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Melanie, Valeisha and Estelle reflect on being Black in 2020, having our first Woman of Color as VP and talk about the Black Women who've inspired them in this series sponsored by Coca-Cola
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00:00What a year. Crazy. Can we talk about how magical it is for women? Black women, women of color. I mean, history. History has been made. I just feel so proud. I feel like more than ever, it's an amazing time to be a woman. The representation we now see. Yes. It's no longer a niche like, oh, black woman for a month, for a week, for a year. No, it's here. Here to stay.
00:30And you look crazy if you're not on board. That's right. I felt like I could hear the glass ceiling break. I don't think I fully realized what representation would feel like until we saw it in the White House. To know we elected our first black woman as vice president.
00:46You know, being mixed with black and Indian, I love seeing my culture represented on both sides. Now that there's this prominent figure at the head of this country, it now becomes like Kamala Harris. Oh, we have a point of reference.
01:00It makes me happy just as, you know, as a woman, as a black woman, as a woman, as an immigrant. Yes. I'm out here like, yes. You know, the Caribbean culture is represented up in there. I'm excited about it.
01:10You know, when I talk about shrimp curry or curry shrimp, whichever way you say it. Okay. Say how you feeling. Shrimp curry.
01:16I don't know about you all, but I feel like the bar has been raised. Yeah. Like any limitations that I felt like I had before now, because that ceiling has been broken, I feel like nothing is impossible.
01:27Nothing. Yeah, 100%. I'm excited for the kids. Yes. Yes. I'm excited for the little girls.
01:31Who for you guys growing up was like somebody you looked up to? Because I know for me, and especially now that I'm a mom, Claire Huxtable was the ultimate woman for me.
01:39Like she could just make you tea and read you at the same time for Phil. Claire Huxtable on screen and Felicia Rashad in real life.
01:46In real life. Debbie Allen. I mean, let's just talk about the family. I mean, the family.
01:49I'm going to throw Debbie Allen in there too. Debbie. I did. Debbie Allen. She's in there on her toes.
01:54Yeah. Dancing her way through. I mean, Oprah for sure. You know. Mother Opie.
01:59Oh, okay. It's going to be music for me. It's Faith Evans. It's Mary J. Black. Oh, right.
02:03It's them for me. Like every day. Just mind blowing, right. They look like me. They sounded like me.
02:09The things they said were the things that I wanted to say. And, you know, it was way too growing for me as a child.
02:15It was a style for me. Yeah. Especially with Faith.
02:18Lauren Hill for me was like, she was the one. Everything could be possible. When I saw Lauren Hill, I was like, oh, you can do all of it.
02:24And you can be all of these things. And she always missed that like hip hop and R&B.
02:27And that's just like my whole whole thing. You know, she really acts like. Triple threat.
02:32You can't match this rapper slash actress.
02:35Bars.
02:38Speaking of unapologetically, can we talk about the fact that this year we're finally talking about black women and their hair in the workplace?
02:47Absolutely. Unreal.
02:49Like, I wasn't. I mean, this is this is crazy that this is we're now getting to this place.
02:54It freaks me out. It's 2020. We're talking about the fact that there was a time somebody told you you couldn't go into a place with your hair like this.
03:00I've had conversations with family members, high ranking, running the entire department.
03:06Someone will come up. Is your hair supposed to be like that?
03:10She's their boss, you know, touching her hair.
03:13And so I'm glad I'm proud of the Crown Act. I'm proud that these things have been implemented.
03:18And I think now more so than ever, we have the opportunity to implement this, make it effective, be committed to it, be accountable for it.
03:27And like, you know all about this with your background.
03:30Who would have thought in May the world, right, would come to its knees and face the racial injustice that's been happening?
03:39Boom.
03:39Boom.
03:39Right. And so who would have thought also that diversity and inclusion is something that I've been doing now for 20 years would come to the forefront.
03:46I've never in my life or in my career seen such a demand for this work in corporations.
03:51And so I think it's time, you know, for the world to see our magic and our brilliance and all the intelligence that we bring into these spaces.
03:58It's not just about filling a quota.
03:59That part.
04:00Yeah.
04:01How do you guys feel about the black squares and then afterwards?
04:03You know, I think people do their best to try to be proactive when there's an opportunity to do so.
04:10But follow through is everything.
04:11That's right.
04:12We can't think George Floyd was just a one day thing.
04:14This has been a domino effect and we have a responsibility to keep the narrative going to make sure people stay just as passionate as they did in May.
04:21That's right.
04:21In June.
04:22Allyship is an action word.
04:23We don't want to see performative allyship.
04:25Right.
04:25What steps are you taking to wield your power, use the privilege that you have to actually drive change?
04:30Like, fight with us.
04:31Yes.
04:32Stand with us.
04:33Yes.
04:33Right.
04:33When you see us carrying this weight, like, don't say, oh, that's nice.
04:36Look how strong she is.
04:37No, I need you to lock arms with us.
04:39Yes.
04:39And do the work.
04:40If you're not, don't call yourself an ally.
04:43No, it's not just a black person's problem.
04:45It affects everybody.
04:46If we stand still, okay, the world stands still.
04:49Yeah.
04:49And that's why when some of our ally friends say that they're colorblind, I'm like, no, don't be colorblind.
04:54Be color conscious.
04:55You know, I want you to see the beauty of who we are.
04:58I want you to see all of the nuances of who we are.
05:01You don't get to say you don't see it.
05:02That's right.
05:02Because we're literally living it.
05:04We're literally living it every single day.
05:06Every day.
05:06We're seeing the fear of raising black sons in this world and having black partners and being black people in this country.
05:13And it's so important.
05:14Like, you have to see us.
05:15It's not just here.
05:16It's happening everywhere.
05:17It's in our system at this point, and we're just sick of it.
05:21So I'm grateful for the full-eye exposure.
05:23I'm grateful for the time.
05:25I'm grateful that everyone's taking the time.
05:27We have the time.
05:28I'm so glad that we could sit and have these conversations.
05:31Because, I mean, even just sitting here looking at us, the diversity is so beautiful here.
05:36We just add such value.
05:37So I'm so thankful for you guys.
05:38Cheers.
05:38Thanks for coming.
05:39Cheers.
05:39Cheers for that.
05:40Cheers.
05:40Cheers.
05:41Come on, y'all.
05:42Ice?
05:42Ice.
05:43Ice.
05:44Hello, ice.
05:45There you go.
05:45You
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