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00:00How's my ass?
00:01Yeah.
00:02Previously, a 1,000-pound sisters.
00:05Describe your wedding vibe in three words.
00:08This is not what I expected.
00:09I thought there was going to be Halloween costumes.
00:10That's more than three words.
00:15Well, what happened?
00:16Yeah.
00:17.
00:18Amy's got her underwear in a knot,
00:20and she shoved her up her butt.
00:22Amy backed out of going to the animal shelter.
00:25And Tammy lost her .
00:30I haven't heard from Amy since our text fight.
00:33She's blocked me on everything.
00:38We could, like, go out to eat or something, all three of us.
00:42You guys were so close.
00:44I'd just like to see y'all reconcile.
00:47Do you know what she said to me?
00:49Well, you shouldn't hurt my feelings.
00:51I can't handle her toxic ass no more.
00:54.
00:56that bitch.
00:57No, no, no.
00:57She's dead to me.
00:58.
01:18Y'all ready for this?
01:20Not really.
01:22It's been a few days since I tried to talk to Tammy
01:24and have her hear me out.
01:26And I haven't spoken to that bitch since.
01:28I mean, it did take me a couple of days to get over the fact
01:32that Tammy, yet again, was being Tammy.
01:35But I ain't going to let her stop me.
01:37My eyes is on the prize.
01:39Hello.
01:40Welcome in.
01:41Welcome in.
01:42We can head on to the back and we'll get you
01:44harnessed up and ready to go.
01:49With the wedding less than four months away,
01:51this girl needs to lose weight.
01:53I heard about a new exercise train called bungee fitness.
01:57So I was like, this might be fine.
01:59But I don't know what the I'm getting myself into.
02:03And I got Misty and Brittany with me.
02:06How are these connected to the ceiling?
02:09Jason, how are those connected to the ceiling?
02:12A little crazy glue?
02:14No.
02:14You better use some gorilla glue.
02:16I'm fat.
02:17Are you doing it?
02:18I just thought we were just going to have some resistance bands.
02:21I didn't think there was a whole thing going on the ceiling
02:24and stuff like that.
02:25There's so much stuff hanging from the ceiling.
02:27It looked like an octopus coming down the damn ceiling.
02:30And then the cracking's out.
02:33So we're going to start off with some waist trainers.
02:36And what these are going to do is just
02:37kind of help with the friction of the harness
02:39and keep it from hurting you.
02:42I'm going to do that right there.
02:44OK, don't do anything crazy.
02:47No jumping around yet.
02:50I feel like I was tied up.
02:53All it was missing was the fuzzy cuffs.
02:56These crazy workouts, I don't know why they keep
02:59roping me into it.
03:00Why in the hell wasn't Chris strapped in?
03:02I want to see his big ass do it.
03:06The first thing we're going to do is some squats.
03:08You're going to make sure you have all the weight in your heels.
03:10We're going to go in three, two, one, squat.
03:18Everybody's looking good.
03:20All right, we're there.
03:21Shake those legs out.
03:23Take a couple of breaths in.
03:25Redo the wedgie.
03:29What's wrong with you?
03:30I don't know what to tell you.
03:34These harnesses were not meant for people with excess skin.
03:38I'll tell you that.
03:39My fabric would go in between the strap and my leg.
03:42My done lap is getting caught under this.
03:45Oh, no.
03:46Does it need loosened up a little bit?
03:48No, it's fine.
03:49I just got caught for a second.
03:50Are you sure?
03:51OK.
03:52Lately, I've been doing so good on my weight loss.
03:55And now that I'm skinnier, it's starting to bother me even more.
04:00Like, you can see my six-pack.
04:03No, it's not a six-pack yet.
04:07It's just a keg.
04:08It's a small keg.
04:09All right, so the running is the most fun thing, so that's what we're going to do next.
04:14You're going to run forward, and you're going to run back.
04:19If you don't run backwards, you're going to fall on your butt because it's going to drag
04:24you backwards.
04:25You're essentially strapped to a rubber band, OK?
04:28Are we ready?
04:29Everybody get back.
04:30OK.
04:31Here we go.
04:32Three, two, one, go.
04:36Ow!
04:37You OK?
04:38You good?
04:39OK.
04:40I'm done with that one.
04:41Nope.
04:42OK.
04:43I felt it when she hit the floor.
04:46It jarred the floor.
04:49I'm not doing that again.
04:51I ain't getting slammed on my ass again.
04:54It was a rubber band pulling me back on my ass.
04:58I got, like, pulled back like you were getting in trouble.
05:01My mama pulled me up out of my shirt.
05:03There you go.
05:04Good job, ladies.
05:05Yes.
05:06All right.
05:07This time we're going to run and hop.
05:10All right.
05:11After Amy fell, it was like she didn't put forth as much effort.
05:14I'm not doing that again.
05:15I ain't getting slammed on my ass again.
05:17It was a rubber band pulling me back on my ass.
05:19I got, like, pulled back like you were getting in trouble.
05:22It's like she didn't put forth as much effort.
05:25But I'm very surprised that she just didn't quit,
05:28because that's her normal go-to.
05:30She actually stayed and participated.
05:33There you go.
05:34It is a great stretch.
05:36On the other side of that coin,
05:38Brittany's lost quite a bit away since her bariatric surgery,
05:41and she really is trying.
05:43So, I mean, I'm proud of her.
05:47And last one.
05:49All right.
05:50Good job.
05:51You did it.
05:52High five.
05:53Yay!
05:54I think I broke my tailbone.
05:59But other than that, I really had fun.
06:03I'm really proud of myself right now.
06:06I got Brian, the boys.
06:08I got the wedding coming up.
06:10And in a few days, me and Brian are going to go see Billy
06:13to go over some wedding stuff.
06:15I feel nasty.
06:16I'm going to be sore tomorrow.
06:18Everything's starting to fall in place.
06:21I don't need to deal with Tammy's drama.
06:23All right, girl.
06:24This sun about to be to death of me.
06:26That's swamp ass.
06:29All right, girl, the sun's about to be the death of me.
06:39That's my best.
06:41Well, that's what happens when it's 110 degrees outside.
06:45Hi.
06:46Hello.
06:47How are you all today?
06:48Good.
06:49How are you?
06:50Good.
06:51Today, me and Amanda are shopping for vitamins.
06:54Amanda's been trying to get me out of the house to cheer me up
06:58because I'm still pretty upset after that bullshit meeting with Amy.
07:05I haven't heard from Amy since, but she texted Andrea,
07:11and it pisses me off because now she's blowing up Andrea trying to talk to me.
07:18Bitch, if you want to talk to me, talk to me.
07:21Don't go through her.
07:24Your problem's with me, not Andrea.
07:27Leave her the **** alone.
07:32I don't know what all there is.
07:34All this stuff is just, like, speaking French to me.
07:36But I was recently diagnosed with POTS, and I've made lifestyle changes,
07:40but I need to do better.
07:41Right.
07:42After, like, four months, I finally got diagnosed with POTS.
07:48And we ain't talking about the Mary Joanna.
07:51POTS is posterior orthostatic tachycardia syndrome.
07:56POTS is basically where when you stand up, your heart rate goes high,
07:59and you just pass out.
08:01So my blood pressure is unstable.
08:03It's very common with bariatric patients.
08:06It's not something that you cure.
08:08It's something that goes in remission.
08:09You cannot have flare-ups for years.
08:11It's kind of like any other autoimmune issue.
08:14We have vegan-based protein.
08:16We have whey isolate, whey concentrate.
08:18We have real food.
08:19Now, your vegan proteins are different.
08:21There are different types of protein based on how it's sourced.
08:24This green superfood complex, you've got all your greens,
08:27like your alfalfa, your oat grass, your kale.
08:31You know, at this point,
08:32I feel like I just need to be backing my trunk up
08:34and saying just load me up
08:36because I'm looking for all kinds of different vitamins,
08:38and I want protein and then the super greens,
08:40and then you've got the red stuff.
08:42And don't forget, you know, the big D.
08:45I mean, the vitamin D is really the best vitamin that you can get.
08:51Before I talk you into, like, buying a container,
08:57we make drinks here,
08:58and if you want me to make you all a protein drink, I'll make it.
09:02The way my stomach is absorbing,
09:04a drink would be better for me.
09:06Right.
09:07Right.
09:08I'm going to go back there and get that made up for you all.
09:09All right, sounds good.
09:10You're welcome.
09:12So how's everything been going?
09:15All right.
09:17Because I know that you and Amy
09:19kind of had a little bit of a issue the other day.
09:22I popped off, she popped off, and that was it.
09:26I guess Amy's got a corncob stuck up her ass
09:29because she got bit by a camel talking about PTSD.
09:32I don't know about all that ,
09:34but I ain't never heard of no Campbell being
09:36at the Vanderburgh Humane Society.
09:38That's one thing I ain't heard of.
09:40But I'm also still heard from what she did to me in PA.
09:44Pittsburgh.
09:45Yeah.
09:46She did tell me that she was leaving that day.
09:51I literally just opened my eyes right after surgery.
09:56And she told me she was leaving.
09:58I do not remember.
10:00Honey, listen.
10:01I do not remember.
10:02And she's taking everything out of me.
10:04Look.
10:05Listen, hey.
10:06Take a breath.
10:07Hey, stop.
10:08Look at me.
10:09Take a breath.
10:10It's okay.
10:11I don't really know what the hell's going on with Tammy.
10:14You know, like, we're in there, and I'm thinking it's going good,
10:17and we're looking at the snacks.
10:19And the next thing I know, she was upset and crying.
10:23I'm still surprised that Tammy is this upset about Pittsburgh.
10:27I didn't realize it was something that she was holding on to that hard.
10:30But that cut really deep that Amy left in such a time as it was because somebody made a comment about your bodily stench.
10:40And I didn't even react.
10:42I mean, the bitch stank.
10:45I can't help how I gagged.
10:48She just up and abandoned you.
10:50That's what you're feeling.
10:52Amy does not understand stuff like that.
10:55Or she doesn't care to understand.
10:57But Tammy, that's been months ago.
11:00Why can't we just sit down and have a conversation?
11:04We tried.
11:05Angel, you know, I tried, but...
11:10I don't know why I'm having so many mood swings.
11:13But I know that I'm still hurt for what Amy done.
11:18Definitely.
11:20And I know I need to let it go.
11:22But at the same time, she's holding grudges too.
11:27Well, at this point, the ball's in her court.
11:30This is what pisses me off.
11:32My mental is not right right now.
11:34And she's pushing the issue.
11:35Okay, she'll stop herself.
11:36I don't give a .
11:37But I'm trying to help you.
11:39Okay?
11:40Don't come for me.
11:41I'm trying to help you calm down because it's not that serious.
11:44I've done talked about it.
11:45I don't want to talk about it no more.
11:48Tammy's all over the place in this conversation.
11:51And I'm walking on eggshells because, you know, hell, she can be pissed off at me next.
11:56At this point, let's just put a pin in it because you're getting angry.
12:00I think that we should just go up here and get these drinks because they sure are looking good.
12:05You know, I definitely feel like Tammy has had a place in her life where she should seek help.
12:10She's grown up a lot going through this process.
12:13But there's still work that needs to be done.
12:15And don't just stop at losing weight.
12:18How are you handling family dynamic?
12:25What's the hardest part?
12:26Just seeing how her family has treated her since I met her.
12:30I mean, I don't want to take her away from family.
12:33But...
12:35Tammy has not been herself lately.
12:38And after we saw Amy, it's just gotten worse.
12:41So I need some advice on what to do.
12:43Does Tammy even know you're here?
12:47That in itself could cause World War III for them too.
13:07Hey!
13:08Oh my goodness. Girl, what are you doing?
13:11Not much.
13:12You look good.
13:14Billy's been in my family for donkey years.
13:16I was probably in my diapers.
13:18And because he's an ordained minister, he's going to marry me and Brian.
13:22But before he does, Billy just wants to meet with Brian and me and do some wedding counseling.
13:29I made you something.
13:30Girl.
13:31It's a spray paint with a stone texture.
13:34Well, that is beautiful.
13:36I'm bringing Billy one of my paintings as, like, a thank you for marrying me and Brian.
13:41I know you live far away and you're coming out here and doing all these things for nothing.
13:46At least I could give you as a painting that I made with my own two hands out of love.
13:52Be careful because there is some glass shards in here.
13:54Okay.
13:56You won't get cut, obviously, because I'm not, and I'm being pretty rough on it.
14:00Leave it to Amy to give me not also a beautiful painting, but a way to defend myself if somebody's in my house.
14:09I mean, I got a shield.
14:10I got some glass.
14:11I can throw and stab and run all at the same time.
14:14Thank you, Amy.
14:15I love Amy, and I do know how much it would mean to her if I married them.
14:21But I haven't agreed to do it just yet.
14:24After having this conversation, if I see something that I don't think is right, there's tons of people who can marry them.
14:31I just wouldn't be that person.
14:33How did you two meet?
14:35At a concert.
14:36At a concert?
14:37Yeah, he interviewed me for the paper, and the next morning I woke up to a DM from him asking me if I wanted to go get lunch.
14:46I really hope Billy will be the one to marry us, and actually thanks for a strong couple.
14:51I know we're good, but it's just nice to getting the validation from people on the outside sometimes.
14:57So we had a 26-hour date and a 23-hour date.
15:00The third date never ended, because we've not been apart since the third date.
15:04It was a lot of a relationship in a short amount of time.
15:08I know you guys need each other.
15:10You depend on each other.
15:11But we need our own time, you know.
15:15So are you able to function without each other?
15:19I can function.
15:22Well, and I don't mean that to say...
15:24Who's got a separation exam?
15:26Okay.
15:27No, I do fine.
15:28I mean, I know there's times she's got to go do stuff.
15:30Right.
15:31I guess that's because I know she has to have help.
15:33She has to get around.
15:34Yeah, I'm kind of a burden.
15:36Well...
15:37Not at all, dear.
15:38And that's...
15:39Not meaning to.
15:40It's only because I'm blind.
15:42The situation is a burden, but you're never a burden.
15:44Yeah.
15:45And you've got to change that mindset.
15:47Sorry.
15:48It's okay.
15:52I've had people tell me I'm a burden because I can't drive.
15:56Since the moment I was born, like, I've always had to rely on my siblings or my nephews or my niece, somebody to drive me because I was never able to drive.
16:09And it made me feel like I'm the inconvenience.
16:12I'm the burden of my family.
16:16That's how I feel sometimes.
16:22It's okay to cry about it, but I want you to start understanding.
16:28Your situation's a burden.
16:29You're not.
16:30Zero.
16:31And guess what?
16:33You found somebody to take care of that burden.
16:36Now you've got a burden of somebody who don't want to let go.
16:39And I don't mean that in a negative way, you know.
16:42Uh...
16:43Yeah.
16:44Yeah.
16:45All right.
16:46Well, we'll take...
16:47If you don't mind, I'm going to talk to Brian.
16:50I'll take a walk over there and y'all can talk.
16:55All right.
16:56I'll see y'all in a minute.
16:57All right, dear.
16:58First of all, when did you know and what inside you said, hey, I think this is it?
17:07Um...
17:08I don't want to say the first 26 hours, but it might have been just in that getting to know her.
17:13I mean, she's funny, fun, smart.
17:15I mean, you just got all this out of that first date.
17:18And how are you handling family dynamic?
17:21Um...
17:23What's the hardest part?
17:25I mean, just seeing how her family has treated her since I met her, I mean, it's...
17:33I don't want to take her away from family, but I want to take her away from being mistreated,
17:38being looked down upon.
17:40I mean, that's been my pleasure to be there to get her where she needs to be,
17:45to get the boys where they need to be.
17:47I mean, to be there for her, I mean...
17:50You have provided another way of protection for Amy.
17:54And I can't say thank you enough for that.
17:57Talking to Brian, I think the truth is, he is in love with Amy.
18:02And if there's red flags to be seen, I'm blind.
18:05All right, Brian, give it just a few minutes.
18:07You're done with that?
18:08Hold it.
18:09I'm good. I'm gonna get some more in it. Thank you.
18:11Well, I had some conversations with Brian.
18:15It was good conversations.
18:17So, I will...
18:18But I will tell you, he is...
18:20He is...
18:21Smitten like a love sleep.
18:22He is.
18:23Yeah.
18:25Brian was, like, picking out engagement rings after three days.
18:28Because, apparently, my vagina is, like, for style or something.
18:32I'm not saying that again.
18:39Well, I just have to be honest with you.
18:42I think he's fantastic.
18:44And I don't say that lightly.
18:46My relationship has been validated today.
18:49If any of my siblings ever had a doubt why I'm marrying this man,
18:53they can just go to Billy, like, that's love, y'all.
18:58What I see is two people's found happiness.
19:03And I'm gonna tell you that 1,000%.
19:06And I am happy and delighted to be the fish ship for your wedding.
19:13Now, do you guys have any questions for me?
19:15Can we leave out the part where people object?
19:17Because I think...
19:19I'm telling you now, there will be no drama.
19:22If you got something to say, go ahead and go outside.
19:25And when the wedding's over, you can talk to somebody else about it.
19:28But we're gonna go and have the wedding.
19:29So, you know.
19:30So, you've already got bridesmaids.
19:32Brittany, and then it will be Misty.
19:34Got it.
19:35Lili's the maid of honor.
19:36Okay, okay.
19:37And Amanda's coming to the wedding.
19:39Okay.
19:40But she is not in it.
19:42And where's Tammy?
19:43She invited herself.
19:45What do you mean by that?
19:46Me and her got into a fight.
19:48And she said some horrible that she can't take back.
19:51So, she's out my life.
19:55I'm done.
19:56I'm done giving olive brushes.
19:57There's no more olives on that tree.
19:59I'll loan you a few more.
20:00If she wants to be positive and quit being a bully and negative to me,
20:05then she can have something to do with me.
20:07Until then, I'm not giving in.
20:09I have done it my whole life.
20:11Well, because...
20:12I had to.
20:13Well, you were the mother.
20:14But she ain't 700 pounds.
20:15But you were the mother.
20:16And you have to realize that.
20:18You was left taking care of her.
20:22And you had nothing.
20:23What you had was a burden to take care of her.
20:27I didn't even realize that I was a mother to Tammy my whole life.
20:34I was a mother before I was supposed to be a mother.
20:37And it just means a lot that he knows how grown up I was back then.
20:43I do feel like I will say something to Tammy.
20:48I'm gonna take care of that.
20:50But all I will ask at this time is, and it's your wedding, you do what you want.
20:56But I want you to reserve a spot in case a few months down the line,
21:02this dynamic between you and her is different.
21:09You know what I'm thinking?
21:11That would be beautiful for your sister's wedding.
21:15Billy's trying to force me into going to the wedding, and I'm not doing it.
21:19She has not asked me to be there or anything.
21:23So her.
21:36Tammy has not been herself lately.
21:38It's been a while since I've seen the Tammy that I used to know.
21:42I really don't always know when Tammy is gonna blow.
21:46It's kind of like zero to 60.
21:49And after we saw Amy, it's just gotten worse.
21:52So I need some advice on what to do because I feel like I'm in over my head.
21:57Oh, there you are.
21:58Hey.
21:59Nice to meet you, boss.
22:00Yeah.
22:01How you doing?
22:02All right.
22:03You know, this is the first time I've actually got to sit down and talk to Andrea
22:07since her and Tammy started dating.
22:09But I really don't have a clue what Andrea really wants to talk about today.
22:14Um, I just want to tell you I talked to Amy and Tammy the other day.
22:20I don't know what you know.
22:21Well, I know they got into it about that day you was over there.
22:24Yeah.
22:25Well, the better question is, does Tammy even know you're here?
22:33No.
22:37Yeah.
22:38I know.
22:39Set me up for failure.
22:40Me too though.
22:41No.
22:42No.
22:43No.
22:44Andrea called me this morning and see if I was able to come and enjoy a lunch with her
22:49today and come to find out that Tammy wasn't aware that she was meeting with me, that in
22:56itself could cause World War III for them too.
23:00Because I don't know why Tammy don't want us to get to know her very well at the moment.
23:05That's what it seems.
23:07Maybe she's afraid that we're going to run her off.
23:10Well, Tammy, if your ass ain't run the bitch off, ain't nobody else going to.
23:16But I tried so hard, Chris.
23:20Like, I mean, like, I was as calm as I am right now and I just couldn't.
23:24And then Tammy walked out and that was it.
23:27It was...
23:28Welcome to my world of 45 years.
23:32Somebody's always fighting.
23:37Nobody in the family has ever chose to take on the peacemaker role in this family besides
23:45Tammy.
23:46For her to go this far out of her way to try to get Tammy and Amy back together, it just
23:52shows how good of a damn person she is.
23:55You know, honestly, right now, I kind of feel Tammy's going through some .
23:59Apparently, she has a problem with my wife too.
24:02She does?
24:03Brittany.
24:04Wow.
24:05She said something about Brittany when she lived with us.
24:08Brittany hit her with the purse trying to knock her out of the way or something.
24:10I don't know.
24:11Yeah, it was some .
24:12I've heard through the grapevine that Tammy said something about Brittany knocking her
24:18out of the way with her purse.
24:20You know, just everything about it is just kind of ridiculous to start thinking about
24:25it.
24:26But to be honest, if Tammy ever comes for my wife, there will be a problem.
24:33Tammy needs to go back to talking to her therapist and stuff.
24:37Because I feel that she's kind of slacked off her therapy.
24:40And now we're getting in the wrong direction of being Miss Difficult again.
24:45But she has the best intentions.
24:47I love her to death.
24:48I try to take care of her and help her.
24:50She's got to figure out something to how to control her anger.
24:53If she can get that portion of her personality under control, you couldn't ask for a better
24:59person.
25:00Right.
25:01Do you think it's the surgery that's making her act different?
25:04Like with her hormones and stuff?
25:07I'm sure her hormones are screaming out of the way.
25:10She was 727 pounds and .
25:13She probably needs to go get some level checks.
25:15Yeah, I agree.
25:17I agree.
25:18Tammy ain't been right since she come home from Pittsburgh.
25:21She's going through changes and she's still learning herself, especially after this first
25:26wave of skin removal surgery.
25:28But I really think she needs to get back on her mental health kick.
25:32So at first, when y'all started y'all's little running around together thing, I didn't
25:38know if you were just bashful and didn't want to meet us or if Tammy was trying to keep
25:44you from our crazy asses, I didn't know.
25:49Because it kind of felt like she was keeping you away from us.
25:53That is exactly why I haven't.
25:59I have been told numerous times that I never want you to meet my family.
26:04I never want you to meet them.
26:06I mean, I understand that, you know, we're rough and rowdy, loud and munchies.
26:11But I mean, I am too.
26:12I mean, I can get that with you.
26:13But is she embarrassed to us?
26:14Well, I...
26:15I mean, that might kind of makes it sound like it.
26:17Yeah.
26:18Well...
26:19We've been told Andrea's shy she don't want to meet nobody.
26:22Come to find out it's Tammy that don't want her to meet us.
26:26That kind of a catch-corner-two feelings there for me because it kind of bothers me that Tammy
26:31don't want us to meet her, but yet it makes me feel glad because I was kind of starting
26:35to think she was a bitch and she didn't want to meet us all.
26:37You know what I'm saying?
26:39She's blessed to have you guys because I don't have that.
26:42Well, you do too.
26:43You've got five or six or seven of us now.
26:44All of us got kids and family.
26:46So you're just part of the big happy family.
26:49When Chris told me I was already part of the family, that made me feel really great
26:52because family is so important.
26:54And I don't have any, so it's just like...
26:56It made me tear up a little bit, to be honest.
26:59I mean, I'm so glad you said it.
27:03We two get together as a family.
27:05That's what I want to do.
27:07A couple weeks from now is when her birthday is at three.
27:11Yeah, so I was thinking about that, but then I was like,
27:14sometimes she'll say she wants a party and then one day she doesn't.
27:18I wanted to take her go-kart riding because she's never been able to do it.
27:22But then she said she didn't want to do it.
27:24I'm just going to tell you to plan it.
27:27If you know it's something she would love to try to do, do it.
27:33I would keep it small.
27:35Like, we can't have the party and not invite Amy, though.
27:39I mean, that's kind of rude.
27:41I'll worry about getting Amy there.
27:43You just have to get Tammy to either I pick her up
27:46or somebody pick her up and tell her, hey, we're going to go here
27:48and then show up for a surprise birthday party or something.
27:51That's what I would do.
27:52It has to be a surprise because she knows.
27:55She ain't going.
27:56It's going to be like Chucky.
27:58You know what I mean?
27:59Chucky.
28:00Michael.
28:05It's just that if she's in a bad mood that day,
28:07I'm going to be like, Lord, we ain't going.
28:11That might be the easy way out.
28:15I ain't.
28:16Yeah.
28:17Just send me a 911 text and I don't know what that means.
28:20The bitch is on fire.
28:23If she's game to get everybody together, I'm willing to help.
28:27Getting everybody together could do either one or two things.
28:30It could put a bandaid on it and we start doing what we do best
28:33and that's eating and conjugating.
28:35Or it could have a high speed come apart and we talking World War 3
28:40up in this bitch.
28:42I love my sister to death, but planning a birthday party
28:45should not be this damn stressful.
28:50Take a minute.
28:51Look at me.
28:54I don't think Tammy understands how to deal with her negative emotions
28:58at this point.
28:59I'm getting very overwhelmed.
29:05I haven't got to hang out with Lili in a while.
29:16I haven't seen her since I tried on wedding dresses.
29:19Hey, what's up?
29:20How's it going?
29:21I'm good.
29:22You're good.
29:23And I got an idea and I want to run it by Lili and see her point
29:28of view on it because she ain't going to lie to me.
29:30She's going to tell me like it is.
29:32Regardless if I want to hear the answer or not,
29:34she's going to tell me.
29:35Catch me up with what's been going on.
29:37Lili, I've just been like trying to move into Brian's house soon.
29:41That sounds good.
29:42What about the wedding?
29:44The only thing we really need is like bridesmaids and grooms tuxes,
29:50Brian's tux, the boys' tux.
29:53What about the bachelorette party?
29:55I was thinking about doing like kind of going to craft something.
30:02Let me take care of that.
30:08You sure?
30:09Yeah.
30:10Let me take care of that.
30:11I'd like to do that.
30:12Yeah.
30:13We could figure something out.
30:15Are we like little house on the prairie or something?
30:20No.
30:21I'm not going to let her get away with a low-key bachelorette party.
30:24We're going to make it a little lit.
30:28Well, there's something else I'm in keeping from you.
30:31What?
30:32I'm thinking about doing an art show.
30:42I think that that would be possible.
30:44I think that you could do that because you really got some nice artwork.
30:49When me and Michael got a divorce, I was going through a lot of stuff.
30:53So I picked up painting as a step to like express myself.
30:57You know what?
30:58I feel like this damn duck, the odd one out of my whole family.
31:02I'm the one that shines the brightest, but I get lost because they overtake me.
31:10I kind of make art by what I'm going through.
31:13Like my weight loss journey or the family drama.
31:16I mean, these are great, babe.
31:17Have you thought about selling them?
31:18I never really thought about selling my art.
31:21I think I'm just too nervous.
31:24I didn't think they were really good.
31:26That's what I always kept to myself.
31:28But it's just a way to keep my hands moving.
31:31I know hands are a devil's bitch.
31:37What do you think about the art?
31:39That's why I brought you here to scope out the place with me.
31:43I like it.
31:45Like, would you come if I put my paintings and stuff up?
31:49Yeah.
31:51Amy's art is unique.
31:53I don't, I don't even, can't even put the name on the style.
31:56It's just coming from someplace deep inside her mind, imaginary place.
32:01And I mean, you know, people, you got the naysayers, but she really puts her heart into it.
32:06And, you know, I guess the world deserves to see that.
32:09Why don't you ask him?
32:10That's way better than what I can do.
32:11I've seen a lot of your artwork.
32:12You're really good.
32:13I guess I'm my biggest critic.
32:14Like, I nitpick every piece.
32:15That's what we do.
32:16That's what we do.
32:17But you'll never know unless you ask.
32:18Having my own art show would be my dream come to life.
32:19I never put myself out there as an artist when I was 400 pounds because my self-esteem
32:24was so low.
32:25But now I think I'm kind of like a phoenix rising through the ashes.
32:31But the scariest part about putting yourself out there is what if people don't like it?
32:37What if people don't like me?
32:38Today, Billy and I have a day to go shopping.
33:06But I'm just not here today.
33:11I have so much on my mind.
33:18Psst.
33:19Girl, what are you doing?
33:22Look at this.
33:23Wait a minute, girl.
33:24Are you trying to be a model now?
33:25Bathing suit now?
33:26What's good?
33:27Why?
33:28What's wrong?
33:29I just don't feel good.
33:31I knew you were going to be a model.
33:34I knew right away something was offset.
33:40Normally, with me, she greets perfectly fine.
33:43We're cheery.
33:44We're down and we're ready to go.
33:46But today, she's got something bothering her.
33:49I'm not really for sure what it is.
33:51But she's down and out about something.
33:54Wait a minute.
33:55Wait a minute.
33:56My Trump over is getting ready to get blown.
34:02I felt the wind.
34:03Listen, you're fine, but we ain't doing like this while I'm talking.
34:06Hell to the law.
34:08No.
34:09So how's things been going?
34:12All right.
34:13I mean, arguing with Amy's students.
34:17Over wedding stuff?
34:19Yeah.
34:20And then, like, Sheila really, I guess I'm still letting things build up from PA where she
34:30had just kind of ditched me.
34:31And I'm just at the point where I don't care anymore.
34:36You know where I live.
34:37You got my number.
34:39I'm serious.
34:42I personally have anger.
34:46It's not really anger.
34:49It's more of heartbroken.
34:52But I turned that into anger.
34:55And it's because of how Amy has treated me.
35:01I kind of like these, but I don't know if they fit.
35:05Uh, yeah.
35:06If they're not stretching, we're not trying.
35:08The first thing that came out of Tammy's mouth was Pennsylvania.
35:12So I know she wants to talk about that, and I know that she wants to vent.
35:16You know, that is her sister.
35:18She misses her sister.
35:20But that was six months ago.
35:22It's a little bit upsetting.
35:25We're still back in Pennsylvania.
35:28Now, listen.
35:30Okay.
35:31You know what I'm thinking?
35:33From 1982?
35:35No, no, no.
35:36Think real hard.
35:39You nasty.
35:40No.
35:41Oh.
35:42Well, I'm nasty.
35:43Yeah, you nasty.
35:46But this is for another conversation.
35:48But I do believe that would be beautiful for your sister's wedding.
35:53I mean, it's, it would be.
35:55You know, the thing.
35:56Well, no, we're not doing all that now.
35:59Billy's trying to force me into going to the wedding, and I'm not doing it.
36:03She is not asking me to be there or anything.
36:08It's so hard.
36:12Don't worry, Tammy.
36:13You will get to go to the wedding.
36:15I think it'll be fine.
36:17You don't, I don't, you got, don't stress over things we can't handle, honey.
36:22It's just one step at a time.
36:25Who knows?
36:26Everything's going to work out.
36:28Everything's going to be fine.
36:30Take a minute.
36:32Look at me.
36:33Uh-uh.
36:34I said, look at me, not look the other way.
36:37You're tired.
36:39And it's stressed.
36:41All of a sudden, Tammy's having a major meltdown.
36:46Something just wasn't, wasn't right.
36:51And I was like, what's going on?
36:54Well, here.
36:55Here.
36:56You can.
36:57You just, you just, everything's fine.
36:59Everything is fine.
37:01Maybe we should go try these on.
37:06Do you want to try those clothes on?
37:19I'm getting very overwhelmed.
37:25Look at me.
37:27Take a deep breath.
37:30Everything's going to work out.
37:32Everything's going to be fine.
37:35You going to try these on?
37:36You going to check it out?
37:37I'm back on the shelf.
37:38Mm-hmm.
37:41Um, do you want this?
37:47Girl, I don't even know where these things went.
37:49Hey, help me put these back.
37:51It's 7-4.
37:52She gone.
38:05I met up with Tammy today because I know her and Amy have been going through a rough time.
38:15But she's just not acting herself.
38:18When Tammy's upset or uncomfortable, she immediately throws up a guard.
38:23So if you're around her, even though she doesn't mean it, you all of a sudden become a target to her.
38:30But I don't tolerate children having a fit in a store.
38:33That, that kind of, whew, that, that, I didn't know what to do about that.
38:40So listen, something is stressing you and it's bothering me.
38:47I just don't feel good.
38:48I'm ready to go back home.
38:49Well?
38:50And it's nothing against you.
38:52I just don't feel good.
38:53And I know it's, I, listen, I, I know it's nothing against me.
38:57But, you know, I'm trying to figure out how the best way to say this without upsetting you, because that's not what I want to do.
39:06But you, you've got to, you have to share with me, other than not feeling good, what you got going on.
39:12I drove three hours to come up here to be with you.
39:15I don't want to talk about this, my mom. I'm getting really mad.
39:19Now, you know I love you more than anything, but we've got to get over whatever it is we got to get over.
39:26It's, it's frustrating when you have to drive three hours just to come to support somebody and then they say, oh, never mind.
39:34You know?
39:35Because I, you know, she could have called me on the telephone and I could have did a U-turn on the highway and go back home.
39:41I mean, I didn't need a tantrum on me.
39:44I'm, I'm the one driving.
39:46See, anybody's had a tantrum, it should have been myself.
39:48So, at this point I'm confused.
39:51I don't think Tammy really understands how to deal with her negative emotions at this point.
39:58I, it's, it's, everything's too much today and I need, I want to go home.
40:06I truly do wish you would understand that you got so many people on your side and so many people love you.
40:12I really, truly wish you would understand that, Tammy.
40:15The choices that Tammy is making at this time is not, it's not, it's really not Tammy.
40:24I'm, what I'm confused with is sometimes I feel like there's someone behind her that's winding her up and saying, you need to focus more on being a bitch or you need to focus more on what you want to do and not worry about what somebody else thinks is best for you if it's not your way.
40:45But I think eventually Tammy needs to understand, hey, you know, I do need to, I need to consider somebody else's feelings and she used to.
40:55I need to go home.
40:58I don't want to be here.
41:00I don't want to deal with this.
41:03I don't want people in my face.
41:05I just want to be left alone.
41:08Oh, hey.
41:12Next time on 1,000 Pound Sisters.
41:15I recently got the idea of actually having my own art show.
41:19Was everybody invited?
41:20Yes.
41:21I invited Tammy and Andrea.
41:23Okay.
41:24This woman, Amy messaged me about her art show.
41:27I don't know if you would want to go.
41:29Bitch, if you really want to make up, then come to me.
41:33I'm not going to you first.
41:36I don't think you could pick me up.
41:40Come here.
41:43Brittany's lost 50 pounds and that's great.
41:46But for as long as I've known Brittany, she's dreamed about being a mom.
41:51I mean, if it was going to happen, it should have happened by now for sure.
41:54So you think we should get checked out, us both?
41:57Well, I know I ain't got no problems.
41:59I've already got two running around here.
42:04So there's Brian and Amy.
42:05Hey, how are you?
42:06My time's running now on getting them to reconcile before this vacation that's about to happen.
42:12So I didn't exactly tell everybody the main reason I wanted all of us here today.
42:18Hey, y'all.
42:19Hey, sis.
42:20Hey.
42:21Happy birthday.
42:22What the fuck?
42:24Why didn't you tell me the fucking birthday party for?
42:25Why she me?
42:26Why, why, why?
42:27Why?
42:28Why?
42:29Why?
42:30Why?
42:31You
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