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00:00:00Oh, Trish.
00:00:02Oh, you're here.
00:00:04I'm here, baby.
00:00:06I really believe that she's the one.
00:00:09Don't love me.
00:00:10I love you so, so, so much.
00:00:13I know, but I've been very suspicious of Trish
00:00:16after the ghosting incident.
00:00:18But right now, all I want to focus on is our bond.
00:00:22Surprise!
00:00:25Damn!
00:00:26You know what I really like from the States?
00:00:30The Chinese food out there.
00:00:32If you bring that for me, I'll marry you.
00:00:34My boyfriend is just a charmer.
00:00:37He is a famous singer and rapper in Belize.
00:00:41But my aunt hears a lot of rumors.
00:00:44They actually just did a big concert.
00:00:46The first song that was performed was Vicky,
00:00:49and I was getting messages that she was at the concert
00:00:52and that they left together.
00:00:54I hope that Stig and I prove everybody wrong,
00:00:59but there's definitely a little part of me
00:01:00that wonders if what my aunt is saying is true.
00:01:06Beer Con is absolutely like the hot main character
00:01:12straight out of a romance novel.
00:01:14I'm ready to take the next step with him,
00:01:17but I think my best friend, Michael,
00:01:20has feelings for me that are more than just friendship.
00:01:22You want my time and attention
00:01:25as though I am your girlfriend,
00:01:27but it can't go both ways.
00:01:30You said you'd never leave.
00:01:32I want a man who wants to be a man.
00:01:34I want a man who wants to make me a priority.
00:01:36I'm heading to the Philippines today,
00:01:42but last night, Sheena tells me
00:01:44she has been giving all her money to her parents this entire time.
00:01:49I am not happy,
00:01:51and I don't feel like I can trust her.
00:01:54I'm worried that Molly would try to break up me and Forrest
00:01:58when she's alive here.
00:02:01And I would have the most painful heartbreak in my life.
00:02:05It's a beautiful day!
00:02:13It's a beautiful day!
00:02:14It's a beautiful day!
00:02:24I hate packing.
00:02:30I feel like I'm going to forget something.
00:02:32So, yeah, I don't like that.
00:02:34I'm, like, super nervous.
00:02:35Did not expect to be this nervous.
00:02:37I've never gone on a trip for this long.
00:02:40I've never flown over the ocean.
00:02:42I've never left the continent.
00:02:44But I am leaving for Turkey today.
00:02:47I am so incredibly excited to finally be on my way to meet what could be the love of my life.
00:02:54I've been talking about doing this for so long, for so many months.
00:02:57And now that it's here, I'm, wow, like, way more nervous than I thought I was going to be.
00:03:04The situation with Michael is giving me a little bit more anxiety, too.
00:03:10When I confronted Michael, I really was trying to give him a chance so I could have a clear head before going to Turkey to meet BeerCon.
00:03:21But Michael does not seem like he's ever going to come to terms with his feelings and his emotions.
00:03:28And that's not fair to me.
00:03:31So I'm ready to take the next step with someone else.
00:03:35Michael and I have a really great friendship.
00:03:37We do a lot of things together.
00:03:38We spend a lot of time together.
00:03:39And I know that that is not really common to have that kind of male-female friendship in other cultures, other religions.
00:03:51And so that's scary to feel like I might possibly have to choose between somebody who's my best friend and somebody who could be the love of my life.
00:04:00It's open.
00:04:04Hey.
00:04:05Hey, how are you?
00:04:06Good, how are you?
00:04:07Oh, hi, Laura.
00:04:08Are you excited?
00:04:09Yeah.
00:04:10A little terrified, actually.
00:04:11I know.
00:04:12I'm terrified for you.
00:04:15My parents offered to take me to the airport, which is really nice.
00:04:19But my relationship has felt a little bit strained with my parents since I started dating BeerCon.
00:04:25They are very conservative and very Catholic.
00:04:32And BeerCon is not at all who they would expect to see me end up with.
00:04:38So I've tried not to talk about it with them very much.
00:04:43You ready for your big adventure?
00:04:45So excited.
00:04:51I can't believe today's the day.
00:04:53I appreciate you guys taking me to the airport.
00:04:55I know it's a little bit of a drive.
00:04:57Oh, well, I wanted you to feel supported, but I'm not in favor of all this.
00:05:04I can't believe you would go clear to Turkey and meet a guy you never met who is a Muslim.
00:05:12It's not even in my wheelhouse to think that that would ever have been something that was possible.
00:05:17You know what I'm saying?
00:05:19It seems irresponsible to me.
00:05:22It's not like I'm going in completely blind or without the same concerns and questions.
00:05:31The age thing is the single biggest concern that I have.
00:05:37How old is he, Laura?
00:05:40He's 20 years younger than I am.
00:05:42Oh, my God.
00:05:46Laura, are you serious?
00:05:47I think I got hair on my chin older than that.
00:05:51Don't make jokes.
00:05:52That's not funny.
00:05:53What is he thinking?
00:05:55What is he thinking?
00:05:56I'm awesome.
00:05:57What is he thinking?
00:05:58I think he's thinking I'm awesome.
00:06:00No, I think he's thinking he wants a ticket to America.
00:06:04That's what I think he's thinking.
00:06:05Were you ever suspicious?
00:06:10Like, gee, he's a young man talking to an older woman and saying all the right things.
00:06:15Has he told you he loved you?
00:06:18Yeah.
00:06:19Okay.
00:06:19Big red flag.
00:06:20Because he doesn't love you.
00:06:21That's not what love is.
00:06:24You haven't even met this guy yet.
00:06:26You've had a conversation with an unknown entity.
00:06:32Right now, it's not love.
00:06:33It's some infatuation or some...
00:06:35To me, I will not be convinced it's nothing but...
00:06:40That guy wants out a turkey.
00:06:42I don't...
00:06:43Like I said, it's a concern.
00:06:45I agree.
00:06:46A concern?
00:06:46It's more like ten giant red flags.
00:06:52My word in heaven.
00:06:54You actually think.
00:06:56That there's a possibility that this could work and this could be a lifelong commitment?
00:07:03Yeah, I do.
00:07:04You do?
00:07:05If I didn't think that there was a possibility, I wouldn't be getting on a plane and flying to Turkey.
00:07:10Oh, my God.
00:07:12Oh, my God.
00:07:18We're just pointing out all our concerns.
00:07:21You know?
00:07:22And all I can hope is that you make the right decision.
00:07:26I feel blindsided.
00:07:30I knew that they didn't really approve.
00:07:34I just didn't know that they felt this strongly.
00:07:39I just...
00:07:40Honey, I disagree with the whole thing.
00:07:41All of it.
00:07:43I want to be happy for you.
00:07:48But I can't.
00:07:49I'm already so overwhelmed.
00:07:53I'm feeling every emotion possible.
00:07:55And for my mom to unleash all of these concerns on me at this point, it is just messing with my head.
00:08:04It keeps me awake at night, thinking about you going over there and doing all that.
00:08:09Don't sell yourself short.
00:08:11Don't ever settle.
00:08:12I got a funny feeling ain't nobody going to understand.
00:08:25No trouble in the outside.
00:08:27We have to make a pit stop.
00:08:28Why?
00:08:29Because your mother is picking out condoms.
00:08:34Are you sure you don't want to come in with me?
00:08:36Yeah.
00:08:37Yeah.
00:08:37No.
00:08:38That's...
00:08:38That's what I'm showing.
00:08:39I'm going to do it once.
00:08:43Do it twice.
00:08:44Take the cake.
00:08:45Not just a slice.
00:08:46I got a funny feeling ain't nobody...
00:08:48What did you tell me earlier?
00:08:50You're how old?
00:08:51I'm 52.
00:08:53And you said you're an adult?
00:08:55I am an adult.
00:08:57You don't need my help picking out condoms.
00:09:00My name is Lisa.
00:09:01I'm 52 years old and I live in King of Prussia, Pennsylvania.
00:09:05I thought you would feel better knowing that your mother's taken precautions.
00:09:10I mean, he did say he was a playboy, so...
00:09:12I said a lot of women seem to like him.
00:09:15No, you said he used to play the field a lot.
00:09:19Is that not a playboy?
00:09:20Playboy is somebody who's like, um, a gigolo.
00:09:24He didn't say he was not a playboy.
00:09:25No, gigolo and playboys are way different.
00:09:28Gigolos are male hooker.
00:09:29No, that's not.
00:09:30That's what a gigolo is.
00:09:31That's a pimp.
00:09:32A pimp is the one who takes out female hookers and gets the money.
00:09:37Okay.
00:09:39I live with my daughter, Faith, where Faith lives with me.
00:09:43We live with each other.
00:09:43And she is the apple of my eye.
00:09:47We talk about everything.
00:09:49Whether it's the topic of sex and masturbating to dirty dishes in the sink and who's going
00:09:58to do the laundry tomorrow.
00:09:59I don't know what I'm looking for.
00:10:01What if I buy the wrong one?
00:10:03How do I know what size it is?
00:10:05Has he ever told you in inch, well, I guess it wouldn't be, in kilometers?
00:10:12No.
00:10:14I have never used a condom before.
00:10:16Every male I was with, I married.
00:10:18I have been married five times.
00:10:23Husband number one, I was young, I was dumb, and it led to an annulment.
00:10:28Husband number two, he was my very best friend, and it led to my daughter, Faith.
00:10:33But after a few years, I realized he made a better friend than he made a husband.
00:10:39Husband number three, he was actually my favorite of all of them.
00:10:43He was a really good guy.
00:10:46So why did I leave him?
00:10:48I realized I was a lesbian, and for the past 21 years, I've been with women only.
00:10:54Let's go with the flow.
00:10:58Relax and watch what happens.
00:11:01Women are nice and curvy and soft, and I've had one wife, and then I've had another wife.
00:11:08But neither of them worked out.
00:11:11But I forgot about men, to be quite honest with you.
00:11:13I wasn't even thinking that I'd be interested in a man after 21 years.
00:11:17But sure enough, Daniel came along, and yeah, Daniel came along.
00:11:27Hi, beautiful.
00:11:28You're my everything.
00:11:29You're the lights in my show.
00:11:34He is 39 years old, and he lives in Oweri, Nigeria.
00:11:39He's not built like a woman in any sense of the way, shape, or form, so I don't know what it is.
00:11:46He messaged me on social media.
00:11:50We didn't know each other from Adam or Eve.
00:11:54So at first, I thought, this is a scam artist.
00:11:57I said, I'm not talking to you.
00:11:58You're not real.
00:11:59But he kept trying to talk to me, and you know what?
00:12:03He is a smooth operator.
00:12:05He says the sweetest, most charming things I've ever heard.
00:12:08I just fell in love with him.
00:12:16He is so sweet, it hurts my teeth like a bad candy bar.
00:12:20I love you, Lisa, and I will continue to love you.
00:12:24Daniel says, I'm exquisite, and I'm beautiful and gorgeous daily.
00:12:28And he's better because this damn thing is itchy as all hell, and it's uncomfortable.
00:12:35Can I take it off?
00:12:36Oh my God, it feels so much better.
00:12:50One of my exes had me cut off my hair really, really short, and I miss my long hair so much.
00:12:57So I wear wigs.
00:12:59Daniel saw me in my natural hair first, and then he saw me in my wigs, and he was like, damn.
00:13:04So now I wear wigs every day, and I plan on wearing my wig the whole time when I go visit Daniel in Nigeria in less than a week.
00:13:14Okay, here goes nothing.
00:13:17Try a flavored one.
00:13:18You might like it.
00:13:18No, I'm not getting flavored.
00:13:20Maybe you're rubbed.
00:13:21No, I don't know.
00:13:25Growing up with mom was in a roller coaster.
00:13:28My mom is somebody who's always fallen in love so quickly, at least what she thinks is love.
00:13:37She's been through a lot of relationships.
00:13:40We've moved so many places.
00:13:42I've been to 15 different schools, if that tells you something.
00:13:46Part of me is surprised she's switching over to men after 21 years.
00:13:51I didn't see this one coming.
00:13:53Oh, gosh.
00:13:57Oh, it's a very small selection.
00:14:01Oh, there's different sizes.
00:14:03Holy crap.
00:14:05Daniel and I, we've had video sex.
00:14:07We've sent pictures to each other, and I am attracted to Daniel.
00:14:13But the idea of laying with a man after 21 years, I can't even think about it.
00:14:19They have different body parts than women.
00:14:21The smells, the taste, the feels, the cleanup.
00:14:27I mean, I remember 21 years ago just walking to the bathroom to have to take care of myself and still dripping.
00:14:35That's disgusting.
00:14:36You don't have that with women.
00:14:39It's a whole different ballgame.
00:14:41Oh, I'm going to be sick.
00:14:43Um, sir, do you have a moment?
00:14:46Could I ask you a question, please?
00:14:48I'm not going to help you.
00:14:49So embarrassing.
00:14:50I'm sorry.
00:14:50This is my first time I'm buying condoms.
00:14:53Okay.
00:14:53They have to be latex-free.
00:14:55I'm allergic to latex.
00:14:57Um, oh, gosh.
00:15:00When it says thinnest, does that mean that you feel more like it's a natural skin on it?
00:15:06It's just it doesn't feel like there's plastic going in you or I'm sorry, I'm crying.
00:15:10I'm just really, really embarrassed.
00:15:12No, no, it's good.
00:15:13I'm buying the condoms myself because I'm worried that I'll get there and there won't be a latex-free condom.
00:15:19But this is incredibly overwhelming and emotional for me.
00:15:25This is not just about the embarrassment over the condoms.
00:15:30All I can think about is Daniel and how he has no idea that I lived my life as a lesbian for 21 years.
00:15:36Thank you so much.
00:15:38Yeah, no problem.
00:15:38I appreciate it.
00:15:40A couple of months ago, I went into Tessa Waters to see if I could come out with my whole truth.
00:15:46And I told him in the past I had a fling with a woman.
00:15:52Daniel said to me, how could I do that to myself?
00:15:55How could I do that to God?
00:15:56God doesn't believe in same sexes being together.
00:15:59And he was disgusted.
00:16:03There you go.
00:16:05Yeah, no problem.
00:16:05Give me the rest of your time.
00:16:06I'm diving in the purse.
00:16:08I plan on telling Daniel the truth in person because I am not ashamed of who I am.
00:16:13But I'm terrified to tell him because of how he responded to the fling.
00:16:17I'm terrified.
00:16:21I'm worried that he's going to say that this is a mistake and walk away.
00:16:27And I'm going to be left heartbroken.
00:16:30Okay, that's all we're done with.
00:16:32Thank God.
00:16:40Well, well, well.
00:16:41So you're really serious in this girl, bro?
00:16:43Yes, I am.
00:16:45I was a player for most of my life.
00:16:48Now, I actually want a family.
00:16:49I want somebody to be there for me.
00:16:51So you want to stop all the parties?
00:16:53I stop all the parties.
00:16:54That's part of my life.
00:16:55That's part of my life.
00:16:56How do you think she's going to react?
00:16:59I have a check-in flight and I've landed.
00:17:03But I'm worried since he's not texting me.
00:17:07You're going to need your passport.
00:17:10Let's get through here.
00:17:11I don't know.
00:17:11I left them somewhere.
00:17:13What are we doing now?
00:17:13Oh, God.
00:17:18I'm excited to leave sports in 20 minutes.
00:17:22I'm still on the other.
00:17:23I'm rushing to my next gate right now.
00:17:39I don't want to miss my flight.
00:17:40It's a good thing that I've been keeping up in the gym
00:17:44because I am having to run to my connecting flight to Belize
00:17:48to meet my boyfriend, Stig, for the first time.
00:17:51Stig, you better be worth it
00:17:52because running through the airport is really embarrassing.
00:17:56Stig's a famous musician in Belize
00:17:58and the women there love him.
00:18:01So the last thing I want to do
00:18:03is look like a sweaty mess
00:18:05when I meet him for the first time.
00:18:06But I don't really have a choice right now.
00:18:09Four minutes.
00:18:10Just getting to my gate.
00:18:12Oh, I made it with perfect timing.
00:18:18Thank the Lord.
00:18:20Next stop, Belize.
00:18:23After waiting for so long,
00:18:25I'm super nervous to meet Stig,
00:18:27but I cannot wait to get my hands on him
00:18:30and start a future together.
00:18:33My second plan to Belize
00:18:35I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:38I'm coming for you, baby.
00:18:42I'm coming for you, baby.
00:19:12I'm coming for you, baby, baby.
00:19:19What's up?
00:19:20I am Erlen Dwayne.
00:19:22I go by Stig, the artist.
00:19:24I'm a musician from Belize, Belize, Central America,
00:19:27and I'm 30 years old.
00:19:29You know the vibes.
00:19:31I think I'm a cool guy, you know.
00:19:33I'm just chill for the most part.
00:19:36But when I'm performing,
00:19:38it's just a different feeling.
00:19:40I just get alive.
00:19:42I love what I do.
00:19:43I love music.
00:19:44I love singing for the ladies then.
00:19:46And the girls, you know,
00:19:48they can get pretty wild at my show.
00:19:52There's this one time,
00:19:53this girl was literally trying to get in my pants.
00:19:55She was front stage.
00:19:56I'm like, yo, chill.
00:19:58But if that's what my music gives them,
00:19:59that kind of joy,
00:20:01then I'm doing the right job.
00:20:02I can't take you off my mind.
00:20:05About 10 years ago,
00:20:06I put out my first song,
00:20:08my first music video.
00:20:10I recorded every single day in the studio.
00:20:12I grew my fan base.
00:20:13And now I'm at the highest level of Belize
00:20:16as an artist.
00:20:16So everybody recognized me
00:20:19and I'm very grateful for the love
00:20:21and support that I get here.
00:20:22There can only be one.
00:20:24One you.
00:20:25One you.
00:20:25I'm very proud of what I've become,
00:20:30but I couldn't have done it by myself.
00:20:33Perf is my producer.
00:20:35He produced a lot of my biggest songs.
00:20:38Richie is my manager.
00:20:40Six is my G.
00:20:42He's one of my best friends.
00:20:44They're still my homies
00:20:45since we started everything.
00:20:46And I know they're always looking out for me.
00:20:49Have a special toast.
00:20:51My gallery tomorrow.
00:20:53Cheers, yeah?
00:20:54You really like the American girls, bro.
00:20:59You really like them.
00:21:00Farina.
00:21:00Yo.
00:21:00You like the right girl.
00:21:01Farina.
00:21:02Farina.
00:21:04I just straight, Farina.
00:21:06We are dead.
00:21:09Listen, my friends,
00:21:11they could joke around as much as they want
00:21:12and tease me,
00:21:13but I'm very serious about my girlfriend Aviva.
00:21:17Two years ago,
00:21:19I started talking to Aviva on social media.
00:21:22At first, we were both in a relationship.
00:21:24But when we both became single,
00:21:26it was way beyond friends.
00:21:30Aviva's super hot.
00:21:31She has the most beautiful blue eyes.
00:21:34But one of the most attractive things about Aviva
00:21:36is her personality.
00:21:38She has a beautiful heart.
00:21:41So humble and gentle.
00:21:43And she has a cute little laugh with her.
00:21:46I don't have to be stick to artists.
00:21:48You know, I don't have to impress her.
00:21:49I can be Erlen Dwayne.
00:21:51And that's why I feel like
00:21:52she's the person I want to spend the rest of my life with.
00:21:55So you're really serious in this girl, bro.
00:21:58Yes, I am.
00:22:00You think you'd have settled down really with this woman?
00:22:02Start a family.
00:22:04Let's get married.
00:22:05Let's have kids.
00:22:06I don't know.
00:22:07I might want to be a baby.
00:22:10You are breathing.
00:22:12You want to bury her, girl?
00:22:13Hello.
00:22:13I mean, woof, woof, woof, woof, woof.
00:22:17Damn.
00:22:19So you're right.
00:22:20So you know why she can't have your baby over America?
00:22:24America?
00:22:24America?
00:22:25America because you want to be a baby ton.
00:22:26You know why you get to do it?
00:22:28I mean, the girls.
00:22:30They get serious, bro.
00:22:34It's getting serious, you know.
00:22:36So you want to stop all the party?
00:22:38I stop all the party.
00:22:39That's part of my life.
00:22:40I mean, you know, like,
00:22:42I plan to take her to San Pedro for the show.
00:22:46You're taking her to San Pedro for the shows?
00:22:49You ready for that?
00:22:49Yeah.
00:22:50I mean, I hope she's ready.
00:22:52You know what it calls San Pedro, right?
00:22:55Temptation Island.
00:22:56Yee-haw!
00:22:57So what if you fix her San Pedro
00:22:58when a hundred girls jump out to you?
00:23:01I could bet you had you reached San Pedro
00:23:03I want to marry you.
00:23:08My personal relationship.
00:23:09I tell him, like, you're going to get jealous?
00:23:11No, no, no.
00:23:13You always trip.
00:23:13So I told Aviva,
00:23:14we're going to see,
00:23:15I hope you don't trip.
00:23:18And she's like,
00:23:18no, I'm not like that.
00:23:19I'm not jealous.
00:23:20But I don't know.
00:23:23I want somebody from my side,
00:23:24you know,
00:23:25to sit at her and worry about all that kind of stuff.
00:23:29Yeah, but everywhere we go,
00:23:30people always say,
00:23:31you have XYZ girls.
00:23:33How do you think she's going to react?
00:23:35I hope,
00:23:37I hope and pray,
00:23:39I can be the best version of myself.
00:23:41This time I can do things a little bit different.
00:23:44No disrespect, right?
00:23:45I heard that sound too many times, bro.
00:23:50I can't control it.
00:23:52I can't control it.
00:23:53A lot of my relationships in the past have failed
00:23:59because of this very issue.
00:24:01You know,
00:24:01I was a player for most of my life.
00:24:05Now,
00:24:06I actually want a family.
00:24:07I want somebody I can go home to at night
00:24:08and they're there to listen to me,
00:24:10to be there for me.
00:24:12I hope Aviva can be that person
00:24:14and that I can be a faithful partner.
00:24:18You guys are going to love Aviva.
00:24:20You know,
00:24:20I love her.
00:24:21So let's see how it goes.
00:24:23I have 20% feet.
00:24:26God.
00:24:27Damn.
00:24:32So update on the food.
00:24:36Ooh,
00:24:36that shrimp.
00:24:38Look at that.
00:24:40Good stuff.
00:24:42Gene and I
00:24:43get good airline food like this.
00:24:45Let me take a flight back home.
00:24:51Oh,
00:24:51man.
00:24:51I look like this.
00:24:53You know,
00:24:53I know you're as nervous.
00:24:54You're so nervous.
00:24:55Oh,
00:24:55man.
00:24:56You're so nervous.
00:24:58You're so nervous.
00:24:59You're so nervous.
00:24:59Forrest is arriving today with his parents, and I feel, wow, like, super happy and excited.
00:25:22I'm on my way to the airport now. We rented a bigger apartment where we can all stay together. So, I'm carrying quite a few bags.
00:25:38Also, I am bringing jackfruit. I want Forrest and his family to taste the local goodies here in the Philippines.
00:25:45I'm really quite nervous, and I don't know how to react.
00:25:56It's possible that I would kiss him at the point, or not. I would be quite too nervous to kiss him for the first time.
00:26:05Honestly speaking, we will both enjoy with each other.
00:26:09But I'm worried regarding with Molly, that she would say bad things to me.
00:26:16So, I'm trying to get rid of my nervousness, especially meeting the first time with the love of your life.
00:26:23It's once in a lifetime, so why not enjoy with it?
00:26:33Look, here we go.
00:26:36We're touching now.
00:26:39After so long.
00:26:40Forrest, this sure is a long way to come traveling for a girl.
00:26:51Yeah, but she's not just any girl.
00:26:59All right.
00:27:04We are exiting, like, after 30 hours of being on an airplane, I finally made it to the Philippines.
00:27:26I'm feeling ecstatic.
00:27:28I feel like I drank, like, six energy drinks.
00:27:31Mom.
00:27:37Mom.
00:27:39What?
00:27:40Just in the middle.
00:27:41We should have a passport.
00:27:43Where's mom?
00:27:43It's in there.
00:27:44Right?
00:27:45I don't know.
00:27:48Great choice, though.
00:27:49It's in the brown.
00:27:50Yeah.
00:27:50Yes, I happened to check-in flight, and it landed.
00:27:58But I'm also worried, since he's not texting me.
00:28:04I really calm down.
00:28:09Here's my...
00:28:10I'm starting to fall more in love with Trish, but I think it's important that we're completely
00:28:38transparent with each other, and I wanted to touch bases with you about what exactly you
00:28:46were doing for those five days, and why you weren't in contact with me.
00:28:51Did you sleep good?
00:29:15I slept great, baby.
00:29:17I slept beautiful in the morning, babe.
00:29:19I was really tired from what we did.
00:29:37So was it everything you expected it to be?
00:29:41Even more.
00:29:42Yesterday night, we had sex two times.
00:29:51He's older, and I didn't think, like, he can do all of the stuff he did to me.
00:29:57Like, for the second round, it was...
00:30:02Oh, my God.
00:30:04You want to go one more round?
00:30:07Let's do that.
00:30:08You good?
00:30:20Yeah.
00:30:21We're here.
00:30:23Wow.
00:30:24So this is the market.
00:30:24I only gave Trish a little sample of what I could do.
00:30:29I have some more tricks up my sleeve.
00:30:33If it were up to me, I'd just stay at the hotel all day.
00:30:36But this is our first day in Madagascar together, and Trish wants to take me to explore her city.
00:30:43What is that fried fish right there?
00:30:45Yeah.
00:30:45This is so different from anywhere I've ever been in my life.
00:30:50Today, I want to show him everything around in Antananarivu.
00:30:58First, I'm taking him to the market in Alakili.
00:31:04The butcher shop right here, huh?
00:31:06Mm-hmm.
00:31:07And they just leave the meat out like this without refrigeration?
00:31:15Yeah.
00:31:17Big face.
00:31:18Yeah.
00:31:20Oh, my God.
00:31:20What is that, babe?
00:31:21What is that?
00:31:22The stomach of the cow?
00:31:25The stomach.
00:31:26Yeah, yeah.
00:31:26And then this is also, like, intestines or what?
00:31:29Yes.
00:31:30I think I see a heart over there.
00:31:32See?
00:31:32That's here.
00:31:34Oh, my God.
00:31:35I'm feeling like Trish deceived me.
00:31:39I mean, this is our first date.
00:31:41All this raw meat is going to mess up the sexy vibes we had going this morning.
00:31:46So this is all the leftover stuff that people usually don't eat.
00:31:50No, we'll see that.
00:31:53In my culture, we eat everything.
00:31:56We don't waste something in the cow.
00:32:00Oh, my God.
00:32:01Even the feet, the head, intestine, the heart, liver, everything.
00:32:08Break.
00:32:09It's just food.
00:32:10Relax.
00:32:11Baby, I know that's not a brain right there.
00:32:14It's a brain.
00:32:15Oh, Lord.
00:32:16Yeah.
00:32:17Why?
00:32:17Would you eat that?
00:32:19Of course.
00:32:21Well, baby, don't put that in those stews that you cook for me.
00:32:25Please don't.
00:32:26I hope somebody's going to enjoy it.
00:32:42Wow, baby, what a view.
00:32:45You can see all Madagascar here.
00:32:48Wow.
00:32:50I can see the whole island.
00:32:51Yeah.
00:32:52Oh, my God.
00:32:53You don't know how to taste that.
00:33:18Like this.
00:33:19I know how to tap dance, but...
00:33:49This is not tap dance.
00:33:50This is something foreign to me.
00:33:51I've never seen this style of dance before.
00:33:54But I'm realizing that there's a lot that I don't know about Trish just from talking to
00:33:58her over the phone.
00:33:59Like she's an amazing dancer.
00:34:02I didn't know she had that in her.
00:34:05Hey, all right.
00:34:07Woo!
00:34:07Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:08Woo!
00:34:09Woo!
00:34:09Woo!
00:34:09Woo!
00:34:10Woo!
00:34:10Woo!
00:34:10Woo!
00:34:10Woo!
00:34:11Woo!
00:34:11Woo!
00:34:11Woo!
00:34:11Woo!
00:34:12Woo!
00:34:12Woo!
00:34:13Woo!
00:34:14Woo!
00:34:15Woo!
00:34:16Woo!
00:34:17Woo!
00:34:18Woo!
00:34:19Woo!
00:34:21Woo!
00:34:21Woo!
00:34:22Woo!
00:34:22Woo!
00:34:23And she talked a ride that were completely transparent with each other.
00:34:24Wow.
00:34:25That was, um, was that your traditional dance?
00:34:26No, that's not mine.
00:34:27I just dance like that.
00:34:31You like it?
00:34:32Oh, it's beautiful.
00:34:33The name of their place is Arufa.
00:34:36Arufa-
00:34:36Arufa.
00:34:37Arufa.
00:34:37That means a palace.
00:34:40Oh!
00:34:41OK, now where's the palace?
00:34:42It's there!
00:34:43Oh, that's the palace!
00:34:44Okay, yeah, it's beautiful.
00:34:47Oh, I'm tired, even.
00:34:52This is so beautiful, baby.
00:34:54I'm having such a great time with you.
00:34:57But, um, you know, there's some things
00:35:01that I want to talk to you about.
00:35:04So I wanted to touch bases with you
00:35:09about what exactly you were doing for those five days.
00:35:14Why you weren't in contact with me.
00:35:19I already told you, like, you want me to explain to you
00:35:24everything that happened.
00:35:26You know that all of these things that you're telling me,
00:35:28you know, kind of sounds unbelievable in a way.
00:35:34I would like you to be open and honest with me right now.
00:35:40I promise I will tell you everything,
00:35:43but promise me that she won't get mad.
00:35:56You sent him money, right?
00:35:59Is that not part of a romance scam?
00:36:02My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times
00:36:06right now financially.
00:36:07She's in so much debt.
00:36:09I think this topic needs to be over
00:36:11because this is ridiculous.
00:36:12I'm going to put the fire on the bucket.
00:36:24Add a little bit to the sun.
00:36:26Now we've got entertainment.
00:36:29Uh-oh.
00:36:30Don't be good.
00:36:31And we have wire.
00:36:32We have a drive.
00:36:33What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:36What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:38Oh, go for it, Fee.
00:36:40What we going to do, going to break that heat.
00:36:42Oh!
00:36:43Yay!
00:36:44I can do it.
00:36:45Oh!
00:36:46That was so close.
00:36:47What?
00:36:48I'm ready to go.
00:36:49Let me try.
00:36:50That was way over my head.
00:36:51That was on me.
00:36:52That was on you.
00:36:53Oh, yeah.
00:36:54For sure.
00:36:55I'll give you a good one.
00:36:56Hotter, like a baseball.
00:36:57Oh, my God.
00:36:58That looks delicious.
00:36:59What kind of food do they have in Nigeria?
00:37:01Well, Daniel has showed me pictures of some of his meals.
00:37:04He's always eating rice.
00:37:05Is it like a fried rice thingy thing?
00:37:07I don't know.
00:37:08I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:10Where are you going again?
00:37:11I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:13Wow.
00:37:14Why?
00:37:15I don't know.
00:37:16I have no clue what their food is.
00:37:17Where are you going again?
00:37:18I am heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:20Wow.
00:37:21Why?
00:37:22I'm heading to Africa, to Nigeria.
00:37:23Wow.
00:37:24Why?
00:37:25I am going to meet a man that I have not met in person yet,
00:37:30for the very first time.
00:37:31Oh, my goodness.
00:37:32Wow.
00:37:33Congratulations.
00:37:34Good for you.
00:37:36Yeah, no problem.
00:37:37But it's crazy.
00:37:38Is it not crazy?
00:37:39Yeah, slightly a little crazy.
00:37:40I would agree.
00:37:41But, you know, the heart wants what the heart wants.
00:37:43So go for it, I say.
00:37:46I'm leaving to Nigeria to meet Daniel for the first time,
00:37:50in just a few days.
00:37:52I can't believe I'm doing this.
00:37:53I must be insane.
00:37:54I really must be.
00:37:58I'm very, very nervous.
00:37:59So I wanted to take the edge off by having a night out with my daughter Faith and my friend Juna.
00:38:05Oh, my.
00:38:06There's a volcano.
00:38:07Here it comes.
00:38:09I have to see you again.
00:38:11Woo!
00:38:12Juna is my very best friend.
00:38:15I swear to God, if she was a lesbian, Juna would be my ideal woman.
00:38:21Juna knows the ringer I've been through in past relationships.
00:38:25And she is supportive of Daniel.
00:38:28I'm hoping this is finally more happy every hour.
00:38:31I'm going to hold you to it.
00:38:32What?
00:38:33Because this is my happily ever after?
00:38:34Yes.
00:38:35And this is the last time.
00:38:36My issue is saying it's the last one, as she's said every other time, which we know.
00:38:42Right?
00:38:43He's always talking sweet to me.
00:38:45He's always trying so hard to do things.
00:38:47He just makes me feel so good and so wonderful.
00:38:51It's a good thing that he's treating you up, but that's part of what concerns me.
00:38:57The love bomber right away, it's part of a romance scam.
00:39:03They go for single, and I don't mean to say, older women who have been hurt and who are desperately looking for somebody and want someone to give them all the compliments, all the love.
00:39:17Stop.
00:39:18Hold on.
00:39:19Do I look like an old, vulnerable, searching for somebody, woman, on the internet?
00:39:28No, I was minding my own business, not looking for anybody.
00:39:31But you sent him money, right?
00:39:34Is that not part of a romance scam, sending money?
00:39:39Even though I live paycheck to paycheck, I send Daniel money almost every two weeks.
00:39:44Daniel works in construction, he makes very little money, and he lives in a very poor area of Nigeria.
00:39:53I give Daniel money for food.
00:39:55I have bought him clothes.
00:39:59I give him money for fuel, for electricity.
00:40:02This is my generation.
00:40:03Daniel has come straight out and asked for money around two, maybe three times.
00:40:11But I give Daniel money more for myself because I want to feel that he's safe, and I want to feel that he's secure.
00:40:17All I know is within the first two months, you sent $2,000 total.
00:40:24And that was two months ago.
00:40:26So how much more is it now?
00:40:28I don't know.
00:40:30How did he do it before he met you?
00:40:35Does he not have a job?
00:40:37Yes, he has a job.
00:40:39But lately he's been sick and he's missed work because of the malaria and other things that he has caught.
00:40:46That's not a red flag to you?
00:40:48He meets you and now all of a sudden he's getting sick all the time?
00:40:52My mom and I have been having a lot of hard times right now financially.
00:41:00She borrows from Juna a lot.
00:41:02She's in so much debt and it has me feeling more on edge.
00:41:08You were telling me, is Juna gave you money to help us with bills?
00:41:13She has, haven't you?
00:41:15So she's been giving you, how much in debt now are we?
00:41:18You already know I hate that you're asking for money all the time.
00:41:21But it hasn't been the amounts that it has been.
00:41:24It's so bad.
00:41:26Daniel seems to be a really, really nice person.
00:41:31I see how happy she is.
00:41:33So I have given her money to send to him.
00:41:36And I gave Lisa the money for the visa to go to Nigeria.
00:41:41I do have some concerns, because if he's scamming her,
00:41:46then he's scamming me.
00:41:50This was between Juna, me, and Daniel.
00:41:53It had nothing to do with you and me and your bills.
00:41:56It had to do with Juna and I and Daniel.
00:41:59And you're still not seeing any red flags about this?
00:42:02Juna has talked to him.
00:42:03Does he seem like he's a real bad man from texting?
00:42:07No, he doesn't.
00:42:11But, you know, texting and talking are different things.
00:42:19There's no point in me trying to talk to you about anything.
00:42:22That's fine.
00:42:23Because I know things that are inside and out more than you do,
00:42:27because you're not in the relationship.
00:42:30And this may be the best relationship I've ever had.
00:42:34You've said that every time.
00:42:41This has all been an emotional wreck,
00:42:43and we have not had one positive conversation together.
00:42:46And it's breaking my heart as much as it's breaking yours.
00:42:48And I think this topic needs to be over,
00:42:51because this is ridiculous.
00:42:53It always has to be over.
00:42:55I'm done.
00:42:57I'm done?
00:42:59I'm done.
00:43:01I'm done.
00:43:02I'm done.
00:43:03I'm done.
00:43:04I'm done.
00:43:05I'm done.
00:43:06I'm done.
00:43:07I'm done.
00:43:08I'm done.
00:43:09this might be the start of the rest of my life with one girl
00:43:19we would say one burner that mean you have one partner never always been a one burner
00:43:27i used to be full of gallo need to make some changes into my lifestyle but i'm nervous to
00:43:34handle all that
00:43:34oh this is crazy
00:43:39super excited super nervous
00:43:46probably 34 minutes until i land
00:43:49let me rephrase that 34 minutes until me and the shrimp land
00:43:56and they actually landed on my pants
00:44:00i have greasy smelly sauce all over me
00:44:04the things i do for you today the things i do
00:44:07you're one of them
00:44:09i was getting warm in here as the beep beep crack into the atmosphere come on let's switch gears and the power still and go let's go
00:44:20so today my girl is coming i want to give her a belizean welcome beautiful flowers for a beautiful lady
00:44:32today i met my girlfriend aviva for the very first time in person
00:44:37aviva's probably thinking that we're going back to my city to my apartment but she don't know that we have my nice hotel room in belize city because i want a nice little romantic stay tonight but hey this looks a little kinky
00:44:56i have butterflies
00:45:01i have butterflies i feel like a kid again
00:45:05if this might be the start of the rest of my life
00:45:08with aviva
00:45:09with one girl
00:45:10we would say one burner
00:45:12one burner
00:45:14that mean
00:45:15you have one partner
00:45:17never always been a one burner
00:45:19i used to be full of gal
00:45:21but i need to make some changes in my life and my lifestyle so i can be the man that i've always envisioned that i would be
00:45:32uh am i driving over
00:45:33yes sir
00:45:34all right
00:45:36well vv
00:45:37minutes away from picking you up
00:45:39i'm nervous
00:45:44i'm about to leave my man these
00:45:48after two years of talking and six months of dating i'm finally meeting stig for the first time
00:45:58we're here we made it
00:46:00i am super super nervous and it's making me nauseous
00:46:12the flight just landed
00:46:14i'm ready
00:46:16i'm помerald
00:46:18and i laughing
00:46:19i'm just laughing
00:46:21i appreciate the music
00:46:22all right
00:46:22i have the best music
00:46:23i wish her everything
00:46:24i have to subscribeuję
00:46:25man. enough time for my bro
00:46:26Blessings
00:46:29Ugh
00:46:29Volume
00:46:31ok
00:46:33i'm going estou
00:46:34bathroom toVISHIM
00:46:35uh
00:46:37I'm super nervous
00:46:37I know he's outside waiting
00:46:39Yeah
00:46:40A who
00:46:41I do
00:46:43I just want to make sure that
00:46:44that he sees me and he's attracted to me.
00:46:46I look so tired and it's stressing me out.
00:46:49I'm so proud.
00:46:53I know he's around beautiful women all the time.
00:46:56And deep down, there's things I'm worried about.
00:47:02My biggest fear is that I'm going
00:47:05to go in with this big loving heart
00:47:08and it's just going to get crushed.
00:47:12Here we go.
00:47:13This is what I've been preparing myself for.
00:47:26This is crazy.
00:47:31Oh my .
00:47:32I'm going to throw up.
00:47:36Okay.
00:47:43I'm going to throw up.
00:47:44Oh.
00:47:45Oh.
00:47:46Oh.
00:47:47Oh.
00:47:48I'm leaving.
00:47:49I'm here.
00:47:50I am.
00:47:51Oh.
00:47:52Oh.
00:47:53Oh.
00:47:54Oh.
00:47:55Look at him.
00:47:57More beautiful in person.
00:47:58No.
00:47:59Social media don't.
00:48:00Nah, I ain't got nothing on you.
00:48:01She's a good kisser.
00:48:02You know what?
00:48:03It felt good.
00:48:04It felt natural.
00:48:05It felt good.
00:48:06It did.
00:48:07It felt natural.
00:48:08It felt good.
00:48:09It did.
00:48:10Did I get a red?
00:48:11You're a blessing.
00:48:12You're a blessing.
00:48:13I love it.
00:48:14Oh.
00:48:15You're here.
00:48:16I know.
00:48:17Oh.
00:48:18You're very beautiful.
00:48:20You look really good too.
00:48:21And I'm super happy.
00:48:22Love that.
00:48:23Baudet.
00:48:24Baudet.
00:48:25Baudet.
00:48:26Baudet.
00:48:27Baudet.
00:48:28Baudet.
00:48:29Baudet.
00:48:30Baudet.
00:48:31Baudet.
00:48:32Baudet.
00:48:33Baudet.
00:48:34Baudet.
00:48:35Baudet.
00:48:36Baudet.
00:48:37Baudet.
00:48:38Baudet.
00:48:39Aviva got a fat ass.
00:48:40I had no idea.
00:48:41I know she's been in the gym a lot.
00:48:43But what?
00:48:44I like it.
00:48:45It's like mmm.
00:48:48Mmm.
00:48:49Mmm.
00:48:50Okay, well I brought you Chinese food since you asked.
00:48:53And uh...
00:48:54No way.
00:48:55It's up.
00:48:57Yeah.
00:48:58Don't eat that.
00:48:59Don't eat that.
00:49:00Please don't.
00:49:01Just throw it away.
00:49:02You did say that if I bring it to you, you'd marry me.
00:49:05So...
00:49:06I mean I brought it.
00:49:08I brought it.
00:49:09It's here.
00:49:10I bet.
00:49:11I'm out of my word.
00:49:12Ask anybody.
00:49:13Ask about me.
00:49:14You ready?
00:49:15Yes.
00:49:16Let me get that one for you.
00:49:17I definitely feel a spark right away.
00:49:26I couldn't have asked for a better first kiss.
00:49:31It was a very magical moment.
00:49:33He definitely smelled better than the Chinese food I was carrying.
00:49:38Please throw this away now.
00:49:39No, no, no, no.
00:49:40I'm gonna eat it.
00:49:41You'll get sick.
00:49:42We're throwing it away.
00:49:43It's going.
00:49:44It's going.
00:49:45It's going.
00:49:46It's gone.
00:49:47Today is just making me feel really special.
00:49:49And I know I only just got here, but it just seems like the rumors Aunt Spring brought up that he hasn't been exclusive with just me seem a little silly and not true.
00:50:01You're actually here.
00:50:02I know.
00:50:03What are we going to do?
00:50:04Wow.
00:50:05I did bring some lingerie.
00:50:08Laura is coming to Turkey and it makes me feel excited.
00:50:16Also, I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out.
00:50:27I know that's something that I should tell her, but I don't know how she's going to react.
00:50:39Well, take care.
00:50:41I'm sure to ride.
00:50:43You too.
00:50:44Don't cry.
00:50:45Don't cry.
00:50:46Just be safe, okay?
00:50:56I'm about to head to Turkey so I can meet BeerCon in person for the very first time.
00:51:01And I'm trying not to think about all of the things that my parents were saying.
00:51:06Hey.
00:51:07Love you.
00:51:08Bye.
00:51:09Bye.
00:51:10Bye.
00:51:11Bye.
00:51:12I'm just sleeping.
00:51:14Seriously.
00:51:15Love you.
00:51:16I'm the same.
00:51:17Don't cry.
00:51:18Hi.
00:51:19cidoנים.
00:51:20Are you.
00:51:21Singing as I stare from afar?
00:51:22There's an absolute possibility.
00:51:23This is going to blow up in my face, and everyone that was naysaying against it will tell
00:51:27me that they told me so, but I feel like life is a series of calculated risks.
00:51:29life is a series of calculated risks and if I'm not willing to take a risk for
00:51:34love then what am I willing to take a risk for I have about 13 hours until I
00:51:50get to meet the love of my life and I need to decompress from just all of the
00:51:58negative energy from the car ride with my parents with a good smutty book with some
00:52:04really steamy moments
00:52:13this is the best part in darkness you know what I love about Nietzsche he lighten
00:52:21the people around them but he's the darkness himself he was the part of the
00:52:27reason I wanted to find the light I am into philosophy because life is deep we
00:52:35are living on the surface I am trying to learn lives that I never lived I
00:52:41discovered Nietzsche on my toughest time of my life I had the chance professional
00:52:49career of football player I was on the training and my knee collapsed with other
00:52:56one knee and my AC had crushed I know it was over but I still play football for
00:53:03fun you know I love the game just have to keep moving embrace the pain I just like
00:53:12this one part is struggling and one part is surviving
00:53:17after I ruptured my ACL it was just end of everything you know everything I dream of now I rebuild it from the bottom
00:53:34and what's helping me the most is finding Laura actually
00:53:42it was destiny I met Laura in Snapchat we started talking and joking around she was so supportive so optimistic she made me believe that dreaming is okay
00:54:01that's the point that I realized she was perfect for me I'm in the darkness but I can see the sun
00:54:11it is about third or four weeks I told her I love her and now Laura is coming to Turkey and it makes me feel
00:54:19excited also I feel nauseous because I'm freaking out I want to move things the next level and maybe propose
00:54:30I don't know I don't know what I'm waiting for just meeting
00:54:42memo and Cuba are my best friends in Izmir I'm not close with my family so they are the closest people I have
00:54:52to know who we are we are the closest people I saw you stay in love we are the closest people I can know
00:55:10how many who do you tell me you've heard me of course I have a lot of people you'll see you
00:55:17But I didn't see it.
00:55:22How old was he?
00:55:2445.
00:55:2545.
00:55:27Is this a problem?
00:55:29No.
00:55:31Think about it.
00:55:32When you come to 45, he will be 65.
00:55:36Do you want to see someone younger?
00:55:40Do you know that I'm not a person?
00:55:42What do you think?
00:55:46She's old.
00:55:47It's okay.
00:55:48Because I dated older woman before.
00:55:51The thing I'm attracted with older woman is...
00:55:55They understand, you know?
00:55:57Not childish.
00:55:59And Laura looks good when you consider her age.
00:56:04She looks young.
00:56:07You told me about your life, right?
00:56:09Yes, yes.
00:56:12No, it's not a person.
00:56:14It's not a person.
00:56:15It's a person who knows.
00:56:16It's a person who knows.
00:56:17You don't know what you're talking about.
00:56:18You don't know what you're talking about.
00:56:20Yes.
00:56:23But it's not a person who's talking about what's happening.
00:56:25It's a person who's talking about it.
00:56:26Yes.
00:56:30When my football career is over, I opened up couple businesses.
00:56:36Eventually everything is failed and I couldn't find a proper job.
00:56:42She knows that I have some troubles but she doesn't know how much...
00:56:48I know that's something that I should tell her.
00:56:51But I don't know how she's going to react.
00:56:54You know what she's going to say.
00:56:55I don't know.
00:56:56You know what he's going to do?
00:56:57Look at that, you know what I'm talking about.
00:56:58You have a woman.
00:56:59Umm, what I'm talking about?
00:57:00With this.
00:57:01You just didn't know how I have a man.
00:57:04What happened?
00:57:05He's the one who cares about me.
00:57:08I'm afraid of the things that I'm afraid of.
00:57:11It's my fault.
00:57:14I want him to finish this relationship.
00:57:18If you have a problem, you don't understand.
00:57:21He's the one who wants to go.
00:57:23He's the one who wants to think about it.
00:57:27There's nothing to say about it.
00:57:29I don't want to say that I don't want to say that I don't want to say that.
00:57:32He knows this, but I don't trust Michael.
00:57:37I don't feel good about Michael at all.
00:57:41They are doing every activity together, but you think that you're just friends, then I'm by.
00:57:48I'm not comfortable with this friendship she has.
00:57:51And if she doesn't cut Michael out of her life, I don't know this relationship is going to work.
00:58:02I'm supposed to be your confidant.
00:58:05I thought that you were with somebody else.
00:58:07Now that we're face to face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
00:58:13I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
00:58:17Oh, man. I scared them.
00:58:20Yeah.
00:58:28I'm done?
00:58:29I'm done.
00:58:39Faith.
00:58:41You okay?
00:58:42I can't.
00:58:43I can't.
00:58:45Now I'm worried about her.
00:58:47I don't know what to do at this point, because it always ends up being a thought.
00:58:53Every time I've tried to voice my opinion, she doesn't want to talk about me, she doesn't want to hear me.
00:59:01Or she told me I'm not allowed to feel that way.
00:59:05And see if we can find her.
00:59:07See if we can fix this.
00:59:12Faith.
00:59:21Let me talk to you for a minute.
00:59:23I really don't want to.
00:59:24No. Look at me. Look at me.
00:59:26Please, look at me.
00:59:29I love Daniel, and I know that you're worried that I'm in another bad relationship, and things are going to go sour, and you're trying to save me from that.
00:59:36But I don't want you to feel like you're being second choice.
00:59:40I will always choose you before somebody else.
00:59:42Look at me.
00:59:43I will.
00:59:44You said, do not marry Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:47I promise you with the bottom of my heart, I am not marrying Daniel while I'm in Nigeria.
00:59:51I'm not.
00:59:54Just give me the opportunity to do this.
00:59:58If you break this promise.
00:59:59I'm not going to break this promise.
01:00:01If you break this promise again, I can't do this anymore.
01:00:06No, because that would be toxic, and I'm not a toxic person anymore, okay?
01:00:11So just please, give me a hug.
01:00:13I really need some space right now.
01:00:16Okay, I'll do that.
01:00:23This was an awful lot for her today.
01:00:29I have been in so many relationships and moved around so much on this poor child when she was little.
01:00:36But at that time, I was searching for who I was.
01:00:39I want to show her that this is different.
01:00:43I'm a grown-up.
01:00:45I'm not this young mom who is trying to take care of a young child and have a relationship after relationship.
01:00:51I want my happily ever after.
01:00:53I want this to be forever.
01:00:58And Fink doesn't see that yet.
01:01:00Can I talk to you for a minute?
01:01:14I'm trying to understand your feelings, and I'm trying to not fight about it.
01:01:20Is your biggest fear that I'm going to marry him without you knowing him and that I'm going to choose him over you?
01:01:26You never listen.
01:01:29I'm telling you to think about us first.
01:01:40Listen, I understand your point of view.
01:01:42I'm listening to you, and I'm going there to get to know him better.
01:01:45I'm going there to see if we are compatible.
01:01:49I'm not going there just to run off and get married.
01:01:52I'm listening to your concerns, and I am going to voice them.
01:01:56I promise you I will.
01:01:58Okay?
01:01:59Can I have a hug now?
01:02:01Okay, come here.
01:02:02I love you.
01:02:03I will start listening better.
01:02:06I'm proud of everything you do.
01:02:08You are wonderful and kind-hearted and loving and sweet and caring, and you have been good to your mother,
01:02:14regardless of what I've put you through.
01:02:16And I'm proud of you, and I will listen to you more, okay?
01:02:19All right.
01:02:22I understand where Faith is coming from,
01:02:24and I understand that she has been down this road with past relationships over and over again.
01:02:30I-I hold her opinion deeply in my heart,
01:02:34but I think Daniel's different.
01:02:36I think he's the real deal.
01:02:38I think he's a very precious man who is very rare,
01:02:41and I would be a fool not to go after him.
01:02:46Can we go home now?
01:02:48You're welcome, welcome.
01:03:01Okay!
01:03:02Sig is everything I thought he would be.
01:03:04He looks super good.
01:03:05There is definitely some chemistry,
01:03:08but it's a bit scary.
01:03:10I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle,
01:03:13and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy,
01:03:16but I hope that you haven't been seeing other people.
01:03:22Just breathe.
01:03:23You got this.
01:03:24You're a man.
01:03:26Sheena and I have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other,
01:03:29and I'm hoping my mom will not fight with Sheena.
01:03:32I just don't know how to feel on this whole situation.
01:03:35Yeah.
01:03:36There's still some things that have to be discussed
01:03:39before we can proceed.
01:03:41It's your boy.
01:03:56No way.
01:03:57I love it.
01:04:00Celebrities, that is okay.
01:04:04Can I take a picture of it?
01:04:07Yeah, sure.
01:04:08Lovely, lovely girl.
01:04:12You know you can change the world.
01:04:17So, where are we going?
01:04:22I don't even know where we're going.
01:04:23I don't know.
01:04:24I don't know.
01:04:25You don't know?
01:04:26No, I don't.
01:04:27The driver, you know where we're going?
01:04:28The driver's just taking us?
01:04:29He don't know where we're going either.
01:04:30Oh, whatever.
01:04:31So, I don't know.
01:04:32But I can tell you, though,
01:04:33we're going to spend the night in Billy City at a hotel.
01:04:36Tomorrow, we're going to go to the island.
01:04:38I do have a show out of the islands.
01:04:40Okay.
01:04:41Some new songs.
01:04:43I'm excited to perform those.
01:04:44I'm excited.
01:04:45Hopefully, I kill it.
01:04:46You know?
01:04:47Okay.
01:04:48A lot of people are going to be there?
01:04:49Yep.
01:04:50Are you ready to be there?
01:04:51Are you ready for that?
01:04:52I'm nervous.
01:04:53Do you want me there even?
01:04:55Of course I want to.
01:04:56I know Stig can't stop working while I'm here.
01:05:05I would never ask him to do that.
01:05:07But I'm really shocked to hear that I'm seeing Stig perform already in just a couple days.
01:05:13I've been a little bit nervous about having to watch him on stage with girls
01:05:21and having him interact with fans in front of me.
01:05:25And now, I'm going to be thrusted into it right away.
01:05:28And it's a bit scary.
01:05:29Ooh.
01:05:30Okay.
01:05:31Welcome.
01:05:32Welcome.
01:05:33Okay.
01:05:34That's nice.
01:05:35I'll leave this here for now.
01:05:36This is super nice.
01:05:37So, we'll have an extra prize for you.
01:05:39Okay.
01:05:40Since you said that you love the flower, I got you some more flowers.
01:05:43Aw.
01:05:44Those are so pretty.
01:05:45Something beautiful.
01:05:47This was to show you that you're my one and only.
01:05:48Okay.
01:05:49And this is to show some gratitude that you're here.
01:05:51Aw, thank you.
01:05:52I like them.
01:05:53They're so pretty.
01:05:54Check them out.
01:05:57Stig is everything I thought he would be.
01:05:59He looks super good.
01:06:00There is definitely some chemistry.
01:06:03What are you going to do with those?
01:06:05I'm all over you.
01:06:07We've been touching each other, kissing each other.
01:06:09So, I hope the night continues on sexually.
01:06:17Let's get comfy.
01:06:18That sounds good to me.
01:06:20I'm attracted to her even more now in person.
01:06:23But, I'm a gentleman.
01:06:24I'm not going to just push up on her and try to get some the first night.
01:06:29We'll see how it goes.
01:06:31I'm going to let it play out the way it should play.
01:06:33I'm going to get more comfy.
01:06:37So, what about the attack?
01:06:40A flower?
01:06:41Sorry, it's not a rose, right?
01:06:42What is it?
01:06:43Is it a rose?
01:06:44I think it is a rose.
01:06:45What are you going to get steak on your forehead?
01:06:48I could get it here.
01:06:49Only if you get Aviva.
01:06:50There.
01:06:51Yeah.
01:06:52Leave my ass and I have Aviva big on my neck or something.
01:06:55Same.
01:06:56How do you think I would feel?
01:06:57I'm going to leave you.
01:06:58Mm-hmm.
01:06:59Unless you make me leave you.
01:07:01Oh.
01:07:02What would make you want to leave me?
01:07:05Oh, that's a good question.
01:07:07If you, um, you can't understand what I do for work and how I, you know, my lifestyle because
01:07:14of what I do and who I am.
01:07:15Yeah.
01:07:16I mean, I definitely want to respect your lifestyle and I don't want to be super jealous or crazy.
01:07:21But, but I also want to be, like, respected too.
01:07:25Just like, I hope that you haven't been seeing other people because I feel like we've been talking seriously, but I get it.
01:07:35Why you roll your eyes like that?
01:07:36I don't know.
01:07:37Cause like...
01:07:38You don't trust me?
01:07:39Oh, you don't trust me?
01:07:40I mean, I know your lifestyle.
01:07:43There's a lot of beautiful women around you always, so...
01:07:46They're not you, though.
01:07:47Okay, Mr. Charming.
01:07:50Ooh.
01:07:52I got to.
01:07:53Okay.
01:08:00I do have one more thing for you that's not spilling Chinese food.
01:08:04Okay.
01:08:05Yeah.
01:08:06Steak makes me feel really comfortable.
01:08:08He just knows the exact right thing to say.
01:08:11And Steak and I just feel right together.
01:08:14It's just a spark, a connection, a happiness, all wrapped together with a bow.
01:08:21I don't know how to explain it.
01:08:29Hi.
01:08:30Hi.
01:08:35Okay.
01:08:36Okay.
01:08:37Okay.
01:08:38Hey.
01:08:39That's how you feel?
01:08:40Uh-huh.
01:08:41Yes, man.
01:08:42That is it.
01:08:43She's fine as .
01:08:44Okay.
01:08:45Hmm.
01:08:46I will be soon.
01:08:48Aviva just might be the one.
01:08:49But I don't think she understands the extent of my lifestyle as a performer.
01:08:55Sometimes girls go on stage dance on me.
01:08:56You know, girls be in my DMs.
01:08:57Some pretty girls.
01:08:58I don't know if she can handle all that.
01:08:59She said she will.
01:09:00But we'll see.
01:09:01She said she will.
01:09:04But we'll see.
01:09:13Um, hmm.
01:09:14Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh.
01:09:15dance on me you know girls be in my dms some pretty girls i don't know if she can handle all that
01:09:22she said she will but we'll see
01:09:34all right i'm on monster passport left on the airplane
01:09:38yeah but we found it got it figured out here we go
01:09:56he's sexing me he's already here feeling so happy and floating enlightened feeling
01:10:04all right here we go i actually have to go freshen up in the bathroom
01:10:12oh man i gotta find it this way oh man i just don't know how to feel on this whole situation
01:10:20yeah it's just i mean i think that i have these ideas of what i want to say
01:10:25because the emotions get there the feelings get there settle down while we settle down
01:10:34just breathe this is gonna be good everything's gonna be at peace you got this you got this you're
01:10:46the man keep moving forward my mom did not take kindly to sheena lying about the money again
01:10:53she sent text messages to sheena that made her really upset and hurt
01:10:59so i'm hoping that my mom will not fight with sheena
01:11:06hey mom she and i have been waiting seven years to meet up with each other and i just want
01:11:12everything to go smoothly you look good let's get this fixed up a little bit here let me get this little
01:11:20there you go you look good thank you are you ready yeah i'm ready this is your moment okay
01:11:29i'm so nervous
01:11:36let's do this thing here it comes you got this she will do fine you tell her hello you say you
01:11:42we'll just do whatever you feel okay you got this go for us go thank you i love you guys
01:11:59oh my god
01:12:01oh my god
01:12:13oh my god
01:12:15oh my god
01:12:25Our journey's about to start, and we're going to go to the next level.
01:12:44I love you, too.
01:12:45Oh, I'll never hear the best of you.
01:12:49Meeting you, getting to be with you finally, is my world.
01:12:57My everything.
01:12:58My everything.
01:12:59Oh, Papa Bear.
01:13:01Sheena.
01:13:02Oh, I'm so happy, baby.
01:13:04You're the best muggle bear ever.
01:13:06I love you.
01:13:07It feels like heaven.
01:13:10It's the best I have ever felt.
01:13:15Oh, no.
01:13:16Sheena, can I kiss you?
01:13:17Kissing you.
01:13:29It was ecstatic.
01:13:32She has some really good, like, perfume or something on.
01:13:36Actually, I put some a lot of flavored perfumes in it.
01:13:40I know you're going to love it.
01:13:41Oh, I'm loving it right now.
01:13:42I think I got it all over me.
01:13:43Oh, really?
01:13:44Yeah.
01:13:45That's why.
01:13:47I got mom and dad here, too, with us.
01:13:53I want us to be a big family.
01:13:54Hi, mom.
01:13:56I'm loving it.
01:14:10You've got to be crying for shit.
01:14:12I know, I'm going to be able to see me, Sheena.
01:14:17Oh, boy.
01:14:18Seeing Sheena cry, seeing Morris cry,
01:14:22and then the big trigger was just Dev,
01:14:24and then that was the waterworks.
01:14:26You're all right, Sheena.
01:14:27You're OK, OK?
01:14:30I was surprised that it got to me like that.
01:14:34I don't cry very often.
01:14:36And then right there, I couldn't hold it back,
01:14:39you know, and it kind of felt good, I guess.
01:14:42Sorry, I hopefully apologize for everything that has happened.
01:14:46Well, I thank you for apologizing,
01:14:49but let's make this a happy moment, all right?
01:14:51Yes, ma'am.
01:14:52We're going to be, today is a happy day.
01:14:54We are all together, right?
01:14:55Yes.
01:14:56I'm so glad to see you guys.
01:14:57It's been like a family.
01:14:59We're family now.
01:15:01We're family.
01:15:03You're with family now, Sheena.
01:15:06Seeing her face to face with him, face to face with me,
01:15:10this whole thing is just so overwhelming.
01:15:13I love you, machine.
01:15:14I love baby, man.
01:15:16And you got the softest lips ever.
01:15:17Oh, really?
01:15:18And you taste like candy.
01:15:19But apology aside, there's still some things
01:15:25that have to be discussed and talked about before we can proceed.
01:15:31That's just how, how I see it.
01:15:38I would call you, you would press decline,
01:15:41and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:15:44I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:15:50During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days,
01:15:54I had made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:15:58What did you do?
01:16:11I promise I will tell you everything,
01:16:13but promise me that she won't get mad.
01:16:24Okay, I can promise you that I won't get mad,
01:16:31but I can't promise that it won't hurt me.
01:16:36About months ago, I had a lot going on in my life,
01:16:43and for five days, I didn't answer Rick's call.
01:16:48He was really, really upset,
01:16:51and it caused a huge problem for us.
01:16:56Um, my ex-boyfriend got robbed.
01:16:59Right, yeah, you told me about that.
01:17:01Yeah.
01:17:02And you said that he blamed you?
01:17:04Yeah, he blames me.
01:17:06Like, I was complete for everything,
01:17:09so I was really nervous and upset.
01:17:12And also, I didn't tell you everything, but, um...
01:17:16Oh, man, I'm scared now.
01:17:23After my ex-boyfriend got robbed,
01:17:27my brother got an accident.
01:17:29He hurt someone, bumped someone on my scooter.
01:17:34We did a lot of process,
01:17:35like going for the radiographic
01:17:38and the guy at the hospital.
01:17:41We're paying for his food
01:17:43and paying for everything he needs.
01:17:47Then we went to the police to pay for the amends.
01:17:51Baby, why didn't you tell me that?
01:17:54I mean, I would call you, call you.
01:17:57You would press decline.
01:17:59I didn't press decline.
01:18:01Or you would just not pick up.
01:18:02I didn't pick up.
01:18:03And I would text you,
01:18:04and then I wouldn't hear back for hours.
01:18:07I thought that you were with somebody else.
01:18:11I didn't even really care about my phone.
01:18:14I didn't even want to talk to anybody
01:18:18when I came back there,
01:18:20because I was nervous and really upset.
01:18:22Baby, I'm not just anybody.
01:18:23I'm supposed to be your confidant.
01:18:25We have to work together.
01:18:26I didn't see you yet, Rick.
01:18:28So it's scary to tell all my problems.
01:18:33Maybe just say, that's not true.
01:18:36I don't believe.
01:18:37Maybe she just wants money.
01:18:39Maybe you will judge me.
01:18:44But, yeah, I was wrong.
01:18:51I'm really, really sorry to hurt you so much.
01:18:55But it's different now, because I see you.
01:18:58I see who you are.
01:19:01So I can share, like, everything happens to my life.
01:19:04I see you.
01:19:06I see you.
01:19:07You okay?
01:19:08You okay?
01:19:09Um...
01:19:10I'm okay.
01:19:11I completely understand what you're saying now.
01:19:15Thank you so much for explaining everything to me.
01:19:23I just didn't know what to do, baby.
01:19:26What she was telling me before just wasn't adding up in that moment.
01:19:34But now that we're face-to-face, I feel like I can see the truth in her eyes.
01:19:40And I feel a little bit guilty for not trusting her.
01:19:45Here she is going through all these things, and instead of being there for her, I made the biggest mistake of my life.
01:19:54What did you do?
01:20:03During the time that Trish ghosted me for those five days, I talked to my ex from Columbia.
01:20:11And she said that, you know, why don't you, you know, come down here?
01:20:17I'm missing you.
01:20:18And so, you know, I decided to book a trip and go spend time with her.
01:20:27Even though Trish started talking to me again in my heart, I believe that she cheated on me.
01:20:35And so I still went to Columbia.
01:20:39My ex stayed with me for the week.
01:20:42We were acting as a couple once again.
01:20:46Did you have sex?
01:20:48We had sex all the time, the whole time, multiple times a day, every day.
01:20:56I feel bad for that.
01:20:59So I know that I need to tell her.
01:21:02But I'm extremely scared that it'll be something that she can't forgive me for.
01:21:08And, uh, it might be the end of us.
01:21:14Next time on Before the 90 Days.
01:21:18This is it?
01:21:20I can't believe I'm about to meet him.
01:21:22I'm really proud of the progress that I've made.
01:21:24But I am nervous.
01:21:26BeerCon won't be as attracted to me in person.
01:21:31Oh, my God, here we go.
01:21:37I love Lisa.
01:21:38She's thick.
01:21:39She has boobs.
01:21:41But as an evil man, I am worried about that she was physical with a woman.
01:21:46We don't accept that.
01:21:47We're here going to the Philippines.
01:21:54Yes, I'm going to see my wife.
01:21:58I've never even met my wife here.
01:21:59This would be actually our first meet.
01:22:01Oh, okay.
01:22:02Me and Anna, we've been married two years.
01:22:04He said that?
01:22:06No, we have been in a relationship for six years and married for almost three years.
01:22:11Okay?
01:22:12You guys do the old, nookin' nookin'?
01:22:28You're pushing too far.
01:22:29It's in the right time.
01:22:33Poor place.
01:22:35Yeah.
01:22:37Sheena already has that control, that stuff.
01:22:42thumb on him let's not forget she was giving all of her money to her parents instead of
01:22:47saving for their future you haven't given me a direct answer as to why you lied the pieces
01:22:56aren't lying enough i don't like that we were fighting yesterday but there's something else
01:23:05i wanted to like talk to you about that like i didn't tell you yet what what is this what's
01:23:10happening i really want to tell ziyad about my last engagement because i think it's the only way
01:23:17that we could move forward no i don't know what i'm gonna do
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