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00:00Previously on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
00:03Let's not mention Martel Holt or his fiance.
00:07Maybe we should leave Marshall and Tisha alone.
00:08The four of us, we won't be in no negative space
00:11because we won't say anything negative about each other.
00:12I have no intentions of saying anything about you
00:15that's negative.
00:16I know we talk about this wall.
00:18It seems like I have built up.
00:19I can't keep getting beat over the head for I ain't do.
00:22If there's no actions taking place, it's not going to change.
00:24There has to be a change.
00:27My name is Kitson Francis.
00:28We're going to work our way through this.
00:30I think I'm a very angry soul right now.
00:33I redirect my pain from mental to physical.
00:35And because the gym does not have a way of arguing with you,
00:39it's a safe place.
00:40Sometimes he comes back home with me.
00:42You should do something else.
00:43Get the group together.
00:44Play some adult games, some type of adult game.
00:46Nothing too challenging to get people all riled up.
00:48Right.
00:49It's just fun.
00:50You know, LA was interesting.
00:52Y'all disappeared all of a sudden.
00:54And allegedly, I was told you left to go be there
00:57for your new grandbaby from Letitia.
00:59And see, that's the problem.
01:00Letitia Scott need to mind her own business
01:02and what's going on in her life and her marriage.
01:04Your friend need to keep my family's business
01:07out her mother mouth.
01:09We keep it moving.
01:20All day or night.
01:23Yeah.
01:23Ain't no stopping.
01:24I've dropped that.
01:25It ain't stopping.
01:27You know.
01:28You know.
01:29We keep it moving.
01:30All day or night.
01:33Yeah.
01:34Yeah.
01:36All day, all night.
01:38Yeah.
01:39Ain't no stopping us.
01:42Yeah!
01:46Woo!
01:49Yeah!
01:50Woo!
01:58Hey.
01:59Oh.
02:00Fabulous.
02:02You're gorgeous.
02:03Come on.
02:06Hi.
02:07Hello.
02:08Hello.
02:09How many tonight?
02:10Table for two.
02:11All right, if you're gonna follow me.
02:12So, I'm meeting up with Sharon because I have some things to tell her.
02:16The last time we talked, things were chaotic and a complete mess.
02:19Well, I only got some good news to tell her, so can't wait to share.
02:24So, like, I feel like we have so much catching up to do.
02:26A lot.
02:27A lot.
02:28I feel like we haven't really even had a real conversation about you and Ken.
02:33Ken, he moved, he stepped away for a little while.
02:38For a couple of days.
02:41But, um, he's back at the house.
02:43I think it was so much tension and frustration and it was all the arguing constantly.
02:49Like, back and forth.
02:51Like, a lot.
02:52I think that Ken, um, brings a good balance to you.
02:57I know.
02:59I hope that you're trying to be more vulnerable with him.
03:03That's hard, but I'm trying.
03:04Good.
03:05Have you did your counseling session yet?
03:07I have started my counseling session.
03:09Oh, MG.
03:10That's good.
03:11How much is it?
03:12Are you being open with them?
03:14Yeah.
03:15I was very emotional.
03:17I guess when I sat down, I knew that was from Relive's moments that I didn't want to Relive.
03:24And I really didn't want to be there in the beginning.
03:28We talked about my parents.
03:31We talked about the emotional attachments that I haven't let go with losing them.
03:44We talked about bottling things up, you know, until it just overflows.
03:50And I do.
03:51I bottled up a lot of anger, which comes from them not being here, too.
03:57That's a big part.
03:58A big part of it.
03:59When I can't think about it anymore, I explode on everybody.
04:04Instead of talking or crying or releasing, I go to the gym.
04:09We done talked about some things and went through some things, and I'm like, I ain't never seen you cry.
04:14Because I hated it.
04:16I don't think anybody's ever seen me cry.
04:18I don't think my kids ever seen me cry except at funerals.
04:21It's just showing that I'm not strong enough to be there for them.
04:26No, that's not what they're showing them.
04:28That's how I take it.
04:29I know, but it's just showing them that you're human and you have emotions.
04:33Yeah, but it's like a weak emotion.
04:34And that's one of them.
04:35No, it's not weak.
04:36But it is.
04:37Well, to me, it was.
04:38I told Dr. Francis it was like a weak emotion to me.
04:41It was since then.
04:42Dr. Francis didn't tell you that was weak.
04:43No, it didn't.
04:44What did he tell you?
04:46That's part of being strong.
04:51I'm still not feeling that part.
04:54It's okay.
04:55It'll come.
04:56It'll come with time.
04:57It's hard for me to get close to people.
04:59Yeah, because of that.
05:01You think I don't know that?
05:03Seriously, do you know how long we worked out for?
05:05Yeah.
05:06I don't know.
05:07I guess I don't want to get attached to people and then I lose them.
05:12I'd rather just keep my distance and keep my feelings and my emotions and distance.
05:18No, no, no, no, ma'am.
05:19That's not what he wants you to do.
05:21I get it, but then there's no pain in the end that I have to go through all over again.
05:26We're going to have pain.
05:27We're going to have sorrow.
05:28Those are emotions.
05:29That session was hard.
05:32It was hard reliving.
05:34It was hard thinking about it.
05:36But you definitely feel better afterwards, though, right?
05:39I felt a lot better afterwards.
05:41Like after the session, the things that would have made me mad, I stopped and thought about
05:45it for a second before I reacted.
05:48Yeah.
05:49That felt good.
05:50So that's a tool.
05:51That felt good.
05:53I am super proud of you.
05:55High five.
05:56You did that.
05:57I tried.
05:58Since my first meeting with Dr. Francis, I can say can our relationship.
06:03It has progressed.
06:04It's getting better.
06:05But I think we still have a lot to work on as far as communication with each other.
06:11It feels right when I start to open up.
06:13It feels like this is the right thing to do.
06:15One thing I did after learning about the attachment and letting go, because I can't talk to them,
06:24you know, physically, so I went to their graves.
06:28I never wanted to do that.
06:29I did not go to their graves at all, because I felt like I would get angry at talking to the ground.
06:37I sat there and I cried again.
06:46It was actually comforting though.
06:50I did go and visit my parents' grave for the first time.
06:53It feels like a weight lifted.
06:56I'm sure I probably should have done it a long time ago.
06:59Whew.
07:00I don't think I've ever talked about this.
07:05Ever.
07:06Thank you for sharing.
07:07I really mean it.
07:08That mean a lot to me.
07:09When I go home, I'm gonna think about it all night now.
07:11I'm gonna go home and cry, crown kids, big old shoulders.
07:14I'm gonna start punching holes in the wall.
07:16That is not gonna help you.
07:17You did before.
07:18That is not gonna help you.
07:19Then I used to cover it up with mirrors.
07:21And pictures.
07:22You funny.
07:47Welcome to Magnolia.
07:48How are you?
07:49I'm awesome.
07:50How are you doing?
07:51Good.
07:52It's nice to meet you.
07:53Hi.
07:54I think I have a little reservation for some ladies.
07:55Ladies.
07:56That would be me.
07:57Perfect.
07:58Any ideas?
07:59What kind of smells you like?
08:00Um, no.
08:01We're just curious on how we get to the smell.
08:03I want to try to do as much as I can to kind of move things along with the ladies.
08:08We need to spend more time together.
08:10We need to learn each other, understand each other, get to know each other.
08:14And that only happens with spending time.
08:16So I got Trisha, Destiny, Tisha, and me.
08:19We're gonna make soap.
08:21I probably will pick based on colors.
08:23Because I think some of these are pretty.
08:24Well, you can have your best vibes.
08:25That's pretty.
08:26Hi.
08:27Hey, Latisha.
08:28It smell good in here.
08:29Uh-huh.
08:30Uh-huh.
08:31What's up?
08:32Hey.
08:33You look pretty.
08:34Thank you, dear.
08:35You too.
08:36So we couldn't go running?
08:37You said running.
08:38Yeah.
08:39That's your thing.
08:40Kimmy is more relaxed.
08:41She.
08:42I see.
08:43Kimmy, Trish said no running.
08:44She said she thought it was gonna be some exercise.
08:45She did not think that.
08:46You didn't think that at all.
08:47I did.
08:48Why would you think that?
08:49We're gonna eat and we're gonna like sit down, have some wine, make some bath balls.
09:02I thought Kimmy would organize something active because I keep challenging her and keep picking
09:08with her about it.
09:09So I was just expecting her to be like, you know what, I'm gonna do it one day.
09:13But no, here we are, making soap.
09:15I'm just gonna pass this around to each of you.
09:18So what you're gonna do, you're gonna pour this right about there.
09:22And then you're gonna pour your scent halfway and then dump both of them in.
09:27So it should be like on the sixth seat?
09:29Yep.
09:30And that's what's gonna moisturize you.
09:31Okay.
09:32Shea butter, cocoa butter, and then a pumice oil mix.
09:37And when you add the water, that's what's gonna start to make it warm.
09:40Well, hello!
09:41Oh, hi, Snowpaw!
09:42Hey, girl!
09:43That's Destiny.
09:44Hello!
09:45What color would you like?
09:47Um, green?
09:48Green?
09:49Ooh, green for money.
09:50Yeah, yeah.
09:51Can I see what you're doing?
09:52Oh, no, no.
09:53It's a loss.
09:54I think I like this one.
09:55When you pinch it, it releases it.
09:58I'm so cute!
09:59So then I put this in here or the oil first?
10:01Mm-hmm.
10:02Do the oil first.
10:03She said that.
10:04Oh, yeah.
10:05It's like every time I try to get everybody together, somebody missing.
10:09The first dinner, who was missing?
10:12You was missing.
10:13Now Nell.
10:14Where's Nell?
10:15She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:18I didn't invite Nell because I knew she was getting ready for her event.
10:22Fletch-tivities.
10:23And it is tonight.
10:24And I didn't want us making bath bombs to make her tardy.
10:28Oh.
10:29I thought it was because Tisha was here.
10:31What?
10:32What?
10:33What?
10:34What did I do with it?
10:35The shade.
10:40Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
10:42Destiny said you said keep my name out your mouth.
10:45I did say that.
10:49Hello.
10:54Where's Nell?
10:55She's having her own event that she's getting ready for.
10:58Oh.
10:59I thought it was because Tisha was here.
11:01What?
11:02What?
11:03What did I do with it?
11:04The shade.
11:05Y'all going to her event, right?
11:06Yeah.
11:07You're going to go.
11:08You going to?
11:09Oh, yeah.
11:10I'm going Christmas by the Marshal.
11:11Marshal said he was going to go, so I'm going with my husband, girl.
11:12Lance will probably be there, too.
11:13Ooh.
11:14Did y'all talk?
11:15Did y'all square y'all stuff out?
11:16We had a conversation.
11:17You going to be a stepmom?
11:18No.
11:19Damn.
11:20Thank you, Chris.
11:21So real talk, I sat and I talked with Lance about finding out about this baby on the internet
11:28because y'all all know I did not know about a kid.
11:31I was told that I had a baby on the way, but I wasn't sure.
11:33So I didn't know how you would react to that.
11:36And, of course, I didn't want to say anything before knowing that it was my child.
11:39We all saw at the same time.
11:40We all saw at the same time.
11:41We all saw it when you saw it.
11:43Yeah.
11:44And, you know, he brought up the whole googly eyes situation.
11:48No, she's not.
11:49Okay.
11:50Y'all good.
11:51You stay close.
11:52Wait a minute.
11:53The googly eyes, smiley.
11:55And I'm like, you talking about googly eyes and you have a whole kid that you didn't
11:59tell me about.
12:00Like, what are we doing?
12:01So I said, well, speaking of Twan, it's his name.
12:04Oh, you got a name now.
12:06Well, my name ain't changing.
12:08What's your name?
12:09Googly eyes.
12:10I can't.
12:11I'm sick of you.
12:12I told Lance that if he asked me out, I would say yes.
12:15And then this nigga hit me with it.
12:17That's my god, brother.
12:18Yup.
12:20Life just keeps on lifing.
12:23What you say when he said that?
12:25I was like, we finna keep it in the family then.
12:29I think it's humorous that Destiny just found out that Lance and googly eyes are god brothers.
12:37Like, close.
12:38Like dudes.
12:39Like bros.
12:41I'm gonna say that I don't think this revelation is gonna make much of a difference.
12:46I don't have a lot to base it on.
12:49But the rules tend to change when it comes to Destiny.
12:54I was like, well, I was told that he possibly was interested.
12:59And although it's been nothing but professional, he guarded my body really well.
13:04And I told Lance that if Twan was interested, that I would be too.
13:09He was like, well, I mean, what can I say?
13:12I mean, I had a whole baby out here. I blessed the situation.
13:15Oh, he blessed it.
13:16Long story short, Lance thought I should talk to his mom because she felt a way about the googly eyes still.
13:21Which is why she was giving me that energy in L.A.
13:24I think Nell got triggered because when I met with her and I said, you know, you told me that they left L.A. early because of the baby situation.
13:32And she was like, that's not true.
13:35Isn't that what she told us?
13:37What did she tell us the reason she left L.A. early?
13:39I didn't know why they left in the moment.
13:40I didn't know either until she came back and she was talking about the child.
13:43And she was like, that's one of the reasons they had to leave early because they found out that she was in labor.
13:48I guess it happened to the baby.
13:49That's what I took from what she said.
13:51Oh, well, she said that's not what happened because the baby was born in November.
13:54Then she remembered that it was actually October.
13:56Oh, wait, wait.
13:57She said the baby was born in November but she actually remembered it was October?
14:00Yes, October.
14:01She definitely said something about the child was the reason.
14:04How would I even know?
14:05I don't even know nothing about the damn child.
14:08I'm just saying.
14:09Like, I don't know nothing about it.
14:10Like, she told me.
14:11She said, Letitia Scott need to mind her mother .
14:15It's all in my business.
14:16What business?
14:17I'm business about what?
14:18I don't really know.
14:19You didn't ask her?
14:20It was about the comment about the signing NDAs and...
14:24That's my business.
14:25Her husband mentioned my husband.
14:27That's my business.
14:28So I did talk to her after the party.
14:30And she brought that up.
14:31She told me to go talk to Chris.
14:33It was your fashion, the way you went and talked to Chris.
14:36She was trying to explain her side of the story.
14:38She was like, when she went over there and was pointing on his face.
14:40She's all up in my husband's face.
14:43She was like, Why did you say those things about Marceau and Maurice?
14:47And she just started doing this right here.
14:50She crossed the line.
14:51She went too far.
14:52Nell wants to have a problem with me.
14:54Like, I don't have a problem.
14:55Well, that's why I told her she should talk to you.
14:56We had a conversation already.
14:58That's where my confusion comes.
15:00Because they'll have the conversations and then all of a sudden it's a problem with me.
15:03Right.
15:04And I haven't done anything.
15:05That's where I get confused.
15:06Her conversation was after her conversation, right?
15:09Right.
15:10It's so weird.
15:11I don't know.
15:12It was recent.
15:13I've given Nell a lot of grace and I've tried to really put forth an effort with trying to build something with Nell.
15:20I thought like, hey, this is going to move in a good direction.
15:23Now, had I known she was going to go back and say the things she said to Destiny about me.
15:28But you know what?
15:30She got me that one time.
15:31It would never happen again.
15:33Sometimes you got to just have a conversation with people and everybody be on the same page.
15:41Coming up on Love and Maritons Field.
15:43Let the games begin!
15:47This is so funny.
15:50I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
15:54And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
15:57I said, well, we did.
15:58I feel like y'all need to talk.
16:03No, we don't.
16:20We don't fire.
16:21We don't fire.
16:22We don't fire.
16:23We don't fire.
16:24We don't fire.
16:25We don't fire.
16:26Hello.
16:27Hello.
16:28How y'all doing today?
16:29Hello, hello, hello.
16:30This is beautiful.
16:32And I can't wait.
16:34We're getting ready for Fletch-tivities tonight.
16:37We're going to have all the couples beginning the games together that we're going to play.
16:41I think we'll do good.
16:42We got some very competitive people in this circle.
16:46Oh, yeah.
16:47Yeah, I'm sure we'll have a good time.
16:49I didn't know we were the first ones here.
16:52Look at us.
16:53Right on time.
16:54Hello.
16:56I love when the game gets together, especially on game night.
16:59I think Fletch-tivities are going to be fun.
17:01Just the name gets me tickled.
17:04Oh, yeah.
17:05Hello.
17:06Look at y'all doing.
17:08We're going to play some games.
17:10Not no shots yet.
17:13I'm going to juggle some balls in the cups.
17:15Okay.
17:16You're having all kinds of balls today, aren't we?
17:18That's what I was going to say.
17:19What are the balls we have?
17:20I missed Dr. Tash.
17:21No.
17:22You did.
17:23What?
17:24I meant to make some soap balls.
17:25You was getting ready for this, so...
17:27Oh, so what was it?
17:28A couples thing or a female thing?
17:29No.
17:30It was all the girls but you.
17:32Oh, wow.
17:33Making balls.
17:34But you was preparing for this.
17:35We're not about to say that's awkward.
17:36You was preparing for this.
17:37I'm kind of feeling some type of way about not getting invited to something that Kimmy has planned for the girls, and I'm getting left out once again.
17:44I'm kind of wondering, like, was this intentionally?
17:45What's up, people?
17:46What's up?
17:47What's up, people?
17:48What's up, people?
17:49Ma'am, what's up?
17:50What's up, people?
17:51Hello.
17:52What up, folks?
17:53Mama, what up, though?
17:56Oh, that's awkward.
17:57That's awkward.
17:58You were preparing for this.
17:59You were preparing for this.
18:00That's awkward.
18:01You were preparing for this.
18:02I'm kind of feeling some type of way about not getting invited to something that Kimmy has planned for the girls, and I'm getting left out once again.
18:03Intentionally?
18:04What's up, Martell?
18:05What's up, Martell?
18:06What's up, Martell?
18:07Y'all looking all fancy and stuff?
18:08What's up?
18:09How you doing?
18:10You all right?
18:11What's up?
18:12Hey, what's up, y'all?
18:13OK, here's what's going on.
18:15Hello, how are you doing?
18:16Momo, what up, though?
18:17Hey, lady, how are you?
18:18Can I get to?
18:19What's Taylor?
18:20How are you, sir?
18:21What up, what up?
18:22Martell, how are you, sir?
18:23I'm good, you good?
18:24Everything good?
18:25Everything's great?
18:26Whatever I remember.
18:27Well, this is my first time seeing Martell
18:29since he did that little interview skit that he did.
18:33I'm here to have a good time.
18:35Marcel can be cordial with Martell.
18:38That mean I can be cordial with Nell.
18:40I'm just going to make sure I keep everybody's name
18:43out of my MF mouth.
18:45What's a party without a drink?
18:48Get a couple of wangs.
18:56Who else coming?
18:57I don't see nobody missing but Destiny and what, Lance?
19:01Are they coming together?
19:02I don't know.
19:03We'll see.
19:04Oh, .
19:06Do we have some more people?
19:07I don't know if they're coming together or not.
19:09That's going to be tough.
19:10Okay.
19:11Destiny and Lance.
19:12They seem like they're a couple or something.
19:14She's like, she had a feeling about Destiny.
19:18Oh.
19:19Have y'all gotten past that?
19:20Yeah.
19:21We're good.
19:22Oh, okay.
19:23Well, damn, everybody good.
19:24I think they're neutral.
19:25I just think they're good.
19:26Friends.
19:27Friends.
19:28Yeah, just friends.
19:29Friends that ride together.
19:30Friends that ride together.
19:31Friends that ride together.
19:32Couple's immense.
19:33Oh, this is a couples event?
19:36Ish.
19:37I'm the ish.
19:38Is that Martell not a couple?
19:40I was going to say.
19:41No, he got a picture of him in the couple.
19:43What you got, Martell?
19:45Don't laugh.
19:46It's kind of corny, but...
19:49Oh, so you did bring Arianne with you.
19:53See?
19:54So it's still a couples night.
19:56Though I had my jacket zipped up, I wasn't trying to hide anything.
20:00As a matter of fact, hell, I show it.
20:03Hell, I just...
20:04It was cold, so I just had my jacket zipped up.
20:06She's covering your heart?
20:08Yeah, it was something like that.
20:12Hello.
20:14Hey, how y'all doing?
20:16Hey, how y'all doing?
20:17Hey, how y'all doing?
20:19What up, what up?
20:20Oh, oh, oh, hey.
20:21Yeah, I'm sorry.
20:22How you doing?
20:23Oh, oh, oh.
20:24Destin is walking in here with Will after the conversation we just had about Swan.
20:28So this is very surprising to me.
20:32Awkward.
20:33What up?
20:34Very good.
20:37Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
20:39How much y'all know about Destin?
20:41Good wholesome girl.
20:42Good wholesome girl?
20:43Yeah.
20:44That's not what I want to hear.
20:45Oh, oh, what you want to hear?
20:47It's not.
20:48CC down for the calls tonight.
20:49You got one night to prove you're worth it.
20:53So, Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
20:58That's none of your business.
20:59I don't owe you anything.
21:03Hello.
21:04Hey, how y'all doing?
21:06Hold up, hold up, hold up.
21:07Hold up, hold up.
21:08Hold up.
21:09Hold up.
21:10Hold up.
21:11Hold up.
21:12Hold up.
21:13Get your cards tonight.
21:14What a little part of that .
21:15I didn't ask you what?
21:17I told a .
21:19Will, that's my bro.
21:20We've been cool for a long, long time.
21:22So watching Will walk in with Destin is definitely unexpected.
21:26It took me by surprise.
21:27He didn't tell me.
21:28Hey, I guess that answered that Lance question.
21:33Oop, there it is.
21:34So Will DM'd me and asked me on a date,
21:36and why not bring him to game night?
21:38We have some of the same friends, and I knew the peanut gallery
21:42would be all in my business and snickering like they were,
21:45but I'm grown, and I'm single, and I can date who I want
21:50and however many people I want.
21:53So what was so funny?
21:54They thought Destin was coming in with Lance.
21:57And then I pop up.
21:58And you pop up.
21:59Yes.
22:00Look, everybody, guys.
22:02What up?
22:03What up?
22:04Okay, ladies and gentlemen, they too.
22:06.
22:07The plot's just sticking.
22:09How are you?
22:10How you doing, sir?
22:11This is Kiara.
22:12How you doing?
22:13I'm here with a date.
22:14I did expect that Destin was going to be there with someone.
22:17I thought maybe Antoine.
22:19I didn't know it was going to be Will.
22:23Is it weird?
22:24Of course.
22:25Does it bother me?
22:26Not...
22:27Okay.
22:28It bothers me, but it doesn't bother me to the extent of, like,
22:32it will be an issue.
22:33Hi!
22:34You look cute.
22:35Hey, babes.
22:36Lance is a lover boy.
22:38He is, like, always dating somebody.
22:41So I'm not surprised to see him with someone here,
22:43because he probably didn't want to see me with another person.
22:46So he had to bring a little datey date.
22:49Everyone, this game is called Flip Cup.
22:53You guys are going to start on this end.
22:55You're going to flip the cup.
22:56Everyone else is going to move back.
22:58Hey, can we huddle before we get started?
23:01That's on y'all.
23:02That's on y'all.
23:03Hey, guys, come on.
23:04Let's huddle up.
23:05I don't know where my competitive gene comes from,
23:07but if I'm on the team, you have to know that we're going to win,
23:11because that's all we do.
23:12One, two, three.
23:13Win!
23:14Let's go!
23:15Let the games begin!
23:16On your march, get set, go!
23:25Oh, .
23:26There we go, Marty.
23:27Let's go, baby.
23:28Call strategy.
23:29Somebody's going to mess up.
23:30I ain't worried about it.
23:31Let's go!
23:32Woo!
23:33Yes, sir!
23:34You made it!
23:35Go, G!
23:36Go, G!
23:37Go, G!
23:38Go, G!
23:39Go, G!
23:40Yeah!
23:41First rounds of games are going well.
23:45We're winning, as usual.
23:48If you look over our history, as long as I'm on the team,
23:50you want to win, put Reece Scott in.
23:52Okay, the next game is going to be the spoon game.
23:56Musical spoons, all right?
23:57Okay.
23:58Whoever doesn't grab a spoon, you're out.
24:00Y'all ready?
24:01Let's get it!
24:02On the music.
24:03This way.
24:04Clockwise.
24:05There we go.
24:06Keep it moving!
24:07Keep it moving!
24:08Keep it moving!
24:09Keep it moving!
24:10Keep it moving!
24:11Keep it moving!
24:12Keep it moving!
24:13Keep it moving!
24:14This is so funny!
24:17So who doesn't have a spoon?
24:18I know!
24:19Spoon!
24:20Pop it out!
24:21You're out!
24:22Well, don't feel too bad, because I made us lose on the little beer pong thing.
24:26Yeah, y'all was losers the whole night, though.
24:27Come on!
24:28Stop the music!
24:29I don't give a damn!
24:30I would need to be out!
24:31Y'all cheated!
24:32Woo!
24:33Scope vs. Scope!
24:34Yeah!
24:35So musical spoons was such a cute idea, but Marceau and Martell being the last two standing,
24:51I thought was hilarious.
24:52Here we go!
24:53Last man standing!
24:54Scope vs. Scope!
24:55No!
25:03Keep moving!
25:04Keep moving!
25:05Keep moving!
25:06Keep moving!
25:07Let's go!
25:09He's such a cheater!
25:10Let's go!
25:11Throw him a spoon the whole damn time!
25:13I was victorious.
25:14And for him to pull out a spoon the same color of the spoon that I won with, you know,
25:20that's the typical Marceau.
25:22You know, people say how you do one thing is how you do everything.
25:26And him cheating in this game is very telling.
25:29I got a spoon!
25:31Which one's the real spoon?
25:33What are the freaking odds, Martell and Marceau, the last two at the table?
25:46They're very competitive.
25:47Very competitive.
25:48Very.
25:49We have a lot of type A personalities here as well.
25:51Facts.
25:52What's going on?
25:53How y'all doing?
25:54I mean, we came to an agreement.
25:55We stayed with them all negatively, you know, amongst us and our significant other.
26:01And I'm proud of you.
26:02So we agreed to that.
26:03We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:04Oh, what'd you say?
26:05We're going to do the best with our significant others.
26:07Well, actually, I'm just happy as that is.
26:08Where is that?
26:09I enjoyed the piece.
26:10It's good to see Marceau and Martell getting back to a place where they can be around each
26:22other, laugh and joke, and everything's not so on edge.
26:26I can't take all the credit for it, but if they want to heap it on me.
26:33I told Nell we went to make balls, soap balls today.
26:38And she said, well, it sounds like y'all did something without me.
26:41I said, well, we did.
26:42I feel like y'all need to talk.
26:46No, we don't.
26:47Of course you do.
26:48Of course you do.
26:49You always say have a conversation.
26:50You always say we need to have a conversation.
26:51Last conversation we got somewhere.
26:53Did you tell your mom that I was growing smiles when I was a kid?
26:56I did not tell her that, no.
26:58Well, you came in and you said, Kiara.
27:00And I said, Lance, who is that?
27:02And he said, Kiara.
27:03I kept looking at you.
27:05How many years did you go, Dito?
27:07How many years old man?
27:08How old are you?
27:0931.
27:10Dang.
27:11Yeah, we've been there 30 years.
27:14You know, you always tell me to have the hard conversations, so...
27:17I have the hard conversations.
27:18So I don't know why when she met up with you, it was a problem.
27:22I honestly don't know.
27:23I honestly don't even care though, but I mean...
27:25Well, maybe it's because she maybe miscommunicated what she was trying to say.
27:31So I don't know.
27:32And that means y'all should talk about what was actually meant or said.
27:37Okay.
27:38Just for a minute.
27:39You can get some fresh air.
27:41So since Kimmy asked me so nicely to speak to Neah, I'm really going to try to resolve
27:46whatever this issue is she has with me.
27:48Now that's the plan.
27:49We'll see how it plays out.
27:52Can I interrupt y'all?
27:53I wanted us to chat if that was possible.
27:57And what are we chatting about?
27:59I know you had a conversation with Tisha.
28:01I feel like the conversation you had with her at that moment went well.
28:06But then she felt like, I guess after Destiny and Tricia were talking about some of y'all's conversations, she felt like maybe that conversation wasn't as cool as she thought it was when it happened.
28:18Destiny said, you said, keep my name out your mouth.
28:21I did say that.
28:22And that's like tough.
28:24I said, I did say that.
28:25And I meant that.
28:26It would appear that nobody's interested in mending this particular fence.
28:31I picked the hardest battles apparently.
28:33What happened to make something like that?
28:35That's what I'm saying.
28:36If, maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
28:39Coming up on Love and Marriage Huntsville.
28:44We don't have to talk about my problem.
28:47Each and everyone here got their problem.
28:50Hey, now, let me tell you something.
28:51What is this?
28:52Oh, hell, no, no, no.
28:53I dumped your ass in that pool.
28:54You keep hollin' at me.
28:55You won't dump me.
28:56No .
28:57You won't dump me.
28:58No .
28:59Keep hollin' at me.
29:00Keep hollin' at me.
29:02Destiny said, you said, keep my out your mouth.
29:06I did say that.
29:07And that's like tough.
29:08I can be in a room and be cordial with someone if need be.
29:12And that's just where I'm at.
29:14But why?
29:15What happened to make something like that?
29:16That's what I'm saying.
29:17If, maybe if we talk, I'll go with you.
29:23So Kimmy wants me to go outside and speak with Leticia.
29:27I really do not want to go.
29:29But I go because I want everybody to be happy.
29:33I go out here, but I'm not finna do all the arguing.
29:37And I don't want you to.
29:38Back and forth.
29:39And I don't want you to.
29:40I'm not gonna do it.
29:41I'm not gonna do all that.
29:42I'm not gonna do all that.
29:43How much y'all know about Destiny?
29:44Good, wholesome girl.
29:45Yeah.
29:46That's not what I want to hear.
29:49Oh, what you want to hear?
29:50That's not.
29:51She down for the call tonight?
29:52Yes, yes.
29:54Dude, this boy is a fool.
29:56First night of this boy.
29:57You got one night to prove you're worth it.
30:01Wow.
30:02Damn.
30:03That's so up.
30:04What have you learned so far?
30:06Hmm?
30:07We look good together for sure.
30:08Oh, yeah.
30:09I learned that I didn't know she looked that good in her body
30:12suit until tonight.
30:13I saw her before, but tonight was different.
30:17Do you guys know about each other?
30:23Who?
30:24Will or not?
30:25Yeah.
30:26With Destiny.
30:27So, I bless whatever it is that anybody wants to do.
30:31You know what I'm saying?
30:32Y'all done or y'all still dating?
30:33Who?
30:34You know Destiny?
30:35Oh, we're done.
30:36Okay.
30:37Finito.
30:38Oh, y'all actually dating?
30:39I don't know y'all dating.
30:40Oh.
30:41It was a little something.
30:42That's why we're sitting here.
30:43Oh, man.
30:44I was lost.
30:45I was totally lost.
30:46As tall as you are, you didn't know you were a rebound.
30:50Oh.
30:51I wouldn't necessarily say Will is a great option
30:55to be a rebound guy, just knowing who he is.
30:59She might want to just have a little fun for the time being
31:02and because that's probably definitely not going to go
31:05the way she wants it.
31:08Will!
31:09I'm looking for her.
31:10I'll just look.
31:11There's no ring.
31:12100%.
31:13There's no ring for you.
31:14She wanted us to kind of sit down because you two had a conversation
31:17and at the end of the conversation, I was under the impression
31:21that y'all were amicable.
31:24What happened since that conversation?
31:27Mm-hmm.
31:28So Destiny, when she told you that I need to keep her mother's name
31:31out my mouth, why did she tell you that?
31:33Because we were talking about L.A. and when you told me they left early to go basically for the delivery of the baby,
31:43and Nell said that wasn't accurate and that you need to keep my mother's name out your mouth.
31:50So Nell, why did you guys leave L.A. early?
31:55That's none of your business.
31:56OK.
31:57I don't owe you anything.
31:58You don't, but I don't know why you're giving me this attitude because, one, I don't talk about you.
32:03I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:04I don't talk about you.
32:05I'm not giving you no attitude.
32:06Do y'all feel like she's giving attitude?
32:07I'm just asking a direct question.
32:08No, you're doing this and I'm doing you like that.
32:10Like I told you, my granddaughter is off limits and I meant what I said.
32:14So maybe that's why she's backtracking what she said because she didn't tell me.
32:17I did not tell you that.
32:18Kimmy, was you a part of that conversation when she said the reason I had to leave L.A. early was something dealing with the grandbaby?
32:23I felt like you said it did have something to do with you had to come back home for the situation.
32:29Absolutely she said it.
32:30He had got a call saying he needed to get back.
32:33He had a baby on the way in labor.
32:35I saw that on social media.
32:37Me too.
32:38We all did.
32:39Don't do that.
32:40You're talking about my granddaughter.
32:41I don't care about your granddaughter.
32:42Well, that's it.
32:43You told me that.
32:44That's a mouthful right there.
32:45I'm just saying, you don't have to curse at me.
32:46You don't have to.
32:47You don't have to.
32:48I did not curse at you.
32:49It was a figure of speech and I told her to tell what I said.
32:52I said, keep my name at your effing mouth.
32:54I don't talk about you though.
32:55I didn't curse at you.
32:56Well, what the is ?
32:58And that you just cursed.
32:59This is hilarious.
33:01It's not funny.
33:02I don't like this.
33:03At the end of the day, Nell, if the situation with your grandchild was none of my business, why did you bring it up to me?
33:09You told me about the situation.
33:11I can care less.
33:12This is the reason I don't really want to have a conversation with Nell because I am trying to talk to her.
33:17I'm being cool, calm, collected, and she's giving me bad energy.
33:21So y'all were perfectly fine until Destiny told you that she said you left L.A. because of the birth of the baby.
33:28I thought it was.
33:29Y'all were perfectly okay until that.
33:30I'm like, okay, here we go again.
33:32I didn't have that energy for you like you have for me.
33:35That's not true.
33:36It feels like you have a problem with me.
33:38That's not true.
33:39And I don't know what it is.
33:40That's not true.
33:41You just want beef with me.
33:42No, I don't want beef.
33:43I haven't even thought of anything with you.
33:44Yes, you do.
33:45Yes, you do.
33:46You think I'm doing something and you're doing the same thing.
33:48I'm good.
33:49I'm fine.
33:50Okay, I'm good.
33:51I'm fine, too.
33:52Boy, lies y'all tell.
33:53We can't resolve anything if she does not, if she can't admit to exactly what it is.
33:58Ammit to what?
33:59I don't know, Nell.
34:00That's what I'm trying to talk to you about.
34:01You keep talking over me.
34:02I mean, I stated where I stand and I said I'm not talking about my granddaughter.
34:08Other than that, I'm good.
34:09Come on.
34:10I'm good.
34:11So the boundary is set.
34:13Exactly.
34:14Okay, but then are we...
34:15Well, that didn't pan out too well.
34:17I don't know.
34:18Kimmy, you're the mediator, so...
34:21It's hard to mediate I'm good.
34:23I've been in a circle of friends that say I'm good when they not good.
34:27And we don't want history to repeat itself.
34:29It's like y'all trying to make it something that's not.
34:31Nell, you said keep my name out your mouth.
34:34It made it nothing.
34:35And I said why I said it.
34:37And it made it something.
34:38Don't act like we're trying to make your problem.
34:40And I said why I said it.
34:42Ooh.
34:43Ooh.
34:45I know Trisha's in the middle of it.
34:47I know she in the middle of it.
34:49But when I hear the ladies outside going at it, I instantly know that it's probably Tisha and Nell.
34:53So I'm making a beeline over there.
34:55I've been thinking about it all night.
34:57And I'm going out there to make sure that my wife is calmed down and separated.
35:02I'm not saying that you did.
35:03We don't have to talk about my problem.
35:05I have to say yes to you.
35:06Agent everyone here got their problems.
35:07You don't have to yell at us, though.
35:08We're talking.
35:09I'm not yelling.
35:10I'm doing what everyone else is doing, OK?
35:11No, you're not yelling at us.
35:12Do you expect me not to say nothing?
35:13No, you're not yelling at us.
35:14Do you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:15You're yelling at us.
35:16Do you think I'm talking to you like you're talking to me?
35:17You're asking yelling at us.
35:18What do y'all think y'all doing here?
35:22Gang up on me?
35:23Oh, Jesus.
35:24Victim, victim, victim.
35:25I didn't say you.
35:26I didn't say you.
35:27I'm strictly talking about 1.0 and 2.0.
35:30Because I didn't see this coming from you.
35:32We're asking you why you're yelling?
35:33Like, really?
35:34Hey, listen.
35:35Listen.
35:36Let's not overreact.
35:37Hey, Nell, let me tell you something.
35:38I dump your ass in that pool you keep homing at me.
35:41You want to dump me?
35:43You want to dump me?
35:44You want to dump me?
35:45Don't dump me.
35:46Keep homing at me.
35:48Hey, Nell.
35:49Let me tell you something.
35:50I dump your ass in that pool you keep homing at me.
35:53M museing at me.
35:54Facebook?
35:55You want to dump me?
35:56Come here!
35:57.
35:58Keep homing at me.
35:59Keep homing at me.
36:00No, me.
36:02No, you don't.
36:03You don't.
36:04Just容 Forget how you're referring to me.
36:07You're not dumbing me.
36:08No with it.
36:09You don't talk to people.
36:10I show you who are just up.
36:11Who?
36:12Why are you talking like that?
36:13You're threatening me.
36:14I didn't'm Luthering you.
36:15I'm telling you to stop yelling at my dummy.
36:18Stop yelling at me!
36:20She didn't.
36:21She didn't.
36:22She didn't.
36:23She did not yell now.
36:24Nobody's yelling, but she didn't.
36:25She didn't.
36:26You're the only person yelling.
36:27You're the only person yelling.
36:28It's bull .
36:29I don't know what the issue is with Nell and everybody.
36:32Like, I just don't know.
36:33Like, at the end of the day, Nell just
36:35need to learn how to talk to people.
36:36Don't sit there and tell somebody you're going
36:38to dump them in .
36:39But you can't yell at me, Nell.
36:41And you can't just say what you're going to do to me.
36:43When I yell, there's a problem.
36:45When they're yelling, oh, oh, we're not yelling.
36:47We're just talking to you.
36:48It's very much a double standard with these girls.
36:51This is crazy.
36:52So can we get back to, like, where everybody's good?
36:56Everybody is not good.
36:57That's the problem.
36:58Everybody keeps saying, I'm good, I'm fine,
37:00and you're not good.
37:01What Fledgitivities is showing me is that the men
37:04are maintaining a cool, calm, collective demeanor
37:06as they navigate through complex controversy.
37:09And the women, well, I'll let you judge for yourself.
37:12So Fledgitivities are over?
37:14Are we going to talk our way through it?
37:17Is this what we're talking about by Fledgitivities?
37:19Let me tell you this.
37:20Let me tell you this, for real.
37:25My fuse is shorter than what most people think.
37:28Wow.
37:38My dad was abusive.
37:41He would drink and get drunk and be loud and holler and stuff.
37:45And that never was OK with me.
37:48So after my parents got divorced, I felt like I was my mother's protector.
37:53Anybody who came around that felt they needed to yell to be heard just didn't work for me.
38:00Never has.
38:02From this size to this size.
38:05It doesn't work for me.
38:07I should not have said, I will dunk you in the pool if you keep hollering at me.
38:11And I apologize for that.
38:13However, we're not going to keep doing the hollering thing no matter how normal it is in your world.
38:19I accept Kimmy's apology.
38:25But I really do.
38:27Because it really hurt.
38:29That hurt me.
38:30And if I yelled at you, I apologize to you.
38:35I appreciate that.
38:36It'll be a cold day ahead before I apologize to Nell.
38:40If anything, she owes me an apology.
38:43She's the one talking about me behind my back to all these ladies and is getting back to me third person.
38:48Like, yeah, no, I'm good.
38:53Can we get a hug?
38:54Kimmy and Nell?
38:55Oh, you don't hug me.
38:57I'm fine.
38:58I ain't got no long-term energy.
39:00Can we get a hug?
39:01Can we get a hug real quick?
39:02I need this.
39:03It's a hug.
39:04It's a hug.
39:05It's a hug.
39:06It's a hug.
39:07I don't have no big issues.
39:08Hey, guys.
39:09This is progress.
39:10This is progress.
39:11Hey, listen.
39:12This group is progressive.
39:13This group is progressive.
39:14Let me get a little progressive.
39:15Come on.
39:16I'm really sorry.
39:17I was able to make up with Kimmy even though I'm the person that it takes me a minute.
39:26But Kimmy apologized to me the same night.
39:30So I felt like I need to put my big girl pants on and accept the apology.
39:37She said she was sincere about it and I just have to take it for what it is.
39:41I can't do the hollering.
39:42Hollering is tough for me.
39:43I was raised in a house where my dad would holler.
39:48And it's not good for me.
39:50And so as much as people think I'm patient, that's my trigger.
39:55The yelling, I can't.
39:56I apologize because that shouldn't come out like that at all.
40:00It shouldn't have.
40:01But I think you would look cute in the footwear.
40:06Your ass is going with me.
40:09I'd have pushed you and saved you.
40:13I swear.
40:14I'd have saved you and I pushed you.
40:19Next on Love of Marriage Hauntsville.
40:21Kimmy says, don't you yell at me.
40:24Well, what the you think you're doing right now?
40:27She made the comment.
40:28If you yell at her again, she's going to dunk you in that pool.
40:31That mother went in that pool before me.
40:34When Kenny comes into the picture and the kids are saying,
40:38there's a breath of fresh air.
40:40Let me gravitate towards the fresh air.
40:42You're saying, wait, wait a minute.
40:43Whoa, whoa, whoa.
40:44Whoa, what about me?
40:45I've had you all this time.
40:47He's the new kid on the block.
40:48I was jealous when he came along and they started asking.
40:50him instead of me.
40:52It's kind of made me feel some type of way.
40:54Wanda!
40:55Miss Wanda!
40:56Hey!
40:57Come on, girl!
40:59Hey!
41:00You got your truck!
41:01The hoes came from Highsville!
41:03Hey!
41:04So I felt like I was losing my kids.
41:06To me?
41:07Yeah.
41:08Well, how are you going to lose them to me?
41:10Y'all just pushing me to the side.
41:14What do you feel about it?
41:15About what?
41:16About what?
41:17About this little ?
41:18About this went to this live.
41:19I hear about Maso and Maurice.
41:23Oh, Lord.
41:24Just wanted to know what really was going on.
41:26We don't care.
41:27Not a lot.
41:28We have to know what really was going on.
41:29So yeah.
41:30So that's been a lot.
41:31We're doing a lot of things.
41:32Totally.
41:33We're just getting here.
41:34When we go...
41:35We love...
41:36Well, we can't do that.
41:37We'll be good on this.
41:38We will be good on this.
41:39We'll be good on this.
41:40We'll be good on this.
41:41But what do we do?
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