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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03I want to thank you for being willing to trust me.
00:08I'm just angry and tired.
00:09There are reasons why you are angry,
00:12and that's what we're looking for.
00:14You have to make a lot of money on this property,
00:15the one that you're going to put me on the listing for.
00:17I kind of already promised Chris.
00:19So you're just going to have to add another agent.
00:22Hello.
00:23How you doing, Miss Destiny?
00:25Beautiful.
00:26Well, thank you.
00:28Hello.
00:30Hey, how y'all doing?
00:32Destiny is walking in here with Will
00:34after a conversation we just had about Twan.
00:36So this is very surprising to me.
00:40Nell, you said, keep my name out your mouth,
00:43trying to make your problem.
00:44I said why I said I'm doing what everyone else is doing, OK?
00:49You asked me what else.
00:50What do y'all think y'all doing here?
00:53Gang up on me?
00:53Go help.
00:54I dump your ass in that pool.
00:55You keep calling it now.
00:56You won't dump me?
00:57You won't dump me now.
00:59Don't keep hollering at me.
01:00Don't keep hollering at me.
01:01Don't keep hollering at me.
01:02I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool
01:05if you keep hollering at me.
01:06And I apologize for that.
01:08I said Kim is apology, but it really hurt.
01:11That hurt me.
01:12And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
01:15I'll see you.
01:17We keep it moving.
01:18All day, all night.
01:21Yeah.
01:22Ain't no stopping.
01:23I'm dropped that.
01:25We ain't stopping.
01:26You know, you know.
01:29We keep it moving.
01:31All day, all night.
01:37Yeah.
01:38Yeah.
01:38All day, all night.
01:42Ain't no stopping us.
01:47Yeah.
01:50All day, all night.
01:51Let's go.
01:54Girl, gorgeous!
02:20So I invited Tisha to the house,
02:23so we can catch up.
02:24And I can just check her temperature on everything
02:26because the last couple of meet-ups have been a disaster.
02:30Chris, you're welcome.
02:31Chris, you're welcome.
02:32I'm welcome, baby.
02:33I'm going with these friends.
02:34Just walk, just walk, just walk.
02:36So, Nell, why did you guys leave LA early?
02:41That's none of your business.
02:42I don't owe you anything.
02:45It's so quiet in here.
02:46Where everybody at?
02:47Where's Ken?
02:48He's getting Zari back and forth to dance.
02:49Oh, he don't know what to do.
02:51We'll be all over the place, girl.
02:52Good.
02:53Well, I'm happy to hear y'all still a team.
02:55I was kind of concerned a little bit.
02:56Yeah.
02:57We're still working through it because, when I tell you,
02:59it has been arguments after arguments.
03:01Have y'all seeked, like, outside help to help, like,
03:04y'all communicate better?
03:06So I'm going to therapy.
03:09That's good.
03:09So you're going by yourself.
03:11I'm going by myself for now.
03:12OK.
03:13Because I do feel like I need to work on me.
03:15Because it's like I brought up a lot of anger, life anger,
03:19issues, and then I blow up.
03:21OK.
03:22I don't just blow up on family.
03:24It's like whoever comes into contact with me that
03:27presses the smallest button sends me over the edge.
03:30And I don't even know why.
03:31So has the therapist been helping you to, like,
03:34try to zoom in and see what is causing that problem?
03:38We're working on it.
03:39Because that's going to be better for not only your relationship
03:41with Ken, with your kids, with your friends, with everybody
03:45around you.
03:46Even with yourself.
03:47I agree.
03:48I think what this taught Ken and I, especially for me,
03:51is that we have to love each other in every season.
03:55Because you're going to have your seasons in life.
03:56Because we're going to have seasons.
03:57Oh, we're going to have them.
03:58Yeah.
03:59But it's either we going to, hey, let the weather take us
04:03down through there, or we're going to get through it.
04:05I have hope for y'all.
04:07As a black community, we've always, like, straight away
04:10from going to therapy.
04:11It's like we'll pray about it, and then we try to resolve things
04:14of our own.
04:15So I think it's a good thing that Trish is going out
04:19to seek the help that she needs from a therapist,
04:22who can really give her the tools to do better
04:25and be better in life.
04:26I'm just happy that you're getting the help.
04:27I think you're going to, next year, next year,
04:30we're going to see a whole different Trish.
04:31I feel like I have to for myself, for the kids, for family,
04:35just for life in general.
04:37Speaking of family, that's what I want
04:39to come over here to talk to you about.
04:41I'm going to take a little mini trip to, um,
04:44to my hometown, to Bessemer, so I can see my mama
04:48in her food truck.
04:49So I wanted to know if you'll be able to come along with us.
04:52It's going to be this coming up weekend.
04:55Why are you looking like that?
04:57Because we'll be in Miami for Xavier's birthday.
04:59Aw, really?
05:03Dang.
05:04I hate you can't make it.
05:06I know.
05:08Trish, I really wanted Trish to experience Bessemer.
05:11But hey, I understand mom life, mom business,
05:14comes first.
05:15So she's just going to have to miss out on this one.
05:18So you know, I haven't had a chance to talk to you
05:22since we left Nell's little thing.
05:26Girl, you were so out of it at that time.
05:28I was.
05:28Mm-hmm.
05:29So at first, I thought it was fun.
05:31But then we went outside to have a conversation with Nell.
05:36I felt like I was handling the conversation well.
05:40I was like in my calm voice.
05:42I thought you did great.
05:43Because I was irritated.
05:45When people voice started elevating like that,
05:47and I'm already in a moment, I'm like, yeah.
05:49You was like, I'm over it.
05:50Mm-hmm.
05:51Yep.
05:56I said, Latisha Scott, we're about her own business.
06:00I'm just loud.
06:02I need to tone my voice.
06:04I mean, were you screaming at somebody else?
06:06I didn't think I was.
06:07I started out very calm.
06:09They kept going, well, how are we going to resolve this?
06:13Do you have a problem?
06:13And I'm like, I don't have a problem.
06:16And then Destiny said, well.
06:17Who's saying this?
06:18Kimmy.
06:19OK.
06:20And then Destiny.
06:21Everyone is saying something at this point.
06:23And I'm like, I'm good.
06:24Two on this side got the gas, and the other two
06:26on this side got the light.
06:27Yeah.
06:28And that's the same thing like Kimmy was saying.
06:30Kimmy was like, you just can't be yelling at me.
06:32That's the problem.
06:33Yeah.
06:33I'm happy to hear that it just wasn't me.
06:35She was just on 20.
06:37And I'm like, what is wrong with you?
06:39And Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
06:42Well, what do you think you doing right now?
06:45Well, y'all apologize and hugged it out, right?
06:48I'm cordial.
06:48I can apologize.
06:50Kimmy's apology, it was a public apology.
06:53So I did accept it.
06:54Normally, I don't do that.
06:56It normally takes more time than that.
06:58So I still have my guard up.
07:00Most definitely keeping my eye on these ladies.
07:02No, I think what happened was the whole issue
07:06about her grandbaby.
07:07You know, we did some stuff in LA.
07:09And she said that she had to leave early.
07:11I thought she said because of the delivery of the baby.
07:14He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
07:17He had a baby on the way in labor.
07:19I saw that on social media.
07:21Me too.
07:22We all did.
07:22Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation
07:24when she said the reason they had to leave LA early
07:26was something dealing with the grandbaby?
07:28I felt like you said it did have something to do with you
07:31had to come back home for the situation.
07:34I did not tell you that.
07:36I feel like she wasn't supposed to talk about the baby.
07:39Yeah.
07:39So if you didn't say it, then how does Leticia know?
07:42Somebody had to voice it.
07:43How would I know?
07:44It didn't come out in the air.
07:45How would I know?
07:46I know all this went on with you and Kimmy.
07:50Where did it leave you and Leticia?
07:52Nowhere.
07:54She ain't talking to me and I ain't talking to her.
07:56And that's the problem with this group of ladies that I have.
08:00It's always something, but it's always pointed at me.
08:04Why am I defending myself, my family,
08:08and especially my granddaughter?
08:09I'm not going to keep talking about my granddaughter.
08:13I mean it.
08:14Like, I felt like she was on 20 for no reason.
08:16Sometimes you can say things that kind of, like,
08:19push your foot in your mouth.
08:21So I believe that she said stuff and then she went,
08:24oh, I wasn't supposed to say that.
08:25And she tried to, like, backtrack.
08:27But you already put it out there.
08:28So it's too late.
08:29That's what I said.
08:30Sometimes you get angry, you start saying stuff,
08:31and you don't pay attention to what you're saying.
08:33And then you start telling yourself.
08:35Mm-hmm.
08:36And she said she was a life coach.
08:39She needs some help.
08:40Lady needs some help.
08:41I think with myself saying Dr. Francis,
08:43it has definitely helped a lot with my anger issues
08:46or why I get angry.
08:48And I think Nell could definitely benefit from it.
08:50Because we have a lot of similarities on anger issues.
08:53So y'all haven't spoken to each other since?
08:56No, I got nothing to say to her.
08:57She told me to keep her by my mouth.
08:59And I'm going to say, do exactly what she asked me to do.
09:02She's not the type of person I would, like,
09:03want to, like, hang out with, be around,
09:06being associated with at all.
09:10Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
09:12When Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying,
09:16there's a breath of fresh air.
09:18Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
09:20You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
09:21Whoa, whoa, whoa.
09:22Whoa, what about me?
09:24I've had you all this time.
09:25He just, he's the new kid on the block.
09:26I was jealous when he came along
09:28and they started asking him instead of me.
09:30It just kind of made me feel some type of way.
09:32Wanda!
09:33Miss Wanda!
09:35Hey!
09:36Come on, girl!
09:37Yeah, you got your truck!
09:39The hose came from Hinesfield!
09:41Hooray!
10:06Well, well.
10:07Well, hi.
10:08How are you?
10:09We'll meet again.
10:10We'll meet again.
10:11We'll meet again.
10:11Feel good to see.
10:12Please, go right ahead and have your seat.
10:16Listen.
10:16Listen.
10:17Sit down anywhere you want to sit.
10:18Let's get a little fancy here.
10:19Here's it right there.
10:20Just be comfortable, OK?
10:23So I'm here at my second session with Dr. Francis.
10:26Yay, I am back.
10:27I know, right?
10:28I think I've made a lot of progress since the first time.
10:31I still have a lot of work to do,
10:33but I can already see that it's worth the struggle.
10:36Last week we did, we talked about your family as a whole.
10:44Yeah.
10:44And I'm trying to get to know about you.
10:49Are you ready for that?
10:50Yes.
10:52You know, I think that last session was pretty awesome.
10:57I actually went to visit my mom and dad's grave for the first time, and I cried.
11:03Yeah.
11:04Trish, that's growth.
11:07It was something.
11:12I'm taking the time right now to tell you, to validate you, to let you know that going
11:18to your parents' grave site was an amazing growth piece for you.
11:24People are always growing.
11:26So the question is, who am I now?
11:31Do you have any children?
11:32Mm-hmm.
11:33I have two.
11:34Boy and girl.
11:35Boy and girl.
11:36And you were married?
11:37Mm-hmm.
11:38How did you get along with father?
11:40No, we don't get along.
11:41So you're divorced?
11:43In the process.
11:44Mm-hmm.
11:45How long have you been separated?
11:48About six years.
11:49Six years.
11:50About six years.
11:51You may be separated physically, but emotionally, you are still together.
11:56Well, actually, you know, the guy I'm with now.
11:59Ooh.
12:00What's your relationship like with him?
12:03I mean, we argue like in the normal couple, but we have a great relationship.
12:08What kind of relationship does your daughter have with this man?
12:11I don't know.
12:12It's, um, you would have thought he was their dad.
12:16So it's strong?
12:17Very.
12:18They're strong.
12:19Good.
12:20Like, every event, everything they have going on, he's there.
12:23He's there, really?
12:24Even when I'm not.
12:25Or I can't make it.
12:26He's there.
12:27So, so, so he's heavily invested in them?
12:30Oh, yeah.
12:31Okay.
12:32And because of his attachment and heavy, heavy involvement in them, what does that do for
12:37you and him?
12:38It's great.
12:39I mean, it's good.
12:40It's...
12:41I was jealous in the beginning, but yeah.
12:46You were jealous of him?
12:47Because I didn't think they would take to him like they did.
12:53Hmm.
12:54Can you, can you tell me what that jealousy might, might have looked like an experience?
12:59It was...
13:00I don't know.
13:01I, it just felt like, it was like a possession.
13:04It was like my kids.
13:05Yeah.
13:06So did, did, did you get a, did it feel like you were losing your kids?
13:10Honestly?
13:11Yeah.
13:12I did.
13:13Um, it made me happy.
13:14But then I was like, wait a minute now.
13:15Because my kids always came to me for things and always asked me for things.
13:16So I was always the center of it.
13:17Then when he came along and they started asking him instead of me, it just kind of made me feel
13:23some type of way.
13:25So what did you do with that?
13:40I used to make little smart jokes.
13:43But the joke, because he would see it as a joke, it would not negatively impact your relationship
13:49not negatively impact your relationship
13:51because it was just a joke.
13:52But you were serious about using the joke.
13:56It's, yeah.
13:57Yeah.
13:59And so when Kenny comes into the picture
14:03and the kids are saying, there's a breath of fresh air,
14:05let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
14:07You're saying, wait a minute, whoa, whoa, whoa.
14:09Whoa, what about me?
14:11I've had you all this time, he's the new kid on the block.
14:20Yeah?
14:21After my ex moved to Atlanta, you know,
14:23out of sight, out of mind, the kids came to me for everything.
14:26I was like the center.
14:28And then here comes Kenny.
14:30I definitely felt jealous.
14:31And I'm like, wait a minute, wait a minute.
14:33It's been me here that's done all of these things for you guys.
14:37It's like they gravitated towards him so well.
14:41I don't have that responsibility anymore.
14:43And it kind of felt awkward.
14:45So do you get upset with the kids sometimes
14:46because he's paying them, you know, a lot of attention
14:50and the attachment is growing here?
14:52Or do you get upset with him for being such a good guy
14:56that the children would trust him so that they go with him?
15:01And I don't know about you and that because you just said,
15:03wait a minute, I'm supposed to be number one.
15:05I'm supposed to be the center.
15:10After dealing with so much loss, it was hard trusting anyone.
15:14It was hard to accept help.
15:16And I think that was one of our biggest issues with Ken and I.
15:20You're really good at this.
15:28What do you think?
15:29I don't know.
15:30I'm waiting for an explanation on that one.
15:31Self-protection.
15:33Do you like nuts?
15:35No.
15:36You don't like nuts?
15:38Well, can I tell you a nut story though?
15:40OK.
15:41OK.
15:41Have you ever taken a good look at pistachios?
15:47So when you take a look at pistachios,
15:50you notice that all the shells are not opened to the same dimension,
15:56the same width, the same crack.
15:58The cracks are not always the same.
16:00You know that, right?
16:01Mm-hmm.
16:02I was wondering, you know, how painful was something in your past that made you say,
16:08I'm going to be like, here's a pistachio and I'm going to be closed.
16:14You are protecting yourself from something that happened in the past.
16:19And so he had to pay his dues to get into this.
16:24And then when he got into this, this evolved with the children.
16:31And when this evolved with the children, you started to feel like you're having another loss.
16:40It's my parents, it's just, I don't want to deal with any more loss.
16:45It's just, I don't care if it's death, just, I just, that's why I just, I just like to stay to myself.
16:57It took you all this time to show your vulnerability and your hurt and your pain and your disappointment.
17:08And I want to thank you.
17:09It feels like a weight lifted when I start to open up.
17:13I feel like it's really time for me to talk to Ken and make things right.
17:16Because I don't see a relationship for us in the future if I don't deal with the trauma of my past.
17:22Coming up on Love & Mary's Huntsville.
17:30Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
17:34Because of what her husband is saying about, he was making jokes about Marceau and Maurice.
17:39And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it because it ain't funny no more.
17:44I felt like I was losing my kids.
17:47To me?
17:48Yeah.
17:49Well, how are you gonna lose them to me?
17:51Y'all just pushing me to the side.
17:54This should be fun.
17:55Yep, I hope y'all enjoy the ride.
17:56Okay.
17:56Cute in here.
17:57Road trip, bitches!
17:58Road trip!
17:59Road trip!
18:00Road trip!
18:01Road trip!
18:02Road trip!
18:03I'm super excited to bring the girls to my hometown, my stomping ground.
18:04Vescema, Alabama.
18:05Kimmy cakes!
18:06Kimmy cakes!
18:07Good morning, team!
18:08You ready?
18:09I'm getting ready!
18:10I'm getting ready!
18:11What you doing?
18:12What you doing with that pillow?
18:13That's why I said she got a bad hair blanket.
18:14You better put that back in the car.
18:15You ain't taking no names.
18:16I'm getting ready.
18:17I'm getting ready.
18:18I am the person I am today because of Vescema and my community.
18:23So, I think we're going to have a good time.
18:24You look so cute!
18:25Thank you, darling.
18:26I look good.
18:27I'm so excited to bring the girls to my hometown, my stomping ground, Vescema, Alabama.
18:32Kimmy cakes!
18:33Good morning, team!
18:34You ready?
18:35I'm getting ready.
18:36What you doing with that pillow?
18:38That's why I said she got a bad hair blanket.
18:41You better put that back in the car.
18:42You ain't taking no nap.
18:43I am the person I am today because of Vescema and my community.
18:48So, I think we're going to have a good time.
18:50You look so cute!
18:51Thank you, darling.
18:52I'm going to put this on.
18:53Let me get the apple.
18:54I'm going to put this on.
18:55I'm going to put this on.
18:56Let me get the apple.
18:57He's not giving me my pillow!
18:59They going to make me like these girls' trips whether I like it or not.
19:02I can see.
19:03Shada Claw!
19:05Shada Claw!
19:06Shada Claw!
19:07Okay.
19:08So, our first road trip with the new duo, Threos.
19:13The threesome.
19:14Threesome!
19:15The new form of threesome.
19:17We got these other names.
19:18Kimmy, you didn't even look me in my eye.
19:21Well, who's going to look me in my eye?
19:28Okay, I feel this already, baby.
19:30What the hell?
19:31You just took it.
19:32So, my mom, you know, she started her food truck.
19:35She got it up open.
19:36I saw those pictures.
19:37Yes.
19:38It's purple.
19:39I love it.
19:40So, we're going to go pop up and pay her a little visit.
19:42She don't know we coming?
19:43No, she don't know.
19:44It's a pop up.
19:45Oh.
19:46I never think a pop up on Wanda is due.
19:48Well, she's going to be out.
19:49She's going to be happy to see us.
19:51No, we don't want you acting up though, Kimmy.
19:53Wanda is having her food truck soft opening.
19:58So, we're going to softly tiptoe in there and softly tiptoe right back out.
20:03This your shot.
20:04I got one already.
20:05Uh-uh.
20:06This yours right here.
20:07So, you didn't invite the rest of the ladies?
20:09Trish had to work.
20:10What about Nell?
20:11I don't talk to Nell.
20:12Why would I talk to Nell?
20:13Did you witness how she treated me?
20:15You saw her.
20:16Kimmy said she was going to throw her in the pool when she was yelling at her.
20:19No, she said.
20:20My mother yelled back with her.
20:22Give me where from her.
20:23I can't do all that holler.
20:24Exactly.
20:25Then that lip went up.
20:26So, Baltimore came out.
20:29No.
20:30And like, call it like it is though, for real.
20:32I asked her three times to stop yelling at me.
20:35She kept saying she wasn't yelling.
20:36Even Trisha.
20:37Trisha leaned over.
20:38She was like, stop yelling.
20:40You are yelling at her.
20:41I'm telling you to stop yelling at my ass.
20:44Stop yelling at me.
20:45Stop yelling at me.
20:46She didn't.
20:47I wasn't yelling at me.
20:48She did.
20:49She did.
20:50Guess y'all gaining up on her.
20:51Because people telling her to stop yelling.
20:52But no, I'm saying before that, just the simple fact that
20:55I asked her to come out and have the conversation.
20:58Yeah.
20:59You almost begged her.
21:00Damn near carried her to come outside
21:04and have the conversation.
21:05You should have been there.
21:06Maybe if we talk.
21:07I'll go with you.
21:08I'll go out here, but I'm not going to do all the arguing.
21:12I'm prayerful that's not going to be the case.
21:14But I really wanted to have the conversation with her.
21:17For me, my energy changed when she was like, one, she said,
21:21y'all were ganging up on me.
21:23What do y'all think y'all doing here?
21:25Gang up on me?
21:27Destiny said, huh?
21:29And she went, Scott 1.0 and 2.0.
21:33I didn't say you.
21:35I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
21:38Not you.
21:39Scott 1.0 and 2.0.
21:42Why you got to do the voice of love?
21:44Because.
21:45That's my whole thing about Nell.
21:47Like, I'm not about to disrespect you.
21:49You're, you can pretty much be like my mom almost.
21:52You're not.
21:53I'm sick.
21:54I can't die.
21:55It says in the Bible, respect your elders.
21:59Oh, Jesus.
22:00And so that's what I'm going to do.
22:01I'm going to stay in the child's place dealing with her.
22:03I've said to Tisha before, I think there's something else,
22:06that there's some kind of issue somewhere else.
22:09And I don't personally, I don't know what it is.
22:11I'm going to tell you what I think it is for the both of them.
22:13Y'all both have said things about each other's husbands.
22:16Because of what her husband is saying about,
22:18he was making jokes about Marceau and Maurice.
22:21And today, 2025, I'm tired of people joking about it,
22:25because it ain't funny no.
22:28So that was my whole thing was, I didn't even have an issue with Nell.
22:31Woman to woman.
22:32I'm like, let's just stop it.
22:33You ain't even got no reply to that, do you?
22:34It's weird, huh?
22:35It's not really a reply, but I'm saying that you guys,
22:38I think, feel the same way.
22:39So with you saying...
22:40But then she started it.
22:41When she gets the messiness back, then it's the problem.
22:45That's where the problem comes in.
22:46Because she hasn't even seen me yet.
22:48That's the thing.
22:49She has not even witnessed me yet be messy with her.
22:52Or she has not even witnessed me come for her yet.
22:54And I think that you let that comment go about your husband
22:59when y'all had y'all conversation.
23:00But I don't know if she's really let it go.
23:02Because it's the truth for her.
23:03And that's my thing.
23:04Jesus.
23:05It's a real issue for her.
23:06No.
23:07No, it is.
23:08It is.
23:09So don't play with me.
23:10I really don't like being the middle man.
23:13And it seems to be the running thing in this friend group.
23:15It's really annoying, to be honest with you.
23:17And I don't know how to handle it.
23:19I try my best to be as neutral as possible.
23:21But that never works.
23:23I'm the person that's in the middle, being in the tug of war.
23:27I didn't tell you this, and I should have.
23:29But I forgot.
23:30But when I met with her, she was like,
23:32she need not worry about my husband.
23:33She need to worry about that girl on that video, on that tape.
23:35Baby, I ain't worry about nothing.
23:37Do you see me?
23:39I see you.
23:40I ain't worry about nothing.
23:41All of you.
23:42Baby, let me tell you something.
23:43I ain't never got to worry about another woman.
23:45Ever.
23:46You know what?
23:47Let's just change the topic.
23:48Let's change the topic.
23:49I always love this view on the way to Birmingham.
23:51Okay.
23:52Let's talk about the view of you and your dating life.
23:54Uh-oh.
23:55Give us an update on that.
23:56What's going on?
23:57I have a new movie role.
23:58It's an independent film.
23:59Oh, it's a movie for real?
24:00It's a movie for real, yeah.
24:02But I have to learn how to box.
24:03And so I asked Mr. Googly Eyes to teach me how to box.
24:07Oh, the train.
24:08You had a box.
24:09Because he boxes.
24:10Sounds like God just put that together.
24:13Y'all do boxing dates?
24:15We haven't had our boxing date.
24:16A boxing session yet.
24:18Yeah, but we did.
24:19We had a business date that we talked about working together.
24:24We have an attraction to each other.
24:26We've acknowledged that.
24:27What did you and Will acknowledge?
24:29Will's nice.
24:30He's really nice.
24:31So, Will get the curve.
24:32It was one and done.
24:33With what?
24:34With Will.
24:35With Will is nice.
24:36Like, I enjoy his company.
24:37Okay.
24:38But you know, I know y'all joke about me, like, in my dating and your little videos of the
24:43multiple people.
24:44But, like, my philosophy is, you know, you date until you find the one.
24:48Absolutely.
24:49And people automatically assume that you, like, sleeping with everybody.
24:52No.
24:53Like, I told all of them, like, I'm not sleeping with you.
24:54So, if that's what you're looking for, you got the wrong lady.
24:57That's part of why he went and got that girl pregnant.
24:59Because you was .
25:00That part.
25:01Be very clear.
25:02Because I was.
25:04You out here wild-dogging.
25:11Coming up on Love and Marriage Hunterville.
25:13I know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
25:16Some things that I've said in the past, like, I'm not proud of.
25:21You sound like Miss Nell over here.
25:23Oh, Lord.
25:24She got herself upset with me.
25:26The old lady now.
25:27I'm gonna have to let my mama have the Miss Nell because I'm not about to go back and
25:31forth with this lady.
25:32And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
26:02Hello.
26:03Hi.
26:04How are you guys doing?
26:05Great.
26:06How about yourself?
26:07Not too bad.
26:08I know that me and Trisha do have, you know, the things that we're going through.
26:13And I'm trying so hard to kind of continue to be patient and continue to allow her to seek
26:21the help and the therapy that she needs.
26:23Because I feel like if she does that, we'll be perfectly fine.
26:26This little place is nice.
26:27You finally get us to get us some date time.
26:30Without little people.
26:31Without the kids.
26:32I know, right?
26:33This drink is actually good.
26:34It is.
26:35Got us a great workout in.
26:36I'm sore.
26:37I think I'll have a hard time because I like to train with my people.
26:41So then I'll be, like, extra sore and tired.
26:43How is that going, people you were training with?
26:45Oh, we got to get our own brick and mortar for one.
26:48I've actually reached out to a couple people who possibly will do, will help us build the
26:53app.
26:54Me and Trisha, um, it's crazy.
26:55We're so much alike when it comes to what we want.
26:58But I think for me, um, you know, I feel like once Trisha actually takes all the tools
27:04that they give her, she needs to actually input them into her lifestyle.
27:08And I think we know the proper steps to take in order to be successful.
27:12I just want you to understand this, too.
27:14I know we've kind of had, you know, some rough spots.
27:18But at the end of the day, I'm still here ready and rocking for you, you know?
27:23One, I want to say that I'm so proud of you because, you know, I've been preaching this
27:28therapy thing for a long time.
27:31The fact that you did it, though, like, I can't do nothing but be happy.
27:36And I know you've had a couple of sessions.
27:37How has it been going?
27:39It's been, it's, listen, it's been interesting.
27:43I'm not gonna lie.
27:44Right.
27:45But I like Dr. Princess.
27:46He used the metaphor as me being, um, a pistachio.
27:51And he said, I'm the pistachio that's still guarding and protecting, that's still closed and
27:57hasn't completely opened up to no one yet.
27:59And he was right.
28:01He told me I need to, you know, start talking to people more.
28:03Right.
28:04But you know, I'm that person you can tell and you can come to for that.
28:08Yeah.
28:09So Ken tells me that I can open up to him and, you know, come and talk to him when I have
28:13issues.
28:14I think I can.
28:15I'm not sure because that's just not something I do or have done in the past.
28:19But I'm hoping he'll be patient with me because it's very new to the both of us.
28:22Dr. Princess hit on a, like, a major part that I never thought about.
28:26I said in the beginning, I was getting a little frustrated when Xavier used to call and ask
28:30him to talk to you about things that he would, you know, normally call me for.
28:33Right.
28:34And I used to be like, wait a minute.
28:36And you were like, you would tell me, oh, he called and talked to you.
28:39He called, Xavier called and told me this.
28:40And I'm like, well, what the hell?
28:42I went from panicking.
28:43Now I'm at rage.
28:48Y'all just pushing me to the side.
28:51What made you jealous of that?
28:53Like, what made that a thing, like?
28:56Because I felt like I was losing my kids.
28:59To me?
29:00Yeah.
29:01It's never going to be that.
29:02Like.
29:03I don't know.
29:04Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
29:06Because I ain't going to go and talk to nobody but me.
29:09I understand where you come from when, you know, when you're used to being that person.
29:16That goes back to what Dr. Francis was saying as well.
29:19I've been the sole person for so long.
29:21It was definitely different because I was like, what the hell is happening here?
29:25So I share with Ken that in the beginning, it was very hard for me to let him into my life
29:30and the kids because I've always been their go-to person.
29:34Like, there's always been me, me and the kids.
29:37And it was just not normal for me to see them run to someone else other than myself.
29:42And I think that was just also a part of me protecting my heart and the kids' heart
29:47because we've been through a lot in the past and I didn't want them to go through it again.
29:51At the end of the day, we just have to be more, you know, conscious of what we're doing.
29:56Like, when we do have a disagreement, it's not turning into a big fight.
30:00I don't see myself doing nothing but life with you, you know.
30:03Me too.
30:04I might have my moments where I say, obviously, but you know it's just frustration
30:07and that's something that I also have to stop.
30:09You know, I have to say, like, some things that I've said in the past, like,
30:13I'm not proud of and I apologize again.
30:16Ultimately, I'm happy.
30:19Me too. Very.
30:21Coming up on Love and Married Huntsville.
30:28Letitia said, tell Letitia stop to get my name by her mouth.
30:33I think you could have left that part out.
30:35I might have to let my momma have to miss Nell.
30:36This bitch is crazy as hell.
30:38Wait a minute. Wait a minute.
30:48Look at Wanda's truck.
30:55We're here. We're in Bessemer.
30:57And look at this.
30:59I'm just so happy that my mom stuck with her dream of starting this food truck.
31:03Here go my truck, y'all. Look at it.
31:05I know, right?
31:06Oh, my God.
31:07Don't be talking. Don't be laughing.
31:08I take this very serious now.
31:10Is that truck working? Does it run?
31:12Yes. You can start it up right now.
31:14For her to start this business at her age, that's something to be celebrated.
31:21I'm so proud of her and I'm so happy for her because she did it.
31:25Wanda! Miss Wanda!
31:28Hey!
31:29Yo, Miss Wanda is back!
31:34Come on, girl!
31:37Yeah! You got your truck!
31:39The hose came from Highsfield!
31:41Yay!
31:43I'm so glad to see y'all, though.
31:45I like your truck, Wanda!
31:47Well, thank you. Thank you.
31:48Congratulations.
31:49We want the order. Yeah, we want the order.
31:50I want the loaded chicken potatoes.
31:52I want steak.
31:53Steak.
31:54Medium.
31:55Medium.
31:56Don't cook my steak all the way to the belt.
31:59But if you don't know, you're in decimal.
32:01We do everything wrong.
32:03You pick it.
32:04Because I don't want my steak cooked like a belt?
32:08It's not going to be cooked like a belt.
32:10It's going to be cooked like steak.
32:11Okay, that's what I want.
32:12All right, y'all. Give me a minute. I'll be back.
32:15Okay, she said we're going to sit down.
32:17Listen!
32:18I'm always nervous when they come to meet Wanda.
32:21That's just keeping it real.
32:23Because you just never know what's about to pop off.
32:27I'm excited that Wanda is opening up her food truck.
32:31That is where my excitement begins and ends.
32:35Everything else is sheer nerves.
32:38Hey, Wanda!
32:40Don't give me a hug, girl!
32:42Give me a hug!
32:44Look at you!
32:45Come on!
32:46Give me some hug!
32:47Yes!
32:48Are we going to say grace?
32:49I already blessed the pool.
32:51Amen.
32:52Ulobe, thank you.
32:53Amen.
32:54Thank you, Destiny.
32:55You're welcome.
32:56Y'all blessed the hands that fed you.
32:57That's right.
32:58Very pretty picture of you on the truck.
33:00So have you had it out and about?
33:02Like in town?
33:03This is my very first day.
33:04Yay!
33:05This is a great location too.
33:07So how was the ride here?
33:08It was good.
33:09We had some good conversations.
33:11You know?
33:12What's happening about me?
33:14It's always about you.
33:16It's always about you.
33:17I can't believe y'all talking about me.
33:19So I got to talk about y'all damn asses then.
33:21Come on, let's go.
33:22No, no, no.
33:23Speaking of, everybody want to talk about our group.
33:25You sound like Miss Nell over here.
33:27Oh, Lord.
33:28She got herself upset with me.
33:30Who?
33:31Miss Nell.
33:32Nell who?
33:33The flexure lady.
33:34The old lady Nell?
33:36Yeah, that's why I came to you.
33:38Because I'm like, I got to get my mama to talk to her.
33:40Oh, hell, wait a minute.
33:41Because I can't deal with it.
33:42No idea what, girl?
33:43OK, let me tell you what happened.
33:44Please tell me.
33:45So what happened was her husband said something about our husbands.
33:49And I told her.
33:50I was like, it really played an effect on my marriage.
33:53Overall, what I was saying is that I cannot argue with this lady
33:57because she's more of my mother's age, and she's an elder.
34:02And you know what the Bible said about your elders.
34:05No, you know what your mama said about the elders.
34:07OK, not your definition, but the Bible.
34:08OK.
34:09You respect your elders.
34:10Respect your elders.
34:11So your days won't be cut short.
34:13Well, you've been trained that way.
34:14Exactly.
34:15So I was like, I'm going to have to let my mama have the Miss Nell
34:17because I'm not about to go back and forth with this lady to get my days cut short.
34:20And you shouldn't have to go back and forth with her.
34:22I think that Tisha suggesting her mom and Nell talk is a horrible idea.
34:29Very, very, very horrible idea.
34:31Because Nell and Wanda both will pop off.
34:35And I just don't think it's a good idea.
34:39Ooh, girl, you made me.
34:42My nerves, my blood pressure up now.
34:44.
34:45Yeah, wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:47Wait, I'm coming back to Huntsville.
34:49Nell want to insert herself in my child business?
34:53Baby, you ain't nobody counsel.
34:56You ain't nobody instruction.
34:58You ain't, you can't even keep your own marriage together.
35:00While he stepped out on you,
35:02while you worrying about what Monso and the rest of the people are doing,
35:06the only thing I'm going to talk about is mine.
35:08If you put my child in your mouth,
35:10now it's time for me to come and talk with you about yours.
35:14When I'm coming back to Huntsville, I need to know.
35:17In the time, you ready to drive to Huntsville?
35:19OK, I'm coming.
35:20Do you think it's really necessary for them to have a conversation?
35:22Oh, hell yeah, it's going to be necessary.
35:24It was necessary for her to step to my damn daughter.
35:26The thing is, she didn't say it to Tisha.
35:28She said it to her.
35:29We thought everything was fine.
35:30She stepped to Destiny and told Destiny how she was talking about.
35:32Oh, so you with the bone carrier?
35:34Ooh.
35:35No, no, no.
35:36They carried their own bones before I even got in the picture.
35:38But she said she told you and you told Tisha.
35:41No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
35:47No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no.
36:01Miss Wanda, you know I adore you, but please stop.
36:04Please.
36:05Ain't that the pot calling the kettle?
36:07They had their own issue, and apparently they resolved it.
36:12But when I talked to her, I didn't know that they hadn't moved forward.
36:16And when I brought it to her, she was like,
36:17we already talked about this, and we're supposed to be good.
36:20Letitia said, tell Letitia stop to get my .
36:24Ain't about her .
36:25I think you could have left that part out.
36:27That's what she said, though.
36:28Isn't that what she said?
36:29I'm just saying in front of Wanda.
36:31I see what Tisha's doing.
36:33She's, you know, sending Wanda to do her light work.
36:36That's not even a conversation to be had.
36:38It's just not.
36:39It's kind of like sicking your dogs on somebody.
36:41Bad idea.
36:42Horrible idea.
36:44So that was the whole thing.
36:45I don't know what she want from me.
36:47She felt like me and Kimmy wasn't being transparent,
36:51because when she was asking us about the whole interview situation,
36:54I was like, I said what I had to say on my social media page.
36:58How do you two ladies feel about what Martell said about your husbands?
37:03Me and my husband did a live, and we absolutely discussed how we felt about it.
37:07I know.
37:08So if you want to know how I feel about it, I go watch the live.
37:10I just want to know, what do you feel about it?
37:13About what?
37:14About what?
37:15About this .
37:16About .
37:18This went to this live right here about Maso and Maurice.
37:23What do I feel about the ?
37:26Yeah.
37:27What do you feel about her?
37:28I know you've seen it.
37:29You never replied back to it.
37:31You never said anything.
37:32So I just want to know, what's really going on?
37:34We don't care.
37:35I'm talking to you.
37:37Okay.
37:38Babe, I'm talking to you.
37:39No, I don't give it any energy.
37:42I didn't see the whole thing, because I just felt like it was ridiculous.
37:47But I would have took it in consideration.
37:50I was like, well, damn.
37:52This bitch says she had it in the butt, in the mouth at the same time.
37:55Why are you doing this?
37:56Because it happened, right?
37:58So what you feel about it, baby?
37:59It's just disgusting.
38:00I told you what I feel.
38:01You don't like what I feel.
38:02I don't believe that lady.
38:04I don't know who she is, and I don't know where she came from.
38:07And I don't believe the lady.
38:09You didn't conversate with Maurice about it after you heard about it?
38:12No, I did.
38:13I said, do you know her?
38:14Like, who is she?
38:15You actually believe it?
38:16No, I don't.
38:17If a bitch comes to me and says something happened,
38:19I'm not gonna sit down and not taking consideration what damn just was saying.
38:23You believed her?
38:25It's a certain thing.
38:26But Wanda, there's been many times I've said very plain,
38:31I think that people can cheat.
38:33I don't have any issue with knowing that men, women, whoever can cheat.
38:38That , no, ma'am.
38:41Absolutely not.
38:43At this moment, Wanda is acting like a certified blogger.
38:47And I would assume part of being good at this is moving on.
38:53I've not done anything, haven't done anything, don't intend to do anything.
38:57You never showed me I did anything.
38:59Let it go.
39:00For real.
39:01This is one of them on the chin moments, ain't it?
39:03You gotta go like this when you say it though, Destiny.
39:05I take it on the chin.
39:06This is one of the moments.
39:07I take it on the chin all the time.
39:08Call it whatever y'all want to call it, but I'm just telling y'all young girls,
39:12don't be going around here saying that y'all don't believe what these folks be saying.
39:16Y'all got to take into consideration.
39:17So you believe everything somebody said?
39:18Hell yeah.
39:19That's why I ain't with my husband today.
39:20Hell yeah.
39:21And that's probably why.
39:22Hell yeah.
39:23That's really ain't with him.
39:24And if it look like he'll do it, he did it.
39:26I think Kimmy is in denial.
39:29I think Kimmy like, I don't give a what's going on.
39:33I really think that.
39:34I think Kimmy like, I'm down with my man no matter what.
39:38Wanda, nobody believes her.
39:41Nobody.
39:42I don't know.
39:43Millions stills and millions, y'all.
39:44Listen, we came here to support your food truck.
39:46I appreciate it.
39:47But since y'all came all the way from Huntsville,
39:49and I haven't talked to y'all in a long time,
39:51I just wanted to know what really was going on.
39:53Mom, we don't care.
39:54Mom also said he don't care.
39:55I said I don't care.
39:56My Reese didn't ever say he didn't care.
39:58That's why I'm asking his wife.
39:59We can see for everybody when we say we don't care.
40:01We want our refund.
40:02We didn't come here for that.
40:03Give us our money back.
40:06Oh, Lord.
40:07We're here to support my mom.
40:09And instantly, she's like, I got words for y'all.
40:12Like, can we just have a good day to eat a nice potato
40:15and have a moment and pay you and then leave?
40:19Not the mess today.
40:21Kind of bezeman with this .
40:23I'm going to tell you something.
40:25If a man come to you and he don't give you a straight answer,
40:29he damn did it.
40:37Next on Love and Maritonsville.
40:39How do you think he going to get you a man if you ain't shaking?
40:42I know that's your standard, but I have a standard.
40:44I think that would be an issue with women trying to hold out with a man.
40:48So you just think that every woman that goes on a date with someone
40:51should just be sleeping with everybody they go on a date with?
40:54It's different.
40:55You say, oh, let's have a party.
40:57Yeah.
40:58You have a good time.
40:59But when you say dinner, it's a little more intense.
41:02You absolutely have to have it.
41:03Okay.
41:04Well , let's have it.
41:05Let's do it.
41:06See how this go.
41:08I'm an open book.
41:09Are you?
41:10100%.
41:11So you have four children and never been married.
41:13Why haven't you been married?
41:15All Chris said was, he explained it.
41:18It was a question that dad said.
41:19I asked him.
41:20Now you're back on dad.
41:21So I was like, what the hell?
41:22One person here is doing a motherfucking lot.
41:25And that happened to be me.
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