00:00School rang me.
00:01Yeah?
00:02You've been bullying.
00:03I haven't been bullying.
00:05Yes, you have. You've been bullying other kids.
00:07What the hell have you been that saying?
00:08Since when?
00:09I never raised you to be a bully. What's going on?
00:11What is going on? I have no idea what you're talking about.
00:13The school rang me to say there's one girl she's being bullied by you and your friends.
00:17And I'm disgusted with you.
00:19It wasn't me.
00:20What do you mean it wasn't you? Of course it was you.
00:21The school rang me to tell me it was you.
00:23It wasn't me. It was my friends.
00:26I don't care if it was your friends. If your friends are bullies, that makes you a bully.
00:29Well, it doesn't mean I'm a bully. Somebody else is doing it.
00:31You shouldn't have friends that are bullies. What's going through your head?
00:34Why are you doing that? Tell me.
00:36Why are you bullying someone?
00:37I'm not bullying anyone. They're just my friends. They're my friends.
00:40They can't be friends if they're bullies, can they?
00:42I don't want you having friends that are bullies.
00:44I don't want you having other friends.
00:45You're telling me that my daughter is a bully.
00:47No, it wasn't me.
00:49The poor girl you bully, she's been in tears.
00:52She's crying. She's nervous to go to school.
00:54How dare you do something like that to someone?
00:56It wasn't me. Why are you not listening to me?
00:57It was you, the school time. It was you and your friends.
01:00If you're associated with your friends, that means it's you.
01:04I'll tell you what we're going to do.
01:05Right, now, you're going to go over to that girl's house.
01:07I'm going to take you now. You're going to apologise to her.
01:10How about that?
01:11I didn't do anything.
01:12You're going to apologise to her now.
01:14And I'll tell you what else you're going to do.
01:16You're going to take some money from your savings,
01:18and you're going to buy her a nice present and say,
01:20I'm sorry. You're going to do that as well.
01:22If you don't do that, you're not coming back into our house.
01:25You're grounded. You're not coming back.
01:26I don't care what I'm going to do with you,
01:28but you're not going to enjoy a life with me and mum
01:30if you're going to be a bloody bully.
01:32Now, do you get that?
01:34Yeah.
01:34Yeah.
01:35So what are we going to do? Repeat.
01:36What are you going to do now?
01:37I'm going to go to her house.
01:38You're going to go to her house, yeah?
01:40I'm going to say sorry.
01:41It's something I didn't do.
01:42I don't care whether you did it or your friends did it.
01:44I just said, by association, you're a bully.
01:46And you're going to buy her something.
01:48You're going to spend, I don't know,
01:49£100, £200 of your savings on her.
01:52I'm going to make sure you do that.
01:54Is that clear?
01:55Yes.
01:56Yes what?
01:57Yes, Dad.
01:58So what we're going to do is call your friends.
02:00We're going to call each of your friends,
02:02and we're going to find out their side of the story.
02:04That's embarrassing.
02:04Yeah, it might be embarrassing.
02:06And tell you what else we're going to do.
02:07I'm going to ring up each of their parents, yeah,
02:10and tell them what their daughters have been doing.
02:14They're going to stop bullying me.
02:15No, they won't bully you,
02:17because I won't let that happen.
02:18But you cannot be bullying other people.
02:21Do you not get that?
02:23I didn't bully them.
02:24I told you it was my friends.
02:26We're not the same people, Dad.
02:28If they're your friends,
02:29and they're bullying,
02:31you're bullying.
02:31You're not allowed to be friends with kids
02:33that are bullies, ever.
02:35That's not how you were brought up.
02:37That's not the life you want to be.
02:38That's not the person you want to be, is it?
02:40No.
02:41No, it's not.
02:43Okay, don't cry.
02:45Don't cry about this.
02:46Take it.
02:47Take it from me.
02:47Take my advice.
02:48Do not go along with bullying.
02:51Why didn't you say to your friends,
02:53stop it?
02:54I don't know.
02:54Why didn't you say,
02:55when you saw this poor kid crying and nervous,
02:58why didn't you say to your friends,
02:59hey, stop doing what you're doing?
03:01Why didn't you?
03:02Because they would bully me instead.
03:04And then they wouldn't be my friends.
03:06So you think friendship is more important
03:08than being associated with bullies?
03:11Surely there are other people
03:12you can be friends with
03:13that aren't nasty and bullies.
03:15Surely.
03:15Maybe.
03:18Okay.
03:20We're going in there now.
03:21We're going to go round to the girl's house now.
03:22You're going to tell me where it is
03:24because you know where it is.
03:25We're going to apologize, first of all.
03:27Then we're going to find out
03:28all your friends' parents' number
03:30and we're going to call each one
03:32and see what the story is.
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