are you going good how are you
00:10:20going yeah not bad not bad the more time I spend with him the more I realize that my feelings
00:10:29aren't
00:10:29developing I don't want to kiss him I don't want to cuddle him like because I don't have feelings for
00:10:35him
00:10:36my body's telling me no feeling upset by how everything's I'm really upset by it too
00:10:49every day in this experiment I wake up and I'm like maybe today's the day like my feelings will
00:10:53develop but haven't felt that attraction towards him I've been to trying to get there yeah and I
00:11:04need you to know that like I have also tried for six weeks like it's a long time debatable this
00:11:17week
00:11:18there's been a shock in the experiment as one bride didn't wait till the commitment ceremony to let
00:11:24her intentions be known in the past week Grayson and I have really sort of navigated where we're both
00:11:32at in this connection we've had some honest chats and I shared with him you know a letter letting you
00:11:41know how I was feeling that burning desire we have both spoken about doesn't seem to be growing so yeah
00:11:50we've essentially you know broke enough isn't something that I take lightly you know but I think
00:11:57I would be betraying myself if I wasn't listening to what my body and my heart and my mind is
00:12:03telling me
00:12:04and I definitely feel just disconnected and confused despite a strong initial start
00:12:15and Grayson's efforts to follow Julia's lead dangle your head what's been working for us it's just
00:12:23allowing jewels to take things at our own pace Julia has kept Grayson at arm's length which was
00:12:30further compounded off the back of a difficult intimacy week I want to continue the emotional
00:12:35depth and expanding the natural organic free-flowing energy that I probably need to romantically connect
00:12:45what's the greatest moment you've had on the footy field what's your favorite quality about your ex
00:12:53but after weeks of trying Julia drew her line in the sand that burning desire doesn't seem
00:12:59to be growing making her decision very clear I've seen you lean in however at this stage a flame
00:13:07of mutual chemistry hasn't been ignited and I don't want to force anything I'm not sure how to feel
00:13:17about going into tonight there's a whole different range of emotions I'm feeling it's hard to pinpoint
00:13:22you know I really care about it I wanted there to be a future there for us and it's I
00:13:28just feel like
00:13:28I've never been really given a proper chance by Julia you know I've sort of begged for transparency
00:13:35and honesty and clarity and I just haven't never got it I want to fall in love with someone I
00:13:44want to be
00:13:45a father I want to build a life with someone and yeah it's just um at this point it's not
00:13:51um it's not
00:13:53happening yeah I mean I'm so far from where I would have liked this to be
00:14:21well hello James good evening how are we going good to see you all see everyone
00:14:39good evening ladies hello ladies lovely to see you all
00:14:51welcome thank you new couples
00:14:53hello
00:15:02they're all coming for me
00:15:15welcome everybody to the third commitment ceremony
00:15:20and to kick things off we would like to welcome our three new couples Chris and Sam Joel and Juliet
00:15:27and Tyson and Stephanie because you haven't had a chance to do any of the tasks or get any guidance
00:15:35from us until today you will not be getting a choice tonight on whether you stay or leave we will
00:15:41try to
00:15:41help direct and maneuver you guys in the best way possible for the next week so that at the next
00:15:47commitment ceremony then you can actually start doing your choosing to leave or stay
00:15:52okay
00:15:55well this week of course you had the opportunity the original couples to celebrate
00:15:59your one month anniversary and this is the first time we've ever done this
00:16:04within the experiment so we're really looking forward to hearing how you've come
00:16:08together reflected on the last month together and really celebrated the union that you're developing so far
00:16:15now I'm sure some of you will be nervous about coming up on the couch tonight
00:16:21I can assure you
00:16:23you should be
00:16:26because what we saw last night
00:16:30was something that we need to address
00:16:33the dinner party
00:16:34it was hugely dramatic a lot of accusations were thrown around and certainly sitting
00:16:43here tonight some couples are in crisis tonight we're going to unpack all of that and more you
00:16:54will be different as couples as you leave here tonight that I can assure you
00:17:03now on that note let's get our first couple up on the couch
00:17:12Stephanie and Tice
00:17:21hello you too welcome to the experiment thank you it's good to be here
00:17:27now as you know this is a situation where we get to dive into your relationship
00:17:32ask you some pretty tough questions but you don't have a stay or leave situation
00:17:38uh this is really for you to then move forward and use what we tell you
00:17:43um but we do require uh you to open up and get real with us
00:17:51tell us about where you're at because last night at the dinner party
00:17:55you looked quite frosty you you weren't a team
00:18:00what went on look with that john i felt like i had everyone against me obviously um at the
00:18:07dinner table i felt like steph didn't sort of support me in my
00:18:12yeah she's very quiet and i get it she's a female like
00:18:23yeah yeah so she probably didn't want to get too argumentative
00:18:29yeah
00:18:32um i don't think it has anything to do with being a female i don't know i'm just saying like
00:18:36maybe she
00:18:37didn't want to get too involved there but just from the get-go um for me i haven't felt that
00:18:42connection
00:18:42with steph at all um physical emotional mental whatever you want to call it
00:18:51and geez that's just about everything it is it is yeah so you're saying that she doesn't meet your
00:18:58needs in a number of ways to an extent yes how does that land for you steph
00:19:05um i find it very confusing to be honest because i think when i think back to like tyson's vows
00:19:13and
00:19:13what he spoke about what he wants from a woman i feel like i do check a fair few of
00:19:18the criteria
00:19:20that he described such as um someone who's like goal-driven ambitious someone who's a family girl
00:19:30someone who wants to you know build the dream life be a bit of a power couple i feel like
00:19:36i tick
00:19:36a lot of those boxes but he doesn't like any of that
00:19:44well is that true to us no i do to extend masculine for tyson
00:19:48as you can see she talks very pretentious well that's new look john she does talk down to me
00:19:54i'm so sick of her talking down to me like that we constantly bicker and argue over this
00:19:59here's what you need to know you say she's offending you by the way she speaks to you
00:20:06have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:17look john she does talk down to me i'm so sick of her talking down to me like that
00:20:22she does talk down to me like that we constantly bicker and argue over this
00:20:26here's what you need to know you say she's offending you by the way she speaks to you
00:20:33have you heard how you speak to her
00:20:41last night at the dinner party you called her a temporary wife
00:20:48you said if i liked her more i might pay for the full dinner bill in amongst telling her that
00:20:57she is far too much like a man you're eroding any sort of bond that you can have
00:21:07yeah i'm like my breaking point now i really do feel like i want to leave the experiment
00:21:14tyson is she right is she too masculine for you um
00:21:22she's definitely not the submissive type that's for sure
00:21:32what's the submissive type help me understand um well i'd say a little bit more easy going and not
00:21:37constantly talking down to me it's it's not submissive john is it when someone's constantly
00:21:42in your face trying to challenge you it comes across very domineering it's masculine in my eyes
00:21:50so a feminine woman would look like what to you um just the opposite of steph
00:21:58there's been a couple times where i felt a little bit emasculated
00:22:01um even during the wedding day she asked me if i'd be a house husband um no i wouldn't be
00:22:06a house
00:22:06husband um i think it was because you said that you want five kids and i said oh so are
00:22:12you going
00:22:12to five kids are you going to stay at home with the kids and you said well you may as
00:22:15well just
00:22:15ask me to wear a skirt meaning that's a woman's job i think it is for sure i've always the
00:22:25way i've been
00:22:25raised as traditional values uh my dad was the breadwinner um and my mum stayed at home looked
00:22:32after us kids it's good to hear you be very clear about what it is you believe would be a
00:22:37good match
00:22:38for you and you're talking about quite a traditional feminine role that's one thing but you're using
00:22:46another word to describe this ideal partner that i think is a little bit concerning you're using the
00:22:52word submissive so when you're saying here to steph in front of steph i want a submissive woman you're
00:23:01saying i want to be with someone who will lie down give up their rights not try to have their
00:23:09needs met
00:23:10who will make the relationship all about you and your needs
00:23:16i'm not saying that well you are i'm not you actually are saying that okay you're using the
00:23:22word submissive yeah well maybe maybe i've got the word submissive wrong language matters and when
00:23:31you're talking about you know what you want in a relationship and you're using words like that one
00:23:36has meaning and it has an impact on your partner so what would you call it then like if i
00:23:42didn't want
00:23:42someone so challenging and dominant in a relationship what word would you use well are you saying that
00:23:50you want to be with someone who doesn't challenge you essentially wow can i ask why um because i just
00:23:59feel like it creates it just creates conflict in a relationship part of having an interpersonal
00:24:06relationship is challenging each other is disagreeing is being able to debate and you know have
00:24:14conversation but more importantly you're not superior to steph i've never said i was well you're behaving as
00:24:23though you are you're behaving as though you should not be challenged you should only be the one with
00:24:29the right to challenge her can you see that um to an extent stephanie are you attracted to tyson um
00:24:42i mean physically
00:24:43yeah but personality absolutely not not that bad am i um no you're not that bad tyson i think you've
00:25:02got
00:25:02very outdated views but i'm willing to continue to try and work with that because i see a lot of
00:25:11good in
00:25:11you and i can see why we've been matched i just think it's very clear to me why you're also
00:25:17single
00:25:18as well because i think you're looking for someone that's maybe not out there unless you find them in
00:25:23church that's a good way of looking at it i agree actually why come on married at first sight when
00:25:32you
00:25:32could have just gone to church and met somebody i mean you three experts are here for a reason and
00:25:38i gave
00:25:38you guys criteria of what i look for in a partner and i said may as well give it a
00:25:42go did you think
00:25:43that every single box that you wanted in a perfect match would be ticked
00:25:50i was hoping at least 90 percent wow yeah tyson i'm gonna let you into a secret
00:26:00you're a very hard person to match really yes does that come as a surprise to you um well i've
00:26:08been
00:26:09married before john so it does i mean look i hope i'm not single forever
00:26:16do you know the irony to all of this tyson is that while you're not a particularly easy person to
00:26:23match
00:26:23uh we have found someone who's highly compatible with you you're both calm sensible disciplined
00:26:32ambitious you have strong family values you wanted a mature woman who looks after herself you do have
00:26:40very similar world views some can be polarizing but you share them you know she's
00:26:50a green flag in so many different ways this has been very challenging for both of us and
00:26:58it's hard for me to see this go all the way it is not easy and all of the new
00:27:05couples that have
00:27:05arrived here they've got a lot of catching up the question is have you still got that curiosity
00:27:16i just i just don't feel that connection there john it's just it's hard for me to get curious john
00:27:25i think i'm absolutely frightened i've never been in a relationship ever because i've been so scared
00:27:33i don't want to get hurt it's easy to be independent and live in my comfort zone and just live
00:27:37my good
00:27:37life but i'm still just like here wanting to be curious because we're here now may as well surely
00:27:46you can sit here and say you know there is good in steph that i want to find out more
00:27:51about there is
00:27:51yeah you've got that's the first time i've heard it
00:27:56you said something steph that was very important just then you said you're frightened and scared
00:28:03how did that land for you tyson well to hear that she's frightened and scared um it does make me
00:28:11feel
00:28:11like a bit of a failure to an extent but i want the best for steph and i don't want
00:28:17to i don't want to
00:28:18make her feel a certain way maybe i've made her feel pretty bad over this past week ultimately through
00:28:25this conversation what you can learn is rather than being combative rather than trying to win or be
00:28:31right you guys start moving closer when you're vulnerable be respectful and just learn about one
00:28:42another because we see a highly compatible couple and we just need you to start turning on to that
00:28:49and now you can go back to the group thank you off you go
00:29:05coming up feelings deepen when i'm with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah like i'm at
00:29:12home what's making you feel so emotional grayson grayson's heavy heart
00:29:19i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad and then
00:29:26i only didn't
00:29:28like elissa from what i heard from beck the bride's issues ignite at the end of the day you know
00:29:33there's
00:29:33lies that come out of out of jay's mouth like i'm trying to hold back this is this is infuriating
00:29:39enough
00:29:48next up
00:29:52stella and philip
00:29:58hello
00:30:03so let's get into it how was the one month anniversary
00:30:06um on the anniversary night like i cooked um dinner and uh i ended up getting a this black
00:30:13tourmaline necklace oh beautiful i know that this is like important to her we've got her stones i
00:30:19wrote her a card as well you know just little things like that you know so all sorts of thoughtfulness
00:30:25and progression i wonder where feelings are progressing um we're kind of low-key you know having
00:30:32outline of what it would look like after we leave this experiment um it's all positive signs yeah
00:30:41how does he make you feel he makes me feel cared for um he definitely makes me feel a priority
00:30:49which
00:30:49after three days of spending time together i was like yeah that could be my person
00:30:53so yeah do you sustain that today yes yeah i do
00:31:00and philip when you're with stella how does she make you feel
00:31:04yeah we're just yeah like when i went on with her yeah she just it makes me feel like yeah
00:31:09like i'm at
00:31:10home
00:31:14i just feel like i don't have to pretend yeah which is good it's great i have to say i
00:31:19really enjoy
00:31:20your giddy smile that you can't wipe off your face philip yeah it's very it's very nice it's gorgeous
00:31:29well uh let's go to the decision you guys let's start with philip
00:31:37uh well yeah like i can't i can't really fault you you're definitely making the this the experience
00:31:44that it it is and it should be and uh yeah i'm not really going anywhere so i'm just gonna
00:31:50hang
00:31:50around stay in yeah yeah and stella um there's definitely a lot of love shared and given to each
00:32:01other and um just keep on building on that what we have amazing thanks guys love it have a great
00:32:12week
00:32:12guys thank you our next couple up on the couch
00:32:27luke and mel
00:32:34hello greetings you two hi
00:32:39how have you guys been this week this whole experiment is to build a relationship with somebody
00:32:46and the past few days i haven't been feeling anything and it's making me feel anxious because
00:32:54you know i know i'm meant to feel those feelings and i'm just not it's like i can't continue waking
00:33:01up and being like maybe today's the day i develop feelings because it's not happening
00:33:08it's like watching a pot of water trying to boil if you're just watching it it's not ever going to
00:33:15start boiling can i jump in there i personally feel like mel hasn't really tried throughout this whole
00:33:25experiment like yeah there's times where i feel like you've tried on paper and she's bought me some
00:33:32gifts but i don't want gifts i don't care for gifts i want to spend quality time i want to
00:33:38get to know you
00:33:39i want to grow something it's taken a continual toll on me but every day i've just tried to come
00:33:45back
00:33:45positive i really have i've never put so much effort into a person that i have with mel on this
00:33:53experiment
00:33:55the reason why i why i'm like this is because i'm not feeling any romantic feelings
00:34:02what are you looking for in somebody who you think you can fall in love with in time
00:34:09just looking for someone who has empathy who hears me who makes me feel
00:34:17like they can take the weight off my shoulders he does all those things realistically would you
00:34:24say that luke is an unsupportive person no i would not say that about him would you say he lacks
00:34:29empathy
00:34:29no would you say that he has no practical skills and can't fix anything no i would not say that
00:34:36about
00:34:36him the person that you said that you would fall in love with over time you've just described luke
00:34:45are you aware of that
00:34:51yeah how's that feel
00:34:55i don't know interesting because it's like it's like on paper then why don't i why don't i just
00:35:01have feelings for him you know like i should well i guess where i challenge you mel is whether you've
00:35:08given him a go and really only you can answer that but from where we're sitting uh you've been given
00:35:15somebody who could absolutely make your life amazing
00:35:21and it's never got past the wedding day
00:35:28he showed up late he chewed gum and that was game over you couldn't forgive him
00:35:38we could not have matched you with someone more compatible than luke
00:35:43to give you a happily ever after let's go to the decision uh let's go with you first luke um
00:35:54it's been a a wild ride um and like i'm so grateful for like this whole experiment but
00:36:01yeah obviously like there's comes a point where like you can't keep keep going so yeah
00:36:14and what about you mel to be honest with you i couldn't have foreseen how hard this experiment was
00:36:20going to be for me but i do want to say like i'm really happy that i met you and
00:36:26i'm really sorry
00:36:26about everything that's all good and i really hope we can continue to be real friends yeah but i also
00:36:32decided to leave right well look it has been disappointing for us yeah because we had such high
00:36:45hopes and you are so highly compatible it is sad to see you go but we wish you all the
00:36:51best for the
00:36:51future good luck all the best to both of you well it's time to get our next couple up on
00:37:05the couch
00:37:08alissa and david hello hello hello well how have the two of you been since our last couch encounter
00:37:24you go oh yeah well you know it's been a fantastic ride with alissa we're falling for each other i
00:37:31feel
00:37:31very vulnerable i feel like i can trust her yeah like we're learning things about each other every
00:37:37single day you know you've given me literally everything i wanted he makes me feel safe
00:37:45all right you two i want to pivot to the dinner party because we've certainly all seen you being a
00:37:52very strong couple and you've come under fire when these dinner parties have occurred and the group
00:37:58have got together now two weeks running things have been said about you you've been accused and
00:38:05i'm just wondering why do you think people are coming after you ask them i don't know i don't know
00:38:16what about you david any thoughts on why certain members of the group find the two of you i guess
00:38:24targets um for me i actually can't understand it like it just makes no sense like we're just out here
00:38:29focusing on what we have and i hope everyone else is having a great time in their relationship i just
00:38:35i um i feel like me and alissa are at the point where we don't have energy for it yeah
00:38:39every single
00:38:40week it's always something and i'm like i don't even i'm not even in in in this shit like
00:38:45i don't know and i would love to know actually what's up to you bec would you say
00:38:53i'm genuinely sorry that that your name has been brought up because at the end of the day
00:38:58it we shouldn't be talking about your relationship anyway no bec this is two weeks in a row where you
00:39:06are coming for alissa well i didn't come for alissa last night i had something to say to gia and
00:39:12gia was the one that got her phone and read the messages so i actually haven't come for alissa
00:39:16last night why are you talking about their relationship do you know what you're right and
00:39:21i know i'm right but what i don't know is why you're doing that
00:39:36i actually haven't come for alissa last night why are you talking about their relationship do you
00:39:42know what you're right and i know i'm right but what i don't know is why you're doing that
00:39:49i don't have i don't actually don't have a reason for it because you've got a relationship here that
00:39:54you know is trending in a really positive direction they've got each other's back
00:39:59they're affectionate they've got chemistry they talk about the future and you're bringing it down
00:40:05and i'm not sure why you would want to do that i don't think it's just me i'm not going
00:40:10to sit here
00:40:11and allow just me to be talked like that because the other messages weren't read out i get what you're
00:40:17saying i agree with it and that's what i said to alissa why you're doing it
00:40:22do you know i don't i don't have an answer for that are you jealous
00:40:28no not at all i'm i'm happy and doesn't sound like it yeah no worries like you can have your
00:40:35opinion and that's fine i'm just gonna call a spade a spade like i only didn't like alissa
00:40:42from what i heard from beck i definitely engaged in mean girl behavior that i'm not proud of like
00:40:48100 i own that but what i heard about you was quite horrible and i just took that as like
00:40:55that's a fact she knows you from adelaide i don't know you at all but you know what i've met
00:41:00beck twice
00:41:01through mutual friends in adelaide she doesn't know me no one actually knows me here yeah we all
00:41:06deserve to find love so enough is enough at the end of the day you know there's lies that come
00:41:13out of
00:41:14out of jia's mouth and and that's my my issue but i never intended for you to have anything come
00:41:19towards you at that dinner party last night if the phone wasn't gotten it never would have happened you
00:41:23would have just sat there and had a nice night i think you both cause this i hate coming to
00:41:29a dinner
00:41:30party and my wife feeling unsettled i hate seeing her sad and i have to go home and pick up
00:41:37the pieces
00:41:37because grown ladies like yourselves can't take accountability and stop it from happening you
00:41:43know all right what you do need to think about beck is why you're doing it because you haven't
00:41:51answered that question and that's an important one that's what you need to sit on but for you jia
00:41:57you've got to also realize that when you bought up the receipts to have a crack at beck
00:42:02it dragged elissa into it and again she's now walking away from a dinner party shattered
00:42:09because the people in this experiment are talking behind her back and essentially throwing grenades
00:42:16into her relationship and there is a pattern here that you beck and jia need to be aware of
00:42:22which is when you go into a dinner party and you come out all guns blazing and you scorch earth
00:42:29anyone
00:42:29that comes in your way you then roll up at the commitment ceremonies and apologize
00:42:37but you're still doing the same thing
00:42:40well look there's no doubt that you two have had a lot to face and to overcome this week
00:42:48but what we see in front of us is a couple that is very strong despite how much noise there
00:42:55is
00:42:55around your relationship so well done thank you but with that being said uh let's go to the decision
00:43:01stay or leave and we're going to go with you first david i'm proud of you i'm proud of your
00:43:07resilience and
00:43:07i can't wait to see how the next couple weeks of this experiment goes i treasure you and obviously
00:43:15i'm here to stay good stuff david and what about you alissa stay or leave i love that you are
00:43:21open with
00:43:21me i really appreciate you and yeah i'm so lucky to call you my husband so i am i'm gonna
00:43:28stay lovely
00:43:32fantastic well done it's so wonderful for us to hear you say that you treasure her oh it's nice um
00:43:39that's beautiful thanks guys have a wonderful week ahead all right well done guys thank you
00:43:51yeah that's the second
00:43:59next couple up
00:44:03julia and grace
00:44:09hello hi guys hello you too how are you
00:44:15last week when we saw you on this couch you really seem to have turned a corner
00:44:22so frankly we are sitting here wondering what has happened to derail that well after we
00:44:31we saw you guys last time i really took on you know your advice of you know kissing leads to
00:44:40more
00:44:40kissing and so grayson and i kissed again but unfortunately nothing really kind of unfurled after
00:44:48that i then i did like a pulse check i felt like we were sort of talking about this burning
00:44:54desire um is
00:44:55there a burning desire here so i realized i didn't think that the romantic side of this connection was
00:45:04really flourishing um and so i wrote grace in a letter letting him know that i i didn't feel like
00:45:15like this was sort of that soul connection that i came into this experiment for and sort of
00:45:27went separate ways we we moved i moved into a different apartment after that
00:45:32yeah and how did that land for you grace and hearing that um oh it made me feel
00:45:42that the energy the emotion the vulnerability the the buy-in is all just been a
00:45:50um it's gone to waste
00:45:54do you feel rejected yeah she's not physically present she's not emotionally present and that's
00:46:02been since probably three or four days after we moved in that this has been occurring what i find
00:46:09really difficult is that um i kind of get these mixed messages with gray like
00:46:17so the the needs he has i'm i'm not fully across i don't feel like he's transparently telling me his
00:46:25needs the energy it's not inviting i'm not invited into his experience for me i think julia is all words
00:46:35her communication style is just blurting out it's just listen to respond
00:46:42whenever i need to talk about something i can't questions like do you want to have a family do you
00:46:48want to have a family one day oh i'd like the option to have a family do you see a
00:46:52future with me is there
00:46:53any part of you that see a future with me oh if there was ever emotional connection everything is
00:46:57airy-fairy there is no certainty i just want clarity we're talking about emotions you know grayson would want
00:47:05like a yes or a no black or a very binary answer that i wasn't able to give because it's
00:47:13complex
00:47:14we don't speak the same language like yeah your language is vague there is no i i call it nuanced
00:47:20you call it vague we've said this many times we go around and around in circles i just feel so
00:47:27unseen
00:47:29there's no other way to put it what do you mean by that for what i do
00:47:34put into this connection it's like what have you put into it i i have put my energy i've tried
00:47:42to
00:47:42build rapport with grayson in terms of romance that's so that is untrue
00:47:50for me to grow as a person and in connection how could have i supported you more well you could
00:47:55have
00:47:55been present you could have invested your time and energy into the marriage that we have we're married
00:48:00you just don't say anything we just don't speak the same language we don't speak the same language
00:48:05like i am exhausted yeah i think we're both exhausted
00:48:14grayson did you see a future with julia at any point
00:48:18i fantasized a future when i saw her walking down the aisle i was just so excited and i had
00:48:25no other
00:48:25expectations apart from leaving here being in love so you had high hopes i had high hopes until
00:48:33i guess julia wrote that letter and told me she was out
00:48:38last night julia i heard you comment i believe you're you were questioning grayson about whether or
00:48:45not he felt comfortable or not in regards to your bisexuality is that an issue that has been coming
00:48:53up between you that maybe we haven't been hearing about here on the couch so in this whole experiment
00:48:59i said i don't mind being matched with a man or a woman there was no preference there and so
00:49:04i was a
00:49:04bit confused because we hadn't spoken about my bisexuality for quite some time
00:49:10last night i was told that um julia made a comment to someone that um she feels like this experiment
00:49:19would have been a lot easier if it was with a female so did you say that you know i
00:49:24don't recall
00:49:24saying that i mean in terms of easier i mean i don't terms of anything would it have been for
00:49:33you
00:49:33something uh that you think would have made it better easier if i had a preference to to embark
00:49:40on a journey like this i would have been very clear if i wanted to be matched with a woman
00:49:47i would
00:49:47have just said that so it was never a question for you in not finding that connection with grayson
00:49:53that maybe it would have been different with a different human of a different gender uh no just a
00:49:58different human okay just a different yeah does that make sense to you i'm just exhausted i got
00:50:06nothing left in the tank but for me this this experiment i wasn't going to leave any stone unturned
00:50:15i i gave it everything i've got and for me and for that i'm super proud like um and i'm
00:50:22i'm i'm i'm so
00:50:23shattered you know i'm at a point where i'm like am i am i ever going to find my person
00:50:30am i ever going
00:50:31to find love that's understandable and we certainly appreciate um the effort that you very clearly put
00:50:39forth um from your perspective and your reality and in your experience in this experiment
00:50:55what's making you feel so emotional grayson what's coming up
00:51:09i don't know i just feel a bit helpless you know i just i want love so bad
00:51:16it's um yeah it's uh it's tough
00:51:24there's only one thing left to do julia what is your decision stay or leave yeah i i'm really
00:51:32grateful for this experience i've learned so much um and this is not easy stuff this is not simple
00:51:41um but with that i am saying leave yeah
00:51:51yeah um i guess despite all the um the challenges we've we've we've come up against i i am super
00:51:58grateful for you and yeah i value your courage to be here i know it's it's been challenging so thank
00:52:05you
00:52:05for that um thank you for the opportunity but yeah i think for me uh my time's up here so
00:52:11i'll choose to
00:52:12leave yeah all right well look it's been an incredible process for the two of you and you
00:52:21know when we first met the two of you a lot of what we talked about was alignment wasn't it
00:52:25and
00:52:25looking for that alignment and unfortunately you didn't quite meet on this occasion but i think
00:52:31grayson i think love's not far away for you thank you appreciate that good on you guys thank you guys
00:52:49coming up it's the allegation that won't go away i asked the question is it not true or did you
00:52:56not
00:52:56say i'm getting frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through the mud why'd you
00:53:01say it then
00:53:08all right next couple up
00:53:26i got to ask what was it like walking into that dinner party last night
00:53:33oh yeah these guys are so amazing we had the best time it was great and what about you know
00:53:42the sense
00:53:42of romance or chemistry there what what's happening it's growing i think at the start i didn't know
00:53:48where to be or where to feel or like what to do because you've got a ring on your finger
00:53:52but you're
00:53:52like but i also just met this guy yeah now i'm like okay we'll just take it like you normally
00:53:56would
00:53:56meeting someone and we've just been getting to know each other and every day i get to know chris i
00:54:00like
00:54:01more and you know he's such a warm and empathetic person we also don't want to um be like super
00:54:07intimate just yet we think it's like uh gentlemen yeah to court each other and be a bit old school
00:54:12and take our time so you're traveling at the same pace would you say yeah yeah like i don't know
00:54:17like
00:54:18i didn't really know what pace to travel at because this is such a new experience for me so
00:54:21i wasn't really sure in the beginning i was like do i pass him or do i not like what's
00:54:25going on
00:54:27but um every day it's just getting better and better yeah every day we are a little bit more
00:54:32touchy and a little bit closer and like yeah but with no pressure others yeah there's no pressure on
00:54:37it which i really love so yeah well the energy is really lovely and i have to say i love
00:54:42that you're
00:54:42really focusing on building the connection yeah we're just yeah super grateful that you've matched us
00:54:49together so um yeah we're stoked yeah yeah thank you guys thank you thank you so much thank you
00:54:56thank you good work
00:55:01yeah thanks guys well done
00:55:07our next couple up on the couch
00:55:12rachel and steven fantastic hello hello hey guys hi how are you g'day mate oh there he is
00:55:29how have you guys been this week with your one month anniversary it it was really nice
00:55:35we want to go fishing but we couldn't go fishing so i went got a little fishing game
00:55:40so we could play fishing and everyone knows your fishermen have got to have the fishermen snacks
00:55:45so i got a little esky with um stephen's favorite snacks i'll move to tree and everything to represent
00:55:52nature we turned it on and the fishes are snapping i'm like oh it's a bus stop it's a fishing
00:55:59term
00:56:01you're learning you're learning so i really wanted to show steven how special he is to me like my
00:56:10feelings for him and so i really wanted to make sure it was quite personalized and aligned with
00:56:15you know steven yeah so steven what did you do for rachel got her some flowers candles some a nice
00:56:24bottle of wine and i'm an absolute hopeless cook but i cooked up a uh spag bol lunch for her
00:56:33and
00:56:33sort of pretended to be a chef and you know came over with a you know rag on my thingy
00:56:39and pouring
00:56:39the wine thinking i'm all sophisticated and fancy and just acting like a fool pretty much and that's
00:56:45cute it was romantic but sort of light-hearted romantic um that's sort of wanted to bring so
00:56:50my personality to it and just yeah she was smiling the whole time yeah i loved the lunch it was
00:56:57beautiful all right well i do think it's time we get to the decision for this week
00:57:06let's go with senior steve um i'm really happy how this week what rachel did for me was absolutely
00:57:14fantastic i thought the thought of fishing and all that sort of stuff and thinking about that because
00:57:20it's a bit it's fishing you know it's not everyone's cup of tea you know and it really did make
00:57:25me smile
00:57:26so right stay rachel what is your decision stay or leave
00:57:37nice and stay good excellent
00:57:54nice and cozy again our next couple up on the couch
00:58:01gea and scott yeah
00:58:08hello hello you two greetings
00:58:12sunshine lollipops and rainbows everywhere tell us all about the sunshine and lollipops
00:58:20it's been a good couple of weeks yeah it's always good um we started diving into like really deep
00:58:27shit that no one knows about that even only her family knows and i found it brought us really
00:58:33close together so yeah and then we got matching tattoos okay well we we did hear a rumor
00:58:40into the one month but i mean you guys know so this was the way you celebrated your one month
00:58:45together
00:58:45i really felt like okay like he's fully in this on a more serious note we saw you at the
00:58:53dinner party
00:58:54gee you were bringing receipts and it got very heated the previous week obviously i went a bit crazy
00:59:01it was over the top and i i really tried not to do that last night
00:59:07but when things are said and and it's like i'm getting brought up a few times like i've got to
00:59:11i defend myself like i thought we weren't going to attack anyone's relationship anymore
00:59:17i'm done with that like i'm personally done with that so you weren't up to it i just showed the
00:59:22receipts
00:59:23because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing you have no friends here and like oh it
00:59:27just
00:59:27like brought me back to being in high school and being bullied and it actually really hurt me to be
00:59:31honest
00:59:32but imagine how you hurt me the week before
00:59:37you nearly caused my relationship to end
00:59:48i just showed the receipts because like part of me felt attacked and i was hearing you have no
00:59:53friends here and like oh it just like brought me back to being in high school and being bullied and
00:59:56actually really hurt me but imagine how you hurt me the week before
01:00:03you nearly caused my relationship to end
01:00:08i didn't actually brooke brooke is well no it came from your mouth it came from your mouth jir
01:00:13i don't know if anyone else saw it but brooke kept trying to say something with danny and i said
01:00:17don't babe don't say it don't say it and she said it so you're the one that messaged it to
01:00:21her anyway
01:00:23but that's on camera so that's great at the end of the day it's all happened everyone needs to focus
01:00:26on their own relationship that's all that matters i'm here for this this is what i came here for
01:00:32i'm happy and i'm not i'm just not engaging with that kind of stuff anymore i've realized that i was
01:00:37really wrong last week i've tried to be accountable and i last night i didn't go as crazy as i
01:00:42normally
01:00:42would i didn't get involved i really didn't want to go at people you know what i mean sure what
01:00:50i want
01:00:50to know is what impact does that have on you scott when you see gia in that state in that
01:00:56situation
01:00:58there's way too many positives in our relationship for me to even think about that so it's like
01:01:03and generally defends herself when in need like she's not just trying to deliver something for no
01:01:08reason it's just a defense i know gia so well now and how she approaches an argument how she
01:01:15delivers things it's already happened in the past dinner parties and i don't judge her any different
01:01:19so yeah i think also like he agrees i mean he backed me up um last night which that like
01:01:27you know
01:01:27i asked for this like the whole time to be backed up by a man i've never had that in
01:01:32a relationship
01:01:32ever so this is really uh uncharted waters for you so you describe your relationship as going from
01:01:39strength to strength yeah yeah i'm really happy just on that how do you feel about her i'm falling
01:01:49for her but love i won't say it till i truly mean it but i'm falling in that direction 100
01:01:56big
01:01:57gia what about you it's it's a lot to for me to say i love somebody like falling more head
01:02:05over
01:02:05heels i don't think it's love yet but we're we're we don't want to go too crazy yet like we
01:02:10just got
01:02:10the tattoos i think we should chill so what are we gonna do after a year i don't know with
01:02:18that being
01:02:18the case we're going to go to the decision it's going to be stay or leave and we're going to
01:02:22go with you
01:02:25first scott i suppose what we're doing is right so we're not going to stop that and yeah good i'm
01:02:31staying love how i'm 13. all right what about you then cheers yeah um i adore scott i just trust
01:02:40him
01:02:40and i believe him and i think i just feel safe i love how things are going and i'm gonna
01:02:45stay and
01:02:45also do the same thing with the heart love it lovely there's a little 13 in there yeah that's
01:02:51so funny we look forward to seeing you next time okay thank you thank you guys great to see you
01:02:57good
01:02:58work thank you
01:03:06our next couple up on the couch
01:03:11joel and juliet hello welcome you two hello experts welcome aboard guys you guys look fabulous
01:03:22by the way thank you very much thank you but we're more interested in you two yeah and how you're
01:03:28going
01:03:28how has this whirlwind been we started off on the back foot after the wedding because my speeches were a
01:03:36bit out there it felt like he was the whole day putting on a performance and being extremely
01:03:42theatrical and then when we came home that night like we had a really good deep chat and i said
01:03:46look
01:03:47is there a real side to you
01:03:51i'm here for something serious and i want to get something serious out of it
01:03:55and um yeah i felt like i saw a completely different side to him
01:04:00and then day by day it's been getting like a lot better but today was the day that where
01:04:06i kind of came to the conclusion okay maybe the attraction is just not there for me
01:04:15like i know like the more i get to know joel the more i'll probably gain attraction to him for
01:04:21sure
01:04:23joel from your perspective how did it feel to hear that she's not attracted to you i can handle it
01:04:30no problem it's only week one attraction can grow for me i'm just more naturally i think warm and
01:04:37affectionate i'm very touchy-feely you know like so that's just my nature and maybe she's a bit different
01:04:45i'm really touchy like it's that's also a big thing for me why i'm like a bit freaked out that
01:04:55i just
01:04:56don't want to joel last night baptism of fire it was bloody brilliant
01:05:08yeah i i could see that you were up for the challenge yeah what do you think it was about
01:05:15you that got under the skin of some of the people well particularly beck let's be honest yeah yeah
01:05:20yeah i think all roads lead to the wedding you know i put myself out there i painted a target
01:05:27on
01:05:28my back by being myself as i have always done in my whole life so this is stock standard for
01:05:36me
01:05:36being misunderstood and then people get to know me like hey he's actually all right you know there's
01:05:42some depth to him he's not a total moron like a massive thing for me is how everyone else would
01:05:50kind of view him because i got to see that softer side they hadn't seen that too um like everyone's
01:05:57impression of my man is extremely important i mean i'm trying to just find anything
01:06:05any good signs really um because if i wasn't part of this experiment and i had just met joel out
01:06:14i wouldn't be proceeding
01:06:18and so i'm just trying to find all the good things that are kind of helping me want to stick
01:06:24it out
01:06:26look i guess the thing is that you know early on you're looking around for evidence who is this
01:06:32person do they like him do they not are we going to last but there's going to be a time
01:06:36where you're
01:06:36going to need to say i'm in here i like this guy whether you like him or not yeah
01:06:44yeah like the the balance is tipped in the positive direction i feel
01:06:49and i'm patiently waiting for her to grow that attraction to warm to me i'm waiting
01:06:54take as long as you need babe okay yeah yeah not too long you know come on maybe you can
01:07:02fancy me next
01:07:03week yeah all right you've had some difficulties early on but you've got some clear things that
01:07:10you can hang on to but also you are aware that it's the two of you rather than all of
01:07:17the noise
01:07:18around you that you need to be focusing on uh so buckle up throw yourself into these challenges
01:07:24and we look forward to seeing you the next time to hear how you're progressing cool thank you guys
01:07:30go back to the group thanks guys no more speeches
01:07:38that's good that's really good last up on the couch beck and danny
01:07:52last week uh this relationship was really in trouble specifically about things that gia had claimed
01:08:00that danny had said where are you at in respect to that stronger than ever together
01:08:26i'm really confused danny with you it's noticeable how flat and miserable you look
01:08:34so how is this stronger than ever this is not how i would describe what i'm observing at this moment
01:09:06are you miserable no obviously i'm tired you know what you mean like yes i'm tired too
01:09:17yeah like commitment ceremonies are hard for me i'm not too good at talking about my feelings and
01:09:21just being put on the spot but um if it comes across like i'm miserable i apologize
01:09:26you certainly don't look like you guys are together you don't look connected to one another
01:09:31it's one thing to just have flat affect at a certain moment but you're describing stronger than ever
01:09:42how did you feel about beck's behavior last night at the dinner party it was pretty full-on and i
01:09:47did a
01:09:48lot of observing of your faces throughout all of her rants how did you feel
01:09:57obviously beck's my wife in this experiment i'll always back her like i asked for a ride or die
01:10:02um i don't think you can ask for something that you're not i think beck just got passionate in the
01:10:09moment or whatever you want to call it but how did you feel seeing her behave that way how did
01:10:17you feel
01:10:18it's a tough question to answer he's scared of her
01:10:23he's dancing around the question i don't know just answer honestly
01:10:29were you proud were you embarrassed um
01:10:34you were what maybe slightly embarrassed yeah
01:10:40why why is that i don't mind confrontation
01:10:44like if it has to be done but i'm not the type of bloke who's looking for it
01:10:52beck i've been wanting to ask you this after watching you last night
01:10:56essentially apply a blow torch to pretty much everybody at the dinner party
01:11:02what did you hope to achieve
01:11:06why would you do that i didn't think i didn't why joel
01:11:13i don't have an excuse for it john i don't have an excuse for it
01:11:20now what i'm wondering is is that you
01:11:23is that your personality no is that your fight style no because i went away from those dinner
01:11:31parties thinking what's it like for danny behind closed doors if he says something wrong makes a
01:11:39mistake is this you no i'm the opposite i actually retreat don't think yeah
01:11:54well well last night danny she was creating all the drama and chaos
01:12:01yeah that's a fair comment she was pretty much in every hostile conversation that was had last
01:12:08night you were setting off grenades beck
01:12:14one of the things i noticed is that by doing that you never had to talk about your relationship with
01:12:21danny
01:12:23if you sent off enough grenades in other people's relationships you can avoid having tough
01:12:28conversations about the two of you and clearly you're not good together right now you might think you
01:12:37are you might say it but what we saw last night was a couple in deep crisis what do you
01:12:44think about that
01:12:47really angry who are you angry at beck i'm angry at gia are you really angry at gia
01:12:58i'm angry at both of them but i didn't realize that i was still angry at him but i don't
01:13:02want to
01:13:02argue with him why what are you scared of i'm scared that you'll leave
01:13:11i'm scared he'll leave me
01:13:16i'm sorry
01:13:17i am
01:13:26danny when you hear beck say that how does that land for you
01:13:32well i was like we've had this conversation before like when when me and beck when we get
01:13:37like confrontational i need to remove myself from the situation that's how i deal with with that
01:13:42but then it's like that triggers beck beck's saying that she's feeling she's feeling really
01:13:48angry at you because this whole situation around what was apparently said about gia being more your
01:13:56type sounds like beck hasn't heard enough from you to put her mind at ease i know he's told me
01:14:05that it's
01:14:05not true and i and i choose to believe him he'd say it's not true or he didn't say it
01:14:15he didn't it's not he didn't say it's not true i don't know you're not sure are you
01:14:30i didn't say it beck needs a little more here she needs more of a response i asked the question
01:14:41is it not true or did you not say it i didn't say it it's not true i'm getting that's
01:14:45why i'm getting
01:14:46frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through the mud i never said that
01:14:50stupid comment with all due respect to gian don't take this the wrong way i'm covered in tattoos but
01:14:55i don't go for girls who have got tattoos why'd you say it then i didn't jia
01:15:09is it not true or did you not say it i didn't say it it's not true i'm getting that's
01:15:13why i'm
01:15:14getting frustrated the whole situation because my name's being dragged through the mud i never
01:15:18said that stupid comment with all due respect to gian don't take this the wrong way i'm covered in
01:15:22tattoos but i don't go for girls who have got tattoos why'd you say it then i didn't jia
01:15:30i'm curious well this is why i don't want to talk about it because we just go round and round
01:15:34in
01:15:35circles i'm not here to to speak rumors or argue i'm here for love so do you believe him or
01:15:43do you need
01:15:43confirmation that jia lies or doesn't lie
01:15:48i believe him you know what i can't like i'm trying to hold back this is this is infuriating
01:15:55because this is this is the biggest issue with beck and my friendship fake ship she always wants
01:16:02to talk to me off camera and off camera she tells me babe i believe you but what am i
01:16:06going to do then
01:16:07i've got to leave i never said that she's saying she never said that i never said that of course
01:16:13she's not going to say that because she's not going to go yeah i said that thanks jia let's just
01:16:19go back to you danny why does she lie man so what are you going to do differently communicate better
01:16:26next
01:16:27time that's obviously i've been single for four years so i've just got so used to doing my own thing
01:16:32it's a fair call you do get set in your ways and you do become sort of single-minded
01:16:37but you're in a relationship now reassurance support validation you both need those things
01:16:45it it's hard for me i do need validation and reassurance from him but i'm scared to ask for it
01:16:51i wish you'd have told me that because you know i'd have done it for you anything you've ever asked
01:16:55of
01:16:55me i'll always do it for you i know part of me doesn't want to have to ask and that's
01:16:59what i'm nervous
01:17:00about sometimes you do though in relationships you know sometimes you do you're teaching each other
01:17:05about this is how to work with me you know this is what i need and that's part of that
01:17:10early stage
01:17:10in the relationship so maybe do us maybe give him a bit of guidance help him read you and give
01:17:16you
01:17:17what you need okay i hope this conversation has been helpful today i mean it looks like a little bit
01:17:23for both of you that you've sort of seen a little bit more of each other of what you need
01:17:28let's focus on this more focus on this as you said danny that's what you're here for love
01:17:36relationship right yeah all right we're gonna go to a decision
01:17:43start with you beck i said stay because we're stronger together good
01:18:03good good good strong stay thank you
01:18:07i promise next week i wouldn't have put out i wouldn't have thrown any fires
01:18:12no more fire word no more grenades no more grenades i promise i'll hold you to that beck
01:18:16no promises no grenades do you want to shake on it all right we'll see you next time guys good
01:18:21luck
01:18:21thank you okay have a good week well done beck
01:18:32chill up do you need a tissue
01:18:38tomorrow night
01:18:44our couple's families and friends come to visit definitely starting to fall for you i can't be
01:18:50more excited for them you've got to let your wall down a little bit over two big nights fresh
01:18:56perspective will see some deepen their connections i do like rachel i need to bring these walls down i
01:19:03need to communicate more i need to be me is j a better version of your ex but for gia
01:19:08like i'm a
01:19:09bit at a dinner party right now i'm getting fired at as usual hard-hitting questions will leave her
01:19:13frustrated we're six friends at a table oh yeah i'm not getting that vibe do you want to say it
01:19:19or do
01:19:19you want me to say you go home sweet home our three newest couples move in together here we go
01:19:26and tyson
01:19:27reveals an incredible transformation i'm in a lot more positive mindset now i'm trying to
01:19:32i do need to be a little bit more curious i think we do get along on so many levels
01:19:36i think this is
01:19:37like the next step for us caught in the act a video popped up of you that my friend sent
01:19:42me
01:19:43what shocking footage has juliette seen of joel like i'm so icked out and in a dramatic turn of events
01:19:51which participant calls it quits and leaves the experiment
01:20:02so
01:20:03you
01:20:03you
01:20:04you
01:20:04you
01:20:04you
01:20:06you
01:20:06you
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