00:00Your oldest son and I are kind of the same age.
00:02When my dad told me that he was dating her, I felt like this, here we go again or something like that.
00:08It's definitely okay if you aren't into wealthy men, but I am.
00:12I wear a gold digger as a badge of honor.
00:15People in the comments were either like, good for you, girl, or they were like, it looks like you're hanging out with your dad.
00:21We get a lot of that I'm just with you for money.
00:24As a woman, I'm embarrassed.
00:26What was your first impression?
00:28I mean, I never thought that anything was going to be serious.
00:33Hi, I'm Paige.
00:35I'm Jamie.
00:36We've been together one year and one month.
00:38I'm 29.
00:39I'm 55.
00:40So we have a 26-year age gap.
00:43I kind of wear the gold digger label that people have given me as a badge of honor.
00:47I am not offended by that word.
00:50I wouldn't date someone who wasn't wealthy.
00:54We did genuinely fall in love, but we wouldn't have gone on that first date if I met you at my work.
01:03I've always went for older.
01:05I've always liked older.
01:06And you're the oldest that I've decided to date.
01:11And that obviously worked out because now we're getting married.
01:14We met online.
01:16Yeah, it's the dating site online.
01:18I've always preferred younger women myself.
01:20Never really got along with women my own age, so she's perfect for me.
01:25I'd even told her when we first started dating, when I proposed to her, my friends were saying,
01:30you need to get a prenup.
01:31You need to get a prenup.
01:32And I'm like, why?
01:34I'm not going to make this fail.
01:35I mean, and if it does, I know how to make more money.
01:38I'm not worried about it.
01:40You know, I'm not because I trust her.
01:42She trusts me.
01:43I still think I was immature in my 40s.
01:45So I know exactly what I want now.
01:48It's her.
01:49That's why 40s are too young for me to date.
01:52Still figuring it out.
01:53Our first TikTok we ever did together was August 26th.
01:57And we posted it not thinking anything, and it went viral.
02:02I had just gotten the Rolls Royce, too.
02:04So that was kind of a secret formula.
02:06And like I said, we tried other things, and that was giving us the most response.
02:10So we said, it's not broke.
02:12Don't fix it.
02:13So whenever I had posted something about marrying a man twice my age, it was so polarizing.
02:20People in the comments were either like, good for you, girl.
02:23Or they were like, it looks like you're hanging out with your dad.
02:26If I post by myself, it does not do as well as whenever we post together.
02:31People on the internet love you.
02:33I love you, too.
02:35We get a lot of that we look the same age, that I'm just with you for money,
02:40that you're just with me for one thing.
02:43Does he have friends?
02:45Gold digger.
02:47This woman's posts is just about getting things from men.
02:51You actually look his age, no shade, just facts.
02:54As a woman, I'm embarrassed.
02:56I would say you wear the pants in the relationship because we enjoy following kind of typical gender roles.
03:04Like you make dinner reservations, you make all of the plans, and I get to do what I like to do,
03:12and that is wear cute outfits and do pretty makeup and show up and enjoy myself.
03:18Being well taken care of by your partner and spoiled labels a gold digger, then I'm fine being a gold digger.
03:26I'll take the title gold digger.
03:28That's right.
03:28My family loves Jamie, and my friends love Jamie.
03:33I did lose one of my longest friendships of my life because she said, quote,
03:42He's old, it's weird, I'm not trying.
03:46And we had been friends for decades, so it is sad.
03:51I always do background checks whenever I'm dating.
03:55I definitely want to be safe.
03:57Smart, smart.
03:58And I urge other women to do the same, especially online.
04:02You sent me your phone number, and I just put your phone number into a reverse phone lookup,
04:10found out your assets from that search, and from there I looked up your home address.
04:18It's the same house as my pictures.
04:21We definitely have a huge wealth gap.
04:23I grew up not very fortunate, and I definitely worked hard to get to where I am.
04:30I love it, and I can love it even more knowing that I don't have any bills to pay.
04:36It's just my pocket money.
04:37The way I rewarded myself, my accomplishments, I bought myself a Ferrari 10 years ago.
04:44I bought this mansion.
04:45I thought I deserved it.
04:46I've been looking for somebody just like Paige, and I finally found her, so this is my biggest reward.
04:57I got this one for Christmas last year.
05:01He couldn't keep the secret because he was too excited that he got it.
05:06I think this was about $12,000.
05:09It was supposed to be a Christmas present, but he literally FaceTimed me and said,
05:13I'm getting you this.
05:14We were out having lunch.
05:17We decided to go to the Gucci store, and it was just speaking to us right there.
05:23I think this is like $5,000 or $6,000, and then this one was also a Christmas present.
05:30I got these two at the same time.
05:32This one is around $3,000.
05:34It's natural to want to date for a better life.
05:37Why would you want to have a partner that lessens you or waters down your experience in life in any way?
05:44If people want to call me a gold digger, that's totally fine.
05:48I wear a gold digger as a badge of honor.
05:50I'm totally happy with that term.
05:52I hope I can inspire other women to realize that they deserve better.
05:59And if you want to date somebody for whatever reason, as long as there's love there too,
06:05why not have the money there as well?
06:08I would give somebody advice to how to treat a woman.
06:11Number one, never ask them to pay for anything as far as dinner, gas.
06:16I mean, even if you don't have a lot of funds, always try to save up to do something special on occasion.
06:25Never allow her to pay for anything.
06:27I have this series I do called How to Bag the Boss where I try to give girls some advice on if you want a wealthy man, how to get them.
06:37And really what that all starts with is carrying yourself in a manner that's respectable
06:43and raising your standards to believe that's something you deserve.
06:47I have two handsome young men as sons.
06:50I have a 27-year-old named Cameron and a 25-year-old named Connor.
06:55Connor lives with us right now.
06:58Your oldest son and I are two years apart.
07:02We're kind of the same age.
07:04When my dad told me that he was dating her, I felt like this, here we go again or something like that.
07:09My dad has been in a relationship like this before.
07:12The age difference was different than this.
07:14Normally, they're actually are my same age or a little bit older, you know, just maybe a year or two older than me.
07:21It was interesting.
07:22Younger, the girls were, you know, in college and things like that.
07:25It's kind of been a part of my life this whole time.
07:27I don't know.
07:28Don't feel any.
07:28I don't feel indifferent about it.
07:30So I guess that's the way to put it.
07:31What was your first impression?
07:33Because I accidentally met you guys, like, on our second date.
07:37Like, we weren't even dating yet.
07:39Kind of walked down.
07:40I mean, I never thought that anything was going to be serious or that it was going to be, like, what we have now or whatever.
07:48I had never dated anyone with adult children.
07:51So it was like, okay, at least that's over.
07:54I mean, I didn't think that, you know, this would lead to how it's been now, engaged and together.
08:00But, I mean, I've never had an issue getting beautiful women over the house.
08:05You know what I mean?
08:05You've had other girlfriends?
08:07Y'all found a connection.
08:08So, I mean.
08:10Yeah, I guess, like, about our age difference.
08:13Like, obviously, you know your dad and you know that he likes younger women.
08:18But, like, I don't know.
08:20Do your friends think it's weird?
08:22No, my friends think it's cool.
08:25Like, all my guy friends think it's cool.
08:27Maybe if I was younger, I'd get jealous about Christmas gifts and things like that.
08:30I think I've kind of outgrown the whole jealous of her getting maybe Christmas every day, whatever you want to call it.
08:38You know what I mean?
08:39I'm coming for your inheritance.
08:41I'm just kidding.
08:43I don't mind that people call me a gold digger.
08:45I'm happy to wear that title if it means I'm happy and well taken care of.
08:51I don't mind about the gold digger label as well.
08:54I mean, because I know she's not.
08:55I feel that there's real love.
08:57And, you know, I feel like we're both attractive.
09:00So, I don't think we have to be slinging money around for any reason.
09:04Yeah.
09:04Other than just spoiler.
09:05The money's a nice perk, but it's not why we love each other.
09:09Right.
09:10There's so much to love about Jamie.
09:12You are the kindest, most generous, just sweetest person in the world.
09:17You're so thoughtful.
09:19You always think about my needs above your own.
09:22Some men may not appreciate a girl that's labeled a gold digger, but in my experience, I don't really care at all.
09:28But I'm having fun and I'm in love with her.
09:32It's definitely okay if you aren't into wealthy men, but I am.
09:37If it's not for you, that's okay, but it's for me.
09:40I'm having fun and I'm having fun.
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