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00:00But if we have extra set, right?
00:02Yeah, true.
00:04But like, I'm getting ready to head out soon.
00:21It'll go by quick.
00:22I feel like if I don't maintain the relationship I have
00:25with Jackie, then they're not going to maintain the relationship
00:29that they have.
00:30We know she wants more kids.
00:32Would you change your mind?
00:33No.
00:34Keep in mind, we could lose Jackie over this.
00:38I would love to try the birthday cake.
00:40I'll just get the vanilla.
00:41Not even venturing out a little.
00:43This is ice cream.
00:45I'm on my first date with someone other than my wife,
00:48and I am nervous as heck.
00:50There's a lot riding on this.
00:51I don't think we're going for the same thing.
00:53I was just kind of looking to have more fun.
00:56It's really scary.
00:57Nice to meet you.
00:57Knowing that that could have been our one and only chance.
01:02Love it.
01:05I want to feel like I'm a part of this family 100%.
01:09There are times that I call into question on whether or not
01:12Teresa is ready for this.
01:14There are some red flags that I'm seeing.
01:27Are you guys ready?
01:32You ready, babies?
01:33They're so big now.
01:34They've gotten so big.
01:35Today, we're going to see our friends, Tia and Ashley.
01:39I met them back when I was in high school.
01:44Hi.
01:45Hi.
01:46Hey, guys.
01:47Hello.
01:48How are you?
01:49To us, they're super special because they're also our egg donor and they helped us have our children.
01:55They're so big.
01:57They're so big.
01:58They're so big.
01:59I am one years old now.
02:00I am one years old.
02:01When Tia and I started our fertility journey, we obviously went through a fertility clinic and I seen many people that came in as a struggle and it just always touched me to help someone so that's when I had the chance to do it, I threw the idea out.
02:19I love my little red head.
02:20Yeah.
02:21I can't believe how red his head is.
02:22I know, that red and blue.
02:23But you have red.
02:24Your mom is red.
02:25She was wishing for that red head.
02:26Yeah.
02:27It's just crazy to see how big they are now.
02:28Can you believe it?
02:29I wouldn't have thought a couple years ago we'd be here now, you know?
02:30Oh, yeah.
02:31So, Ashley and Tia have two children of their own and we've got the twins and they're actually
02:35all half siblings.
02:36So, we love that they all have two children of their own and they're actually half siblings.
02:48So, we love that they all get to come together and hang out.
02:51So, how's everything going with the search and this adventure?
02:57You guys have started off.
02:59So, I actually have gone on one blind date but the woman is more interested in Billy than me so it hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be.
03:08What?
03:09Totally, you can reel them in.
03:11So, the date with Bez was very interesting.
03:15Hi, Arise.
03:16Sorry, my hands are sweaty.
03:19Oh, no, you're fine.
03:20Yeah, definitely didn't go as I had planned.
03:24Are you wanting more kids?
03:26Um, I can't have more kids.
03:28Okay.
03:29Yeah.
03:30I just, yeah, you could tell my dating game is off.
03:34So, I'm just really deflated now because, like, we're back to, like, square one.
03:41Like, is this really meant for us or is this how it's going to be every time?
03:46So, I'm on the dating apps but I'll start a conversation with someone and then I tell them what they're, what we're doing, what we're looking for and they just ghost me.
03:56They're like, oh.
03:57And we've looked in, like, communities around, you know, Indianapolis.
04:00Oh my gosh, I'm getting started on that.
04:02There's, like, a lot of lingo you have to try to memorize.
04:05Like, you would tell people, like, this is what we are trying to do and they're all like, no, like, that's not okay because we're, you know, everybody has to be open to a relationship.
04:13It's called, like, unicorn hunting.
04:15Yeah.
04:16Unicorn hunting is when individuals or couples are seeking a third partner, normally, like, a bisexual woman, either for casual sex or formal partnerships.
04:26That's not.
04:27Yeah.
04:28That's not what I'm looking for.
04:29And that's what we got kind of deemed as, like, oh, this is what you're doing and there's dragon hunting, too.
04:34What is that?
04:36Dragon hunting is when a couple brings in a man who is usually bisexual and they form a triad.
04:46Someone said something about, like, harem building.
04:48Harem building is where there's one man and multiple, multiple women and the intentions there is really to bear his children.
04:57That sounds like a cult from Outward.
04:59Yes.
05:00That sounds like a cult or, like, a handsmaid.
05:03Yeah.
05:04I mean, pregnancy for me, like, is high risk, so it'd be nice to be able to, like, grow our family without, like, having to do that, like, myself.
05:14But at the same time, we have, like, we only have our five embryos, so we only have those, those five, that's five and that's it.
05:21Like, if they work, they work, if they don't, they don't.
05:23Like, it's a, it's a Hail Mary, so.
05:26Pregnancy was kind of rough on me.
05:29I mean, it was a twin pregnancy after all, so I was high risk.
05:32Don't be spilling it.
05:33Yeah.
05:34And we only have five embryos left from the eggs that Ashley had donated to us, because, like, I can't make a baby, but I can carry a baby.
05:42And I feel like, you know, as I'm getting older, my window is closing for having children, so, you know, we only have so much time.
05:52I did throw out to Tia that if you guys couldn't and it didn't work out, I told her I would be okay being pregnant again.
06:01So, I really love being pregnant and everything, and I know the struggles that both of you have gone through.
06:06So, I'm willing to carry a baby for you guys.
06:13Just to expand your guys' family, and you guys won't even, wouldn't have to consider these other options to go through that.
06:23Oh, that's crazy.
06:24Oh, my gosh.
06:25Yeah.
06:26That is something to think about.
06:29I am shocked.
06:31She's already done so much for us.
06:34I couldn't believe that she was even offering that.
06:37Oh, goodness gracious.
06:40That's for the babies.
06:41Yes.
06:42That's right.
06:43That's right.
06:44I see how much they love children.
06:46I want them to build what they want, and it's just something I wanted to offer if she couldn't build her family.
06:54Like, even getting these babies from you was like, I feel like I owe you so much.
07:00That means a lot.
07:02I think that there's a lot of stuff that she, information that she gave us and that we need to digest and we need to think on before we make a decision over this.
07:11Yeah.
07:12It's a lot.
07:13Yeah.
07:14It's a lot to process.
07:15Not expecting that at all.
07:16It's something we can discuss.
07:17Yeah.
07:18We can definitely discuss further because that's big information.
07:35Hello.
07:36How are you?
07:37I'm good.
07:38And to you?
07:39I'm very good.
07:42How is your day today?
07:44Um...
07:45Ocupado?
07:46Mm-hmm.
07:47Busy.
07:48Busy.
07:49Yeah, today busy.
07:50A little tired?
07:52Tired?
07:53Tired?
07:54As coisas vão bem.
07:56Gente, agora eu tô fazendo aula de inglês três vezes na semana.
08:00Então é algo que eu tenho no meu coração que eu deveria estar aqui e eu tô muito feliz.
08:06Booty.
08:07Booty.
08:08Booty.
08:09Booty.
08:10Booty.
08:11Booty.
08:12So Lorena's been here now for two months.
08:13Things have been going really well.
08:15It's been a little adjustment with the sleeping.
08:23But it's gone pretty well.
08:24We're doing two days each wife.
08:26And then Sundays I just am alone.
08:29Like a day of rest.
08:30like a day of rest.
08:33Each wife's a little different,
08:34and Lorena definitely does things different.
08:39After 18 years, like, you get used to things.
08:41It's not like she's doing things wrong, per se.
08:43It's just different, right?
08:46Like, folding towels differently, I've noticed.
08:49She doesn't really, like, sort the laundry, like,
08:52colors and things like that.
08:54Oh, like, you know when you put a hanger on, like,
08:58in the closet, like, the way it faces,
09:00like, she'll put it, like, behind.
09:02Does that make sense?
09:03Oh, the opposite.
09:04Like, the opposite way.
09:05Like, you put it forward.
09:07She does it both ways.
09:09Sometimes she puts it behind, and I'm like, what?
09:12It's just different to me.
09:14I have to get used to Lorena's sugar.
09:16She is a sugar queen.
09:18Oh my god.
09:24You would think 90 days seems like a long time,
09:26but it's really not.
09:27Time flies.
09:28I think when you have kids, you realize
09:29how fast time flies.
09:32Bom dia.
09:34We were just really focused on enjoying my time with her.
09:38So it was like, wow, this is moving quickly.
09:41You guys want to sit and start talking and see about trying
09:44to call that lawyer?
09:46We all hope to do a big white wedding, big celebration
09:49with all the family and friends.
09:50You like?
09:51Yeah, see?
09:52Flowers.
09:54Oh, look.
09:55Sister, pictures, photos.
09:57We tried to get it all coordinated,
09:59but there were so many moving parts with trying to fly people
10:02in on dates that worked for everyone.
10:04Finding the right venue, getting the prenup ordered,
10:06it all just honestly zip by really fast.
10:09So we're going to have to do a courthouse wedding instead.
10:13Once we file the paperwork, it said it can take two weeks.
10:20We have 17 business days left until we have that 90 day mark.
10:23And it's going to take like 14 of those days to file for her adjustment
10:27of status.
10:28And once they are legally married, our immigration lawyer
10:31can then file her adjustment of status paperwork.
10:34So we need to get married tomorrow.
10:37Otherwise, we risk Lorena being deported.
10:40So this has got me a little stressed out,
10:42this whole place we hired to do the prenuptial agreement.
10:47Doesn't have the proper people to speak Portuguese,
10:51so they can't finalize that.
10:53Because it's not valid, which makes sense, right?
10:55Because she has to understand it.
10:56She's not fluent in English.
10:58She needs somewhat like representation,
11:02like somebody, a third party telling her what's in it,
11:06like in Portuguese, right?
11:09Garrick was doing like prenup stuff online.
11:11And he realized when he got like to the end of it,
11:15that it's really important that it's translated into Portuguese.
11:19It's verified by a third party that Lorena understands it
11:21or is not valid.
11:23They haven't called back yet today, so it's got me stressed out
11:26because we got to get this done immediately.
11:28With no prenup, that will leave me,
11:30the kids, and my brother's business completely unprotected legally.
11:35But then we're also looking at the timeframe of her K-1 visa expiring.
11:38So both things are extremely important for the protection of our family
11:42and for Lorena staying here.
11:43If we can't get this prenup finalized by the end of the day,
11:46we are going to be in an impossible situation.
11:49Oh my gosh.
11:52We have to have them finalize this today.
11:55Oh God.
11:56We should have researched this better.
11:57I thought it was the same day.
11:59Why did you wait when this was so serious of a matter?
12:04Honestly, I think we thought that it would be a lot easier with the prenup than it was.
12:08Just there was a lot of little details to the process that we didn't realize.
12:12Looking back and thinking, should we have started this earlier?
12:17I mean, yeah, we should have.
12:19I mean, we didn't realize how complicated, all the little different details.
12:23I think it's a race against time now,
12:28especially since there are only a few days left, right?
12:32So it makes me a little sad.
12:34I won't deny it with a heavy heart, but I trust in God.
12:38I hope there will be time.
12:40God has brought us this far.
12:43He's not going to fail us.
12:44I feel a little worried and emotional.
12:47I'll pray it'll be okay.
12:50Yeah.
12:51I think you should call that lawyer right now.
13:10Okay.
13:11I don't even know the process.
13:14If some kind of hiccup in the paperwork and immigration isn't filed in time and they kick
13:20her out, like, she'd go back to Brazil and we'd have to restart the process over, reapply.
13:26But that'd just be devastating to me, the whole family.
13:30We've come this far.
13:31It's been six years.
13:32Finally, it's working out and then she's away from us again.
13:36I don't even want to go there.
13:39Yeah, it would just destroy everything.
13:44So we're a plural family.
13:46My husband and I aren't legally married any longer, but we brought a woman here from Brazil and she's
13:56on a K-1 visa and her and Garrick are tomorrow going to the courthouse to get the marriage
14:02certificate and everything.
14:05Okay.
14:06I feel definitely vulnerable and nervous.
14:11I'm thinking about my kids.
14:12I'm thinking about not only my kids, but the rest of my family.
14:16I mean, our house is in Garrick's name.
14:18Our construction company is in his name.
14:20And so we need the prenup first.
14:22This could be a total disaster and that Lorena could take advantage of Garrick and I and our
14:27family.
14:28Okay.
14:29And then would I just call you back on this number?
14:32That would truly be devastating.
14:34I don't even know what words to describe how that would make me feel.
14:47Nick always says he just wants everybody to be okay and that everybody includes you.
14:53I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then
14:59days feeling like I'm worthless.
15:01Your insecurities are unfounded.
15:03They're baseless.
15:04How are you?
15:06Good.
15:07How are you?
15:08Tonight I'm going out to dinner with Jackie to talk about my boundary.
15:11Cheers.
15:12Cheers.
15:13I'm definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
15:17I figured this would be a conversation to have between like woman to woman.
15:22Tough topic really.
15:26I'm going out to dinner.
15:27I'm going out to dinner, I'm going out to dinner, I'm going out to dinner.
15:28I'm going out to dinner, I'm going out to dinner.
15:29Do you want to sit?
15:30Yeah.
15:31Blueberries?
15:32I want grapes.
15:33Grapes?
15:34I want to go out to dinner.
15:49Okay.
15:50Come on bud.
15:51Let's go play.
15:52Yesel has been gone for a while and with each travel for work, it just gets harder and
16:01harder and harder.
16:02Let's go.
16:03Let's go.
16:04Let's go.
16:05There's a new challenge.
16:06There's a new tantrum.
16:07Don't fight.
16:08Oh, see?
16:09There it is.
16:12Every day.
16:14I have so much going on.
16:16The kids work.
16:17What's the matter?
16:18A boo-boo?
16:19A boo-boo?
16:20This one?
16:21A boo-boo?
16:22Just for her.
16:23And just maintaining my sanity.
16:24A prophecy?
16:25And just to do it all alone.
16:26A boo-boo?
16:27A boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo.
16:31A boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo.
16:32A boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo.
16:33A boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo, a boo-boo.
16:34Mommy's going to build is pretty exhausting.
16:39Daddy texted us, do you want to see what he said?
16:41Yeah.
16:42Yeah?
16:43Ooh, it's a video.
16:44Can I turn it on?
16:45Sure.
16:46Daddy?
16:47All right.
16:48Hey, babe?
16:49Oh, man, I just, I miss you guys terribly.
16:55Just feeling a little lonely today,
16:57and I just, one of those days where I really, really wish
16:59I was just home instead of being away from you.
17:04I'm missing him a lot.
17:06I hear his voice, and I wish it was right next to me
17:09instead of in front of me on a screen.
17:12I hope you and the boys are doing good out there
17:14at home right now.
17:16You know, I'm sure they like to test your patience
17:18a little bit, so I miss them.
17:20I wish I was the one that was at home
17:21reminding them who's in charge.
17:23Although they're not listening to me either, so.
17:25Hmm, keywords either.
17:28Getting emotional about it now, but it's like,
17:30it's guilty because I want him to be home,
17:32and he wants to be home.
17:33I'm glad, it's a good thing, I guess we met Jackie
17:36when we did, you know, I'm sure you guys
17:39have been spending some time together,
17:40getting to know each other, developing that friendship,
17:43which is great.
17:44I can't wait to hang out with the both of you.
17:46The goal of having a sister-wife for us
17:51is for someone to also be here for me
17:53when Yesel isn't here, to share parenting responsibilities,
17:58provide the level of intimacy and attachment
18:01that I'm looking for.
18:03Someone who's there for me in an emotional
18:06and supportive way.
18:08I love you, and I miss you, and I can't wait to see you.
18:10I know Jackie and Yesel have been texting daily,
18:15but Jackie and I really haven't communicated
18:18at all with each other.
18:20Jackie has texted me checking in,
18:23has asked if we can hang out a couple times,
18:25and I've definitely been stalling
18:28because we do have to talk about the whole baby issue.
18:31I did reach out to her to set up a dinner
18:38to talk about my boundary.
18:40My fear is the longer that I hold out on speaking to her,
18:45the more attached her and Yesel are going to get.
18:48And, you know, if this conversation doesn't go well,
18:52the more feelings are going to get her
18:54between her and him.
18:56Can I have a hug?
18:59I just miss Daddy.
19:00Okay.
19:01Okay.
19:03Okay.
19:04Okay, boss.
19:05Okay, boss.
19:07Let's do it.
19:21All right, the pancakes are done.
19:23The meat is, um, basically done.
19:29Guys, look what came today.
19:31Yay!
19:33Today, we are going to be giving Nick
19:36the special custom boudoir calendar that we made,
19:39and we want to make it extra special.
19:41So we are making him breakfast in bed,
19:43and all of us girls are going to take it downstairs
19:46and give him the breakfast and give him the calendar
19:49and do a big reveal.
19:50I think he's going to love it.
19:51Yes, I think he's going to be very, very appreciative
19:54and feel very special.
19:57When I first saw the photos, I had a hard time with them.
20:00I think I was comparing myself to April and Jenny.
20:04You know, I am a little bit older.
20:06I have some past trauma with some past relationships
20:08where, you know, we'd get into arguments,
20:11and they would, you know, call me ugly or old or washed up
20:15or things to hurt my feelings,
20:17and that's one thing I appreciate about Nick
20:19is even if he's upset with me,
20:21he's not belittling me or putting me down
20:23and making me feel less than worthy to be here.
20:26We're going to have to do the whipped cream.
20:28We know that Teresa has had a lot of trauma
20:33that she's had to work through
20:35and is still working through,
20:36and it creates a lot of self-esteem issues,
20:41a lot of her beating herself up,
20:44and so unfortunately,
20:46we have seen quite a bit of her negative self-talk.
20:50Let's go.
20:50And it can just kind of create a bad energy in the house.
20:56Oh, hello.
20:58Hi.
20:59Good morning.
21:00What's going on here?
21:02Hi, everybody.
21:03Oh, boy.
21:04Wow, wow, lookie here.
21:07Breakfast and thanks for Nikki.
21:11Oh, this looks lovely.
21:13Thank you so much.
21:15You got some whipped cream on my pancakes.
21:16Yes.
21:18This is the kind of thing that
21:20in this situation,
21:23I mean, I just wake up living a dream every day.
21:26I mean, it's just so much to be thankful for
21:29with the way our situation is set up.
21:31It's definitely something special for me to be involved with.
21:34We have another surprise for you, too, though.
21:37What, there's something else going on
21:38other than the breakfast and dinner?
21:39Yeah.
21:39Hold on, hold on.
21:40Let's show you real quick.
21:42It's obviously a calendar,
21:45and we made it for you.
21:47It was Teresa's idea.
21:50We had so much fun.
22:01Oh, my babies.
22:02It's a nice treat for me, for sure.
22:05Oh, my goodness.
22:07I like sexy ladies, yes.
22:11I like my women to be beautiful and intelligent, yeah.
22:14They have to be both in capacities
22:17that are greater than mine.
22:18That's not easy to do.
22:20So, you know, I have a very high standard.
22:22So, yeah, I like sexy women, for sure.
22:24Oh, my babies.
22:29I love you all so much.
22:32I might have found my favorite picture.
22:35See, Teresa, I told you you didn't have anything to worry about.
22:37Look, she's crying.
22:38These are happy tears.
22:41Worry about?
22:42What could there possibly have been to be worried about?
22:45I was just feeling a little insecure that day in my lingerie
22:49and thinking I wasn't going to look that beautiful for you.
22:53And, um...
22:54You're beautiful, Teresa.
22:57I mean, I hope at some point you really do come to realize
23:01that your insecurities are unfounded.
23:05They're baseless.
23:06You don't need to let those things prevent you from enjoying yourself
23:12and your experience, Teresa.
23:14And not just in regards to a photo shoot or something,
23:17but just in terms of our life together and our relationship overall.
23:21You need no armor here, you know?
23:24Take...
23:24Put your shield down and just go ahead and relax
23:27and just allow yourself to just...
23:29Enjoy the ride.
23:31Enjoy the ride, Teresa.
23:33Hmm.
23:42You know, Teresa, Nick always says that he just wants everybody to be okay
23:48and that everybody includes you.
23:51You know, I just wish you knew that.
23:55I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs,
23:58of feeling amazing about myself,
24:00and then days feeling like I'm worthless.
24:04And I feel bad because Nick is constantly always reassuring me,
24:09and I hope that I can get to a point in my life at some time
24:12where I'm as confident as the other girls are.
24:15I think what I'm needing, you know, in this relationship
24:18to feel more secure in our bond
24:21is definitely I would love to change my last name to Davis.
24:26The reason that Teresa wants to change her last name
24:29is because she thinks that's going to fix her emotionally.
24:33She thinks that's going to make her feel better
24:35about all the things that she needs to address within herself.
24:39And it's not going to fix those things.
24:42I know it sounds crazy,
24:44but I really want to get a tattoo of all of you on my thigh.
24:47It just shows, like, permanence.
24:50Like, I'm not going anywhere.
24:51I know you guys aren't going anywhere.
24:53And it just will represent, like, that this is forever.
24:58I definitely feel like we're kind of in a tough spot right now with Teresa.
25:02Just because our love for her is truly genuine,
25:05and we also recognize that her love for us is authentic.
25:09But the relationship she has with herself is just so problematic
25:13that it could potentially be a reason
25:19why this situation doesn't work out between us.
25:22All right, so that was fun.
25:40So, what did you think...
25:43Oh, my goodness.
25:44...what Ashley offered?
25:46That's so selfless.
25:47Like, she's already...
25:49Done.
25:50...given her eggs.
25:51Yeah.
25:52And now she's saying that she would carry for us?
25:54Who does that?
25:56I mean, do you think Ashley's offer could possibly eliminate, like,
26:00these struggles that we're having, though?
26:02Would we just, like, drop the whole idea of a sister wife?
26:05Like, it does sound really tempting, because I'll be honest,
26:08it's been really stressful, the search.
26:12So, it would be really easy just to be, like, done.
26:17Now, hey, you know?
26:18I can't help but feel guilty about everything,
26:21because this was initially my idea,
26:24and he's now the one who's going through it.
26:27It's all just been a lot for Reese,
26:29and there's a lot of pressure on him.
26:31I mean, it could be a solution.
26:39I would... I just... I don't know.
26:42Like, honestly, the first thing that came to mind was, like,
26:46I love that and that she would offer that,
26:49but that's...
26:50That's not why we're seeking a sister wife,
26:54is just to have a baby, right?
26:56Right.
26:56And at the end of the day, like, we want more babies,
26:59but we also, like, we want more adults, too, though, you know?
27:02Like, we don't just, like, want 100 babies with just us.
27:06No, no.
27:07That's why we want a community family,
27:09like, that we all take care of each other,
27:11and we all help each other.
27:13That's the whole point of it.
27:14I feel like if we gave up right now,
27:16I'd be a little disappointed.
27:17I feel like we wouldn't have put, you know,
27:20our full potential on the line,
27:21and I feel like we have an amazing family to offer up,
27:27and we're open to loving another family.
27:30I'm not done.
27:31I feel like this is something we can do.
27:33I really do believe in it.
27:34I believe in you.
27:35I believe that you can get it done
27:37and you can find someone.
27:39All right, so, I mean, we're still doing this, right?
27:42Yeah.
27:42You know, that is kind of just good knowing moving forward
27:45that she has offered that up,
27:48and if we, you know, maybe need to utilize that,
27:51that it's an option.
27:53Exactly.
28:06Oh, we're with Dining.
28:07How are you?
28:08How are you?
28:10Good.
28:10It's nice to see you.
28:11Nice to see you.
28:13Tonight, I'm going out to dinner with Jackie.
28:15We haven't really seen each other since Yasel left,
28:17but we do have some heavy topics that we need to discuss,
28:21and it's better done in person.
28:23I've actually never been here.
28:24Me either.
28:25It's so cute, though.
28:26I'm excited.
28:27Talking to her about essentially me not allowing her
28:32to have a baby with my husband.
28:34So pretty.
28:37I mean, even saying it sounds harsh.
28:40Never mind hearing it.
28:41Cheers.
28:42Cheers.
28:42Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
28:50But it's definitely something that needs to be said.
28:54You're welcome.
28:55Do you have anything for right now?
28:56No.
28:57We're good.
28:58So how have you been since Yasel's been gone?
29:01It's like a learned difficulty.
29:04Mm-hmm.
29:06So for me, it's like...
29:07Yeah, you've been through it before.
29:09Part of the gig, you know?
29:11Right.
29:12He does his best in checking in with me
29:14and how I'm feeling and how my day is going.
29:17I do feel like I'm getting closer to Yasel,
29:22although the distance has been very difficult.
29:25Every day that we get to talk,
29:27we get to learn more about each other.
29:30But since Yasel's been gone,
29:32Dani has completely distanced and removed herself.
29:36There was many times where I've tried to reach out
29:39to be there for her
29:40and just kind of, like, still, you know,
29:43have our relationship aside from Yasel and I's relationship.
29:46And I just felt shut out.
29:49So now that Yasel is away,
29:52I figured this would be a conversation to have
29:55between, like, woman to woman.
29:57Right.
29:58So I know the last time we talked about kids,
30:02you definitely want more.
30:04Yeah.
30:06And I wanted to be completely transparent and open
30:10about how that would look for me
30:13and, like, the boundary that I do have.
30:16You know, I've told you I'm more than open to another baby
30:21and raising another baby.
30:22Like, I have no problem going through all the phases again,
30:25and I love it with my whole heart.
30:28However, the one, like, boundary I have with it
30:33is...
30:35I don't think...
30:38Tough topic, really.
30:41I don't think I'm able to handle
30:43him having another baby biologically
30:48with another woman.
30:49I don't think I'm able to handle
31:09Yasel having another baby with another woman.
31:14Can I ask, like, why or, like, what stemmed this?
31:28You know, I've always wanted a girl.
31:33I didn't get my girl, which is fine.
31:34I love my boys.
31:35But my body's done.
31:37It would be way too high risk.
31:39So if another woman was to have Yasel's biological baby
31:44and that baby were to be a girl,
31:47I would feel robbed of an experience,
31:53I guess, in a way,
31:54because it's not my girl.
31:56Like, why couldn't I do this for him?
31:58So, with that being said,
32:04I'd be open to, like, exploring
32:06other options to have a baby.
32:10Like, what would the other options be?
32:14I've given a lot of thought to a donor.
32:20Have you talked to Yasel about that?
32:22Mm-hmm.
32:22What's he said?
32:23I think he understands that if he does want more kids
32:29in the family, then that's how it's got to happen, I guess.
32:39I did not see this coming, honestly.
32:43I mean, all of my conversations with Dani
32:46previously about children have been, you know,
32:50that she was going to be a very much supportive part of that.
32:55So this definitely took me by surprise.
33:00My fear, ultimately, is that there's not that excitement
33:04that you would have conceiving a baby naturally.
33:07Right.
33:08Right.
33:09That would be the last thing I would want.
33:11I feel like this is totally unfair to Yasel.
33:19He's always emphasizing how he would love to have more kids.
33:23I do think this is selfish of Dani.
33:27I feel a little bit hurt,
33:30and I would be lying if I didn't, you know, tell you that.
33:34I mean...
33:35I kind of feel like you guys
33:38should have, like, talked to me about this
33:40when we first started talking.
33:44I did want to bring it up sooner,
33:47but I did want it to be a conversation
33:50between you and I without Yasel present,
33:53which, unfortunate that we're, like, this deep in,
33:56and we have to have it now.
33:57If you were in my shoes, like,
34:00would you think that this was fair?
34:02No.
34:03I'll always think there is a degree of unfairness.
34:08Like, please don't think I don't think that.
34:10And I feel guilty about it.
34:12Yeah, Dani, like, I honestly,
34:13I really don't think this is fair,
34:16like, you know, to, like,
34:17bring somebody else into the picture
34:19and just make, like, a decision
34:24solely based on your comfort.
34:26My intentions have been very clear
34:33since day one.
34:34I've asked about their boundaries.
34:37This was never mentioned to me,
34:39so the fact that, you know,
34:40my feelings were taken into consideration
34:43for me feels incredibly selfish.
34:47You know, finding a partner
34:48that would be, like, open to having, like,
34:50more kids biologically,
34:52like, that's probably what's gonna be best for me.
34:55I think right now I just need
34:59to remove myself from this.
35:02Um, I can respect that.
35:07I appreciate that.
35:10Dani has some insecurities
35:12that she needs to address
35:14before trying to seek a sister-wife.
35:18I'll help with your back.
35:21You're welcome.
35:21I'm kind of disappointed
35:24because I was so vulnerable with them.
35:28I'm leaving very much hurt.
35:31It sucks.
35:34And it sucks that I have to go home
35:36and tell Yesel
35:36that this is how this turned out
35:39because I don't think
35:41that's the outcome he wanted.
35:43There's a very good possibility
35:45that he's gonna be disappointed.
35:47One of my biggest fears
35:48in seeking a sister-wife
35:51was disappointing both parties,
35:54and it's coming true.
35:56So I feel a lot of guilt
36:01and a little bit of shame to it
36:04because I don't want to be the problem.
36:07And it feels like I'm the problem.
36:12We need the prenup first.
36:17Um...
36:18Not comfortable.
36:34Lorena?
36:36Sister?
36:36We're coming down.
36:38We started working on the prenup
36:39like three weeks ago.
36:40And yesterday,
36:42Garrick realized
36:42when he got, like, to the end of it
36:43that it's really important
36:45that it's translated into Portuguese.
36:48But the lawyer that I thought
36:50was gonna work with us,
36:51she said she's not
36:51a certified translator.
36:53Hopefully we can get it figured out
36:55because I think it's very important
36:56to have this in place
36:57before they legally get married.
36:59So, the lawyer's office told me
37:03she doesn't feel comfortable
37:04because she's not
37:05a certified translator
37:06and because just the time frame involved.
37:09She said there's no way
37:10it would be done tomorrow
37:11from what she's telling me.
37:14Did you tell her
37:14we already have the document?
37:16I told her we have the document.
37:18I told her that.
37:19We need to get the marriage license
37:21immediately over to the immigration lawyer.
37:26The key is the prenup.
37:27We actually have to have her
37:28adjustment of status done
37:31or she can be deported.
37:41Well, I mean, worst-case scenario,
37:42I guess there's such a thing
37:45this law firm in Colorado says,
37:46you know, I've never even heard,
37:48a post-marital agreement.
37:51So that's after, right?
37:53Mm-hmm.
37:54I don't feel comfortable with that.
37:56You risk if one party
37:59doesn't want to sign at that point.
38:03They don't have to
38:04and you're already legally married.
38:07We need the prenup first.
38:08It puts me in a vulnerable spot
38:24if things aren't done right.
38:25If he's married with me,
38:29it's because he believes in me.
38:34I don't want to be able to
38:35think of what it was for them,
38:37of rights,
38:38that they worked for years.
38:40But now that I've arrived,
38:43we're going to start a new chapter together.
38:45We'll be okay.
38:51We'll see.
38:54Yeah?
39:02Lorena's definitely my sister
39:03and I trust her.
39:04I think it's just like
39:05the scars of the past too
39:07with especially Roberta mainly.
39:09And like, people do things
39:11you never thought they would do,
39:13you know?
39:13Like, I don't want
39:14the K-1 visa to expire
39:17and Lorena to be deported,
39:19but I also want to think about myself
39:21and my kids
39:22and all the moving parts too, so.
39:25We should research another law firm
39:35to see.
39:36We just need to get this
39:37all figured out soon,
39:38so I think we should call another one.
39:41We have to get married tomorrow,
39:43but the prenuptial agreement
39:45has to be translated today.
39:48Do I postpone the wedding
39:49and take the chance of Lorena
39:51being deported?
39:52Or do I go ahead
39:56and get married to Lorena
39:57without a prenup
39:59and put at risk
40:00what me and Daniela built
40:02the last 17 years?
40:05The way things are,
40:06I'm going to have to choose
40:07between my two wives.
40:17Randy?
40:18Yes.
40:18I'm Reese.
40:19Nice to meet you.
40:20Nice to meet you too.
40:21This is the second blind date
40:23that Nikki has set us up on.
40:24So is it going to be sexual too?
40:27I mean, it's part of it.
40:29Really?
40:30Yeah, so.
40:32The conversations
40:33were a little heavy.
40:35I'm just dreading
40:37breaking the news
40:37about what happened with Jackie.
40:39How did it go last night?
40:41She didn't like it.
40:43She felt that it was unfair.
40:46Well, that kind of sucks now, does it?
40:48It's been a nightmare today.
40:52We're trying to do the prenup today.
40:54I have some concerns.
40:56Garrick and I have a business together,
40:57and if the prenup doesn't get signed properly,
41:00I could end up not having anything.
41:02This is amazing.
41:06This is gorgeous.
41:08Matt invited me out tonight.
41:09I'm still really resentful
41:11that he has not reached out
41:13in as long as he has.
41:15Part of me is smitten
41:16that you put the effort in,
41:18but then the other part is like,
41:20is it too late?
41:22Is it too late?
41:22Who's in here?
41:25Does everybody see you'd face
41:26in as long as you should
41:27get anything or you want to have
41:28in as long as you must die.
41:30Give me the should,
41:33if you need a prediction
41:34too late.
41:37Parrish music
41:49tells The free
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