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00:00The bees are head-butting me.
00:11Yeah, they're not happy we're here.
00:14Come in to the grand foyer.
00:17Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom,
00:19which is also our .
00:20I mean, is that, yeah.
00:21Is this a PG program?
00:23No, don't do.
00:25We try to put Gokhan in his crib,
00:28but he ends up in our bed.
00:32He's kicking us.
00:33He's crying.
00:35And we can't be intimate.
00:37We really need to change our sleeping ranges.
00:40Why?
00:41I'm tired of not having a sex life.
00:44I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
00:48I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's
00:52initials on your finger, bro.
00:54I'm just going to, like, chop it off at this point.
00:57For the nipples, the scar goes around the areola.
00:59You can't ever guarantee that you won't get hypo
01:02or hypersensitivity.
01:04There are a lot of risks that go into getting
01:07your boobs reducted.
01:09I could lose nipple sensation, have an ugly scar,
01:13or maybe be lopsided.
01:15Oh, my God, I'm getting anxious.
01:17I see this.
01:18Hmm.
01:20I feel like Siyad is completely withdrawing from me
01:31and this marriage, and it just makes me really suspicious,
01:35especially after finding him with another woman.
01:37I was kind of hoping we could enjoy having a Saturday off
01:40together.
01:41Yeah.
01:41How'd you get them?
01:43Are we?
01:50Yeah.
01:51I feel good, baby.
01:52I feel great.
01:53I ain't got so much on my plate.
01:55We're going to have a good day.
01:57Hey, we are getting ready to go to jiu-jitsu.
01:59Yes.
02:00Are you excited?
02:01I'm a little nervous.
02:02Oh, my gosh.
02:03She's so excited.
02:04All right.
02:05My name's Chantel.
02:06I'm 34 years old, and I'm from Atlanta, Georgia.
02:10Now introduce yourself.
02:11You have to do this, too, now.
02:13Okay.
02:14Hey, I'm Ashley.
02:15I'm 35 years old, and I'm from Wadawi, Alabama.
02:18Let me grab the door while you hold the camera.
02:20Aw, thank you.
02:21Yeah, yeah, yeah.
02:22Sweetie.
02:23So excited for this.
02:24All right.
02:25Hi.
02:26Hi.
02:26How are you?
02:27Doing well.
02:28Good.
02:29We've been trying to find a hobby that's for couples,
02:31and we can do it together.
02:33So Ashley suggested that we do jiu-jitsu.
02:37So I've been in jiu-jitsu for about a year,
02:39and I took some time off, but now I'm getting back to it.
02:42Couples hobby.
02:43Yay.
02:44Are you excited for this?
02:45Are you ready?
02:46I am nervous.
02:47I'm nervous.
02:48My 90-day journey began with my ex-husband, Pedro.
02:53Pedro moved to the US on the K-1 visa, and we got married.
02:58I pronounce that they are husband and wife.
03:02All right.
03:03You may kiss your bride.
03:10But after seven years of marriage, we divorced because our families just couldn't get along.
03:15Divorciate, punto.
03:16Suéltalo.
03:17You just call me a bitch.
03:19Yes.
03:21You are a whore, and you will not disrespect me like this today.
03:25Good night.
03:27After my divorce, I was living my best life, and that's when Ashley told me that she had romantic feelings for me.
03:34I'm so happy.
03:35I've never been with a woman before, but it was something that I was open to exploring.
03:42We soon fell in love, and a couple of months ago, Ashley moved in with me.
03:47I hope that there's enough room for all of this stuff.
03:51I hope so, too, because I kind of have more energy.
03:54Oh, my God.
03:55I love waking up to her and falling asleep to her.
03:58I love it.
03:59Aw, baby.
04:00So sweet.
04:01So sweet.
04:02All right.
04:03So we're going to start our class with self extension.
04:07Someone might try to grab your leg on and drag you out.
04:11She's going to break your rib towards my cup.
04:14So I've been working towards a blue belt.
04:17I don't know the difference between a green belt, a yellow belt, a blue belt.
04:21The only kind of belt that I know about is a Prada belt.
04:24Seriously?
04:25A Gucci belt.
04:26A Louis belt.
04:27I'm going to pair you guys up.
04:30I'm going to pair you up.
04:31I'm going to pair you up.
04:32I'm going to pair you up.
04:33I'm going to pair you up.
04:34I'm going to pair you up.
04:35I'm going to pair you up.
04:36Hold hard.
04:37Hold like you're going to drag her.
04:38You're the bad guy.
04:39Bad guy.
04:40Drag her to the ground.
04:41Perfect.
04:43I didn't know that this was going to be this aggressive.
04:46I'm supposed to make it happen for her.
04:48I mean, I thought we were just going to do a little wax on, wax off, like Karate Kid.
04:57But we are throwing each other around.
05:00There you go.
05:01Back.
05:02This is like football without the football.
05:07Well, thank you so much for the class today.
05:16Are you excited?
05:17Yeah, I'm excited.
05:19But my back is killing me.
05:21My boobs have gotten so big over the years.
05:26And they've been causing me a lot of back pain and shoulder pain, headaches, migraines.
05:32When I first started my 90 day journey, my breasts were a double D.
05:37And now I'm currently at a L.
05:40That's halfway through the alphabet.
05:44I'm excited.
05:45I'm a little nervous.
05:46Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:47I know.
05:48I've had big boobs since...
05:49It's pregnant.
05:50I'm excited.
05:51I'm a little nervous.
05:52I'm excited.
05:53I'm a little nervous.
05:54Baby, I'm nervous for you.
05:55I know.
05:56I've had big boobs since...
05:59It's pregnant.
06:00Everybody online always thinks that these are fake and these are implants.
06:09But these are real and they're a real pain in my back.
06:13So I'm looking into a breast reduction surgery so that I can live a more pain-free life.
06:20With smaller breasts, I'll be able to participate in jujitsu better.
06:27Maybe compete.
06:29Really?
06:30I do.
06:31Another nice thing about getting the breast reduction is I'm looking forward to not being
06:38perceived sexually in some situations.
06:41Yeah.
06:42My boobs are so big that people stare at them and point at them and make all kinds of comments.
06:50Like, oh, they're so big and so fake and why would she do that to her own body?
06:56And it hurts my feelings and it makes me feel so self-conscious.
07:01And I just want to be comfortable in my own skin.
07:05Let's do this thing.
07:07I got your phone.
07:09Great.
07:15Okay, here we go.
07:17How heavy is this compared to my actual breasts?
07:21This is lighter.
07:22You think that's lighter?
07:23Yeah, it's way lighter.
07:24Put the other one on there.
07:26That's still lighter.
07:27Are you kidding me?
07:28Shut up.
07:29I'm going to see Dr. Deal, who did an amazing job removing my birthmark last year.
07:39Wow.
07:40I'm so happy.
07:42I'm so happy.
07:43Wow.
07:44Dr. Deal and I have already discussed that I want to get the breast reduction.
07:50So I'm meeting with him so he can go over everything and tell me what the surgery entails.
07:57What's up?
07:58Yo!
07:59What's up?
08:00Hey, Dr. Deal.
08:01Oh, look.
08:02Are we recording here?
08:03I'm sorry.
08:04I didn't even bust in the room.
08:05All right.
08:06Stand up for me.
08:07Let's see this.
08:08Okay.
08:09Imagine.
08:10So you see how they cover up a lot of my torso.
08:13One of the things that I was wanting to achieve is just more of my torso.
08:18Okay.
08:19Um.
08:20Mm-hmm.
08:23For the nipples, you want them about four centimeters above the fold under the breast.
08:27So about right here.
08:28So I'm just going to freehand this.
08:29You really want the nipple about in that position there.
08:32As you can see, the scar goes around the areola.
08:34It goes down the middle.
08:36That's where this comes together.
08:37And that's how the breast gets lifted.
08:39Oh, I still feel it.
08:40I think you have to feel it.
08:43I read that if you get a breast reduction, sometimes your nipple sensation won't come back.
08:49Oh, no.
08:50We got to have those nipples.
08:52We got to be able to feel.
08:54You can't ever guarantee that you won't get both hypo or hypersensitivity, but the majority
09:01of patients do get it to come back at around nine months or so.
09:05The idea that I could lose nipple sensation with my breast reduction or have an ugly scar
09:13or maybe be lopsided is a big risk.
09:16So I am worried that this could end horribly for me.
09:21With the breast reduction, yes, we'll get them to the size you want them to be.
09:26But remember, they'll still have a little bit of a slope on the top when they heal.
09:30Oh, my God.
09:31I'm getting anxious.
09:32I should not see this.
09:33Hmm.
09:34It's okay.
09:35Oh, hey, guys.
09:49Welcome to El Cris.
09:50Come on inside.
09:51To give you guys a little tour.
09:52Look at my fridge now.
09:53And my beers.
09:54Cheers.
09:55Cheers.
09:56How's everybody?
09:57My name is Sinjin.
09:58I'm all the way from South Africa.
09:59I'm 35 years old and I live in beautiful Los Angeles.
10:00My name is Shana.
10:01I'm 27.
10:02I'm from San Diego and I currently live in Los Angeles, California.
10:04Since you last saw us, we moved out of San Diego all the way to L.A. because Shana got a job out here and we're just hoping for the best.
10:23We'll do the whole tour, guys.
10:25Don't blink or you might miss it.
10:27This is our pooper.
10:28With our washer.
10:29The pooper is behind it.
10:31Yeah.
10:32Here, wait.
10:33Very small.
10:34Yeah.
10:35Plus, we have storage.
10:36We have storage.
10:37We have storage.
10:38Peace your eyes.
10:39Oh.
10:41Our definitely not haunted creepy, dark, gross spider demon cabinet.
10:47Tanya!
10:48No.
10:49Tanya, you're in there.
10:50I think she's demoning somewhere else.
10:51She's not there.
10:52Thank the Lord.
10:54My 90 day journey began when Tanya flew all the way to South Africa, met me in a local bar over there, you know?
11:01She's like, oh, this is a cute guy.
11:02Let's have sex.
11:03She looks beautiful even when she wakes up in the morning.
11:06Aw, baby.
11:07Supposed to be a one night thing.
11:09But then we ended up falling in love.
11:11I literally applied for the K-1 visa.
11:14Got here.
11:15Yes!
11:16Oh, my God.
11:17Got to get married in 90 days.
11:20Got married on day 89.
11:22I hereby pronounce you husband and wife.
11:26You may kiss the bride!
11:27Yeah!
11:28Yeah!
11:29Yeah!
11:31After me and Tanya were married, she told me that I'm not her true soulmate.
11:35And that, for me, just kind of was the beginning of the end of the relationship.
11:39This will be for the best, you know?
11:42Um...
11:43Are we getting divorced or are we getting separated?
11:45What do we even do?
11:46I think it's the same thing.
11:47No, I mean, separation, you're still legally married, you're separated.
11:50Yeah, but there's no point in them being married if you're separated.
11:56Sorry, baby.
11:59And now I'm sitting next to an even more beautiful girl.
12:03So I would say I win.
12:05Yeah, yeah.
12:06I slid in those DMs probably a little prematurely.
12:09I think you were still married.
12:10I was still still married.
12:11Sorry.
12:12Sorry.
12:13Sorry.
12:14Sorry.
12:15He was hot.
12:16There she is, everybody.
12:18We fell in love very quickly.
12:20We did distance for almost a year.
12:23Eventually, I wore him down.
12:25And now we're three and a half years later living in LA, Los Angeles, California, baby.
12:31And then you come in to the grand foyer.
12:35Which is also our living room, which is also our bedroom, which is also our room.
12:38I mean, is that...
12:39Yeah.
12:40This is a PG program.
12:41Come over here and check our toast.
12:43This is our son.
12:46His name is toast.
12:48Come say hello to everyone.
12:50He is like...
12:52Mwah.
12:53A little guy.
12:54At least this child doesn't scream.
12:56I know.
12:57He doesn't scream.
12:58I know, right?
12:59Right?
13:00He doesn't scream every once.
13:01He doesn't, but so do children.
13:02Look.
13:03Day high.
13:04Day high.
13:05Mwah.
13:06Okay, Lise.
13:07Mommy's getting pound towns, so you gotta go away.
13:10You are.
13:11I'll give you the best two minutes of your life, brother.
13:13Oh, wow.
13:14No wachi wachi.
13:15No wachi wachi.
13:16Free for free!
13:24What?
13:25I just...
13:26I hate you grabbing my ass on your finger.
13:30I would like it if you didn't have your stupid ex-wife's initials on your finger, bro.
13:37I don't even want to touch it.
13:39It drives me absolutely crazy.
13:42Me and Tanya spontaneously decided, you know what?
13:46Screw the traditional wedding rings.
13:48Maybe we can do something a little different.
13:50You ready?
13:51As ready as I would be.
13:54Uh-uh.
13:55Okay, that's good.
13:57And, uh, it turned out to be one of the dumbest decisions I've made of my life.
14:02I'm just gonna, like, chop it off at this point.
14:05You know, it just...
14:06There's a lot of pain involved in moving in.
14:08Money as well.
14:09We just getting back on our feet.
14:11Enough with the money, bro!
14:14It's really hard to, like, plan a future and move on and be like,
14:17Oh, yeah, this guy's, like, all into our relationship when you have, like,
14:20your ex-wife's initials literally tattooed on your body.
14:24Just don't worry about it, you know?
14:26The TM stands for, like, Thrustmaster or Tickle Madness.
14:31Oh, my God, stop it.
14:33Okay, this is in hand jail, okay?
14:37It stays over here.
14:38All I got is my right hand.
14:39Yes, okay.
14:40All I need.
14:45Oh, my God.
14:47You know, like, we're leaving in, like, 20 minutes, right?
15:02Please go get dressed.
15:03I hope you so much.
15:04Okay.
15:05You are welcome.
15:08I'm super, super excited.
15:10We're going to a concert.
15:12We're going to party, and it's going to be the best time ever.
15:15You look so cute!
15:17Ta-da!
15:18You know, I love when you get dressed up a little bit.
15:20I think it's adorable.
15:21Does this even count as getting dressed up?
15:23It's just, like, it's not the PJs.
15:25Can I spice you up a little bit?
15:27I'll do a little glitter, but no lipstick and stuff like that.
15:30You can...
15:34I know, it's been...
15:35I forgot about that.
15:36I honestly forget too.
15:37I forget too long, Lacey.
15:39Still there.
15:40I actually have not one, but two tattoos that I got for Sinjin.
15:45I got a little S on my wrist, and I thought it was safe.
15:48You know, maybe it means Shayna.
15:50Maybe it means Sinjin.
15:51Maybe it means stupid.
15:53So, which I would have been if we broke up, but we didn't.
15:56And then I thought it would be hilarious to get his name tattooed in my mouth.
16:01So, I have that now.
16:04Very sexy, by the way.
16:06I would love it if you got my name tattooed on you.
16:11It doesn't have to be big, giant letters on your chest,
16:14even though, you know, that would be nice.
16:16Could be something subtle.
16:17We could get your lip done.
16:19Honestly, the more I think about it,
16:22the more, you know, his Tanya tattoo, like, really pisses me off.
16:28I have two tattoos of him.
16:30He has zero of me and one of his ex.
16:33And I don't know, it's kind of up.
16:35I don't know. I've, uh...
16:37I don't know. I just, I think that if I get a tattoo of you, it's not going to work out.
16:43I literally have your name tattooed in my mouth, you know?
16:49Yeah.
16:50I feel like I've really shown my commitment to you in a lot of ways.
16:53So, honestly, you have three options.
16:56You can get my name tattooed somewhere.
16:59Um, you can get that thing lasered off once and for all.
17:03Or, which I think is maybe the easiest choice, you can, uh, put a ring right there on this figure.
17:10Those are your choices.
17:12And if not, I kind of don't really know where this relationship's even going.
17:18Maybe I should get a tattoo on my ass.
17:22Then you have to kiss it every time I show it to you.
17:24Kiss the bosom.
17:26It's, that's not what a bosom, do you know what a bosom is?
17:28No.
17:29Bosom is titties.
17:30Oh.
17:31Yeah.
17:32Yeah.
17:33I'm not gonna give up.
17:36I'm not gonna give up.
17:38Who are we?
17:40So, do you know where we're going?
17:42I'm gonna put it in a GPS right now, but...
17:45Okay.
17:46I don't want you to see, so I'm gonna just keep it on my phone.
17:48Okay, just direct me. You'll tell me.
17:49Um...
17:50I have a little surprise today for Shayna.
17:52I'm gonna step up to the plate and do something big.
17:57You know, I'm kind of emotional.
17:59I won't lie.
18:00Like, it's a big step.
18:01But, um...
18:03I'll be honest with you.
18:05I'm gonna actually go and get my tattoo room.
18:09You're joking.
18:10This is where we go.
18:11That's where we're going right now?
18:12We're going right now.
18:13Maybe.
18:14I'm ready for this.
18:15Oh, my God.
18:17You know what?
18:18I've actually thought long and hard about this.
18:21And Shayna has a point, you know.
18:24I can't keep just going around with my ex's name on my wedding finger.
18:29After my divorce, I was in a really dark place and Shayna got me out of it.
18:35She helped me see that there was light in my life and actually helped me love again.
18:40And I know I can't lose her.
18:42I can't lose her.
18:43Hello, everybody.
18:44Hi.
18:45Hi.
18:46So, here we are.
18:47Hi.
18:48Good morning.
18:49Good morning.
18:50Thank you so much.
18:51You know, this is the last thing I have of Tanya.
18:54Once I get this off, I can finally forget about the bad times I had in a relationship.
18:59All the baggage, the hate, the tears, the anger, the frustration.
19:04I get to let it all go.
19:07Hello.
19:08Hello.
19:09Hi.
19:10Hello.
19:11I'm Dr. Dombra.
19:12Nice to meet you guys.
19:13Nice to meet you, I'm Shayna.
19:14Nice to meet you.
19:15Nice to meet you.
19:16Thank you so much for this.
19:17No worries.
19:18Oh, this is a little painful, right?
19:20Maybe it does hurt.
19:21Yeah.
19:22But the good thing is it's a small tattoo.
19:24Yeah.
19:25We'll be over soon.
19:26The doctor's going to use a laser, you know, get rid of the ink.
19:30And it's going to take multiple sessions.
19:33But hey, probably cheaper than therapy, to be honest.
19:37Hey, here we go.
19:39We're ready.
19:42Get started, okay?
19:44Yeah.
19:45Yeah.
19:46It's nice.
19:47Yes.
19:48Yes, yes, yes.
19:49Do it.
19:50Imagine a thousand bees stinging you at the same place.
19:59Oh my god.
20:00Yes.
20:01Is it the initials?
20:02Kind of gone.
20:03Oh my god.
20:04You did so good.
20:05Oh my god.
20:06Oh my god.
20:07You did so good.
20:08Oh my god.
20:09Oh my god.
20:10You did so good.
20:13Oh, painful.
20:15I never thought I would see the day that we finally get this thing off, man.
20:19No, this is the next step.
20:21Oh.
20:22We're taking the next step.
20:23We're taking this step.
20:24Yeah.
20:25And then we'll figure out whatever the next step is.
20:26Yeah, we'll figure it out.
20:27We'll figure it out.
20:28Okay, I'll take it.
20:29Whatever.
20:30We got the ring off.
20:31Maybe we gotta get the ring back on.
20:33So how long until he can get another tattoo on the same side?
20:40We'll figure it out.
20:41So I haven't been here in years.
20:53so i haven't been here in years i don't remember where everything is but i need
21:06the hardware stuff my name is rebecca i am 54 years old and i currently live in atlanta with
21:16my handsome husband zia my name is zia i'm 32 years old i'm from tunisia and i live in georgia
21:25atlanta with my beautiful wife robecca you might find um the velcro picture things like
21:32the hang pictures new stuff oh i think this way same paper paper my daughter-in-law laura
21:44is in the process of setting up her salon and she asked me to come by later and kind of help her
21:49set everything up and do the decorating right here oh yeah i brought sienna to the hardware store with
21:57me because i need him to help me pick out some supplies he's my big sexy hunky hbac tech especially
22:04when he was wearing his school belt yeah i went every day for you enough that's right there yeah
22:12okay let's see damage free hanging zian and i met on social media we kind of fell in love
22:21immediately he made me laugh and he was definitely very handsome oh
22:26good morning sexy i want to kiss you now
22:32when the first time i saw you actually i said oh she's beautiful i want you to be a part of my life
22:41look at you i ran to tunisia to meet him for the first time he was very handsome very charming
22:51and so sweet so after being in tunisia for three weeks zied proposed to me
22:59this is for you
23:05you want my evening
23:09i'm shaking
23:13you're so perfect
23:16i came home zied filed for the k-1 visa and we got married right after that
23:23and we've been together ever since
23:31but i want to get like a big pick a big pack of it so that we have some to hang other pictures and stuff
23:38while sometimes zied is sweet and romantic and loving
23:55i just find it really annoying that zied just randomly starts talking on the phone
24:00in arabic and i don't know who he's talking to what he's saying
24:04and it just makes me really suspicious especially after finding him with another woman
24:09who he claims was his friend's wife
24:11oh my god he's with a woman
24:18i'm gonna throw up
24:21it doesn't matter why i followed jean i caught you
24:27i never chased him dude you knew this
24:30you promised me
24:31can you help me
24:44the hardest part about him being on the phone talking to god knows who and saying god knows what
24:55is that it makes me feel like i don't matter anymore
24:59and obviously whoever he's talking to is way more important than i am
25:05yeah i do
25:08thank you
25:09thank you
25:10have a good day
25:11i feel invisible
25:13and i really don't like it
25:16honestly you have spent so much time on the phone lately
25:25i feel like every time i need to see you or talk to you or want to spend time with you all you do is you're on the phone
25:31i talk with my family or with my friends
25:36go go go
25:42rebecca she don't trust me and i don't like this i hate this and to be honest the last rebecca trust me the more i'm pushing away
25:52i was kind of hoping we could have a good day today and be happy and
25:56enjoy having a saturday off together
26:00good right together
26:02are we
26:05we are right now together
26:08hello
26:29how are you
26:30how are you
26:31i'm wonderful let me put my cup down here
26:33i'm meeting up with my daughter-in-law laura to help her kind of redecorate her home eyelash and eyebrow studio
26:41it's good to see you
26:43good to see you
26:43how are you doing
26:44i'm good
26:45yeah
26:45yeah laura helped me on that dreadful night where i found z ed with the other woman and she has been my biggest support system to get me through all of this it's been going on
26:58oh my god it's changed already so much
27:01you like it
27:02yeah
27:03so where you want to put the pictures
27:05okay so i have this one
27:08but then i also have
27:10this bigger one and i'm not sure
27:13it probably needs to be closer this way than that way
27:18well what's new with you
27:20i literally have no idea what's going on with zed right now
27:23um still
27:25yeah
27:26he is being so incredibly distant
27:30constantly on his freaking phone
27:34you were having this issue last year too
27:37yeah
27:38he is completely emotionally withdrawn from me
27:41we do not have the relationship that we used to have where it was just fun
27:46i remember when we come over we see it like he's just distant he's not attentive
27:53like when you asked him for something the other day it was almost like
27:57yeah
27:58yeah
27:59when it used to be like yeah
28:01he hasn't been the same
28:03okay
28:04um
28:05but like zed is the first relationship i've ever had that has been healthy and happy and made me believe that there is real love out there and honestly it just it's never been work and in the last year it has been nothing but work
28:19you've ever thought about like i know this is probably really not up zed's lane but like couples counseling
28:29he thinks he's perfectly fine
28:32but like someone needs to sit him down and be like what is going on like what do you want what do you need from this relationship
28:38yeah
28:39even though our marriage is really messed up right now i still feel like zed is my soulmate
28:45i still feel very much in love with him and i still believe that this is worth and and capable of being fixed
28:55i need to sit zed down and explain to him why we need therapy because i feel like without it our marriage will not survive
29:08you can't be the only one trying
29:09i know
29:10i want you to be happy
29:13i know
29:14okay we're off to check the bees
29:35i'm anna i'm 44 and i'm from velafine nebraska
29:41it's hot today this is like perfect weather to check the bees
29:46ju ju ju ju
29:47ah
29:48i am morsel i am 44 years old i am from turkey
29:52we are ready lady
29:54let's go lady
29:56morsel and i met through social media through a beekeeping group
30:01we started talking about beekeeping and then we just started talking about our lives and about each other and
30:06all for each other
30:08after about two months
30:13morsel proposed
30:15i said yes and then i applied for morsel's k1 visa
30:19morsel
30:21oh
30:22oh
30:23then we got married
30:26so in the presence of your witnesses i pronounce that you are now husband and wife you may seal your union with a kiss
30:33kiss
30:34yes
30:36probably me oak
30:38now it looks looks good
30:43after three years of marriage we have a thriving beekeeping business and a child together
30:49go khan's gonna be three and he is super active
30:52for us to have a child surrogacy was the only option um since i'm unable to carry we chose to do surrogacy in ukraine because we wanted our names on the birth certificate and we wouldn't have to go through the adoption process like you would have to in the united states when our surrogate was about five months along um the war in ukraine broke out um yeah it was pretty scary
31:09gokhan was born five weeks early i had to go to ukraine by myself to pick him up because they still hadn't approved rissal's entry visa into ukraine it was really scary every the whole the whole
31:26the whole
31:40the whole situation was just scary
31:43okay
31:44you want to see the queen
31:45okay
31:46okay
31:47maybe very aggressive
31:48yes we'll see
31:49with it getting warmer we have to get the bees ready for peak summer production
31:56there's the queen
31:58oh
31:59yeah it's starting to get aggressive
32:01the bees are head-butting me basically they're telling us they don't like us here
32:06that's usually a bee's first warning is they'll head-butt you
32:11yeah
32:12yeah i'm out of here
32:18oh
32:19yeah they're not happy we're here
32:21they're following me
32:22and singing the heck out of my legs
32:25i always get stung in the butt
32:27one day
32:28everything
32:31my penis
32:32your penis
32:34yes inside
32:35so was your penis swollen
32:37a little bit
32:39loathing
32:40loathing
32:41i am
32:42ice put
32:43please don't lie the camera
32:45oh
32:47ladybug
32:48ladybug
32:52ladybug
32:53oh
32:54oh
32:55you're getting tired
32:56you're getting tired
32:57oh
32:58you're getting tired
32:59let's go to sleep
33:01you're a chip
33:02let's spit it up
33:03Gokhan is going to be three in about two weeks, and he is sleeping in our bed, and I don't
33:13like it.
33:14Here, Michelle, put him in his bed.
33:18Goodnight.
33:19Goodnight, Gokhan.
33:24Goodnight, Gokhan.
33:29Shhh.
33:36No, don't do...
33:40We try to put Gokhan in his crib, but he ends up in our bed.
33:44He's kicking us.
33:46He's crying.
33:47He's sometimes pee-poof.
33:49Ah, fantastic.
33:51It's a turn-off.
33:53What's the problem?
33:55Ah!
33:56What?
33:57Gohan.
33:58We all need to sleep here.
34:00What?
34:11Last night was really bad, Michelle.
34:13I'm tired of Gokhan being in the room.
34:15It's hard.
34:16He's not...
34:17I can't sleep.
34:18I don't know why he's sleeping aggressive.
34:20I don't know.
34:21He was crying last night again.
34:23Just crying.
34:25We really need to change our sleeping arrangements.
34:28I can't sleep like this anymore with Gokhan.
34:31Gino, my second oldest son, moved into a room in the basement.
34:35So we have this room upstairs that we want to turn into Gokhan's room.
34:39But I've been trying to get Marcel to help me with it for a long time.
34:42He's too busy doing his carpentry business.
34:44Work, work, work, work.
34:45No stuff.
34:46I'm busy.
34:47I'm busy.
34:48We need to get it done because our marriage life is not good.
34:53Why?
34:56We don't have any time to ourselves.
34:58Yes.
34:59It's very hot.
35:01Yeah, we don't have a sex life because of this.
35:04Stop.
35:05It's true.
35:06After Gokhan was about a year old, I decided to finally get gastric sleep surgery.
35:12A lot of it had to do with me not being able to keep up with him.
35:16I've lost over 100 pounds.
35:18I feel more energetic, confident, and intuitive with my sexual side.
35:23I'm tired of not having a sex life.
35:27It's bad.
35:29Since I've lost weight, I feel like I can't really enjoy it.
35:34Like, I want to, um...
35:36What do you mean?
35:37I don't like not having intimacy in our relationship.
35:41I don't like not having sex.
35:43I'm going to start working on the room with Gina.
35:50I'm tired of waiting.
35:51Sonia.
35:52How beautiful could it be?
35:57She'll be with me.
35:59Are you helping?
36:02I want to get down.
36:04I'm not going to go to sleep in it.
36:06No more sleepless nights.
36:07No more sexless nights.
36:09Since Marcel's not going to help me, I guess I'm going to take it into my own hands.
36:12Tree there.
36:13That's a tree.
36:14There we go.
36:15Look.
36:16What do you think?
36:17This is your new bedroom, Gokhan.
36:18What?
36:19This.
36:20This.
36:21This.
36:22This.
36:23This.
36:24This.
36:25This.
36:26How you did?
36:27This.
36:28This.
36:29This.
36:30This.
36:31This.
36:32This.
36:33This.
36:34This.
36:35This.
36:36This.
36:37This.
36:38This.
36:39This.
36:40This.
36:41This.
36:42This.
36:45This.
36:46This.
36:47This.
36:48This.
36:49This.
36:50Here.
36:54You gotta go to sleep.
36:56We're gonna turn the light off.
36:58Yes, you're a big boy now.
37:00I love you.
37:02Let's turn the light off.
37:04No, no, no, no!
37:06Good night, Gokhan.
37:10He's sleeping.
37:12He's like...
37:18I'm excited.
37:20I wanna be intimate.
37:22What's your intimate?
37:24Sex.
37:25Stuff.
37:26Embers.
37:28Everybody watching.
37:30Me and me.
37:32Yes!
37:48I can't sing.
37:49I know, you're swallowed up by those balloons.
37:52I'm going to set up the boob vibe party.
37:56Help, help.
37:58Are they all in?
38:00Yeah.
38:01Okay.
38:02Are you sure?
38:03Yes.
38:04The door just opened back up.
38:06Today, I'm having my boob vibe party.
38:09All of my friends are coming over to a friend's place,
38:12and we're going to celebrate my boobs.
38:14And tell them goodbye, but not too much of a goodbye.
38:18Yeah, we're not saying goodbye to them completely.
38:21No.
38:22We're just giving them a little bit of rejuvenation.
38:26There you go.
38:28Woo!
38:29Woo!
38:30Woo!
38:31Woo!
38:32Welcome to your boob vibe party.
38:34Oh, thank you guys.
38:35Yes.
38:36You're the sweetest.
38:37Here, you pop us off.
38:38After a lot of consideration, I decided to go through with the breast reduction surgery.
38:43I'm going to pop this bottle.
38:44I'm going to pop them titties off.
38:46If she had smaller boobs, this wouldn't be a problem.
38:50Woo!
38:53Even though I'm scared and I know the risks, it's all worth it if I can alleviate my back pain and be more active.
39:00And I am a little bit worried about it, but you know I'm going to support you 100% on whatever you want to do.
39:07Cheers to a weight off my chest.
39:10Yay!
39:11To the new titties.
39:13New titties!
39:14Ready for some games?
39:16Ooh.
39:17Okay.
39:20You're thinking about bedroom games.
39:22Wait, what are we talking about?
39:23I'm talking about at the boob vibe party.
39:25Oh!
39:26That's all right.
39:29So, I got a fun game for us to play.
39:32Okay, so we're going to see who knocks each other's titties off first.
39:36Whoever keeps a titty wins.
39:39Ladies and gentlemen!
39:43To our left, we have Ashley Seaworld!
39:49And to our right, we have Chantelle Chanel!
39:55Woo!
39:56Let the best thing win!
39:59We need a rep!
40:00We need a rep!
40:01We need a rep!
40:02We need a rep!
40:06All right, go!
40:07Yay!
40:08Oh, jeez, we need a rep, we need a rep, we need a rep.
40:11All right, go.
40:16I'm so excited for my breast reduction surgery.
40:23I finally have everything in my life coming together.
40:28I have my perfect partner.
40:30And when I finally have smaller boobs,
40:35I'll be able to be more active.
40:37I'll be able to run with Ashley in the park.
40:42I'll be able to do jujitsu with her.
40:44I'm excited for your next chapter,
40:46and I can't wait to see you with smaller titties.
40:51My boobs are so big that people stare at them,
40:54and it makes me feel so self-conscious.
40:58So I can't wait to just feel more confident and healthier.
41:02I love you.
41:03Oh, my God.
41:04I love you, too.
41:05You're the best.
41:06You're going to be fine.
41:07You're going to be great.
41:08I'm about to step into the best chapter of my life.
41:12Thank you so much, girls, for everything you've done for me.
41:15I appreciate you so much.
41:17You've been such a blessed.
41:18Cheers to the building to be in here.
41:32Cheers.
41:33Love it.
41:34I'm divorced, and I can't wait to not hold this last name anymore.
41:39Oh, my God.
41:40This year at New York City Pride, I will be performing at a street festival.
41:45New York City is one of the biggest Prides ever.
41:49So I just hope that I kill it on stage.
41:51Here is Nikki and Veronica.
41:54Do you have anyone recently divorced here in the house?
41:59After all I've been through with my ex-husband, I cannot wait for this celebration.
42:07I deserve this.
42:11We were planning to have a baby with us, right?
42:18Hopefully.
42:18We have not had the best experience so far.
42:22We're trying to get a sense of this new fertility clinic, because this is our last shot.
42:26If this doesn't work, that's it.
42:28The last surrogate we had, we found out some stuff that we didn't like.
42:34Do you just surround yourself with bores?
42:42Joan, she's your girlfriend.
42:44What girlfriend?
42:46you.
42:48You
42:50You
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