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00:00:00I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:04Don't love me.
00:00:05I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:08I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:11after the ghosting incident.
00:00:13But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:17Surprise!
00:00:20Damn!
00:00:23You know what I really like from the States?
00:00:25The Chinese food out there.
00:00:26If you bring that from me, I'll marry you.
00:00:30My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:32He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:36But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:39They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:41The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:44and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:47and that they left together.
00:00:50I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:00:54but there's definitely a part of me that wonders
00:00:56what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:00BeerCon is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:07straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:09I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:12but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:15has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:17You want my time and attention as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:22but it can't go both ways.
00:01:25You said you'd never leave.
00:01:26I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:29I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:35I'm headed to the Philippines today,
00:01:37but last night,
00:01:38Sheena tells me
00:01:39she has been giving all her money
00:01:41to her parents this entire time.
00:01:44I am not happy,
00:01:46and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:01:49I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:01:53when she's alive here,
00:01:55and I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:00It's a beautiful day!
00:02:23I hate packing.
00:02:25I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:27So, yeah.
00:02:28I don't like that.
00:02:28I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:30Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:32I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:35I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:37I've never left the continent.
00:02:39But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:42I am so incredibly excited
00:02:44to finally be on my way
00:02:46to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:49I've been talking about doing this for so long,
00:02:51for so many months,
00:02:53and now that it's here,
00:02:55I'm, wow, like,
00:02:56way more nervous than I thought I was going to be.
00:02:59The situation with Michael
00:03:01is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:05When I confronted Michael,
00:03:08I really was trying to give him a chance
00:03:12so I could have a clear head
00:03:13before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:16But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms
00:03:21with his feelings and his emotions,
00:03:23and that's not fair to me.
00:03:26So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:30Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:32We do a lot of things together.
00:03:33We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:34And I know that that is not really common
00:03:40to have that kind of male-female friendship
00:03:42in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:46And so that's scary to feel like
00:03:48I might possibly have to choose
00:03:50between somebody who's my best friend
00:03:52and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:03:55It's open.
00:03:59Hey.
00:04:00Hey, how are you?
00:04:01Good, how are you?
00:04:02Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:03Are you excited?
00:04:04Yeah.
00:04:05A little terrified, actually.
00:04:06I know.
00:04:06I'm terrified for you.
00:04:10My parents offered to take me to the airport,
00:04:12which is really nice.
00:04:14But my relationship has felt a little bit strained
00:04:17with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:21They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:27And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect
00:04:31to see me end up with.
00:04:33So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:36You're ready for your big adventure?
00:04:40So excited.
00:04:46I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:48I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:04:50I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:04:52Oh, well, I wanted you to feel supported,
00:04:54but I'm not in favor of all this.
00:04:59I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey
00:05:03and meet a guy you never met
00:05:05who is a Muslim.
00:05:07It's not even in my wheelhouse
00:05:09to think that that would ever have been something
00:05:11that was possible.
00:05:12You know what I'm saying?
00:05:14It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:17But it's not like I'm going in completely blind
00:05:22or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:27The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:32Yeah, me.
00:05:32How old is he, Laura?
00:05:35He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:38Oh, my God.
00:05:41Laura, are you serious?
00:05:42I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:45Don't make jokes.
00:05:47Holy mackerel.
00:05:47It's not funny.
00:05:49What is he thinking?
00:05:50What is that?
00:05:51What is he thinking?
00:05:51I'm awesome.
00:05:52What the heck is he thinking?
00:05:53I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:05:55No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:05:59That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:00Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:05Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman
00:06:08and saying all the right things.
00:06:10Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:13Yeah.
00:06:14Okay.
00:06:14Big red flag.
00:06:15Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:16That's not what love is.
00:06:19You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:21You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:27Right now, it's not love.
00:06:28It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:30To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing,
00:06:34but that guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:37I don't...
00:06:38Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:40I agree.
00:06:41A concern?
00:06:41It's more like ten giant red flags.
00:06:47My word in heaven.
00:06:49You actually think that there's a possibility
00:06:52that this could work
00:06:54and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:06:58Yeah, I do.
00:06:59You do?
00:07:00If I didn't think that there was a possibility,
00:07:02I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:05My...
00:07:05My God.
00:07:07Oh, my God.
00:07:13We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:16You know?
00:07:17And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:23I feel blindsided.
00:07:26I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:29I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:34I just...
00:07:35Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:37All of it.
00:07:38I want to be happy for you.
00:07:43But I can't.
00:07:45I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:48I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:07:51And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me
00:07:54at this point,
00:07:56it is just messing with my head.
00:07:59It keeps me awake at night
00:08:01thinking about you going over there
00:08:03and doing all that.
00:08:04Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:06Don't ever settle.
00:08:15I've got a funny feeling
00:08:17ain't nobody gonna understand
00:08:18No trouble in the alley
00:08:22We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:23Why?
00:08:24Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:29Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:31Yeah.
00:08:32Yeah.
00:08:32No.
00:08:33That's...
00:08:33That's what I'm sure we're gonna happen now.
00:08:35Yeah.
00:08:36I'm gonna do it once
00:08:37Do it twice
00:08:39Take the cake
00:08:40Not just a slice
00:08:41I gotta find a feeling
00:08:42Ain't nobody
00:08:43What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:44You're how old?
00:08:46I'm 52.
00:08:48And you said you were an adult?
00:08:50I am an adult.
00:08:52You don't need my help
00:08:53picking out condoms.
00:08:55My name is Lisa
00:08:56I'm 52 years old
00:08:58and I live in
00:08:58King of Prussia, Pennsylvania.
00:09:00I thought you would feel better
00:09:02knowing that your mother's
00:09:03taking precautions.
00:09:05I mean,
00:09:06he did say he was a playboy, so
00:09:07I said a lot of women
00:09:09seem to like him.
00:09:10No, you said he used to play
00:09:12the field a lot.
00:09:14Is that not a playboy?
00:09:15Playboy's somebody who's like
00:09:17a gigolo.
00:09:19He didn't say he was not
00:09:20a playboy.
00:09:20No, gigolo and playboys
00:09:21are way different.
00:09:22Oh, gigolos are male hooker.
00:09:24No, that's not.
00:09:25That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:26That's a pimp.
00:09:27A pimp is the one
00:09:29who takes out female hookers
00:09:31and gets the money.
00:09:32Okay.
00:09:34I live with my daughter, Faith,
00:09:36where Faith lives with me.
00:09:38We live with each other.
00:09:39And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:42We talk about everything,
00:09:44whether it's the topic of sex
00:09:45and masturbating
00:09:49to dirty dishes in the sink
00:09:51and who's going to do
00:09:53the laundry tomorrow.
00:09:54I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:09:56What if I buy the wrong one?
00:09:58How do I know what size it is?
00:10:01Has he ever told you
00:10:02in inch,
00:10:04well, I guess it wouldn't be,
00:10:05in kilometers?
00:10:07No.
00:10:09I have never used a condom before.
00:10:11Every male I was with,
00:10:12I married.
00:10:15I have been married five times.
00:10:18Husband number one,
00:10:19I was young,
00:10:20I was dumb,
00:10:20and it led to an annulment.
00:10:23Husband number two,
00:10:25he was my very best friend,
00:10:26and it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:28But after a few years,
00:10:31I realized he made a better friend
00:10:32than he made a husband.
00:10:34Husband number three,
00:10:36he was actually my favorite
00:10:37of all of them.
00:10:38He was a really good guy.
00:10:41So why did I leave him?
00:10:44I realized I was a lesbian.
00:10:46And for the past 21 years,
00:10:47I've been with women only.
00:10:49Let's go with the flow.
00:10:53Relax and watch what happens.
00:10:56Women are nice and curvy and soft,
00:11:00and I've had one wife,
00:11:01and then I've had another wife,
00:11:03but neither of them worked out.
00:11:06But I forgot about men,
00:11:07to be quite honest with you.
00:11:08I wasn't even thinking
00:11:09that I'd be interested in a man
00:11:11after 21 years.
00:11:13But sure enough,
00:11:13Daniel came along,
00:11:15and...
00:11:16Yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:18Hi, beautiful.
00:11:23You're my everything.
00:11:24You're the lights in my...
00:11:26my show.
00:11:29He is 39 years old,
00:11:31and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:34He's not built like a woman
00:11:36in any sense of the way,
00:11:38shape, or form,
00:11:39so I don't know what it is.
00:11:42He messaged me on social media.
00:11:45We didn't know each other
00:11:46from Adam or Eve.
00:11:49So at first,
00:11:50I thought,
00:11:51this is a scam artist.
00:11:52I said,
00:11:52I'm not talking to you.
00:11:53You're not real.
00:11:55But he kept trying to talk to me,
00:11:57and you know what?
00:11:58He is a smooth operator.
00:12:00He says the sweetest,
00:12:01most charming things
00:12:02I've ever heard.
00:12:04I love your voice.
00:12:05Your voice like
00:12:06out of the food's my soul.
00:12:08I just fell in love with him.
00:12:11He is so sweet,
00:12:13it hurts my teeth
00:12:14like a bad candy bar.
00:12:15I love you, Lisa,
00:12:17and I will continue
00:12:18to love you.
00:12:19Daniel says,
00:12:20I'm exquisite,
00:12:21and I'm beautiful
00:12:22and gorgeous daily,
00:12:24and he's better
00:12:25because this damn thing
00:12:27is itchy as all hell,
00:12:29and it's uncomfortable.
00:12:30Can I take it off?
00:12:41I love you.
00:12:43Oh, my God,
00:12:43it feels so much better.
00:12:44One of my exes
00:12:47had me cut off my hair
00:12:48really, really short,
00:12:49and I miss my long hair
00:12:50so much,
00:12:52so I wear wigs.
00:12:54Daniel saw me
00:12:54in my natural hair first,
00:12:56and then he saw me
00:12:57in my wigs,
00:12:57and he was like,
00:12:59damn.
00:13:01So now I wear wigs
00:13:02every day,
00:13:02and I plan on wearing
00:13:04my wig the whole time
00:13:05when I go visit Daniel
00:13:06in Nigeria
00:13:07in less than a week.
00:13:08Okay.
00:13:10Here goes nothing.
00:13:12Try a flavored one.
00:13:13You might like it.
00:13:13No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:15Maybe you're rubbed.
00:13:16No, I don't know.
00:13:20Growing up with Mom
00:13:21was in a roller coaster.
00:13:23My mom is somebody
00:13:26who's always
00:13:27fallen in love
00:13:28so quickly,
00:13:29at least what she thinks
00:13:30is love.
00:13:32She's been through
00:13:33a lot of relationships.
00:13:35We've moved
00:13:35so many places.
00:13:37I've been to 15
00:13:38different schools,
00:13:39if that tells you something.
00:13:41Part of me
00:13:42is surprised
00:13:42she's switching over
00:13:43to men
00:13:44after 21 years.
00:13:45I didn't see
00:13:47this one coming.
00:13:49Oh, gosh.
00:13:52Oh, it's a very
00:13:53small selection.
00:13:56Oh, there's
00:13:57different sizes.
00:13:58Holy crap.
00:14:00Daniel and I,
00:14:01we've had video sex.
00:14:03We've sent pictures
00:14:03to each other,
00:14:04and I am attracted
00:14:06to Daniel.
00:14:08But the idea
00:14:09of laying with a man
00:14:11after 21 years,
00:14:12I can't even think
00:14:14about it.
00:14:14They have different
00:14:15body parts
00:14:16than women.
00:14:17The smells,
00:14:18the tastes,
00:14:19the feels,
00:14:20the cleanup.
00:14:22I mean,
00:14:22I remember
00:14:2321 years ago
00:14:25just walking
00:14:26to the bathroom
00:14:27to have to
00:14:27take care of myself
00:14:29and still dripping.
00:14:30That's disgusting.
00:14:31You don't have
00:14:32that with women.
00:14:34It's a whole
00:14:34different ballgame.
00:14:36Oh, I'm gonna be sick.
00:14:38Um, sir?
00:14:40If you have a moment,
00:14:41could I ask you
00:14:41a question, please?
00:14:43I'm not gonna help you.
00:14:44So embarrassing.
00:14:45I'm sorry.
00:14:45This is my first time
00:14:47I'm buying condoms.
00:14:48Okay.
00:14:48They have to be
00:14:49latex-free.
00:14:50I'm allergic to latex.
00:14:52I'm...
00:14:52Oh, gosh.
00:14:55When it says thinnest,
00:14:56does that mean
00:14:57that you feel more
00:14:58like it's a natural skin?
00:15:00Yep.
00:15:00On it, it's just
00:15:01it doesn't feel like
00:15:02there's plastic going
00:15:03in you or,
00:15:04I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:05You're good.
00:15:06I'm just really,
00:15:06really embarrassed.
00:15:07No, no, it's good.
00:15:08I'm buying the condoms
00:15:09myself because
00:15:10I'm worried
00:15:11that I'll get there
00:15:12and there won't be
00:15:13a latex-free condom.
00:15:16But this is
00:15:17incredibly overwhelming
00:15:19and emotional for me.
00:15:20This is not just
00:15:21about the embarrassment
00:15:22over the condoms.
00:15:25All I can think about
00:15:26is Daniel
00:15:26and how he has no idea
00:15:28that I lived my life
00:15:29as a lesbian
00:15:30for 21 years.
00:15:32Thank you so much.
00:15:33I appreciate it.
00:15:35A couple of months ago,
00:15:36I went into Tessa Waters
00:15:38to see if I could come out
00:15:39with my whole truth.
00:15:41And I told him
00:15:43in the past
00:15:43that I had a fling
00:15:45with a woman.
00:15:47Daniel said to me,
00:15:48how could I do that
00:15:49to myself?
00:15:50How could I do that
00:15:50to God?
00:15:51God doesn't believe
00:15:52in same sex
00:15:53as being together.
00:15:55And he was disgusted.
00:15:58There you go.
00:16:00Yeah, no problem.
00:16:00Let me get the rest of your time.
00:16:01I can hide them
00:16:01in my purse.
00:16:03I plan on telling
00:16:04Daniel the truth
00:16:04in person
00:16:05because I am not ashamed
00:16:07of who I am.
00:16:08But I'm terrified
00:16:10to tell him
00:16:10because of how
00:16:11he responded
00:16:12to the fling.
00:16:12I'm terrified.
00:16:16I'm worried
00:16:17that he's going to say
00:16:18that this is a mistake
00:16:20and walk away.
00:16:22And I'm going to be
00:16:23left heartbroken.
00:16:25Okay, that's all
00:16:25we're done with.
00:16:27Thank God.
00:16:27So you're really serious
00:16:37in this girl, bro.
00:16:39Yes, I am.
00:16:40I was a player
00:16:41for most of my life.
00:16:43Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:44I want somebody
00:16:45to be there for me.
00:16:46So you want to stop
00:16:47all the parties?
00:16:48I stop all the parties.
00:16:49That's part of my life.
00:16:50That's part of my life.
00:16:51How do you think
00:16:51she's going to react?
00:16:56I have a check-in
00:16:57flight and I've landed.
00:16:58But I'm worried
00:16:59since he's not texting me.
00:17:02You're going to need
00:17:04your passport.
00:17:05Let's get through here.
00:17:06I don't know.
00:17:06I left him somewhere.
00:17:08What are we doing now?
00:17:09Oh, God.
00:17:13My flight to the police
00:17:15is born in 21 minutes.
00:17:17I'm still on the other side.
00:17:18I'm rushing to my next gate
00:17:33right now.
00:17:34I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:36It's a good thing
00:17:37that I've been keeping up
00:17:38in the gym
00:17:39because I am having to run
00:17:41to my connecting flight
00:17:42to Belize
00:17:43to meet my boyfriend,
00:17:44Stig, for the first time.
00:17:46Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:47because running through
00:17:48the airport
00:17:49is really embarrassing.
00:17:51Stig's a famous musician
00:17:53in Belize
00:17:53and the women there
00:17:55love him.
00:17:56So the last thing
00:17:57I want to do
00:17:58is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:00when I meet him
00:18:00for the first time.
00:18:01But I don't really
00:18:02have a choice right now.
00:18:04Four minutes.
00:18:05I'm just getting
00:18:06to my gate.
00:18:10Or maybe it was
00:18:11perfect timing.
00:18:13Thank the Lord.
00:18:15Next stop, Belize.
00:18:18After waiting for so long,
00:18:20I'm super nervous
00:18:21to meet Stig.
00:18:22But I cannot wait
00:18:24to get my hands on him
00:18:25and start a future together.
00:18:28My second plan
00:18:29to believe
00:18:30is I'm coming
00:18:31for you, baby.
00:18:33I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:34I am coming for you, baby.
00:18:39I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:41Listen!
00:18:43Take out the world,
00:18:44watch me crowd.
00:18:46If you have some magic,
00:18:47we're all done.
00:18:47Do nothing at here.
00:18:50Ladies,
00:18:51What's up, I am Erlin Duane, I go by Stig the Artist.
00:19:18I'm a musician from Belmont, Belize, Central America, and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:24You know the vibes.
00:19:26I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:28I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:31But when I'm performing, it's just a different feeling.
00:19:34I just get alive.
00:19:36I love what I do.
00:19:38I love music.
00:19:39I love singing for the ladies then.
00:19:41And the girls, you know, they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:46There's this one time, this girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:19:50She was front stage.
00:19:51I'm like, yo, chill.
00:19:52But if that's what my music gives them, that kind of joy, then I'm doing the right job.
00:19:57I can't take you off my mind.
00:20:00About 10 years ago, I put out my first song, my first music video.
00:20:04I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:06I grew my fan base.
00:20:08And now I'm at the highest level of Belize as an artist.
00:20:11So everybody recognized me.
00:20:13And I am very grateful for the love and support that I get here.
00:20:16There can only be one.
00:20:18One you.
00:20:19One you.
00:20:20One you.
00:20:21One you.
00:20:22One you.
00:20:23I'm very proud of what I've become.
00:20:25But I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:28Perf is my producer.
00:20:30He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:32Richie is my manager.
00:20:34Six is my G.
00:20:36My G is one of my best friends.
00:20:38They're still my homies since we started everything.
00:20:40And I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:43Have a special toast.
00:20:45My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:47Cheers, yeah.
00:20:49World, world.
00:20:50World, oh.
00:20:51You really like the American girls, bro.
00:20:53You really like them.
00:20:54Farina.
00:20:55You like the right gallery.
00:20:56Farina.
00:20:57Farina.
00:20:58Farina.
00:20:59I just straight Farina.
00:21:01We are dead.
00:21:02Ah.
00:21:03Listen, my friends, they could joke around as much as they want and tease me.
00:21:08But I'm very serious about my girlfriend, Aviva.
00:21:12Two years ago, I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:16At first, we were both in a relationship.
00:21:18But when we both became single, it was way beyond friends.
00:21:24Aviva's super hot.
00:21:26She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:29But one of the most attractive things about Aviva is her personality.
00:21:33She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:35So humble and gentle.
00:21:37And she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:40I don't have to be stick the artist, you know.
00:21:42I don't have to impress her.
00:21:43I can be Erlen Dwayne.
00:21:45And that's why I feel like she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:21:49So you're really serious in this girl, bro.
00:21:53Yes, I am.
00:21:54You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:21:57Start a family.
00:21:58Let's get married.
00:21:59Let's have kids.
00:22:00I don't know.
00:22:01I might want to be a baby.
00:22:04You are breathing.
00:22:06You want to burn your girl?
00:22:08Hello.
00:22:09I mean, woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:12Damn.
00:22:14Say you're right.
00:22:15Say you don't want to be a baby.
00:22:17Over America.
00:22:18America.
00:22:19America because you want to be a baby.
00:22:21You know why you get a baby.
00:22:23I mean, the girl.
00:22:25I get serious, boys.
00:22:28Getting serious, you know.
00:22:30Say you want to stop all the partying.
00:22:32I stop all the partying.
00:22:33That's part of my life.
00:22:35I mean, he's, you know, like, I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:41You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows.
00:22:43You ready for that?
00:22:44Yeah, I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:47You know what they call San Pedro, right?
00:22:49Temptation Island.
00:22:50Yee-haw!
00:22:51So what if you fix her San Pedro when a hundred girls jump out there?
00:22:55I could bet you had you raged San Pedro.
00:22:57I want to bother you.
00:22:58I'm sorry!
00:22:59Hey!
00:23:00Hey!
00:23:01My past little relationship.
00:23:02I tell him, like, you're gonna get jealous?
00:23:03No, no, no!
00:23:04He always trips, so I told Aviva, we're gonna say, I hope you don't trip.
00:23:07And she's like, no, I'm not like that.
00:23:08I'm not jealous.
00:23:09we're gonna see I hope you don't trip and she's like no I'm not like that I'm
00:23:14not jealous but I don't know I want somebody from my side when I sit at a
00:23:21horrible Alec and stuff yeah but everywhere we go people always say you
00:23:26have XYZ girl how do you think she's going to react I hope I pray I could be
00:23:35the best version of myself this time I put the things a little bit different
00:23:38know this is perfect huh I heard that song too many times I can't control that I
00:23:47can't control that a lot of my relationships in the past have failed
00:23:54because of this very issue you know I was a player from most of my life now I
00:24:00surely want a family I want somebody I can go home to at night and and they're
00:24:04there to listen to me to be there for me I hope Aviva can be that person and that I
00:24:10can be a faithful partner you guys are gonna love Aviva you know I love her so
00:24:16let's see how it goes I have 20 percent feet damn
00:24:25so update on the food oh that's shrimp look at that good stuff
00:24:37Gene and I get good airline food license let me take a flight back home
00:24:43for just arriving today with his parents and I've been
00:25:13feeling so wow like super happy I'm excited I'm on my way to the airport now we rented a
00:25:22bigger apartment where we can all stay together so I'm carrying quite a few bags
00:25:28also I am bringing jackfruit I want Boris and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines
00:25:40I really quite nervous and I don't know to react
00:25:48it's possible that I would kiss him or not I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time
00:25:58honestly speaking we will both enjoy with each other
00:26:03but I'm worried regarding with Molly that she would say bad things to me so I'm trying to
00:26:13get rid of my nervousness especially meeting the first time with the love of your life it's once in a
00:26:19a lifetime so why not enjoy with it
00:26:29look we're touching now after so long
00:26:35four sisters a long way to come traveling for a girl yeah but she's not just any girl
00:26:48thank you
00:26:58all right
00:26:59we are exiting
00:27:12after 30 hours of being on an airplane I finally made it to the Philippines
00:27:19I'm feeling ecstatic
00:27:22I feel like I drank like six energy drinks
00:27:32mom
00:27:33like
00:27:35yeah
00:27:36yeah
00:27:38yeah
00:27:42yeah
00:27:45yes I have a chicken flight and it landed but I'm also worried since he's not texting me
00:27:57I'm really calm down.
00:28:27I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish,
00:28:30but I think it's important that we're completely transparent with each other.
00:28:36And I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you were doing for those five days
00:28:43and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:28:57Did you sleep good?
00:29:10I slept great, baby.
00:29:12I slept beautiful in the morning, baby.
00:29:14I was really tired from what we did.
00:29:32So was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:36Even more.
00:29:37Yesterday night, we had sex two times.
00:29:46He's older, and I didn't think, like, he can do all of the stuff he did.
00:29:52Like, for the second round, it was, oh, my God.
00:29:58Do you want to go one more round?
00:30:02Let's do that.
00:30:11You good?
00:30:15Yeah.
00:30:16You're here.
00:30:18Wow, so this is the market.
00:30:19Yeah.
00:30:20I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do.
00:30:24I had some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:28If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:31But this is our first day in Madagascar together,
00:30:34and Trish wants to take me to explore her city.
00:30:38What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:40Yeah.
00:30:40This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.
00:30:45Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivu.
00:30:53First, I'm taking him to the market in Alakili.
00:30:59The butcher shop right here, huh?
00:31:01Mm-hmm.
00:31:04And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:31:08Oh, my God, what is that, babe?
00:31:16What is that?
00:31:17That's the stomach of the cow.
00:31:20That's the stomach.
00:31:21Yeah, yeah.
00:31:21And then is this also, like, intestines or what?
00:31:24Yes.
00:31:25I think I see a heart over there.
00:31:27Yeah, that's it.
00:31:29Oh, my God.
00:31:31I'm feeling like Trish deceived me.
00:31:34I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:35All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning.
00:31:41So this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.
00:31:45No, we don't see that.
00:31:48In my culture, we eat everything.
00:31:51We don't waste something in the cow.
00:31:55Oh, my God.
00:31:56Even the feet, the head, intestine, the heart, liver, everything.
00:32:03Rick, it's just food.
00:32:05Relax.
00:32:06Baby, I know that's not a brain right there.
00:32:09It's a brain.
00:32:10Oh, Lord.
00:32:11Yeah.
00:32:12Why?
00:32:12Would you eat that?
00:32:14Of course.
00:32:16Well, baby, don't put that in those stews that you cook for me.
00:32:20Please don't.
00:32:21Oh, I hope somebody's going to enjoy it.
00:32:37Wow, baby, what a view.
00:32:40You can see all Madagascar here.
00:32:43Wow.
00:32:45I can see the whole island.
00:32:46Yeah.
00:32:47Oh, my God.
00:32:48You don't know how to taste that.
00:33:13Like this.
00:33:14I know how to tap dance, but...
00:33:44This is not tap dancing.
00:33:45This is something foreign to me.
00:33:46I've never seen this style of dance before.
00:33:49But I'm realizing that there's a lot that I don't know about Trish just from talking to
00:33:53her over the phone.
00:33:54Like she's an amazing dancer.
00:33:57I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:00Hey, all right.
00:34:02Woo!
00:34:02Woo!
00:34:04Woo!
00:34:04Woo!
00:34:04Woo!
00:34:04Woo!
00:34:05Woo!
00:34:05Woo!
00:34:05Woo!
00:34:05Woo!
00:34:06Woo!
00:34:06Woo!
00:34:06Woo!
00:34:06Woo!
00:34:06Woo!
00:34:07Woo!
00:34:07Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:09Woo!
00:34:10Woo!
00:34:11Woo!
00:34:12Woo!
00:34:13Woo!
00:34:14Woo!
00:34:23Woo!
00:34:23Wow.
00:34:23That was your traditional dance?
00:34:26That's not mine.
00:34:27Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:29The name of the place is Rufa.
00:34:31Rufa.
00:34:32That means a palace.
00:34:35Oh.
00:34:36OK, now where's the palace, is it?
00:34:38It's there.
00:34:38Oh, that's the palace.
00:34:39OK, yeah, it's beautiful.
00:34:42Oh, I'm tired, even.
00:34:44Yeah.
00:34:48This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:49I'm having such a great time with you.
00:34:52But there's some things that I want
00:34:56to talk to you about.
00:35:00So I wanted to touch bases with you
00:35:04about what exactly you were doing for those five days,
00:35:10why you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:14I already told you, like, you want me to explain to you
00:35:19everything that happened.
00:35:21You know that all of these things that you're telling me,
00:35:24you know, kind of sounds unbelievable in a way.
00:35:30I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.
00:35:36I promise I will tell you everything.
00:35:38But promise me that she won't get married.
00:35:52You sent him money, right?
00:35:54Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:35:56My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times
00:36:01right now financially.
00:36:02She's in so much debt.
00:36:03I think this topic needs to be over,
00:36:05because this is ridiculous.
00:36:07Done.
00:36:08I'm going to put the fire on the fire.
00:36:19Add a little to the sun.
00:36:21Now we've got entertainment.
00:36:22Uh-oh.
00:36:24And we had wire.
00:36:26And we had wire.
00:36:27And we had wire.
00:36:28And we had wire.
00:36:29What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:31What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:34Sell the competition.
00:36:35Oh, go for it, Pete.
00:36:36What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:38Oh, OK.
00:36:40I can do it.
00:36:42Oh, that was so close.
00:36:44I'm ready to go.
00:36:47Let me try.
00:36:49That was way over my head.
00:36:50That was on you.
00:36:51That was on you.
00:36:52Oh, yeah, for sure.
00:36:54Told you.
00:36:54I'll give you a good one.
00:36:56Hotter, like a baseball.
00:36:57Oh, my god.
00:37:00That looks delicious.
00:37:03What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:05Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:08He's always eating rice.
00:37:10Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:12I don't know.
00:37:13I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:15Where are you going again?
00:37:17I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:19Wow.
00:37:20Why?
00:37:21I am going to meet a man that I
00:37:24have not met in person yet for the very first time.
00:37:26Oh, my goodness.
00:37:28Wow, congratulations.
00:37:29Good for you.
00:37:31But it's crazy.
00:37:32Yeah, it's slightly a little crazy.
00:37:34I would agree.
00:37:36But you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:38So go for it, I say.
00:37:42I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel
00:37:44for the first time in just a few days.
00:37:47I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:49I must be insane.
00:37:50I really must be.
00:37:54I'm very, very nervous.
00:37:55So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out
00:37:58with my daughter, Faith, and my friend, Juna.
00:38:00Woo!
00:38:01Oh, my!
00:38:02Here's the volcano.
00:38:03Here it comes.
00:38:05I have QQ cream.
00:38:06Woo!
00:38:08Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:11I swear to God, if she was a lesbian,
00:38:14Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:16Juna knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships.
00:38:20And she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:24I'm hoping this is finally more happy every hour.
00:38:26I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:27What?
00:38:28That this is my happily ever after?
00:38:29Yes.
00:38:30And this is the last time.
00:38:33My excuse.
00:38:34You're saying it's the last one.
00:38:35And she said every other time, which we know.
00:38:38Right?
00:38:39He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:41He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:43He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:47It's a good thing that he's treating you up,
00:38:49but that's part of what concerns me.
00:38:53The love bomber right away, it's part of a romance scam.
00:38:59They go for single, and I don't mean to say
00:39:03older women who have been hurt and who
00:39:06are desperately looking for somebody
00:39:09and want someone to give them all the compliments,
00:39:12all the love.
00:39:13Stop.
00:39:14Hold on.
00:39:15Do I look like an old, vulnerable,
00:39:18searching for somebody, woman, on the internet?
00:39:24No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.
00:39:27But you sent him money, right?
00:39:30Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:35Even though I live paycheck to paycheck,
00:39:37I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:42Daniel works in construction.
00:39:44He makes very little money, and he
00:39:46lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:50I give Daniel money for food.
00:39:52I have bought him clothes.
00:39:54I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:39:58This is my generator.
00:40:01Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two,
00:40:05maybe three times.
00:40:07But I give Daniel money more for myself,
00:40:10because I want to feel that he's safe,
00:40:12and I want to feel that he's secure.
00:40:14All I know is within the first two months,
00:40:18you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:20And that was two months ago.
00:40:22So how much more is it now?
00:40:26I don't know.
00:40:28How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:32Does he not have a job?
00:40:34Yes, he has a job.
00:40:36But lately, he's been sick, and he's missed work
00:40:38because of the malaria and other things that he has caught.
00:40:42And that's not a red flag to you.
00:40:44He meets you, and now all of a sudden,
00:40:47he's getting sick all the time.
00:40:48My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:40:56She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:40:58She's in so much debt, and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:04You were telling me, has Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:08She has, haven't you?
00:41:10So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?
00:41:13You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:16But it hasn't been the amount that it has been.
00:41:19It's so bad.
00:41:21Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:25I see how happy she is.
00:41:27So I have given her money to send to him,
00:41:31and I gave Lisa the money for the visa to go to Nigeria.
00:41:36I do have some concerns, because if he's scamming her,
00:41:41then he's scamming me.
00:41:46This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:49It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:41:52It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:41:54And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:41:58Juna has talked to him.
00:41:59Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:04No.
00:42:05No, he doesn't.
00:42:07But, you know, texting and talking are different things.
00:42:15There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.
00:42:18That's fine, because I know things that are inside and out
00:42:22more than you do, because you're not in the relationship.
00:42:26And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:32You've said that every time.
00:42:35This has all been an emotional wreck,
00:42:36and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:41And it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:44And I think this topic needs to be over,
00:42:46because this is ridiculous.
00:42:48It always has to be over.
00:42:50I'm done.
00:42:52I'm done?
00:42:54I've been doing over it now.
00:42:57Let us know others.
00:42:58Yes, and can we do it now?
00:43:01We dance.
00:43:03Yes, and yes.
00:43:03Yes?
00:43:04I'm done?
00:43:09health care.
00:43:10This might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl.
00:43:14we would say one burner that mean you have one partner never always been a one burner
00:43:22I used to be full of gallo need to make some changes into my lifestyle but I'm nervous to
00:43:29handle all that this is crazy
00:43:34I'm super excited super nervous probably 34 minutes until I land let me rephrase that
00:43:4734 minutes until me and the shrimp land and they actually landed on my pants
00:43:55I have greasy smelly sauce all over me the things I do for you this day the things I do
00:44:02that was getting warm in here as the feet crack into the atmosphere come on let's
00:44:14switch gears and the power still and go let's go so today my girl is coming I want to give her a
00:44:22Belizean welcome beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady today I'm meeting my girlfriend Aviva for the
00:44:31very first time in person Aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city
00:44:40to my apartment but she don't know that we have my nice hotel room and in Belize City
00:44:45because I want a nice little romantic stay tonight but hey this looks a little kinky
00:44:51I have butterflies I feel like a kid again this might be the start of the rest of my life
00:45:02with Aviva with one girl we would say one burner one burner that mean you have one partner
00:45:12never always been a one burner I used to be full of gallo
00:45:15but I need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle so I can be the man that I've always
00:45:22envisioned that I would be
00:45:23I just want to hide in the covers when you're playing me
00:45:26uh am I driving around?
00:45:28yes sir
00:45:28all right
00:45:29all right
00:45:31well V&V minutes away from picking you up
00:45:34I'm nervous
00:45:39I'm about to leave my man's ease
00:45:43after two years of talking and six months of dating
00:45:49I'm finally meeting Stig for the first time
00:45:52we're here we made it
00:45:54I'm super super nervous and it's making me nauseous
00:46:06the flight just landed
00:46:08I'm ready
00:46:10please
00:46:11let's go
00:46:12if lost
00:46:13I wanted to go
00:46:14how much
00:46:15yes
00:46:16How much
00:46:16how much
00:46:17I appreciate
00:46:19you
00:46:20I cannot
00:46:21be
00:46:22going to the bathroom to you
00:46:27to pressure up I'm super nervous I know he's outside waiting
00:46:35I just want to make sure that he sees me
00:46:40and he's attracted to me.
00:46:41I'm so tired and it's stressing me out.
00:46:48I know he's around beautiful women all the time
00:46:51and deep down there's things I'm worried about.
00:46:57My biggest fear is that I'm going to go in
00:47:02with this big loving heart
00:47:03and it's just going to get crushed.
00:47:07Here we go.
00:47:08This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:13Oh, I'm on this.
00:47:20Oh, this is crazy.
00:47:26Oh my , I'm going to throw up.
00:47:31Okay.
00:47:33Oh.
00:47:37Oh.
00:47:39Oh.
00:47:42Oh.
00:47:43I'm here.
00:47:45I am.
00:47:46Oh.
00:47:47Look at him more beautiful in person.
00:48:00No.
00:48:02Social media don't, nah, I ain't got nothing on you.
00:48:06She's a good kisser.
00:48:08You know what?
00:48:09It felt good.
00:48:10It felt natural.
00:48:11It felt good.
00:48:12It did.
00:48:13You're getting red.
00:48:14You're blessing.
00:48:15You're blessing.
00:48:16I love it.
00:48:17Oh, you're here.
00:48:22I know.
00:48:23You're very beautiful.
00:48:25You look really good, too.
00:48:26And I'm super happy.
00:48:28Love that little day.
00:48:34Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:36I had no idea.
00:48:37I know she's been in the gym a lot, but I like it.
00:48:42It was like, mm-hmm.
00:48:44Okay, well, I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:49And, uh...
00:48:49No way.
00:48:51It's up.
00:48:52Yeah.
00:48:53I'll still eat that.
00:48:53Don't eat that.
00:48:54Don't eat that.
00:48:55Please don't.
00:48:55Just throw it away.
00:48:57You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me, so...
00:49:01I mean, I brought it.
00:49:03I brought it.
00:49:04It's here.
00:49:05It's a little...
00:49:05I bet.
00:49:06I'm a man of my word.
00:49:07Ask anybody.
00:49:08Ask about me.
00:49:08Okay, okay.
00:49:11Ready?
00:49:12Let's go.
00:49:13Let me get that one for you.
00:49:14I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:21I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:26It was a very magical moment.
00:49:29He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:34Please throw this away now.
00:49:35I'm going to eat it.
00:49:36You'll get steak.
00:49:37We're throwing it away.
00:49:38It's going.
00:49:38It's going.
00:49:39It's going.
00:49:40It's going.
00:49:40It's gone.
00:49:41Today is just making me feel really special, and I know I only just got here, but it just
00:49:47seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up that he hasn't been exclusive with just
00:49:53me seem a little silly and not true.
00:49:56You're actually here.
00:49:58I know.
00:49:59What are we going to do?
00:50:01Well...
00:50:02I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:04Uh-uh.
00:50:04I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:50:28I'm sure to ride.
00:50:39I'm sure to ride.
00:50:39You too.
00:50:39I'm going to ride.
00:50:40I'm going to ride.
00:50:42Just be safe, okay?
00:50:43I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time, and I'm
00:50:57trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:02Bye.
00:51:02Love you.
00:51:03Bye.
00:51:03Bye.
00:51:03Bye.
00:51:04Bye.
00:51:04Bye.
00:51:04Bye.
00:51:05Bye.
00:51:06Bye.
00:51:06Bye.
00:51:07Bye.
00:51:07Bye.
00:51:08Bye.
00:51:08Bye.
00:51:09Bye.
00:51:10Bye.
00:51:11Bye.
00:51:12Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13Bye.
00:51:13There's an absolute possibility this is going to blow up in my face, and everyone that was
00:51:19naysaying against it will tell me that they told me so.
00:51:23But I feel like life is a series of calculated risks, and if I'm not willing to take a risk
00:51:28for love, then what am I willing to take a risk for?
00:51:42Bye.
00:51:43I have about 13 hours until I get to meet the love of my life, and I need to decompress from
00:51:52just all of the negative energy from the car ride with my parents with a good smutty book
00:51:58with some really steamy moments.
00:52:00This is the best part is darkness, you know?
00:52:13It's what I love about Nietzsche.
00:52:15He lightens the people around him, but he's the darkness himself.
00:52:20He was part of the reason I wanted to find light.
00:52:25I am into philosophy because life is deep, but we are living on the surface.
00:52:32I am trying to learn lives that I never lived.
00:52:36I discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life.
00:52:40I had the chance to have a professional career of a football player.
00:52:45I was under training, and my knee collapsed with the other one's knee, and my AC had crashed.
00:52:54I knew it was over, but I still play football for fun.
00:52:59You know, I love the game.
00:53:01You know, I love the game.
00:53:02You just have to keep moving and embrace the pain.
00:53:06Life is like this.
00:53:08One part is struggling, and one part is surviving.
00:53:16One shot!
00:53:19After I raptured my ACL, it was just the end of everything, you know?
00:53:24Everything I dream of, and now I rebuild it from the bottom.
00:53:31And what's helping me the most is finding Laura, actually.
00:53:36It was destiny.
00:53:40I met Laura in Snapchat.
00:53:43We started talking and joking around.
00:53:47She was so supportive, so optimistic.
00:53:50She made me believe that dreaming is okay.
00:53:56That's the point that I realized she was perfect for me.
00:54:00I'm in the darkness, but I can see the sun.
00:54:03It was about third or four weeks.
00:54:07I told her I love her.
00:54:10And now Laura is coming to Turkey, and it makes me feel excited.
00:54:15Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaked out.
00:54:18I want to move things to the next level, and maybe propose.
00:54:25I don't know yet.
00:54:26I'm waiting for just meaning.
00:54:28I don't know yet.
00:54:34How are you?
00:54:35How are you?
00:54:38Memo and Cuba are my best friends in Izmir.
00:54:42I'm not close with my family, so they are the closest people I have.
00:54:47I don't know yet.
00:54:48I don't know yet.
00:54:49I saw the sun.
00:54:51I saw the sun.
00:54:52What are you doing?
00:54:53How are you doing?
00:54:54Good.
00:54:55You're doing well.
00:54:56Laura will come tomorrow.
00:54:58But we'll die.
00:55:01We'll die.
00:55:02You're the best for you.
00:55:04You're the best for you.
00:55:05You're the best for you.
00:55:06I saw the excitement.
00:55:07I heard your voice.
00:55:10I heard your voice.
00:55:11I heard you.
00:55:12I heard you.
00:55:13I saw you.
00:55:17How old was it?
00:55:1945.
00:55:2045.
00:55:22This problem is not possible.
00:55:26So think.
00:55:27When you come to 45, he will be 65.
00:55:31You won't be able to see you again.
00:55:35Do you know I'm not one of them?
00:55:40She's old.
00:55:42It's okay because I dated older woman before.
00:55:46The thing I'm attracted with older woman is they understand, you know?
00:55:52Not childish.
00:55:54And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:55:59She looks young.
00:56:00I have been complaining about it.
00:56:03Don't I tell you about it?
00:56:04Don't you tell me anything about it?
00:56:05Don't you tell you about it.
00:56:06You understand.
00:56:07Just don't know.
00:56:08You know.
00:56:09There is something you have to know.
00:56:10There is something you have to know.
00:56:12But it's something you know.
00:56:13You don't know.
00:56:14You know what you know to do.
00:56:15You tell the things you will tell.
00:56:16So you don't know.
00:56:18Yeah.
00:56:19What do you know to be a man to be able to talk to this?
00:56:21Yeah.
00:56:22When my football career is over, I opened up a couple of businesses.
00:56:31Eventually, everything is failed and I couldn't find a proper job.
00:56:37She knows that I have some troubles, but she doesn't know how much.
00:56:43I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:49I don't know how much I can talk about.
00:56:53For example, there is a young man who has a close friend, he has a close friend, he has a close friend, he has a close friend, he has a close friend.
00:57:03I'm afraid of this.
00:57:06I'm very careful.
00:57:09I want to be the friend who has a close friend.
00:57:12If you have a problem, you don't understand it.
00:57:15If you have a close friend, you don't know how much he's going to go.
00:57:18You don't have to think about it.
00:57:22There is something like that.
00:57:24I don't like it.
00:57:26I don't like it.
00:57:27I don't like it.
00:57:28He knows it.
00:57:29But I don't trust Michael.
00:57:32I don't feel good about Michael at all.
00:57:35They are doing every activity together, but you think that you're just friends?
00:57:41I don't buy it.
00:57:43I'm not comfortable with this friendship she has, and if she doesn't cut Michael out of her life, I don't know if this relationship is going to work.
00:57:53I'm supposed to be your confidant.
00:58:00I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:03Now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:08I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
00:58:12Oh, man. I'm scared now.
00:58:14I'm scared now.
00:58:22I'm done?
00:58:24I'm done.
00:58:34Faith.
00:58:36You okay?
00:58:37I can't. I can't.
00:58:40Now I'm going to get out of her.
00:58:41I don't know what to do at this point, because it always ends up being a thought.
00:58:47Every time I've tried, she voiced my opinion.
00:58:52She doesn't want to talk about me.
00:58:54She doesn't want to hear me.
00:58:56Or she told me I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:00Let's see if we can find her.
00:59:02Let's see if we can fix this.
00:59:03Faith, let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:17I really don't want to.
00:59:18No. Look at me. Look at me.
00:59:21Please look at me.
00:59:22I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried that I'm in another bad relationship, and things are going to go sour, and you're trying to save me from that.
00:59:32But I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice. I will always choose you before somebody else. Look at me. I will.
00:59:38You said do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria. I promise you with the bottom of my heart, I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:47I'm not. Just give me the opportunity to do this.
00:59:52If you break this promise...
00:59:54I'm not going to break this promise.
00:59:56If you break this promise again, I can't do this anymore.
01:00:00No, because that would be toxic, and I'm not a toxic person anymore, okay? So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:08I really need some space right now.
01:00:11Okay, I'll do that.
01:00:18This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:20I have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child when she was little.
01:00:31But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:35I want to show her that this is different. I'm a grown-up. I'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child and have a relationship after relationship.
01:00:45I want my happily ever after. I want this to be forever.
01:00:53And Faith doesn't see that yet.
01:01:04Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:05I'm trying to understand your feelings, and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:15Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him without you knowing him, and that I'm going to choose him over you?
01:01:23You never listen.
01:01:25Listen, I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:35Listen, I understand your point of view. I'm listening to you, and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:41I'm going there to see if we are compatible. I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:46I'm listening to your concerns, and I am going to voice them. I promise you I will. Okay? Can I have a hug now? Okay, come here.
01:01:57I love you. I will start listening better.
01:02:00I'm proud of everything you do. You are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring, and you have been good to your mother, regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:10And I'm proud of you, and I will listen to you more, okay? All right.
01:02:17I understand where Faith is coming from, and I understand that she has been down this road with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:25I hold her opinion deeply in my heart, but I think Daniel's different.
01:02:32I think he's the real deal. I think he's a very precious man who is very rare, and I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:41Can we go home now?
01:02:55Welcome, welcome.
01:02:57Sig is everything I thought he would be. He looks super good. There is definitely some chemistry, but it's a bit scary.
01:03:05I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle, and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy, but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.
01:03:17Just breathe. You got this. You're a man.
01:03:20Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other, and I'm hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:03:28I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:03:30Yeah.
01:03:31I think there's still some things that have to be discussed before we can proceed.
01:03:38It's a boy. No way. I love it. Celebrity style is okay. Can I take a picture of it? Yeah, sure.
01:04:03Lovely, lovely girl. You know you can change the world.
01:04:12So, where are we going? I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:17I don't know. I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:18I don't know. I don't know.
01:04:19You don't know?
01:04:20No, I don't.
01:04:21Yes, you do.
01:04:22The driver, you know where we're going?
01:04:23The driver's just taking us?
01:04:24He don't know where we're going either.
01:04:25Oh, whatever.
01:04:26So, I don't know.
01:04:27But I can tell you though, we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a hotel.
01:04:31Tomorrow, we're going to go to the islands. I do have a show out on the islands.
01:04:36Okay.
01:04:37Some new songs. I'm excited to perform those.
01:04:40Excited.
01:04:41Hopefully I kill it.
01:04:42Okay.
01:04:43A lot of people are going to be there?
01:04:44Yep.
01:04:45Are you ready to be there?
01:04:47Are you ready for that?
01:04:48I'm nervous.
01:04:49Do you want me there even?
01:04:50Of course I want you there.
01:04:52Okay.
01:04:56I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here.
01:04:59I would never ask him to do that.
01:05:01But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a couple days.
01:05:08We're here.
01:05:10Ah!
01:05:11I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls and having
01:05:17him interact with fans in front of me.
01:05:20And now I'm going to be thrust into it right away.
01:05:23And it's a bit scary.
01:05:25Ooh!
01:05:26Okay, welcome, welcome.
01:05:27Okay.
01:05:28I'll leave you here for now.
01:05:29This is nice.
01:05:30This is super nice.
01:05:31This is super nice.
01:05:32So, I have an extra prize for you.
01:05:34Okay.
01:05:35Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.
01:05:38Aw.
01:05:39Those are so pretty.
01:05:41This was to show you that you're my one and only.
01:05:43Okay.
01:05:44And this is to show some gratitude that you're here.
01:05:46Aw, thank you.
01:05:47I like them.
01:05:48They're so pretty.
01:05:49Check them out.
01:05:52Stig is everything I thought he would be.
01:05:54He looks super good.
01:05:55There is definitely some chemistry.
01:05:58What are you going to do with those?
01:06:00Come all over you.
01:06:01We've been touching each other, kissing each other.
01:06:04So, I hope the night continues on sexually.
01:06:10Let's get comfy.
01:06:12That sounds good to me.
01:06:14I'm attracted to her even more in person.
01:06:17But I'm a gentleman.
01:06:19I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.
01:06:24We'll see how it goes.
01:06:25I'm going to let it play out the way it should play.
01:06:27I'm going to get more comfy.
01:06:30So, what about the attack?
01:06:34A flower?
01:06:35Sorry, it's not a rose, right?
01:06:36What is it?
01:06:37Is it a rose?
01:06:38I think it is a rose.
01:06:39What are you going to get?
01:06:41Steak on your forehead.
01:06:42You could get it here.
01:06:43Only if you get Aviva.
01:06:44There.
01:06:45Leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.
01:06:49Same.
01:06:50How do you think I would feel?
01:06:51I'm going to leave you home.
01:06:52Mm-hmm.
01:06:53Unless you make me leave you.
01:06:56Oh.
01:06:57What would make you want to leave me?
01:07:00Oh, that's a good question.
01:07:02If you can't understand what I do for work and how I, you know, my lifestyle because of what I do and who I am.
01:07:10Yeah.
01:07:11I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy, but I also want to be, like, respected, too.
01:07:20Just, like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people because I feel like we've been talking seriously, but I get it.
01:07:29I get it.
01:07:30Why you roll your eyes like that?
01:07:31I don't know, because, like...
01:07:32You don't trust me?
01:07:33Oh, you don't trust me?
01:07:34I mean, I know your lifestyle.
01:07:37There's a lot of beautiful women around you always, so...
01:07:40They're not you, though.
01:07:42Okay, Mr. Charmer.
01:07:44Ooh.
01:07:45I got to.
01:07:46Okay.
01:07:47I do have one more thing for you that's not spilled Chinese food.
01:07:59Okay.
01:08:00Yeah.
01:08:01Steak makes me feel really comfortable.
01:08:03He just knows the exact right thing to say.
01:08:06And Steak and I just feel right together.
01:08:08It's just a spark, a connection, a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.
01:08:16I don't know.
01:08:17I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:24Hi.
01:08:25Hi.
01:08:33Hey.
01:08:34That's how you feel?
01:08:35Uh-huh.
01:08:46Yes, man.
01:08:47That is it.
01:08:48She's fine as .
01:08:49Okay?
01:08:50Hmm.
01:08:51I will be soon.
01:08:52Aviva just might be the one.
01:08:53But I don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:09:08Sometimes girls go on stage dance on me.
01:09:10You know, girls be in my DMs.
01:09:12Some pretty girls.
01:09:13I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:09:15She said she will.
01:09:16But we'll see.
01:09:18Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
01:09:19All right.
01:09:20I'm on monster passport.
01:09:21Left on the airplane.
01:09:22Yeah.
01:09:23But we found it.
01:09:24Shut up.
01:09:25Got it figured out.
01:09:26Shut up.
01:09:27Here we go.
01:09:28He's sexing me.
01:09:29He's already here.
01:09:30Feeling so happy and floating.
01:09:32Enlightened me.
01:09:33I'm so happy.
01:09:34I'm so happy.
01:09:35I'm so happy.
01:09:36I'm so happy.
01:09:37I'm so happy.
01:09:38I'm so happy.
01:09:39All right.
01:09:40All right.
01:09:41I'm on monster passport.
01:09:42Left on the airplane.
01:09:43Yeah.
01:09:44I know.
01:09:45But we found it.
01:09:46Got it.
01:09:47Got it.
01:09:48Got it.
01:09:49Got it.
01:09:50Got it.
01:09:51Got it.
01:09:52Got it.
01:09:53Got it.
01:09:54Got it.
01:09:55Got it.
01:09:56Got it.
01:09:57In light of feeling.
01:10:01All right.
01:10:02Here we go.
01:10:04I actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom.
01:10:06Go ahead.
01:10:07Oh, man.
01:10:08I got to find it.
01:10:09See you a minute.
01:10:10This way.
01:10:11Oh, man.
01:10:12I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:10:15Yeah.
01:10:16It's just, I mean, I think that I have these ideas of what I want to say because the emotions
01:10:21get there.
01:10:22The feelings get there.
01:10:23Settle down, Molly.
01:10:24Settle down.
01:10:25Just breathe.
01:10:26This is going to be good.
01:10:27Everything's going to be at peace.
01:10:28You got this.
01:10:29You got this.
01:10:30You're the man.
01:10:31Keep moving forward.
01:10:32My mom did not take kindly to Sheena lying about the money again.
01:10:35She sent text messages to Sheena that made her really upset and hurt.
01:10:39So I'm hoping that my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:10:40Hey, mom.
01:10:41She and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
01:10:42And I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:10:44You look good.
01:10:45You look good.
01:10:46Let's get this fixed up a little bit.
01:10:47Here.
01:10:48Here, let me get this little.
01:10:49There you go.
01:10:50You look good.
01:10:52Are you ready?
01:10:53Yeah.
01:10:54Are you ready?
01:10:55Yes.
01:10:56I'm ready.
01:10:57I'm ready.
01:10:58You look good.
01:10:59You look good.
01:11:00This is your moment, okay?
01:11:01So there you go.
01:11:02You're so nervous.
01:11:04Oh, this is right.
01:11:05This is my mom.
01:11:07Woo.
01:11:08This is my mom.
01:11:09You're so nervous.
01:11:10She's not really not.
01:11:11You look good.
01:11:12But it's my mom.
01:11:13It's my mom.
01:11:14Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other.
01:11:15And I just want everything to go smoothly.
01:11:17You look good.
01:11:18Let's get this fixed up a little bit.
01:11:21Here, let me get this little.
01:11:23There you go.
01:11:24You look good.
01:11:25Are you ready?
01:11:26Yes, I'm ready.
01:11:27This is your moment.
01:11:28let's do this thing here it comes you got this you will do fine you tell her hello you say you
01:11:37we'll just do whatever you feel okay you got this go for us go thank you i love you guys
01:11:44oh my goodness
01:11:56oh my goodness
01:12:26our journey's about to start and we're gonna go to the next level i love you too
01:12:40meeting you getting to be with you finally is my world my everything everything oh
01:12:54it feels like heaven that's the best i have ever felt
01:13:09kissing you uh it was it was ecstatic um she has some really good like perfume or something on
01:13:30actually i put some a lot of flavor like flavor flavored perfumes in it i know you're gonna love
01:13:36it oh i'm loving it right now i think i got it all over me oh really yeah
01:13:39i got mom and dad here too with us
01:13:45i want us to be a big family
01:13:49oh boy scene sheena cry scene morris cry and then the big trigger was just deb and then
01:14:07Oh, boy, seeing Sheena cry, seeing Morris cry, and then the big trigger was just Deb,
01:14:19and then that was the waterworks.
01:14:21You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:22You're okay, okay?
01:14:25I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:29I don't cry very often.
01:14:31I couldn't hold it back, you know, and kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:35I'm sorry, I completely apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:41Well, thank you for apologizing, but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:46Yes.
01:14:46Because we're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:49We are all together, right?
01:14:51I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:14:52It's been like a family.
01:14:54We're family now.
01:14:56We're family.
01:14:57You're with family now, Sheena.
01:15:01Seeing her face-to-face with him, face-to-face with me,
01:15:05this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:08I love you, Sheena.
01:15:09I love baby, baby.
01:15:10And he got the softest lips ever.
01:15:12Oh, really?
01:15:13And he tastes like candy.
01:15:16But apology aside, there's still some things that have to be discussed and talked about
01:15:23before we can proceed.
01:15:25That's just how, how I see it.
01:15:32I would call you, you would press decline, and then I would hear back for hours.
01:15:38I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:42During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:15:51I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:11I promise I will tell you everything, but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:11Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad, but I can't promise that it won't hurt me.
01:16:31About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life, and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:44He was really, really upset, and he caused a huge problem for us.
01:16:52Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:16:55Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:16:57Yeah.
01:16:57And you said that he blamed you?
01:16:59Yeah, he blames me, like, I was complete for everything, so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:08And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:15Oh, man.
01:17:17I'm scared, man.
01:17:19After my ex-boyfriend got robbed, my brother got in an accident.
01:17:25He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:29We did a lot of process, like going for the radiographic and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:36We're paying for his food and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:42Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:46Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:48I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:17:52You would press decline.
01:17:55I didn't press decline.
01:17:56Or you would just not pick up.
01:17:58I didn't pick up.
01:17:58And I would text you, and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:03I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:04I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:10I didn't even want to talk to anybody when I came back there, because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:17Baby, I'm not just anybody.
01:18:18I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:20We have to work together.
01:18:22I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:23So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:26Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:31I don't believe.
01:18:32Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:35Maybe you will judge me.
01:18:38But, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:46I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much.
01:18:50But it's different now, because I see you.
01:18:53I see who you are.
01:18:54So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:02You okay?
01:19:08Um...
01:19:09I'm okay.
01:19:10I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:14Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:19I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:21What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:28But now that we're face-to-face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
01:19:35And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:40Here she is going through all these things.
01:19:44And instead of being there for her, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:19:49What did you do?
01:19:58During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I talked to my ex from Colombia.
01:20:06And she said that, you know, why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:12I'm missing you.
01:20:14And so, you know, I decided to book a trip and go spend time with her.
01:20:22Even though Trish started talking to me again, in my heart, I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:30And so, I still went to Colombia.
01:20:34My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:37We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:41Did you have sex?
01:20:42We had sex all the time, the whole time, multiple times a day, every day.
01:20:51I feel bad for that.
01:20:54So, I know that I need to tell her.
01:20:57But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:03And it might be the end of us.
01:21:05Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:13This is it?
01:21:15I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:17I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:19But I am nervous.
01:21:21BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:26Oh, my God.
01:21:27Here we go.
01:21:32I love Lisa.
01:21:34She's tick.
01:21:35She has books.
01:21:37But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:42We don't accept that.
01:21:47Mm-hmm.
01:21:55We're here going to the Philippines.
01:22:01Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:22:03I've never even met my wife here.
01:22:05This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:09Oh, okay.
01:22:11Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:15He said that?
01:22:16No.
01:22:17We have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:21Okay?
01:22:21Did you guys do the old knockin' knockin'?
01:22:29You're pushing too far.
01:22:32It's in the right time or place.
01:22:33Tina already has that control, that thumb on him, let's not forget, she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of saving for their future.
01:22:43You haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied.
01:22:51The pieces aren't lining up.
01:22:52I don't like that we were fighting yesterday.
01:22:58But there's something else I wanted to, like, talk to you about that, like, I didn't tell you yet.
01:23:04What?
01:23:05What is this?
01:23:05What's happening?
01:23:06I really want to tell Ziyad about my last engagement because I think it's the only way that we could move forward.
01:23:17No.
01:23:18I don't know what I'm gonna do.
01:23:19I don't know what I'm gonna do.
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