00:00Yes! And then you turn around in your Louboutin and you walk out of there and you never talk to him again.
00:12You hear me? You don't talk to him again.
00:15Hi Naturally Curly World, I'm Gerilyn.
00:17I'm Leslie.
00:18It's Grace.
00:19And this is the best ever.
00:21The best ever.
00:22And this is the best ever.
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00:25Breakup lines.
00:26Breakups are always hard man.
00:28They're no fun.
00:30And honestly, half the time when I start dating someone, I'm already thinking about how horrible the breakup is going to be.
00:36And every time I start dating someone new, I'm like, oh no, oh no, this means eventually I'm going to have to break up with you because I'm pretty sure I'm not going to marry this person.
00:44Breakup lines, I'm typically very honest and I prefer to do things in person, but typically what I use is I need to focus on me.
00:57I can't do this right now because I'm trying to accomplish something basically saying I don't have the time for you without saying I don't have the time for you.
01:07But what I really mean is I don't want to spend my time with you.
01:11I like many of you out there have been broken up with and I've also been ghosted.
01:18And both of those things are trash.
01:21Sometimes you just need to know if you did something wrong.
01:25Was your hair out of place at a social function that you were both at that really got under that person's skin?
01:30Or if you stink, like you just need to know.
01:34For me there have always been like three types of breakups.
01:38One, there's the guy who you dated for like three weeks and you've both mutually decided that you kind of are over it.
01:47So you kind of just stop talking.
01:48If I'm being real, there are times where maybe you don't want to be super honest or maybe you shouldn't be super honest.
01:57I can think of a very specific guy that I had like a summer fling with.
02:04Looking back, I regret it.
02:06I know that it's difficult.
02:08I've been in that situation where I've had to be the person to break up with another.
02:13And in order to preserve those feelings, you know, for the other person, I have not said what was truly on my mind.
02:23Then there's the second kind of guy who you've been dating for a while and you can't just stop talking to because that would be trash.
02:30He always smelled like Whataburger and he didn't even work at Whataburger.
02:37And I like Whataburger. I'm from Texas, y'all. Like, I love Whataburger.
02:41That guy, I think when you're on good terms with somebody and it's just not working out, you just have to be honest with them.
02:48Or, you know, honest in a way that's also nice.
02:54He just, uh, he just always smelled like the oils that like those burgers and fries are like made in.
03:01It's better for you to be honest with the other person that you're with versus telling them something, you know, that you pull out of a bucket and throw at them and then leave the relationship.
03:12It's hot all year round in Texas.
03:14And then there's the third guy.
03:17The guy who is trash and you don't know why you started dating him and you know you're better than that and he treats you like dirt, okay?
03:28I've had hard breakups where I've been brutally honest and that other person has been brutally honest with me.
03:36And I've actually grown from those types of breakup experiences because it's made me a better partner to my current bae.
03:45Hey bae.
03:46If somebody hurt me, I definitely want to have that face to face conversation because I want to see them like I want them to see me like sad.
03:55I want them to feel the pain.
03:57Sure.
03:58If you don't like being honest with people, you can always ghost them.
04:03But let's be real.
04:04That's awful and it hurts and you should not be doing that.
04:07If I'm the one breaking up with somebody, I feel like I should give you that much respect to show you that like, hey, I still care even though this is difficult and it might not work between us.
04:19In that case, this is what you do.
04:22You open up your iTunes, you go to your music on your phone, you go to Lemonade, you go to Don't Hurt Yourself, you walk in and you start playing this song, okay?
04:43And you just stare him down, okay?
04:48You just, he knows that he's trash.
04:51He knows.
04:52Because trash men always know that they're trash men.
04:56At the end of the day, try your best not to ghost.
04:59And even better, if you can, be honest.
05:03Just saying.
05:04I'm trying to help you not be a trash can person.
05:07This has been a pep talk.
05:09This was really about breaking up with the trash man.
05:13The other men are easy, they'll understand.
05:15The men that are hard to get away from are the manipulators.
05:19The people who think that they can keep you when they cannot.
05:23So you better leave and you better play Beyonce while you leave, okay?
05:28Okay.
05:30That is my best ever way to break up with someone.
05:36What's your best ever breakup line, y'all?
05:39Let me know in the comments below.
05:40I'd love to hear it.
05:41Has anyone pulled this Beyonce move?
05:43Cause I sure have.
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05:48See you next Monday.
05:49Bye.
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