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00:00:00Excited, but I've never been on bad terms like this and we're just leaving the country
00:00:04It's not about my parents, it's not about your parents, it's about us
00:00:07I wish we had left things better with my parents, but we're going off to see the world
00:00:12We're going to Europe. We didn't know how long we will be there
00:00:15Are we going to the airport?
00:00:17Yes, please
00:00:18There we go
00:00:20Love it, so freaking good
00:00:27This is such an epic, exciting moment
00:00:29And I want to, you know, fight for this, you know, marriage, fight for this life
00:00:33But at the same time, I don't know how much longer I can hang on
00:00:37Are we truly happy?
00:00:42There's something very important that I need to share with Darcy
00:00:45But I need to have this conversation with her when she's come
00:00:50I knew it
00:00:51I read you very well
00:00:53I know you don't want to face your mom
00:01:00But you know what, I just, I really think it's, it's, it's time
00:01:03I'm having a baby in six weeks
00:01:08I cannot continue lying to her
00:01:10I literally missed you
00:01:33I've missed you too
00:01:36How about us three? Let's go have a drink
00:01:40Have a conversation
00:01:41Why three of us?
00:01:44I've got Lauren over here talking about Yara behind her back
00:01:47And I don't like this
00:01:48I don't like what's happening
00:01:49Elizabeth, can you tell me that you're making fun of me
00:01:53And the way I try to ask myself
00:01:54What?
00:01:56Elizabeth's lying
00:01:57So ready to just hop on a plane and go home
00:01:59I'm so f***ing over there
00:02:01What happened?
00:02:19Drive easy, puppy
00:02:20Why are you laughing for my pain?
00:02:27I thought you were going to look for yourself
00:02:29No, it's not poop, it's a baby
00:02:30Oh
00:02:31I was reading that because the baby's head down
00:02:34Like she's pushing my vagina and that's what, it hurts
00:02:37It's a horrible feeling
00:02:40This is like someone grabbing your clothes in my, like this
00:02:44Yeah?
00:02:46I dare you
00:02:47Papi, please
00:02:50Come on, do the f***, Padrako
00:02:52You're very, very stressed
00:02:54I'm just kind of tired
00:02:55Is it because you're nervous about the birth class?
00:02:59You better take this birth class serious
00:03:03You don't even know what hole the baby's going to come from, right?
00:03:06Probably the butthole
00:03:07Matt
00:03:08What?
00:03:08I'm being serious
00:03:10Okay
00:03:11Hush, hush, hush, hush, hush, don't say a word
00:03:15Cause I don't want you, no, no, don't you, no
00:03:18Hush, hush, hush, hush, just hold me tonight
00:03:23Hello
00:03:27Hey
00:03:29It's so beautiful
00:03:31Person
00:03:32Hey Rachel, nice to meet you
00:03:34Hi Matt, nice to meet you
00:03:34Matt, baby dad
00:03:35Come on back
00:03:36We're about to get started, guys
00:03:37Hi
00:03:40Hi
00:03:41This is so cute
00:03:43So we're going to have you sit on the ball here
00:03:47We'll have you in the chair behind you
00:03:48Don't let me fall
00:03:50Jesus Christ
00:03:52I'm scared of exploding it
00:03:55Not that pregnant yet
00:03:58Oh, babies
00:04:00I don't know why my skull is so thick
00:04:08That even though I'm going to a birthing class
00:04:10Even though we're inching closer to the delivery of this baby
00:04:12It's still not like real real to me
00:04:15Obviously
00:04:15Cause I'm still not, I haven't learned a thing
00:04:17Jasmine is having the baby within a couple of weeks
00:04:22And I'm hoping to learn anything would be nice
00:04:25Anything
00:04:26Like is, how do I hold a kid?
00:04:28How do I feed it?
00:04:28Do I change his diaper?
00:04:29How often do I change it?
00:04:30When do you put it to sleep?
00:04:31How do you put it to sleep?
00:04:32There's a lot of variations that I instead have to think about
00:04:34So hopefully they can just like dump this information on me
00:04:38And I'll learn something
00:04:39I have a lot to learn
00:04:41We're going to have such a fun class together, guys
00:04:45We're going to talk about things that you can do
00:04:47To have an easier, more comfortable labor
00:04:50Great, I need it
00:04:51Here is it
00:04:52So if you look here
00:04:55This is how baby is going to move into the pelvis
00:04:59And as the shoulders come through
00:05:02They'll rotate on the way out
00:05:04The dolls that you have in front of you
00:05:07Are right about the size of a newborn baby
00:05:10So it gives you a really good idea of what to expect
00:05:13Yikes
00:05:14Matt, that face
00:05:15That's a pretty big baby
00:05:17This is pretty accurate
00:05:20I want a medicated natural birth
00:05:25And I really hope with this class
00:05:27That Matt can finally understand
00:05:29How intense it is going to be
00:05:31Me giving birth
00:05:33We're talking about unbearable pain
00:05:36Imagine like a coconut
00:05:38Is coming out of your penis
00:05:40How would that feel, Matt?
00:05:43One of the things that we are going to start out talking about
00:05:46Is fears surrounding the birth space
00:05:48Do you guys want to share any particular fears
00:05:50That you have weighing on you?
00:05:52What if you end up tearing up?
00:05:56So if there's tearing
00:05:57Yeah
00:05:57When we talk about tearing
00:05:59We talk about degrees
00:06:00First through fourth degree
00:06:01Oh, wow
00:06:02So a first degree tear is going to be superficial skin
00:06:04Third into this capsule around the anus
00:06:06And fourth would be a connection between the two
00:06:08Internally or externally
00:06:09We don't see a lot of third and fourth degrees
00:06:12So what we're looking for is stretching the muscles
00:06:16What you can do as a partner
00:06:19Is use your first two fingers
00:06:21And so we actually start on the outside here
00:06:23We press into these tissues towards the clitoris
00:06:26We're going to go to the first knuckle
00:06:27Until you have that nice stretch
00:06:29And then you go in and do the same at the second knuckle
00:06:31Is this like on the inside of the wall?
00:06:33Mm-hmm
00:06:33Inside
00:06:33Okay, gotcha
00:06:34So apparently if I don't help Jasmine
00:06:38With the stretching of the walls
00:06:39Her, you know what, is going to tear
00:06:44Possibly all the way to her butthole
00:06:46Yikes
00:06:48That would just be one giant hole
00:06:51I don't know
00:06:51How you fix that
00:06:53So I have to remember
00:06:56Between reading and everything else
00:06:57I gotta remember
00:06:59I have to do this stretching thing now with her too
00:07:01Which is like
00:07:02Between foreplay
00:07:04And trying to help her stretch
00:07:07I don't
00:07:08I never heard anybody talk about this before
00:07:11The stretching of the muscle tissues on the inside
00:07:14I've never heard this
00:07:14This is actually a space where we can provide massage and touch
00:07:20So when we talk about labor massage
00:07:22We want to focus on down and out
00:07:25So I'm gonna have you press sort of down and out
00:07:29Okay, so focus that massage going down and out
00:07:32I know not easy with the sweater
00:07:33Oh, yeah
00:07:34There we go
00:07:34This is good
00:07:36Mm-hmm
00:07:37Okay
00:07:37Oh gosh
00:07:39I love it
00:07:40Yes, then keep going
00:07:41That's what we're looking for
00:07:42Some people like gentle touch
00:07:44Some people do not
00:07:45And that's okay
00:07:46So guys come into a hands and knees position
00:07:59I'm gonna have you sit by her hips
00:08:01Oh, my knees
00:08:03All right
00:08:03This is one of the most common ways that we see babies born
00:08:08When we are experiencing unmedicated birth, right?
00:08:11What tends to happen here is we're having these loud grunty pushes
00:08:15And kind of like, ah
00:08:17To kind of like, ah
00:08:19Like we are working with our bodies
00:08:21So you have to take care of your mind
00:08:23Be present with your partner
00:08:25Now partners, you're gonna reach down and catch your babies, okay?
00:08:29With this deep breath, we're gonna go
00:08:30Oh
00:08:32Imagine sending your baby down and out
00:08:35Deep breath here with me again
00:08:37Being gentle with yourself
00:08:42There you go
00:08:43When this happens, it's gonna be a long day or a long night
00:08:47Of, of clawing and screaming
00:08:50So kind of like an exorcism or something
00:08:53Your partner is gonna pass baby back through your legs
00:08:58So head first, turn baby around, perfect
00:09:01Bring baby to your low belly
00:09:03And then sit back onto your heels
00:09:05What I like about this transition of sitting back
00:09:09Is it gives you a moment to see your baby
00:09:12To look at your baby with your partner
00:09:15And you create this little bubble around you guys
00:09:18I'm trying to learn, like, as much as I can
00:09:21About the process of the baby
00:09:22And it kind of gives you, like, anxiety
00:09:24And, ah, I don't know
00:09:26It's just, it's a lot
00:09:27We're at week 37
00:09:30And I don't have all the time
00:09:31To figure out about taking care of a child
00:09:34So
00:09:34I love you, baby
00:09:38You're so beautiful
00:09:43Because you look just like mommy
00:09:44Yeah
00:09:46Oh, look at your daddy
00:09:47Oh, don't cry, don't cry
00:09:49Jasmine, you know, she completely
00:10:03My life
00:10:04Really did
00:10:05The last time I spoke to Jasmine
00:10:08I was reading her my letter
00:10:10It was a scam
00:10:12It was mere fraud to the teeth
00:10:14I didn't do anything criminal
00:10:16I married you
00:10:17And the marriage didn't work
00:10:18That is criminal
00:10:19Because the marriage was never true
00:10:21I was expecting more from her
00:10:27Like, more of apology
00:10:28There was, like, no explanation of anything
00:10:31So that, you know
00:10:32That's why I decided today
00:10:34That I'm going to talk to a lawyer
00:10:35About my options for divorce
00:10:38Because I need to do it
00:10:39And I think it's the only way
00:10:41I'm going to get closure
00:10:42In this whole thing
00:10:42Don't be vain
00:10:44Don't be right
00:10:47Don't be fine
00:10:50Don't take flight
00:10:53Don't be right
00:10:56Robert
00:10:57Gino
00:10:59How's it going?
00:11:01It's been a while
00:11:01How are you doing?
00:11:02It's been a minute, right?
00:11:02Yeah, definitely
00:11:03All right, come on
00:11:04Back to the conference room
00:11:04Let's do it
00:11:05I decided I want to speak
00:11:10With a divorce lawyer
00:11:11Very good, top-notch lawyer
00:11:13You know, I need to
00:11:15I need to move forward in my life
00:11:17See what my options are
00:11:18Because our relationship is over
00:11:21It's done
00:11:21There's no repairing it
00:11:24Thank you
00:11:26So you're back here
00:11:27For another divorce, huh?
00:11:29Unfortunately
00:11:29Yes
00:11:31The funny thing is
00:11:33Is that I've been to this
00:11:35Divorce lawyer's office before
00:11:37About 12 years ago
00:11:40When I finalized my divorce
00:11:42With my previous wife
00:11:43They were very good and thorough
00:11:45So I'm very much looking forward
00:11:47To speaking to him
00:11:48About how complicated
00:11:50My situation is now
00:11:51The first divorce
00:11:54Is relatively easy
00:11:55But this one is different
00:11:56And so how is it different
00:11:57Than the first one?
00:11:59Well
00:11:59Very different
00:12:02In my recollection
00:12:03You had a consent judgment
00:12:05Divorce, right?
00:12:05So you two were able to
00:12:06Degree on terms relatively easily
00:12:07This one is
00:12:09This is going to be much different
00:12:11Because Jasmine
00:12:12Does not have the same personality
00:12:14As my previous ex
00:12:16Jasmine
00:12:17Has like a demon or devil
00:12:20Inside of her
00:12:20This is going to be ugly
00:12:24With my first wife
00:12:27We always got along
00:12:28We never argued much
00:12:30And our marriage was
00:12:31Pretty solid really
00:12:33For the most part
00:12:34We lasted for seven years
00:12:35But you know
00:12:37Over time
00:12:38We kind of
00:12:38Grew apart a little bit
00:12:40And
00:12:40In the end
00:12:42We ended up
00:12:43Just mutually agreeing
00:12:45To
00:12:45Getting a divorce
00:12:47You were married
00:12:49How long ago?
00:12:50We've been married
00:12:51Just over two years
00:12:52Like basically two years
00:12:53Okay
00:12:54We only lived together
00:12:56For like ten months
00:12:57Until she cheated on me
00:12:59And I kicked her out of the house
00:13:00Wait, wait, wait
00:13:00She cheated on you?
00:13:01Yeah, ten months
00:13:02Into the marriage
00:13:03She spent the night
00:13:04At this gentleman's house
00:13:06And I found out
00:13:07But
00:13:10We did agree
00:13:11To an open marriage
00:13:13But
00:13:15We had rules for it
00:13:16Okay
00:13:17That she could only spend
00:13:18Two hours with him
00:13:19Per day
00:13:21And
00:13:22And not to get
00:13:23Too close to him
00:13:24Whose idea was open marriage?
00:13:26Was it yours or hers?
00:13:27It was hers
00:13:28She was proposing it
00:13:29And when I went back
00:13:31And
00:13:32I looked at the whole big picture
00:13:34It's very clear to me
00:13:36That I was used
00:13:37For a green card
00:13:38I
00:13:39I
00:13:40Understand
00:13:40Why you felt that way
00:13:41So what I did
00:13:43A few months ago
00:13:44Is I
00:13:45Reported her
00:13:46For immigration fraud
00:13:48I am not
00:13:55Letting up
00:13:56On
00:13:57The immigration fraud
00:13:58Because I want
00:14:00Jasmine
00:14:00To be held accountable
00:14:01For her huge betrayal
00:14:03Jasmine got her
00:14:05Green card in hand
00:14:06And left
00:14:07I would be happy
00:14:09If
00:14:10She gets deported
00:14:11I think she deserves it
00:14:13I want her to feel some pain
00:14:16I want her to feel some pain
00:14:17Like I felt pain
00:14:18Give me some details of it
00:14:23I'm not an immigration attorney
00:14:24So maybe you can educate me here
00:14:26So basically
00:14:27I gave all the details
00:14:28To immigration
00:14:29What happened
00:14:30The cheating
00:14:31And how she was pursuing
00:14:34This person
00:14:35When I submitted
00:14:36The green card
00:14:37When I submitted
00:14:38Her green card application
00:14:39She was pursuing
00:14:40This guy at the gym
00:14:41So I explained
00:14:42All the details of that
00:14:43You know
00:14:45How she was cheating on me
00:14:46When it started
00:14:48And how it was linked
00:14:49To immigration
00:14:50And I kind of
00:14:51Talked in all the details
00:14:53In my submittal
00:14:54In my report
00:14:55To them
00:14:55And then I
00:14:56I actually did it twice
00:14:58I submitted it twice
00:14:59Because I want to make
00:15:00Absolutely sure
00:15:01It got through
00:15:01But the second time
00:15:04I submitted it
00:15:05I updated it
00:15:07And told them
00:15:08That she was pregnant
00:15:10Okay
00:15:12On the second time
00:15:13Okay
00:15:13That's a factor
00:15:14We're going to have
00:15:14To talk about
00:15:15She's pregnant
00:15:16With another guy
00:15:17During her two year
00:15:19Probationary period
00:15:20On her green card
00:15:21And she moved to Florida
00:15:24With this guy
00:15:24And still married to me
00:15:26So she got pregnant
00:15:29With a random dude
00:15:30Down the street
00:15:31Still married to me
00:15:32Cheated on me
00:15:34Okay
00:15:34While we're married
00:15:36For immigration
00:15:37I really can't speak to
00:15:39I think you probably
00:15:39Know as much as I do
00:15:41On that
00:15:41In regards to divorce
00:15:42There's a huge impact
00:15:43On that
00:15:43Is there?
00:15:45There is
00:15:45So the question is
00:15:47Is the child yours?
00:15:50The child
00:15:51Is not mine
00:15:53It's his
00:15:53Okay
00:15:55Well under Michigan law
00:15:56I'm going to give you
00:15:57Some bad news here
00:15:58As I
00:15:58You may be aware
00:16:00As we worked with before
00:16:01That I'll kind of
00:16:02Tell you what the law is
00:16:03I'll tell you the good news
00:16:03The bad news
00:16:04And where I think
00:16:05The likely outcome will go
00:16:07So
00:16:07Under Michigan law
00:16:08When you are married
00:16:10And a child is born
00:16:11During that marriage
00:16:13Or the husband here
00:16:14You're presumed to be the father
00:16:15Are you kidding?
00:16:21No I'm not
00:16:22Unfortunately for you
00:16:23That's crazy
00:16:23You have a legal obligation
00:16:25And a financial obligation
00:16:28To that child
00:16:29What?
00:16:32I mean come on
00:16:33This is ridiculous
00:16:34That's understandable
00:16:35But the basic presumption is that
00:16:38Because you are married to Jasmine
00:16:40And you are the husband
00:16:42She had a child during the marriage
00:16:44That makes you the father
00:16:46With this baby
00:16:50You have an obligation
00:16:51Until the baby turns 18
00:16:52Or graduates from high school
00:16:53We're talking hundreds
00:16:55Of thousands of dollars
00:16:56That you'll be paying
00:16:57In child support
00:16:58What?
00:16:59If you don't take action
00:17:00She's f***ed up my life
00:17:03It's a lot of different
00:17:13Amazing experience
00:17:14I'm telling you
00:17:16We should stay in Amsterdam
00:17:17And a little working
00:17:19Like a cooker
00:17:22They're more legal
00:17:24It's just like
00:17:29You f***ing take a step forward
00:17:31And you take three steps back
00:17:33I don't want to deal
00:17:33With this stuff anymore
00:17:34I definitely do want
00:17:35To talk to Yara
00:17:36What happened last night?
00:17:38I cannot leave this trip
00:17:40On these terms
00:17:42Second day in London
00:17:53This weather is amazing
00:17:55You can see
00:17:56I can stay a little longer
00:17:59I can tell you really wanna
00:18:01With me
00:18:04And my head is like
00:18:06But I know you've got the ticket
00:18:08So give me half for a minute
00:18:10I think it's time we keep in
00:18:14Cause I don't really care
00:18:16What they do
00:18:17I think we could taste
00:18:21Something new
00:18:22This place is a total sausage fest
00:18:27I love it
00:18:28Look at all the lemons
00:18:39You're ready to know what?
00:18:45Get it!
00:18:46You're ready to know what?
00:18:47Get it!
00:18:48You're ready to know what?
00:18:49Can't stop now
00:18:51It's all emotion
00:18:52Can't slow down
00:18:54Just a rollercoaster
00:18:55So let it go
00:18:56Let it go
00:18:56Let it go
00:18:57Let it go
00:18:58You're ready to know what?
00:19:06You're ready to know what?
00:19:08Get it!
00:19:10I'm just gonna go after that one now
00:19:11Give her this
00:19:12She want a new one
00:19:12Yeah, huh?
00:19:14Yay!
00:19:14She want a new one
00:19:15It's been five months
00:19:17Since we've been back from Europe
00:19:18It was a great trip
00:19:20But because we didn't sell Julia's apartment
00:19:22Like we were planning to do
00:19:23We had to come back from Europe early
00:19:25You know, traveling is not cheap
00:19:26I'm telling you
00:19:27We should stay in Amsterdam
00:19:29And a little working
00:19:30Like a
00:19:31Booker
00:19:31They're more legal
00:19:34You did see a lot, yeah
00:19:37Yeah, it's different age
00:19:38Oh my God
00:19:39This old lady
00:19:40Like, oh my gosh
00:19:41I'm like
00:19:42What are you doing there?
00:19:45Yeah, there was one
00:19:45Who was like
00:19:46She's probably 60
00:19:48You need to lower the retirement age
00:19:50Over there
00:19:50Get it!
00:19:54We're visiting nine countries
00:19:56In one month
00:19:57And it's a lot of different
00:19:59Amazing experience
00:20:00I love Switzerland so much
00:20:03Yeah
00:20:03You just have these like
00:20:04Big icy mountains
00:20:05With snow on them
00:20:07It looks like it's
00:20:08Photoshop
00:20:08From a movie, yeah
00:20:09So romantic
00:20:10So romantica
00:20:12You won't give a
00:20:13See you to mommy
00:20:14Though it was hard
00:20:16In our finances
00:20:17I still feel like
00:20:18The trip was an overall success
00:20:20I do feel like
00:20:21Julia and I reconnected
00:20:22To a certain level
00:20:22Oh yeah
00:20:24That's if you're happy and says
00:20:25Come, come paid
00:20:26Sex, come paid
00:20:27Come paid
00:20:27Oh my God, oh my God
00:20:36You talking to somebody?
00:20:44I'm not here, why?
00:20:45The kidnap
00:20:46I gotta go
00:20:47Hold on
00:20:47Guess what?
00:20:55I swear to God
00:20:56I'm not lying
00:20:56This is not a joke
00:20:58Okay
00:21:06Oh my gosh
00:21:13We're pregnant
00:21:14Yay
00:21:16After we reconnecting
00:21:18I decided trying to have a baby
00:21:21But Dr. Solis is
00:21:22Don't expecting anything
00:21:24For a long time
00:21:25That's what she told us
00:21:27I mean like
00:21:27It's possible
00:21:28But she don't expect
00:21:29Usually I decide to record
00:21:33Every time
00:21:33For a couple of years
00:21:34I decide to record this
00:21:36Right?
00:21:37So
00:21:38And this time
00:21:38I decide
00:21:39It's going to be safe
00:21:40I'm not going to record
00:21:41I record every single time
00:21:43Every single time
00:21:45And this time
00:21:46I'm like
00:21:46No, I'm not going to record
00:21:47I'm scared
00:21:51What if
00:21:52How is
00:21:53What is that
00:21:55I need to second test
00:21:57My brain explodes
00:21:58I'm excited
00:22:00Julia showed me that test
00:22:01I was literally like
00:22:02The air just left my lungs
00:22:04Like
00:22:05Greatest moment of my life
00:22:07So far
00:22:07I think next best one
00:22:08Is going to be
00:22:09When that little
00:22:10Thing comes out of there
00:22:13You know
00:22:13I got to start working
00:22:14On my dad jokes
00:22:15It doesn't need to work
00:22:18It just needs to repeat yours
00:22:19Oh, really?
00:22:20Okay
00:22:20I'm just shaking
00:22:22I'm sorry
00:22:22I'm not going to record this time
00:22:25I'm just
00:22:45It might be a little strange
00:22:50These people are just
00:22:52That weird
00:22:52Why
00:22:54Why are you
00:22:55Well, I saw them talking
00:22:58I saw them talking to Yara
00:23:00And then I heard
00:23:01That the glass break
00:23:02And then they just
00:23:03Like laughed
00:23:04I don't know
00:23:05They're going to go
00:23:06Like fight
00:23:07Let's talk to them
00:23:08Hey, babe
00:23:21I need help
00:23:23I'm getting the
00:23:24Toilet treats
00:23:25And I'm coming
00:23:26Toilet treats
00:23:27Don't forget your mouth guard
00:23:28Right
00:23:29And your earplugs from me
00:23:31To tune me out
00:23:33These are dirty now
00:23:34I'm going to leave them here
00:23:35Where's the box from them though?
00:23:37I don't know
00:23:38I'm going to start
00:23:38Getting some stuff though
00:23:39Okay
00:23:40I'm glad we're leaving
00:23:45Like
00:23:45We got to get out of here
00:23:47I don't want to
00:23:48I don't want this
00:23:48More of this uncomfortability
00:23:50And trying to resolve things
00:23:51Like
00:23:51I don't want to deal
00:23:52With this stuff anymore
00:23:53I know
00:23:54Just one thing
00:23:55I don't have energy
00:23:56For that
00:23:56But like
00:23:59I definitely do
00:24:01Want to talk to Yara
00:24:02I can't leave this trip
00:24:03Without
00:24:04You know
00:24:05Making sure we're good
00:24:06No problem
00:24:07Go talk to Yara
00:24:08I'm going to keep
00:24:10You know
00:24:10Organizing
00:24:11And then when you come back
00:24:12We'll finish up
00:24:13And go
00:24:14Okay
00:24:14Alright
00:24:14I'll be right back
00:24:16I cannot leave this trip
00:24:24On these terms
00:24:25Like
00:24:27Yara definitely
00:24:28Doesn't deserve
00:24:29What happened last night
00:24:30And I'm not
00:24:31A malicious person
00:24:32I wear my heart
00:24:33On my sleeve
00:24:33I will literally
00:24:34Give my shirt
00:24:35Off of my back
00:24:36To you
00:24:36And I want her
00:24:37To know that
00:24:38Usually means
00:24:45Do not disturb
00:24:46Hi
00:24:55We're getting ready
00:24:57To leave
00:24:58So I wanted to
00:25:00Talk to you
00:25:00If you have a minute
00:25:01I do have a minute
00:25:02So why are you leaving?
00:25:04You know what
00:25:05It just
00:25:06A lot
00:25:07Happened last night
00:25:09So I need to just
00:25:12Decompress
00:25:13I understand
00:25:14That you have to leave
00:25:15I'm not going to even
00:25:16Try to pressure you
00:25:16To stay longer
00:25:17And all this stuff
00:25:18I get it
00:25:18I'm pissed
00:25:20At Elizabeth
00:25:21Again because
00:25:22It's hypocritical
00:25:23Because she got mad
00:25:24At me
00:25:25For all of us
00:25:27Talking about them
00:25:28At dinner
00:25:28But then she goes
00:25:30And twists words
00:25:31And I'm so sorry
00:25:34That you felt
00:25:35In any way hurt
00:25:36I wanted to apologize
00:25:39To you
00:25:39If I hurt you
00:25:41Or
00:25:41I do not have
00:25:42Like negative
00:25:43Energy
00:25:44Emotions to you
00:25:45To be honest
00:25:45I just want to give you
00:25:46A hug
00:25:46The funniest part
00:25:49To be honest
00:25:50Which I'm thinking
00:25:50Right now
00:25:51That I am the youngest
00:25:52From all of them
00:25:53We have like
00:25:54Five or seven years
00:25:55Old difference
00:25:56Between us
00:25:57I mean
00:25:57Hello guys
00:25:58You could be more mature
00:26:00Almost 40
00:26:01But to be honest
00:26:03I appreciate Lauren
00:26:04Take accountability
00:26:05I just can't be mad
00:26:06In her
00:26:07Because she's
00:26:07Opening up for me
00:26:08And I'm actually
00:26:09Starting to question
00:26:10Of Elizabeth
00:26:10Because she is
00:26:12The started
00:26:13For a lot of
00:26:13The problems
00:26:14In the group
00:26:14I would not
00:26:17Have come on
00:26:18This trip
00:26:18If I didn't
00:26:20Consider you
00:26:20A friend
00:26:21I think the same
00:26:22Thing about you
00:26:23Have a safe life
00:26:24Thank you
00:26:24You too
00:26:25Bye
00:26:25Bye
00:26:25Tell Jovi
00:26:26We said bye
00:26:27Okay
00:26:27Hi
00:26:28All right
00:26:32Oh you're all packed
00:26:34You see
00:26:34I'm really glad
00:26:36That I spoke
00:26:36With Yara
00:26:37Yeah
00:26:37I am
00:26:38It went really well
00:26:39And
00:26:40And we
00:26:41Like I truly
00:26:42Say
00:26:42Like I love her
00:26:43She's amazing
00:26:44Great
00:26:44So maybe now
00:26:45You have
00:26:46A new great friend
00:26:47Yeah
00:26:47You know
00:26:48I don't want
00:26:49To say you lost one
00:26:49But like
00:26:50You have a new
00:26:50Somebody to
00:26:51To talk more to
00:26:53To latch on to
00:26:55In ten years
00:26:57We've achieved
00:26:58So much
00:26:59As a couple
00:27:00We've gone through
00:27:01Seven surgeries
00:27:02Three kids
00:27:03Moving twice
00:27:04Like
00:27:05Three times
00:27:06Three times
00:27:06Excuse me
00:27:07Alex is my best friend
00:27:10You are
00:27:11She's my best friend too
00:27:12The big one
00:27:17Is more
00:27:17Okay
00:27:18One last look
00:27:20At that view
00:27:20I want to have
00:27:23All of this behind me
00:27:24It's not
00:27:25Who we are
00:27:26We don't
00:27:27Fill ourselves
00:27:28With toxic people
00:27:29This was the final straw
00:27:32Like there is no friendship
00:27:33Between me and Elizabeth
00:27:34I don't even like
00:27:36Saying her name
00:27:37I just need to like
00:27:39Move on with my life
00:27:40We're open to new friends
00:27:46Accepting applications
00:27:48For friends
00:27:48Accepting applications
00:27:49We're ready to meet
00:27:50Some new friends
00:27:50What are your requirements
00:27:52Your special skills
00:27:53Do you like to ski
00:27:54How many kids do you have
00:27:56Do you talk
00:27:57Behind our back
00:27:58Do you raise your
00:27:59Wise text messages
00:28:00We definitely accept
00:28:04The applications
00:28:05Oh it's snowing
00:28:08I think I'm ready
00:28:09For the beach
00:28:10How'd you sleep
00:28:20By myself
00:28:23Last night
00:28:24Georgie stormed out
00:28:25He didn't come back
00:28:26To the ring
00:28:26And I have no idea
00:28:27Where he is
00:28:28He was even saying
00:28:29In Bulgaria
00:28:29He was able to think a lot
00:28:31Think about what
00:28:32I don't know
00:28:33You're not crazy
00:28:34I'm not crazy
00:28:36Something going on
00:28:37I want a caring partner
00:28:43I need you to fully be
00:28:46Be there for me
00:28:47And then I bite
00:28:47The umbilical cord
00:28:48Look at me in the eyes
00:28:50There's a lot more stuff
00:28:53About this baby
00:28:54And we've covered 5%
00:28:55In this class
00:28:56Scary
00:28:57So as we wrap up our class
00:29:15I always like to talk
00:29:15About how important
00:29:17The role of support is
00:29:19I encourage all of you
00:29:21To bring your partner
00:29:23More into this journey
00:29:24With you
00:29:25Thank you
00:29:26That is our class
00:29:28For today guys
00:29:29Thank you so much
00:29:30For joining me today
00:29:31I hope your hips
00:29:32Are feeling loose
00:29:33And comfy
00:29:34That you have some
00:29:34Great tools
00:29:35To take home with you
00:29:36Remember to practice
00:29:37Some of these movements
00:29:39Some hands-on techniques
00:29:41Yay
00:29:41Good job ladies
00:29:44Thanks
00:29:45Your daughter
00:29:46Right out of the open
00:29:48Good luck guys
00:29:49Thank you
00:29:50Thank you
00:29:51Thank you
00:29:51Oh my gosh
00:30:04Thank you
00:30:05I step on bubblegum
00:30:08So how did you feel
00:30:14During the class
00:30:15Fantastic
00:30:17What was your favorite part
00:30:20Breathing
00:30:21You like it
00:30:22Yeah
00:30:22Deep breath in and
00:30:24What about the part
00:30:27Where you have to pull the baby
00:30:29And how to give it to me
00:30:30Remember
00:30:30Yeah I thought it was like
00:30:32A football move or something
00:30:33But now you know how it is
00:30:35How is it
00:30:36So I push
00:30:38You catch the baby
00:30:39That's it yeah
00:30:39Then what
00:30:40Then I just flip it around
00:30:42Flip it around
00:30:43Then I put it back in the oven
00:30:44I mean back to you
00:30:46I hand it to you
00:30:47It's in the legs
00:30:47Then you grab it
00:30:48Yeah you have to remember
00:30:50Those steps
00:30:50Then I bite the umbilical cord
00:30:52Why are you like this man
00:30:57Like what
00:30:59I'm not even doing anything
00:31:00Did you see how intimate it is
00:31:02Like giving birth
00:31:04Like literally all the positions
00:31:06Being naked
00:31:07Pushing a baby out of you
00:31:09Do you think that's funny
00:31:10No
00:31:11Exactly
00:31:13So why you want to laugh
00:31:14Nothing
00:31:15Matt
00:31:17Everything's fine
00:31:19If Matt says
00:31:22Stupid
00:31:23Like it's fine
00:31:25When I'm giving birth
00:31:26To this baby
00:31:26I'm going to
00:31:27Cut his balls
00:31:28It's not just
00:31:30Saying out loud
00:31:31Everything is going to be fine
00:31:32It's actually
00:31:33Being supportive
00:31:34Taking care of the baby
00:31:36This birth class
00:31:38Is a good beginning
00:31:39But I need this
00:31:41On a daily doses
00:31:43Just look at me Matt
00:31:45Like how pregnant I am
00:31:47I feel lonely
00:31:48I feel overwhelmed
00:31:49Jazz do you see like
00:31:52The amount of effort
00:31:53I'm putting
00:31:54Like I'm trying
00:31:55I'm trying
00:31:56Or do you only see the negative
00:31:58I appreciate everything
00:32:00You're doing
00:32:02I see you trying
00:32:03But I need
00:32:05For this experience
00:32:08You know
00:32:08I need you to
00:32:09Fully be
00:32:11Be there for me
00:32:12No jokes
00:32:13No nothing
00:32:14Just like
00:32:15I want a caring partner
00:32:17I need that right now
00:32:19So please
00:32:21That's the only request
00:32:23I have
00:32:23Alright
00:32:26Look at me in the eyes
00:32:28Promise
00:32:29Yes boss
00:32:33She's right
00:32:36I'm going to have
00:32:38To do my part
00:32:38I'm going to have
00:32:40To step up
00:32:40And do my part
00:32:41But there's a lot
00:32:42More stuff
00:32:43About this baby
00:32:44And we've covered
00:32:445%
00:32:45In this class
00:32:46I don't know anything
00:32:48Nothing
00:32:49You know
00:32:50What am I going to do
00:32:51Scary
00:32:52It's a lot for me
00:32:57I know it is for you
00:32:58You know
00:32:59I don't want to sound selfish
00:33:00But I am the one
00:33:01Who has the baby inside
00:33:02The one doing the baking
00:33:03The one that has to
00:33:05Go through the pain
00:33:06Of delivery
00:33:07You know
00:33:08The pushing
00:33:09And trust me
00:33:11That's
00:33:11That's a lot
00:33:12I don't even know
00:33:15How many days
00:33:16Or weeks
00:33:17Until the baby is born
00:33:18It's very stressful
00:33:19Oh
00:33:38Hey
00:33:39Someone got some action
00:33:42Last night
00:33:42Oh yeah
00:33:42I'm in a good mood
00:33:43Your hair
00:33:44Jesus lord
00:33:45Okay
00:33:46Snapped it good too
00:33:47Wow
00:33:48Your bed looks a little
00:33:49Too neat
00:33:49Yeah
00:33:50Looking like you
00:33:52You got ravaged
00:33:53Yeah
00:33:54Oh yeah
00:33:54I was like
00:33:54Doing all kinds of moves
00:33:55Like
00:33:56Like doing like
00:33:56Like
00:33:57What the
00:33:58Wow
00:33:59Ow
00:34:11I'm trying to pull it
00:34:12I'm just trying to get it out
00:34:13Relax
00:34:15How'd you sleep?
00:34:17Uh
00:34:18By myself
00:34:19What do you mean
00:34:20By yourself
00:34:21It was fine
00:34:21The first two minutes
00:34:22But then it turned sour
00:34:23Why?
00:34:24As usual
00:34:24I don't know
00:34:25I thought he was getting in the mood
00:34:26I want to like talk
00:34:27And open up
00:34:27Say something
00:34:28No
00:34:28No
00:34:29No
00:34:29No
00:34:29No
00:34:30He kind of just went right into
00:34:31You know
00:34:32Making me feel like
00:34:34I'm the blame for everything
00:34:35I'm the blame for everything
00:34:35Last night Georgie stormed out
00:34:39He didn't come back to the room
00:34:40And I have no idea where he is
00:34:42No text
00:34:44No call
00:34:44I don't know
00:34:46What he's thinking and feeling in this moment
00:34:47It just
00:34:48Doesn't feel good
00:34:50He's very dismissive
00:34:54And he was even saying in Bulgaria
00:34:57He was able to think a lot
00:34:59Think about what?
00:35:01I don't know
00:35:02But it's probably thinking about his future for himself
00:35:06And not having me included in it
00:35:07Hmm
00:35:08That's the vibe I got
00:35:10Because the tone was nice
00:35:10If it was thinking something positive
00:35:12He'd be like
00:35:12I was so
00:35:13You know
00:35:14Yeah
00:35:14So happy to be around family
00:35:15And you were there
00:35:16You know
00:35:17I could definitely see us
00:35:18You know
00:35:18Thinking so much about
00:35:19What our future could look like
00:35:20Right
00:35:20Wasn't anything like that
00:35:21He wasn't excited
00:35:22No
00:35:22It was the total opposite
00:35:24As if he was thinking about
00:35:25He doesn't want to waste his time
00:35:26On me
00:35:28Because
00:35:30He misses his family
00:35:31And
00:35:31What
00:35:32He doesn't think that
00:35:33I've been like a family to him
00:35:34We've been nothing but family to him
00:35:36Yes we have
00:35:37We've all been there for him
00:35:38We've all given him the benefit of the doubt
00:35:40And showed him love
00:35:41And cared about him
00:35:43I don't know
00:35:44I smell something fishy
00:35:46I texted him
00:35:48Are you okay
00:35:49Will you be coming back to the hotel?
00:35:50He just responded
00:35:51What did he say?
00:35:53Not sure if you're really asking
00:35:55Because you really care
00:35:57Or you're just pretending that you care
00:35:59Because most of the time
00:36:01You are pretending that you care
00:36:02But you don't give a at all
00:36:04Seems like he's the one that doesn't care
00:36:05I think he's basically talking about
00:36:06On himself
00:36:07Yes
00:36:08For projecting that onto me
00:36:09Exactly
00:36:09That's what it sounds like Darcy
00:36:11Okay
00:36:14You're not crazy
00:36:15I'm not crazy
00:36:16Something going on over there
00:36:18Really
00:36:20I just kind of feel like Darcy
00:36:22Just can't get anywhere with Georgie
00:36:23And
00:36:24I feel like this time around
00:36:26This conversation
00:36:27It's hitting deeper
00:36:29And it's hitting her soul
00:36:31Into her core
00:36:32And
00:36:34You know
00:36:35I just hope that she finds the peace
00:36:37That she needs
00:36:38So she can
00:36:39You know
00:36:39Make the right decision for herself
00:36:41Oh Darcy
00:36:44You deserve
00:36:45A husband that's going to be there for you
00:36:48To think of that
00:36:49And not always
00:36:49You know
00:36:50Flip things on you
00:36:51But he's always going to
00:36:53He's never going to change
00:36:54It's never going to happen
00:36:58That's why
00:37:01It hurts
00:37:02It's like a shield
00:37:06Stay away
00:37:08Come here
00:37:12I got you
00:37:13I got you
00:37:15I got you
00:37:16Be strong Darcy
00:37:17Be strong
00:37:18I don't know what else to do
00:37:22To help
00:37:23Fix this marriage
00:37:25And our relationship
00:37:26Because it's
00:37:28It's broken
00:37:28You can only patch up the cracks
00:37:30So many times
00:37:31So
00:37:32I don't know what to expect
00:37:34I don't even know what to say
00:37:35If I
00:37:35See him
00:37:36You got to do what's best for you
00:37:39Don't want to be
00:37:42Manipulated or angry
00:37:45Feel like I'm not worth it
00:37:48Not again
00:37:50You know
00:37:52If two people love each other
00:37:53They can forgive and forget
00:37:55And we've been able to do that before in the past
00:37:58But something just feels different this time
00:38:01All you can do is
00:38:03Is focus on yourself
00:38:04Just know that
00:38:05I love you
00:38:07We all love you
00:38:08We have your back
00:38:08Can you do a sasquatch
00:38:17He's dragging it alone
00:38:19I think you will have a big
00:38:21I could not believe on a sasquatch
00:38:24I don't know
00:38:25Sasquatch is real
00:38:26Okay
00:38:27No, sasquatch is real
00:38:28If you say so
00:38:29Yara's dropping hints
00:38:31So
00:38:35Here today
00:38:37For your first OB visit
00:38:39Make sure there's a good heartbeat
00:38:41We are done with this fertility journey for now
00:38:45But
00:38:46I'm so scared
00:38:47You're gonna feel a little bit of pressure
00:38:50Oh my gosh
00:38:52But you have to drive
00:39:04Slow
00:39:05You wanna throw up in the car
00:39:07I don't
00:39:08Sorry
00:39:09It's just there's a lot of information going on right now
00:39:12Now you want to try to speak like you in a race
00:39:14It's really crazy news
00:39:15And I'm still trying to process everything
00:39:17Like I knew
00:39:32I felt like
00:39:34It would happen
00:39:36But I was beginning to wonder
00:39:37It may never happen
00:39:39Okay
00:39:41I'm gonna cry right now
00:39:42That is
00:39:43How incredible in the world
00:39:46And I'm thinking about this
00:39:48Processing this
00:39:49I'm proud of myself
00:39:51Because I did all of this
00:39:52To get pregnant
00:39:56We decided not to go into the sochi
00:39:58In this moment
00:39:59Because I'm so scared to do sochi
00:40:02So we decided to go into a third opinion
00:40:04Then give us a plan
00:40:06I changed my diet
00:40:08I started doing hormones and vitamins
00:40:10And most important
00:40:12Counting
00:40:13Abulation tape
00:40:14Okay
00:40:15Take a deep breath
00:40:17I'm so happy
00:40:22We are done with this fertility journey for now
00:40:25But
00:40:25Now
00:40:27It's most scary
00:40:28And most excited moment
00:40:30Is
00:40:31First
00:40:31OB visit
00:40:32I'm worried that
00:40:33I won
00:40:34Her heartbeat
00:40:35And I'm so scared
00:40:37Good morning
00:40:39How are you?
00:40:40I'm Dr. Mayer
00:40:41Nice to meet you
00:40:42Nice to meet you
00:40:43Nice to meet you
00:40:44Dr. Mayer
00:40:44So
00:40:46Here today
00:40:47For your first OB visit
00:40:49How do you feel?
00:40:52Um
00:40:52Weird
00:40:53Yeah
00:40:54That's super normal
00:40:56I look like I'm hungover every day
00:40:57That is so normal
00:40:58So
00:40:59You are considered seven weeks and four days
00:41:03And so you're very much right in the middle of the first trimester
00:41:07We'll do our ultrasound today
00:41:09Make sure there's a good heartbeat
00:41:11And then the next visit will be at 12 weeks
00:41:14Right before you turn into that second trimester
00:41:17All right, my love
00:41:19Footrests out
00:41:21You're gonna feel a little bit of pressure
00:41:25And then
00:41:32Right here
00:41:41That's your baby
00:41:43Look how cute your little baby is
00:41:47Do you see right here?
00:41:54That's the heartbeat flickering
00:41:55Well, I always want to cry when I saw that
00:42:02Everything looks so good, guys
00:42:05All right, let me measure that heartbeat
00:42:09And yours is 158
00:42:12That's perfect
00:42:13And I love it when the heartbeat is on the high side of normal
00:42:17Your baby's perfect
00:42:18Oh, my God
00:42:20I'm rushing, I can't cry
00:42:23Yes, you can
00:42:25Yes, you can
00:42:27You're still a woman with a baby inside
00:42:30Oh, my God
00:42:36Yeah
00:42:37It's so good
00:42:39Knowing you're pregnant
00:42:41It is big enough news
00:42:43But when you actually, like, see it
00:42:46It's, it's
00:42:47I don't know
00:42:49It's just a moment where my heart skips a beat, you know
00:42:52It's incredible
00:42:53The whole thing that we can even, like, start to look inside
00:42:57And what's going on in there is
00:42:59It's really special
00:43:00Don't touch my uterus
00:43:11Don't touch my uterus
00:43:12Okay
00:43:12Gonna be a dad
00:43:16That's crazy
00:43:18I think I want to be a dad like my dad, you know
00:43:21I want to
00:43:21I always respected my dad a lot
00:43:23He was always fun
00:43:24But firm, you know
00:43:25I feel like I'm going to get the fun part down for sure
00:43:28Okay, let's go home
00:43:31I have to eat
00:43:32Okay
00:43:33Steak and potato
00:43:34Gotcha
00:43:35This is a big moment for our family, you know
00:43:38And I honestly cannot wait to tell my mom and my dad
00:43:43Because, you know, this has been a long time coming
00:43:46So I would like to do something special
00:43:48Something memorable
00:43:50I don't know
00:43:53What, what would be deserving of such a big moment
00:43:57Bye
00:43:59Oh, I feel like water leaking out of me
00:44:11Jasmine, she's in labor
00:44:13The baby is coming
00:44:15It's just straight anxiety
00:44:19Like, oh man, she's really going to have a kid
00:44:29It's 1am
00:44:37I was obviously in bed
00:44:40And I feel like my water has broken
00:44:44I went to the bathroom
00:44:46And I'm bleeding and I'm in pain
00:44:48I'm having certain contractions
00:44:51So what Matt is going to do right now
00:44:52Is he's going to call the midwife
00:44:54Because I think a baby is coming
00:44:56So
00:44:57Matt, then you have to wake up
00:44:59I know you want to sleep
00:45:01But forget about sleeping life
00:45:02For the next
00:45:03Days of your life
00:45:05Oh
00:45:18This place is kind of far too
00:45:21Oh, I feel like water leaking out of me
00:45:24I have a diaper right now
00:45:25Just make sure that I don't give birth in this car, Matt, please
00:45:34I don't want to give birth in the car
00:45:38Just breathe, mama
00:45:40Breathe
00:45:41Try not to get anxiety
00:45:43I'm trying not to
00:45:46But it's giving me anxiety
00:45:47The fact that this birth center is so far away
00:45:49It's like
00:45:50Jasmine
00:45:54She's in labor
00:45:55It's happening
00:45:56I hope we made the right choice to come to a birth center
00:45:59And I'm thinking to myself
00:46:03We should have just probably went to a hospital
00:46:05Because if anything happens to her or the kid
00:46:08Like, what are we going to do?
00:46:10My heart is racing
00:46:12I feel like the walls are kind of closing in
00:46:14And I'm, like, stressed to the max
00:46:16My contractions are coming
00:46:22Every four to five minutes
00:46:24And they are very, very intense
00:46:26And I've been trying to hold it
00:46:29It was, like, so freaking painful
00:46:31But I'm taking it as a pro
00:46:42Because I feel like every contraction
00:46:46Is bringing me closer
00:46:48To meet our angel
00:46:50Our baby
00:46:52Today is her birthday
00:46:53And I cannot wait to meet her
00:47:00So we just made it to the birth center
00:47:09Which is good
00:47:10I'm in a lot of pain right now
00:47:13Let's pray that everything works out
00:47:16And that we can hold our baby pretty soon
00:47:22So let's see
00:47:23Come on
00:47:30And you can do anything for a minute, right?
00:47:35Good job
00:47:36That's your baby
00:47:38Every contraction
00:47:39That's your baby coming down
00:47:40Yeah
00:47:41Like a villain
00:47:42Of course
00:47:44Jesus
00:47:46It's crazy
00:47:48It's just crazy
00:47:49To know, like
00:47:50The baby is coming
00:47:52Like, Jasmine is in so much pain
00:47:55You want to try to
00:47:56Yeah
00:47:57Can you talk a little bit?
00:47:58Yeah
00:47:58Yes
00:47:59Let's do that
00:48:00So this is the part
00:48:01That's been scaring the crap out of me
00:48:03Because
00:48:04It makes me feel
00:48:05Like powerless
00:48:07You know
00:48:08And
00:48:09I feel bad
00:48:11And I don't want anything to happen to her
00:48:12You know
00:48:13Breathe
00:48:20Breathe
00:48:20Breathe
00:48:21Breathe
00:48:25Breathe
00:48:27Breathe
00:48:28Ah
00:48:30Mom, I'm dying
00:48:33Please God
00:48:35Please don't let there be any issue
00:48:37Please let the baby come out fine
00:48:38Please let the baby be healthy
00:48:39She's coming
00:48:41She's coming
00:48:42She's coming
00:48:42It's just straight anxiety
00:48:47Because I'm worried to death
00:48:48That something might happen
00:48:50Oh my gosh
00:49:16Ooh
00:49:17Look at the baby stuff
00:49:18We should go in and look at something
00:49:20No
00:49:20No
00:49:21No
00:49:21Not inside
00:49:22That is bad superstition in Russia
00:49:25After first semester
00:49:27We can go inside
00:49:28Julia, you have too many superstitions
00:49:30No
00:49:31You can't do this
00:49:32Because
00:49:32We have to
00:49:34Do everything right
00:49:35I promise
00:49:36We will go store
00:49:37In the second semester
00:49:38We will go store
00:49:39That's a good idea
00:49:41Yeah
00:49:41All right
00:49:42Whatever
00:49:43Okay, Brian
00:49:44I'm hungry
00:49:45Please let's go
00:49:47Come on
00:49:47Hungry
00:49:48Can we go this way
00:49:49Is it bad superstition?
00:49:50Can we go this way?
00:49:52Can we go this way?
00:49:53Can we go this way?
00:49:54Is it bad superstition?
00:49:55Hi, how are you?
00:50:04How are you?
00:50:05Good
00:50:05Welcome in
00:50:06Have a seat wherever you'd like
00:50:07We're eating or drinking
00:50:08We're both today
00:50:09Both
00:50:10Okay
00:50:10Hungry
00:50:11And thirsty
00:50:12Love it
00:50:13Okay
00:50:14Everything
00:50:14Today I officially
00:50:16Seven weeks
00:50:17And I just crave
00:50:19Everything
00:50:20And this is good feelings
00:50:22First trimester
00:50:25It's been tough
00:50:26And people say
00:50:26Morning sickness
00:50:27That is not
00:50:29Morning sickness
00:50:29That's all
00:50:30Day sickness
00:50:32Thank you
00:50:34Look at that
00:50:36Lollipop
00:50:37Really helped me
00:50:38Really helped me
00:50:38With my nausea
00:50:39And Brennan
00:50:41Trying to give me
00:50:42His lollipop
00:50:42Sucking on stuff
00:50:43Helped reduce the nausea
00:50:45I mean
00:50:45All I'm ever trying to do
00:50:47Is help you out
00:50:47You know what I mean?
00:50:48But it does not
00:50:50Have a gum inside
00:50:51It has something
00:50:52That rhymes
00:50:53With gum inside
00:50:53What does this mean?
00:50:55What does this mean?
00:50:58You'll learn
00:50:59When you're older
00:50:59Did you have
00:51:02A by chance
00:51:03Garlic sauce?
00:51:04We have a garlic
00:51:05Aioli sauce
00:51:06Would you like that?
00:51:08Is that aioli?
00:51:09Oh, sounds interesting
00:51:10Enjoy
00:51:11Oh
00:51:12Oh, strong
00:51:16Oh, my gosh
00:51:21Wow, you never
00:51:22Showed me this sauce before
00:51:23I think they sell it
00:51:24At the grocery store
00:51:24Garlic
00:51:25That sauce?
00:51:27Yeah
00:51:27Is your life
00:51:29Now complete?
00:51:30Are you just gonna
00:51:31Be drinking it
00:51:31By the tub?
00:51:33Mmm
00:51:34I want just
00:51:35Sweet bread
00:51:36And I put
00:51:38In the garlic sauce
00:51:39And I eat it
00:51:40Like I'm dipping
00:51:40In a super
00:51:42Garlic onion sauce
00:51:43I've seen you eat pizza
00:51:44With chicken sauce
00:51:45Julia
00:51:45I mean
00:51:46Yeah
00:51:47Pizza with chicken sauce
00:51:49Is good
00:51:50Lately
00:51:53Julia's had weird cravings
00:51:55Like
00:51:55Shove dips
00:51:56In french fries
00:51:57And lemonade
00:51:57That's
00:52:00Weird
00:52:01I need to try
00:52:03Every sauce now
00:52:05I try to stock
00:52:08The fridge
00:52:08With whatever
00:52:09She wants
00:52:10And I swear to god
00:52:11We'll go to the store
00:52:12And spend $200
00:52:12And then she'll be like
00:52:14Burgers
00:52:15So it's like
00:52:17Caring for Julia
00:52:18Right now
00:52:18Is a challenge
00:52:20She is needy
00:52:22Needy
00:52:23Seriously
00:52:25Oh it's interesting
00:52:30That you have all these
00:52:30Weird cravings
00:52:32Dancing in there
00:52:36Just doing little
00:52:39Backflips in there
00:52:39Why?
00:52:41Don't show people
00:52:43Don't show people
00:52:43Here around
00:52:44But it's a lot
00:52:47Happening
00:52:48Especially with my
00:52:49Body
00:52:49With my mood
00:52:50With my hormones
00:52:52It's a lot
00:52:53Happening
00:52:54I can feel it
00:52:55But
00:52:55Same time
00:52:56I doesn't believe
00:52:57You're having
00:52:58A lot of changes
00:52:59Now
00:52:59And
00:52:59You're grown
00:53:01In some of my
00:53:02Favorite areas
00:53:03You know
00:53:04So it's becoming
00:53:05Noticeable
00:53:06Julia
00:53:06So we really
00:53:07I think it's time
00:53:08To tell
00:53:09My parents
00:53:10Before they figure it out
00:53:11And they get pissed off
00:53:13Because we didn't tell them
00:53:14Brandon
00:53:18Your mom
00:53:19She'll just make sure
00:53:21Everything
00:53:22In her way
00:53:23I think
00:53:30It'd be really good idea
00:53:31To tell my parents
00:53:32Right now
00:53:32Because
00:53:33Since we've come back
00:53:34From Europe
00:53:34They're still mad
00:53:36About the financial bond
00:53:37We put ourselves in
00:53:38And I just feel like
00:53:39They'll be happy
00:53:40For us
00:53:41They're
00:53:42The grandparents
00:53:43You know
00:53:43But
00:53:44Julia hasn't seen
00:53:47My parents
00:53:47Since the last time
00:53:48We had a fight
00:53:49With them
00:53:49So can you
00:53:52Are just waiting
00:53:53For a little more time
00:53:54I've always
00:53:55I'm already
00:53:56Almost done
00:53:57First trimester
00:53:58I promise
00:53:59In a second trimester
00:54:00We're gonna tell
00:54:01My parents
00:54:01And your parents
00:54:02Because we need
00:54:03To make a plan
00:54:03No
00:54:04I mean
00:54:05What if they find out
00:54:07Before the second trimester
00:54:08Your brain
00:54:10Gonna explode now
00:54:11No
00:54:11You're just creating
00:54:12A recipe for disaster
00:54:13Your parents
00:54:14Have to learn
00:54:15How to mind
00:54:16And business
00:54:16Doesn't push me
00:54:17And do anything
00:54:18You and me
00:54:19Have to learn
00:54:20To be
00:54:21As a parent
00:54:22We could use
00:54:25The support
00:54:25You know
00:54:26Give my parents
00:54:27Time to like
00:54:28Plan for this
00:54:29Give us advice
00:54:30There's so much
00:54:30We don't know
00:54:31About having babies
00:54:32And
00:54:33They do
00:54:34Betty
00:54:36She will be
00:54:37Overstepping
00:54:38She already
00:54:39Overstepping
00:54:40Overstepping
00:54:40And now
00:54:41I'm pregnant
00:54:42I doesn't want
00:54:43She gonna be
00:54:43Telling me
00:54:44What to do
00:54:44She told me
00:54:45Where to go
00:54:46And she will
00:54:47Be suspicious
00:54:48What I'm doing
00:54:49It's important
00:54:53It's important
00:54:53That mom and dad
00:54:54Know now
00:54:54I mean
00:54:55They're the most
00:54:56Important people
00:54:57To know
00:54:57When we have
00:54:58This child
00:54:59They gain a status
00:55:00They become
00:55:01Grandparents
00:55:02You know
00:55:02So like
00:55:04If we're gonna
00:55:04Tell anybody
00:55:05It should be them
00:55:05They should know
00:55:06First
00:55:07I don't think
00:55:11My mom was
00:55:12Overbearing
00:55:13She just wants
00:55:14To help
00:55:14And be supportive
00:55:15But I feel like
00:55:16Julia keeping
00:55:17It a secret
00:55:17Is just making
00:55:19The situation worse
00:55:20Because if
00:55:21My parents find out
00:55:22We've been hiding
00:55:23Something as big
00:55:24As this from them
00:55:24They're gonna be
00:55:25Absolutely offended
00:55:26Thank you
00:55:39Hello
00:55:40How are you
00:55:42Good
00:55:43How are you
00:55:44Ready to go
00:55:45Find Sasquatch
00:55:45Are we waiting
00:55:47For the other ones
00:55:47Who
00:55:48Yeah
00:55:49Where's Lord and Alex
00:55:50Oh they left
00:55:50What
00:55:52They left
00:55:54Yeah
00:55:54They didn't even
00:55:54Tell me bye either
00:55:55They just hauled out
00:55:56They go
00:55:57They won back
00:55:58What happened
00:55:59They mad about
00:55:59Last night
00:56:00Of course
00:56:00Yeah
00:56:01Did I say back
00:56:01What happened
00:56:02We talked to them
00:56:02They were fine
00:56:03I mean
00:56:04Me and Yara
00:56:05Had a conversation
00:56:06With Lauren
00:56:06They weren't really
00:56:07Thrilled about
00:56:08That conversation
00:56:09So I guess
00:56:10They were just
00:56:10Like their cue
00:56:10To get the
00:56:11Out of here
00:56:12She light me up
00:56:14And make me
00:56:15You're a new
00:56:15Obsession
00:56:17I'm in the
00:56:18It's crazy
00:56:19She's look at me
00:56:22She's look at me
00:56:24She's look at me
00:56:25I saw you guys
00:56:27Talking
00:56:27And then I saw
00:56:28Like a glass break
00:56:29Yeah
00:56:29It looked like
00:56:30Everything
00:56:30Did you break everything
00:56:31I didn't break everything
00:56:32I mean
00:56:33I told them
00:56:34The truth
00:56:35About what
00:56:37I told Julia
00:56:38What you told me
00:56:39And Julia went
00:56:40And told her
00:56:40What you told me
00:56:41I called her out
00:56:42You told her that
00:56:43Yeah
00:56:44What you mad
00:56:45I ruined your
00:56:46Friendship again
00:56:46Well now she's
00:56:48Probably mad at me again
00:56:49But I was saying
00:56:50That more as
00:56:51A precautionary
00:56:53For Yara
00:56:54Not to be like
00:56:55Stay away from her
00:56:56Just to let her know
00:56:57Had a shot ski
00:56:58And felt like
00:56:59Talking about it
00:57:00Oh my gosh
00:57:01You don't have to
00:57:02Tattletale
00:57:03I feel really awful
00:57:07Lauren leaving this abruptly
00:57:08Is not good
00:57:10And I think Jovi
00:57:12Needs to keep his mouth shut
00:57:13And mind his own business
00:57:14Because Yara wasn't
00:57:16Planning on saying
00:57:17Anything to Lauren
00:57:18She's not that type of person
00:57:19She avoids conflict
00:57:21At all costs
00:57:22Why would he instigate
00:57:24Like another fight
00:57:25We all just got over
00:57:26Something massive
00:57:28And then he's gonna
00:57:29Bring up some other
00:57:30Bull
00:57:30He did it again
00:57:31You know like
00:57:32And he's again
00:57:33He's being
00:57:34Hurt her
00:57:35Yeah
00:57:35He again
00:57:36Does the same
00:57:37Seems like
00:57:38He's up to no good too
00:57:39Right
00:57:40Well honestly
00:57:43Like that information
00:57:44Sucks to hear
00:57:45Because now I don't know
00:57:46Where her and I stand
00:57:47Now I'm back
00:57:49In the lion's den
00:57:50Anyways
00:57:54You know like
00:57:55Those myths
00:57:57About the Sasquatches
00:57:58That are
00:57:58In Moldova
00:57:59Everybody got
00:58:00A different name
00:58:01For it
00:58:01Well Andrew
00:58:02In Moldova
00:58:03How did you call
00:58:03Baba Yaga
00:58:04Baba Yaga
00:58:05Yeah
00:58:06I also heard
00:58:08That Sasquatches
00:58:09Is interested
00:58:10In blondes
00:58:11Over here
00:58:11We're all
00:58:12We're all
00:58:13First victims
00:58:14We're gonna come
00:58:15Run
00:58:15We'll be like
00:58:16Hey
00:58:16I'll give you
00:58:17My wife
00:58:18Just let me leave
00:58:18You know what I mean
00:58:20Hey
00:58:21Nobody never saw him
00:58:22Maybe he's hot
00:58:23He probably
00:58:24Has a big
00:58:24And have a big
00:58:25House in the forest
00:58:26Big
00:58:27What the
00:58:28He's got
00:58:29Big feet
00:58:29Yeah
00:58:30Yeah
00:58:30Yeah
00:58:31Right
00:58:32Exactly
00:58:33We're here
00:58:35Come on
00:58:37Wherever you are
00:58:38Hey guys
00:58:41Welcome to the land of Sasquatch
00:58:44My name's Mike
00:58:45Thank you
00:58:47Hello
00:58:47Have you ever been this far
00:58:48In the woods before
00:58:49Been in the woods
00:58:50But we never said
00:58:51Chupacabra
00:58:52Chupacabra
00:58:53Looking for the wrong thing
00:58:55Okay
00:58:56Well follow me
00:58:58You know
00:59:00We met the bartender
00:59:01The first night
00:59:02And he knew a guy
00:59:03Who does these Sasquatch tours
00:59:05My great grandfather
00:59:08I think his first Sasquatch sight
00:59:09Was in 1936
00:59:11He saw him off in the woods
00:59:12I mean he's clearly
00:59:13Been out
00:59:14A bunch
00:59:14It's so fine
00:59:16It's so fine
00:59:16That every country
00:59:17Has like
00:59:18The stuff that lives
00:59:19In the woods
00:59:19Because it's an anxiety
00:59:21Everybody's scared
00:59:22Of going to the woods
00:59:23The thing about
00:59:26Sasquatch is
00:59:27That they're
00:59:28Mostly out at night
00:59:29So if you try
00:59:29To take a picture
00:59:30Or shine a flashlight
00:59:31You're really not
00:59:32Going to see anything
00:59:32But just a black blob
00:59:33So it's very hard
00:59:34To find them
00:59:34Very hard to see them
00:59:35There's state campsites
00:59:37Over here
00:59:38And I've heard
00:59:38People screaming
00:59:39So I assume
00:59:39He shows up
00:59:40And wants something to eat
00:59:41I don't believe in Sasquatches
00:59:46But I definitely believe
00:59:47That there are some
00:59:48Questionable creatures
00:59:50In the woods
00:59:51Because when I was
00:59:52About 13
00:59:53I was walking alone
00:59:54In the woods
00:59:54And something
00:59:56Flew past me
00:59:57And I still to this day
00:59:58Have no clue
00:59:59What the hell it was
01:00:00A bird?
01:00:01It was just like
01:00:02This dark thing
01:00:03That just flew by
01:00:04But it was massive
01:00:05And it was at the top
01:00:06Of the trees
01:00:06It wasn't a bird
01:00:07It didn't
01:00:08It just
01:00:08I don't even know
01:00:09I can't explain it
01:00:10It was so weird
01:00:11Oh, this is beautiful
01:00:18Wow, look at this
01:00:19It's quite nice
01:00:20To wake up to
01:00:21Every morning
01:00:21Yes, it is
01:00:23So you can see here
01:00:25These are fresh
01:00:25Claw marks
01:00:26From Sasquatch
01:00:28Oh
01:00:30At night
01:00:31You can hear them
01:00:32Scratching the trees
01:00:33Over the clunk saw
01:00:34Oh, okay
01:00:35That's great
01:00:36We got a sign, Andre
01:00:38Really creepy
01:00:39Wow
01:00:40I fully believe
01:00:43In all this Sasquatch stuff
01:00:44And apparently
01:00:44This is a popular place
01:00:46Like everybody believes
01:00:47Sasquatch is here
01:00:48So I was thinking
01:00:49You know
01:00:49We have to do this
01:00:50We're going to look
01:00:51For Sasquatch
01:00:51But it's going to be fun
01:00:52I could not believe
01:00:54I could not believe
01:00:54On Sasquatch
01:00:55I don't know
01:00:56Sasquatch is real
01:00:57Okay
01:00:58No, Sasquatch is real
01:00:59If you say so
01:01:00We're kind of
01:01:04In the middle of nowhere
01:01:05Honestly
01:01:06Yeah
01:01:06So
01:01:06It's like
01:01:07What do people eat
01:01:08Around here?
01:01:09Do you have a grocery store?
01:01:11No
01:01:11We don't have grocery stores
01:01:13So where do you get
01:01:14Like eggs or milk?
01:01:15My sister has cows
01:01:16And chickens
01:01:17I'm with you
01:01:18Come on
01:01:19Let's go
01:01:19That was Sasquatch
01:01:24Can you do a Sasquatch?
01:01:28He's dragging it alone
01:01:29Because he's a big guy
01:01:31I think he's a guy
01:01:33And I think he will have
01:01:34A big guy
01:01:35Speaking about that
01:01:36Like that
01:01:38That's Sasquatch
01:01:39That's a crooked
01:01:40Yara's dropping hints
01:01:43That's funny
01:01:48Jody, I think that was
01:01:49A hint for you
01:01:50Hey guys
01:01:52I don't want to slow down
01:01:53For anybody
01:01:53And we're way further
01:01:54Than I'm usually
01:01:55Comfortable going
01:01:55So
01:01:56If
01:01:57Like you
01:01:58Look over here
01:01:59You can see fresh tracks
01:02:00I don't know what those are
01:02:01So we probably
01:02:02Come too far
01:02:03And I'm not comfortable
01:02:04Being all the way down here
01:02:05You're too far?
01:02:07I've never come this far
01:02:09Oh
01:02:10See that there?
01:02:12That's a little bit of a dent
01:02:13Did you dig that house?
01:02:21You see it?
01:02:23No way
01:02:24That's a real
01:02:25Babe, you're going to
01:02:25Fall through something
01:02:26Okay, that's probably
01:02:28Far enough
01:02:28We should go back
01:02:30Hey, stop
01:02:35Don't
01:02:35Nobody's been close enough
01:02:37To know if he's dangerous
01:02:38Stop
01:02:41Hey, that's
01:02:42That's close enough
01:02:43We should probably go back
01:02:44Hughie, the lake is his at night
01:02:48I don't want to be out here
01:02:49Okay, yeah, let's go
01:02:49You know what?
01:02:52We should rename
01:02:52Sasquatch
01:02:53Alex
01:02:54He disappears
01:02:55He disappears
01:02:57This little Sasquatch journey
01:03:00Is a lot of fun
01:03:02I love seeing Yara's goofy side
01:03:04I think she's so funny
01:03:06But Jovi better watch out
01:03:08Because he's on thin ice
01:03:09I don't think that Jovi understands
01:03:13The depths of this
01:03:14Like my friendship with Lauren
01:03:16Could be over
01:03:17Like Lauren and I have finally had
01:03:19A good night with each other
01:03:21I don't think Jovi's taking that
01:03:23Into consideration
01:03:24I think he's just like
01:03:24Oh, whatever
01:03:25They're not friends anymore
01:03:26No big deal
01:03:27Jovi's not seeing it
01:03:30For what it is
01:03:30So the fact that Jovi
01:03:32Is just trying to stir the pot
01:03:34Right now
01:03:34And be a
01:03:35Starter
01:03:35Is not a good look
01:03:37And it just makes me
01:03:38Really believe that
01:03:39He's just a dick
01:03:40Yeah, a working dick
01:03:41I got some appetite after this
01:03:43Yeah, I want to eat something
01:03:45All this cock
01:03:46You're making me hungry
01:03:48I got this message from Georgie
01:03:55That he wants to meet
01:03:56I'm eager and I'm ready to hear
01:03:58What he has to say
01:03:59Are we even together right now?
01:04:01Like, you walked out
01:04:02I don't know
01:04:03I want to feel empowered for myself
01:04:04There needs to be some serious conversations
01:04:07And we're running out of time
01:04:08Thank you
01:04:22I didn't give up
01:04:40you want to drink something yeah I'll drink all right I'll do a Cosmo can I have one Cosmo
01:05:07one was a wine of the same place thank you I got this message from Georgie that he wants to meet
01:05:15and explain what's on his heart so I'm eager and I'm ready to hear what he has to say thank you
01:05:26so did you sleep okay last night just didn't come back where did you sleep I just get through for
01:05:40myself I got any time for myself just to to figure out how I really feel and
01:05:48especially after Bulgaria this trip kind of make me feel different kind of ways and
01:05:57open different kind of emotions and feelings about everything
01:06:00even last night I tried to talk with you about it emotions about our marriage
01:06:10about everything work what I want finances family everything I mean if you can kind of dive in a
01:06:18little deeper divulge a little bit more yeah so one of the actually what I realized one of the
01:06:25strongest feelings and emotion I have was for you oh you know that's I really care about you and I
01:06:33really love you thank you I love you too but are we even together right now like you walked out I
01:06:39don't know I want to feel proud for myself I get you want to do the same thing is this marriage
01:06:44gonna work is it not gonna work like there needs to be some serious conversations and we're running out
01:06:48of time that's why I want to talk with you try to explain my feelings how I feel I need to feel
01:06:57comfortable just to I don't know I don't know comfortable with what do I feel comfortable with me
01:07:03because I'm expressing how I feel too and you can't handle the way that I express myself I'm sorry
01:07:10I'm not trying to get at a level 10 I'm I'm it gets that way because I don't feel like we're getting
01:07:16each other it's too much what do you need to say and I don't want to talk anymore I'm I'm already tired
01:07:28it's awesome change for you
01:07:30mm-hmm when I see my sister with her kids and her family and when my sister asked me if I want a kid
01:07:50where do you want to go with this
01:08:20she's coming she's coming right now mama she's coming take a deep breath and then you push down
01:08:41breathe breathe breathe breathe breathe breathe she's coming she's coming right now mama she's
01:09:05she's coming okay how are you going to walk together okay take a deep breath and then you push down
01:09:13yeah
01:09:14ah
01:09:15ah
01:09:16ah
01:09:18ah
01:09:20ah
01:09:21ah
01:09:22ah
01:09:24ah
01:09:25ah
01:09:26ah
01:09:27ah
01:09:28ah
01:09:29ah
01:09:31we're at the time
01:09:33ah
01:09:34oh
01:09:36ah
01:09:37ah
01:09:38ah
01:09:39ah
01:09:40ah
01:09:42ah
01:09:43ah
01:09:44I love you, I love you, honey, you're fine, my dear, you're fine, you're fine, good
01:10:00doing.
01:10:01You want any respiration?
01:10:02Good?
01:10:03Yeah.
01:10:04She is warm.
01:10:05I'm going to keep her nice and warm here.
01:10:09Oh my gosh, now just seeing my baby, my daughter on my chest.
01:10:17Thank you, honey.
01:10:20I imagine her in so many different ways, but none of them.
01:10:26Again, even the closer to how perfect and beautiful she actually is.
01:10:32I feel like this is how an angel will look like.
01:10:36I would like to introduce our baby, Matilda.
01:10:43Matilda!
01:10:44Matilda's here.
01:10:46Just bake out of the oven.
01:10:49And she has blue eyes.
01:10:51Where'd you get the name Matilda from?
01:10:56From a joke.
01:10:58I used to call Matt Matilda.
01:11:01Matilda.
01:11:02In Matilda, you can see the name Matt.
01:11:04And it's Matt and Matty, because that's how we call her.
01:11:08It was beautiful.
01:11:10Very painful.
01:11:11All medicated, but worth every second of pain just to meet my beautiful angel.
01:11:18With giving birth to my daughter and Matt being there, I trust Matt as I have never trusted
01:11:28a person.
01:11:29When I was the most vulnerable, he was there for me unconditionally.
01:11:34It made me feel so loved.
01:11:36And after this, I can trust him with anything, because I know that no matter what, he's going
01:11:42to have my back.
01:11:43I have no doubt he's going to be a good dad.
01:11:49I have no doubt he's going to be a good dad.
01:11:53She's so beautiful.
01:11:54We're so blessed.
01:11:55Wow.
01:11:56Finally, daddy's using the right pronouns.
01:12:00You stop calling her he.
01:12:03Now you believe, isn't she?
01:12:05Yes.
01:12:06How does it feel to be the brand new daddy of a baby girl?
01:12:11Scary.
01:12:12Why?
01:12:13You're still scared?
01:12:14She's so small and fragile.
01:12:16The joy in seeing your child for the first time, it's crazy, you know?
01:12:24And in that moment, like, I literally felt like my heart grew like the Grinch's three
01:12:30sizes.
01:12:31I cannot believe that 10 hours ago this baby was inside of Jasmine.
01:12:35Like, it's a whole baby.
01:12:38I can't believe she was first in your balls.
01:12:41That's gross, huh, dude?
01:12:43I'm telling you, I have never felt that level of depth of love.
01:12:51And it's like, this is what life is about.
01:12:54It's not about what your cars are.
01:12:56It don't matter about how much money you got and all the other garbage that we try to tell
01:12:59each other.
01:13:00That's not what it's about.
01:13:01What it's about is this very moment.
01:13:03And I could feel it.
01:13:04I could feel the love, the compassion.
01:13:08And, uh, I don't know.
01:13:12It's an insane feeling that I don't think anything, nothing can top this feeling.
01:13:17It's just something crazy.
01:13:19I love you, Maddie.
01:13:24I'm gonna spend the rest of my life taking care of you.
01:13:29Me too, baby.
01:13:33Like, every single tear, every single struggle that I have had ever since I came to this country,
01:13:40everything makes sense.
01:13:41Because even when it is a mess, my life is a mess.
01:13:46If, you know, it led to this point in which I'm holding this beautiful, perfect angel on my arms.
01:13:54It's just like, I will go through everything again just to be able to have her.
01:13:59My daughter is beautiful.
01:14:02Yeah.
01:14:03I love her so much.
01:14:06You're perfect.
01:14:08You're a neat girl.
01:14:10This child is my child?
01:14:17It's not my child.
01:14:19I am technically the father of this child.
01:14:23It's time to file for divorce.
01:14:25She could leave the country or be deported.
01:14:28And now that complicates things.
01:14:30You are taking a chance the longer you wait.
01:14:40I think you have to look at the risk here.
01:14:49You have a baby that will be born to this marriage.
01:14:53And as a result, you're presumed to be the father.
01:14:56That's going to, child support alone is going to be hundreds of thousands of dollars.
01:15:01That you're going to be paying for a baby that you said is not yours.
01:15:04I wouldn't take a hundred thousands of dollars risk.
01:15:09That's not a game I would play.
01:15:10I think it's something you need to take care of.
01:15:13You're telling me that this child is my child?
01:15:30It's not my child.
01:15:32Under Michigan law, that's how the law sees it.
01:15:35That is a basic presumption.
01:15:37There's ways to get around it, though.
01:15:39You may have to do a paternity test, DNA.
01:15:42If the father of the child is willing to do an affidavit to indicate that he is the father of the child,
01:15:49there's ways around it, but there's time limits on this, too.
01:15:52The law, you need to do this within three years of birth.
01:15:57When I heard that Jasmine was pregnant, I thought that that actually would help my case in the divorce
01:16:04because it proves adultery.
01:16:07But I had no freaking clue that I am technically the father of this child.
01:16:15Are you freaking kidding me?
01:16:17That's really **** up.
01:16:20This is ridiculous.
01:16:22She really, really messed up my life.
01:16:25Yeah, I'm sorry.
01:16:26That's not something easy to go through, especially if you had this image that it was going to be you and her and have a child.
01:16:33Yeah, it was supposed to be her and I.
01:16:35We talked about this.
01:16:39Now, are you deciding that it's time to file for divorce?
01:16:42When you file, it takes at least 60 days to get divorced if you don't have kids.
01:16:47If you don't have kids.
01:16:48However, just given what you just told me, since there's a minor child involved, the statutory waiting period is now 180 days or six months.
01:16:57So from the time of filing, it's going to take a minimum of six months to get divorced.
01:17:01Because there's a child involved.
01:17:03Correct.
01:17:04Even though the child is not yours.
01:17:07I'm not quite ready yet.
01:17:11There's two reasons.
01:17:13One is I have a lot of investments.
01:17:16I want to wait for the market to drop and then file because I want the least financial impact to me.
01:17:22Because I know when you're married, you share assets basically 50-50 during your marriage.
01:17:28Another reason is immigration.
01:17:30Because Jasmine is going to have to remove conditions from her green card.
01:17:35Okay.
01:17:36To get her permanent 10-year card.
01:17:37She's on the two-year probationary card right now.
01:17:40But I am not jointly going to sign for it.
01:17:43And the only way she can do it on her own is if she's divorced.
01:17:48So if I divorce her right away, I'm giving her the green light to get that card.
01:17:55I want her to be held accountable for the betrayal she did to me.
01:17:59Okay.
01:18:00That's super important to me.
01:18:02When there is this vengeance, payback, pound of flesh you're seeking.
01:18:07A lot of people, unfortunately, think that you can utilize the court system to gain that pound of flesh.
01:18:13What you do is you give attorneys a lot more money to probably in a position that I could have told you would have been in from the beginning.
01:18:19So I believe he should be filing for divorce in Michigan yesterday.
01:18:25Since there's a minor child involved, you're going to have to bring in action within three years.
01:18:31Oh my God.
01:18:32One thing we haven't considered is that Jasmine could file for divorce in Florida.
01:18:37I would hate to have to travel back and forth to Florida for a divorce.
01:18:41So the person that initiates divorce is where the state that it's going to be handled in.
01:18:48Correct.
01:18:50Really?
01:18:51Dude.
01:18:52This is jacked.
01:18:53You know, you are taking a chance the longer you wait.
01:18:56She couldn't leave the country or be deported.
01:18:59And now that complicates things as far as you trying to get a hold of her and it just cost you more money.
01:19:04Hearing everything the lawyer is telling me today, he's actually convinced me that I need to take action now and I need to be the one who files for a divorce so I can take control of the divorce and have it in Michigan.
01:19:23With Jasmine's personality and stuff, I don't know what she's going to do next.
01:19:27I don't know what she's thinking in that crazy mind of hers and that devilish inside of hers, you know.
01:19:33I've got a lot of stuff to think about here.
01:19:36Yeah, absolutely.
01:19:37I mean, whatever you need, we're here for you.
01:19:38Next time on 90 Day Fiancé, Happily Ever After.
01:19:45You've been evoked at least in this street.
01:19:47You've got to because if I go like this.
01:19:50A baby could die, Julia.
01:19:52It's a good thing I think of these things.
01:19:53I'm five months pregnant right now and still nobody know I'm pregnant.
01:20:01You should tell him daddy right now.
01:20:03Yeah.
01:20:04Thank you, all right?
01:20:05Let her know because eventually it's going to come out and she's going to know this timeline.
01:20:09I mean, I am lucky that she even let me tell you guys, to be honest.
01:20:13She are over controlling.
01:20:15She even getting more controlling than before.
01:20:18I don't need more stress on my shoulder right now.
01:20:23Oh my gosh, so many pictures.
01:20:25Oh my gosh, full head of hair.
01:20:26I got a necklace on.
01:20:28Back in the day when I was working out, looking good.
01:20:32Hey, what's up?
01:20:34Hey Jasmine, I guess posted something on social media right now.
01:20:40It looks like she had her baby.
01:20:44Wow.
01:20:46I feel in a way that they're expecting me to have kids.
01:20:56Because that's how is our culture.
01:20:58Stop this.
01:20:59Let me move on.
01:21:00Let me have my peace.
01:21:01Stop.
01:21:02Just stop.
01:21:03What am I big for?
01:21:04I see everywhere you go, there's problems that follow you.
01:21:09Jovi, he is just trying to find somehow to like point the finger.
01:21:15Let's get in the .
01:21:16Get down and handle yourself like a man.
01:21:21You know your mom.
01:21:23I want to cause a very good impression.
01:21:25I want my kids and my friends to be saved.
01:21:29And not to go to hell, but to have a little I want.
01:21:33You know what?
01:21:34This is.
01:21:35This is.
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