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00:00True ahead of us.
00:01I'm taking my stuff out of gear to space
00:03and, like, trying to process that.
00:05Me, a key, see?
00:06A key, me.
00:08I'm just wondering how I'm going to adjust, you know?
00:13The big question here is, like, they're
00:14saying I don't have any game.
00:16Would you ever go on a date with me?
00:18We are completely brand new to this.
00:21We're actually seeking a sister wife.
00:23Ah!
00:25Is that even legal?
00:26To hear that our family doesn't support our choice
00:29of what we're going to do, it's kind of hard to hear.
00:33It feels like I'm pulling your attention from your family.
00:36Would you ever consider moving closer to us?
00:39I have something I've been holding back
00:41from telling Matt and Angelica, but I
00:43think it needs to be in person, and I
00:45think they both need to be present for it,
00:47because it could absolutely be a game changer.
00:52I don't want another woman to have a child with you.
00:56That may create some drama.
00:58I couldn't handle that.
01:00Everything needs to be fair across the board,
01:02and this boundary has the potential
01:04to create a whole lot of friction.
01:28Oh, it's a donut shop.
01:33Oh, I remember.
01:34Bakery.
01:35Donuts.
01:35Ice cream.
01:36Filios.
01:37Ice cream.
01:39You like.
01:40Yeah, yummy.
01:40Si.
01:41It being Lorraine's second day in America, we're trying to enjoy it
01:45and not think about all the things that we have to do right now.
01:49The 90 days.
01:50The 90 days is ticking, but after an emotional day of Lorraine
01:55and I moving our stuff between the sister room
01:57and Garrick's room, we thought it'd be a good idea
01:59to show her a little bit of Buena Vista.
02:02Here, beer and whiskeys.
02:06Much whiskeys.
02:08Yeah?
02:08Oh, yeah.
02:09You?
02:09Bar.
02:10A jail.
02:11Si?
02:12A jailhouse.
02:13It's not every day you see a guy with two wives walking through town.
02:16It's different, you know?
02:19For sure.
02:20You know, it's not normal.
02:21It's not normal.
02:22It's not normal.
02:23It's not normal.
02:24It's not normal.
02:25It's perfect.
02:26I like it.
02:27It's beautiful.
02:28It's very beautiful.
02:29But, well, I was a little curious to see how it would be,
02:33if, of course, I would see black people,
02:35how it would be, if they would look at me or not.
02:39I was anxious for that.
02:40I noticed that there are a lot of white people here.
02:43Yes, welcome.
02:44My only concern is whether they are receptive to making friends or not.
02:48What are the people like here in the city as a person?
02:52Will they know that I'm different?
02:54I think you'll make friends because you're very loving and friendly.
02:59Ah, see? Main Street.
03:02Main Street?
03:03I've never seen in an area just so many white people.
03:07And about adapting to me, to enjoy here,
03:11I think it will take a long time.
03:13because, beyond the language, the difference between culture and tastes,
03:18so I'm going to adapt.
03:20And it's also a new thing for me to be married, living together.
03:24Here?
03:26See? All the way down.
03:28Garrick, a lot of years.
03:31A long time.
03:34A long time.
03:35Five generations?
03:36Six.
03:37Six.
03:38Six.
03:39Generations.
03:40Yeah.
03:41Generations, yeah.
03:42Wow.
03:43My family has been in Buena Vista for a very long time.
03:47They were a minor family that came into the valley.
03:51His family helped settle the town, like, before it was even a...
03:54There wasn't a town.
03:55My family has started businesses.
03:57I've been a part of the community.
03:59And when I came out as living plural or a polygamous lifestyle,
04:04they disowned me.
04:05You know, certain people in town definitely aren't happy about us living this way.
04:10They're haters.
04:11No one's mean to our face.
04:12They're never mean to our face.
04:13Just like Jesus and his hometown, they didn't really like him.
04:18I think that's just part of the cycle of God, how God has ordained things.
04:26Oh, that was the place you were thinking, too, for a reception, right?
04:29For the wedding.
04:30Yeah.
04:31Up there, dancing for me after a ceremony.
04:35Ah, ceremony.
04:36Oh.
04:37For a wedding.
04:38Yeah?
04:39Yeah, up there.
04:40It's definitely important for me to, you know, show Lorena around.
04:43She's definitely probably a little sticker shocked of everything.
04:48The small town, the mountains.
04:50You're living in a big house now.
04:52Not in the city.
04:53Not in the city.
04:55Not by the ocean.
04:58And, you know, I really pray she embraces her future and this is her future.
05:04It's different.
05:05It's going to take a while to settle in.
05:10Movie.
05:11No more.
05:12No more.
05:13But, yeah.
05:14No more.
05:15Not?
05:16Uh huh.
05:17No more.
05:18No more?
05:19Yeah.
05:20Yeah.
05:21Any shopping grande.
05:22No shopping.
05:23No побед.
05:24No.
05:25No more.
05:26Ah.
05:27Yep.
05:28No.
05:29because I will have to stay a long time here, I will not be able to travel.
05:35I will stay a long time without seeing my family.
05:38It is a great cultural change for me.
05:41Even because I live in Rio de Janeiro.
05:43Rio de Janeiro had everything.
05:45There was my apartment, restaurant, beach, everything.
05:48And I think the visit is very beautiful.
05:52But I believe it will take a little bit for me to love.
05:59I feel there.
06:02I can't stop you if you want to go, go.
06:06Don't break into my heart.
06:08Go and don't come back.
06:10Go and don't come back.
06:12Go and don't come back.
06:14What are you guys doing over there?
06:17Taking hits to the face.
06:19Get out of here.
06:20Are you okay?
06:21Oh, you fell.
06:23Um, Sinead, she's on her way?
06:25Okay.
06:26Sinead's on her way to continue the conversation.
06:28We were having last night with Angelica involved as well.
06:31Sinead and I hit a dead end last night talking about needing to live closer and spend more time together.
06:37Maybe get the kids down for a nap.
06:40I didn't tell Angelica what me and Sinead talked about.
06:43Because I got in, it was really late.
06:46Um, Angelica was already in bed.
06:48Come on.
06:49Let's go to bed.
06:50And then in the morning, when you have two toddlers running around, there's no time to get a conversation in.
06:55I'm nervous that Sinead's at her breaking point.
06:58Hello, beautiful.
06:59How was your drive?
07:00That wasn't bad.
07:01I'll take it.
07:02Where things currently stand with Matthew and Angelica.
07:15I think the best way to describe it is we're at a crossroads.
07:18Um, about two and a half years into it, Matt's job situation changed.
07:23Um, it caused a huge disruption to our schedules and I think that's when we really hit a wall with one another.
07:30Woman!
07:31You have company.
07:32Okay.
07:33I stuck around with Matt and Angelica for the last year, year and a half, despite the roadblock that me and Matt hit.
07:40Because I can see a future with them.
07:42Good morning.
07:43Well, good afternoon.
07:44Good afternoon.
07:45If Matt were to just put an ounce more effort into addressing some of the challenges,
07:53something as small as, like, a heartfelt good morning text.
07:57Picking up the phone and just calling me.
07:59Like, something small as that, that's what feels real.
08:04And I don't have that.
08:05It's with Matthew.
08:08How was you guys' night?
08:10It was alright.
08:11More importantly, how was yours?
08:13Yeah.
08:14He asked if I would be willing to, like, move closer to you guys since the time apart
08:20or the time, the lack of time that we get to spend together is really starting to get to me.
08:27I expressed my concerns, then I asked him the same question.
08:30I was like, well, what if you guys move closer to me?
08:33So you're coming to me for the actual answer?
08:35Yeah, sure.
08:36That works.
08:37Could you guys see yourself moving closer to me?
08:42Well, moving is huge.
08:47Yeah.
08:48And, you know, we do have, we both have kids.
08:50Mm-hmm.
08:51And ours are also established in school, though I would love to.
08:59I know.
09:00It's not an easy, it's not an easy decision.
09:04We can't move closer to her right now, and she can't move closer to us.
09:07So we're kind of at a stalemate right now, and someone's going to have to uproot their job,
09:13take their kids out of schools, you know, change their whole surroundings.
09:17I know I need to sacrifice more time with Angelica and the kids until someone is able to make some sort of change.
09:23But I'm just not sure that that's enough to keep Shanae happy.
09:26We just can't deny that, like, we have two separate lives, and they're this far apart, and we're trying to make it work and be in the middle.
09:36And we've been met with quite a few challenges, so.
09:39So there's a lot of information I have to process and kind of, like, sit with.
09:43I think you should take whatever time you need to think and process and see how you feel.
09:50I mean, how would you feel if I maybe went out on, like, dates with other people?
10:04To see, like, if there's something that might exist for me that isn't so challenging.
10:13I'm not going to say I'm going to be okay with it, but I also can't stop you from doing what you want to do.
10:26You'll be back.
10:29You say it so confidently.
10:30I know.
10:33I don't want it to, like, hurt your feelings or, like, disrespect the relationship that we've all built together.
10:40Um, but I did go on a date.
10:48Just to see how it felt, and me and the person clicked really well.
10:55This person is a lot closer to me, and I have a lot of fun with him, and we communicate really, really well together.
11:02I decided to drop the news that I've been dating and that I met somebody else just because it didn't feel good keeping it as a secret.
11:14I felt like I was doing something wrong, and although I consider myself to be their girlfriend, it hasn't felt like a real relationship in a while.
11:23So let's just lay it all out on the table and have all of our cards in front of us so we can decide where we really go from here.
11:30If you feel that's what's going to make you happy, then that's what you have to do.
11:39So you truly okay with that? Like, hearing that I've met somebody and...
11:43No. But who am I to stop you from that?
11:47I mean, if I'm being honest, that wasn't the response that I was expecting.
11:51I would have expected you to have a little bit more, like, no, don't. I mean...
11:59Um, I'm upset. Very upset.
12:02But it's like a defensive mechanism for me to kind of just cut things off from what could happen in the future.
12:08Um, he knows about you two.
12:14And he just has one very adamant request.
12:19And that's not to be intimate with you.
12:22As we're exploring potentially entering that into our relationship.
12:30Well, are you guys being intimate?
12:34Um...
12:38We have...
12:39him.
12:40Whoa!
12:41What?
12:42You just asked me what I really feel about it, so I just told you.
12:46No.
12:47You shouldn't. I don't want you to.
12:52So, Nikki wanted to tell you something.
12:56Well, spit it out, because you're freaking me out.
12:58Reese and I are on the hunt for a sister wife.
13:04So, Jackie messaged me recently.
13:08Wait, texted me in the group chat?
13:10Because, I mean, I don't miss much, but...
13:12No, I'll tie the group chat.
13:13I'll tie the group chat.
13:15If he doesn't live up to what we agree to, then I don't think I can continue to seek a sister wife.
13:34All right.
13:36Oh, Billy.
13:38Does this remind you of anyone?
13:40Look, it's my high school boyfriend.
13:43Oh!
13:45Oh!
13:46Too much cactus. Too much cactus.
13:48So Reese and I have been on the apps for a few months now, and we've been trying to meet our sister wife that way, and obviously it's not working out the best.
13:57So we have decided that we are going to tell a few of our friends that are really open-minded, and hopefully they have suggestions on how to meet new people.
14:07These are super cool.
14:09I've known Nikki for 13 years, and she knows mine and Reese's dynamic, and our personalities really, really well.
14:15I think telling her would be really helpful, because she knows a lot of interesting people, and she could put some feelers out and maybe finally get a date for Reese.
14:25So, Nikki wanted to tell you something.
14:31I've got Kayla's opinion on it, and I was wondering what your opinion would be.
14:38Well, spit it out, because you're freaking me out.
14:40Okay, so Reese and I are actually on the hunt for a sister wife.
14:53Shut up.
14:55You knew about this?
14:56I did.
14:58I mean, I'm kind of speechless.
15:00Yeah, some big news.
15:02I'm just like, I'm all over the place in my head about it.
15:05Okay.
15:06I'm cool.
15:07Like, it's cool.
15:08Like, I just need you to, like...
15:09Clarify something for you?
15:10Yes.
15:11Okay.
15:12So, what exactly is a sister wife like?
15:13Basically, like, we're bringing someone into our family, so Reese will have, like, a relationship with her, like he does with me.
15:20And you're cool with that?
15:22Yeah.
15:23It was my idea, actually.
15:25I mean, like what?
15:26You're just laying in bed one day, and you're like, hey, I think I'm going to get me a sister wife.
15:29Like, how did that whole thing come about?
15:30Honestly, it started when we knew that we had to use donor eggs.
15:35And the way that our children came to be kind of helped me and opened my eyes to seeing that there is more to life than just the stereotypical mom, dad, kids.
15:47Like, there's more love to give.
15:48So you want, like, a community-ish.
15:50Yeah.
15:51Yeah, basically.
15:52Type of thing.
15:53It took me so long to convince him before he...
15:55And you don't think you'll be jealous?
15:56Like, what if he's, like, I don't know, more into her on a Thursday or...
16:01Then that's great for her.
16:03All the time.
16:04I'm not jealous right now because it's not been an issue.
16:07Right.
16:08So I don't know, confronted with it, will I have those feelings?
16:11I mean, we'll cross that bridge when we get there, I guess.
16:15I am shocked.
16:17I am speechless, but excited.
16:20I am elated for her.
16:25I love it when people can live in their truth.
16:27And so I think it's really cool.
16:30Do you have anyone in mind?
16:32Currently, no.
16:33I've let him kind of just do his own thing and go on the apps and see how that has worked out.
16:40And I think he's hitting a little bit of a road bump and it's been kind of hard for him.
16:45So I'm asking you guys...
16:47So, like, could I, like, hook up dates?
16:50Yeah.
16:51Because I've got the pimpin' black book, girl.
16:53I'll get into it.
16:55I'll get into it.
16:56That's what I need.
16:58I would appreciate any help because the guy needs it.
17:01You know I'm a good or done kind of girl.
17:02That's true.
17:03All right.
17:04That's true.
17:05That's why I'm asking you.
17:06So can I take on the job?
17:07Like, I can be the person hunter?
17:08I will assign it to you.
17:09Right on.
17:10Yay!
17:12Okay, I'm down.
17:14I have a wide range of a social group.
17:17Closed-minded people, open-minded people.
17:19I know a little bit of everybody.
17:20But Rhys might have a few problems dating because he's quirky, awkward, and funny.
17:27He's all over the place.
17:29But I think if I can match him up with the right person, it'll all be good.
17:33Okay, so what am I looking for for Rhys?
17:36Rhys is type.
17:37Let's see.
17:38He likes not like super tall girls around his height.
17:42Intellect is obviously a big thing.
17:44And I don't know if you guys know like the Michelle Obama type.
17:47Like, that's what we're looking for.
17:50Independent women.
17:51These are not people who are like, oh, do everything for me.
17:54Like, I want you to be...
17:55So an assertive leader.
17:56That's why, this is why we are all here together.
17:59And this is what Rhys surrounds himself with, is very strong, powerful women.
18:06A lot is riding on Nikki to come through for us on this.
18:09My dreams of having this community and a big family.
18:13I feel like that dream is just slowly dying.
18:15I really hope she's able to find someone who's a good fit for our family.
18:19I think I can handle it.
18:21We'll see.
18:22I'll find you the perfect girl.
18:23I hope so.
18:24I hope you can.
18:29You want mommy to show you how to do a snow angel?
18:34Like this.
18:35In the snow, like that, look.
18:36Put him down.
18:37Go like this.
18:38Yesel's job requires him to travel for months at a time, which is really hard on me and the kids.
18:43So, when he's leaving for a big trip, we like to spend a few days before he leaves, squeezing in that last bit of family time.
18:51All right.
18:52You want to swing duty?
18:53Ready?
18:56We're in bright light.
18:57They're on the swings.
18:58I'm hoping to just burn enough energy so we can be productive.
19:02Take a nap.
19:03You ain't napping.
19:04You have things to do.
19:05Not me.
19:06I'm taking a nap.
19:07Have you started packing yet?
19:10Who's packing?
19:11Do I know her?
19:12Is that a person?
19:13You know her?
19:14Who's packing?
19:15I am going to miss you terribly.
19:16It's always hard.
19:17I'm going to miss you too, babe.
19:19It's always very freaking hard.
19:21At least the good news is, this time around, we're going to have another lady around.
19:25That's true.
19:26What are you thinking so far, you know, with Jackie?
19:32So, we met somebody.
19:35Her name is Jackie.
19:36We met her through an app.
19:38She messaged us.
19:39She was like, oh my God, you guys look very beautiful.
19:41So, we have been seeing her for a few weeks now.
19:44Our first date was tacos and margaritas because that is us right there.
19:49Yep.
19:50So far, it's going great.
19:51And we really like her.
19:52Things seem like, you know, things are going well in the group chat.
19:56Yeah.
19:57I think we all mesh really well.
19:59We all have, like, good natural conversations.
20:03Like, it's not forced.
20:05Yesel's listened and he's been respectful of the boundaries.
20:09And for now, until we're all more comfortable, we're kind of existing in a group chat.
20:14We are just in the beginning stages.
20:16We're getting to know each other.
20:18She has a child and we have kids, which is something we related on immediately.
20:23She's in the medical field, so is Dani.
20:26So, that's something they immediately, you know, clicked on.
20:30She's definitely got that go-getter attitude.
20:33She's got a great bod, you know.
20:36She's a little shorter than, you know, the typical girls I go for.
20:40There's nothing wrong with that.
20:42She's got, you know, her physicality both up and down.
20:51Yeah.
20:54Mmm.
20:55It's a little weird talking about this stuff in front of Dani.
20:58Actually, it's a lot weird talking about this stuff in front of Dani.
21:01I know my body and I know what he's attracted to on me, which is, like, everything, let's be clear.
21:07So, to compare it to another woman who's, like, different height, different proportions, everything's different.
21:15It's just interesting to hear.
21:19So, Jackie messaged me recently.
21:23Mmm-hmm.
21:24Obviously, she knows...
21:26Wait.
21:27Texted me in the group chat?
21:29Because, I mean, I don't miss much, but...
21:31No, outside the group chat. Outside the group chat.
21:34It's just, you know, getting to know her and all that.
21:37Nothing, nothing that we wouldn't say in the group chat.
21:45What was it about that she texted you about?
21:48So, basically, she was basically asking about the three of us going on another date soon.
21:53Okay.
21:54You know, just so we can keep getting to know each other.
21:57Hearing that, Yesel's been, um, venturing outside of the group chat.
22:08A little, a little aggravated by it.
22:11Bending the rules a little bit.
22:13Mmm, I feel like that's a rule we don't bend, so...
22:16Just a little time.
22:18One time?
22:19One time.
22:20Just a one time?
22:21Just a one time.
22:22I've heard that before.
22:23You know, while I understand that she's the one that took it out of the group chat,
22:29I just, I don't want it to be taken and ran with.
22:35Just because I don't want to feel left out of the loop.
22:38All right.
22:39Like last time.
22:40I don't know.
22:41We definitely don't want to do that, and I don't want to leave you out of the loop,
22:43so I will keep it in the group chat.
22:45Bring it back in.
22:46You know, bring it back in.
22:48You know, it's a little worrisome that Danny is uncomfortable with these little slip-ups.
22:54You know, I mean, it was just a simple mistake.
22:57You know, Jackie obviously doesn't know all of our boundaries and the things Danny and I talk about.
23:02You know, for now, I'm not going to say anything.
23:05It's important for Danny to take the reins, just because there's still some feelings of guilt from when I messed up the first time around.
23:13You know, maybe after we talk about boundaries and all that, things would change.
23:20But as of right now, my comfort level is keeping...
23:23Keeping you involved in all conversation.
23:25Right.
23:26Okay.
23:27I really do like Jackie.
23:28I think she's a really good fit.
23:30I can tell that he's having a fun time talking to her as well.
23:33They're having a good conversation.
23:35But I am worried that if I'm not in the loop, it could go sideways again.
23:38If he doesn't live up to what we agree to, then I don't think I can continue to seek a sister wife.
23:51Night-night.
23:52Okay.
23:53Love you.
23:54Lorena will spend her first night in Garrick's room tonight.
23:58Buona noche.
24:00I'm a little nervous, but I'm excited to love her, make love to her.
24:05Camel.
24:06Sure.
24:07Hello.
24:08Sure.
24:09Sure.
24:14Me and Lorena tonight.
24:15Yeah.
24:16Sí.
24:17So what's the game plan?
24:18Correct, me and you tonight?
24:19In the bedroom?
24:20Sister up in the sister room?
24:22Of course.
24:23Sure.
24:24So what's the game plan?
24:25Correct?
24:26Me and you tonight?
24:27In your bedroom?
24:28What's the game plan?
24:30Correct?
24:31Me and you tonight?
24:32In the bedroom?
24:33Sister up in the sister room, correct.
24:36Yesterday was Lorena's first day in America
24:39and also my birthday.
24:42So she insisted that I spend the night
24:44with Garrick in his room.
24:46So Lorena will spend her first night
24:48in Garrick's room tonight.
24:51I'm happy.
24:52I'm happy for Roberta, or Lorena.
24:58I'm happy for Lorena, like, seeing her happy.
25:01You and Nay-Nay?
25:02Yeah.
25:03No.
25:04No?
25:05See, Savvy?
25:06Savvy?
25:07No, Nay-Nay?
25:09Yeah.
25:10No, Nay-Nay?
25:10No.
25:11No.
25:11OK, now.
25:16Oh, my god.
25:18There's somebody else in the house,
25:20and, you know, we take turns with Garrick.
25:22So he has his master.
25:24So while one of us spending time with him,
25:26we have our sister room where we each have our own beds.
25:30Then maybe tomorrow we can all discuss a better schedule,
25:32what works best for all of us.
25:34Yeah, tomorrow, game plan, yeah.
25:35Yeah?
25:36Ah, si, si.
25:37Yeah?
25:38Yeah.
25:39Bon?
25:39Yeah.
25:41Tomorrow evening, we're planning on go over all the ins and outs,
25:46schedules, sleeping arrangements.
25:49Is it every other night?
25:50I mean, could it be maybe every two nights, maybe?
25:53Laundry?
25:54What are we all doing?
25:55There's a lot of moving pieces.
25:57Oh, my gosh.
26:01Nay-Nay?
26:02I'm a little nervous.
26:03I mean, it's been eight months since I saw her.
26:05It's like, oh, my wife's here.
26:07Thank God.
26:07Like, I'm excited to love her, make love to her, like,
26:12kiss her, talk to her.
26:15Look at her face?
26:16Yeah, look at her face in real life, you know?
26:19Hear her laugh.
26:20Like, it's a blessing.
26:24Yeah.
26:26Night-night.
26:27Okay.
26:28Love you.
26:29Love you.
26:30Okay.
26:31Boa noite.
26:32Okay.
26:33You?
26:34Yeah, I see.
26:35Yeah, I see.
26:36Yeah, I see.
26:37Okay, no problem.
26:38Okay.
26:52For ladies?
26:53Oh, see?
26:55Yeah.
26:56Yeah?
26:57Never?
26:58No.
26:59Oh, man.
27:00No.
27:01I don't need it.
27:03No, now I'm not.
27:06No.
27:07Sleepy.
27:08Sleepy?
27:09Sleepy.
27:10Oh, my gosh.
27:11Yeah.
27:12I love his company, not just to do sex with him,
27:16but, of course, I feel lack of sex.
27:19Okay.
27:20Okay.
27:21Normal.
27:22Normal.
27:23Mal.
27:24Mal.
27:25A normal.
27:26Calma baby.
27:28Touched.
27:29Autody.
27:30Boop.
27:31Boop, boop, boop.
27:32Te amo.
27:33Te amo.
27:34First night?
27:42Being my first night alone in the sister room is kind of crazy.
27:48My brain's still, like, processing.
27:55For Lorena, coming in, it's a little bit different.
27:58Like, she's lived alone, you know, so the aspect of her having nights by herself isn't probably as shocking.
28:04As it is to me, like, thinking that, like, I am going to be alone every night or every couple nights or whatever we decide, which we still need to decide.
28:13And so, like, the unknown of that, I think, is a little overwhelming, too, that we haven't, like, figured all this out.
28:20Just sleeping next to him, talking about, you know, how our days went, things with the kids at the house, life.
28:27There's going to be nights I can't share all that with him.
28:29That's even more difficult to not have that connection.
28:34We've had a lot of failed things and relationships and hard things, but in the end, like, we've stayed together and stayed strong, so that's my hope.
28:43Where do we go from here?
28:56What's next?
28:57I'm going to take off.
28:59I know that I want to have a relationship with Angelica, but I don't know if this is something that Matt and I can just bounce back from.
29:06Are you okay?
29:07It's a lot.
29:08I don't know if this is something that Matt and I can't do it.
29:38I don't like the thought of you being with somebody else.
29:42I don't like the thought of somebody else touching you.
29:44I don't like the thought of someone else being in your space.
29:49Sinead just dropped this bomb on us and told us that she's seeing someone and it could be getting serious.
29:55I know Matt's hurting, and it hurts me knowing that he's hurting.
29:59It's also scary to think about that our friendship might change if their relationship ends.
30:08I don't really try and think about you being with somebody else because that's not a thought that I like to cross my mind.
30:14So, what does this mean for us?
30:19Where do we go from here?
30:21What's next?
30:21I mean, there's like so many heavy things that we have just brought into conversation.
30:30I don't think it's fair for me to give an answer right now.
30:34I feel like it's extremely premature, and I need time to process my own emotions about this relationship, about my potential new relationship.
30:43I think you guys need time to process.
30:47I don't know.
30:48I just think there's a lot that needs to be figured out.
30:52I truly, I'm confused.
30:55I don't know which way I want to go.
30:58I don't know which way I should go.
31:01All right.
31:01Well, I'm going to take off if that's all right with you guys.
31:06It's a lot for one day.
31:07It's a lot.
31:08I need to time.
31:10I know that I want to have a relationship with Angelica.
31:13That's my sister.
31:14That is my best friend.
31:16But I don't know if this is something that Matt and I can just bounce back from and continue on a friendship after this.
31:22Make sure you let me know when you get home next time.
31:23I will let you know when I get home.
31:25Okay.
31:25But now I'm going to come find you.
31:26I bet.
31:27Bye, guys.
31:28Bye.
31:29Right now, me and Shanae are at a crossroads in our relationship.
31:33I'm not 100% sure which direction we're going to go in, but I know which direction I'd like us to go in.
31:40Are you okay?
31:44It's a lot.
31:45It is.
31:48I love Shanae.
31:50I love Matt.
31:52I love them both the same and separately.
31:56And I don't like being in the middle.
32:00I don't like being in the middle.
32:03I need Shanae.
32:05I cannot lose her.
32:08And this is a prime example.
32:11I don't know what to do.
32:15I'm just upset right now.
32:22I don't want to be rejected.
32:25You have to let that guard down.
32:27And I need your help.
32:28I think step one is telling Shanae exactly what you told me.
32:38It would be a huge loss if Shanae no longer is in a relationship with us.
32:47We'd be losing a sister, a best friend, someone that we confide in.
32:55You know, we lose everything that we've been working towards these past three years.
33:03I'll do whatever it takes.
33:04Jackie's a very sexual person, and so am I.
33:20It does worry me a little bit, because I don't want Danny to feel threatened.
33:24I'm feeling like it's going to be a really good night.
33:40One shot.
33:43Two shots.
33:45Okay, some drinks.
33:46Some drinks.
33:47Some drinks.
33:48Okay.
33:49Let's do it.
33:51Tonight, we're going to meet with Jackie.
33:53You know, we have met her a couple times, and so far it's gone great.
33:56It's been just friendly, you know, just getting to know each other.
33:59Like very surface level.
34:00Very surface level things.
34:01We haven't really dug into, like, the weeds of how everything would work, you know.
34:08So I'm very excited to just keep moving this train forward.
34:12Okay.
34:13This bullet train.
34:15Sir.
34:17Choo-choo train.
34:19I'm the conductor.
34:20There's a lot of important topics that we do need to talk about.
34:26The boundaries and the rules.
34:31I am interested to see the level of honesty that comes out with some of the things we need
34:38to talk about.
34:40Frits.
34:41Frits.
34:41Frits.
34:42Frits.
34:42It's French for fries.
34:44Well, I'm not French, honey.
34:46You're not French.
34:47Hi.
34:47She's here.
34:48Hi.
34:48Hi.
34:49Nice seeing you.
34:50Nice seeing you.
34:50How are you?
34:51Good.
34:51How are you?
34:52Good.
34:53My name is Jackie.
34:54I'm from New Haven, Connecticut.
34:56I met Yesel and Danny through a dating app.
35:00And since we met, we just kind of kicked it off.
35:03Oh, we're twinning.
35:05Same color.
35:06Matching.
35:06Right?
35:07I'm wearing green, too.
35:09So I have been in a polygamous relationship before.
35:12It has been more of a casual situation.
35:15Getting to know Yesel and Danny, I saw that they had very strong values.
35:21I thought they were super fun and open, which is something that I've been craving, something
35:27that is long-lasting.
35:29So I'm very excited to see where this journey leads us to.
35:33So I'm thinking something that we could share.
35:36So probably the trio board.
35:39There's no Yesel on the menu?
35:43Not yet.
35:45Do you like mac and cheese?
35:47I love mac and cheese.
35:48You don't like the way mac and cheese sounds?
35:50Not right now.
35:54Have you ever heard the term mac and cheese noises?
35:58No.
35:59Oh, boy.
36:05Then I'd be concerned.
36:06Mac and cheese in the bedroom.
36:08Things are getting really frisky.
36:11And it starts sounding like you're making mac and cheese.
36:16You know, it kind of sounds like that.
36:18I do like making my own mac and cheese.
36:24As a dessert.
36:25Yeah?
36:33So I feel like this dinner is an opportunity to get more into, like, semantics and boundaries
36:39before moving forward.
36:41I agree.
36:42I agree.
36:43No.
36:43Especially because I have a daughter.
36:46I just prefer something more structured.
36:49So for, like, future tense, you know, if we're, like, you know, in a relationship, like, who makes
36:56the rules or how do we communicate that?
36:59That rule with an iron fist.
37:00I feel like Danny makes them.
37:07When it comes to, like, establishing rules and, like, if you want to change a rule, it would
37:12have to be something where we would all have to be involved.
37:16If you and him were to do things without me being aware of and then telling me after the
37:22fact, that's when jealousy would come in.
37:25That's what we're trying to avoid.
37:28Oh, my goodness me.
37:30Oh, thank you.
37:32I feel like that's where communication is, like, key.
37:36We should all have an equal say in, you know, the decisions.
37:41Right.
37:42Ultimately, I feel like that's what's going to make things work.
37:45We're all equal.
37:46We're all held to the same standards.
37:47We all have, you know, an opinion that we can talk with each other about.
37:51Compared to last time, I feel like we're definitely off to a much better start.
37:57There's a lot more open communication, a lot more honesty.
38:02So, Dana, like, why do you want to do this?
38:04What's in it for you?
38:07For me, the, like, emotional aspect of it is that, like, obviously, he goes away from work.
38:15I'm alone a lot.
38:17So, for me, having that other person present when he physically can't be is another means of support for me.
38:29As an only child, I've always wanted the sister.
38:33It is very much a reason why I want this lifestyle.
38:35So, being able to connect with Dani and have, like, that very close relationship with her is just something that's very exciting for me.
38:45What would the living situation look like?
38:48Like, if we were to get serious.
38:50I think in the long run, we'd all live together under one room.
38:54We have multiple rooms where you have a room, she has a room, and then I go back and forth.
38:59And we need a shisha, then.
39:02I was going to say, I want...
39:03We need a shisha.
39:03We need a shisha.
39:04Or a big bathroom.
39:06A shisha.
39:07A shisha.
39:08It's a thing.
39:10So, I'm Latin.
39:12I really enjoy sex.
39:17Sex is, like, a big part of my life.
39:20Yep.
39:21I enjoy it.
39:23Yep.
39:23I love it.
39:24Absolutely.
39:25Jackie's a very sexual person, and so am I.
39:28Boy, I'm all for it.
39:32I don't know exactly how that's going to make Dani feel.
39:36So, when can I expect, you know, to be intimate with Yasmin?
39:42Huh, this drink, though.
39:43No.
39:45Right now, I'm a little worried.
39:47I'm a little concerned with Jackie's sexual drive, as she stated, is very high.
39:54And, you know, I feel like that's going to bring out a little jealousy out of Dani.
39:57And it does worry me a little bit, because I don't want her to feel threatened.
40:02I'm point blank.
40:04Are you okay with me having sex with your husband?
40:07You know, when it comes down to us being comfortable.
40:12I can't, with 100% certainty, say that I would be.
40:24I can bring my family.
40:33It would be really incredible and special for me.
40:36That kind of seems a little bit overwhelming.
40:38There's some things that, you know, we're going to have to compromise on.
40:41When you and I made love, I just knew you were the last person I would ever make love to.
40:50Oh.
40:50Me changing my last name to Davis would kind of make me like a wife.
40:55Hi.
40:56Hi.
40:56I'm Jackie.
40:57It's so nice to meet you.
40:57I'm Leah.
40:58At the end of the day, I don't care who they think they like.
41:02I trust their opinion.
41:03But obviously, I'm going to have to see what kind of person you are.
41:06Meeting Leah, I'm a little bit nervous.
41:08I have been talking to someone else.
41:12I am absolutely pissed.
41:13Hey.
41:14I like to call myself a goddess.
41:16I am a witch.
41:17Where the hell did you find this girl?
41:20What is going on?
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