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00:00And I'm not coming for homegirl. What's her name? Yvette? I'm not coming for Yvette.
00:06But girl, this is a green card situation if I've ever seen one.
00:10Hello everybody. Welcome back to Taste of Reality. My name is Queenie for those who don't know me
00:14and I'm reviewing the first four episodes of 90 Day Fiancé. I'm trying to catch up.
00:22These episodes are hella long. They are way longer than I remember them being.
00:25But I'm going to catch up by the end of this week and then we're going to go to weekly reviews come this Sunday.
00:33So that'll be episode 7? 8. 8. Yeah.
00:39So right now I'm just kind of going to share my thoughts on all the couples that are there right now.
00:43It's not going to be very structured. I'll try to see if I can add clips or not.
00:46But yeah, these are just my thoughts so far in the season.
00:49As always, please make sure to like this video, subscribe to the channel, and leave a comment down below.
00:55So I'm going to start with Kobe and Emily.
00:57Kobe is 34 from Cameroon and Emily is 29 from Selina, Kansas, I think that is.
01:04So basically with the two of them, they met, I think, over two years ago in China.
01:10He was doing work there after studying, I'm pretty sure.
01:14They met up, had a whirlwind romance, and she ended up being pregnant.
01:18Now due to him not getting a visa and pandemic and all that stuff, they haven't been able to be together, but she's been raising their son on her own in America, and he plans on coming to America.
01:30My thing with her is, like, I don't have a problem with people who have their preferences.
01:38You know, I prefer black men as well.
01:40But when I hear people of other races who are like, oh yeah, I love black men, so of course I found the only black man in China.
01:47I was like, I don't know how I feel about that.
01:51So anyways, the issue with them is that, one, when they met each other, they had different physiques.
01:57You know, the pandemic will do that to you, okay?
01:59It happened to all of us.
02:00It's all right.
02:01But also, she's been raising her son in a very lackadaisical way, whereas he is African, and the assumption is that he wants to be a little bit more strict with his parenting.
02:13They're definitely going to clash heads.
02:15I feel it.
02:16I feel it.
02:17I love that he was excited to hear that she was pregnant, even though they only knew each other for a handful of days.
02:24I love that he was excited to meet his son at the end of episode four.
02:28But I definitely feel like the parenting dynamic is going to cause a strain in their relationship.
02:34Also, they have to live with the parents and the sister.
02:38Waited for this moment of, like, 17 months.
02:42Finally, I get to see my son.
02:44What is that?
02:46You going to see him?
02:47Oh, it's okay.
02:48You need a second?
02:49That's okay.
02:49That's okay.
02:50Aw.
02:51Aw.
02:51You see Dada?
02:54Oh, my God.
02:55You're shy.
02:57You can give him a hug together.
02:58Aw.
03:03That is five adults, a toddler, all sharing one home that has one full bathroom.
03:09Couldn't be me.
03:14I'll tell you that right now.
03:15It could not be me.
03:17Next, we have Benny, who's 31, from Ethiopia, and Ari, who's 30, from Princeton, New Jersey.
03:24If I'm not mistaken, we've seen them before.
03:27I'm in and out of 90 Day Fiance, honestly.
03:29But, basically, they've had a child, and he has another child from a previous marriage.
03:37However, that lady up and left with the kid, and he's never heard from them ever since.
03:42So, for the last little while, what's her name again?
03:46Ari was living in Ethiopia, but because her son had a medical emergency, she had to go
03:52back to the States, and then her temporary trip was elongated, right?
03:57Due to the tension between them, he was having trauma from his last experience, where his wife
04:02just dipped with his kid, and then the distance and all that stuff.
04:07They weren't on speaking terms for a long while.
04:10But now, she was back in Ethiopia, and they plan on all moving to America together.
04:17With Benny, I love that he loves being a father.
04:22I love that he genuinely loves Ari.
04:26However, your family is going to be the reason why this relationship goes to the pits.
04:34I was going to use a different word, but we're trying to be PG right now.
04:38Your sisters are horrible.
04:39They're horrible to this woman.
04:41And it's so sad, because all she tries to do is really be a good mother, be a good partner,
04:46and try to be a sister to his sisters, but they don't treat her nicely.
04:52There was even a moment where he had been withholding the information that he was going
04:57to America until the day before, and it blew up into a whole situation.
05:04The crazy thing is the sisters are like, how dare you keep this from us, and they almost were
05:32starting to blame Ari instead of Benny, when Ari this whole time was saying, you need to tell your
05:38family.
05:38You need to tell your family.
05:40I hate when somebody who's new to the family gets all the blame, when really, they are actually
05:45looking out for the family, and it's the person that they're in partnership with that's not making
05:49the right decisions.
05:51I mean, this woman has been supporting this man's music career.
05:54I'm not going to comment on the music, because maybe culturally, that music's banging over
05:59there, so I'm not going to say nothing, but she's been supporting, okay?
06:02She's been supporting, and she's had to deal with these sisters who are honestly tyrants,
06:07and the least he could do is have her back, but he's always like, oh, I don't want to get
06:13involved.
06:13It doesn't have to do with me.
06:14It does have to do with you, because these are your sisters, and this is not only your wife,
06:19but the mother of your child, you now have this family to be accountable to, and I don't
06:25like that he's not, mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm, mm-mm.
06:29It's not giving father.
06:30It's not giving provider, babes.
06:32I don't know, Benny.
06:33You're looking a little sketchy to me.
06:35Next, we have Cara, who's 29, from Charlottesville, wherever VA is, Virginia?
06:43I hope so.
06:44And Guillermo, who's 23, from Venezuela, but he was living in the Dominican Republic,
06:49most recently, right?
06:50So with them, it's an interesting dynamic, okay?
06:53Because normally, when you see older woman, younger man, it's older dusty.
07:01It's older dusty.
07:04You know what I'm saying?
07:06So to see, like, Cara looks really good, and Guillermo looks really good.
07:11So I don't think it's one of those, let me swindle you into coming to America situation,
07:16and then I'm just going to chuck you to the side when I get my green cards, kind of thing.
07:21So I kind of like them together.
07:24Their biggest issue is that he's significantly younger than her.
07:28He's six years younger than her, right?
07:29And six years younger, I feel like, isn't that big of a deal, except when you're in your 20s.
07:34He's 23.
07:36I'm 26 this year, and I wouldn't date a 23-year-old, okay?
07:41And a North American one at that.
07:44So the dynamic between them is that she takes a parental role, whereas he doesn't like that.
07:51He doesn't like being undermined as a man, and he wants to be seen as a provider in this relationship.
07:56It wasn't that big of a deal to him when his brother and the friend would, like, throw digs at him,
08:02because he's used to that.
08:04Ah, tienes una sugar mami.
08:06Yeah, yeah, yo tengo, yo tengo una sugar mami.
08:09You are a proud sugar mami.
08:10I'm a proud sugar mami.
08:12Sugar mami.
08:13Sugar baby.
08:14And I'm not in this relationship for papers.
08:18But if you were coming over for papers, you're stuck with, you know, a fairly all right option.
08:22I feel for him.
08:24I do.
08:24He fled Venezuela because of war, if I'm not mistaken, and then was living in the Dominican
08:30Republic, honestly doing very well for himself.
08:32So to go from doing well for yourself to coming in a situation where you're almost being treated
08:37like a child, that would be disheartening for me, honestly.
08:43But then the reality is that's the dynamic that you're going to be in as long as she sees
08:50in her mind that he's younger, he's younger, I need to protect, I need to provide, I need
08:55to do all these things.
08:57I need her to break down that and to see at the end of the day, this is my man.
09:04Let him be the man in the relationship in the way that he wants to be, you know?
09:08I would hate for them to ruin a good thing.
09:11Mind you, I haven't seen the rest of the season, so I don't know how things turn around.
09:16But I would hate them miss out on a good thing over something so small as in perspective.
09:21You know, he has saved up money, we don't know how much, and right now he wants to buy
09:25a laptop, but financially it's not the most responsible decision, so it is hard for her
09:31to take off that parental role when it comes to him.
09:34But give him some space, let Guillermo do his Guillermo thing.
09:39I like them.
09:40I like him more specifically.
09:43I have high hopes for them.
09:45I do.
09:45So I've already spoken about Shaida and Bilal, so I won't talk about them too much.
09:51However, I was dogging Bilal, but with a little bit more context, I do kind of understand where
09:57he's coming from when he's using his money as a power.
10:01He has these very, very, very deep trust issues, and he's afraid that if somebody takes him
10:09as he is when it's just money, when all that is gone, will you still love me the same?
10:14I don't agree with how he went about figuring this out because I don't think you ever need
10:18to test a significant other, let alone somebody who traditionally is your spouse and you're
10:22about to legally make them your spouse.
10:25I don't rock with that.
10:26However, the thought process that led him there, I understand it.
10:32I understand it considering his history, living in not the best situation.
10:38A lot of us grow with the poverty mentality, the scarcity mentality, and so we're so scared
10:45that if this was to go, if the money, if my assets were to go, I'm back at zero, and will
10:51I still at least have my loved ones around me to be with me?
10:54I think he abuses his money, though.
10:58That's what I don't like.
10:59Don't use your money as a way to have power over her.
11:02That's disgusting, Bilal.
11:04That's disgusting.
11:08Anyways, if they're traditionally married, I don't know why he doesn't really treat her
11:14like a wife-wife because they did a Nikal, Nikal, I think it's called, so that's your
11:20wife.
11:21In my culture, when you do that cultural marriage, like y'all married, you act like a married
11:26couple then going forward, but hey, what do I know?
11:32Moving on to Miona, who's 23, from Serbia, and Jabri, who's 28, from Rapid City.
11:38I think South Dakota is what SD stands for.
11:41However, this girl is your typical, I want to be a Kardashian type of girl.
11:47She posts a little thirst traps on the Instagrams, which I'm not mad at.
11:50Okay, girl, if you got it, flaunt it.
11:52If you got it, flaunt it.
11:54Problem is, he lives in this rinky-dink, backwoods country living, and I don't mean to say that
12:02to be disrespectful.
12:03I'm just saying if I'm being promised to come to America, we're going to live in California
12:10or in Florida, I don't want to live in what, Rapper City, South Dakota?
12:18No, absolutely not.
12:20To make matters worse, they have to live with his parents because he fell on hard times because
12:25of the pandemic, and the parents are not really treating them as adults.
12:30They have chores for them to do.
12:31Again, couldn't be me.
12:36Myona and I do not know how to cook.
12:38I hope that they like it.
12:41Very interesting.
12:44Is that a good or bad?
12:46I don't know.
12:47Shall I give this a try?
12:49Yeah.
12:51It's really bad.
12:52The food is awful.
12:55I'm not sure whether the chicken is actually chicken.
12:59Maybe rubber.
13:02I do feel like Myona is a little bit inconsiderate at this moment because he doesn't want to live
13:10with his parents.
13:11He doesn't want to live in the country.
13:12You know, he's trying to get his band back up and running.
13:15He fell on hard times because of the pandemic, as we all did.
13:20So to pinch pennies where you can is something that you have to do in order to achieve the
13:25goal that she wants to achieve.
13:27And honestly, he wants it as well.
13:28He just can't financially afford it at the moment.
13:32But then I'm also like, she was promised a certain lifestyle, and so it was up to him
13:36to grant that to her.
13:39We'll see.
13:39We'll see what happens between the two of them.
13:41I do think that she's very young.
13:43She's probably going to be in this mindset for a long time.
13:47So Jabri better step up or step out.
13:50Okay.
13:51Up next, we have Mohamed, who's 25 from Egypt, and Yvette, who is 48 from Albuquerque.
13:59And M, M, M, M, M, New Mexico.
14:02Is that New Mexico?
14:05These two are 23 years apart.
14:13And I'm not coming for homegirl.
14:15What's her name?
14:15Yvette?
14:16I'm not coming for Yvette.
14:19But girl, this is a green card situation if I've ever seen one.
14:24Because this man said he is coming to America to be with a woman who is like a mother.
14:33He was a virgin with you.
14:35Was he a virgin with you?
14:36Oh!
14:37I did not know that.
14:39Hold on.
14:41We were just basically so convinced that this is the one.
14:46So I think that that's why, you know, we went against things, even though, you know, it was
14:55breaking rules.
14:57I don't doubt that he finds her attractive.
14:59I think he does find her attractive.
15:02I do think he finds her attractive as a motherly figure, though.
15:07You know, he will not want to step up as a provider in that household.
15:14He will not want to be the head of no household.
15:16Nope.
15:17Do his laundry.
15:18Cook his food.
15:20Damn near wipe his bum if he doesn't feel like it.
15:22Like, that's what he wants.
15:24He's looking for a motherly figure.
15:25And unfortunately, Yvette fell for the bait, you know?
15:29Her friends aren't on board with their relationship.
15:32But I mean, at the end of the day, what are you going to do?
15:33If somebody is going to do this whole 90-day thing, they're going to do it.
15:37No way about it.
15:39But yeah, I'm like, Yvette, girl.
15:40So, it's reminding me of the situation seasons ago with the bigger lady and the guy, I think
15:48his name was Muhammad, too.
15:49He has told people that I smell and I peed on him.
15:54She has some stuff that I don't like.
15:58I complain about it.
15:59You know what?
15:59I don't even want to know.
16:01And it was very clear that he did not have sexual attraction to that woman and he purely
16:05was coming for a green card.
16:07At least in this case, you can sense some semblance of attraction, but it's also giving
16:13me a green card.
16:14Also giving me a green card.
16:15Like y'all know, I haven't finished it.
16:17So, if that's already happened, don't tell me in the comments.
16:20Don't tell me he's already left her.
16:22But I feel like he's going to leave her.
16:24So, up next, we have...
16:26Oh, Patrick and Thais.
16:28They haven't really gotten into them too, too much.
16:31So, I'm not going to comment on them.
16:34Oh, but they're the last ones.
16:36Yeah.
16:36So, basically with them, he has to share his location a lot with her.
16:43She has a lot of trust issues when it comes to him.
16:45It says bar.
16:46Yeah, it says bar.
16:47She's not too happy about it.
16:48Yeah, I'm sure.
16:50No, but that's how it is.
16:52I'm used to it now.
16:53I mean, she lives in another country.
16:55She doesn't know what's happening.
16:57So, that's why I give her my location.
16:59As long as you're...
17:00That's all that matters.
17:02He was a professional weightlifter, like Olympic level.
17:08But then he got caught with drugs in his system, illegal drugs.
17:12Not once, but twice.
17:13Lost his whole career.
17:14He was going to be married at the time.
17:16Lost that lady.
17:17Then he was left in the house by himself.
17:18Like, whew.
17:19The man really did a number on his life.
17:21But, yeah, he's currently with this woman, Thais.
17:23But I will make sure to catch up by the end of this week.
17:27I promise you.
17:28I will have a video coming up in the end of the week.
17:31Maybe Thursday or Friday.
17:33About episodes five to seven.
17:38And then tune in Sunday night for a review for episode eight.
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