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00:00Beating Mother Jo.
00:02Oh, you're joking.
00:03No.
00:04Every day you have to talk to your mom.
00:06It's ridiculous.
00:08Oh, if you're worried about that,
00:09why are you worried about your $20,000 debt that you had?
00:12Things are clearly not going well,
00:14and there's something that I need to talk to Dylan about,
00:17and I think it might make it worse.
00:20How long would it take if we did file the partnership papers
00:24for me to be able to work?
00:27Eight to seven months.
00:28Yeah, it's a long time.
00:30That's a long time.
00:31If you're married, there's no problem.
00:34Jonathan and I have talked about getting married,
00:36but there is no way that it was going to be as soon as tomorrow.
00:41Well, I think at the end of the day,
00:42it's something to think about
00:43so we can be together in the end.
00:48I don't, like, think I love you anymore.
00:54Nothing could have prepared me for those words.
00:56That's the saddest part.
00:59There was no fight.
01:00No.
01:01Your fight's just begun, sir.
01:03I think you should have a talk with her.
01:09Oh, my God, let's get up.
01:13This is not the way I want to start my weekend wearing.
01:17I do feel dizzy and weird.
01:22I told you so many times,
01:23we even be careful when we have sex.
01:26Are you telling me that you're pregnant right now?
01:28Yes, and I have a text.
01:30I don't know, but I'm not scared.
01:55Maybe we could take a look at the possibilities.
02:02After tennis, Batia and I had a big fight
02:05about my relationship with my mum.
02:07I don't want the constant stress and the arguments,
02:10so I told her I can sort of meet her halfway
02:13with some boundaries,
02:14but my mum's going to be a part of our lives,
02:18so Batia needs to stop letting it get to her so much,
02:22you know?
02:25G'day, mate.
02:26How you going?
02:26How the bloody hell are you?
02:27Well, a long time, mate.
02:29It's a strong hand trick you've got there, mate.
02:36After you, come on, sir.
02:37All right.
02:39Ever since Batia arrived in town,
02:41like every day,
02:42she keeps asking me,
02:43when are you going to propose?
02:45G'day, guys.
02:46I'm here to get a ring polished.
02:48Certainly.
02:49So today I'm going with my buddy Chris
02:51to a jewellery store.
02:52To get the engagement ring
02:55that I gave Batia shined up
02:57so that when I'm ready to propose,
03:00it looks brand new.
03:02Beautiful.
03:03You like that, do you?
03:04Family allure?
03:05Eh, not quite.
03:07He did actually give it to
03:09his partner.
03:12Yes.
03:12Before, and then he took it back.
03:14That's right.
03:15Yeah.
03:15It's a complicated relationship.
03:20The first time I proposed to Batia,
03:23it was very lacklustre.
03:24You know, we were in bed,
03:26it was Christmas morning,
03:27and I just slipped the ring on her finger,
03:28and she said yes.
03:30I mean, I feel like
03:32that's got a bit of history behind it.
03:34Are you sure you don't want to look at other rings?
03:36No, I don't.
03:37There is so much history
03:38and so many memories.
03:40So, like, it still has a sentimental value.
03:42I definitely don't want to trade it in.
03:44You don't want to trade it in?
03:45Definitely not.
03:46Perfect.
03:47And then, uh,
03:50give it a clean and polish.
03:51Perfect.
03:52Go grab a coffee.
03:53All right.
03:55After I proposed,
03:57we'd be breaking up
03:58every three or four weeks.
04:00And, um,
04:02at one point,
04:02Batia's spending got so bad,
04:04she started selling all her jewellery
04:07just to fund her shopping habit.
04:09And I thought,
04:11she's going to pawn that.
04:13So,
04:14I took the ring back.
04:15She saw that as, you know,
04:16we're no longer engaged,
04:18which is fair enough.
04:20Okay.
04:21So, the ring.
04:22Yes.
04:23Ten years ago,
04:24you gave her the ring.
04:25And you've been holding on
04:26to that ring ever since.
04:28Yeah.
04:29You haven't proposed to her again?
04:32No, because I'm,
04:33I'm trying to fix all these issues.
04:36I don't know, 12 years.
04:37I feel like if you haven't
04:38fixed something after 12 years,
04:40how many more years
04:41is it going to take for you to fix?
04:45I'm not giving up.
04:47Hmm, okay.
04:49I'm just worried
04:49about the personality clash.
04:51You live together in Thailand.
04:53Yes.
04:53So, what happened there?
04:54Why,
04:54why did that not work out?
04:57In the beginning,
04:57it was magical.
04:58And then after a while,
05:00she was miserable,
05:02I wasn't giving her enough money,
05:03and she just,
05:05she just hated it.
05:08I just thought she would be happy
05:10living that life,
05:13that retired...
05:14Lifestyle.
05:14...beach lifestyle.
05:15But she,
05:16that wasn't enough for her.
05:18And her life has been
05:20fast-paced.
05:22Fast money,
05:23fast living.
05:24How is she going to be happy here?
05:26Long term.
05:28Honestly,
05:28think about that.
05:30She's in a foreign country.
05:31She's got no family
05:32or friends here.
05:34She's just going to be
05:35happy,
05:36hanging around
05:36in Launceston.
05:39But the thing is,
05:41there's a certain limit.
05:42You can't do that
05:43all your life.
05:43You know,
05:44she's approaching...
05:45An age.
05:46An age.
05:47She's getting older.
05:48She can't live that
05:49fast-paced life forever.
05:51I don't know.
05:52Once you're used to something,
05:53it's hard to,
05:54to change,
05:57you know.
05:58I've known Dylan
05:59always to be pretty stubborn.
06:00Like,
06:01he won't change
06:01what he eats,
06:02for example.
06:03It's only chicken and rice.
06:04I tried to get him
06:04to eat a cookie,
06:05wouldn't even need a cookie.
06:06I mean,
06:07he's pretty stubborn.
06:07He won't,
06:08he won't change anything.
06:09So,
06:09I'm worried that
06:10Dylan's stubbornness
06:12is causing him
06:13to live in a family.
06:13fantasy
06:14and not deal
06:15with reality.
06:16I don't think
06:17a ring on the finger
06:18is going to be
06:19the thing
06:21that fixes everything.
06:22I love her.
06:24I just can't
06:25see myself
06:25with anyone else.
06:27I'm not saying...
06:27I'm not even attracted
06:28to anyone else.
06:29I just want her.
06:31Look,
06:32I'm only saying
06:33this because
06:34I care about you
06:36as a friend.
06:38I love Patia.
06:40I know she makes
06:41you very happy.
06:41but
06:43your idea
06:44of happily ever after
06:45is a bit delusional.
06:49I don't think
06:50you've really thought
06:50about the long-term plan.
06:55Chris's concerns
06:56are valid.
06:57Patia and I
06:58still have a lot
06:59of issues
06:59to work through.
07:00but I am feeling
07:02optimistic about
07:03the future
07:04with Patia.
07:05She's come to Australia
07:07and she's given it
07:08a good go
07:08and she's trying
07:10to resolve things
07:11with my mother.
07:12So I think
07:12that's massive, really.
07:14I feel like
07:14it is different now.
07:17Think about it.
07:18I'm confused.
07:43Are you telling me
07:43that you're pregnant
07:44right now?
07:45I can't be.
07:50Holy
07:51this stresses me
07:53out right now.
07:55You don't know
07:56how I'm scared
07:58and stressful I am.
08:01I didn't expect
08:02you to say
08:04that you actually
08:05think that you're pregnant.
08:05I really like
08:12so scared about
08:13if he's positive
08:14because if I have a baby
08:16like I need
08:17to have a spellability.
08:20Stability is the only
08:21thing that I really
08:22ever wanted.
08:24I'm talking about
08:25you don't give it to me
08:26so how are we
08:27going to get
08:28our children
08:29to the war
08:30when you and me
08:31fighting all the time
08:32when you
08:33cheating of me
08:34like how?
08:36I hope that we
08:37can work on
08:38this relationship
08:38but right now
08:39I'm not confident
08:40that we're working.
08:41We talked yesterday.
08:42Hey, like,
08:43are we compatible?
08:44Can we not fight?
08:45And all we've done
08:45is continue to fight.
08:48Who made the fight today?
08:50I didn't try
08:50and fight today.
08:51I said please.
08:54I don't want
08:55to argue.
08:59Do you want
08:59to go try this?
09:00No.
09:02Leave me alone.
09:04I want to know.
09:11I don't know.
09:22You think I'm happy?
09:25Like, you know,
09:26there's a situation
09:26I should be happy.
09:28You look at me happy.
09:30Let's please try
09:30and be happy about this.
09:31Please.
09:32Can we take the time?
09:32See, you think I am like,
09:33you're going to change
09:34your emotions so easy.
09:35Like, how I can
09:36be happy if I am
09:38two days
09:39to supposedly
09:40get married.
09:41If you are pregnant
09:44and we're going
09:49to have a baby,
09:50then this means
09:51that we're having
09:52a family, Madeline.
09:59Can we please
10:00take this test?
10:01No.
10:01Please.
10:09Please, Madeline.
10:10I am not ready
10:23to get the text,
10:26but it's something
10:27like I have to do.
10:30I need to know
10:31what is going on.
10:32This is a good
10:40opportunity for you
10:41to show me
10:42that you're ready
10:42to really take
10:43a serious step.
10:45If you wouldn't
10:46put a ring on my finger
10:47today,
10:48in a sense,
10:48you're not in love
10:49with me.
10:49Like, you're in love
10:50with also an idea.
10:51I feel like this is
10:52a test if I'm actually
10:54wife material or not.
10:58You broke his heart,
10:59Ressa.
11:00You might think
11:01that it's done,
11:01with he wonders
11:03whether you just
11:04need some time.
11:06I know.
11:27Such a beautiful beach,
11:28huh?
11:30It is really pretty.
11:32It's been a few days
11:33since Jonathan and I
11:34have met with the lawyers
11:35and found out that
11:36the fastest and easiest
11:37way for me to stay here
11:38is to get married,
11:40and we're still kind of
11:41processing that information.
11:43I don't think your leg
11:44can support me.
11:45Oh, really?
11:46Come on.
11:47I've been eating a lot.
11:49Yeah?
11:49I don't want to step
11:49on your shoe.
11:50Let's go.
11:51Ow!
11:52I thought giving up
11:53everything and moving
11:54to another country was a lot,
11:55but adding this on top of it
11:56is like, bang.
11:58Do we miss the sunset
12:00or is it just cloudy?
12:02It's a bit cloudy today.
12:04Anyway,
12:05me and Maria are going to
12:06have meatball night tomorrow.
12:08What does meatball night mean?
12:10Are you going to actually
12:11go to a restaurant
12:12and eat meatballs
12:12or are you going to like...
12:13It's just like a girly,
12:15fun night.
12:16Like, it's just where
12:17we can just act stupid
12:18and be in meatballs.
12:19Go to dinner,
12:20have a drink.
12:22Okay.
12:22And be...
12:22It's called
12:23a meatball night.
12:23One drink.
12:26Have a drink.
12:28Maria is my best friend
12:30on the island.
12:31Jonathan doesn't like
12:32when I go out with Maria
12:33because we like to drink.
12:36We like to be stupid.
12:38We like to randomly karaoke.
12:39We like to, like,
12:40climb palm trees
12:41and just do
12:42really harmless things.
12:45With that being said,
12:46if I'm being unrealistic
12:48about something
12:49that happened with Jonathan,
12:50Maria is always the one
12:51to reel me in
12:52and be like,
12:53don't put up with it.
12:54And I think that
12:56makes Jonathan a little nervous.
12:59I don't know
12:59where we're going
12:59to go to dinner yet.
13:00Maybe one of our
13:01go-to spots.
13:04Yeah, well,
13:05we'll find a spot
13:06where we can go to dinner.
13:08Well, I think
13:09me and Maria
13:10are just going to go to dinner
13:11and then...
13:12I'm not going to go?
13:14That's why
13:14it's a meatball night.
13:16Oh.
13:18We were going
13:18to invite you afterwards.
13:20Well, no,
13:22I don't want you
13:23to be, like,
13:24worried about it,
13:25you know?
13:26I know, but
13:26I have a lot of worries
13:27when Maria is here
13:29because when you guys
13:30get together,
13:30it's a real get-together,
13:32you know what I mean?
13:33You guys go all out.
13:36Yeah, but I think
13:37I've chilled out a lot.
13:39Maria,
13:39I met a few years back.
13:41We had the same friends,
13:42you know,
13:42we'd hang out sometimes.
13:44When I introduced Chloe,
13:45they clicked automatically.
13:47It was like the next day,
13:48Chloe was telling me,
13:48I'm going to hang out
13:49with Maria every day now.
13:51The thing about Maria
13:52is that she works abroad,
13:53so when she comes
13:54to Ruby,
13:55she only wants to look
13:55for a party,
13:57you know,
13:57and I don't like that at all.
14:00Now that, you know,
14:01you're living here
14:01on the island and stuff,
14:02this is a good opportunity
14:04for you to show me
14:05that you're mature
14:06and ready
14:07to really take
14:08a serious step.
14:10You know,
14:10I'm not going to go out
14:11and, you know,
14:12go dance on top of the bar
14:14and, you know,
14:15be crazy.
14:15Like, that's not something
14:16that's respectable
14:17from either of our parts.
14:18Like, I wouldn't do that.
14:20I just don't want you
14:21to want to change,
14:22like, so much about me
14:24to the point where, like,
14:25like, if you wouldn't put
14:26a ring on my finger today,
14:28in a sense,
14:28you're not in love with me.
14:29Like, you're in love
14:30with also an idea
14:31of what, like,
14:32the future can look like
14:34when you have to be
14:35okay with me now also.
14:37Okay.
14:37It's just, um,
14:42I'm used to you
14:43when you're going out
14:43and going heavy.
14:44You know what I mean?
14:45Right, and I think
14:46that's more vacation mode.
14:47Okay, so just,
14:48I want to see
14:49how this mode's going to be,
14:50okay?
14:51So this is the opportunity
14:52to show me, like,
14:52what kind of mode
14:53you're in, okay?
14:55Okay.
14:58I know Jonathan
14:59doesn't like
15:00that I like to go out
15:01and have drinks,
15:02but I feel like
15:03this is more of a test
15:04if I'm actually
15:05wife material or not.
15:06Now that we're
15:07talking about it
15:08more and more,
15:09I can't really tell
15:09if Jonathan wants this
15:10or not.
15:11I feel like he's
15:11throwing up all these
15:12little, little roadblocks
15:14and, like, high obstacles
15:15that I can't jump over
15:18to stall the process.
15:20You're going to let me
15:21live a little.
15:22Okay.
15:23Understood.
15:24Just don't go too crazy.
15:25Okay?
15:26You're not going to go
15:26too crazy.
15:27I'm still a little
15:28crazy.
15:29You are.
15:30Very crazy.
15:30I'm going to 1 to 10.
15:329.
15:32I wouldn't say that
15:33about you.
15:33What would you say
15:34about that?
15:3510.
15:36So bad.
15:49Searching for the star.
15:53Searching for the star.
15:56Who will I find my way
16:00back home?
16:02Will I find my way
16:04back home?
16:05I was able to fall asleep, but I did wake up a few times.
16:13I was just kind of, like, spiraling about everything that happened.
16:22The other night, I ended my engagement with Matthew,
16:26and slipping the engagement ring off my finger
16:31made the breakup feel very real to me.
16:37And I am filled with immense sadness
16:40because an engagement is a promise,
16:42and I am breaking a promise, and that doesn't feel very good.
16:48Matthew's dad has texted me and wants to talk with me.
16:54I feel really nervous about it
16:56because I don't know how he feels about the breakup.
16:59It's going to be difficult
17:01because I know it's going to be emotional,
17:04but I really do hope that the conversation ends amicably.
17:12Matthew's parents were so excited for me to move
17:15and to join the family,
17:16and it really makes me feel guilty.
17:19Hi, Greta.
17:36Mark, how are you?
17:39I'm OK, how are you?
17:40OK.
17:41I'm sorry.
17:42I just thought we'd just catch up with each other
17:50because, obviously, a lot's happened,
17:52and I just want to try and find out where you are
17:57because I can't understand what's happened,
18:01and I'm struggling to put it together.
18:03Matthew's father, Matthew's, and I've never seen him like it, Greta,
18:10and I'm worried about him because he loves you.
18:15I know.
18:16He does, and you broke his heart, Greta, literally.
18:20And that's, like, the worst part about it all,
18:24and that's why I was, like, struggling so much
18:26because, like, I, like, really don't want to hurt him
18:29because it's so difficult to explain.
18:35I did love him so much,
18:37and I was so excited to talk to him all the time.
18:40I was so excited to see him,
18:41and so I'm confused, like,
18:46why I don't, like, feel like I love him,
18:50like, in love with him.
18:51Is that because you've had so much happening
18:53in the last few months?
18:55You forgot how to live almost, haven't you?
18:57Because you've been studying, studying, studying, studying.
19:01I mean, I know that there was a shift
19:04because I felt like we were not evolving into people
19:08that were still compatible with each other,
19:11and I wish, like, I could change my feelings.
19:16Like, like, he's a great person.
19:20Like, he, like, I respect him so much.
19:23He's, like, helped me so much in life.
19:25Like, I truly just, like, only want him to be happy.
19:29He wonders whether you just need some time
19:31because you don't forget you've just travelled
19:33across halfway over the world.
19:35You've probably not slept properly.
19:37He's prepared to give you your time and your space.
19:39Yeah.
19:40What worries me is that you've not had time together.
19:43You've not been on your own.
19:45So, yeah, you might think that, yeah, it's done,
19:47and you say it is, but let's be honest,
19:50it's only been four days.
19:52There's not been given a chance to go any further because...
19:56I know it seems, like, sudden,
19:58and I know this just sounds, like, crazy,
20:00but I just know it in my instinct, like, that...
20:03that, like, he's not my person.
20:09It's such a shame, you know?
20:11And, like, my honest truth,
20:13which, like, you can accept or not,
20:15I just, like, know I can't make him happy.
20:18And I just, like, hate that I did this to you guys,
20:22and you guys, like, welcomed me with open arms.
20:24Like, it really meant the world to me,
20:26and, like, thank you, because...
20:28We did, too.
20:28We loved you, Greta.
20:31Yeah.
20:31And we really fought a lot of you.
20:33I do think I've got clarity from Greta.
20:42I don't think there's any hope for Matthew
20:44and Greta at this stage.
20:48I don't understand it.
20:49I can see she's rationalising it in her mind
20:52why she's doing it, and she's justifying it.
20:55But I'm the one who's got to pick up the pieces with my son.
21:00Matthew's always loved you,
21:01and he always probably will for a long time.
21:03Still to come.
21:06Just wish I had a different ending.
21:08Yeah.
21:14I'm nerding my life.
21:16Take a dex of Breta.
21:20We're struggling to cross the finish line
21:23on us getting married,
21:24let alone starting a family together.
21:27I'm really so scared.
21:30I...
21:31I...
21:35I...
21:38I...
21:42...
21:42I never in my life take a dexter of pregnant and I never think I'm going to be like this.
22:12I'm scared of this.
22:18I mean we're struggling to cross the finish line on us getting married let alone starting
22:23a family together.
22:30What do you want to be?
22:49Honestly I think like right now the right time for us to have a baby probably not but
22:57it's something that I want with you.
22:59You are the person that I want to be the mother of my children because I love you and I think
23:06that you would be a very good mom whether it's now or in five years is not going to change
23:11how I feel.
23:20What does this mean?
23:26Usually this says pregnant or not pregnant a smile or a sad face or something.
23:31This says one line what does one line mean?
23:35Negative.
23:36This is negative?
23:37That is the result.
23:42But you should be crying.
23:48You don't cry.
23:49That you're negative or positive?
23:54Negative.
23:56It doesn't change how I feel.
23:59I love you and I want this relationship to work.
24:02Yeah me too but in the same way I don't trust you in anything and I'm really so scared.
24:12I just want you to be happy and I don't know that I can make you happy.
24:16I try really hard and I feel like I fail all the time.
24:20You try so hard.
24:21What about the conversation today?
24:23The love of the other we're talking about we shared too.
24:28This is going to be my name.
24:31Okay.
24:32Like one day we're going to have to share everything.
24:36We have a company together.
24:37We have business together.
24:38Everything.
24:39And later, no I don't want to share anymore.
24:42The company is both of us.
24:44In your mind everything is money.
24:53I don't care about money other than the fact that.
24:57Don't.
24:58Other than you.
24:59Every single day mention money.
25:01Every single day mention no you don't push any money in this project.
25:05You don't pay anything.
25:07You never follow me.
25:08I value everything that you do.
25:11But the fact of the matter is I try as much as I can to provide for you and if you would
25:19let me be a man and make manly decisions I'd really appreciate it.
25:28I don't ask much of you just let me do what I need to do to make our dreams a reality.
25:34I know I am not perfect.
25:51I know I am a difficult person and I know I have so many things to do well.
25:56But I just love everything you didn't do well for me.
26:02But at the end of the day I really love you Luke.
26:07I know you do.
26:11And I love you more.
26:16One of my biggest problems in this relationship is always he's yummy.
26:21I don't kind of trust him in anything.
26:24So I really push so hard to push my name on like the property.
26:31Because I don't know if in the future he gonna have to change the woman or change me.
26:35And what they gonna have to do.
26:38But when I tell him maybe I think I get pregnant and he reaction like no I really want a family with you.
26:45It may make me more comfortable about everything's gonna to be good.
26:49And I need to trust him.
26:51I just want you to be happy.
26:56And I'd like for us to be happy together.
26:59Damn.
27:00This is not the first night we met.
27:01I know.
27:02Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:03Absolutely.
27:04If I'm being honest after being here sometimes I miss it.
27:05I want to go back home for like six months and dance that debt off.
27:10You only just got here.
27:11You only just got here.
27:12I just got here.
27:13This is like the first night we met.
27:16I know.
27:17Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
27:19Absolutely.
27:20If I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
27:24I want to go back home for like six months and dance that deck off.
27:30You only just got here.
27:43Step back, get back, I need some more to go.
27:47Wow.
27:49Oh, this is how you do it like a pro.
27:56Hey, hey, hey, hey.
27:59All righty.
28:00Look at that.
28:03I've been here a couple of weeks, and I've been complaining about how there's nothing to do here.
28:07But tonight, Dylan's taking me to a strip club.
28:13I'm excited because that's more my vibe.
28:15I had no idea Tasmania had a strip club.
28:19There's nightlife here in Tasmania.
28:21Something that's open past 10.
28:23OMG.
28:35You think you can do that?
28:36Definitely not.
28:40It's even like the first night we met.
28:42I know, right?
28:43Except you're wearing a little bit less than what you're wearing now.
28:46I know, more clothing.
28:47I know.
28:48This is awesome.
28:50It's a great club.
28:51G'day, g'day.
28:53Hey, beautiful.
28:54Oh, my God, she's hot.
28:56She's definitely good with the pole.
28:59You're loving this, aren't you?
29:02I do.
29:02Giving your elements.
29:03This is the happiest I've seen you since we got here.
29:06Shut up.
29:06Seriously.
29:07Shut up.
29:08I have everything we've done.
29:09Yeah, babe, you know why I love it?
29:11Why?
29:12Tell me.
29:12This is my life.
29:13I've been doing it for 37 years.
29:14It's like my second home.
29:17You know what it's like to perform.
29:18I love it.
29:19You feel good.
29:19Yes.
29:19You get all the, you know, the compliments is awesome.
29:22It's just an adrenaline rush.
29:24Yes, exactly.
29:27Are you glad I'm not in the business anymore?
29:28Absolutely.
29:29Why?
29:31Well, even though, you know, you were happy doing it and it lit you up, it's still not my favourite
29:36thought to have you dancing naked for other guys.
29:40It's not my favourite thing.
29:42But you know it's just work.
29:44Yeah, but I'd rather you do a different job.
29:49I get that he doesn't like me being around other men, but it's just a job and the money
29:54is fantastic.
29:55And if I'm being honest after being here, sometimes I miss it.
30:00It's going to be hard for me not making this kind of money, you know?
30:05I'm going to be totally relying on you.
30:08Yeah?
30:11It scares me sometimes.
30:13I'm just going to have to look at, you know, some of the luxuries that you enjoy in Dallas.
30:18You know, all the online shopping and the excessive spending, that's going to have to stop.
30:25Do you worry about the financial stuff?
30:27You're worried about the money, the debt.
30:30So, I just think I want to go back to the States, home for like six months and dance that
30:40debt off.
30:41Then you won't have to worry about paying that off.
30:43Would you be okay with that?
30:46I don't like that thought, love.
30:48You only just got here and you're talking about leaving and going back to dancing.
30:52To be honest, I know that it's fun for you and I dance too.
30:58But, like, I don't dance in a champagne room with just me and another person.
31:04No, I work with another girl.
31:07I'm up on stage.
31:07But I work with another girl.
31:08It's always me and another girl.
31:09Okay, well, sometimes you don't.
31:11But the thing is...
31:12Ninety percent of the time, maybe.
31:13Okay, well, ten percent you don't.
31:15Very rare.
31:15It's like, it bothers me a little bit.
31:18Sorry.
31:19Even though, you know, we're both strippers, it's a very sensitive topic and makes me look
31:27like a hypocrite.
31:28But I feel like it is different in a way.
31:32I'm up on stage with a room full of women.
31:35But with Patia's, she goes out, she finds a guy and then she takes him back to a VIP room.
31:41I know they're both entertainment, they're both stripping, it's both a transaction, but
31:47they're two different things.
31:49And so, I don't like the thought of Patia going back to dancing.
31:53It kind of feels like an excuse just to leave Tasmania.
31:56It's like, this place sucks, it's too quiet, I don't want to be near your family.
32:00So, I'll just go back and dance in the US.
32:04Maybe Chris's concerns are valid.
32:07Maybe Patia is not going to change.
32:09I just sometimes don't think that I'm enough for you.
32:12You are enough.
32:13I know that I'm enough, but sometimes I think that you're addicted to that lifestyle, that
32:19easy, fast money.
32:21And that's kind of what I'm scared of because I retired you in Thailand and you were just
32:26completely bored.
32:28I was bored.
32:28All you talked about the whole time was going back to dancing.
32:31I did, I did.
32:32I thought I was going to get a ring there and you didn't give it to me and I was like,
32:35you know what, what's the point?
32:37I'm done.
32:38If you really love me, you should just stick by my side no matter what.
32:45Listen, part of our problem in the past was because you didn't want to commit.
32:49So, once you get a ring, like, everything's magically going to change, you're going to
32:53become...
32:53It's not going to magically change, it's going to make me feel better.
32:57It's hard to commit to you if you can't commit to us being together.
33:03Hey, I want to commit to us being together.
33:06I love you.
33:06You're not committing, you're just, like, running off to dancing already.
33:09Put a ring on it.
33:11I want this to work, but Patia's saying she wants to go back to the U.S.
33:18Thailand is kind of still in the back of my mind because she left me.
33:24If things get tough, is Patia just going to leave?
33:27I just want to know that you're going to stick by me no matter what.
33:37You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had.
33:42Before, it looked so bad.
33:44Still is.
33:45In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
33:50Probably every week.
34:14Don't hit me with your car.
34:16Please.
34:17Or do.
34:19Bye.
34:23Girls night.
34:24Girls night.
34:29Hi.
34:33My best friend Maria is finally back in town, and we're going to get dinner with our other friend, Kamilah, and I'm so excited to just have some girl time.
34:40How are you, Pookie?
34:42You look fabulous.
34:43They are my go-to girls to talk all my relationship gossips.
34:48They know everything from the highest high to, like, the lowest low.
34:53Did you guys get wine?
34:54Did you order anything?
34:55I'm not sure.
34:56We're already starting with tequila.
34:57Yeah.
34:57Oh.
34:58Between my mom cutting me off financially and everything that's going on with Jonathan, I think we have a lot to catch up on.
35:06I actually haven't seen you.
35:07This is so funny.
35:08And the last time I saw you-
35:09I barely saw you.
35:10You were six, so I-
35:12And then my phone broke.
35:13I got a new phone.
35:14Do you have a plan in Aruba?
35:15No.
35:15Oh, wow.
35:16I haven't gone that far.
35:18I got a plan with my mom now instead of my, like, own, because she has the business one so I can, like, internationally-
35:24Oh, I have the same.
35:25Roam it up.
35:26I have the same, yeah.
35:27But my mom said, you know, I'm not going to keep, you know, financing your journey.
35:34She was like, I'm not.
35:35Like, which is understandable.
35:37But now, it's like, if my mom's not going to help me out, we can't keep going to dinner every single night like we were when I was here, which is thousands and thousands of dollars at this point.
35:50Can Jonathan give you that?
35:53No.
35:54No.
35:54He can't give me, he cannot give me the financial aspect that I'm used to.
35:57He can't.
35:58No.
35:59And he knows that.
36:00It's going to be a lot harder.
36:02Are you willing to risk that?
36:05It's a lot.
36:06It's going to take a lot of work.
36:08I'm okay with that.
36:10I want to do that because I know at the end of the day, like, I do want to be happy with him.
36:15I want us to work.
36:16How long has it been?
36:17Not even a year or a year?
36:19It's been a year almost now.
36:21You have love goggles on.
36:22It's going to be a year.
36:24You're in the honeymoon phase.
36:26I wish I could rip him off your face.
36:28Like...
36:29I want us to work.
36:32I want to build something together.
36:34I want a work permit.
36:36So we went to our first appointment with an immigration lawyer.
36:39What happened?
36:40Well, the easiest way for me to be legal is to get married.
36:54Do you want to marry him?
36:55I do.
36:56I really do.
36:59Chloe...
36:59No.
37:02You marrying him is the worst idea you've probably ever had in your life.
37:08You see yourself long term settling down with him.
37:11But you find out about a random girl every single week.
37:15He wants a relationship while he's out cheating.
37:19Remember that day that we were at Clubhouse and he said he was at work all day.
37:24And his co-workers were like, Jonathan didn't work today.
37:27It wasn't his location at Jolly Pirates because Kainer has his phone.
37:33Because Kainer has his phone.
37:35And Clubhouse is there.
37:35There's definitely been a few other times where I've questioned where Jonathan was,
37:43what he was doing, where I thought something was going on.
37:46But a lot of the times I couldn't prove it.
37:49So I understand their side.
37:51But I feel like since I've been here that Jonathan is being faithful.
37:56I feel like before it looked so bad.
38:00Like it was bad before.
38:02You see you're making an excuse for him again.
38:04I don't want to make...
38:06It looked so...
38:06No.
38:06It was bad.
38:08Still is.
38:09I think we're moving in a better direction.
38:13Like I think we've had growth.
38:15But no.
38:16Like our...
38:17So he has been cheating.
38:19Lately?
38:19No.
38:20What's changed?
38:22I mean...
38:23Is he just lying better?
38:27Chloe has talked about marrying Johnny before.
38:29But I never thought it was actually serious.
38:32Because everybody on the island knows that Johnny has a reputation with girls.
38:38He's proud to have a lot of girls on him.
38:41I think it feeds his ego.
38:43In the year that they've been together, I think Johnny has cheated on her.
38:46Probably every week.
38:49You know what he's doing.
38:51You know what he's doing.
38:52You know, like...
38:52Are you willing to put up with that?
38:55Is this...
38:56Right, so this is the person you want to marry.
39:00What I am baffled about is that you're just okay with what he says.
39:05Okay.
39:06I love you.
39:07I want to marry you.
39:09How about you don't cheat on me?
39:12What would it take for you to be like,
39:15Okay, actually, I'm going to take my best friend's advice, my mom's advice,
39:19everybody else's advice that this is a bad idea.
39:23If something were to happen, I would pack my so fast.
39:28Just prepare yourself.
39:29That's all I'm saying.
39:30Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, the other way.
39:40We're going to play?
39:41We're going to play?
39:42Even if you work a lot, you have to take time.
39:46Hearing from Anthony and from my mother,
39:49you focus too much on career.
39:51The thing is like, we still need to provide and pay the bills.
39:54We're not rich.
39:55But we never know if you continue to write my life,
39:58but you can tell me.
39:59How are you doing?
40:05Good.
40:06This is Madeleine.
40:07Hi, Madeleine.
40:08Madeleine, calling the wedding off three, four times.
40:11I mean, that's not a very good indicator going into a marriage.
40:16You're going to be marrying my son,
40:17but the three weeks that he's been here,
40:20it's a f***ing time.
40:22Is this really what you want?
40:26You haven't really changed doing what you do.
40:29I didn't do anything.
40:30It's just a matter of time until he just does it again.
40:33Like, it's a habit.
40:34You didn't physically do anything.
40:36Exactly.
40:36You should not have messaged another girl.
40:39I didn't messaged another girl.
40:41I'm not getting into this.
40:43I just feel like it's one thing after another.
40:49And your mom is complaining about how I do things.
40:53I can't live like this.
40:54I knew that it's going to be hard for Jenny
40:56because my mom has a list of expectations for everybody in the house.
41:00I can't take this anymore.
41:08There's no making this woman happy.
41:14Someone needs to put her in her place.
41:16You should stop doing this.
41:17Who is talking about this?
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