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00:00I'm getting ready to head out soon.
00:15It'll go by quick.
00:17I feel like if I don't maintain the relationship I have
00:20with Jackie, then they're not going to maintain
00:23the relationship that they have.
00:25We know she wants more kids.
00:27Would you change your mind?
00:28No.
00:29Keep in mind, we could lose Jackie over this.
00:33I would love to try the birthday cake.
00:35I'll just get the vanilla.
00:36Not even venturing out a little.
00:38This is ice cream.
00:40I'm on my first date with someone other than my wife,
00:43and I am nervous as heck.
00:45There's a lot riding on this.
00:46I don't think we're going for the same thing.
00:48I was just kind of looking to have more fun.
00:51It's really scary.
00:52Nice to meet you.
00:52Nice to meet you, knowing that that could have been
00:55our one and only chance.
00:58Love it.
01:01I want to feel like I'm a part of this family 100%.
01:05There are times that I call into question on whether or not
01:07Theresa is ready for this.
01:09There are some red flags that I'm seeing.
01:13Are you guys ready?
01:28You ready, babies?
01:29They're so big now.
01:30They've gotten so big.
01:31Today we're going to see our friends, Tia and Ashley.
01:36I met them back when I was in high school.
01:39Hi.
01:39Hi.
01:40Hi.
01:41Hey, guys.
01:42Hello.
01:43How are you?
01:44To us, they're super special because they're also our egg donor,
01:47and they helped us have our children.
01:49I'll see you in a go.
01:50Come here.
01:51Oh, yeah.
01:52Here, Sandy, Tia.
01:53What's that?
01:54Sandy, too.
01:55You're so big.
01:56You're so big.
01:57You're so big.
01:58I am one years old now.
02:00I am one years old.
02:02When Tia and I started our fertility journey,
02:05we obviously went through a fertility clinic,
02:07and I seen many people that came in as a struggle.
02:11And it just always touched me to help someone.
02:15So that's when I had the chance to do it,
02:17I threw the idea out.
02:19I love my little red head.
02:20Yeah.
02:21I can't believe how red his head is.
02:22I know, that red and blue.
02:24But you have red.
02:25Your mom is red.
02:26And so, like, we got it.
02:27She was wishing for that red head.
02:30It's just crazy to see how big they are now.
02:32Can you believe it?
02:32I wouldn't have thought a couple years ago we'd be here now,
02:36you know.
02:37Oh, yeah.
02:38So Ashley and Tia have two children of their own,
02:40and we've got the twins, and they're actually
02:42all half-siblings.
02:43So we love that they all get to come together and hang out.
02:46So how's everything going with the search
02:50and this adventure you guys have started off?
02:54So I actually have gone on one blind date,
02:58but the woman is more interested in Billy than me,
03:01so it hasn't been as easy as I thought it would be.
03:04What?
03:05Totally.
03:05You can reel them in.
03:07So the date with Bez was very interesting.
03:11Hi, Reese.
03:12Sorry, my hands are sweaty.
03:14Oh, no, you're fine.
03:16Yeah, definitely didn't go as I had planned.
03:20Are you wanting more kids?
03:22I can have more kids.
03:23Okay.
03:24Yeah.
03:25So I just, yeah, you could tell my dating game is off.
03:30So I'm just really deflated now because, like,
03:35we're back to, like, square one.
03:37Like, is this really meant for us,
03:38or is this how it's going to be every time?
03:42So I'm on the dating apps,
03:43but I'll start a conversation with someone,
03:46and then I tell them what we're doing,
03:48what we're looking for, and they just ghost me.
03:51They're like, oh.
03:52And we've looked in, like, communities around, you know,
03:55Indianapolis.
03:56I started on that.
03:58There's, like, a lot of lingo you have to try to memorize.
04:01Like, you would tell people, like,
04:02this is what we are trying to do,
04:03and they're all like, no, like, that's not okay
04:06because we're, everybody has to be open to a relationship.
04:09It's called, like, unicorn hunting.
04:11Yeah.
04:11Unicorn hunting is when individuals or couples
04:14are seeking a third partner,
04:16normally, like, a bisexual woman,
04:18either for casual sex or formal partnerships.
04:21That's not.
04:22Yeah.
04:23That's not what I'm looking for.
04:25And that's what we got kind of deemed as,
04:26like, oh, this is what you're doing.
04:28And there's dragon hunting, too.
04:30What is that?
04:32Dragon hunting is when a couple brings in a man
04:35who is usually bisexual, and they form a triad.
04:42Someone said something about, like, harem building.
04:44Harem building is where there's one man
04:47and multiple, multiple women,
04:49and the intention there is really to bear his children.
04:53That sounds like a cult from out west.
04:55Yes.
04:56That sounds like a cult or, like, a hands-maid.
04:59Yeah.
05:00Like, I mean, pregnancy for me, like, is high risk.
05:04So it'd be nice to be able to, like, grow our family
05:07without, like, having to do that, like, myself.
05:10But at the same time, we have, like,
05:12we only have our five embryos,
05:13so we only have those, those five, that's five and that's it.
05:17Like, if they work, they work.
05:18If they don't, they don't.
05:19Like, it's a, it's a Hail Mary, so.
05:22Pregnancy was kind of rough on me.
05:24I mean, it was a twin pregnancy, after all,
05:27so I was high risk.
05:28Don't be spilling it.
05:30And we only have five embryos left
05:32from the eggs that Ashley had donated to us,
05:35because, like, I can't make a baby,
05:36but I can carry a baby.
05:38And I feel like, you know, as I'm getting older,
05:41my window is closing for having children,
05:43so, you know, we only have so much time.
05:48I did throw out to Tia that if you guys couldn't
05:51and it didn't work out, I told her I would be OK
05:55being pregnant again.
05:57So I really love being pregnant and everything,
05:59and I know the struggles that both of you have gone through.
06:02So I'm willing to carry a baby for you guys.
06:10Just to expand your guys' family,
06:12and you guys won't even,
06:14wouldn't have to consider these other options
06:16to go through that.
06:19Oh, that's crazy.
06:20Oh, my gosh.
06:21That is something to think about.
06:25I am shocked.
06:26She's already done so much for us.
06:29I couldn't believe that she was even offering that.
06:32Oh, goodness gracious.
06:35That's for the babies.
06:36That's right.
06:38That's right.
06:40I see how much they love children.
06:42I want them to build what they want,
06:44and it's just something I wanted to offer
06:47if she couldn't build her family.
06:50Like, even getting these babies from you was like,
06:53I feel like I owe you so much.
06:55That means a lot.
06:58I think that there's a lot of stuff that she,
07:00information that she gave us
07:02and that we need to digest
07:03and we need to think on
07:04before we make a decision over this.
07:07Yeah, it's a lot.
07:09Yeah, it's a lot to process.
07:10Not expecting that at all.
07:12It's something we can definitely,
07:13yeah, we can definitely discuss further
07:16because that's big information.
07:30Hello.
07:31How are you?
07:33I'm good.
07:34And you?
07:35I'm very good, thank you.
07:38How is your day today?
07:40Um...
07:41Ocupado?
07:42Mm-hmm, busy.
07:43Busy.
07:44Yeah, so they're busy.
07:45A little tired?
07:47Tired?
07:48Tired?
07:49As coisas vão bem.
07:51Gente, agora eu tô fazendo aula de inglês três vezes na semana.
07:55Então é algo que eu tenho no meu coração que eu deveria estar aqui.
07:59E eu tô muito feliz.
08:01Booty.
08:02Boota!
08:03So, Lorena's been here now for two months.
08:05One, two.
08:06Good.
08:07Things have been going really well.
08:13It's been a little adjustment with the sleeping.
08:18But it's gone pretty well.
08:19We're doing two days each wife,
08:21and then Sundays I just am alone, like a day of rest.
08:27Each wife's a little different,
08:29and Lorena definitely does things different.
08:33After 18 years, like, you get used to things.
08:35Is that, like, she's doing things wrong, per se.
08:38It's just different, right?
08:39Uh-huh.
08:41Like, folding towels differently, I've noticed.
08:44She doesn't really, like, sort the laundry.
08:46Um, like, colors and things like that.
08:48Oh, like, you know when you put a hanger on, like, in the closet?
08:53Like, the way it faces, like, she'll put it, like, behind.
08:57Does that make sense?
08:58Oh, the opposite.
08:59Like, the opposite way.
09:00Like, you put it forward.
09:02Huh.
09:03She does it both ways.
09:04Oh, she does both?
09:05Sometimes she puts it behind.
09:06And I'm like, what?
09:07It's just different to me.
09:09I have to get used to Lorena's sugar.
09:11She is a sugar queen.
09:12Oh, my God.
09:13Oh, my God.
09:19You would think 90 days seems like a long time, but it's really not.
09:22Time flies.
09:23I think when you have kids, you realize how fast time flies.
09:28We were just really focused on enjoying my time with her.
09:32So it was like, wow, this is moving quickly.
09:35You guys want to sit and start talking and see about trying to call that lawyer?
09:40We all hope to do a big white wedding, big celebration with all the family and friends.
09:45You live?
09:46Yeah, see?
09:47Flowers?
09:48Oh, look.
09:49Sister.
09:50Pictures?
09:51Photos?
09:52We tried to get it all coordinated, but there were so many moving parts with trying to fly
09:56people in on dates that worked for everyone, finding the right venue, getting the prenup ordered
10:01it all just honestly zip by really fast.
10:04So we're going to have to do a courthouse wedding instead.
10:07Once we file the paperwork, it said it can take two weeks.
10:14We have 17 business days left until we have that 90-day mark.
10:18And it's going to take like 14 of those days to file for her adjustment of status.
10:23And once they are legally married, our immigration lawyer can then file her adjustment of status
10:28paperwork.
10:29So we need to get married tomorrow.
10:31Otherwise, we risk Lorena being deported.
10:35So this has got me a little stressed out, this whole place we hired to do the prenuptial agreement.
10:42Doesn't have the proper people to speak Portuguese, so they can't finalize that.
10:48Because it's not valid, which makes sense, right?
10:50Because she has to understand it.
10:51She's not fluent in English.
10:52Yeah.
10:53She needs somewhat like representation, like somebody, a third party telling her what's
11:00in it, like in Portuguese, right?
11:02Wow.
11:03Garek was doing like prenup stuff online.
11:06And he realized when he got like to the end of it, that it's really important that it's
11:11translated into Portuguese.
11:13It's verified by a third party that Lorena understands it or is not valid.
11:17They haven't called back yet today, so it's got me stressed out because we've got to get this done immediately.
11:23With no prenup, that will leave me, the kids, and my brother's business completely unprotected legally.
11:29But then we're also looking at the timeframe of her K-1 visa expiring.
11:33So, both things are extremely important for the protection of her family and for Lorena staying here.
11:38If we can't get this prenup finalized by the end of the day, we are going to be in an impossible situation.
11:46Oh my gosh.
11:47We have to have them finalize this today.
11:50Oh God.
11:51We should have researched this better.
11:52I thought it was the same day.
11:54Why did you wait when this was so serious of a matter?
11:58Honestly, I think we thought that it would be a lot easier with the prenup than it was.
12:03Just there was a lot of little details to the process that we didn't realize.
12:07Looking back and thinking, should we have started this earlier?
12:12I mean, yeah, we should have.
12:13I mean, we didn't realize how complicated, all the little different details.
12:21I think it's a race against time now, especially since there are only a few days left, right?
12:27So it makes me a little sad.
12:29I won't deny it with a heavy heart, but I trust in God.
12:33I hope there will be time.
12:35God has brought us this far. He's not going to fail us.
12:38I feel a little worried and emotional.
12:41I'll pray it will be okay. Yeah.
12:42I think you should call that lawyer right now.
12:43Okay.
12:44I don't even know the process if some kind of hiccup in the paperwork and immigration isn't
12:49fine.
12:50in time and they kick her out, like, she'd go back to Brazil and we'd have to restart the
12:53process.
12:54So, I don't even know the process if some kind of hiccup in the paperwork and immigration
12:59isn't filed in time and they kick her out. Like, she'd go back to Brazil and we'd have to
13:05restart the process over, reapply. But that'd just be devastating. To me, the whole family, we've
13:12come this far. It's been six years. Finally, it's working out and then she's away from us again. I just, I don't even want to go there.
13:20Yeah, it would just destroy everything.
13:36So, we're a plural family. My husband and I aren't legally married any longer. But we brought a woman here from Brazil.
13:49And she's on a K-1 visa. And her and Garrick are tomorrow going to the courthouse to get the marriage
13:57certificate and everything.
14:00Okay.
14:03I feel definitely vulnerable and nervous. I'm thinking about my kids. I'm thinking about not only my kids, but the rest of my family.
14:10I mean, our house is in Garrick's name. Our construction company is in his name. And so, we need the prenup first.
14:16This could be a total disaster and that Lorena could take advantage of Garrick and I and our family.
14:22Okay. And then would I just call you back on this number?
14:27That would truly be devastating. I don't even know what words to describe how that would make me feel.
14:33Nick always says he just wants everybody to be okay. And that everybody includes you.
14:47I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling like I'm worthless.
14:55Your insecurities are unfounded. They're baseless.
15:00How are you?
15:01Good. How are you?
15:02Tonight, I'm going out to dinner with Jackie to talk about my boundary.
15:05Cheers.
15:06Cheers.
15:07Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
15:11I figured this would be a conversation to have between, like, woman to woman.
15:16Tough topic, really.
15:20Do you want to sit? Yeah. Blueberries?
15:38Grapes?
15:40Okay. Come on, bud. Let's go play.
15:47Yesel's been gone for a while and with each travel for work, it just gets harder and harder and harder.
15:57Let's go. Let's go. Let's go.
15:59There's a new challenge. There's a new tantrum.
16:02Don't fight. Oh, see?
16:05There it is.
16:07Every day.
16:09I have so much going on. The kids work.
16:11What's the matter?
16:13A boo-boo?
16:14A boo-boo?
16:15This one?
16:16And just maintaining my sanity?
16:20To do it all alone.
16:30Mommy's Gonna Build is pretty exhausting.
16:34Daddy texted us. Do you want to see what he said?
16:36Yeah.
16:37Yeah.
16:38Ooh, it's a video.
16:39Can I turn it on?
16:40Sure.
16:41Daddy.
16:42Hey, man.
16:44Oh, man.
16:46I just, I miss you guys terribly.
16:49I'm just feeling a little lonely today, and I, just one of those days where I really, really wish I was, I was just home instead of being away from you.
16:58I'm missing him.
16:59I'm missing him a lot.
17:00I hear his voice, and I wish it was right next to me instead of in front of me on a screen.
17:07I hope you and the boys are doing good out there at home right now.
17:10You know, I'm sure they, they like to test your patience a little bit, so I miss them.
17:14I wish I was the one that was at home reminding them who's in charge.
17:18Although they're not listening to me either, so.
17:20Hmm, keywords either.
17:22I'm getting emotional about it now, but it's like, it's guilty because I want him to be home, and he wants to be home.
17:28I'm glad, uh, it's a good thing, I mean, I guess we, uh, you know, we met Jackie when we did.
17:32You know, you're, I'm sure you're, you guys have been spending some time together, getting to know each other, developing that friendship, which is great.
17:38You know, I can't wait to hang out with the both of you.
17:42The goal of having a sister wife for us is for someone to also be here for me when Yesel isn't here.
17:49To share parenting responsibilities, provide the level of intimacy and attachment that I'm looking for.
17:57Someone who's there for me in an emotional and supportive way.
18:02I love you, and I miss you, and I can't wait to see you.
18:05I know Jackie and Yesel have been texting daily, but Jackie and I really haven't communicated at all with each other.
18:14Jackie has texted me checking in, has asked if we can hang out a couple times.
18:19And I've definitely been stalling because we do have to talk about the whole baby issue.
18:26I thought it was so nice of daddy.
18:30I did reach out to her to set up a dinner to talk about my boundary.
18:34My fear is the longer that I hold out on speaking to her, the more attached her and Yesel are going to get.
18:42And, you know, if this conversation doesn't go well, the more feelings are going to get hurt between her and him.
18:50Can I have a hug? I just miss daddy.
18:54Okay. Thank you.
18:56Okay. Thank you.
18:58Okay. Okay, boss.
19:00Okay, boss. Let's do it.
19:02All right, the pancakes are done.
19:18The meat is basically done.
19:22Guys, look what came today.
19:28Today we are going to be giving Nick the special custom boudoir calendar that we made.
19:34And we want to make it extra special.
19:36So we are making him breakfast in bed and all of us girls are going to take it downstairs and give him the breakfast and give him the calendar and do a big reveal.
19:44I think he's going to love it.
19:46Yes, I think he's going to be very, very appreciative and feel very special.
19:52When I first saw the photos, I had a hard time with them.
19:54I think I was comparing myself to April and Jenny.
19:58You know, I am a little bit older.
20:00I have some past trauma with some past relationships where, you know, we'd get into arguments and they would, you know, call me ugly or old or washed up or things to hurt my feelings.
20:12And that's one thing I appreciate about Nick is even if he's upset with me, he's not belittling me or putting me down and making me feel less than worthy to be here.
20:21We're going to have to do the whipped cream.
20:25We know that Teresa has had a lot of trauma that she's had to work through and is still working through.
20:31And it creates a lot of self-esteem issues, a lot of her beating herself up.
20:38And so, unfortunately, we have seen quite a bit of her negative self-talk.
20:44Let's go.
20:46And it can just kind of create a bad energy in the house.
20:51Oh, hello.
20:52Hi.
20:53Good morning.
20:54Good morning.
20:55What's going on?
20:56Here.
20:57Hi, everybody.
20:58Oh, boy.
20:59We have a surprise for you.
21:00Oh, wow.
21:01Looky here.
21:02Breakfast and thanks for Nikki.
21:06Oh, this looks lovely.
21:08Thank you so much.
21:09You got some whipped cream on my pancakes.
21:11Yes.
21:12This is the kind of thing that in this situation, I mean, I just wake up living a dream every day.
21:20I mean, it's just so much to be thankful for with the way our situation is set up.
21:25It's definitely something special for me to be involved with.
21:29We have another surprise for you, too, though.
21:31There's something else going on other than the breakfast and dinner, huh?
21:33Yeah.
21:34Hold on.
21:35Hold on.
21:36Let's show you real quick.
21:37It's obviously a calendar, and we made it for you.
21:42Yeah.
21:43It was Theresa's idea.
21:44Oh, wow.
21:45Oh, my ladies.
21:46This is beautiful.
21:47What?
21:48We had so much fun.
21:49Oh, my babies.
21:50It's a nice treat for me, for sure.
21:51Oh, my goodness.
21:52Oh, my things.
21:53Whoa.
21:54I like sexy ladies, yes.
21:55I like my women to be beautiful and intelligent.
21:56Yeah.
21:57They have to be both in capacities that are greater than mine.
22:13That's not easy to do.
22:14So, you know, I have a very high standard.
22:17So, yeah, I like sexy women, for sure.
22:22Oh, my babies.
22:23I love you all so much.
22:25I might have found my favorite picture.
22:29See, Theresa, I told you you didn't have anything to worry about.
22:32Look, she's crying.
22:34These are happy tears.
22:36Worry about?
22:37What could there possibly have been to be worried about?
22:40I was just feeling a little insecure that day in my lingerie,
22:44and thinking I wasn't going to look that beautiful for you.
22:48And, um...
22:49You're beautiful, Theresa.
22:51I mean, I hope at some point you really do come to realize that your insecurities are unfounded.
23:00They're baseless.
23:01You don't need to let those things prevent you from enjoying yourself and your experience, Theresa.
23:08And not just in regards to a photo shoot or something, but just in terms of our life together and our relationship overall.
23:16You need no armor here.
23:17You know?
23:18Take...
23:19Put your shield down and just go ahead and relax and just allow yourself to just...
23:23Enjoy the ride.
23:25Enjoy the ride, Theresa.
23:27Theresa.
23:28You know, Theresa, Nick always says that he just wants everybody to be okay and that everybody includes you.
23:45You know, I just wish you knew that.
23:49I do feel like I'm trapped in a cycle of ups and downs of feeling amazing about myself and then days feeling like I'm worthless.
23:57And, um, I feel bad because Nick is constantly always reassuring me and I hope that I can get to a point in my life at some time where I'm as confident as the other girls are.
24:09I think what I'm needing, you know, in this relationship to feel more secure in our bond is definitely I would love to change my last name to Davis.
24:20The reason that Theresa wants to change her last name is because she thinks that's going to fix her emotionally.
24:27She thinks that's going to make her feel better about all the things that she needs to address within herself.
24:33And it's not, it's not going to fix those things.
24:36I know it sounds crazy, but I really want to get a tattoo of all of you on my thigh.
24:41It just shows, like, permanence.
24:44Like, I'm not going anywhere.
24:45I know you guys aren't going anywhere.
24:47And it just will represent, like, that this is forever.
24:51I definitely feel like we're kind of in a tough spot right now with Theresa.
24:56Just because our love for her is truly genuine.
24:59And we also recognize that her love for us is authentic.
25:03But the relationship she has with herself is just so problematic that it could potentially be a reason why this situation doesn't work out between us.
25:17All right, so that was fun.
25:35So, what did you think?
25:37Oh my goodness.
25:38What Ashley offered?
25:40That's so selfless.
25:41Like, she's already given her eggs.
25:45Yeah.
25:46And now she's saying that she would carry for us?
25:49Who does that?
25:50I mean, do you think Ashley's offer could possibly eliminate, like, these struggles that we're having, though?
25:56Would we just, like, drop the whole idea of a sister wife?
25:59Like, it does sound really tempting because I'll be honest, it's been really stressful, this search.
26:05So, it would be really easy just to be, like, done.
26:11Yeah.
26:12Now, hey, you know?
26:13I can't help but feel guilty about everything because this was initially my idea.
26:18And he's now the one who's going through it.
26:22It's all just been a lot for Reese.
26:24And there's a lot of pressure on him.
26:26I mean, it could be a solution.
26:34I would, I just, I don't know.
26:37Like, honestly, the first thing that came to mind was, like, I love that and that she would offer that.
26:43But that's, that's not why we're seeking a sister wife is just to have a baby, right?
26:50Right.
26:51And at the end of the day, like, we want more babies, but we also, like, we want more adults, too, though, you know?
26:57Like, we don't just, like, want 100 babies with just us.
27:00Like, we want...
27:01No, no.
27:02That's why we, that's why we want a community family.
27:04Like, that we all take care of each other and we all help each other.
27:07That's the whole point of it.
27:09I feel like if we gave up right now, I'd be a little disappointed.
27:12I feel like, like, we wouldn't have put, you know, our full potential on the line.
27:16And I feel like we have an amazing family to offer up and we're open to loving another family.
27:25I'm not done.
27:26I feel like this is something we can do.
27:27I really do believe in it.
27:28I believe in you.
27:29I believe that you can get it done and you can find someone.
27:33All right.
27:34So, I mean, we're still doing this, right?
27:36Yeah.
27:37You know, that is kind of just good knowing moving forward that she has offered that up.
27:43And, if we, you know, maybe need to utilize that, that it's, it's an option.
27:47Exactly.
28:01Oh, we're good timing!
28:02How are you?
28:03How are you?
28:04Good.
28:05It's nice to see you.
28:06Nice to see you.
28:08Tonight I'm going out to dinner with Jackie.
28:10We haven't really seen each other since Yassil left,
28:12but we do have some heavy topics that we need to discuss,
28:16and it's better done in person.
28:18I've actually never been here.
28:19Me either. It's so cute, though.
28:21I'm excited.
28:22Talking to her about essentially me not allowing her
28:27to have a baby with my husband.
28:29So pretty.
28:32I mean, even saying it sounds harsh.
28:34Never mind hearing it.
28:36Cheers.
28:38Definitely nervous to actually vocalize it to her.
28:45But it's definitely something that needs to be said.
28:49You're welcome.
28:51No.
28:53So how have you been since Yassil's been gone?
28:57It's like a learned difficulty.
29:01So for me, it's like...
29:03Yeah, you've been through it before.
29:04Part of the gig, you know?
29:06Right.
29:07He does his best in, like, checking in with me
29:09and, like, how I'm feeling and how my day is going.
29:14I do feel like I'm getting closer to Yassil,
29:17although the distance has been very difficult.
29:19Every day that we get to talk, we get to learn more about each other.
29:24But since Yassil's been gone, Dani has completely distanced and removed herself.
29:30There was many times where I've tried to reach out to be there for her and just kind of, like, still, you know, have our relationship aside from Yassil and I's relationship.
29:41And I just felt shut out.
29:44So now that Yassil is away, I figured this would be a conversation to have between, like, woman to woman.
29:52Right.
29:53So I know the last time we talked about kids, you definitely want more.
29:59Yeah.
29:59And I wanted to be completely transparent and open about how that would look for me and, like, the boundary that I do have.
30:11You know, I've told you I'm more than open to another baby and raising another baby.
30:17Like, I have no problem going through all the phases again, and I love it with my whole heart.
30:22However, the one, like, boundary I have with it is I don't think—tough topic, really.
30:36I don't think I'm able to handle him having another baby biologically with another woman.
30:52Can I ask, like, why or, like, what stemmed this?
31:22You know, I've always wanted a girl.
31:28I didn't get my girl, which is fine.
31:29I love my boys.
31:30But my body's done.
31:32It would be way too high risk.
31:34So if another woman was to have Yassil's biological baby and that baby were to be a girl, I would feel robbed of an experience, I guess, in a way.
31:49Because it's not my girl.
31:51Like, why couldn't I do this for him?
31:56So, with that being said, I'd be open to, like, exploring other options to have a baby.
32:05Like, what would the other options be?
32:08Um, I've given a lot of thought to a donor.
32:15Have you talked to Yassil about that?
32:17Mm-hmm.
32:17What's he said?
32:19I think he understands that if he does want more kids in the family, then that's how it's got to happen, I guess.
32:29I did not see this coming, honestly.
32:38I mean, all of my conversations with Dani previously about children have been, you know, that she was going to be a very much supportive part of that.
32:50So, this definitely took me by surprise.
32:55My fear, ultimately, is that there's not that excitement that you would have conceiving a baby naturally.
33:02Right.
33:03Right.
33:03That would be the last thing I would want.
33:06I feel like this is totally unfair to Yassil.
33:14He's always emphasizing how he would love to have more kids.
33:18I do think this is selfish of Dani.
33:22I feel a little bit hurt, and I would be lying if I didn't, you know, tell you that.
33:29I mean, I kind of feel like you guys should have, like, talked to me about this.
33:36When we first started talking.
33:39I did want to bring it up sooner, but I did want it to be a conversation between you and I without Yassil present, which, unfortunate that we're, like, this deep in, and we have to have it now.
33:52If you were in my shoes, like, would you think that this was fair?
33:57No.
34:00I'll always think there is a degree of unfairness.
34:03Like, please don't think I don't think that.
34:05And I feel guilty about it.
34:07Yeah, Dani, like, I honestly, I really don't think this is fair.
34:11Like, you know, to, like, bring somebody else into the picture and just make, like, a decision solely based on your comfort.
34:21I mean, my intentions have been very clear since day one.
34:29I've asked about their boundaries.
34:32I've, this was never mentioned to me.
34:34So the fact that, you know, my feelings were taken into consideration for me feels incredibly selfish.
34:40You know, finding a partner that would be, like, open to having, like, more kids biologically.
34:47Like, that's probably what's going to be best for me.
34:52I think right now I just need to remove myself from this.
34:57Um.
34:57I can respect that.
35:02I appreciate that.
35:05Dani has some insecurities that she needs to address before trying to seek a sister-way.
35:13I'll help with your back.
35:16You're welcome.
35:16I'm kind of disappointed because I was so vulnerable with them.
35:23I'm leaving very much hurt.
35:26It sucks.
35:29And it sucks that I have to go home and tell Yesel that this is how this turned out because I don't think that's the outcome he wanted.
35:38There is a very good possibility that he's going to be disappointed.
35:41One of my biggest fears in seeking a sister-wife was disappointing both parties and it's coming true.
35:51So I feel a lot of guilt and a little bit of shame to it because I don't, I don't want to be the problem and it feels like I'm the problem.
36:07We need the prenup first.
36:09Oh.
36:10Oh.
36:10Um.
36:14Not comfortable.
36:16Lorena?
36:30Sister?
36:31We're coming down.
36:33We started working on the prenup like three weeks ago and yesterday Geric realized when he got like to the end of it
36:38Um, that it's really important that it's translated into Portuguese but the lawyer that I thought was going to work with us she said she's not a certified translator.
36:48Hopefully we can get it figured out because I think it's very important to have this in place before they legally get married.
36:54So the lawyer's office told me she doesn't feel comfortable because she's not a certified translator and because just the time frame involved.
37:04She said there's no way it would be done tomorrow from what she's telling me.
37:08Did you tell her we already have the document?
37:11I told her we have the document.
37:13I told her that.
37:14We need to get the marriage license immediately over to the immigration lawyer.
37:20The key is the prenup.
37:21The key is the prenup.
37:22We actually have to have her adjustment of status done or she can be deported.
37:27Well, I mean worst case scenario, I guess there's a something, there's such a thing this law firm in Colorado says, you know, I've never even heard of a post-marital agreement.
37:43So that's after, right?
37:45I don't feel comfortable with that.
37:50You risk if one party doesn't want to sign at that point.
37:55They don't have to and you're already legally married.
38:00We need the prenup first.
38:02We need the prenup first.
38:09I don't understand.
38:10I'm not comfortable.
38:11I don't understand.
38:12I'm not comfortable with that.
38:13I don't understand.
38:14I'm not comfortable with that.
38:15Yes?
38:16Why?
38:17It puts me in a vulnerable spot if things aren't done right.
38:21If he's married with me, it's because he believes in me.
38:25I don't want to give up what they were.
38:31They've worked for years.
38:34But now that I've arrived, we're going to start a new chapter together.
38:44You're okay.
38:46I don't know.
38:48Yeah?
38:56Lorena is definitely my sister and I trust her.
38:58I think it's just like the scars of the past too with, especially Roberta mainly.
39:04And like people do things you never thought they would do, you know?
39:07Like I don't want the K-1 visa to expire and Lorena to be deported.
39:13But I also want to think about myself and my kids and all the moving parts too, so.
39:28We should research another law firm to see.
39:30We just need to get this all figured out soon, so I think we should call another one.
39:36We have to get married tomorrow, but the prenuptial agreement has to be translated today.
39:42Do I postpone the wedding and take the chance of Lorena being deported?
39:47Or do I go ahead and get married to Lorena without a prenup and put at risk what me and Danielle have built the last 17 years?
39:59The way things are, I'm going to have to choose between my two wives.
40:02Randy?
40:03Yes.
40:04I'm Reese.
40:05Nice to meet you.
40:06Nice to meet you too.
40:07This is the second blind date that Nikki has set us up on.
40:09So is it going to be sexual too?
40:10I mean, it's part of it.
40:11Really?
40:12Yeah, so.
40:13The conversations were a little heavy.
40:17I'm just dreading breaking the news about what happened with Jackie.
40:18How did it go last night?
40:19She didn't like it.
40:20She felt that it was unfair.
40:24It's been a nightmare today.
40:29We're trying to do the past, but we're trying to do the past.
40:32We're trying to do the past.
40:33It's a good day that Nikki has set us up on.
40:34So is it going to be sexual too?
40:35I mean, it's part of it.
40:36Really?
40:37Yeah, so.
40:38The conversations were a little heavy.
40:39I'm just dreading breaking the news about what happened with Jackie.
40:42How did it go last night?
40:43She didn't like it.
40:44She felt that it was unfair.
40:45Well, that kind of sucks now, does it?
40:46We're trying to do the prenup today.
40:49I have some concerns.
40:50Garrick and I have a business together, and if the prenup doesn't get signed properly,
40:54I could end up not having anything.
40:59This is amazing.
41:00This is gorgeous.
41:02Matt invited me out tonight.
41:03I'm still really resentful that he has not reached out in as long as he has.
41:09Part of me is smitten that you put the effort in, but then the other part is like, is it too late?
41:16Is it too late?
41:17Is it too late?
41:18Is it too late?
41:19Is it too late?
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