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00:00We really feel God led us to live.
00:02This is my wife, April.
00:03OK.
00:03This is our wife, Jennifer.
00:05Oh, OK.
00:06Polygamy is certainly not for the faint of heart.
00:09And this is our girlfriend, Theresa.
00:12She'll be your way, besta.
00:14More sister wives in the house.
00:15It'll be like a party every night.
00:17This is awesome.
00:18Why do you want to do this?
00:19What's in it for you?
00:20I don't want to feel resentful towards my husband
00:24for being intimate with another woman,
00:25when that is what we're setting out to do.
00:28So when can I expect sex with your husband?
00:31Pew.
00:33My name is Reese.
00:34And I'm Billie Jean.
00:35And we are seeking a sister wife.
00:37Sister wife.
00:38You're animated.
00:39You use your hands a lot.
00:40Yeah.
00:40Flamboyant and loud.
00:42Flamboyant?
00:43Oh, hello.
00:44Beautiful one and two.
00:45Matt and I have been seeing Shanae for about three years.
00:49This works for us.
00:50I truly care about you, but I want more.
00:54My last name is not Davis, and I would like it to be.
00:57Oh, um.
01:00I just want to have Nick to myself.
01:02Let's get that straight.
01:04I don't agree with it.
01:05I think it's confusing for children.
01:06It would be absolutely devastating if I lost my family over this.
01:10I don't want another woman to have a child with you.
01:13No.
01:14This is what I want.
01:15Wow.
01:18I'm happy for them, but it just makes me feel less tied to Garrick.
01:22I don't know why.
01:23You definitely have to be really secure in who you are in polygamy.
01:27Otherwise, it's just going to eat you up.
01:29How do you sign up to be a side chick?
01:30You're married.
01:31Help us, Jesus.
01:32It was actually my idea.
01:33What?
01:34I am the very model of a modern major general.
01:45I've information, vegetable, and a bullet mineral.
01:48I know the kings of England, and I quote the fights historical.
01:51From Marathon to Waterloo, an order categorical.
01:54I've got a lot of news.
01:56Lots of news.
01:57With many trivial facts about the Neuthor Live, Walton News.
02:01Good morning.
02:02Good morning.
02:03So, we got the chickens today, huh?
02:06Yeah, it was cold.
02:07Hey, Papua.
02:08Where's your other sister wife?
02:10She's over there.
02:11Aw.
02:12Come here, sweetie.
02:13Come here.
02:13My name is Reese.
02:15And I'm Billie Jean.
02:16And we're the Williamson's.
02:18What's the babies doing?
02:20We live in New Ross, Indiana.
02:30We are a little bit country.
02:33We've got two kids, two dogs.
02:36We've got three cats, chickens.
02:38Hello, my lovey.
02:40And we are seeking a sister wife.
02:42Sister wife.
02:46Oh, shoot.
02:47Wow.
02:47That doesn't happen.
02:49No.
02:51She's like, I've got an egg to come out,
02:52and I need a place to lay out.
02:55I love egg chicken.
02:56Yeah, I know.
02:57I love that for you.
03:02Do you guys want some eggs?
03:07I know you'll eat it.
03:09We've been together for seven years and married for four.
03:12But we've known each other for over 20 years.
03:15When we met, we were in middle school?
03:19We were both in show choir together.
03:20And I was like the star of the show.
03:23And she was-
03:24I was on stage crew.
03:25So she was stage crew.
03:26And she actually was the one that helped me like get into my outfit.
03:30So she was already undressing me a long time before we knew it.
03:33Are you going tonight?
03:36Oh no, his pacifier fell.
03:42I've got to get a new one.
03:44When we were in our late 20s, we actually reconnected.
03:47I was definitely smitten and was trying to reconnect in more of just a friendship type of way.
03:56Cute, was super funny.
03:58Yeah, I guess I reeled him in a little bit, you know.
04:01What are you doing?
04:02I'm trying to catch her.
04:03I want to put her back in the pen.
04:06And she's not listening.
04:07Oh, come on.
04:09That's rich.
04:10Go get her.
04:11Go open the door.
04:12Let's go, let's go, let's go, go, let's go.
04:15Come on, come on, come on, come on.
04:17There we go.
04:18Okay, we got one more.
04:19That's how you do it, babe.
04:21The idea for our polygamy family came from me.
04:27We had to do IVF because I can't use my own eggs to form an embryo.
04:33When we went through our infertility journey, one of my friends donated her eggs for us so we could do IVF.
04:39We want a big family and I think we would have as many kids as possible.
04:44She'd be pregnant right now.
04:45Yeah, the only thing is that we have to do IVF and so why don't we have someone else come in who wants more kids
04:52and so we can have an even bigger family than what we could create on our own.
04:56I swear, if this was up to me, none of you guys would be here.
05:02It would be all on my plate.
05:05It's really hard to find a good guy and I know I've got one.
05:08I know he's made a good life for me and our kids and I'm willing to open that up and share it with somebody
05:19who has the same views of wanting a family and she wants a man that's going to be there.
05:23Like, he's going to be there.
05:25Like, we have a lot of love in our family and I know that there's people out there looking for that.
05:32Are you being nasty to my chicken?
05:34Well, if they don't produce eggs, what's the point?
05:36You can't just say you have pet chickens.
05:38Like, that's not a thing as much as you want it to be.
05:41It's not a thing.
05:42Yes, it is.
05:44So we really have been talking about adding a sister wife and polygamy for a couple years.
05:49She's been talking.
05:50I've been talking about it anyways.
05:53Yeah.
05:53Bringing it up, trying to put a bug in his ear.
05:55Yeah, and I mean, I just really, you know, recently took her serious on it.
06:00Oh, you got the pretty one.
06:03That one's sweet.
06:04Oh, goodness.
06:07I hope whoever the sister wife is is okay with a lot of chicken poop.
06:12Yeah, she kind of needs to be a little bit more country than Sibby.
06:16I just, I don't know where to begin.
06:17Like, are we going to go to the apps?
06:19I don't think anyone in small town New Ross is going.
06:22No, that's why you can set your distance out so you can, like, meet more people.
06:27But I think starting on the app is definitely something to get us, like, our feet in the door and
06:32see what we're, like, up against.
06:35Right.
06:35We are completely brand new to this.
06:38I don't know what we're really getting ourselves into because we have no idea what this life is.
06:44is like, but we're willing to give it a shot because it's focused on what we are looking for.
06:49A community.
06:53I mean, I feel like we have to have some guidelines.
06:55Yeah, we'll figure it out as we go. There's no rules, really.
07:00I'm comfortable with Reese going on the dates and me hanging back because I feel like we have a good
07:05enough connection and I trust his opinion. And I want him to also, that when he's meeting someone
07:10new, I want them to have those first few moments together in the bond and to get to know each other.
07:15So down the line, I can totally see me, like, jumping in and wanting to get to know them.
07:20But as far as first impressions and getting the feels out there, I trust Reese totally with that.
07:27I think it'll be funny to kind of see you on a date with someone else because.
07:32You want to watch me just friend zone someone else?
07:34Yeah.
07:35Kind of because, like, you're lucky you got me.
07:37I know.
07:38You know, like, if I hadn't spoke up, imagine where we would be. So that's my only.
07:42See, I'm already nervous just, like, thinking about it and I haven't even, I don't even know if anyone's
07:47going to date me, but. I mean, we're not, like, hypersexual people at this point.
07:53Like, I know there's some times that.
07:55Mr. Spicy is non-existent.
07:57This is Mr. Vanilla Cone.
08:00She adds the sprinkles.
08:01Yeah, I add the flair, but this is my plain vanilla.
08:06I'm just the prop.
08:13I mean, but, like, what's your type?
08:15I wanted, like, a, you know, I'm really not super shallow.
08:19You know, I want that more of a connection, someone I can talk to that I can be, like,
08:23goofy with and not have to always be serious.
08:26I love women of all cultures, all ethnicities.
08:29Halle Berry, Vivica A. Fox, Michelle Obama, Oprah Winfrey, Queen Latifah, Salt-N-Pepa.
08:37I'm really excited to grow our family, the potential of it, to bring in more kids, another
08:47woman, to just that village.
08:49We have another acre down.
08:51Just a couple, just a couple houses down, actually, so it's really close.
08:54Yeah, the goal is to build, like, a family commune on it, to put at least two, maybe three houses.
09:01I'm okay with a sister wife, I'm okay with everything.
09:03I have one stipulation, I get my own house.
09:06And we can make that happen.
09:08Yeah.
09:09I know how bad you really do want this, so there's a lot of pressure.
09:13Like, I don't want to let you down.
09:14It makes me proud that you want to do it for me.
09:16This is it.
09:17Like, that you're willing to do it, so.
09:19I can't believe you're willing to do it.
09:20This is your idea, like, wow.
09:22I'm excited to see what this holds for our family.
09:26Family is the number one desire for all this.
09:30And I'm willing to potentially sacrifice my marriage to see if this is going to work.
09:38This is the best trip to Denver Airport ever.
09:53True.
09:54I'm Garrick.
09:55I'm Danielle, and we're the Merrifields, and we have some big news.
09:59We have a sister wife in the air, about ready to land in America today.
10:04Now.
10:08We are driving to Denver International Airport to pick up my sister wife, Lorena.
10:17Lorena is Garrick's fiance.
10:20They are going to be getting married.
10:22They have 90 days to get married once she arrives here.
10:25She's 29, a Brazilian, and the clock is ticking.
10:30True.
10:31Garrick and I were married almost 12 years before we started, like, actually seeking
10:39someone and living a plural lifestyle, but it was always something we questioned.
10:44Probably, like, a couple years into our marriage, we started, like, questioning, like, in the Bible,
10:48if it was right or wrong.
10:50Men in the Bible had multiple wives, so what can I say against it?
10:53It's still like a dream.
10:58Can't believe the third time is a charm, huh?
11:00It really is.
11:02Oh, my God.
11:05Okay.
11:07Play it cool, Danny.
11:08Play it cool.
11:11Polygamy, to me, is something we really feel God led us to live, and to me it's a big family,
11:17where we love and support each other spiritually, physically, financially.
11:23It's been a while since I've seen her, too.
11:25Yeah, seven months.
11:28Seven months?
11:28Uh-huh.
11:29We look at it more as the spiritual thing, where Christ says he becomes one with us,
11:34and we become born again, not of just water, but of his spirit. And so it's the reflection
11:41that, like, the man gives to the woman. We believe that when there's intimacy, that's the marriage.
11:47You become one flesh.
11:48And you become one flesh with each other, so.
11:54Arrivals.
11:55You're going towards United, right?
11:57Yeah.
12:00All right.
12:02We're here.
12:04Ready, babe?
12:04Um, yeah, you got to get your flowers, though.
12:06Oh, jeez.
12:07And our sign.
12:09Two is always better than one, right?
12:12Get it? Two, why?
12:13Sure.
12:15You know, we've had a long story here. We've been living plural for, what, six years?
12:22Mm-hmm.
12:23Yeah, six years.
12:25We've had a lot of good, but we had two wives that left us, Roberta and Natalia.
12:30Roberta and I were very close. We had a really good bond as sister wives. It was our first
12:35serious relationship living plural, about three and a half years.
12:38The only way to bring her here to the U.S. was with a fiance visa, so we decided to get divorced
12:47to bring her here.
12:48Do you believe that your marriage is irretrievably broken?
12:51Yes.
12:55Yeah, those aren't cheap, either. But I mean, it costs thousands of dollars to date somebody
13:01from overseas.
13:02Tens of thousands. Definitely tens of thousands of dollars.
13:04Oh, yeah, to date somebody overseas. I mean, just plane tickets.
13:07We had sent her quite a large sum of money to help her get things settled with her mom.
13:12And the day after it cleared the bank, she told Garrick she wasn't coming.
13:16Yeah.
13:18I thought that she would never give up on us. And so when Roberta did leave, it was
13:24honestly, I think, just like a complete shock in my body.
13:42You know, heartbreaking for the family. And, you know,
13:46we moved forward, started seeking again. And, you know, we met Natalia, another Brazilian.
13:56Things went well. I proposed to her.
14:02She was just never okay with adding to the family. I mean, that's what really came to light.
14:07And she just wanted it to be me and her.
14:09Yeah.
14:10You told me that you are no longer on a dating site, but I can see that you are still.
14:16See? New?
14:18After things ended with Natalia, I think we both kind of looked at each other like,
14:36is this really something we're still supposed to do? Like, you know, twice it's failed.
14:40I guess with all the pain and suffering, because there's been a lot, immense, horrible pain,
14:47that's love. That pain that you have to go through. My wife's are my glory.
14:52How are you doing? I'm sorry. Deep breaths.
15:00I think I need a shot of oxygen.
15:02Me too.
15:04Okay.
15:06Oh my gosh.
15:08I guess I'm nervous. It's like, is this all going to work out kind of feeling.
15:13Third time's a charm. We're praying. The whole family is a big time. Please, Lord,
15:19let it be the third time's a charm. Please. So I'll go to the bathroom.
15:24Okay. Hurry up.
15:24It's hard to work through those feelings, you know, after you get burned like that.
15:30Oh, I hope it doesn't happen again.
15:32I have been on the apps just looking.
15:46Probably should have told you sooner.
15:47Women good.
15:49Danny and I are new to this, but we have attempted to date one person and it didn't go well.
15:57Oh, yeah.
15:57I think Eric and I are both feeling a little bit anxious, a little nervous.
16:05It's taking longer than we're expecting for her to come up the stairs.
16:11I feel anxious.
16:22This will be fun. Let's do it.
16:23Let's do it.
16:26After you.
16:28Hi, how are you?
16:29Hi, how are you doing?
16:29Hey, how are you doing?
16:30I'm Ron.
16:30How's everything?
16:31All right.
16:31Nice meeting you.
16:32Danny, nice to meet you.
16:33Okay, here to learn self-defense today.
16:34Absolutely.
16:35Okay, yes.
16:36I'm Yeso.
16:37This is my gorgeous wife, Danny, and I am looking for a sister wife.
16:41We, then.
16:42We are looking for a sister wife.
16:44I stand corrected.
16:45We are looking for a sister wife.
16:49That was not the leg.
16:51That was definitely not the leg.
16:53I know your body so well.
16:56So how we met was my best friend at the time posed to me.
17:02Hey, do you want to come with me to a wedding?
17:05There's a s'mores bar, like a legit marshmallows, graham crackers, chocolate fountain.
17:10Of course, duh, done deal.
17:11Then she hit me with the by the way.
17:15He was the by the way.
17:18First time I saw her, she's getting off this, you know, bus to the wedding place.
17:23And I'm like, oh my God, she's beautiful.
17:29I was like, I'm going to take her home tonight.
17:31Ready again?
17:31Are you ready again?
17:32So we hit it off, came to a point where he bit my shoulder a little bit.
17:40And I looked at him and I said, do it one more time.
17:43And we're leaving.
17:45I was like, oh, she's like, get the car.
17:48I was like, yes, let's go.
17:52You can bite a little hard if you want.
17:54Don't tell me that.
17:55Bite it like a little monkey.
17:56All right, all right, all right.
17:57We have been married for four and a half years, almost five.
18:00We have four children.
18:03My oldest two, Jelena and Brady, are from a past relationship.
18:08And then we have two together, Jackson and Alex.
18:13Up until about a year, year and a half ago, our marriage is traditional.
18:18You know, we didn't, weren't looking for sister wives.
18:21Not something we ever really considered.
18:24I do a lot of business internationally.
18:26It takes me away a month, two months, three months.
18:28And during those times, Dani's alone.
18:32Working.
18:33She's working.
18:34She's taking care of the kids full time.
18:36It's a lot.
18:38Groceries in the car.
18:39Kids are good.
18:40Come on.
18:41You're coming with me, miss.
18:42Let's go.
18:43Ow.
18:44I did this whole, remember the little presentation?
18:47You did.
18:49You made me a PowerPoint presentation.
18:50I have made a PowerPoint presentation.
18:53Polygamy and why it's good for us.
18:55Yeah.
18:55Did it work?
19:05It worked.
19:05It worked.
19:06It worked.
19:06I had a lot of good points, but it wasn't all just pros in the presentation.
19:11There were some cons.
19:15Chelsea issues, you know, things that could come up.
19:18There's more love to go around, a bigger family.
19:21Having a sister wife here would be a tremendous moral support.
19:28I get lonely when he's gone.
19:30Physically having someone else here to provide that comfort and emotional support, a bond,
19:36would be really good for my mental health.
19:40And I think it would be good for his, too, because he knows that I'm not alone.
19:44Come get some.
19:46Hey.
19:47Let's go.
19:48Come on, why are you backing up?
19:49No.
19:50Now you're scaring me.
19:53Good job, man.
19:54You're doing great.
19:55All right.
19:55You can get a little bit more aggressive with her if you want.
19:57You got to give it to me.
19:58I'm coming after you.
20:00I wouldn't mind if you did, but all right.
20:04There you go.
20:05All right.
20:06That's really good.
20:06Good job, man.
20:08Excellent.
20:08All right.
20:09See, I'm glad we're, I'm glad we're doing this and you'll learn some self-defense,
20:12which is obviously going to be helpful when I'm gone.
20:14Mm-hmm.
20:15But at the same time, I think it's time for us to really get into looking for assisted
20:21wife again, which I kind of have been.
20:27But I have been on the apps just looking.
20:35Probably should have told you sooner.
20:36Well, my good.
20:37Danny and I are new to this, but we have attempted to date one person.
20:44It was quite a while ago, about a year, year and a half, and it didn't go well.
20:50If you had recalled the last time that this happened this way, you taking the lead with it,
20:58zero to 100, full send, while I'm taking it slow, trying to build that connection, I'm zero to 50.
21:05I just don't want to be left behind.
21:08Like, I felt like I was before.
21:13With our first attempt, Yesel had already known this person from high school.
21:19Part of some of the issues with this first attempt, I felt left behind.
21:25I felt like I wasn't involved as much as I should have been.
21:27And he formed this bond with her, and I felt like I wasn't given the opportunity to.
21:33I just felt like I was left to play catch up, which was, it was hard, really hard.
21:41Still is.
21:42Yeah, the last, I bring up a lot of bad memories just the last time you went on your own.
21:53It, it was a threat.
21:54It was a threat to our marriage, and I just, I don't want to go back to that.
21:59I'm scared of something going sideways and hurting what we have,
22:04just because it did take a little bit for us to recover from our first attempt.
22:09However, we have both realized that we had both done some things wrong.
22:15Are we stronger because of it?
22:17Yes. But I just don't want to test.
22:21Don't want to repeat.
22:22Right. I just don't want to test the integrity of, of that foundation that we rebuilt,
22:28which I feel like this might test that integrity.
22:33It's for housing.
22:34It's for housing a little bit. Yeah.
22:36I'm sorry. I haven't told you sooner.
22:38Okay. I would like to be present when we window shop.
22:41In the past, people have said, like, assumed I was gay.
22:49And even the first time my dad met him, my dad asked if he was gay.
22:52If I was gay, I would, yeah, I would tell everyone.
22:56But I like the boobies too much.
22:58I'm not sure if I was gay.
23:01Take a chance with me.
23:06Cause I want you here.
23:09You're at where you're meant to be.
23:12It's perfectly clear.
23:14I am waiting for Garrett to go to the bathroom because he has a weak bladder.
23:17So we can go meet Lorena.
23:20And she gets off the plane. Oh my God.
23:25Wow. My heart is racing right now.
23:30Lorena has committed to be my wife to come to America.
23:34How do you know? Do you know?
23:37You know, until someone actually does something, you wonder.
23:45Oh man.
23:45I think Eric and I are both feeling a little bit anxious, a little nervous.
23:55It's taking longer than we're expecting for her to come up the stairs.
24:03I feel anxious.
24:05Me too.
24:07Okay. Oh my God.
24:09Oh my gosh.
24:10Is that her?
24:10Is it?
24:12Is it?
24:14Oh my God.
24:18Oh my gosh.
24:28Oh my gosh.
24:34Oh my gosh.
24:35I'm so happy.
24:39I'm so happy.
24:40I'm so happy.
24:40I'm so happy.
24:40I'm so happy.
24:42I'm so happy.
24:44I'm so happy.
24:45Oh, see.
24:46Oh, it's so nice, amor.
24:49Are you real?
24:50Oh, yeah.
24:54How are you feeling, Daniel?
24:56I don't even know how to put it into words.
24:58Like, this is crazy.
24:59Oh my gosh, amor.
25:01I need water, water, and beer.
25:08Beer, yeah.
25:10Celebration?
25:11Same.
25:12She doesn't know English that well yet.
25:14It's going to be an adjustment for us, because that's a lot.
25:20My name is Lohana.
25:22I'm still excited.
25:23I'm still not believing that the ficha didn't even fall.
25:27Finally, I'm here.
25:28I'm dying from his feelings.
25:37It may seem to be a bit nervous, but I'm too nervous.
25:40I hope that you do?
25:41Yeah.
25:46I'm very nervous, sister.
25:48I think I'm going to be shy.
25:50I don't know, but I don't seem nervous, but I am.
25:53You are nervous?
25:56I'm very nervous.
25:58It's been about six years in the making.
25:59We're finally coming home with a sister wife that is going to live in our home with us.
26:05She's a real girl.
26:07You know?
26:09We didn't make her up.
26:10We met Lorena on a dating site.
26:19She was wanting something serious.
26:20She was really praying to God for, like, a man, a husband, and have a family and settle down.
26:26Like, that was really her desire.
26:28We met her in a relationship app.
26:32Even though it's funny that on this app, I never saw anyone.
26:38And just once I arrived at the night of a party, I went to the app.
26:43And I answered Garrick.
26:44But I always felt in my heart that my future husband was not Brazilian.
26:50God said that a lot with me.
26:51I think it's really matured.
26:54It started going in a good direction.
26:56We kind of hashed out a lot of deep, heartfelt, serious questions.
27:00Like, you and her.
27:01Me and her.
27:02Especially because I knew she had a past and she had some men treat her really bad.
27:07And I mean, they found that after women usually have around five men that they just can't,
27:15like, bond anymore.
27:16After a woman has, like, five different partners, the chances of her bonding or even having a lasting
27:23relationship drops, like, crazy amount.
27:27Like, just percentage-wise, like, it's just the sperm being inside of her.
27:33Changes, yeah, the person.
27:37So we decided to meet her about five months after we started talking in Jamaica.
27:44She made us laugh a lot.
27:54She made us laugh a lot.
27:55Her and Leia just connected greatly.
27:58I saw that motherly instinct there.
28:00And then your friendship with you and her.
28:02Very loving towards me, too.
28:04And baptize her in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of her sins.
28:09Woo!
28:12After being together with her for five days, all of us was like, you know, I feel really good about her.
28:19God wants me to ask her to be my wife.
28:21That's when I asked her, and she said yes.
28:26I'm very thankful for that.
28:28We made the decision to go ahead and file the fiancé K-1 visa to get Lorena to come live in America with us.
28:43And you were like, okay.
28:47Really? Like, are you sure?
28:50And I was like, yeah, I do.
28:52Not that her and I didn't connect because we did very much, but I think it was just the past was...
28:56Yeah, that hurts.
28:57No house? No casas?
29:11Onde está as casas?
29:12Uh-huh.
29:13Poquito.
29:14Oh, meu Deus!
29:16Uh-huh.
29:17Yeah, no cities, yeah.
29:19Brasil, aqui, aqui, casas.
29:22Oh, meu Deus!
29:27When we were coming, I didn't see any house.
29:31I said, meu Deus, where are we going?
29:34It's supposed to be a farm very far away from everything.
29:38Where are we going?
29:41Where are we going?
29:45It's very different, because when I lived in Rio de Janeiro, Brazil,
29:49I lived close to everything, bar, restaurant, beach, everything.
29:53So, there was always movement.
30:04God's got a plan for our family. It's going to be wild.
30:07Lorena is being asked to leave her family, leave her country.
30:11It's a lot.
30:13Will it be worth it for her?
30:14Poquita casas.
30:17A little.
30:18No longer in Brazil, Dorothy.
30:35Hello?
30:35Hello!
30:36Hello!
30:37Hello, what you got?
30:38I got snacks.
30:39I have something as well.
30:41You see here.
30:41Ooh, a little bit of vino.
30:44A little bit of vino.
30:46Leah is the mother of Yesel's eight-year-old son.
30:51Leah and my relationship, it is unique.
30:54I knew that Yesel had a child.
30:56I knew how young the child was.
30:58I was nervous at first, because when you go into a child's life when they're so little,
31:05there's so much parenting to do, so many lessons to learn.
31:07Especially, I was 22 when we met. I was still young myself.
31:11But when I did meet her, I knew right away that we would get along.
31:15Our personalities mesh well.
31:17I knew that we would balance each other.
31:22I need a platter.
31:23Vibes.
31:27Aw, that's cute.
31:29My name is Leah.
31:30I share a son with Yesel.
31:32We started dating about 10 or 11 years ago.
31:35Broke up about seven years ago.
31:37Yesel and I grew apart, and he met Dani.
31:40And luckily, I have become best friends with Dani over the years.
31:43Honestly, the moment I met her, I knew that she was fantastic.
31:46And really, I don't think him and I would get along as well as we did if it wasn't for her
31:50being in the picture.
31:52We have a specific design we want to do for this.
31:55Your house, your rules.
31:56We broke up our relationship amicably.
31:59You know, we left as friends.
32:01And initially, I thought if they can, at the very least, be friendly, I'm okay with that.
32:08I would love for Leah to be a sister wife or an addition.
32:12Negative.
32:15So how's it going?
32:16Oh, that's a loaded question.
32:18With what?
32:20Have you guys started like, you know, testing the waters at all again, or?
32:25I guess I was informed of that.
32:27I guess Yesel has been sticking his toes in the water.
32:30Ooh.
32:31Right.
32:31Ah.
32:31Okay.
32:32So did you guys like talk about it before he went and did it?
32:35Or did he just like do it and then be like, hey, guess what I did?
32:39Yeah, he did, hey, guess what I did.
32:41Not a fan.
32:43When I first found out that they were starting to date with the intention of, you know, potentially
32:47finding a sister wife, I think I said, that's absolutely crazy.
32:53If Yesel ever asked me to do this, I probably would have hit him in the head with a frying pan
32:59or something.
33:00There would have been some kind of bodily harm.
33:03He did it all on his own.
33:04Didn't consult me about when.
33:07Does that like trigger you at all from?
33:10Yeah, a little bit.
33:11I'm a little triggered.
33:12Like same behavior pattern kind of thing?
33:15I told him I'm afraid of the first attempt happening again and history repeating itself.
33:22My biggest concerns with having them have another woman enter their relationship would be,
33:27what about my son?
33:28You know, how is this going to affect him?
33:30Is he going to be confused?
33:31Is he going to be happy?
33:32How are we going to explain it?
33:34How soon?
33:34What if I don't like this person?
33:36There were so many different questions, I think, that came to my mind.
33:41If you're going to like do it again, it needs to be very well thought out to avoid any unwanted situation.
33:48Yeah.
33:49Right.
33:49It's comforting in that she knows me so well and she knows Yessel so well.
33:55So she's able to be a voice of reason and sometimes she sees things that I don't.
34:01You know, given everything that happened last time, are you certain that you want to pursue this?
34:06I think enough time has passed to where I feel more secure in it.
34:12What happens if you guys find someone, you click with someone, you meet a couple times, whatever,
34:17and you aren't feeling it as much as him and want to pursue someone else.
34:22Have you guys discussed how that's going to work?
34:25Like, what are the rules?
34:27Um, I definitely know that one boundary I want to set is like me and her need to meet in person
34:34first without him, to see if there is like a draw.
34:38Potential between you that doesn't have a direct link to just him.
34:42Right.
34:44Are you sure that you really want to do this again?
34:46I don't know, I can't answer that with full certainty right now, to be honest with you.
34:55And you know, you guys got lucky last time with being able to work through everything,
34:59but this is the kind of stuff that ruins marriages.
35:02It does definitely have the potential too.
35:09Like, would you be ready to not be married to him anymore?
35:12Are you willing to lose that?
35:27Careful.
35:29Oh my goodness, so cold.
35:31First margarita's on me, let's go.
35:33Margarita!
35:35Tonight, we are baby free, so we are going to meet up with my dear friend, Kayla.
35:43Reese, are you wearing slippers?
35:45Oh my goodness.
35:47Doesn't surprise me, you've been wearing slippers since high school.
35:51Kayla is one of my best friends.
35:54I've known her, gosh, since high school when we were on show choir.
35:58Her and I also went to the same college.
36:00She was in our wedding.
36:01She's like, like a sister to me.
36:03I mean- But not like the sister wife sister.
36:06Yeah, we could never, that's gross.
36:09I love her to death, but I could never, she could never be a sister wife.
36:14So how's the search been going for the sister wife?
36:17Well, like, I'm worried because I've been out of the game. I was never really in the game.
36:22I was going to say, like-
36:23One of my biggest concerns is in the past, people have said, like, assumed I was gay.
36:34I don't know what-
36:34I mean, I remember like the first time it got brought to my attention, they were like,
36:39I thought he was gay. And I was like, well, I mean, I can see, I can see how you would think that.
36:44Yeah, he loves the arts and he loves humans and loves that connection. And it's not coming across
36:54to women as, hey, I want to go home with you.
36:57I think he comes off as feminine.
37:01Even the first time my dad met him, my dad asked if he was gay.
37:04I took him over to a family dinner.
37:06Well, we were doing show choir moves. So, I mean, I didn't help.
37:10No, jazz hands don't help that.
37:11Yeah, I was flipping her around. But that's me. Like, I don't give, I don't give a crap.
37:15Yeah, you're animated. You use your hands a lot.
37:18Yeah. And I've got a higher voice.
37:21A little guy. I think people just-
37:23Yeah, I'm sure.
37:23You were a late bloomer.
37:24Super flamboyant and loud, but that's just not-
37:27Flamboyant?
37:28Yeah.
37:29You are.
37:29You are.
37:33Mmm. Okay. No, I'm just, I'm okay. I'm taking notes. I'm just taking notes.
37:39Yes. Over here.
37:40Yes. Chicken fajita.
37:42Thank you, sir.
37:44Thank you, sir.
37:45Oh my God. That's so delicious.
37:47Thank you. Thank you.
37:48If we're going to be like really serious about this, then like you really need to step up your game.
37:53When the waitress comes over again, I'm going to make her blush.
37:57Really, you're going to hit me.
37:58You're that confident that you can just-
38:00I mean, I can make her blush.
38:03If I was gay, I would, yeah, I would tell everyone.
38:06I'd shout it from the rooftops, like no problem there, but I like the boobies too much.
38:11You need to be a little more smooth than goofy, because adult women don't want goofy. We want a man.
38:23How's everything doing, guys?
38:25Darling, everything was beautiful. It is great.
38:28Oh my gosh, you almost scared me literally.
38:30No, no, no, no. It is so delicious.
38:32Do you cook this yourself?
38:34I mean, I like to say I do.
38:35Can you?
38:36I could, I could try.
38:37You could, because I could eat this every day.
38:39So if you want to come home with us anytime and cook that, you know.
38:43Hey, let's have a party.
38:43And you know, he's probably not kidding about the, you can come home with them.
38:46They are looking for a sister wife.
38:49A what?
38:50A sister wife.
38:50A sister wife?
38:52A sister wife?
38:53A sister wife?
38:55The big question here is, like, they're saying I don't have any game.
39:01So how did I do?
39:02Yeah, I think you did okay.
39:03I think you did great.
39:03All right, thank you.
39:04Honestly, I think you did great.
39:05Would you ever go on a date with me?
39:08You can be honest, please.
39:14Uh, um, oh, I don't know if I could ever be a sister wife.
39:20I've heard of it, but never actually been around people who wanted, you know,
39:24move forward with that kind of life.
39:26That's a lot for me to, mm-mm, no.
39:28Yeah, we'll call you, all right?
39:30Okay, sounds good.
39:30I'll be here.
39:31Thank you so much, beautiful.
39:35That was a little bit felt.
39:37I would.
39:37That was what it's supposed to be for that.
39:40Reese has a challenge ahead of him.
39:42He has Billy, which is great, but it took him a while to find Billy.
39:47And now you're starting from ground zero, but we'll see.
39:53This is a big task.
39:54Okay.
39:54Keep the jazz hands to yourself.
40:08Do you think the family is also nervous to meet me?
40:11Same.
40:14Right now, Garrick and I are in the car with Lorena in Colorado.
40:18And it's kind of nerve-wracking, but exciting.
40:20All the family is going to meet Lorena, so it'll be exciting to see everyone's reactions.
40:26I've tried to stay calm.
40:29I hope I don't cry too much there, but I hope everyone likes me and that I can add even more to the family.
40:34It's pretty crazy that Lorena is here in the U.S.
40:37It went very quickly.
40:39It took seven months from start to finish from applying for her K-1 to her arriving here.
40:45And so now that she's here, we have 90 days for her and Garrick to legally get married before her visa expires.
40:51It's a lot to take in with different language.
40:54There's a lot that has to happen in the next 90 days.
40:56Adjusting our lives, seeing how our schedule works as a family.
41:01Kind of nerve-wracking to think of all that.
41:02Like, we're trying to enjoy the moment right now, but there's a lot, like, looming in the distance right now.
41:07You're home cousin.
41:21Nervous?
41:26Being a polygamist, we just get to go through life representing love in a way that most people don't think is possible.
41:33My wife and you would be just platonic.
41:36I know Billie is really wanting a sister wife, so I have to make this go as good as possible.
41:42I was thinking that it would be all of us together.
41:45Both of you.
41:47No, hello, daddy.
41:49When did this daddy thing come about?
41:50He's been trying to get me to call him daddy for years.
41:53I never saw myself being in a relationship with someone else's husband.
41:58Correct me and you, tonight in the bedroom, I feel like I'm in a dream.
42:03We met somebody.
42:06Her name is Jackie.
42:07She's got a great bod, you know.
42:08So what if I were to get pregnant by us?
42:12I don't want to sound selfish, but like, no, you can't do that.
42:16Oh my goodness.
42:18When you and I made love, I just knew you were the last person I would ever make love to.
42:26Oh.
42:27I can guarantee you that it would hurt 10 times more if I were to leave as opposed to April and Jenny.
42:34How long have you been seeing this guy?
42:37I don't like the thought of somebody else touching you.
42:39So are you guys being intimate?
42:42Um, we might lose Shanae.
42:45How do I know you're not just going to run away with my husband?
42:50You really think that I would leave you?
42:52I mean, it's a fear.
42:53This was her idea all along.
42:55I feel like you're asserting almost like some sort of dominance or something.
43:00I understand that you want kids, but that boundary is not going to shift.
43:05We just need to get this all figured out.
43:08Lorena getting deported.
43:10This is insane.
43:11How did this happen?
43:12One thing I absolutely will not tolerate is the disruption of the peace in my household.
43:16I got you.
43:17If you don't want to understand that or you don't want to work towards that,
43:20well, then just get up and go then.
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